Podcast appearances and mentions of angela lauria

Do you desire to write a book but feel completely overwhelmed by the mountain you'll need to climb while keeping the lights on in your business? Do you lack confidence in your writing ability or are you skeptical about how a book will bring you clients and revenue? My guest today has published over 1500 bestsellers IN A ROW and 90% are from first time authors.Dr. Angela Lauria is the Founder of The Author Incubator that helps life coaches, healing professionals, and other online business owners write, publish, and promote their business through books.We discuss the 3 ways to publish a book and why the hybrid model is arguably best for most online business owners, how Angela has been able to take 1 in every 10 readers and turn them into clients for her students, the biggest mistake when individuals choose the self-publishing route, and more!Time Stamps:(1:00) Dr. Angela Lauria(5:06) Pro's and Con's of Different Publishing Modalities(10:30) Why The Hybrid Model is Arguably Best for Most Online Business Owners(12:46) Scott the Veterinarian Coach Example(16:12) 1 in 10 Readers Become a Client(16:50) Biggest Mistakes in Self-Publishing(19:49) The Lead Magnet Book Launch(28:08) What's Been Working Recently(35:06) Recapping——————————Check Out Angela and the Author Incubator at https://theauthorincubator.com——————————Check Out Funnel Pro at https://pro.hellofunnels.co and mention the Online Business Owner Podcast for a really cool surprise bonus when you sign up!——————————Check Out Online Business Owner at https://onlinebusinessowner.com

Have you ever felt misunderstood or out of place? In this eye-opening interview, Dr. Angela Lauria shares her incredible journey of discovering her true calling after being diagnosed with autism at 39. Through personal anecdotes and profound insights, Dr. Angela reveals how this diagnosis brought clarity and transformed her life, both personally and professionally. Join us as we delve into the characteristics of autism, dispel common misconceptions, and uncover the beauty of neurodiversity. Discover how Dr. Angela leveraged her unique strengths to help others write, publish, and promote their own stories, and how understanding her own brain's operating system led to deeper relationships and a successful career. Autistic individuals possess hyperconnected brains where they focus on one project and can either be a good or destructive outcome in their lives. There are many famous figures in history that Dr. Lauria believes have displayed autistic traits. In this podcast we talk about characteristics of autism and dispel some of the misconceptions. Find out more about Angela here: https://www.angelalauria.com/ and about autism at: https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/ Get our weekly articles here: https://goalsforyourlife.com/newsletter CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 1:25 - Dr. Angela Lauria's Story 12:02 - Life-Changing Diagnosis 16:07 - Impact of Autism Diagnosis 22:18 - Emotional Regulation Strategies 27:30 - Understanding Neurodiversity 31:05 - Stereotypes and Misconceptions 36:14 - Famous Autistic Individuals 42:20 - Inclusive Professional Settings 49:23 - How to Contact Deborah 53:30 - Outro

This episode originally aired on December 12, 2023 under the title “Autistic Centered Therapy - AuCT”Matt Lowry, LPP, tells his co-host, Dr. Angela Lauria all about AuCT: a style of therapy that he created to help support his autistic clients in an authentic, neurodiversity-affirming way.“CBT just taught me, like, “Mask harder. Don't be annoyed. Ignore your senses.”“CBT does not work for us because it's not structured for our brains.”“(CBT)'s essentially gaslighting. But for neurotypical people, it starts pruning their synapses. But, since we don't do that, it's completely meaningless for us.”What do you think the world would be like if AuCT was taught in graduate school programs for therapists and social workers? Where else should it be taught?Fan Favorite Game, design #1: (get yours here)Play the game! Fan Favorites Game rulesTrailHouse.orgEpisode 36: Bad Autism DiagnosisEpisode 38: Productivity is AutisticEpisode 62: Protecting Kentucky KidsReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyMatt Lowry, LPPAutistic Connections Facebook GroupAngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Matt Lowry, LPP, gives his co-host, Dr. Angela Lauria, a special infodump about one of his idols: George Lucas.* Lucas's early life, including his relationship with his Vader (“father”).* The vital role that PDA played in Lucas's first film company. Plus, the many Autistic traits that helped Lucas to think outside of the box and change the way that movies are made.* Movie casting and socializing with the actors - Autistic style! * George Lucas's personal journey from scrappy Rebel to lord of Empire.“George Lucas is a socially awkward man who does not like eye contact or small talk, loves talking about: cars, things that move fast, technology, film editing. He loves mythology. He loves sociology. He loves how myth can make the world a better place. He's got a lot of social justice sensibilities. Yeah, I really think that there is a lot of evidence that says that he firmly belongs enshrined in the Autistica Hall of Fame.”“He had a lot of new outside-of-the-box ideas. He did not follow traditional patterns. He was very, very much a learner.”“Carrie Fisher said he had two directions: ‘Faster and more intense!'”“But he said, ‘F**k the systems. F**k all the systems. I am out of the systems. I'm going to do the things the way that I want to do them.' Because PDA.”“She is and will always be an icon. She is one with The Force. May she rebel in peace.”“He changed the way that movies were made.”Are you a George Lucas fan? Or, are you a passionate filmmaker? Tell us about it in the comments!George Lucas' father issues unfold on filmLucas Museum of Narrative ArtBook: Empire Building: The Remarkable Real Life Story of Star Wars by Gary JenkinsVideo (45 min): Icons Unearthed: Star Wars Empire of Dreams Video (64 min): From Star Wars to Jedi: The Making of a Saga Joseph Campbell and the Power of MythEpisode 04: Industrial Light & Magic is AutisticEpisode 37: Motion Pictures are AutisticEpisode 63: Elsa is AutisticEpisode 64: Taylor Swift is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Autism has a culture all its own and the The Autistic Culture podcast explores one aspect of it in each episode showing how the subject relates to autism and autistic people. In this episode, Cats Are Autistic, the hosts talk about the cat behaviors that might be autistic like the need for routine, their sensitivities, their response to stress and more. The podcast features one of our previous guests, Angela Lauria.Support the Show.Share this podcast with your friends and family so they can learn what it's like to be autistic.-->Try Sunsama free for 30 days! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link) Ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/theautisticwoman (one time donation or monthly)Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theautisticwomanPayPal: info@theautisticwoman.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/theautisticwomanTwitter: @anautisticwomanEmail: info@theautisticwoman.comWebsite: theautisticwoman.comThis is a great autism resource - Rated in the top 1% globally. © The Autistic Woman™ Check out this YouTube channel - a great autism resource! YoSamdySam: https://www.youtube.com/@YoSamdySamA wonderful podcast about autistic culture: The Autistic Culture Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-autistic-culture-podcast/id1653171456Check out: Orion Kelly - That Autistic Guy https://www.you...

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Dr. Angela Lauria shares Freddie Mercury's amazing Autistic traits with her co-host, Matt Lowry, LPP.* How Freddie Mercury's hypermobility and possible EDS resulted in an extraordinary vocal range.* Mercury's many special interests including stamp collecting, cats, and Japanese art.* The important role that echolalia, echopraxia, and advanced pattern-matching played in Queen's success.* The spectrum of Mercury's sexuality and gender expression.* Quotes and lyrics that describe the experience of masking.* The classic, unfair reputation Autistics know all too well, and the pain of being chronically misunderstood.* Executive functioning differences and sensory sensitivity hacks.“Members of the band said if he could be anywhere, he'd want to be home with his cats.”“We're four misfits who don't belong together playing for other misfits.”“I do think playing with commitment, monogamy, gender, sexuality—that is definitely a big part of our culture.”“Boxes are largely conforming, and because we don't conform to a lot of society, it's hard for us to conform to those boxes.”Do you relate to Freddie Mercury? Which Queen song do you listen to on repeat?Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Freddie Mercury & Ehlers Danlos SyndromeMultiple supernumerary teeth (MSNT) and Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS): a case reportThe strangest, craziest, and most disgusting animated film is back with its own series.Peter Freestone Talks... About Freddie & His CatsThe Development Of The ‘Epic' Queen SoundHow Queen's I Want to Break Free Video Explores Queerness in Relation to Queer TheoryFreddie and the Rocky Horror Picture ShowFreddie Mercury "I'm Not The Leader Of The Band"Under PressureEpisode 46: Cats are AutisticEpisode 53: Meat Body MaintenanceEpisode 14: Autistic Medical NeedsFind us on:* TeePublic merch shop* Follow our Instagram account!* Review us on Apple podcasts and Spotify* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Twitter and TikTok* Matt Lowry, LPP* Autistic Connections Facebook Group This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Matt Lowry, LPP and Dr. Angela Lauria chat about the popular Australian cartoon, Bluey.* Bluey's short episodes and silly imaginary play is accessible for children, but the deeper themes and storylines are geared towards adults, making it fun and enriching for the whole family.* Research on Bluey and the ‘tism that resulted in a mix of evidence and, “A really interesting left turn!” * Why some Autistics love Waldorf schools…and why some (including Angela) cannot stand them.“I have been brought to many a tear by Bluey and her family.”“Oh, no! We almost got through an episode without intense controversy!”“I know it must be pattern matching, but it feels like I'm psychic.”“I found it fantastic. Fantastically horrifying.”Are you autistic and a little psychic? Give us chills—share a psychic experience in the comments!The 7 Core Principles of Waldorf Education for Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)Bluey is Great, but…An Overview of Waldorf SchoolsMontessori vs. Waldorf schools‘Bluey' Creator Joe Brumm On Making A TV Juggernaut, Not Compromising His Vision & The Heeler Family's FutureEpisode 22: Trains are AutisticEpisode 68: Dinosaur is AutisticEpisode 32: Animation is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!TACP on InstagramHelp others find this podcast by giving us a review on Apple podcasts and SpotifyGet your Autistic Culture gear in our merch shopMatt Lowry, LPP and his Autistic Connections Facebook GroupAngelaLauria.com and her book coaching website Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTok This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria, author, podcaster, speaker and advocate with expertise in publishing, writing and celebrating neurodiversity talks about her latest book, The Equalizing Quill. She discusses how and why generative AI gives autistics greater access to writing email, stories, articles and books. Dr Lauria tells about her journey learning she is autistic and how that impacted her life. Dr Lauria's website: https://www.differencepress.com/Buy The Equalizing Quill - https://tinyurl.com/autequalizingDr Lauria on Twitter (X) - https://x.com/alauriaThe Autistic Culture Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-autistic-culture-podcast/id1653171456—>Listen to this episode to find out how to get your free copy of The Equalizing Quill!Support the Show.Share this podcast with your friends and family so they can learn what it's like to be autistic.-->Try Sunsama free for 30 days! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link) Ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/theautisticwoman (one time donation or monthly)Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theautisticwomanPayPal: info@theautisticwoman.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/theautisticwomanTwitter: @anautisticwomanEmail: info@theautisticwoman.comWebsite: theautisticwoman.comThis is a great autism resource - Rated in the top 1% globally. © The Autistic Woman™ A wonderful podcast about autistic culture: The Autistic Culture Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-autistic-culture-podcast/id1653171456Another great podcast about neurodiversity: Beyond 6 Seconds: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-6-seconds/id1336740192Check out my friends' 5-star rated, fun podcast about neurodiversity and more: Atypical the Podcast: http://atypicalthepodcast.buz...

