The Mom Village Podcast

TMV Episode 85 - Back to Basics: The Value of Life Skills Pt. 1 The life skills we are sharing in this series are so fundamental to our lives as moms, that we have created a four-part series to make sure we cover them all. Today we discuss the importance of Christ-centred parenting and its role in teaching our children essential life skills. Join us as we define life skills that we as Christian mothers should possess and teach to our children, and hear from Kristin, Jismarie, and Kirra about the house rules that form the foundation for life in their homes. We touch on teaching manners, implementing rules, and more. We also share parenting goals and what it really looks like to teach our children to honor the Lord and be a blessing to others. Key Points From This Episode: Life skills Christian mothers should possess and teach to our children. Kristin and Jimmy's three house rules for their eight children: honor authority, tell the truth, and think of others. The importance of kids having other voices in their lives. Our responsibility to train our children to honor the Lord and be a blessing to others. The power of consistency. Parenting with the end in mind. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV Episode 84 - Biblical Principles - Part 2 Welcome back to part two of our two-part series on Biblical Principles through books, with the amazing Dr. Kelly Rhodes. In this episode we cover how the Awana program incorporates biblical teachings to support literacy development, Kelly's recommendations and best practices for fostering literacy skills at home, how to use secular resources to teach biblical principles, and  so much more! Key Points From This Episode: How the Awana program incorporates biblical teachings to support literacy development through the skill of memorization. Her recommendations for best practices for fostering literacy skills at home. Using secular books and resources to teach biblical principles. Recommended resources for middle-schoolers and older kids. Her thoughts on incorporating biblical principles in readying infants and toddlers for school (including reading readiness).. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Awana Program I Don't Want To Be A Frog Daily Bible Experience for Preteen Kids App Ted Decker Who Would Win Series National Park Mystery Series Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV Episode 83 - Biblical Principles - Part 1 As moms, we are often our children's first teachers, guiding them from crawling to brushing their teeth and even learning to read. We are thrilled to welcome a very special guest, Mrs. Kelly Rhodes. Kelly is a reading specialist with a wealth of experience and insight, here to share valuable tips and strategies for nurturing a love for reading through the lens of Biblical principles. Join us as we dive into part one of our two-part series with Kelly and explore how you can foster a passion for literature in your home and family with a Biblical worldview. Key Points From This Episode: The Biblical principles Kelly incorporates to maintain a literature-rich home. How she's fostered a love for reading and literature in her family. Tips and tricks to help kids learn to read. Her thoughts on audible books versus reading in hand. Kelly unpacks how biblical teachings can guide parents in supporting educators and teachers in the classroom and at home. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Who Would Win Book Series I Survived Book Series Ripley's Believe It or Not! Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter Kristin Scroggins

TMV Episode 82 - Our Testimonies - Part 2 Today, we're diving into part two of our mini-series, Our Testimonies. Join us as we explore the challenges we've faced and conquered in our faith. We delve into the profound impact our relationships with our families have had on all of our lives and our connection with our Heavenly Father. We share our insights on navigating moments of doubt, finding them as positive motivations, and how our multicultural backgrounds and encounters have enriched our walks with Jesus. Key Points From This Episode: Kristin unpacks the challenges she has encountered on her faith journey and discusses how she has overcome them. Kirra begins our discussion on how our relationships with our fathers impact our lives; including our relationship with our Heavenly Father. Navigating moments of doubt and uncertainty in our faith. Why having doubt can be a good thing to help us draw near to God. We share stories of how our multicultural backgrounds (and encounters) have enriched our faith journeys. The importance of building your life within your community (your village!) Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter Kristin Scroggins

TMV Episode 81 - Our Testimonies - Part 1 Today we are recognizing the importance of sharing our personal journeys about how we've grown in Christ, we decided to launch a special mini-series called Our Testimonies. We are diving into the details of our unique upbringings and discuss what inspired our faith journeys. We also reflect on pivotal moments where we encountered the truth of Jesus's identity, explore how our multicultural backgrounds have shaped our understanding of Jesus and our faith, and even share our middle names! Key Points From This Episode: Jismarie, Kirra, and Kristin share their testimonies. Special moments from our journeys that made us realize Jesus truly is who He says He is. How our multicultural backgrounds have influenced our understanding of Jesus and our faith. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter Kristin Scroggins

TMV Episode 80 - Childlike Prayer - Part 2 Welcome to part two of our first episode of season five of The Mom Village where we welcome Jed and Melanie Coppenger back to the show. In this episode, we continue our conversation on childlike prayer as we discuss how they incorporate prayer into their house, figuring out what to pray for, and how they encourage their older children to prioritize personal prayer time. Hear all about their prioritizing and modeling prayer for their children. Finally, the Coppengers share their favorite scriptures and resources they've used that encourages childlike prayer. Key Points From This Episode: What Jed and Melanie do to incorporate prayer into the fabric of their home.  The beauty of the Psalms and how to pray through the scriptures.  How they impart the importance of having personal prayer time with their older children.  Why they prioritize going to church on Sunday. Their favorite resources to help inspire childlike prayer.  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jed Coppenger Jed Coppenger on LinkedIn Jed Coppenger on X Jed Coppenger on Instagram Melanie Coppenger on X Melanie Coppenger on Instagram 21 Days to Childlike Prayer Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 79 - Childlike Prayer - Part 1 Welcome to the first episode of season five of The Mom Village! Today we welcome the wonderful Jed and Melanie Coppenger to discuss Jed's book, 21 Days to Childlike Prayer, and why it's important. You'll hear about our guests, how they met, and about their family. Jed tells us about his book and what some common prayer misconceptions are. Jed describes what childlike prayer is, the four principles of it, how it can be achieved, and how Melanie contributed to the writing of the book. Melanie then goes on to tell us how she prioritizes prayer as a busy mom and what principles of the book she applies to motherhood. The couple even discusses what their children have taught them about childlike prayer. Don't forget to stay tuned for part two of this episode! Key Points From This Episode: Jed tells us about his book and shares some common prayer misconceptions.  What Jed means by ‘childlike prayer' and how you can achieve it.  The four principles of childlike prayer.  What principles of the book have been most beneficial to Melanie as a mom.  How to prioritize prayer as a parent.  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jed Coppenger Jed Coppenger on LinkedIn Jed Coppenger on X Jed Coppenger on Instagram Melanie Coppenger on X Melanie Coppenger on Instagram 21 Days to Childlike Prayer Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on X Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on X Kristin Scroggins

TMV Episode 78 - Budgeting Part 2 God owns everything and we are called to be His stewards. By instilling God's financial principles in our families, we help develop a lifelong understanding of stewardship and discipline. In the second part of our discussion about budgeting, our special guest Dr. Art Rainer, is back to explain God's design for our finances. He shares practical wisdom that you can apply to your family's finances. Art highlights how to help our kids learn about the biblical principles of handling money, why you shouldn't catch your kids before they fall, four guiding principles about charitable giving, and tips on making giving practical. Tune in and listen! Key Points From This Episode: How to help kids learn about the biblical principles of handling money. Why letting your children make bad or unwise purchases is a great financial lesson. Charitable giving and how it is incorporated into biblical finances – four guiding principles. Tips on how to make giving (as a principle) practical. How to navigate the four different money personalities with biblical principles: the spender, the saver, the investor, and the ignorer. What happens when you start to align yourself with God's design for money. How to go about creating a will. Tax benefits and how to navigate that through God's design. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Art Rainer Art on LinkedIn Art on Instagram Art on X Money in the Light of Eternity: What the Bible Says about Your Financial Purpose Free Resources The Emergency Binder Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 77 - Budgeting - Part 1 We have been placed on earth and entrusted with the resources God has given us, so it's critical to learn to be good stewards of those resources. In this episode, we learn how to incorporate principles like stewardship, generosity, and trusting in God's provision in the financial management of our family budget. Our guest is Art Rainer, a devoted father, and husband to our favorite psychologist, Sarah Rainer. He is a financial advisor and the author of a book called Money in the Light of Eternity: What the Bible Says about Your Financial Purpose. He's going to discuss how to create a family budget that aligns with your long-term financial goals, his thoughts on preparing for unexpected expenses, and the importance of having cushion (or margin) in your budget. Tune in to hear from Art and more about his passion for helping people discover and pursue God's purpose for money. Key Points From This Episode: Creating a family budget that aligns with long-term financial goals while accounting for unexpected expenses. What to do to prepare for unexpected expenses. The importance of establishing a cushion (or margin) in your budget. Getting rid of expenses that are unnecessary. Biblically grounded principles for saving and retirement. Biblical perspective when choosing insurance and recommendations on the policies to get. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Art Rainer Art Rainer on Instagram Art Rainer on X Money in the Light of Eternity: What the Bible Says about Your Financial Purpose More Than Money Podcast Free Resources from Christian Money Solutions 8 Money Milestones Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 76 - Entrepreneur - Part 2 In this episode, we continue the conversation with Leny Fralicker, a beloved friend of the show, an entrepreneur, and the owner and CEO of Elderberry Elixir Co., an herbal supplement that supports immunity health. Check out part one, in case you missed it! In this episode, part two, we discover what Leny has learned about finding balance as an entrepreneur, a mom, and a Christian. Why you shouldn't let society define your idea of success and why all your achievements ultimately belong to God. Leny shares how she and her husband stay grounded in their relationship and why checking in is so important. We also learn about the verses that ground her perspective in the midst of the busy day-to-day activities of being a mom, a wife, and a businesswoman. She shares that she's continuing to learn to follow God's lead, even when things feel random and disconnected. Tune in for part two! Key Points From This Episode: How faith in Jesus guides business practices. Setting yourself free from the need to be perfect. Finding balance as an entrepreneur, a mom, and a Christian. Leny's idea of success and why we shouldn't let society define it for us. How the Lord uses our marriage relationship to ground us. How Leny balances her marriage with her work. Changes Leny would like to see to further Christian entrepreneurs. Leny shares what's coming up next for her. How she is learning to follow God's lead. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Mom Village Ep. 75 – Entrepreneur Part 1 Elderberry Elixir Co. Elderberry Elixir Co. on Facebook Elderberry Elixir Co. on Instagram Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 75 - Entrepreneur - Part 1 In life and in business, there will be times when things don't go how you expect them to go. Today's guest is Leny Fralicker, a powerhouse woman entrepreneur, a friend of the podcast, and the owner and CEO of Elderberry Elixir Co. Elderberry Elixir is an herbal supplement that supports immunity health. Leny began creating her natural elderberry syrup for her eldest son, who had developed severe allergies. She shared her remedy on social media, and within two weeks, she received 75 orders, thanks to a strong network of moms, word of mouth, and the grace of God! In today's episode, Leny shares some highs and lows from her accidental entrepreneurial journey and highlights the important role that her family, her community, and the Lord's guidance have played as she worked through some of her greatest business challenges. She also shares lessons learned about the value of embracing failure, learning to accept help, and more. Key Points From This Episode: What kept Elderberry Elixir afloat and what sets it apart from other natural remedies. The incredible response Leny received after an endorsement from Chip and Joanna Gaines. How facing fear and failure became an opportunity for ministry. The importance of accepting help. Ways that Leny keeps Elderberry Elixir relevant in such a competitive market. A pivotal moment in her third pregnancy that impacted the growth of the company. Lessons about mentorship that Leny has learned in her entrepreneurial journey. Her advice for other women entrepreneurs: be sensitive to setbacks and trust in God. Insight into some of the exciting things on the horizon for Elderberry Elixir. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Elderberry Elixir Co. Elderberry Elixir Co. on Facebook Elderberry Elixir Co. on Instagram Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 74 – El Buen Cactus La anfitriona, Jismarie Ramos, da la bienvenida al público oyente al emocionante segundo episodio en español de The Mom Village. Este es un podcast para mamás, donde nos reunimos para compartir historias, consejos y apoyo para todas las increíbles mamás con un fundamento Cristo-céntrico. En este episodio de The Mom Village en Español, Jismarie comienza leyendo una parte del nuevo libro de niños llamado El Buen Cactus, seguida de las locutoras Alyssa y concluyendo con Krystal. Luego, Krystal nos presenta a la autora de The Mom Village en Español y nuestra invitada, Jismarie Ramos, para una entrevista acerca de su recién publicado libro de niños llamado El Buen Cactus por Family Church Network. Key Points From This Episode: El programa comienza con una cálida bienvenida y presentaciones de las locutoras por Jismarie. Seguido de Krystal, que introduce brevemente el tema del libro El Buen Cactus y comienza con la primera pregunta a nuestra invitada y autora del libro El Buen Cactus: ¿De dónde surgió la idea? Alyssa pregunta: ¿Por qué decidiste que esos personajes en particular fueran el vehículo para contar la historia? Jismarie comparte la inspiración detrás de los personajes. Krystal comparte sus reflexiones sobre la parte más difícil de escribir el libro con la pregunta basado a la pregunta que le hace a la autora Jismarie ¿Cuál fue la parte más difícil de escribir el libro? Alyssa pregunta sobre la decisión de crear el libro en una versión bilingüe inglés/español, preguntando: ¿Qué te impulsó a hacer el libro en una versión bilingüe inglés/español? Krystal luego revela su parte favorita del libro y pregunta a la autora Jismarie Ramos: ¿Cuál es tu parte favorita del libro? Alyssa concluye la entrevista con una declaración de cierre. Se despiden las tres locutoras como siempre CIAO. Para obtener su propia copia de este libro maravilloso para niños, puedes conseguirla en Amazon escribiendo el título del libro: El Buen Cactus ó el nombre de la autora Jismarie Ramos. ¡Gracias por escuchar The Mom Village Podcast en Español! No te pierdas nuestros próximos episodios, donde compartiremos temas relevantes para todas las mamás. Si disfrutaste este episodio, asegúrate de suscribirte y dejarnos una reseña. ¡Hasta la próxima!  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church El Buen Cactus on Amazon The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 73 - Bienvenidos The Mom Village en Español La anfitriona, Jismarie Ramos nos da la bienvenida al publico oyente, al primer episodio de el popular programa de The Mom Village pero esta vez en Español. ¡Este es un podcast para Mamás, donde nos reunimos para compartir historias, consejos y apoyo para todas las increíbles mamás de cualquier temporada que nos escuchan con un fundamento Cristo-céntrico! En este primer episodio de The Mom Village en Español, las anfitrionas, Jismarie Ramos, Krystal Gutierrez y Alyssa Estornell, se presentan y comparten detalles sobre sus vidas y experiencias como madres. Discuten su origen multicultural y el enfoque cristiano en su crianza. Key Points From This Episode: Bienvenida y presentación de las anfitrionas. Cada anfitriona comparte información sobre su origen, nacionalidad y cómo llegaron a los Estados Unidos. Descripción de la preparación académica de cada anfitriona. Discusión sobre sus esposos y familias de las anfitrionas, incluyendo gustos, pasatiempos y actividades que disfrutan juntos. Como llegaron a ser parte de La iglesia Familiar. ( Family Church ). Comparten atributos/factores únicos que nuestro oyentes no saben para conocer a nuestras locutoras aún mejor. Cada una refleja y comparte su versículo bíblico favorito y como Dios lo ha usado en sus vidas como madres. Krystal comparte Proverbios 3:5-6 Jismarie Ramos Filipenses 4:13 Alyssa Estornell Filipenses 4-6-7 Cada anfitriona comparten consejos para las madres en su caminar como madre. Se despiden por primera vez CIAO ¡Gracias por escuchar The Mom Village Podcast Español! No te pierdas nuestros próximos episodios, donde compartiremos temas relevantes para todas las mamás. Si disfrutaste este episodio, asegúrate de suscribirte y dejarnos una reseña. ¡Hasta la próxima! Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Full Circle Parenting Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 72 - The Good Cactus Interview Jismarie Ramos is not only one of the co-hosts of The Mom Village Podcast – she's also the writer of a wonderful children's book, The Good Cactus! In this episode. Jismarie shares her story with us and how that led to her writing her book. She tells us about her upbringing in Puerto Rico, her journey to the United States, and learning a new culture and language – all with the support of her loving husband, Pastor Christian Ramos. She shares the inspiration behind the story and why she wanted scripture and theology included. She also talks about why she felt strongly about offering the book in both languages, in English and in Spanish. Jismarie also ties the message of the story to Christ's sacrifice for us on the cross. Tune in for an encouraging message! Don't forget to get your copy of The Good Cactus on Amazon! Stay tuned for the audiobook (in English and Spanish). Key Points From This Episode: Jismarie tells us about her upbringing, moving to the United States, and learning the culture. How her husband helped her in her studies and her journey of learning English. What made Jismarie want to write a book and who helped her create it. The theology that's included in her book and why every book is in both Spanish and English. The inspiration behind The Good Cactus and how her son's drawing sparked her imagination. How Jesus' sacrifice and what the Lord does for us is the main message of the story. Jismarie shares her favorite part of her book. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jismarie Ramos Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kristin Scroggins Target

TMV Episode 71 - Parenting in the Midst of Suffering Part 2 In the midst of suffering, God is still God. This is what we need to remind ourselves of when we find ourselves in seasons of suffering. This episode is part two of a series called, Parenting in the Midst of Suffering. Our friend, Serah Thomas, joins the conversation to continue sharing her story of how she navigated the ups and downs of life. She and her husband, Todd Thomas, who serves as the Campus Pastor of Family Church Sherbrooke, held fast to the Lord, each other, and their children, as they walked through cancer, pregnancy, and chronic stress. They did it together and they did it with an eternal perspective, with their minds set on God and how suffering can conform us to the image of Christ. Key Points From This Episode: Welcoming Sarah Thomas back and quick recap of part one of this two-part series. Sarah shares the myriad of her own personal health issues. How she navigated life through the treatment of her condition. How years of chronic stress have impacted her daily life. Her thoughts on sharing and explaining her health issues with her kids. How her suffering has influenced her view of God. Where we (often) go wrong when we process suffering. Translating difficult information to our children and their hearts. Sarah tells us about life lessons she hopes her children walk away with. Why Sarah thinks suffering makes us more like Jesus.

