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How do I make more money? How do I create passive income? Am I ready to invest? How can I build my emergency fund? How do I start my own business? And the most important question of all: Can I *really* work LESS and live MORE? Whether you’re struggling t

Jessica Tolar


    • May 28, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    045: 4 Strategies to Dodge the Next Company Layoff

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 18:49


    Let's confront the looming specter of layoffs head-on. If your anxiety mounts when it comes to layoffs, fear not: we're unveiling 4 savvy strategies to navigate the turbulent waters of corporate restructuring. From setting measurable goals aligned with company objectives to keeping your manager smiling, we've got you covered. Plus, don't miss our bonus tip for securing financial peace of mind in the midst of it all. Let's dive in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/045 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    044: Why "F*ck The Patriarchy" Won't Work (And A More Effective Approach to Getting What You Want)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 16:46


    When a coworker betrayed me, I learned a valuable lesson. I was a fresh-faced, eager 21-year-old who had just relocated to a new city for work.  It was an exciting time, however, before long I started to see storm clouds that threatened to cast a shadow over my otherwise sunny outlook. It felt difficult to gain respect at work, especially with one man in particular. I remember him so clearly - this particular engineer who went behind my back and did something that felt like a slap in the face. It stirred an emotion I'll never forget, but most importantly, it taught me a valuable lesson… I realized at that moment I had two choices: I could rebel against him, or I could choose a different approach. Join me inside to learn what I did, why, and how you can use the same approach to get what you want. SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/044 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    043: Flip the Script: 3 New Stats About Women in the Workplace (And How to Use Them for an Edge)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 15:28


    Once a year, global management consulting company McKinsey releases its “Women in the Workplace" report about women in Corporate America. It's full of interesting data on how we're stacking up when compared to our male counterparts, the struggles we face, and what the companies themselves can do to help. Whether it's learning what you're up against, which promotion will be the hardest, or how the corporate environment overall has changed in the last couple of years, knowledge is POWER... And I believe re-framing 3 statistics from this year's report can actually HELP you gain an edge at work. So, in today's episode, we're zooming in on these 3 stats, why they matter to you, and what you can do to benefit from them. I'll see you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/043 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    042: 3 Ways Self-Love Can Make You Richer

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 15:39


    Every February, I like to remind you (and myself!) that outside of the love you share with others is the very special and important kind of love you share with the *most* important person in your life... yourself. And, although self-love is important in more ways than I can say, I'd like to discuss a more practical reason self-love is important… Specifically, how self-love shows up in your BANK ACCOUNT (yep, you read that right!). So, if you need a kick in the pants to ensure you remain (or become!) the main character in the story of your life, join me inside to learn 3 ways self-love can make you RICHER! Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/042 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    041: Understanding 3 Employer Benefits That Get You Invested (401k, ESPP, and RSUs)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 23:50


    When I was in corporate, I placed a heavy focus on benefits when I was first considering a job, but then I'd get so busy doing the job I'd forget to use, optimize, or even just try to UNDERSTAND all the different benefits I had – especially the confusing acronym ones. Same for you? Well, it wasn't until I used my benefits package to negotiate a raise *4x the national average* that I realized just how much benefits truly translate into MONEY. And that's when I got serious about understanding not just some but ALL of my benefits -- and getting strategic. In this episode, we're digging into 3 of the big ones… 3 employer benefits which, if you're *USING*, means you're already investing (whether you realize it or not!). I'll meet you inside as we de-mystify the 401(k), ESPP, and RSU - and how you can use each to make more money! Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/041 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    040: 5 Habits of Highly Successful People

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 21:05


    I had the privilege of getting to know the CEO of one of the world's largest real estate franchises and, in the ~2-year period that we all spent time together, I quietly observed him – it's amazing what you can learn by simply watching someone who has skills you admire and would like to adopt. Much of what's included in this episode comes from my observations of this man, whom I came to respect, and it also comes from observing other executives throughout my corporate career, conversations with them, as well as other high-net-worth individuals. For this episode, we're defining "success" as your ability to reach the goals you've set. Whether that's a certain level of wealth, a title at work, or a type of lifestyle - that's beside the point. The point is: you have goals. Are you reaching them? Whether you feel good about your ability to hit your goals or not, you'll benefit from what follows on 5 habits of highly successful people.  Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/040 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    039: The Anatomy of Your Quarterly Reviews with Your Boss

