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After suffering far too long in an abusive marriage, Sheryl-Anne Sastow finally made the decision to get out of the relationship, only to then be faced with a drawn-out, expensive and emotionally painful divorce litigation. On this episode of Financially Ever After, Sastow shares how her own experience inspired her to become a divorce mediator and collaborative attorney - a role in which she helps divorcing couples resolve their issues and end their marriages peacefully. Among the many insights Sastow shares: How she gets divorcing couples to communicate even when they’re at their angriest, and why the most acrimonious divorces can see the biggest benefits in choosing mediation over litigation. [6:15] Why it is most often women who contact her to inquire about, and initiate the mediation process in their divorces. [14:15] What the biggest differences are between mediation and litigation divorce processes (hint: one of them will save you time, money and lets you keep your divorce proceedings confidential ). [16:10] Why historically, mediation has been less prevalent than litigation - and why that trend appears to be reversing. [30:35] How to find the best mediator/collaborative attorney to ensure you make the most of all the benefits of mediation. [35:05]Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Sheryl Anne Sastow | W: www.sastowlawandmediation.com P: (516)314-6116 E: Sastow@SastowLawandMediation.com Links to Items Mentioned in the Podcast: Find a mediation attorney or mediator: mediation.com
When journalist and writer, Abby Ellin, learned that the man she had been engaged to had lied to her about everything from being a Navy SEAL to working for the CIA -- and that he had been cheating on her much of the time they’d been together - she had to wonder why her usually strong professional instincts had let her down in her personal life. Abby has since written about her own experiences of romantic betrayal, and those of others -- both the betrayed and the betrayers - compiling her research into a new book, Duped: Double Lives, False Identities, and the Con Man I Almost Married. In this edition of Financially Ever After, Abby shares much of what she has learned about how and why women can be especially vulnerable to romantic, spousal deception, including: Why societal pressure that women be in coupled relationships can make them more likely to ignore or overlook relationship warning signs. [11:05] How scientific studies show it’s harder for people to detect deception when they’re in love. [13:00] Why, when a woman is in a committed relationship (made more complex by financial and familial ties), it is often to her benefit not to “see” the bad or painful things that a partner is doing. [14:45] Why deceptive behavior seems to be everywhere in our culture, and only getting more pervasive. [26:10] Why certain personality types can be more vulnerable to romantic deception; how you can protect yourself against being duped, and where to get support if you’re experiencing - or recovering from, a toxic relationship. [31:40] Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Abby Ellin | W: www.abbyellin.com Links to Items Mentioned in the Podcast: Duped: Double Lives, False Identities, and the Con Man I Almost Married The White Collar Wives Project: https://thewhitecollarwivesproject.org/about-lisa-lawler/ Institute for Relational Harm Reduction: https://saferelationshipsmagazine.com/ Sexual Assault By Fraud: https://consentawareness.net/author/shortjm/
In this week’s podcast, Stacy talks with New York Divorce attorney Chaim Steinberger - a passionate believer in “divorce without destruction”, as he shares his unique perspective on how women can find the right lawyer to represent them. Chaim went through his own rather nasty divorce and said to himself, “There’s got to be a better way!” Finding an attorney who truly cares about you, fully understands your story, and is driven to bring you justice is just some of the useful advice Chaim shares during the show. You’ll also learn: Why a win/win,“Game Theory” approach to divorce is preferable to a zero sum game strategy [2:46] The four most important factors women should consider when choosing a divorce attorney [6:53] How there seems to be a disconnect between what women really want from a divorce attorney vs. what attorneys think they want [12:10] Why the best lawyers not only listen to their clients’ divorce stories, but fully understand the subtext of their story. [17:40] Why the single greatest determinant of a case’s outcome is whether or not the lawyer truly believes in their gut of the justice of the case. [24:55] Why good lawyers never lie, but great lawyers are masters of spin control who expertly weave together the facts to create a compelling case. [27:40] Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Article - “Divorce without Destruction”https://thenewyorkdivorcelawyers.com/divorce-without-destruction/ Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Chaim Steinberger | W: www.thenewyorkdivorcelawyers.com P: (212) 964-6100 E: admin@tnydl.com
This week on Financially Ever After, Stacy is joined by “The Divorcierge,” Karen Bigman. Karen’s background includes both an M.B.A. and Divorce and Life Coach training, making her a powerful source of practical and tactical divorce advice. In addition, Karen also brings personal pre- and post- divorce experience to her work. In this conversation, she shares lessons learned in working with the wrong financial advisor, and how women facing divorce can find the right financial advisor for them. Some of the highlights Karen offers include: The clues that her financial advisor didn’t understand her lifestyle and her plans for her financial future, and wasn’t really hearing her. [7:20] How a lack of transparency around fees, taxes and portfolio makeup affected her income expectations. [10:55] The importance of asking the right questions when interviewing a financial advisor (see link below for a list of questions provided by Francis Financial) [17:05] Why choosing your advisor based solely on a friend’s recommendation can be a bad idea.. [27:40] The surprisingly emotional process of moving to a new advisor, and how rewarding it was in the end. [30:08] For more information on Karen, and additional resources from this show: Karen Bigman | W: thedivorcierge.com P: (646) 612-7800 E: Info@TheDivorcierge.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Questions to ask a financial advisor: https://francisfinancial.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Questions-to-Ask-a-Potential-Advisor.pdf
As a Master Money Coach for professional women, Carrie is living her passion to empower women with the skills and knowledge to save and build wealth. As she so brilliantly states it, “With wealth, women gain an equal vote in the world, build security and control and have choices about how they want to live.” Listen in as Carrie shares some incredible insights regarding the deep and complex relationship between emotions and money behaviors, and learn: How Carrie’s work as a money coach differs from that of a financial adviser: Dealing with the money emotions that drive money behaviors [4:50] Why so many professional women are earning real money but are not acquiring real wealth (hint: It’s not their fault!), and how so many layers of societal “stuff” get between women and money. [9:00] How being “selfish” with money is an act of self-care. [14:30] Why taking the time to fill out a happiness chart is the first, and possibly the most important step on the road to financial empowerment, and how comparison destroys joy [18:19] And more! Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Receive your free money profile here: http://www.behavioralcents.com/my-money-behaviors/ Download your free happiness chart here: http://info.behavioralcents.com/happiness-chart Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Carrie Rattle | W: http://www.behavioralcents.com P: (914) 923-6081 E: CarrieRattle@BehavioralCents.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Barbara Huson, a leading authority on the connection between women, wealth, and power. Along with being an experienced financial coach and speaker, Barbara has published 6 books, applying the wisdom she gained in her journey through 2 divorces, to empower millions of women. Her ultimate goal is to help individuals live up to their financial and personal potential, in spite of the challenging experience of divorce, and she offers personal stories and tips to help and inspire others to succeed. In this episode, you will learn about: What inspired Barbara to help women get savvy about money (3:08) How to key into the spiritual side of money (6:01) The three levels of financial development to create wealth (12:25) The relationship between money, gender, self-worth, and social change (13:19) Myths about money and how to create a new mindset (17:29) How to identify and change your ideas of gender roles around money (20:20) Getting in touch with your emotions (22:14) Support groups and how to create new habits when you are going through divorce (23:58) Stepping out of your comfort zone (28:12) Resources for financial support (29:46) Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Barbara Huson | W: www.barbara-huson.com P: (360) 385-0600 E: office@barbara-huson.com Visit her website to gain immediate access to her FREE e-book, So You’ve Made Good Money…Now What?