TMV Episode 70 - Parenting in the Midst of Suffering Part 1 Parenting is an individual journey encompassing different seasons of life. There are sweet seasons and seasons where we walk through suffering. The truth is that our circumstances do not define us. We can be honest in our feelings, but in our suffering, it's important for us to stand on a firm foundation of faith and God's truth. On this episode, we begin a two-part series on the topic of parenting in the midst of suffering with Serah Thomas. In our conversation, we hear about how she, and her husband Todd, embarked on a cancer journey with their little girl. She shares how they navigated all facets of their journey, from diagnosis to treatment. As parents, they also had loved and cared for their other children. In the midst of this, Serah was pregnant. Sarah talks about how this impacted her walk with God and the scriptures she grounded herself in, to keep moving forward. Don't miss this incredible testimony of God's faithfulness in the midst of suffering. Key Points From This Episode: We meet and get to know Serah Thomas, and her husband, Todd Thomas. Todd serves as the campus pastor of Family Church Sherbrooke. Why thinking the best of your spouse is important in a marriage. Listening to Serah and she shares her daughter's cancer journey and how they navigated it together, as a family. Sarah talks about where they are today. The impact of this experience on her marriage. Serah talks about her walk with God throughout the journey. Scriptures that Sarah grounded herself in. How the Holy Spirit worked in the midst of this journey. Serah's encouragement to other moms in our village (and outside) who are currently walking through suffering. How seeing the Holy Spirit working in her children helps solidify the whole family's faith. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Pastor Todd Thomas on Twitter LCH Cancer Family Church The Mom Village Linktree The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter Kristin Scroggins Kristin Scroggins on Twitter

TMV Episode 69 - Discipleship at Home - Part 2 We are welcoming Megan Simpson back to The Mom Village to continue our discussion about discipleship at home! If you haven't already listened to the first part of this conversation, do so now! In this episode, you will hear a recap of part one: Megan and her husband's goals and house rules, what spiritual disciplines she has taught her children, and how she makes discipleship fun. The holidays are a great time to come together as a family and celebrate the Lord and scripture, and today, Megan explains how her family incorporates tradition and fun activities into the holidays while not biting off more than they can chew. We delve into how her family encourages sibling bonds before discussing how they engage spiritually. Megan even shares some resources that have helped her lead her children to discipleship throughout their lives. You don't want to miss this one, so tune in now! Key Points From This Episode: What we discussed in part one of this episode and what we will discuss today. Megan and her husband's main goals in parenting and core house rules. The spiritual disciplines she has instilled in her kids and how she sees them displayed. How Megan includes fun into discipleship for her children. How holidays help families to weave scripture into their lives and make Jesus a priority. Why limited screen time encourages sibling relationships and servant leadership. The resources Megan recommends for moms to teach the word of God to their kids. How Megan and her family continue to engage spiritually through the busyness of life. How seeing the Holy Spirit working in her children helps solidify the whole family's faith. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Word of Life Foundations Seeds Family Worship Full Circle Parenting Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 68 - Discipleship at Home - Part 1 Following Christ's teachings and designing yourself in his image is of the utmost importance. Joining us today on The Mom Village is the wonderful mom of (almost) six and pastor's wife, Megan Simpson, to talk about discipleship at home. We talk about how Megan uses her marriage to assist in teaching her children to be disciples, how she puts Jesus first and includes scripture in her busy life, and so much more. We delve into the different seasons of motherhood before Megan shares how she and her husband use the support of their church community to make parenting easier. Finally, our guest shares how the different stages of motherhood and the birth of all of her children have helped her grow both spiritually and emotionally. Thank you for listening, and stay tuned for part two! Key Points From This Episode: Introducing today's guest, Megan Simpson, and our topic of discussion. An overview of our guest and her family. How Megan's marriage aids the discipleship she wants to teach her children. The scripture that Megan clings to as she goes through her parenting journey. How Megan keeps Christ at the center of her The most difficult season of motherhood and how she finds time for Jesus. How Megan and her husband lean on their church family for parenting support. How the power of a church community has affected Megan's family. How Megan has grown spiritually and emotionally through the birth of all of her children. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 67 - Launching Your Kids - Part 2 Today on The Mom Village we are delving into how to launch your children. Press pause and go back to part one of this episode (if you haven't already listened to it) where we covered who our guest is and some practical things to think about when it comes to marriage, parenting, and preparing to have an empty nest. In this episode, we delve into the best season of parenthood according to Heidi, how she made sure that her family stayed close to God, the importance of communication and how cell phones affect it, and so much more! Heidi even shares her wisdom surrounding launching children as both a parent and a teacher, the importance of talking about your failures, and how to show respect from the perspective of both the child and parent in order to transition into friendship. Finally, she encourages moms who may feel despondent in their roles as a parent. You don't want to miss out on this episode jam-packed with the most phenomenal advice so tune in now! Key Points From This Episode: Welcome back to part two of our chat with the amazing Heidi Martin! A brief summary of what we spoke about in part one. Heidi tells us about her favorite parenting moments and the best seasons of raising her kids. What Heidi's family prioritized when her children were little to keep them close to God. The dangers of cell phones and how not being present affects communication. How Heidi's experience of launching children has helped her talk about her failures. What kids may want parents to know about their feelings with regards to launching. A few ways that you can show your children respect as they're launching. How not listening to your children will make a friendship transition even harder. Heidi gives some advice for kids leaving the nest about how to respect their parents. Heidi's relationship with her children and their transition into friendship. How having children helps you affect lives. Words of encouragement for moms who may not feel up to the challenges of parenthood. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 66 - Launching Your Kids - Part 1 Our job as mothers is to raise children who are able to go out into the world and fulfill their purpose and we know that letting go of your children is very difficult. Today on The Mom Village, we are joined by the wonderful teacher, wife, and mother, Heidi Martin, to discuss launching your kids and letting them go so that one day they will come back. Tuning in, you'll hear about our guest's secret to 28 successful years of marriage, why she wishes she had been more ‘marriage-centered' when her children were younger, and how she handled her children moving to college and even abroad. We delve into how she occupied herself once her nest was empty and rediscovering Heidi with adult children. Finally, she shares some incredible advice for moms about their purpose and how to handle the inevitable launch of their children. Thank you for listening and don't forget to keep your eyes peeled for part two!  Key Points From This Episode: Introducing today's guest, Heidi Martin; who she is, and a bit about her family. How Heidi met her husband, Randy, and how they have survived 28 years of marriage. The importance of being ‘marriage-centered' and why Heidi regrets being ‘kid-centered.' What Heidi missed when her children left for college and how she handled the transition. How Heidi dealt with her daughter moving to Taiwan. How she rediscovered herself and found hobbies as an ‘empty nester.' Heidi shares advice for moms about focusing on their jobs and not dreading the inevitable. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: That Trip USA Family Church  The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 65 - Welcome to Parenthood - Part 2  Although your beautiful bundle of newborn joy consumes your thoughts and fills your heart, prioritizing your marriage is essential during the early stages of parenthood to set a precedent for the rest of your lives and the lives of future generations. Today is part two of Welcome To Parenthood on The Mom Village and joining us again are Dwight and Mykeyly Hernandez to tell us all about their first three months of parenthood and ask us about our experiences of parenthood. If you haven't listened to part one, go do so now! Tuning in, you'll hear how Dwight's heart has grown since the birth of his son, why he feels the husband should ‘man up,' the best and worst pieces of advice (both solicited and unsolicited) he and Mykeyly have been given as new parents, and how Dwight and Mykeyly's marriage has been affected by parenthood. We also discuss how to make the transition from working woman to stay-at-home mom easier before we debunk some myths about being parents. We also delve into the importance of being marriage-centered and encouraging and supporting your spouse through everything. Finally, we share small parts of our daily routines as families that have impacted our children's lives in a beautiful way. To hear this candid discussion about the joys of new parenthood, press play now! Key Points From This Episode: Welcoming today's guests back, Dwight and Mykeyly; are new parents to a three-month-old. The way Dwight's heart has grown since having his son, Roman. The best and worst pieces of advice Dwight and Mykeyly have received as new parents. Advice for a first-time mom transitioning from being a career woman to a stay-at-home mom. The importance of a husband and wife encouraging and supporting each other. How parenthood and the Lord have affected Dwight and Mykeyly's marriage. How to foster your marriage when your babies are little and the center of your lives. Why it is so important to be marriage-centered first and foremost. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Dwight Hernandez on Instagram The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 64 - Welcome to Parenthood At some point, almost all of us are going to be parents. Joining us in conversation today is an amazing couple, Dwight and Mykeyly Hernandez! They are parents to a brand new baby boy and they are here today to share their journey. Join us to hear Dwight and Mykeyly get candid about their journey as a married couple, and into parenthood, and how Mykeyly‘s empathy for expecting mothers grew when she became pregnant herself. Find out how Dwight and Mykeyly chose their baby's name, and hear some reassuring advice from the Mom Village, including a reminder that you will sleep again. Mykeyly also shares a pearl of wisdom with expecting moms, reminding them that their health, and the health of their baby is far more important than sticking to a birthing plan. Tune in today to hear all this and more inspiration for your parenthood journey. Key Points From This Episode: An introduction to today's guests, Dwight and Mykeyly Hernandez, who are parents to a new baby boy. The story of how they chose their baby's name on the name he was born: Roman Zaccai. The Spanish cultural tradition of adding ‘cito' to the end of a name as a nickname. Mykeyly tells the story of how she and Dwight met and started their relationship. What led to their engagement and how they talked about having children before they were blessed with Roman. The story of how God orchestrated their lives leading up to the birth of Roman. How Mykeyly's community supported her as she prepared for Roman's arrival. How she drew on her own experience to support other mothers and mothers-to-be as director of a pregnancy center. Why the baby didn't feel real to Dwight until he was born. Advice for expecting mothers: enjoy each trimester for what it is. What nobody tells dads: they'll eat more too! Understanding that your health and your baby's health is far more important than sticking to your birthing plan. A reminder that you will sleep again, eventually! Why it's so helpful to get your child onto a schedule when they are a baby. Remembering that your child needs to fit into your family dynamic, rather than the other way around. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Dwight Hernandez on Instagram The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter Kristin Scroggins Family Church

