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The theory goes that there are only six degrees of separation between any two people. However, there’s just one line of humanity. We live in a world that thrives on diversity and difference, we put up walls and borders, we stick to what we know and what is comfortable… We thrive on pointing out thos…

Hannah Pillow


    • Jul 20, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 37m AVG DURATION
    • 65 EPISODES


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    S7 E4: Confronting Racism: Unmasking the Subtle Realities of Discrimination

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2023 58:39


    What if there was a way to realise the subtle nuances in intolerance and ignorance? Join 2 brown girls one South African the other British, as they deep dive into experiences of racism and ignorance as multicultural women of color.In this episode, we dive deep into the complex issue of racism and its subtle manifestations. Our guest, Bola, shares her personal experiences and reflections on growing up in the UK.Racism becomes the ‘Norm'Bola highlights how racism can be deeply ingrained in society, often going unnoticed or dismissed as the norm. She discusses the importance of education and awareness, acknowledging that as children, we may not have been fully aware of the racism around us. However, as we grow older, we start to realize the significance of racial issues and the need for education and understanding.Breaking free from the cycle of IgnoranceThe conversation delves into the sensitive topic of racial segregation in South Africa, where Hannah shares stories of maids being treated differently and the separation of people based on race. She emphasizes the importance of breaking free from such molds and expanding our perspectives to embrace diversity and different cultures.Having the tough conversations with loveBola and our host, Hannah, reflect on their own experiences and acknowledge the need for open dialogue and uncomfortable conversations about racism. They recognize the discomfort and defensiveness that often arise when discussing race, but emphasize the importance of facing these issues head-on.Tune in to hear this thought-provoking discussion on the complexities of racism, the need for education and awareness, and the importance of embracing diversity. Let's keep the conversation going and strive for a more inclusive and understanding society."Racism is subtle and sometimes you do not realize or others do not realize they are being racist because they just see it as that's the way it is. And that's why I think it's complex and it's not so easy to define. Because it has made it so complex."Bola, The Refreshingly Human Podcast, S7 E4

    S7 E3: Cherry-Picking Identity: Embracing Multicultural Upbringing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2023 50:29


    Did you ever really think about the implications on our identity growing up in a different country from the generations before us?Crossing the boundaries of culture can present significant challenges for children as they navigate the experience of being immersed in one culture at home while encountering a distinct culture in their broader environment. This situation often results in varying expectations and role models, which can send conflicting messages about social norms and have a complex impact on the development of one's identity.In this episode of "Refreshingly Human," Hannah engages in a conversation with TJ Wey about her upbringing in America as the child of immigrant parents. They discuss how zhe learned to selectively adopt aspects of zir family heritage and the dominant culture, emphasizing the following points:The profound impact of encountering racial profiling and micro-aggressions from a young age.The process of reconciling conflicting information about societal expectations as we grow up and its influence on our identity development.The significance of the #VeryAsian movement, which encourages individuals to embrace their Asian identity to the extent they desire and selectively incorporate elements from various sources.The changing landscape for multicultural children in terms of available resources that aid in integrating their diverse cultural backgrounds. "My Mom would say that I was her retirement plan. That's where I felt like I really had to unpick it. Because it's really easy to say, 'Here are the parameters to be a good Asian,' and follow that. However, when it starts hindering you from pursuing your own aspirations, you have to ask yourself, 'Okay, which aspects of this framework aren't serving me, and how can I forge my own path?'"TJ Wey, The Refreshingly Human Podcast, S7 E3

    S7 E2: How I moved to England and realised I was brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2023 12:39