Autistic hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, interview belly dancer and entrepreneur, Arielle Juliette. * Sensory sensitivities and accommodations in dance.* Cultural appreciation versus cultural appropriation.* Running a business on “glitter and non-denominational Jesus.”* Echopraxia and Arielle's other super hero powers.* Perks of (mild) hypermobility.* “Meat sack” and “brain sack” communication* How to teach dance using bottom up processing.* Angela and Arielle's body liberation journeys.* Arielle's autistic self-identification and realization he's trans!* How internet trolls and haters helped Arielle tap into deeper self-acceptance and self-love.* Group stimming and regulation, plus body resonance fun!* Stimming as the genesis of great art.“What if stimming is the core cultural attribute of some of our highest art?”“So I actually, I recommend people have haters. I recommend you have haters, and that you say to them, ‘F**k you. I'm doing me.'”“It's about coming together for our weekly regulatory time. You know, we have this set time that we will always come and regulate together. We're going to shimmy, we're going to stim, we're going to sing, we're going to sweat. It's going to be awesome.”Arielle Juliette (he/him and she/her) is the owner of Dance Life, where he cultivates an atmosphere that celebrates, supports, and embraces the autistic dance experience. Arielle has had a special interest in dance since 2004, and shares her love of Egyptian dance in particular through silly songs and easy to understand anecdotes, while leaving behind the allistic conformity of right/left, counts, and perfection. He also creates viral social media videos, where he strives to bring his unmasked, joyful, autistic self and the idea that all bodies (and neurotypes!) are worthy.Have you group stimmed in some way? What was your experience? Madison Dance Life FacebookMadison Dance Life InstagramMadison Dance Life TikTokwww.madisondancelife.comThe differences between Egyptian and Turkish danceA video of Arielle's that includes all her favorite books, podcasts and resources for fighting fat oppression Master instructors who have online classes: * Zara Abdelrahman* Mohamed Shahin* Suhaila SalimpourEpisode 17: Wednesday is Autistic?Episode 29: Questlove is AutisticEpisode 64: Taylor Swift is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Like and follow us on InstagramListen on Apple podcasts and SpotifyMatt Lowry, LPPAutistic Connections Facebook GroupDifference Press and AngelaLauria.com Find Angela on Twitter and TikTokGet your merch on in our shop! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Matt Lowry, LPP shares a deep dive on Rick and Morty with co-host, Dr. Angela Lauria.* How getting fired from Community propelled Autistic writer, Dan Harmon, to create Rick and Morty.* The Back to the Future origins of Rick and Morty, plus fanbase shenanigans.* Processing childhood trauma through writing.* The complex relationship many autistics have with talk therapy.* Why Autistic culture is filled with meta references.* Autistic personal growth journeys and learning to embrace your true self.* Emotional-support people and why we need them.“We are going to be talking about what it might be one of the finest and most Autistic cartoons of all time that has possibly the most toxic fan base of all time.”“So at the time, he was a massive, massive, massive, self-loathing alcoholic. And that came out in the character of Rick.”“It's a very big show of growth—especially from an autistic perspective—and how we learn to more effectively relate to the people around us, how we find ourselves, how we state our own needs.”Are you a Rick & Morty fan? What do you relate to most? Rick and Morty on WikipediaEpisode 57: Community is AutisticEpisode 60: Mythic Quest is AutisticEpisode 64: Taylor Swift is AutisticEpisode 68: Kink is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Follow our Instagram* Rate us on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Check out our Teepublic merch shop* MattLowryLPP.com  * AngelaLauria.com* Autistic Connections Facebook Group* Write a book with Angela at Difference Press* Angela's social media: Twitter and TikTok This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

#ActuallyAutistic podcast hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, interview Dr. Kade Sharp to discuss the ways that kink fits into Autistic culture. * What is kink (spoiler: it's not necessarily sexual!), what are some common kinks, and are “kinksters” dangerous or ill?* The fundamental flaws in most research methods that explore Autistic sexuality.* Stereotypes and misunderstandings that most people have about the kink community.* Kinky spreadsheets and other Autistic systems of communicating comfort and consent.* Honoring sensory differences, connecting through SPINs, defined expectations, and other ways that the kink community appeals to so many autistics.* How kink helps neurodivergent folks to feel empowered—regardless of whether or not they identify as a kinkster. * Tips on exploring kink with partners, finding kinky folks to explore with, and getting kinky solo.“I think I just found out I'm kinky.”“I think a lot of your listeners are going to find that out today.”“Someone asked if he was my biological son. And I said, ‘why, yes.' And somebody was like, ‘well, how did you make him?' And…It occurred to me while answering this question: there is a big myth out there that we do not have the sex.”“Kink is not just sexual. So, in fact, a good proportion of the folks that responded to my eligibility survey for the study were on the aro/ace spectrum.”“There's so much unspoken stuff and so much resentment because allistic partners say, ‘You should know what I want,' or that kind of nonsense. But when you explicitly negotiate and have spreadsheets regarding everything from eye contact to butt stuff, it makes relationships run a lot smoother.”Are you an Autistic kinkster? How does kink help empower you? Share in the comments! #AutisticCultureCatchGuest Bio:Dr. Kade Sharp (he/they) is an autistic transgender Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker practicing in Richland, Washington, at Spectrum Counseling, his private practice, where he sees therapy clients, supervises clinicians working toward licensure, and provides case consultation for colleagues. Kade is also a Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor and a certified Child Mental Health Specialist. He has his PhD in Clinical Sexology through Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. Kade has a clinical focus on working with autistic and trans folks of all ages, especially those with anxiety challenges. His volunteer work over the past ten years has been with local LGBTQ+ youth centers, Pride organizations, the Diversity Equity Inclusion team at a local school district, and serving on the WA state chapter of the Association for Play Therapy board.  Resources:* A Kink in the Spectrum (Kade's dissertation)* Dr. Erin Findley (dissertation chair)* Dr. Amy Pearson (dissertation committee member)* Dr. Nick Walker (dissertation committee member) * Neurokink (Kade's side project & mailing list)* Mojoupgrade (digital kink checklist)* Bex Talks Sex's Super Powered Yes/No/Maybe List (printable)* Thrive (an annual virtual BDSM & Mental Health Conference)* Dr. Faith G Harper's publications on sex, kink, & mental health* Dr. Emily Nagoski's publication on sex* Dr. Katie Munday's research and advocacy* FetLife (kink social media)* Hiki (autistic dating app)Similar episodes:* Episode 35: Sex is Autistic* Episode 56: Lessons in Chemistry is Autistic* Episode 59: Pregnancy is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow our new Instagram page!Rate and review us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyMatt's website: Matt Lowry, LPPJoin Matt's Facebook group: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupFind Angela at: AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressFollow Angela on: Twitter and TikTokTACP's autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

This episode:Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP chat with Ashley Storrie—the autistic writer and star of the new series, “Dinosaur” (available on Hulu in the U.S.). Discussed:* The unconventional way that Ashely was brought on as a writer and the importance of Autistic writers shaping autistic characters.* How Ashley came to discover her autistic identity.* Autistic linguistics and the “shape” of words.* How production accommodated Ashely (and everyone else!). Plus, how Ashley avoided being triggered while authentically portraying overwhelm and overstimulation.* Why casting autistic actors in autistic roles is not only good representation—it's good business!* An autistic brain love fest.* The behind-the-scenes process of deciding on the exact sexual history of Ashley's character, Nina.* Same foods, sensory seeking tastes, and stimming with food!* Ashley's complex history with The Edinburgh Fringe Festival.Quotes from this episode:“And she was like, you know, ‘You spend your life accommodating people. How about for this, we'll accommodate you?'”“So good, so clever, but also understood the assignment because it's a lived experience. And that's like you're saying: if you live it and you know it, it's not hard.”“It was more going right into myself and saying, ‘Who would you be if you didn't have all of that burden of pretending?'”“She's overcoming people, and maybe their relationship to autism, and she's overcoming other people's things, but never autism itself. That's a part of her and she loves it.”“So I've licked the Great Wall of China. I've licked Jimi Hendrix's guitar…It was such a compulsion of tasting history that I had to do it.”“And I have like a crunchy food, a soft food, a wet food and a dry food. And that's how I roll.”“Yeah, so much of what's magical about this show is just feeling so seen. And it's just such a gift.”More on Ashley:Comedian, writer and actress Ashley Storrie can be heard hosting her BBC Radio Scotland show live every Friday night from 10pm-1am. She is also the co-host of the new Midsomer Murders Podcast. Ashley is also known for her Harry Potter parody #tanyapotter, which has now had over 22 million views. As a result of her online success she was commissioned by BBC Scotland to create online content for their Short Stuff strand, producing viral hits including ‘If The Handmaid's Tale was Scottish' and ‘If Game of Thrones Was Scottish.'Do you feel represented by Ashley's character, Nina? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Follow Ashley Storrie on InstagramCheck out the official trailerWatch Dinosaur on HuluOther episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 10: Star Trek is AutisticEpisode 17: Wednesday is Autistic?Episode 54: Comedy is AutisticEpisode 57: Community is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check out our InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyFind Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Matt Lowry, LPP and Dr. Angela Lauria discuss:* Which came first: the autistic or the neurotypical? Are Autism and ADHD the same thing? Do neurotypicals have a disorder of pruning? * How ‘X-Men' addresses discrimination, social justice, and provides representation for marginalized groups.* The two canonically autistic X-Men and several autistic-coded ones too! Plus, some of the errors allistics make when they try to write autistic characters.* Spiky profiles, code-switching, and the price (and privilege) of masking.* Matt's no-holds-barred honest opinion of ABA for autism.* Hans Asperger, his legacy, and real-life mandatory autism registrations in at least eight U.S. states. * And, are bleach enemas a “cure” for autism? (Hint: NO!)Quotes from this episode:“In X-men, Mystique, the shape changer, can turn into human looking people and they ask her, ‘You can be anyone you want. Why do you do this?' And she said, ‘Well just because I can be anyone I want, doesn't mean I should have to. You should be able to be yourself you should be able to be free to be the real authentic you and not mask.' And, she literally masks all the time for survival, and that is exhausting.”“First stone tools—autistic people. First iron bridges—autistic people. Calculus—autistic people, like everything. We are not a new phenomenon.”“So basically we hoard our synapses like we hoard our collectibles.”“We are synapse hoarders. And this is why our brains process up to 42% more information at rest than neurotypical people.”“If you like weird, dark ‘Glee,' you're going to love this.”Which X-Men superpower would you use to make the world safer for autistics? Which X-Men is your favorite? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Trailer for the new X-men series on Disney+: X-Men '97Other episodes to check out if you liked this one:Book Club #06: True BizEpisode 24: The Trouble with TempleEpisode 28: Superheroes are AutisticEpisode 30: Doctor Who is AutisticEpisode 61: Wikipedia is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!TACP's InstagramTACP on Apple podcasts and SpotifyMatt's website: Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's Facebook: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupFind Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's socials: Twitter and TikTokTACP's TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Autistic hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, are joined by autistic author, Becca Lory Hector. Topics include:* Midlife autism diagnosis…and all of the bumps and bruises along the way to get there. Plus, is autism really “over-diagnosed”?* Why identification is so important—at any age.* A neuro-affirming way to process, unpack, and grieve after diagnosis. * “Autistic preppers bags”: what they are and why we need them.* The ultimate place for “hobbity” people to get lost in the woods.* Navigating relationships post-autism identification, including mixed-disability relationships.* The nuances of masking: who, what, when, where, and why.“An undiagnosed autistic person cannot—it's impossible—to take care of yourself. You don't have the information you need.”“And while we're expected to move on with our lives when our reality gets invalidated, neurotypicals really struggle when we do that to them.” Ode to the McNugget: “The perfection of McDonald's chicken nuggets is something to be marveled at a savory symphony of taste and texture accompanied by instant comfort and joy. Each golden crispy nugget is a bite of bliss. A delightful treasure, perfectly seasoned and cooked to tender, juicy excellence that pairs perfectly with the salty, savory goodness of their fries. The fries with their ideal crunch on the outside and soft, fluffy insides are the perfect companion to the magic of nuggets. Dipping them both into a favorite sauce creates a harmony of flavors to delight your senses. For me, McDonald's chicken nuggets aren't just a meal, but a joyful escape that consistently brings meaningful pleasure and comfort to my life. And no matter how many times I go, eating nuggets and fries remains a cherished ritual that brings me guaranteed satisfaction with every bite. Whether it's a reward after a doctor's appointment or a quick treat to lift my spirits, McDonald's chicken nuggets remind me that simple pleasures can bring the greatest joy.”What's in your “Autistic peppers bag”?* For a limited time, early listeners can get their FREE copy of Becca's book at: www.AlwaysBringYourSunglasses.com* Course: Self-Defined Living - A path to a quality autistic life* Becca's website, Facebook, and InstagramWhat to listen to next:* Episode 21: Dino Nuggets are Autistic* Episode 31: Chess is Autistic* Episode 47: Autistic Centered Therapy - AuCT* Episode 61: Wikipedia is Autistic* Episode 63: Elsa is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Our Instagram* Listen on Apple podcasts and Spotify* More on Matt: Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's Facebook group: Autistic Connections Facebook Group* More on Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Follow Angela on: Twitter and TikTok* Our merch shop! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Looking to live your best life? Look no further than this episode with special guest Angela Lauria! In this episode, Angela shares her top tips and insights on how to live your life to the fullest. Have you ever felt like you're just going through the motions, but not really living? Are you ready to get motivated and inspired? Tune in to this episode to learn how to cultivate a positive mindset, set meaningful goals, and overcome obstacles that may be holding you back. But that's not all - Angela also shares her personal story of how she transformed her own life and became a successful author, publisher, and coach. You'll hear about her journey and the lessons she learned along the way. So, what are you waiting for? Don't miss out on this amazing opportunity to learn from a true expert and start living your best life today! GET IN TOUCH: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christopherdufey YouTube: http://chrisdufey.com/youtube Email: https://www.chrisdufey.com/contact-me WHENER YOU'RE READY… HERE ARE THE 3 BEST WAY I CAN HELP YOU #1 - Get Free Access To “The Entrepreneurs Ultimate Reading List” These are the “must read” books for entrepreneurs to achieve success and fulfilment — Click Here https://www.chrisdufey.com/list #2 - Send me a DM on Instagram to say Hey or ask me a question.It's the easiest way for me to actually help you. — Click Here https://www.instagram.com/christopherdufey #3 - Join my weekly VIP List (for FREE)Discover what I'm doing to build my businesses and actually enjoy life at the same time. — Click Here https://chrisdufey.com/vip - Chris P.S. Like this show?Leave me a review (even one sentence helps!) If you leave your IG handle I can thank you personally.

