Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant

BE02. This is episode 2 of a 3-part (maybe 4) series sharing my story. I'm talking about my birth story with my good friend, Chantel. During this recording, I'm 4.5 months postpartum. I am so lucky to be sharing my story! We left off OVER DUE BONUS EPISODE 1 with my midwife appointment on Friday where I was scheduled to be induced on Sunday. This episode I share how we went our Saturday, how labor started on Sunday, and then the birth of my baby boy.If this is your first time here, I'm Jamie Massey, 43 and the host of the podcast. It took us 3 years, 5 pregnancies, failed IVF, and a failed embryo transfer to have our first baby using donor eggs.   If you found this podcast helpful, I would love if you made a donation! I I can't keep the podcast going without your help! If you receive value from this show, even if it's as small as the price of a coffee, please consider donating through the link below. THANK YOU for making this podcast successful! https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/Get the links, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/bonus2/

BE01. This is episode 1 of a 3-party series sharing my story. We are talking about the ECV, when the doctor turned the baby from breech to head down, my expectations of starting labor, my birth plan, ways we tried to turn the baby head down, and how we tried to induce labor. The next episode is the BIRTH STORY, and the last one is postpartum RECOVERY. If this is your first time here, I'm Jamie Massey, 43 and the host of the podcast. It took us 3 years, 5 pregnancies, failed IVF, and a failed embryo transfer to have our first baby using donor eggs. I am so lucky to be sharing my story with my baby sleeping next to me.  If you found this podcast helpful, I would love if you made a donation! I am staying at home with the baby, and I can't keep the podcast going without your help. If I get 100 people to donate by October 1st, 2024, I'll start a private FB group. I don't want to go the ad or sponsorship route, but there are costs to keep the show going. If you receive value from this show, even if it's as small as the price of a coffee, please consider donating through the link below. THANK YOU for making this podcast successful! https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/bonus1/

090. We have two returning guests on to discuss pregnancy after loss over 40. The goal of this show is to share our experiences and normalize loss over 40 because loss is a part of so many of our journeys and we are not alone. We have returning guest from episode 48, Jamey. Jamey had a 10-year IVF journey that included two miscarriages and many other losses along the way to her pregnancy at 41 with her daughter using embryo adoption. Jenna, from episode 44 had four daughters with four losses before her fifth daughter at 43. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlist Get the transcript, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode90/ 

089. Alice Grist lives in the UK with her husband and three children. She was happy with her two daughters who were 12 and 8. She says she wasn't one of those little girls who fantasized about babies. Alice was 44 and assumed she was perimenopause and couldn't have more children, so little precaution was used to prevent it. Join us as Alice shares how babies weren't even something she was thinking about and how this pregnancy ended up being the toughest. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode89/

088. Kerra lives in small town Graham, Texas with her husband and six boys. Kerra's journey to motherhood started when she was just 18 years old in high school. She went on to have four more boys with a previous marriage. Kerra had no intention of getting married again or having more children until her best friend turned into her husband. He told her he couldn't have children because he had cancer a few years back. It didn't matter to her because she already had five children, but in the back of her mind she always thought it might be possible. Join us as Kerra shares her shocking pregnancy at 42 and a delivery at home with a midwife.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode88/

087. Kristen is from Rochester Hills, Michigan. She moved to Barcelona, Spain, after graduating with a masters in Spanish and met her husband there. They married when she was 27. Her first pregnancy she says was easy and assumed any pregnancy following it would be the same. Baby number two was a rainbow that didn't come so easy. She wanted a third baby over 40 but wasn't sure she was ready for the possibility of another loss. Join us as Kristen shares her journey to her natural pregnancy with baby number three, her second rainbow baby.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode87/

086. Lorraine was born and raised in Azusa, California. She lives there with her 15-month-old healthy boy and husband. At 37, she lost her fiancé to 11-month battle with cancer. At 40, she met her husband and knew they would need fertility treatments. In the middle of her IVF journey and right before her wedding, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Join us, as she shares her emotional journey to motherhood at 44.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode86/