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 17:05


    IMHO, one of the best things you can do to move leaps and bounds closer to a lower-stress life with more freedom is to consistently get pay increases… and invest all of them. If you're already living comfortably and can work out a process for getting regular pay increases and investing all of them, you'll be amazed at what becomes possible and the doors that open up for you financially. But first, there's the matter of securing the raise itself, in a way that's sustainable and consistent. And one of the most effective ways to do that is through quarterly reviews with your manager. In this episode, we're talking about just that – The Anatomy of Your Quarterly Reviews with Your Boss. We'll cover: When to schedule them How to prepare What to cover in the meeting Let's jump in!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/039 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    038: Welcome to Investor Prep School!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 26:13


    Welcome back for Part 5 of our 5-Part Mini-Masterclass on Investing. In Part 1 you learned about 9-steps to get started investing, in Part 2 you heard 5 common mistakes most new investors make and what to do instead, in Part 3 you explored 5 types of investments and which might be best for you, and in Part 4 you saw various investment models ranging from $100 to $1M and everything in between. In this FINAL episode of the mini-masterclass series, I am beyond excited to pull back the curtains and give you a behind-the-scenes look into my program, Investor Prep School! Specifically, we will walk through: Who this program is for so you can quickly decide whether or not you're a fit What exactly you get, including a step-by-step walkthrough of each module plus bonuses Top FAQs plus information on the risk-free money-back guarantee So excited... let's jump in!! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/038 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    037: Investment Models: From $100 to $1M+ and Everything in Between

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2023 22:48


    Welcome back for Part 4 of our 5-Part Mini-Masterclass on Investing. In Part 1 you learned about an A-Z 9-step roadmap to investing, in Part 2 you heard 5 little-known mistakes *most* new investors make and what to do instead, and in Part 3 you learned about 5 different asset classes. In this episode, I am excited to show you that you don't have to have tens of thousands of dollars to invest every month to see change in your life.  Specifically, we will walk through 5 examples of different initial investments, monthly investments, and age at the time of first investment so you can see how compound interest could potentially help your money grow in various scenarios. Let's do it! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/037 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    036: 5 Types of Investments (Which One is Best for You)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 19:37


    Welcome back for Part 3 of the 5-Part Mini-Masterclass on Investing! In Part 1 we discussed The Foolproof A-Z Investing Roadmap for Beginners and in Part 2 we covered 5 Little-Known Mistakes *Most* New Investors Make - so you have an overview of what to do and what to look out for. Today, we're going one click deeper and digging into different TYPES of investments you can buy. Ready to ditch the golden handcuffs that keep you chained to working day in and day out and trade them for the golden ticket to financial freedom? If so, join me inside today's episode to learn about 5 types of investments and which could be best for you! I'll walk you through five asset classes, what it takes to start investing in each, and other key points to consider. Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/036 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    035: 5 Little-Known Mistakes *Most* New Investors Make (And What to Do Instead!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 18:56


    Welcome back for Part 2 of the 5-Part Mini-Masterclass on Investing! Ready to supercharge your money? This mini-masterclass is structured to help you learn about investing, remove doubt, and increase your confidence so you can get started making your money grow. While money can't buy happiness, it CAN buy freedom… freedom of time, location, and choice. It can put you in total control of your life so you can spend your days EXACTLY the way you want to - not the way your boss decides. So if you want to ditch the golden handcuffs that keep you chained to working day in and day out and trade them for the golden ticket to financial freedom… Join me inside today's episode to learn the 5 Little-Known Mistakes *Most* New Investors Make (And What to Do Instead!). I'll walk you through five things that might be keeping you from getting started investing, the practical & mindset strategies I used to move past them, and why it's key to start investing ASAP. Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/035 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    034: The Foolproof A-Z Investing Roadmap for Beginners

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 17:28


    Welcome to Part 1 of the 5-Part Mini-Masterclass on Investing! I know you're excited to grow your wealth and this mini-masterclass is structured to help you learn about investing, remove doubt, and increase your confidence so you can get started making your money grow. While money can't buy happiness, it CAN buy your freedom… freedom of time, location, and choice. It can put you in total control of your life so you can spend your days EXACTLY the way you want to - not the way your boss decides. So if you're ready to ditch the golden handcuffs that keep you chained to working day in and day out and trade them for the golden ticket to financial freedom… Join me inside today's episode to learn how to lay the groundwork for what it REALLY takes to get started investing (for total newbies!). I'll walk you through The 9-Step A-Z Investing Roadmap for Beginners, your checklist of to-do items to get started investing, and why investing is about so much more than just money. Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/034 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    033: 5 Things I'm Grateful For After 1 Year Abroad

