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Story time from Amsterdam.

Sharing all the juicy things with you here. Girlfriends, travel, business, life, etc. Let's chat like besties do!

I've been doing something daily, which eventually turned into brand deals. When you attract instead of chase, life changes for the better. Are you living the life you envisioned for yourself? Here are some tips and tricks that have worked for me.

Sharing real life stories. Something big has happened.

Meaning; do you show up in this world, making it all about you, or are you interested in getting to know others? Share stories, add value. When you have a problem, other people might have that same problem. So, when you find that solution, share this with others. Just share your personal story. It's that easy!

The people at the top are way too busy collaborating. Sharing some real life stories and all the things social media and life.

Quid pro quo an agreement between two or more parties in which there is a reciprocal exchange of goods or services. Are you in a position, to ask for favors? Strangers are supporting me more than my own “friends” This podcast is going to be tough love. Don't take it personal, but if the shoe fits?!

Sharing some real life examples of when I forced things and when I just went with the flow. Instagram has skyrocketed for me lately because I'm in a healthy flow. Of course you gotta show up, but the more natural and real you show up, the more genuine relationships you will build. Let's chat!

Let's start with what it's NOT It's not a flashy website Logos Fonts YouTube Colors Podcast Social media This is where you get stuck It's simply reputation! What do people think of when they think of you? What problems can you solve? What are you a trusted resource on? Let's amplify all this! It's all about marketing! It's all about trust We trust people who we see a lot. We trust people who keep showing up. We trust people who are consistent. We trust people who we know personal details of. Social media gives you a tool, on this platform you can share all about YOU! Any attention is good attention. You will attract YOUR tribe! You will repel the people who are not for you. On your feed you should share what you do. In your stories you should share what makes you YOU. (Who are you?) Follow The 3 E's Be really entertaining or Be really encouraging or Be really educational. What people do wrong on social media Being distracted. If you have diluted focus You will get diluted results And don't get blindsided by multiple streams of income. Nobody who got rich, got rich from multiple streams of income! Everybody who got rich, got rich from one amazing stream of income. They had one thing that worked really well for them. On one platform. Talk about one thing, on one platform. And become a master. The first step to finding your personal brand is.. What problem can you solve? People spend money on solving problems If your water heater goes out, you find the money. If you have a flat tire, you find the money. If your kid is sick, you find the money to get him better. We find the money to solve problems. People don't pay for information. They can get that for free online. People pay for organization People pay for application. People need help with applying. Serve the person you once were. Like helping your younger self. What obstacle have you overcome? We all have fears. If you want to grow you have to stretch yourself. If you feel fear, this is because you are self centered. There is no fear, once the mission to serve becomes clear. For example if you see a bad car accident and you happen to be the first one on the scene, when u walk over to help, you don't think, does my hair look good? Does my breath stink, do these pants make my butt look big? You are going to help someone, you are going to serve someone. You are not focused on yourself.

Chatting with you bestie style! All the trendy things! All about what's current right now! Thank you for always listening! Come say hi!

We all have a mean girl inside us. Make sure to be above that voice. Don't assume. Communicate! And be TRANSPARENT!! Gosh you can eliminate so many confrontations if you only speak up! Use your voice. Come from a good place. Never forget that we all have a story and we all have insecurities. We usually only lash out to the people closest to us.

Sharing a life changing habit and some secrets with you. Life is all about sharing what works for you and meeting and making like minded new friends. This is how you repel the wrong people and attract the right people.

Any relationship works both ways. You gotta give a lot, before you will receive. You gotta be a good human. Swallow your ego. Know when to listen. Know when to apologize. We all need each other. Team work makes the dream work. Alone you can create ripples, but together you can make waves!

If you want something the best way to get it is to give it.

What we focus on will magnify and we have to choose our focus wisely. Believe haters are just confused supporters.Hate has caused a lot of problems in the world but has not solved one yet

Sharing all the biz adventures, travels, and fun facts. Aiming to inspire, entertain, educate and just have fun with you!

The greatest risk any of us will take is to be seen as who we truly are Knowing when to let go of a dream is as important as knowing when to follow one Life is what happens to you while you're making other plans Go with your gut instead of going with what the experts tell you to do It is more important to be brave than to be liked

New collabs, fashion, boutique hotels, European cars, travel, death, books, diamonds, story telling and all the things relatable.