085. Judy was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes at 12 years old and PCOS at 16 years old. Doctors told her she could never have children. She tried to have a baby in her 20's but nothing happened. Judy believes it was a miracle to have a healthy baby at 37 years old and deliver at only 24-weeks of gestation. After a loss at 41, she never thought pregnancy would be an option again for her. Join us as Judy shares her pregnancy to her second baby at 46 and what she believes helped her get pregnant.  If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode85/

084. Erica is a 42 year old single mom in Akron, Ohio with two boys, one ten years old and the other is seven weeks old  during the recording of the show. She is a coordinator at a high school and also teaches teen girls about self-empowerment and self-esteem building. Erica's journey to motherhood started when she was 33 years old. Join us as she shares her surprise baby after meeting a blast from the past. “I love your podcast!” If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me support more women— just like you — have a better TTC experience to pregnancy in your 40's. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about this episode! Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode84/

083. Katie's journey started when she was 34 when she had breast cancer and recently gotten back together with an ex-boyfriend. Knowing that chemotherapy was going to affect her fertility, she did one round of IVF and froze two embryos. Her boyfriend told her no matter what happened, he wanted her to have the embryos. Little did she know she would be denied access years later. Join us as Katie shares her story to motherhood with donor eggs.If you are just starting your journey to conception with donor eggs, I have a FREE guide that I promise will make the process that much more easy!  It's a 10 Q&A that will help you through the process from where to find a donor to how you should talk to you child about donor egg conception: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donoreggguideGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode83/

082. Jen lives in Charlotte, North Carolina with her husband Dave and their three children: Alli, her 11 year-old daughter, Taylor, her 8 year old daughter, Dylan, her 8 month old son. Jen had her first two daughters at 29 and 33. She never felt her family was complete and wanted a third. After a year of trying, she looked at fertility treatment and was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure. Her husband wasn't willing to go use fertility treatment. It wouldn't be until five years of trying until she got the surprise of her life. Join us as Jen shares her challenges to have her third baby and the anxiety she felt during her pregnancy.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode82/

081. This is the second part of a two-part series where three ladies plus myself discuss the IVF process. Listen to Part I where we discuss our overall experiences. I'm pregnant in the second trimester at 43 with donor egg conception. We have returning guest from episode 50, Sonia. Sonia was pregnant at 44 with donor egg conception, also. Nisha is a returning guest from episode 56. She was pregnant at 43 with her first transfer of one embryo that led to her twin girls. Adriana is our first-time guest sharing her experience where IVF hasn't worked. The goal of this show is to share our experiences of the IVF process, so you can be more confident if IVF is right for you.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode81/

080. We have three guests on to discuss IVF. The goal of this show is to share our experiences, so you can be confident if IVF is right for you. We have returning guest, Sonia from episode 50. Sonia had a six-year IVF journey to her pregnancy at 44 with her daughter using donor eggs. Nisha is a returning guest from episode 56. Nisha had a two-year IVF journey to her pregnancy at 43 with her first transfer of one embryo that led to twin girls. Adriana is a first-time guest on her seventh year of her IVF journey. Her journey to motherhood continues. This is Part I where we discuss general IVF questions and their journey. Stay tuned for Part II next week as episode 81.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode80/

079. On episode 79, Bridget is working mom living in Raleigh, North Carolina with her husband and her four ½ month old son. Bridget started dating her now husband when she was 38, and a month into their relationship found out she was pregnant. She was a little freaked out. Neither one of them had said ‘I love you' yet, so she questioned how she was going to have a baby with him. Join us as Bridget shares her pregnancy struggles to almost starting the IVF process before she got naturally pregnant at 40 with her son. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode79/

078. Melodie had waited a long time to meet someone but had never really wanted children, even in her thirties. She met her partner at 41 and started having an intense desire to have a child with him. She and her partner talked about having a baby. She was pregnant the first month they tried but lost it. She was pregnant two cycles afterwards and lost that one, too. She was depressed about the two losses, and then her partner told her he didn't want a baby. She moved out, but they still dated. A year later, she was pregnant again and worried she would lose the pregnancy or her partner. Join us as Melodie shares her relationship challenges and her journey to motherhood at 45.If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode78/

