Dr. Leslie Inspires

You don't want to miss this episode when the Author of the book, Grace to Climb Mountains, and her brother El candidly share their point of view of dealing with a childhood of deception and emotional abuse. This is their first podcast together as they share differing opinions about how they were raised. Mental health was not popular during their childhood years, but after listening to their reflections from the book, one would gather that there may have been some undiagnosed and underlying mental health issues in their household, but you dare not speak of it! The Author, Marie Weaver shares her reflections on being raised in the same household as El, and El definitely did not like the fact that their mother used a closet to create his bedroom. Why? You have to tune in to find out more about their childhood of deception and emotional abuse.

If you missed our last conversation with Christian last week, you must go back and listen to that podcast. Christian talks about how his conversation with his Dad was pretty much non existent but the beauty of it all is how he introduced him to music. Music is his connection with his father and music is what Christian loves. You must listen to this week's podcast to hear the details!

In this week's episode, we have a conversation with Christian who is no stranger to Dr. Leslie Inspires. Our conversation is a follow up conversation with him from his initial interview that was done 3 years ago when Christian was age 22. We listen to a piece of that initial interview to jog his memory about some of the things that were said, then we start our new conversation. You want to listen to hear how different his conversation is today. Tune in!

Jay is a young man who has come to grips with the  non-existent relationship between him and his father. He expresses how he felt when his father said some very unkind words about him to his mother without knowing that Jay, his son was listening. Those words forever changed Jay. Listen to this week's episode to find how Jay handled the situation after hearing those words.

Navy CSSR Coleman was at home working everyday and did not like where his life was headed. Ultimately he  decided to change his trajectory by joining the Navy.  He talks about the effectiveness of encouraging your son opposed to yelling at him in order to help motivate him. Tune in to this week's episode to hear some of the strategies and tips that he provides!

Trevelle is a young man transitioning into adulthood and now finding out what the responsibilities of becoming a man actually look like. He also gives mothers and sons some strategies and tactics that could keep your relationship in a good place. Tune in to this week's episode!

Sometimes we don't always know the impact of what not having a relationship with our children will have on them. Yes, we are all busy, and time is of the essence. But this conversation with Shakiah will shake you to your core if you listen to it until the end as she expresses her hearts desires to her biological parents that she desires to have a relationship with. There are things that she says about how she feels but cannot say it to her biological parents but felt very free to express herself on this podcast with hopes they will hear it and take action. Listen to this episode to hear the tips that Shakiah gives to all mothers and fathers in hopes they will take action! 

A character analyst compiled a  list of the most commonly used alabis. As you listen to the list, examine yourself carefully, and determine how many of these alabis, if any, you tell yourself daily. We cling to our alabis because we create them about ourselves and about our sons. Building alabis is a deeply rooted habit that may be difficult to break. Tune in to this week's podcast for encouragement and inspiration to keep plowing forward!!

You must hear this short and candid message from Justin to all Mothers. Although Justin is definitely a talker in person, he got straight to the point with his message. Listen in to this week's podcast to hear what Justin has to say.

Ms. Pam is no stranger to Dr. Leslie Inspires. She is a candid speaker who does not mind helping others by telling her Truth. Her Truth she tells in this episode is sure to make you look at your situation in a more positive light. She had struggles with her son just like many of you. But, today, she would love to have those struggles rather than what she has now. Tune in and listen to Ms. Pam's story!

Dr. Ethel talks about the consequences of rejection and abandonment in the lives of women and the impact it has on the relationship with their son. Dr. Ethel will also address the relationship she had with her own biological father. Get ready, get ready, get ready to hear what the Holy Spirit is saying this week!

God's healing helped Dr. Ethel to prioritize her relationship with God. Along with her improved healing came an improved relationship with her adult children as she gave them back to God...they are his anyway. Listen to this week's podcast with Dr. Ethel.

I have known Caleb since he was in 8th grade when, as an only child, everything was about him. After graduation, Caleb went to stay with his grandmother to get job and to help take care of her. May I say, it was not all that Caleb thought it was going to be. But in the meantime and between time, the Lord was growing him up... because now he had to truly take care of and care for another human being that he loved. Listen to this episode to see how Caleb's experiences helped him to grow from a boy to a man.

This young man is my son, Jeffery. I am very proud of Jeffery. As he is transitioning into adulthood and majoring in Agriculture at Tennessee State University in Nashville on a full scholarship. He is learning so much after only one semester there. We want to expose more people to the possibilities at TSU and other 1890 land grant institutions that offer scholarships. Please tune in and listen to some of the information that Jeffery has learned!

