Podcast appearances and mentions of mike bechtle

Send us a textOn today's podcast episode I am going to share my thoughts on Dr. Mike Bechtle's book, "Evangelism For The Rest of Us." "The most common methods of evangelism are tailor-made for extroverts. But what about those of us who are less outgoing? We may be left with feelings of guilt for not stepping out and saying more, fear of letting others down, and the desire to become someone we're not deep down."Support The Show: https://www.buzzsprout.com/110664/subscribe Build your own local Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builderRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.comSupport the show

Oh, I know that feeling—you walk into a room, and suddenly, your mind is racing with doubt. But here's the truth: You're not alone and don't have to stay in doubt.   Today, we're diving into a game-changer—how to read the room so you can swap second-guessing for confidence, clarity, and a calm presence that leads with grace.   Dr. Mike Bechtle is here to help us break free from overthinking and finally see the social cues most people miss. It isn't about performing or pretending—it's about stepping into every space with grounded authenticity.   By the end of this episode, you'll walk away with a decisive mindset shift and a practical four-step framework that will transform how you speak, lead, and connect in every room, meeting, and moment. Let's get into it! Timestamps: (00:54) - The One Belief That Silently Destroys Your Confidence in a Room (03:14) - Why Scoping Out the Room First Gives You the Upper Hand (06:05) - The Confidence Secret No One Talks About: It Comes from Competence (13:27) - Dr. Mike's 4-Step Process to Read Any Room (19:21) - How to Be the Most Memorable Person in a Crowded Room (20:34) - How to Show Up Confidently in Online Meetings   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Mike's TV Show Recommendations - American Idol, The Voice, & High Potential Mike's Product Recommendation - Little ELF Gift Wrap Cutter Mike's App Recommendation - Picture This & Merlin Bird ID   I hope you loved this episode!

People-pleasing may seem like a selfless act, but did you know it can actually harm you and others? We continue our conversation with Dr. Mike Bechtle on how to combat people-pleasing behaviour. Great advice to help you identify and change these habits.

In this powerful episode, Dr. Mike Bechtle unpacks the core message of his newest book, How to Read the Room, and why it's a vital skill for anyone living missionally. You'll discover how reading a room isn't about fitting in—it's about stepping in with purpose and serving with intention. Whether you're quiet or outgoing, this conversation gives practical, Christ-centered insight into showing up with confidence and impact. Learn to observe, connect, and bless others right where you are. About the Guest Dr. Mike Bechtle is a seasoned communication expert, bestselling author, and speaker with over 30 years of experience in equipping others to thrive relationally and professionally. Known for empowering introverts and extroverts alike, Mike helps people embrace their God-given temperament for lasting impact. His latest book, How to Read a Room, offers practical wisdom rooted in biblical truth for connecting, leading, and serving effectively. Reasons to ListenEmbrace Your Design – Learn why your personality—introvert or extrovert—is not a flaw but a feature in God's mission through you.Boost Kingdom Confidence – Get practical tools to engage any room with authenticity, courage, and gospel-centered influence.Learn to Serve, Not Impress – Discover how shifting your focus from self to service radically transforms relationships and leadership. Big TakeawaysYour Wiring is God-Given – God created introverts and extroverts uniquely for His glory. You don't have to be loud to be influential.Observation Builds Confidence – Enter a room strategically by observing before engaging—this helps ground you and gives you clarity.Communication is Ministry – Every conversation can be a kingdom moment when it's approached with humility and purpose.Listening is Powerful – Deep listening often communicates Christ's love more loudly than persuasive words ever could.Use What's in Your Hand – Whether it's writing, teaching, or casual chats, your gifts are already primed for ministry when surrendered to God. Missional ChallengesStep Out in Faith – Attend a social setting this week with a mindset to observe and serve, not just survive. Watch what God does.Encourage Someone's Potential – Intentionally affirm someone's quiet strength or unseen contribution this week. Speak life into what's hidden.Be Curious, Not Clever – In your next conversation, ask deeper questions and practice the phrase “Tell me more”—then really listen.