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 15:25


    After a 9-day drive from Texas through Mexico and Guatemala with a trailer and 3 dogs in tow, our feet hit El Salvador soil and it's been an adventure ever since. Moving abroad has always been one of my dreams. Experiencing a new culture, a different way of life, a new way of viewing the world… I always found the idea exhilarating. Now, having done it, it's been nothing short of magical and, though it hasn't come without hardship, great things rarely do. Join me for a year in review as we go through 5 things I'm grateful for after 1 year abroad, the #1 thing that made it possible for us to build the life we've imagined, and how you can do it, too! I'll see you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/033 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    032: What Is ”Net Worth” & How to Calculate Yours!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 12:29


    You've seen it before: people talking about their "net worth" as a success metric. Heck, you've probably even seen me talking about my own net worth on my website! But what *is* net worth, and why does it matter? And, most importantly, how do you calculate YOURS? I'm spilling the details in this episode of The Goodbye July Podcast. I'll meet you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/032 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    031: 3 Secrets to Supercharge Saving for a House

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2023 15:48


    If "buy a home" is on your to-do list, more power to you! There's nothing like having your own space in which to create a home - no feeling comes close. Having bought 3 homes, I'd say the hardest part (especially for your first home purchase) is saving for your down payment. From how much you can afford to save, where to keep your money, and how to make sure saving remains a priority, we're covering it all in this episode on 3 secrets to SUPERCHARGE saving for a house! I'll see you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/031 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    030: 5 Ways Saving Money This Holiday Can Pay Off Big Next Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 14:47


    Gut-check: is this you? Between gifts, celebrations, and travel, Americans spend upwards of $1K+ every holiday season. Crazy, right? Although it can be fun, we sometimes forget that when we spend money on the holidays, we're giving up other things. Today, we're talking about what those are… 5 specific opportunities you can use your holiday savings on next year. From making over 400x more money by using one type of account to avoiding a $12K+ loss in opportunity cost, let's dive into 5 ways saving this holiday season can pay off big next year. I'll see you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/030 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    029: 1 Scary Convo and 3 Ways to Find More Freedom

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2023 13:27


    Do you know those life-changing moments that happen in an instant but stay with you for the rest of your days? Maybe you didn't realize it at the time, but now you know for sure it was a defining moment in your story. In this episode, we're talking about one of those moments. Many years ago, I was working for my first employer out of college. I was enjoying the things you would expect: my first salary, my own desk, and even a key card that got me into the building. But what you might not expect is the haunting conversation I had at this job that drastically changed the way I approached work, money, and life, ultimately resulting in 3 changes that gave me more peace and a delicious taste of freedom. Today, we're walking through that conversation and the 3 things I changed as a result. It might feel a bit spooky, but I bet you'll be pleasantly surprised with what you learn when you hear the same sobering words that I did! See you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/029 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    028: You Don't Need to Know How to Pick Stocks to Start Investing (But You Do Need to Know These 3 Things!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 13:26


    Picking stocks is simply knowledge you do not need to start investing with confidence... So if that doesn't interest you, that makes two of us! You can absolutely be successful at investing without this skill. There are, however, 3 things you do need to know to start investing in a way that feels good (especially if you don't want to pick your own stocks!). Join me in this episode as I break them down, and leave with the simple knowledge you need to get invested quickly and easily. See you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/028 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    027: 2 Things My Finance Teacher Said that Changed Everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2023 18:01


    Everything I needed to know from my college finance class came to me on the last day of school in the form of 2 very specific things my finance professor said. All semester we learned how to read company financial reports, pick “good” investments, and calculate return on investment, but the truth is: none of that matters as much as the 2 things he told us that last day of class. I was 20 years old waiting impatiently to be released for summer vacation when my finance teacher said something that changed my life. He said: if you remember nothing else from this class, remember this. That's when my ears perked up. Join me inside to learn these simple but profound lessons. I'll see you there! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/027 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    026: 5+ Mental Health Strategies from a Professional

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 50:23


    A harm reduction advocate, substance use & recovery researcher, and musician, Jasmin Blue is a mental and community health professional obtaining her Master's Degree in Public Health. In this episode, Jasmin shares her thoughts on healthy living, 5+ practical strategies to support mental health and well-being, and 3 steps to help stop financial anxiety. I'm thrilled for you to meet Jasmin; she's the perfect person for this conversation and I cannot wait for you to hear what she has to say.  Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/026 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!  

