Get What You Want with Shirley

“When you recognize the true source of who you are, that brings a whole other level of freedom from suffering and unshakable happiness.” -Hale Dwoskin   What is happiness and how can you achieve it? Most people feel that happiness is somewhat elusive. Yet, they keep on searching for it, although sometimes in the wrong place and in the wrong way. In this episode, Shirley and Hale Dwoskin, author of  New York’s best-seller, The Sedona Method reveal the secret to unshakable happiness. Hale shares one simple technique from The Sedona Method to dissolve all the unwanted feelings that cause suffering and pain. Also, discover how awareness and letting go of resistance can help you move from being a victim of life to being a master of it. Live the happiness, be the happiness! Tune in!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:00 The Secret 05:23 What Is Happiness?  13:11 The Sedona Method 22:25 Don’t Believe In Everything 29:24 Let Go of the Resistance 37:15 Be a Master of Your Life

“The guy you're meant to be with wants to find you. So change your mind about what you can and can't do, and put yourself out there so that you can meet each other because life is short.”-Marni Battista   What’s your relationship status? If you’re looking for love and a lasting relationship, you’ve stumbled on the right podcast! This week, Shirley interviews Marni Battista, CEO of Dating with Dignity. If you’ve been broken and shattered because of a divorce or break up, never give up hope! There is life after all that you’ve been through! Learn the effective and efficient way to find love, how to move on faster, dating hacks, making your profile much more attractive and appealing, dressing suggestions, and online dating ideas to avoid boring conversations. Well, you know what happens when you combine two relationship experts together! Don’t make your one true love wait for you much longer! Listen in for dating tips and tricks that will help you write the love story you deserve!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:51 An Efficient Way to Heal and Find Love 07:46 Is There Life After Divorce? 11:21 How to Move On 15:06 Dating Tips 22:44 How Smart People Date 27:15 How to Succeed in Online Dating

“You shouldn't discount what you love doing. It's so important to integrate that into what you do no matter what people say.” -Justine Reichman   The marriage of passion and business is one of the joys of life. But it’s an opportunity that not everyone is willing to take. If you want to start your own Passion Business, what are the things you need? In this episode, we learn valuable lessons on building your start-up with Justine Reichman, Founder of NextGenChef, a community that provides resources, expert advice, and connections for entrepreneurs. These are the Essential Ingredients needed for success. Justine also talks about why we need to be more aware of the food we eat, what benefits do fresh and local produce offer, and how regenerative practices can help the market provide affordable, accessible, and healthier products. Convenience foods have proved themselves lacking in many ways. In fact, they even create more problems than solutions. As a result of this growing awareness, people are in constant search of better foods. You can do something to bring this trend back to society! Join today’s conversation and learn how you can deepen your impact.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:03 NextGenChef Lunch and Learns 08:09 What is Better Food?  14:08 More Than Food 19:58 Benefits of Fresh and Local Foods 21:13 Don’t Discount on Yourself

“One way to get started on reforming some of these inexcusably bad policies is to get involved. Just taking part in community activities give people a sense of how working together with others can do modest reforms in a community.” -Phil Harvey   “It's your money. So where do you want it to go?” -Lisa Conyers   The rich are getting richer; the poor are getting poorer. Hard work ends with a paycheck; paychecks end up paying taxes. Life can feel unfair, and it will continue that way until the system is changed. In this episode, Shirley interviews Phil Harvey and Lisa Conyers. Phil and Lisa co-authored a very timely book called, The Human Cost of Welfare. In it, we learn the harsh truth about some biased federal spending & disguised welfare programs. Lisa and Harvey also discuss what private sectors can learn about putting up noble projects and making it a success without needing tax money or subsidies. And for today's highlight: What can you as a citizen do to end this injustice? Social issues will always be a part of an imperfect system. But there’s hope for improvement. Listen in and make sure your money goes where you want it to go!             Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:45 The Human Cost of Welfare 06:02 Robin Hood for the Rich 09:21 Non-Divisive Politics   14:22 Ripoff Projects vs Nobel Projects 18:40 What You Can Do 24:01 Where Is Your Money Going?  30:49 There’s Hope!

“How much are you depositing into your loved one’s emotional bank accounts? If you make [intentional] deposits, you will see the wealth in your relationships start to grow.”  -Shirley Owens   Just looking at a growing bank account gives much satisfaction, knowing that hard work is finally paying off. What if there was another bank account that you could fill freely? Become wealthy in your relationships by filling your loved ones emotional bank accounts. Listen in as Shirley gives you how you can do just that!     Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:33 Emotional Bank Account 01:36 How Much Are You Depositing?