Many of us walk into a room wondering what others think of us. But what if we flipped the script and asked instead: What do I bring to the table?In this episode of the Simply Wholehearted Podcast, Dr. Mike Bechtle, author of How to Read a Room, helps us shift our mindset from self-consciousness to intentional presence. He shares wisdom on how to cultivate relationships where we focus less on how we are perceived and more on how we can serve others.Episode Highlights:Why we overthink what others think of us—and how to stop.How to “read a room” and enter with confidence and purpose.The difference between going into a space to receive vs. to give.How introverts and extroverts approach social settings differently.The power of listening and curiosity in building life-giving relationships.Resources Mentioned:How to Read a RoomWebsiteRESOURCES FOR YOU:Wholehearted Enneagram Coachinghttps://bit.ly/SWcoachingcollectiveEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideThe Real History of the Enneagram Course(use code AMY for 40% OFF)https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistoryShould Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book)https://amzn.to/3VB9PrxConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Subscriber-only episodeOn today's PoM Podcast episode I sat down with Mike Bechtle to discuss his latest book, "How To Read A Room." The author of ten books, including the popular "People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys," Dr. Bechtle offers fresh insights on building genuine relationships and increasing influence in today's workplace. Would you be interested in reviewing the book or scheduling an interview with Dr. Bechtle about how readers can master social intelligence and make 2025 their most impactful year yet? Press materials attached. I'd love to set something up!To learn more about Mike and his books: https://www.mikebechtle.com/Subscribe to the Pursuit of Manliness YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@pursuemanliness Build your own local Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builderRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatRegister for Tribe XVI starting June 1st: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-xviThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.com

On today's PoM Podcast episode I sat down with Mike Bechtle to discuss his latest book, "How To Read A Room." The author of ten books, including the popular "People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys," Dr. Bechtle offers fresh insights on building genuine relationships and increasing influence in today's workplace. Would you be interested in reviewing the book or scheduling an interview with Dr. Bechtle about how readers can master social intelligence and make 2025 their most impactful year yet? Press materials attached. I'd love to set something up!To learn more about Mike and his books: https://www.mikebechtle.com/Subscribe to the Pursuit of Manliness YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@pursuemanliness Build your own local Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builderRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatRegister for Tribe XVI starting June 1st: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-xviThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.comSupport the show

America has just come through one of the most contentious elections in history. Thanks to A.I. and 24 hour news cycles all of us have been bombarded with mud-slinging, outrageous promises and things that most of us realize just cannot be true.  We hear about misinformation and disinformation, and promises of doom and gloom if the other side wins. Regardless or not on if your candidate won, this is an important time to remind yourself and share with your child that happiness, peace and setting goals for the future are not controlled by others but rather, they are choices that we decide to make regardless of outside influences.  This reminds us of a quote by Mike Bechtle, “People can't drive you crazy if you don't give them the keys”  We look at key behaviors that will put the control back into our lives and give us the power and tools to be happy regardless of outside influences.  We will examine goal setting behaviors, and self examination, and letting go of responsibility for a short while to find the fun things inside yourself.  Everyone of us has the capability of being happy, we just have to decide that is important to us. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/million-kids/support

If you're a Christian who struggles with feelings of inadequacy when it comes to evangelism or guilt for not doing more to share your faith, listen in as Dr. Mike Bechtle offers encouragement, explaining why there's no prescribed method that's ‘best,' and that God can use your unique personality to accomplish the same goal. (Part 2 of 2)   Receive Dr. Mike Bechtle's book Evangelism for the Rest of Us and the audio download of the broadcast "Using Your Unique Personality to Share Your Faith" for your donation of any amount!   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Mike Bechtle reviews differences between extroverts and introverts and why we need both to share the gospel. He encourages us to evangelize like Jesus meeting people right where they are and praying for God's help to share His truth. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29

If you're a Christian who struggles with feelings of inadequacy when it comes to evangelism or guilt for not doing more to share your faith, listen in as Dr. Mike Bechtle offers encouragement, explaining why there's no prescribed method that's ‘best,' and that God can use your unique personality to accomplish the same goal. (Part 1 of 2)   Receive Dr. Mike Bechtle's book Evangelism for the Rest of Us and the audio download of the broadcast "Using Your Unique Personality to Share Your Faith" for your donation of any amount!   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Are you a reluctant evangelist? Dr. Mike Bechtle describes his struggles sharing his faith as an introvert. He explores many misperceptions about evangelism and how a team approach is the best witness for Christ! To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29