Story time from Holland. Whatever you do in life, you will only be successful if you stay true to yourself. There is only one YOU! If you want to stand out, be proud! Be you! Be humble at times, when called for. Just share the nitty gritty. I'm not saying TMI but just be honest. That's all it takes! Now get out there and share your honest real story! We all got a story!

Catching up with you, about all the things. Going to Amsterdam and about the new partnership and boutique life and of course the surprise!

Tricking people is for amateurs! Find a solution As you get better it gets easier If you want to be successful in life you gotta help others. You are not selling services and/or products, you are selling certainty. Believe in yourself. Confidence is sexy. As a woman… We have to always be extraordinary. But somehow we are always doing it wrong. You have to be thin, but not too thin. You want to be thin, you have to say. You want to be healthy. But also you HAVE to be thin. You have to have money. But you can't ASK for money. Because that's crass. You HAVE to be a BOSS. You HAVE to lead. But you can't squash other people's ideas. You're supposed to love. But don't talk about your kids, all the damn time. You have to be a career woman. But also always be looking out, for other people. You have to answer for men's, bad behavior, which is insane! But if you point that out, you are accused of complaining. You are supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them. Because you are supposed to be a part of the sisterhood. But always stand out. And always be grateful. You have to never get old. Never be rude. Never show off. Never be selfish. Never fall down. Never show fear. Never get out of line. It's too hard! It's too contradictory! And nobody gives you a medal. Or says thank you! And it turns out in fact. That not only are you doing everything wrong, but also, everything is your fault! I'm just so tired of watching myself, and every other woman, be so hard on herself, so that people will like us.

Be a story teller You are the CEO of your life. The learning comes from doing. Learn from your mistakes. Sales is serving You are always going to be selling something, like a product, a service and/or yourself. You are selling you and your confidence Are you motivated by money? If you have a hard time selling, this only means that you are not sold on yourself just yet. You gotta ask yourself every day, who are you? What do you stand for? And why should they buy from you? You gotta sell yourself on yourself daily. You gotta be a great story teller Share your story Why do your products work for you? Ask yourself, what do you really want. Live the life you are striving for. Uplevel. Most people are really great at complaining. It's a way people bond. Like omg it's cold! Omg yesss right?! U gotta share your failures Keep getting back up Share your fears And how you push through them

Rejection is protection Your focus goes where your attention is When you pay you pay attention ILT invest learn teach Don't get bitter get better Don't get frustrated get fascinated Your own knowing is more powerful than anyone else's advice Being willing to get knocked down and get back up again and fail and learn and grow is more powerful than waiting for someone to come into your life telling you what step to take next Also when you're about to reach out to a mentor do your homework before you ask for their time if they have a book read it the mentor is the energy that's contagious to be around but the real work you can do mostly for free online by reading their writing or watching their videos or researching When you have empathy and when you know the importance of adding value to others not just asking for them to add value to you your farm more likely to succeed in your pursuits When we trust our guts and it's wrong it's never actually wrong it just result in an outcome we didn't want an a lesson we needed to learn Once you learn to trust yourself and your own intuition you'll no longer feel like an impostor or like you need someone else's intuition to guide you The world is very quick to criticize and find fault. But much slower to praise, and find the positive. We will all experience criticism in our lives. Those who are lucky enough to be successful in life, will be criticized more often because people love pointing out mistakes. Especially the people who have achieved less in life, and are scared to go after their dreams. However people who criticize are only showing the lack of confidence within themselves. A very real issue right now about all the filters online. The lie: If I'm ME, I won't be loved. You either walk into your story and own your truth, or you live outside of your story, hustling for your worthiness. Feeling true love and belonging, can't be achieved by changing who you authentically are to try and get it. Being authentic is so important. Because it will give other women permission to do the same. Nobody has a flawless face only over edited magazines. One study shows that 25% of girls say they won't post a picture without editing, and they take on average up to fourteen selfies, to find the “right” look.

It really is so simple. You'll be surprised. Anyone can do it. And sharing all the relatable and easy tips & tricks on how to grow you following on social media. And how to sell your product and/or service.

