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This episode is being re-released for your enjoyement. Please enjoy the episode. Natasha has an upcoming group that you can sign up for: Pornography Dilemma Online Group with Natasha This group has been developed to help couples overcome the common struggles with pornography use within the marital contract. During this group, we will: Begin to deal with and repair the typical secrecy/betrayal cycles that have historically occurred in the relationship with sexual media. Understand evidence-based information about sexual media allowing well-informed decisions to be made based on science and our values instead of myths and folklore. Help couples understand the importance of balancing the need for individual autonomy and relational connection that can often feel contraindicated. Learn to move from “ownership” models of sexuality to “partnership” models of sexuality. Guide couples through agreement work based on principles of sexual and marital health (honesty, shared values, transparency, and differentiation). Begin repairing trust and building a relationship where relational, erotic sexuality can flourish if that's what both partners want moving forward. WHEN: TUESDAYS 8 PM MT November 5, 12, 19, 26 & December 3, 10, 17 WHERE: Online Register here: https://symcounseling.com/group-registration/ or call: 1-208-391-7804 Go here for more: https://symcounseling.com/pornography-dilemma/ Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Joe Kort, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist on his latest Psychology Today article called, https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201511/why-i-am-no-longer-sex-addiction-therapist Why I am No Longer a Sex-Addiction Therapist (a great follow up to Episode 1: Porn Addiction: Is it Real?). They cover a wide range of topics, including: What is the history of the sex addiction model? Why (at least initially) can this model be helpful? What are some of the reasons why the sex addiction model does not offer long-term success for many? How do we go about defining and treating out of control sexual behavior? What role does past trauma play? What role does sexual shaming play? What role does secrecy play? What is the difference between secrecy and privacy? What role do other mental health diagnoses play? How do we go about supporting and defining healthy sexuality? How do we make room for our own and our spouse's erotic interests? How do we deal with the tension between religious values/teachings and the sexual desires/tastes/fantasies an individual or couple are experiencing? Be aware that Dr. Kort shares some frank clinical examples from his practice that include some sexual details. Dr. Joe Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors, Relationship Problems and Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, and Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. His practice is located in Royal Oak, Michigan but he welcomes clients from all over the Metro Detroit area. Dr. Kort is also available for long-distance coaching and consultation. Dr. Kort graduated from Michigan State University with dual majors in Psychology and Social Work. At Wayne State University, he earned his Master's in Social Work (MSW), then a Master's (MA) in Psychology, and has received his Doctorate (Ph.D.) in Clinical Sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists (AACS). To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services.

This episode is being re-released for your enjoyement. Please enjoy the episode. Natasha has an upcoming group that you can sign up for: Pornography Dilemma Online Group with Natasha This group has been developed to help couples overcome the common struggles with pornography use within the marital contract. During this group, we will: Begin to deal with and repair the typical secrecy/betrayal cycles that have historically occurred in the relationship with sexual media. Understand evidence-based information about sexual media allowing well-informed decisions to be made based on science and our values instead of myths and folklore. Help couples understand the importance of balancing the need for individual autonomy and relational connection that can often feel contraindicated. Learn to move from “ownership” models of sexuality to “partnership” models of sexuality. Guide couples through agreement work based on principles of sexual and marital health (honesty, shared values, transparency, and differentiation). Begin repairing trust and building a relationship where relational, erotic sexuality can flourish if that's what both partners want moving forward. WHEN: TUESDAYS 8 PM MT November 5, 12, 19, 26 & December 3, 10, 17 WHERE: Online Register here: https://symcounseling.com/group-registration/ or call: 1-208-391-7804 Go here for more: https://symcounseling.com/pornography-dilemma/ Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Nicole Prause, founder of the Sexual Psychophysiology and Affective Neuroscience (SPAN) Laboratory, in regards to the research she has personally done (and is aware of) concerning our relationships with pornography and erotic viewing materials. They cover all types of topics such as: What are some common correlations that are made in regards to porn viewing research that are completely inaccurate? Are we aware that those who view porn tend to be more egalitarian in their relationships? Why does it matter if we call problematic behavior by the right name (i.e. addiction vs. compulsivity vs. out-of-control, etc.)? Did you know that women respond to erotica in similar ways as men do and even share similar sexual tastes? Did you know that people who view erotic films report having increased desire for sexual activity with their spouse/partner? Objectification of women is definitely a problem, but violence? Not so much. Did you know that those who report having “out of control” behavior with porn viewing actually watch the same or less than those who don't identify with having a problem? And that research is now showing that those who see their behavior as problematic tend to come from religious or conservative backgrounds? Get up to date with what we think is science versus what is actually science in regards to positives and negatives that can come from porn/erotic viewing. Nicole Prause obtained her PhD at Indiana University with joint supervision from The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction in 2007. Her concentrations were in neuroscience and statistics. She completed her APA/APPIC clinical internship at the Boston Consortium. Her clinical rotations were in neuropsychological assessment and behavioral medicine; her research fellowship was at Harvard University in alcoholism treatment. She was promoted to Associate Scientist at UCLA in 2014. Current laboratory interests include primary rewards, transcranial brain stimulation, and approach motivation. She is licensed as a psychologist in the state of California. Dr. Prause currently holds positions as the founder of Liberos LLC, an independent research institute, and Data Scientist in Los Angeles. Resources mentioned during podcast: Religion, Spirituality and Sexual Addiction: A Critical Evaluation of Converging Fields Position of the Mormon Mental Health Association Trib Talk: Porn and Public Health Treating Out of Control Behavior by Doug Braun-Harvey and Michael Vigorito Other Resources: Prause et al. (2015) the latest falsification of addiction predictions Other subjects mentioned: Masters and Johnson The Meese Report Lifestar Network Fight the New Drug To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services.  

