Human Up

I’m trying something new here and recording my podcasts all in one-take and on video! You can watch it on Youtube, “Human Up” (https://youtu.be/OoHzVBZbhi4 (https://youtu.be/OoHzVBZbhi4)). Coming up on 2 years since leaving my corporate job now, I’m struggling with sustaining my creative endeavors here in this podcast, in my writing, in my life coaching. I don’t have answers for you in this episode. But smoke up some of that green and chill with me as I process this transitional time for me right now. ------------------------------------- I guide 420-friendly meditations every 1st and 3rd Tuesday at 5pm Pacific. Register free at http://bit.ly/cannaconnections (http://bit.ly/cannaconnections). Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast) Join the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://bit.ly/emotiondojo (https://bit.ly/emotiondojo). Download the “9 Ways To Become A Fulfilled, Badass Asian Dude”: http://badassasiandudes.com/subscribe (http://badassasiandudes.com/subscribe). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at:http://bit.ly/eq101training ( http://victorung.com/eqtraining). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://victorung.medium.com (http://victorung.medium.com). Support this podcast

This is a recording of a live meditation "sesh-in" (no script) that I host twice a month on Tuesdays at http://bit.ly/cannaconnections (http://bit.ly/cannaconnections). For maximum effect, you can use cannabis consciously to deepen your experience in reconnecting to your body. ------------------------------------- Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://bit.ly/emotiondojo (https://bit.ly/emotiondojo). Download the “9 Ways To Become A Fulfilled, Badass Asian Dude”: http://badassasiandudes.com/subscribe (http://badassasiandudes.com/subscribe). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://victorung.medium.com (http://victorung.medium.com). Support this podcast

This week, I’m sharing a recording of a FB live I was invited to by Clover Lam, creator of the community, Unconventional Asians. With her community, her mission is to encourage Asians to think and act outside of the box and breaking free from the stereotypes that's limiting us from our fullest potential. In her weekly FB lives, she offers herself up as “a client” for other coaches, experts, and therapists to help her through a personal struggle of hers. I figured this would be a good opportunity to share that session with you here as well to get a sense of what coaching could look like for you, as well as my coaching style. You can watch the video version in her FB group: https://fb.watch/1vjYvrFJOq (https://fb.watch/1vjYvrFJOq). Connect with Clover: https://www.facebook.com/cloverlam (https://www.facebook.com/cloverlam) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast) Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://bit.ly/emotiondojo (https://bit.ly/emotiondojo). Download the “9 Ways To Become A Fulfilled, Badass Asian Dude”: http://badassasiandudes.com/subscribe (http://badassasiandudes.com/subscribe). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at:http://bit.ly/eq101training ( http://victorung.com/eqtraining). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://victorung.medium.com (http://victorung.medium.com). Support this podcast

This week, I read the blog post I wrote under the same title. You can read and follow along at http://victorung.medium.com. ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast) Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership (https://victorung.com/membership). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at:http://bit.ly/eq101training ( http://victorung.com/eqtraining). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP (http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium:http://victorung.medium.com ( http://victorung.medium.com). Support this podcast

This week, I bring on Jeff Harry, a Positive Psychology and Play Coach. He helps individuals, schools, and businesses invite more play into their lives and work. Personally, in my “adulting” process, I left behind so much of my own sense of play, my child-like sense of wonder. I became super serious, responsible, and the “Model Minority”. And I lost access to joy. Here’s how we can get that back. Connect with Jeff on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/ (https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/) Learn more about Jeff and his work: https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/media (https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/media) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast) Join the Facebook community: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership (https://victorung.com/membership). Take this 10-min survey to get a complimentary cannabis coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey (https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at:http://bit.ly/eq101training ( http://victorung.com/eqtraining). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP (http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium:https://bit.ly/victorungmedium ( http://medium.com/@victorung). Support this podcast

This week, I bring on Abby Stoddard, pharmacist and founder of Client Centered Network, a platform that connects medical marijuana patients and dispensaries to the right education, resources, and coaching. Join her network: https://www.clientcn.com (https://www.clientcn.com/). Connect on Instagram: http://instagram.com/clientcenterednewtork (http://instagram.com/clientcenterednewtork) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast) Join the Facebook community: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Sign up for the 4-Week Cannabis Mediation Course + goodies! http://bit.ly/cannabismeditationcourse (http://bit.ly/cannabismeditationcourse). Take this 10-min survey to get a complimentary cannabis coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey (https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

Believe it or not, I used to judge people for smoking weed. I thought of them as having lower intelligence, lazy, and irresponsible. I used to also judge the more creative kids in my school for pursuing something I thought was vain and unstable.  But after trying to be “cool” by giving up my own quirks and creative joys, I realized I was leaving behind so much of my own life. And after a lonely high school and college freshmen experience, still never even so far as had my first kiss, I finally decided to try weed when my trusted friend invited me. Since then, I’ve even expanded into using cannabis in my meditation practice to help me deepen my focus and insight into myself, which has allowed me to learn what it actually means for me to love myself and be confident in myself. And I want to share that with you! ------------------------------------- Join the FREE community of Conscious Cannabis users: http://bit.ly/cannabishumans (http://bit.ly/cannabishumans). Sign up for the 4-Week Cannabis Mediation Course/Challenge! http://bit.ly/cannabismeditation (http://bit.ly/cannabismeditation). Take this 10-min survey to get a complimentary cannabis coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey (https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium:http://medium.com/@victorung (http://medium.com/@victorung). Support this podcast

