Cheating on Fear

Ted Lasso is THE flagship show on AppleTV+, and there are several reasons for that! This episode, Beatrice and Dante pull the series apart and discuss how, on the surface, it appears to just be a show about a soccer team, but in reality, it is a roadmap for life.Ted Lasso Trailer Ted Lasso Inspo on InstagramMary Poppins - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGrogu Saying “Yes”Homer Disappears Into a HedgeTed Lasso's Shortbread RecipeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

One of the best parts of Beatrice and Dante's recent trip to Miami were the seminars and workshops run by Taylor Sparks, Sex Goddess. Taylor was kind enough to tell us her origin story, as well as the ins and outs (see what we did there?) of lifestyle events. Taylor (a.k.a Mariposa) Sparks is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess, certified in both holistic aromatherapy and human behaviour. With over twenty years of experience in the natural skin care/cosmetics industry, Ms. Sparks launched OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shops. For more than 15 years before, she was a highly sought-after corporate trainer with a proficiency in the areas of: Communications, Negotiations, Leadership and Business Management skills, Customer Service and Team Building with a specialty in DISC Personality Assessments. While traveling around the globe, Taylor has become renowned in the adult travel industry and is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally. Coaching couples, singles in both the ethically monogamous and ethically non-monogamous communities.Personally, she has two adult children, a 25-year marriage that was both ethically monogamous/ethically non-monogamous (12/13 years respectively) and has identified as ethically non-monogamous for more than 15 years. Taylor lives a plant-based life, socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter of all things organic, natural and eco-friendly...including Love. You can find Taylor on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter @organicloven.You should also visit organicloven.com and use the coupon code CHEATING20 for 20% off your order (until July 5th, 2023).An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy by Taylor K. Sparks - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSpanking for Lovers by Janet W. Hardy - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Beatrice and Dante are back from attending a hotel takeover event in Miami... and they have thoughts.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Honesty and communication are key to any healthy relationship. It's the reason that we are able to enjoy the type of relationship that we have. Ahead of our first foray into a Lifestyle take-over event, Beatrice and Dante dive into some sordid secrets that spouses keep from each other.Benny Hill trailer (in case you weren't born in the last century!)Billy Madison thinks peeing your pants is the coolest.No one wants to play finger bang with Meg.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Our love lives and sex lives have been co-opted by dating app corporations and reality TV. What does this mean for the post-COVID world of love, sex and relationships?Love is Blind Season 4 trailer.Perfect Match trailer.This is why French's Mustard is the best!Farming for Love casting call.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2022 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

There seems to be a rise in the number of men who consider themselves "nice guys", and then promptly show you they are anything but nice if you don't do or say exactly what they want. This week Beatrice and Dante take a look at some examples of self-professed "nice guys" and see that there is a big difference between being a "nice guy" and an actual good guy. Deadpool - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBorat - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDeadpool celebrates International Women's DayPoliceman vs. FiremanBig Demitri EnergyCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2022 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Dante recently went back and watched This is 40 and wondered if we are we all doomed to fall apart after 40? Turns out, it all depends on the choices you make. This is 40 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThor: Love and Thunder - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAdam Driver in Marriage Story - Amazon.com, Amazon.caLost - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Break-Up - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmal Clooney's Speech to George ClooneyThe Ambiguously Gay DuoFlorida Mother Barred from SchoolCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2022 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We had to succumb to the lure of "The White Lotus" and it didn't disappoint! This week Beatrice and Dante chat about what they got right and what they got wrong about non-monogamy, jealousy and relationships.The White Lotus - Season 1 (Trailer) - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe White Lotus - Season 2 (Trailer)The Time Traveller's Wife - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Time Traveller's Wife TV Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDune - Part 1 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSeven Years in Tibet - Amazon.com, Amazon.caStewie Has Pink EyeIt Wasn't Me by ShaggyPaul Rudd - Hey, Look at UsCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2022 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been awhile Brave Ones! We're back and discuss what's up with Adam Levine, Dante's travel to a Blue Zone, and the #1 indicator on the potential success of a relationship.CNBC article Here's the No. 1 thing that makes relationships successful, say psychologists who studied 40,000 couples by Drs. John and Julie Schwartz GottmanCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2022 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

