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Pornography has been the primary blame for many relationship problems. Fingers get pointed. Feelings get hurt. Doors get slammed. Psychologist and sex therapist David Ley, PhD believes pornography gets the blame because it is the “big, sexy, shiny object” that grabs the focus when a relationship is feeling bumpy. Ley says pornography is really just a symptom of other underlying issues that are not being discussed. In fact, he says pornography can be a great resource that can introduce novelty and new ideas to a couple's sexy life if it's viewed together. He and Ali also talk about why men seem to use it so much, the importance of communication and, hot tip, there is feminist porn out there.   If you have questions or guest suggestions, Ali would love to hear from you. Call or text her at (323) 364-6356. Or email go-ask-ali-podcast-at-gmail.com. (No dashes) Links of Interest: Dr. David Ley Instagram Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure Is Watching Porn Right for You (Psychology Today) A Beginner's Guide to Watching Feminist Porn (Vice) The Top Ethical Porn Sites that Are Inclusive and Empowering (Glamour UK) Common Sense About the Effects of Pornography (Psychology Today) Porn Addiction See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“I think it's so important that you have conversations with people on the podcast and you publish it [so] people can experience different people, basically different voices, different ways of thinking.” ~Izzy It's fascinating how the common thread of each of these 5x5 conversations varies. Matthew, Inma and me speak a lot about space, place and the gift economy. Reddy and me have been travelling within and without, visiting the Himalayas and native lands, food and languages. A journey in the footsteps of Andy's quickly growing creative-babies (13 songs born just before we had our first conversation). There's been some deeply personal and creative explorations with Steve, and with Izzy, well, intimacy is it. This conversation is no different, even though we take a slightly different slant, and get a bit more explicit here. Like the difference between the hypersexualized world we live in, a world I perceive as zoomed in, in-my-face, explicit. The in-and-out:ness of porn, in a Duracell Bunny-hyped energy that… just doesn't get my juices flowing. Counter that with what does; something much more sensual, erotica which feels more zoomed out, with a lot of allure, a dance between light and shadow, leaving a lot to my own imagination. Luckily, I get to choose, and so do you. Like Izzy says, we're all different! She also points to something that is rarely spoken about: the benefits of pleasureable sex. “There is research that proves that having sex, enjoyable sex, sex that allows you to explore your own and your partner's pleasures, sex that is consensual, has a positive impact on your health.” ~Izzy She calls it 'the discovery of our pleasures' which brings a smile to my face. Perhaps because that phrase opens pleasure up (way) beyond sex? Or the other way around, opens sex up to be more than I have labelled it to be? The sensuality of ordinary life suddenly takes on a whole new tint and tone… mmm. I like it! Tag along for a ride that will certainly give you a tankespjärn or two. Links: Izzy can be found through RedCheeks Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer Esther Perel, author of the book Mating in Captivity Process-oriented therapy with Dominic Bosman Venter Women who run with the wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés Operant conditioning and classical conditioning Kinsey, the movie Skarhult Castle and previous exhibitions on lovers and mistresses Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure by David J. Ley