You will want to hear the conversation with this young man with an Old Soul. He touches on so many pain points that many of our males deal with today but find it difficult to articulate. As a young man it may have been challenging for Mr. G to recognize that he yearned for the love of his mother as well as a relationship with her. His relationship with his father was strong but that is not what he wanted and he believes many of the bumps and bruises that he experienced in life may have been because of that unmet need. Tune in to this episode to hear what Mr. G has to say. You may find yourself somewhere! Tune in!

Much of the information shared by DeShane is his journey on how he came to recognize, understand and free himself from his difficult relationship with his mother. He also talks about how his relationship with his father was strengthened as a result of his tumultuous relationship with his mother. DeShane will give you some tips on how you can get through whether you are the mother or the son. Listen closely!!!

In this episode, we have a conversation with a man who has taught himself how to love his mom despite how he feels she has treated him in the past and even now. Shane speaks candidly and gives witty ideas on what mothers and sons can do to help free themselves from difficult mother- son relationships. You will be glad you listened to this episode whether it is for yourself or to listen and share the information with someone else who may be having the same types of struggles.

This week's episode is a conversation with who we affectionately call, "Poppa Fred." Fred Oliver reveals how he ended up leaving his mother's house at the tender age of 16 thinking that it was his time. Fred also tells us how he ended up meeting all 22 of his father's children. Fred is the oldest of them all. Seventy-seven year old Poppa Fred also leaves mothers with the wisdom they need to start the transformation process with their son. You don't want to miss this episode.

Last year was a challenging year for many of us, but we got through it. The sound on this podcast is a little low, but please listen carefully, because I share some of my personal challenges that I had encountered this year. Although I feel broken by those challenges, I also feel spiritually stronger and I feel closer to God as a result. Did you experience anything in 2022 that broke you? If so, you need to listen to this week's episode and renew your strength.

Cam is a frequent podcast guest on the Dr. Leslie Inspires Show. He provides helpful tips to mothers whose children have different fathers and they struggle with balancing the different children and their fathers and all of the expectations in between. You will want to hear what Cam has to say.

While Moms can busy themselves thinking, worrying, supporting, disciplining, and empowering everyone around them, sometimes the priority needs to be managing yourself. Tune into this short episode to learn why! Join us in our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

In this episode, we follow up 1 year later with our guest Sabrina to hear how her relationship with a "gangster" is going and how this impacts her family dynamics. If you missed part 1, click here to take a listen. Share your thoughts on this episode in our private Facebook group, The Son Rescue Method.  

You put a lot of time and energy into raising your son. So now you're taking it personally when the man your son has become is not who you expected him to become. But God has a plan and we have to trust him. In this episode, we explore how to deal with these unmet expectations and the realization that it is not about YOU. Listen now. If your relationship with your son is the source of stress in your life right now, I encourage you to schedule a free breakthrough session with me. In this session, we will: 1. Gain clarity on your current challenges with your Son and what is holding you back from reclaiming your peace
 2. Gain clarity on the type of relationship you actually want to have with your Son and what needs to happen to get there
 3. Together, we will create a strategy to overcome your current challenges and achieve your life and relationship goals
 Visit the link to learn more: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

Maybe what you're doing for your son is not sustainable for you? That's a profound truth that many mothers slowly come to. When you continue attempting to be super Mom and doing everything for your son, there is an expected end. In this episode, we'll get into what that means. Tune in! If you find yourself struggling or overwhelmed with your relationship with your son, I invite you to schedule a free breakthrough session with me. In this session, we will: 1. Gain clarity on your current challenges with your Son and what is holding you back from reclaiming your peace
 2. Gain clarity on the type of relationship you actually want to have with your Son and what needs to happen to get there
 3. Together, we will create a strategy to overcome your current challenges and achieve your life and relationship goals
 Visit the link to learn more: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

The expectations and responsibilities of being the oldest child can be extremely high. This not only impacts the child, but also the mother-son relationship. In this episode, I speak with JT who is the oldest of 5 children. He shares his experience and answers some tough questions that Moms have wondered but don't always have the opportunity to ask their own son and receive a candid answer. Tune in! Are you ready to explore ways to improve your relationship with your son? I invite you to schedule a free breakthrough session with me. The Breakthrough Session is a 60 minute free coaching session where I'll help you: - Gain clarity on your current challenges with your Son and what is holding you back from reclaiming your peace - Gain clarity on the type of relationship you actually want to have with your Son and what needs to happen to get there - Together, we will create a strategy to overcome your current challenges and achieve your life and relationship goals Schedule here: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

I want to know if you recognize yourself in this conversation. "Ms. Call Me Again" is the Mom who is playing the role of both Mother and Father, and she's very involved in her son's school life. I have advice for Ms. Call Me Again that will help her reduce stress and bring more peace into her life. Tune in! Schedule your free breakthrough session with me by visiting the link: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

