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  Mollena Williams-Haas, a.k.a. The Kink Doula, is back to serve up a slice of community healing. As a BDSM Leather community veteran and legend, Mollena understands the challenges of living your truth when it falls outside of the alt-sex status quo. In this convo, she shares how her rocky relationship with a community she once loved transformed into an unexpected journey of healing and growth. And, in true Mollena fashion, the insights she gleaned from this transformative, powerful experience are life lessons we can all benefit from, no matter our chosen community or family. This is part one of our two-episode extended conversation.   Mollena Williams-Haas Bio Mollena is an NYC-born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned and collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas since 2013, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant, and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times. Active in the Leather community since 1996 and teaching since 1998, Mollena's viewpoints on Kink-related issues are frequently sought after by sources like The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. She is a frequent guest expert on Dan Savage's “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino's “Sex Out Loud”, and Margaret Cho's “Monsters of Talk” podcast. She's even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton. Molena is also a leather titleholder– International Ms Leather 2010 and Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009. She's the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play.” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”.  A professional stage performer since the age of 5, Mollena's credits include singing on the soundtrack for The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in underground cult-classic America's Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won the “Cinekink's Best Experimental Film" Award. Mollena's latest performance piece is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. They are also both the subject of the documentary The Artist and The Pervert. Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime. Her latest endeavor is The Kink Doula. Mollena's Full Bio: http://www.mollena.com/about/  Episode 203 Helpful Links & Resources All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas https://allthatandmo.com/ Kink Doula https://kinkdoula.com/  Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website http://www.mollena.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mollena_lee_williams_haas/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter https://twitter.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaas Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” https://soundcloud.com/riskshow/slave-by-mollena-williams-from-episode-442-slave Hyena Teaser Trailer https://youtu.be/UrAJji7qdwk The Artist and the Pervert Trailer https://youtu.be/ko_6bGeADGU The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Artist-Pervert-Georg-Friedrich-Haas/dp/B08NC5C1PK The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 https://www.congress.gov/bill/118th-congress/senate-bill/686/text  ResistBot  https://resist.bot/petitions Find & Contact your Legislators https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/118/s686/comment  Chat GPT https://chat.openai.com/chat  Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex  Episode 203 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at http://dipseastories.com/sunny  Sluts and Scholars Podcast https://www.slutsandscholars.com/  Double Teamed Podcast https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/  Pleasure Podcasts Network https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Sunny's On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching:  https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/ 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: http://patreon.com/americansex    

It's no secret that we started our relationship in a bad place. Together, we worked and learned our way from a painful, confused state to a conscious, growth-oriented, and gentle love. We transformed that messy, painful relationship by taking a page (several thousand pages, actually) from the world of kink. Kinksters regularly talk about power exchange--we think everyone should. Every single day Joli hears from people who don't recognize that unnegotiated power dynamics are creating suffering in their most cherished relationships. Want an unconventionally happy life? You've got to start dealing with the power dynamics in your relationships. In this episode, we're talking about how we: make power visible in our daily life unpack old icky-but-comfortable manipulative habits practice reading each other's minds (you can too!) make (& keep) thoughtful, creative agreements rather than rely on social norms for security Referenced in the episode: Playing Well with Others by Lee Harrington & Mollena Williams (if you love that, check out Mollena's podcast All That and Mo') Thinking about opening your relationship? Joli has a free salon happening soon to get you started with the 5 pillars you NEED to do it well.

Welcome Lee Harrington to subMERGE as he sits down with Leia to discuss everything from educating kinksters, to gender and role fluidity in dynamics, to ideas for better inclusivity within the community. Lee Harrington (he/him) is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist, and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He's been traveling the globe,  teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith, desire, and more, and brings a combination of playful engagement and thoughtful academic dialogue to a broad audience. A nice guy with a disarmingly down to earth approach to the fact that we are each beautifully complex ecosystems, he examines the human experience from that lens. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998.His books include “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” “More Shibari You Can Use: Passionate Rope Bondage and Intimate Connection,” the “Toybag Guide to Age Play,” and “Shed Skins: Journeying in Self-Portraits.”  He has also worked as an anthology editor for “Queer Magic: Power Beyond Boundaries,” “Rope, Bondage, and Power” and “Spirit of Desire: Personal Explorations of Sacred Kink,” while contributing actively to other anthologies, magazines, blogs and collaborations. Check out the trouble Lee has been getting into, as well as his regular podcast, tour schedule, free essays, videos and more over at PassionAndSoul.comBooks Referenced from today's Episode: Sacred Not Secret by Christine LaPlante, Playing Well With Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, Building The Team by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny, or RavenKaldera.org and AlfredPress.comFor an exclusive video of todays show, and other shows, head over to our Patreon Page to support submerge and receive bonus content!https://www.patreon.com/submergelifehttps://submerge-merch-shop.creator-spring.comHttps://instagram.com/sub.mergelife*ALL INTERVIEWS ARE FROM CONSENTING ADULTS SHARING CONSENSUAL EXPERIENCES FROM THEIR LIFE. ALL OPINIONS EXPRESSED IN TODAY'S EPISODE ARE THOSE OF THE INDIVIDUAL GIVING THEM AND SHOULD BE TAKEN AS SUCH. ALWAYS DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE ENTERING INTO ANYTHING POTENTIALLY DANGEROUS, VET YOUR PARTNER(S) AND ALWAYS NEGOTIATE THOROUGHLY. WE RECORD ALL EPISODES UNSCRIPTED, PLEASE REACH OUT IF ANY POTENTIAL CORRECTIONS TO INFORMATION YOU HEARD TODAY WOULD HELP OUR COMMUNITY BE SAFER AND MORE EDUCATED. WE'RE ALWAYS HAPPY TO CORRECT AN UNINTENTIONAL ERROR, CONTACT US AT LEIALEONEMEDIA@GMAIL.COMBeat Provided By https://freebeats.io & Produced By White Hot

