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The JLX Coaching Friends With Benefits Podcast brings you some of the best minds in the fitness game. We'll be talking about all things nutrition & training, lifestyle & behaviour and a boatload more with a list of special guests to share their experiences with you too.

Xander Connabeer


    • Apr 21, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 37m AVG DURATION
    • 103 EPISODES


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    Ep 106: Why We've Launched a 7 Week Programme

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 24:07


    I've always hated FADS. They waste your time, effort and money - three things we'd all love to have more of, or at least, spend one of them to gain the other... and being someone who cares about people - this shit MATTERS.So why would I run a 7 week programme? Have a listen and find out.And if you're reading this for the free stuff, here ya go

    Ep 105: Are all of these Nutrition FADs our fault?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 26:12


    This is the most controversial podcast I've ever done. It's not clickbait.I've shied away from sharing my thoughts and opinions over the years for wanting to fit in and not be outspoken, but for change to really happen, you have to be heard, right?Let's see.I'd love to know your thoughts!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

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    Ep 104: Practical Task I want YOU to try...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 24:22


    For many people, January is a tale of two halves.The first is good, and the second sucks.I want to help you change this and this podcast is aimed at doing exactly that!Let's get to work.-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 103: Meet Amy, Group Coaching and 1-2-1 Journey!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2024 39:19


    Join me and one our longest standing Team JLX members, Amy as we talk through her journey to where she is today.We talk Group Coaching, getting started and the main takeaways she gained from the programme before joining the 1-2-1 Team!Enjoy!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 102: Steven Bartlett & The Best Lesson I've Ever Learned.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2024 13:51


    Here's the greatest lesson I took away from 3 years at the top University for Sport and Exercise Science in the UK - a clue, it's got nothing to do with nutrition, training, physics or chemistry (I forgot most of that haha)!I hope it impacts you in the same way and helps you going forward.-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 101: Start taking control of Christmas.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2024 20:23


    How to get the most out of yourself through Christmas!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 100: My Challenges with Food & Eating.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2024 21:21


    This came from many hours of self-work and support, as well as from challenging the difficult thought processes.Good things sit on the other side of the work that seems impossible to do.I hope this helps!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 99: Unf*ck your future self.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2024 22:54


    Grab a pen and paper and let's work together through this one.It's going to get deep.But deep work is the best kind.I hope this helps!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 98: Claire's - Photoshoot Prep, Injuries, Relationship with Food.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 59:04


    Nearly 2 years into her journey and a year on since we last podcasted together, Claire rejoins us to share an update on her year, how her photoshoot prep went and battling through her recent injuries and adversity.Once we get started and stop laughing, it's a belter!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 97: Fear of Failure

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2024 26:57


    Off the back of last week's podcast on Self-Sabotage, we're following the trail with a semi-continuation with this week's conversation!We hope you enjoy the show!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 96: Self Sabotage 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 23:23


    Self-sabotage is not as straight forward as most people think.Often, it's not even self-sabotage that people are struggling with, it's something else.In this podcast, we start to uncover more of that and go deeper into what it is and what causes it.We hope you enjoy the show!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 95: Client Pauline's Post-Pregnancy Physique Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 53:01


    Join Coaches Grace and Xander and the AMAZING Pauline from Team JLX!In today's episode, Pauline and Grace talk in detail about Pauline's journey from pregnancy, to post-partum muscle-building and mini-cuts and so much more!It's an amazing episode that is guaranteed to inspire you!Let's get stuck in!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 94: 30 Day of Work - How I Lost 8lbs Without the Scales

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 21:48


    In this episode I share exactly what our 30 Days of Work plan is, how I implemented it and how it successfully helped me lose 8lbs before my September '24 holiday!-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 93: Personal Update & Getting back into after some time off.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 15:39


    What's the best thing to do when it comes to nutrition, training and lifestyle after having some time off?-----------------If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 92: My Personal Update, ADHD and Time Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 23:53


    Hey folks! After a short break, I'm back

    Ep 91: How Team JLX Do Coaching...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 56:37


    Want to get the inside info on coaching here at Team JLX?Want to know more about the process of joining The Team?What our main focuses are as coaches?How we go through check-ins with our clients?All contained in this banger of a podcast!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 90: Why not now? The 3 main reasons you won't get started...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 21:51


    In this episode, we chat through the 3 main reasons people don't think they can achieve their goals, get a coach or start making progress towards their goals.Let's chat this one through...-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 88: It's okay to lose weight.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 20:34


    Time to play devil's advocate to everything you see on social media.Yes, it is in fact, okay to want to change your body if that's your choice...In this podcast, I give my thoughts on this and what you can do if you find yourself in this predicament...-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 88: Why Values are The Key To Success...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 19:43


    Values are things we all have. But mostly aren't aware of.Becoming aware of them, and setting them with intention can bring confidence, clarity and great results.Who wouldn't want those?-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 87: 5 Top Accountability Tips To Help You Get Incredible Results