In this very special, funny, yet serious interview I speak with an alter-ego of sorts, Ms. De'Nial. Some of you may recognize her comments as your own words. Tune in to listen to the advice I share with Ms. De'Nial to learn how you can apply it to your own situation. Schedule a free breakthrough session with me at the link below: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

In the previous episode, we talked about the Mother's tongue as a flame of fire. In this episode, we continue our exploration of the tongue or words as a powerful tool to be used wisely. Tune in! Schedule a free breakthrough session with me by visiting the following link: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

As the old saying goes, there is power in the tongue. While we shape our Sons and guide them in how to live and behave, God is the one guiding us as Mothers. In this episode, I go into the scripture to share the ways in which a Mother's tongue is a flame of fire that must be used for good. Schedule a free breakthrough session with me for support in transforming your relationship with your Son. https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

In an interview with Ms. Tiana in my Pandemic Mom to Chrysalis Mom group, she shared her experience being a part of a blended family. Supported by other Moms in the group, this episode is a Must-Listen! If you are a Mom navigating blended families or the challenges of motherhood, I invite you to join our private Facebook group. https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

Turning 18 is a great milestone that our children experience. When my Son turned 18, I gathered his family to share words of wisdom. I wanted to share these gems with you to share with the young people in your life as they move forward to the next chapter. Tune in and enjoy!

I was recently featured on the SoloMoms! Talk podcast with host J. Rosemarie. This is a repost of our conversation. Enjoy! From SoloMoms! Talk: Dr. Leslie Pledger inspires moms raising sons to build better relationships with them. As a member of the school staff and having her own private school, Dr. Leslie saw firsthand the devastating effect of sons bearing the brunt of an absent father. It's the reason she focuses her efforts on helping moms not only rebuild stronger mother-son relationships but also, her process forces moms to see the very important role they play in the lives of their sons. Dr. Leslie is the host of Dr. Leslie Inspires podcast. J. Rosemarie Links to all things SoloMoms! Talk: https://jrosemarie.ck.page/1ea4390ad5

Motherhood is a dream of many women, but sometimes it happens in the way GOD has intended and not in the way you expected. In this interview, my guest LaHoma shares her experience as a foster parent and the process that comes along with it. I'd love to hear from you! Schedule a free breakthrough session with me. Click the link to apply: https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

In this episode, I share space and have an insightful conversation with a fellow podcaster, J. Rosemarie of SoloMoms! Talk Podcast. She shares what it means to be a solo Mom, how her personal experience led her to a discovery group at church that expanded her viewpoint of motherhood and eventually inspired her to start the podcast. This is a powerful conversation where we go deep into the issues many solo Moms can relate to. You can learn more about J. Rosemarie and listen to her podcast at the following link: https://www.solomoms-talk.com/podcast

Educator Donita Al Amin joins Mr. Wayne and I to discuss how her divorce after 18 years impacted her children and how she handled the adjustments. Her own experience dealing with divorce and the family dynamic afterwards allowed her to support the students at her school who were dealing with challenging family dynamics of their own. Tune in to gain from the wisdom she acquired along the journey. Do you have a unique situation in your household that you'd like expert insight on? Apply for a free breakthrough session with me. https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

Raising your Son to follow God's word can sometimes feel challenging, especially when you're unsure if he's listening. But it's when they're out living and experiencing life on their own that the lessons you instilled in him begin to really kick in. In this interview with my former student Tysheem Ransom, he shares how a difficult relationship experienced played out and how the lessons he learned as a student at Solid Foundation Christian Academy in Georgia resurfaced. Tune in to hear life from the perspective of a twenty-something black male and prepare to be enlightened! Want to schedule a free breakthrough session with me? Click the link to apply. https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

A lot of the behavioral issues present in our men today started when they were young. In the school system, I met many Mothers who scoffed at the behavior problems of their young Sons when brought to their attention. It's not until it's too late that women recognize the issue. But not my guest in today's episode. Sharon Oliver reminisces on an instance where her Son's life could have taken a completely different direction. Tune in to find out what happened and how she handled the situation to prevent him from ending up in JAIL. Want to create a strategy to better handle your relationship with your son? Schedule a free breakthrough call with me. https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

In my interview with Licensed Professional Counselor and Founder of iCan! Think Positive Counseling & Coaching Tinita Simmons, she shares her motivation for starting the Georgia based organization. "My desire is that you can begin to transform out of a negative frame of mind to perceiving life as overflowing with opportunities and solutions in place of fears and uncertainties. Having a positive attitude is a choice. Your thoughts create the passageway to your future." Tune in to the episode to learn how to transform your life and relationships through mindset. Schedule a free 1:1 breakthrough session with me. The Breakthrough Session is a 60 minute free coaching session where I'll help you: Gain clarity on your current challenges with your Son and what is holding you back from reclaiming your peace Gain clarity on the type of relationship you actually want to have with your Son and what needs to happen to get there Together, we will create a strategy to overcome your current challenges and achieve your life and relationship goals https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

