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What if porn addiction recovery feels painful not because you're failing—but because the way you've been taught to understand addiction is fundamentally flawed?For many men, trying to quit porn doesn't feel empowering. It feels humiliating. It feels like staring straight at everything you believe is broken, defective, or dangerous about you.I know this feeling personally—because I lived it for years.The harder I tried to overcome porn addiction, the worse I felt about myself. Recovery became a reminder of shame instead of a path toward healing. And eventually, it felt easier to numb out than to keep confronting the belief that I was fundamentally flawed.In this episode of No More Desire, I challenge one of the most destructive ideas in modern porn addiction recovery: that addiction means you are bad, weak, or unworthy.Because what if porn addiction isn't proof that something is wrong with you—but evidence that good parts of you were forced into extreme roles?In this conversation, I break down why shame-based recovery backfires, how porn addiction is deeply tied to self-worth and the nervous system, and why self-judgment keeps men stuck in the very cycle they're trying to escape.We explore the psychology and neuroscience behind porn addiction, including how shame dysregulates the nervous system and intensifies cravings, why dopamine-driven behaviors aren't about pleasure but unmet emotional needs, and how addiction often functions as a misguided attempt at connection, comfort, and significance.Using a parts-work framework grounded in psychology, I explain how healthy inner parts—like the desire for comfort, adventure, rest, and meaning—can become distorted when they're suppressed or ignored. Porn addiction, in this light, isn't about moral failure. It's about good parts in bad roles.You'll also learn why simply getting sober doesn't automatically heal shame, why many men remain unhappy even after quitting porn, and how waiting to feel “worthy” before living your life keeps addiction relevant.This episode offers a different path forward—one rooted in self-leadership rather than self-hatred.If you're trying to quit porn but feel exhausted, ashamed, or stuck in an inner war, this episode will help you reframe your struggle and begin healing without hating yourself.Porn addiction recovery without shame isn't about excusing behavior. It's about understanding it deeply enough that real, lasting change becomes possible.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, join the No More Desire free online community and connect with men who are committed to real recovery. When you sign up, you'll gain access to The 4 Pillars of Recovery Online Course FREE. You can also check out my Free Workshop and Free Ebook, designed to help you overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Support the showNo More Desire
In the final 35 minutes of this heartfelt Widow 180 episode, I continue my deep and honest conversation with Courtney Pray Duke as we explore how to move forward after loss. Episode Highlights:Turning Pain Into Purpose: Courtney Pray Duke shares how her deepest wounds led her to discover her calling, emphasizing:"The thing that you thought was going to take you out might just be the very thing God uses to bring people all the way through their brokenness and into wholeness and victory."Insights from Her Book, "And She Got Up":Courtney unpacks her writing process, the dream that led to the book's completion, and why sharing hope—especially for widows and those facing grief—is her motivation!Declarations in the Dark:Courtney explains the practice of speaking truth and hope over your life during the hardest, rock-bottom moments that we all encounter:The darkness wants to drown out your life and I was thinking, "You're going to have to change what you're declaring—that this is not the end of your life."Navigating the Messy Middle:Jen and Courtney discuss the slow, unpredictable shifts in grief and healing:Courtney encourages listeners not to rush this process!Life After Loss & Remarriage:Courtney opens up about remarriage, blending families, and letting herself experience joy again! And the addition of a new baby into the family!"A man isn't the goal. A man isn't going to fix our issues or save the day!"Listener Takeaways:Permission to grieve at your own pace and embrace each small shift toward healing.The importance of surrounding yourself with supportive community and allowing yourself to imagine future joy.That hope, beauty, and even laughter can re-emerge after the darkest nights.FREE Workshop for you! The "Where Can I Meet A New Partner?" Workshop, a 20 minute video that just might change your life! Watch it now: https://www.widow180.com/datingworkshop Be sure to join our Facebook group, Widow 180 The Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/312036956454927Also follow us on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/widow_180/Check us out on YouTube at Widow 180: The Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-DK_dl31qMilJ5cE6t9MVQFor more blog posts and resources go to www.widow180.comQuestions? Email me at jen@widow180.com
Most men believe porn addiction is driven by lust, temptation, or a lack of discipline.But what if that's not the real problem?In this episode of No More Desire, I challenge one of the most common—and damaging—assumptions in porn addiction recovery: that the part of you that turns to porn is bad, broken, or sinful.What I've discovered through my own recovery, and through working with men across the world, is this:Porn addiction often isn't about pleasure at all. It's about emotional self-soothing.There is a part of your mind—what I call the Peacemaker—that is trying to calm your nervous system, reduce stress, and give you relief. When you don't know how to truly rest, relax, or be present, this part looks for comfort wherever it can find it. For many men, porn becomes that coping mechanism.In this episode, I break down how porn cravings are often driven by stress, anxiety, emotional overload, and nervous system dysregulation, not sexual desire. I explain why willpower alone fails in porn addiction recovery—and what actually works instead.You'll learn how chronic pressure from high achievement, perfectionism, or anxiety quietly fuels relapse… and how the inner war between different parts of your mind keeps the cycle going.Most importantly, I'll teach you how to stop fighting yourself—and start leading yourself.This episode is for men who are tired of white-knuckling sobriety… Men who keep relapsing despite trying harder…Men who want lasting porn addiction recovery rooted in mindset, lifestyle, and self-leadership.If you've ever wondered why you turn to porn when you're stressed, overwhelmed, or exhausted—this conversation will change how you see yourself and your recovery.You're not broken. You're not weak. And the part of you driving porn use doesn't need to be destroyed—it needs to be retrained.If you want to go deeper into this work, I invite you to join the No More Desire Brotherhood, where men support each other in real, practical recovery. You can also check out my free resources—including The 8 Keys to Lose Your Desire for Porn and The 10 Tools to Conquer Cravings—at nomoredesire.com.If this episode helped you, take a moment to follow, rate, and review the podcast. It's one of the best ways you can help other men find real help for porn addiction recovery.Let's get into it.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