Unpacking is in the title of the show and it applies to all of us; being self-aware requires us to be critical of unhelpful patterns, but we also have to give credit and forgive ourselves as well. Understanding why you did what you did, is extraordinarily helpful. Let's meet our hosts Sarah and her husband Mason; their playful laughter and awkward pauses introduce you to their style of learning and growing together.  Sarah an ex-Mo and licensed counselor on a journey to unpack Mormonism and other religious trauma is joined by her husband Mason, a former bishop and active member of the Mormon church.  Sarah and Mason have been married for 23 years and have 7 children together. Sarah is an author, podcast personality and counsels in her private practice. Mason is a retired Army officer and registered nurse anesthetist. We hope our show will demonstrate how to communicate with respect on difficult topics that we don't always agree about; but still take time to have a chuckle about our personal foibles and peeves. This is of supreme importance as we learn about ourselves.  Using the lessons in our podcasts, you will learn how to become your authentic self and that you can still be in a good place, even with changes to make in your life.  We love hearing from you, drop us a line and let us know how your heart and head are doing.  daisygirlcommunications@gmail.com This episode references:  Mormon stories for Natasha Helfer Parker- episodes 762-764, 1420. Mormon stories for Marc Oslund- episodes 1423-1425, 1490 Brene Brown- the Power of Vunerability on Audible. Mormonism Live with RFM and Bill Reel, episode 033.

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Aimee Heffernan, LMFT in regards to achieving what can at times seem like the elusive female orgasm. They cover all types of topics from psychological aspects that can get in the way of climax, to specific techniques that women and their partners can find helpful. What ruts can we get stuck in either in regards to sexual practice or sexual meaning? How does self-pleasure and self-exploration begin a self knowledge that can translate to orgasmic potential? How can using a vibrator help achieve orgasm? Does the G-Spot exist? What about multiple orgasms? What is squirting? How do we improve our communication skills around these types of conversations? Aimee Heffernan grew up in Salt Lake City in a very open-minded, unorthodox, feminist, Mormon home. She was raised with the beautiful aspects of Mormon theology balanced with the nuance and complicated parts church history. Aimee attended Western Washington University in Bellingham, WA before she went on her mission to Sendai, Japan. She graduated from the University of Utah with a degree in Sociology and with a masters degree from Seattle Pacific University in Marriage and Family Therapy. Aimee has a private practice in Redmond, WA, where she specializes in relationships, infidelity, sexuality, faith/spirituality crisis and transitions, mixed faith marriages, women's issues, self-esteem and identity. She is a trained educator for the Gottman Bringing Baby Home program. She is currently working towards becoming a certified sex therapist through AASECT. Aimee has presented for the NW Chapter of the Multiple Sclerosis Society, local schools, more church functions than she can count, and enjoys speaking about mental, emotional, and sexual health. Resources mentioned during the podcast: My Official Stance on Masturbation blog post by Natasha Helfer Parker How Can I Go to the Temple if I'm Still Masturbating blog post by Natasha Helfer Parker Kristin Hodson featured on Episode 1: Porn Addiction: Is It Real? LDS Female Sexuality with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on Mormon Mental Health Podcast OMGYES Kinsey Institute Sex + w/ Laci Green Sexplantions with Dr. Doe Lovers Blue Boutique located in Salt Lake City Sex toy called Double Trouble Other Resources: Sex Smart Films: Promoting Sexual Literacy The Clitoris: A Complete Sex Guide Babeland