TMV Episode 63 - Marriage Conversations - Part 2 Is dating your spouse really important? This is part two of our marriage conversations with our husbands and newlyweds, Christian and Victoria Rodriguez! We discuss Christian and Victoria's early marriage goals, how the Lord works in their marriage, why communication is key, and the importance of presenting your spouse as your partner in everything to your family. We also talk about some of our best dates over the years, tell you how to make them incredible, and share why we think you should date throughout marriage. Next, we delve into setting boundaries with extended family before discussing how our husbands lead us in our marriages. Finally, we look at how to balance ministries with our partners to become the ultimate team. You don't want to miss this one! Key Points From This Episode: Don't forget to listen to part one of Marriage Conversations! What Victoria and Christian's goals/plans are for their first five years of marriage. The importance of learning how to communicate with your spouse. How Christian and Victoria feel the Lord is working in their marriage. We share our favorite date nights over the years and some tips to make them amazing. How to establish healthy boundaries with your parents and in-laws when starting a family. Why you need to speak about your spouse highly to your family. We share what it looks like for men to lead their spouse. How we balance our ministry with that of our husbands': make it ‘our ministry.' Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Family Church Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter Kristin Scroggins Kristin Scroggins on Twitter

TMV Episode 62 - Marriage Conversations - Part 1 Marriage is truly a gift from God, and joining us today for a conversation about marriage are our husbands, Eric, Christian, and Jimmy, as well as Victoria and Christian Rodriguez! We hear all about Christian and Victoria's love story and what they've discovered in their first nine months of marriage before they dive into some questions for all of us marriage veterans. We discuss the importance of knowing how your spouse communicates through body language, why your dreams evolve when you get married, why being a stay-at-home mom is an equally important job as any other, and what we wish we had done differently early on in our marriages. This conversation is filled with a multitude of gems for couples at any stage of their marriages, so tune in to hear it now, and don't forget to look out for part two! Key Points From This Episode: An introduction to today's guests, our husbands and the newlyweds, Christian and Victoria Rodriguez. Christian and Victoria tell us the story of how they met. The most surprising discovery in the first few months of their marriage. What Victoria has learned about herself in her first nine months of marriage. How we all built chemistry in our homes in early marriage. The importance of non-verbal communication. Why all decisions about dreams need to be focused on what is best for your family. How to feel important as a stay-at-home What we wish we would've done differently in early marriage. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Family Church Jimmy Scroggins on Twitter Christian Ramos Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 61 - Generations Part 2 Welcome to part two of our conversation with the wonderful Bev Bonner! In the previous episode, Bev talked us through what it was like for her to be a wife and mother. Today, she tells us all about being a grandmother and daughter. Bev outlines how being a grandmother differs from being a mother and why she obeys her children's parenting desires, before discussing what it's like to live with her mother and mother-in-law (who are both in their 90s!) As she celebrates her 25th year of worshipping at Family Church, Bev reflects on what it's like to see 4 generations of her family together at every service. She also shares what it is like to be a woman in ministry, how she started her journey, how difficult it was for her to leave when she needed to focus on other things, why she loves serving the church, and the challenges that women in ministry are facing. Finally, Bev shows gratitude to her biggest supporter and partner in life and shares some advice for moms. To hear all about how to embrace every season in motherhood and to be inspired by a true expert of ‘generations,' join us now!  Key Points From This Episode: This is part two of our talk with Bev Bonner so if you haven't listened to part one, please do! How many grandchildren she has and how being a grandparent is different from being a mother. Why Bev does everything her children want to be done with their children. What it's like for Bev to live with her mother and mother-in-law. How Bev feels watching 4 generations of her family worshipping at her home church. What it is like to be a woman in ministry while raising her family and how she got started. The struggles Bev faced when she left ministry. The challenges Bev faced as the only woman in ministry for a time. How her husband is her biggest supporter and partner through everything in life. Why Bev loves serving the church. Bev shares a piece of advice to moms that she wishes she knew earlier. How moms can identify each season in their lives and how they can be encouraged. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 60 - Generations - Part 1 Today on The Mom Village, we are joined by the incredible wife, mother, and grandmother, Bev Bonner to discuss generations. Bev got married very young and in the absence of role models, she and her husband had to teach themselves everything from raising a family in faith to saving money for retirement. In this episode, Bev discusses the importance of teaching your children to welcome God into their lives, why you need to face all challenges with your partner, and why if you don't believe in your children, no one will. Bev also talks us through the most difficult time in her motherhood journey and how she and her family overcame it. Bev reminds us why spending time withour children is more important than anything else and shares her regrets about not doing it more often. Lastly, Bev shares how she has maintained a relationship with her children into adulthood and how those relationships have blossomed. To hear all this and more, tune in now! Key Points From This Episode: Introducing today's guest, Bev Bonner Introducing today's guest, Bev Bonner. The importance of raising your children with faith. What Bev's early years of marriage were like as a very young woman. How Bev and her family saved money when they didn't have much. The struggles Bev faced as a stay-at-home mom and a wife. Bev shares how she overcame the most challenging season in her parenting journey. The importance of walking through struggles with your partner. Why you need to believe in your children. What Bev would change about her parenting if she could. What Bev has done to foster her relationships with her children into adulthood Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Bev Bonner|Linkedin The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 59 - Mom Guilt - Part 2 Being a mom requires sacrifice, as we learned in part one, however, we must implement strategies into our daily life to maintain focus on our Christ-centred mission and keep Mom Guilt away. In this episode, we continue with our discussion about Mom Guilt and are joined again by our amazing guest, Dr. Sarah Rainer. If you haven't checked out part one, go back and listen to the previous episode where we covered topics including the definition of Mom Guilt some good things about Mom Guilt, and nine negative connotations about Mom Guilt. As you tune in today, you'll learn about pro-active and retro-active strategies to avoid Mom Guilt, the importance of being gospel-focused and not guilt-focused, conviction and repentance, and so much more good stuff! Join in now and don't miss out Key Points From This Episode: We recap on Sarah's definition of Mom Guilt.•Sarah shares a personal story about her experience with Mom Guilt. Is there a Dad Guilt? 6 Pro-active strategies to avoid Mom Guilt. 2 Retro-active strategies to avoid Mom Guilt. Why being a good repenter helps squash Mom Guilt. How conviction is different from ongoing guilt/shame. The importance of community and sharing the gospel with our children. What research tells us about moms or parents experiencing guilt, across cultures. Practical advice you can do today to avoid guilt. Sarah tells listeners about their podcasts Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Sarah Rainer Parenting & Pennies Podcast More Than Money Podcast The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV Episode 58 - Mom Guilt - Part 1  Motherhood is sacrificial. It requires of us, as moms, to lay down certain things, willingly and humbly. But this doesn't have to be a negative thing. As you'll discover in today's episode, sacrifice in motherhood can actually be seen as a blessing. Welcome to the third season of The Mom Village. We start this season off with special guest, Sarah Rainer, here to chat to us about mom guilt. Society has come to a place where it sends the message that motherhood is a hindrance to what you as a mother are able to accomplish in life. Sarah says: don't let the enemy steal from you! Tune in to hear more from Sarah about what moms commonly feel most guilty about, some of the causes of this guilt, and why we can't believe the lie of sin that we are “just” a mom. Key Points From This Episode: How Sarah defines mom guilt. What moms commonly feel most guilty about. Sarah's thoughts on what the root cause of mom guilt is. Nine ‘bad' reasons moms experience mom guilt.. How the church has influenced the roles of husband and wife in our homes. Sacrifice in motherhood; it's not a negative thing, but a blessing! Fulfilling the “calling” in our role as a mom. A quick story about Samuel and Eli. Why it's important to understand the theology of sin as parents. How mom guilt affects our relationships with our husbands and children. Long-term consequences of living under mom guilt and how to avoid them. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Sarah Rainer The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Kirra Kelly on Twitter Jismarie Ramos Jismarie Ramos on Twitter