How much resemblance does love on reality tv shows have compared to real life? This week Beatrice and Dante discuss relationship reality shows like 90 Day Fiancé, Love Island and The Ultimatum. What can we learn from these shows, and what do the shows get right or wrong?Love Island trailerBorat - Amazon.com, Amazon.caWho Is America trailer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThor: Love and Thunder - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMaking Nice with Naughty by Dr. Tom Murray - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFboy Island USA trailer The Ultimatum trailerAndrew Tate scoffing at “Women!”Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We're taking a little break to celebrate the lovely Beatrice's birthday, but we'll be back in 2 weeks! In the meantime, enjoy another banger from Drake that was everywhere on this trip.Massive by DrakeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

After a brief hiatus, we discuss the delightful Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (MASSIVE spoiler alert!). In this wonderful gem of a movie, Emma Thompson plays a retired school teacher hiring a sex worker to help her fulfil a sex life never lived, and showed sexy and enthusiastic consent, first orgasms in your sixties, and why the the proper way to open a bottle of champagne should sound like a nun's fart.Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (trailer) - Hulu.com, Amazon.caSame Time Next Year - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

A surprise international trip put Leo Grande on hold, but we'll be back in 2 weeks with that episode. In the meantime, enjoy a classic German nursery rhyme turned 90's club hit!Eins, Zwei, Polizei by Mo-doCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been a rough couple of weeks, so Beatrice and Dante have constructed a sh!t sandwich for you! Beatrice's first Pride parade, legal reactions to Roe vs. Wade being overturned, and what constitutes unladylike behaviour.Beatrice and Dante's favourite anti-smoking image!Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been a long wait for the second installment of the Top Gun story. The conservative right are claiming it as their own, but is it? This week Beatrice and Dante talk about Top Gun Maverick, the surprising emotional depth of the characters, the incredible visuals, and how it just might be what we all need right now.Top Gun Maverick trailer.Avengers: Infinity War - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAvengers: Endgame - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCareer Opportunities - Amazon.com, Amazon.caEyes Wide Shut - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHonest Trailer Top GunMaz Kanata, a.k.a. Ed Harris in Top Gun Maverick.Jane Lynch dares you to acknowledge her gender.I Ain't Worried by One RepublicCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Have you ever been so into someone, and then they do something seemingly innocuous and you are so disgusted and can't come back from it? You've got the ick. It's different for everyone but is it real, or is it post-pandemic dating sabotage? Beatrice and Dante unpack the social and evolutionary purposes for disgust and share some ick-worthy experiences from their past.Inside Out - Amazon.com, Amazon.caTrevor Noah helps you figure out what you can eats.Monica and Young Ethan.More than Words by ExtremeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Yay, we're finally returning to normal! Unfortunately, along with a return to normal comes a spike in STI infections and declining condom use. What's going on? Beatrice and Dante discuss safer sex practices, condom use objections, and how to get just the right fit.Tom Segura recommends you don't pull out next time. We Are the Earth by Lil DickyThe Experiment Podcast The Resurgence of the Abortion Underground Obi-Wan Kenobi trailerCheck out Lucky Bloke and their assorted size condom sampler pack!Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We all have our favourite movies, cult favourites and classics. But, in an age of rapid and dramatic social change, how do they hold up?Fight Club - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmerican History X - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPrimal Fear - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSnatch - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Sixth Sense - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHitch - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHow to Lose a Guy in 10 Days - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMy Best Friend's Girl - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBeauty and the Beast - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBeastly - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Hangover Trilogy - Amazon.com, Amazon.caRevenge of the Nerds - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAnimal House - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMary Poppins - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Breakfast Club - Amazon.com, Amazon.caShe's All That - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Notebook - Amazon.com, Amazon.caLove Actually - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Holiday - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Nutty Professor - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSixteen Candles - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmerican Beauty - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGrease - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFlight of the Navigator - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Last Starfighter - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPretty Woman - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Movies That Made Us trailerThe Princess Bride - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