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. David Ley, author of The Myth of Sex Addiction, regarding the problems with the sex addiction treatment model and the conversations we should be having instead. He states that not only is this type of modality erroneous, but dangerous. They cover such issues as: How do shifting attitudes about sexuality force us to renegotiate how we see and define healthy sexuality? Why is sexual diversity easily pathologized? Why is it that there is not a single published study that sex addiction treatment makes a difference and yet treatment centers are growing in number at an alarming rate? Why are we abandoning people within a moral or social crisis, by focusing on things like a supposed pornography public health crisis? Are we aware that gay and bi men are three times as likely to be called “sex addicts?” Are we aware that the American Psychiatric Association has rejected the language of “sex addiction” for 40 years? Are we talking about the importance of sex education and regular dialogue? How can we help people explore morality in their sexuality as adults? How do we incorporate religious beliefs in ways that allow for normative sexuality? Dr. David Ley is a clinical psychologist in practice in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He earned his Bachelor's degree in Philosophy from Ole Miss, and his Master's and Doctoral degrees in clinical psychology from the University of New Mexico. Dr. Ley is the Executive Director of New Mexico Solutions, a large outpatient mental health and substance abuse program in Albuquerque, NM. Dr. Ley has been treating sexuality issues throughout his career. He first began treating perpetrators and victims of sexual abuse, but expanded his approach to include the fostering and promotion of healthy sexuality, and awareness of the wide range of normative sexual behaviors. Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them is his first book and won a Silver Medal in the Foreword Magazine Book of the Year contest for 2009. Dr. Ley wrote Insatiable Wives following two years of interviews with couples around the country. His controversial second book, The Myth of Sex Addiction was released in March 2012. Resources mentioned during the podcast: Defining “Normophilic” and “Paraphilic” Sexual Fantasies in a Population-Based Sample: On the Importance of Considering Subgroups by Christian Joyal Jason Winters (2010) published three studies on sex addiction, demonstrating that alleged sex addicts have as much (or as little) sexual self-control as anyone else, and that the identity of sex addict is predicated by a religious upbringing. Grubbs, Hook, Griffin and Davis (2015) published a review of the paucity of outcome data on sex addiction treatment in Current Addiction Reports. Work of Dr. Rory Reid Work of Stulhofer The Religious Institute

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Gina Ogden, PhD, LMFT on one of the most common complaints that get brought to sex therapists: low female sexual desire. Gina shares years of experience where she helps us ask pivotal questions to break this construct apart. What is it that we desire? Do women give themselves permission to experience pleasure? Gina instructs on her 4-dimensional model approach to what she calls the Integrative Wheel of Sexual Experience – where we delve into Body, Mind, Heart and Spirit. Walking through these four dimensions is an approach that allows one to take a holistic approach to such things as libido or erotic differences in partnerships. Gina has agreed to return to Mormon Sex Info for a “part 2” of this in-depth conversation of what it means to delve into the erotic space of desire. Gina Ogden is an award-winning sex therapist, family therapist, researcher, teacher, and author. She is founder of the Relational Sexuality Network, an international collaboration of practitioners whose mission is to expand the practice of therapy and sex therapy beyond limiting notions of function and dysfunction to include a wide range of diversity and experience. She conducts retreats and trainings internationally, lectures widely, leads tele-seminars attended by professionals all over the world, and has appeared in the media from talk radio to the Oprah Winfrey Show. She supervises and trains sex therapists, physicians, nurses, social workers, family therapists, and other health providers in the Four-Dimensional Wheel approach, to broaden their understanding of sexual experience. She conducted the only nationwide survey on integrating sexuality and spirituality. She is the author of ten books so far. Her most recent books for a general readership (all published by Trumpeter) are: The Return of Desire (2008) and The Heart & Soul of Sex (2006). The 3rd edition of Women Who Love Sex, was published in 2007. Her books for a professional readership (all published by Routledge) are: Expanding the Practice of Sex Therapy: An Integrative Model for Exploring Desire and Intimacy, (2012) and Extraordinary Sex Therapy: Creative Approaches for Clinician (2015)—an edited collection of innovative and creative approaches from colleagues in the US and the UK. Her 4-D Wheel workbook for clinicians is : Exploring Desire & Intimacy: Innovative Approaches, Practical Applications–due in September, 2016. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: Lessons From Women Who Love Sex – Poster graciously offered by Gina Ogden The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering your Sexual Passion by Gina Ogden Exploring Desire & Intimacy: Innovative Approaches, Practical Applications (due out in September of 2016) Kristin Hodson of the Healing Group and author of Real Intimacy: A Couples Guide for Genuine, Healthy Sexuality The Chalice and the Blade: Our History, Our Future by Riane Eisler

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Alisha Worthington, SSW, a sexual educator, on the topic of providing healthy sexual education to our pre-adolescent children. How do we approach sexuality of children without projecting our own adult sensibilities? What do we teach about sexuality without even realizing it? What are the best ways to respond to things like masturbation/self-touch, pornography viewing, and experiences such as “playing doctor?” How do we talk to our kids about their body parts? How do we teach protective stances and boundaries, especially when it comes to the potential of child sexual abuse? How do we avoid shaming/fear-based sex education and embrace pleasure-based sex education, even when we want to reinforce concepts such as consent, appropriate boundaries and the risks associated with sexuality? And much more…. Alisha Worthington is an LDS Sexual Educator and has contributed to many media resources such as: FamilyShare.com and The Deseret News. She has been a regular contributor on the Radio From Hell show on x96 taking live calls on sex and intimacy and has been a guest on KUTV 2 morning news. She is an educator, group facilitator, and coach for The Healing Group, where she offers many workshops and services regarding women's health and sexuality, and co-author of the book Real Intimacy: A Couple's Guide to Healthy, Genuine Sexuality. She is also a member of the Mormon Mental Health Association. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: Elizabeth Smart Foundation: Mission focused on preventing and stopping predatory crimes. Yes! You can talk to your kids about sex by Kristin Hodson and Alisha Worthington A Parent's Guide an LDS Manual Teaching Youths in the 21st Century by Elder M. Russell Ballard The Naked People in Your iPod by Paul Malan Where Willie Went by Nicholas Allan It's Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex and Sexual Health by Robbie Harris and Michael Emberley For Goodness Sex by Al Vernacchio