077. Shirley is a mother of three in California who was pregnant at 20, 47 and 49. At 20, she lived with her parents, and her mother was very abusive. It was very traumatic how she got pregnant and moved out immediately. Her 32-year-old son saved her life. Shirley started dating her wife 12 years ago, and they talked about starting a family five years into their relationship. The doctor said her wife's egg reserve at 36 was very low. Shirley told the clinic she planned to carry the baby using her wife's eggs. The doctor said based on Shirley's age, they only had a 50% chance. Shirley and her wife were willing to try with those odds. Join us as Shirley shares how she beat every odd with her two daughters. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode77/

076. Sarah is a personal trainer living in Miami, Florida with her husband of twenty years and their three-month-old daughter. She wasn't ready to have kids after she married at 28. At 38, Sarah thought about having a baby at the same time as her best friend, and questioned why she was so afraid of having a baby. After a year of trying, she saw a fertility doctor because she hadn't gotten pregnant and her cycles were long and irregular. They told her she was ovulating too late in her cycle and would need medication to ovulate sooner, but it didn't work. At 40, she had two egg retrievals and didn't get any embryos. Join us as she shares her journey to her daughter with donors eggs. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode76/

075. Tara grew up in a very small town in Massachusetts. She moved away to attend college at Northeastern in Boston. She moved out to Denver, Colorado almost 11 years ago when she was looking for a job after she completed her MBA. From an early age, Tara assumed she was going to have issues having children. Her mother and grandmother both went into menopause in their early 40's. Every doctor told her she had a less than 10 % chance of conceiving naturally, so she didn't see a reason to be on birth control. Her AMH was super low and her follicle count was also low. Join us as she shares her natural pregnancy at 40 and her journey to using donor eggs at 44. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode75/

074. Claire is a mom of three from the UK. When her third child arrived at 43, she had three children under the age of four. Her third child is two years old during the recording of the show. When she was single, she didn't know if she wanted kids, but she thinks it was meeting the right person that sparked that desire. Claire says it was an accident she got pregnant at 39, her pregnancy at 41 was planned, but at 43, she didn't want to believe it even though all of the signs were there. Join us as she shares her journey from womb healing to her birth that was too quick for an epidural. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlistGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode74/

073. Laura lives in Boston with her husband and their two children. In her mid 20's, all of her friends married, the following year she set  out to make it a special for her. She decided to train for a marathon. It changed everything in her life. She met her husband in her mid 30's while training for the Boston Marathon. They married when she was 40 and wanted to start planning a family right away. Laura thought it might be hard to get pregnant even though people around her assumed it would be easy because she's healthy and a runner. Join us as she shares her journey to using donor eggs that led to her son at 43 and the emotional experience to her daughter at 46. Today, Laura has turned her struggles to help other women with her fertility coach practice. If you are trying to have a baby over 40, I'd love to invite you to 40.40 Society! It's a 6-week program that teaches you the same tools I used to have a good TTC experience and validate your feelings with bi-weekly small support groups. Join the wait list to be the first to know when the program is open to learn how to handle the ups and downs of TTC and feel supported through your journey: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlist Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode73/

072. Kezia never thought she would get married until she met James on Instagram. She immigrated from Canada with her daughter and their cats in 2021 to a small town in Pennsylvania. She and James had a courthouse wedding later that year. They knew they wanted to have a child together, and she was pregnant quickly. She lost it in the first trimester on her 40th birthday but never had a follow-up appointment. Her cycle didn't return and her doctor suggested she was perimenopause. Join us as Kezia tells us how her cycle returned with the help of a great doctor, and how she became naturally pregnant at 41 even though her pregnancy came with challenges.If you are over 40, trying to conceive and would like more guided help to pregnancy if you are trying through IVF or through donor conception, I'd love to help you! I'm revamping the community with helpful tools all while being surround by others going through the journey. I had a good TTC experience and want give back, so be the first to know when it's available by getting on the wait list.  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlist Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode72/

