In the Loop

At 22, Danielle Gare was drugged and sexually abused in a bathroom at Christchurch's Mama Hooch bar. Six years on, the Dunedin early childhood teacher shares her story. Today's episode carries a trigger warning for serious sexual assault, drugging, and significant traumatic experiences. Given the distressing matter discussed, this content is for adults only. This is an important subject but we urge listener discretion.  Sexual harm - do you need help?If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone contact the Safe to Talk confidential crisis helpline on: Text 4334 and they will respond Email support@safetotalk.nz Visit https://safetotalk.nz/contact-us/ for an online chat Or contact your local police station. If you have been abused, remember it's not your fault.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's episode carries a trigger warning for serious sexual assault, drugging, and significant traumatic experiences. Given the distressing matter discussed, this content is for adults only. This is an important subject but we urge listener discretion.  In late 2017 Sophie Brown, then 19, was of hundreds of young people regularly partying at the Mama Hooch bar. Naive to the club's dark underbelly until she was drugged and sexually assaulted in a nearby bathroom by the manager Danny Jaz. Today Brown, the first survivor in the case to lift her automatic name suppression, is finally able to share her story. Sexual harm - do you need help?If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone contact the Safe to Talk confidential crisis helpline on: Text 4334 and they will respond Email support@safetotalk.nz Visit https://safetotalk.nz/contact-us/ for an online chat Or contact your local police station. If you have been abused, remember it's not your fault.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Over the weekend Kellie-jay Keen-Minshull, also known as Posie Parker, arrived in Aotearoa for her Let Women Speak tour.  The British activist widely labelled as anti-transgender and self-described as a women's rights activist, caused a stir before she even stepped on Kiwi soil. Her talks had already been met with large protests across the ditch, and at her Melbourne rally, more than 20 neo-Nazi's did a Hitler salute on the steps of parliament. Today we sit down with NZ Herald reporter Isaac Davison who covered the Auckland protest.Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Modern dating can be a minefield and navigating sex with a new person can make things even more nerve-wrecking. A recent Bumble survey found 39 per cent of Kiwi singles admit to feeling inexperienced in the bedroom which impacts their self-confidence. Today on the Herald's In the Loop podcast, Bumble's resident sexologist Chantelle Otten speaks to hosts Cheree Kinnear and Katie Harris about attraction, chemistry and how to gain confidence with sex. Later in the show, 31-year-old Otten said reveals how people in non-monogamous relationships, unexplainable chemistry and exploring how we engage with others in the world.Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A week after Cheree and her partner gifted a little red box containing two tiny booties to her parents, she was lying in a hospital bed learning she had just lost her baby. Today Cheree speaks about her heartbreak after miscarrying late last year, and why she believes we need to be more open about pregnancy loss.  This episode focuses heavily on miscarriage so please take care while listening. Following In the Loop on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special (early release!) episode of In the Loop, Katie chats to her sister Laura and her friend Nicky about all things polyamory. Laura is in a long-term relationship with two other women, and Nicky is also polyamorous but is not in a committed relationship right now. The pair share their feelings on monogamy, jealousy, what it's like being in love with more than one person and why they chose polyamory. We loved this ep, especially how open and honest both Nicky and Laura were, and we hope you do too!  Find queer resources, information and support at Rainbow Youth (09) 376 4155. Follow us on Instagram at Itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, Cheree and Katie sit down with a former Calendar Girls worker Alice* to speak about the collective contract negotiations that they claim resulted in 19 women getting dropped. She also speaks about wider issues in the industry and what they would like to see change.  *Alice's name has been changed to protect her privacy.  Calendar Girls claimed in a statement it had not changed its private dancer cost for 12 years. “In hindsight we should put the cost up a little each year.” The organisation said that while the percentage had changed, the contractor amount went up. However, the former worker disagreed and said a 50 per cent cut was less than 60 per cent. Calendar Girls also said the contracts were written by a specialist lawyer and although there were fines in the contracts “not one” has been issued in Wellington this financial year. “The 19 contractors, some of which who have already moved on or only do a day here and there and, with a limited amount of lockers, we need them for new contractors working weekly. All of which were told they could re-apply online.” A dancer also disputed the claim they were told to re-apply.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lip flips, buccal fat removal, and baby botox are all in a minutes scrolling on social media these days. Whether it's on your favourite celebrity, colleague, or even your mother, the latest cosmetic procedures have become the topic du jour for many Sunday brunches. Sarah Hart, an Auckland-based cosmetic medicine doctor has seen beauty trends come and go for decades. She speaks to In the Loop about social media trends, what actually works, how she got into cosmetic medicine plus much more.