This week, I bring back my friend, Iran Thongdy (from episode 49), to talk about how he uses CBD to cope with anxiety. We talked about: 4:50 Iran opening up about his anxiety 14:14 CBD helps slow us down so we can think more rationally 16:35 Cannabis is not a panacea, but it is a powerful tool for mental and emotional health 22:35 How to combine personal development work with cannabis 29:50 Seeing a future using cannabis to improve our psychology 36:00 Using cannabis and emotional intelligence to learn to trust ourselves 46:09 Asian representation in media and mental health as role models Follow Iran on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iranthongdy (https://www.instagram.com/iranthongdy) Referenced links: Victor’s Ignite Seattle talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVU02Rz-NI4 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVU02Rz-NI4) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Sign up for the 4-Week Cannabis Mediation Course + goodies! http://bit.ly/cannabismeditation (http://bit.ly/cannabismeditation). Take this 10-min survey to get a complimentary cannabis coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey (https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

This week, I bring on Chris Phillips, creator of Art Now Coding, an educational platform to learn how to use code to create generative art. After developing stress-induced chronic pain from burning out at NASA, Chris was able to transition into his new path by helping people with what he’s truly passionate about. And cannabis also played a crucial role in helping him do so. We talked about: 5:06 How Chris is using modern day technology to create art 10:33 How over stress can create chronic pain 15:56 How cannabis helped with burnout and chronic pain 18:32 How Chris got into cannabis 20:27 How meditation helped improve his emotional intelligence 24:06 How do we know we're burning out? 29:03 How to spark creativity through cannabis and meditation Learn how to create art with code: Art Now Coding (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeKpNQdw8jsvlq5jF8BOUrQ?sub_confirmation=1) Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/artnowcoding (https://www.instagram.com/artnowcoding) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Sign up for the 4-Week Cannabis Mediation Course + goodies! http://bit.ly/cannabismeditation (http://bit.ly/cannabismeditation). Take this 10-min survey to get a complimentary cannabis coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey (https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

I talk to serial entrepreneur and CEO of 3 cannabis hardware companies, Seibo Shen about how he uses cannabis to stay focused and productive. We talked about: 08:11 Breaking the lazy stoner stigma with cannabis use 11:39 Cannabis helped Seibo self-reflect on his cocky ego 14:31 Why Seibo started cannabis vaporization companies 18:00  How cannabis helped him get past the resistance in feeling emotions rather than intellectualizing them 25:48  When did cannabis NOT work? 31:57  How to get past the initial dip in discomfort in the journey to self discovery Connect with him on IG at: http://instagram.com/seiboshen (http://instagram.com/seiboshen). Use my coupon code “humanup” to get 15% off Seibo’s new vape pen: https://brnrlab.com/product/brnr-test-4 (https://brnrlab.com/product/brnr-test-4/). ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Attend one of my semimonthly cannabis meditation sessions: http://bit.ly/cannaconnections (http://bit.ly/cannaconnections). Take this 10-min survey to get a complimentary cannabis coaching session with me: https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey (https://bit.ly/CannabisMeditationSurvey). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

This is recording of a live group cannabis meditation session I hosted a few weeks ago. I decided to convert the recording into a podcast episode for you to come back to to help you meditate while elevated! Make sure to save or bookmark this episode! And share this episode with a friend who wants to meditate with cannabis as well! You can register for the next live session here: http://bit.ly/cannaconnections. ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Attend one of my semimonthly cannabis meditation sessions: http://bit.ly/cannaconnections (http://bit.ly/cannaconnections). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

I’m so excited to finally share this episode with the amazing, Collette Patricia from Balancing Cannabis, where we talked about the emotional and spiritual healing components of this plant. When combining our consumption with meditation, it’s like working out with ankle weights on, and it frees you up to a whole new source of energy within your biology. We talked about: 11:22 How Collette found cannabis as a spiritual tool 15:13 Holding spiritual experiences in a virtual space 17:22 What does Emotional Intelligence mean? 24:16 How Collette learned to use cannabis to manage anxiety and depression 36:57 How religion and spirituality plays a role in Collette's meditation 44:47 Cannabis is a gateway drug to self-love 59:13 How do we find our sense of purpose? Join one of Collette’s meditation sessions: https://www.instagram.com/balancingcannabis (https://www.instagram.com/balancingcannabis/) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Attend one of my semimonthly cannabis meditation sessions: http://bit.ly/cannaconnections (http://bit.ly/cannaconnections). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Become a member of the Emotion Dojo for Asian men to improve your creativity and decision-making skills: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

In this episode, I demonstrate a powerful exercise I do in my men’s group (aka Emotion Dojo for Asian men) where each man starts with the prompt, “If you really knew me, you’d know that…” It does an amazing job at breaking down the barriers we have as Asian men and to be able to connect deeper with each other’s personal experiences. Please reach out if you’d like to experience this for yourself as well! ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get on the waitlist for the Emotion Dojo for Asian men: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotiondojo). Register for the free EQ and cannabis meditation sessions I’m hosting every other Wednesday! It’s part smoke sesh, part life coaching: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). Support this podcast

Before I finally started this podcast at the beginning of 2019, I was having deep conversations with friends about many of the topics I explore now, but was overthinking getting started with this podcast. I went through my archives and found this early recording 6 months before officially launching this podcast and thought it would be a great share for someone out there contemplating the same things I was 2 years ago. We talked about: 9:51 Asking mentors the right questions 12:25 Beating ourselves up for lack of progress 14:05 Balancing humility vs celebrating wins 15:37 The privileged mind is susceptible to over-analysis 19:27 Contemplating vulnerability 22:48 Emotional Intelligence is learning how to healthily redirect negative energy 28:35 Finding that one thing that's bigger than ourselves 29:27 Comparing ourselves on social media makes it hard to love ourselves 32:48 The Internet is providing us an abundance mindset ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym and Community for Asian men: (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Register for the free EQ and cannabis wellness workshops I’m hosting every other Wednesday! It’s part smoke sesh, part life coaching: (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message Support this podcast