071. Orla was told by three doctors that she couldn't have children. In December 2018, she had surgery for endometriosis and a septum uterus. The doctor surgically divided the septum which she was told would reduce the risk of miscarriage from 40% to 25%. Afterwards, her doctor said, “you have the tiniest ovaries I've ever seen. It would be a miracle if you released an egg.” After healing from surgery, she was pregnant on the first try. She believes it was because of that surgery she was able to get pregnant at 37 with her son. Join us as she shares her struggles of multiple baby loss to her stressful and emotional pregnancy and daughter at 41. If you are over 40, trying to conceive and would like guided help to pregnancy if you are trying through IVF or through donor conception, I'd love to help you! I'm revamping the community with helpful tools all while being surround by others going through the journey. I had a good TTC experience and want give back, so be the first to know when it's available by getting on the wait list.  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/waitlist Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode71/

070. Are you about to embark on the donor egg journey? We have four women on the show who have been through it to discuss your questions . We have returning guest Jake, from episode 45 sharing her journey with her first child when she was pregnant at 51. She used a known donor, her niece, Savanah who is also on to share her experience as an egg donor. Jake's daughter is seven years old. Janice, from episode 68 shares her journey with her sixth child when she was pregnant at 46. Her baby was four months old during the recording of the show. Tara is a future guest sharing her journey at 44 with her second child. Her son is two years old. And your host Jamie Massey shares her short experience as she is pregnant at almost 43. Join us today, as we answer your questions about the donor egg process and more. If you are just starting your journey to conception with donor eggs, I have a FREE guide that I promise will make the process that much more easy!  It's a 10 Q&A that will help you through the process from where to find a donor to how you should talk to you child about donor egg conception: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donoreggguideGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode70/

069. Newly single Carmen is a functional nutritionist in Vancouver, Canada who helps exhausted career-driven moms lose weight. Before she was even ready for kids, she watched a documentary called The Business of Being Born by Ricki Lake that planted a seed that would shape her future prenatal and birth care. She always wanted three kids, so after her son at 38, she wanted to try for a second at 40. She shares lots of nutritional tips that helped her get pregnant in one shot even though it wasn't clear when she was ovulating.  She also shares her text book home birth that her ex wasn't exactly on board with despite being only five minutes from the hospital. If you are TTC, pregnant or postpartum over 40, come be surround by other women going through your same journey in 40.40 Society. Be supported, share your journey and have a voice in the conversation.  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/join/Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/69/

068. Janice had five kids in her 20's with a previous partner. She met her now fiancé at 39. Together, they had ten children but wanted a baby together. One reversed vasectomy and three IUI's later, she wasn't pregnant. Was the vasectomy the cause of not being able to get pregnant? She shares how using donor eggs was an easy choice and why this birth was the longest one of all. She was three months postpartum during the recording of the show. If you are TTC, pregnant, or postpartum over 40, come be surrounded by other women just like you in 40.40 Society. Be supported, share your journey and have a voice in the conversation. https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/joinGet the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/68

067. Kiersten was pregnant in her 20's and 30's with her four kids from a previous marriage. When she met the love of her life at 41, they joked about having a baby together. It was a joke that turned into serious discussions of putting it in God's hands to decide. Kiersten shares how she prepared for pregnancy without really knowing it. When she got pregnant, she felt like the only pregnant 41-year-old in the world. Join us as she shares her pregnancy challenges to being induced with an amazing labor and delivery nurse. She and her husband have seven kids today. She was three months postpartum during the recording of the show. If you are trying to conceive, pregnant, or postpartum over 40, come be surround by other women just like you. Be supported, share your journey and have a voice in the conversation.  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/joinGet the full story, resources and more information here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/how-kiersten-prepared-for-her-natural-pregnancy-at-42/

