Podcast appearances and mentions of Justin J Lehmiller

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#400: Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller is an American social psychologist and author. Lehmiller is a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. Lehmiller has authored books such as Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life and The Psychology of Human Sexuality. Today Dr. Lehmiller joins us to discuss sexual desire, fantasies, threesomes, and how sex can strengthen our relationship bonds.  To connect with Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller click HERE To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) Check Out Lauryn's NEW BOOK, Get The Fuck Out Of The Sun HERE This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential  The Hot Mess Ice Roller is here to help you contour, tighten, and de-puff your facial skin and It's paired alongside the Ice Queen Facial Oil which is packed with anti-oxidants that penetrates quickly to help hydrate, firm, and reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, leaving skin soft and supple. To check them out visit www.shopskinnyconfidential.com now.  This episode is brought to you by Wealthfront No One is great at something the first time they try it. And if you're unfamiliar with investing, getting started can be intimidating. Wealthfront does the work for you, so you can invest like an expert from the beginning. Wealthfront creates automated investment portfolios of diversified, low-cost index funds personalized for you. To open your account all you need is 3 minutes and $500 to invest. Right now you can visit www.wealthfront.com/skinny to get your first $5,000 managed for free.  This episode is brought to you by Bite Toothpaste Bite is reinventing personal care by making products that are good for you and the planet. Bite's hero product is their dry tooth paste tablets that come in a reusable glass jar and the refills come in home compostable pouches. You just pop one in your mouth, bite down and brush, it will foam up just like regular toothpaste but with no plastic tube or messy paste. Bite is offering 20% off your first subscription order. Go to www.trybite.com/skinny or use code SKINNY at checkout to claim this deal.  This episode is brought to you by BEV Bev is a female-first canned wine brand that was founded to change not only the way a product is consumed, but the way an industry and culture have operated for generations. Their wines are dry, crisp, and a lil' fizzy, super refreshing and delicious. They have ZERO sugar and only 3 carbs and 100 calories per serving. We've worked out an exclusive deal. Receive 20% off your first purchase plush free shipping on all orders. Go to www.drinkbev.com/skinny or use code SKINNY at checkout to claim this deal.  Produced by Dear Media 

If you can imagine your worst nightmare as someone trepidatious about non monogamy, Sex/Life is it. In this episode Beatrice and Dante do the dirty work of watching the first season of the Netflix original Sex/Life and pull apart the little bit of good with all the bad and ugly. MAJOR SPOILERS, especially about Season 1, Episode 3 @ 19:50.44 Chapters About 4 Men by BB Easton - Amazon.com, Amazon.caTell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Litte Death (the movie Dante was talking about) - Amazon.com, Amazon.caEyes Wide Shut - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSex/Life trailerBBC Short Film Leading Lady PartsBuild a Bitch - Bella PoarchDr. Pimple Popper trailerCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code COFCHR20 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don't forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Cami Hurst and Braxton Dutson are back with another book review. This month's book is Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin J. Lehmiller. This book contains some of the most extensive research on American sexuality to date. Tune into hear Cami and Braxton's take on this book about sexual fantasies. You can support this show and all of Cami's amazing work at https://www.patreon.com/sextherapy101

If you researched anal or explored your sexuality more since the lockdowns, you are not alone! It's clear that since the lockdown happened, we have spent a LOT of time with ourselves, and let's face it... the mind enjoys wandering to interesting places. Let's take a look at a recent scientific study on the different taboo kinks and sexual exploration people have done since the Pandemic. I also share insights on how to open up to your partner and begin exploring new parts of each other's sexuality. References: Justin J. Lehmiller, Justin R. Garcia, Amanda N. Gesselman & Kristen P. Mark (2020) Less Sex, but More Sexual Diversity: Changes in Sexual Behavior during the COVID-19 Coronavirus Pandemic, Leisure Sciences, DOI: 10.1080/01490400.2020.1774016   Check out the VLog Podcast Version of this Episode Here   Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links  