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Shannon Hickman, LCSW, CST, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, on the topic of understanding premature (or early or rapid) ejaculation. What is the diagnostic criteria for PE? Do people know how long most sexual experiences last? What types of myths and misconceptions abound about sexual expectations and what it means to have a successful sexual encounter that affect people's perspective about penile performance? What contributes to PE? What types of treatment can be helpful for PE? What role can the spouse play in treatment? What role does physiology play versus psychology? Shannon Hickman is a licensed clinical social worker with 12 years of experience in a variety of disciplines. She has worked in a variety of group and individual settings, including hospitals, clinics, and drug and alcohol treatment facilities, and now runs a private practice in Murray, Utah. Shannon is focused on individual and couples counseling as well as sex therapy. She received her undergraduate degree in 2004 in social work from the University of Utah and went on to receive her masters degree in social work in 2006 from Rutger's University. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: DSM 5 International Society for Sexual Medicine She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides Stephanie Buehler author of Sex, Love and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected and A Heart-Pounding Guide to Passionate Sex Sensate Focus Sensate Focus Exercise: Non-Sexual Intimacy Flesh Light Product (some may find this site offensive) Coping with Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner and Have Great Sex by Barry McCarthy and Michael Metz

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Richard and Lawrence Siegel, in the continuing discussion of why the framing of sexual issues as addiction is problematic. What are the neurological/medical explanations currently taking place within the sexual field? What are the diagnostic implications? What is the research that has been happening for the last 20 years on these issues? Is research interpreted and applied correctly? What do many of the terms being thrown around even mean? And can evidence-based/peer-reviewed research truly be found to support the addiction model for treating sexual problems? What happens when we look at our sexual behavior from the lens of it being broken, and even diseased? How does this affect such things as personal and relational trust? What are some of the issues that we should be talking or concerned about when it comes to sexual functioning? How should we treat and address sexual problems if we are not going to use an addiction model? Richard and Lawrence Siegel will be presenting at the University of Utah on April 22, 2016 for a training hosted by the Mormon Mental Health Association called: Challenging the Sex Addiction Model (meant for mental health practitioners but offering a rate for the general public). The Siegels often refer to the position the MMHA recently took sharing their concerns for the high frequency of sex addiction treatment being used to treat either unwanted sexual behavior (usually due to religious values) or sexual dysfunction within the Mormon population: Position on “Sex/Porn Addiction.” Richard M. Siegel, LMHC, CST is a Florida-licensed Mental Health Counselor, Director of the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, a Florida Board Certified Sex Therapist and Qualified Supervisor, and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Supervisor of Sex Therapy, and Provider of Continuing Education. He has a rich experiential background, including over 20 years as a sexuality educator and fifteen years in private sex therapy practice. In addition to his private practice in Boca Raton, Florida, Mr. Siegel is an adjunct faculty member at Palm Beach State College and enjoys a national reputation as a respected trainer, supervisor and conference presenter. Lawrence Siegel, MA, CSE is a Clinical Sexologist and sexuality education consultant. He is the founder and serves on the Board of Directors of Sage Institute for Family Development, a non-profit training and counseling center in Florida. Larry sits on the faculties of several colleges, universities and training institutions, and is nationally recognized as a leader in the fields of sexuality, sexual development, sexual pharmacology, and medical sexology. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: Eli Coleman of the University of Minnesota Everything You Think You Know About Addiction is Wrong: TED Talk by Johann Hari Mormon Sex Info Episode 4: From Sex Addiction to Sex Positivity featuring Joe Kort Marty Klein author of Sexual Intelligence, America's War on Sex and more Douglas Braun-Harvey author of Sexual Health in Recovery Raven James author of Sexuality and Addiction: Making Connections, Enhancing Recovery Russell Stambaugh, author of the blog: The Elephant in the Hot Tub: Kink in Context

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Kristin Bennion, CST, LCSW – an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist – on the important topic of understanding and treating female genital pain. What types of genital pain do women generally deal with and why? How do you go about making sure you are getting an accurate diagnosis? What assumptions and myths prevail when it comes to dealing with these types of issues? What role can a spouse play to be part of the solution instead of the problem? How can anatomy education play a role? What role does physiology play vs. psychology when it comes to genital pain (i.e. it's not “all in your head”)? What messages do we have within Mormonism that can both help or hinder the ways we deal with and navigate issues such as these? What types of treatment exist to help with genital pain? Kristin Bennion runs a private practice in Orem, Utah called an Intimate Connections Counseling. Areas she specializes in include: women's sexuality, desire discrepancies in couples, intimacy enhancement, intersection of faith and sexuality, out-of-control behavior, body image issues and eating disorder treatment. She has appeared on KSL television and local radio stations, has written a variety of articles for local media sources and has offered many community presentations. She is a graduate from BYU and works primarily with an LDS population.