066. Jenn wanted three to four kids. After she got married at 20, she went on to have two babies in her 20's. Two miscarriages followed which were devastating to her. She didn't understand why she had losses after having two babies. She and her husband continued to try, but at 34 years old, the doctor told her she had little to not chance of having another baby. She was no longer ovulating. She eventually accepted it and moved on with her life. Join us today, as Jenn shares her shocking news of her pregnancy at 41. She needed time to process it before she even told her husband. How she was in the greatest shape of her life to an awesome pregnancy and a quick birth. She even shares how she planned the birth of her third baby on her grandmother's birthday as a surprise for her dad. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramJenn on InstagramDoterra OilsGinger DropsBelly Band 

065. Fertility Specialist Dr. Jeanie Schlafy from Denver, Colorado was pregnant at 42, 44, and at 48. This is her pregnancy journey at 48, but she'll be referencing her other pregnancies. Growing up, Jeanie wanted five kids. At almost 40, she didn't have children, nor was she married. One month before her 40th birthday, she met her future husband. A year later, they planned to marry. They decided together they wanted kids despite her fears. The very next month she was pregnant and gave birth at 42. She wanted a sibling and another child. For her second child, it was challenging journey. Join us as she shares her journey to using donor eggs with her second and what helped her through the pregnancy to her daughter at 48. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramTTC ArticlesJeanie on InstagramQ&A with Dr. Jeanie Schlaflyhttps://www.babyhopefertility.com/Doppler Fetal Monitor

064. Can you change your thoughts about money without changing the amount of money in your bank account? This show is to explore how you think about money. Is money the real challenge in your journey to motherhood? What is your money philosophy? In this episode I help you understand how to want from abundance, give you questions to ask yourself to help shape your journey, and help you understand that your thinking creates your results. I give you the steps to abundance thinking verse thinking from scarcity.  Resources:1st episode of the TTC series: Believing Pregnancy is possible over 40Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramJamie Massey's Pregnancy JourneyJennifer's Pregnancy at 43

Hi! Just wanted to let you know there will not be a show this week or next. The plan was to publish a show today about Money during TTC and it was terrible. I couldn't publish it. Instead, I decided to take a break for a few weeks, refresh and come back strong in 2024. I have so much I'm working on behind the scenes, I can't wait to show you! Have a great holiday and I'll see you next year!-Jamie Massey

063. Tara is half English and half American who now lives in New York City. She's lived in ten countries and recorded the show while visiting family in the Bahamas. Thinking about having children happened decades ago for Tara. In her 30's Tara calls herself a typical city woman who focused on her career, dated a lot, but no one serious. She ended a five-year relationship at 30, and the question of children was ever present for her. She wasn't sure if she wanted children, but the idea of freezing her eggs was a way to put the decision off for a while.  At 32, she had the egg retrieval. Tara took her 40th birthday to reflect on her life. If she wanted to have a child, she wanted to decide that soon. She wanted the decision to be a conscious one and didn't want it to be made for her through her own inaction. She sat down with herself and decided to go for it. Join us as Tara shares how she chose a donor, here amazing pregnancy and her 26-hour birth with an epidural pump that wasn't turned on. Breastfeeding was the most challenging part of her journey. Resources: Join the community waitlist!Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramTara on InstagramExpecting Better by Emily OsterPressure-Point Wrist Bands for Morning SicknessHypnobirthing

062. Gayle was pregnant at 42 and 45, but this is her story at 45. Her fiancé, Dean is nine years younger than her. She calls herself an original cougar.  They have been together for almost 17 years, so she was ready to have kids before he was.  Today, Gayle is a young 49 and lives near London in a place called Brixton with her fiancé and their two children. She always wanted a sibling for her first child, so they would have a close bond like she had with hers.  She just couldn't imagine just having an only child. When Gayle's daughter turned two years old, she thought about their family plans. Her husband, Dean was just getting his head around it, but was definitely up for it. Join as Gayle shares her struggle to get pregnant but when she went to the doctor, she was already pregnant. How did her daughter already know? And births that were almost too quick to get to the hospital.Resources:  Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramGayle on InstagramHustle and Fox

061. Ashlee's journey to motherhood started when she was just 24 years old. In fact, she's had babies in her 20's, 30's and her last now at 40. She has a three-month-old, a 15 year old, a 13 year old, a 10 year old and an eight year old. In 2020, her fifth pregnancy and birth was a surrogacy. After the surrogacy she felt like her family was complete. It wasn't two years later when she thought someone was missing. Join us as Ashlee shares how she planned her fifth baby and her tricks for breastfeeding. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramI Didn't Know I was Pregnant with CommentaryAshlee on InstagramMagnesium Body LotionBio OilHaakaa

060. Nana is almost 42 and recently married with their son that is four and half months old. When she first got together with her now husband, they were ready to have kids right away. She says it was quite a journey to have her son. Through pregnancy loss at 23 weeks on Christmas Day, her doctor told her not to get pregnant again. Find out her healing strategy and how she got her body ready for pregnancy again. Pregnancy for her was a mental challenge. Find out her journey to her son at 41 and how her postpartum preeclampsia caught her by surprise.Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramNana on InstagramOnline Course Nana tookVitamins/ SupplementsOvasitol

059. Tanika was born and raised in Fresno, California. She currently lives in Manhattan, New York and is a project manager by trade. She had her first daughter at 23 and is a single mother by choice. There was a burning desire in her heart to have another child. She felt like she was meant to shepherd another soul, so she looked up videos on YouTube. She found other single moms by choice and how they built their support system and what it entailed.  At 46 years old, she decided to re-embark on motherhood on her own. She didn't think she had a lot of time, so she wasn't going to waste time looking for a partner. She told herself she only wanted to do this if she could use her own eggs. Resources:  Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramTanika on InstagramTanika on YouTubeA pea in the podBelly BandPregnancy Pillow

058. Ch-a was born and raised in California, but currently lives in Clearwater, Florida with her four-month old daughter, partner and her mother. From eight years old all the way into her 20's she was a competitive athlete. She ran track in college and has always been an athlete. She still feels like she benefits from the hard work she's put her body. She conceived at 45 naturally, but she miscarried. A year later, at 46 trying to have a baby was the last thing on her mind. She had been in California because her father was in a very bad car accident. She put him to rest, and then packed up her mother to live with her. Weeks later Ch-a was exhausted and knew something wasn't right. Join us while she describes her amazing pregnancy at 47 while also struggled if this pregnancy was going to stick around. She wanted an unmedicated birth with an option for a water birth with midwives. Find out how Ch-a's plans didn't work out as she had hoped.. Resources: Join the community waitlist!Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramCh-a on InstagramCh-a on TikTokFloridexNutritional YeastBradley Method Birth

057. This is a special episode because it's not just a pregnancy story. This is an overview of  Barb's “a 1,000 tiny steps” to her pregnancy. Barb was a scholarship runner at BU in the eighties and ran for Nike for several years. Barb never planned to have children. She had a pretty rough childhood, so, she wanted to end the cycle of abuse in her family. She didn't need to be a mother, she was happy being the cool auntie. Instead, she became pregnant but lost her son, Gordy at 25-weeks. It wasn't until afterwards that she knew she wanted to become a mother. She has been a competitive runner, teacher, coach, mom, and now she's a CrossFit athlete. She is also a survivor of some pretty tragic things: losing two children in very different circumstances and brain cancer during her journey to her fourth child. Barb has four children, two live in heaven, and two are here with her. Join us on this special episode as she shares her IVF journey to the birth of her son at 57. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramBarb on InstagramHuman Milk for Human BabiesBarb's Podcast: A Thousand Tiny Steps Barb's Book: MotherlandMolly B Foundation

056. Nisha, from London who is three-months postpartum is sharing her IVF journey at 43. In her 30's she didn't know if she wanted to have children. She asked herself in her late 30's if she would regret not having children, and she firmly said, “yes, I would regret it.” She tried naturally to have children for a year after she got married at 41. It just didn't happen. It took her awhile to decide if she wanted to put her body through the IVF process. With only a 2% chance of having twins, she refused to believe the two heartbeats on the ultrasound at her six-week appointment. Join us how she embraced two babies, shares her struggles and navigated a planned c-section turn vaginal birth. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramNisha on InstagramMy Journey with more details