    025: 3 Lessons from My 33rd Year and Moving Abroad

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 16:29


    Cory and I spent my birthday reviewing old photos from when we first started dating. It made me feel hopeful for the girl I was in those photos and excited for the future that lay ahead. It also provided an opportunity to reflect on this past year specifically… and it's been a wild one. From selling our first home to buying a house in El Salvador to prepping another house for rental to driving to El Salvador with our three dogs and a trailer to countless issues-turned-adventures upon arrival, emotional growth, discomfort, transformation, salsa dancing, sunsets, and motorcycle rides, this year has been FULL of experience and growth. So, today, I'd like to share with you my top 3 lessons from my 33rd year and moving abroad to El Salvador - lessons about humanity, health, and adaptability that can serve both you and I well to remember in all aspects of life. I'll see you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/025 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    024: Scared to Take Big Risks? Listen to This.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2023 40:01


    After a health scare in her early twenties, Alyssa Dotson vowed to *truly* live her life... and she has. In the last 2 years alone, she moved abroad solo (twice), is learning to surf and skateboard, and got her financial sh*t together so she could calmly rebound from a layoff. I invite you to meet my client-turned-friend as we explore the emotional journey and mindset strategies she used to overcome obstacles and learn the key question she asks herself to find clarity when things get hard. You don't want to miss this one... Alyssa's story is sure to inspire you to dig deep to find the courage to take big risks. We'll meet you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/024 Rate, Review, and Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    023: Why I Went Dark for 2 Months

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 19:09


    I'm just getting over a 2-month hibernation that came on as the result of burnout. For the last 2 months, the thought of work or being on my phone/computer in any way made me cringe. I couldn't bring myself to do it, although, for the months leading up to this, work is ALL I wanted to do.   And therein lies the problem. In the months leading up to my burnout, I was overdoing it. I used the excuse that I was “in flow” and wanted to take advantage of that and, in truth, I was in flow, but I also knew I was doing too much.   But I lied to myself and others saying I wanted to commit to doing the work now since I was enjoying it so much.   As I ease back into my business and strive to ensure my relationship with work strikes a healthy balance with other areas of my life that are important - my physical and mental health, marriage, and other hobbies - I'd like to discuss burnout, why I believe it's such a pervasive issue, and what we can do to avoid it so we can live more balanced, full, and rich lives.   See you inside!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/023   Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    022: The Daily Check-in That Changed My Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2023 23:57


    The daily habit of taking the time to check in with yourself and ask these key questions is SO SIMPLE yet SO POWERFUL, but many of us aren't making the time to pause to prioritize investing some time in our needs and well-being (even for just 5 minutes). Over and over again, we prioritize the needs of others (our employers, managers, co-workers, etc.) and we're left with little to no time to give to ourselves. The simple habit of checking in with myself every day was the start of the beautiful snowball effect that led me to leave my 9-to-5 and pursue a more fulfilling and purpose-based life. What could it do for you? Join me inside to find out! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/022 Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    021: What Is Bitcoin? Here's My Take.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2023 33:46


    You asked, I answered. For the first time, I'm sharing my perspective on Bitcoin: what it is, what it isn't, why I'm a believer, and why you should care (hint: if you're a member of the US banking system - or any other centralized banking system - you should care). If you've been curious about this special cryptocurrency, join me as I explain Bitcoin in normal everyday language for the average non-tech-savvy person (like me!). Bitcoin's taking the global economy by storm. Don't get left behind! I'll see you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/021 “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    020: This 1 Thing is Robbing You Every Single Day (Here's What to Do About It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2023 21:55