“Never threaten the relationship. Arguments are totally natural. But never go to the stage where you threaten a relationship because that becomes very difficult to repair.”  -Thomas Westenholz   Divorce cases piling up in courts, broken families, painful memories- If it is true that love never fails, why are there less and less evidence of it in the world? This week, Shirley and Relationship and Intimacy Expert, Thomas Westenholz reveal the secret to a lasting relationship. They talk about the dynamics in creating a secure attachment, boundaries when making choices, love languages, and conditions that help love to flourish. We also get profound insights into filling up your emotional bank account and dealing with triggers, resentments, and expectations to create deeper intimacy and bring back the connection. Tune in, and let's spend the next hour talking about the two best feelings in the world: to love and feel loved!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:35 What Adults Did Not Learn 08:03 Love Languages 14:45 Conditions For Love to Flourish 20:56 Map Out Your Triggers 28:32 How to Bring the Connection Back 35:13 Resentment: Good or Bad?  40:51 Learn to Outsource 45:11 Never Threaten the Relationship

“Find something you would never do and do it. If you do this, there will be growth in it. You may even find it more exhilarating and you may want to do more of it!” -Shirley Owens    What is one thing you swore will never ever be able to do? Of course, we all want to stay in our comfort zone. (Who doesn't!) But could it be that we're limiting our growth because of it? Listen as Shirley talks about how we sometimes become the primary obstacle in our progress and how we can live an extraordinary life by feeling the uncomfortable. Raise the bar higher and go beyond your limits!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Turn Your Ordinary into Extraordinary 02:28 Grow by Doing

“Sometimes your greatest opportunities are those opportunities that other people are criticizing you for.” - Tim Carlin   What do you get when you put together an altar boy, a great swimmer, an army Colonel, a speed racer, a divine dancer, a financial planner, a versatile leader, and an author? -Tim Carlin. Tim is my guest today. He wrote the bestselling book called, An Extraordinarily Ordinary Life, where he shares how he was able to live an extraordinary life while being an ordinary man. Tim shares the 8 Principles that guided him through his journey. As we go through each one, we also hear of Tim’s funny and inspiring experiences that made the pages of his story more interesting. We also learn how being vulnerable and being of service contribute to our success. Your life can be incredibly wonderful. The key is to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Don’t miss today’s golden nuggets, and go live an extraordinary life! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights:   02:35 Aim For Extraordinary 05:54 From Uncomfortable To Reinvention 11:58 Punch Above Your Weight 13:36 Discipline Is Freedom 22:11 Don’t Follow The Crowd 25:31 Ask For Help 30:18 Service To Others 40:07 Take Your Chances

“When we are super aware of not only the present but the past and future as well, we can make much better decisions that are sustainable.” -Shirley Owens   Are there decisions in your life that are weighing you down? Take a deep breath and pause for a bit. You don't have to decide right now. After all, your future depends on the choices you make! Listen as Shirley shares how to activate awareness so you can make sustainable decisions!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:35 To Decide or Not Decide 02:00 How to Make Sustainable Decisions

 “Don't make any decisions that are irreversible… because you're most likely running yourself into a situation in which your assumptions as to what was going to happen, could be wrong and you'll be in big trouble." -Mauro Guillen   What does the future hold for the world? We've probably seen the worst in this century alone and recent changes came at a striking speed. That's why we can't help but wonder what's going to happen in the next 10 years. Today, Shirley talks to Professor Mauro Guillen, author of the bestselling book, 2030. He expounds on salient points in the book such as how the interconnection of politics, demography, and commerce can create great shifts in how we do things and live our lives. They also talk about how this pandemic is speeding up change and how to help the younger generation cope with these life-defining experiences they're having. Tune in to see what the future holds!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights: 01:33 Be Aware Of Where You're Going 03:16 2030: Think About The Future 8:00 Future Of Women 12:15 Political Consciousness Of Younger Generation 14:58 Every Generation Is Different 17:08 How The Pandemic Changes Things 19:42 Purpose Of The Book 2030 21:57 Make Decisions That Are Not Irreversible

"If you feel that you aren't surrounding yourself with those who level you up, maybe it's time to start shedding some of those people and start rebuilding that mastermind with those who will lift you and cherish who you are. When you do this, life becomes a completely different experience filled with happiness, fulfillment, and ease." -Shirley Owens   What if you can change the flow of your life story with just one decision? Today, Shirley shares the importance of creating healthy relationships and its role in creating beautiful experiences that will bring you more joy and empowerment. Tune in and have a happier and more fulfilling week! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:41 How Your Relationships Affect You 01:35 Relationship Questions to Ask Yourself Today!