- "San Diego Father AND Child Arrested in School Violence Threat" - MIKE BECHTLE: "The Introvert's Guide to Success - in the Workplace and in Life!" - "IN-n-OUT BURGER Makes a SHOCKING REVELATION About CLOSING A STORE for the First Time in the 75-Year History of the Company" - "Is it Possible for a Christian to SUPPORT the DEFUND THE POLICE Movement When Yet ANOTHER CORRUPT POLITICIAN is Charged with Falsifying Records to PAY FOR HER OWN PRIVATE SECURITY?"

Are you an introvert feeling pressure to be an extrovert to succeed in the workplace? Dr. Mike Bechtle says that you do not need to compromise who you are to reach your full potential in the workplace and there are ways to highlight and capitalize on your unique strengths. If the workday is overshadowed by the expectations of others, Mike shares a few tools to help you thrive and not just survive at work.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Comedian Kenn Kington helps us to see the funny side of life. Whether traveling by plane or by car, situations arise that can produce frustration or laughter, and Kenn encourages us to choose joy whenever possible. Then Dr. Mike Bechtle explores some of the common family angst that can happen when extended family members gather, especially during the holiday season. He'll offer practical advice about how to cope and get along better within appropriate boundaries.   Receive a CD of "Seeing the Funny Side of Life" for your donation of any amount!   Imperfect Kids, Imperfect Parents   Receive a copy of People Can't Drive You Crazy if You Don't Give Them the Keys for your donation of any amount!   Handling Holiday Conflict with Family   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

So, could you use a laugh? On a Best of 2023 edition of Focus on the Family, comedian Kenn Kington shares observational humor about marriage and family. Tune in to hear stories about Kenn's wife Heather, the messy joy of having three kids, and the challenges of air travel. Your spirits will be lifted! Also, As your family gathers to celebrate holidays and beautiful traditions, you may be facing some conflict and drama. Dr. Mike Bechtle helps you navigate difficult conversations with friends and family so you can enjoy those get-togethers and special times. You'll learn some practical ways to get along better and set appropriate boundaries. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29

Dr. Mike Bechtle helps you learn to navigate difficult conversations and stressful conditions with friends and family so you can enjoy those get-togethers and special times. You'll learn some practical ways to cope and get along better within appropriate boundaries.   Receive the book People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Given Them the Keys and a free audio download of “Healthy Ways to Interact With Extended Family” for your donation of any amount! Right now, you can DOUBLE YOUR DOLLARS to GIVE FAMILIES HOPE through our YEAR-END MATCH provided by generous friends of the ministry.   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

As your family gathers to celebrate holidays and beautiful traditions, you may be facing some conflict and drama. Dr. Mike Bechtle helps you navigate difficult conversations with friends and family so you can enjoy those get-togethers and special times. You'll learn some practical ways to get along better and set appropriate boundaries. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29