Is it possible to quit porn by changing your beliefs?Can you overcome porn addiction—not through willpower or positive thinking—but by going deeper into the painful emotions and unconscious beliefs that actually drive the habit?In this episode, I challenge the popular idea that you can “just believe differently” or manifest your way out of porn addiction. While mindset does matter, most advice about belief change misses a crucial step—and that missing step is the reason so many men keep relapsing despite doing “everything right.”Porn addiction is not just a behavior problem. It's not even just a habit problem.At its core, porn addiction is driven by unconscious beliefs, emotional conditioning, and nervous system patterns that were formed long before porn ever entered the picture.In this episode, I walk you through a real-life case study of a client (we'll call him Joseph) who struggled with porn addiction for nearly 20 years—and is now over three months sober for the first time since he was a child. What changed wasn't his willpower. It wasn't positive affirmations. It was the way he learned to work with painful emotions, triggers, and deeply rooted beliefs like shame, defectiveness, fear, and unworthiness.I also break down the step-by-step belief-release process Joseph used—drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS), parts work, emotional mindfulness, somatic psychology, and nervous system regulation—to release old beliefs and allow new, healthier beliefs to take root naturally.We'll explore the psychology and neuroscience behind why this approach works, including:Implicit (unconscious) beliefs and emotional memoryWhy beliefs live in the body, not just the intellectMemory reconsolidation and why old beliefs must be activated before they can changePrediction error and how self-efficacy is built through lived experienceWhy acceptance—not force—is the key to lasting porn addiction recoveryThis episode is for you if:You're trying to quit porn but keep relapsingYou feel trapped by shame, fear, or emotional overwhelmYou've done therapy, programs, or accountability—but something still feels missingYou want a deeper, more compassionate, neuroscience-backed approach to recoveryThis is not a quick fix. It's not a magic wand. But it is a grounded, psychological and neurological path toward real freedom—one that integrates emotional healing, nervous system regulation, and a healthier relationship with yourself.If you're ready to stop fighting your mind and start healing it, this episode will change the way you understand recovery.Link to Blog Article for this episodeIf you're looking for deeper support and real connection in recovery, I'm opening the No More Desire Brotherhood on January 15th. The pre-launch is open right now, and when you join you'll get free lifetime access to my 4 Pillars of Recovery mini-course, plus exclusive pre-launch bonuses. You can learn more and join here: https://www.nomoredesire.com/prelaunchGrab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Support the showNo More Desire
What if you could create 8 long-form videos a day and over 100 pieces of content daily with just a few minutes of your own time? That's not a hypothetical — it's exactly what my guest, Julian Goldie, is doing using AI, systems, and some pretty bold experimentation. In this episode, we dig deep into AI avatars, content systems, SEO in the age of ChatGPT, and what authenticity even means anymore. I'll be honest — I have mixed feelings about some of this. But Julian brings a thoughtful, transparent approach that made me seriously rethink how AI might fit into a modern course business. Whether you're excited, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this conversation will definitely stretch how you think about content, scale, and leverage. Watch the episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/lNP1_N8nP1g Julian's Website: https://www.skool.com/ai-profit-lab-7462/about Join the AI Profit Boardroom: https://oc.show/aigroup Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coachingWatch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshopFree Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguyX: https://twitter.com/onlinecourseguy
Most men think porn addiction is about lust, lack of discipline, or not wanting freedom badly enough.It's not.In this episode of the No More Desire Podcast, I sit down with Jordan Castille, a coach who works with men navigating pornography addiction, shame, and same-sex attraction, to have a conversation most recovery spaces still avoid.We talk about how bullying, rejection, and emotional trauma can shape a man's relationship with porn long before he ever understands what's happening inside him.For many men, porn addiction isn't driven by pleasure — it's driven by pain, isolation, and the deep belief that “something about me is wrong.”Jordan shares his personal story of growing up in a conservative faith environment, experiencing same-sex attraction, enduring bullying, and using porn as a way to cope with shame and loneliness. Together, we unpack how trauma wires the nervous system, how sexual desire becomes symbolic, and why trying to “just stop” porn use often backfires.This episode goes beyond surface-level advice and into the root causes of porn addiction, including identity confusion, emotional neglect, and the unmet need for belonging.We also explore how healing happens not through suppression, but through understanding, self-leadership, and healthy connection with other men.If you've ever felt broken, abnormal, or alone in your struggle with pornography addiction — this conversation will change how you see yourself.In this episode, we explore:Why porn addiction is often a trauma response, not a moral failureHow bullying, shame, and rejection shape compulsive porn useThe connection between trauma and porn addiction in menSame-sex attraction, identity, and pornography addictionWhy sexual triggers are signals, not enemiesHow shame and isolation fuel porn addiction relapse cyclesUsing triggers as trailheads for healing instead of fighting themMasculinity, belonging, and emotional healing for menHow parts work and nervous system regulation support recoveryA healthier, shame-free framework for overcoming porn addictionThis episode is for men who are tired of white-knuckling, tired of feeling defective, and ready to understand why porn has had such a hold on their lives — and how real, lasting porn addiction recovery actually works.You're not weak.You're not broken.And you're not alone.Explore more of Jordan's work at: https://www.castillecoaching.com/ Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
Toying with the idea of using free workshops as a list growth and sales tool, but worried about how well it might actually work? Tune in to this episode to hear us dive into key strategic considerations behind the content, promotion, placement, and post-workshop nurture. Take Kirsty's assessment to pinpoint your communication style, and get personalized insight on where you excel, where you could improve, and some strategies to try this week. Join Amy's newsletter and get weekly insights on how to build and grow a sustainable business that fills your coffers and feeds your soul. Got a question? Click here to ask us!