Join us with Mollena Williams-Haas, American writer, BDSM educator, actor, story teller and former International Ms. Leather, for an episode of Open Deeply in which Mollena explains how she took her back her agency and came to understand intergenerational pain more fully via BDSM. Mollena doesn't shy away from even the hardest questions related to being a Black woman who identifies as submissive. Her journey and storytelling have been so impactful to so many, that they eventually culminated in a film, The Artist and the Pervert. Furthermore, in this second episode with Mollena, she explains that although trauma related racism and classism lead her to being a “bed wetting alcoholic” for quite some time, she rose above, got sober, and eventually created the acclaimed show, “Hyena” along with her husband, composer, Georg Frederick-Haas about her experience with alcoholism. She continues to be a living testimony that our most dark fantasies and painful life stories can be transmuted into art that helps others heal and discard their own personal, debilitating shame. We hope you join us for this amazing episode. For more on building resilience through being submissive (especially as a Black woman) check out Ep. 8 and 9 of Mollena's podcast, All That & Mo. How to find Mollena Williams-Haas: http://www.mollena.com/ Instagram http://instagram.com/mollena_lee_williams_haas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/mollenaleewilliams-haas How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

In this episode, The Ganja Goddesses chat with Lee Harrington. We talk all about sacred kink, the use of mind altering substances to enhance spiritual practices, and racism in the cannabis industry. It was such a pleasure chatting with Lee. The energy could be felt through the phone connection and left us vibrating. We hope that you can feel it while listening to this amazing episode! Fair warning, some of the conversation gets a bit hot and heavy!Lee is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com.Key topics: ● What is sacred kink?● How do we incorporate mind altering substances in sacred practices and do it safely?● Racism in the justice system and cannabis industry● Unfair treatment of people of color who are incarcerated for cannabis-related crimes● Sound clip of Coco Gauff speech at Black Lives Matter protest Resources: ● Lee Harrington's website: http://passionandsoul.com/● Follow Lee on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/passionandsoul● Lee's book of sacred poetry, On Starry Thighs● www.DanceSafe.org● Planned Parenthood F.R.I.E.S.● Floyd's of Leadville● The New Jim Crow● The Legal Marijuana Industry Is Rigged | Patriot Act with Hasan Minhaj● Black Lives Matter● Fighting for Black Trans Lives● Worldwide Protests in Support of George Floyd Protests & BLM● The Next Greatest GenerationCalls to action: ● Be sure to leaves a review ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leighSupport the show (https://www.Paypal.me/PhillyDR)

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, and relationships in the city.On episode 16, we return with the Season 2 Premiere,  Deviance - Fetishes, and Kink! It's part of the human condition to be curious and to have a desire to explorer. What happens when our desires and curiosity push the limits of society's norms? Do we seek out and find others who share those desires? Are we open-minded enough to consider connecting in ways we may have never considered?Dakota Brinker from Dallas is our Season 2 Premiere guest. We answer your dating question e-mails, and we review the book, “Playing Well with Others – Your Field Guide to Discovering Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather, and BDSM Communities.” by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams. We give a shoutout to Austrian screenwriter and filmmaker Gregor Schmidinger known for his TED Talk "How to Become a Sex God."Music featured on this episode:Hornet Duckett (V.D.G Mix) by VDG (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/VDG/61173 Unbury Your Heart by Siobhan Dakay (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/SiobhanD/57378 Ft: Madam SnowflakeSong Of The Phoenix (Tectonic Mix) by coruscate (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/Coruscate/61133 Ft: SackJo22 & Her Dog

This episode was recorded at 11:15am on Saturday, January 11th, 2020 on the unceded territories of the Kwikwetlem First Nation, of Sto:lo Coast Salish Peoples. We were invited to West Coast Bound, a Canadian conference that examines sexuality, power, and aros. Metro Vancouver Kink, the organizing board for this conference, asked BlackChat to host a gathering with the other Black presenters, to discuss the intersections of Blackness and kink. "What is it to be Kinky While Black? Join BlackChat, the local “Gathering of the Melanated” hosted by !Kona and Morgan, with special guests Mollena Williams, Q-Tip, GoddessIndigo, Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti, and Yoseñio. Representing a range of identities and public tenure, expect a free-ranging conversation where we will be discussing what it means to have skin like us, with the history our people do, while being a lovely kinky freak. Listen in while we explore topics like racial tones in kink, our favourite scenes and experiences, where we find representation and solace in community, and more. We’ll start with a 30-minute, recorded, kitchen table style conversation, where the hosts and presenters will discuss the intersection of Blackness and Kink/Leather. Expect laughter, insights and stories to which witnesses will have the opportunity to contribute.* This will be followed by a Q&A talkback portion, and then a transition period into a POC ONLY space. Post-session, People of Colour are invited to join us for light calories and hydration into the lunch hour ." I, (Morgan) completely butchered the land acknowledgement on this episode. With my sincerest apologies, here are the written notes addressing the land in which this conversation took place on: the ancestral, traditional, and unceded Indigenous territories of the Coast Salish Peoples, and in particular, the Kwikwetlem First Nation Kwikwetlem refers to the unique sockeye salmon that once ran abundant in Coquitlam River and Coquitlam Lake, sustaining the community for thousands of years. Archaeological evidence shows that the Kwikwetlem have lived in the area for at least four thousand years. coquitlamheritage.ca/ Here is the link for the presenters of WCB which features the bios of all Black presenters present on this panel discussion: https://westcoastbound.ca/archive-2020/presenters-2020/ The music on this episode is called "Sweetly" by Tonye Aganaba. A dear friend to us a BlackChat, who we hope one day will be on the podcast! You can listen to their album "Something Comfortable" on Spotify, Tidal, etc., and buy it on iTunes. Support Black artists! https://www.tonyemusic.com/ The podcast icon is still, and always will be, done by the amazing Ifetayo Zarine Alabi https://alabi-ifetayo.format.com/about IG: @ife.the.artist For updates and ways to contribute, visit www.patreon.com/blackchat or follow us on Instagram and Facebook @blackchatvancouver

This Valentine’s day, I bring you a special interview that I got with Reid Mihalko. Normally new episodes publish on Patreon first and come out for free 9 months later. This episode is an exception and will air for everyone on Valentine’s day. If you find the quality better than my free episodes, maybe try out Patreon for a month and see if you like it. I have sessions with Sophia Sky at Pan Eros Foundation in Seattle and in a week am recording with the podcast hosts of Escape Pod about intimacy in being a podcaster. Escape Pod has been running about 12 years though the hosts haven’t been with it since inception, and is part of Escape Artists, a thriving podcast community. Finally, at Westcoast Bound, I was able to get Mollena Williams to agree to do some podcast episodes with me. If you don’t know Mollena, the content that human puts out is incredible. Alright. Enough promo - let’s talk about this episode. So, I was invited by Jazz Goldman, a comet partner of mine and sex educator living in New York to Reid Mihalko’s birthday party in his home. After picking Jazz up and driving to Reid and Allison’s place, we enjoyed hot tubbing and an afternoon orgy with some fellow sex educators. I spent the night with Jazz in Reid’s spare room. While I’m failing at making breakfast sounds, Reid comes into the kitchen and offers me some coffee.