After 2 long years, Beatrice and Dante dusted off their passports and headed to South Beach for a much needed long weekend away. Hear about their adventures, recommendations and even a playlist for you!Beatrice's Miami Vibes playlist on Spotify.Kimpton Angler's Hotel (@anglershotel; website)Pura Vida Miami (@puravidamiami; website)Call Me Gaby (@callmegabymb; website)Havana Vieja (@havanavieja_southbeach; website)World War Z - Amazon.com, Amazon.caIndependence Day - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBallers - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPeru - Fireboy DML & Ed SheeranFirst Class - Jack HarlowMove to Miami - Enrique Iglesias feat. PitbullCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Beatrice and Dante are working on something special that's not quite ready yet. In the meantime, enjoy some Pitbull!Culo - Pitbull feat. Lil JonCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Does it matter to you if that penis arrives hard or soft? The Worst Person in the World brought this to the forefront and led Beatrice and Dante to talk about whether this is actually a thing, why are there so many penises on TV all of a sudden, and puns… Lots of puns.The Vexing Penis Mystery That Haunted Me After I Saw One of the Year's Dark-Horse Oscar Hits by Heather SchwedelThe Worst Person in the World trailerSerendipity - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBe sure to also check out Ruby Ryder's new Instagram account (@rubysworldofnoshame)Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

He's back! After far too long, Beatrice and Dante sit down with Dr. Tom Murray and discuss his upcoming book, over controlled people, and what the heck is going on with politics in the USA.If you aren't following Dr. Tom Murray on Instagram and Twitter, you ought to be! You can also find Dr. Murray at his website.Instagram - @drtommurrayTwitter - @drtommurray1Web: www.drtommurray.comUntrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBeatrice's favourite Cialis commercial.Naked Attraction trailer.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

This week Beatrice and Dante speak with "knowledge demon" Dr. James B. Stein, whose wildly popular TikTok account (@j3wcifer) eviscerates problematic creators and misogynists with microphones, all with academic citations. Beatrice and Dante discuss The Tinder Swindler, misogyny in politics and privilege with Dr. Stein, and why giving microphones to all these people might actually be good thing.If you aren't already following Dr. Stein (@j3wcifer) on TikTok, you need to!Tinder Swindler trailer.Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSounds Like a Cult podcast.Conspirtuality podcast.We Need to Talk About Cosby trailer.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

The "Freedom Convoy 2022" that has paralyzed Ottawa for the better part of February has brought to light a number of divisions in our society, largely fueled by misinformation and self-interest. This week we trace the timeline and origins of the occupation in our nation's capital.Our newest Canadian Heritage Minute (NSFW). Check out the Conspirituality Podcast episode 90 on the occupation of Ottawa by the “Freedom Convoy 2022”While we were recording this episode, two of our favourite comedians, Jordan Klepper and John Oliver did pieces on the Ottawa Occupation. You can find them here and here.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

I think we can all agree that And Just Like That… is an awful continuation of the SATC characters. The Golden Girls, by contrast, was, and continues to be, a love letter to women of a certain age. In this episode, we hold these two series up and see who got it right. Be warned… MAJOR SPOILERS ahead!The Golden Girls - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAnd Just Like That… trailerGet one of these if you don't want to end up like Mr. Big (USA or Canada).Dante strives for this to be his future.Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Menopause Manifesto by Dr. Jen Gunter - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's the Holiday season and Beatrice and Dante are spending time with their families. See you all in 2022!Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