The Heart of Jacks PodcastEpisode #8 - Tyler the Bad WolfGuest: Tyler Darlig UlvReleased December 14, 2020 Looking for sponsors in all the right placesAsking an expert about straight JacksAnd talking sex work and the awesomeness of masturbation with Tyler The Bad Wolf Supported by Patreon Segment 1a: Hey sponsors! I'm looking to sell some ad space on the show. If you have a product or service you'd like my listeners to know about, shoot me an email at sponsor@theheartofjacks.com or call 206-580-3120. Segment 1b: Michael, a listener in San Francisco wants to know how I know who the straight members of the Jacks are. I give him my take on it and reason for approaching member sexual orientation the way I do, and then I call in a lifeline in the form of Dr. David Ley, clinical psychologist and sex therapist (you may have seen him on TV or heard him on radio or other podcasts before) and Dr. Ley shares his take… "It's complicated." Segment 2: Tyler The Bad Wolf. Guest, Tyler Darlig Ulv's last name literally translates from the Norwegian as "bad wolf." Tyler is a professional sex worker living in Berlin, a writer, designer and blogger and an ex-New Yorker who I met at NY Jacks. He made an impression and we became friends. I'm thrilled to share our conversation with you. We talk about sex work, NY Jacks, the awesomeness of masturbation and Kylie Minogue! Email the show: podcast@theheartofjacks.comSponsor the show: sponsor@theheartofjacks.comCall the show: 206-580-3120 The Heart of Jacks Podcast, written and produced by Paul RosenbergTheme Music is Carouselophane by Jake Bradford SharpPodcast distribution by Simplecast- - - - -Mentioned in this podcast: Tyler's Links (NSFW)Main site: https://tylerthebadwolf.com/Blog: https://badwolf.blog/Insta: https://www.instagram.com/tylerdarligulv/Twitter: https://twitter.com/tylerthebadwolf Dr. David Ley (web site)Dr. David Ley on Twitter-----Books by Dr. David Ley:Insatiable Wives (2009)The Myth of Sex Addiction (2012)Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure (2016)-----NY Jacks (NSFW)Handobs Magazine (NSFW)Tales From The City, Armisted MaupinTyler Interviews Dad, Creator of Handjobs Magazine (NSFW)Masturbation is Amazing (NSFW)Cockrings: Every Day (NSFW blog entry)Kylie Minogue, DISCOThe CrownThe FavouriteThe Four Agreements

You may only know of cam girls because of internet pop-ups (we won’t tell) or bad jokes. Maybe you’ve always been curious but have held back because of money, exploitation or religious moralizing. Well it’s 2020, working from home has become the usual and our sex worker friends are way ahead of us. Enter Saint Eve, our friendly neighborhood atheist cam girl. While she walks Christy and Vi through cam customer etiquette we’ll be getting ready to take your calls. This is the Atheist Experience Network’s Secular Sexuality on July 2nd. ► Find our beloved Saint at https://saint_eve.cammodels.com/► Learn more by diving deeper into the episode at https://www.vcatx.com/media/sainteveRecommended reading from tonight’s episode-Transgender History (Seal Studies) by Susan Stryke (https://www.amazon.com/Transgender-History-Studies-Susan-Stryker/dp/158005224X) Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More by Janet Mock(https://www.amazon.com/Redefining-Realness-Path-Womanhood-Identity/dp/1476709130)Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us by Kate Bornstein (https://www.amazon.com/Gender-Outlaw-Men-Women-Rest/dp/1101973242) Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure by David J. Ley(https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Porn-Dicks-Responsible-Pleasure/dp/0996485236)

Thank you for listening to Mormon Sex Info. This episode is an archived episode and is only now becoming publicly available. Mormon Sex Info relies on contributions. To contribute, please visit: mormonsex.info Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. David Ley, author of Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure and a return guest on the show. Many people, even members of the LDS church, are moving away from the “porn addiction” framing and rigid expectations of 0% viewing of sexually explicit material. But then the next question inevitably comes up… how do I participate in a behavior that has questionable issues in regards to the industry, my values, ethics, cultural objectification of women in particular and many other legitimate concerns. This interview attempts to address or at least begin a dialogue around some of these topics.  

