Well hello there, kinksters! This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of Sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, performer, erotica author, sexuality researcher and scholar. Topics will range from sex education, non-monogamy, kink, BDSM, fetishes, sex toys, experiences, OnlyFans, SSC, Shibari, and so much more!
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After a long hiatus, the show is back with a new sound, new episodes, and more dynamic content than ever before! This is my first solo episode since starting season 2 and I am so excited to share all the exciting news with you! From the behind-the-scenes of The Vibe Expo in Hollywood, the official launch of Artistic Edge Magazine, new Toy reviews, and more! Get your drink and let's get into it! Video Version of this podcast is available on Patreon! Links for this episode: Artistic Edge Magazine My Secret Diary Patreon That Lit Witch on YouTube My NEW Official Facebook Page Tyomi's Cowgirl Workout The Vibe Expo Information Page ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. EDU Facebook. Official Facebook. Twitter. Personal TikTok Travel, Art, and BTS TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Substack or check out my Writing Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." ___________________________ Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store The Stockroom - The Premier BDSM Store & Sponsor of How to Build a Sex Room on Netflix Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit | Brand Collaboration Request
Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I've admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, and connect and she's here to share her expertise to help others grow and thrive! We also take a surprising detour and discuss the interaction of cyber security and sex tech! You don't want to miss this episode! Links for this episode: Stefani's Instagram Website Twitter New Book: With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect Be sure to also check out her other books: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
I am so excited to bring you a special podcast with the award-winning Kink Educator, published author, and historian, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart! She has also been the Dominant in her poly-house since 1993 with experience in opening up, as well as coming out in the mainstream. Her work as a kink activist has helped to shed light on the relationship structures, and her dedication to writing is not only insightful but walks the line of BDSM, Kink, Sci-Fi, and Erotica. She's an eclectic and amazing human that I can't wait for you to meet! Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: TammyJo's Patreon TammyJo on Instagram TammyJo's Facebook TammyJo's Twitter TammyJo's official website ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
From BDSM dynamics, taboo kinks, to an extensive guide to An*l play and safety, we get down and dirty in this episode! I've admired Luna's work on the submissiveguide.com , the leading educational resource online for submissives, for years and share her passion for bringing the world of BDSM and D/s to others in an accessible, researched-based, and comforting way. She has written dozens of BDSM guides and just released her newest addition, "Exploring Anal Pleasures: A Submissive's Guide to Anal Play and Training." which provides a step-by-step approach to incorporating anal; play into your submissive exploration. Come hangout out as we dive deep on the episode of The Submissive Next Door Podcast! Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: The Sub Guide on Patreon The Sub Guide on Instagram THe Sub Guide on Facebook The Sub Guide on Twitter The Website ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
What happens when you get two queer erotica authors in a room together? Let's find out! In this episode, I welcome Christian Pan, a fantastical sexy-smart bisexual author of erotic fiction based in New York City! Since 2021 he has published 5 novels, 90 short stories, and numerous reviews of erotic fiction & nonfiction. Since 2022, he has been the Captain of the Queer Erotic Content Creators Club, a permanent A Club on Patreon. He is here to chat about the world of queer erotic fiction, from how erotica authors research sex scenes, to how the concept of "erotic" has changed over the years. This is by far one of the most intellectually stimulating conversations I've had and you don't want to miss it! Grab a drink, kick back, and join us for a deep chat on all things erotic! Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: Christian Pan's Patreon Christian's Instagram Christian's Facebook Christian's Twitter All his links ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
In this episode, I sit down with a special guest and intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton! She is a self-proclaimed "Orgasmanaut..." that travels to the outer reaches of human orgasmic potential to bring back the map to the territory of pleasure and connection. She's here to chat about some of the most common sexual issues in relationships today and how to amplify your sex life! Susan is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. She is also a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs, including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. She has also been featured in the New York Times, on CNBC and the TODAY show, as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC. A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: Susan's official website The Pumping Guide The Seduction Trilogy Sexual Soulmate Pact Sex Life Bucket list Soulmate Embrace Better Lover Susan's Instagram Susan's Facebook Susan's Twitter ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App! (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
Are you ready to swing to the other side? Or maybe you are just thinking about it? Whether you want to learn more about the swinging lifestyle to better support others or thinking about opening up your own relationship, Ed and Phoebe Swinger are resources you need to know! They are experts in opening up and getting out there! Not only that, they tell it like it is and give practical advice, as well as insights into what it is really like to be swingers today. They also help to coordinate events for those "swinging through life!" I had the honor of interviewing them and chatting about many of the frequently asked questions I get from those new to the world of CNM. So grab a drink and kick back with us while we chat about play parties, swinging, jealousy, and all the bits in between! A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: Follow them on Patreon Follow them on Instagram Follow them on Twitter Check out their site ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App! (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
What happens when the girls next door get together to chat about sex, BDSM, favorite punishments, sexcapades, and more? You will find out all about it in this episode! In this episode, I welcome special guest Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries! After living a life putting her sex life on the back burner, she woke up one day and decided to "stop wasting the pretty" and get out there! She created a sexual bucket list and set out to reclaim her sexuality and document it every step of the way! Listen as we discuss the freedom of sexual exploration, including her experiences as both a Submissive in the past to a Dominant today. A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon and YouTube - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the podcast page for this episode on my official website too! Links for this episode: Website: The Curious Girl Diaries Website (With exclusive extras!) Podcast: The Curious Girl Diaries on Apple Instagram: Layla London on IG Facebook: Layla London on FB Twitter: Layla London on Twitter YouTube: Layla London on YouTube ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App! (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ News & Press | Media Kit
Are you ready to get erotic? Join me with one of the coolest women I have been lucky enough to meet! Eleanor O'Brien is the creator of Stand Up Smut, and Dance Naked Creative. For over a decade, she has helped people tell their stories in a way that celebrates their sexuality, revels in it, explores it, and firmly believes no one should be punished for their curiosity. With an MFA at the University of San Diego, she has done everything from Shakespeare at the Old Globe Theater and auditioned for commercials, film, and tv, but something felt deeply unsatisfying to her. Only when she wrote her first show, Dominatrix for Dummies did she realize what was missing! She wanted to make theater that mattered and had something to say; that helped people see different possibilities for their own lives. She wanted to make shows about sex and that is just what she's done! Grab your drink and kick back! You are in for one erotic ride! A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the podcast page for this episode on my official website too! Links for this episode: Website: Dance Naked Creative and Stand Up Smut's Official Site Patreon: Eleanor's Offical Patreon Instagram: Dance Naked Creative on Instagram Facebook: Dance Naked Creative on Facebook YouTube: Dance Naked Creative on YouTube ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App! (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
I am so happy to share this with you all! After a long hiatus, The Submissive Next Door Podcast has officially launched with an all-new season and weekly shows! Guests are lined up, juicy topics are flowing, there is an all-new sound and vibe to the show; and I'm so stoked about it! For the first episode, I am chatting with you about my most requested topic to date! The history and how-to of P★gging! In today's episode, the topics we are going to cover are: What pegging is Where pegging came from A little history about the strap-on Statistics about the popularity of pegging today Benefits of pegging How to tell your partner you want to try it Getting started with pegging for beginners Aftercare Final thoughts and precautions Grab a drink, kick back, and lets get kinky! A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the podcast page for this episode on my official website too! Links for this episode: Article: The Male G-Spot Article: Insights: Pegging Search Term on PornHub (please see the episode page for a direct link) Article: Sex and the Prostate: Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction Article: The Prostate Orgasm: What it is Research Article: Pegging and the heterosexualization of anal sex: An analysis of Savage Love advice Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University Ways to Connect Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch. Facebook. Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App! (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."'s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic. Links for this episode: Case Study: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission published in the Journal of Sex Research Case Study: Curative Kink: Survivors of Early Abuse Transform Trauma through BDSM published in The Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy Case Study: A Systematic Scoping Review of the Prevalence, Etiological, Psychological, and Interpersonal Factors Associated with BDSM published in the Journal of Sex Research Case Study: Bondage- Discipline, Dominance - Submission and Sadomasochism (BDSM) From an Integrative Biopsychosocial Perspective: A Systematic Review published in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Dr. Sefani Goerlich Article: 94 Non-Binary BDSM Names for Doms & Subs by Sunny Megatron Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt (Great info on the Imago Dialogue) Additional Resources: Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram Twitch with me! LIVE Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery Dr. K's Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Let's talk about Libido... in particular, how do we overcome libido discrepancy? (i.e.: when one partner wants more sex than the other.) While we are at it, let's take it a step further and throw parenting, life, and a little kink into the mix! In this episode, I'm going to address an insightful question from a follower concerning how to talk to their partner about the tough subject of getting more sex when one partner isn't feeling it. I also take you on a deep dive into a conflict resolution technique called "The Imago Dialogue" (and how it can be used as check-in method for D/s dynamics), how this fits in with creating more responsive desire, as well as teach you how to find what your inner self actually needs from sex. I'll also give actionable steps to reframe what pleasure is, and build a container of safety that will help partners connect on a deeper level, even when sex isn't on the menu! Let's get going! Links for this episode: Video Podcast Version Dr. K's Imago-Inspired D/s Relationship Dialogue Script will be available on Patreon and her Online Center for Sexuality & Kink Education Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt (Great info on the Imago Dialogue) Site: The Imago Relationship Official Site Additional Resources: Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram Twitch with me! LIVE Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery Dr. K's Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Are you all as stressed out as I am these days? In this episode, I'm analyzing the science behind stress from the perspective of the Stress Response Cycle, and how our sexuality plays into it. In addition, I'm going to discuss different ways to combat it from a holistic approach, including a thoughtful discussion on how mindful masturbation can be used as a tool to aid in wellbeing and stress managementment. As a bonus, this episode includes a 15 minute Chakra balancing body-scan guided medication to help you achieve a restful state of bliss at the end of the day. Get comfy and a settle-in for some serious self-care tonight! Links for this episode: Book: Burnout By Dr. Emily Nagoski Forsale18's Positive Thots St. Patrick's Day special with Dr. K on Positive Thots Twitch Stream Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session! Links for this episode: Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stefani Goerlich Book: Why Good Sex Matters by Dr. Nan Wise Research Article: Physical Pain as Pleasure: A Theoretical Perspective by Cara Dunkley, Craig Henshaw, Saira Henshaw and Lori Brotto Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Case Study Findings: The Health & Healthcare Experience of Kink-Oriented People (2016) Research Article: The Effect of Sexual Arousal and Emotional Arousal on Working Memory by Ricky Au, and Verity Tang Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long episode! The video version of this episode is available on Patreon! Thank you for all your support! Links for this episode: ADHD After Dark by Ari Tuckman Positive Thots on Twitch with Forsale18 Research Article: Diagnosis, Assessment, and Treatment of Hypersexuality by Meg Kaplan Site Article: We have ADHD. This is How We Have a Lot of Sex Research Article: Hypersexuality: Psychopathology or normal variant of sexuality? Site Article: When ADHD Disrupts (and ruins) the Romance Site Resource: ADHD and Marriage Site Article: My ADHD Brain and 4 Odd Things that Freak it Out Book Resource: Taming Your Gremlin (A Surprisingly Simple Method for Getting Out of Your Own Way) Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
I am so excited to bring you this very special episode! Big Daddy is here and he opens up about D/s dynamics from a Dom's perspective, maintaining a dynamic during a pandemic while working overtime, favorite scenes, orgasms, consent, and so much more! We also bring y'all on a deep discussion about check-ins, favorite toys, and finding pleasure through rituals. Dismantling stereotypes, one sex-positive conversation at a time! Links for this episode: Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill! Links for this episode: Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Journal of Sex Research Journal of Marital and Sex Therapy Journal of Sexual Medicine American Journal of Sexuality Education Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships Archives of Sexual Behavior National Coalition of Sexual Freedom _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
I'm back! In this episode, I'll explain my hiatus, what projects are in the works, a new course launching THIS WEEK for others looking to get into podcasting within the realm of sexual education, and we chat about a few topics that sprang up for me while watching The Wheel of Time during a recent TV binge. From polyamory, sexism, to power dynamics I noticed in this Prime TV series that has me left with extremely mixed feelings. Come chill with your friendly neighborhood Submissive Next Door and get nerdy with me! Links for this episode: Wheel of Time on Amazon Here is another great critical review of Wheel of Time by The Mythcreants And another from Tor.com Wheel of Time on Rotton Tomatoes _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around :) Y'all send in some of the best, most passionate questions that deserve much more in-depth answers than what I can often convey in a single comment or 1-minute clip. In this episode, I'm going to discuss some questions submitted from fans that range from methods and communication techniques for bringing up the idea of kink to partner, get in-depth about the exciting dynamics of brats and their tammers, and the more therapeutic aspects of D/s for anxiety and panic attacks. Links for this episode: Article: How BDSM Might Benefit Your Health and Improve Your Relationship Dissertation: Negotiating Self: An Exploration of Women ' s Perceptions of Their Feminist and Submissive Identities Article: BRAT BDSM: Everything You Want to Know About Brats Article: A Dom's Guide to Panic Attacks and BDSM (caring for their sub) _____________________ Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Erotica, Audios, Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects! Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST) Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
The inner mind of an erotica writer is a strange and adventurous place... and when you combine that with a nerdy service sub with brat tendencies, well.. you get an episode like this!
If you haven't heard, OnlyFans just announced a massive shift in their terms of service that has models, *corn* stars, and spicy accountants scrambling to answers questions. It will no longer be allowing sexually explicit content as of Oct. 1st and creators have until December to remove offensive content that goes against the TOS. Questions like: Where do we go? What happens to all the content that my fans have paid for if I have to delete it all? Will OF refund the fans or will I have to? What about fans that purchased a 3, 6, or 12-month membership for content that will no longer be allowed? We will talk about it all here! With my background in technology and platform testing, I took to the quest of running through use-case testing of nearly every reputable alternative to OF that I could find and will break down each one in this episode, as well as discuss the business decision that just might put OnlyFans under. I also discuss what the hell happened to my IG account (yup.. spoiler alter... It's banned... New one is linked!)... is Mercury in retrograde or what?! Check out the YouTube version! Links for this episode: Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects! Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST) Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ok folx, we are about to get downright filthy! In this episode, I'm going to talk about my soon-to-be-released "Mega" BDSM checklist and just how deep into the rabbit hole my research into highly specific and little-known kinks and fetishes took me! I share some of the new ones I am so glad I discovered, then I pull out one of my favorite floggers from my "Toy Trunk" and discuss some favorite uses for it ;) This episode is highly explicit... you have been warned. Check out the YouTube version to also see the flogger I showcase in this episode. :) Links for this episode: Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more! Twitch with me! Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
It's no secret that fitness and health is a passion of mine! I get asked every so often from my IG and TikTok followers what I'm doing to stay fit. Here is the full overview of my fitness routine each week, lifestyle, nutrition, supplements, and my favorite skin routine for my body! This might be my most vanilla episode ever lol. Peep my YouTube for the video version ;) Links for this episode: Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more! Products: Vegan Power Pro - Protein Powder Opti-Greens 50 L - Carnitine (Pineapple Coconut is my favorite!) Ignition _________________________ Twitch with me! Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Wow, it has been a minute! I am so sorry for the hiatus, but I am back and with more content than ever! Let's have a gab session about what happened over the summer, and what's in store for all the platforms! I'm going to give you the down and dirty details about our trip to Napa, CA in July and how we incorporated D/s into our travels and experiences. I'll also tell you a funny story about how a submissive, a Dom, and a bartender walk into a winery... ;) Grab and drink and kick back... this one is going to take a while! Links for this episode: Peep my IG - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more! JAM Cellars - Give the Butter Chardonnay and Sugar Desert Wines a try! Alpha Omega Winery - Everything is recommended... and if you can set up a tasting, you won't regret the experience! Orin Swift Winery - Such a unique wine, it's worth a try! La Toque - Amazing is an understatement... there is no wonder this is a Micheline Star Restaurant! Oxbow Public Market in Napa Twitch with me! Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who works with you, mentors you, or engages in a more contractual D/s dynamic, but is not in a romantic relationship with you. Here, I'm going to cover some of the differences, and ways you can incorporate a subtle nod to your desired lifestyle or identity while in the dating scene. Links for this episode: Follow Dating Kinky on IG at https://www.instagram.com/datingkinkyofficial Visit the blog articles on dating in kink and D/s on the NCSF Site Kasidie (primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too and events are regularly updated for kink/play parties) Swing Lifestyle (again, primarily swingers but many kinksters can be found here too) Cosmopolitan released a list of kink/fetish/BDSM couples and dating aps located HERE that's worth a look. Twitch with me! Video Podcast YouTube Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
This is my 3-week update! I'll cover surgery day, post-surgery experiences, surprises along the way, and how I'm feeling at 3 weeks post-surgery, and how I'm handling my Factor 5 Lidein disorder with recovery. I understand this topic is controversial and only ask for kindness and respect as a human. I do not recommend anyone getting this procedure done without taking the time to clearly think about their options, risks, and potential complications along the way, as well as ensuring they are in a healthy mental space. I am only sharing my personal journey and experience and recognize others may have judgments, however, I am a human with feelings and ask for kindness, please. YouTube Version
In this episode, I cover the amazing subject of masturbation! From making time to feel sexy, how erotic dance can help anyone get into their sexuality, to my personal joy with mutual masturbation! I also talk about some new discoveries such as body sex and creating a kink conversation template (link coming this week!) Finally, I discuss the important consideration of porn literacy! This is a jam-backed episode! Links for this episode: Follow Ryn at https://twitter.com/RynPfeuffer Follow Dodson and Ross at https://twitter.com/DodsonandRoss Or visit their site relating to #bodysex at https://dodsonandross.com/ Twitch with me! Video Podcast YouTube Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Disclaimer: This is my personal journey with getting a breast augmentation with a lift. I ask for kindness, compassion, and non-judgmental comments. I understand some may not like my choice, but please remember I am a human with feelings. This is a vulnerable topic to many. As a Doctor of Education, I understand the diversity of opinions that exist on this topic. This is a deeply personal journey and I hope it helps provide context into the process for others. YouTube Video Version on my YouTube. YouTube VLOG Version
Wow, it has been a roller coaster of a week! I hit 100K followers on TikTok and inadvertently found myself in vanilla TikTok!? Just what exactly is a service submissive? And let's just chat a bit about the public shaming I experienced as a submissive within the world of social media. I also an update on the launch of the official MERCH shop, and share some updates on my surgery this week. Finally, I share some resources on where to go for courses and additional education from some of my favorite kink-aware educators and artists! Grab that drink... this is sure to be a bit of a wild ride! Links for this episode: Twitch with me! Video Podcast YouTube Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
This is the podcast version of the video show & tell on YouTube! I get asked all the time about subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s dynamic. We are always looking out for nods to our kinky side and utilizing under-the-radar tactics to continue practicing our lifestyle 24/7. This is the first part of the short series "Subtly Kinky!" Links for this episode: Twitch with me! YouTube Video Podcast Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
This video is a total mixed back of kink! I recently asked my followers on IG to send in their kinky questions and holy cheese balls, did you guys deliver! Everything from my first kinks, finding a Mistress/Dom, anal play and douching, and so much more! Let's get a bit dirty, shall we? Links for this episode: Twitch with me! YouTube Video Podcast Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
In this video podcast episode, I talk about service submission and what it means to us, my recent appearance on the Sexie Show, and the subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s lifestyle while managing our jobs and family lives. Don't forget to check out our behind the scene's "Day in the Life of Our Dynamic" on the YouTube Channel! Let's kick back and chat for a bit! Links for this episode: Twitch with me! YouTube Video Podcast Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Hey folx! I am so happy to bring you this little video! Awkward Toaster on TikTok and IG did a fantastic giveaway and I won! Join me on my first unboxing journey! And don't forget to check out all the great stuff that Awkward Toaster has going on! Follow his TikTok Here: https://www.tiktok.com/@awkward_toaster Follow his IG here: https://www.instagram.com/awkwrd__toaster See the YouTube Video Unboxing Here: https://youtu.be/mCZraXw4Ycg
Hey there! I had a crazy week! From watching porn for 3 days straight with 60 other people, learning about SESTA/FOSTA and how it's changing TOS and harming everyone in the sexuality field from models to therapists and educators. Then, we start getting deep into how to talk to your partner(s) about consent and STDs. This episode is heavy! I also share my new Twitch Channel and more! Don't mind the standard hyper-focused ramblings... grab your drink and let's get down to it! Links for this episode: Twitch with me! YouTube Video Podcast Version Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Hey there folx! Today's smut review is brought to you by the late great William Shakespeare! One of my favorite bookstores finds is a great commentary and breakdown by Pauline Kiernan about all the filthy meanings behind Shakespeare's most iconic sonnets and prose. I add my own two cents as well ;) Fair warning... there is some serious language here... don't listen if you are highly offended... please enjoy some fruit snacks on the way out. If you are ready for a little Naughty Librarian time, pull up a seat. ;) Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Hey there guys! This week has been a doozy... Can we sit and chat about it? In this episode, I kick and back and get vulnerable for a bit... D/s can get tough when balancing an increasingly busy life, even for those of us who are veterans in the BDSM world and my Dom and I are going through it. I also chat about the real fear around going "live" to hang with friends and fans in a world of social media who seem to be "Thanos-ing" Kinktok and sex educators creators with bogus violations left and right. Thanks for letting me stand on my soapbox for a minute! Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
How about a history lesson? I promise it won't be boring! Get your fruit snacks and juice boxes folx... this is a history lesson you won't forget ;) (Warning... THIS IS FOR ADULTS ONLY!) We get down and dirty with Ancient Egyptian sexuality, Greek and Roman sex tokens, the girls who bought Gladiator sweat, Victorian love machines, and just what the heck is "Snugglepupping?!" I cover it all and then some! Put those kids to bed and come hang with Dr. K! Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! References Egyptian Sexuality - (Lyon, 2014) Rome and Greek Sexuality (Adams, 2008) (Straight Dope, 2014) Parisian Sexuality (Perrottet, 2011) Sexuality in the Roaring 20's (Weeks, 2015) _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Grab a drink and chill with Dr. K and Big Daddy while we reminisce about our first play party and dungeon experiences, a deeper dive into the exhibition kink, tips for finding your own munches, communities, and virtual events, and how to open the door to conversation with your partner about exploring new sides of themselves. Phew! That's a lot to unpack! Let's get kinky! Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
If you researched anal or explored your sexuality more since the lockdowns, you are not alone! It's clear that since the lockdown happened, we have spent a LOT of time with ourselves, and let's face it... the mind enjoys wandering to interesting places. Let's take a look at a recent scientific study on the different taboo kinks and sexual exploration people have done since the Pandemic. I also share insights on how to open up to your partner and begin exploring new parts of each other's sexuality. References: Justin J. Lehmiller, Justin R. Garcia, Amanda N. Gesselman & Kristen P. Mark (2020) Less Sex, but More Sexual Diversity: Changes in Sexual Behavior during the COVID-19 Coronavirus Pandemic, Leisure Sciences, DOI: 10.1080/01490400.2020.1774016 Check out the VLog Podcast Version of this Episode Here Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ok, so we all have heard of squirting... for some, it's a mythical unicorn. For others, they just want to know how to control the damn flood gates. We see toys aimed at the magical G-Spot, capable of bringing a female to her knees, only to discover that not everyone can squirt by jack-hammering the G-Spot. Here, I'll go over some anatomy and alternative methods to G-Spot stem that can help open and control the flow. I'll cover the G-Spot, A-Spot, and just what the heck all that liquid really is! Let's get kinky! Dr. K's Personal Review of the Le Wand Massager and Get Yours Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
In this episode, we get sticky with CInderella's Prince Charming! I'm so excited to review this book and read the excerpt that inspired me to look at kinks and the taboo with a deeper sense of curiosity! This book is wet, eloquent, and downright just f*cking HOT! It also shows how we often find arousal in the strangest places ;) This episode is not meant to offend, but it may simultaneously arouse you while ruining your childhood. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Let's get kinky! - Dr. K Psss…. Don't forget to subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! ******Links for This Episode******* *Visit The New Website Kipani.Life for sex toy reviews, resources, kink and sexuality education workshops and webnairs with Dr. K Click here to purchase a copy of Erotic Fairy Tales: A Romp Through the Classics by Mitzi Szereto Social Links Twitter, IG, YouTube, TikTok, Exclusive Content, Discord & More
Happy Valentine's Day, Kinksters! Today, I thought I'd share with you a VERY intimate chat with my Dom, Big Daddy! We get personal about lessons in D/s, and Big Daddy let's me grill him about his honest perspectives and insights of being a 24/7 pleasure Dom. Kick back and stay awhile! Big Daddy is in the house! Video Podcast Version of Ep 13 on YouTube ______________ Help The Podcast Grow by Completing This Short Survey! This helps Libsyn connect our podcast to partners tailored to YOU, our listeners!
Hey there, Kinksters! In this episode, I discuss looking at porn and masturbation with a new perspective as a way to enhance your sex life with your partner rather than harm it. I discuss statistics, how porn and masturbation have been a part of our human existence since ancient times, and why it's a healthy, normal exercise! Plus, I share ways to talk with your partner about ethical porn and mutual masturbation as a tool to increase intimacy. Is it hot in here, or is it just me? ;) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
In this episode, I talk to you about simple ways to help ignite that sexual spark, even when you are alone or living through this pandemic with your significant others (s). These are great methods for riding the time between daily life and when you can have your next play session. These can help increase erotic pleasure for both yourself and your partner! NOTE: THIS IS AN 18+ ONLY EPISODE Click here for all the ways to connect! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
In this episode, please forgive the ramble! Its been quite a roller coaster and I have a LOT to share with you all! From tiktok update with Kinktok, sexual education, kink education, and so much more! I also VLog about some of my past, how I got into Holistic Sexual Educaiton, and what all is to come this week! Grab a drink and chat with me, won't you? NOTE: THIS IS AN 18+ ONLY EPISODE --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
Welcome friends! This is a very special episode and one in which we will get very intimate. I'll give you an update as to where I've been, what I'm up to, how I am dealing with the new changes in service and guidelines, and you get a taste of my new segment "The Librarian's Corner" where I'll be reading both my own original and published erotica, and the steamiest sections from my favorite books and smutty anthologies. In this episode, I'll be reading Chapter 1 of my work-in-progress novel "Blood Lust." *This is for 18+ only and contains fictional situations and characters. For more taboo/kink original erotica, please check out my Patreon! For everything else, you can check all my links here ;) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
In this episode, we talk about No Nuance November and bust some dangerous BDSM and Kink myths recently circulating among the many platforms. I also talk about the idea of Twueism (I highly recommend checking out one of my personal favorite sexuality educators, the phenomenal Sunny Megatron for her insights on Twueism) and why we are all entitled to developing our sexuality and kink identity in the way that best suits each of us. We have a lot to unpack here! Put the kids to bed and kick back with The Submissive Next Door! TSND's Book Review and Musings on The Ethical Slut Be sure to check out all my links --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
Good evening, lovelies! In this episode, we are talking about the key elements to building a 24/7 dynamic. It isn't a secret that stating out in BDSM can seem a little daunting, and for some, the idea of doing it 24/7 sounds like all pain, all the time. This simply is a massive myth that is about to get seriously squashed. I go into deep detail about what D/s has brought to my Dom and I, and how we continue to keep it progressing year after year. I also announce the highly requested Youtube channel! Listener support is always welcome! Check out the YouTube! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
Let's get real. Just because we are parents doesn't mean we have lost our kinky side. It just means we have to play it safe and with much more consideration to how we display our submission or dominance to our partner and still maintain a strong bond and an amazing parent. In this episode, The Queen gets real about how her and Big Daddy keep the D/s side alive 24/7, even through parenthood ups and downs. Don't forget to check out all my links! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
What is happening on Tiktok to the kink community? Let's take a deep dive and discuss... I share my experience with getting my 60k + following account banned and how I've bounced back, and discuss the recent announcement of the banning of the download and updates of the TikTok App. Also, I share information on the International Kink Symposium and tickets I won to an only erotic edge play class :) Let's get Kinky! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
Hey there, kinksters! In this podcast, I share my journey as a submissive, the different subsets I identify with and why, and the importance of exploration in your individual journey in BDSM. Grab a drink and kick back! I take a deep dive into pet space, little space, sub space, and more! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hisqueenherking/support
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