Dr. James Patrick is back with us for Bible Q&A and an update on all that is happening in Israel. Dr. James E. Patrick grew up in the Pacific where his family supported Bible translation. He completed degrees in biblical studies at Cambridge and Oxford Universities, with a doctoral thesis on 1-2 Samuel, and has published research on both the Old and New Testament. To wrap up today's show, Dr. Mike Bechtle joins the conversation to talk about his book The Introvert's Guide to Success in the Workplace: Becoming Confident in a Culture of Extroverted Expectations. Dr. Mike Bechtle is the best-selling author of eight books including People Can’t Drive You Crazy If You Don’t Give Them the Keys. He has sold over 475,000 copies of his books and spent over 30 years as a FranklinCovey consultant (teaching over 3000 seminars).See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When your beliefs are challenged at work, plus how introverts can win on the job, and balancing your priorities with your family's needs.   Featured musical artist: Nathan Tasker   Roundtable: When Your Workplace Challenges Your Convictions (Part 1)   Managing the daily grind at work is hard enough, but it's particularly challenging when the environment is hostile to your faith and convictions. It's not unheard of to see Christians ridiculed, canceled, pressured or even fired for standing up for what they believe. How should this kind of workplace culture be navigated? Our guests come from fields in education, medicine, mental health and the corporate world, and have experienced ideological challenges on the job. They spark a great discussion on how to stay true to your convictions in an increasingly hostile world.      Leave Us a Voicemail   Culture: Introverts at Work   Are extroverts more successful in their careers? Listening to workplace lore, you'd assume that it's easier for extroverts to get ahead, make friends, influence others, and be recognized on the job. Sometimes that's true — but introverts, take heart. Introvert Dr. Mike Bechtle says that introverts have unique gifts and temperaments that can spell success on the job. Whether you're an introvert or you want to better understand your introverted friends and coworkers, you'll be encouraged by this discussion.   The Introvert's Guide to Success in the Workplace: Becoming Confident in a Culture of Extroverted Expectations    Inbox: When Your Family Needs You   You want to focus on your own projects, priorities and friendships, but your family sometimes needs your help. How should you respond when things feel out of balance? Counselor Linda Miller gives a few tips. 

Looking for some new ways to romance your wife? Greg and Erin are joined by Dr. Mike Bechtle to talk about how you can bring romance back to your marriage. Plus, Greg and Erin will give some ideas for intimacy and romance in your marriage!   Click here to get the book I Wish He Had Come With Instructions for a gift of any amount!   Are you having trouble communicating how you feel to your spouse. Try out the Feelings Wheel!   Do you want to become the expert on your spouse? Check out these conversation starters!    Want to learn more about how important intimacy in marriage is? Watch this video series!    We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

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People-pleasing may seem like a selfless act, but did you know it can actually harm you and others? As we continue our conversation with Dr. Mike Bechtle on how to combat people-pleasing behaviour.

We all know that there are differences between men and women, but how do we use them to strengthen our relationship? Dr. Mike Bechtle joins Greg and Erin to discuss some biological differences between men and women and how he and his wife have learned to best communicate with each other. Plus, we'll hear from newlywed, Saundra Mena, on how she and her husband worked through their gender differences in marriage!   Receive the book I Wish He Had Come With Instructions for your donation of any amount!   The Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment is designed to evaluate the strength of 12 essential traits of your marriage. Do you know your marriage's strengths and weaknesses?   Visit our store for a copy of the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance.   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Speaking can be pretty intimidating for introverts. In fact, you might be under the impression that all successful professional speakers are extroverts. After all, isn't getting up on a stage the ultimate example of being a “people person”? As a matter of fact, introverts can be great public speakers–and they often bring something unique to the stage. This week, the Speaker Lab founder Grant Baldwin (who is actually an introvert!) sat down with Dr. Mike Bechtle (another introvert!) for an episode dedicated entirely to introverts and public speaking.Dr. Bechtle's career spans many fields: ministry, teaching college, writing books, and decades of work for a renowned coaching company. Now retired, he's focusing on growing his platform as an author and speaker. You've probably seen his name in the “inspirational books'' section, where his best-selling works on communication, and interpersonal relationships reside. In a few months, you'll be able to read his upcoming book about how introverts can succeed in the workplace. If there's an expert on empowering introverts to communicate confidently, it's Dr. Bechtle. And if you're an introvert hesitant to launch your speaking business because you think your personality is holding you back, what Dr. Bechtle has to say is sure to help you take the leap. Many introverts think that they need to change their personality or copy the flashy, theatrical extroverts to perform well on stage but that couldn't be further from the truth. Introverts actually have a particular advantage as speakers, given their characteristic intentionality and drive to create impact. Your deep thinking and empathetic nature as an introvert enables you to effect real change for your audience. In Episode 441, Dr. Bechtle shares how to get comfortable in your own skin while succeeding as a speaker. You'll also learn all about: When to hire a professional coach to help you lean into your strengths.Why being introverted doesn't affect your ability to match your energy to any size audience.How to mix and mingle with your audience and avoid burnout.How to engage emotionally with your listeners. Strategies for blocking out time to recharge at your events.…and so much more!Quotable Quote: “Introverts, they're not as loud and boisterous and flashy, but they impact people and give them hope that they can do something different that they didn't think they could change 20 minutes ago.”Episode Resources:Mike's Website14 Success Hacks for Introverted SpeakersBook a Call with The Speaker LabSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet Booked & Paid To SpeakGet a FREE Copy of The Successful SpeakerSpeaker Fee CalculatorSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to the Word Made Digital Podcast!--- The art of person-to-person communication; like, how do we actually talk to people and with people? Why can this be so hard sometimes, or so one-sided?How do you join a conversation that's already happening at a party? Is it rude to enter or exit a group already talking at a party? Why do people care that you know and use their names? How can you do verbal martial arts to get out of awkward conversations?This week we're talking to a 30-year expert on training in the art of interpersonal communication. Dr. Mike Bechtel will give us some practical insights for introverts AND extroverts to improve our communication skills, be more self-aware, and build relationships by serving others.---Listen to our weekly episodes of the podcast: Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/xw8k2t2rApple Music: https://tinyurl.com/ytms6na7Google: https://tinyurl.com/bjraf4vy---Learn more about Dr. Mike Bechtle:Instagram: @mikebechtleWebsite: https:/www.mikebechtle.com/---Learn more about Word Made Digital:Website: https://www.wordmadedigital.com/Connect with us on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/fsycm98mJoin our Facebook Group "Digital Church": https://tinyurl.com/hfwuecm9---Thank you to our sponsors:Compassion Canada: https://www.compassion.ca/​​​ Canadian Bible Society: https://biblesociety.ca/---Music: "Good Morning" by Laxcity Musicbed Licensed