In this episode I’m very pleased and honored to be joined by the highly accomplished Lee Harrington, he is one of those very precious “where have you been all my life” kind of sapiosexual soul mates that you feel like you could talk with forever and ever. I knew this was going to be a deep, profound, enlightening, and transformative journey. His perspectives on sexual healing, liberation, and empowerment are vast, multi-dimensional, and infinitely thought provoking. I’m looking forward to many ongoing explorations, it felt like we barely massaged the surface. He shares his personal background of transitioning from being born assigned female to becoming a man, developing personal practices and group opportunities to experience sacred kink, working as an adult performer, becoming an international sacred sexuality educator and advocate, and so much more. Our dialog felt like a free-style jam where we riffed off each other’s musings, laments, and future-positive affirmations and visioneerings. It felt like a bit of collaborative improvisational spell craft; all intended to expand love, acceptance, compassion, and co-operation. We dance with language and he provides insight into ways to evolve the terminologies we use to define “us and them” and when appropriate, transcend to more of a continuum than a dichotomy. I’m hopeful with the application of Lee’s wisdom teachings, we’ll move towards an unprecedented global village where a new “us with them” paradigm will replace the “us and them” and “us vs them” binaries. About Lee: Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist, and award-winning author and editor on sexual and sacred experience. He is a nice guy with a disarmingly down to earth approach to the fact that we are each beautifully complex ecosystems, and we deserve to examine the human experience from that lens. He has been an academic and female adult film performer, a world class sexual adventurer, an outspoken philosopher, is a kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirituality since 1998. His books include “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,”“Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”(with Mollena Williams), “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and others. You can find Lee’s podcast, tour schedule, free essays, videos, and more over at www.PassionAndSoul.com

A Classic RISK! Singles episode! A story that Mollena Williams first shared on the podcast in February of 2012 about body positivity.

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This podcast has experts in power exchange talking about a key skill for power exchange. First Penny Barber outlines various reasons why a submissive might challenge a dominant and explains several different legitimate responses – in hope of creating the best possible outcome. Then Sarah Sloane discusses spoken and unspoken expectations for both sides and shares ideas for a healthy, productive relationship. Last, Mollena Williams explains how it is possible to work through issues even from within the D/s dynamic itself, keeping in mind that both sides are human beings first and their roles second. Hear more about a wide variety of kink and sexuality topics at www.KinkAcademy.com .

In part one, Alex Bettencourt draws from various sources such as books, films, magazines, etc. to offer inspiration for your service relationships. Not everyone has experience with ‘managing’ another person (which is another way to look at service submission), so Sarah Sloane is here to share some of her secrets to a successful service arrangement. She discusses the way to keep the service person motivated and gives specific suggestions for training and preventing micro-managing. Mollena Williams offers very concrete service tips – from the specifics of various forms of domestic servitude to sexual service and more – and recommends ways to make yourself useful based on you and your partner’s desires/needs. Lucky Albatross talks about the emphasis on service as a long-term situation, which can be intimidating to people hesitant to take on such a major task. Lucky proposes a smaller-scale integration of service into a “vacation” scenario, where you get all the fun of a real holiday with the added spice of a service dynamic. Hear more about a wide variety of kink and sexuality topics at www.KinkAcademy.com

We had a ton of laughs and learned a lot talking with Sex therapist Ruby B. Johnson about non-hierarchical polyamory, eroticised racism, BDSM & unusual roleplays, sex therapy vs. relationship therapy, her event Poly Dallas Millennium, her work as a forensic social worker, and a bunch more. Our conversation covers the spectrum from f*cked up (in a good way) to enlightening! Sunny & Ken also announce the January Giveaway winner, unveil the February prize, and rejoice at the news the f-bomb is allowed on TV.  Guest BioRuby B Johnson is a sex therapist and educator from Plano, Texas. Ruby founded PolyDallas Millennium in 2015 and it is in its 4th year. The symposium is July 13-15, 2018 in Dallas, Texas. Ruby is frequently asked to speak on black sexuality, polyamory, and consent. Episode 27 TopicsPoly & kinky group on fetlife, egalitarian polyamory, the movie Soul Food, serial killers, accidentally drinking your own pee, relationship therapy vs. sex therapy, mismatched libido, Nailin’ Palin, CBT, relationship anarchy, infidelity, non-hierarchical polyamory, dominant fantasy confessions, double penetration, Mollena Williams, Fire and Fury, The Chicago Ripper Crew, fire play and furries, veto power, Jeffrey Dahmer, solo polyamory, mixed metaphors, forensic social work, eroticized racism, bilingual sex ed, BDSM 101, topping yourself, unique roleplay, race play, anchor partners, fetish parties Episode 27 Links Ruby Johnson’s Website: http://www.sextherapistruby.com/ Ruby Johnson’s  Twitter: https://twitter.com/blacksexgeek Poly Dallas Millenium https://www.polydallasmillennium.com/ BDSM 101 Chicago Class with Sunny & Ken on 2/7/2018: https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m January giveaway & Ambi Preview facebook video: https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/videos/1709875359058298/   Episode 27 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambi Giveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Still not sure if you want to be part of the public kink community? Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, authors of “Playing Well with Others”, have a bunch of reasons why you should. From voyeurism to education to lifelong relationships, the kink community can enrich your own personal kink experience in more ways than you can imagine. T his podcast also covers "Dungeon Do's & Don'ts" and "Con Crud and Con Drop". Hear more about a wide variety of kink and sexuality topics at http://www.KinkAcademy.com 

If your boyfriend wants you to help him to film women so he can scratch his voyeur itch, is there an ethical way to do this? Hear the sordid tale of the the woman who wants to call Child Protective Services on her own damn boyfriend. On the Magnum, Dan chats with writer and BDSM educator Mollena Williams about "sub space" -what it is, and what it isn't. Also, a woman is getting annoyed that her boyfriend keeps presenting her with highly scripted sex scenarios that probably originated from porn. How can she keep him happy but also fly off-script? 206-302-2064 Today's episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week's menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to . Today's episode of the Lovecast is brought to you by Five Four Club- fashionable men's clothing curated and sent right to your door. Get 50% off your first package at when you use the offer code Savage.   This episode is brought to you by Blinkist: over 2,000 of the best-selling nonfiction books, transformed into powerful packs you can read or listen to in just 15 minutes. Go to  to start your free trial today.  