“Small minds talk about other people;  great minds talk about ideas. If you surround yourself with trusted advisors that will give you candid feedback, … you can live a life that’s amazing.” -Aaron Walker   What are you doing to live proactively? In this episode, Shirley sits with Big A, Aaron Walker, author of  View from the Top.  They dive deep into what truly makes life amazing and meaningful. Life is about forming satisfying and beneficial relationships. Aaron speaks from experience how surrounding yourself with great minds can significantly change your life. He also speaks about the importance of being transparent in relationships as early as possible, putting money in its right perspective, and accepting feedback constructively.  Books can make us knowledgeable, but experience can make us wise. The best thing about it is, it doesn’t have to be first hand. Tune in for more golden nuggets to help you be wiser in your business and in life!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights:   03:02 From Broker To Convict To Coaching 07:58 Experience Is The Best Teacher 14:43 Principles And Boundaries In A Relationship 20:49 Balance View Of Money 27:29 Come As You Will Be In 2023 34:39 What Do I Want?

“If we can all be open to lend a hand and open up our hearts to what others may be going through, the world will be a better place to live in.” -Shirley Owens     Kindness comes in many forms and many levels. There is a degree from where we can show kindness that will allow us to genuinely feel for others. As a result, we can offer help and assistance more completely. Today, Shirley reflects on how we can show kindness on a higher level and how to get started with it. The world needs kindness especially, in these perilous times. Listen in for another inspiring week full of kindness and empathy!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:45 Kindness and Empathy 03:00 Where to Start with Kindness  

“We are human becomings and not human beings. There is a process there where you could be genuinely doing something kind.” -Houston Kraft   Is kindness becoming rare? With all the crime, cruelty, and violence happening today, it’s unthinkable how humans could one day live without kindness. Stresses, fear of being taken advantage of, and daily hustles also contribute to a less kind environment. But there is hope! Today, Shirley and Kindness Advocate Houston Kraft, talk about what kindness is and what we can do to practice kindness on a daily basis. Houston shares what prevents us from showing kindness, 3 steps to follow to make sure we’re being genuinely kind, and how to expand our impact and affect more people with kindness. He also explains the difference between being nice and being kind and how to help teenagers deal with the hypocrisies in the world so they may become kinder individuals. What will kindness look like for you today? Tune in and find out!     Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:48 Where Kindness Originates 07:22 Are You Nice or Kind?  12:57 Empathy and Kindness 22:13 Helping Teenagers Be Kind 28:00 Expand Your Impact 36:57 Kindness in 10 Minutes

 “If you have a problem with what would be considered the more extreme whether it's right or left, start looking for the moderates and connect there.”  -Linda Seger   What would the world be like if everyone came together for one single goal despite differences in beliefs and opinions? In this episode, Shirley and Linda Seger discuss a very timely and significant topic in our society today. They talk about how we are oftentimes, stuck in our stopping place instead of engaging and moving forward and how we can get past the hatred, biases, and gaps in our society. Our values are expressed in our society but despite these discrepancies, it is possible to resolve disagreements and find that third creative solution. How? Tune in to find out! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:48 What Do We Really Care About?  06:37 Our Stopping Place 13:23 A Piece of Thought For Republicans and Democrats 18:19 Bridging the Gap 23:00 A Time For Silence 29:36 Do Not Cower 

“When we use the power of one another, we give ourselves more power to do what we do best.” -Shirley Owens   Do you sometimes find yourself overwhelmed by your schedule? What if you had the power to get things done? Today, Shirley teaches how we can harness the power of one another so that we can fill our lives with the things we actually love to do. Tune in and learn how Shirley was able to do just that! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:55 Living in the “Me” Generation 03:15 Give Yourself A Break! 