If you've ever said to yourself, “Porn ruined my life” — but still find yourself going back to it — this episode is for you.For years, I believed quitting porn was about discipline, willpower, and avoiding temptation. But what I eventually discovered — both in my own recovery and in my work with men — is that porn addiction isn't just about pleasure. It's about attachment. And often, it's an attachment not only to pleasure… but to pain.In this episode, I explore a side of porn addiction recovery that almost no one talks about: grieving your porn addiction.Whether you realize it or not, porn has likely been a relationship in your life — a companion you turned to for comfort, escape, connection, control, or relief from emotional pain. And when you try to quit porn without understanding what it's been doing for you emotionally, your nervous system resists. That's why porn cravings feel so powerful. That's why relapse feels inevitable. And that's why so many men stay stuck in shame-based cycles.We dive deep into the psychology and neuroscience of porn addiction, including:Why your brain can become attached to both pleasure and punishmentHow early emotional wounds and trauma shape porn useWhy your sexual fantasies aren't random — and what they reveal about unmet emotional needsHow attachment to familiarity (even painful familiarity) keeps porn addiction aliveWhy willpower alone fails — and what actually leads to lasting recoveryI also walk you through a step-by-step emotional process for grieving porn — not shaming it, not white-knuckling it, but understanding it — so you can finally leave it behind without fear, self-hatred, or constant relapse.If you're tired of fighting yourself… If you feel disconnected from your body, your relationships, or your purpose… If quitting porn feels harder than it “should”…You're not broken. And you're not weak.You may simply be trying to walk away from something your nervous system believes it still needs — without honoring the grief underneath it.This episode will help you understand:What porn has been symbolically trying to give youWhat you're afraid of losing if you let it goAnd how to meet those needs in ways that actually align with who you areThis is porn addiction recovery rooted in psychology, emotional healing, and compassion — not fear or control.Listen in, and let's talk about the real path to freedom.Link to Blog Article for this episodeIf you're looking for deeper support and real connection in recovery, I'm opening the No More Desire Brotherhood on January 15th. The pre-launch is open right now, and when you join you'll get free lifetime access to my 4 Pillars of Recovery mini-course, plus exclusive pre-launch bonuses. You can learn more and join here: https://www.nomoredesire.com/prelaunchGrab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Support the showNo More Desire
"Why can't I stay hard?"It's one of the most painful, confusing, and silent questions men carry — and one that too many men are afraid to ask out loud.If you've ever lost your erection during sex, if you've ever felt performance anxiety take over your body, if you can get aroused with porn but struggle with a real partner, or if you've wondered whether porn addiction has rewired your brain and damaged your ability to connect —This episode is for you.In today's conversation, I sit down with Shay Doran, a men's coach who specializes in helping men overcome erectile dysfunction, sexual performance anxiety, and porn-related arousal issues. Shay has lived this struggle himself — and now helps men all over the world rebuild confidence, presence, and intimacy from the inside out.This is not a surface-level conversation.We go deep into the psychology of performance anxiety, the neuroscience of arousal, and the emotional patterns that keep men stuck in shame, overthinking, and disconnection.We talk about why erectile dysfunction in young men is becoming more common, why pills often fail to fix the real problem, and how porn conditioning quietly trains the brain away from real intimacy.But most importantly, we talk about how to heal.We talk honestly about masculinity, self-esteem, and how many men use porn as a way to prove to themselves that they're “still okay” — even while it slowly deepens the disconnection they're trying to escape.If you've ever thought, “What's wrong with me?”, if you've felt broken, ashamed, or afraid, this issue will ruin your relationship, and if you want real answers instead of generic advice This episode will meet you right where you are.You're not broken, your body isn't failing you, and this struggle doesn't define your worth as a man.It's a signal — and it can be healed.Check out Shay's Youtube at: https://www.youtube.com/@shay-doranInterested in taking Shays Performance Anxiety Quiz? : https://shay-doran.com/free-quiz/If you're looking for deeper support and real connection in recovery, I'm opening the No More Desire Brotherhood on January 15th. The pre-launch is open right now, and when you join you'll get free lifetime access to my 4 Pillars of Recovery mini-course, plus exclusive pre-launch bonuses. You can learn more and join here: https://www.nomoredesire.com/prelaunchGrab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Support the showNo More Desire
You've probably heard it a thousand times: “Use AI or get left behind.” But if you're a course creator, that advice can feel like a trap, because the fastest way to “use AI” is also the fastest way to sound generic and lose your voice. In this episode, I sit down with Dan Cumberland, who helps founder-led brands scale with AI without losing their soul, and honestly, this conversation felt like a giant exhale. We dig into how to use AI in a way that keeps your content human, especially when it comes to marketing (the place most course creators get stuck). Dan shares a simple framework to help AI actually sound like you, plus practical examples of using AI inside your course experience to support students at a higher level, without turning your brand into “AI slop.” Watch the episode: https://youtu.be/inOBNS15RfQ Dan's Website: https://dancumberlandlabs.com/ Watch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshop Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coachingFree Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguyX: https://twitter.com/onlinecourseguy
Most men don't struggle with porn addiction because they lack discipline.They struggle because they were never taught how to understand, regulate, or work with their emotions.In this episode, I sit down with Rich Savoy—a coach, leader with Husband Material, and longtime mentor to men—to have one of the most honest conversations I've ever had about men, emotions, masculinity, and porn addiction recovery. We go beneath behavior and willpower and into the emotional and psychological roots that quietly keep men stuck in the cycle of shame, relapse, and self-criticism.If you've tried to quit porn and found yourself asking “Why do I keep going back?”—this episode will give you clarity, relief, and a new path forward.In this conversation, we explore:Why porn addiction is rarely about sex—and almost always about emotional painHow emotional suppression and shame fuel compulsive porn use in menThe difference between healthy masculinity and the “man box” most of us were raised inWhy willpower fails and emotional intelligence changes everythingHow Internal Family Systems (IFS) and parts work explain porn addiction at the rootWhy the part of you that turns to porn isn't broken—and what it's actually trying to protectWe also talk candidly about firefighter parts, shame cycles, emotional avoidance, and why many faith-based or performance-driven recovery approaches unintentionally make porn addiction worse.This episode is for men who are tired of fighting themselves.Men who want to overcome porn addiction without shame.Men who are ready to reclaim masculinity through presence, emotional awareness, and self-leadership—not suppression.If you've ever felt trapped between wanting to be strong and feeling deeply human at the same time, this conversation will resonate.Resources mentioned:Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapyNo Bad Parts by Dr. Richard SchwartzAltogether You by Jenna RiemersmaBoundaries for Your Soul by Kim MillerPodcasts and teachings from Drew Boa and Husband MaterialIf this episode helped you, I'd encourage you to listen with an open mind—and share it with a man who needs to hear that he's not broken, weak, or beyond hope.Porn addiction recovery is possible.And it starts with emotional healing.Explore more of Rich's work at:https://www.husbandmaterial.com/Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
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When I first started building a real recovery lifestyle, I believed the answer to breaking porn addiction was more control — more discipline, more structure, more “push harder.”But the truth is, that mindset only kept me trapped in dopamine overload, emotional numbness, and a constant battle against myself.In this episode, I sit down with my friend Jeremy Lipkowitz — former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of The Unhooked Academy — to explore a radically different, science-backed path to freedom from porn addiction. Together, we break down how chronic stimulation from smartphones, social media, and porn fragments your attention, dysregulates your nervous system, and keeps you from feeling present, alive, and connected to the people you love.We dive into the neuroscience behind dopamine dysregulation, the psychology of shame and perfectionism, and the emotional patterns that keep men locked in compulsive behavior. I share what happened during my own 30-day presence challenge — how putting my phone away transformed my marriage, my mental clarity, and my sense of identity — and why learning to cultivate presence, embodiment, and noble pleasure is essential to losing your desire for porn.This conversation blends neuroscience, mindfulness, masculine leadership, and real emotional healing to show you how to rewire your brain, regulate your emotions, and build a recovery mindset defined by presence, purpose, and genuine internal peace.In This Episode, We Explore: • Why willpower and white-knuckling fail — and how awareness and emotional regulation create real freedom from porn addiction • How dopamine overload from technology and porn trains your brain for distraction, restlessness, and chronic dissatisfaction • The difference between base pleasures and noble pleasures — and how earned dopamine rebuilds identity and direction • How shame, fear, and perfectionism fuel addiction — and how to transform painful emotions instead of escaping them • The role of mindfulness, presence, and embodiment in healing the nervous system and rewiring cravings • Why smartphone addiction and porn addiction are neurologically intertwined — and how a simple phone detox can reset your brain • How relational connection, vulnerability, and community become powerful antidotes to cravings and isolation • Practical methods to rewire your brain through mindfulness, intentional routines, and recovery-focused habitsIf you've been fighting yourself in recovery, this conversation will help you make peace with your mind, reconnect with your body, and build a lifestyle where porn no longer has a pull on you.You don't overcome porn addiction by forcing yourself to be stronger. You overcome it by becoming more present, more aware, and more connected to what truly brings you life.Link to the Blog Article for This Episode If you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcSupport the showNo More Desire