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Redundancies, contract disputes and personal grievances are always in the headlines, but what's it really like for the lawyers at the coal face? Today In the Loop host Katie Harris chats to senior solicitor Lizzie Thomas about contracts, non-compete clauses and the common cases that come across her desk. In the episode the pair discuss the importance of thoroughly reading employment contracts, common mistakes people make when signing the documents and what kind of cases are the most common. Thomas explains non-compete and other post-employment clauses, which are in place across industries, and why they can be enforced. Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bella Howarth, 22, didn't exactly fall into social media fame. While TikTok was never a specific ambition, from age 12 Howarth knew she wanted to make videos.“I was trying to be like a vlogger, like Zoella, I think my handle [on YouTube] was Dorkabella.”While her YouTube career wasn't meant to be, and she has now scraped all evidence from the internet, she's now found success on the video-sharing app TikTok. Speaking to the Herald's In the Loop podcast, Howarth details what it's like sharing so much of her personal life, dealing with trolls and being recognised in public.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's infiltrated your group chat, is filling up your TikTok feed and already being made into a six-part series. No, this not the latest Kardashian reality season, it's the gritty, gruesome reality of our true crime addiction. On today's episode of In the Loop, hosts Cheree Kinnear and Katie Harris chat to crime reporter and author Jared Savage about why people are so attracted to stories about others' darkest moments.  WARNING: This episode covers crimes that may be distressing for some listeners and may not be appropriate for all ears.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Selling sex, intimacy and acceptance, Wellington sex worker Cleo takes Katie Harris and Cheree Kinnear inside their life as a non-binary high-end Wellington escort. On this deep dive episode, we discuss what Cleo's day to day is like, how they got into sex work and how being non-binary helps them support clients discovering their own identity. We found this chat really insightful and hope you do too! This episode was recorded earlier this year and is being released over summer.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Once a year since J* was 14 she would try insert a tampon. The Wellington woman, who wants to be known by her initial J, attempted the annual ritual without success for years, hoping that maybe one day it would finally work. What J didn't know at the time was that she has vaginismus, a medical condition where the vagina tightens up when you try insert something into it. Today on the show J chats to Cheree and Katie about the condition, how it's treated and how speaking up has helped both her and others.We really loved having J on the show and hope you learn as much as we did! This episode was recorded earlier this year and is being released over summer.  Warning, this episode discusses features lengthy discussions about sex and bodies so may not be appropriate for all listeners.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A West Auckland cop who left the force earlier this year says gun violence is becoming the "norm" and some officers' anxiety is going "through the roof".The former officer, who was only on the force for four years, joined Katie and Cheree to discuss why he left the force and the realities of life on the frontlines. This episode was recorded earlier this year and is being rereleased over summer.  For more on the story Katie mentions in the episode, click here. Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Endometriosis affects roughly one in 10 women, and those with a uterus, in Aotearoa. For this month's Deep Dive, Katie talks with Sophie Sager, a writer who has been open about her struggles to get a diagnosis for endometriosis and wants to draw more attention to the condition and the difficulties to get it taken seriously. This episode was recorded earlier this year and is being rereleased over summer.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod Warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health. If you need to talk to anyone about the content raised in this episode, you can at the following resources:Lifeline: 0800 543 354 (available 24/7)Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)Youthline: 0800 376 633 or text 234 (available 24/7)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Michaela and Zach Cotogni, who live in the Wellington region, are well-known in the magic mushroom community, and are the minds behind the book Blue Honey, which documents the experience of Kiwis using mushrooms containing psilocybin. On this Deep Dive episode the pair discuss how their lives have been changed by the substance, why they decided to speak about their magic mushroom use and what their hopes are for the law in New Zealand. This episode was recorded earlier this year and is being rereleased over summer.  Just a warning, we do discuss mental health issues, suicidal ideation and drug use in this episode. People currently using prescription medication for a mental illness should seek medical advice if they're planning to make any changes to their prescription.Helplines:  Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7) Depression helpline: 0800 111 757 (available 24/7) Helpline: 1737 Follow In the Loop on Instagram at itlpod and email the show at intheloop@nzme.co.nzSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As we wrap up In the Loop for 2022 we take a look back on some of our favourite episodes from the year that's been. Thanks for joining us each week, we'll be back in your ears on January 31st!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today the Black Ferns have been announced at the 2022 New Zealand Herald Our Heroes champions. Katie and Cheree sat down with team members Ruby Tui, Kendra Cocksedge and Kennedy Simon to look back on the year that's been :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Indonesia has long been hailed as a tropical paradise by Kiwi travelers.Cheap airfares, friendly locals and well-priced accommodation is enough to lure many out of their winter hibernation. But a revised criminal code, which includes a law labelled by some as a “bonk ban”, could make the classic Bali getaway far less alluring for New Zealanders. Especially the unmarried ones. On this week's podcast, hosts Cheree Kinnear and Katie Harris discuss the new laws, how they may impact Kiwi travelers and chat to Jakarta Feminist director Vivi Restuviani about the other aspects of the new criminal code. Later, Cheree unpacks the airline fuel shortage, then a decision has been made in the vaccine-blood case regarding a baby needing urgent surgery and amateur TikTok sleuths are trying to discover who is responsible for murders in Idaho.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parents refusing to use vaccinated blood for their gravely ill baby have said they are desperate for their child to be operated on, but claim they need “safe blood”. Today on the Herald's In the Loop podcasts co-hosts Katie Harris and Aaron Dahmen unpack the case and what experts believe. Later in the episode the review into the death of five-year-old Malachi Subecz (6.45), what Kiwis really think about 16-year-olds voting (13.10), China's mass protests (17.50) and the Balenciaga catalogue controversy (27.20). Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Zeisha Fremaux was at the top of her game. Earlier this year the Auckland-based DJ was playing festivals all over New Zealand, had an Aussie Tour scheduled and an American festival debut all lined up. Now she has a “mouth and tongue full of ulcers”, painful medical treatments, a “hell of a lot of hair loss” and has had to put her music career on hold.  Zeisha sits down with In the Loop podcast's Katie Harris to tell her story — and push a potentially lifesaving message. Zeisha's fight for her life. - GivealittleSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Once relegated to the fashion naughty corner, the Crocs are now being spotted on the hooves of stars like Justin Bieber, Kim Kardashian and even Post Malone. However with this renaissance comes a question, are they appropriate footwear for the school yard? This week on the show one Kiwi parent is grappling with this issue after her “rapidly growing” son was told last Thursday his Crocs didn't comply with one school's uniform code. Then the latest on Harry Styles and Olivia Wilde, more shocking gun violence in the US and the heartbreaking deadly attack at an Auckland dairy.  Follow us on Instagram at Itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Alarm bells were ringing earlier this week after a reportedly Russian-made missile landed in NATO-member nation Poland. Today on the Herald's In the Loop podcast hosts Cheree Kinnear and Katie Harris discuss why this blast, which killed two people, caused such large shockwaves across the globe. Later on the show, New Zealand's first alcohol-free liquor store launches in Auckland then Taylor Swift fans break the internet trying to purchase tickets for her next world tour.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's an age-old debate, creating rifts across breakfast tables and inciting terse words between friends. But is there really a right time to brush your teeth in the morning? Turns out even the New York Times has weighed in, with dental experts this week giving their two cents on what morning routine is best for oral hygiene. On today's In the Loop podcast hosts Katie Harris and Cheree Kinnear go head-to-head in the fight over which brushing option is better. Later in the show, what was supposed to be a Republican wave in the US midterm elections has been more of a ripple after the expected massive win failed to materialise. Then Facebook's owner joins Twitter with more mass layoffs. Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dua Lipa has melted hearts across the country this week with two massive all-ages shows at Spark arena. Today on the pod Katie and Cheree chat to entertainment reporter Lillie Rohan about the show, and whether it was strange dropping it low while children were in attendance. Later, Netflix star Kit Connor says he's been forced to out himself as bisexual because of critics, then we've got bad news for Kiwi ice cream fans.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Senior Herald journalist David Fisher sits down with the In the Loop podcast to explain how these rare situations unfold and why the media, in some cases, do not publicise missing Kiwis. Later on the show, an international Kiwi sportsman is charged with sexual offending and Ye falls further from grace.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week we've added a bonus mini chat with former In the Loop co-host Rosie Gordon who speaks to Katie about young people, news and why they wanted to create the show :)   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the show we look back on the first year of In the Loop and what goes into making the podcast each week. Massive shout out to all the people who have helped us on the way! And all you listeners who have backed us throughout this time :) We love bringing you the news each week and can't wait for another year of fun! Stay in touch with us on Instagram at Itlpod!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On Wednesday it was revealed England's players would get a cool $30,000 if they won the Rugby World Cup while the Black Ferns 15s squad would get zilch. Sevens star Michaela Blyde told the Herald's In the Loop youth podcast, while they don't get bonuses, their salaries had increased "massively" in the last few years. Also in this weeks episode, the latest on the situation in Iran and Kanye West gets locked out of Twitter and Instagram. Stay in touch with us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A contestant is being edited out of the upcoming series of FBoy Island after it was revealed he was charged with suffocating a woman last year. While he was found not guilty, questions have arisen over how he managed to get on the show and whether the man was honest when asked about his past. Today we unpack all this, plus some KiwiSaver users are checking out and the latest on Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitts legal battles.