Matrimonial attorneys, Linda Decorato and Bryan Goldstein, share the top tips you need to know to get on top of your financial picture, without arousing the suspicion of your husband, before you file for divorce and while you are still under the same roof. Linda and Bryan tell real-life stories of women who went from being financially clueless to financially smart, making great decisions that led to their long-term financial security. In this episode, you will learn: How to cope with emotional pain, and realize it is not permanent (6:34) Why it’s better for your children to see strong mothers who make the decision to leave an unhealthy relationship (12:00) The difference between going through divorce when you’re involved and not involved in your finances (15:10) Why you need to be financially aware, so his debts and his fraud don’t become yours (17:45) How to protect yourself, as a non-working woman, with your own account and build your savings (20:00) When the innocent spouse rule doesn’t apply (24:45) If it’s smart to inflate your expenses on your statement of net worth (SNW) (28:00) What is “stockpiling syndrome” and what expenses are most often questioned (34:15) Where to find experienced professionals at any price point (39:51) Linda Decorato | W: www.dcsf.com P: 212-742-8700 E: decorato@dcsf.com Bryan Goldstein | W: www.dcsf.com P: 212-742-8700 E: Goldstein@dcsf.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Sallie Mullins Thompson, a CPA who has been through the divorce process, herself. Sallie focuses on the importance of being financially independent for a healthy marriage, as well as for a healthy divorce, should it come to that. Becoming financially independent, like coming to the decision to end one’s marriage, is not a transition that happens overnight - both require a tremendous amount of time and preparation, financially and emotionally. In this episode, you will hear about: How Sallie realized the importance of being financially independent (03:21) Her process of becoming aware of spending and educating herself in finance (05:52) Planning the transition to divorce (08:46) How Sallie overcame the fear of leaving her marriage (15:44) Tips to become financially independent, and when to work with a financial advisor (21:22) Resources for experienced CDFAs Sallie Thompson | W: www.smtcpapllc.com P: (212) 243-9126 E: smt@wt.net Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by divorce and family mediator, Rachel Green. Rachel focusses on the importance of communication not only for a happy marriage, but also for a happy divorce. Mediation is a process for resolving disputes by which an independent mediator assists the parties in reaching a mutually satisfactory settlement. It is an extension of the parties’ own negotiations and is sometimes referred to as a "supercharged negotiation." In this episode, you will gain insight on: Couples who lack communication in the mediation process (05:00) incorporating your attorney in mediation (16:39) Three ways to know if mediation is right for you (19:44) How Rachel mediates cases when one of the spouses has been a victim of domestic violence (23:52) What ‘Shuttle diplomacy’ means (28:33) Some of the mistakes Rachel sees women make as they go through the divorce process (34:48) Rachel Green | W: www.mediate2resolution.com/ P: 718- 965-9236 E: Rachel@mediate2resolution.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by the financial editor of NBC’s TODAY show, owner of DailyWorth, AARP’s personal finance ambassador and host of the podcast HerMoney, Jean Chatzky. In this episode, Stacy dives deeper into Jean’s book, ‘Age Proof’ to focus on the importance of what women can do to achieve both financial independence and biological strength to get you there. In this episode, you will receive answers to the following questions: As a financial expert, did Jean deal with all the finances in her marriage? What are her top tips? – (05:26) How does Jean pick the best investments and manage her finances? (12:05) What is the link between health and wealth? Jean explains how you can secure both. (14:20) What is a Health Savings Account? Do you need one? (17:58) What are the best options for health insurance plans for newly divorced women? (23:34) What are some words of wisdom for divorced women who want to stay financially and physically fit? (28:23) Sign up for Daily Worth’s Newsletter, helping women earn more, save more and spend smarter: subscribe@dailyworth.com. Subscribe to Jean’s Podcast, ‘HerMoney’ – Making money make sense Order Jean’s Book ‘Age Proof’ – Live longer without running out of money or breaking a hip Jean Chatzky | W: www.jeanchatzky.com P: 914- 260-0610E: jsc@jeanchatzky.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by experienced seasoned litigator and matrimonial attorney, Richard Adago. Gray divorces have become increasingly common and Richard has come across numerous cases, both amicable and uncordial. In this episode, Richard provides an insight into the legal aspects of how to deal with an unexpected broken marriage and specifically when adult children are involved. In this episode you will gain insight on: Why there is an increase in gray divorces (03:00) How a gray divorce is different to a younger couple getting divorced (07:31) Client stories about being financially in the dark (09:38) What is not allowed in a marriage when fishing for financial information (15:37) Tips on how to legally disclose your husband’s financial information (17:58) What Richard’s financial story is (19:32) When mediation is the right route to take (26:19) When interviewing lawyers, how to know who is going to protect you from yourself (30:27) Richard Adago | W: www.phillipsnizer.com/ P: 212-841-0541 E:radago@phillipsnizer.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Michelle Lisa Anderson, speaker, Author and CCO of movement ‘Love over Addiction.’ Michelle shares her personal story of divorcing a man who suffered from drug and alcohol addiction. She also opens up about the details behind her dysfunctional marriage, which she kept hidden, and how she opened the door to happiness. She emphasizes the importance of loving ourselves for the people we are today and not the people we are trying to become tomorrow. In this episode you will gain insight on: How to support a friend or family member who is going through a dysfunctional marriage (07:43) Why we so frequently pursue those who can't love us in the way we need (12:04) How to prevent this from this happening again (18:42) How to know when to leave (22:44) How to know whether your situation is ‘normal’ (29:29) Where to receive emotional support during a transition (34:04) Those interested in receiving Michelle’s Free 12 Tips Every Woman & Mother Need to Know When Loving Someone Who Drinks Too Much or Suffers From Substance Abuse can visit: http://loveoveraddiction.com/stacy and enter your email address. The freebie will be emailed to you. Michelle Anderson | W: LoveOverAddiction.com E: Info@LoveOverAddiction.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, and budget coach, Michelle Jacobik. Her financial solutions and support programs have helped numerous women rebuild their financial life before, during and after divorce. In this episode, Michelle provides an insight into being financially prepared for such a drastic transition and what to avoid during this difficult time from both a personal and professional aspect of divorce. In this episode, you will gain insight into: What a budget coach does (4:11) How Michelle got into the budgeting industry (7:04) What financial consistency means (9:49) How Michelle brought stability to her finances (14:30) What prosperity after divorce means (20:06) What tools make budgeting and recording your spending easier (22:30) Useful resources for budgeting (28:19) How to prepare yourself for your post-divorce financial situation (33:00) Michelle Jacobik | W: https://michellejacobik.com/ P: 860-334-1351 E: michelle@michellejacobik.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
In this edition of Financially Ever After, Stacy is joined by Patricia Fersch -- founding partner at Fersch Petitti LLC, a matrimonial and family law firm in New York City. Patricia’s background includes successfully completing thousands of cases involving families caught in the turmoil of Family Law conflicts, and she is particularly well-known for handling high-profile clients and resolving complicated legal issues, all involving child custody or divorce-related matters. In this podcast, Patricia shares a number of insights and experiences, including: How her professional journey took her from college dropout, to business owner, to running her own law firm, and how her hard-earned business experiences inform her interactions with clients every day. (4:51) How she can quickly determine the likelihood that a spouse is hiding money. [17:20] How spousal support caps work in New York, why they can be a huge deal for couples in middle income brackets, and what factors can influence a court to waive them. [19:10] Why it’s vital for women to build and maintain security (eg: training, experience, social networks, money) of their own, even within their marriages. [32:48] How shared child custody can be - and often is - manipulated and used to avoid paying child support. [37:50] Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Patricia Fersch| W: http://pffamilylaw.com/ E: PFersch@pffamilylaw.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: New York State Child Support Resources http://ww2.nycourts.gov/divorce/childsupport/index.shtml New York State Spousal Support Resources http://ww2.nycourts.gov/divorce/MaintenanceChildSupportTools.shtml
From a frugal upbringing in India, to an almost 15 year-long career working as a stock trader on Wall Street, writer and researcher Nyla has always possessed a strong fluency in the language of money. But when faced with the abrupt endings of both her job and her marriage, Nyla took the opportunity to re-examine her life path, and her relationship with money. In this episode of “Financially Ever After”, Nyla shares some of the insights she has discovered that have helped her unleash her most creative, well-rounded and generative self, including: Why, when it comes to marriage, looking at finances and value creation between two spouses as a zero sum game is not healthy and can prevent you from seeing one another as equal partners. [14:48] Why financial coaching should be an important and lifelong educational process for individuals and couples, alike. [25:30] How a dramatic “life audit” shifted her understanding of the value of money and has led her to now view money as a tool that makes possible incredible opportunities and experiences [37:48] How she has learned to redefine her net worth as a “holy triangle” comprised of: social capital (your network), human capital (yourself) and financial capital [44:10] Why your creative and generative potential is the key to your sense of well-being, and how when that is out of whack, you do a disservice to everyone in your life. [46:40] Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Financial Therapy Association www.financialtherapyassociation.org
On this week’s “Financially Ever After”, Stacy is joined by Laura Israel Sinrod (Senior Staff Attorney) and Rachel Braunstein (Managing Policy Attorney), two powerhouse legal professionals whose work with NYC not-for-profit, Her Justice, helps provide family and matrimonial law assistance to women in poverty, many of whom are survivors of domestic violence. Listen in as Rachel, Laura and Stacy discuss the history of this 25-year-old organization, talk about the unique issues faced by Her Justice’s clients, and share some of the ways the volunteer lawyers of Her Justice support their extremely vulnerable clientele, including: How Her Justice’s unique “Pro-Bono First” model allows training and mentorship for more than 1,800 legal volunteers who are then able to provide services to more than 9,000 women and children (80% of whom are survivors of domestic abuse). [3:45] The top issues that women in poverty face when going through divorce, including compounding of issues such as financial illiteracy, custody and parenting, and financial isolation. [10:10] How women in poverty face additional collateral consequences of litigation: from lost income to facing an abusive partner. [18:30] Why Her Justice’s lawyers are trained not just in the substance of the legal issues, but also in empowering their clients with knowledge and information and ability to make decisions. [20:10]Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212)374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Laura Israel Sinrod | W: HerJustice.org P: (212)695-3800 Rachel Braunstein | W: HerJustice.org P: (212)695-3800 Links to Items Mentioned in This Podcast: LawHelp.org HerJustice.org Her Justice Legal Information Guidelines Statement of Net Worth Their helpline is open on Thursdays from 10am to 1pm and most callers will be able to speak to a lawyer the same day for a free consultation.