055. Maria grew up in Germany but is a Spaniard that now lives in Austin, Texas. She's always been fit and has lived an active lifestyle. For most of her life, she never thought she wanted to be a mother. At 39, something clicked that changed her mind. She shares her challenging journey to pregnancy with several failed IUI's. Despite only having morning sickness for one day, she too had her challenges through pregnancy. Join us as she shares her journey to motherhood and the true meaning of her daughter having the life force of two. Maria is an Air Force Veteran, has a PhD in health sciences and is a college professor in fitness. She calls herself the menopause expert by helping women have a better experience through menopause.Resources: Join the community waitlist!Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramMaria's websiteContact Maria through email: maria@fitnessinmenopause.com

054. This is our one-year anniversary show! I am talking about believing pregnancy is possible over 40, so we can have a better TTC experience. We are looking at how I believe, the process I go through, and a list of thoughts that have helped me. If you are pregnant, this works for believing anything. This episode has nothing to do with religion or God or faith or whatever upper power you believe. My goal is not to tell you that if you believe hard enough, you will get pregnant.  Our experience getting pregnant and later pregnancy only lives in our brain.Resources: Join the community waitlist!Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramLife Coach School Podcast: Over-desire 

053. Heather joins us from Canberra, Australia to share her third pregnancy at 41. She didn't think her family was complete after her second daughter, but as the years went by, she wasn't sure it was going to happen. Join us as she tells us how it only took one holiday to have a great third pregnancy. Her goal of the pregnancy was to never see a doctor her entire pregnancy. She also explains how food played a role in her pregnancy to control gestational diabetes, and how labor stalled after going to the birthing center.  Resources: Join the community waitlist! Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramReal Food for Pregnancy Book/ real food for gestational diabetes / by Lily Nichols https://realfoodforpregnancy.com/ Marsupial baby carrier: https://marsupiaustralia.com.au/collections/marsupi-baby-carriersThe great birth Rebellion podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-great-birth-rebellion/id1639430316The Midwives Cauldron podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-midwives-cauldron/id1523178579Australian Birth stories podcast: https://australianbirthstories.com/podcasts/Down to Birth Show podcast: https://downtobirthshow.com/ Instagram: @downtobirthshowSara Wickham: https://www.sarawickham.com/  Instagram: @drsarawickhamEvidence Based Birth: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/Instagram Recommendations: @coreandfloorrestore @melaniethemidwife @theserenitydoula  @lilynicholsrdn 

052. Typically we share pregnancy stories of women over 40. Today's show is a little different because I've been on vacation.  In this episode, I finally share the story of the day we transferred our first embryo using donor eggs.  I also share three things past guests have shared that have stuck with me and three thoughts I've been thinking that have helped me through my journey. It's not that my story doesn't have a happy ending, my story just isn't finished yet. 

051. Sabrina, from Baltimore is sharing her pregnancy at 41. She is a lawyer and judge by day and a fitness instructor by night for fun. Her mom always told her from a young age that their family was fertile. She assumed it was just something ‘mom's say' and didn't put much thought into it. She had never been on birth control, but she hadn't been in a serious relationship until her current partner. She never thought she needed to be on birth control, but she never had the chance to test it. She had her first son at 39, but wanted to do this pregnancy at 41 completely different. She wanted the social events, showers, and wanted her room after birth to be filled with friends an family. It's something she missed out on with her pregnancy in 2020. Join us as Sabrina shares how she planned her pregnancy at 41 and what her confidence looked like this time around. Her and her partner have a 2-year and a 2-month old son during the recording of the show. Resources:  Join the community waitlist! Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramSabrina on InstagramKizik Shoes

050. Sonia's journey started on her first date with her husband when she was just 37. She said she wanted to have a baby. She would move on if he didn't. A year later she was trying to conceive. A cycling crash, multiple surgeries, and four failed IUI's later she was still on her journey. She was committed to IVF. Join us as Sonia tells us her emotional journey to a rough pregnancy and fearful birth to her daughter with donor eggs at 44. It wasn't until Sonia held her daughter for the first time that she knew her daughter was meant for her, and she was meant for her daughter.Resources: Join the community waitlist!Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramSonia on InstagramKnix underwear