In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Podcast hosts, Matt Lowry, LPP and Dr. Angela Lauria, discuss Neil Gaiman and his recent post identifying himself as autistic. Topics include:* Interception difficulties, etymology fun, and how left-handedness relates to autism.* Gaiman's prolific writing including: “Don't Panic: The Official Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Companion,” “Good Omens,” “Constantine,” “Coraline,” “Doom Patrol,” “Stardust,” and “Babylon 5.” * Sandman: one of the first graphic novels to reach the NYT Best Seller's List. Plus, how Neil Gaiman welcomed a whole new demographic (women) to comic books.* Amanda Palmer: Gaiman's chaotic, quirky, punk, ex-wife who might just be a high masking autistic woman.* Bonus: Neil Gaiman's surprising best friend!Episode Quotes:“He brought a newfound legitimacy to comics.” —Matt“It became very, very ethereal and created this grand mythology that was beyond what other comic writers were doing at the time and created a giant template that brought in a whole new audience.” —Matt“This issue was the first and only comic to ever win the World Fantasy Award for short fiction in 1991, before they changed the rules to make sure comics could never win it again. He broke the system to where they had to patch the hole, because he's so good.” —Matt“If you are autistic—especially as a woman—and you have been masking and scrounging to survive, often there is trauma associated with it.” —Angela“But, I think a lot of it is a trauma response of not knowing how to love her neurodivergent brain.” —AngelaAre you “Team Gaiman” or “Team Palmer”? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Neil Gaiman's TumblrONTD Original: A timeline of Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer's relationshipOther episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 19: Eminem is AutisticEpisode 28: Superheroes are AutisticEpisode 41: Tim Burton is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Our links:* Instagram* Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Twitter and TikTok* TACP's merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

*This episode was HIGHLY requested by Autistic Swifty listeners and their contributions are incorporated throughout. Much like how Cher is a Queer culture icon—regardless of her own sexual orientation—we are celebrating Swift as an Autistic culture icon—regardless of her own neurotype. This is a celebration of the ways we see our fabulous culture represented in the once-in-a-generation, Taylor Swift.In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss the many ways that Taylor Swift and her fanbase of “Swifties” represent Autistic Culture. Including:* Swift's encyclopedic knowledge about cats and use of music to find purpose, community, and a successful career. Plus, super fanning, Swifties, and the elements of a “good” special interest.* The autistic joy that comes from decoding puzzles, riddles, and “Easter eggs.”* Swift's spot on descriptions of feeling like an outsider and masking in order to fit in, as expressed in her lyrics and interviews.* Autistic body language and Autistica's stimming anthem!* The intersection of capitalism, privilege, and disability.* The relationship between justice sensitivity and expectation sensitivity.* Swift's Autistic family tree.Episode Quotes:“Listen, Taylor is the biggest star in the universe right now, and she represents Autistic Culture. And as the (Autistic) PR department, if we are not waving the flag: ‘The biggest star in the world is from Autistica!'…We have to. We have to celebrate this. There is so much to celebrate.” —Angela“Yeah, this is the way. Because we don't do anything half-assed. If it's worth doing and worth obsessing about, we go all the way.” —Matt“Taylor's response to that was, ‘Well I am weird, and the cat jokes will stay!'” —Angela“It's very very very difficult, especially for celebrities, to come out because of the connotation of what it might mean to be autistic, because there might be some person somewhere saying, ‘You can't be autistic! You're nothing like my five-year-old boy!'” —Matt“That is why she wrote Shake It Off. That is the song of our people! That is a cultural hymn!” —AngelaAre you an autistic Swifty? Tell us all about it in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Shout Outs:Two Swifty listeners made this episode possible:* Brittany Sellers * Autumn ElliotShow notes and resources:(See listener-provided images at the bottom of this post)Article: Taylor Swift is related to famed American poet Emily Dickinson, Ancestry revealsArticle: Ancestry reveals Taylor Swift is related to American poet Emily DickinsonQuora: Could Taylor Swift have Asperger's syndrome?Article: 40+ of Taylor Swift's Most Brilliant Easter Eggs, DecodedYouTube: A Comprehensive Breakdown of Taylor Swift's Easter EggsVideo: Taylor Swift listing cat breeds on FallonVideo: Interviews of Taylor Swift describing masking Video: The number "13" videoOther episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 03: Poetry is Autistic (The Emily Dickinson episode)Episode 09: Fairy Tales are Autistic Episode 21: Dino Nuggets are Autistic Episode 46: Cats are AutisticEpisode 58: The Good Place is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Find us on:* Instagram* Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela on: Twitter and TikTok* TACP's TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss authentic autistic representation in the character of Elsa from Frozen. They discuss masking, unmasking, ABA, sensory differences, autistic lineage, autistic women, and the heroes journey we all must take if we want to “Let it Go” and adventure “Into the Unknown.” Beyond that, this week's quotes speak for themselves:The wind is howling like this swirling storm insideCouldn't keep it in, heaven knows I triedDon't let them in, don't let them seeBe the good girl you always have to beConceal, don't feel, don't let them knowWell, now they knowLet it go, let it goCan't hold it back anymoreLet it go, let it go—“Let it Go”“They were trying to conceal her because they didn't want the kingdom to know that she had powers. They were trying to make her fit in. To hide, to conceal, to fix. And it's very much ABA vibes.” —Matt“One of the biggest dangers of coming out (as autistic) is being vulnerable and losing your support system…and losing the people that you once thought liked you but just like the mask that you wore. So (unmasking) takes a lot of guts.” —Matt“And this is a big part about Frozen 2 because when we find ourselves, that can be an incredibly lonely process. Because, we have to we have to start shedding pieces of ourselves, one piece at a time to try to figure out—to get to the core of who we really are.” —Matt“You kind of have to settle into who you actually are instead of who you've been pretending to be.” —Angela“That does not happen the day the doctor says, or doesn't say, ‘You're autistic.' Nothing magical happens that day. The magic is like the years and years of work and grief and processing and trying things, all the things you would have been doing.” —Angela“There's often, like, this unresolved resentment because when you finally figure out who you are you're like, holy s**t, why didn't anyone (A) ever tell me (B) love me for who I really was or (C) tell me that I didn't have to hide myself?” —MattDo you relate to Elsa and the songs from Frozen? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Wiki Fandom: ElsaWikipedia: Frozen (2013 film) Blog: “Conceal, don't feel”: The case for autistic ElsaArticle: ‘Frozen' offers glimpse of autism in girlsBlog: 19 Reasons Why I Am Convinced Elsa Is AutisticArticle: Kristen Bell recalls Dax Shepard confronting her about her mental health Article: Kristen Bell Is Not Afraid To Share That She Takes Medication for Her Mental HealthArticle: Seeking Disney's first disabled princessVideo: Story Of Frozen, The Making Of A Disney Animated Classic (2014) Article: 10 Things You May Not Know About Idina Menzel—The Wicked Movie and MoreYouTube: Hygge (From "Frozen: The Broadway Musical"/Audio Only) Presentation: Is it Weird that I'm Moving to the UK?Other episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 07: Apple is Autistic  Episode 09: Fairy Tales are Autistic Episode 26 - Disney is AutisticEpisode 34: Beauty and the Beast is AutisticEpisode 58: The Good Place is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop*Note: Transcription technology is still new on this platform. We are aware of the gaps and errors in the transcript and are dedicated to editing it for accuracy as soon as the new technology allows. We appreciate your patience as we work to expand accessibility as quickly as we are able.**TACP recognizes that ABA for autism is harmful to Autistic mental health. We reject the use of ABA therapy and pathologizing language like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and associated functioning labels and the harmful monolith: Autism Speaks. To learn more, please listen to: Episode 20: Sesame Street is Autistic and Episode 24: The Trouble with Temple Grandin. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria, host of The Autistic Culture Podcast, is a late- diagnosed Autistic who has drawn on her life-long special interest in non-fiction to help almost 2,000 entrepreneurs write, publish, and promote their books through her company Difference Press. Angela is also an author herself with 8 books, including a Wall Street Journal and USA Today Bestseller. She has a B.A. and an M.A. in Journalism and Media Affairs from George Washington University and a PhD in Communications from European Graduate School. She lives in Washington DC. https://www.angelalauria.com/