This week Beatrice and Dante sit down with our long-time friend, and friendly neighbourhood lesbian, Alex, to discuss some misconceptions many straight people have about the queer community.Check out our pegging episode - To the Hilt! with Ruby Ryder (episode 043)Same Time Next Year - Amazon.com, Amazon.caQueer as Folk - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe L Word - Amazon.com, Amazon.caOrange is the New Black - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBasic Instinct - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSilence of the Lambs - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBound - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMonster - Amazon.com, Amazon.caJust a Gentle Reminder to Be Nice to Your GirlfriendWhen Harry Met SantaGirls Want Girls - DrakeLost in the Fire - Gesaffelstein & The WeekndCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

The year was 1993. Dante was in high school, Beatrice was an exotic dancer, Royce Gracie had just won UFC 1, and Indecent Proposal was lighting up talk radio and office water coolers everywhere. This week we revisit Indecent Proposal and herald its arrival on streaming video.Indecent Proposal - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca50 First Dates - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Wedding Singer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caJust Go With It - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSausage Party - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSt. Elmo's Fire - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGhost - Amazon.com, Amazon.caA Few Good Men - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNatural Born Killers - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe People vs. Larry Flynt - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Hunger Games - Amazon.com, Amazon.caZombieland 1 & 2 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFlashdance - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca9 1/2 Weeks - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFatal Attraction - Amazon.com, Amazon.caUnfaithful - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Natural - Amazon.com, Amazon.caField of Dreams - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMajor League - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBull Durham - Amazon.com, Amazon.caRudy - Amazon.com, Amazon.caJerry Maguire - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCasino - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBialetti Pot - Amazon.com, Amazon.caWill by Will Smith and Mark Manson - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Almost 2 years to the day, Beatrice and Dante returned to their friendly neighbourhood sex club and it was even better than they remembered!Dante's Christmas Movie Playlist:Elf - Amazon.com, Amazon.caScrooged - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Family Man - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDie Hard - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Holiday - Amazon.com, Amazon.caYour sex club primer podcast episode! - So You Want to Go to a Sex Club… (episode 012) Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Dante spent a week exploring the northern backcountry, leaving Beatrice all alone. What could she possibly do to entertain herself? Well… she spent a week on dating apps gathering intelligence for the Brave Ones. What did she find? You'll hear the good, the bad, and the ugly on this week's episode.Top Gun - Amazon.com, Amazon.caYour Manosphere primer - Breaking the Iron Rules (episode 009) and Stay in Your Lane, Bruh Part 1 & 2 (episodes 010 and 011)Lil Dicky fumbles Doja Cat (DAVE S02E06)Style and Wildest Dreams - Taylor SwiftCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

After six seasons, Sex and City ends on arguably the strongest season, with a satisfying resolution for the four main characters. All the feels in this one, and be sure to have a box of tissues handy! And also… fu*k Berger!Sex and the City - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGood Fer You! - Christian Bale's NSFW on-set rantSamantha and Smith and Richard Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

The fifth season of Sex and the City picks up with Miranda as a new mother, Carrie mourning the relocation of Mr. Big, Charlotte picking herself up after the end of her marriage, and Samantha dealing with Richard's infidelity. Being the shortest of the six seasons, there is a surprising amount to unpack in the penultimate season of the beloved show.Sex and the City - Amazon.com, Amazon.caInspector Gadget - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBook of Awesome by Neil Pasricha - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSavage Love from A to Z: Advice on Sex and Relationships, Dating and Mating, Exes and Extras by Dan Savage - Amazon.com, Amazon.caA Nation Worth Ranting About by Rick Mercer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caWhat We Do in the Shadows Season 3 TrailerMo Money Mo Problems - The Notorius B.I.G. LuLaRich TrailerTed Lasso TrailerCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

This week Beatrice and Dante speak with Victoria Parsons Gracie, choreographer, actress, author, mother and empowerment coach (and member of the Gracie Brazilian jiu-jitsu dynasty). Victoria shares her experiences being a woman in Brazilian jiu-jitsu, her struggles with body image, how BJJ doesn't eliminate fear (but gives you options), and the dangers of belt worship.You can find Victoria Parsons Gracie on Instagram (@vicgracie), and be sure to check out her amazing children's books and the BJJ grappling dummy she designed for kids!Kip and the Magic Belt by Victoria Gracie - Amazon.com, Amazon.caKalyn Finds Her Power by Victoria Gracie - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBubba the Jiu-Jitsu BearNonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg - Amazon.com, Amazon.caIt is NEVER the Victim's Fault video. Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

