Glass Ceiling Girls

Help me welcome my favorite man and most of all my beloved Chris to the podcast!  We get to hear about  his candid account of Covid on this episode plus we explore the emotional and psychological impacts of facing a "global pandemic" in isolation, miles away from family and friends after a break up. Chris shares the highs and lows of his journey — from the initial shock of Denver's lockdowns to the daily experience of maintaining mental health without the support of close physical connections. We talk about the small victories, especially where he learned about the vaccine being a bad choice - and how he wishes he could go table whip the pharmacies Jesus style knowing what he knows now about the "medicine". Review the pod wherever you listen to them - especially if it's a 5 star review! Send any questions comments or rants in via email thatbasedbabe@gmail.com

On this episode we deep dive into what it means to be a masculine man and how that has changes in the past few decades -- and how it differs between the United States and abroad.   Check out Peter's Podcast Conservatish on Apple Podcasts Find him on IG Peter_Feliciano

Join us on the topic of dating, male female relationships, and health masculine and feminine living!

Often in life, we are challenged to avoid making mistakes, to not own up to our mistakes if we make them, and certainly we lean on our reputation for forgiveness in the unavoidable wake of being mistaken. It seems like the crushing weight of not choosing the right partner, early on, weighs heavy on many of us. On today's show, I suggest letting go of the fear that you are unworthy of the love that you long for.  I believe that everyone is a personal magnet for the love they deserve. Sometimes we get the love that we deserve, and it forces us to become better people. I have been made better by the men who have let me down, rejected me, and lead me astray on my journey. I have been refined to a higher purpose, and I am no longer in fear of my shadow self. Since I am finally able to see my dark side, I can avoid being a maximizer- always looking for the next best option. Share your thoughts with me on IG  @dailydoseofbpod or Brittanie Jay on Facebook 

Relationship dynamics in the 21st-century are difficult to navigate. While fragile and soy-fed men and women continue to fill up the dating pool until it reeks of toxic waste, many humans are still trying to sort through what to expect from their counterparts. On today's show I talk about the disparity between supply and demand of masculine ability. So many women find themselves working hard and pursuing excellence- which makes them uninteresting to the high performing masculine who seek nearly pure feminine traits. Will men breach this gap emotionally so they can be evenly yolked or will women move out of the workforce? Are single mothers who can still bear children really the worst choice for traditional men? It's always complicated. Tell me your thoughts!   IG @dailydoseofb Facebook @brittanie jay  

On today's show I address the plotless dystopian movie Barbie that I unfortunately paid to see. While assuming the film would be a nostalgic and probably left leaning film about pink and feminism- I was quickly surprised to find no plot line and a lot of misandrist mocking of men and traditionalist world views. While the expectation that this movie would be conservative is laughable, I expected at least a veiled pursual of extreme anti-male propaganda which ended up being the forefront plot. While the males in the movie were sad, pathetic losers- Barbie and the two supporting female leads have to fix the world by restoring women to the top. ⠀ This movie was a waste of two hours and fifteen dollars - should have just watched feminist twitter for two hours instead. Did you choose to see it? What were your thoughts? Share on IG (@dailydoseofbpod) or FB (@brittanie jay) 

On today's show, I discuss my history growing up in a Baptist church, and how that molded my religious views. While my intellectual knowledge of Christian theology is not some thing I happily ditch, I also can't claim to be someone who wants to label "Christian". I have developed virtue, not by knowing about a guy who died and rose again- but by realizing the deeper, richer meaning of Christ- and how we must all take up our cross and find responsibility in our lives by chasing meaning and truth.  Enjoy the listen! Tell me what you think    @dailydoseofbpod on instagram  @brittanie jay on Facebook 

On today's show I explain my feelings around "losing" relationships and how it has always looked like providence in hindsight. Like many of us, I have felt the incredible stress that comes with feeling rejected - that deep abandonment wound that pops back up from childhood or losing a partner that had a deep meaning. While it can be difficult to get through losing someone in business, in friendships, or even intimate partners- esp when it triggers you- life will unfold and show you why you always deserved better. Tell me if you have experienced this beautiful redirection in your life!  @dailydoseofbpod on IG @brittaniejay on FB 