Send us a textListen if you self-sabotageIf you've ever wondered why you keep falling into the same habits, the same blocks, or the same frustrating cycles, this episode is going to hit home. I'm diving deep into self-sabotage (the quiet, often unconscious ways you get in your own way and hold yourself back from the life, relationships, success, and happiness you're trying to create)You'll hear why these repeat patterns show up again and again, even when you know what you “should” be doing, and even when you genuinely want things to change. We explore the inner mechanisms that trigger self-sabotage, the hidden beliefs that keep you stuck, and the subtle ways your mind tries to protect you by doing the opposite of what you need.And because awareness is only the first step, this episode also includes a powerful guided exercise designed to help you interrupt these patterns and start shifting them in real time. If you're tired of being the one thing standing between you and your goals… if you're ready to understand why you keep repeating the same self-sabotaging behaviours… and if you want a practical tool you can use anytime you feel yourself slipping back into old patterns - you'll want to listen all the way through.Support the showBOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL Other useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Send us a textIf you worry and spiral, this episode is with you in mind. I'm thinking of you if you catch yourself fixating on a mistake you made, or worrying about someone abandoning you, or worrying about what might go wrong...and it takes over your mind and can be paralysing.This pattern is truly a therapy insight, this is a key part of education for managing worry and it could really make a difference if you are keen to worry less.Keywords: worry, overthinking, anxiety, mental habits, stress, self-awareness, coping strategies, emotional resilience, mindset, ruminationSupport the showBOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL Other useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
In this episode, I sit down with Benny Lewis from Fluent in 3 Months to talk about what it really takes to stand out in a crowded online course space. We dig into how he turned a simple PDF into a global brand, why timing isn't the barrier people think it is, and what creators should focus on right now to grow. We also get into positioning, pricing, viral content, and the mindset that's helped Benny stay relevant for over a decade. If you're wondering how to differentiate yourself or how to start today without feeling “too late,” this conversation is for you. Watch the episode: https://youtu.be/uQqYSBXpZH8 Benny's Website: https://www.fluentin3months.com/ Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coaching Watch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshop Free Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/ Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguyX: https://twitter.com/onlinecourseguy
If you've ever wondered why you can't “just stop” watching porn—why you cycle through cravings, shame, self-promises, and relapse—this episode will change the way you see your struggle forever. Because the truth is, porn addiction is not a willpower problem. It's a nervous system problem.In this episode, I'm joined by my friend and colleague Chris Chandler, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), trauma specialist, and one of the most grounded, brilliant men I know in the world of addiction neuroscience, trauma healing, and nervous system regulation. Together, we break down the deep biological, emotional, and spiritual roots of pornography addiction and why most men stay stuck for years without ever understanding why.We explore polyvagal theory, the fight-flight-freeze response, and how sympathetic activation, dorsal vagal shutdown, and ventral vagal connection shape everything—from your cravings and emotional triggers to your patterns of withdrawal, anxiety, and relational disconnection.This isn't just another conversation about “trying harder.”This is about learning how your body, brain, and nervous system actually work—and how to regulate yourself in moments of anxiety, craving, emotional pain, conflict, and stress.We discuss practical strategies for recovery, including:Vagus nerve regulationBreathwork for anxietyEmbodiment practices that increase emotional presenceIFS (Internal Family Systems) for understanding your protective partsHealthy boundaries and relational repairMindfulness for addictionAnd why the opposite of addiction is connection, not sobrietyIf you're ready to stop feeling defeated…If you're ready to stop fighting your body and start understanding it…If you're ready to step into grounded masculinity, emotional depth, and real long-term recovery…Explore more of Chris's work at: https://www.breathtobones.com/Learn more about his program at: https://www.joinrelay.app/Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
Send us a textIn this episode, we dive deep into the moments that send us spinning and spiralling. Christina Lane joins us for an honest conversation about what a spiral really is, how to recognise the early signs, and how to support yourself so you can respond instead of react.We explore whether it's truly possible to stop being triggered by certain things, why triggers happen in the first place, and how self-awareness can shift the entire experience. Christina also shares practical strategies to prevent a spiral, interrupt it once it starts, and guide yourself back before you reach the point of regret.If you're struggling with spiralling and feeling like it's out of your control - this episode will help you understand the answer and show you how to navigate the moment with more clarity, compassion, and control.Christina would love to gift listeners her free somatic tools -an Audio Reset for Men and a Journal for Women- both designed to bring you back into presence and connection.Listeners can access them through: www.christinalanecoaching.com/emailSupport the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
How much has your inner child been running the show? What parts have been hiding, stuck in a loop, or calling out for attention? This end-of-year challenge has been a long time coming. We're going straight to the core: childhood, where we first learn (or don't learn) safety, trust, boundaries, independence, creativity, playfulness, and joy. You'll embark on a somatic journey through every developmental phase to reclaim what's been buried and bypassed to reparent your inner child and reprogram the blocks standing in your way.Whether you've been with TBM since the beginning or you're joining from the book tour, this is your invitation to step into the cocoon and rewire for what's next. This challenge is our gift to you—and your portal to alignment, clarity, deep healing, and magnetism.Reminder: Our biggest sale ever is live! Take 30% off your Pathway membership just in time for the challenge and step into this next year as your most magnetic, aligned version of self.Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: Big End of Year SALE - 30% off with code MAGNETISM30The Pathway Annual Subscription HereThe Pathway Monthly Subscription Here Return to Magic - 15 Day Manifestation ChallengeA 15-day guided journey to reparent your inner child, reconnect with your magic, and step into this new year as your most confident, regulated, and magnetic self yet. Join our membership to access! Pre-week Dec 1st, kickoff Dec 8th! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin us at the How To Manifest Book Tour - LA 12/6 (Early Bird Discount available) Join our HTM Book Club! Walk step by step through the TBM Manifestation Process with Lacy and Jessica as we read HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy PhillipsJoin the Pathway now - NEW End of Year Challenge launching Dec 1st! Big End of Year SALE - 30% off with code MAGNETISM30 New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what's holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! 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Use code MAGNETIC at checkout for 15% off. us.boncharge.com/MAGNETIC In this episode we talk about:What the “stripping” of 2025 really means and why it's not punishment, but preparationThe energetic roadmap from book launch to speaking tour to this challenge — and what's coming nextWhy your inner child is the root of all manifestation and the true foundation for authentic magnetismWhat to expect from each childhood phase: trust, autonomy, play, purpose, and identityUsing embodiment to meet your unmet needs in real life, not just the subconsciousWhy sourcing safety within is your strongest defense against fear, chaos, and distractionThe cultural shift away from instant gratification and into deeper process and slower growthHow AI, social media, and performative “authenticity” are collapsing—and what replaces themThe link between creativity and purpose: how play unlocks your giftsA look ahead to 2026: why your authenticity will be your superpowerStillness as medicine and the counterintuitive truth that being is more powerful than doingInvitation to reclaim your name, your body, your story—so that the world can reflect the light you came here to shine Mentioned In the Episode: Expanded x Ep. 318 - Speeding up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna ZoeExpanded x Ep. 262 - Being Your Most Magnetic Self in Relationship with Mark Groves#483: How to Effortlessly Manifest Your Dream Life: Lacy PhillipsCREATIVITY RITUAL CANDLE | Inner Radiance + Flow State - Use code TBM20 for 20% off purchaseJoin our HTM Book Club! Walk step by step through the TBM Manifestation Process with Lacy and Jessica as we read HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy PhillipsFind our Money Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Shadow DI, Safe DI, and Purpose & Soul's Essence DI) Join us at the How To Manifest Book Tour!LA 12/6Limited VIP & Early Bird Discount available HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Pre-Order NOW The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM's Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.At TBM, we've redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you'll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you're meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