In this episode of Financially Ever After, Stacy talks with New York “Super Lawyer” Adria Hillman. With a long-standing history practicing corporate and family law, Adria’s client list has included well-known celebrities and entertainers, but her initial and continuing passion around family and divorce law remains helping all people who need help. Listen in as Adria shares insights from her lifetime of experiences helping women empower themselves around financial issues during divorce, including: How celebrity divorces differ from those of average income couples - and why courtroom litigation should be the last resort for any couple hoping to maintain control over proceedings [10:12] Why you need to Face the “Big Three Fears” (Fear of: Finances, Family Dissolution and the Future), but why you don’t need to face them alone! [14:03] Understanding Trusts, Marital Debt, Tax Returns & Credit Cards -- Why these four financial areas can create a financial disaster if you're not aware of them [19:10] Why you should never let the fear of “hidden secrets” keep you from seeking information about the financial unknowns. [32:30] Why she is so driven in her work as a founding member of New York Women's Foundation, and why it’s more important than ever for women to support other women in building wealth. [36:44] Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Adria Hillman | W: https://adriashillman.com P: (212) 593-5223 E:info@adriashillman.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: New York Women’s Foundation: https://www.nywf.org/
This week on Financially Ever After, Stacy is joined by New York family and matrimonial law attorney, Carolyn Walsh Parry. After an initial successful legal career in corporate law, the opportunity to participate in a Hague Convention (international child parental abduction) case led to Carolyn’s decision to transition from civil law to family law. Join Stacy and Carolyn in this podcast as they discuss the implications of Hague Convention Treaty on multinational families experiencing divorce, as well as sharing advice for all women who are facing tough decisions during divorce. Among the topics discussed in this episode: How parental abduction of children happens much more frequently than we realize, and how easy it can be for non-custodial parents to take children across international borders. [5:50] What to look for in a divorce lawyer and what to avoid when selecting a divorce attorney (hint: be wary of the “bulldog”). [19:50] How good negotiation skills are just as important in litigation as they are in mediation. [24:20] Where to look for an emotional support system and why everyone who is dealing with a divorce needs one. [30:40] Why, when in the midst of divorce preparation and proceedings, you should behave as though each of your emails, phone calls and actions could be shared with a judge. [31:20] For more information on Carolyn Walsh Parry, and additional resources from this show: Carolyn Walsh Parry | W: www.carolynparrylaw.com P: (917) 797-0713 Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Information on the Hague Convention/International Child Abduction: https://www.hcch.net/en/instruments/conventions/specialised-sections/child-abduction Francis Financial’s “Unveiling the Unspoken Truth” - Francis Financial’s groundbreaking survey and whitepaper: https://francisfinancial.com/white-paper-confirmation/
Join Stacy in an info-packed conversation with award-winning family and matrimony attorney, Amanda Trigg. Based in New Jersey, Amanda brings years of experience protecting her clients and their families through the complex and challenging process of divorce. In this episode, Amanda details how women who are contemplating divorce can prepare for the possibility of divorce and find the financial information without raising their spouse’s suspicions. Among her insights: • Why you should never panic, but you should “just ask”. [7:20] • What to do when “just asking” doesn’t work - legal ways women can get information about a spouse’s finances. [14:30] • Understanding the grey area between “Awkward” and “Illegal”. [15:50] • What constitutes a reasonable expectation of privacy within the home. [27:00] • What is “safe”/ “legal” to look at when it comes to digital files and online information [27:47] • How valuable credit applications can be when searching for financial information [30:40] Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Amanda Trigg | W: www.amandatrigg.com E: ast@lmllawyers.com Items mentioned in this podcast (Stacy’s Recommended Readings) 1. The Richest Man in Babylon George S. Clason’s classic book shares the secrets to overcoming your personal financial problems. Read and absorb the inspirational and informative “Babylonian parables” containing stories on thriftiness, financial planning and personal wealth. 2. MONEY Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom Tony Robbins has released his first book in two decades. It includes extensive research and interviews with more than 50 renowned financial experts. Use his easy-to-follow, seven-step plan to get your finances in order, create a lifetime income plan and achieve financial freedom. 3. When She Makes More: 10 Rules for Breadwinning Women Do you earn more than your partner? Personal finance expert Farnoosh Torabi explains how women can avoid burnout, infidelity and divorce as the family breadwinners. Check out her 10 rules to achieving personal and professional success. 4. Prince Charming Isn’t Coming: How Women Get Smart About Money, by Barbara Stanny 5. On My Own Two Feet: A Modern Girl’s Guide to Personal Finance, by Manisha Thakor and Sharon Kedar 6. The Debt Escape Plan, by Beverly Harzog 7. Worth It: Your Life, Your Money, Your Terms, by Amanda Steinberg
In this episode of “Financially Ever After”, Stacy talks with Sunny Joy McMillan, a recovering attorney, a practicing master life coach, award winning author, and a radio host. Sunny is also a happy divorcée who, after an incredibly high-conflict marriage, shared an amazing post-divorce friendship with her ex-husband until his passing in 2018. Listen in and learn how Sunny helps her clients use divorce as a catalyst for personal transformation and create a kick-ass new life. Among the insightful information, Sunny shares: How after years in a high-conflict marriage and unfulfilling legal career, she found her life-calling as a life coach. [3:04] How tools like the seemingly simple act of writing a letter can be some of the most empowering exercises in healing relationships and working toward your essential life path. [6:27] How our thinking creates our feelings, and sometimes those thoughts are not in our best interest, or even true. [19:46] How often the answers we seek can be found within, and how we can build our capacity to get in touch with, and listen to our inner wisdom to build the life that will truly make us fulfilled [22:00] 32:08 Why self-love and self-compassion are the foundation for EVERYTHING in building a life of integrity and fulfillment [32:08] Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Sunny Joy McMillan | W: www.goldenoversoul.com E:sunnyjoy@goldenoversoul.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: UNHITCHED: Unlock Your Courage and Clarity to Unstick Your Bad Marriage https://unhitchedbook.com “Sunny in Seattle” Radio Program: 1150kknw.com/show/sunny-in-seattle/
In this week’s podcast, Stacy talks with New York Divorce attorney Chaim Steinberger - a passionate believer in “divorce without destruction”, as he shares his unique perspective on how women can find the right lawyer to represent them. Chaim went through his own rather nasty divorce and said to himself, “There’s got to be a better way!” Finding an attorney who truly cares about you, fully understands your story, and is driven to bring you justice is just some of the useful advice Chaim shares during the show. You’ll also learn: Why a win/win,“Game Theory” approach to divorce is preferable to a zero sum game strategy [2:46] The four most important factors women should consider when choosing a divorce attorney [6:53] How there seems to be a disconnect between what women really want from a divorce attorney vs. what attorneys think they want [12:10] Why the best lawyers not only listen to their clients’ divorce stories, but fully understand the subtext of their story. [17:40] Why the single greatest determinant of a case’s outcome is whether or not the lawyer truly believes in their gut of the justice of the case. [24:55] Why good lawyers never lie, but great lawyers are masters of spin control who expertly weave together the facts to create a compelling case. [27:40] Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Article - “Divorce without Destruction”https://thenewyorkdivorcelawyers.com/divorce-without-destruction/ Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Chaim Steinberger | W: www.thenewyorkdivorcelawyers.com P: (212) 964-6100 E: admin@tnydl.com