In this episode, I take a break from the amazing guests I’ve had on the show recently to check-in with where I’m at with this podcast and my coaching practice. And I share some ways to identify why you might be feeling stuck right now and what you can do about it. ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast. If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym and Community for Asian men: https://victorung.com/membership. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. Register for the free EQ and cannabis wellness workshops I’m hosting every other Wednesday! It’s part smoke sesh, part life coaching: https://bit.ly/cannaconnections, or join the Facebook community: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app (https://anchor.fm/s/31bb658/podcast/sponsor/acugkf/url/https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fapp) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message Support this podcast

In this episode, I spoke with dating coach for Asian men, Rob Wang. We go into the deeper aspects of what creates genuine attraction as an Asian man and how you can develop confidence in not just your dating life, but life in general. We talked about: Rob burned out from corporate and spiraled into depression Dating doesn't have to be complicated Dating doesn't mean leaving behind your true self, your authentic self Attraction comes from the emotional authenticity within What Rob's current work is for himself in dating and relationships Understanding your emotions also means understanding your body Attraction is an emotion and requires awareness Express emotions with "I feel" rather than "I feel like" Being the "Nice guy" vs the "Kind guy" This inner work is not about "fixing" yourself, but embracing yourself Confidence comes from giving yourself permission to have ------------------------------------- Connect With Rob: Work with him to become a better guy to date: https://www.greatdateguy.com (https://www.greatdateguy.com/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rlwang (https://www.facebook.com/rlwang) Books mentioned The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the      Healing of Trauma - https://amzn.to/302jWIX (https://amzn.to/302jWIX) No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What      You Want in Love, Sex, and Life - https://amzn.to/3g3fiQd (https://amzn.to/3g3fiQd) ------------------------------------- Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym and Community for Asian men: https://victorung.com/membership (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Register for the free EQ and cannabis wellness workshops I’m hosting every other Wednesday! It’s part smoke sesh, part life coaching: http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections (http://facebook.com/groups/cannaconnections). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app (https://anchor.fm/s/31bb658/podcast/sponsor/acugkf/url/https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fapp) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message Support this podcast

In this episode, I spoke with sports and success mindset coach, Justin Tsui. After coaching for 15 years and teaching for 20 years in physical education, he now wants to create a deeper impact in education as a whole from outside the school system. He’s now working with students and athletes in helping them answer the question for themselves, “What is it that you really want? How do you actually want to spend your time?” We talked about: How a trip to the hospital changed his life Thought he was focused on what I want, but was really playing by other people's rules instead Developing the emotional muscles through self-awareness Combining physical alpha mentality with emotional frameworks Emotional Intelligence can't be taught, it has to be experienced Emotional Intelligence is learning to trust yourself The winners in life make decisions quickly ------------------------------------- Connect With Justin: Join his Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineachday ------------------------------------- Register for the complimentary EQ and cannabis wellness workshops I’m hosting every other Saturday! It’s part smoke sesh, part life coaching: (https://bit.ly/cannaconnections). Follow the Instagram page for this podcast: (http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym and Community for Asian men: (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app (https://anchor.fm/s/31bb658/podcast/sponsor/acugkf/url/https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fapp) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message Support this podcast

In this episode, I discuss mental health, PTSD, alcohol abuse, and cannabis with The Cannabis Coach, Bradley King. He’s a Certified Life Coach for over 6 years helping people achieve a new way of life. After being sexually abused and spiraling into alcohol and drug abuse, Bradley found the support he needed through 12-step recovery and life coaching. He also learned to properly use cannabis with meditation to help him cope with anxiety and PTSD and is now thriving with his husband and son. Currently, he’s helping others work through their own obstacles through life coaching, cannabis coaching, and public speaking while breaking the stigma of the “stupid stoner.” We talked about: Bradley's recovery from alcohol abuse and PTSD Learning to properly consume cannabis to cope Seeking emotional support from others How combining cannabis with mindfulness helped reduce need for prescription pills ------------------------------------- Connect With Bradley: https://cclifecoaching.com https://www.instagram.com/cannabis_coach His feature in High Times: https://hightimes.com/culture/higher-profile-bradley-king-life-coach-higher-calling ------------------------------------- Register for the free cannabis wellness education workshops I’m hosting every other Saturday! It’s part smoke sesh, part life coaching: (https://bit.ly/cannaconnections). If you get value out of this podcast, consider supporting me to keep this show going: (https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation). Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: (http://bit.ly/eq101training). Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym and Community for Asian men: (https://bit.ly/emotionalgymmembership). Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! (http://bit.ly/BADFBGROUP). If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: (https://bit.ly/victorungmedium). --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app (https://anchor.fm/s/31bb658/podcast/sponsor/acugkf/url/https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fapp) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message Support this podcast

In this episode, I have on as my guest, Sarah Gardner, Membership Director at Hemp Industries Association. She shares her struggle with anxiety, an eating disorder, and being miserable in her work, and how that manifested in her relationships. After a certain point, she realized she was the common denominator that was avoiding facing her demons and decided to make some internal changes. We talked about: How to find the right CBD product How cannabis helped Sarah breathe through pressure How Sarah was miserable selling technology Her uncomfortable awakening to self-care The opposing forces to cannabis education and legalization The many health impacts of the Endocannabinoid System The future for high THC cannabis and hemp What consumers can do to support the hemp industry ------------------------------------- Connect With Sarah: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-gardner-177095148/ Learn more about HIA and how to get involved: https://thehia.org ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep this going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym men’s minds and hearts: https://victorung.com/membership. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talk with Dr. Vincent Ramos about his work with at-risk youth and veterans suffering from PTSD and addiction and how cannabis, specifically CBD, has played a huge role in their recovery. We talked about: Who do you help and how do you help them? Mental health isn't talked about enough Working with veterans and CBD Cannabis and working with population at risk of addiction Using cannabis for emotional intelligence Coaching people's health at his CBD store Who needs cannabis coaching? ------------------------------------- Connect With Dr. Ramos: https://naturzremedy.com https://www.instagram.com/naturzremedy ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep this going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotional Gym men’s minds and hearts: https://victorung.com/membership. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talked with Heather Dagley, budtender and writer at Bud and Blossom. Her work around the intersection of cannabis, mindfulness, and spirituality resonated with me after hearing her story dealing with burnout. We talked about: The grounded spirituality in cannabis. Intentional cannabis use - why are you consuming cannabis?.= Working with a coach to maximize the positive effects of cannabis. Going into the medical side of cannabis. Managing the emotions that cannabis brings up. 5 core emotions. ------------------------------------- Resources: Read her blog at https://budandblossom.blog Connect with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heatherdagle ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please consider donating to physically and emotionally keep the fire going in producing this: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotion Gym for Asian Men’s minds and hearts: https://victorung.com/membership. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