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If you've ever wondered why you feel numb, disconnected, or unable to access the full depth of your emotions—this episode may hit closer to home than anything you've heard before.In today's episode, I dig into one of the most overlooked factors in porn addiction recovery: your relationship with your physical body. We talk about why so many men feel emotionally flat, why empathy feels harder than it should, and why your motivation and sense of direction can feel so distant—even when you're trying your best to change.And the truth is not what most of us were taught.Porn addiction isn't just a “mind” problem.It's not just a spiritual issue.It's not even primarily about willpower.Porn addiction is deeply tied to emotional numbness—numbness created by years of disconnecting from your body.Neuroscience is very clear: when your insula (the brain's interoception center) becomes weakened through compulsive behaviors, overstimulation, and technology addiction, your ability to feel, connect, empathize, and motivate yourself declines dramatically.In other words:The less connected you are to your body, the easier it is to get stuck in porn. And the more embodied you become, the easier recovery becomes.I also share my personal journey—how I unknowingly detached from my body through achievement addiction, overstimulation, and constant phone use… and how reconnecting with my body changed my emotional life, my marriage, and my recovery.This episode will help you understand:Why you feel numb—and how to reverse itWhy empathy feels hard—and how to get it backWhy porn cravings stay strong—and how embodiment dissolves themWhy your identity feels shaky—and how to anchor it againHow to restore the body–mind connection that drives true recoveryIf you're ready to experience real emotional presence, deeper connection with your wife, healthier masculinity, and the strength required to overcome porn addiction long-term, this episode is a must-listen.This is not about willpower. It's about embodiment. It's about reconnection. It's about becoming whole again.Listen now and learn how to feel again.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
Send us a textUnderstanding self-esteem and recognising if you're anxiety is related to low self-worthIn this episode we will spend some quality time breaking down the most common signs of low self-esteem using the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale which is a trusted psychological tool for measuring a person's overall self-esteemRecognising low self-esteem is important because it helps you understand the root of how you think, feel, and behave. When you become aware of whether your self-esteem is strong, shaky, or inconsistent, you can start to understand why you react the way you do - why certain situations trigger you, why you feel anxious or stuck, or why certain patterns keep repeating - we need that if we want to change and strengthen self esteemI am Carly Ann, and I'm on a mission to bring the wisdom of therapy beyond the couch — helping people grow, connect, and thrive in life and love. This is not a replacement for therapy, but a space where you can learn practical tools, gain insight, and feel supported as you navigate life from your old self to your new selfFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carlyann_therapy/Join stuck to Secure: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-course1:1 Therapy & Coaching: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/work-with-carly-annFree Workshop: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/free-btc-workshopSupport the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Ever feel like you're building a course based on what everyone else is doing instead of what actually fits your life and your students' needs? In this episode, I chat with speech coach Mike Pacchione—who's worked with the likes of Amy Porterfield and Donald Miller—about how he's built a high-impact, low-complexity program that prioritizes feedback and alignment over scale. We explore what it looks like to run a hybrid course, why he doesn't offer a standalone version, and how to design offers around what actually works for you. Watch the Free Workshop: https://oc.show/workshop Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9uRLFc0Di5M Mike's Website: http://speechclub.club/ Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coachingWatch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshopFree Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguyX: https://twitter.com/onlinecourseguy
Most men battling porn addiction think their problem is “lust,” “self-control,” or “not being disciplined enough.” But for millions of men, the real issue is something far deeper—and far more common—than they realize.In this powerful and eye-opening episode, I sit down with Dr. Doug Carpenter, licensed psychologist and author of the groundbreaking book Secret Shame, to uncover the hidden link between male sexual abuse, childhood sexual trauma, shame, and porn addiction.What Doug reveals in this conversation is staggering—and every man needs to hear it.For decades, men have been suffering in silence. Many grew up believing that what happened to them wasn't “real” abuse. Others felt that their body's response meant they “wanted it,” “caused it,” or that something was fundamentally wrong with them. Most never told anyone.But the truth is this:Male sexual trauma is far more common than reported—and its impact on a man's sexuality, masculinity, and identity is enormous.And for many, it becomes the hidden engine powering porn addiction, compulsive sexual behavior, PIED (porn-induced erectile dysfunction), and emotional avoidance in adulthood.In this episode, we unpack how early exposure, sexual imprinting, and shame wire the brain toward addictive behavior—and how men can finally begin to heal through neuroscience-backed practices, spiritual grounding, trauma-informed support, and masculine emotional leadership.This is not a heavy, dark episode. This is a hopeful one—filled with clarity, compassion, truth, and a real recovery roadmap.In This Episode, We Explore:Why one in six men have experienced some form of sexual abuse—and why most don't disclose for 25+ yearsHow childhood sexual trauma, early sexual exposure, and porn imprint the developing brainThe neuroscience behind compulsive sexual behavior and why willpower alone failsThe truth about sexual identity confusion and why it's the #1 side effect of male sexual abuseWhy your body's response during abuse does not define your sexuality, masculinity, or identityHow shame becomes the fuel source for porn addictionThe survivor's journey from victim → survivor → thriverHow to start healing sexual shame and rebuilding healthy masculinityWhy trauma-informed therapy and brotherhood are essential for overcoming pornWhat real recovery looks like when men stop fighting themselves and start understanding themselvesExplore more of Doug's work at HusbandMaterial.com.Want to dive deeper into his insights? Visit: douglascarpenter.comLink to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
Send us a textWe break down the common mindset pattern that shows up in the therapy room over and over again - it fuels shame, anxiety, and low self-worth - the subtle thinking style that convinces you you're always behind, always falling short, and never quite “enough.” If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or constantly judging yourself, this episode will help you understand why.If you have goals, dreams, or even the desire to feel better in your own life, you need to stop falling into this trap. You'll learn how this unhelpful thinking pattern shows up in everyday moments, and you'll hear a real example of someone who broke free from it.You'll walk away with a powerful cognitive reframe and guided prompts to help you reflect on your own day-to-day life - so you can interrupt this mindset and replace it with something grounded, compassionate, and truly empowering.If you're tired of feeling not enough, stuck, or weighed down by who you think you “should” be, this episode is for you, listen todaySupport the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Summary Struggling to stand out on Etsy? Discover how Nancy Badillo, a digital marketing expert with over 15 years of experience, turned her setbacks into a thriving Etsy business. In this episode, Nancy breaks down the exact market research and keyword strategies that help sellers find profitable niches, boost visibility, and increase their average order value. Learn how to create irresistible digital products, enhance user experience, and use personalization and bundles to drive more sales. If you want to master Etsy trends and grow your shop with proven techniques, this episode is your roadmap to success.