Overcoming the fear of commitment, plus tips for being a better communicator, and is asking a guy out for coffee too forward?Featured musical artist:  David Dunn Roundtable: Overcoming the Fear of CommitmentShould I take that job? Can I serve in this ministry? Is it time to pop the question? It's good to ask such questions, but they can also spark a reluctance to commit. Deciding to commit to something or someone can be an intimidating thing, but if you don't want to sit on the sidelines of life, at some point you have to make a decision. Our guests share examples of how they've struggled with commitment and suggest ways to use discernment when making a choice.Culture: Improving Your ConversationsFor any healthy relationship, communication is key — and Dr. Mike Bechtle has worked for years to help us do it well. In our interview, he'll address ways to handle conflict, how to ask good questions, and how to “gain more weight” in what you say.Inbox: Should I Ask Him Out?  She attends a megachurch but finds it tough to have conversations with single guys since they're involved in different activities. Should she take matters into her own hands and ask one or more out for coffee? Lisa Anderson weighs in.

Dr. Mike Bechtle wants to help people communicate better, especially in our social media world where everybody is talking all at once and nobody is listening. Mike explains we need “more weight” or value to our communication in order to be heard, and he talked about how we can use emotion in positive ways to energize our conversations. (Part 2 of 2)Receive the book "It's Better to Bite Your Tongue Than Eat Your Words" and the audio download of the broadcast "Making Helpful Changes to Your Communication" for your donation of any amount! And now through a special matching opportunity, your gift will be DOUBLED, dollar for dollar: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-11-21?refcd=1518803Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/making-helpful-changes-in-your-communication-part-2-of-2/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dr. Mike Bechtle wants to help people communicate better, especially in our social media world where everybody is talking all at once and nobody is listening. Mike explains we need “more weight” or value to our communication in order to be heard, and he talked about how we can use emotion in positive ways to energize our conversations. (Part 1 of 2)Receive the book "It's Better to Bite Your Tongue Than Eat Your Words" and the audio download of the broadcast "Making Helpful Changes to Your Communication" for your donation of any amount! And now through a special matching opportunity, your gift will be DOUBLED, dollar for dollar: http://focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-11-21?refcd=1518204Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/making-helpful-changes-in-your-communication-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dr. Mike Bechtle talks about communication break-downs and the huge difference between communicating effectively and a monologue and why we may be delivering monologues most of the time. Dr. Bechtle will talk about listening for understanding. He will also talk about communicating where our heart is at the moment.

In this broadcast, Dr. Mike Bechtle helps listeners avoid the trap of people pleasing in order to develop healthier relationships with others. Book by guest: The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself.

In this broadcast, Dr. Mike Bechtle helps listeners avoid the trap of people pleasing in order to develop healthier relationships with others. Book by guest: The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself.

Why do people drive you crazy? What do you do to let them?

In this broadcast, Dr. Mike Bechtle helps listeners avoid the trap of people pleasing in order to develop healthier relationships with others. (Part 2 of 2) Receive the book "The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-06-01?refcd=1419401 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/giving-up-people-pleasing-for-a-better-way-to-live-part-2-of-2/#featured-resource-cta If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

In this broadcast, Dr. Mike Bechtle helps listeners avoid the trap of people pleasing in order to develop healthier relationships with others. (Part 1 of 2) Receive the book "The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-06-01?refcd=1419401 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/giving-up-people-pleasing-for-a-better-way-to-live-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-cta If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Gender differences may drive you crazy, but those differences can give you a richer, more fulfilling marriage! Mike Bechtle offers an insider's perspective on how men think, act, and why they do what they do!

When the person you like isn't attracted to you, plus hope for people-pleasers, and how to respond to a single pastor's romantic interest. Featured musical artist: Covenant Worship ( https://covenantchurch.org/whatwedo/worship/ ) Roundtable: When Attraction Isn't Mutual You happen to really like someone, but as you get to know them it becomes clear that the feelings of attraction aren't mutual. Should you hold on to the hope that their feelings will change, or is it safer to just move on? Our panel shares ideas for navigating the awkwardness and disappointment of unrequited love, and how you can find peace even when someone doesn't like you back. Culture: Taming the People-Pleasing Monster (Part 2) People-pleasers abound. In fact, if you're honest, you probably are one. People-pleasers do the hard work, hoping someone will notice or give us a compliment for our efforts. Or we never say “no,” afraid to face disapproval or rejection. But constantly looking for approval will only leave us feeling used and depleted. Dr. Mike Bechtle shares how he's struggled with and learned to stop trying to live for the approval of others. In part two of our discussion, he'll share some practical tips for overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. Inbox: My Pastor Wants to Date Me She just moved and started attending a young adults group at her new church. However, the pastor is a single guy who has started showing interest in her. She appreciates his attention, but isn't interested in dating right now. How should she respond? Counselor MT Wilson weighs in.

Making time for rest, plus common fears of a people-pleaser, and should you and your spouse have separate bank accounts? Featured musical artist: David Baloche ( https://www.louderthanthemusic.com/product.php?id=2437 ) Roundtable: How to Rest Well Your to-do list is full and it seems like you don't have enough time to catch your breath. Are you taking on too much? Are your priorities off? Maybe you don't know the difference between “checking out” and getting true restorative rest. Our guests share ways they've learned to practice self-care and rest well, even with busy lives. Culture: Taming the People-Pleasing Monster (Part 1) People-pleasers abound. In fact, if you're honest, you probably are one. People-pleasers do the hard work, hoping someone will notice or give us a compliment for our efforts. Or we never say “no,” afraid to face disapproval or rejection. But constantly looking for approval will only leave us feeling used and depleted. Dr. Mike Bechtle shares how he's struggled with and learned to stop trying to live for the approval of others. In part one of our discussion, he'll share the common fears that people-pleasers face. Inbox: Separate Finances in Marriage? She and her boyfriend are close to getting engaged, but she's troubled by some of his requests. Years ago, he went through a tough divorce where he lost a lot. Now, he's wanting to have separate bank accounts and has even mentioned her signing a prenuptial agreement. What's the best way for her to respond to these concerns? Counselor Glenn Lutjens weighs in.

If you’re having trouble talking about something in your family, you may be facing the “elephant in the room.” With guest Dr Mike Bechtle, we’ll explain how healthy communication is a lot like dancing — moving in sync with the other person toward a common goal of understanding. Learn how to avoid communication breakdown.

Kevin spoke with Dr. Mike Bechtle , author of “The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself”.

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