After the darker tone of the third season of Sex and the City, season four strikes a more optimistic tone, despite all the break-ups and hardships the four experience. Beatrice and Dante discuss whether soulmates are thing, questioning your sexuality, and how getting with an ex is rarely a good idea.Sex and the City - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFind Melissa Kelly on Instagram (@melissakellyboudoir), Facebook and at her website (www.melissakellyboudoirphotographer.com).Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

The third season of Sex and the City features the sexiest, and the cringiest, scenes of the series. Beatrice and Dante dive into height differentials in dating, sexual incompatibility, and stuffing affairs down the memory hole.Sex and the City - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHorrible Bosses - Amazon.com, Amazon.caInternal Affairs - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Wedding Singer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSame Time Next Year - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCoco - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHere's what LASIK surgery actually looks like (medically graphic imagery!) The differences between police officers and firefighters.Hotel - PitbullCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Decade birthdays are always the trickiest to navigate. For women, getting older presents its own set of internal and societal challenges. From La Belle Province, Beatrice and Dante discuss what it means to get older, how that seems to be getting harder and harder for women while men seem to breeze through it, and what we should be focussing on as we age.The Storm is Upon Us: How QAnon Became a Movement, Cult, and Conspiracy Theory of Everything by Mike Rothschild - Amazon.com, Amazon.caYou can find Johnna on Instagram (@soulsearchingandsquats) or her website www.isquatforpancakes.com.Masters of the Universe: Revelation trailer.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Beatrice and Dante dive back into the highlights of Season 2 of Sex and the City. Discussions include women being punished for being successful, bi invisibility, fragile masculinity and pets as partners.Sex and the City - Amazon.com, Amazon.caExplained Season 3 Trailer - Ep. 04 - DogsAli G Indahouse - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBoomerang - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Way We Were final scene - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Ahead of the much anticipated reboot, Beatrice and Dante begin a multi-part series revisiting the characters and themes of the beloved HBO series Sex and the City.Sex and the City - Amazon.com, Amazon.caUntrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBig Trouble in Little China - Amazon.com, Amazon.caLove in Paradise: The Caribbean, A 90 Day Story will fill that 90 Day Fiancé-shaped hole in your heart.Mayhem was originally Carrie's booty call.Mindy Kaling is impressed with a skateboarder. DeAnne Smith has some dating advice for straight men.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2021 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

If you can imagine your worst nightmare as someone trepidatious about non monogamy, Sex/Life is it. In this episode Beatrice and Dante do the dirty work of watching the first season of the Netflix original Sex/Life and pull apart the little bit of good with all the bad and ugly. MAJOR SPOILERS, especially about Season 1, Episode 3 @ 19:50.44 Chapters About 4 Men by BB Easton - Amazon.com, Amazon.caTell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Litte Death (the movie Dante was talking about) - Amazon.com, Amazon.caEyes Wide Shut - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSex/Life trailerBBC Short Film Leading Lady PartsBuild a Bitch - Bella PoarchDr. Pimple Popper trailerCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

A quick programming note for the all the Brave Ones out there. Summer in Canada is measured in days, not months, so we're taking advantage of the our short summer, but we'll be back next week with our breakdown of the Netflix original series Sex/Life. Until then, click the link to see what Beatrice is going to be up to.Bea be like… (SFW!)Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Why is pleasure the first thing to go in our busy lives? Why are we so quick to deny ourselves the simplest of pleasures? Why should we prioritize pleasure in our lives? This week we talk with Melissa Louise, pleasure advocate, sex educator and cockologist about why pleasure should be a priority for everyone.Check out Melissa Louise on Instagram @thepleasurestudio or on her website.Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Would your best friend tell you if you had toilet paper stuck to your shoe if there was a cute guy at the bar? Research says: probably not. This week on the podcast, Beatrice and Dante speak with Dr. Maryanne Fisher about how and why women compete, and the benefits of cooperation over competition.You can find Dr. Maryanne Fisher at her website.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