Do you ever feel like your mind just won't stop racing?Like you're constantly doing—working, scrolling, thinking, striving—but rarely being present?If you've ever felt trapped in busyness, anxiety, or mental chaos, this episode might be one of the most important you'll ever hear.In this solo episode, I explore one of the most overlooked truths about porn addiction recovery: your addiction isn't just about sexual compulsion—it's about disconnection. A restless, overstimulated brain craves relief. Porn becomes the shortcut.But the real problem runs deeper.Our constant distraction, productivity obsession, and dopamine overload keep us stuck in the same cycle of craving and shame.When your brain never stops seeking stimulation, it can't access stillness, focus, or peace. And that lack of presence doesn't just feed addiction—it weakens your relationships, your masculinity, and your spiritual connection.In this episode, I share:The neuroscience behind mental chaos and why an underactive prefrontal cortex keeps you craving porn.The hidden ways your phone, productivity, and social media feed the same dopamine system as pornography.How to break free from attention fragmentation and rewire your brain for calm focus.A 30-Day Challenge to restore balance between doing and being—and how this shift can heal your mind, your marriage, and your soul.Practical mindfulness and embodiment tools to ground your masculine energy and rebuild self-leadership.Why your relationship with stillness determines your ability to connect—with yourself, with others, and with God.I'll also share my own recent experience detoxing from technology—what it revealed about my mind, my family, and the subtle addictions hiding behind constant busyness.If you're ready to go beyond willpower and understand the psychology, neuroscience, and spirituality of true freedom, this episode will help you build the presence and balance you've been missing.Because overcoming porn addiction isn't just about quitting a habit—it's about retraining your brain to live differently.It's time to stop running and start being.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeSupport the showNo More Desire
Send us a textIf you've ever felt like your happiness depends on other people's approval, or like you keep losing yourself trying to be “enough” this podcast is for you. Stop Giving Your Self-Worth & Happiness to Someone or Something Else is your reminder that you don't have to keep chasing validation - you can reclaim your confidence, peace, and power today.Carly Ann shares important therapy insights to help you reclaim your power and what is rightfully yours!Support the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
In this episode, I chat with Panos Siozos, CEO of LearnWorlds, about what sets successful course creators apart and how platforms like his are evolving with AI, instructional design, and community-building tools to help elevate the student experience and online course outcomes. Watch the Free Workshop: https://oc.show/workshop Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dXt6s2Z8NZ4Panos' Website: http://learnworlds.com/ Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coaching Watch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshop Free Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/ Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguy
What if the real reason you can't stop watching porn… isn't porn itself?In this episode of the No More Desire Podcast, I dive deep into the hidden connection between tech addiction, dopamine, and porn addiction recovery — and why constant distraction may be the true enemy of your freedom.We live in a world built to hijack your attention. From smartphones and social media to the endless scroll of entertainment, every digital interaction trains your brain for instant gratification. Over time, this dopamine overload rewires your reward system, weakens your self-control, and makes you more vulnerable to pornography addiction.But here's the truth: your brain isn't broken. It's just conditioned. And what's been conditioned can be reconditioned.In this powerful, science-backed, spiritually grounded conversation, I'll walk you through:The neuroscience of dopamine and addiction — how tech overstimulation leads to desensitization and “hypofrontality,” weakening your prefrontal cortex (the part of your brain responsible for focus and discipline).The psychology of distraction — how “attentional fragmentation” leaves men restless, unfocused, and disconnected from their purpose.The real link between porn addiction and technology addiction — and how both exploit the same reward circuitry in the brain.Ancient wisdom and modern mindfulness — what Jesus, the Buddha, and modern neuroscience all agree on: the power of stillness, presence, and self-awareness to rewire the addicted brain.Practical methods for recovery — including my 30-Day Presence Challenge to help you regain control of your attention, rebuild your dopamine balance, and reconnect with real life and real people.This episode is a call to arms for men who are tired of distractions running their lives. It's about replacing compulsive stimulation with conscious connection — with your body, your relationships, and your higher purpose.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeRecoverycast: Mental Health & Addiction Recovery StoriesReal talk, real recovery, actually entertaining. Find Recoverycast now.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showNo More Desire
Summary Discover how Passive Income Angel hit a $10K month on Etsy by mastering trends, timing, and creative strategy. In this episode, Cody Berman dives into Angel's journey from early struggles to thriving in the print-on-demand world. She reveals how to spot seasonal product trends, time listings 8–12 weeks before holidays, and use micro niches to boost visibility and sales. Learn how AI tools, personalization, and bundling can set your shop apart — and why understanding keyword research and aesthetics across holidays can unlock year-round sales.
When I first began my recovery journey, I believed the answer to ending porn addiction was more control — more willpower, more discipline, more “try harder.”But the truth is, that mindset only deepened my shame and made me fight harder against myself.In this episode, I sit down with Jeremy Lipkowitz — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of The Unhooked Academy — to explore a radically different path to freedom from porn addiction.We dive deep into the power of mindfulness and self-compassion as tools to overcome shame, heal the mind, and rewire the brain for peace and presence. This conversation bridges neuroscience, psychology, and Buddhist philosophy, showing you how mindfulness can create real, lasting change from the inside out.