Make sure you listen till the end. Fasten your seatbelt, and get ready for a bumpy ride. When were you the happiest It's not about the big things it's about the small day-to-day things If you offer your authentic self your idea gift or contribution to the world it is impossible for someone else to have done that already The secret to getting what you want is to truly learn to believe you're worthy of it Even though we think we want to be happy our subconscious drives us to do everything we can to get back to what's comfortable a place that most accurately reflects our sense of worthiness As human beings we are not wired to be happy we are wired to be comfortable Do the best you can until you know better and when you know better do better If you don't believe you are worthy of loving yourself unconditionally it is impossible to find give receive or believe you deserve unconditional love from someone else we cannot give what we do not have Self-worth is determined by you you don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are Stop only learning all day every day, make sure you put it in action as well. Invest between 5 to 10% of what you want your revenue to be in this year. Like if your goal is to make $100.000 this year you invest $5000 to $10.000 in biz mentor ship. First we create habits and then our habits create us You can not achieve success without consistency. You can NOT go to the gym on Sunday for like 4 hrs in a row and expect to have your perfect body! You need to create a consistent plan. Create a point system (like aim for 8 points daily at least, doing various things that will move the needle. Attend a training = 1 point. Prospect someone, whether they say yes or no = 1 point. Getting someone to attend a zoom meeting/webinar/in person meeting = 3 points. Making a sale = 5 points Getting a recruit = 5 points Doing personal development daily = 1 point People will do what you do, not what you say. People are not going to do what you don't do. You gotta say watch me! We all know action speaks louder than words. Master the mundane Create a routine Create a DMO = a Daily Method of Operation. You CAN NOT control the outcome. But YOU CAN control your output. Think big faster! Book recommendations; Making my first 10 million Building an empire The science of getting rich. If your goals don't scare you, they are not big enough. Look for people just like you! People who relate to you! When u show up totally like yourself, you will repel the people who are NOT like you and attract the people who are exactly like you! Even if you don't have a team just yet, start giving value on the how! Start a podcast, a fb live, an IG live, a Tik Tok live, join fb groups that spark your interest. Start your own fb group Start your own meet up group Don't overthink. Don't overcomplicate. Start small.

Are you enjoying the now? Every time you show up on your social media without filter and truly yourself, you give others permission to do the same. Be that person! Forgive yourself for believing that you are anything less than beautiful. When you find a solution to a personal problem, it's very likely that other people have that same problem, and are looking for that same solution. It's better to have a 100 people love you, than a million people who just sort of like you. AIM for that first step, not the mountain top. The people who love your service/product will become your marketing dept, cause they will spread the word for you. Fashion tip: go with the pants who accept you for who you are.

Success leaves clues. The only difference between successful people and non successful people is that successful people just NEVER quit! That's all it is. It really is that simple. The people who succeed the most are often the same people who fail the most. Because they are the ones who try the most. Rejection is redirection!

dare to dig deep enough, you will find a side of yourself that will dramatically enhance all the sides of yourself. The hole that I'm in wasn't a hole until I dug it. You find yourself seeking the opinions of others before searching within you for the truth, you haven't dug at all. Dig deep within you first for the truth. The truth is already within you. Trust your gut.

OMG sharing all the behind the scenes with you. Honesty and communication is key in life. Success comes to those who share their failures and inspire enough others. Side note…we like the people who like us. Meaning start intentionally making true friends, and magic will happen!

Omg did you see that movie? (It's called Meet the Fockers.) Stop living small in the name of strangers on the internet that you'll never meet. - [ ] Your perspective of yourself is either your passport to freedom or your prison Your rituals make you rich It's not how much you make, it's HOW you make it. A true measure of success is a calm nervous system. Don't let your past dictate your future You don't become what you want to become. You become what you feel you are worth. Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you are right. Your mindset determines your outcome. You gotta give zero fucks about what your friends, followers, or family thinks of your lifestyle. You gotta live unapologetically. You are not crazy. You are just first There is only one of you. With your fingerprint. Your eye scan Your heart beat Etc Your self worth is your ceiling

It's all about what you can do for others. How do you make them feel. Stay consistent. Stay in your lane. Don't compare yourself. By showing up consistently, you will train that muscle and you will gain more confidence. Progress over perfection. Oh and of course some juicy stories.

People want to influencers, affiliate marketers, realtors, solar power sellers. They are all over the place! Focus on one thing and go all in. Protect your time. Side note, the nwmarketers who push me daily with their link, just turn me off. Let's chat about routines We all have the same 24 hrs And let's not forget to schedule 8 hrs of sleep Everything starts with a rested mind And reading books is crucial Listening to podcasts while u r working out, while u r cleaning house, while u r in the bubble bath Clean kitchen sink always before bed Last thing u want to do is clean yesterday's dishes. 4 simple tricks to set yourself up for success Create a 10 min bedtime routine Pick your bedtime Pick a wake up time (u need at least 8hrs) Clean up your days mess like kitchen sink and home office etc Tuck your phone in Self awareness Be kind You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar What do you really love? Do more of that Outsource the rest You don't have to know it all Accept progress over perfection Energy Flow Water It's okay to not have all the answers. Nothing good ever comes from your comfort zone.

YOU are worth it! You and only you can and will make your dreams come true. The only way if you don't is when you give up. Make sure you rest and keep trucking!

The people who use the most words, explaining their biz, are the most insecure. Be short and to the point. Time is money. This is not your resume, this is just an elevator pitch. (Like toastmasters) How you show up, matters so much. When you babble, you lose people. Listening is so important. Your biz will go farther, being genuinely interested in 2 other people, then trying to get 200 people interested in you. When you care more about others and/or their biz, that's where the magic happens.

Put yourself out there. Be louder, prouder, bolder, and in charge. Amazing doors will open for you. Opportunities will start to come your way, that you never dreamed possible. Video is a game changer! Get in front of the camera! You WILL inspire others. You are an expert in the eyes of someone! Start small, then keep trucking! You don't have to be the biggest or the best, to start showing up online. Just show up! And stay consistent. You might not be everyone's cup a tea, but you ARE someone's shot of vodka. You have the power to get out of your own way! Change your thinking. Do something radical, like leave your 9-5 Become your own boss! Treat your new independent biz, like let's say with nwm, like a REAL job! After all, it's called net WORK marketing right?! You gotta treat it like a job! If you treat it like a hobby, it will pay you like a hobby, or should I say, cost you like a hobby. It's the same like brushing your teeth, it will become second nature, routine. It will take time and consistency! Good things in life, take time! Like when you met your partner, did you marry him/her on the first date? No, of course not. Your love had to grow. Dream big! Work smarter, not harder! Pick one nwm company, not more, cause you won't give it your all! What's a 50% in school? An F. What's a 100% in school? An A+. Yes you will get naysayers, haters, whatever you wanna call them. Confrontations make you stronger. Keep trucking! Ask yourself, would you want to trade places with them? If it's a no, don't take advice from them, it's that simple! People want to be heard, appreciated, acknowledged and loved! Listen more than you talk. Stay in your lane. Don't play the comparison game. Compete with yourself. Be your best version. Don't try to be perfect. Perfection is boring. Be obsessed with learning. Google is your best friend. We are not meant to blend into life We are meant to stand out When we do, we are giving others permission to do the same.

You just gotta be better at what you do, than anybody else who does it. Stand out!! No BS! No small talk. Nobody likes to waste time. Told ya I don't have a filter! Go be the crazy ass dreamer! Entrepreneurship ain't for the faint of heart! Kick my teeth out, I don't care, I will NEVER work for someone but myself! Trying and failing doesn't suck. Not trying at all because someone talked you out of it, now that's real regret. Be the woman in the arena. Stop playing the blame game! When you succeed it's all on you. When you fail it's all on you! When you go bankrupt, it's on you, It's not the presidents fault, or the people crossing the border etc Go deep not wide. Care first. Deliver value. Feel love every time you give it, without expecting anything in return. Stop keeping score. Treat the end of the relationship like the beginning. Like slurping cereal in the beginning of a relationship is kinda cute but then years later you can't stand it all of a sudden. The price comes at the end of the journey. Just persist until you succeed. Just be brutally honest There is nothing better than honesty. Whatever you want to do, just surround yourself with people who are already doing that, and copy that but put your own spin on it.

All about how to make money and cockfights, dancing, cocktails, making friends, morals and values, social media, network marketing, etc etc. Trust me you are going to laugh out loud!

I got denied 2 years to enter USA I got denied for Gulf Air 2 times I lost my baby I lost my hubby I'm a winner baby Pursuing the things you want ain't easy! Nothing in life that is worth having is easy. You are only competing with yourself You are gonna put in the work Some days will suck Expect it to suck! You gotta keep pushing You know who I want to thank? I want to thank me! You go on with your bad self….you did this!!

There is always someone richer, prettier, skinnier etc…but you are only competing with yourself. Just be prettier, wealthier, healthier and fitter than you were yesterday. And appreciate how far you have come.

If you want an mba, (massive bank account), you need to work on yourself. If you are not willing to learn, no one can help you. If you are determined to learn, no one can stop you. You are suffering from self doubt, While others are intimidated by your full potential. You can either make money or make excuses, but you can't do both! Never take constructive criticism, from anyone who hasn't constructed anything in their life. You gotta have Passion Energy Consistency Show up on camera Go live Work on self development daily Voice memo

Feeling a bit stuck and over this cold weather. I guess you can call it seasonal depression. Even though depression is too strong of a word for how I feel right now. Just sharing all the things.

Google that right now. That's what I did, when I heard this myself. Some answers were the second Friday in January and other answers were January 19. So make sure you keep on trucking friend! Even if you fall off the wagon, just get right back on it, and add an extra day at the end.

Sharing some of my mistakes, so you won't have to go through it. All about social media and insta jail!

Enjoy the process not just the outcome Increase your tolerance for uncertainty Most judgments of others are really judgments of yourself Stay in the game keep the drive alive

Are you ready for the honest truth? Listen and be shocked by the easy answer. We all want to have a large following on social media, because we all want to reap the benefits, of more exposure…meaning eyeballs on our biz or services. So, that means more money in the bank.

You attract what you are, not what you want. Be love. Sharing all the new books, all about social media and how to grow. How to start a podcast and boutique etc.

Omg today we got a big offer on our home, after having lived here only 9 months. Chatting with you about all the things social media, life etc

Today I got hit with major imposter syndrome again. But instead of staying frozen in place, I pushed through and showed up. Progress over perfection.

Does this spark joy? (Marie Kondo) Declutter your life! Make room for inspiration You network is your net worth Life has no limitations except the ones you make.

Never post & ghost Thank people for their engagement Confidence comes from consistently sticking to the commitments you make with yourself. Start before you are ready, don't prepare,begin. Remember, the enemy is not a lack of preparation. It's not the state of the marketplace. It's not the difficulty of your project. It's not the emptiness in your bank account. The real enemy is resistance. It's your chattering brain. So, even if your content isn't perfect, post it anyway. Start before you are ready. Start being seen. Be transparent. Anyone can say anything they want on the internet, but to get your audience to trust you and believe you, you'll need the following three things: CIA = Credibility, Influence, Authority. Leverage OPA = leverage Other People's Audiences) to boost your message. Make connections with those people with bigger platforms, by providing value to them. Don't be afraid to toot your own horn. Share your credits from time to time. Your accolades. How to write the perfect post: 1. Use a compelling headline 3. Tell a story 4. Provide value 5. Include a call to action 6. Never ever post & ghost 7. Reuse, recycle, repurpose. Life might get messy, and it might be imperfect. Keep going. Your personal stories, are what make you uniquely you. They are what make you stand out in the crowded world of Paris filters and face tuning. They are what make people want to connect with you, instead of that other life coach, speaker, boutique owner, or interior designer.

And everyone has to start from the beginning. Don't compare your chapter 1 to her chapter 20 Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping it will kill your enemies Use envy or jealousy as fuel. Detach yourself from being competitive and get creative instead. An opportunity for someone else does not mean a lack of opportunity for you. Success leaves clues, and it's important to follow the footsteps of the people you are fomo ing over, to see how they did it. They paved the way for you. We all stand on the shoulders of giants, even the most famous, successful people in the world build off of the ideas that came before them.