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  THINK SMART. ACT SMART. A Project Of www.PartnersInShidduchim.com A compilation of interviews with all of the many kinds of people involved in the shidduch process and have a story to tell of action and su

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    Episode #39: "Exploring the Hidden Forces in Dating: Understanding Defense Mechanisms"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 3:27


    Dive into our latest episode of Think Smart, Act Smart, as we explore the hidden world of defense mechanisms in shidduch dating. Hosted by Mrs. Baila Yaniv and powered by PartnersInShidduchim.com, this episode uncovers how subconscious guards like projection and denial influence our dating journeys. Tune in for insights on navigating these challenges with greater awareness and authenticity.

    Episode #38: Navigating the Delicate Balance: Honoring Yourself on Your Journey to Finding Your Bashert.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 2:34


    In this enlightening episode of 'Think Smart, Act Smart,' your host Mrs. Baila Yaniv delves into the critical importance of setting boundaries and the struggle against people-pleasing in the pursuit of shidduchim. Drawing upon Torah values and real-life experiences, we explore how embracing the power of 'no' can lead to profound self-discovery and personal growth and, ultimately, guide you closer to finding your bashert. Learn about the significance of recognizing your patterns, building self-esteem, and confidently owning your journey. Join us as we navigate the delicate balance between honoring others and staying true to oneself, all while on the path to meaningful connection with your bashert.

    Episode #37: Unspoken Bonds: The Power of Nonverbal Communication in Shidduchim

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 5:38


    Unlock the secrets of nonverbal communication in relationships and dating with our latest 'Think Smart, Act Smart' episode. Delve into practical tips and wisdom from Shlomo HaMelech to enhance your connections without saying a word. Discover how to express and read the silent signals that speak volumes in the search for meaningful relationships and your bashert Tune in to transform your dating experience with the unspoken art of love.

    Episode 36: Episode 36: Bridging Worlds - The Eastern-Western Tapestry of Shidduchim"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 4:39


    Join host Baila Yaniv in a profound exploration of how Eastern traditions and Western modernity blend to shape our search for a Bashert. This Shidduchim Podcast delves into the rich heritage and contemporary challenges faced by mature singles within the Jewish community. Discover how values, faith, and the wisdom of Torah guide us in navigating the complexities of our mesorah and modern dating, illuminating our path towards true companionship. In this episode, we celebrate the unique synthesis of cultures and values, offering insights and encouragement for everyone on their journey to the chuppah. Proudly brought to you by ShidduchProfiles.org - our motto - How can we help you? - 845.607.0090.

    Episode #35: "The Art of Questioning: Unveiling the Heart of Your Future Bashert"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 4:41


    'Join us in Episode #35 as we delve into the pivotal role of asking the right questions in the shidduch dating journey. Discover the questions that cut to the core, revealing the essence of the person you're considering for a future together. It's not just about finding someone; it's about finding the right someone. Tune in for insights on crafting conversations that uncover compatibility, values, and dreams.

    Episode #34: "Divine Timing & Determined Effort: The Thurm Shidduch Story"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 33:56


    In this heartwarming episode of 'Think Smart, Act Smart,' we sit down with Mrs. Ruthie Thurm, a mother whose faith and initiative exemplify the powerful blend of divine trust and personal effort. Discover how she navigated the path to finding her son's perfect match through the shidduchprofiles.org database, all while holding onto emunah (faith) and actively engaging in the shidduch process. Mrs. Thurm shares her inspirational journey, offering insights and encouragement for families and singles navigating their own shidduch journeys. Whether you're yeshivish, modern Orthodox, or heimish, this story of hope, patience, and divine orchestration will uplift and inspire you to blend heavenly trust with earthly action in your search for a bashert.

    Episode #33 - Overcoming Shidduch Fears #3 - Fear of Provision

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 4:01


    Feeling stuck on your journey to finding your bashert? Worried about how you'll provide in the future? You're not alone. Join Mrs. Baila Yaniv in our latest episode, 'Embracing Your Tikun: Overcoming the Fear of Provision,' as we uncover the hidden blessings in our fears. Learn how these challenges are not just hurdles but divine invitations to grow, trust, and prepare for a life filled with love and faith. Dive into practical wisdom and steps to transform your journey today.

    Episode 32: Overcoming Shidduch Fears Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 3:36


    Join Mrs. Baila Yaniv in this enlightening episode of 'Think Smart, Act Smart: Overcoming Shidduch Fears,' where we delve into the profound parallels between Hashem's gift of light and warmth to the world and the spiritual journey of finding our bashert. In this episode, we explore how the divine light provides clarity in our search for a partner, illuminating our path with understanding and guiding us toward making choices aligned with our deepest values. Just as the sun warms the earth, we discuss how emotional warmth and mutual connection are essential for nurturing the seeds of a budding relationship. Through stories, insights, and the wisdom of Torah, we'll learn to navigate the challenges of shidduchim, understanding that what might feel like rejection is, in reality, a redirection towards a brighter, warmer future. Episode 32 offers a comforting perspective on the shidduch process, reminding us that with faith in Hashem's plan, every step is a step towards clarity, connection, and the divine warmth of true companionship.

    Episode #31 " Overcoming Shidduch Fears Pt. 1"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 2:44


    Think Smart, Act Smart: Overcoming Shidduch Fears' is the go-to episode of the shidduchprofiles.org podcast series, where we dive deep into the fears singles face on their journey to finding their bashert. Host Mrs. Baila Yaniv, blends Torah insights, personal stories, and actionable advice to help you navigate the emotional landscape of shidduchim with faith and confidence. Whether it's fear of the unknown, rejection, or making the wrong choice, this episode arms you with the wisdom to think smart and act smart in your search for love. Join us as we transform fear into strength on the path to building a bayis neeman b'yisrael.

    Episode #30 - "Pathways to Peace: Divine Calm in a Chaotic World"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2024 4:31


    Pathways to Peace' is your serene escape into a world of tranquility amidst the hustle of everyday life. Join shidduchprofiles.org as we explore practical steps and enlightening insights to cultivate inner peace and divine calm. From mindfulness and gratitude to connecting with nature and acts of kindness, each episode guides you closer to a peaceful heart and a joyful spirit. Dive into a journey of transformation with us, and discover how to carry the calm within you, no matter the chaos around.

    Episode 29: "Emunah, Mesorah, and a New Twist on Shidduch Matchmaking For YOU!"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 2:58


    Discover the story of Miriam and Dovid, a couple who found each other by weaving together the threads of Emunah and Hishtadlus, a new twist in shidduchim. Their journey is a testament to the beauty of holding onto our roots while embracing the present possibilities. Dive into a tale of Emunah, mesorah, and shidduchim in our new age of shidduchim.

    In Episode 28 of "Dating Journey to Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 3:23


    In Episode 28 of 'Dating Journey to Marriage,' we delve into Rabbi Ostrov's 'Seven Gates' of relationship building. Each gate offers practical, real-world insights for those navigating the shidduchim process. From the hopeful beginning at the Gate of Hope to the commitment at the Gate of Engagement and Marriage, join us on this enlightening journey to discover the keys to lasting love and partnership. Find your path to a meaningful relationship in today's dating and marriage world.

    Episode 27: "The Step of Affirmations in Dating: Building Deeper Connections"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 3:06


    Welcome to 'Moments of Connection,' where we explore the art of building meaningful relationships. In this episode, we delve into the power of affirmations in dating, those small yet impactful statements that can transform your dating experiences. Join us as we discover how affirmations can create genuine connections, spark meaningful conversations, and make your dates more memorable. Tune in for real-life examples and practical tips to incorporate affirmations into your dating journey. It's time to enhance your dating experiences by acknowledging and appreciating the uniqueness of your potential partner. Listen now and start building deeper connections in your dating life.

    "Unlocking Deeper Connections: The Inner Circle Method in Dating"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 3:14


    'Explore the profound impact of Rabbi Shaya Ostrov's 'Inner Circle' concept on dating conversations in this insightful episode of 'Think Smart Act Smart.' We discuss how deep connections are rooted in emotional clarity and self-understanding, drawing on the wisdom of our closest relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern dating, offering practical advice and transformative insights. Join us as we bridge traditional wisdom with contemporary challenges, unlocking the secrets to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.'

    Episode 24 - "Clarity Amidst the Quest: Unveiling Destiny in Shidduchim"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 4:11


    In today's episode of 'Clarity Amidst the Quest,' we draw inspiration from the timeless wisdom of Dovid HaMelech and his poignant reflections in Psalm 2:1. As members of shidduchprofiles.org, join us in a meaningful discussion that bridges the ancient with the modern, exploring how the search for our bashert is not a silent journey but one filled with the uproar of choices and voices. Discover how to find solace, direction, and clarity in your pursuit of a life partner amidst the complexity of contemporary dating. This episode is for those who are ready to cut through the noise, embrace their individual journey, and step confidently towards a future written with purpose and partnership. Tune in and transform the way you navigate the waters of shidduchim with the strength of kings and the heart of seekers.

    #24 - Chapter 1 Verse 4 The Chaff and the Tzaddik: A Reflection on Modern Influences

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 3:51


    As we ponder the metaphor of chaff in the context of our lives, let us aspire to embody the qualities of the tzaddik—rooted, substantial, and enduring. Let us recognize and resist the winds of negative influence, holding fast to the eternal truths that ground us. Through this, we may navigate the shidduch process and our lives with wisdom, integrity, and depth.