On today's show, I explore how comparison, even to our hopes and dreams or fears can steal the joy of being. Whether it's being in a relationship with an ideal, instead of the person in front of us, or it's longing to feel like an upgrade from someone's ex - it's easy to get lost in comparison. Why do we settle for black and white thinking? Why do our brains construct things to cheer us up or make us sad? We can stay present and absent of comparison to have the most content joy. That's the real flex. Leave your thoughts on my instagram or Facebook! Follow on IG @dailydoseofbpod or Facebook @brittaniejay 

On today's show, I confront facts and misinformation surrounding the word misogyny.  While this word was once used only to denigrate the worst of opinions held against women - it is now a catch all term that includes an attack on behaviors that just a few decades back were considered highly polite- such as opening a door for a woman.  I am no stranger to the horrific "manosphere" logic that degrades single mothers, sexual liberation, access to birth control and many other modern scernarios - but I think if we take a deeper look we will find most people are just seeking to cope with desperate situations.  Empathy is the way we can curb misogyny and not further shaming men for vaguely distateful behavior.  Have you seen real misogyny in your life as a woman? Has a woman ever mislabeled you as a misogynist?  Chat with me on IG @dailydoseofbpod or @brittaniejay on Facebook 

I'm going straight for the jugular on today's show - while I look at the term "gold digger" and where it gets a basis. Are beautiful women really looking for a luxurious lifestyle?  While many men look at the highest status guys and think they are attracting "gold diggers" (and that may be the case irregularly), they fail to recognize the deepest of truths about evolutionary biology. The hard truth is that women were not designed to hunt and provide. Our genetic make up, build, and muscularity leave much to be desired on that front. While we know the world is full of predators, on a subconscious level, we look for a man who can fend them off.  These men have the discipline and skills to keep us SAFE - money is simply a biproduct. Sometimes money is used to confuse women into thinking a man is high status (and ambitious) when he is truly peacocking - in many instances a man who show dominance in his domain is paid in status.  Women want to move that status closer to protect future offspring - and there's nothing gold digging about a mama bear!  Are you convinced? Have any feedback? As always, I love to hear your thoughts.   IG @dailydoseofbpod FB @brittaniejay 

I've finally made a political episode- vaguely! Ha!  On today's show, I explain the evolution of my beliefs. While I started as a very conservative Republican, I found my way to all out communism for a couple weeks, and then the rubber band went back to normal, and I found liberty amongst the rubble.   Have you undergone a political change in your life? Have your politic shifted since you were a young adult? Do you share your parents political ideology?   I love to hear your feedback as always.   IG- @dailydoseofbpod FB - Brittanie Jay

On this episode, I chat about my feelings around self medicating -- a vague but necessary subject. Each of us knows what our unhealthiest self turns to and it becomes bad for us when we confuse the self medicating to be self serving.  Regardless if it's porn, alcohol, cigarettes, cannabis, social media or something more nefarious like pharmaceuticals -- we have to be mindful of treating ourselves for wounds that we find inside.  Our closest friends and allies should be leaned on when it comes to checking in on ourselves. From our view- whether we have a healthy outlet for our experiences or are are using a substance to cope - we often can't always see this truth for ourselves. Do you find yourself self medicating on occasion? Chat with me @dailydoseofbpod Facebook @brittaniejay

Happy Memorial Day - and we've got a doozy of an episode where I unravel my inherent skepticism of even my own world view!  While, I've been a proud Anarchist/Voluntaryist for a while, I've run into a lot of folks who seem to miss the importance of respecting individuals and not institutions. That means we have to also respect humans WITHIN institutions who genuinely want what's best for their community (even if it's misguided.)    My experience with government workers is that most do want to help, serve, and care for their local folks and the country, but do not realize how counterintuitive their departments can be to the ideals of freedom and self ownership.  If we stay skeptical and humanize statists, we can expect the same understanding in return -- and that's something worth celebrating.    Find me on IG - @dailydoseofbpod Find me on FB- Brittanie jay 