    "Inflation" isn't just a fancy finance term for people on Wall Street... it's one of the main reasons it feels harder and harder for you to save money, retirement age is going up, and your grandparents say "back in my day, a gallon of gas only cost 25 cents!" Whether you want to admit it or not, inflation negatively affects both you and me every single day and it's time we acknowledge it, understand it (in plain English), and proactively engage in the 2 things we can do to fight back. Don't bury your head in the sand... make a plan! You won't be sorry you did (and I can all but guarantee you'll be sorry if you don't). See you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/020 “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    019: The Get-a-Raise Calendar I Swear By (My Secret Weapon to Consistent Pay Increases)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2023 22:35


    Here's the truth: if you can keep your expenses low while consistently getting pay raises, you'll be left with extra money to invest, able to build passive income streams, and ultimately create more freedom in your life (think: working from anywhere, or better yet, NOT working) If you've been dreaming of saying goodbye to that 9-5 or that hourly job or simply seeking some extra income so you can breathe a little easier, use this calendar to make your plan! Learn the process I refined in the later years of my career that earned me consistent pay increases, the biggest of which was 4x the national average. See you inside!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/019   “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!    

    018: 7 Things I'm Afraid to Admit to You

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 39:54


    One of the most dangerous aspects of today's culture is the "everything is awesome" online personas we use when we're posting on social media. Sure, it's great to show the things that are going well, the things we're proud of, the things that make us happy - but if we don't talk about the difficult things, the struggles, and what happens off-screen, we're contributing to what's becoming a huge and pervasive issue of crippling loneliness in a world that's more digitally connected than ever. Recording today's episode was tough, but it's important that I show up authentically and share both the good, as well as the difficult - and that's exactly what you'll find inside this episode. From a currently-maxed-out credit card, to financial stressors, to marriage tension as a result of our international move, I share it all inside today's episode of The Goodbye July Podcast. Let's jump in.   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/018   “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!  

    017: Your Exclusive Sneak Peek into My Workshop: 3 Secrets to Easily Building Lasting Wealth

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 16:52


    Today I'm pulling back the curtain on my brand new free wealth workshop. I've found huge value in sitting down with someone to deep-dive into a subject I'm interested in learning about. But I realized it took a lot of self-convincing that it would be worth my time and effort to do so: to agree to sign up, make the time to do the course, implement the learnings, etc. So I thought what might be helpful for you is if I pulled back the curtain so you can get a sneak peek into my free wealth workshop. From the quick win you'll get right out of the gate, to the 3 can't-miss secrets themselves, to the single most important step to cracking the financial code, get an exclusive glimpse as I unveil what's inside my brand new Free Workshop: 3 Secrets to Easily Building Lasting Wealth. See you inside!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/017   “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    016: A Week in the Life (7 Days Behind-the-Scenes with Jess)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2023 69:39


    I'm excited to try a new style of episode this week! Today, join me as I do twice-a-day check-in's every day for a week! Gather insight into what each day in my life really looks like, and get ideas on helpful productivity habits and personal finance habits to incorporate into your own life. I can't wait for you to join me as I pull back the curtain on 7 days in my world. See you inside!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/016   “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    015: My Story & How Goodbye July Got Its Name

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 31:10


    Hello! Allow me to introduce myself! Today's episode is special because I have not officially introduced myself yet on the show... so I'll be doing just that. I'll share my story: where I came from, big financial milestones from which you can learn, and more about the namesake of this show: how *did* The Goodbye July Podcast get its name? Join me for a behind-the-scenes peek into my history, get in-the-know on the origin of the show, and hear next steps for how you can start building wealth in your own life. Let's jump in!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/015   “I love Jess and The Goodbye July Podcast” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me serve more people (like you!) and support them in organizing, automating, and growing their money so they can build the HELL YES life they deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved about the episode! Also, if you haven't already done so, follow the show. I'm regularly adding episodes to the feed and, if you're not following, there's a high chance you'll miss out. Follow now!