 “It's not the power of one. It's the power of one another.” -Genevieve Piturro   We often take for granted the simple things we have each day. But these things we call “simple” may be unheard of for another. In this episode, we get to listen to an extraordinary pajama story that will melt your heart. Shirley brings in Genevieve Pitturo, founder of the Pajama Program. Genevieve shares how a young girl’s question turned into a passion project that benefits millions of children today. She also talks about how to find your purpose by listening to your heart voice, jumping into your calling even if it feels scary to do so, saving yourself a great deal of pain by surrounding yourself with cheerleaders, and harness the power of “one another” for the greater good. A purposeful life awaits you! Tune in and be the start of another extraordinary story that will inspire the world! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:01 Listening  to the Heart’s Voice 06:47 It’s More Than Pajamas 12:37 The Voice of Your Purpose 16:26 The Power of One Another 23:50 How to Move Closer to Your Passion 28:50 Universal Life Lessons In One Book 33:10 How to Get Things Done Smarter 38:07 If You Can’t Jump, Slide In!

 “Sometimes it’s hard to sort through these relationships that you’re already in. But when you clean it all up, current relationships will either thrive or they won’t be holding you back anymore; new relationships will come easy and you will live a life of alignment and peace.” -Shirley Owens   Did you ever wonder why your relationships give you more sorrow than joy? Today, Shirley shares what makes relationships hard and how to make it work even when faced with disagreements and misunderstandings. Everybody deserves to be in a happy and thriving relationship, including you! Tune in and find out the secret to reinventing your relationships. Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 The Secret of Successful Dating 02:00 How to Make Your Relationship Work

“If you look forward to making the sacrifice for this person, that's love.”  -Brian Belefant   What do real estate and finding a mate have in common? In this episode, Shirley talks with Brian Belefant, author of Spouse Hunting: Using The Rules of Real Estate To Find The Love Of Your Life. Shirley and Brian discuss how to find the love of your life using the rules we often apply to marketing but surprisingly apply to dating as well. Brian walks us through the stages of spouse hunting- from contemplating what your ideal partner would be like to going over the “inspection period” by which you determine if you are right for each other. Tune in and create that relationship you want without the unnecessary heartaches and regrets! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:44 99 Rules To Find The Love of Your Life 04:42 What Do Real Estate and Dating Have In Common? 07:43 How To Find Someone Who Suits You  14:34 Spouse Hunting Ideas 21:16 The Inspection Period  24:49 Think and Pay Attention!

“In a world where you can be anything, be kind!” -Shirley Owens   Kindness is a universal language. It’s something that even a newborn understands. How nice it would be to live in a world filled with kind people! This week, Shirley shares how to get started with kindness and how it can get you your heart’s desires. Tune in and see how kindness could make the world a better place, one person at a time!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Something Different 02:00 Choose Kind!

“Sometimes it takes so, so little to make another person happy or feel good.” -Stacy Rolfe   In this episode Shirley decided to do something a little different. She wanted to share some love and kindness in a chaotic time. Her guest Stacy Rolfe is just the person to do that with. Sadly, there are many dark stories out there about animal neglect and abuse. Stacy shares about her accidental rescue of miniature horses and what these minis teach us about love and hope. Shirley and Stacy also discuss how to show support for your partner’s passion and how little things can create the biggest happiness. Don’t miss out on this heart-warming episode!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:48 The Accidental Rescue 09:14 How to be the Perfect Passion Partner   13:55 The Weight of Letters 19:13 Little Things That Create Happiness 24:14 The Art of Touching People’s Lives  29:32 Share the Love to Animals

 “Remove the limits. Imagine what you want beyond your wildest dreams. Each day, do one thing to move towards that scene… something better will happen.” -Shirley Owens   Do you believe in the power of imagination? It’s having the power to create limitless possibilities. But as grown-ups, we undermine this power by succumbing to unproductive thoughts. This week, Shirley shares how to make your dream life come true. Tune in and have an amazing week of imagination! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:43 Limitless Possibilities 04:15 Imagine Your Dream Life

“As soon as we start to dismantle those ways that we are trapped, we are able to free up so much energy and become more ready for wealth.” - Emerald Greenforest    Are you ready for a wealthy life? Take on the wealthy life challenge! In this episode, Shirley and Emerald discuss how to be wealthy beyond the monetary concept. Emerald talks about the aspects of a wealthy life, how to spot imbalances in any of these aspects, the w’s that ward-off money, the Wealthy Life Method, and more! Tune in and create a wealthy life by design!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights: 01:34 Always In Evolution 05:23 Wickedly Smart Women 09:01 T-H-I-E-F 13:23 Wealthy Life Method 21:53 Ask For Help 28:54 Start With Imagination