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 29:36


    Here are 5 tips that WILL help you to be more accountable to yourself and your goal so that you can look, feel and perform your absolute best!Today I'm joined by Coach Grace on the podcast as we give our take on the 5 key points! We've dived in to 5 common things that we see which may be going under the radar and messing up your progress!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 86: 5 Reasons Fat Loss Isn't Working For You...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 14:51


    Here are 5 REASONS you are likely struggling to see results with your fat loss goal.These are not your simple straight forward talk on the fact you're eating too much or not doing enough...We've dived in to 5 common things that we see which may be going under the radar and messing up your progress!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Gemma's Journey: Cancer, Fat Loss and Worldwide Travel

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 46:24


    Team JLX member, Gemma, joins us today to talk through her journey.One that words could never do justice to.She bravely talks us through her journeys through cancer (yes, journies - twice!), her experience with travelling and of course her fitness journey too.Thank you once again for tuning in, we hope you enjoy this incredible episode! -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 84: Client Q&A - Fear of Getting 'Bulky'? Nutrition for Training?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 30:16


    We asked our clients what they would have liked to know before they started working with us...What questions would they have asked?And we've taken those questions and answered 5 of them for you today!Enjoy!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 83: Is Sleep Ruining Your Fat Loss Progress?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 26:40


    You've heard about the importance of sleep for a successful fat loss phase, but do you know WHY?HOW?OR WHAT?A lack of sleep does to your body and how that impacts your fat loss results?No?Well, here's what you need to know...-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 82: PCOS, Fat Loss and Coaching

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 41:38


    In this episode, I chat through the symptoms of PCOS and the impact that these challenges can have on both everyday life and the fat loss process.I talk through some of my experiences with clients who have struggled with PCOS and how we managed those to get results!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 81: Does this ruin your holiday?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 26:41


    Holidays are there to be enjoyed, and so many of you aren't enjoying your holidays. Whether that's for fear of wearing a bikini, 'needing' to diet beforehand or managing food on holiday...In this episode, I chat through all of these!--- --- --- --- --- --- ---If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 80 - Making a Pre-Workout Gone WRONG...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2024 21:19


    I promised the girls in the Team that I would spill the tea on what happened when I tried to make my own pre-workout...AND I talk through the perfect pre-workout and what matters the most!--- --- --- --- --- --- ---If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    EP 79: Emotional Eating: What is it? How to overcome it...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 30:06


    Graduate in 8: https://www.jlxcoaching.com/gi8Emotional eating is something that all of us can relate to in one way or another.It's one of the main causes of weight gain in the women we chat with and one of the biggest challenges they face when it comes to losing body fat and building self-confidence.Let's get stuck in...--- --- --- --- --- --- ---If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Q&A: Fact Vs Opinion, Hyrox & The Zoe Diet...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 22:24


    FAT LOSS MASTERMIND:https://jlxcoaching73127.activehosted.com/f/5Fact Vs Emotion Vs Opinion...Hyrox - an extension of my recent IG story...Zoe - my thoughts and opinions on the latest FAD diet... --- --- --- --- --- --- ---If you found this episode helpful, please share it to your story and with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 77: The JLX Method - Our 3 Phase Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 25:33


    We explore how we get our clients world-class results without FAD diets, eliminating food groups, hours of cardio or restricting them to social hermits...We've opened the door to our 3 phase process that does just that...Enjoy!--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Enjoy the epi your story or with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    EP 76 - Bikini Bodies, Fat Loss and Common Mistakes to Avoid...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 50:37


    Grace joins me on the podcast today to talk through:

    EP 75 - Q&A: Effectively missing workouts, how to shorten workout and weekend calories.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2024 23:55


    Client Q&As: How to fit in your training when you've got to miss a session?How to fit in your training when you've got to shorten a session?"I have really sociable weekends, how can I manage my calories better for fat loss?"--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story or with friends and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 74 - LISTEN TO THIS if you're close to giving up...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 29:55


    Resilience is the key to life.Controlling your mind.Controlling your choices.Controlling the journey to your goals.It all starts with resilience.--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story or with friend and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 73 - Q&A: Optimal Training for Glute Growth & How Important is Recover?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2024 2:44


    We're back with client questions...This week we've got training volume, optimal volume and frequency and how important is recovery?--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story or with friend and family who may benefit from this so that we can help more people

    Ep 72 - Perfectionism: From my Experiences a Coach

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 26:54


    Perfectionism.A widely used term that's sometimes glorified and sometimes used as a cover-up...So what causes it based on my opinion and experiences as a female coach of nearly 10 years?--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    Ep 71: Q&A - How to set your calories & Calories Vs Macros...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 29:27


    Client Q&A - Episode 1How to calculate your starting calories for fat loss, maintainence and muscle gain?Calories over macros, or macros over calories?--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    Ep. 70 - If you struggle with consistency YOU HAVE TO LISTEN TO THIS.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 38:54


    If you're struggling with consistency, LISTEN to this podcast.--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    5 Interesting Points on Progressive Overload

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 31:55


    Most of you will know about progressive overload and its role in muscle growth and training in general.BUT...In this podcast episode, Grace and Xander chat through some of the nuances around progressive overload and some key points that are often missed!Enjoy!--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    Optimise Your Tracking/Nutrition for Amazing Results!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 34:08