    Have you had a conversation about the color of your skin growing up?Hannah Pillow did not, because she grew up in South Africa, where the color of her skin was ‘Normal'. But she soon discovered that in England, Brown meant: Different.Hannah sheds light on her journey from South Africa to England and the realization of her identity as a brown person.Growing up in a multicultural bubble: Hannah reflects on her upbringing in South Africa, where she belonged to a close-knit Indian South African community. Despite living in a country with a majority of people of color, she highlights the remnants of the damaging apartheid era that still linger, shaping the cultural dynamics within the society.The Burden of Otherness: Moving to England introduced Hannah to new experiences of being "othered" by both individuals of her own race and British people. Curiosity and Tokenism: Joining a white family through marriage, Hannah encountered curiosity about their culture, often feeling like a representative of all brown people, which she felt was too much to place on her.Join Hannah in this thought-provoking and entertaining podcast as we embark on a journey of self-discovery, cultural exploration, and candid conversations. Through personal anecdotes and insightful discussions, Hannah aims to challenge stereotypes, promote empathy, and celebrate the vibrant tapestry of humanity. Share your own experiences of prejudice and racism, and let's create a space where diverse voices can be heard. Tune in to the Refreshingly Human Podcast, and together, let's break barriers and embrace our shared humanity.

    S7 E1 How I overcame expectation of being the perfect little brown girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2023 51:58


    Have you also experienced growing up in a community that strongly emphasized cultural identity?For those of us who have, we learned from an early age the societal roles and expectations imposed upon us as girls and women. Breaking free from those predetermined notions and discovering our authentic selves can be a lengthy process.In Hannah's case, this exploration led her to distance herself from her family, husband, and country of birth, embarking on a solo journey.Hannah Pillow engages in a conversation with TJ Wey, delving into her transformative quest for liberation, which involved breaking away from an Islamic family, becoming an entrepreneur in her chosen country, and establishing a company that empowers women to embrace greater freedom and possibility worldwide. Key elements of her narrative encompass:Growing up within an Islamic family, navigating cultural expectations for women, and navigating her complex relationship with her mother.Opting for marriage as a means of escaping her family, only to find herself trapped in another unhealthy environment.Emancipating herself from her cultural background through divorce and renouncing her religious affiliation.Discovering a genuine escape route by secretly pursuing a teaching qualification and acquiring a visa to leave her home country.Returning to her childhood surroundings with a life and identity she can genuinely be proud of, having crafted it on her own terms."There was very little room for me to be a human being growing up. There were so many things that weren't allowed because of this controlled environment that I was growing up in, because reputation was so important within the community. And reputation would often be disguised as wanting the best for me because of religion; that came with a lot of expectations that I had to be a clone of my mother. This is basically the influence of what I should be.” Hannah Pillow,S7 E1, Refreshingly HumanKeep up to date with Hannah and the podcast:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/releasingtheshouldspodcast/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/HannahPillow12

    9: How to Mentally prepare yourself when going to visit the family as a black sheep.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 21:18


    Do we need to tolerate our families' choices, opinions and mindset issues as the Blacksheep and rebels? Look, every family has a Blacksheep, or two, or three, but does that mean we need to accept the labels and boxes that are put on us? How do we go back to the family and hold space for our badass selves? In this episode I will give you 4 steps on dealing with your family as the Blacksheep and rebel so that you can go home and return feeling like the fucking badass that you are and not feeling like you need to apologize for who you are! Leave us a review on iTunes here to help us become the #1 podcast for rebels and Blacksheep: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/refreshingly-human/id1473583656 Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refreshinglyhumanpodcast/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HannahPillow12 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    8: Antidepressants: A no shame game

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2021 23:49


    https://linktr.ee/refreshinglyhuman ‘I felt like a failure, I felt like I failed being a human because I needed this pill' I missed an important exam, I had a car full of hijabs to help keep my mother of my back, I had tension headaches and chest pains… I needed help. This is my experience with taking anti-depressants, let's remove the shame of needing medical help to assist our mental health. Loving the podcast? Leave us a rating and review here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/refreshingly-human/id1473583656 Flashback episode with CBT practitioner Sarah: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/episodes/S3-E9-Emotions-All-your-feelings-are-Valid--With-CBT-Practitioner-Sarah-Kilcullen-ene65c --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    7: Haunting of Hill house: Why I cried in the Luke Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 20:46