“Right now, life may seem crazy, uncertain, scary or we could say that life is in beautiful chaos right now.” -Shirley Owens   Nobody knows how long this rough period is going to last. Many are losing hope and the only way to get through is to change their perspective on life. In this week’s episode, Shirley gives you a new perspective on life to help you cope and still continue to grow. Listen in and regain your faith in the beauty of life! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Beautiful Chaos 02:30 Your Butterflies

 “Chaos is a breakdown, but after the breakdown, there is a renewal.”  - Susan Burrell As humans, we are designed with the ability to determine and create what we want in life. But this power is sometimes taken away, not by others, but by ourselves. This week, Shirley and Susan Burell share how you can take power over yourself and regain control of your life. They discuss what empowerment really is and how appreciating where you are in life and tapping into it, can help you live an empowered life. Listen in as these two powerful women share their secrets to empowerment!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights: 02:20 Beautiful Chaos 09:11 Mind Mapping 16:21 Live An Empowered Life 23:02 Guided Meditation 30:11 How to be Empowered 35:45 Which to Let Go

“The more you deal, the lighter you load.” -Shirley Owens   How high is your pile of undealt with issues over the years? Ignoring them doesn’t mean they’re gone; they just weigh you down. Today, Shirley shares one important and urgent thing you must do to unload yourself of all the unnecessary burdens. Tune in and live free! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:45 Are You a Stuffer?  02:12 Deal With It

“It's not going to make you happy unless you let it make you happy.” - Karena Kilcoyne   Is there something you’ve been wanting to do but can’t seem to get there? In this episode, Shirley and Karena Kilcoyne join together to discuss how to thrive by breaking out of your repressed/suppressed emotions. Karena talks about how these type of emotions will take a toll, sooner or later. They also discuss how to really heal from emotional wounds, turn routines into rituals, lessons on gratitude, practicing happiness, how to live with no regrets, and more! You’re in charge of your own happiness. So if you’re ready to take on a life with no regrets and begin to thrive, press play and join in this heart-warming conversation! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve   Highlights: 02:10 Suppressed Emotions 09:23 Techniques To Healing 16:26 Speak It Out 19:42 Surviving? Or Thriving? 26:07 Rituals Over Routines 33:59 No Regrets

“When you change your perspective, you change your reality.” -Shirley Owens (excerpt from, Get What You Want From Your Man)     You can find positive or negative evidence in anything, depending on what you’re looking for. Today, Shirley talks about how to create what you want through the power of your mind. Tune in and discover how some manage to find positivity in everything!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Positive Perspective 04:00 Be Careful What You Look For

“If you want to count negatives, you're gonna get more negatives. If you want to count positives, you're gonna get a lot of positives. The negatives will always be there, count the positives.” -Sean Douglas   “Think positive” ….We hear that all the time. What does that mean? How do we become that type of person? In this week’s episode, Shirley talks to Sean Douglas, founder of The Success Corps, about how to maintain positivity even at rock bottom. Sean had a humiliating career setback, was left alone by his friends, his house burned down, and he became a suicide survivor. When you tune into this amazing convo, you won’t see that man. You will see a drill sergeant, full of hope and positivity! These two will tell you how to grow your mind and become a positive person! Don’t miss it.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:40 Leave Your Mark 06:20 If Everything Is a Transaction 14:48 The Military Training 20:45 Be Growth Minded 24:53 Where’s Your Focus? 29:59 The Gratitude Challenge 33:49 Count Your Blessings

“We can’t force anyone to be what we want them to be and we can’t force them to love us how we want to be loved. The very act of doing that is out of alignment with what we’re trying to create.” -Shirley Owens   Are you in a toxic relationship or know someone who is? What if instead of feeling exhausted in it, your relationship can become a union of two different individuals coming together for one greater purpose? In this episode, Shirley has you look inside yourself and your relationship to figure out how to come from a place of power and confidence. Press the play button and have a powerfully aligned week!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Relationships 02:00 Be Powerfully Aligned

“Learn what to practice, practice it and then prepare to make the decision and then prepare to act on the decision.” -Rhoberta Shaler, PhD   Are you feeling crazy and/or powerless,  in your relationship? Do you feel you can never win? In this episode, Shirley sits with Relationship Doctor, Rhoberta Shaler. Dr Shaler describes a personality she had termed “hijackal”. She discusses what its like being in a relationship with one, and how to stay in or get out of the relationship. She also shares her ABB Formula to avoid being misled by the cunning show of hijackals. and the effective strategy to win them over. Don’t miss this one, what you learn may carry you through some tough times!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:02 Getting Out is How We Get What We Want 05:21 Hijackals  07:42 Passive Aggression 12:53 Escape The Hijackal Trap 19:24 Prepare and Practice 26:42 The ABB Formula 28:59 What Type of Help To Seek

“Listen. You will find a perspective that wasn’t there before- a more accepting, a more beautiful, and more freeing way of hearing and seeing things.” -Shirley Owens   When was the last time you listened to someone else? I mean, really listened? In this episode, Shirley talks about the power of listening and the perspectives that can be created from that space.    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 The Need To Feel Right 01:33 A Time To Listen

“Life is too short. You just have to do what truly makes you happy- We've said that for years but I think we finally discovered it truly at its core.” -Catherine Anaya   There’s so much going on that’s unsettling right now. A world Pandemic along with politics, protests and riots. Before this all hit, our fast-paced society gave us immeasurable anxiety and exhaustion. Everything passed by us so quickly. In today’s episode, Shirley and Catherine Anaya talk about the new normal, the challenges and blessings of being home, and current events. As a media personality, Catherine also shares how to cultivate reliable resources amidst the constant Media invasion. She reveals how to successfully pivot despite an abrupt change of circumstances and how to just sit, listen, and slow down. Sometimes letting your voice out into the world is not about how much you can say, but how much you can listen. Tune in to hear this very heartfelt episode with these two powerful women.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:52 A Media Girl In A Media World 06:20 Cultivate Your Sources 10:38 Woman Power At Home 14:16 Established Priorities 19:37 Voice with Boundaries 23:14 Listen  27:30 Slow Down 34:29 Find New Purpose 

 “Start focusing on the positive of growing old and enjoy knowing that you can make each year count, not looking back and wishing you were there,  not fearing the future. But embracing every day and creating an exciting and adventurous life moving forward.” -Shirley Owens Age is a funny thing. It has us trying to run in the opposite direction frequently. Why do we want to defy age instead of embrace it? Tune in as Shirley gives you a challenge to enjoy each day and year to the fullest! Come see what you have to look forward to!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Age Talks  02:07 Make Your Age Count!

“We can get these messages from outside but TRUE ageism is an inside job.” -Bettina Gordon-Wayne   Have you ever heard the adage, “Men get better with age, women just age”? That seems to be the mindset that has us limit ourselves and worry due to aging. In this episode, Shirley and Bettina Gordon-Wayne give us a fresh overview of what age and ageism really are and how shifting our mindset can get you to where you want to be. Bettina also talks about how age relates to our stories, emotions, and the consequences it brings. Tune in to see how these ladies help you understand that aging can be wonderful, empowering and something to look forward to!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:04 Rewriting Age and Ageism 05:40 The Cover-Up 09:07 It’s NOT An Age Thing 14:00 Embrace Your Age 16:56 Your Age and Your Story, Emotion, and Consequences 22:00 Progress With Your Age 28:53 It’s Never Too Late To Live Your Dreams! 

“When we are run by self-confidence, we feel gratitude for who we are. We feel gratitude for what surrounds us. We feel confident in our ability to create but it comes from a place of humility and respect for ourselves.” -Shirley Owens Confidence and ego are entirely different things. While we all want to be confident, our inherent ego gets in the way sometimes. Today, Shirley reflects on the distinction between the two and how to take control back from our ego. Get What you Want by being confident in who you are. Tune in and have an amazingly confident week! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Ego vs Confident 02:30: What Runs You?

 “Don’t be scared to move forward because the moment you decide to move forward, everything that you need will be there to build your confidence, to build your career, to build your dream life.” -Daniel Gomez   True confidence goes beyond your words. Some people stand on ego instead of confidence, while others never achieve their dreams from lack of it. Today, Shirley and Confidence Architect, Daniel Gomez discuss how to get what you want by building and reinventing your confidence. They talk about the factors that affect confidence: identity, alignment, and mindset. Sometimes, we undervalue ourselves not knowing that it sabotages our confidence in the process. Tune in to hear how confidence is achievable for anyone.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  03:16 What It’s All About 05:41 False Confidence 10:49 Confidence and Identity  16:21 Confidence and Alignment  18:00 Reinvent Your Confidence 25:49 Confidence and Scarcity Mindset 30:43 How To Build Confidence  41:18  Move Forward With Confidence

“Try a little bit harder. Be a little bit better. Work a little bit longer and get a little closer to getting whatever it is that you want.” -Shirley Owens   For some, getting what they want becomes elusive because the path to getting there is extremely hard and uncertain. It can put a new meaning to blood, sweat, and tears. Tune in as Shirley shares how to make hard work a little less hard by doing a little bit of it each step of the way. Eventually, you’ll be living the dream as your hard work starts to pay off! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 What Is Hard Work? 02:58 No Excuses

“Your mind is the biggest thing. That's how you do everything pretty much. So if you can train that, the rest is easy.” -Mykayla Skinner Harmer   Mykayla Skinner Harmer is a 6x National Team member, a 4x Worlds Medalist, 2016  Olympic Team Member, and a 2021 Olympic hopeful in women's gymnastics. She has a mental toughness that’s beyond her years. Her journey to being an elite athlete took immeasurable courage and strength. Having a mind tough enough to keep her on top, through trial after trial, is Mykayla’s superpower. Tune in as Shirley and Mykayla discuss mental toughness and how it is the key to getting what you want as a professional athlete. Mykayla shares some of her secrets to developing it. Don’t miss this episode!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:40 The Super Tough Olympic Journey 07:02 Following Elite Rules   10:16 Marriage In A Crazy Busy Schedule 13:56 Mental Toughness In Action 19:46 Thankful For The Struggles 22:26 One Day At A Time 24:25 The Coolest Feeling Ever

“Don’t let your fears drive you. Know that you have control over them.” -Shirley Owens    Fear is innate in humans. It serves a purpose in keeping you safe in many situations. But when you allow fear to overtake and control you, it can completely derail you from who you can become and what you can create. Tune in as Shirley shares a sensible analogy to taking control of your fears! Don’t let fear drive you!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:43 FEAR  02:40 Does Fear Drive You?  03:45 Let’s Be Fearless Together 

“Stage fright is not just for the stage… It's just anytime that fear stops you from taking a step.” -Sidonie Smith   Fear is your greatest enemy. It has the power to keep you from becoming who you can be. In this episode, Sidonie, an internationally known, stage actress, shares her strategies on conquering stage fright, on and off the stage. She and Shirley also discuss being introverted and how it can be a superpower, not a deficiency. Tune in to this intimate, loving conversation and learn how to overcome yourself.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:15 A Search For Bravery 09:22 Misconception About Introverts  11:41 The Stage Fright Fight 18:08 See Your Greatness  21:50 The “You” 29:12 Expand Your Tribe 32:55 Regrets- Blessings In Disguise

“Your life is worth loving.” -Shirley Owens   Who are you? Once you figure that out, there’s no one else to be. Tune in as Shirley talks about how being your authentic self will help you fit in anywhere you want. Freedom and happiness come when you can just be you.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:50 Be The “Me”  01:40 Vibrate In/ Vibrate Out 03:00 Who Are You Being? 

“There is something different when you decide you're going to do it instead of wanting it to happen.” -Angela Lauria   Is there something that you want to do but aren’t doing? This is the episode for you! Shirley interviews her very own Book Coach, Angela Lauria! They go deep and discuss just what it takes to finally write that book, or finally do anything that you haven’t been able to for that matter. There are so many juicy observations and maybe even a little booty kicking in this episode! You won’t want to miss it!    Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:05 Who Wrote The Book? 06:55 Start From The End 14:04 Nobody Cares About Your “Salad”  20:00 The 3 Types of People 26:18 How To Be Actually Productive- No Theories 31:55 Stop Being Mean To Yourself  36:54 Why People Don’t Finish Their Book 45:49 Get The Results You Want

“When you take the time to be what you need to be for yourself, you will have more of you for everyone and everything else.” -Shirley Owens    Are you always sacrificing your needs for everyone and everything? While doing it makes others happy, it can be unhealthy for you. Taking the time for yourself is an essential factor in getting what you want. You don’t need to take much time; you just have to own it and make it YOUR time. Listen in as Shirley reflects on how to have guilt-free “me-time”.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:43 Who You Need To Be For YOU 03:00 What Do YOU Need? 