    014: 10 Things Most People Won't Do That Make All the Difference to Your Finances

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2023 32:31


    Ever wonder why so many people struggle with their finances, even if they've been trying to master their money for a long time? "If you want something different, you have to do something different." Here are 10 things (that most people won't do) that really make all the difference when it comes to your finances. You don't want to miss this one. See you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/014

    013: We Road Tripped Through Central America (Here's What Happened & What We Learned)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2023 71:45


    We needed to get to El Salvador with our dogs; flying was too expensive. "Should we drive?" I asked. "That would be crazy," Cory said. We did, and it was. We drove from Texas to El Salvador with our 3 dogs towing an open-air trailer with 2 motorcycles and some things for our house. It was an incredible, amazing, and at times, insane experience that took 9 days instead of the 6 we anticipated, but one I would absolutely do again. From border issues to identity theft to, yes, a little extortion, to fascinating street festivals and pyramids and mountains and hot air balloons... topped off by the sheer kindness of the vast majority of the people we encountered. Join me for the behind-the-scenes details of our journey. See you inside! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/013

    012: The Benefits of Learning How to Die

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2022 11:37


    During an awkward encounter at a concert during COVID restrictions, the band playing struck up a song called "Learning How to Die" which created a pivotal moment of learning and a shift in mindset that brought a fresh new perspective to life. Join me as we explore the hidden gift of empowerment that lies within accepting the inevitable, where Goodbye July got its name, and why it's critical to make sure you're spending the time you've got doing what you love... and NOT wasting time on what you don't. SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/012

    011: Yep, Our Therapist Married Us! (A Mental Health Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 20:00


    End the stigma! It's one of the most critical pieces of our well-being: Let's talk mental health.   Today, we're digging into my journey through counseling (that literally ended at the altar), my current mental wellness routine, and the issue that's negatively affecting nearly 50% of Americans' mental health... and what you can do to protect yourself.   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/011   DISCLAIMER: I'm not a licensed therapist or doctor or any kind of medical professional at all, so everything we talk about in today's episode is purely based on my own experience, my opinion, is for informational purposes only and is in no way to be received as medical advice in any form whatsoever.

    010: 10 Reasons to Fall in Love with Your Budget

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 25:00


    3 of my biggest financial flops have had to do with a late-night accident in south Texas, an insanely-priced vacuum (yes, really), and partying like a rock star in college. But each of those mistakes taught me a valuable lesson... and today we're talking about how one of those experiences led me to my all-time favorite financial tool. More importantly, we'll discuss how using a budget (or, as I like to think of it, a financial dashboard) can change everything for you, if you'll let it. Join me to learn: The budget template I swear by 10 reasons to fall in love with it Why I'm convinced an old-school budget leads to more financial success than an app on your phone ever could Let's go!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/010

    009: 4 Strategies to Stop Imposter Syndrome in Its Tracks

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 25:00


    Chances are you're already acquainted with the bully that lives inside your mind... that infuriating, taunting voice in your head telling you you're not good enough, you can't do it, and you're not smart enough...   You know the one: I'm talking about imposter syndrome.   Well, my friend, you're not alone. And I want us to talk about it more so we can work toward squashing the darn thing once and for all.   The more we share our experiences and best practices, the more mental fortitude we'll feel in dealing with this monster.   And the easier it becomes for us to ignore this uninvited guest, the quicker we can get on with living our happiest lives and reaching our biggest goals.   Today we're tackling: - Imposter syndrome at work - 4 strategies I've used to stop it - 1 BONUS strategy that you can implement today   And I'll share a little-known story about one of the *most embarrassing* moments of my life.   Join me inside!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/009

    008: Want to Retire Early? Try This (Plus All Your 401k Questions Answered)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2022 38:48


    Want to retire early? Learn how I did it, dig into your fav retirement acronyms (hi: 401k vs. IRA) and hear the #1 biggest mistake to avoid. Since leaving my 9-5 and not having a formal job, many people wonder where our money comes from - I mean, we still have a mortgage to pay and, in Austin, TX, that is no small bill! If you know me, you know I'm going to say our money "comes from our investments," but today we're diving deeper into what that means for us, and how Cory and I were both able to "retire" by age 30.   In this week's episode, we're getting into: - 401k, IRA, ROTH & Rollovers - plus the #1 BIGGEST MISTAKE I see people make with these - My story and how I retired from my corporate career in 10 years - A different way to think about money that just might change everything for you Join me inside - listen now! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/008

    007: How I Got a Raise 4x the National Average (Using Benefits!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 26:48