    Luke's episode on the Haunting of Hill house made me cry…. I get so emotional when I watch both Luke AND Nellie's episodes. In this episode I dive into how I can relate both characters and their ghosts to my own life? Let us know who you relate to and why on Instagram @Refreshinglyhumanpodcast Facebook: Refreshingly human podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    6: The Blacksheeps Greatest comeback

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 28:16


    When you lose everything at a young age, how do you get it all back? Madara explains how she became the blacksheep of her family, decided to have a baby at 16 as she craved her own family after losing her parents at a very young age. How did she heal and come back from that? Tune in to find out https://linktr.ee/refreshinglyhuman Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    5: What happens when we let people down

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 52:43


    Do you struggle with the fear of disappointing others? Perhaps others are letting you down? BK, the amazing and open Cohost of BK Spadez Podcast, gets real about what it felt like when he let his family down by STANDING UP for himself and how he found his way back to them. Bk Speaks to an important issue of putting ourselves and our mental health FIRST, before allowing the aggravators back into our lives and facing them. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    Our Blacksheep Experience

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 51:01


    What does it feel like to be the Blacksheep of the family? In today's episode, Novocaine and Hannah deep dive into what it actually feels like to be the Blacksheep and how they climbed up from being made to feel like they were not good enough. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    Throwback Episode: S3 E1: Emotions: Why we feel what we feel? with CBT practitioner Sarah Kilcullen

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2021 41:22


    You are living in a global pandemic; your fear center is going whackadoodle.' Some wise words from CBT practitioner Sarah Kilcullen. This pandemic has taken its toll on us, emotions can seem amplified beyond our control. Have you been able to identify your feelings? Are you feeling overwhelmed? Even without the pandemic, we live with a wide spectrum of emotions daily, can you identify how you are feeling at any given time? Do you know why we feel that way? Join me and Sarah Kilcullen as we delve into the emotions, fear, shame and joy in this episode of Feel the feels to learn more about some of our everyday emotions. You can find Sarah here: https://greendoortherapy.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/greendoor_therapy/ Instagram: Breakthroughthis Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    3: Why resilience is so important

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2021 34:53


    Do you consider yourself a resilient person? Why do you think resilience is so important? In this episode, Hannah and Laurie share some great examples of resilience and why it's so important to fail fast to succeed faster. Find Hannah on Instagram @breakthroughthis --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    2: It's Okay To Change Your Mind

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 24:11


    Do you guilt yourself for changing your mind? What emotions come up when you find an idea is not working and you might need to change course? In this Episode Laurie and I dive into how changing course can be the start of that million-dollar idea! The phrase ‘Fail fast and fail hard' is so commonly used, we will put meaning behind this and show you why failure is THE option. Find out more about Hannah Pillow and Breakthrough journals here: https://hannahpillow.lpages.co/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    1: Imposter syndrome is tied to our childhood

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2021 25:25


    Tell me about your childhood' is every therapist's go-to question and there's a reason for that! In this episode we dive into the foundation of Entrepreneur Laurie Mallon, exploring her childhood, the trajectory she followed, and how she feels about it all. This is the episode for all you independent thinkers out there who have experience with imposter syndrome and want to learn why your childhood and trajectory play an important role in breaking you through the next thing. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/breakthroughthis/message

    Let's talk perspective

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2021 30:12


    Let's talk about the lessons I took away from living with a culture that was completely different from mine. This short series will highlight my new line of work. If you are a white person who needs help with cross cultural communication then you can find me on instagram @revolutionaryconversationguru and join an exclusive Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1203299186852321 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    FINALE: Saying goodbye and what is next for Hannah Pillow

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 21:20


    I am saying goodbye on this platform, but I will be on a new platform! To see what's next for me, follow me on @revolutionaryconversationguru on Instagram. New mission Harvesting understanding with cross-cultural communication between family members and close relationships so that we can unite with clarity and understanding. Free webinar on the 21st of June! Dm me for more details! Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    BONUS EPISODE: Why we need to collectively stand up against injustice and how we can do that

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2021 38:24


    There is so much going on in the world, it can leave us feeling drained and hopeless. But I truly beleive that if we pull together collectively as HUMANS we can create immense changes to big injustices. I was asking myself, but what can I do? So I brought on someone, with first hand experience, to share with us the little things that we can do to make a BIG impact. What is the one thing you are going to do to stand up against injustice? Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E11: Hannah Pillow tells you how she learned about Sex. The Hannah Story: Part one

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2021 27:47


    Growing up in a comunity tthat similtanously talks about sex and does not talk about sex at the exact same time can be confusing. In this episode I get into the details of how I learned about sex, and trust me, it's not what you think. Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E10: Amir Yass: Not JUST the Queer Muslim

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 61:05


    Amir Yass identifies himself as the Queer Muslim. Today he openly shared his coming out experience but then we moved a step further to find out who Amir Yass is behind the labels. I can not tell you how much I love this guy, he is Refreshingly real, passionate and such a kind human being. What is the one thing that surprised you about Amir? You can find Amir here: https://www.instagram.com/amiryassofficial/ Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E9: Navigating communication in an ever-changing world. With Leanne Matthews and Hannah Pillow

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 42:34


    We live in a world that is consistently changing, from sex and sexuality to race and culture, how do we keep up? Sex advocate Leanne Matthews and Communications Expert Hannah Pillow put their heads together to brainstorm the best way to communicate about difficult topics and how to navigate a situation where we might have offended someone. You can find Leanne here: https://www.instagram.com/lea_sexpositive/?hl=en Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E8: Getting over sexual shame, with Lee Hopkins

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2021 40:32


    Were you taught to feel shame about sex and your sexuality? Lee Hopkins of the Patterns of possibility podcast, dives deep into how he overcame his shame with sex and sexuality and found his way to being sexually confident. You can find Lee here: https://www.patternsofpossibility.com/coaching Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E7: Slut-shaming and victim-blaming. We won't stand for it. with Amal

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2021 49:26


    Did you grow up in a male dominated culture? Amal and myself dig deep into our experiences growing up in this culture. Amal talks about the deconstructing she had to do and how she claimed her sexuality back after a lifetime of being shamed. You can find Amal here: amalpk755 Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E6: Moving Forward from sexual abuse, identifying as Non-binary and coming out.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 61:49


    Szebastian is the ‘almostNakedCEO’, INTENTIONAL Entrepreneur-Maker, Mental*, Non-Binary Networking Octopus-Human, Multi-Cause Philanthropist, Child-Abuse & Domestic Violence Subscriber and Unapologetic Chimp 3.0 Szebastian gets Refreshingly real and honest about their experience with sexual abuse as a child, their take on moving forward, and shares some valuable advice for anyone in a similar situation. “As far as my parents were concerned they were leaving me with my uncles… The purpose of what they were leaving me with them for, the entire opposite was happening.” – Szebastian Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E5: An expert reveiw of our stories so far, with Sex advocate Leanne Mathews

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 62:26


    Leanne Mathews is a Sex advocate who is so passionate about Sex, open communications around sex and sexual educations. She has years of experience speaking openly about sex, in this episode she finds the line of humanity from our past episodes and sheds important light on the common issues throughout the season so far. We touch on so many important aspects about open communication, such as finding the right person in your social circle to confide in, why open communications about sex is the heart of the issue and how to break stereotypes related to sex. “What you discuss in your social groups can be as important an education as what you learn in school or from your parents.” – Leanne Mathews. Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E4: Has Sex Education gotten even more complicated? With UK teacher: Martin Edwards

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2021 58:55


    Throughout this season we bashed on sex education during our era. So I brought on UK educator Martin Edwards to shine light on what is happening in education now and my god, he blew my mind. Do you think things are getting better or severely more complicated? "We need parents to have these conversations and know what their children are doing online." – Martin Edwards Let us know your biggest takeaway from this episode. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E3:Sex: It's not weird to talk about it, unless you make it weird

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 61:20


    How comfortable are you with speaking about sex? Do you blush when it's brought up or shy away from the topic? Dan gets Refreshingly honest about why he enjoys talking about sex. He also gives some insight to his own inner cirlces relationship with sex, talks about growing up Jewish and identifying as Queer. Can you relate to this episode? Let us know! Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 E2: Religion, masturbation, sexuality and breaking social constructs

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2021 54:29


    Phil gets Refreshingly honest about being a horny teenage boy, how he had to overcome shame related to sexuality and accept his sex drive for what it really is. Can you relate to this episode? Let us know! "I loved having sex, I loved exploring, I loved getting better over time and figuring out what to do.” Phil Drysdale You can find Phil here: https://www.instagram.com/phildrysdale/?hl=en Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message https://www.refreshinglyhuman.co.uk/ Facebook: Refreshingly Human --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S5 S1: How she went from no sex before marriage to sex is an art with Kathy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 31:13


    Is sex before marriage that bad? How has what we were told about sex affected our relationship with sex today? Kathy gets refreshingly open about sex and her own sexual experience. Let us know what you think! "The first time can be so awkward, it was painful..." Kathy, it's all about evolving. You can find Kathy here: https://linktr.ee/itsallaboutevolving/ Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Trailer: Let's talk about sex baby!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 4:45


    Sex, we all do it, well most of us anyway. Are you comfortable talking about sex? Do you have healthy discusions about your sexuality? On season 5 of Refreshingly Human podcast, we talk about Sex Education, we answer sex quesitons and Hannah asks questions that most might be afraid to ask! Season 5 oficially kicks of on the 22nd March 2021! Join us! "The first time can be so awkward, it was painful..." Kathy, it's all about evolving. "I like how you substitute that, my school didn't give me a textbook so I'll go find a real life example." Hannah Pillow, Refreshingly Human. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E9: From Lazy to killing it. Hannah gets real and honest about her road to becoming ambitious.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 30:57


    The Hannah you see today, is not the Hannah that always was. In this episode, I get Refreshingly real about my own journey from being lazy and unmotivated, to finding my path. I’m sure there will be a lot you can relate to in this one. Send me a message to let me know what you thought! Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E8: From homelessness to hypnosis: consciously kicking a crisis' ass. With Doug Sands

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2021 35:48


    In 2020 he lost everything, lived out of the back of a truck, had to start his business from scratch after losing all of his booked events. Doug Sands has a mesmerizing voice, and he uses that to spread a powerful message about hypnosis, survival, and mental health. Tune in to hear the adventures of Doug Sands and learn how he uses hypnosis to heal not just his own trauma, but the trauma of his many clients as well. Find Doug Sands here: Website: www.AnywhereHypnosis.com IG: @ makingyourmeaning Podcast: https://msha.ke/makingmeaning/ Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E7: Lee Hopkins and Hannah Pillow find that line of humanity, without leaving their lounge!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2021 51:53


    From Toxic relationships to losing faith, this is the episode that has it all. I can guarantee that you will find something to relate to in this one. Lee Hopkins, the host of Patterns of Possibilities, tells a story many can relate to. In fact, I myself found so much of common ground with Lee. Find Lee Hopkins here: Website: https://www.patternsofpossibility.com/ IG: @patternsofpossibility YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g Podcast: https://anchor.fm/patternsofpossibility Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E6: Chira discusses atomic habits, are new year resolutions a waste of time and reflecting on 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 30:07


    He had to take risks in 2020 and explore a new Career! Chira has unique insights on creating goals and a different take on money. Tune in to hear what Chira had to say about 2020, atomic goals and if money does buy us happiness. Find Chira here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTAV7PL7gTMPPulYOvqKQoA Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E5: She was attacked by a bear, and she came back stronger! With Holly Jackson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2021 37:30


    She faced a real life bear, and now she uses that experience to motivate, inspire and guide others. Tune in to her how Holly Jackson turned her life around as is now motivated to inspire others and change the world! Find Holly Jackson here: https://hollyjeanjackson.com/speaking/ Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E4: Feel your way to your goals in 2021! With Cathy Kamau