If your boyfriend wants you to help him to film women so he can scratch his voyeur itch, is there an ethical way to do this? Hear the sordid tale of the the woman who wants to call Child Protective Services on her own damn boyfriend. On the Magnum, Dan chats with writer and BDSM educator Mollena Williams about "sub space" -what it is, and what it isn't. Also, a woman is getting annoyed that her boyfriend keeps presenting her with highly scripted sex scenarios that probably originated from porn. How can she keep him happy but also fly off-script? 206-302-2064 Today's episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week's menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to . Today's episode of the Lovecast is brought to you by Five Four Club- fashionable men's clothing curated and sent right to your door. Get 50% off your first package at when you use the offer code Savage.   This episode is brought to you by Blinkist: over 2,000 of the best-selling nonfiction books, transformed into powerful packs you can read or listen to in just 15 minutes. Go to  to start your free trial today.  

Mollena Williams, International Ms Leather 2010, begins a series to help power exchange players communicate more effectively. She points out that regardless of your relationship dynamic, the start of communication needs to come from respect. She outlines how that looks from various perspectives to lay a foundation for future talks on the how of D/s diplomacy. Also in Diplomacy in D/s: Diplomacy in D/s: It’s for Everyone Diplomacy in D/s: Navigating Yes and No Diplomacy for D/s: for the Dominants Diplomacy for D/s: Conflict Resolution Diplomacy for D/s: for Submissives Hear more about a wide variety of kink and sexuality topics at http://www.KinkAcademy.com  

As the new year begins, The Pageist joins Lee to discuss delicious books to curl up with this winter. From hot erotica to invigorating writing to bring excellence to your sex life, they look at their favorite reading from the past year and beyond. Examining the shift from local bookstores to online-megamarts, they compare books and kinky toys, while encouraging everyone to find the best opportunities for learning and inspiration for them. Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122  RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss  Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com  PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio  Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul  Contact The Pageist: Website: http://thepageist.com iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/pageist-bdsm-sex-book-reviews/id1078134480 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thepageist/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ThePageist Email: thepageist@gmail.com Links, Events, People and Movies Mentioned: Mystic Productions Press: http://www.MysticProductionsPress.com Essence of Shibari by Shin Nawakari: https://www.amazon.com/Essence-Shibari-Kinbaku-Japanese-Bondage/dp/1942733852/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Queer Magic Anthology Call: http://www.mysticproductionspress.com/news/queer-magic Dan and Dawn of Erotic Awakening: http://eroticawakening.com Rachel Maddow Fan Page: http://www.maddowfans.com The Barbara Pimm Society: http://www.barbara-pym.org Amazon Smile Charity Program: https://org.amazon.com Arcane's Attic Floggers: http://www.arcanesattic.com PXS (Power Exchange Summit), May 19-21, 2017: http://powerexchangesummit.org The Marketplace 6-book Series, by Laura Antoniou: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015TCJ4IM/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Laura Antoniou: http://lantoniou.com Catherynne Valente: http://www.catherynnemvalente.com Palimpsest, by Catherynne Valente: https://www.amazon.com/Palimpsest-Catherynne-Valente/dp/0553385763/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Stephen King: https://www.stephenking.com Jack Rinella: http://leathermusings.blogspot.com Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships, by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson: https://www.amazon.com/Designer-Relationships-Monogamy-Polyamory-Optimistic/dp/1627781471/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, by Tristan Taormino: https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing, by Dr. David Lay: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Porn-Dicks-Responsible-Pleasure/dp/0996485236/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, by Ayzad: https://www.amazon.com/BDSM-Guide-Explorers-Extreme-Eroticism/dp/8892598457/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Look Into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Bring Out the Best in Your Sex Life, by Peter Masters: https://www.amazon.com/Look-Into-My-Eyes-Hypnosis/dp/1440449864/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Real Service, by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera: https://www.amazon.com/Real-Service-Joshua-Tenpenny/dp/0982879431/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus, by Christina Abernathy: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Slavehood-Miss-Abernathy-Omnibus/dp/1890159719/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities, by David M. Ortman and Richard A. Sprott: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Outsiders-Understanding-Sexualities-Communities/dp/1442217367/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 CARAS: https://carasresearch.org Alfred Press: http://alfredpress.com Unequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships, by Sabrina Popp, MD and Raven Kaldera: https://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Design-Counseling-Dynamic-Relationships/dp/0982879482/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 National Leather Alliance book awards: http://www.nla-international.com/allawards.html Rooms Formed of Neurons and Sex, by Ferrett Steinmetz: http://uncannymagazine.com/article/rooms-formed-neurons-sex/ Leather Spirit Stallion, by Raven Kaldera: https://www.amazon.com/Leather-Spirit-Stallion-Kaldera-2015-03-18/dp/B01F9GZ9EQ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Mollena Williams: http://mollena.com Jolted Awake: An Unconventional Memoir, by Richard Levine: http://alfredpress.com/jolted-awake-an-unconventional-memoir/ Soul of a Second Skin: The Journey of a Gay Christian Leatherman, by Hardy Haberman: https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Second-Skin-Christian-Leatherman/dp/1934625388/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Paige's page of 101 and recommended books page: http://thepageist.com/book-recommendations/ Paige's Goodreads Book List: https://www.goodreads.com/ThePageist Lee's Recommended Reading and Other Such Things: http://astore.amazon.com/pass-20 Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (Penguin Great Ideas Edition): https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Penguin-Great-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/0143036270/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 The Anatomy of Melancholy, by Robert Burton: https://www.amazon.com/Anatomy-Melancholy-Robert-Burton/dp/1781395764/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Remembrance of Things Past, Complete Unabridged 6-Book Bundle, by Marcel Proust: https://www.amazon.com/Modern-Library-Search-Complete-Unabridged-ebook/dp/B006NKL8BQ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances Lee Harrington Contact Information: Website: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com FetLife: http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul  Facebook Fan Page: https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon The Pageist shares her literary wit and wisdom with us all!

Sex educator, BDSM practitioner, and kink expert Mollena Williams is the guest on this week's installment of The Chauncey DeVega Show. She is the author of the book Playing Well With Others. Mollena Williams also travels across the country (and world) where she gives seminars and lectures on human sexuality, being sex positive, and the pleasures of being open to one's deepest sexual desires. Mollena was recently featured in a New York Times story about her marriage to world renowned composer Georg Friedrich Haas. In this fun and adult conversation, Mollena Williams and Chauncey talk about her life path, questions of sexual freedom and happiness, kink, "race play", white supremacy, and happiness in a person's intimate life. Chauncey and Mollena also dialogue about modern day black chattel slavery sex "plantations", the boundaries and rules of playing with sex and race, concerns about dignity, and how control of one's body and pleasure is an integral (and little discussed) part of the Black Freedom Struggle. Mollena Williams is a funny, smart, and great conversation partner. During this week's grown folks episode of The Chauncey DeVega Show, Chauncey also talks about his post Chicago Trump media appearances, complains about how a picture of him online does not do justice to his real beauty, warns Hillary Clinton about how Donald Trump will attack her in the 2016 presidential election, and discusses the Hulk Hogan penis trial and the legendary members of American presidents.

In this show, brought to you live from the Sexual Health Expo in Los Angeles, Emily welcomes 3 guest sex experts to cover a smorgasbord of sex and love topics. From bedroom communication to play parties and more, this show is full of tips to help you strengthen your relationship, turn up the kink, and explore alternative lifestyles. In the course of an hour, America’s favorite sex geek Reid Mihalko gives his number one blowjob tip, certified MFT Jennie Steinberg leads a crash course in Love Languages, Dirty Lola shares her journey into polyamory and Mollena Williams makes BDSM accessible for the masses. And as if this isn’t enough fun for all you lovers out there, Emily engages the audience in a live Q&A centering around communication and sexual education! If you missed the Sexual Health Expo this year, fear not — This podcast is loaded with knowledge bombs and highlights from some of the leading speakers and sexperts in the industry. Don’t miss it!

From the bathhouses of Chicago to the social media of today, join as Lee interviews Rick Storer, Executive Director of the Leather Archives and Museum. Together they explore the shifting language of sexuality, listening to oral histories, the academics of kink… and his fetish for the Dewey Decimal system. As we unpack boxes of memorabilia and the world of leather and alt sex back to the 1920s, he reminds everyone that their stories matter, and that leather is more than a material. . Passion And Soul Podcast:iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rssPast MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.comPassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audioStitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soulErotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Leather Archives and Museum Information: Leather Archives & Museum Website: http://www.leatherarchivesandmuseum.orgLA&M Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leatherarchives/LA&M Twitter: https://twitter.com/leatherarchivesLA&M Tumblr: http://leatherarchives.tumblr.com/Rick Storer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rjstorerVolunteer for the LA&M: http://leatherarchives.org/promote.htmlLA&M Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/1570   Links, Events, People and Movies Mentioned:Victoria & Albert Museum: http://www.vam.ac.uk/LA&M Oral History Project: http://leatherarchives.org/oral.htmlKinbakunomicon Japanese Rope History: http://kinbakunomicon.libsyn.com/Demon Six, Kinkbaku library: https://fetlife.com/users/234258Faviola_Llervu, Kinbaku library: https://fetlife.com/users/1429963Kinbaku Today: http://www.KinbakuToday.comNational Leather Association:Janet Hardy: http://janetwhardy.com/Mollena Williams: http://www.Mollena.comInternational Mr. Leather Contest: http://imrl.com/Man's Country Bathhouse: http://www.manscountrychicago.com/Joseph Bean: http://www.amazon.com/Joseph-W.-Bean/e/B000APR8U0Fetlife: http://www.Fetlife.comJulie Frenell, PhD: https://www.gallaudet.edu/hprs/faculty---staff/history-philosophy-religion-and-sociology/sociology/fennell-julie.htmlGayle Ruben: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gayle_RubinJanuary 2011 Podcast -Share Your Story: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/ps001-share-your-story-0Carter/Johnson Leather Library: http://www.leatherlibrary.org/Sacred Kink book: http://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Kink-Eightfold-Paths-Beyond/dp/055721176X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20Mistress Cyan, Los Angeles: https://twitter.com/mistresscyanHow to Gift Your Collection: http://leatherarchives.org/donatecollections.htmlLeather Preservation Project: http://leatherarchives.org/leatherpres.htmlTony DeBlase Leather Flag History: http://leatherarchives.org/pride.htmlNew subject headings in Library of Congress: http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85120740.htmlGold Coast Leather Bar: http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/ARTICLE.php?AID=2347 Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances:http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information:http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoulhttps://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul  

How can a man convince his lady to give him the kind of sloppy head that makes her gag? It's not like he's anti-feminist or anything! A woman's mother-in-law does NOT APPROVE of her poly lifestyle. But mom doesn't know that her precious son is also as poly as the day is long. Should they cut off contact from his mother? Or is it time for him to come out already? Tear jerker! Dan tries to talk a suffering, abused gay kid into leaving her parents' toxic home. On the Magnum, get kinky with Mollena Williams, a.k.a The Perverted Negress. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% discount and free web domain registration. This episode is also brought to you by Club W- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For 50% off your first order, go to Club W.com/savage. This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.

How can a man convince his lady to give him the kind of sloppy head that makes her gag? It's not like he's anti-feminist or anything! A woman's mother-in-law does NOT APPROVE of her poly lifestyle. But mom doesn't know that her precious son is also as poly as the day is long. Should they cut off contact from his mother? Or is it time for him to come out already? Tear jerker! Dan tries to talk a suffering, abused gay kid into leaving her parents' toxic home. On the Magnum, get kinky with Mollena Williams, a.k.a The Perverted Negress. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% discount and free web domain registration. This episode is also brought to you by Club W- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For 50% off your first order, go to Club W.com/savage. This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.

  Join Lee Harrington in this rich discussion with sexuality and spirituality advocate, author and educator Xochiquetzal. They dive into race and appropriation in paganism and kink communities alike, sharing the idea that “race play” means something totally different as a Latina woman thinking of the Aztecs. From types of ways that people work to be “seen” in the world to the censure that we do to ourselves every day of our lives, Xochiquetzal and Lee examine how respect comes into play as explorers finding their ways in the world. While doing so, they acknowledge our energetic fatigue and ask each person to breathe deep and find a life beyond the shame gifted to us by our overculture. *** Xochiquetzal is a High Priest/ess within the Treebridge Tradition, through Lyceum of the Wayfarer. They are an initiated Shaktist, an Umbandista, a Polytheist, and Catholic. They rarely have issues with navigating these strangely mixed worlds. Within their work mingling sex, spirit, kink, and magic they have found freedom and joy. They are also called to Service by teaching this freedom and joy to any who come to them as seekers. *** Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul Erotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Xochiquetzal Contact Information: Website: http://sacredprofanity.com/ Facebook: http://fb.com/sacredprofanity1 Twitter: https://twitter.com/wyfrngstrngr Email: contact@sacredprofanity.com Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/703988 Links, Events, People and Books Mentioned: Rachel Dolezal: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jun/14/became-a-black-woman-spokane-rachel-dolezal-black-girl Pantheacon – San Jose, CA (February 12-15, 2016): http://pantheacon.com/wordpress/ Talking about the Elephant: An Anthology of Neopagan Perspectives on Cultural Appropriation (edited by Lupa) http://www.amazon.com/Talking-About-Elephant-Perspectives-Appropriation-ebook/dp/B0098NL86K/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Social Unrest and the Reflections of Pagans of Color: http://wildhunt.org/2013/07/social-unrest-and-the-reflections-of-pagans-of-color.html Racial Discussion Fatigue Syndrome: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=j6Kcsm5wp-4 Spencer Bergstedt, International Ms. Leather 1994: http://www.leatherati.com/2013/11/sir-spence-imsl/ Mollena Williams: http://www.mollena.org Playing Well With Others: http://www.amazon.com/Playing-Well-Others-Discovering-Communities/dp/0937609587/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Spirit of Desire: Personal Explorations of Sacred Kink (edited by Lee Harrington): http://www.amazon.com/Spirit-Desire-Personal-Explorations-Sacred/dp/0557992419/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 By Blood, By Bone, By Blade (edited by Nicole Bonvisuto): http://www.amazon.com/Blood-Bone-Blade-Tribute-Morrigan/dp/150056656X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Bringing Race to the Table: Exploring Racism in the Pagan Community (edited by Crystal Blanton, Taylor Elwood, and Brandy Williams): http://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Race-Table-Exploring-Community-ebook/dp/B00T5KABMS/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Many Gods West – Olympia, WA (July 31-August 2, 2015): http://manygodswest.com/ Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul   https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul

Mollena Williams tells the story of how mixing racial tension with erotic role-play can become a very high-risk activity.

Beating at the heart of Leather communities is the bootblack, the caretaker of leather garments, and today's guest would offer, Leather community spirit itself. Join us as we talk with International Community Bootblack 2012 Ruin about her journey into kink and leather communities, title holding, and embracing her love of boots themselves. She's come a long way from the woman who did not know a gag from a butt plug (literally), and shares insights into self-value, personal passion, speaking up for your truth, and that sometimes we might embrace or outgrow our labels.   ***   Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio Stitcher: www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul Erotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Ruin Contact Information: Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/24813 Twitter: https://twitter.com/ruin_nation Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ruin.unleashed Links, Events, People and Books Mentioned: NW Community Bootblack: http://nw-lthrsir.com/2015-nw-contest.html International Community Bootblack:  http://bootblack.wikidot.com/international-community-bootblack-icbb International Mr. Leather (Chicago): http://imrl.com/ Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC, Seattle): http://thecspc.org/ The Cuff (Seattle): http://www.cuffcomplex.com/ Diamond Jack: https://fetlife.com/users/58276 The Stockroom: http://www.stockroom.com Midori: http://www.planetmidori.com/ The Floating World (New Jersey): http://thefloatingworld.org Mollena Williams: http://www.mollena.com/ KinkFest (Portland, OR): http://kinkfest.org/ Papa Gene Romaine at GLPW: http://glpw.org/board.html BammBamm (NSFW): http://bammbammleather.com/ High Shine (poem by Lee Harrington): http://templeoracle.com/high-shine/ Femme Bootblacks Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/5538  Red Warrior (ICBB2010): https://fetlife.com/users/277063 Luna (ICBB 2011): https://fetlife.com/users/23926  International Ms. Bootblack: http://imsl.org/2015-imslimsbb-contestants/ …and remember to tip your Bootblack! Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul   https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul

Mollena Williams, Andrew Aghapour, and Melanie Hamlett tell true stories that get very up close and personal.

YELLOW FEVER! Comedian and storyteller Kevin Allison (Risk!, The State) stashes his favorite sex toy and poppers away and tells us how he got into and might get out of his kinky rut. TOPICS: Risk! Storytelling, Gay Before Kindergarten, Sex Clubs, Rimming, Njoy Pure Wand, Kink Aware Professionals, Mollena Williams, Poppers Addiction, Gay Male Culture, Skipper & Gilligan, Bears & Twinks, Giving Away Power, Wanting to Please, Service Dom, Daddy Coach, Sexy Guilt, Raised Catholic, Erotic Hypnosis, Jazz, Pandora's Box, Dark Odyssey Kink Camp, Asian Men, Telling Stories, Taking Care of Yourself, Switching, Sex Therapy, Daddy/boy, Matchmaking and Healing.

BDSM guru, activist/performer/writer/woman of many talents: Mollena Williams shares about her renewed hope in love in a full-time master/slave relationship, and her journey with owning her power as a submissive. Boundaries and communication in consensual power play! The many grey areas of consent! The many many complexities of power play and race/class/gender/etc/etc/etc! We collectively address […]

Storyteller, performer, BDSM educator, Mollena Williams is our guest this week

  Is wearing lingerie kinky? What about eating truffles? Does the answer change if you are an exhibitionist or food fetishist? Join Lee Harrington as he explores spicy sexuality by explaining the sandwich method of trying out new play, reflects on individual journeys in the community, and has fun spreading it on a bit sexy. Be forewarned, you may get hungry for food or your own erotic authenticity.   Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/ PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio Erotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast/   Links, Events, People and Books Mentioned: Wild at Heart, Seattle:http://www.wildatheartxxx.com/ Center for Sex Positive Culture, Seattle:http://www.sexandculture.org Paradise Unbound: http://www.ParadiseUnbound.com Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the BDSM, Kink and Leather Communities (by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams): http://passionandsoul.com/www.amazon.com/Playing-Well-Others-Discovering-Communities/dp/0937609587/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 The Toybag Guide to Age Play (by Lee Harrington): http://www.amazon.com/Toybag-Guide-Age-Play-Guides/dp/1890159735/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20   Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/     Lee Harrington contact information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul

How do you safely enter the kink community and find people to play with? Mollena Williams, co-author of Playing Well With Others, gives advice. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly

Mollena Williams, Vicki Tollemache and Kevin Allison share stories of battles between the voices within.

We are delighted to welcome back Mollena Williams, a.k.a "The Perverted Negress," to talk about the kinky men you'll meet online who start the conversation with "KNEEL BEFORE ME, SLAVE!" On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Dr. David Ley about pornography addiction, and why the idea is overblown.  Also, a drunken bi lad wonders if he should tell his girlfriend that he is a sex worker.  And a lot more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at

We are delighted to welcome back Mollena Williams, a.k.a "The Perverted Negress," to talk about the kinky men you'll meet online who start the conversation with "KNEEL BEFORE ME, SLAVE!" On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Dr. David Ley about pornography addiction, and why the idea is overblown.  Also, a drunken bi lad wonders if he should tell his girlfriend that he is a sex worker.  And a lot more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at

Tina has been dreaming of chatting with legendary pervert Mollena Williams about role play for a long time, and she finally got her wish! In Part Two of this episode, Tina and Mollena get to the bottom of characters, costumes, scenarios, and dirty talk; and Mollena shares some pretty unforgettable tales of pretty ponies, daddy/girl scenes, and that one time she really upset a slave auction… LISTEN: Mollena Williams, the “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller and an... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Tina has been dreaming of chatting with legendary pervert Mollena Williams about Role Play for a long time, and she finally got her wish! In this episode (Part One of Two!), Tina and Mollena dig into primal impulses, negotiations, and storytelling. LISTEN: Mollena Williams, the “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. She is extremely proud to have served as International Ms Leather 2010. She is also thrilled to have been named 

Kids today! A woman agrees to give her new lover her used panties. He then reports that his eleven-year old nephew got a hold of them and did unspeakable things with them. What kind of messed up family are we dealing with here? Another kid! Listen to this kid! She's 18, and her gay co-worker is setting up "dates" between her and his 30 year old friends to have sex with her while he watches. But lest you think he's a monster, don't worry- he's offered to provide the drugs and booze.  And over on the Magnum side, a cool interview with Mollena Williams, a.k.a. "The Perverted Negress" on getting started in the kink community.  And finally, Dan does what Dan does best: he talks a gay lad into demanding that his bigoted family either accept him as he is, or lose his presence at the Christmas dinner table.  Aso much more, really.    Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.

Kids today! A woman agrees to give her new lover her used panties. He then reports that his eleven-year old nephew got a hold of them and did unspeakable things with them. What kind of messed up family are we dealing with here? Another kid! Listen to this kid! She's 18, and her gay co-worker is setting up "dates" between her and his 30 year old friends to have sex with her while he watches. But lest you think he's a monster, don't worry- he's offered to provide the drugs and booze.  And over on the Magnum side, a cool interview with Mollena Williams, a.k.a. "The Perverted Negress" on getting started in the kink community.  And finally, Dan does what Dan does best: he talks a gay lad into demanding that his bigoted family either accept him as he is, or lose his presence at the Christmas dinner table.  Aso much more, really.    Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.

Mollena Williams jumps on the show and we talk about how she became International Ms Leather, why the kink scene is so white, race play, how to approach her to play, Prince and a bunch more. Find her online at […]

Description: She's an actress, singer, writer, and submissive extrodinare. In this personal interview we delve into the many adventures of Mollena Williams and how she's an age player too! Hosts: Mako, & Spacey Guest: Mollena Williams Recorded: March 19th, 2013 @ 8:30 PM EST Show Notes: Mollena's website. Playing Well with Others book Don't Criminalize Fantasies NY Time article The […]

The ins and outs of a mono-poly D/s relationship with the amazing Mollena Williams. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY or leave a comment at www.polyweekly.com.

After giving a recap of his tour with Mollena Williams for their new book, “Playing Well With Others,” Lee shares his emotional journey through the handing down of rituals. What touches us that is handed down by those who came before? What ways will we carry the work forward? From classes to rituals, connection to fetish, let’s touch into the Work, and also remember that we deserve excellence… and hotness/fun too! See the full list of links and resources at http://www.eroticawakening.com/files/ea221.php Lee Harrington contact information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com |http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul |http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul

After giving a recap of his tour with Mollena Williams for their new book, “Playing Well With Others,” Lee shares his emotional journey through the handing down of rituals. What touches us that is handed down by those who came before? What ways will we carry the work forward? From classes to rituals, connection to fetish, let's touch into the Work, and also remember that we deserve excellence… and hotness/fun too!   Originally released as Erotic Awakening Episode http://www.eroticawakening.com/files/ea221.php

Part Three of our four part 10th Anniversary Show Extravaganza   Stories From: BART train operator and tour bus driver, KELLY BEARDSLEY, author and funny lady, CASSIE SNEIDER, managing editor of The Rumpus and co-founder of Pen & Ink,  ISAAC FITZGERALD, Ms. Leather 2010, BDSM educator, actress and writer, MOLLENA WILLIAMS, and author and Litquake founder, JACK BOULWARE.   Hosted by Beth Lisick and Arline Klatte.  Produced by Briana Breen.  From July 13, 2012 at San Francisco’s Verdi Club.

Ever wanted to get involved in the kink community but don't know where to start? Shy and overwhelmed? Curious about the types of events and get togethers out there in the land of pervyness? Then tune into this podcast where we navigate munches, head to conferences, explore fetish nights, have fun at play parties, and find out how to find events too! Every event is different, and you deserve to find one that fits you.  So pull out your social graces, dust off those leather boots (or heels, or sandals), and let's dive into this foray into kink events and culture, celebrating the upcoming release of “Playing Well With Others” by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams. Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0937609587/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20Links Mentioned:FetLife – www.Fetlife.com BDSM Events Page – www.thebdsmeventspage.com BDSM Events –www.bdsm-events.comEvents/Spaces Mentioned:International Mr. Leather – www.imrl.com Shibaricon – www.shibaricon.com Dark Odyssey.com –www.DarkOdyssey.com Fetish Fair Fleamarket - http://nelaonline.org/cmsms/index.php?page=fff Paddles NYC - www.paddlesnyc.com Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture - www.sexpositiveculture.orgDelving Into Power Toronto : https://fetlife.com/events/89768/v2Delving Into Power Anchorage : https://fetlife.com/events/113452/v2 Lee Harrington contact information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.comhttp://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul   Originally released as Erotic Awakening Episode http://www.eroticawakening.com/files/ea204.php

Ever wanted to get involved in the kink community but don’t know where to start? Shy and overwhelmed? Curious about the types of events and get togethers out there in the land of pervyness? Then tune into this podcast where we navigate munches, head to conferences, explore fetish nights, have fun at play parties, and find out how to find events too! Every event is different, and you deserve to find one that fits you.  So pull out your social graces, dust off those leather boots (or heels, or sandals), and let’s dive into this foray into kink events and culture, celebrating the upcoming release of “Playing Well With Others” by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams. Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0937609587/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Links Mentioned: FetLife – www.Fetlife.com BDSM Events Page – www.thebdsmeventspage.com BDSM Events – www.bdsm-events.com Events/Spaces Mentioned: International Mr. Leather – www.imrl.com Shibaricon – www.shibaricon.com Dark Odyssey.com – www.DarkOdyssey.com Fetish Fair Fleamarket - http://nelaonline.org/cmsms/index.php?page=fff Paddles NYC - www.paddlesnyc.com Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture - www.sexpositiveculture.org Delving Into Power Toronto : https://fetlife.com/events/89768/v2 Delving Into Power Anchorage : https://fetlife.com/events/113452/v2  Lee Harrington contact information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul

Kate Raphael speaks with Sarah Schulman, coproducer of the film United in Anger, which shows tomorrow, June 19, at 11 a.m. at the Castro Theater as part of the LGBT Film Festival. Kate also interviews Cyd Nova, one of the activists who is reconvening ACT UP in San Francisco. Then, Eryn Mathewson talks with veteran sexuality educators, Mollena Williams and Julie Galles about how to help youth and adults navigate the wide world of sex. The post Women's Magazine – June 18, 2012 appeared first on KPFA.

Bobcat Goldthwait, Mollena Williams, Vanessa Ragland, Reid Mihalko and Beowulf Jones forge the gap between expectations and results. 

Lee Harrington is joined this week by Mollena Williams and Dan & dawn as he leads a discussion on consent. They range in topic from how to say no, how to say yes, negotiation, the Consent Project, safe words and linguistics. Lee and Mollena also share some very personal examples where consent was not respected.  Plus, bathhouses, sneaky penis and a bucket of worms.  Got a question or comment for Lee? You can "Ask Lee" at Lee@passionandsoul.com And you can find all things Lee Harrington at passionandsoul.com Comments? Suggestions? Questions? Contact the EA Podcast at dananddawn@eroticawakening.comRead the EA blog right here (http://www.eroticawakening.com)Visit our discussion group in Fetlife (fetlife account required)Give us a call and leave us a voicemail at 206-309-0054

Mollena Williams on a monogamous-identified gal trying poly. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com.

In the last few weeks, we brought you Sacred Kink, then Sex is Fun, so now we add the question of "Is this is a lifestyle?".  And we also sit down and chat with the fantastic Sarah Sloan (http://twitter.com/SarahSloane) and Mollena Williams (http://twitter.com/MOLLENA) from our time at Dark Odyssey to the sounds of slap and tickle and moans in the back ground. We discuss another aspect of the lifestyle - recovery in the lifestyle.  But wait, there is more - a quick conversation with Jsin, of Beat Me In St Louis, on that upcoming event. Great event, and time is running out to decide if this is what you make this one! And! I describe a scene with dawn in graphic details. *Rarr* And use her moans as a segway.  We wrap all that up with a "shout out" to all those great Chicago people. And coffee. 

In this episode, Graydancer covers a LOT:Bound in Boston!Cleveland GRUE! (only $30 for a weekend of Ropetastic GRUEviness!)Rope Academy!Tips for a Vanilla Guy Learning to Love RopeTwisted Monk and the Ropecast are giving away a $50 gift certificate every month for the next four months! Listen to learn how you can qualify to win (lotsa ways!) and this month's theme: BIRTHDAY.Jinx from Young & Kinky Podcast joins Graydancer as we talk with Mollena Williams about her Race Play class at MadTownKinkFest.The folx over at Dungeon Place Podcast call in (608-432-KNOT) to wish the Ropecast a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!Whew! That's some goooooood Ropecast! Email your comments to graydancer@gmail.com, or call the Ropecast hotline (608-432-KNOT)!

Part two of my interview with Cunning Minx and Mollena Williams on the etiquette and play practices with single subs (especially mostly Mono ones) in the BDSM scene. Also, a response to the podcast about the speed and source of a rope top's education!

Graydancer welcomes the Cunning Minx and Mollena Williams to the show to talk from a single submissive's perspective on what it's like to be in a mostly poly-BDSM world. Part one of two, this interview raises some fascinating points of etiquette and scene behavior that should be food for thought for tops, bottoms, switches, and many other species in the kink jungle. Want to comment? Email Graydancer or visit www.graydancer.com for more!Also, some info on the upcoming Jimi Tatu seminar at the Boston Rope Group!

Graydancer interviews Mollena Williams, the Perverted Negress, at Mollena.com, and then goes sailing in search of fund raising ideas with the crew of Monkeyfetish.