“You have to commit to yourself to help yourself get what you want.” -Angela Marshall   To whom are you committed to right now? Is it anyone outside yourself? No doubt you’ll be loving today’s episode. Shirley and Angela discuss the importance of being equally committed to what you want and what you don’t want. They also talk about the skillset you need to cultivate in order to get what you want. Deeper into their conversation, Angela gets to talk about her book, Reality to Rags to Riches, and why it resonates with many. Angela also shares her ultimate ‘get what you want equation’. Listen in and fill your box with these additional tools!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:51 Get What You Want- Be Committed 07:18 Get What You Want- Be Confident 10:21 Get What You Want- Be Phenomenally Beautiful  16:06 Get What You Want- Be True 19:41 Get What You Want- Be “Rich” 25:54 Get What You Want- Do The Math 30:21 Get What You Want- Love Life

“When you are being beautiful, those around you will see you as beautiful.”  -Shirley Owens   Are you missing a visit to the salon after being cooped up for so long? Today, Shirley is reflecting on beauty and how we can redefine it so that we can break the barriers that hinder us from getting what we want. Shirley emphasizes that our beauty is defined by us and not those around us. When we work on our inner beauty, we are also working on “being” beautiful. Tune in and discover how to get what you want by “being” beautiful. Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:42 Beauty and the Covid-19 Pandemic 01:20 A New Perspective on Beauty 02:42 Are You “Being” Beautiful  03:40 Change The Definition of Beauty

“That which nourishes and creates authentic beauty will help balance our world.” -Lisa Lindahl   In this Episode, Shirley talks to the inventor of the “jogbra”, the first ever sports bra that changed the world for women forever. Shirley and Lisa talk about beauty. There is no single definition. It varies from person, place, culture, age, and time period. We often see it defined as outward aesthetics. But beauty is much more than keeping up with the selfies on Instagram. Today's episode is about finding your inner beauty, which is needed more than ever during this COVID-19 pandemic. Tune in and discover how to live a more balanced, beauty-filled life!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:49 Feel Authentically Beautiful 06:52 How Sports Bra Changed The World 11:31 The Challenges That Women Face 18:35 The Path of Eternal Beauty  22:54 How To Nourish Beauty In The World 26:44 Beauty And Humor 28:56 Be Kinder To Yourself 29:55 The Measure Of Beauty

 “Listen to [the expression of the voice of your soul] and see what it wants to  express through you, because that expression is where you're going to experience fulfillment and where you're going to be the gift to the world that you were born to be.” -Devi Adea   Are you struggling to find that sense of fulfillment in your life? Maybe something inside of you keeps shoving you to find the purpose of your existence. Today, Shirley and Devi Adea talk about how to get what you want by listening to the expression of the voice of your soul. Just what that is and how it can lead you to your greatness is the theme of this episode. Learn how you can express your tone into the world with a vibration that’s full of love and happiness. Tune in and learn how you can find your access point. You can start to live a fulfilled life today! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:26 The Search For Fulfillment  09:33 Out and Alive 16:25 Express Love Into The World 22:02 Your Tone 27:14 The 30-Day Habit For Divine Discontent 31:37 Gratitude 36:07 Step Into Your Own Greatness Earlier  

“We’re super individualized that there’s not this place to fit into. When we can stop worrying about that and start focusing on who we are being, everything takes on a different meaning.” -Shirley Owens   Today Shirley talks about how your tone speaks more about you than what you say. How do you want to be seen in the world? How do others see you? Do you approach the world with friendly, love and kindness? Or do you stand back and wait to be approached? Who you are being is everything. Listen to this episode about getting what you want, by how you are being.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:40 Are You Weird?  02:14 Notice Your Tone

“A tough conversation could possibly alter your reality.” -Shirley Owens   Is there a tough conversation you’ve been putting off? Shirley discusses how tough conversations can set you free and help you bond, grow and create deeper connections. Tune in and see how you can alter your reality through cleaning up your relationships with tough conversations!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  00:53 Tough Conversations Happen 02:00 Alter Your Reality 03:00 Reconnect

“You are a creator… Watch life happening around us completely out of our control, outside of our own space. But there’s so much we can create inside it.” -Shirley Owens With all the distractions we have in life, it’s hard to find quality downtime with the ones we love. With this COVID-19 pandemic, suddenly the world has been thrust into a space that it’s not used to. Less distractions and a lot of time for quality relationship building. Shirley discusses how we can make our family time a fun time. Often we look for what we want outside our own space. In this episode, Shirley also shares how we can create what we want inside it. Tune in and learn how to get rid of the fear, anxiety, and melancholy that we are facing today.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve    Highlights:  01:00 Family Fun Time 02:22 Create What You Want At Home