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 45:11


    Imagine if you could be so in tune with your emotions that you could feel your way to your goals. Cathy, a life coach who has experience with feeling her way to her own goals, gives us deep insight on how we can use emotions as a tool to reach our goals. Hannah talks about how we should scratch new year resolutions and start whenever we want! Find Cathy here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdwajuwJP6Yy49aB45855Ig?view_as=subscriber Social Media Links instagram @cnkmotivation Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E3: What does 'coming out' mean to you? Featuring The Coming out coaches

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 67:11


    Coming out has a very specific meaning in this day and age. However, coaches Vanessa and Lucie found that the term Coming out can be applied to everyone! Have you ever thought about what this means in your own life? Tune in to hear some amazing insight from these ladies as they discuss coming out, health, mental fitness and how to create sustainable goals. Find The Coming out coaches here: https://thecomingoutcoaches.com/ Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E2: New years Eve is not a magic spell

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2021 40:51


    New Year's Eve comes with many expectations and it fills us with new hopes and expectations. There's nothing wrong with that, we all need hope, but New years, is not a magic spell. We need to process and deal with things instead of chucking them away in the new year. Life continues. Join Hannah as she reflects on this important point. Daniel and Amal pop in to reflect on their year, how they survived and thrived, and all that they have learned. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com Find Daniel Mathia here: Facebook: thewanderingears website: thewanderingear.com instagram, twitter: dannymathia Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1FVTorq0Spx7cXYzLwemJB?si=lq2otAiISlGg7-u1lkJJHA https://anchor.fm/thewanderingear --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    S4 E1: Recharge and energize: A wrap up of 2020. What we thought would happen vs what happened

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2020 47:38


    2020 proved to be a year no one expected. Iain and Hannah wrapped up 2019 in the episode 'New year, new you,' where they both made predictions for the new year. They are back in 2020 to reflect on what worked, what didn't, and how they are moving forward in the new year. Come see what you can relate to in their journeys and reflect on what was similar and what was completely different in your own life. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    TRAILER: Introducing Season 4: Recharge and Inspire yourself for 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2020 0:52


    Season 4 is going to help recharge and inspire us as we kick off towards a brand new year. Stay tuned for some casual conversations and a lot of experts as well as some amazing and inspiring stories! How will we find that line of humanity in season 4? Find out soon! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    That's all for Season 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2020 3:49


    Season 3 has come to an end! But don't fret, we will be back before the end of this year to bring you some more Refreshingly Human content! In the meantime, stick around on our social media channels and join the conversations: Instagram: @refreshinglyhumanpodcast Facebook: Refreshingly Human Website: www.hannahpillow.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    All your feelings are Valid!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2020 60:49


    CBT practitioner Sarah Is back on the show to answer all of your questions from this season. We discuss a wide variety of feelings and talks about why all emotions are important and the part that they can play in our lives. If you struggle with a certain emotion, or many, just like I do, this episode gives great insight into why we feel all emotions and why it is important to acknowledge them. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: Refreshinglyhumanpodcast Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    What's love got to do with it?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 28:39


    What’s love got to do with it? Is love a second-hand emotion? Do we really love from the heart? In this episode, Hannah discussed how love saved her and shaped her life. Aidan talks about a loving relationship with a dear friend. And Icha tells us how her love for her dad made her the woman she is today. Which one can you relate to? A bit of each? A bit of some? Tune in and decide, you might view love in your own life a little differently by the end. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    What is your sadness telling you?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2020 18:40


    Hannah feels that sadness is really uncomfortable, she speaks about how, as a person that lives with depression, sadness reminds her of lingering depression. So she tries to avoid it. In this episode, Hannah has a live conversation with her sadness, confronts it, and learns from it. Bola speaks about how not dealing with the grief of her mother led her on a dark path. Aidan speaks about his own reminder of sadness when he lost a friend. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @hannahpillowrh Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Learning Anger Management

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2020 18:13


    Anger is a difficult emotion to manage. What happens when we don't know how to manage it? In this episode, Hannah explores how anger burst in her life, resulting in a nasty version of herself. More importantly, she reflects on what that had thought her and how she deals with anger now. Aidan comes on to share a story of anger in his own life. He explores what makes him angry and his method of dealing with anger. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: @hannahpillowrh refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Sprinkle Happiness all over your life