049. Coco has been writing and singing since she was ten years old and dreams of being Chrissy Hinde of The Pretenders. She met her husband at just 18 years old through their love of music. She didn't think she was a ‘kid-person' but had been thinking about motherhood. At 39, she saw a sign and immediately stopped birth control.  Her mother was ill while she was trying but wanted her to hold on to see her grandchild. Join us as we share Coco's amazing pregnancy, challenging birth, and the transition from a career to her new life as a first-time mother. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramHappiest Baby on the BlockBob Running StrollerCoco on InstagramVintage Mamas Facebook groupVintage Mamas PodcastCoco's music O'conor on Spotify

048. Jamey's journey to motherhood started when she was 30 years old the summer before her wedding. She wanted to start a family right away and knew time wasn't on her side. Her ten-year journey started out with IUI's, then IVF, then donor eggs, and finally embryo adoption. Join us as she shares how it got her to exactly where she was supposed to be with an easy pregnancy. She was eleven-weeks postpartum during the recording of the show. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! 5 Better Questions to Ask Yourself While TTCOver 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramJamey on InstagramTwo Eggs, Two Kids by Alicia Young

047. Joy is an athlete from a small town in Oregon who made changes in her diet to improve her gut health. Those changes impacted her cycle. She thought she was perimenopausal but instead was pregnant at 42. She ran her best race and had COVID but didn't know she was pregnant yet. Having a third baby wasn't her plan. Find out how she turned this into exciting news and was the best pregnancy and recovery of her three pregnancies.Resources:Join the community waitlist! Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramJoy on Instagram

046. Amelie, from Belgium is on to share her pregnancy at 41. She spent a year trying to conceive before she saw a fertility doctor. Before the testing was even completed, she canceled it all because it caused too much stress and anxiety. Find out how long after until she became pregnant, and how she kept the gender a secret from everyone including her husband. Despite the stress of fertility testing, she remained calm and peaceful throughout her pregnancy. Resources:  Join the community waitlist! Be a part of the anniversary show by leaving a recording! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramAmelie on Instagram

045. Jake grew up in the entertainment industry and later joined a Canadian country band called Farmers Daughter. In her 40's she accepted being just an aunt until an old love came back in her life for her to realize she wanted a family. Her doctor only gave her a 5% chance of conceiving with donor eggs at 51. Find out how they found their egg donor and struggled through 5 transfers before she became pregnant with her daughter. Resources: Join the community waitlist!Leave feedback for the podcast!Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramJake on InstagramBody PillowMother's Milk TeaWoven

044. Jenna's motherhood journey started at just 17 years old. After her fourth baby at 38, she didn't think her family was complete. Four miscarriages later, Jenna had hope it was going to be the next one. Pregnant again at 43, she started bleeding at 9 weeks and assumed the worst. She went to the hospital to be seen about her broke hand and tailbone when an ultrasound showed a healthy growing baby. Join us how she spent most of the pregnancy vomiting and just how she decided she was going to deliver her own baby. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramJenna on InstagramTummy DropsThorne Prenatal VitaminsRobozo ShawlLac MedWitch Hazel PadsRed Raspberry Leaf TeaNettle Tea

043. Alissa has been an entrepreneur her entire adult life and has never worked for anyone but herself since she graduated college. She was a hairdresser for 18 years then started a fabric store to give herself more freedom. She wanted a child and knew it would be on her own with the support of her sister and mom. Join us as Alissa went from her list of sperm donors to her solo journey to motherhood at 41. Alissa has a 14-month-old son and is a single mom by choice. Resources: Join the community waitlist! Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant on InstagramAm I Pregnant: the two week wait by Jamie MasseyAlissa on InstagramAlissa's quilt shopPink Stork Prenatal VitaminsHypnobirthing bookSilvertte Nursing Shields