Send us a textIn this episode you will be given a simple therapy framework that could help you make sense of any problem, and actually interrupt it in real time. This is truly a powerful therapeutic framework designed to give you key insight and understanding into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, and habits. Meaning you can break old subconscious patterns and cycles.You'll learn this tool applies to common challenges like anxious attachment, procrastination, and worry, and discover how the same process can be used to navigate almost anything life throws your way.We'll break down each step of the framework, share real-world examples, and give you guided self-reflection prompts so you can start using it for your own growth and clarity right away.Whether you're a therapist, a self-development enthusiast, or just someone ready to stop feeling stuck, this episode will help you see your patterns clearly, interrupt them compassionately, and create space for change.Support the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
In this episode, I chat with Rick Howard, who went from struggling consultant to six-figure course creator thanks to one unexpected viral YouTube video. We dive into how Rick's background in federal government contracting set the stage, and how consistency—plus smart content strategy—completely transformed his business without spending a dime on ads.Watch the Free Workshop: https://oc.show/workshop Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KisUdvcZGnc Rick's Website: https://govclose.com/ Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coaching Watch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshop Free Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/ Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguy
Send us a textGetting triggered over and over can be exhausting. It is frustrating when you can't control your reaction to the same trigger. If your triggers have been running the show lately, this episode is for you. Today, we're diving into what it means to be triggered. I'll walk you through four key pieces of psychoeducation that will completely change the way you see your triggers. This is what I always want my client to take-away. Think of this episode as a therapy session for your triggers - one that helps you move from “I can't believe I did that again” to “Ah, this is how I can move forward”Believe it or not, when you can meet your triggers with curiosity instead of criticism, you stop living in reaction mode and start feeling safe inside yourself again.Support the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
When you love someone who's caught in addiction—whether it's porn, alcohol, or anything else that numbs pain—the chaos doesn't just stay with them. It spills into your relationship, your emotions, and even your identity.In this episode of The No More Desire Podcast, I sit down with Holly Thornton, author of The Hardest Help, who's lived through the agony of betrayal trauma, manipulation, and loss—and emerged with compassion, clarity, and tools that actually work.Together, we explore what most recovery conversations miss: how addiction and betrayal trauma intertwine, and how both partners can begin to heal through boundaries, empathy, and truth.If you're a man working to overcome porn addiction, this episode will give you a powerful glimpse into what your spouse experiences on the other side of your addiction—and how understanding her pain can transform your recovery.And if you're the partner of someone battling addiction, you'll learn how to support your loved one without losing yourself, why “rock bottom” is a dangerous myth, and what practical, compassion-based methods like the CRAFT approach can do to restore hope.In This Episode, We Explore:How betrayal trauma affects the brain—and why partners of addicts often feel anxious, confused, or “crazy.”The myth of rock bottom and why waiting for collapse keeps you trapped in addiction.Emotional regulation tools rooted in neuroscience to calm the nervous system and build resilience.The psychology of boundaries—how to protect yourself and rebuild trust without punishing or controlling your partner.Why curiosity heals more than confrontation, and how to communicate in a way that promotes safety, not shame.How small daily actions rewire the addicted brain through neuroplasticity and consistency.Spiritual and psychological integration—how empathy, compassion, and ownership reconnect you to your True Self.This conversation isn't about blame—it's about healing through understanding.It's about becoming a man who doesn't just say “I'm sorry,” but lives as someone who's safe to love.Because real recovery isn't just about quitting porn—it's about becoming whole, grounded, and emotionally present enough to lead yourself and your relationship with integrity.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, visit NoMoreDesire.com and apply for my 1-on-1 Porn Addiction Recovery Coaching Program. You'll gain the structured tools, accountability, and training you need to transform not only your habits—but your heart.Grab my Free eBook and Free Workshop for more strategies to overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your lifeFollow Holly at thehardesthelp.comor on Instagram @holly_jthortonSupport the showNo More Desire
In this free workshop and guide, you'll learn how to stop caring what other people think so you can care more about what YOU think, and live life on YOUR terms instead.Get it for free here: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/hsc
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I've never done this before - but this week, I'm sharing something really special.Instead of a new episode, you're getting a behind-the-scenes coaching workshop from inside The Put Yourself First Sisterhood.This session is called Clear the Mental Load, and it's designed to help you drop out of overwhelm, close all those mental “tabs,” and feel calm, clear, and in control again.If your mind has been full of open loops, to-dos, and decisions -this session will help you:✨ Release the stress you've been holding in your body✨ Brain-dump everything weighing on your mind✨ Identify your quick wins to feel lighter instantly✨ Delegate and ask for support (without guilt!)✨ Systemise and automate the things that drain your energy✨ Reframe the stories that keep you stuck in overthinkingWhether you listen while walking, journaling, or tidying the house - let this be your reset.You'll walk away with more space, ease, and clarity for what truly matters.And if you love this, it's just a taste of what's waiting for you inside The Sisterhood.Join now and get instant access to our Magnetic Feminine Playbook, plus a free trial to explore everything inside.