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2020 22:33


    I just want to happy... We all feel this way, more especially in this crappy year we are experiencing. In this episode, Hannah talks about how happiness can be spread across your life, how to spot this, value this and enjoy the bursts of happiness. Icha talks about how happiness can be a place. Bola explores how love for something can bring you so much joy, Aidan explores an event in his life that brought him joy and excitement. And Iain shares a story of hard work, persistence and steel will that resulted in the happiest burst in his life. Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: HannahPillowrh Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Shame on you! (Not really)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2020 21:19


    This week the Hannah is exploring Shame in here life. CBT practitioner Sarah said that shame is an emotion we learn and we use it to fit into a tribe. Hannah explores this theory in relation to the role that shame played in her life. Iain comes on to talk about an event that left him feeling really ashamed and stick around till the end to hear an amusing story from Icha that is a moment we can all relate to. If you find this episode useful, be sure to subscribe, give a rating and review and more importantly share with anyone you think would benefit from this episode!! We are on Instagram @Hannahpillowrh and Facebook as Refreshingly Human Message on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/messag Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Can fear be a guide in our lives?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2020 22:22


    CBT practitioner Sarah mentioned that Fear can be a guide in our lives. In this episode, I explore fear in my own life and figure out what my own fear has been trying to tell me all my life. Aidan comes on and tells a story about an irrational fear that he felt made him lose control. Iain shares a story on how he thought he was going to die! Send me a voice message on anchor: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message Facebook: Refreshingly Human Twitter: Hannah Pillow Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Why we feel what we feel with Jimmy Petruzzi

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2020 46:57


    Anger is my favorite emotion! That’s a strange thing to say right… Well, anger is an emotion that played a huge role in my own life. In this episode, I speak to Jimmy Petruzzi from Salford Radio. Jimmy has studied psychology intensely and he is an ongoing student of all things! Tune in to hear his thoughts on Anger, love, and sadness. https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimmypetruzzi/ www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: HannahPillowrh Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

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    Feel the feels with Sarah Kilcullen

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2020 41:22


    ‘You are living in a global pandemic; your fear center is going whackadoodle.’ Some wise words from CBT practitioner Sarah Kilcullen. This pandemic has taken its toll on us, emotions can seem amplified beyond our control. Have you been able to identify your feelings? Are you feeling overwhelmed? Even without the pandemic, we live with a wide spectrum of emotions daily, can you identify how you are feeling at any given time? Do you know why we feel that way? Join me and Sarah Kilcullen as we delve into the emotions, fear, shame and joy in this episode of Feel the feels to learn more about some of our everyday emotions. You can find Sarah here: https://greendoortherapy.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/greendoor_therapy/ www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Instagram: hannahpillowrh Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    Season 2: A season focused on success

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2020 1:48


    What does SUCCESS mean to you? What does it mean in general? How do you measure or achieve success? In this season, Hannah Pillow explores SUCCESS over 7 episodes with stories from several guests, including an exclusive interview with Jaymie Moran one of the founders of Body Smart Fitness. In this Promo, you are hearing clips spread out from ALL the episodes in this season! If you haven't checked it out, try it, you might like it. If you have, I'd love to hear your thoughts! Email me on Refreshinglyhannah@gmail.com www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Twitter: Hannah Pillow Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

    A wrap up on SUCCESS

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2020 17:15


    I was told a lot of things were impossible… But the impossible often becomes possible. Today I am living a life that I once thought I never would. Join me to find out how I climbed that mountain of limitations and got to the other side. On this Episode of Refreshingly Human, I delve into the entire season based on success, from the fire this season was born from to how the season has impacted my own life while reflecting on how far I have come and how far I would go to become succesful. www.hannahpillow.com Facebook: Refreshingly Human Twitter: Hannah Pillow Music by: Tomekeeper Productions - www.tomekeeperproductions.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/refreshingly-human/message

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