Dedicated to my own Best Friend   Today's episode is a reminder to all women how important it is to have female friendships.  Not only is it more satisfying to live each day full of feminine energy, love, and folks who truly relate to your lived experience -- it is an essential practice to being in balance for other relationships.  I am closer to myself than I have ever been, simply, because I have a friend to vent to and be witnessed by! I am more open to a romantic relationship that doesn't feel feminine, because I no longer have the need for a man to fill the role of a best friend for me.   I feel that attraction is often lost in relationships when we relegate our partners to solely being our best friends, our teammates, our housemates etc - we can appreciate the specialness of a romantic connection after we have the other things on lock!  I'm so thankful that I stopped competing with, stopped tearing down, and stopped ruining my female friendships. Nothing has made my life more satisfying than all of the women I know.  Find me on IG - dailydoseofbpod  Find me on FB- Brittanie jay 

On today's show I attempt to flesh through the problem with dating very young, barely legal women. My target age group is 18-20 but I suppose those are not firm numbers and there are definite exceptions to my rule. However, as a group- I feel It is best that men in their thirties avoid taking the responsibility of young women on due to their lack of maturity.  Are age gaps really the problem in relationships? Absolutely not. Many women find the love of a man who is older to feel very secure and comforting. There is an undeniable sexual attraction between a young and fertile woman to a man with the status to build a life and home. He wants to choose a wife with the best chances for reproduction and she wants the best outcomes for her kids. That doesn't negate the fact that taking on a very young woman and leading her into commitment as an older man comes with some very serious potential consequences. Maidens will all wake up (either before or after bearing children) to the fact that their relationship experience is majorly lacking. A woman may overlook or feel careless about it, but often resentment bubbles up and divorce is primarily sought by women.   Are men miscalculating what a healthy grown woman really is? Can it be calibrated to be exactly 18? Are there other metrics like maturity that should have to exist in the contract of marriage? That'swhy being under the influence makes a contract invalid- folks are supposed to be of sound mind.  What say you, listener?  @dailydoseofbpod on IG  @brittaniejay on FB 

On this episode, I address a common misconception among folks in the "red pill" community. While evolutionary biology does dictate so much of male and female behavior the generalization that only women see attention as currency is a pretty big miss.    On the whole, all humans need attention and all humans fight for attention. As babies, we cry for attention to survive. As we age we become more sophisticated. This means that women will cast a wide net for validation in hopes that one of those men will want to meaningfully invest. Men cast a similarly large net when it comes to sexual advances, hoping that some of those advances are met with affirmation.  We are so much more alike than we are different as men and women, but there's still the need for all of us to look deeply at ourselves and figure out what motivates us so that we can self-validate and be whole.    Tell me how you feel about this topic!  @dailydoseofb or @brittanie jay on Facebook 

On today's show, I cover a topic that's one of the most important to date. The power of saying yes, to opportunity, and the cost of saying no to growth. Many of us wrestle with feelings of inadequacy and lack. Often that lack creates a cycle in which we box ourselves out of new opportunities. As I've grown, I realize that the only way to be my most authentic self, was to welcome change, and cling to only those things that truly represented me and aligned with my integrity. Sometimes that meant letting go of big things, and in my case, it involved letting go of a marriage.   It can be a scary place to do the brave things that other people shy away from doing. Those people don't understand the cost of saying "no", but there's always room for change.   Have you paid the cost to say no? Where in your life do you wish you would have said yes?   Chat with me on Instagram @dailydoseofbpod or Facebook @brittaniejay

On today's show, I discussed the importance of not to miss categorizing, or miss characterizing someone based on their Internet persona. While it's fun to get to know someone on the Internet that you would never have the chance to meet in real life, we all have to be careful not to confuse that with a genuine connection. Even I am guilty of finding a super high-status hottie's Instagram, and thinking that I had a connection with him that I truly didn't have. Even when you are on the Internet has a personality, you can brush up against the dehumanizing parts of social media. We are all capable of wandering into the pitfalls, if we are not careful.   Have you ever mistaken your social media friendship for knowing someone in real life? Leave your comments at   @dailydoseofbpod or @Brittanie jay on Facebook 

On today's show I make it weird for folks who don't know me, since my back story is a wild one. I've decided to share it with as much transparency as feasible for a twenty minute show. We start at my family history, describe the abuse and poverty that gripped my past, and work forward into my major life events. Where we come from often defines where we end up, but I am hoping to change the stars for myself and future generations. Do you relate to my origin story?   Share @dailydoseofbpod on instagram or @Brittanie Jay on facebook

On today's show I discuss the deep spiritual impact yoga has had since approaching it is a holistic wellness practice. While functional movement and exercise have always been on my radar, the deep meditative practice of yoga is new to my life post marriage.  Connecting to God in this new way and my inner consciousness (Christ consciousness) has improved my experience on earth greatly.  Have you done the DEEP yoga or just the exercise?  let's chat @dailydoseofbpod  or @brittanie jay on Facebook 

On today's show I explore what is meant by some of the language around attraction. This subject has felt elusive to me for many years, but I've been looking inward at what sides of me are "feminine and soft" and what parts have generated the most attraction.    While many women project their own ideas (in regards to masculinity) and try to be the opposite - making themselves small or needy- to catch a man with what they believe are their feminine wiles, I am uncovering that this projection is a misstep.  The way a woman stays "soft" by my limited experience with masculine men is by maintaining a sense of wonder and awe for masculine energy.  What day you men?  Sound off!  @dailydoseodbpod on Instagram @brittanie jay on Facebook 

On this episode, I bring my best friend on the pod to discuss a topic we both have experience in to varying degrees. Abuse is a huge problem in relationships, according to self reporting and vital statistics, but it is scary to think that people may not truly understand when they are abusing just as much as they are being abused.   Female techniques for abusing their male partners is very different than the angry male counterpart, so we discuss all types of abuse to flesh out what that even means.  Are women more empowered to leave because of their own ability to provide or are they finding themselves in a feedback loop of "everything is toxic and everyone is a narcissist" on the web? Weigh in!  @dailydosepfbpod on ig  and  @brittanie jay on fb 

Welcome back to the show! On today's episode I discuss the problems I've faced recently around my "public presence" and how I've chosen to deal with folks who criticize me.  Whether it's in real life, or it's on the Internet, it's always best to take anything. Someone is saying with a grain of salt. I have learned to not take judgment from someone who's not doing better than me or who's not coming in good faith to discuss ideas.  How do you deal with this stuff if you've got a public persona?   Hit me up on ig @dailydoseofbpod or Brittanie jay on Facebook 

On this episode, I discuss the amount of courage it takes to be open about your desire for love and belonging. While many folks get stuck in same cycle as I was stuck in for much of my life - being afraid to let go of what's not serving you and attaching out of scarcity or lacking the vulnerability to attach at all- there is recovery for those of us who do want to get real and heal from our wounds.  I try to be as transparent as possible with my neediness, and explain how it's actually a strength to want connection and belonging.  What did you think? Share with me on instagram  @dailydoseofbpod Or Facebook  @brittaniejay 

On today's show, we go back through the annals of my political disposition. While my initial politics and social preferences were conservative to please my conservative Christian family, I quickly gained a tremendous amount of respect for the liberal views held by my public school teachers.   After deconstructing political ideology and many areas where I had tossed the baby out with the bath water (when it came to social values)- I ended up in a position tightly held by many evolutionary biologists which also happens to coincide with many historically Christian ideals.  Would you call me a conservative again? Say it isn't so

In a world where women can do everything that men can do, I decided to explore whether they should...  While I have always considered myself to be an egalitarian feminist- I believe that women should have all of the same rights under the law that men do - I can't help but wonder how our western world has changed as women grew in economic staying power.    My personal goals have always been centered around the care for my family, which has now narrowed to my children, but that has clearly become a more difficult focus to have as the cards are ever stacking against the traditional family and traditional mothering.  Will more women give up their "boss babe" status in an attempt to nurture their children in the most intimate and meaningful way possible?  I sure do hope so. What do you think?  @dailydoseofbpod  @brittanie jay on Facebook 

On today's episode I talk about why many of us did not get the best start for optimal gut health and how gut health can still be accomplished. While many folks turn to fad diets, juicing, smoothies, pills, and wraps-- it's important to see how health can be achieved through knowledge and nutrition. While I give you my 3 biggest tips for changing your gut for the better, each person should really look at their history and take a fully individualized approach. If you need that - schedule a free consult on my website! getfoodtherapy.com   Instagram for episode feedback- @dailydoseofbpod Facebook @ Brittanie Jay 

Despite my longing for a good man and my recent break up- I've often found myself wanting. Where men know what a good woman is intuitively- many women are not set up with proper expectations for themselves.  On today's episode I dive into what the Internet, the Bible, and my anecdotal experiences are on the topic with what makes a good woman. I am still fleshing it out and learning. Drop any feedback or pointers.  @dailydoseofbpod or Brittanie jay on Facebook! 

Break-ups are hard and on today's show I tell you the inner workings of my most recent break ups.  There is always wisdom to gain and rejection is certainly redirection. Being a human is messy and it is worse if we refuse to take accountability for the things we mess up or overlook.  I hope you enjoyed my breakdown of these recent life events and can give yourself a break if you are struggling to get through a break up.  let's chat on instagram @dailydoseofbpod  or Facebook @brittanie jay 

The age old question - Do women know what they want? Can you ask a woman for a rubric on how to woo her and then follow it like a law book? The rules of attraction are complicated and there is stiff competition to win in the sexual and mating marketplace. So - what do we want?   The answer is simply NOT what we think or say we want. As wild as this may seem, and as many women as there are to deny this very obvious fact -- there's tons of evidence to support it. There is simply an unconscious drive guiding our mating behaviors. We may think we want a showering of verbal affection, we may think we want acts of servitude or to be placed on pedestals-- but the simple fact is that the men who have the most access to women ARE NOT doing that.  While the "bad boy" archetype may be a preverse of the true masculine energy needed-- women are attracted to men who have their own life and world to tend to. Being a man's sole focus and goal is biologically unattractive. Mate seeking behaviors are women's domain- men are supposed to necessarily choose to seek resources. Are you honoring your biology in mate selection? Drop me a comment @dailydoseofbpod or @BrittanieJay

On today's show I tackle a difficult topic that has a deeply personal connection to my past.  While the porn industry soared during Covid, there's no question that there's a moral hazard around porn. It's not quite as easy as saying let everyone have their own sexual ethic-- as porn dysregulates proper sexual function.  In this deep dive I talk about how porn has affected me and folks I know personally.  The industry is its own beast -- but that will have to be its own episode. 

On today's episode we talk about what it means to be truly present. Although many of us think we are alive and living our lives in our bodies- it is harder than we think to not disassociate and live internally. While our minds are always trying to guide us inside for criticism and introspection, we often miss out on meaningful experiences.    I mentioned my favorite book The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer (highly reccomend you read it asap and commit it to memory) in the episode.   Follow me on IG @dailydoseofbpod Or Facebook Brittanie Jay   Let's chat!

On today's episode I discuss the devastating news out of Nashville and try to make sense of what's causing such tragedies to occur.  While both sides of the political spectrum claim "not it" in terms of personal responsibility- it seems the most reasonable answer to this is connection and fixing the issue around loneliness and isolation.  Will gun control solve a mental health crisis? I don't think it's possible, but with open minds and a desire to dig out the root cause of these violent acts-- maybe we can make a difference in the next generation. 

On today's episode, we get a nitty-gritty on a subject that really pertains to the experience of a woman who is in her fertile phase of life. Fertility awareness, method, and the overall return to more natural family planning solutions is a big passion of mine! I want to see more women become self responsible in terms of their menstruation.  Hope you enjoy the episode- Join the convo with me at @dailydoseofbpod or @Brittanie Jay on Facebook 

Matt Billingsley- one half of @againstthemod podcast joins me this morning to try to extrapolate what is happening to young men in our Internet culture. As a woman, there are many mystical things about men, and how they do things, but there seems to be a growing disparity between the amount of men who want a relationship and sex, and the amount you can actually get both.    We ask all of the questions from- Are men going to get violent to Are we turning from Homo sapiens to humanoids with the Internet?  Let me know what you thought on IG @dailydoseofbpod  and follow my friends Matt and Logan @againstthemobpodcast 

On today's episode, we have a special look into my business Get Food Therapy. In my business, we deal with the mindset and hormonal aspects that plague the diet scene.  While dieting can fixate us on the outside, my business seeks to help people grow by teaching them how to love and nourish their bodies well.   If you'd like a consult, go to my website, getfoodtherapy.com, or my link tree- linktree.com/getfoodtherapy to schedule a free consult. 

On today's deep dive, I take you through my personal beliefs around gender roles and sexual ethics. I describe in detail what began as a system of resented religious beliefs around roles ended up in science backed philosophy that (in many ways) mirrors those original, traditional beliefs. It got hairy in the middle but I sorted it out eventually!  Chat with me about it on Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100079088596314&mibextid=LQQJ4d or insta - dailydoseofbpod

On today's episode, I use my super sleuth Facebook skills, along with my real life experiences in the dating world over the past year to discuss what I've noticed is the difference between male and female attraction. What cultivates attraction in men? Is it different than what cultivates attraction in women?  Weigh on Facebook @brittaniejay Or on Instagram @dailydoseofbpodcast

In a world where women deeply need to feel worthy and loved-- Is body positivity the answer to bullying and the self confidence crisis? Is there a better answer?  Join in this conversation. 

Today, I discuss conscious and peaceful parenting. From my own sordid history with violent and permissive parents, to living out my own non-coercive ideals-- enjoy this deep dive with me. Facebook @Brittanie Jay Instagram Anarcho_milf

Saw Russell Brand perform live in early March and enjoyed his show. He was funny, poignant, and always brings a level of vocabulary that is unmatched. Heres a link to a photo with him-https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=194367473209538&set=pb.100079088596314.-2207520000.&type=3 It was so nice to meet him in person!   Follow me- @anarcho_milf or Brittanie Jay on Facebook

For years, I wondered why it seemed no one was really getting what they want. We uprooted a broken system wherein women were dependent and forced into caregiving roles, which needed to happen philosophically (as force is always the worst motivator) but what we were left with as a culture was not a bunch of enriched and fulfilled women.  Today on the podcast, I explore what seeking a masculine energy has been like after dismantling the belief that I needed to be a boss babe and lead a relationship with my own energy.  It seems an ideal world is not made, simply by toppling a patriarchal power structure, it seems maybe a biological principle was always leading us. 

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson came to Tampa this month and I got to see him lecture. My experience was a little less than ideal, but maybe it was because he was appealing to Florida man. His 12 Rules for Life was life changing and his views on male competence and heirarchy has explained the world in an interesting way for me. Enjoy the episode.

Being a mother is hard work. My nine year old and I needed some purposeful reconnection so I invited her to be a part of my first week of episodes as a solo podcaster. I hope you enjoy this silly conversation!

On today's show I am joined Law Smith of sweat equity podcast (#girthyROI https://www.sweatequitypod.com/) and best friend Tationa to discuss growth, divorce, business, and life as a (funny) single parent.    Like and Subscribe. Leave a review. All the things.

Our chat with personal trainer and authentic badass Tyneka was a helpful and insightful one. We go over the mindset that keeps us stuck in unfulfilling work environments and how to get out. The conversation moves from her new business model as a personal trainer post-pandemic and how she continues to shift as she meets the needs of her clients. It was her love of body building that kept her training and building her client list without force. Her authenticity inspired us and we know you will love this chat. find her at impackt_fitness on social media  or at  connectwithtyneka.com

On today's show we host Bianca aka The Obsidian Corona (who came after the beer but before the virus- her words) who brilliantly shows us the crossover between faith and the realm of tarot and psychics. ⠀ ⠀ Bianca discusses the spiritual skills shes developed, what tools are innate to her, and how she uses her abilities in a groundbreaking business model. ⠀ ⠀ Her candor, comedic timing, and her faithfulness to her mystic leanings are inspiring.    Find her online on instagram  @theobsidiancorona Or https://www.theobsidiancorona.com/

We are joined by palliative care and senior care specialist on our show who is a wealth of information on death and grief. Michele Thomson is a beautiful human who is an expert on how to deal with the experience of watching a loved one move on from this life. She explains her experience in palliative care, her journey with death in her own lifetime, and her budding career as a corporate trainer since 2018. Her information is lifechanging and incredible- she reminds us to focus on being fully present in our current lived experience and avoid carrying the heaviness and anxiety of what days we may never get. www.curisconsulting.ca

We are joined by Stacey A Gordon MBA an executive advisor and Workplace Culture Consultant who is breaking through glass ceilings and helping folks of all backgrounds do the same by being brave enough to broach corporate work culture. She educated us on the importance of creating space for hard conversations and also acknowledging power imbalances that make those conversations difficult. Her book Unbias is a resource for those looking to sustain healthy and equitable workplace environments. We encourage you all to check out her work!   learn.reworkwork.com unbiasbook.com