As a Mom, I know you wear many hats and you put a lot of energy into making sure your Son has what he needs and is moving toward fulfilling his purpose in life. Through that focus, sometimes your own purpose and fulfillment gets lost or pushed to the wayside. In this episode, I share strategies for discovering your life's purpose and regaining a focus on what YOU want out of life. Schedule a free 1:1 breakthrough session with me. The Breakthrough Session is a 60 minute free coaching session where I'll help you: Gain clarity on your current challenges with your Son and what is holding you back from reclaiming your peace Gain clarity on the type of relationship you actually want to have with your Son and what needs to happen to get there Together, we will create a strategy to overcome your current challenges and achieve your life and relationship goals   https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

In this solo episode, I'm sharing with you reflections of 2021 and how we're moving forward with strength under God's grace. Schedule your free breakthrough session for 1:1 coaching with me. The Breakthrough Session is a 60 minute free coaching session where I'll help you: Gain clarity on your current challenges with your Son and what is holding you back from reclaiming your peace Gain clarity on the type of relationship you actually want to have with your Son and what needs to happen to get there Together, we will create a strategy to overcome your current challenges and achieve your life and relationship goals https://www.drleslieinspires.com/breakthrough-call

I interview a married couple in this episode, where the husband Eric provides insight on what he learned from his Mother, what his family structure growing up taught him, and how his upbringing impacts his marriage and the way he is now raising his kids. Are you looking for a supportive community of like-minded Mothers who are also raising sons? Join us in our private Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

Over the past few years, many families have experienced their adult children moving back home. But during the pandemic, this trend expanded exponentially. In this episode, my guest, Author Dr. Lane shares her experience of having adult move back home. In our private Facebook group, you can share more insight with like-minded Mothers. Click here to join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

Looking back on his experience of moving out prematurely, living in his car, and searching for direction as a young man, my guest Christian found his way and can now look back and take accountability. In this episode, he shares how these difficult experiences shaped him and how his relationship with his mother played a part in everything. Explore this conversation further with a community of like-minded mothers in our private Facebook group. Click the link to join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

In my episode with Hakim, we discuss the relationship dynamics between him and his Mom, how she inspired his career path, the role of therapy, and much more. This is an open and honest conversation where Moms can get a different point of view from the mind of a son. To share your point of view with likeminded women, please join us in our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

In this episode, I speak to someone who is not new to our community, Author Theresa Simpson. She shares her journey to becoming an author, the fact that we all have a story within us, and how we can tap into those stories within. Tune in for this inspiring story!   If you are ready for transformation in your life, I invite you to join me and a community of likeminded Mothers in our private Facebook group. Click the link below to learn more. https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

Unhealthy relationship patterns can happen in all types of relationships. When it happens between Mothers and Sons, it can go both ways. In this episode, we discuss how narcissistic behavior and gaslighting can happen and what signs to look out for.   Have you experienced anything similar in your relationships? Join our private Facebook group to share your experience and connect with like-minded Mothers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

After spending years in prison for a crime he was convicted of by association, Eric Thomas shares his story about going from prison to the path of redemption from a son's point of view.   To join in this conversation with like-minded mothers, we invite you to our private Facebook group. https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

In this special episode with Ms. Doris who has been a long time friend and supporter of Dr. Leslie Inspires, she shares the differences between experiences and wisdom from her 93 year old vantage point. To continue the convo and share your point of view, join us in the private Facebook group. Click the link to join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

In this candid conversation with licensed therapist Theresa Simpson, she shares a heart wrenching experience that happened to her son who was falsely imprisoned for a crime he did not commit. She realized God had been preparing her for what was to come and how he got her through it. This is part 1 of a story of hope and redemption. Tune in! To engage in the conversation, join us in our private Facebook group. Click the link to join. https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

Our guest Kam shares his experience of being confronted with a shocking health crisis at a young age and how it helped him set his life on a new path. In this conversation, Kam shares insight on the issues mothers are NOT aware they are facing with their sons and how to handle them.   To join the conversation, we invite you into our private Facebook group. Click the link to join us! https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method

Communication is the cornerstone of all relationships. We cannot change the way the people we are speaking to receive what we are saying, but we can work to ensure the way WE communicate is effective. In this conversation with Rochelle Rivers, we get into how to be better communicators to improve our relationships with our sons. Join us in our private Facebook to connect with like-minded Mothers. https://www.facebook.com/groups/son.rescue.method