Topics: Andrew Gillum says he's bi; Trump implodes; Republicans call for martial law; Will you riot if the GOP steals it?; Will Democrats even fight for democracy? Does America deserve what Trump has done to it? ; Sex and power; And meeting your comedy idols Guests: Sex Expert, Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller from The Kinsey Institute, author of “Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life” and “The Psychology of Human Sexuality”; Comedy Writer Alan Zweibel, 5 time Emmy Award winner – original SNL writer- It’s Garry Shandling’s Show, Curb Your Enthusiasm, latest book is “Laugh Lines- My Life Helping Funny People be Funnier”;  Sex Educator, Comedian, Politician, Baby Mama and Activist Kelly Stone; Jackie “The Joke Man” Martling; Pete Dominick, host of “StandUP! with Pete Dominick”; Comedian Aaron Berg, whose latest special “25 Sets” is streaming on Amazon and iTunes; Mark Breslin, founder and president of Yuk Yuk’s, the largest comedy chain in North America; Screenwriter Dave Sirus, whose latest movie is “The King of Staten Island” starring Pete Davidson, Marisa Tomei, and Bill Burr and directed by Judd Apatow; PETA Podcast’s Emil Guillermo; Down with Tyranny’s Howie Klein, founder and president of The Blue America PAC; Dr. Harriet Fraad, host of “When Capitalism Hits Home” and "It's Not Just In Your Head"; Professor Adnan Husain who teaches Medieval Mediterranean and Islamic World studies at Queens University in Ontario, Canada; Professor Harvey J. Kaye author of “FDR on Democracy”; Covid Town Hall with The Irritable Immunologist and Immunobiologist Henry Hakamaki. Time Code: Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller (1:57) Kelly Stone (30:35) Alright Fine (Biden) (1:05:14) Dan In The Newsroom (1:07:35) Dr. Harriet Fraad (1:26:16) Professor Adnan Husain (1:49:18) Professor Harvey J. Kaye (2:32:00) Covid Town Hall with The Irritable Immunologist and Henry Hakamaki (3:34:07) Alan Zweibel (4:34:30) Pete Dominick (5:02:00) Aaron Berg (5:33:00) Mark Breslin (6:04:00) Dave Sirus (6:36:02) Emil Guillermo (7:09:14) Howie Klein (7:35:46) I'm On My Way (8:12:25) Jackie The Joke Man Martling (8:15:00) Music: Alright Fine (Biden) written and performed by The Covid Players who are Lance Jeffries, Tom Webber and Kathleen Ashe; I'm On My Way written and performed by Professor Mike Steinel

Sex Expert, Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller, from The Kinsey Institute, whose latest study for Politico reveals Democrats have become less sexually active than Republicans; Peabody and Emmy Award Winning Jim Earl; Emilio Fox and David answer your email; PETA Podcast's Emil Guillermo; The Rev. Barry W. Lynn from Americans United for Separation of Church and State; Comedian Aaron Berg, whose latest special "25 Sets" is streaming on Amazon and iTunes; Professor Ben Burgis, whose latest book is "Myth and Mayhem: A Leftist Critique of Jordan Peterson;" Dr. Philip Herschenfeld, psychiatrist and professor of psychoanalysis and his son, Actor/Singer/Comic/Harvard Apologist Ethan; American Hero Burt Ross who took down the Gambino Family and went on to create New Jersey's right turn on red; Mark Thompson from San Francisco's KGO Radio; Ryan Harvey, activist, musician and journalist, host of the new podcast Hope Dies Last, co-founded Firebrand Records with Tom Morello; Bob Rubin, whose latest Netflix special is "Oddities and Rarities;" Comedy Legend, The Amazing Johnathan;  Ask Henry Hakamaki Music: Professor Mike Steinel, Lance Jeffries, Tom Webber, Kathlene Ashe, Jim Mahood Time Code: Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller (:41) Hard Time In The City (35:31) Jim Earl (37:19) There Ain't No Cane On The Brazos (1:13:07) Emilio Fox (1:16:45) Emil Guillermo (1:51:21) The Rev. Barry W. Lynn (2:38:32) Aaron Berg (3:11:22) Professor  Ben Burgis (3:39:05) Dr. Philip Herschenfeld and Ethan (4:04:50) Burt Ross (4:30:11) Mark Thompson (5:00:30) Ryan Harvey (5:38:34) Bob Rubin (6:07:08) The Amazing Johnathan (6:27:49) Henry Hakamaki (7:09:07)

Claire and Sebastian connect long distance to discuss the many different ways we relate to one another. From monkish celibacy to orgies to multiple life partners, there are so many way to practice intentional relationships it's almost overwhelming. But Claire and Sebastian still find something missing and talk about political anarchy, metamours and the relationship escalator. This episode was our first recorded long-distance with Claire in Cambridge, UK and Sebastian still stateside. Show Notes: The relationship between Kiney’s infamous ‘X’ category to modern day asexuality is explore by Justin J. Lehmiller (2017) by the The Psychology of Human Sexuality. John Wiley & Sons. Asexual flag as per the Asexual Visibility and Education Network found here. Also see the Trevor Project here. We will not give airtime to discussing this particular sub-section of celibate persons given the recent terror attacks on women. We recommend episode 120 of the podcast Reply All, which cover the history of the ‘InvCEL’ or ‘InCEL’ community. Relationship Anarchy was introduced by Andie Nordgren as a political manifesto. See here. It was also used in 2010 Open Con and in 2013 by Dr Meg-John Barker in her lecture ‘Rewriting the Rules: Non/monogamies’. Solo-poly is outlined well in an article by Polyamory Today on Medium, written by Shannon Ashley and available here. Poly Wanna Podcast discuss the Relationship Escalator in episode 14. For more on the difference between Prescriptive and Descriptive Hierarchy see this fun post by Chelsey Dagger on Polyfor.us Metamour is introduced by Polyamory School on Medium and can be found here. You can support Poly Pages on Instagram @polypages,. You can find your co-hosts on Instagram @claireltravers and @sebastiandaou. Our wonderful music is lovingly provided by the amazing Mint Green who can be found on bandcamp, facebook and Instagram: @mintgreenmusic. The track we use is Curtains from their EP Growth. Feel free to contact our email - polypages@gmail.com - for any questions or comments. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/polypages/support

Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller, research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want, joins Taylor to discuss sex fantasies, answer your questions on how to have better sex and healthier relationships, forced sex fantasies in #MeToo era, the impact of porn on our sexual fantasies, and the increasing interest in consensual non-monogamy.   RESOURCES Tell Me What You Want Sexual Health Alliance Sex & Psychology Blog  

What are the most common fantasies people have? Where do they come from? Why do we have them? And how do I talk to my partner about my fantasies? How can we bring fantasy into real life?  Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller has run the popular blog Sex and Psychology since 2011 and he has published articles in numerous media outlets, including Playboy, USA Today, VICE, Politico, and New York Magazine. To learn more visit sexandpsychology.com We also answer a sex question: I’m a straight man engaged to a beautiful woman, but I never crave sex. For some of our favorite sexy products: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com   We are a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts network    

"People who share their fantasies are the happiest and most sexually satisfied in their relationships." //What’s the different between a fetish and a fantasy? What are the benefits of communicating our deepest desires? What are the most common fantasies among Republicans versus Democrats? These and many more questions are address by social psychologist Dr Justin Lehmiller's new book Tell Me What You Want, for which he surveyed 4200 Americans on their erotic fantasies. //Dr Lehmiller and Tina chatted about why we want what we can't have, or what we've been raised to believe we're not supposed to want in the first place, and much more! //Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller's research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. His studies have appeared in all of the leading journals on human sexuality, including the Journal of Sex Research, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and The Journal of Sexual Medicine. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Det er blevet onsdag i aftenklubben og det betyder at vi dykker ned i kærlighedsmanegen. Tidligere på året udkom bogen 'Tell Me What You Want', som er skrevet af Justin J. Lehmiller. Bogen handler om amerikanernes seksuelle fantasier. Og hvorfor får vi egentlig seksuelle fantasier, og hvordan kan man introducere sine seksuelle fantasier for sin partner for? Daniel Cesar taler med Kirk Rønler, som er datingcoach i programmet "ER DER OGSÅ EN TIL MIG" på Tv2 og forfatter til bogen "SÅDAN FÅR DU EN KÆRESTE."

Could cuckolding be a positive thing for some couples? A new study investigates fantasies about and experiences with cuckolding in a large and diverse sample of gay-identified men. The study received media attention, with CNN reporting “Cuckolding could be positive for some couples.” One of the study’s authors is not a scientist but is probably a familiar name to most listeners: Dan Savage. We spoke with the lead author of the study, Dr, Justin Lehmiller. About Our Guest Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is currently the Director of the Social Psychology Graduate Program at Ball State University. Dr. Lehmiller is also a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. Don’t Miss This Week’s Foreplay… A new survey of more than 20,000 U.K. employees uncovered nearly 90 percent of them admitting to some form of sexual interaction in the office. Although office relationships are often discouraged in most corporate environments, the dating app survey found that sexual activity inside office workplaces is quite common. Among the 20,238 British people surveyed by Saucy Dates, 87 percent said they “have engaged in sexual activity” in the office at some point throughout the span of their career. Read full article http://www.ibtimes.com/9-10-workers-admit-sexual-activity-their-office-survey-finds-2647394 (here). Afterglow New research from Confi, a digital health startup founded at Harvard Business School, shows that men and women have different expectations when it comes to sex. The survey looked at 1,200 young people between 18 and 25, the majority of whom identified as straight. 45% of men surveyed said they expect vaginal sex from someone who goes home with them after a party. But when you consider the fact that just 31% of women said the same, you can really see the problem: there’s a 14 percent disparity of expectations. That means that 14 percent of the time there may be men expecting sex that women aren’t planning on having. Read article discussed https://www.bustle.com/p/men-women-have-different-expectations-when-it-comes-to-sex-survey-finds-its-pretty-problematic-8013976 (here). Facebook Twitter Google+ Pinterest LinkedIn 0Shares