    #23 ✨ "Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom" - Chapter 1 Verse 3 - "He shall be like a tree planted alongside brooks of water"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 2:40


    Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom' is a guiding light for navigating the path to finding your zivug. Inspired by Dovid HaMelech's profound insights, this podcast explores how each act of kindness and mitzvah, from visiting the sick to comforting the bereaved, plants seeds that shape our character and destiny in love. Join us as we delve into these teachings, offering practical advice and spiritual support to help you find and nurture your bashert.

    #22 Shidduch Success: Understanding the Value of Matchmakers

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 2:24


    Explore the nuanced art of appreciating shadchanim in this episode. A Chanukah message that discusses the importance of recognizing their hard work in matchmaking, with a focus on the appropriate financial gratitude for different outcomes in the shidduch process.

    #21 Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 6 - #4

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 1:46


    'Exploring the profound teachings of Tehillim and the importance of positive impact in life, especially for singles seeking meaningful connections. Includes actionable advice and encourages joining a supportive community.'

    #20 Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 2 - #3

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 2:31


    'Exploring the profound teachings of Tehillim and the importance of positive impact in life, especially for singles seeking meaningful connections. Includes actionable advice and encourages joining a supportive community.'

    Episode 19: Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 1 - #2

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 2:31


    Welcome to 'Think Smart. Act Smart.' — a podcast where the timeless wisdom of Tehillim meets practical advice for today's singles in shidduchim. Discover insights from the verses of the Psalms that inspire smart thinking and proactive actions, boosting spirits and guiding you towards meaningful connections. Embrace the journey with the wisdom of the past to find the joy of tomorrow.'

    Episode 18: Tehillim's Timeless Wisdom - Chapter 1 Verse 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 2:52


    Welcome to 'Think Smart. Act Smart.' — a podcast where the timeless wisdom of Tehillim meets practical advice for today's singles in shidduchim. Discover insights from the verses of the Psalms that inspire smart thinking and proactive actions, boosting spirits and guiding you towards meaningful connections. Embrace the journey with the wisdom of the past to find the joy of tomorrow.'

    Episode 17: After how many dates should a person know that this relationship is the right one?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 34:19


    With Mrs. Baila Yaniv, Founder of ShidduchProfiles.org powered by Partners In Shidduchim and Dating Coach Mrs. M'nucha Bialik.

    Ep. #16 Coach M'nucha Bialik with Founder, Mrs. Baila Yaniv, ShidduchProfiles.Org, - Making It A Great Day.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2023 26:10


    #15 - Dina, a recent Kalla,h shares how she used Shidduch Profiles Plus to make her friends shidduch.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 16:47


    In this delightful podcast, listen to Dina, a recent Kallah describe how she used Partners in Shidduchim to optimize her search for herself and her friends. While her Shidduch ultimately came from elsewhere, Dina matched her friend on the PINS site and shares how she was able to do so. Listen and learn about how PINS levels the playing field to allow Dina - and me, you , everyone- to become active shadchanim.

    Interview #14 with Mrs. Aleeza Ben Shalom to help singles identify if this is the one or if they should be done.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2021 18:44


    In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom addresses the challenges singles face when dating especially around knowing if you are dating the one or if you should be done. No matter age, stage or background, identifying the one is a tremendous challenge for everyone. Aleeza addresses how you can find your bashert and provides several ways to help singles make that decision with clarity.

    Episode #13 - An Interview With Dr. Devora Samet, Psy.D., M.S. Ed.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 18:38


    In this episode, hear from Dr. Samet, one of the leading advocates of PINS, about how her line of work directly ties in to the process of dating and relationship building. Gain an understanding of how enhanced communication tools can and do improve the quality of a date and accelerate the process of one individual learning about another. As a bonus, discover a great communication strategy that can be used on a date and beyond!

    Episode #12 - Rebbetzin Zlata Press's Opinions About Adult Dating With A Bold and Fresh Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2021 21:11


    Dating can be tough at times. Lots of questions. Lots of confusion. Veteran mechaneches Rebbetzin. Zlata Press provides a bold and fresh approach to relevant questions you may have. How does the idea of a “bashert” impact your decision-making? How much time and effort do you need to invest? Should you push the shidduch forward or simply wait and see? And, perhaps the most difficult, is when - if ever - should you compromise on your “list” if you're not yet seeing any success. Rebbetzin Zlata Press is the long-time principal ofBnos Leah Prospect Park Yeshiva High School in Brooklyn

    Episode #11 Rabbi Goldberg: Valuing Diversity and Celebrating Unity Impacts Singles

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2021 23:55


    In this episode, Rabbi Goldberg takes on a range of commonplace perspectives surrounding 'singles' and the dating experience, such as the surrender-hishtadlus paradox, the phenomena of 'mixed' Sephardic and Ashkenazic shidduchim, the oft-felt reality of being in a 'holding pattern' while single, and what 'settling' should be called. Most importantly, hear about what he believes the role of singles can and should be within our broader community - and what role PINS plays with that.

    Episode #10 With Dr. Leah Adams, Psychologist: Sharing Tips How You Can Avoid Dating Burnout

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 16:01


    Podcast #10 with Dr. Leah Adams, Psychologist In this fascinating podcast, listen to Dr. Leah Adams, a psychologist in a women-focused practice, share her wisdom as it relates to the dating woman. Hear her novel approach to the effect of self-esteem on the dating process and what singlescan do to fortify themselves against potential pitfalls.

    Episode #9 Listen to this Halachic and Hashkafic approach to dating, by Rabbi Coren, Rav of Ohr Chaim in Monsey NY and Rabbinic Advisor to Partners in Shidduchim.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2021 18:02


    Listen to this Halachic and Hashkafic approach to dating, by Rabbi Coren, Rav of Ohr Chaim in Monsey NY and Rabbinic Advisor to Partners in Shidduchim. In this episode, Rabbi Coren responds to questions relevant to daters. Walk away with an empowered perspective about what you can do to further advance your efforts to meet your bashert.

    Episode #8 with Mrs. Toby Lieder, International Dating Coach and Shadchan, Part One

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 15:48


    In this oh-so-refreshing interview, listen to Mrs. Toby Lieder, An Australian-based dating Coach/Shadchan, as she details how she breaks down all time and geographic barriers to help singles of all kinds everywhere. In her unique approach, she harnesses technology gifts to meet her long-distance clients, matches them with others in her database, and offers support during their dating process. Hear about her dating resources and dating game - and how one couple managed 18 SKYPE dates during COVID! A must-listen for all seeking a forward-thinking approach in the world of dating. Listen to Part One now - and come back for Part Two soon!

    Episode #7 With Mr. Kraus, LCSW, Shalom Task Force - Informative Interview

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 15:30


    Listen to Mr Kraus, LCSW, as he details the mission and work of Shalom Task Force. Hear his take on what steps individuals can take to fortify existing relationships and to form new ones. An informative, action-oriented interview!

    Episode #6: Interview with Mrs. Mnucha Bialik, International Dating Coach

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 16:14


    Episode #5 with Eliezer Miller, PINS Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2021 13:04


    Podcast #5 with Eliezer Miller, PINS Success In this enjoyable interview, listen to Eliezer as he describes the unusual way in which he joined PINS and the wonderful result - his marriage to Chana! Learn about how the choices made by his sister and action taken by Chana lead to his match. Also, hear his take on what sets PINS apart from other dating websites, and from the conventional ways of navigating shidduchim.

    Episode #4 with Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen, International Dating Coach and Shadchan.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2021 19:14


    Podcast #4 with Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen, International Dating Coach and Shadchan. Hear Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen talk about what led to his career change from orthopedic surgeon to helping singles meet and marry. He pinpoints the challenges he encounters as a dating coach, as well as what he perceives as the greatest challenge facing singles today. Most importantly, Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen shares the stories of his successes and valuable wisdom for us to think about and act upon.

    Episode #3 With Dovid & Baila Yaniv, Founders Of The Partners In Shidduchim - How You, The Single, Can Choose To Expand Your Reach To Get Matched.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 15:11


    Mrs. Meira Gold, Staff Volunteer and Volunteer Writer interviews Dovid and Baila Yaniv the founders of Partners In Shidduchim. They discuss how and why the site was founded. How the site works and the challenges they are trying to address through the PINS platform. They share their wisdom how singles and those that advocate on behalf of singles can think smart and act smart utilizing the PINS network.

    Episode #2 with Mrs. Chave Piasek who made a choice she never thought she would.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 12:08


    Mrs. Chavie Piasik shares how she chose to explore new opportunities to find her son his zivug. Her story reveals how she stepped out of her comfort zone, explored a new opportunity, acted on it, and met with success.

    Episode #1 with Founder Mrs. Baila Yaniv Interviews Mrs. Anette Rosenthal from Toronto Ontario learning why she aspires to inspire singles.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2021 14:36


    Mrs. Baila Yaniv, Founder of Partners In Shidduchim, interviews Mrs. Annette Rosenthal of Toronto, Ontario. Mrs. Yaniv asks Mrs. Rosenthal, a PAL (Personal Advocate Liason/Shadchan) on the PINS website, why she joined, and why she encourages singles to expand their reach. The interview explores why singles are choosing not to join a network or why they are choosing to join a network that can put them in the drivers seat. This episode aims to get singles and others to air their views and create a voice for the singles and for anyone who advocates on behalf of a single. More involvement in the grassroots initiative means more opportunities to learn more about our singles and shadchanim and others' needs and frustrations and unite to drive change.

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