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tropical islands, mingling with sexy singles from around the globe and battling it out for $100,000 may sound dreamy, but what is it really like for those on screen? Heartbreak Island's Milly Forbes explains the triumphs and troughs of her life on screen. Keep up with us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hundreds may have lined up for the grand opening of New Zealand's first Costco mega store, but will it be cheaper and who can get the most bang for their buck? BusinessDesk investments editor and financial author Frances Cook told us on today's show places like Costco can work out "really well", as long as they're used strategically. Later in the ep, new data shows a startling link between family harm and youth involved in ramraids, then questions over whether employers should be able to sack employers over out of hours nude images.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a cliche as old as time, allegations of infidelity have been swirling around Maroon 5 frontman, 43-year-old Adam Levine, who seems to have a penchant for sliding into young women's DMs. This week on the show we chat to a dating columnist about whether DM'ing is actually cheating, will his career will take a hit and what they make of his apology. Later on the show, should New Zealand become a republic and the latest on Putin's chilling war with Ukraine.  You can find us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the Herald's youth podcast, In the Loop, hosts Cheree and Katie unpack how the public in New Zealand reacted to the Queen's passing, and what this means for New Zealand. Later on the show, Cheree explains the latest changes to Aotearoa's Covid-19 restrictions, then the winners and losers of this year's Emmys.  Follow us on Instagram at Itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Women at the centre of a bureaucratic blunder that sent Northland into an 11-day lockdown last year are yet to receive a public apology after they were incorrectly accused of providing "false information" to get travel permits. On today's In the Loop show, the Herald's youth-focused podcast, hosts Cheree Kinnear and Katie Harris unpack how the drama unfolded at the time and the lasted information on what really went down. Later on the show, Justin Bieber's New Zealand show cancelled? And yes, we are worrying darling, what is going on with Olivia Wilde's new film.  Following us on Instagram at itlpod :)   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

While the Government made a swift U-turn on a proposal to tax fees on KiwiSaver funds, questions remain over what impact the plan, and the snap backdown, could have politically.The proposal would have forced managed funds and KiwiSaver providers to pay a flat 15 per cent GST on fees. Today on the Herald's youth podcast, In the loop, journalists Cheree Kinnear and Katie Harris  discuss how the proposal was revealed, the reaction and just how quickly it fell. Later on the show Cheree and Katie speak about the ruling in the Lynette Dawson murder case and Marama Davidson getting into hot water over a social media post.  Follow us on instagram at itlpod :)  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Once a year since J* was 14 she would try insert a tampon. The Wellington woman, who wants to be known by her initial J, attempted the annual ritual without success for years, hoping that maybe one day it would finally work. What J didn't know at the time was that she has vaginismus, a medical condition where the vagina tightens up when you try insert something into it. Today on the show J chats to Cheree and Katie about the condition, how it's treated and how speaking up has helped both her and others.  We really loved having J on the show and hope you learn as much as we did! Warning, this episode discusses features lengthy discussions about sex and bodies so may not be appropriate for all listeners.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Despite concerns of a possible Parliament occupation 2.0, this weeks anti-Government protest wrapped up within hours and left the lawn in tact.Today on In the loop, the Herald's youth-focused podcast, Cheree and Katie discuss what it was like covering the protest and how it differed from the last protest. Later what is quiet quitting and why is it trending now, plus Harry Styles criticised over comments he made regarding a gay sex scene and alleged "queerbaiting".  You can follow the show on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the show, host Cheree Kinnear is joined by NZ Herald political reporter Michael Neilson to unpack the Sam Uffindell scandal that rocked the National party this week. They also chat crime and the Government repealing the three-strikes law, Donald Trump, the new Snapchat feature for parents and all the fallout around Kim K and Pete Davidson's split. Follow us on Instagram at itlpod or flick us an email at intheloop@nzme.co.nzSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Selling sex, intimacy and acceptance, Wellington sex worker Cleo takes Katie Harris and Cheree Kinnear inside their life as a non-binary high-end Wellington escort. On this deep dive episode, we discuss what Cleo's day to day is like, how they got into sex work and how being non-binary helps them support clients discovering their own identity. We found this chat really insightful and hope you do too! Follow us on Instagram at itlpod :)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the show Kansas voters have protected the right to get an abortion in their state, Infowars host Alex Jones finally admits the Sandy Hook massacre happened after falsely claiming it was a hoax and the cost of living payments drop! Later on the show house prices are going down, the largest power plant in Europe is out of control and Queen B is in the headlines for all the wrong reasons.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod or flick us an email at intheloop@nzme.co.nz :) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As Covid-19 and flu infections climb, health workers are struggling to keep up with emergency call-outs and growing hospital waiting rooms.  On this episode Auckland paramedic Sarah* speaks to Katie and Cheree about what it's been like during the surge.  Just a note this is Sarah's experience and may not reflect that of other paramedics.  Follow us on Instagram at itlpod or email us at intheloop@nzme.co.nzSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.