    Do you want investing and passive income to be part of your financial strategy? If so, you'll need money left over each month to put toward your investments. Where's that money going to come from?   While I'm all for cutting costs, you can only lower your expenses so much. But your income potential is essentially UNCAPPED so there's a lot more room to make more money when compared to decreasing your spending... So, let's make you more money!   Today, we're deep diving into a key piece of the strategy I use to get big raises: employer benefits. And if your job doesn't offer benefits, I'll also cover how you can use this fact to negotiate a higher pay rate.   We'll talk through: - How you can use your benefits package (or lack thereof) to increase your pay - The specific benefits I focused on the last time I landed a big raise - How I secured a raise that was 4 times higher than the national average   This episode is not for the faint of heart; this exercise is high-effort. But it can absolutely be high reward.   If you're serious about getting a pay increase, this episode is for you. Let's jump in!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/007

    006: Adopt These 5 Habits to Stand Out at Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2022 23:58


    Want to impress your boss? In this episode, I share 5 simple but powerful things you can do at work to position yourself for success, specific examples of what's worked in my career, and the story of the time I told a potential employer that I was unqualified… and why he hired me anyway.   (spoiler alert: it's because of 1 of the 5 habits!)   The truth is: you can't just waltz into a review meeting, ask for a raise, and assume it's going to be given to you - it takes some intentional work in the months leading up to your ask; and that's what we're digging into today.   Let's dive in!   SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/006

    005: Want a Raise? Listen to This First.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 26:28


    Do you feel like you're constantly working hard, but your pay isn't growing to reflect your efforts? Or maybe you've prioritized cutting expenses and, no matter how much you scale back your spending, it's still difficult to make ends meet.  Or maybe you've been in a comfortable job for a few years, and just haven't given much thought to a pay increase. Whether increased pay is something you needed yesterday, or it's something you realize you simply haven't prioritized enough in your life yet, navigating a pay increase can be overwhelming and intimidating. Today we're tackling 3 decisions you'll need to make in order to be ready to secure a pay increase. We'll walk through your Target Number We'll figure out whether you should stay in your current job or find a new one, and We'll decide on your Walk-Away number - the absolute minimum amount you're willing to accept before walking away from a job or potential opportunity.  Once you've made these 3 key decisions, you'll leave with an action plan on how exactly to go about landing the pay you want, and the evidence you need to convince even the most doubting of managers that you're worth it. Let's get to it! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/005

    004: 3 Proven Ways to Sidestep Financial Fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 24:30


    Whether you want to start investing, switch jobs or careers, or start a side hustle, your big goals can feel intimidating. But the #1 mistake you can make is to allow fear to keep you stagnant. Dealing with fear can be tough, especially when it's tied to money. And that's why I'm thrilled to share with you 3 proven ways to sidestep financial fear - through managing risk. We'll discuss a key trait many successful leaders share, an important mindset shift when it comes to failure, and the specific steps to take to mitigate your financial risk so you can freely and confidently pursue your boldest goals. Let's dive in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/004  

    003: How We Saved $100K to Buy a House in El Salvador

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 28:17


    You don't need a 6-figure salary to reach your boldest goals. Learn the simple, repeatable steps we took to pay off a house in El Salvador without financing and how you can use the same process to fund your biggest dreams. This is Part 2 of the two-part El Salvador mini-series. Let's jump in! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/003

    002: SURPRISE! We're Moving to El Salvador

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 20:40


    BEHIND THE SCENES: What really happened the first time we went to El Salvador, and why we decided to buy a house there. The surprising backstory of what originally took us to Central America, the wild details of our first trip, and some key questions to consider in your own life. This Part 1 of a two-part El Salvador mini-series. Press play right now! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/002

    001: If I Had $500 to Start Investing, Here's What I'd Do

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 24:55


    Join host Jessica Tolar as she shares the vision of the Goodbye July Podcast and what she'd do if she had $500 to start investing. Learn 5 income-generating assets, the easiest path to start, how to increase your chances for success, and the #1 way to make sure you're successful in the long run. New to investing? This one's for you! SHOWNOTES: jessicatolar.com/001

    Welcome to The Goodbye July Podcast with Jessica Tolar

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 1:15


    Welcome to the Goodbye July Podcast! Grab your seat at the table and join me as we build the bold lives we've imagined for ourselves. I'm Jessica Tolar and I'm obsessed with all-things passive income, productivity, entrepreneurship and living a life where you make the rules. I teach you the simple but effective secrets to building a life you love. Grab a cup of coffee, throw a dog on your lap, and join me on Wednesdays as we work less, live more, and chase our wildest dreams together.

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