Send us a textIs morning anxiety a problem? Mornings is one of the times people can feel in a real funkWaking up with a racing heart, a clouded mind, or a sense of dread is a common theme and I believe the sooner we get a handle of our mornings the sooner we can start the day of fresh and feeling more like ourselves (and happy!) In this episode, we dive into how to help when mornings can feel like the hardest part of the day. We explore the roots of morning anxiety.Support the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Send us a textTonight, I'm feeling inspired to share with you.If you're in the thick of it right now - feeling triggered, anxious, overwhelmed, maybe caught in your thoughts or emotions - I am meeting you right thereWhere you can't let go, stop worrying, or calm down - I've recorded this for youSometimes we just need someone to pause with us, to remind us that we can soften, breathe, and come back to ourselves. So today, I want to offer a few gentle tools to help soothe your anxiety and reconnect with your calm in real time.This space is for you to slow down even in the middle of the storm.I truly hope it helpsIf you need support right now, check out Stuck to Secure and have me as your coach and mentor: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-courseSupport the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Send us a textDo you find yourself endlessly waiting for a text, replaying conversations, or worrying about whether you upset someone? That's your anxiety showing up and it usually means you're stuck in old patterns instead of truly feeling your emotions.We act out as a way to feel better, and it often makes you feel worseIn this episode, I'll explain what it really means to feel your feelings and why sitting with them is so important for breaking anxious cycles. I'll give examples that anxious attachers commonly experience, like waiting for messages, overthinking interactions, or catastrophising about someone pulling away.You'll also get a practical checklist you can use to pause, notice, and work with your feelings in the moment, so you can respond to life instead of reacting out of habit.This episode is for anyone ready to stop letting old patterns control their heart, and start learning how to feel without fear.Support the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Episode GB013-02 CJ's Advanced SEO Strategy - How to use your Blog to Attract More Clients CJ explains: "How to use your Blog for SEO!" (This is PART TWO... Don't Miss PART ONE!) Listen https://www.askawebgeek.com/wp-content/uploads/geek-bytes-013-02-Advanced-SEO-Strategy.mp3 -- Blog = Advanced SEO ++ How to do a month of work in 2 hours. *** Learn more about Using your Website to Work for You! - CJ's Free Workshop - http://MyWebsiteSafari.com Ask a Web Geek: Join our FB group: See Ask a Web Geek (@FB) Jump into our ongoing conversations! What are YOUR questions? How can we HELP YOU? More Resources: More Resources & links at Jungle-Studios.com/resources BONUS Trainings and Resources! Refer to / Browse https://jungle-studios.com/meet-cj Download Episode Related Episodes GB013-02 – CJ's Advanced SEO Strategy – How to use your Blog to Attract More Clients by CJ Gilbert | Oct 15, 2025 | Geek BytesEpisode GB013-02 CJ's Advanced SEO Strategy - How to use your Blog to Attract More ClientsCJ explains: "How to use your Blog for SEO!" (This is PART TWO... Don't Miss PART ONE!)-- Blog = Advanced SEO ++ How to do a month of work in 2 hours. *** Learn more about... GB013-01 – CJ's Easy-to-use SEO Strategy – How to Attract More Clients to Your Website by CJ Gilbert | Oct 13, 2025 | Geek BytesEpisode GB013-01 CJ's Easy-to-use SEO Strategy - How to Attract More Clients to Your WebsiteCJ explains: "What is SEO?" -- Are you Lost in the SEO Jungle? Get too much Scam Email? Snake Oil! How to get more valuable traffic? -- CJ's Easy-to-use SEO Strategy On Page =... New Topics Discussed Weekly Join our Facebook Group Today! Want to Join Us? Join our FB Group to Ask a Question and Participate LIVE Play / Watch / Listen 1.) Join Us on Facebook 2.) Watch on YouTube 3.) Follow Us on Twitter 4.) Listen by Podcast Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | RSS
Send us a textJoin stuck to Secure HEREFeeling stuck in a cycle, habit, trigger, or mood you just can't seem to break? You're not alone - and you don't have to stay stuck. In this Workshop, Carly Ann guides you through a powerful 5-Step Therapy Framework designed to help you interrupt the patterns that are keeping you stuck and create real, lasting change. Whether it's emotional spirals, unhelpful habits, or recurring triggers, this framework gives you the tools to understand what's happening, reset your mindset, and move forward with confidence. Once you learn it, you can return to it any time, in any area of your life. Expect big “aha” moments - so grab your notebook, your favourite drink, and get cosy. Let's break the cycle togetherSupport the showOther useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk
Ever put off launching your online course because you're worried about content theft or unsure which legal steps to take? You're not alone—and that's why I brought in Harvard Law grad turned online entrepreneur Bobby Klinck. In this episode, we tackle the biggest legal fears and misconceptions course creators face, from copyright and trademarks to LLCs, privacy policies, and beyond. Bobby shares how his own failed launch taught him priceless lessons and led to a thriving business helping others get legally legit. If you want to protect your course and launch with confidence, this episode is for you. Watch the Free Workshop: https://oc.show/workshop Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3bwxAPrG2-o Bobby's Website: https://www.plainlylegal.com/?ref=rm3k12 USPTO: https://www.uspto.gov/ Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coaching Watch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshop Free Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/ Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguy
Summary Want to create digital products faster and sell smarter on Etsy? In this episode of Crickets to Cha-Chings, Cody Berman sits down with Canva expert Jen Michele to reveal the exact tools and strategies that save time and boost sales. Jen shares how market research prevents wasted effort, why niching down improves visibility, and the Canva features every seller should know—like the brand kit for consistency, magic resize for instant product variations, bulk create for guided journals, and the all-new Canva Sheets for spreadsheets. Whether you're just starting or scaling your online shop, you'll learn practical design tips to work more efficiently and turn ideas into products customers actually want.
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Free Workshop for Midlife Women Struggling with weight gain, belly fat, and hormones that feel out of control? Join me September 29-October 1 for the Beat the Belly Fat Workshop—3 days of practical, faith-filled coaching to reset your metabolism and reclaim your energy.
In this episode, Julie Berninger chats with Bailey Vann, who went from handmade crafts to thriving in sublimation and digital products. Bailey reveals why bundling designs boosts sales, how unexpected themes like ghosts, chickens, and raccoons are trending, and why collage aesthetics are taking over Etsy. She also shares customer insights that help small businesses stand out, plus the design tools she relies on—including Kittle—for creating products buyers love. Whether you're exploring print on demand or scaling your Etsy shop, this episode is packed with strategies to spot trends early and turn them into revenue. Time Stamps 00:00 Bailey's Etsy Journey 02:10 Hidden Gems in Digital Design 09:36 Understanding the Customer Base 12:44 Staying Ahead of Trends 15:31 AI Tools for Design Resources Bailey's AI & Design Club: https://go.goldcityventures.com/bailey-vann-ai https://goldcityventures.com/gifting-gold-podcast - Free Workshop to learn the basics of selling POD https://goldcityventures.com/workshop-pdcst - Free workshop to learn the basics of selling digital products online https://goldcityventures.com/pdcst - Gold City Ventures Website Kittl: https://go.goldcityventures.com/kittl
What if you could stop guessing about your online course funnel—and just build the one that actually sells? In this episode, I'm joined once again by John Ainsworth of Data Driven Marketing. John's tested countless funnels across real online course businesses and breaks down the three that are consistently working right now. Whether you're new to funnels or looking to fine-tune your current setup, this conversation is packed with practical, up-to-date strategies to help you convert more students. We also dive into why he rarely uses webinar funnels with clients (even though he loves them), what works better for lower-priced courses, and how high-ticket coaching offers can dramatically increase revenue—even in niches like banjo or piano. If you're feeling stuck on the funnel front, this episode will help you identify what to build next based on your price point and audience size. Watch the Free Workshop: https://oc.show/workshop Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/pIOYyCJiAGgJohn's Website: https://datadrivenmarketing.co/podcast/ Sign up for Jacques' Journal: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/Apply for Coaching: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/coachingWatch the Free Workshop: https://www.theonlinecourseguy.com/workshopFree Kajabi Course and 1 month Trial: http://everyclickkajabi.com/Free Skool Course and 14 day Trial: https://www.skool.com/refer?ref=c725cf8892fe42c8bb37dd7e5ffc2575Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theonlinecourseguy/Threads: https://www.threads.net/@theonlinecourseguyX: https://twitter.com/onlinecourseguy
Did you miss my Faith & Fitness Workshop live? I don't want you to miss out on creating a God-first fitness plan you'll actually stick to — so I'm sharing the full replay here as a special bonus episode!