*TW: This episode discusses ableist policies and “therapies” and their statistically likely consequence - death by suicide. Please respect your personal and emotional boundaries and listen with careIn this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, are joined by two Autistic advocates to discuss a concerning situation in Kentucky where an "autism mom" is pushing for ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) therapy to be mandated in all public schools across the state. Matt, a member of the Kentucky Advisory Council on Autism (KACA), strongly opposes this move along with his fellow autistic council members Winter Type 01 Alice (“Winter” for short) and Kat. As a safe-guard, they make sure to state that their opinions are their own and not that of the council. “My opinions are not those of those useless neurotypical cowards on the Autism Advisory Council.” — WinterThe main points raised are:* ABA is seen as unethical by many autistic people as it focuses solely on modifying outward behaviors without addressing inner experiences, thoughts and feelings. It operates from a deficit model of trying to make autistic people appear more neurotypical regardless of the negative outcomes of masking.* Matt, Winter, and Kat argue that including autistic voices and prioritizing acceptance, accommodations and understanding is far more beneficial than pursuing the outdated goal of a colonialist and eugenics-motivated "cure" for autism.* ABA is dangerous. It causes trauma and deepens the shame of internalized ableism. It also leads to an increased likelihood of death by suicide.* Investing money into better teacher training, more special education staff (especially Autistic educators), sensory rooms, class support animals, and other accommodations would be much more helpful for autistic students than forcing ABA on them.* Autistic advocates face burnout from constantly fighting these battles, especially those with fewer resources (a frequent result of societal ableism). Building community support and sharing the advocacy workload is crucial.* There is a window of opportunity to organize and counter the autism mom's push before the bill (HCR 51) advances too far. Connecting autistic-led organizations and advocates is key to stopping it.“Self-acceptance is free, accommodations are pretty cheap, but ABA is a 1.8 billion dollar a year industry that claims—irrationally so—to fix autistic kids.” —MattThe overall perspective is that autism is an integral part of identity, not a disease to be eliminated. Ethical, compassionate support focusing on authentic quality of life for autistic people should be the priority over compliance-driven behavioral modifications.What kind of neurodiversity-affirming supports would have helped you in school? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Kentucky House concurrent Resolution 51 House of Representatives in KentuckyKentucky Advisory Council on Autism Mandatory ABA lived-experience - ABA Abuse Traumatizes Autistic Teen (A First Hand Account)The Great Big ABA Opposition Resource ListMilton's Double Empathy StudyScholarly article: A systematic review and meta-analysis of suicidality in autistic and possibly autistic people without co-occurring intellectual disabilityScholarly article: Death by Suicide Among People With Autism: Beyond ZebrafishVideo: The Sensory Room: Helping Students With Autism Focus and LearnKentucky House Standing Committee - EducationWinter's website: Translunar AcademyFind Winter's advocacy group: Autistics United Kentucky Facebook and InstagramOther episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 36: Bad Autism DiagnosisEpisode 20: Sesame Street is AutisticEpisode 24: The Trouble with TempleReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop*Note: Transcription technology is still new on this platform. We are aware of the gaps and errors in the transcript and are dedicated to editing it for accuracy as soon as the new technology allows. We appreciate your patience as we work to expand accessibility as quickly as we are able.**TACP recognizes that ABA for autism is harmful to Autistic mental health. We reject the use of ABA therapy and pathologizing language like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and associated functioning labels and the harmful monolith: Autism Speaks. To learn more, please listen to: Episode 20: Sesame Street is Autistic and Episode 24: The Trouble with Temple Grandin. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discusses how Wikipedia depends heavily on autistic editors and volunteers. However Wikimedia is ran by allistics who have a pattern of exploiting the autistic labor force they depend on without proper compensation or appreciation.Wikipedia's systematic approach to organizing information fits right in with Autistic culture! We love sharing facts around special interests and often have skills in categorizing and referencing data.Autistic data hunger and justice sensitivity often combine to help autistic editors to be inclusive of different cultural perspectives and knowledge. However, tensions arise around what constitutes neutrality and "facts" when editing hot-button topics. For example, what constitutes a “neutral” entry about the Confederate flag?“A lot of arguments among neurotypicals happen because they they want to know who is right but a lot of arguments between autistics happen because they want to know what is right.” —MattUnfortunately, the inner workings of Wikipedia show a pattern of ableism from both the neurotypical employees and the “A-Spectrumers” at the company who perform neuronormativity and express internalized ableism through their bullying of autistics and use of functioning labels.A former autistic Wikimedia employee, "Jane," faced harassment, discrimination and bullying after disclosing her autism diagnosis. She filed an EEOC complaint but dropped it due to burnout.Jane shared how Wikimedia's neurotypical management frequently demeans and mocks autistic editors and labor behind the scenes, even as they exploit and fundraise off that free labor.The podcast urges supporting local Wikipedia chapter groups which are often run by autistics instead of donating to Wikimedia's central fundraising, and encourages privileged autistics to become high-edit count editors to change the culture from within.“Don't give money to the Wikimedia Foundation. Do use your privilege—if you have power and extra bandwidth—and…get your editor count up so you get a vote to change things from the inside. Don't do that if it's going to be detrimental to your mental health—take care of that first.” —Angela The episode explores the complex interplay of Wikipedia providing an autism-friendly platform for special interests while also perpetuating ableism in its management and fundraising practices around this uncompensated autistic workforce.How has ableism affected you in the work place? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Wikipedia's definition of ableismHow to become a Wikipedia editor Wikipedia:WikiProject AutismThread: Autism Spectrum Wrongly Described In WikipediaThread: Wikipedia likes us!Wikipedia:High-functioning autism and Asperger's editorsWikipedians with autismArticle: Wikipedia accused of bullying former autistic employee with claims of a toxic work cultureVillage pump (miscellaneous)Article: Alex St John's Ideas About Game Development Are TerrifyingOther episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 04: Industrial Light & Magic is AutisticEpisode 35: Sex is Autistic (Alfred Kinsey episode)Episode 38: Productivity is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discusses the Apple TV+ series Mythic Quest, which is set in a video game development studio. The show features several characters who are coded as being on the autism spectrum, particularly the lead character Poppy Li, played by Charlotte Nicdao. The hosts analyze how Poppy's personality, interests, and behaviors align with common autistic traits.“There are not only autistic traits and autistic culture represented, like clearly, in the show but also in the fan culture around the game.” —MattThey discuss Poppy's backstory revealed in Season 3, where as a child she struggled to meet her parents' expectations around socializing and instead was passionate about video games like Final Fantasy. Her monotropic focus and subsequent tendency to approach challenges like a video game are highlighted.The hosts also discuss other autistic-coded characters like Rachel, Dana, and Joe. They explore themes around autistic culture portrayed in the show, such as pursuing special interests, difficulty with allistic social cues and figurative language, and tensions between individual visions versus capitalist-driven corporate directives.“We want a neurodiverse world. That is why we do not want all autistic people to be ‘cured,' ‘fixed,' or otherwise adulterated to please neurotypical people because you need us for your stone bridges, for your creation of calculus, for your understanding of bugs, for your world building. Like you need us but also, like, we need you—it is neurodiversity affirming not exclusive to autism. But, if we aren't the PR department for autism who is going to be? Because there's a lot of people trying to kill us.” —AngelaThe hosts commend the show for its positive autistic representation through complex characters across a range of experiences and personalities. They contrast this to common negative stereotypes about autism. Overall, they recommend Mythic Quest as an insightful and entertaining look into autistic lives and culture.Are you a gamer? What's your favorite game? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Mythic Quest on WikifandomTik Tok: Erin Rackham, PhDBook (authored by Angela): The Equalizing Quill: 6 Ways Generative AI Can Boost Publication Access for Underrepresented AuthorsCheck out:Episode 12: Parks & Rec is AutisticEpisode 43: Only Murders in the Building is AutisticEpisode 45: Bob's Burgers is AutisticEpisode 57: Community is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss the challenges that autistic AFAB people face during pregnancy and childbirth.The biggest struggle with being autistic and pregnant is not realizing that your needs are not being met.There is very little information and research available on pregnancy and autism. Autistic people have unique needs and heightened sensitivities during pregnancy that often go unrecognized and unaccommodated.Angela shares about her severe morning sickness throughout pregnancy, her list of safe foods dwindling to just two semi-safe foods, and how she didn't experience the “woo woo” connection to the fetus that other women described. Instead, she described it feeling like a "football-sized tumor."She faced criticism from others for not having a "typical" pregnancy experience and was abandoned by her care provider for asking questions like, “Why are you doing this very painful thing?” Many allistics (including doctors) expect autistic people to comfort them by masking even during major physical and hormonal changes.Our study found that women with ASD face unique challenges during childbirth that differ from those of neurotypical women. Participants often felt belittled, ignored, and uninformed about the care they received and being placed at the center of attention was often seen as negative and hindering rather than positive.Giving birth in hospitals can be problematic - high rates of medical interventions are pushed to maximize profits. Things like due dates, pitocin drips, epidurals and C-sections often happen by default regardless of the pregnant person's birth plan. Angela ended up with an epidural that didn't work and an unplanned C-section.Working with a doula helped Angela feel prepared through detailed explanations of what would happen, why, and when. This helped mitigate anxiety and trauma from medical interventions.The hosts emphasizes the need for community, story sharing, and trauma-informed care around pregnancy and birth for autistic people. Self-understanding and identity is key in advocating for one's needs.What was your Autistic experience of being pregnant? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Article: Autism, pregnancy and childbirthVideo: Autistic Pregnancy: How I copedArticle: Autistic and pregnantStudy: Pregnancy in autistic women and social medical considerationsPlay script: Birth By Karen BrodyBook: Pregnancy Childbirth and the Newborn: The Complete Guide by Penny Simkin Book: The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer More episodes…Episode 14: Autistic Medical NeedsEpisode 20: Sesame Street is AutisticEpisode 56: Lessons in Chemistry is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Find us on InstagramGive us 5 stars on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's socials: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's socials: Twitter and TikTokTACP's TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

For further information go to: www.jenniferjhammond.com This episode features Dr. Angela Lauria, the host of the Autistic Culture Podcast, as a very special guest of Jennifer. Angela, who was diagnosed with autism later in life, offers a distinct viewpoint on the relationship between autism and real estate. Find out why it can be a huge difference to hire an autistic person to fix your house. With a wealth of knowledge and experience, Angela offers insights into the culture of autistic people, concentrating on the shared characteristic of monotropic focus. Regardless of their level of intelligence, autistic people have a strong focus on a particular interest, which makes them careful and passionate problem solvers. Examine how employing contractors with autism, such as home inspectors, can result in a comprehensive assessment of your house. Angela emphasizes how their attention to detail pays off, offering first-time homebuyers insightful advice and resulting in a situation that benefits both of them. As Angela highlights the value of comprehending and appreciating the distinctive strengths that autistic people bring to a variety of fields, including real estate and home improvement, discover the joy and celebration of autistic culture. For more fascinating insights into various facets of autistic culture, subscribe to the Autistic Culture Podcast. Understand the neurotype better while learning to recognize and appreciate the joy that comes with being autistic.

#ActuallyAutistic Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss the many autistic themes and characters in TV show "The Good Place.”The character Chidi displays numerous Autistic traits, including a clear special interest he can insert into any conversation, process complexity, a concrete thinking style, consistent anxiety, interoception difficulties, and a high level of integrity adhering his own personal morality. His method of reading tables of contents to calm down also resonates—especially with Angela!“So Chidi, my god, if there's ever an autistic coded character, it is definitely Chidi.” —MattEleanor is Queer, loyal, and a human “bullshirt” detector. She demonstrates perspective-taking challenges, a tendency to miss allistic social cues, direct communication, and is lectured about her “tone.” Her backstory of trauma and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) also fits the pattern of many late-diagnosed autistic women.Jason embodies passionate interests with his fixation on the Jacksonville Jaguars and Molotov cocktails. This monotropic focus combined with a tendency to be inattentive aligns with ADHD which has a lot of overlap with autism.“Well, so back in May, they discovered that ADHD brains are hyperconnected just like ours. So that's why there's such a large overlap. And now, again, for the longest time…they knew that our brains were immune to the mTORs, which caused the hyperconnected brains, which again, they try to cure us by pruning our brains, which resulted in a lot of brain cancer.” —MattThe gradual evolution of the AI Janet's identity, as she asserts her preferences beyond what her original programming dictated, mirrors an autistic unmasking journey.Tahani is exhausted from a lifetime of masking to fit her family's standards. Actor Jameela Jamil shares she has EDS, POTS, mast cell activation syndrome, and other conditions common among autistic individuals.Architect Michael displays fascination with humans, impatience with excessive details, preference for concrete examples over philosophical debate, and a literal interpretation style.Overall, the hosts see The Good Place as profoundly Autistic in its monotropic moral philosophy focus, diverse representation of neurodivergence, and insightful illustrations of autistic experiences.Starting around 53:24 Angela spontaneously demonstrates which aspects of Autistic Culture? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Book: How to Be Perfect by Michael SchurVideo: How to be perfect with "The Good Place" creator Michael SchurArticle: Chidi Anagonye, the Autistic Nerd Character Done RightArticle: How The Good Place taught moral philosophy to its characters — and its creatorsArticle: 5 Moral Philosophy Concepts Featured on The Good PlaceTikTok: Character analysis It's literally all of themTikTok: Chidi Autistic traits analysisTikTok: Chidi - I love this lineTikTok: I relate to Janet so much YouTube: The Good Place - The Trolley Problem (Episode Highlight)Episode 12: Parks & Rec is AutisticBook Club #05: How to be PerfectReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow on InstagramRate/Review on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokOur TeePublic merch shop*Note: Transcription technology is still new on this platform. We are aware of the gaps and errors in the transcript and are dedicated to editing it for accuracy as soon as the new technology allows. We appreciate your patience as we work to expand accessibility as quickly as we are able.**TACP recognizes that ABA for autism is harmful to Autistic mental health. We reject the use of ABA therapy and pathologizing language like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and associated functioning labels as well as the harmful monolith: Autism Speaks. To learn more, please listen to: Episode 20: Sesame Street is Autistic and Episode 24: The Trouble with Temple Grandin. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dive into the transformative world of neurodiversity and autism in the workplace and in personal lives, with the Dr. Angela Lauria. As a expert in autism and neurodiversity, Dr. Lauria shares invaluable insights on unlocking Autistic Potential in the workplace, and personal life to empower success for neurodiverse persons. Through our thought-provoking conversation, we explore the unique strengths and challenges that autistic individuals bring to professional environments and discuss practical strategies for fostering inclusive work cultures that celebrate and harness neurodiversity.Viewers will gain a deeper understanding of how to create empowering spaces for all employees, with a focus on leveraging the untapped potential of autistic talent. Whether you're a business leader, HR professional, or team member keen to advocate for more inclusive workplaces, this episode is a must-listen, offering practical advice and inspiring stories to guide you in championing neurodiversity at work. Join us as we unlock the door to a more inclusive and successful future for neurodiverse teams. visit: https://www.angelalauria.com/ visit: https://www.AmazingPeopleAmazingThings.com visit: https://amzn.to/3T6jDrT --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chucktuck/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chucktuck/support

Autistic hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discussed their love for the television show Community, which they consider an "Autistic love fest." They praised the show's protagonist Abed Nadir, played by Danny Pudi, as possibly the greatest Autistic character in TV history. Abed is canonically autistic on the show, and he embraces his identity without wishing to be neurotypical.“Danny understands this and portrays it so well and so accurately without a hint of pity. He does not want to be neurotypical.” —MattThe hosts talked about how the show's creator Dan Harmon realized he is on the autism spectrum himself as an adult while writing Abed. The evolution of the relationships between the study group friends like Troy and Abed is explored, with the hosts praising how the show allows the characters to "unmask" and become more authentically themselves over time. Danny Pudi's ability to accurately portray Abed's autistic mannerisms and traits are highlighted.The hosts denounce common incorrect stereotypes about autistic people, like the idea they lack empathy or desire social connections. Matt and Angela celebrate the positive representation of Autistic culture in Community and contrast it with Sheldon Cooper and The Big Bang Theory.“So it's a uniquely Autistic-centered—celebrating Autistic culture, celebrating Autistic heritage, celebrating the autistic mindset. Whereas Big Bang Theory, it's a laugh track constantly. The punchline is always autism.” —MattDetails about the show's production are shared, including how Chevy Chase caused creator Dan Harmon to be fired for a period, leading to a poorly received 4th season under new allistic showrunners. The highly anticipated upcoming Community movie is discussed, including plot details revealed by Donald Glover about it being a reunion documentary.Overall, Community is highly recommended by Matt and Angela as a show created by and for Autistics.Which Community character do you relate to most? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!A couple of those online autism quizzes we discussed:* RAADs R* CAT QDamian Milton - double empathy problemArticle: Eye on Emmy: Community‘s Danny Pudi on Abed's Impressions, Marvel GigsVideo: Dan Harmon talks about Asperger's syndrome - Why Abed is a shamanVideo: Danny Pudi on Why He Is Not Abed Nadir Article: Community's Dan Harmon Discovered He Had Asperger's While Writing Abed's CharacterArticle: The Secret World of Imagination Hidden in AutismArticle: Community Q&A: Danny Pudi on Abed's Growth, Losing Troy, and All Those Frisbees Article: Dan Harmon Discusses His New Documentary, Addiction, and Going to Therapy Article: Danny Pudi On Living With Asperger's: ‘I'm Just Trying To Be Honest About Who I Am'Documentary: Harmontown Book Club #02: FrankensteinEpisode 32: Animation is AutisticEpisode 36: Bad Autism DiagnosisEpisode 39: Dungeons and Dragons is AutisticEpisode 48: Child-to-Parent Diagnostic PipelineReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