David’s latest book, Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure (2016) can be ordered here: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Porn-Dicks-Responsible-Pleasure/dp/0996485236/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 David’s The Myth of Sex Addiction (2012) can be found here: https://rowman.com/isbn/9781442213067/the-myth-of-sex-addiction David’s 2012 book, Insatiable Wives: Women who Stray and the Men who Love Them can be found here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Insatiable-Wives-Women-Stray-Love/dp/1442200316 David’s column for Psychology Today can be found here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/experts/david-j-ley-phd David’s writings for the Good Men Project can be found here: https://goodmenproject.com/author/david-j-ley/ You can follow David on Twitter: @DrDavidLey Further References My deep dive into circumcision: https://areomagazine.com/2019/09/24/a-wrong-against-boys-an-impossible-conversation-about-circumcision/ Ang Lee’s film Lust, Caution (2007) David on the no-fap community: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/women-who-stray/201503/the-nofap-phenomenon Timestamps 1:45 Is there such a thing as sex addiction or porn addiction? 20:10 Is there a correlation between pornography use and sexual violence? 25:42 Moral panics around fiction 30:05 Young people watching pornography when they know nothing about real sex 35:55 Aesthetics versus pleasure 43:40 When our body’s impulses don’t correspond with our wishes; disconnects between mind and body 55:20 Men’s and women’s differing responses to porn 58:38 Towards a concept of sexual integrity 1:00:59 The no-fap community 1:06:30 Masturbation

Dr. David Ley is the clinical psychologist I wish I had during my 4 years of sex addicts anonymous recovery. He swears like a sailor and gives extremely well-researched and practical guidance about the most relevant issues to men: Porn. How to approach the porn conversation with your partner in a way she feels safe and you don’t feel judged. Fantasies. How to negotiate sexual desires and accommodation in your relationships. Desire for Others. Why “The Disney Myth” of meeting “The One” and your desires for other partners will go away is BS…and how to navigate that while honoring your partner.   He’s written 3 provocative books: 1.  Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure 2. The Myth of Sex Addiction* *If you’re an Esther Perel fan, she said this was one of the most influential books for her in helping understand 3. Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them   Some of my favorite quotes:  “The person who wants sex least controls the frequency of sex in a relationship. Both parties need to learn how to negotiate for sexual accommodation.” “The people who are struggling with guilt, secrecy and shame around sex…overwhelmingly are struggling with a moral conflict between the sex that they want, and the sex they were taught was ok.”  “Men have a limited range of coping skills to deal with feelings of anxiety. Often its sexuality and drinking.” “We only hear about male sexuality when they are in trouble. We know far more about Donald Trump’s sex life than we do Barack Obama’s. “As the joke goes, a sex addict is anyone who has more sex than their therapist.” “Novelty is really a significant part of sexual arousal. Porn gives men that.” “The healthiest sexual role model is one that incorporates responsible, conscious mindful sexuality, and recognizes and resists the power of shame.   Gentlemen, if you’re committed to creating better sexual experiences for yourself and your partner, listen to this treasure trove of information from Dr. Ley. Ladies, if you’re seeking to understand the conditioning and behavior of the men in your life (including men-in-training) give this a listen.

Sex Addiction has become a modern buzz word that has given powerful men a “Get out of Jail Free” card when they are caught cheating on their wives. We have all seen the famous men that get caught cheating then go to an expensive rehab center to cure them from this “demonic force” that has taken over their lives. It’s happened so many times in the past three decades that it’s become a punch line on shows like South Park. But is Sex Addiction real or a myth and can it be treated? On this podcast we interview an expert on Sexual Addiction, Dr. David Ley. He has become world famous for his critical stance regarding sex addiction but he has the credentials to back it up. Dr. David Ley is a Board-certified sex therapist, supervisor of sex therapy and Director of New Mexico Solutions, a large outpatient mental health and substance abuse program in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He has published three critically-acclaimed books, Insatiable Wives, The Myth of Sexual Addiction and Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure. He is a frequent commentator in media around the world, on shows such as Dr. Phil, Katie Couric, CNN, Playboy and in the Washington Post. Twitter: https://twitter.com/drdavidley

Sex Addiction has become a modern buzz word that has given powerful men a “Get out of Jail Free” card when they are caught cheating on their wives. We have all seen the famous men that get caught cheating then go to an expensive rehab center to cure them from this “demonic force” that has taken over their lives. It’s happened so many times in the past three decades that it’s become a punch line on shows like South Park. But is Sex Addiction real or a myth and can it be treated? On this podcast we interview an expert on Sexual Addiction, Dr. David Ley. He has become world famous for his critical stance regarding sex addiction but he has the credentials to back it up. Dr. David Ley is a Board-certified sex therapist, supervisor of sex therapy and Director of New Mexico Solutions, a large outpatient mental health and substance abuse program in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He has published three critically-acclaimed books, Insatiable Wives, The Myth of Sexual Addiction and Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure. He is a frequent commentator in media around the world, on shows such as Dr. Phil, Katie Couric, CNN, Playboy and in the Washington Post. Twitter: https://twitter.com/drdavidley

  Sex Addiction isn't real. Sex is real. Porn is real. Some other words that are real include diversity, fetus, vulnerable, science-based, evidence-based, entitlement, and transgender. Yes, transgendered people are real. This week it seems the Trump administration decided that these seven words don’t exist and should not be used by the CDC. Whether or not this ban is real, political leaders have been doing this as long as we have had scientific research. Misinformation about reality, or the censoring of reality, can be harmful. Myths about sex can make it difficult for people to feel normal in their sexuality. If they are told that their biological urges are sinful or weird, they can feel a split between sex and themselves. They can see sex as something outside the normal human experience or even outside of their own control. If we as humans label something as uncontrollable, then we may fail to even try to have control over it. Sex addiction is not a real addiction listed in the most recent edition of the DSM, the bible of mental health diagnosis. These individual’s struggles are a failure of logic brought on by shameful views of their own thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. People who self-label as sex addicts have the same amount of sex as people who do not. People who claim to have this addiction feel the need to hold themselves to a standard beyond the normal human condition. They feel amorous, they feel love, they feel horny, and yet they deny these feelings and push them down to hide and deny their own sexuality. They not only feel uncomfortable just talking about sex in a social setting, but can sometimes feel uncomfortable even discussing these topics with their sexual partners. They can literally be having sex with their partner and feel super uncomfortable just discussing birth control and condom usage. Our guest today is clinical psychologist Dr. David J. Ley, Ph.D. and the author of the books Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure, The Myth of Sex Addiction and Insatiable Wives. I also just found out he has a black belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. What the hell? That's awesome. To me, he sounds like the Jason Bourne of the clinical psychology world, saving people from myths and misinformation about sex and relationships. Our discussion with him covers the myths of sex addiction, porn, the CDC’s list of banned words, and so much more.   David J. Ley PhD (@DrDavidLey) on Twitter   About Us: Angela Skurtu is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She is a published author, with her second book releasing in February. About Sex now livestreams episodes on Facebook a week before the podcast episodes come out. Check us out at our new YouTube Channel. // Visit us at: www.aboutsexpodcast.com // Get marriage therapy and sex therapy in the St Louis area with Angela Skurtu LMFT M.Ed., a Licensed Marriage and Sex therapist at: www.therapistinstlouis.com Also, we have facebooks and twitters and all that stuff, but if you read this far i seriously doubt you have time to read any more. Facebook: Angela Skurtu LMFT, M. Ed, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist // Joshua Skurtu

As the new year begins, The Pageist joins Lee to discuss delicious books to curl up with this winter. From hot erotica to invigorating writing to bring excellence to your sex life, they look at their favorite reading from the past year and beyond. Examining the shift from local bookstores to online-megamarts, they compare books and kinky toys, while encouraging everyone to find the best opportunities for learning and inspiration for them. Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122  RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss  Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com  PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio  Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul  Contact The Pageist: Website: http://thepageist.com iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/pageist-bdsm-sex-book-reviews/id1078134480 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thepageist/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ThePageist Email: thepageist@gmail.com Links, Events, People and Movies Mentioned: Mystic Productions Press: http://www.MysticProductionsPress.com Essence of Shibari by Shin Nawakari: https://www.amazon.com/Essence-Shibari-Kinbaku-Japanese-Bondage/dp/1942733852/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Queer Magic Anthology Call: http://www.mysticproductionspress.com/news/queer-magic Dan and Dawn of Erotic Awakening: http://eroticawakening.com Rachel Maddow Fan Page: http://www.maddowfans.com The Barbara Pimm Society: http://www.barbara-pym.org Amazon Smile Charity Program: https://org.amazon.com Arcane's Attic Floggers: http://www.arcanesattic.com PXS (Power Exchange Summit), May 19-21, 2017: http://powerexchangesummit.org The Marketplace 6-book Series, by Laura Antoniou: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015TCJ4IM/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Laura Antoniou: http://lantoniou.com Catherynne Valente: http://www.catherynnemvalente.com Palimpsest, by Catherynne Valente: https://www.amazon.com/Palimpsest-Catherynne-Valente/dp/0553385763/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Stephen King: https://www.stephenking.com Jack Rinella: http://leathermusings.blogspot.com Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships, by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson: https://www.amazon.com/Designer-Relationships-Monogamy-Polyamory-Optimistic/dp/1627781471/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, by Tristan Taormino: https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing, by Dr. David Lay: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Porn-Dicks-Responsible-Pleasure/dp/0996485236/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, by Ayzad: https://www.amazon.com/BDSM-Guide-Explorers-Extreme-Eroticism/dp/8892598457/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Look Into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Bring Out the Best in Your Sex Life, by Peter Masters: https://www.amazon.com/Look-Into-My-Eyes-Hypnosis/dp/1440449864/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Real Service, by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera: https://www.amazon.com/Real-Service-Joshua-Tenpenny/dp/0982879431/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus, by Christina Abernathy: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Slavehood-Miss-Abernathy-Omnibus/dp/1890159719/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities, by David M. Ortman and Richard A. Sprott: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Outsiders-Understanding-Sexualities-Communities/dp/1442217367/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 CARAS: https://carasresearch.org Alfred Press: http://alfredpress.com Unequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships, by Sabrina Popp, MD and Raven Kaldera: https://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Design-Counseling-Dynamic-Relationships/dp/0982879482/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 National Leather Alliance book awards: http://www.nla-international.com/allawards.html Rooms Formed of Neurons and Sex, by Ferrett Steinmetz: http://uncannymagazine.com/article/rooms-formed-neurons-sex/ Leather Spirit Stallion, by Raven Kaldera: https://www.amazon.com/Leather-Spirit-Stallion-Kaldera-2015-03-18/dp/B01F9GZ9EQ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Mollena Williams: http://mollena.com Jolted Awake: An Unconventional Memoir, by Richard Levine: http://alfredpress.com/jolted-awake-an-unconventional-memoir/ Soul of a Second Skin: The Journey of a Gay Christian Leatherman, by Hardy Haberman: https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Second-Skin-Christian-Leatherman/dp/1934625388/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Paige's page of 101 and recommended books page: http://thepageist.com/book-recommendations/ Paige's Goodreads Book List: https://www.goodreads.com/ThePageist Lee's Recommended Reading and Other Such Things: http://astore.amazon.com/pass-20 Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (Penguin Great Ideas Edition): https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Penguin-Great-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/0143036270/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 The Anatomy of Melancholy, by Robert Burton: https://www.amazon.com/Anatomy-Melancholy-Robert-Burton/dp/1781395764/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Remembrance of Things Past, Complete Unabridged 6-Book Bundle, by Marcel Proust: https://www.amazon.com/Modern-Library-Search-Complete-Unabridged-ebook/dp/B006NKL8BQ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances Lee Harrington Contact Information: Website: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com FetLife: http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul  Facebook Fan Page: https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon The Pageist shares her literary wit and wisdom with us all!