    Take a snapshot look inside one of our Team JLX Mastermind sessions!!We do these every other week within our Team to increase their learning, boost their confidence and give them all the tools they need to get the very most from themselves and us!Enjoy!--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    Client Sophie Joins Us To Talk Through Her Journey...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 43:18


    If you've ever wondered what it's like to be a part of Team JLX - here's an insight into Sophie's journey!We talk progress, achieving goals and looking at the bigger picture

    New Year Reflections & How To Make Your Fat Loss Goals A Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 36:00


    In the first episode back in 2024, Team JLX Coaches Xander and Grace discus their post Christmas relfections from their client check ins, approaches to fat loss and how to plan and make it a success moving forward.JLX: @jlx_coachingXander: @xander_jlxGrace: @gracepetriept

    Meet the Client: Laura and her journey with PCOS

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2023 67:22


    A very welcome to Team JLX member, Laura, to the podcast on today's episode!We're talking all things PCOS including what PCOS is? Who is effects? How is effects them? And, Laura's personal experience.Thank you again Laura for sharing!---------------------Please share this to your story to help us help more people

    S3 S8 - 5 Reasons To Star A Gaining Phase Now.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 28:22


    Join Grace and I as we talk through the 5 reasons that we believe make now a great time to start your gaining phase.We are not talking about an all-out 'perma-bulk' (where you gain loads of weight because you don't know what you're doing and then keep going), we're talking about a strategic increase in calories for a set period of time.There are many benefits, so let's dive in!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    S3 E7: Overcoming Barriers and Becoming Your Strongest Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 39:04


    On this week's episode, Xander interviewed me (Grace) on my entrance into fitness and the challenges I have faced along the way. Without too many spoilers, I was diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/ ME when I was 8 years old.This led to a lot of difficult barriers to overcome in order to improve my condition and also become a Coach, who can now help others change their lives too.We found it fascinating how although circumstances are different, how a lot of the lessons I have learnt along the way can apply to other people on their own health and fitness journeys.If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask!-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    S3 E6: Are you being hunted or are you the hunter?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 21:25


    Many people struggle with consistency, espeically when they actually start getting results!Sounds bizzare, doesn't it? You start getting results and then you become inconsistent?Nope... not really.Give this a listen to find out more!--- --- --- --- --- --- ---Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    S3 E5: Claire's Life Changing Progress

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 46:18


    Before and after photos show the physical progress a person has achieved through a period of their life.They don't show the circumstances, struggles and barriers a person has had to (or not so the case may be) overcome in order to achieve that progress.Claire is an example of someone who had every reason to give up. But she didn't.She kept grafting in the trenches. Working on herself, her habits and her routines so that she could make her best progress yet.And that's exactly what she did.-- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- Please share this to your story so we can help more people

    S3 E4: Can you do both?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 50:02


    Do you ever wonder if your social plans, drinking habits and partying is ruining your fitness progress? In this podcast, we discuss the age old question... Can you do both? Spoiler Alert... we make very strong arguments for both sides but essentially give you all the advice on how to navigate your fitness journey depending on your expectations and goals with how you should approach your (should we call them) "extra curricular activities". But what's your thoughts? Send us a DM on Instagram:JLX: @jlx_coaching

    S3 E3: Priorities During A Cutting Phase

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2023 53:35


    In this weeks episode, Xander and Grace discuss an infographic that Xander posted about what to prioritise in your cutting phase to ensure you get the best results possible. We discuss what you NEED to put a huge focus on, and what elements are not so important. Have a listen and let us know if you agree :) JLX: @jlx_coaching Xander: @xander_jlxGrace: @gracepetriept

    S3 E2: I hated the photos, and I felt so sad...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 28:58


    Hey Team, today's episode is a solo episode with Xander as he shares some very personal and very raw thoughts and feelings he had on seeing some recent photos. I am sure many of you can relate to this, so I hope that what he shares can help you.Thank you for listening as always

    S3 E1: Handling Holidays... Fitness, Nutrition & Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2023 51:21


    In this week's episode of the podcast, Grace and Xander discuss everything you need to know regarding your holiday/ vacation! They discuss the week leading up to your holiday, during your holiday and even chat through all potential outcomes for your goals post holiday.If you have any questions regarding this episode, or any topics for future episodes then please reach out to us:JLX @jlx_coachingXander @xander_jlxGrace @gracepetriept

    S3: PILOT

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 23:36


    Happy New Season to the JLX currently nameless Podcast… and this time we have a special guest who is here to stay. Introducing (drum roll please) our new Coach, Grace, who will be co-hosting opposite our OG Xander! In this pilot episode, we get to know a little more about Grace and why she has joined our Team while also putting her on the spot to answer some quick fire questions. This podcast is made for you… whether you are a part of our coaching Team or even a part of our JLX family through your support on social media. So, please join us every other Tuesday on this podcast so that we can answer all your coaching, nutrition, fitness and life queries and help you uncover your inner confident badass!As always for more coaching, find us on Instagram at:@jlx_coaching@xander_jlx@gracepetriept

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