In this episode, hosts Haley Moss and Dr. Lori Butts speak with self-advocate, podcaster, and writer Dr. Angela Lauria. Dr. Angela Lauria is a late-diagnosed Autistic who has drawn on her life-long special interest in non-fiction to help almost 2,000 entrepreneurs write, publish, and promote their books through her company Difference Press. She is the creator and co-host of The Autistic Culture Podcast which advocates for viewing autism as a cultural difference to be embraced and not a disorder to be fixed. Angela is also an author herself with 8 books, including a Wall Street Journal and USA Today Bestseller. She has a B.A. and an M.A. in Journalism and Media Affairs from George Washington University and a PhD in Communications from European Graduate School. Look for the Autistic Culture Podcast at https://autisticculture.substack.com/ Look for Difference Press at https://www.differencepress.com/ And for more about Angela, visit her site https://www.angelalauria.com/ A TRANSCRIPTION FOR THIS EPISODE CAN BE FOUND HERE: https://www.differentbrains.org/embracing-autistic-joy-with-dr-angela-lauria-spectrumly-speaking-ep-153/ ----------------- Spectrumly Speaking is the podcast dedicated to women on the autism spectrum, produced by Different Brains®. Every other week, join our hosts Haley Moss (an autism self-advocate, attorney, artist, and author) and Dr. Lori Butts (a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist, and licensed attorney) as they discuss topics and news stories, share personal stories, and interview some of the most fascinating voices from the autism community. Follow Different Brains on social media: https://twitter.com/diffbrains https://www.facebook.com/different.brains/ http://differentbrains.org/category/spectrumlyspeaking/

*contains SPOILERSDr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, deep dive on the book and TV series "Lessons in Chemistry," which centers around an Autistic female scientist named Elizabeth Zott (played by Brie Larson) in the 1950s. Elizabeth forms a relationship with another scientist named Calvin Evans, who is also Autistic. Their relationship depicts an "Autistic love story" with themes like info-dumping as an expression of intimacy and negotiating accommodations.“Like we talk about the double empathy problem and why relationships are easier if you are with another autistic person in some ways. That doesn't mean there are no problems or nothing to negotiate.” —AngelaOther notable autistic-coded characters are discussed, like Elizabeth's daughter Madeline—Mad—who is precocious and constantly asks complex questions. The portrayal shows a nurturing environment for an autistic child, contrasting with the gaslighting many autistics experience growing up.“Like I said, that trauma and that gaslighting is so fundamental to like our expectation sensitivity, our need to document things. When you ask us a question like our need to give you 30 reasons why we made the decision we made because we know how badly these things go but they don't have to if you create a more neuro-inclusive family structure and that really happens.” —AngelaThemes of masking, special interests, data collection, and social justice advocacy also come up in portraying authentic Autistic Culture. Changes from the book to the TV adaptation are analyzed. Overall, the podcasters greatly appreciate the attention to detail and accurate depiction of autistic experiences and culture in the series.What is something Culturally Autistic about your romantic relationship? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Article: ‘Lessons in Chemistry' Star Aja Naomi King on Telling the Story of L.A.'s Sugar Hill NeighborhoodVideo: Audition Story Time (part 1) with Brie LarsonVideo: Audition Story Time (part 2) with Brie LarsonVideo: Extended interview: Bonnie Garmus on her debut novel and moreVideo: Bunny the DogEpisode 12: Parks & Rec is AutisticEpisode 15: Greta is AutisticEpisode 31: Chess is AutisticBook Club #04: Hitchhiker's Guide to the GalaxyReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

*Contains SPOILERSHosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, enthusiastically discuss the recent 4-part 60th anniversary Doctor Who specials on Disney+ overseen by returning showrunner Russell T Davies. M: T. Davies is gay himself. He's very outspoken about a great many aspects of making the world better for marginalized people.A: Yeah, so basically imagine JK Rowling, and then imagine the opposite.M: Like, yeah, he is the counterforce to JK Rowling.They highlight Davies' commitment to inclusivity through new characters like ambulatory wheelchair user Ruth Madeley. The first special "The Starbeast" features the return of David Tennant's 10th Doctor unexpectedly regenerating back following Jodie Whittaker's 13th Doctor's departure. It also brings back classic companion Donna Noble and her previously unknown transgender daughter, Rose.The third special "The Toymaker" features Neil Patrick Harris as an omnipotent, game-playing villain, The Toymaker, from classic Doctor Who. A highlight is the rules-based games between the Toymaker and the Doctor.“Whenever my sisters wanted me to keep a secret, they would bribe me with games like the number—'I'll play you three games if you don't tell mom this.' So I love the way the the special interest of gaming comes into this episode.” —AngelaThe fourth special features both Tennant and new upcoming 14th Doctor Ncuti Gatwa together, made possible through Tennant's Doctor "bi-generating" instead of regenerating. This allows multiple Doctors' timelines to co-exist. The specials end with both the 10th and 14th Doctors having their own (newly wheelchair accessible) TARDISes.Overall, the hosts are overjoyed at Russell T Davies' Doctor Who return and his ability to honor the show's past while moving it inclusively into the future. They celebrate the possibilities opened for even more Doctors to potentially return through the established plot device of "bi-generation."Are you a Whovian? Does the world of Doctor Who reflect your Autistic values and experiences too? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Watch the new trailerEpisode 27: Trivia is AutisticEpisode 30: Doctor Who is AutisticEpisode 31: Chess is AutisticEpisode 39: Dungeons and Dragons is AutisticEpisode 40: Minisode #1: Update on Doctor Who, D&D, Sherlock, and Star WarsReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow for updates on InstagramLeave us a review on Apple podcasts and SpotifyMatt Lowry, LPPAngelaLauria.com and Difference PressSay hi to Matt on Autistic Connections Facebook GroupSay hi to Angela on Twitter and TikTokCheck out our merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

*At the time of the recording, Angela and Matt used she/her pronouns for Hannah Gadsby based on the research materials for the episode (mainly: Hannah's memoir, stand-up specials, and a few interviews). We have since learned that Hannah's pronouns are they/them. TACP fully supports gender diversity and respecting people's pronouns. We apologize for the serious error we made and offer our sincerest apologies to Hannah and our listeners for our mistake and any harm it has caused. In this instance, we failed to live up to our mission of radical inclusivity. Please respect your own boundaries and triggers and listen with care.In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss the memoirs of two Autistic comedians: Hannah Gadsby from Tasmania and Fern Brady from Scotland.Angela highlights the many parallels between Hannah and Fern's lives—their struggles getting appropriately diagnosed, dealing with gender-based violence, sexual abuse, homophobia and ableism. Both found their way to comedy as a survival mechanism and ended up having great success, especially at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival.A: So about 20 years before she was diagnosed…she read a description and she was like, ‘oh, that's totally me.' She knew it. But no matter what she did, she got diagnosed with everything else: bipolar, depression, schizophrenia—like you name it, she was diagnosed with literally everything else.M: Did she make eye contact and arrive in a car that she drove herself?A: Yeah. Also, she's pretty.M: Oh, there you go.The hosts discuss Hannah and Fern's issues with employment, homelessness, and disordered eating. They also touch on differences in meltdowns vs shutdowns and masking through comedy.“And so she goes back to living above the fruit and veg store, but stays in the relationship too long because she doesn't want to be homeless again or unhoused again. So that is—I think—a cycle that we see a lot.” —AngelaThey discuss a quote from Hannah Gadsby, in which they share about diffusing tension through comedy as a survival tactic from childhood mistreatment. The hosts praise both books as reclaiming the narrative and gaining self-understanding. They highly recommend reading the memoirs together and watching Hannah Gadsby's comedy specials.Do you relate to these Autistic comedians? Do their stories remind you of your own?Hannah Notes:* Book: 10 Steps to Nanette* Wikipedia: Hannah Gadsby * Netflix Specials: Nanette, Douglas, Something Special * Article: Hannah Gadsby's Nanette: Connection Through Comedy* Article: Hannah Gadsby's song of the self* Article: Hannah Gadsby Gets the Last Laugh in 10 Steps to Nanette * Article: Hannah Gadsby on her autism diagnosis: ‘I've always been plagued by a sense that I was a little out of whack'* NPR's Fresh Air: Autism Spectrum Diagnosis Helped Comic Hannah Gadsby 'Be Kinder' To Herself* Article: Hannah Gadsby told she was ‘too fat' and ‘too female' to be autistic* Article: Hannah Gadsby Threatened to Quit Comedy in Nanette. Her New Memoir Proves She's Not Going Anywhere* Article: Ten Steps to Nanette by Hannah Gadsby audiobook review – startling candourFern Notes:* Book: Strong Female Character * Wikipedia: Fern Brady * YouTube playlist: Taskmaster Series 14 * Article: Taskmaster's Fern Brady: How a late diagnosis of autism explained my meltdowns* Article: Review: Strong Female Character, by Fern Brady* Article: Strong Female Character: An unflinching self-portrait* Article: ‘Everything ends up about death and shagging': Fern Brady on comedy, autism and intrusive thoughts* Video: Fern Brady On Being A Stripper, Autism Diagnosis & School In 'A Men's Prison'* Article: Book review: Strong Character, by Fern BradyMore Autistic Culture:* Episode 03: Poetry is Autistic (Emily Dickinson episode)* Episode 15: Greta is Autistic (Greta Thunberg episode)* Episode 36: Bad Autism DiagnosisReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Autistic hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, with Andralyn Zayn: Autistic circus producer, director, performer, fitness educator, and dog mom. Andralyn was recently identified as Autistic after seeing TikTok videos from autistic women she could relate to. This led her down a "rabbit hole" of researching autism and eventually getting assessed and professionally diagnosed.Andralyn has been doing circus for over 20 years. Her specialty is sitting on her husband's feet while he juggles her. She met her husband online using a very Autistic dating profile.“And in my online dating profile, I put specifically that I'm looking for somebody to juggle me with their feet and travel around the world. And I'm like, if that's not you, cool, we can hang out. Let's go for coffee…But it's not going to go anywhere.” —AndralynIn the process of making a documentary about autistic circus performers, Andralyn's health severely declined. She has multiple conditions including polycystic kidney disease and POTS—which went undiagnosed for years. This caused extreme pain and fatigue, forcing her to stop most activities. After finally getting diagnosed and receiving some treatment, she is slowly returning to teaching and performing again.“But again, so few doctors put the pieces together like that. And especially for female presenting people, just say, oh, yeah, it's all in your head. Just go home and ‘be a man' about it.” —MattPodcast hosts, Angela and Matt, discuss how proprioceptive/vestibular stimulation attracts many autistic adults and children to circus arts. They also talk about the intense special interests and Flow states that allow intense training for hours on end. However, this can lead to ignoring bodily signals and burnout.“Or just having value without producing—which like all of capitalism tells everyone is not true. And then add being autistic and it's times 1,000.” —AngelaAndralyn's journey illustrates the ableism many autistics face, which leads them to pushing themselves to unhealthy levels of productivity—to ‘make up for' being Autistic. Her story provides an important model for learning to understand neurological and physical differences in order to create a sustainable lifestyle.Did Autistic identification lead you to realizing that you have a chronic illness/disorder? Or vise versa? * Wikipedia: Risley (circus act)* Article: The next yoga? Circus-inspired fitness* Video: On the Job with Circus Artists* Andralyn's Instagram* Andralyn's Facebook* Episode 14: Autistic Medical Needs* Episode 22: Trains are Autistic* Episode 46: Cats are Autistic* Episode 47: Autistic Centered Therapy - AuCTReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* TACP Instagram* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's FB group: Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's Twitter and TikTok* Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop*Note: Transcription technology is still new on this platform. We are aware of the gaps and errors in the transcript and are dedicated to editing it for accuracy as soon as the new technology allows. We appreciate your patience as we work to expand accessibility as quickly as we are able.**TACP recognizes that ABA for autism is harmful to Autistic mental health. We reject the use of ABA therapy and pathologizing language like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and associated functioning labels. To learn more, please listen to: Episode 20: Sesame Street is Autistic and Episode 24: The Trouble with Temple Grandin. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, provide an update on their previous episode discussing the TV show "Only Murders in the Building." They share additional evidence that the actress Selena Gomez may be Autistic, including that she has lupus which co-occurs at a high rate with autism. They also discuss how Autistic friendships are often built on shared special interests, whereas neurotypical friendships progress through stages from acquaintance, to casual friend, to close friend. These stages have implicit rules like not directly discussing which stage a friendship is in. “It's so surface level and superficial because who wants to wade through four separate areas of superficiality before you're able to find someone who genuinely appreciates you?” - MattThe hosts conclude Autistic people should seek out Autistic friendships to avoid the exhaustion and masking required in neurotypical relationships. Overall, they feel "Only Murders in the Building" provides an exemplary depiction of an authentic, supportive Autistic friendship.“Only Murders—I think—is the most beautiful depiction of what an autistic friendship is like. And if you don't have that, I highly recommend you go seek it.” - AngelaWhat's your experience with Autistic friendships? Tell us about it in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Nico's stages of allistic friendship progression:* Acquaintance: Running into someone regularly due to a common social environment.* Cohort/casual friend: Making occasional plans together, often context-dependent (e.g. "my friends from the dance group" or "classmate" or "colleague") but more intimate than acquaintances.* Friend: Friends are people who know approximately who you are (or the version of yourself you present to the world). They probably know who several of your other friends are, may offer to pitch in on a project or lend a hand with a move.* Close friend: Close friends expect to be early on the list of people you'd call upon for emotional or practical support or even relationship advice, but not necessarily for the "big problems." * Superlative of choice: Whether they call it best friends, besties, "my/the girls/boys/people," chosen family, "like siblings," etc. these are the people whom they'd consider using up vacation days to support—the ones who might do the same for them. Curiously, these are the people they'll back in an argument even when they're clearly at least partially in the wrong.More TACP:* Episode 14: Autistic Medical Needs* Episode 43: Only Murders in the Building is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Autistic pod hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, interview their guest, Daniel, about his special interest in aquariums and fish tanks. Daniel explains how he originally had an aquarium as a child and became fascinated again as an adult, falling into a delightful research rabbit hole about aquarium setup, maintenance, shrimp breeding, etc.“I'm almost never satisfied by simply understanding the gist. It's never enough for me. No matter what the decision is that I'm going to make, I obsessively research. And as part of that obsessive research, I have realized that a whole lot of people that sound like they know what they're talking about are only regurgitating things that they have learned to regurgitate.” - DanielDaniel discusses the different types of shrimp he keeps, including Cardina and Neocaridina varieties, and some of the challenges of keeping more sensitive Cardina shrimp happy in a typical planted aquarium environment. He goes in depth about optimizing water conditions, aquascaping plant selection for shrimp, and some of the fish tank inhabitants that coexist with the shrimp.The group talks about how Daniel's special interest intersects with some of his other interests like 3D printing and software development. His monotropic focus with tuning and optimizing systems carries over from his aquarium design to how he has modified and improved his 3D printers.“This is the reason why we do autistic-centered therapy, because allistic anxiety comes from like a lack of serotonin, lack of dopamine, lack of norepinephrine. Our anxiety comes from the constant processing of all those variables, the fear of the unknown, the fear of how these things are going to interact, what will happen tomorrow.” - MattThere is an extended tangent where Daniel explains in detail the shrimp mating, reproduction, and egg caring process. The hosts react with fascinated horror at some of the specifics. The passion Daniel exhibits in discussing his interests helps the hosts feel an emotional connection and closeness in sharing vulnerabilities. “I felt closer to you, not because I wanted (an aquarium) for me. But I was like, rather than small talk…I was like, wow, what a cool and interesting person. I feel closer to Daniel. I feel like you were vulnerable with me and telling me the research that went into it. That's what makes me feel closer to someone.” - AngelaThe episode wraps up with Daniel feeling good that his past work automating systems for Angela's company has lived on and continues to be utilized.What's your little world that you like to build and control? Video: Daniel's Shrimp World * Episode 38: Productivity is Autistic* Episode 47: Autistic Centered Therapy - AuCT* Book Club #02: Frankenstein Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!TACP:* Instagram* Apple podcasts and Spotify* TACP's TeePublic merch shopMatt:* Matt Lowry, LPP* Autistic Connections Facebook GroupAngela:* Twitter and TikTok* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria is the Founder of The Author Incubator and the creator of the Difference Process for writing a book that matters. Angela details the framework for how to write a book in 24-48 hours, even if you hate writing. She explains how to figure out the best topic to write about, creating the structural outline for your book, when and how to write your book in a timely manner, and why using a reward system is a great method of setting yourself up for success. Angela also offers great advice for not taking too long to write your book and how to ensure you get your book published by a certain time.  During this interview, we discuss:  00:53 – A bit about Angela's background and the topic of today's episode  5:47 – The Author Incubator's services + Direct Response   7:27 – What channel she uses the most to get leads  8:19 – Are more people writing books because they have time during the coronavirus quarantines? + Pivoting to virtual events and reorganizing her business  11:04 – How to win $100 just for listening to this podcast!  12:08 – How to write a book in 24-48 hours: The hardest thing is picking a book topic effectively  16:10 – Coming up with an easy structure for your book + Incorporating your personality   19:57 – Figuring out when and how to write your book in a timely manner + Tips for not taking too long to write it  23:29 – Changing your mindset on writing books  25:34 – Another way to write your book: One chapter per week for 12 weeks  27:17 – Setting yourself up for success: Use a reward system  29:23 – Angela's #1 piece of advice regarding publishing  30:34 – Angela eliminated her email to increase productivity?!  32:11 – Her most recommended book  33:27 – How to get in touch with Angela  Plus, a whole lot more! Angela's Websites: Get all of Angela's Books for FREE! Connect with Angela in LinkedIn, Twitter & Facebook @TheAuthorIncubator Follow Angela on Instagram @AuthorIncubator The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks --------------------------------------- If you enjoyed this episode, please RATE / REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE to ensure you never miss an episode. Connect with Dennis Brown  AskDennisBrown.com LinkedIn Twitter Instagram [Free Giveaways]

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, celebrate their 50th podcast episode by reminiscing about some of their favorite past episodes that highlighted the Top Ten Pillars of Autistic Culture:* Logic and strategy * Episode 11: Sherlock is Autistic * Episode 31: Chess is Autistic* Linguistics and accents * Episode 32: Animation is Autistic* Deep thinking and insights* Episode 03: Poetry is Autistic (Emily Dickinson episode) * Episode 09: Fairy Tales are Autistic (Hans Christian Anderson episode)* World building* Episodes 16: Pokémon is Autistic* Episode 39: Dungeons and Dragons is Autistic* Data gathering, pattern formation, and analysis* Episode 27: Trivia is Autistic* Episode 35: Sex is Autistic (Alfred Kinsey episode)* Innovative, game-changing ideas* Episode 04: Industrial Light & Magic (Star Wars episode) * Episode 37: Motion Pictures are Autistic* Creativity and artistic expression* Episode 19: Eminem is Autistic* Episode 29: Questlove is Autistic* Consistency and reliability* Episode 21: Dino Nuggets are Autistic* Episode 22: Trains are Autistic* Justice and honesty* Episode 15: Greta is Autistic* Episode 42: McEnroe is Autistic* Superfanning and fictional friends* Episode 10: Star Trek is Autistic* Episode 30: Doctor Who is AutisticOver 49 episodes, Matt and Angela have aimed to resist a culture that is frequently hostile towards Autistics through sharing Autistic joy and by highlighting the unique contributions of famous Autistics across history. We're here, we're Autistic, get used to it!At 11:06, Matt demonstrates one aspect of the Autistic accent and dialect. What does he say, and what part of Autistic Culture is he drawing from when he does it? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!* Do you have a podcast or upcoming professional event and want to feature Matt and/or Angela? Check out our “Book Us” page.* Want more autism-affirming goodies? You might enjoy Angela's Unmasking Autism Diary, the TACP blog, and our autism-affirming merch shop. Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

#ActuallyAutistic podcast hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss their complicated feelings around Christmas—there is holiday magic but also overstimulation, family stress, and past trauma. They talk about Christmas TV specials that resonate with autistic experiences, like Charlie Brown feeling overwhelmed while others find joy, or the Grinch hating loud noises.They talk about Autistic glimmers (the opposite of triggers) like time with special interests, sensory delights, and routines; using the example of Matt's son who loves Christmas villages and light decorations. They also validate the seasonal triggers like excessive noise, increased social expectations, gift-giving misalignments, and food sensitivities.“Every gift you receive is a risk and then every gift you give is a risk. And…expectation sensitivity and Christmas, it's hard to find that magic…I think that's like the lights, like…Every year, the lights are pretty much the same. Yes! and I get so excited to see them every year.” - AngelaThey analyze Santa Claus' many Autistic traits and discuss certain elements of Christmas stories that reflect Autistic characteristics. Connections are drawn between neurodivergent people feeling excluded for being "different," and outcast characters like Rudolph and Hermie the elf/dentist.“It very much resonates with neurodivergent people and, you know, people who have been excluded for being different—even though our differences matter and our differences are valuable. Because we need dentists in the world. We need bright lights in the fog. Because just by being like the other ‘normal' reindeer, Santa would have failed.” - MattThe hosts emphasize wishing for more openness and peace during the holidays and the entire year. Matt shares another “Autistica” story he wrote about an Autistic child who meets a magical Christmas dragon that understands him when Santa could not. The dragon embodies acceptance, celebration of difference, and bringing people joy.“The dragon huffed and it puffed and held its breath for a bit, and all of a sudden, this dragon was lit. The dragon's horns and its spikes lit up every hue. The boy basked in the glow. What a marvelous view.” - The Christmas Dragon, by MattWhat are some of your holiday glimmers? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!* Available on Apple+: Charlie Brown's Christmas Special* Episode 08: Peanuts is Autistic* Episode 21: Dino Nuggets are Autistic* Episode 03: Poetry is Autistic (Emily Dickinson episode)* Episode 22: Trains are Autistic* Episode 35: Sex is Autistic (Kinsey episode)* Episode 32: Animation is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, are joined by filmmaker and Autistic advocate, Brett Malley to discuss some of the common experiences of parents realizing they are likely Autistic after their child gets diagnosed, which the hosts term the "Child to Parent Diagnostic Pipeline."Brett shares his story: his son was struggling and misunderstood in school, leading to the son's Autism diagnosis. Seeing the evaluation criteria opened Brett's eyes to recognizing himself and his own Autistic traits which led to his own evaluation and Autistic diagnosis.“How I talk, how I write, the things I create, the things that I notice, the things I feel that—you know, everyone's like, ‘Eh, that's, that's just Brett.' And I'm like, ‘It's not just me!' I'm just so excited to have a community and talk to you two and all the other people that I've been able to communicate (with).” - BrettBrett discusses both the useful aspects of getting an official autism diagnosis as an advocate and acceptance-raiser, as well as the downsides like medicalization and pathologization of natural neurodiversity. They discuss how Autism is best understood as a common culture that people can recognize—and possibly, realize they are a part of.“Nine-year-old kid had 34 books on German tanks from World War II. That's it! We didn't do a diagnosis. I didn't call Kaiser. I didn't have to pay out of pocket. That's all I got. I immediately started talking to that kid. I'm like, what's your favorite tank? Why? Show me the coolest picture. Which of these books? Let's go. There was no small talk.” - AngelaThe hosts explore "imposter syndrome" around autism identity even after diagnosis. They envision a future where formal diagnosis isn't necessary—people can self-identify based on connecting with cultural experiences and still qualify for accommodations and supports.“I really think that the identification process should literally be Autistic people chatting together and vibing because you know, as soon as you say, ‘32 books on German tanks…or my books, or my gardens, or my animals…'—whatever floats your boat—as soon as you get into that flow, you know. It's not diagnosis, it's identification….Welcome to the club. Welcome to our people. Welcome home.” - MattBrett introduces his forthcoming documentary film: “The Divergent Gift: Unboxing Autism” highlighting diverse voices across the autism spectrum. It aims to challenge stereotypes and focus on the gifts, as well as challenges, of being Autistic in an allistic-centric society.What was on your “maybe” list when you were first realizing you're Autistic?* Pitch-trailer for The Divergent Gift; Unboxing Autism * The Divergent Gift website* Brett's website* Harry Chapin Flowers are Red * The women Folk: Little Boxes * Joe James Book: The Autistic Experience: Silenced Voices Finally Heard* Episode 38: Productivity is Autistic* Episode 36: Bad Autism Diagnosis* Episode 03: Poetry is Autistic* Episode 29: Questlove is Autistic* Episode 22: Trains are AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Find us on…* Instagram* Apple podcasts and Spotify* Our merch shop* Matt Lowry, LPP* Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's Twitter and TikTok This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss Matt's brain child: "Autistic-Centered Therapy" (AuCT) - a therapeutic approach specifically tailored to serve the needs of Autistic individuals.“Because there are so many autistic people in the world who don't know how to be Autistic because you've grown up in a world that demeans you, that tells you to be different, that tells you to be something else, and you don't know how to be the genuine you. We have to do a lot of uncovering.” - MattThey critique mainstream, allistic-centered therapy such as CBT as well as the more overtly damaging ABA therapy, which aims to force Autistic children and adults to conform to allistic expectations rather than accepting and supporting them. “The therapy was definitely making me need therapy.” - AngelaInstead, Autistic-Centered Therapy has 4 main components:* Autistic interpersonal therapy - Focused on encouraging Autistics to genuinely be themselves, pursue special interests, openly stim, infodump, etc without judgment. This often requires unlearning and healing internalized ableism.* Autistic trauma work - Processing past trauma from rejection, criticism, assault etc that Autistics face, through an autism-affirming, non-judgmental lens, that takes into account the unique, highly embodied, ways that Autistics process information and experiences. * Advocacy work - Helping autistics advocate for their personal needs as well as spreading awareness and fighting back against ableist systems, more broadly.* "Automotive maintenance" - Guiding Autistics on better understanding and caring for their sensory needs, setting healthy boundaries, managing energy levels/burnout etc., and otherwise tending to their ‘Autistic meat bodies.'“Autistic people, we don't need therapy because we're Autistic - because being Autistic is perfectly fine; it's a neurotype. - We need therapy because we are often anxious and depressed from living in a world that doesn't understand us.” - MattThe hosts share some positive examples of how their podcast and approach has helped Autistic individuals as well as relationships where one or more partner is Autistic.How do you practice Autistic advocacy? Tell us in the comments or use #AutisticCultureCatch on social media!From Matt's website: * AuCT Autistic Centered Therapy * Learn Play Thrive Contacts recommended by Matt:* Amy Haesler, LMSW, at Precision Mental Health in Marylandemail: Amy@precisionmh.comphone: 443-863-9441* Rachel Kraus at Kraus Psychotherapy* Amanda Besinger at Kind Therapy and Wellness in Chicago.Social media isn't very up to date but…Facebook and Instaemail: amanda@kiNDchicago.com* Dr Kade Sharp at Spectrum CounselingPlay next:Episode 36: Bad Autism DiagnosisEpisode 13: Labels & AutismEpisode 14: Autistic Medical NeedsEpisode 21: Dino Nuggets are AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Follow our Instagram* Give us a review on Apple podcasts and Spotify* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's FB group Autistic Connections Facebook Group* Follow Angela on Twitter and TikTok* “Add to cart” in our merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss how cats exhibit behaviors and traits that align with Autistic experiences. They compare cat quirks like sensory preferences, need for routines, communication styles, strong stress response, and special interests to common Autistic traits and experiences.They explain how cats are particular about their surroundings and preferences, similar to how many Autistic children and adults prefer set routines in predictable environments. Cats also communicate in their own way that is understandable to those who take the time to learn it. Cats can even use AAC devices to communicate more clearly.“And this is a big thing about non-speakers, because non-speaking does not mean non-thinking. Non-speakers often have lots and lots that they're thinking about…And the world is incredibly biased against the non-speakers of the world because for some reason we think that the ability to ramble on about nonsense is an indicator of intelligence.” —MattThe hosts highlight famous Autistic-coded cats in media, including Garfield, Hello Kitty, the Cat in the Hat, and Hobbes from Calvin and Hobbes. They analyze how these cat characters represent aspects of Autistic Culture.“(Garfield) does not like any disruptions to his routine. He values comfortable and familiar environments. He eats the same food—it might not be the food you expect…” —AngelaThroughout the episode, the hosts use examples of cat behavior to criticize ABA therapy (Applied Behavior Analysis) and argue that Autistic people, like cats, should be accepted for who they naturally are, and not forced to conform to allistic expectations and norms. They relate this to expecting a cat to act like a dog.Overall, the hosts showcase cats as an emblem of Autistic culture and experience. They celebrate cat tendencies while arguing that Autistic people and their needs deserve the same appreciation and accommodation of their innate traits.Which Autistic cat traits resonate with you? Share in the comments!* Kathy Hoopmann's website* Video: How I Taught My Cat to Talk | Beginner Tutorial* Video: Cat Kicks Boyfriend out of the House* Video: Where Dad? Billi SpeaksListen to next:* Episode 08: Peanuts is Autistic* Episode 32: Animation is Autistic* Book Club #01: DoppelgangerReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Autistic Culture Instagram* Visit our merch shop* Give us a review on Apple podcasts and Spotify!* Matt Lowry, LPP* Join Matt's Autistic Connections Facebook Group* Write a book with Angela at Difference Press* Say hi to Angela on Twitter and TikTok This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Autistic podcast hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discusses the TV show Bob's Burgers and how the show and its character represent Autistic culture.They go through the main characters like Bob, Linda (the parents), Tina, Gene, Louise, (the children) and Teddy and analyze their behaviors, interests, speech patterns, and social interactions that resonate with Autistic culture and experiences.For example, Tina's Autistic accent, people pleasing, difficulty speaking, and passionate interest in horses reflect common Autistic traits in girls. Gene's deep need for musical expression as well as his echolalia, speaks to many Autistic people, especially those who are sensory seeking.“But many of his plot lines revolve around wanting to do self-expression and being frustrated that people don't understand the way he expresses himself.”—MattLouise, who is perhaps the least Autistic-coded of the characters, still demonstrates PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy), monotropic focus, and the Autistic desire to wear the same—sometimes “quirky”—clothes every day. (For the superfans out there: Yes, Matt gets a little caught up in the excitement of info dumping and calls Louise, ‘Tina'—it happens! TACP is dedicated to AUTHENTIC Autistic representation and this is an excellent example of how Autistics can forget things that allistics think we ‘should' remember, especially when routines are off and social obligations are high—such as during the holiday season, when this episode was recorded. Autistics forgetting things isn't a sign that we ‘don't care'—Matt clearly cares a great deal about the show and its characters. It's just a sign that we're dealing with a lot at the moment and could use a little extra understanding and acceptance. #AutisticCultureCatch).They go on to discuss Autistic stereotypes versus humanized, nuanced portrayals in media. The hosts believe the creator intentionally includes Autistic characters based on his previous shows.Matt and Angela highlight relatable Autistic experiences like special interests, social differences, meltdowns, and how the Belcher family handles life. They feel the show normalizes Autistic traits.A: And also, so great, like not stereotyping because there are all these different types of people just showing how diverse (Autistic) people are.M: If an uninformed person wanted to make a character Autistic, they would be like Sheldon from Big Bang Theory and just take some tropes and some stereotypes, throw them together and call it a day. But again, this makes a much more humanized view of us.Overall, they examine how Bob's Burgers provides representation and relatable characters that many in the Autistic community connect with. The hosts agree the show resonates as a sitcom about Autistic characters in an Autistic family.Angela shares about a viral discussion that got started because of an online review. In the comments, tell us which Autistic strengths make us naturally exceptional reviewers and what YOU would be especially good at reviewing.* Article: Autistic Representation in Bob's Burgers (2011): Give ‘em something shiitake about* Bob's Burger Burger Book* Article: Roland the Farter* Twitter/X link: Keith Lee * Episode 18 - Ponies are Autistic* Episode 19: Eminem is Autistic* Episode 29: Questlove is Autistic* Episode 32: Animation is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Check us out on Instagram* Give us 5 stars on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's group: Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Get more of Angela on Twitter and TikTok* The Autistic Culture Podcast's merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, are joined by Autistic guest, Maisie Soetantyo, who talks about her former experience working in ABA (applied behavioral analysis) therapy, and being unable to shake the feeling that something wasn't right with trying to make Autistic kids fit a neurotypical mold.She shifted to using a neurodiversity-affirming relationship-based approach instead, helping families support their Autistic children by trusting their own intuitions as parents. Maisie emphasizes allowing Autistic children to nurture their interests and passions instead of redirecting them. This helps build their identity and eventually guides them toward careers.“And people keep wanting to put autistic and neurodivergent people in boxes and tell us what to do. And so my mission has always been about educating…How to shift that mindset when you are in the presence of an Autistic person, because otherwise you're missing out, and the world is missing out.” —MaisieThere is pressure on parents of newly diagnosed Autistic children to follow “expert” advice, but they need to reconnect with their own instincts and recognize the insidious nature of institutions that prioritize profits over people. Forcing children to be someone they are not is traumatic, and ultimately, is unsuccessful anyway.“So specific to autism, we say autism is a dynamic disability, where not just every day is different—moment to moment is different.” —MaisieMaisie co-runs Autism Career Pathways, connecting Autistic adults with families raising Autistic kids, and educating the wider community.Meaningful employment looks different for everyone. She advises Autistic people looking for sustainable careers to invest in learning about themselves from Autistic lived-experience resources (books, blogs, etc.), find community, and define ideal work conditions for their needs. Self-advocacy starts with knowing yourself.For businesses hiring Autistics, she urges them not to underestimate Autistics or to make snap judgements based on ableist stereotypes. Neurodivergent people can offer heightened creative skills and problem solving (among other things) if given the right opportunities and accommodations.They discuss the need for more paid Autistic-led advocacy instead of expecting Autistic advocates to work for free. Autistics need to value their skills and resist being exploited.Maisie's favorite thing about being Autistic is her constant creative flow of ideas and ability to connect with all kinds of people—a skill she learned by being raised in a neurodivergent household.Maisie shared about her neurodivergent family and upbringing. In the comments, tell us which aspects of Autistic culture played a strong, positive role in your childhood.* Find Maisie and her work at www.autismcareerpathways.org* Twitter thread on Autistic experts* The highly ableist (and fascinating train wreck) “Recruiting Giants” presentationListen to next:* Episode 13: Labels & Autism* Episode 24: The Trouble with Temple* Episode 36: Bad Autism Diagnosis* Episode 38: Productivity is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela's social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP dive into the Hulu original TV show, “Only Murders in the Building,” and its positive portrayal of Autistic culture. This hilarious and intriguing whodunnit created by Steve Martin and writer/actor John Hoffman is filled with Autistic characters who are oh-so relatable!They analyze the Autistic traits of the main characters Charles (Steve Martin), Oliver (Martin Short), and Mabel (Selena Gomez), including special interests, sensory differences, pattern recognition, Autistic scripting, Autistic accents, and Autistic masking.“He is getting ready to go on a date and we see him scripting over and over again and then thinking, ‘I don't have the script down, so maybe I just will cancel my date'…Raise your hand if this sounds familiar.” —AngelaThe hosts highlight how the characters bond over their shared interests in true crime podcasts and solving murders, demonstrating how Autistic people often connect with people outside of their age group through special interests.They praise how the show respects and utilizes the robust knowledge of the "superfan" characters, rather than making fun of them.Other notable portrayals of Autistic adults are discussed, including: Howard, Poppy, Tim Kono, and Cindy Canning (played by Tina Fey, who the hosts discuss as having many Autistic traits herself).The hosts point out realistic Autistic experiences shown like Autistic burnout, executive functioning differences, and misunderstandings in relationships.“Even those of us who trained in psychology, it hits us because, again, we have learned, we have been taught throughout our entire lives, that our needs are ‘excessive,' that we ‘over-think,' that we ‘over-feel,' that we are ‘too much,' so we must compromise to fit other people into our lives.”—MattMatt and Angela conclude that the show insightfully explores many facets of Autistic culture through multifaceted Autistic characters.This episode, Angela shared about at least two popular aspects of Autistic food culture. In the comments, tell us which Autistic food habits you picked up on, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media!* Article: Only Murders in the Building is Autistic: Here's how these characters are neurodivergent coded and how it makes them good detectives* Article: The Cast of 'Only Murders in the Building': Everything to Know* Facebook page for AANE's Fall 2023 Virtual Daniel W. Rosenn Connections Conference* AANE's main Facebook pageSimilar episodes:* Episode 11: Sherlock is Autistic* Episode 12: Parks & Rec is Autistic* ‘The Kinsey episode': Episode 35: Sex is Autistic* Episode 17: Wednesday is Autistic?* Episode 31: Chess is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Our Instagram* Give us a review on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's socials: Twitter and TikTok* Our TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss tennis legend John McEnroe and his many Autistic traits.McEnroe had an impressive tennis career, utilizing Autistic pattern recognition to anticipate where the ball would go. He visualized the court like a chess board and said he turned the game into a math equation. The hosts further relate this to expectation sensitivity and Autistic scripting.He was misunderstood for his on-court meltdowns reacting to unfair calls by referees. The media unjustly portrayed him as a "brat" and one of the most disliked people in the world—harsh!“Because all autistic people, we have that expectation sensitivity, because we live in a world full of chaos and we need things to be predictable. Hence the patterns.” —MattIn reality, the Autistic athlete is extremely empathetic and generous, donating huge sums to charity. He's loyal to friends and passionate about causes like youth tennis programs.His wife, Patty, believes he is on the autism spectrum based on his routines, math skills, sensory issues, and focus on special interests like art and guitar. McEnroe agrees it's likely.“Patty is there for it, 28 years, great kids, great marriage and she says the thing that keeps their marriage strong is that she can always count on the fact that no one has a better moral compass than John.” —AngelaThe hosts argue McEnroe's meltdowns were a natural reaction to an allistic world that insists on conformity and compliance over truth and justice. Perhaps, if the media had used a neurodiversity-affirming lens, he could have avoided being labeled so negatively.Now in his later years, the Autistic celebrity leads a happy life with a partner who understands him. He channels special interests positively into tennis programs, art deals, and (his latest Autistic activity) voiceover work.Did you catch all of McEnroe's Autistic SPINs? In the comments, tell us which Autistic interests you picked up on, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!* McEnroe's memoir: But Seriously* eBook: You Cannot Be Serious : McEnroe, John, Kaplan, James* Autistic people have big emotions—YouTube video: The Meltdown of all Meltdowns* Article: John McEnroe: Star not he possibility of being Autistic, ‘I'm somewhere around there' * Article: Review: In McEnroe, the Tennis Great Reflects on a Career Driven by His Exacting Strategy and Explosive Temper | Third Coast Review* NPR episode: John McEnroe grapples with his legacy as tennis' bad boy * Visual: McEnroe's Warhol painting* Article: McEnroe's Charity Work Begins Off Court * McEnroe's voice work website* Article: A Point in Time: McEnroe and the puff of chalkListen to next:McEnroe loves chess and we know why! Episode 31: Chess is Autistic McEnroe's looking to break into voice over work and he'll have plenty of company when he makes it: Episode 32: Animation is Autistic Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Check us out on Instagram* Find us on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Learn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook Group* Learn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's social media: Twitter and TikTok* TACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela E. Lauria is the founder of The Author Incubator™ and creator of the Difference Process™ for writing a book that matters. In 2018, The Author Incubator was ranked #275 on the Inc. 500 fastest-growing companies and #87 on Entrepreneur Magazine's Entrepreneur 360. Angela won the Stevie Award's Coach/Mentor of the Year Award and her program, The Author's Way, was named Coaching Program of the Year and she was named by Entrepreneur Magazine as one of the top 10 most inspiring entrepreneurs to watch – one of only 2 women.  I've seen Angela's work online for years as we've circled each other around various mutual friends. For a while now I've had a sense that she could be a really great guest for the show. Then, about a year ago I started noticing how she was showing up differently online. She talked really openly about her autism diagnosis at age 39. She was writing incredible posts about how she experiences the world as a person with autism. I have learned so much from her. So, I finally reached out to ask her to come join us in the SMA. I am so grateful she said yes. This is an incredible conversation.  Listen in to hear Angela share: What led to her autism diagnosis at the age of 39 How her diagnosis allowed her to feel like she could finally start her life and her career  What masking is and how people with various neurodivergences mask in order to fit into the world How she learned to set boundaries to self-regulate in a world that's not designed for people with autism Why labeling autism or any neurodivergence or a person with disabilities or differences as a person with superpowers is inappropriate and leads to “inspiration porn” How the brain of a person with autism differs from an the brain of an allistic (non-autistic) person in terms of how the brain integrates information What self-care might look like for a person with autism - and how it looks very different than self-care for allistic people Links mentioned: Work with Angela: Differencepress.com Book: It. Goes. So. Fast: The Year of No Do Overs by Mary Louise Kelly Angela's Podcast: The Autistic Culture Podcast  Angela's Personal FB FB/IG/TikTok/LinkedIn: @differencepress We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://shamelessmom.com/sponsor Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at sales@adalystmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Halloween!Autistic hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, are talking all things Tim Burton! While he hasn't shared about a formal autism diagnosis, Burton publicly identifies as Autistic, which is no surprise to the Autistic community, based on his creative style, tendency to work repeatedly with the same actors he connects with, and stories that center misunderstood outsiders. Burton was fascinated by classic monster movies as a kid and felt he related to the "monsters" for being different—something Autistic individuals know all about! Growing up, he enjoyed dedicated, creative expression by making homemade monster movies.Burton struggled in school and was considered a bad student. He may have had dyslexia (or, perhaps, a similar reading difference that is unique to the Autistic hyper-connected brain) which made reading difficult.“I've seen some people who are genuinely dyslexic—because it's an issue with rods and cones and they can make glasses and all this other sort of stuff—but, a lot of autistic people, our ‘meat eyeballs' don't move as fast as our lightning fast brains. So we sort of skip over words and letters and our brain fills in the blanks, and it may not be accurate.” —MattBurton had trouble connecting with his father who didn't understand his creative interests. His mother owned an artsy cat-themed gift shop which likely influenced him as a child and his later career as an adult.After being fired by Disney for making Frankenweenie (considered too dark), Burton connected with Paul Reubens who asked him to direct Pee-Wee's Big Adventure based on seeing Burton's short film Vincent.Many of Burton's films feature misunderstood outcasts and themes of feeling like a misfit (Edward Scissorhands, Beetlejuice, Ed Wood, etc). He gravitates towards other Hollywood eccentrics and outsiders—many of whom we think might also be on the autism spectrum.Burton works repeatedly with the same actors like Johnny Depp and Helena Bonham Carter who "get" his Autistic communication style. He has called his relationships an "unwritten language."“But I never really thought of it from like, if you have an autistic communication style, there will be fewer people who naturally get you, just percentage wise. And so when you find people who get you, whether they're allistic or autistic, it's like, can I stick with the people who get me? Because it's so tiring otherwise.” —AngelaBurton has sometimes struggled creatively when pressured to make big moneymakers, but when left to his own creative process, he makes movies that become wildly popular cult-classics with strong followings, especially in the Autistic community.*TW: This episode was recorded prior to the allegations against Danny Elfman broke.  TACP stands with victims of assault and wish the Autistic community comfort and healing as we grapple with our feelings, both individually and collectively.  Please, take care.At 06:40 Angela figures something out—what is it, and what clues from Matt led her to that discovery?* Silent horror film that influenced Burton's work: The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari (1920) on YouTube: 51 minutes* Tim Burton's Wikipedia page.Related episodes…Who invented motion pictures? This Autistic artist! Motion Pictures are Autistic Was Walt Disney Autistic? We think so! Episode 26: Disney is Autistic Whether you relate to the book-loving beauty or the isolated beast, check out Episode 34: Beauty & the Beast is Autistic Burton's recent Netflix show features an Autistic character…or does it? We get into it, in Episode 17: Wednesday is Autistic? Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Check us out on Instagram* Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt on Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's Twitter and TikTok* TACP's TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

By popular request, a minisode (mini-episode)! TACP's Actually Autistic podcast hosts, Matt Lowry, LPP, and Dr. Angela Lauria, provide updates relating to Dungeons & Dragons, Doctor Who, Star Wars, and Sherlock Holmes. Angela and Matt discuss Autistic actor Peter Cushing, who connects all four interests popular among people on the autism spectrum (and provides additional insights about Autistic productivity). Cushing starred in two 1960s Doctor Who films, played Grand Moff Tarkin in Star Wars, portrayed Sherlock Holmes, and was an avid player of the H.G. Wells game "War," which inspired Dungeons & Dragons.The hosts share how Cushing handcrafted over 2,000 miniature soldiers and models for playing "War." Which speaks to Autistic Culture's love of collecting, and skills with modeling, strategy games, and imaginative play.Matt and Angela discuss how poor mental health led to a “SPIN drop”: when Autistic people lose connection with a SPIN or special interest (a part of who we are), and experience intense grief similar to experiencing a death.Angela: And so when you lose a SPIN, it is like losing a part of yourself.Matt: Yeah, these things make us who we are. These things help us with our identity.Cushing's story speaks to Autistic individuals and exemplifies Autistic Culture through his creative hobbies, special interests, and impressive collections.Do you want more minisodes? What do you want to hear Matt or Angela give a quick infodump on?* Facebook post with pictures of Peter Cushings models* The Peter Cushing Doctor Who Movie Appreciation Group* The Peter Cushing Association Facebook group * Want to learn about more Autistic activities? Episode 39: Dungeons & Dragons is Autistic * Why do Autistics work in bursts? Check out Episode 38: Productivity is Autistic* One of the Autistic community's favorite Autistic characters: Episode 30: Doctor Who is Autistic* What does an Autism-friendly workplace look like? Episode 04: Industrial Light & Magic is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* TACP's Instagram* Follow us on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's Twitter and TikTok* Our merch shop! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP discuss how tabletop roleplaying games like Dungeons & Dragons appeal to many autistic people due to the game's intricate rule systems, statistics, and logic. D&D allows autistics to socialize with confidence in a structured, inclusive environment of shared world-building.They explain how D&D provides a space for Autistic strengths like monotropic focus, special interests, pattern recognition, and world-building to take center stage. The design of the game encourages players to embrace differences rather than mask them, including a recent introduction of a canonically Autistic character!Historic moral panics around D&D are highlighted as examples of misunderstandings and ableism towards autistic interests. The hosts see the game's recent mainstream popularity as a shift towards acceptance.“Because of ableists in society, anything we do is inherently wrong because we are not like them and we don't do the things that they do. And they are going to find reasons to criticize anything we do for us being different from them.” —Matt They note famous examples of D&D's popularity in media, including the show Stranger Things. The character-building and communal storytelling aspects of the game—which play to Autistic strengths—are emphasized.“I am a non-fiction reader and a big part of why…is I don't have a picture-things-in-your-mind's-eye gene, and a lot of fiction sort of requires—to enjoy it—that you can imagine the scene. So for me, one of the things I've always liked about D&D is you can say to your—especially if you have a good DM—'What is that? Tell me more about that feature, that trait, or that thing.'” —AngelaThe podcast hosts conclude D&D allows autistics to socialize and build community safely and effectively. Families of autistic individuals can better understand intense interests in gaming as tools for connection. There is great value in embracing neurodiversity.Who's your character in D&D? Do you have a multi-year game going?* Superheroes are Autistic - Episode 28 which discusses Conan the Barbarian* The Trouble With Temple - Episode 24 which discusses Temple Grandin* D&D players save the world on Netflix's Stranger Things* Little Wars: A Game for Boys of Twelve Years of Age to One Hundred and Fifty and for that More Intelligent Sort of Girl Who Likes Boys' Games and Books* Study: Screen time and diagnoses of anxiety and depression in autistic versus neurotypical youth* The Ancient Origins of Dice * A Dice Tower from Richborough * Dice History, Invention & Games* Rise of the Dungeon Master - Gary Gygax and the Creation of D&D: graphic-novel biography* Inside the 40 Year-Long Dungeons & Dragons Game : Youtube(10 mins 44 secs)* Dungeons & Dragons introduces its first canonically autistic character* How autism powers my D&D: D&D allows me to connect with my friends in a way I couldn't before * Therapeutic social confidence building game: Critical CoreRelated episodes…Want to learn about more Autistic activities popular among children and adults? Episodes 16: Pokémon is Autistic and Episode 31: Chess is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Follow our Instagram* Give us a glowing review on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Angela's social media: Twitter and TikTok* TACP's Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Join Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP as they discuss the popular self-help book, "Atomic Habits," by James Clear, and how its behaviorist approach to habit formation does not work for autistic people (children or adults) and share a more neuro-affirming approach to productivity.They explain how autistic people take a ‘hard pass' on synaptic pruning, which makes forming unconscious habits difficult—if not impossible. Autistic individuals need to consciously think through actions—sometimes, even breathing! This makes typical “habit stacking” techniques ineffective and potentially harmful.“Because we don't weed out our synapses, studies have shown, that we do not make habits. Everything we do has to be a conscious effort.” —MattThe hosts critique the high value neurotypical society puts on productivity, which makes NTs happy to profit off of autistic hyperfocusing, but unwilling to accommodate autistic work needs or recovery from burnout. They also discuss how internalizing ableist ideas related to hyper-productivity affects autistic mental health and wellbeing.“And this fits very nicely in America—into our Puritan work ethic: the bootstraps, the productivity gospel, the idea that your value is tied to your productivity. And so when we're being super productive in our special interest, we feel good. And, when we are in a place where we can't—I don't know—remember to brush our teeth, or take our medicine, or go to the gym, or drink water, then we feel like, oh, we are worthless. We are less valuable as humans.” —AngelaThey recommend embracing autistic monotropism—specializing in Flow states around special interests when possible, while resting and practicing self-care at other times. Rigid schedules and habits often backfire and lead to meltdowns and Autistic burnout.Tips include working from home, taking midday naps and breaks, avoiding energy deficit, and asking for accommodations. Simple tools, such as providing visual aids and reminders, are easy ways that others can help support the autistic community.The podcast hosts conclude that productivity looks different in Autistic Culture but can be achieved by honoring autistic ways of being, and not forcing neurotypical norms that cause distress. Greater acceptance of diversity is needed.How do you honor unmasked, authentic Autistic productivity? Tell us in the comments!* This American Life on Smoking * If Books Could Kill: Atomic Habits * Why Doesn't Standard Talking Therapy Work for Autistic People?* Recruiting Giants - Alex St. John Related episodes…Episode 13: Labels & Autism and learn about a neurodiversity affirming workplace in…Episode 04: Industrial Light & Magic Apple is Autistic - Episode #7, which discusses NT culture capitalizing on Autistic productivity, and then failing to accommodate and include less “profitable” Autistic traits and needs.Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!* Follow us on Instagram* Leave us some stars on Apple podcasts and Spotify* Matt Lowry, LPP* Matt's social media: Autistic Connections Facebook Group* AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press* Follow Angela on Twitter and TikTok* Our Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe