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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

Abby Murphy


    • Jul 11, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    Break Down Bonus: Is it intuition or my anxiety?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 16:09


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-'When she was catfished for 8 years' live episode for purchase: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    When he took off after eight years.... - S6E3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 23:32


    After eight years, the least your boyfriend can do it break up with you properly. So why did this guy ditch his lady at a gas station for another woman seemingly out of nowhere? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for WEAVE in Sacramento: https://www.weaveinc.org/who-we-are-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:30): How they met-(11:44): When she caught him-(14:10): How did she know something was up before catching him?-(17:24): Moving on-(20:28): Advice-(26:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    Break Down Bonus: Should you bend your relationship "wants" for the right person? w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2024 23:34


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    When the betrayal was revealed after the divorce.... - S6E2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 44:55


    If your friends are telling you to hire a PI to look into your husband, chances are he's doing something shady. So why did this marriage officially end over a disagreement over having kids and not...something else? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Genesis Women's Shelter in Dallas: https://www.genesisshelter.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:26): How they met-(11:12): The first signs something was wrong-(15:13): Why she asked for a divorce-(17:01): What she found out when looking for closure-(26:24): Their secret engagement-(24:24): Reflecting with the hindsight she has now-(34:46): Reflecting on the relationship-(37:05): Advice-(47:40): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    Break Down Bonus: Self-Esteem, Power Dynamics, "Daddy Issues", and First Loves w/ Tricia Schwartz LMHC

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 20:50


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    When she said he cheated on her w/ his sister.... - S6E1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 42:23


    [SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-When you feel like your partner is cheating on you, you usually have an idea as to who that person is, so how do you not feel crazy when you think they're stepping out on you...with their sibling? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/-National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:43): How they met-(08:12): Introduction of the biological family-(10:53): Finding the photos in his phone-(17:33): The final straw-(25:32): Reporting the incest-(28:44): Reflecting on the relationship-(34:18): Healing from the relationship-(39:05): Advice-(41:25): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: abuse, sexual assault] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    When she was catfished for 8 years.... - Live Event Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 1:02


    'When she was catfished for 8 years' live episode for purchase: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    Break Down Bonus: The Struggles being LGBTQ+ in the Christian Community w/ The Christian Closet

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2024 31:22


    Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4Replay

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 38:26


    The BUBD Live Podcast Recording release has been postponed- will be available June 18th, 2024-This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:52): How they met-(09:58): The first break up-(12:01): When they got back together-(15:53): The second break up-(19:37): Their secret engagement-(24:24): The end of their relationship-(30:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship-(34:46): Reflecting on the relationship-(37:05): Advice-(40:57): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    Break Down Bonus: How to identify intimate partner violence in relationships w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 20:09


    [SCROLL FOR CW]-Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship.-Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Intro-(00:27): Defining the difference between domestic violence and intimate partner violence.-(04:18): Early signs that your partner may become abusive-(09:24): How to create a safe exit plan if you're in an abusive relationship-(11:48): Why victims may return to their abusers-(13:55): How to accept that the person you love is abusive-(16:17): First steps for victims of IPV-(18:12): Words of encouragement for victims-CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    When he had her arrested.... - S3Replay

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 74:14


    [SCROLL FOR CW]  - This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023. - This week we're bringing awareness to Bridges Domestic Violence Center near Nashville, TN: https://www.bridgesdvc.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (06:08): How they met - (11:04): Introducing Sarah - (12:27): How the couple became a throuple - (22:28): When she decided she wanted out of the throuple - (29:38): When the police were called - (32:10): When charges were pressed - (43:08): When she went to jail - (53:01): When she went to trial for the first charges - (01:05:00): Reflecting on what she's learned - (01:14:00): Teaser - CW: This episode discusses domestic violence, thoughts of suicide, child abuse, sexual assault, and gun violence.

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    When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 26:28


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:05): Submission #1 - (03:32): Submission #2 - (05:29): Submission #3 - (07:24): Submission #4 - (12:49): Submission #5 - (14:24): Submission #6 - (15:57): Submission #7 - (17:09): Submission #8 - (20:01): Submission #9 - (22:58): Submission #10 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Is this sugar baby thing legit?! w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2024 22:39


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    When she got a ransom note from her 'sugar daddy'.... - S5E19

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 57:43


    Your sugar daddy of 3ish months goes MIA right before your big vacation...when all of a sudden you get a ransom note from his # asking for 500k. Obviously a scam right?! This week's guest got way more than she bargained for when he finally came back into her life....and revealed the months long investigation he as a part of. What went down?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Green House 17 in Lexington, KY: www.greenhouse17.org - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:45): How they met - (18:24): When the went MIA - (27:24): When he came back - (32:00): Where did he go for all those months? - (49:33): Looking back on her sugaring experiences - (54:46): Advice/reflection - (58:00): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Help- I feel like I'm my partner's mother!!!! w/ Dr. PsychMom