I found Erin Allan when searching for ganja yoga classes in Seattle. And boy was I stoked. If you’ve been following this podcast, you’ll know that I’ve been on an emotional health and spiritual journey the past two years, if not all my life. And cannabis and yoga, separately, has been a huge tool in helping me through it. Erin calls herself a reformed marriage and family therapist after 10 years in the counselling field. In her desire to help however, she found herself burning out, became overweight and depressed, and taking many medications to reduce the physical and emotional pain. At her low point, she decided to try cannabis, which became legal in the state of California, with the intention to escape. Instead, cannabis helped her drop right into the core of what she was feeling and everything became clear to her. Now she runs HR for a local dispensary and teaches ganja yoga at Kula Movement in the Ballard neighborhood in Seattle, WA. We talked about: Her journey from a mental health professional to a budtender to a ganja yoga teacher How cannabis helped with her depression, anxiety, pain, and emotional eating How her transformation was possible through the combination of treating cannabis with high regard and utilizing wellness practices together **Disclaimer** Cannabis can be used to enable better mental health, but it does not replace formal therapy for serious medical conditions. If you are experiencing disabling thoughts, emotions, or behaviors, please seek professional help. The wellness applications of cannabis are still being researched. Please proceed consciously. ------------------------------------- Resources: https://www.instagram.com/yogi_erin_allan Teaches ganja yoga at Kula Movement in Ballard https://www.ganjayoga.com/ http://www.kulamovement.com/erin-allan https://www.facebook.com/ErinAllanYoga/ ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep this going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotion Gym for Asian Men’s minds and hearts: https://victorung.com/emotiongymmembership. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

I went on a roadtrip this last week, all during a lockdown because of a global pandemic, as well as violent riots happening around the world because of yet another cold-blooded murder of an innocent black man by a white cop and other complicit cops of color. Seeing this brings up so many emotions from all different sides. And unfortunately, regardless of what side you’re on, those who can’t manage those emotions, even from a place of good intentions, end up behaving in very unproductive, unhealthy, even dangerous ways. I missed releasing an episode last week because I was on this road trip, but also because I needed time to really process all of this for myself. I still am. And I’m starting to develop my voice around it, without having any expectations of saying the “right” thing, or what I’m supposed to say. Just expressing the truth in what we feel for ourselves right now, which could be good things, positive things, seemingly irrelevant things. You might think your feelings are alone, but that doesn’t make it less real or important, or that it doesn’t deserve an outlet either. My outlet is to hop on here and let out a string of thoughts. Let me know what this episode brings up for you and record it for me to use in a future episode! http://anchor.fm/victorung/message. Or send a voice message on IG: http://instagram.com/humanuppodcast. ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep this going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotion Gym for Asian Men’s minds and hearts: https://victorung.com/emotiongymmembership. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talk to author, Katharine Chan about her new book, “How To Deal With Asian Parents.” I related to her stories about her parents (along with her research of the many other stories online) who were mostly unknowingly draining her mental and emotional health. Through the generational trauma, cultural gaps, and language barriers, it’s difficult for Asian parents and their children to properly communicate and really address the deeper emotions behind their words, which eventually takes a toll on the children’s wellbeing. If you struggle developing a relationship with your Asian parents, or want to be mindful about becoming a parent, this book and episode is for you. ------------------------------------- Resources: Read her book: https://amzn.to/3cUb7F1 Her website: https://sumonsleeve.com/ Connect with Katharine: https://www.instagram.com/sumonsleeve/ ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep the show and stories going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Get on the waitlist for the Virtual Emotion Gym for Asian Men’s minds and hearts: https://victorung.com/emotiongymmembership. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes, say I sent you! http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talk with Amanda Tran after finding an interview she had with the Asian Americans for Cannabis Education. I became curious about her work with MedMen and in the operations side of the cannabis industry. And resonated with her mission for social justice and mental health with cannabis as an Asian American woman. **Disclaimer: Cannabis can be used to improve wellbeing in some consumers, but it does NOT replace formal therapy for serious medical conditions. I am not a medical professional. If you are experiencing disabling thoughts, emotions, or behaviors, please seek professional help. The wellness applications of cannabis are still being researched. Please proceed consciously.** We talked about: How Amanda used cannabis to manage her stress and burnout Weed is like many things, it can be used for both good and bad “Weed is like therapy, you can have a bad therapist that might ruin what you think about therapy, but there are many different styles of therapy.” There’s a lot of social justice to be had with cannabis How cannabis affects culture at large, and within Asian American communities How cannabis unblocks creativity by letting go of perfection ------------------------------------- Resources: Add https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandatranucla Her interview with Asian Americans For Cannabis Education: http://www.asianamericansforcannabis.org/news/2019/11/17/aace-interview-amanda-tran Watch the Culture High documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHPx0VlzZMc ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep this going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Join the Flowmasters Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/flowmasterstribe. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes: http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talk with the founder of Empowered In Color, and host of the podcast by the same name, Kriselle Gabriel. We connected over the common passions in maintaining our mental health after seeing how being limited in that education and language has limited us in living our best lives. We talked about: Her hesitation to open up to people about going to therapy because of stigma The cultural and familial nuances in therapy and mental health How to talk about mental health with Asian families Being scared of disrespecting elders made her into a people pleaser The struggle as a person of color to let go of toxic cultural values ------------------------------------- Resources: Listen to her podcast: https://www.empoweredincolor.co/podcast. Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/empoweredincolor. ------------------------------------- If you get value out of this podcast, please support me in maintaining the fees to keep this going: https://bit.ly/humanuppodcastdonation. Join the Flowmasters Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/flowmasterstribe. Connect with other Badass Asian Dudes: http://facebook.com/groups/badassasiandudes. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode... We talked about: Leaving stability and developing grit to take the chance in living on his own terms Why it takes a lot emotional intelligence to run a business How the chase for stability can become too comfortable ------------------------------------- Resources: Learn more about his business: https://www.distribution-central.com Connect with Mike on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaeltuon ------------------------------------- Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I had a casual chat with an old friend after reconnecting on social media. It’s a super raw, candid conversation that I initially didn’t think about putting on the podcast, but I know many of you may be in a similar place, so I hope this could give you another perspective. We were both in a transitional phase in our lives when recording this and went for a drive to just talk. We talked about: Mental health Asian American stigma Passion Entrepreneurship Recency bias ------------------------------------- Resources: Add Iran on IG: https://www.instagram.com/iranthongdy/ Listen to his songs on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2e5EWyNrzEyQ2sXDs2hHnd ------------------------------------- Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode I talk to Brandon Stover, a Startup Executive Coach, who’s aim is to help startup founders enhance leadership. He does this by focusing on a holistic approach to build clients emotional literacy in order to support their entrepreneurial goals. Brandon explores how the quality of relationships, mental, and physical health directly impact how entrepreneurs show up in their businesses. Brandon also shares his personal journey of leaving a career in architecture to pursue a career as a life coach. The value of having that support while starting a business and ways you can be your own coach regardless of where you are starting out. ------------------------------------- Resources: Learn more about Brandon and his resources at: https://www.instagram.com/brandonastover/ Connect with him at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandonstover/ ------------------------------------- Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. If you're willing and able, support me with a monthly donation to keep this show going at http://anchor.fm/victorung/support. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talk to Matthew Nadu, a multimedia Content Creator and Social Media Manager for Evryman men's group, as he shares His personal journey of growing up in Philly starting out as a sports columnist leaving mainstream news to pursue adventure in La. Exploring human emotion and connection through learning how to sit with heartbreak, fear, anger,and Vulnerability. By building community and taking on Leadership. Get the full shownotes at http://victorung.com/podcast. ------------------------------------- Resources: Work or collab with Matt at: http://instagram.com/matthewnadu Learn more about Evryman and their men's groups at https://evryman.com ------------------------------------- Donate to the podcast at: http://anchor.fm/victorung/support. Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I talk to Anne Beaulieu, a financial emotional intelligence coach, about her journey going from managing millions of dollars in the financial world but still feeling unhappy to being an international speaker, author, and coach. She now combines her financial background with her coaching experience and helps people develop a deeper relationship with money so they can attract more of it in a way that is meaningful and still invokes happiness. ------------------------------------- Resources: Learn more about Anne and her resources at: http://walkinginside.com Connect with her at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-beaulieu ------------------------------------- Get access to a free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 Training at: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. Schedule a call with me 1-on-1 to develop your own emotional intelligence to create more life clarity and deeper relationships: http://victorung.com. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

I'm excited to be back! After a few months of a break for me to zoom out and look at what I really want out of this podcast, the Human Up brand, and life overall, I realized that I love this podcast and podcasting in general. And I want to continue using this space to have the deeper, more long-form conversations where I get to nerd out with other emotional intelligence experts, mindset coaches, business/execute coaches, speakers, writers, and wait for it... cannabis educators! If you've been following this podcast, you'll know I left the tech industry after burning out and hitting a quarter-life crisis, which led me into an exploration of myself and my own emotional intelligence. During it, I was using cannabis recreationally (legal in the state of Washington), and at the time, I thought it was for fun, but looking back, it was what got me through being lost and overwhelmed, healing me emotionally and spiritually. So I do see a huge connection between emotional intelligence and cannabis as tools to help us live better lives! Join me every Monday morning as I talk to some cool people to pull out the emotional side of their stories so you can get the insight you need to prevent your own life crisis. ------------------------------------- Get access to the free 90-min Emotional Intelligence 101 training here: http://victorung.com/eqtraining. Join the Facebook Group for weekly livestreams and to connect with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

If you’ve been listening to this podcast, first, thank you! I appreciate your loyal listenership and for caring about emotional intelligence. I hope it’s been valuable to you, if it has, I need that ego boost and would love to hear from you! But this is my official wrap up announcement of Season 1 of the Human Up podcast as I take time for myself to dive even deeper into myself, why I’m doing this, and how I could help. I'll continue creating content on my Youtube channel here: http://victorung.com/youtube. Thank you again for listening and I hope to catch you again in Season 2! ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

In this episode, I read my blog post, 11 Qualities To Look For In An Emotionally Intelligent Partner. I’m not one to tell you who you should date or what you should value in a partner. No one can. You have to find what it is you care about, both within yourself and with a partner. But as I’ve observed, myself, others, and our relationships throughout my life, these are the qualities I find that people gravitate towards. ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

This week, I geek out with Di Ye, Career and Leadership Coach, Trainer, and Founder of Zhennovate about emotional intelligence, leadership coaching, and continual transformation. After a few years realizing how her lack of confidence was holding her back from expressing her innovative ideas, she worked with her own coach to break out from her own limiting beliefs and took full responsibility of her own life. There’s a lot of coaching concepts and constructive interpersonal skills being taught in this one! ------------------------------------- In this second part of a 2-part series, we talk about: Developing psychological safety to build trust with one another Her experience and relationships with the 5 Core Emotions ------------------------------------- Resources: Connect with Di on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/di-ye-2b638922 Learn more about her company at: https://zhennovate.com ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

This week, I geek out with Di Ye, Career and Leadership Coach, Trainer, and Founder of Zhennovate about emotional intelligence, leadership coaching, and continual transformation. After a few years realizing how her lack of confidence was holding her back from expressing her innovative ideas, she worked with her own coach to break out from her own limiting beliefs and took full responsibility of her own life. There’s a lot of coaching concepts and constructive interpersonal skills being taught in this one! ------------------------------------- In this first part of a 2-part series, we talk about: Social-emotional intelligence is about shifting a negative emotion into something more constructive Democratizing premium personal and professional coaching for lower levels How coaching empowered her confidence Transformation has no end, it's a lifestyle Acknowledging progress is how transformation is sustained How to increase self-awareness without a coach ------------------------------------- Resources: Connect with Di on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/di-ye-2b638922 Learn more about her company at: https://zhennovate.com ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

The Japanese philosophy of ikigai says that your reason for being is at the intersection of what you love, what you’re good at, what the world needs, and what the world will pay you for. If you’ve been feeling stuck recently, this framework is a good tool to use as a compass to get you back on track. ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

I’m guilty of making decisions with a bias towards comfort. But when we prioritize the safety over everything else, it eventually leads to stagnation and apathy towards life. On this episode, I talk with life coach, author, speaker, and host of The San It Project podcast about her travels through life and the many transitions she’s made to get to where she is today. We talk about how being stuck in our lives is not because of our circumstances, it stems from the negative thought habits that keeps us in place. With just a slight shift in thinking, we can start to envision and design our lives for the better. ------------------------------------- In this episode, we talk about: Joanne's story of many transitions Is emotional resilience given or built? How to choose your own values Designing your life vs learning as you go How to push through failure Fulfillment lives outside safety Standing up for yourself comes from within Joanne's experience with the 5 core emotions ------------------------------------- Resources: Learn more about Joanne Victoria’s coaching services and podcast at: http://askjoannevictoria.com ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. Join the Facebook Group with other like-minded EQ nerds: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Entrepreneurship requires a lot of emotional intelligence. Not only in being able to empathize and connect with your customers, but to push through the many internal emotions that come up in taking such large physical and emotional risks in putting yourself out there. One emotion is the fear of failure, which needs to be embraced as a possibility if we were to move forward. Rather than debilitating ourselves in that fear, how we can stand up to it, be aware of it when it’s happening, and learn to respond to it productively instead? ------------------------------------- In this episode, we talk about how: Danylo's love for entrepreneurship Failure is a necessary part of entrepreneurship How to deal with failure How culture affects personal freedom of expression Emotional intelligence is about the small things The importance of owning your weaknesses and honesty on what you don't know Emotional Intelligence will be an important skill in the future Danlyo's experiences with the 5 core emotions ------------------------------------- Resources: Learn more about Danylo’s consulting firm at: https://www.krebsandkurgan.com. Follow Danylo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danylokurgan. ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and join my Facebook Group at! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/groupcoaching. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

On this journey to improve my own emotional intelligence, I've already been having so many great conversations with friends, family, and even strangers! One of them shared such an important concept that I share not to force you to take on the belief whole-heartedly, but to ignite some thought and reflection that might help your life. Live with authenticity, not positivity. It hits on the idea that a lot of us might be putting up a front, or a mask of positivity, subconsciously or not. We try to keep our heads afloat, hide the negativity, tell people that "I'm doing great!" when in reality, you couldn't fall asleep until 4am last night because you were staring at your ceiling not knowing where your life is going. Part of why we're feeling this way is because of how far we've strayed from who we are. We hear all of these messages to stay positive, the other side is greener, etc. Don't get me wrong, I still think positivity and optimism is a powerful tool to live a great life, but if it's at the expense of addressing how you're truly feeling, that's when we start losing ourselves. Read the full piece on Medium! ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast, blog, and videos! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Help me write the book for those 11 exercises by taking this 2-question survey: http://victorung.com/book. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/videocourse. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

If you love traveling, this episode will help you travel with more intention for your personal wellbeing so that the next time you go somewhere, it’s not just an escape where you’ll come back to the same routine and patterns that you left. It’ll be an opportunity to grow. Travel is a great way to boost emotional intelligence, which consists of self-awareness, emotional management, and empathy. When we force ourselves outside of our traditional environment, it automatically expands our perspectives in who we thought we were when we’re able to connect with those who are living very differently than us. The issue is when we travel in a disconnected manner. Disconnected from yourself and your intentions, disconnected from the culture and people that you’re visiting, disconnected from the land and environment that have the privilege of walking on. This is why I’m excited to share this conversation with travel coach, Sahara Rose, who helps people in the workplace travel with more intention in order to maximize the many wellness benefits that come from travel. ------------------------------------- In this episode, we talk about how: How Sahara created her ideal career What is travel coaching? How travel can be a key component in improving our emotional wellbeing How to get past what holds us back from traveling ------------------------------------- Resources: Learn more about Sahara’s work and The Travel Coaching Network: https://sahararosetravels.com Follow Sahara on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetravelcoachnetwork ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast, blog, and my upcoming eBook! http://victorung.com/subscribe. Join the waitlist for the video course and group coaching program to learn how to regulate our emotions and use them for personal clarity: http://victorung.com/videocourse. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Emotional Intelligence is one of the missing skills from our education system. Rarely were we taught how to deal with conflict, how to make good decisions for the long-term, how to manage stress, and how to be comfortable expressing our deeper feelings and what we truly want. I’ve noticed the lack thereof within my life and how it’s kept me complacent in my career, relationships, and hobbies. Learning about emotional intelligence has created a shift from me passively sitting in the backseat of my life to taking lead and being more assertive with how I want to live. ------------------------------------- Resources: List of emotions to improve vocabulary Psychologist Lisa Feldmen Barrett’s TED talk on what emotions are Research study on cultural differences in emotion Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANT) Therapy Wait But Why Article on becoming the chef of your life vs the cook 11 exercises to jumpstart emotional intelligence on your own ------------------------------------- Provide me feedback on where you’re at in your EQ journey: http://victorung.com/feedback. Become a Patron to support this podcast: http://patreon.com/humanup. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Join the waitlist for the group coaching program to learn how to better manage both our technology and our emotions: http://victorung.com/eqtechsurvey. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Emotions are hard to talk about. They’re hard to define. They’re hard to feel. They’re hard to manage. Learning the neuropsychology behind emotional intelligence provides a framework to help us with all of that. It gives us the ability to better interpret our emotions as data that can help us think more clearly. And when we better understand our emotions, it strengthens our roots so that we’ll become more resilient and adaptable with change. ------------------------------------- In this episode, we talk about how: Mieka's studies in political science, social impact, body trauma and neuroscience got her here We are expected to be emotionally competent but weren't taught the skills Our emotions serve as an antenna to provide us with more information for decision-making Social and emotional capacity is the missing ingredient at both the societal and human level Emotional resiliency is built by addressing the core needs ------------------------------------- Resources: Join her 6-week in-person workshop series in Seattle on how to apply the neuroscience of EQ to your workplace and relationships. Use discount code ‘REF101’: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/frankly-101-become-an-emotional-genius-tickets-64679873242 Learn more about Mieka’s company, FranklyEQ: http://franklyeq.com Find Mieka on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mieka.be ------------------------------------- Provide me feedback on where you’re at in your EQ journey: http://victorung.com/feedback. Join my Facebook Group to connect and learn from the community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/humanup. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Join the waitlist for the group coaching program to learn how to better manage both our technology and our emotions: http://victorung.com/eqtechsurvey. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. If you want to be on the podcast, visit: http://victorung.com/podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

How do you present yourself through your behaviors, words, and even fashion? Have you held back what is true and feels good to you in any of those three areas? If you have, I completely understand, having been influenced by so many cultural norms and perceptions that put pressure on me to blend in, rather than express myself. Self-expression comes in many forms and in this episode we hit on what that means coming from the perspective of men in fashion and creativity. ------------------------------------- In this episode, we talk about: How Antonio started Seattle Gents Building community for Seattle men Identifying and sticking to why you're pursuing your creative projects rather than comparing yourself to others Everyone is creative, you just have to train it like a muscle Finding your own groove and style by unapologetically expressing your creativity ------------------------------------- Resources: Come out to Seattle Gent’s 3rd Anniversary Banquet celebration on November 14th: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dining-style-a-3-year-anniversary-celebration-tickets-73988332093 Learn more about Seattle Gents: http://seattlegents.com Find Antonio on IG: https://www.instagram.com/antoniocdsmith ------------------------------------- Become a Patron to support this podcast: http://patreon.com/humanup. Send me a voice message with any thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Join the waitlist for the free group coaching program to learn how to better manage both our technology and our emotions: http://victorung.com/eqtechsurvey. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Coming from an Asian immigrant family, raised in America’s masculine culture, emotions and feelings are the last thing we would talk about. But in that suppression we also push away the people around us. It’s why we end up in either stagnant relationships, or feeling lonely that no one can relate to us because we’ve been used to dealing with it on our own. The first step to curbing this loneliness and connecting with others on a deeper level is to connect back to your own emotions. It’s to become aware of those sensations and situations that make us uncomfortable and to purposefully lean into it. When you can understand your own emotions better, what triggers them, and be confident enough to express them, it gives other people a better understanding of who you are and how to connect with you as well. ------------------------------------- In this episode, we talk about: Why men might struggle talking about emotions because of limited outside structures placed upon us Steven's journey in starting his podcast How it's easier to not connect with other humans because of the convenience of technology, and fear of taking emotional risks Not admitting to and talking about emotions makes it that much easier to become stagnant in your life How to create more connectedness by expressing your emotions ------------------------------------- Resources: Check out Steven’s podcast at https://www.bettermenpodcast.com or wherever you find your podcasts. ------------------------------------- Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Send me a voice message with any thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Join the waitlist for the free group coaching program to learn how to better manage both our technology and our emotions: http://victorung.com/eqtechsurvey. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Subconsciously, we have been trained to stick to one thing and it’s hard to break out of that, or explore a completely new path. You might even be telling yourself things like, “I’ve invested so much time, money, and energy into this already,” “I don’t want to waste all that I’ve learned,” “It’s too late for me to do something completely new and unrelated,” “I’ve come so far, might as well stick it through,” “I’m not a quitter.” That is the sunk costs fallacy. We think that we only have one life. We think that once we’ve chosen that school, that major, that job, that career, that expertise that that’s what we have to stick with. It’s what we know, it’s what we’re good at. Let’s challenge that. What if we don’t only live once? What if we can live multiple lives? ------------------------------------- Check out the blog post for this episode here: https://medium.com/the-ascent/you-have-more-than-one-life-9b242c4b84c2?source=---------15------------------ ------------------------------------- Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Send me a voice message with any thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. Schedule your Discovery Coaching Call with me to personally work on building your own emotional intelligence, resiliency, and clarity for your career, and relationships, as well as productivity with your technology-use: http://victorung.com. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

I love you, Technology. I love the way you provide so much excitement in my life. I love how you do so many things for me, how you make my life so easy and convenient. But... I’m worried about who I’ve become with all this time with you. I know, it’s really self-centered for me to say this, but I’ve become too dependent on you. ------------------------------------- Check out the blog post for this episode here: https://psiloveyou.xyz/technology-its-not-you-it-s-me-6c88f4bf5373 Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Send me a voice message with any thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. Schedule your Discovery Coaching Call with me to personally work on building your own emotional intelligence, resiliency, and clarity for your career, and relationships, as well as productivity with your technology-use: http://victorung.com. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

“Adulting like a revolutionary is taking a self-loving, logical look at where you are fighting the battles that are unwinnable vs looking at where you might be ignoring the battles that you can win.” Serving eight years as a psychotherapist, who now calls herself a Soul Medic, Rachel Alexandria is helping people “adult like a revolutionary” by helping them explore the rituals that are missing from their transition into adulthood. ------------------------------------- Timestamps: [6:00] Rachel's background [7:54] Even adults need support in growth [15:37] What is "Adulting like a Revolutionary?" [22:49] The process in living with intentionality [28:55] The importance of rituals [32:44] How do you become an adult, separate from your family? [39:23] Living on purpose vs flowing through necessary phases [42:49] Learning about your own emotions makes you resilient to change [45:32] 5 Core Emotions ------------------------------------- Resources: Visit https://rachelalexandria.com to sign up for a free 10-day adulting sampler or text “adulting” to 314-665-1767 to get text messages straight to your phone. Dr. Marshall Rosenberg’s 3 stages of Non-Violent Communication: http://www.acsyl.co.uk/article/217/an-introduction-to-nonviolent-communication.html ------------------------------------- Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Send me a voice message with any thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Schedule your Discovery Coaching Call with me to personally work on building your own emotional intelligence, resiliency, and clarity for your career and relationships: http://victorung.com. If you’re a reader, clap for my writing on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Are you the type of person that gives so much love, compassion, and encouragement to others, but forget to give to yourself? I definitely do and it frustrates me. I sometimes feel like a hypocrite or an imposter who can’t take his own advice. Then I would doubt my ability to give and help people because I was not good enough, smart enough, or wise enough. Why is it so hard to love myself? Turns out I'm not the only one who has this problem, according to University of Waterloo psychologist, Igor Grossman, who coined this phenomenon as Solomon’s Paradox. Read the research paper here: https://uwaterloo.ca/wisdom-and-culture-lab/sites/ca.wisdom-and-culture-lab/files/uploads/files/grossmann_kross_-_exploring_solomons_paradox_-_article_proof.pdf ------------------------------------- Send me a voice message with anything thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Schedule your first FREE coaching call with me to personally work on building your own emotional intelligence and resiliency: http://victorung.com. Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Clap for me on my blog on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

We can’t control our emotions, but we can control how we respond to them. That’s the power of emotional intelligence, to be able to better manage what we do with how we feel in the moment in order to be productive rather than destructive. The issue is that so many of us haven’t been provided the education or tools to deal with our own emotions or those of others, which creates a lot of tension in many social issues today. The process of becoming more emotionally intelligent is simple, but difficult to master: Awareness Acceptance Action (or not) It starts by slowing down so that you can become aware of your emotions and what it means for you. Then we can embrace how we’re feeling, to acknowledge its presence, so that we can start taking steps to do (or not to do) something with it. In this episode, my guest Matt Perelstein of EQ4Peace shares his passion for emotional intelligence education as we nerd out about how to use this as a tool to train our emotional muscles for both internal and external peace. ------------------------------------- Timestamps: [5:53] We were never taught how to train the right-side of our brains [11:25] The connection between the heart, mind, and body [13:21] Decisions should be based on both thoughts and feelings [14:57] How to develop the emotional muscle to better feel and communicate our emotions [27:09] Emotional education in schools [31:38] Example exercise to identify emotions [34:22] How to sustain emotional intelligence [42:58] We're getting closer to quantify EQ, but it still requires practice [46:55] 5 Core emotions ------------------------------------- Resources: http://mattperelstein.com/ http://eq4peace.org/ 4,000 feeling words to increase emotional vocabulary: http://eqi.org/fw.htm ------------------------------------- Send me a voice message with anything thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast. Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Schedule a Discovery coaching call with me to personally work on building your emotional resiliency: http://victorung.com. Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Clap for me on my blog on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Emotional intelligence doesn’t come natural for many people, no matter the circumstances, but it’s especially missing in a lot of men. I’ve noticed this especially true for myself, where I was unwilling to be uncomfortable feeling my emotions. It made me feel weak, or childish, or “feminine.” But why is something as natural as our emotions something we try to hide? I talk to a good friend, Ryan Shirley, co-founder of Pursuit and Tie, about how important of a role EQ plays in business/client service, marriage, and friendships, as well as what it means for men to manage our emotions. *Due to previous audio setup, there will be occasional background noise in the recording. ------------------------------------- Timestamps: [7:50] Does a person's value solely come from the ability to product outcomes? [9:49] Men don't prioritize emotional growth [12:38] Men's balance with power [13:43] Yes, you can have too much EQ [9:38] But lack of EQ creates stale relationships [17:05] What we practice grows stronger [19:04] Competition is great to push us forward, but hurts us when we compare self-worth [20:2] EQ is the muscle needed to work better with others [21:24] Ryan's advice on resume building [25:23] EQ is important to make relationships work [36:16] Men's struggle to swallow pride to fight for relationships [39:36] The Mt Rushmore of Emotionally Intelligent people ------------------------------------- Resources: Resume consulting: http://pursuitandtie.com. ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Resiliency exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Schedule a free coaching call with me to work on your emotional intelligence: http://victorung.com. Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Clap for me on my blog on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message