TMV: Episode 57 – Raising Boys – Part 2 Welcome back to the Mom Village! While our podcast is hosted by moms, today we have the dads with us, and they're asking the questions. Joining us in conversation are Jimmy and Kristin Scroggins, Jismarie and Christian Ramos, and Eric and Kirra Kelly. Today's topic is around teaching our kids to respect women. To kick off our conversation, we discuss some of the ways we model healthy spousal relationships within the home to give our kids something to aim for when they reach adulthood. Next, we talk about friendship between brothers and how to encourage them to be a team by speaking about them as though they are one before it is true. We dive into the role of church in supporting single parents and providing resources to guide our kids, and finish by acknowledging and celebrating God's design for sexuality, and why, statistically, the most fulfilling relationships exist between married Christians. Join us to hear more today. Key Points From This Episode: Introducing today's guests: Jimmy and Kristin Scroggins, Jismarie and Christian Ramos, and Eric and Kirra Kelly. Today's topic: teaching our kids to respect women. Jimmy's perspective that the main thing we need to do to teach respect is to model it. Modeling healthy romantic attraction to our spouses to give our kids something to aim for. Why Christian insists on hugging and kissing his wife in front of the kids. Why Jismarie tells her girls that no boyfriend gets husband privileges. What the world models in comparison to what we can teach our kids about what it means to be married. Encouraging friendship to remain friends. Speaking things into existence before it is so to teach your kids principles. An example of how the hard work of bringing boys together pays off in the long term. The role of church community for single moms, and how Jismarie's mother encouraged her to connect with her dad. Encouraging single parents to reach out, married folks to support them, without singling them out. God's design for sexuality we should aim for as it is illustrated in Genesis. How, statistically, married Christians have the most fulfilling relationships. Having hard conversations with boys, and with men about directing their sexuality. How Psalm 1 can help men to direct their sexuality. The importance of affirming the wild-hearted nature of men. Reminding kids of the ultimate design for sexuality: to stick you together with your spouse and produce children if you can. Returning to God's design to encourage kids to think how God wants them to think. Having resources available to combat the impact of pornography and social media. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 56 – Raising Boys – Part 1 It's time for something a little different on the Mom Village Podcast! Today, Dads are taking over! With us today, we have Christian Ramos, Eric Kelly, and Jimmy Scroggins. We're talking today about raising boys, in their different phases of life, as moms and dads. The conversation kicks off with the story of a father figure in each of our guest's lives, leading into a discussion about just how crucial it is to have a village when you're raising happy children. Listeners will hear from Eric about how vital the role of a father is, before Jimmy, Christian, and Eric weigh in on their personal approach to raising both boys and girls. Next, we dive into the challenge of connecting with our boys as they grow older, and we share some of the critical tools that have helped us to make sure they know we are there for them. We touch on the ebb and flow of our roles as mothers and fathers, always reminding our kids that we are on their side, and teaching boys to work hard, and take risks, so that they can contribute and learn. Join us to hear all this and more today! Key Points From This Episode: An introduction to the Dads joining us today: Christian Ramos, Eric Kelly, and Jimmy Scroggins. A great father figure or leader in each speaker's life: Jimmy's present father, Eric's fraternity brothers and Jimmy Scroggins, and Christian's gentle and loving dad. How crucial a village is to raising happy children. Eric's thoughts on how vital the role of a father is with God the Father as his guide. Jimmy's intent to raise men who can provide and protect, and his hope that one day his girls will be married to a godly man. Christian's approach of being way softer on his girls than his boys. Eric's unapologetic intent to raise his boys to be men, never apologizing for God's design. Maintaining connection with boys as they are growing older: prioritizing meals, creating experiences together, and communicating love and security. Why it's so important to intentionally remind your boys that you are on their side. The opportunity for connection you have when you drive with your kids. Christian's advice to moms who notice their boys pulling away from them. How Christian's mother put all her boys to service at the church. Eric's mother's words that she had done all she could, and it was time to find men. Jimmy's advice to Kristin when her boys started to pull away: pretend not to notice! Why there is a time when mom needs to sit down, and dad needs to stand up. Being an example of the things you want your kid to do and be. Teaching boys to work hard and to take risks, within reason. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 55 – Jen Wilkin – Part 2  Today we continue with the second part of our two-part interview with author and bible teacher Jen Wilkin. In the first episode, we talked about Deuteronomy 6:7 where the Lord commands us to instruct our children in the way. In this episode, Jen explains how she became aware of the real dangers of false teaching and the vital importance of firsthand knowledge of the bible. She talks about what a bible literacy advocate is and why there is such a bible literacy crisis in the church today, before breaking down the methods she uses to read and understand the bible. Jen also talks about some of the most common problems with the way people misunderstand the bible and God, and she explains how some of her books have been written to address some of these challenges. Before closing, Jendrops a massive revelation about how the commandment to love your neighbor as you love yourself has impacted her mothering. For an inspiring and practical conversation that may very well change the way you read the bible and parent your kids, tune in today! Key Points From This Episode: The story about how Jen came to know the Lord as a child. How Jen became aware of the importance of firsthand knowledge of the bible as a young adult. The real dangers of false teaching and why bible literacy is so important to Jen. Jen's thoughts on the ‘pink ghetto' resources for women that are based on feelings and not thought. Where you should start if you're trying to understand the bible. How Jen personally studies the scriptures for herself. What Jen means when she describes herself as a bible literacy advocate. Why there is a bible literacy crisis in the church today. Some of the most common problems with the way people misunderstand the bible. What Jen's favorite writing assignment is to date: None Like Him. The important tool for bible literacy explained in Women of the Word. Value of studying the old testament, and how this helps us understand the friendship between law and grace. How the commandment to love your neighbor as you love yourself has impacted Jen's mothering. How you can win one of Jen's books Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jen Wilkin Jen Wilkin Twitter Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 54 – Jen Wilkin – Part 1  Today we begin the first part of our two-part interview with author and bible teacher Jen Wilkin. Jen opens up about how she met her husband, what she admires most about him, and how they managed to balance their lives while having four kids in four years.In this inspirational conversation, Jen explains how the verse Deuteronomy 6:7 has impacted her and her approach to parenting. She explains why she believes strongly in shared spaces, shared experiences, and shared conversations, and how she has facilitated these priorities in her home. To find out how Jen has taught her children that home is their primary place of belonging, her tips for answering tough questions, and to discover what she would do differently if she could, tune in today! Key Points From This Episode: An introduction to the Wilkin family. How Jen met her husband Jeff and what she admires about him. How Jeff's support has spurred on Jen's ministry throughout the years.•How the Wilkins balanced everything as parents who had four kids in four years. The importance of the scripture Deuteronomy 6:7 in Jen's life and how this has impacted the way she has approached motherhood. The importance of the big conversations and small conversations and promoting them in your day-to-day life. Jen's tip on how to respond to difficult questions with a clarifying question. What Jen would do differently regarding motherhood if she could: say yes more. The one thing that Jen was determined to make sure that her kids knew or had confidence in: That home is your primary place of belonging Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jen Wilkins Jen Wilkins Twitter Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 53 – Daughters – Part 2  In the first episode in our two-part series on daughters, we discussed the importance of making the gospel the foundation of our relationships with our daughters. In today's episode, we're going to be focusing more specifically on how we can talk to our daughters about sex and relationships, dressing in a way that honors Christ, and how to approach them during their teenage years. It's impossible to prevent our daughters from being subjected to all sorts of information on social media, and in their social circles, but the important thing is that you are giving them the truth. In order to be in a position where our daughters feel like they have a soft place to land and they trust our guidance, it's important that we spend quality time with them. If you already feel like you don't have enough time in the day, don't worry, even just having a conversation in the car on the way to school can be very valuable if you create the right environment!  Key Points From This Episode: The value of coming up with your own definition of modesty within your family.  Examples of how to speak to your daughters about dressing appropriately.  When to start having conversations about relationships and sex. The importance of making sure that our daughters are aware of the difference between good and bad attention.  Jismarie shares a traumatic experience from her youth, and the healing journey that she has been on.  The importance of facilitating a strong family structure.   Kira shares the story of the tattoo that she got with her daughter.  Why spending time with our daughters is such a valuable practice.  Advice for moms who feel like they don't have enough time to spend quality time with their daughters.  Our thoughts on how to alleviate tension in the home that often arises when our daughters become teenagers.   Full Circle Parenting; a resource which we would highly recommend for your parenting journey. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Full Circle Parenting  Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 52 – Daughters – Part 1 If you are the mother of a daughter (or daughters), the next two episodes are for you! In part one of our series on daughters, we discuss why it is so important that the word of God forms the foundation of our relationships with our children. As moms, our main job is to teach our daughters how to live out the truths of the gospel, and these lessons start from the moment they are conceived in our womb. In today's world, there is no place better than the home to impart biblical lessons, and although there are many challenges on the journey of raising a daughter, by weaving conversations about God's design and His redemption into their lives from a young age, you will see the enormous benefit it brings to their lives. Key Points From This Episode: Why the gospel should form the foundation of every conversation we have with our children. An explanation of the concept of 3 Circles. The conflict that can arise in pre-teen and teenage years, and advice for moms who have daughters going through this transitionary period. The problem of allowing our daughters to be exposed to social media at a young age. Examples of how we know that our children are learning the word of God through the conversations that we have with them. Advice on how to talk to your daughters about the topic of singleness. Male role models that you can direct your daughters towards if they don't have a father figure. What it means to be biblically submissive, and how we can pass these lessons on to our daughters. The disservice that churches are doing by not speaking openly and honestly about biblical manhood and womanhood. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Origin of The Three Circles Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 51 – Seasons of Motherhood – Part 2  Welcome back to part two of the Seasons of Motherhood episode with the Mom Village! Today's episode focuses on the later seasons of motherhood, and the challenges and pain of releasing your children into the world. Kristin opens the discussion with a recap of what was learned in the last episode, and how motherhood constantly reminds her that she needs Jesus. Kirra describes the major milestones she's been faced with recently, and the mourning she feels for the way things used to be. Hear all about the joy and sadness motherhood brings, and how you can walk in both at the same time. We learn about what God wants from mothers, and how to accept that your children are always in His hands, while Jismarie reads her favorite verse that helps her get through the challenges. We find out why being an intentional mother helped Kristin teach her kids the right lessons and the benefits of being part of a family church. We wrap up the discussion with the unexpected joys of the unknown, and some proverbs to keep in mind. Key Points From This Episode: Kristin's recap of part one of Seasons of Motherhood, and how motherhood constantly reminds her that she needs Jesus.   Responding to the major milestones and how naïve Kirra feels she was about how she would handle them.   How time flies in each of the seasons of motherhood.   The truth of walking in sadness and joy at the same time, and how to handle it.   Why you should never feel bad about mourning your children flying the nest.   What Kristin wants as a mom, and what God wants of mothers.   The comfort that Jismarie takes from Philippians 3:12-15.  The challenge that Kirra is facing at the moment: saying goodbye to what was.   What is challenging Jismarie right now, and how she's preparing herself.   Some advice from Kristin on how to be intentional as a mother.   The key things the moms want to teach their kids: faith and how to love.   How important the church family is in moving through the seasons of motherhood.   What mothers can do to walk with other mothers through the ups and downs.   How to have joy in letting go: looking forward to the unknown.   Letting go of the season of having kids, and some encouragement from the moms.   Acknowledging that your children are truly in God's hands, and not your own.   The joy of your children coming back even once you've released them.   Final comments on the seasons of motherhood, and the proverbs to keep in mind.  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 50 – Seasons Of Motherhood – Part 1  As with all aspects of life, there are seasons of motherhood. From birth to flying the nest, join us today as we dive into the personal experiences and lessons learned as mothers, with the Mom Village. Kirra introduces the topic with a poignant story about her son growing up and starting to want to venture out on his own apart from the family, something that got her to think about the different seasons all mothers must come to terms with. We hear the crazy realizations that each of the moms had once they brought their newborns home, and some top tips (learned the hard way!) on how you can best handle the chaos that is a newborn. Find out why transitioning from one kid to two, or even three, had such a big effect on each of the moms, and why date nights even when you don't feel sexy are important for you and your husband. We go deep into the valley of shadows that is post-partum depression, and hear some raw and honest experiences from Kristin, and how she overcame it. For all this, and so much more on the seasons of motherhood, tune in to part one, today. Key Points From This Episode: Kirra's recent experience realizing that her son is growing up.  What today's episode will cover: the seasons of motherhood.   Jismarie's realization that her season of diapers is over. Why Kristin left the crib up for nearly 16 years. What shocked each of the moms as a new mom, from lack of sleep to mesh panties to communication within a marriage.  How birth and having a child is nothing like the magazines. The importance of communication between you and your partner.  Giving time to yourself and your husband.   The Mom Village's advice to mothers transitioning from one to two kids, and more! Kristin's experience of post-partum depression and how she overcame it.   Overcoming the mom pride: communicating your needs to older, more successful moms.   Finding your Village when you're expecting, and the importance of being in the same season.   Why the Family was the good and perfect gift, and using the Word to cope with motherhood.   What the Mom funk is.   How reading Ecclesiast can help you keep Motherhood in perspective.   Why thinking about ways to be a blessing to others can help you stay positive.   Coming to terms with having finished having kids and learning to listen to others.   What to expect from part two of the seasons of motherhood!  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jeannie Hodges Peoples on Instagram Welcome to Holland by Emily Perl Kingsley Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 49 –Marriage Conversations: Valentines Special – Part 2  Welcome to Part Two of the Marriage Conversations Valentine's Special! We're back with our husbands and our good friends Anna and Bernie to answer a few more of your questions. Keeping to the theme, we start off with sharing the weirdest, most unique Valentine's Day gifts we've ever received from our spouses, before tackling all the brilliant marriage-related questions you sent us. In this episode, you'll hear what we each wish we did more of as a family and as a couple, as well as some handy tips on what to do when your toddler has a meltdown in public! Better, even: how to preempt and prevent a meltdown. Find out how, although, yes, gender roles are specified in the Bible, NOWHERE does it point to abuse. We discuss the importance of a healthy balance in a marriage, and we encourage you to seek counsel if you are experiencing abuse in your home! We share our personal do's and don'ts if we find ourselves in a heated dispute with our spouse, and touch on what we do when we feel anxious and overwhelmed. Finally, we delve into the inevitable topic of loss and hear how each couple has experienced it differently, with some firsthand advice on how to support your spouse on their walk through grief. For all of this and so much more, tune in with us today!  Key Points From This Episode: The weirdest, most unique Valentine's Day gifts we've ever received.  Eric's best Valentine's gift from Kirra: a baby boy!  What the Cuetos and the Ramoses wish they did more of as a family and as a couple.  What to do when you're out alone with your toddler and they have a meltdown in public!  Why the Scrogginses view home time as training and being out in public as game time.  How to preempt and prevent meltdowns.  How to find a healthy balance in a marriage and rule out gender bias and abuse.  What to do if you are experiencing abuse in your marriage.  What to remind yourself and your spouse in the heat of an argument.  Why you shouldn't use permanent language in a dispute.  What we do when we feel anxious and overwhelmed.  How God's word encouraged Anna through a difficult time in her life.  The importance of nurturing yourself first before you can nurture your kids.  The value of having someone to count on or confide in.  How to support your spouse through loss.   The importance of giving each other the space to grieve and talking about the departed.  How Eric has supported and encouraged Kirra through the grief of her mother's Alzheimers.  What Christian learned from Jismarie's grieving process when her father passed away.  How Anna responded to her father's passing and how her family supported her.  How to handle your family's guilt trips when you go away as a couple.  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 48 – Marriage Conversations: Valentines Special – Part 1  We love introducing the people we love to the people that we love and for this Valentine's Special, we invite our husbands, Christian, Jimmy, and Eric, as well as our special friends Anna and Bernie Cueto onto the show for a jam-packed installment of Marriage Conversations. We chat about our various Valentine's Day rituals (or lack thereof) and join forces to answer a few of your questions! In this episode, we cover everything from how we see God working in our lives to how we encourage one another on a daily basis and how we manage our boundaries as married couples in a cyber-savvy world. We discuss the value of respecting the God-given roles in a family and how to gently guide each other along our spiritual paths by example, not superiority or force, before moving on to the topic of date nights! Tune in to find out how our concepts of date night have evolved since having kids and for those eager to find a spouse, discover how being single is a beautiful opportunity to deepen your relationship with God and serve others. Thank you for joining us for Part One; we'll be back soon for Part Two of the Valentine's Special! Key Points From This Episode: Introducing our guests for the Valentine's Special: our husbands, Christian, Jimmy, and Eric, and our special friends, Anna and Bernie!  What we all do (or don't do) on Valentine's Day.  What Anna and Bernie's ideal day off would look like.  How Christian has seen God working to change his anger reactions.  How Jimmy and Kristin were encouraged by their kids' pride in their church and their parents.  How Anna and Bernie show each other encouragement on a daily basis.  How Kirra shows Eric encouragement in simple ways.  Why the Scrogginses have access to each other's devices and have joint social media accounts.  How Jismarie runs Christian's social media accounts, and the hilarious repercussions!  How the Cuetos navigated social media for their kids and why Bernie practices a digital sunset.  Eric's choice to limit his access to the internet by using a ‘dumb' phone.  Bernie shares a story to demonstrate the value of respecting the God-given roles in a family.  What the Kellys have learned to appreciate about each other that they didn't know before they got married.  How to navigate guiding your family through their spiritual walk without an air of superiority.  The Ramos' and the Scroggins' alternatives to date nights.  The importance of gauging your partner's emotional wellbeing and acting accordingly.  How to be content in the season of waiting to find a life partner.  Why singleness mustn't be associated with loneliness and the beautiful opportunity it brings. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 47 - Healthy Financial Habits - Part 2  Welcome back to The Scalici episode, part two! Continuing with the theme from part one, we talk to Steve and Apryl Scalici, the unofficial Family Church financial advisors, about investments, getting out of debt, and how you can start giving. We dive into how giving financially is the one way the Lord encourages us to challenge Him, and how you can find a middle ground with your partner regarding how much to give. We discuss the pitfalls of credit cards and investments, and the advice you should be giving your kids. Raising fiscally responsible children boils down to three things: being transparent with how you spend your money, teaching delayed gratification, and learning from your mistakes. Steve also breaks down common misconceptions around how long it takes to get out of debt (only seven years!), and why you should never invest in something that you don't understand. Tune in to hear all this and more, in today's financial masterclass.   Key Points From This Episode: Welcome back to The Scalici episode part two, where we talk to Apryl and Steve Scalici about all things finance.   God's commandment of being a cheerful giver: the verses addressing living abundantly.   How investing financially links to emotional investment.   The six keys of The Treasure Principle and the two that stuck with Steve. How prayer helped Steve and Apryl to pick an amount to give. Negotiating a compromise with your partner when your spiritual gifts differ: the importance of setting financial boundaries. Applying “Godliness with contentment is great gain” to finances: getting to the point of contentment begets you being generous. Seeing the fruits of giving and how it makes it easier to do it. The pitfalls of credit cards and investments: being wise about spending. The three things you can do with money: give it, save it, spend it, and why giving is the most enjoyable. When to talk to a financial advisor about saving. Steve's opinion on cryptocurrency: don't invest in something that you don't understand.   Advice for starting to invest for kids and adults: invest in things you know. How you can survive on a single income.  When to look for another job: earning too little to save. Implementing financial literacy in the home: be transparent with how you spend your money, teach delayed gratification, and learn from your mistakes. The software and apps that Apryl uses to track their spending.   How to pay off debt quickly: putting your ducks in a row. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Treasure Principle: Unlocking the Secret of Joyful Giving  The Family Church Spiritual Gifts Test  Steve Scalici  Apryl Scalici Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 46 – Healthy Financial Habits – Part 1 The secret to financial success is simple: give 10, save 10, and live on the rest. With simple solutions like this, it's easy to see why Steve and Apryl Scalici are the resident Family Church financial advisors! Join us today as we talk to this power couple about all things finance: from how to teach your kids healthy financial habits, to when you should start saving, to why it's okay to work past your retirement. We find out why Steve, as the financial advisor, is not the one looking after the books in the Scalici family, and how Apryl's upbringing gave her a financial head start over Steve. Although he stands by the “give 10, save 10” rule, Steve does tailor his advice based on the stage of life you are at, so tune in to find out what the differences are for single mothers, couples at the start of their marriage, and couples entering into retirement. Press play to listen to part one now! Key Points From This Episode: Who the Scalici family are: bi-vocational pastor Steve, and creative & events director and spreadsheet guru Apryl. How Steve was inspired by Family Ties to become a financial advisor. Why Apryl handles the finances in the Scalici home and Steve's role in investments. How you bring into your marriage what you experienced: using your gifts to get the most out of the situation financially. Advice for families in the early stages of their marriage: preparing for a family. Why Apryl chose to give their kids an allowance rather than paying for chores. The responsibilities and privilege that come with getting an allowance as a kid. Advice for couples later on in their marriage: live on one income, and save the other. The Scalici's golden rule for any stage of life: give 10, save 10, live on the rest. Why trusting God helps with saving money: thinking about others and not the self. How defining boundaries allows you to live within and below your means. How Apryl's upbringing helped Steve pay off his debt. Why it's important to understand what a credit card means. Advice for people retiring: pay off all your debt before retirement. Three simple tips for single moms: start saving now (any amount), plan to work past your retirement, and treat your kids well as they pick your retirement home! A teaser of what to expect in part two: cryptocurrency and more. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Steve Scalici on LinkedIn Apryl Scalici on Instagram Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 45 – Loss and Redemption – Part 2  Join us today to hear part two of the Loss and Redemption discussion with widow and mother, Brittany Price Brooker. We hear how Brittany's life has changed since the loss of her husband, and how she now cares for a blended family with kids facing challenges she can't help with. We discuss why mothers can't always be everything and the importance of trusting God to cover the things that you aren't able to. We touch on how you can best support those who are grieving around you; from what to say, to how to handle the awkwardness you might feel when God prompts you to help. We are all gifted with unique gifts, and sharing these gifts in the community of God can have a bigger impact on someone than you know! There is no timeline to grief, and Brittany highlights the importance of asking for help from those around you when you are in a grieving season. Tune in to learn how to help anyone walking in the valley of death.   Key Points From This Episode: Welcome back to part two of the Loss and Redemption episodes, with Brittany Price Brooker.  How Laurel-Grace entered Brittany and Daniel's lives, and the joy she brought to their blended family.   Some of the challenges Brittany faces as a blended family: knowing that you are not enough as a mother and that Jesus is.  Accepting that you can't do everything well, and trusting God to support you, and to multiply what you have.  Asking the right questions and saying the right things to someone who is facing grief: show up and do it, and saying ‘I'm sorry'.  Understanding that prompting from God to help someone in grief might make you uncomfortable, but it's needed and you should follow through.   How your unique gifts can help someone in a dark time.   Pulling the community of God together to support those in the grieving season.  Knowing when it's time to step back from helping someone in grief: loss is a lifelong journey, and everyone's timeline differs.   Why it's important to ask for help when you are in the grieving season. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Brittany Price Brooker Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 44 – Loss and Redemption – Part 1  Grief is part of being human; whether you have experienced it in the past, are currently grieving, or are going to enter the season. So why do so many of us rebel against the pain? Talking to us about this very topic is Brittany Price Brooker. Brittany lost her husband at the tender age of 25 and was left with three kids under three, and her grief. She found solace when she put her faith in God, and she talks us through walking through the valley of grief and the treasures she found along the way. We discuss how she came to terms with her loss and the advice she has for those currently in the season. Find out what Brittany's favorite Psalms are, and how God brought her and Daniel together to help heal each other as well as their kids. Join us for another meaningful podcast in The Mom Village today. Key Points From This Episode: Welcome to today's guest, Brittany Price Brooker: Chaos Coordinator, Christian, singer, and cook!  Brittney's story: becoming a widow at the age of 25 with three kids under three.   Embarking on the journey of walking through the valley of death, and knowing the richness and treasures that you get only in the darkness.  Brittney's advice to navigating loss: Psalms 1-19, the word of God, and how it gave her hope in the darkness.  Holding God to his promises and trusting the greatness of Jesus and God in times of suffering.   Understanding that everyone experiences different types of loss at some point in their lives.   Allowing yourself to feel the pain and accepting that God has put you in that season to learn from it.   Brittney's advice to parents navigating grief: seek help when needed, model grief to your children, and acknowledge the pain. How Brittney remembers her lost loved ones but avoids remaining in her grief: talking about those lost and remembrance days.  Dealing with the fear of what will be.   Find out who Daniel is, and how Brittney and Daniel came together.   The scripture that has been vital to Brittney's survival: psalms where people question God. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Brittany Price Brooker on Instagram  Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 43 – Marriage Conversations – Part 6  Welcome back to Marriage Conversations (Part 6)! We hear from the husbands again today, as we tackle some seriously topical issues. From advising your kids on how to interact with friends who have gender/pronoun issues, to when you should accommodate others' preferences: in your community, in your church, or your own family. Hear what characteristics each couple admires the most about the other two couples, and how your relationship needs to grow both with your spouse and your kids as time moves on. Discover how Christ and commitment are the ultimate glue that holds couples together, and how you can maintain the love through looking for the good within your spouse. We are reminded that self is the route of sin, that your relationship affects your spirituality. Tune in to this exciting episode to hear the men serenading their women, and so much more!  Key Points From This Episode: Welcome back to the husbands: Jimmy Scroggins, Eric Kelly, and Christian Ramos.  What each couple admires about the other two: from charisma to dignity. Helping children navigate friendships with people who struggle with their gender pronouns. God's plan regarding gender and sex: the rules for within your community, your church, and your family. How your relationship needs to change as your kids become adults.  Why it's important not to step back from daughters as they develop into women.  The challenges of raising men in today's society. How your relationship can affect you spiritually daily. Find out the special song for each couple! Commitment: the ultimate glue that keeps couples together. How to handle a relationship as it changes throughout life.  Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Christian Ramos  Jismarie Ramos Jimmy and Kristin Scroggins  Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 42 – Marriage Conversations – Part 5  A happy marriage is a big contributor to raising healthy kids. In today's episode, we hear from the husbands of Kirra, Kristin, and Jismarie on how they keep their marriages thriving. From insightful observations about what each of these three couples does to grow spiritually, to each husband's opinion on what habits can make or break a marriage, today's discussion covers it all! No holds are barred in this dialogue, where the men finally have their say. We tackle three questions that the men think husbands should be asking their wives (and how the wives feel about these), and what a husband's role in raising boys should be in today's sexually conflicted society. Tune in to find out how Family Church has inspired each couple to be their best, and why it's so important as a guidance structure for young boys. Whether you're married or not, this episode contains a wealth of good advice for Christians everywhere. Key Points From This Episode: Welcome to part one of Marriage Conversations with Kirra and Eric Kelly, Kristin and Jimmy Scroggins, and Jismarie and Christian Ramos. The ice breaker: three questions husbands should ask their wives more often.  Finding out which of your wife's goals you can help with (the first question). Why it's important to ask if you are satisfying your wife sexually (the second question).   Asking if you've done enough (the third question).   The good habits that bring each of these couples closer together. The bad habits that can push a couple apart. Advice from each couple about what they do to continue to grow spiritually. How each of these men parent boys in this sexually conflicted society. The importance of Family Church and being a disciple when raising boys. When each couple is at their best, and how this can help you reach yours. The bucket list items for each couple. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Christian Ramos  Jismarie Ramos Jimmy and Kristin Scroggins  Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 41 – My Veteran Story Today we talk to Kim Wells, a former munitions inspector, traveler, Family Church member, and single woman, about her journey to Christ and how she applies her military experience to God's mission. Throughout her life, Kim has visited 41 countries; and she talks us through some of these experiences and how she has seen the Lord move. From an agnostic teenager to a devout Christian, Kim's journey to God is one that highlights how being an obedient Christian can have an incredible impact on other people's lives. We hear how being in the darkest places can minimize the divides and the importance of denominations between Christians, and how God answered Kim's prayers in the most obvious fashion. Find out what Kim's advice is to single Christian women, and why humility is essential in surrendering yourself to God's plan and more, in this incredible episode. Key Points From This Episode: How being raised by a single mother of three kids affected Kim's life choices. Why joining the armed forces was a selfish act that ultimately brought her to God. Kim's story of her introduction to Christ in Germany, and how a friend and a pastor changed her life. How being an obedient Christian can change other people's lives. Kim's experience of God's ways when she was on active duty and Him orchestrating His plans. When faith in Christ unites people: transcending denominations and divides. How being honest with yourself allows you to feel when you are losing touch with the Lord. Hear how God stepped in to save Kim from one of her “dumb decisions”. Surrendering your life to God and how it helped Kim transition from the military to civilian life. The similarities between serving your country and serving the Lord. The story of the milk truck: how God sometimes moves in very obvious ways. Kim's experience of motivating others to pray for God's assistance and the help He gave. Lessons Kim has learned about the people development business from both the military and doing a bachelor's degree in education. Kim's bible study for singles: the prime feature of your life should be walking with Christ, not your relationship status or kids. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 40 – Mom on a Mission Being a missionary is not for everyone, or so people think. Today we hear from Kristin's friend, and missionary mother Christy Allen about how being a mother is being a missionary, and what she learned on her missions throughout South and Southeast Asia. Christy grew up in a missionary family and spent time in the Philippines, where she learned that there is nothing too small to pray about, and how you see life through the lens your parents do. Moving back to the USA at the age of 14 gave Christy a new insight into God's plan and how she gave her life to it. She has spent the past two decades on missions in Bangladesh and India and speaks to us about the challenges they faced, the lessons she learned, and how she has prepared her children for missions later on in their own lives. Tune in to find out more about motherhood and being a missionary! Key Points From This Episode: An introduction to today's guest: Kristin's friend, missionary, and mother, Christy Allen. How Christy was inspired to answer the call to missions, and how she met her husband. Growing up in the Philippines: learning that there is nothing too small to pray about.  How moving back to the USA at the age of 14 impacted Christy. What a parent's role is in pointing their kids to God.  The cultural challenges Christy faced when living in Bangladesh. How God turned Christy's fear into love. Trusting God to keep you and your children safe.  Find out about Christy's mission in India: The challenge of differentiating between culture and religion.   A day in the life of a missionary mother. How to train your kids now to be ready for missions when they are older.  Lessons Christy learned from being part of the famous Tebow family in the USA to an isolated missionary in South Asia.   How the everyday mom can help the missionary mom.  he Allens' plans moving forward: educating a new generation of missionaries.   Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Christy Allen Bob Tebow Evangelistic Association Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 39 – Welcome to Holland: Mothering a Special Needs Child – Part 2 In this episode, we dive deeper into the life of Jeannie Hodges Peoples' very special family. Jeannie shares the new set of challenges that they were faced with as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic, including having to take Dana, her special needs daughter, out of school far earlier than they were expecting to. Our conversation also covers the value that everyone derives from interactions with people who are different to themselves, how Jeannie and her husband handle unkindness towards Dana, and the importance of having a support network as a parent. There are so many ways that society can improve the way it supports its special needs communities, and Jeannie shares some of the ways that churches have responded to the needs of special needs families, and how others can play their part in enhancing inclusivity. Tune in today! Key Points From This Episode: A brief recap of Jeannie's story. How the COVID-19 pandemic impacted Jeannie and her family's life. One of the greatest blessings of Jeannie's life. Jeannie shares examples of how people can support parents of children with special needs. Benefits of interacting with people who are different from ourselves. Valuable lessons we can learn from Dana, Jeannie's special needs daughter. The open-book approach that Jeannie has adopted when it comes to Dana. How Jeannie and James handle it when people are unkind towards Dana. Why she recommends that parents with special needs children reach out to other parents. The major role that the church has played in Jeannie's family's journey with Dana. Results from a survey on the attitudes of churches to people with disabilities, and how these results correspond with the experiences of special needs families. Examples of church programs that respond to the needs of special needs families. How having a special needs child has blessed Jeannie's life and strengthened her faith. Philippians 4:6-8 and why this is one of her favorite pieces of scripture. An unforgettable moment Jeannie had with Dana recently. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jeannie Hodges Peoples on Instagram Welcome to Holland by Emily Perl Kingsley Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 38 – Welcome to Holland: Mothering a Special Needs Child – Part 1 Raising children always has its difficulties, and raising children with special needs comes with its own additional set of challenges. When Jeannie Hodges Peoples was pregnant with her second child, soon after finding out that she was going to be having a girl, she also discovered that her daughter was going to be born with Down's Syndrome. Later in life, Dana was also diagnosed with autism and epilepsy, and although Jeannie and her husband, James, do mourn the loss of the life they had imagined, they have found so much joy in their journey with Dana, and they feel honored that God chose them for this task. This episode will fill your heart with love and your eyes with tears, and for any parents who are on a similar journey, it is essential listening. Key Points From This Episode: The gratitude that Jeanie feels for her upbringing. Jeannie shares how she met her husband and what their life together has looked like. The moment that Jeannie found out that her unborn daughter had down syndrome. Support that Jeannie felt from God throughout her second pregnancy journey. Responses that Jeannie and James received when people found out they weren't going to abort. How Jeannie and James included their first daughter, Emily, in Dana's life, and what Emily is doing now. The impact that having a special needs child has on the majority of marriages, and how Jeannie and James have avoided this fate. Jeannie talks about Dana's personality, and what they have all learned from her. People who have helped Jeannie and James along their journey with Dana. Advice from Jeannie for any parents who receive a special needs diagnosis for their child. Jeannie reads out the poem, Welcome to Holland. How James has handled being the father of a special needs child. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Jeannie Hodges Peoples on Instagram Welcome to Holland by Emily Perl Kingsley Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 37 – Overwhelmed Mom – Part 2 Today, we're welcoming back the wonderful Sarah Rainer for Part 2 of the Overwhelmed Mom series. Most people cannot anticipate what the experience of having children is going to entail, and the massive change that occurs in our lives when we become a mom can be very difficult. The stress that we may experience as a result of this can cause our bodies to go into “fight or flight” mode; this reaction is helpful in short-term doses, but when it becomes chronic, it can have detrimental effects on our health. That's why biblically-based self-care practices (and not just “stress Band-Aids” which don't address the root cause of the problem) are so important, and Sarah has a wealth of knowledge in this realm which can help all of us to manage the stresses that come with balancing being a mom with everything else in our lives. Key Points From This Episode: A recap of the eight biblically-based self-care tips from Part 1. Sarah shares some of the common factors which cause stress. What the “fight or flight” response looks like inside our bodies. The negative implications of chronic stress. How a mismatch between our expectations and our reality can affect us. A red flag which signals someone may need professional help. Intimacy; a possible addition to Sarah's list of self-care tips? The importance of understanding and regulating our own emotions. Practical advice from Sarah about how to be there for our families without becoming overwhelmed. One of the biggest regrets that Sarah has as a mom. Examples of “stress Band-Aids” which don't get to the root of the problem. The dangers of social media and news sources. Helpful resources for anyone who is struggling with stress. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Sarah Rainer Risen Motherhood Christian Counseling Network Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 36 – Overwhelmed Mom – Part 1 Stress is an inevitable part of this life. As we learn from the Bible, we are not alone in our experiences of stress, and we will only be free from it entirely when we meet our maker in heaven. Being a mom in an individualistic society like ours, with the added financial and social pressures of today, often serves to heighten our levels of stress and this can have detrimental effects on our physical, cognitive, emotional, and spiritual health. However, there are ways in which we can alleviate some of the overwhelming emotions that we are being bombarded by, and today, we are joined by clinical psychologist Sarah Rainer, who is here to share eight very helpful pieces of advice on how we can achieve this. We are not God, we have limits, and we need things like rest, community, and prayer in order to thrive, and in turn, to be able to help our children to thrive! Key Points From This Episode: An introduction to today's guest, clinical psychologist Sarah Rainer. Why stress levels in the United States are so high amongst moms. Sarah explains what happens in our bodies when we experience stress. The difference between chronic and acute stress. Examples of stress which come up in the bible. Signals which indicate that we are experiencing high levels of stress. Two lies that we are constantly being told by society. The importance of setting boundaries and getting enough rest. How to incorporate prayer into your busy mom-life. What science and the bible tell us about community support. Why Sarah recommends learning a new skill as a way to reduce stress. How we should approach feelings of guilt and shame. Dangers of idolizing self-care. The importance of learning to ask for help. Some homework for all our listeners to do. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Sarah Rainer More than Money Podcast with Art Rainer Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins

TMV: Episode 35 – Raising Healthy Kids – Part 2 This week we continue our conversation with Nurse Practitioner, Sydney Mee, on how to raise healthy kids. Children's nutritional needs change as they age, and this is especially evident as they approach puberty. There are a whole host of factors that play a critical role in teenage health, like sleep, impossible beauty standards, and dubious information online. Listening in, you'll hear Sydney's advice on a range of topics from choosing supplements for your kids to preparing your children for the changes that come with puberty. Learn how to broach tricky topics like menstruation with young daughters and unpack how sleep and screen time can affect overall health. We also take a look at how anemia and iron deficiencies can affect cognitive ability and why this is more likely to affect your daughter once she starts menstruating. You'll also gain insight into eating disorders and how to detect them early on. We loved having Sydney on the show and we encourage everyone to listen in on this essential conversation on adolescence, nutrition, and much more! Key Points From This Episode: Why it's normal for children to experience a surge in their appetite right before puberty. Sydney's advice on supplements and how to choose the right one for your children. The importance of sleep in health. How dramatic weight changes can be a symptom of a more serious underlying issue. Why it's important to make sure your children eat breakfast and don't skip meals. How to eliminate sugar and make sure your children's sugar intake is low. How having family meals benefit your child's health. The scheduling challenges you will likely face as your children get older and take on more extracurricular activities. The challenge of preparing your children for the changes that occur during puberty. Why it's important to help your kids learn to discern between what is real and fake on the internet. How a church community is an important part of spiritual support and development. How speaking with your children about their bodies from an early age prevents them from seeking out unreliable information elsewhere. The importance of ensuring that daughters who are menstruating receive enough iron and vitamin C in their diet. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Sydney Mee on LinkedIn Mahoney Pediatrics Food Allergies in Kids HealthyChildren.org Friendly Kid Doc Family Church The Mom Village Email The Mom Village on Instagram Kirra Kelly Jismarie Ramos Kristin Scroggins