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2024 16:27


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    When she said her ex refused to move out.... - S5E18

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 30:27


    When you and your new boyfriend have to shack up with your ex, things are bound to get uncomfortable. This week's guest says her shared lease with her ex turned into a shared nightmare with her new boyfriend after her break up. How did they get here?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Safe Harbor in Richmond, VA: https://safeharborshelter.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:32): How they met - (12:16): Her last straw - (16:40): The break up - (20:52): When he wouldn't move out - (24:51): Reflecting/Advice - (27:40): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Can your relationship survive without "The Spark"? w/ TheRelationshipBoss

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 25:14


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    When it was a 'Tinder Takedown'.... - S5E17

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 25:37


    Sometimes you have to be your own PI when you think your partner is cheating on you. When a gut feeling leads her to pay up to Tinder to see if her mans was out there looking for a side-piece, she was surprised how quickly she was able to find his profile. How did these two college sweethearts get to this place?? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Alternative House in Lowell, GA: https://www.alternative-house.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:22): How they met - (09:58): The demise of the relationship - (14:04): What led to the Tinder profile creation - (19:19): Why she stayed - (21:32): The social media posts - (22:16): Reflecting/advice - (25:35): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus Episode: The "Romeo & Juliet" Effect on Relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2024 23:11


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    When the couples in the friend group traded their partners.... - S5E16

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 26:29


    No this isn't a swingers love story- but it'd be way more fun (and less heartbreaking) if it was. A group of friends walk into a cabin...and leave with different lovers. What went on in the cabin in the woods that split these couples up? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for New Beginnings in Seattle: www.NewBegin.org - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:40): How they met - (09:00): The cabin weekend - (13:00): Learning what went down when she was asleep - (17:19): The break up - (21:10): Moving on from the relationship - (24:04): Advice - (26:39): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Are you ready to bring kids into the relationship? w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 24:37


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    When her ex-wife was shady with her money.... - S5E15

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 33:23


    Her ex-wife wasn't paying rent and she wants to know where the money is going! This week's guest gets an an answer that sent her into a panic and making her want to run, run, RUN out of this relationship...and into the arms of her high school sweetheart. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Family Rescue in Chicago: https://familyrescueinc.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:17): How they met - (11:32): When her wife started being shady with finances - (16:30): Her final straw with the wife - (22:51): Their new relationships - (27:57): What she learned/advice - (33:33): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: What do you do if your partner is too dependent on you? w/ Licia Freeman, MFT

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 19:29


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    When he wrote a letter in his own blood.... - S5E14

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 47:23


    [SCROLL FOR CW] - When an episode starts with a bloody knife found in the kitchen, you don't think it's going to lead to a break up where both people still care for each other. After a series of harrowing incidents that lead to one of them serving time in jail, how can this week's interviewee still have so much love for her ex? We'll dive into the story when we break down this week's break up. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas: https://mosaicservices.org/ways-to-give/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (08:15): How they met - (11:27): What started the demise of the relationship - (18:54): Events where she felt threatened by her BF before the accident - (25:30): Choosing psychology as a career to understand him better - (42:02): Their secret engagement - (43:46): Advice - (48:26): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicidal ideation, self-harm] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Helping your partner through their porn addiction w/ Iesha Gibbons

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2024 18:35


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    When she found explicit videos of her BFF in her husband's inbox.... - S5E13

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 52:30


    [SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - When she logged on to her husbands email, she thought me might find something suspicious. What she didn't expect to see were explicit videos from her best friend of 22 years. So why did she still marry him after the evidence was found? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for La Casa De Las Madres in SF: https://www.lacasa.org/donate - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:52): How they met - (16:00): The explicit videos - (22:15): When more infidelity was revealed - (33:13): When she finally left - (33:39): Reflecting/what she learned - (48:54): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicide, suicidal ideation] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Healing trauma caused by infidelity w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2024 23:39


    Getting cheated on is unbelievably painful and can leave you with deep emotional wounds. Katherine Ripley, LMSW, joins the podcast to comment on this week's main episode's relational topics and gives her professional insight. Katherine explains how to recognize how that trauma will show up in your life and how to tackle it on your own or with a mental health professional!— - Follow Katherine: https://linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist?fbclid=PAAab8jFX7mqwuDALKVAObUzGn2od9bH-H3R-KrwrS1xL29b3O4nGcp27s98E - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When she caught her husband with her best friend.... - S3Replay