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Joe Kort, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist on his latest Psychology Today article called, https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201511/why-i-am-no-longer-sex-addiction-therapist. Why I am No Longer a Sex-Addiction Therapist (a great follow up to Episode 1: Porn Addiction: Is it Real?). They cover a wide range of topics, including: What is the history of the sex addiction model? Why (at least initially) can this model be helpful? What are some of the reasons why the sex addiction model does not offer long-term success for many? How do we go about defining and treating out of control sexual behavior? What role does past trauma play? What role does sexual shaming play? What role does secrecy play? What is the difference between secrecy and privacy? What role do other mental health diagnoses play? How do we go about supporting and defining healthy sexuality? How do we make room for our own and our spouse's erotic interests? How do we deal with the tension between religious values/teachings and the sexual desires/tastes/fantasies an individual or couple are experiencing? Be aware that Dr. Kort shares some frank clinical examples from his practice that include some sexual details. Dr. Joe Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors, Relationship Problems and Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, and Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. His practice is located in Royal Oak, Michigan but he welcomes clients from all over the Metro Detroit area. Dr. Kort is also available for long-distance coaching and consultation. Dr. Kort graduated from Michigan State University with dual majors in Psychology and Social Work. At Wayne State University, he earned his Master's in Social Work (MSW), then a Master's (MA) in Psychology, and has received his Doctorate (Ph.D.) in Clinical Sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists (AACS). More about Dr. Kort: Teaching Faculty at University of Michigan Sexual Health Certificate Program Certified IMAGO Relationship Therapist Board Certified Sexologist Member of the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH) Member of the Academy of Certified Social Workers Member of the National Association of Certified Social Workers Certified AASECT Therapist, Supervisor of Sex Therapy and Member of American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) Member of EMDRIA Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Basic Training Licensed Clinical Social Worker He has been featured in Huffington Post Live & Huffington Post, Psychology Today, The New York Times, and Woman's Day. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior: Rethinking Sex Addiction by Douglas Braun-Harvey & Michael Vigorito The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin Sex Smart Films (might include material and images that some within the LDS population would not feel comfortable with) Sinclair Institute (might include material and images that some within the LDS population would not feel comfortable with) Imago Couples Therapy Approach  

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Neil Cannon, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor of Sex Therapy, on the topic of Erectile Dysfunction (ED). They cover the many factors that go into the ability to get or maintain an erection for penetrative sexuality… but it doesn't stop there. They also discuss the many messages men receive about their sexuality, men's sexual health, what most people assume it means to be sexually successful, relational dynamics. Both physiological and psychological factors are addressed, including a discussion on the various ways ED can be successfully treated. Dr. Cannon has a private practice in Denver, Colorado, received his PhD in Human Sexuality, is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of AAMFT. Dr. Cannon teaches both graduate and post-graduate students of psychology, counseling and social work at The University of Denver, The University of Colorado, and Regis and Metropolitan State University. He is also an instructor at the University of Michigan, School of Social Work Sexual Health Certificate Program. The University of Michigan is known in the field of sex therapy for being one of the leading programs in the world for clinicians on a path towards becoming sex therapists. Dr. Cannon is a published author, professional speaker, supervisor, mentor, and nationally recognized expert on sex, intimacy and relationships. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: Dr. Cannon mentioned some hypnotherapy audio resources that are available at: audiocounseling.com  

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Alisha Worthington, SSW, a sexual educator, on the topic of sexual lubrication. This is a fascinating, educational podcast on such subjects as: How are our bodies designed to engage in sexual pleasure? What is the relationship between arousal and bodily fluids? What are the common myths and misconceptions about lubrication? What types of issues can get in the way of bodily function? What types of lubrication products exist? Which are good for you to use, and which can actually exacerbate problems? How do you define a good quality lube? Which kinds of lubes should you use depending on age, type of sex, use of sex toys or condoms, or even medications one might be taking? Where can you buy good lube? Alisha Worthington is an LDS Sexual Educator and has contributed to many media resources such as: FamilyShare.com and The Deseret News. She has been a regular contributor on the Radio From Hell show on x96 taking live calls on sex and intimacy and has been a guest on KUTV 2 morning news. She is an educator, group facilitator, and coach for The Healing Group, where she offers many workshops and services regarding women's health and sexuality, and co-author of the book Real Intimacy: A Couple's Guide to Healthy, Genuine Sexuality. She is also a member of the Mormon Mental Health Association. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: Real Intimacy: a Couples Guide to Healthy, Genuine Sexuality by Kristin Hodson, Alisha Worthington, and Thomas Harrison Smitten Kitten Yes! Coconu

This podcast episode was originally recorded for "Mormon Sex Info" Podcast. It's now being refurbished for your enjoyment here at the "Healing Sols Podcast." For more from Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST, CSTS, please visit https://www.natashahelfer.com. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Kristin Hodson, LCSW, CST regarding the common use of the term “porn” or “sex” addiction within our Mormon culture. They cover limitations and issues when individuals, spouses, leaders or professionals pathologize unwanted sexual behavior – as well as cover more sex-positive approaches that are more likely to lead to the sexual health all parties are interested in achieving. Kristin Hodson is an LDS Certified Sex Therapist and has contributed to many media resources such as: Sheknows.com, Woman's Day Magazine, and The Deseret News. She has been a regular contributor on the Radio From Hell show on x96 taking live calls on sex and intimacy, has appeared on KSL's Studio 5, and has been a monthly guest on KUTV 2 morning news. She is the Founder and Executive Director of The Healing Group, where she offers many workshops and services regarding women's health and sexuality, and co-author of the book Real Intimacy: A Couple's Guide to Healthy, Genuine Sexuality. Links to resources that are covered during the podcast: The Healing Group Real Intimacy: A Couple's Guide to Healthy, Genuine Sexuality by Kristin Hodson, Alisha Worthington, and Thomas Harrison AASECT Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch The Truth by Neil Strauss Recovering from the Trap of Pornography by Elder Dallin H. Oaks Expanding Sex Therapy and Gina Ogden Mormon Porn Project  

Kattie and Allan join with Natasha Helfer Parker to provide a free mini class on Mixed Faith Marriage. This also served as a final preview of our online 6 week mixed faith marriage course, Workshop on a Tightrope. This was streamed live and contains questions and comments from live listeners. Subscribe to our Youtube Channel! Support the mixed faith community and Marriage on a Tightrope by making a recurring donation at tightropemarriage.org

Nearly a year in the making, Kattie and Allan are excited to announce their partnership with Natasha Helfer Parker to bring you a 6 week online workshop to help fortify your Mixed Faith Marriage To sign up to go the Eventbrite event page, or search for “Workshop on a Tightrope” on Eventbrite (Make sure to change your search to an Online Event instead of a geographical location) Here are the details of the 6 week course: A lecture presentation followed by questions - 90 mins. Watch LIVE or download to watch later at your convenience. Release of weekly homework assignments to help you put into practice what you've learned. We will have a Q&A about the weeks course work – 60 mins. By the end of the course you will learn: How to understand how faith transitions happen and how they affect your situation. How to communicate respectively around typically tender topics: doctrine, life-style changes, church attendance, expectations, grief, etc. How to experience your mixed-faith status as an asset to your relationship instead of a divider. How to stay unified in your common values and goals. How to parent effectively in a mixed-faith family. How to effectively communicate with family and friends about what you are going through in a way that will edify, not threaten, your relationship. Due to the interactive nature of the workshop, space is limited to 20 couples. Registration is per couple. The content is prepared and presented by: Natasha Helfer Parker LCMFT, CST, and CSTS: Natasha is the owner and founder of Symmetry Solutions. She is a Licensed Clinical Marriage & Family Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapist. Natasha has been in practice for over 20 years where she has specifically worked with and developed an expertise around a mixed-faith marriage population, as well as those going through faith transitions and different types of spiritual journeys. Allan & Kattie Mount: Hosts of the Award-winning podcast Marriage on a Tightrope. They've presented at numerous conferences on the topic of mixed faith marriage. Their journey began 3 years ago when Allan had a faith transition. Through conversations with thousands of listeners and working through the challenges of a mixed faith marriage in their own lives, Kattie and Allan bring a unique skillset to this course. They will give you practical ways they've applied clinical knowledge in fortifying their marriage. Kattie also practices as a Life Coach with Symmetry Sols specializing in mixed faith marriage. Subscribe to our Youtube Channel! Support the mixed faith community and Marriage on a Tightrope by making a recurring donation at tightropemarriage.org

Live at THRIVE Conference, Salt Lake City, UT 11/17/19

Breaking news! Mormons and ex-Mormons could be having better sex! And they don’t even need Cosmopolitan’s hot tips! John Larsen and Natasha Helfer Parker dive into the Hows of enjoying sex, both in and out of the faith.

Presented by Natasha Helfer Parker at the June 2019 THRIVE Conference in Salt Lake City, Utah

Today on the Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis Dr. John Dehlin, Natasha Helfer Parker, and Margi Weber Dehlin will discuss a new list that is available on mormonfaithcrisis.com: "Must-Have Resources for Navigating a Mormon Faith Crisis." Please provide us with your comments and suggestions.

In these episodes of Mormon Stories, John and Margi have a discussion with Natasha Helfer Parker, LCMFT, CST about forming a foundation for marriage that withstands change.  They also discuss guiding principles to maintaining successful relationships. In Part 2, John, Margi, and Natasha discuss: Creating positive communication and protecting marriage when believing family tries to place blame on a spouse Belonging to yourself and choosing to share in significant ways as the best method to building intimacy Common relationship myths Vulnerability within relationships How self-discovery and relationship renovation enhances relationships

In these episodes, John and Margi have a discussion with Natasha Helfer Parker, LCMFT, CST about forming a foundation for marriage that withstands change.  They also discuss guiding principles to maintaining successful relationships. In Part 1, John, Margi and Natasha discuss: Differentiation: the constant tension between “me” and “we” in marriage Respect/friendship in a relationship The Protection Model vs the Intimacy Model Avoiding power differentials in a relationship Challenging the rhetoric of “co-dependence”

In today's episode, we will continue our series exploring the top issues/tips for Mormon women after a faith crisis. Our panel includes marriage/sex therapist Natasha Helfer Parker, transitions life coach Margi Weber Dehlin, and Dr. John Dehlin. We will begin by focusing on changes in sexual roles and perspectives as a progressive or post-Mormon woman.

In today's episode, we will continue our series exploring the top issues/tips for Mormon women after a faith crisis. Our panel includes marriage/sex therapist Natasha Helfer Parker, transitions life coach Margi Weber Dehlin, and Dr. John Dehlin. We will begin by focusing on changes in sexual roles and perspectives as a progressive or post-Mormon woman.

In today's episode, we will continue our series exploring the top issues/tips for Mormon women after a faith crisis. Our panel includes marriage/sex therapist Natasha Helfer Parker, transitions life coach Margi Weber Dehlin, and Dr. John Dehlin. We will begin by focusing on changes in sexual roles and perspectives as a progressive or post-Mormon woman.

Natasha Helfer Parker is a certified Marriage and Family Therapist and Sex Therapist. She sits down for a chat with Kattie and Allan to discussed mixed faith marriage tips and sex therapy. You can check out some of the many projects Natasha is working on below! Transitioning Mormon Cruise w/Natasha! Symmetry Sols Mormon Faith Crisis Mormon Sex Mormon Mental Health Mormon Therapist Blog Sex Talk With Natasha Mixed Faith Book on Amazon Subscribe to our Youtube Channel! Support the mixed faith community and Marriage on a Tightrope by making a recurring donation at tightropemarriage.org

In today's episode, we will explore the top issues/tips for Mormon women after a faith crisis. This will be part 1 in a multi-part series. Our panel will include marriage/sex therapist Natasha Helfer Parker, transitions life coach Margi Weber Dehlin, and Dr. John Dehlin.

In today's episode, we will explore the top issues/tips for Mormon women after a faith crisis. This will be part 1 in a multi-part series. Our panel will include marriage/sex therapist Natasha Helfer Parker, transitions life coach Margi Weber Dehlin, and Dr. John Dehlin.

Join us now as we discuss Part 2 in our series of parenting after a Mormon Faith Crisis. In this episode Natasha Helfer Parker, Margi and John Dehlin provide some overarching principles to guide post-Orthodox parenting. We also take your questions and comments to guide the flow of the episode.

Join us now as we discuss Part 2 in our series of parenting after a Mormon Faith Crisis. In this episode Natasha Helfer Parker, Margi and John Dehlin provide some overarching principles to guide post-Orthodox parenting. We also take your questions and comments to guide the flow of the episode.

Join us now as we discuss Part 1 in our series of parenting after a Mormon Faith Crisis. In this episode Natasha Helfer Parker, Margi Dehlin, and John Dehlin provide some overarching principles to guide post-Orthodox parenting. We also take your questions and comments.

Join us now as we discuss Part 1 in our series of parenting after a Mormon Faith Crisis. In this episode Natasha Helfer Parker, Margi Dehlin, and John Dehlin provide some overarching principles to guide post-Orthodox parenting. We also take your questions and comments.

Join us now for a new episode of the Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis. In today's episode Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Weber Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker discuss the topic of "Communicating with the Church Leadership, Ward Members, and Neighbors During and After a Mormon Faith Crisis." We will integrate comments from the community, along with your questions and comments. Some of the subtopics will include: - The "private" approach. - The direct approach. - How to handle callings. - How to set appropriate and firm boundaries. - How to communicate with ward and stake members when you run into them after you no longer attend. - What to do when you've been made a "project" at ward council. And much, much more!

Join us now for a new episode of the Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis. In today's episode Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Weber Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker discuss the topic of "Communicating with the Church Leadership, Ward Members, and Neighbors During and After a Mormon Faith Crisis." We will integrate comments from the community, along with your questions and comments. Some of the subtopics will include: - The "private" approach. - The direct approach. - How to handle callings. - How to set appropriate and firm boundaries. - How to communicate with ward and stake members when you run into them after you no longer attend. - What to do when you've been made a "project" at ward council. And much, much more!

In this episode of The Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis we continue Part 2 of our discussion around disclosing or "coming out" to family members as a non-believer. Panelists include Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker. Topics for today include: a) When to tell, and when not to tell, b) How to tell, and how not to tell, c) What to expect, and what no to expect d) And a few other important tips. As always, we will be incorporating disclosure or "coming out" stories from our listening audience, to help illustrate what TO do, and what NOT TO do when disclosing to family. Please join us if you can!

In this episode of The Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis we continue Part 2 of our discussion around disclosing or "coming out" to family members as a non-believer. Panelists include Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker. Topics for today include: a) When to tell, and when not to tell, b) How to tell, and how not to tell, c) What to expect, and what no to expect d) And a few other important tips. As always, we will be incorporating disclosure or "coming out" stories from our listening audience, to help illustrate what TO do, and what NOT TO do when disclosing to family. Please join us if you can!

In this episode we discuss the process of disclosing or "coming out" to family members as a non-believer. Panelists include Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Weber Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker. Today we will be incorporating disclosure or "coming out" stories from our listening audience, to help illustrate what TO do, and what NOT TO do when disclosing to family.

In this episode we discuss the process of disclosing or "coming out" to family members as a non-believer. Panelists include Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Weber Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker. Today we will be incorporating disclosure or "coming out" stories from our listening audience, to help illustrate what TO do, and what NOT TO do when disclosing to family.

Join me, Natasha Helfer Parker and Margi Weber Dehlin for a new episode of the Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis podcast. The topic for today will be "Top Tips When First Navigating a Mormon Faith Crisis." Our Email: mormonfaithcrisis@gmail.com Our Web Site: http://mormonfaithcrisis.com

In this two-part episode of the Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis, Dr. John Dehlin & Margi Weber Dehlin and Natasha Helfer Parker take a deeper look at how religious conversion and de-conversion happen, and explore how that understanding can be useful in re-building a post-orthodoxy life, and in communicating with orthodox believing family and friends.

In this two-part episode of the Gift of the Mormon Faith Crisis, Dr. John Dehlin & Margi Weber Dehlin and Natasha Helfer Parker take a deeper look at how religious conversion and de-conversion happen, and explore how that understanding can be useful in re-building a post-orthodoxy life, and in communicating with orthodox believing family and friends.

In this episode of Mormon Faith Crisis podcast, Dr. John Dehlin and Margi Weber Dehlin and Natasha Helfer Parker discuss the most common causes of a Mormon Faith Crisis. In Part 1 of this episode we cover: People for whom the church never really resonated, or ceased to resonate. Exposure to awesome non-Mormons People who sometimes don't fit within Mormon culture, including feminists, LGBTQ individuals, intellectuals, people of color, millennials, singles, divorced, those married to non-members, and political liberals.

In this episode of Mormon Faith Crisis podcast, Dr. John Dehlin and Margi Weber Dehlin and Natasha Helfer Parker discuss the most common causes of a Mormon Faith Crisis. In Part 1 of this episode we cover: Those who develop sympathies for a discriminated minority group, usually close friend or family member Those who experienced some sort of abuse in a church context. Those who were exposed to historical or doctrinal problems that challenge the church's truth claims. We also cover several other factors that can impact a faith crisis including: 1) One's placement within Maslow's hierarchy of needs. 2) Family factors, including parents/spouse/children in church 3) Multi-generational Mormon heritage 4) Social factors including friends/community 5) Personality factors 6) Age 7) Financial (Job dependent on church or church community) 8) Fear/conditioning

In this episode, Dr. John Dehlin, Margi Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker discuss the common stereotypes regarding Mormons who have a faith crisis. These stereotypes include: 1) That they were offended. 2) That they were weak and/or never really had a testimony. 3) That they wanted to sin 4) That they were exposed to anti-Mormon literature, podcasts, or individuals.

In this episode, John Dehlin, Margi Weber Dehlin, and Natasha Helfer Parker discuss the importance of having gratitude for, and making peace with our Mormon past.

Mormons all over the world are gathering online in increasing numbers.   They do this to process their past, present and future relationships with the church.  It is online that they find people who understand their growing or changing faith lives   The increasing size and complexity of Online Unchurched Mormonism attest to its utility. But without the formal rules, manners and ethics found in face to face community, online 'progressive' or post-Mormon communities that provoke challenges that signal the community's volatility and vulnerabilities. Lindsay Hansen Park, Natasha Helfer-Parker (who joins us later on in the conversation) and I talk about the benefits and challenges of Mormonism's fastest growing congregation.

Natasha Helfer Parker, Mindy Gledhill, Jana Spangler, Andrea Radke-Moss and Rachel Hunt Steenblik discuss their experiences at the Women's March in Washington DC and New York City.  Contrary to Sister Elaine Dalton's observation each of these women found the event to be sacred, peaceful and transformative.

A candid chat with sex, marriage and family therapists Natasha Helfer-Parker and Julie de Azevedo Hanks about Wendy Nelson's controversial talk at the January 2017 Young Single Adult World Wide Broadcast.  

A candid chat with sex, marriage and family therapists Natasha Helfer-Parker and Julie de Azevedo Hanks about Wendy Nelson's controversial talk at the January 2017 Young Single Adult World Wide Broadcast - part two

In late October 2016 the LDS replaced their Mormons and Gays orphan/unofficial website with a new site linked to LDS.org.  While softer in tone Kimberly Anderson, Lisa Tensmeyer Hansen and Natasha Helfer Parker raise some important critical questions about its usefulness particularly in therapeutic contexts.