This week on Financially Ever After, Stacy is joined by “The Divorcierge,” Karen Bigman. Karen’s background includes both an M.B.A. and Divorce and Life Coach training, making her a powerful source of practical and tactical divorce advice. In addition, Karen also brings personal pre- and post- divorce experience to her work. In this conversation, she shares lessons learned in working with the wrong financial advisor, and how women facing divorce can find the right financial advisor for them. Some of the highlights Karen offers include: The clues that her financial advisor didn’t understand her lifestyle and her plans for her financial future, and wasn’t really hearing her. [7:20] How a lack of transparency around fees, taxes and portfolio makeup affected her income expectations. [10:55] The importance of asking the right questions when interviewing a financial advisor (see link below for a list of questions provided by Francis Financial) [17:05] Why choosing your advisor based solely on a friend’s recommendation can be a bad idea.. [27:40] The surprisingly emotional process of moving to a new advisor, and how rewarding it was in the end. [30:08] For more information on Karen, and additional resources from this show: Karen Bigman | W: thedivorcierge.com P: (646) 612-7800 E: Info@TheDivorcierge.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Questions to ask a financial advisor: https://francisfinancial.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Questions-to-Ask-a-Potential-Advisor.pdf
Managing Money Emotions and Money Behaviors with Master Money Coach, Carrie Rattle In this week’s episode, Stacy talks with CEO & Founder of Behavioral Cents, Carrie Rattle. As a Master Money Coach for professional women, Carrie is living her passion to empower women with the skills and knowledge to save and build wealth. As she so brilliantly states it, “With wealth, women gain an equal vote in the world, build security and control and have choices about how they want to live.” Listen in as Carrie shares some incredible insights regarding the deep and complex relationship between emotions and money behaviors, and learn: How Carrie’s work as a money coach differs from that of a financial adviser: Dealing with the money emotions that drive money behaviors [4:50] Why so many professional women are earning real money but are not acquiring real wealth (hint: It’s not their fault!), and how so many layers of societal “stuff” get between women and money. [9:00] How being “selfish” with money is an act of self-care. [14:30] Why taking the time to fill out a happiness chart is the first, and possibly the most important step on the road to financial empowerment, and how comparison destroys joy [18:19] And more! Links to items mentioned in this podcast: Receive your free money profile here: http://www.behavioralcents.com/my-money-behaviors/ Download your free happiness chart here: http://info.behavioralcents.com/happiness-chart Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com Carrie Rattle | W: http://www.behavioralcents.com P: (914) 923-6081 E: CarrieRattle@BehavioralCents.com
Matrimonial attorneys, Linda Decorato and Bryan Goldstein, share the top tips you need to know to get on top of your financial picture, without arousing the suspicion of your husband, before you file for divorce and while you are still under the same roof. Linda and Bryan tell real-life stories of women who went from being financially clueless to financially smart, making great decisions that led to their long-term financial security. In this episode, you will learn: How to cope with emotional pain, and realize it is not permanent (6:34) Why it’s better for your children to see strong mothers who make the decision to leave an unhealthy relationship (12:00) The difference between going through divorce when you’re involved and not involved in your finances (15:10) Why you need to be financially aware, so his debts and his fraud don’t become yours (17:45) How to protect yourself, as a non-working woman, with your own account and build your savings (20:00) When the innocent spouse rule doesn’t apply (24:45) If it’s smart to inflate your expenses on your statement of net worth (SNW) (28:00) What is “stockpiling syndrome” and what expenses are most often questioned (34:15) Where to find experienced professionals at any price point (39:51) Linda Decorato | W: www.dcsf.com P: 212-742-8700 E: decorato@dcsf.com Bryan Goldstein | W: www.dcsf.com P: 212-742-8700 E: Goldstein@dcsf.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by divorce and family mediator, Rachel Green. Rachel focusses on the importance of communication not only for a happy marriage, but also for a happy divorce. Mediation is a process for resolving disputes by which an independent mediator assists the parties in reaching a mutually satisfactory settlement. It is an extension of the parties’ own negotiations and is sometimes referred to as a "supercharged negotiation." In this episode, you will gain insight on: Couples who lack communication in the mediation process (05:00) incorporating your attorney in mediation (16:39) Three ways to know if mediation is right for you (19:44) How Rachel mediates cases when one of the spouses has been a victim of domestic violence (23:52) What ‘Shuttle diplomacy’ means (28:33) Some of the mistakes Rachel sees women make as they go through the divorce process (34:48) Rachel Green | W: www.mediate2resolution.com/ P: 718- 965-9236 E: Rachel@mediate2resolution.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by the financial editor of NBC’s TODAY show, owner of DailyWorth, AARP’s personal finance ambassador and host of the podcast HerMoney, Jean Chatzky. In this episode, Stacy dives deeper into Jean’s book, ‘Age Proof’ to focus on the importance of what women can do to achieve both financial independence and biological strength to get you there. In this episode, you will receive answers to the following questions: As a financial expert, did Jean deal with all the finances in her marriage? What are her top tips? – (05:26) How does Jean pick the best investments and manage her finances? (12:05) What is the link between health and wealth? Jean explains how you can secure both. (14:20) What is a Health Savings Account? Do you need one? (17:58) What are the best options for health insurance plans for newly divorced women? (23:34) What are some words of wisdom for divorced women who want to stay financially and physically fit? (28:23) Sign up for Daily Worth’s Newsletter, helping women earn more, save more and spend smarter: subscribe@dailyworth.com. Subscribe to Jean’s Podcast, ‘HerMoney’ – Making money make sense Order Jean’s Book ‘Age Proof’ – Live longer without running out of money or breaking a hip Jean Chatzky | W: www.jeanchatzky.com P: 914- 260-0610E: jsc@jeanchatzky.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by experienced seasoned litigator and matrimonial attorney, Richard Adago. Gray divorces have become increasingly common and Richard has come across numerous cases, both amicable and uncordial. In this episode, Richard provides an insight into the legal aspects of how to deal with an unexpected broken marriage and specifically when adult children are involved. In this episode you will gain insight on: Why there is an increase in gray divorces (03:00) How a gray divorce is different to a younger couple getting divorced (07:31) Client stories about being financially in the dark (09:38) What is not allowed in a marriage when fishing for financial information (15:37) Tips on how to legally disclose your husband’s financial information (17:58) What Richard’s financial story is (19:32) When mediation is the right route to take (26:19) When interviewing lawyers, how to know who is going to protect you from yourself (30:27) Richard Adago | W: www.phillipsnizer.com/ P: 212-841-0541 E:radago@phillipsnizer.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Michelle Lisa Anderson, speaker, Author and CCO of movement ‘Love over Addiction.’ Michelle shares her personal story of divorcing a man who suffered from drug and alcohol addiction. She also opens up about the details behind her dysfunctional marriage, which she kept hidden, and how she opened the door to happiness. She emphasizes the importance of loving ourselves for the people we are today and not the people we are trying to become tomorrow. In this episode you will gain insight on: How to support a friend or family member who is going through a dysfunctional marriage (07:43) Why we so frequently pursue those who can't love us in the way we need (12:04) How to prevent this from this happening again (18:42) How to know when to leave (22:44) How to know whether your situation is ‘normal’ (29:29) Where to receive emotional support during a transition (34:04) Those interested in receiving Michelle’s Free 12 Tips Every Woman & Mother Need to Know When Loving Someone Who Drinks Too Much or Suffers From Substance Abuse can visit: http://loveoveraddiction.com/stacy and enter your email address. The freebie will be emailed to you. Michelle Anderson | W: LoveOverAddiction.com E: Info@LoveOverAddiction.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Kathleen Burns Kingsbury, a wealth psychology expert, founder of KBK Wealth Connection, host of the Breaking Money Silence® podcast, and an internationally published author and speaker. In this episode, Kathleen highlights how important it is to have regular financial conversations with your partner and that research has shown it increases intimacy in relationships. Kathleen holds an interest in financial psychology, background in banking and drive to empower people to take control of their financial lives. This episode is filled with insightful secrets on how to make good financial decisions when going through divorce. You will gain insight on: What gave Kathleen the courage to not make the money conversation taboo (03:38) The difference between men talking/not talking about money compared to women (05:37) If finances have anything to do with the fact that 50% of first marriages end in divorce (06:58) Why couples try to hide finances from their spouse (08:16) What happens when one person is overpowered in a meeting with their financial planner (11:09) How to best manage your money relationship according to your generation, age and background (16:35) Top tips for women going through divorce to make sure they have the right mindset to make good financial decisions (27:26) Kathleen Burns Kingsbury | W: www.kbkwealthconnection.com P: 617-773-2344 E: kbk@kbkwealthconnection.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by matrimonial attorneys and Certified Divorce Financial Analysts, Lisa Zeiderman and Faith Miller. It was their own difficult divorces that their path to a career in matrimonial law was forged. They recognize that organization, responsiveness and knowledge of complex finances is necessary in order to best advocate for their clients. In this episode, Stacy, Lisa and Faith focus on the financial, real estate and emotional assistance a matrimonial attorney provides. You will gain insight on: ü Postponing getting divorced until a maintenance alimony is not taxable to you (05:07) ü Poor financial mistakes being made regardless of guidance (07:56) ü Reassuring your child in a non-expensive way (11:40) ü What not to put in your joint account (15:54) ü The difference between passive appreciation and active appreciation (19:42) ü How finances are different from your parents’ generation (23:25) ü Prenups and Postnups (42:05) Lisa Zeiderman | W: https://mzwnylaw.com/ P: 212-324-3707 E: LZ@MZW-LAW.COM Faith Miller | W: https://mzwnylaw.com/ P: 212-324-3707 E: fgm@mzw-law.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by matrimonial attorneys and Certified Divorce Financial Analysts, Lisa Zeiderman and Faith Miller. It was their own difficult divorces that their path to a career in matrimonial law was forged. They recognize that organization, responsiveness and knowledge of complex finances is necessary in order to best advocate for their clients. In this episode, Stacy, Lisa and Faith focus on the financial, real estate and emotional assistance a matrimonial attorney provides. You will gain insight on: Postponing getting divorced until a maintenance alimony is not taxable to you (05:07) Poor financial mistakes being made regardless of guidance (07:56) Reassuring your child in a non-expensive way (11:40) What not to put in your joint account (15:54) The difference between passive appreciation and active appreciation (19:42) How finances are different from your parents’ generation (23:25) Prenups and Postnups (42:05) Lisa Zeiderman | W: https://mzwnylaw.com/ P: 212-324-3707 E: LZ@MZW-LAW.COM Faith Miller | W: https://mzwnylaw.com/ P: 212-324-3707 E: fgm@mzw-law.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Joy Loverde, a consultant on active aging and the elder-care industry. She’s the author of, “Who Will Take Care of Me When I’m Old” and “The Complete Eldercare Planner.” It’s important to think about what you can be doing to age as active and happy as possible. In this episode, Joy highlights how important it is to have an insurance policy that will allow you to remain independent. In order to support family, women are constantly putting their own financial well-being in jeopardy. What you may fail to realize is if you can’t take care of yourself, you won’t be able to take care of those dependent on you. You will gain insight on: What to put in a long-term plan (05:18) Medicare (05:55) Insurance policies for long-term care and what isn’t covered in Medicare (12:20) Spousal discount on your long-term care (12:20) Community and Caring (16:55) Joy Loverde | W: www.elderindustry.com E: jloverde@elderindustry.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Joy Loverde, a consultant on active aging and the elder-care industry. She’s the author of, “Who Will Take Care of Me When I’m Old” and “The Complete Eldercare Planner.” It’s important to think about what you can be doing to age as active and happy as possible. In this episode, Joy highlights how important it is to have an insurance policy that will allow you to remain independent. In order to support family, women are constantly putting their own financial well-being in jeopardy. What you may fail to realize is if you can’t take care of yourself, you won’t be able to take care of those dependent on you. You will gain insight on: What to put in a long-term plan (05:18) Medicare (05:55) Insurance policies for long-term care and what isn’t covered in Medicare (12:20) Spousal discount on your long-term care (12:20) Community and Caring (16:55) Joy Loverde | W: www.elderindustry.com E: jloverde@elderindustry.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week Stacy is joined by successful business woman, Jenny Powers. Jenny married her childhood sweetheart and then found herself filing for divorce, mainly due to issues around money. When Jenny’s divorce attorney asked her basic questions related to her financial situation and she realized she couldn’t answer them, she decided things needed to change. Jenny is someone who has learned from her mistakes and is now happily re-married and having smart money conversations with her husband. In this episode, Stacy and Jenny will share helpful tips on how to have the money conversation with your partner. Jenny shares her insight on all of the below questions: Do you feel like your ex-husband had a handle on the household finances? (04:34) Do you feel that the lack of conversation about money led to your decision about the divorce? (06:29) How long did your divorce take? (08:46) How did you choose a lawyer? (11:12) How did you manage to support yourself afterwards? (12:36) What did you take away from your marriage regarding finances? (15:33) What is your strategy in your new marriage? (21:08) Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com Jenny Powers | W: http://www.running-with-heels.com/
This week Stacy is joined by successful business woman, Jenny Powers. Jenny married her childhood sweetheart and then found herself filing for divorce, mainly due to issues around money. When Jenny’s divorce attorney asked her basic questions related to her financial situation and she realized she couldn’t answer them, she decided things needed to change. Jenny is someone who has learned from her mistakes and is now happily re-married and having smart money conversations with her husband. In this episode, Stacy and Jenny will share helpful tips on how to have the money conversation with your partner. Jenny shares her insight on all of the below questions: Do you feel like your ex-husband had a handle on the household finances? (04:34) Do you feel that the lack of conversation about money led to your decision about the divorce? (06:29) How long did your divorce take? (08:46) How did you choose a lawyer? (11:12) How did you manage to support yourself afterwards? (12:36) What did you take away from your marriage regarding finances? (15:33) What is your strategy in your new marriage? (21:08) Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com Jenny Powers | W: http://www.running-with-heels.com/
Nationally recognized transitional life strategist, author, keynote, and reinvention expert, Randi Levin joins Stacy this week on Financially Ever After. Randi’s core belief is that women have the choice and the power to carve out and curate their own legacy based on embracing their ongoing evolution. This inspiring episode is for individuals who are going through a major life transition and are struggling with how to navigate it. Stacy and Randi stress how “Now” is the time to start your new chapter with no regrets, especially if you find yourself sacrificing the things you enjoy for the sake of others. You will gain insight on: ü How you can stand up and take care of yourself first (10:05) ü How to own your past and not feel like it needs to be erased (13:14) ü How to move forward in your life with more courage and less fear (16:25) ü The blocks that hold you back when contemplating divorce (23:38) We guarantee you will leave this podcast episode feeling fulfilled and empowered. Visit Randi’s website for upcoming workshops and more information on tools to help you navigate difficult life transitions. Randi Levin | W: www.randilevincoaching.com P: 201-803-1333 E: Randi@randilevincoaching.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by attorney, social worker, and founder of DLM Divorce Mediation, Debra Mechanick. Debra clearly understands the clinical dynamic of family relationships, and will advise you on how to take a peaceful approach to separation and divorce. How does one make well-reasoned, logical financial decisions when in the midst of what, arguably, is one of the most emotionally-traumatic experiences a family can go through? In this episode, Stacy and Debra will provide you with tools for approaching the divorce process by separating emotions from rational decisions. You will gain insight on: Three big mistakes women make when rushing through the divorce process (6:29)Understanding new laws (12:31)How to separate emotions from the decision-making process (19:18)Techniques for avoiding unhealthy communication that may influence negotiation (23:10)How to compartmentalize the divorce process into 3 components (28:32)Taking care of yourself (36:41)Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E:stacy@francisfinancial.com Debra Mechanick | W: http://www.dlmdivorcemediation.com/ P: (646) 428-5151 E: debra@dlmdivorcemediation.com
Mali List Mayer, a single mother and solopreneur, who has launched her life independently, joins Stacy this week. Mali hones in on the importance of educating yourself financially from a young age. From learning how to budget to choosing the right adviser for you. Stacy and Mali provides savvy tips to get on top of your investments and not rely on your other half for help. In this episode, you will gain insight on: Educating yourself on financial terminology and concepts – 8:17 Choosing the right portfolio and adviser for you – 11:32 Approaching your adviser in the most effective way – 15:23 Understanding how advisers charge – 21:50 Teaching the next generation about your values of money – 28:17 Mali List Mayer, a single mother and solopreneur, who has launched her life independently, joins Stacy this week. Mali hones in on the importance of educating yourself financially from a young age. From learning how to budget to choosing the right adviser for you. Stacy and Mali provides savvy tips to get on top of your investments and not rely on your other half for help. In this episode, you will gain insight on: Educating yourself on financial terminology and concepts – 8:17 Choosing the right portfolio and adviser for you – 11:32 Approaching your adviser in the most effective way – 15:23 Understanding how advisers charge – 21:50 Teaching the next generation about your values of money – 28:17 Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Mali List Mayer, a single mother and solopreneur, who has launched her life independently, joins Stacy this week. Mali hones in on the importance of educating yourself financially from a young age. From learning how to budget to choosing the right adviser for you. Stacy and Mali provides savvy tips to get on top of your investments and not rely on your other half for help. In this episode, you will gain insight on: Educating yourself on financial terminology and concepts – 8:17 Choosing the right portfolio and adviser for you – 11:32 Approaching your adviser in the most effective way – 15:23 Understanding how advisers charge – 21:50 Teaching the next generation about your values of money – 28:17 Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week Stacy is joined by psychiatrist and author of Fulfilled for a valentine’s day special about finding yourself before you find your soulmate. Fulfilled illustrates how the science of spirituality helps you live a happier, more meaningful life. In this episode Stacy and Anna provide you with real life examples and exercises focusing on four important points during a divorce: relinquishing victim mentality, having faith and giving/offering forgiveness, rising above indecision and owning your thoughts & feelings. You will gain insight on: What made Anna decide to write Fulfilled? (3:03) How to start healing yourself (5:38) The Mirror Principle (6:28) What are some of those tools that women can work through to start to find that nugget that might not be fully ready in themselves? (8:07) Harnessing your personal power (16:05) How do you move beyond feeling like a victim in a divorce? (16:48) Faith and forgiveness (18:29) What would Queen Elizabeth do in this situation? (24:06) Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy and matrimonial attorney, Randi Karmel, dive into the importance of preparing a divorce settlement that incorporates planning for your special needs child’s financial future. Randi shares words of wisdom, pulling from her extensive experience, to ensure you are supporting your child, regardless of potential disagreements in parental decisions. In this episode, Stacy and Randi focus on cases where divorcing parents must work collaboratively to do what’s in the best interest of the child and find a middle ground, financially. You will gain insight on: Dealing with contradicting opinions for your child’s treatment (05:10) What expenses need to be planned for (09:46) How to financially care for your adult children with special needs (14:59) Who becomes the trustee during a transition (18:18) (20:20) Randi Karmel | W: www.randikarmel.com P: 212-755-0224 E: Upon request Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy and matrimonial attorney, Randi Karmel, dive into the importance of preparing a divorce settlement that incorporates planning for your special needs child’s financial future. Randi shares words of wisdom, pulling from her extensive experience, to ensure you are supporting your child, regardless of potential disagreements in parental decisions. In this episode, Stacy and Randi focus on cases where divorcing parents must work collaboratively to do what’s in the best interest of the child and find a middle ground, financially. You will gain insight on: Dealing with contradicting opinions for your child’s treatment (05:10) What expenses need to be planned for (09:46) How to financially care for your adult children with special needs (14:59) Who becomes the trustee during a transition (18:18) (20:20) Randi Karmel | W: www.randikarmel.com P: 212-755-0224 E: Upon request Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Stacy is joined by Publisher and Editor in Chief of The New York Amsterdam News, Elinor Tatum. Elinor is a single mom to her 7 year old daughter, and has been divorced for 5 years, and in this episode, she talks about the importance of taking care of yourself and building your support team for life. There may be weeks where you need 24/7 support, and it is important to recognize how much stress you, personally, can take on, and who you should go to for the advice you need, whether it be your attorney, financial advisor, mental health professional, or friend. Elinor and Stacy specifically touch on the following topics: Who does the most supportive team consist of (7:19) Finding the perfect attorney/ financial advisor/ mental health professional (9:50)(12:36)(13:25) How to not break the bank on legal costs (16:47) What to do when the relationship with your attorney isn’t working (28:14) Top consideration for your mental health during the divorce process (33:04) Elinor Tatum | W: www.amsterdamnews.com E:elinor.tatum@amsterdamnews.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Stacy is joined by Publisher and Editor in Chief of The New York Amsterdam News, Elinor Tatum. Elinor is a single mom to her 7 year old daughter, and has been divorced for 5 years, and in this episode, she talks about the importance of taking care of yourself and building your support team for life. There may be weeks where you need 24/7 support, and it is important to recognize how much stress you, personally, can take on, and who you should go to for the advice you need, whether it be your attorney, financial advisor, mental health professional, or friend. Elinor and Stacy specifically touch on the following topics: Who does the most supportive team consist of? (7:19) Finding the perfect attorney/ financial advisor/ mental health professional (9:50)(12:36)(13:25) How to not break the bank on legal costs (16:47) What to do when the relationship with your attorney isn’t working (28:14) Top consideration for your mental health during the divorce process (33:04) Elinor Tatum | W: www.amsterdamnews.com E:elinor.tatum@amsterdamnews.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Do you hate your ex-spouse more than you love your child? For this holiday episode, Stacy is joined by Shari Bornstein, Director of Parent Services at FamilyKind, to discuss how to put bitterness aside and prioritize your children when celebrating the holidays. In this episode, you will gain insight on: How to prevent and prepare for possible conflict during the upcoming holidays (12:19) Finding middle ground when it comes to differing parenting styles (15:01) Scheduling your holiday sharing plan (15:47) Parenting techniques, such as the pizza delivery technique, and using buzzwords to avoid bitterness and conflict in front of the kids (17:46) How parents can avoid being “naughty” by coordinating traditions and not “out-gifting” each other (23:46) Tips on how to make the holidays less stressful for your children (30:22) Holidays can be a stressful time for many, especially for divorced families whose children split their time between parents. FamilyKind is non-profit organization located in New York City that provides education and support services to families experiencing divorce and separation. If you have any questions or queries, you can contact Shari or visit the Family Kind website. Shari Bornstein | W: www.familykind.org P: 860-302-2631 E: sbornstein@familykind.org Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Summary: Do you hate your ex-spouse more than you love your child? For this holiday episode, Stacy is joined by Shari Bornstein, Director of Parent Services at FamilyKind, to discuss how to put bitterness aside and prioritize your children when celebrating the holidays. In this episode, you will gain insight on: How to prevent and prepare for possible conflict during the upcoming holidays (12:19) Finding middle ground when it comes to differing parenting styles (15:01) Scheduling your holiday sharing plan (15:47) Parenting techniques, such as the pizza delivery technique, and using buzzwords to avoid bitterness and conflict in front of the kids (17:46) How parents can avoid being “naughty” by coordinating traditions and not “out-gifting” each other (21:58) Tips on how to make the holidays less stressful for your children (28:29) Holidays can be a stressful time for many, especially for divorced families whose children split their time between parents. FamilyKind is non-profit organization located in New York City that provides education and support services to families experiencing divorce and separation. If you have any questions or queries, you can contact Shari or visit the Family Kind website. Shari Bornstein | W: www.familykind.org P: 860-302-2631 E: sbornstein@familykind.org Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Stacy is joined by internationally recognized communications and relationship expert, Dr. Patty Ann Tublin, as she shares her passion for ending the gender pay gap and her research on why women become unaware of their financial situation once they get married. In this episode, Stacy and Patty Ann focus on the importance of fighting for your worth in the workplace, emphasize the need for a change in women’s mindsets about money, and demonstrate ways to not drop your financial IQ as soon as he puts a ring on it. You will gain insight on: ü How to advocate for yourself and get what you deserve (11:36) ü Why educated women become financially illiterate when they get married (16:53) ü How the impact of women’s lack of financial control affects them in divorce (20:21) ü Financial advice for women going through transition (22:32) Dr. Patty Ann | W: www.relationshiptoolbox.com P: 877-456-7230 E: dr.pattyann@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Stacy is joined by internationally recognized communications and relationship expert, Dr. Patty Ann Tublin, as she shares her passion for ending the gender pay gap and her research on why women become unaware of their financial situation once they get married. In this episode, Stacy and Patty Ann focus on the importance of fighting for your worth in the workplace, emphasize the need for a change in women’s mindsets about money, and demonstrate ways to not drop your financial IQ as soon as he puts a ring on it. You will gain insight on: ü How to advocate for yourself and get what you deserve (12:11) ü Why educated women become financially illiterate when they get married (17:17) ü How the impact of women’s lack of financial control affects them in divorce (20:55) ü Financial advice for women going through transition (22:50) Dr. Patty Ann | W: www.relationshiptoolbox.com P: 877-456-7230 E: dr.pattyann@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Now happily remarried with a three-year-old son, Kim Mishkin joins Stacy to share her powerful story about how she transitioned from an abusive marriage and built the strength to fight for her worth. In this episode, Kim and Stacy acknowledge the importance of telling your story, giving yourself time to grow on your own, and finding the balance of the key players needed to help you through your transition. In this episode you will gain insight on: ü Having the courage to come forward about being abused (3:40) ü How to have ‘the conversation’ about moving forward (6:52) ü Helpful support networks and resources (8:02, 14:48) ü The healing process and how to find happiness again (18:54 ) Kim is also a co-founder of Support and Solutions (SAS) for Women. SAS provides divorce support and coaching for women who are considering, in the process of, or recovering from divorce. Since 2012, they have helped women come to terms with questions such as how to prepare for divorce in practical and emotional ways, what are the effects of divorce on children, and how to deal with life after divorce. Their mission is to provide women comprehensive support as they navigate and grow from the process of change and major-life challenges. Kimberly Mishkin | W: www.sasforwomen.com P: 646-438-5163 E: kmishkinnyc@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Now happily remarried with a three-year-old son, Kim Mishkin joins Stacy to share her powerful story about how she transitioned from an abusive marriage and built the strength to fight for her worth. In this episode, Kim and Stacy acknowledge the importance of telling your story, giving yourself time to grow on your own, and finding the balance of the key players needed to help you through your transition. In this episode you will gain insight on: Having the courage to come forward about being abused (3:40) How to have ‘the conversation’ about moving forward (6:52) Helpful support networks and resources (8:02, 14:48) The healing process and how to find happiness again (18:54 ) Kim is also a co-founder of Support and Solutions (SAS) for Women. SAS provides divorce support and coaching for women who are considering, in the process of, or recovering from divorce. Since 2012, they have helped women come to terms with questions such as how to prepare for divorce in practical and emotional ways, what are the effects of divorce on children, and how to deal with life after divorce. Their mission is to provide women comprehensive support as they navigate and grow from the process of change and major-life challenges. Kimberly Mishkin | W: www.sasforwomen.com P: 646-438-5163 E: kmishkinnyc@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com
Boo! This Halloween, what is more spooky than having your ex inherit all of your money if you die? Alison Besunder, expert in trust and estate planning, elder law, estate litigation, commercial litigation and intellectual property law, joins Stacy to discuss the importance of an estate plan, particularly when going through a transition, such as divorce. In this episode, Alison and Stacy highlight the first and most important steps that you should take to help you take the least financially-draining path during this time. Alison reveals the shocking consequences of lacking an estate plan, and how that can impact the most important people in your life. They answer questions that could save yourself from the devastating possibilities of life without a will, such as: Why do you need an estate plan when you get married vs. getting divorced? (12:13) What happens if your spouse dies during your divorce and there is no will? (15:59) Can your ex-spouse still make the medical decisions for you after divorce? (20:50) Alison Besunder | W: http://www.besunderlaw.com P: (212) 584-1139 E: alison@besunderlaw.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
Boo! This Halloween, what is more spooky than having your ex inherit all of your money if you die? Alison Besunder, expert in trust and estate planning, elder law, estate litigation, commercial litigation and intellectual property law, joins Stacy to discuss the importance of an estate plan, particularly when going through a transition, such as divorce. In this episode, Alison and Stacy highlight the first and most important steps that you should take to help you take the least financially-draining path during this time. Alison reveals the shocking consequences of lacking an estate plan, and how that can impact the most important people in your life. They answer questions that could save yourself from the devastating possibilities of life without a will, such as: Why do you need an estate plan when you get married vs. getting divorced? (11:38) What happens if your spouse dies during your divorce and there is no will? (16:25) Can your ex-spouse still make the medical decisions for you after divorce? (21:26) Alison Besunder | W: http://www.besunderlaw.com P: (212) 584-1139 E: alison@besunderlaw.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by Elise Pettus. Divorced mom and founder of UNtied, Elise created an online network to connect fellow divorced women and help them re-discover their confidence, post-divorce. In this episode, you will gain insight on: ü Conquering the process of divorce and coming out the other side “financially ever after” ü Pre-divorce tips and help with the grieving process ü Building a team, including an attorney, specific to your needs Elise emphasizes that women need both professional and social support during this transition. She recommends that women not look at their split as a tragedy, but rather as a challenging and meaningful opportunity to create a new chapter. Elise Pettus | W: www.untied.net P: (917) 797-6465 E: elise.pettus@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com Elise Pettus, Francis Financial, Stacy Francis, Divorce, Free Divorce, Advice, Divorce Source, Radio, Steve Peck, Women
This week, Stacy is joined by Elise Pettus. Divorced mom and founder of UNtied, Elise created an online network to connect fellow divorced women and help them re-discover their confidence, post-divorce. In this episode, you will gain insight on: ü Conquering the process of divorce and coming out the other side “financially ever after” ü Pre-divorce tips and help with the grieving process ü Building a team, including an attorney, specific to your needs Elise emphasizes that women need both professional and social support during this transition. She recommends that women not look at their split as a tragedy, but rather as a challenging and meaningful opportunity to create a new chapter. Elise Pettus | W: www.untied.net P: (917) 797-6465 E: elise.pettus@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Deborah Donenfeld recounts the moment she realized that she was entitled to leave her unhappy marriage of 22 years. By allowing herself to grieve and focus on her self-worth and her children, Deborah ultimately freed herself and gained more clarity and control in her financial life Deborah Donenfeld | W: www.deborahdonenfeld.com P: 212-675-4420 E: deborah525@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Deborah Donenfeld recounts the moment she realized that she was entitled to leave her unhappy marriage of 22 years. By allowing herself to grieve and focus on her self-worth and her children, Deborah ultimately freed herself and gained more clarity and control in her financial life. Deborah Donenfeld | W: www.deborahdonenfeld.com P: 212-675-4420 E: deborah525@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, top matrimonial attorney, Caroline Krauss-Browne, shares how she persevered in her career from working part-time to being a mother and then becoming a partner at a top New York City law firm. Stacy and Caroline dive into the harsh reality of child custody within same-sex divorces. Are you protected as a legal parent of your child? In this episode, you will hear a powerful pro-bono case Caroline worked on that fought for the right of the non-biological mother. Caroline Krauss-Browne | W: www.blankrome.com P: (212) 885-5426 E: ckraussbrowne@blankrome.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, top matrimonial attorney, Caroline Krauss-Browne, shares how she persevered in her career, going from working part-time to raise her son to becoming a partner at a top New York City law firm. Stacy and Caroline dive into the harsh reality of child custody within same-sex divorces. Are you protected as a legal parent of your child? In this episode, you will hear a powerful pro-bono case Caroline worked on that fought for the right of a non-biological mother. Caroline Krauss-Browne | W: www.blankrome.com P: (212) 885-5426 E: ckraussbrowne@blankrome.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by friend and single mother, Deirdre Coupe Hopkins as she reflects on her divorce and the role money played in this chapter of her life. After leaving her alcoholic ex-husband, Deirdre raised all four children on her own. With the help of education, family and community, she ultimately gained her financial independence. Deirdre always lives her life with the glass half full mentality and continues to do so 25 years later. Deirdre Coupe Hopkins | E: deirdrecoupe@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Stacy is joined by friend and single mother, Deirdre Coupe Hopkins as she reflects on her divorce and the role money played in this chapter of her life. After leaving her alcoholic ex-husband, Deirdre raised all four children on her own. With the help of education, family and community, she ultimately gained her financial independence. Deirdre always lives her life with the glass half full mentality and continues to do so 25 years later. Show Contact Info: Deirdre Coupe Hopkins | E: deirdrecoupe@gmail.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
Top New York City divorce coach, Liza Caldwell, joins Stacy to discuss how to navigate her proven approach of the 4 stages of divorce. In this episode, Liza opens up about how going back to school and how being a role model for her children were major turning points in her life. Whether you are contemplating, navigating or recovering from divorce, Stacy and Liza dive into how to overcome the challenges and fears associated with this transition. Liza Caldwell | W: www.sasforwomen.com P: (917)485-1323 E: info@sasforwomen.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com Financially Ever After is a Divorce Source Radio production. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.
Top New York City divorce coach, Liza Caldwell, joins Stacy to discuss how to navigate her proven approach of the 4 stages of divorce. In this episode, Liza opens up about how going back to school and how being a role model for her children were major turning points in her life. Whether you are contemplating, navigating or recovering from divorce, Stacy and Liza dive into how to overcome the challenges and fears associated with this transition. Liza Caldwell | W: www.sasforwomen.com P: (917)485-1323 E: info@sasforwomen.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com For more programs on Divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com Financially Ever After is a Divorce Source Radio production.
This week, Stacy chats with successful business woman, caring mother, and friend, Kathy Ellman, as she shares her story of divorce. Stacy and Kathy reflect on her first marriage, the lessons she learnt and how she was able to find love again. She reveals how communication is key in maintaining her relationship, shared finances and teaching the value of money to her three sons. Show Contact Info: Kathy Ellman | W: www.bayardad.com P: (917) 848-6280 E: KathyE@BayardAD.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com Financially
This week, Stacy chats with successful business woman, caring mother, and friend, Kathy Ellman, as she shares her story of divorce. Stacy and Kathy reflect on her first marriage, the lessons she learnt and how she was able to find love again. She reveals how communication is key in maintaining her relationship, shared finances and teaching the value of money to her three sons. Show Contact Info: Kathy Ellman | W: www.bayardad.com P: (917) 848-6280 E: KathyE@BayardAD.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
Stacy and Jennifer Kouzi, a top matrimonial and family attorney, discuss mistakes you might make when going through divorce, tips for making custody battles go as smoothly as possible and understanding the difference between legal and physical (residential) custody. Ever wondered what your judge is thinking? In this episode, you will gain insight on how judges view your statement of net worth, in order to better prepare yourself for the courtroom. Jennifer Kouzi | W: http://www.kkallp.com/ P: 212-921-5526 E: jennifer@kkallp.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
Award-winning financial advisor, Stacy Francis, debuts her “Financially Ever After” podcast and interviews life, career and grief coach, Nesreen Mahmoud. Together, they discuss the grief involved in the divorce process, financial mistakes to avoid and how best to take care of yourself in order to move forward in this new chapter of your life in a positive way. You will receive access to a wellness tracking sheet, learn about the Ostrich effect and hear a sneak preview of episodes to come. Nesreen Mahmoud | W: http://www.harborlightcoaching.com/ P: 917-830-6863 E: Nesreen@harborlightcoaching.com Free gift for podcast listeners (wellness tracking sheet): www.harborlightcoaching.com/everafter Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
Stacy and Jennifer Kouzi, a top matrimonial and family attorney, discuss mistakes you might make when going through divorce, tips for making custody battles go as smoothly as possible and understanding the difference between legal and physical (residential) custody. Ever wondered what your judge is thinking? In this episode, you will gain insight on how judges view your statement of net worth, in order to better prepare yourself for the courtroom. Show Contact Information: Jennifer Kouzi | W: http://www.kkallp.com/ P: 212-921-5526 E: jennifer@kkallp.com Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
This week, Financially Ever After welcomes Marcia Butler, author of The Skin Above My Knee. Marcia shares how listening to music starting at the age of 4 saved her life and was ultimately the reason she survived an abusive childhood. Marcia Butler's difficult childhood experiences led her to pick men that were not good for her, later in life. Three divorces later, Marcia talks about the tools she used to survive divorce and for thriving in her new single life. Show Contact Information: Marcia Butler | W: http://marciabutlerauthor.com/ Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
Award-winning financial advisor, Stacy Francis, debuts her “Financially Ever After” podcast and interviews life, career and grief coach, Nesreen Mahmoud. Together, they discuss the grief involved in the divorce process, financial mistakes to avoid and how best to take care of yourself in order to move forward in this new chapter of your life in a positive way. You will receive access to a wellness tracking sheet, learn about the Ostrich effect and hear a sneak preview of episodes to come. Show Contact Information Nesreen Mahmoud | W: http://www.harborlightcoaching.com/ P: 917-830-6863 E: Nesreen@harborlightcoaching.com Free gift for podcast listeners (wellness tracking sheet): www.harborlightcoaching.com/everafter Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com
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