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 41:37


    This week we're bringing awareness to Crisis Center North in Pittsburgh: https://www.crisiscenternorth.org/ - This episode originally aired on March 14th, 2023 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:00): How they met - (07:43: How her best friend became her doula - (10:50): When the affair began - (14:08): When she caught them - (18:49): Why she decided to stay with him at first - (21:08): When she was finally done with her marriage - (23:43): How she "broke up" with her best friend - (28:12): Things that helped her through her divorce - (31:51): How her past relationships shaped her future ones - (33:45): How purity culture impacted her marriage - (36:48): Advice she'd give to people wanting to leave their marriage - (38:47): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Does your partner have an unhealthy relationship with Porn? w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 23:20


    LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When he was sharing her nudes on reddit.... - S5E12

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 33:14


    You never think things can get worse AFTER the break up, but when you receive a strange message from a man who says your ex is doing some shady stuff on Reddit with your pics....it's safe to say things are about to go down when we break down this week's break up. - Live Podcast Tickets!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Wichita Family Crisis Center: https://wichitafamilycrisiscenter.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/wichitafamilycrisiscenter/donation.jsp - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:28): How they met - (08:57): When the red flags started to show - (12:58): When things started to deteriorate - (16:01): The shady reddit activity - (24:48): Recovering from the relationship/reflecting - (31:23): Advice - (30:17): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Is an age-gap relationship right for you?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2024 18:08


    LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - Mickey Atkins Age-Gap Relationship Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3zC7YCVR28 - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When her celeb crush DM'd her back.... - S5E11

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 27:33


    If you've ever wanted to slide into the DMs of the hot guy in THAT band...this episode is for you. Turns out hooking up with the mysterious musician isn't all it's cracked up to be, but there's a lot you can learn from this week's guest's experience. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Partnership Against Domestic Violence in ATL: https://padv.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:24): How they met - (11:12): When they started investigating... - (15:22): When she started to see his true colors - (21:51): Reflecting on the situationship - (24:05): What she learned/advice - (24:45): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Reacting to S5E10 w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2024 20:33


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When she said her husband slept with her daughter.... - S5E10

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 28:04


    You know, it's one thing to cheat. It's a whole other thing to cheat with your CHILD. This week's guest says she is getting ready to serve her husband divorce papers....and DNA test results. - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Women Against Abuse in Philly: https://www.womenagainstabuse.org/services - Suicide Prevention Hotline Dial 988 - Suicide Prevention: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:54): How they met - (07:08): When the red flags started to show - (10:03): When she got the DNA test results - (15:04): Why would her husband/daughter sleep together? - (19:41): Looking toward the future - (24:09): Advice to those struggling - (25:14): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: suicidal ideation] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after betrayal ft. CoWorker Amber + Dr. Margaret Rutherford

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2024 43:11


    Are you having a hard time trusting your new partner after your last relationship? Your ex may have damaged your ability to trust again, but you don't have to live in fear forever. Dr. Margaret Rutherford joins Abby to talk about what you can to have a healthy relationship with your new partner.  - Check out Dr. Margaret Rutherford's: - Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/ - Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/ - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - [CW: Abuse] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When the 'other woman' came clean in an email.... - S5E9

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 34:54


    You barely check your inbox, but the one time you check it, your BF's other girlfriend comes clean in an email! Suddenly everything you thought you knew about the last year of your relationship feels like a lie....so we got the details when we broke down this weeks break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Safe Place in Sarasota, FL: https://www.sparcc.net/donate/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:20): How they met - (06:39): The red flags she ignored - (09:45): When she got the email from 'the other woman' - (17:27): When she confronted him - (22:39): Reflecting on the relationship - (30:34): Advice - (32:11): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW (Replay)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 28:53


    [SCROLL FOR CW]  - Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW Vernique Esther to talk about how to recognize manipulation, set boundaries, and leave if necessary.  - Check out Vernique Esther's: - Website: https://www.verniqueesther.com/ - The Wholeness Academy: https://www.thewholenessacademy.com/ - Books: https://www.verniqueesther.com/shop - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Introducing Vernique - (00:56): How do I know I'm getting manipulated? - (04:06): Why do people manipulate? - (07:07): Why do I feel bad for setting up boundaries? - (09:18): How do I handle religious manipulation? - (12:10): What if my partner threatens me w/ self-harm to keep us from breaking up? - (14:04): How do I leave a manipulative relationship? - (15:00): Can you ever work through manipulation? - (18:24): How to set boundaries in a relationship with someone who has manipulative tendencies? - (20:55): Why do I want to go back to someone who manipulated me? - (23:08): How do I convince myself I deserve better? - [CW: This episode briefly discusses: self-harm/suicide, domestic violence, religious trauma] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When she had an affair with their boss.... - S3Replay

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 43:48


    This week we're bringing awareness to My Sister's House in Charleston, SC: https://www.mysistershouse.org/give - This episode originally aired on January 31, 2023 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:26): Episode intro/her first marriage - (06:57): Introducing Anthony (her second husband) - (10:17): Introducing the The Boss (the third husband) - (11:27): The Affair - (13:29): Her second divorce - (17:01): When her 3rd marriage/relationship started going downhill  - (20:46): When she started to realize this marriage was unhealthy - (25:32): Reconnecting with Anthony - (33:23): When she finally decided to leave The Boss - (34:29): Reflecting on these relationships - (40:51): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Getting over the person you thought you'd marry w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2024 23:06


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5E8

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 52:09


    On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling. - This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:01): How they met - (06:56): The start of their major problems - (20:58): When calls off their engagement - (28:29): Attending her wedding alone - (33:31): The calls she got from him after their engagement ended - (39:40): Reflecting/advice - (49:27): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 24:52


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ - What proof do you need for a protective order?:https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/law-and-life/what-proof-do-you-need-to-get-a-restraining-order/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When a secret IG account exposed his past.... - S5E7

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 31:19


    Imagine losing your virginity to your new boo and finding out he has an arrest record the next day. Way to burst the post-coital bliss. Do you look past your new man's history or stick by him and hope he's changed? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - This week we're raising awareness for Journey in Cleveland, OH: https://www.journeyneo.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:27): How they met - (08:10): When she started to learn about his past - (11:20): When their relationship started to deteriorate - (17:02): The secret IG account that explained what happened with his ex - (20:28): Reflecting on the experience/advice - (28:29): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after Intimate Partner Violence w/ Katherine Ripley & Dr. Margaret Rutherford

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2024 44:53


    [SCROLL FOR CW] - Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist - Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/ - Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/ - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When she said he faked his cancer diagnosis.... - S5E6

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 54:58


    [SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - She thought she had finally left her ex for good...when he called her up and told her about a devastating diagnosis. She took him in until she started suspecting that he had spun a web of lies to keep her in the relationship. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - When she said her wife lied about having cancer...S3E1: https://open.spotify.com/episode/39DterRk42lMoxagOLiq7M?si=rSyVt3EpSBGKJJhcTd0LKg - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:41): How they met - (06:06): Problems in the relationship - (24:20): When he started claiming he had cancer - (27:59): When she started doubting the 'diagnoses' - (35:47): The aftermath of their break up - (40:44): Reflecting on the relationship - (45:14): Relationships after her ex - (51:32): Advice - (52:13): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Graphic Intimate partner violence] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus Episode: Is love enough to push past cultural differences? w/ CoWorker Jackson

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2024 26:16


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When he was falsely accused of a crime.... - S5E5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 43:26


    [SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (02:47): How they met - (14:31): The false accusations - (21:34): When he was finally cleared - (28:11): When fessed up to his new relationship - (35:19): Reflecting/what she learned - (40:30): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: rape, loss of parent] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: The connection between narcissism and serial cheating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 19:00


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When the mistresses exposed the affairs in the comments section.... - S5E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 38:18


    [SCROLL FOR CW] She says her husband had an affair with multiple women while she was pregnant...and the mistresses came forward In the comments section of one of her TikTok videos. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:57): How they met - (06:35): History of infidelity/working through it - (11:11): Losing the baby + affect on the relationship - (17:50): Discovering the first affair - (23:46): How social media uncovered more affairs - (27:58): Healing from the trauma - (35:16): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: suicide, loss of a child] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: The signs you're getting love bombed w/ ExCoworker Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2024 16:49


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - 5 Signs you're getting love bombed w/ Kati Morton: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s - How to spot a love bomber w/ Matthew Hussey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    When he wrote their break up song while they were still together.... - S5E3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 50:57


    Her indie musician bf wrote and performed a song about them breaking up for her...while they were still together! Would you stay with someone who was already planning the end of the relationship?! - This week we're raising awareness for Abuse Counseling & Treatment, Inc.: https://actabuse.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:28): How they met - (14:19): The wrong parts of the relationship - (17:31): The start of the relationship - (23:33): Their continued relationship after the break up - (37:17): Being afraid of rejection in your relationship - (41:52): The good things about the break up/lessons learned - (44:28): Figuring out how to escape her ex - (48:08): Teaser - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Break Down Bonus: Getting strung along in your relationship? You're not alone. w/ Lexi

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2024 24:48


    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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