If it takes coercion, trickery and manipulation to get someone into bed, it's not enthusiastic consent. This week Beatrice and Dante unpack the 2019 documentary The Pickup Game. They discuss the origins of the "pick up artist" industry, the exploitative nature of the business, and how pick up artistry can quickly turn from aggressive to criminal. The Pickup Game trailer - Amazon.comThe Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca Jennifer Anniston being a Horrible Boss - Amazon.com, Amazon.caTea Consent videoCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's our first anniversary! Since there is no paper in a podcast, Beatrice and Dante talk about the origins, challenges and lessons learned about the podcast, and share listener feedback of favourite moments, episodes and guests.Untrue by Dr. Wednesday Martin - Amazon.com, Amazon.ca Queen's Gambit trailer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Creating a work life balance has always been something entrepreneurs have had to grapple with. Over the last 500+ days the majority of the working population is working from home, and more people than ever have been coming to terms with what it's like to live and work in the same place, with the same people, 24 hours a day. This week on the podcast Beatrice and Dante welcome Kelly Rolfe, multi-passionate entrepreneur, business coach and author to talk about the death of hustle culture, and how balancing your masculine and feminine energies may be the key to deeper connections in your relationships.You can find Kelly on Instagram (@kellyrolfecoaching), and at her website.Dear Stress, I'm Breaking Up with You by Ky-Lee Hanson - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDear Limits, Get Out of My Way by Ky-Lee Hanson - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

How do you know when a relationship is over? This week Beatrice and Dante talk about the subtle, and not so subtle, signs of the end of a relationship.The break-up scene from The Break-Up. The Break-Up - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHitch - Amazon.com, Amazon.caA little Worth It by Fifth Harmony to get your day started right!Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Quiz time! Beatrice quizzes Dante on some pervasive myths about non-monogamy, and Dante draws on his anthropology background to provide some context to these fears, and how we can overcome them.Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

The whoring twenties are upon us! Beatrice and Dante discuss what the world is going to look like as the pandemic recedes, how to get ready for the whoring twenties, and how this collective global experience will shape our society in years to come.Find Melissa Kelly on Instagram (@melissakellyboudoir), Facebook and at her website (www.melissakellyboudoirphotographer.com).Lil Nas X provides definitive proof that the COVID-19 vaccine does indeed “make you gay”. Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Fun fact: butts have no sexual orientation. This week on the podcast Beatrice and Dante speak with THE Ruby Ryder. She is a sex educator, podcaster and shame slayer, who believes pegging will save the world.You can find the wonderful Ruby Ryder online at her websites Pegging101.com, PeggingParadise.com as well on social media:Twitter - @ruby_ryderInstagram - @therubyryderTik Tok - @peggingparadiseDeadpool Celebrates International Women's DayDeadpool - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

This Week Beatrice and Dante discuss the takeaways from Season 1 of HBO's docuseries on the NXIVM cult, The Vow. Cult leader Keith Raniere used guilt, shame and emotional blackmail to control and exploit his members, both male and female.The Vow trailerNXIVM brand on DOS members (NSFW)Seven Years in Tibet - Amazon.com, Amazon.caRole Models - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPaul Rudd and the Venti scene in Role ModelsCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

This week we welcome back beloved regular Dr. Tom Murray. Topics and digressions include: Lil Nas X, bi invisibility, erectile disappointment, attraction in long-term relationships, marriage mortgages and what the root of love is. So much meat… and a little bit of cheese!If you aren't following Dr. Tom Murray on Instagram and Twitter, you ought to be! You can also find Dr. Murray at his website.Instagram - @drtommurrayTwitter - @drtommurray1Web: www.drtommurray.comMONTERO (Call Me By Your Name) - Lil Nas XCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear