Podcasts about Tell Me What You Want

Classic Episode 1. Musical Discoveries #1 video description In this "Musical '"Discoveries'" episode, we will be sharing 10 musical artists who are a little off-the-beaten path, but who have inspired us in some way or another. Either we have recently "discovered" them by appreciating work that they have already done, or we, literally, have recently discovered that they exist at all. Either way, there is something about their art that we would like to share, so that more folks can appreciate them too. #musicdiscoveries #music #deejay #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/cl1musicdiscblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

337. Does playing fast suck? (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star) video description We are enthralled by folks who can dole out those lightning licks, but is playing faster playing BETTER? That is the topic we explore in this episode. #lightninglicks #playingfast #diyrockstar #bloomingprejippie #prejippie This topic was inspired by BassCamp YouTube video: https://youtu.be/2X4b6H0Mmwk?si=L6rtSUI1MLt4o0ri What do you think? Is playing faster the “Be All and End All” for good musicianship? Or does an artist need to showcase their artistry in other new and surprising ways? Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/337fastsucksblogs So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

Get the brackets! https://bit.ly/4h9Hr7g Whiskeys: 2XO Kiawah Blend Bourbon • Jack Daniels Bonded Rye • Hemmingway Rye • Old Bardstown Estate Bourbon • Noah's Mill Bourbon • New Riff Single Barrel Bourbon • Old Pepper Rye • Kinsey Wheat Whiskey Madness: Gabe is back as the referee for Round 2! • Who is Anti-Mr. Dead Air • Scott creates a total sh*t show in the first tasting • Gabe suggests cocaine to clear the nose • Is Dr. Pepper barrel aged? • #airplanejokes • If you finish the one on the right, the one that's left is the one on the left • #boomerjoke • Apparently “barbecue potato chips” is a tasting note now • Gabe sweats out bacon fat • Ed sweats out xxx • Scott sweats out handsome • The Kinsey is weird! (and wonderful) • The 100th Madness Tournament Whiskey! • #jewjokes • Ed doxxes Scott (and threatens to doxx Shavonne) • Ed sweats banana pudding • Scott sweats handsome, grape Propel, and modesty • Upsets and tie-breaks galore! Music Credits: Fight Back, The Curse, Tell Me What You Want, and The King Is Dead courtesy of Neffex | Link: https://www.youtube.com/user/neffexmusic • Sports News (acoustic version) by Sascha Ende | Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/351-sports-news-acoustic-version • Sports News 2 (acoustic version) by Sascha Ende | Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/353-sports-news-2-acoustic-version

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Life brings to all of us long periods where we feel lost or confused. We don't know how to get what we want, or even what it is that we want. The struggle to articulate the thing that might really make us “come alive” can be profound, even if we enter therapy. Charlotte Fox Weber is a psychotherapist, author and the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. Her bestselling book, Tell Me What You Want, explores how to identify and navigate our deepest longings.  In this classic episode, Andrew and Charlotte discuss the idea that we have 12 fundamental desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and to want what we shouldn't.  Identifying how these desires play out in your life can be liberating and beautiful, even if you also realise that acting on them is impossible.  If You're Looking for More…. You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  This week supporters will hear: Three Things Charlotte Fox Weber knows to be true.  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools Read Charlotte Fox Weber's new book, Tell Me What You Want  Follow Charlotte Fox Weber on Instagram @charlottefoxweberpsychotherapy and on Facebook @charlottefoxweber Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

Sexual fantasy is at the top of the list when it comes to taboo topics. My guest, Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist, an award-winning educator, a prolific researcher, and is the host of The Sex and Psychology podcast. He is also the author of The popular book, Tell Me What You Want_ The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life based on his survey of sexual desire in America, including how fantasies change as women age.  The most common sexual fantasy  If people intend or desire to act out their fantasies  How differences in fantasies are predicative based on Gender Sexual Preference Religion Political Party Age Length of relationship WHO people fantasize about WHICH celebrities and politicians appear most commonly in women's fantasies  How fantasy helps relationships and sexual experience                                            Justin Lehmiller PhD Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://www.sexandpsychology.com/podcasts/ Tell Me What You Want book: https://amzn.to/40wGSzl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/justinlehmiller.bsky.social Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/psychologyofsex COME AGAIN- a new podcast from Dr. Streicher, is coming soon! Dr. Streicher is on SUBSTACK Substack.com/@DrStreicher ·  Articles ·  Monthly newsletter ·  All podcast episodes ·  Monthly News Flash Reports on recent research  ·  Monthly Zoom Q and A Webinar ·  Ability to COMMENT on posts and podcasts ·  To SUBSCRIBE to Dr. Streicher's Substack Lauren Streicher, MD is a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University's Feinberg School of Medicine, and the founding medical director of the Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause and a Senior Research Fellow of The Kinsey Institute, Indiana University. She is a certified menopause practitioner of The Menopause Society. She is the Medical Director of Community Education and Outreach for Midi Health.  Dr. Streicher is the medical correspondent for Chicago's top-rated news program, the WGN Morning News, and has been seen on The Today Show, Good Morning America, The Oprah Winfrey Show, CNN, NPR, Dr. Radio, Nightline, Fox and Friends, The Steve Harvey Show, CBS This Morning, ABC News Now, NBCNightlyNews,20/20, and World News Tonight. She is an expert source for many magazines and serves on the medical advisory board of The Kinsey Institute, Self Magazine, and Prevention Magazine. She writes a regular column for The Ethel by AARP and Prevention Magazine.  DrStreicher.com Instagram @DrStreich Facebook @DrStreicher YouTube @DrStreicherTV LinkedIn @DrStreicher                   Sign up to receive DR. STREICHER'S FREE NEWSLETTER   Books by Lauren Streicher, MD  Slip Sliding Away: Turning Back the Clock on Your Vagina-A gynecologist's guide to eliminating post-menopause dryness and pain   Hot Flash Hell: A Gynecologist's Guide to Turning Down the Heat Sex Rx- Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever The Essential Guide to Hysterectomy                                      To Find a Menopause Clinician Midi Health   www.Joinmidi.com Midi Health is a telehealth company that provides high-level menopause care and takes insurance in all 50 states. Dr. Streicher is Midi's Medical Director of Education and Community Outreach and is familiar with their medical protocols, which are all regularly updated and set by the top academic menopause experts in the country.    The Menopause Society- Certified Menopause Practitioner List Menopause.org To find a menopause practitioner: https://portal.menopause.org/NAMS/NAMS/Directory/Menopause-Practitioner.aspx Put in your zip code and designate NCMP or CMSP to get a certified menopause practitioner. While all people on this list have passed a competency examination, Dr. Streicher does not vouch for every one of these clinicians. Most are excellent.   Major Medical Centers It also may be helpful to check with major medical centers in your area. Many have menopause clinics or lists of doctors with an interest and expertise in menopause.  If you are in the Chicago area, the center founded by Dr. Streicher:  The Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause Sexmedmenopause.nm.org    Dr. Streicher's Inside Information podcast is for education and information and is not intended to replace medical advice from your personal healthcare clinician. Dr. Streicher disclaims liability for any medical outcomes that may occur because of applying methods suggested or discussed in this podcast.

340. Goals for 2025 video description Even though THIS year has been out of pocket and INCREDIBLY weird, we are still reflecting on the past and still deciding on what we want to focus on this coming year. #newyear #goals2025 #diyrockstar #bloomingprejippie #prejippie What are YOUR goals for 2025? We'd love to hear what inspiring things you have planned! Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/340goalsfor2025blog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

3532 – December 10, 2024 – Tell Me What You Want, What You Really Really Want – CHANGE IS COMING. IS THAT WHAT YOU REALLY REALLY WANT? We all cheer at Make America Great again, Make America Healthy again, Make America Safe again, Make America Strong again, Make America Energy Independent again! We all say we want fewer regulations. We ... The post Tell Me What You Want, What You Really Really Want appeared first on CSC Talk Radio.

In this episode, Rebecca and Kate welcome the incredible Dr. Holly Richmond, licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life. Dr. Holly shares her groundbreaking approach to healing from sexual trauma through the integration of somatic psychology, sex positivity, and trauma therapy. Together, they explore what it means to move beyond surviving to thriving, the importance of rediscovering one's "yes" and "no," and how partners can best support survivors on their journey toward deeper connection and pleasure. Learn more about Dr. Holly's work: IG @drhollyrichmond Website: https://drhollyrichmond.com/ Resources & Links Mentioned: Dr. Holly Richmond's book: Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life Emily Nagoski's Come Together Esther Perel's work on eroticism and connection Justin Lehmiller's Tell Me What You Want (on fantasy)

 Zebra frontman Randy Jackson has a career spanning five decades. In this interview, Randy reflects on the incredible journey of Zebra, from their rise in the rock scene with classics like Who's Behind the Door and Tell Me What You Want, to the difficult second album and its follow up. We delve into Zebra's history, their musical evolution and the upcoming celebration of their 50th anniversary - including plans for a brand-new album and an exciting tour. Randy also shares stories from his time performing with Jefferson Airplane during their reunion shows, offering unique insights into collaborating with such an iconic band. Whether you're a longtime Zebra fan or discovering their music for the first time, this episode is packed with rock history, exclusive updates and plenty of behind-the-scenes stories. Hit play now and join the conversation with the one and only Randy Jackson! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

336. What we can learn from P Diddy (as a D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description You MUST be living under a rock if you haven't heard about the allegations against a “beloved” OG hip hop star, Puff Daddy (P Diddy or Sean “Diddy” Combs). THIS is what we have taken away from the whole mess. #gethelp #dontbeavictim #pdiddy #prejippie #bloomingprejippie #diyrockstar Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/336pdiddyblog What do you think? How far are you WILLING to go to try to capture fame? Tell us what you think. Leave it in the comments below. So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

335. Copying, inspiration, plagiarism. Where is the boundary? (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description In this installment, we will be considering the following questions: • Where do we draw the line between copying, inspiration, and plagiarism? • Where might we cross lines without realizing? • Is it okay if I copy somebody to learn? #plagiarism #copying #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie #artjuice This topic was inspired by Art Juice: A podcast for artists, creatives and art lovers: Inspiration, Emulation or Outright Theft? [260], Jul 22, 2024 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inspiration-emulation-or-outright-theft-260/id1451530001?i=1000663049473 What do you think? When is it okay to copy creatively? Where is the line? Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/335copyblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

334. 20 Take-aways from The Silent Takeover Ted Gioia on AI's Threat To Music Part 2 Video Description We're happy to welcome Bruce back for the second half of what we make us think from this interview on SO many topics that are important to us. We couldn't help it, so we started taking notes on the ideas he expressed in his Rick Beato interview. @RickBeato #RickBeato #TedGioia #culturewisdom #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie #partdeux This episode is a slam-bam-thank-you-ma'am take on The Silent Takeover: Ted Gioia on AI's Threat To Music (on Rick Beato's YouTube channel): https://youtu.be/ibMd_Jx9daw?si=sK_dcdgXoDMykIDE What do you think? Which idea resonates MOST with you? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/333aigioiablog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

333. 20 Take-aways from The Silent Takeover Ted Gioia on AI's Threat To Music Part 1 Video Description We'd never heard of this guy, but he had such a profound take on SO many topics that are important to us. We couldn't help it, so we started taking notes on the ideas he expressed in his Rick Beato interview. @RickBeato #RickBeato #TedGioia #culturewisdom #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie This episode is a slam-bam-thank-you-ma'am take on The Silent Takeover: Ted Gioia on AI's Threat To Music (on Rick Beato's YouTube channel): https://youtu.be/ibMd_Jx9daw?si=sK_dcdgXoDMykIDE What do you think? Which idea resonates MOST with you? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/333aigioiablog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

When I studied the sex fantasies of thousands of Americans for my book Tell Me What You Want, I found that 33% of adults had fantasized about a monster or mythical creature before, such as a vampire, werewolf, or demon. Clearly, some people find monsters to be seriously sexy. So why is that? I have a two-part series for you on monstrous desire. In today's show, we're going to talk about who people's biggest monster crushes are and explore the history of sexy monsters in the media. In the next episode, we're going to get into the psychology behind attraction to monsters. My guest is Ella Gallego, a researcher, writer, and the founder of the Monstrous Desire Study. The study examines the cultural history of erotic monsters around the globe and presents research data from over 2,200 respondents. Some of the topics we discuss include: What does it mean to be a “monster f*cker?” How long have people been attracted to monsters? Which specific monsters are people into? Why are monsters often depicted in the media in erotic ways? You can check out Ella’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

332. 103 Social Media Questions to Boost Engagement (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description We know we tell you all that social media is not the “be all, end all,” so this post helps us maximize our time and effort. Here are some social media questions that can help increase interest in our posts. #boostsocialmedia #engagement #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie Inspired by Angie Gensler's post: https://angiegensler.com/social-media-questions-to-increase-engagement/?utm_medium=social&utm_source=pinterest&utm_campaign=tailwind_smartloop&utm_content=smartloop&utm_term=71940051 What do you think? Which questions will you try? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/332smquesblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

Join us for a fast-moving and fun conversation with Sabitha, Rosara, and Jane as we talk about sexual fantasies as we age. What are sexual fantasies? How are they useful? What's the difference between masturbatory and relational fantasies? Sabitha offered some great resources for our listeners: any of Nancy Friday's books (though they are a bit heteronormative), Jack Morin's book, The Erotic Mind, and Justin Lehmiller's book, Tell Me What You Want. If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half and want to support our show, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram! As always, thanks for listening!  

331. 7 types of rest and how to get them (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description Though we harp on the “get up, get out, and something” philosophy, there is NO doubt that each of us needs rest. Here are the 7 types of rest and how to find a way to get them. #rest #youarethebrand #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie This topic was inspired by YOU ARE THE BRAND, episode 411: The 7 Types of Rest and Why You Need to Build Your REST Ethic with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: https://www.audacy.com/podcast/you-are-the-brand-c6120/episodes/411-the-7-types-of-rest-and-why-you-need-to-build-your-rest-ethic-with-dr-saundra-dalton-smith-d41b6?action=AUTOPLAY_FULL&actionContentId=201-8a1925a3-bc1b-4744-b8ff-5b70a689699e What do you think? What is YOUR strategy for getting the types of rest that you need? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/331restblog Limited edition “Obtanium Flow” designs: • “Clouds” T-shirt design: https://bit.ly/obtflwtshirt623 • “Retro Flow” T-shirt design: https://bit.ly/flowretroshirtaug23 Did you know that along with putting together our next album, we are working on our first book? Here's the link, if you want to pre-order: https://bit.ly/diybookorder Use the code HOLIDAY2023 at checkout for a 50% off discount. Limited time only! Here's what we're into now: • We're featured in Variety Magazine! https://bit.ly/featuresxsw2023 • The video for “Every Heartbeat” is doing well in Indonesia! https://bit.ly/everyheartbeatvid • The Tony Webb "Funkalicious" video is going crazy in Honduras, y'all! https://bit.ly/twebbfunkaliciousvid • One of our videos for our song, “Tell Me What You Want,” is going gangbusters in Vietnam! https://bit.ly/tellmewhatyouwantvid If you like this, you might enjoy: • Basic Recording Studio Setup: https://bit.ly/246basicstudiopost • What to do when real life interrupts your artistic process? https://bit.ly/241reallifeblog • 7 Strategies for rebounding from creative burnout: https://bit.ly/239digoutofburnoutblog • How to give better interviews (for D.I.Y. Rock Star): https://bit.ly/236betterinterviewsblog • How to give better live performances: https://bit.ly/219betterliveblog • How to collaborate better (for D.I.Y. Rock Star): https://bit.ly/Ep163collaborateblog • How to write quicker, but better (for D.I.Y. Rock Star): https://bit.ly/228writebetterblogpost • Should you ever play for free? https://bit.ly/214playfreeblog • 17 Tips for taking better band photos—ESPECIALLY if you taking them yourself: http://bit.ly/betterbandphotos NOW: New single, “Lovely Mystic (Obtanium Flow)” by Bourgeoisie Paper Jam http://bit.ly/BandCampPMG and follow on Spotify at https://bit.ly/bpjspotfollow “I Get Faded (No Voce),” PMG Cool & Quirky Custom Music (through Songtradr at http://bit.ly/2QGRatf ) More Ways to experience B L O O M I N G P R E J I P P I E : • All things “Obtanium Flow”: https://bit.ly/bpjobtflwlinks • Blog: http://bit.ly/bpblogsubscribe • Shop: https://bit.ly/prejippieshop • Patreon: https://bit.ly/PMGPatreon • YouTube: http://bit.ly/youtubesubprejippie • Gab & Jam podcast: https://bit.ly/gabandjamhq • Soundcloud (music): https://soundcloud.com/prejippie • Join the Bourgeoisie Paper Jam Street Team! https://bit.ly/BPJstreetteam • Prejippie Patreon: https://bit.ly/PMGPatreon • Be the NEXT D.I.Y. Rock Star Handbook Pre-order: https://bit.ly/prejippiebklanding • Funky Happy People (Who Listen to a Variety of Genres of Music) Facebook Group: http://bit.ly/funkyhappyjoin • Be the Next D.I.Y. Rock Star Facebook Group: http://bit.ly/diyrockstarjoin Please subscribe. Thanks. http://bit.ly/youtubesubprejippie Until next Monday, here's wishing love, peace, and chicken grease!

330. 5 Things every D.I.Y. Rock Star needs to know about publicity Video Description We all know it's important, but here are some things to consider when thinking about doing public relations for your music. @arielhyatt #arielhyatt #musicpublicity #tips #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie This is inspired by https://www.cyberprmusic.com/5-things-every-artist-should-know-about-music-publicity/ What do you think? What is YOUR strategy in seeking public relations for your band? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/3305thingsprblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

329. How to create compelling album covers (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description An album cover helps potential listeners discover your music, so here are 8 ways to create compelling album covers (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star). @discmakers #discmakers #albumcover #tips #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie What do you think? How do YOU choose the music you will listen to? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/329bettercoversblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

3363 – April 17, 2024 – ANTIESTABLISHMENTARIANISM – or, Tell Me What You Want, What You Really Really Want. How do “We the People,” the true majority of Americans, view our nation? Do we really really care what Bill Mahr and Katie Curic think? In a world with 8 million people would we really really miss them? I think not. The post ANTIESTABLISHMENTARIANISM appeared first on CSC Talk Radio.

Whether with a partner or solo, sex is fun--or at least should be. Peter McGraw and guest co-host, Laura Grant, talk to Justin Lehmiller, a sex researcher and author of "Tell Me What You Want" about how to have better sex. They discuss Justin's "Ten Resolutions for Better Sex."Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo/

328. Knowing when to quit (as a D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description Normally, we don't encourage anyone to quit much of anything, but as we've gotten older, we've found that there are really a few instances when quitting is the BEST idea. #whentoquit #quitters #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie What do you think? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/328whentoquitblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

327. Using humor in your art (as a D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description We love a little humor, but what happens when you incorporate it into your art? Here are some potential benefits and detriments. #humor #funnybone #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie What do you think? Is humor an important part of your art? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/327humorinartblog So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

326. 7 Tips for running a blog (as a D.I.Y. Rock Star) Video Description Here are 7 top tips for D.I.Y. Rock Stars who want to start and run a blog for their band. #blogging #toptips #diyrockstar #prejippie #bloomingprejippie What do you think? Do you have a blog? If so, what was YOUR reason for starting one? Also, what tip can you share with us? We'd love what you have to say! Leave it in the comments below. Check out the episode for the full discussion or the accompanying blog post: https://bit.ly/326topblogtipsblogpost So, will we do it again? HELL, YEAH!

Can the kindness of strangers help with the loneliness crisis? Whether you are a student, staff, or have gone alt-ac, you've likely had to move at least once recently for your education and career goals. It can get lonely when family and friends are far away or they just don't understand what you are doing with your life, and you are left wondering who you can talk to, who has your back, and who will be your people. In this episode, a podcaster and a psychotherapist sit down to talk about how their respective jobs regularly place them in conversations with strangers, and the unexpectedly good things that have come of that. As Christina Gessler and Charlotte Fox Weber consider reports of a global loneliness crisis, they offer up the idea that perhaps one of the answers to dealing with loneliness is not in cultivating or stressing big relationships, but in recognizing the value of all of the smaller roles played by the people you encounter, and in re-valuing daily interactions. Along with consideration for caring for mental wellbeing, having boundaries, making a safety-plan or setting up guardrails, and having realistic expectations for the roles people can fill in our lives, this episode reflects on how we can value the cumulative effect of all the smaller conversations that make up a life, and on the surprising kindness and wisdom that might be offered by strangers. Our guest is: Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her family. She is the author of Tell Me What You Want. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is the producer and host of the Academic Life podcast. She holds a PhD in history, which she uses to explore what stories we tell and what happens to those we never tell. Listeners may also be interested in: An Academic Life conversation on the good-enough life An Academic Life conversation on making a meaningful life An Academic Life conversation on community-building An Academic Life conversation about handling difficult conversations An Academic Life conversation about figuring out what you really want Welcome to Academic Life, the podcast for your academic journey—and beyond! Join us to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world. Missed any of the 175+ Academic Life episodes? You'll find them all archived here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Can the kindness of strangers help with the loneliness crisis? Whether you are a student, staff, or have gone alt-ac, you've likely had to move at least once recently for your education and career goals. It can get lonely when family and friends are far away or they just don't understand what you are doing with your life, and you are left wondering who you can talk to, who has your back, and who will be your people. In this episode, a podcaster and a psychotherapist sit down to talk about how their respective jobs regularly place them in conversations with strangers, and the unexpectedly good things that have come of that. As Christina Gessler and Charlotte Fox Weber consider reports of a global loneliness crisis, they offer up the idea that perhaps one of the answers to dealing with loneliness is not in cultivating or stressing big relationships, but in recognizing the value of all of the smaller roles played by the people you encounter, and in re-valuing daily interactions. Along with consideration for caring for mental wellbeing, having boundaries, making a safety-plan or setting up guardrails, and having realistic expectations for the roles people can fill in our lives, this episode reflects on how we can value the cumulative effect of all the smaller conversations that make up a life, and on the surprising kindness and wisdom that might be offered by strangers. Our guest is: Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her family. She is the author of Tell Me What You Want. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is the producer and host of the Academic Life podcast. She holds a PhD in history, which she uses to explore what stories we tell and what happens to those we never tell. Listeners may also be interested in: An Academic Life conversation on the good-enough life An Academic Life conversation on making a meaningful life An Academic Life conversation on community-building An Academic Life conversation about handling difficult conversations An Academic Life conversation about figuring out what you really want Welcome to Academic Life, the podcast for your academic journey—and beyond! Join us to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world. Missed any of the 175+ Academic Life episodes? You'll find them all archived here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/sociology

Can the kindness of strangers help with the loneliness crisis? Whether you are a student, staff, or have gone alt-ac, you've likely had to move at least once recently for your education and career goals. It can get lonely when family and friends are far away or they just don't understand what you are doing with your life, and you are left wondering who you can talk to, who has your back, and who will be your people. In this episode, a podcaster and a psychotherapist sit down to talk about how their respective jobs regularly place them in conversations with strangers, and the unexpectedly good things that have come of that. As Christina Gessler and Charlotte Fox Weber consider reports of a global loneliness crisis, they offer up the idea that perhaps one of the answers to dealing with loneliness is not in cultivating or stressing big relationships, but in recognizing the value of all of the smaller roles played by the people you encounter, and in re-valuing daily interactions. Along with consideration for caring for mental wellbeing, having boundaries, making a safety-plan or setting up guardrails, and having realistic expectations for the roles people can fill in our lives, this episode reflects on how we can value the cumulative effect of all the smaller conversations that make up a life, and on the surprising kindness and wisdom that might be offered by strangers. Our guest is: Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her family. She is the author of Tell Me What You Want. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is the producer and host of the Academic Life podcast. She holds a PhD in history, which she uses to explore what stories we tell and what happens to those we never tell. Listeners may also be interested in: An Academic Life conversation on the good-enough life An Academic Life conversation on making a meaningful life An Academic Life conversation on community-building An Academic Life conversation about handling difficult conversations An Academic Life conversation about figuring out what you really want Welcome to Academic Life, the podcast for your academic journey—and beyond! Join us to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world. Missed any of the 175+ Academic Life episodes? You'll find them all archived here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

Can the kindness of strangers help with the loneliness crisis? Whether you are a student, staff, or have gone alt-ac, you've likely had to move at least once recently for your education and career goals. It can get lonely when family and friends are far away or they just don't understand what you are doing with your life, and you are left wondering who you can talk to, who has your back, and who will be your people. In this episode, a podcaster and a psychotherapist sit down to talk about how their respective jobs regularly place them in conversations with strangers, and the unexpectedly good things that have come of that. As Christina Gessler and Charlotte Fox Weber consider reports of a global loneliness crisis, they offer up the idea that perhaps one of the answers to dealing with loneliness is not in cultivating or stressing big relationships, but in recognizing the value of all of the smaller roles played by the people you encounter, and in re-valuing daily interactions. Along with consideration for caring for mental wellbeing, having boundaries, making a safety-plan or setting up guardrails, and having realistic expectations for the roles people can fill in our lives, this episode reflects on how we can value the cumulative effect of all the smaller conversations that make up a life, and on the surprising kindness and wisdom that might be offered by strangers. Our guest is: Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her family. She is the author of Tell Me What You Want. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is the producer and host of the Academic Life podcast. She holds a PhD in history, which she uses to explore what stories we tell and what happens to those we never tell. Listeners may also be interested in: An Academic Life conversation on the good-enough life An Academic Life conversation on making a meaningful life An Academic Life conversation on community-building An Academic Life conversation about handling difficult conversations An Academic Life conversation about figuring out what you really want Welcome to Academic Life, the podcast for your academic journey—and beyond! Join us to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world. Missed any of the 175+ Academic Life episodes? You'll find them all archived here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/academic-life

Can the kindness of strangers help with the loneliness crisis? Whether you are a student, staff, or have gone alt-ac, you've likely had to move at least once recently for your education and career goals. It can get lonely when family and friends are far away or they just don't understand what you are doing with your life, and you are left wondering who you can talk to, who has your back, and who will be your people. In this episode, a podcaster and a psychotherapist sit down to talk about how their respective jobs regularly place them in conversations with strangers, and the unexpectedly good things that have come of that. As Christina Gessler and Charlotte Fox Weber consider reports of a global loneliness crisis, they offer up the idea that perhaps one of the answers to dealing with loneliness is not in cultivating or stressing big relationships, but in recognizing the value of all of the smaller roles played by the people you encounter, and in re-valuing daily interactions. Along with consideration for caring for mental wellbeing, having boundaries, making a safety-plan or setting up guardrails, and having realistic expectations for the roles people can fill in our lives, this episode reflects on how we can value the cumulative effect of all the smaller conversations that make up a life, and on the surprising kindness and wisdom that might be offered by strangers. Our guest is: Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her family. She is the author of Tell Me What You Want. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is the producer and host of the Academic Life podcast. She holds a PhD in history, which she uses to explore what stories we tell and what happens to those we never tell. Listeners may also be interested in: An Academic Life conversation on the good-enough life An Academic Life conversation on making a meaningful life An Academic Life conversation on community-building An Academic Life conversation about handling difficult conversations An Academic Life conversation about figuring out what you really want Welcome to Academic Life, the podcast for your academic journey—and beyond! Join us to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world. Missed any of the 175+ Academic Life episodes? You'll find them all archived here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Randy is best known as the frontman for the rock band Zebra. Zebra has recorded four studio albums and had hits with the singles "Who's Behind the Door" and "Tell Me What You Want". (Which both had popular videos on MTV. The band still tours, and Randy also does solo shows and productions with an orchestra behind him playing classic rock songs.

Welcome to episode #902 of Six Pixels of Separation - The ThinkersOne Podcast. Here it is: Six Pixels of Separation - The ThinkersOne Podcast - Episode #902. A seasoned psychotherapist, an eloquent writer, and a captivating speaker, Charlotte Fox Weber wears multiple hats with an effortless grace that captures the zeitgeist of the emotionally complex world we navigate (and how we think about ourselves and our deepest desires). Here's why Charlotte should be on your radar: Her new book, Tell Me What You Want - A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires, is a linchpin in understanding the enigmatic art of human connection to ourselves (and to each other). In a generation awash with self-help books and quick-fix therapies, Tell Me What You Want cuts through the clutter. It steers clear of empty jargon and psychological platitudes, delivering a more grounded and poignant message: It's okay to be a work-in-progress... it's more than okay to be imperfect, and our world isn't all that open to this (see: Beauty filters). Charlotte's book and work with people on the couch is a journey into the labyrinthine corridors of the human mind and heart, asking probing questions and offering not exact answers, but powerful perspectives. Charlotte synthesizes years of clinical practice and academic rigor into a narrative that is deeply reflective and accessible to those who have (and have not) done the self-work. Where Charlotte truly excels, is in her ability to make psychotherapy relatable and demystified. If you're a skeptic who's ever wondered why anyone would pay to talk, this conversation may just change your mind. If you're a firm believer in the therapeutic process, it will only affirm your convictions and possibly deepen your understanding and the work that you're doing. Charlotte truly has a unique way of making psychotherapy seem less like a daunting endeavor and more like an exciting exploration. Her candidness, married to her academic gravitas, makes for an intoxicating blend of intellect and accessibility. She makes you want to lean in, listen, and — most importantly — tell her (and yourself) what you really want. Enjoy the conversation... Running time: 52:16. Hello from beautiful Montreal. Subscribe over at Apple Podcasts. Please visit and leave comments on the blog - Six Pixels of Separation. Feel free to connect to me directly on Facebook here: Mitch Joel on Facebook. Check out ThinkersOne. or you can connect on LinkedIn. ...or on Twitter. Here is my conversation with Charlotte Fox Weber. Tell Me What You Want - A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires. Follow Charlotte on Instagram. Follow Charlotte on LinkedIn. This week's music: David Usher 'St. Lawrence River'.

Dr. Amber Hull is a pediatrician by profession and the founder of Artemis Luxury Wellness, a Las Vegas-based retreat designed by physicians, physical therapists, psychologists, performers and practitioners to facilitate discussion of human sexuality and relationships. Dr. Hull joins Wyoh to discuss the importance of normalizing and exploring human sexuality and shares how her personal experiences when combined with the lack of sex education in medical training led her into the sexual wellness space. She expands on how her work with women is different from traditional models of medicine, and she and Wyoh talk pleasure beyond traditional penetration, what it's like to be out as solo poly in traditionally monogamous spaces, the white tower of academia and how it can cramp our collective sexy style, the work of Dr. Justin Lehmiller (published in his book “Tell Me What You Want”) on sexual fantasies in the US according to a national survey. Dr. Hull shares her approach to health and safety conversations and boundaries, and shares details of the most recent Artemis retreat, and what it's like to see her goal of empowering people—especially other professional women—to explore their desires without shame. Dr. Hull and Wyoh discuss their future shared vision(s) of more retreats, a beautiful retreat center that combines mindfulness and education, and combining forces to collect Sex Stories on the Strip.

Charlotte Fox Weber, author and psychotherapist, has a conversation with Paul Krauss MA LPC about human desire and the intersection between acknowledging these feelings in psychotherapy and doing in one's own life as well. Charlotte Fox Weber's latest book: Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires is an excellent combination of storytelling and insightful analysis that takes one behind the curtain of the counseling hour and into one of the deepest parts of the human experience: Desire. In her book, Charlotte Fox Weber highlights 12 universal desires: To love and be loved, to be understood, to have power, to receive attention, to be free, to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control, to have what we shouldn't. Charlotte and Paul discuss the book and how people can learn to express their desires and feeling more alive in their daily lives.   Charlotte Fox Weber is a psychotherapist and writer. She co-founded Examined Life and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her husband and two young children. Tell Me What You Want is her first book. Please follow Charlotte on IG: @charlottefoxweberpsychotherapy; Twitter: @Charliefoxweber. Get involved with the National Violence Prevention Hotline: 501(c)(3) Donate Share with your network Write your congressperson Sign our Petition Looking for excellent medical billing services? Check out Therapist Billing Services. A behavioral and mental health billing service developed by therapists for therapists. Preview an Online Video Course for the Parents of Young Adults (Parenting Issues) EMDR Training Solutions (For all your EMDR training needs!) Paul Krauss MA LPC is the Clinical Director of Health for Life Counseling Grand Rapids, home of The Trauma-Informed Counseling Center of Grand Rapids. Paul is also a Private Practice Psychotherapist, an Approved EMDRIA Consultant , host of the Intentional Clinician podcast, Behavioral Health Consultant, Clinical Trainer, and Counseling Supervisor. Paul is now offering consulting for a few individuals and organizations. Paul is the creator of the National Violence Prevention Hotline (in progress) as well as the Intentional Clinician Training Program for Counselors. Paul has been quoted in the Washington Post, NBC News, and Wired Magazine. Questions? Call the office at 616-200-4433.  If you are looking for EMDRIA consulting groups, Paul Krauss MA LPC is now hosting weekly online and in-person groups.  For details, click here. For general behavioral and mental health consulting for you or your organization. Follow Health for Life Grand Rapids: Instagram   |   Facebook     |     Youtube  Original Music: ”Alright" from the forthcoming album Mystic by PAWL (Spotify) "Pink + White" from Blonde by Frank Ocean (Spotify) "Self Control" from Blonde by Frank Ocean (Spotify)

This episode was prompted by a recent audience question, but it's an age-old debate in the sex therapy realm. Is it lame to schedule sex? If you don't schedule it, do you wind up just being in a permanent sex rut? Of course spontaneous sex can feel extra hot and intense . . . and no one wants sex to feel like another appointment on their calendar. We want novelty and adventure in our sex lives to keep things spicy. But sometimes you and your partner want sex at different times of day or your schedules make you like ships passing in the night and it's all conversations about logistics when you do have a moment together.It doesn't have to be that way!Listen in to this episode to find out:1. The pros and cons of scheduling sex2. Who should and shouldn't schedule intimacy3. Whether you should schedule sex or just create the conditions for sex.4. How to build anticipation when you're scheduling sex. 5. The importance of childcare for a great relationshipSEXY SUMMER BOOK CLUB:Check out Heather's new Sexy Summer Book Club. Sign up now and start reading Tell Me What You Want by Justin Lehmiller for our first meeting on July 11th. SaveYour Spot → https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/sexy-summer-book-clubLET'S CONNECT! FIND ME HERE ⤵️:Heather's Website - https://HeatherShannon.coHeather's Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapistJoin Heather's free “Ask A Sex Therapist” Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1552153898553717Heather's YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHeUNWJIkOPSK6-Bwvf0EOwREVIEWER PRIZES!!!Give us a rating and review to help spread Heather's feel-good messages about sexuality. https://podfollow.com/askasextherapistWas it your Apple Podcasts review that was read on today's episode? You get a free book bundle! Choose any 3 books from Heather's Amazon Storefront and we will mail them to you. Reach out via email at AskASexTherapistPodcast@gmail.com to claim your prize. If you prefer audiobooks instead, we can gift you a 3-month Audible membership as your prize.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacyPodtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

What's the driving force behind your deepest desires?  In this episode, author Charlotte Fox Webber reveals the 12 universal desires we all share in her new book, Tell Me What You Want.EPIGRAPH LITERARY FESTIVAL REPLAYS: If you missed the festival or want to relive the highlights visit epigraphlitfest.com and select replays.  Your TBR will explode, you'll learn a thing or two, and you'll have lots of laughs, especially at the happy hours.  So go to epigraphlitfest.com and select replays!BOOK:Tell Me What You Want by Charlotte Fox Weber from Amazon or Bookshop.SHOW NOTES & BOOKLIST: Find the episode show notes and a list of all the books mentioned here.MORE RESOURCES: Visit bibliolifestyle.com for more information and resources to help you in your reading journey.

Do we know what we really want, and what we are willing to do to get it? What if what we want doesn't align with who we think we are supposed to be? Dr. Charlotte Fox Weber joins us today to help us think about what we really want. In this episode we consider some of life's messy questions about opportunity, regret, ego, growth, and power. Today's book is: Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires (Atria Books,2023), by Dr. Charlotte Fox Weber, which is an exploration of the twelve fundamental psychological needs we all share. In Tell Me What You Want, Dr. Weber guides us in navigating our deepest longings, by asking the too-often unasked questions: “What do we want? And how do we get it?” Each of us, at certain moments in our lives, can feel lost or confused. We often don't know how to get what we want, or what we think we want, but we share these universal desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and we want what we shouldn't. In the twelve chapters, each focused on one of these universal desires, psychotherapist Dr. Weber considers the personal costs of met and unmet desires, and how they can lead to insights, change, and growth. Today's guest is: Dr. Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life, and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her husband and two young children. Tell Me What You Want is her first book. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is a freelance book editor. She has served as content director and producer of the Academic Life podcast since she launched it in 2020. The Academic Life is proud to be an academic partner of the New Books Network. Listeners to this episode may be interested in: Podcast on belonging and the science of creating connection and bridging divides Podcast on making a meaningful life Podcast on living the "good-enough" life Podcast on overcoming public speaking anxieties Podcast on campus mental wellness services The Rejection That Saved My Life, by Jessica Bacal Permission to Speak, by Samara Bay How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship and Community, by Mia Birdsong Life B, by Bethanne Patrick Bring Yourself, by Mori Taheripour Podcast on the knowledge unlocked by facing failure Podcast on the benefits of doing less, and stressing less Welcome to the Academic Life! Join us here each week to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world, and embrace the broad definition of what it truly means to live an academic life. Missed any of the 150+ Academic Life episodes? You can find them all archived here. And check back soon: we're in the studio preparing more episodes for your academic journey—and beyond! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Do we know what we really want, and what we are willing to do to get it? What if what we want doesn't align with who we think we are supposed to be? Dr. Charlotte Fox Weber joins us today to help us think about what we really want. In this episode we consider some of life's messy questions about opportunity, regret, ego, growth, and power. Today's book is: Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires (Atria Books,2023), by Dr. Charlotte Fox Weber, which is an exploration of the twelve fundamental psychological needs we all share. In Tell Me What You Want, Dr. Weber guides us in navigating our deepest longings, by asking the too-often unasked questions: “What do we want? And how do we get it?” Each of us, at certain moments in our lives, can feel lost or confused. We often don't know how to get what we want, or what we think we want, but we share these universal desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and we want what we shouldn't. In the twelve chapters, each focused on one of these universal desires, psychotherapist Dr. Weber considers the personal costs of met and unmet desires, and how they can lead to insights, change, and growth. Today's guest is: Dr. Charlotte Fox Weber, who is a psychotherapist and writer. She cofounded Examined Life, and was the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy. She grew up in Connecticut and Paris and now lives in London with her husband and two young children. Tell Me What You Want is her first book. Find out more at CharlotteFoxWeber.com. Our host is: Dr. Christina Gessler, who is a freelance book editor. She has served as content director and producer of the Academic Life podcast since she launched it in 2020. The Academic Life is proud to be an academic partner of the New Books Network. Listeners to this episode may be interested in: Podcast on belonging and the science of creating connection and bridging divides Podcast on making a meaningful life Podcast on living the "good-enough" life Podcast on overcoming public speaking anxieties Podcast on campus mental wellness services The Rejection That Saved My Life, by Jessica Bacal Permission to Speak, by Samara Bay How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship and Community, by Mia Birdsong Life B, by Bethanne Patrick Bring Yourself, by Mori Taheripour Podcast on the knowledge unlocked by facing failure Podcast on the benefits of doing less, and stressing less Welcome to the Academic Life! Join us here each week to learn from experts inside and outside the academy, and around the world, and embrace the broad definition of what it truly means to live an academic life. Missed any of the 150+ Academic Life episodes? You can find them all archived here. And check back soon: we're in the studio preparing more episodes for your academic journey—and beyond! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

There is no shame in the cuckolding game! Almost all of us have sexual fantasies but what makes them different from a sexual desire or a sexual behavior? Why do people enjoy cuckolding? These questions are answered in this episode where Dr. Tara is joined by renowned American Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Dr. Lehmiller is a Research Fellow at the Kinsey Institute and the author of the book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller has been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University and has published more than 50 academic works to date. So grab your partner and watch… I mean listen in on this week's information-rich episode unpacking everything cuckolding and sexual fantasies! We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara." Listen and learn, my luvs, and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media @luvbites.co and subscribe to my JUICY newsletter at www.Luvbites.coIn this episode:History of cuckolding Sexual fantasies Sexual desires Sexual behaviors What cuckolding research revealed How to talk about fetishes and kinks Sexual communication Sexual confidence Links:Justin's Podcast Justin's Instagram MyOne - Perfect Fit Condomswww.myonecondoms.comUse Code: Luvbites for 15% offMy E-Book “30 Days to My Best Sexy Self: A Sexual Mindfulness Journal”Link: E-Book*All Rights Reserved. Dr. Tara International Inc.

H. Hawkline lässt seinen Emotionen freien Lauf. Karies schwelgen in elektronischen Tagträumen und Róisín Murphy schreibt einen lässigen Lovesong. Außerdem: Mit welchem Act landet Deutschland dieses Jahr auf dem letzten Platz beim ESC? Das und mehr in unserem Musikupdate Keine Angst vor Hits. (00:02:51) Fever Ray – Radical Romantics (00:07:53) H.Hawkline – Milk For Flowers (00:13:43) Karies – Tagträume an der Schaummaschine 1 (00:18:36) Róisín Murphy – CooCool (00:22:18) Caroline Rose – Tell Me What You Want (00:27:08) Bar Italia – Nurse! (00:31:12) Popschnipsel – Vorentscheid für den ESC (00:37:47) Verabschiedung >> Artikel zum Nachlesen: https://detektor.fm/musik/keine-angst-vor-hits-kw-10-2023

Life brings to all of us long periods where we feel lost or confused. We don't know how to get what we want, or even what it is that we want.  The struggle to articulate the thing that might really make us “come alive” can be profound, even if we enter therapy. Charlotte Fox Weber is the author of Tell Me What You Want, a new book that explores how to identify and navigate our deepest longings.  Andrew and Charlotte discuss the idea that we have 12 fundamental desires: to love and be loved; understanding, power, attention, freedom; to create, to belong, to win, to connect, to control; and to want what we shouldn't.  Identifying how these desires play out in your life can be liberating and beautiful, even if you also realise that acting on them is impossible.  Charlotte Fox Weber is a psychotherapist, author and the founding head of The School of Life Psychotherapy.   Subscriber Content This Week If you're a subscriber to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Patreon), this week you'll be hearing: ⭐️ The troublemaking twins: pride and shame. ⭐️Three things Charlotte Fox Weber knows to be true. ⭐️AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees.   Follow Up Read Andrew's new Substack newsletter The Meaningful Life, and join the community there.  Read Charlotte Fox Weber's new book, Tell Me What You Want  Visit Charlotte Fox Weber's website Read Andrew's book Wake Up and Change Your Life: How to Survive a Crisis and Be Stronger, Wiser and Happier.  Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50. Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

Dr. Justin Lehmiller studied the sexual fantasies of thousands of Americans for his book "Tell Me What You Want" - The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. And through that extensive research he learned a lot about cuckolding! He joins Venus on this special pre-Cuck Week episode and dives into the stats, the discoveries, and all of the what we've learned about cuckolding fantasies so far - it's totally fascinating!LinksCuck Week Events - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/eventsSex and Psychology blog and podcast: https://sexandpsychology.comTell Me What You Want: https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234966?ref_=ast_sto_dpInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/Twitter: https://twitter.com/JustinLehmillerAbout Dr. Lehmiller:Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller is a much sought-after voice in the media on sexuality research and education. He has been interviewed by The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and CNN, and he has appeared on dozens of international radio, podcast, and television programs.Apps mentioned in the episode:X Confessions - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/xconfessions-the-couples-app/id1318649256Own Your Sex - https://www.ownyoursex.app/ Venus Connections is a private matchmaking service for singles looking for a loving cuckolding relationship. Curious to learn more? Visit VenusConnections.comSupport the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress

In 1983, I fell in love with a song called "Who's Behind the Door" from a band called Zebra. They followed it up with "Tell Me What You Want," "Wait Until the Summer's Gone," "Bears," "Lullaby" and many more.  I'm honored to have lead vocalist/guitarist  Randy Jackson as my guest today, on this episode of "Someone You Should Know."BUY RIK A COFFEEZebra's WebsiteRandy's Facebook pageZebra's YouTube page Rock Legend's Cruise 2023 infoAll music used by permission from the artistSomeone You Should Know 2023 // CatGotYourTongueStudios 2023How to Contact Us:Official Website: https://Someoneyoushouldknowpodcast.comGmail: Someoneyoushouldknowpodcast@gmail.comTwitter: @RIKANTHONY1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rikanthonyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/someoneyoushouldknowpodcast/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rik-anthony2019/TikTok: @SomeoneYouShouldKnow2023YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@someoneyoushouldknowpodcastThank you for listening!Theme music "Welcome to the Show" by Kevin MacLeod was used per the standard license agreement.

Author and psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber joins Kathy in discussing her first book What We Want - A Journey Through Twelve of Our Deepest Desires and why she decided to feature actual client sessions in the book. Charlotte discusses why having insight is only one part of making your life better and how being curious instead of judgmental helps us better understand people. She also shares that delving into our dark side is beneficial to learning why we repeat the same patterns and that we become Sheeple when we sleep walk through life.  Tune in and find out the definition of a Lesbian Rule (created by Aristotle) and how we can be both self-destructive and self-preserving. You can find Charlotte Fox Weber at charlottefoxweber.com and you can find her book What We Want - A Journey Through Twelve of Our Deepest Desires (in the UK); Tell Me What You Want (in the US April 2023) on Amazon. We love our listeners and want to hear from you! Follow us on social media @womenwhosarcast.Subscribe to Women Who Podcast magazine at womenwhopodcastmag.com and @womenwhopodcastmagazine.All content © 2023 Women Who Sarcast

What do you want out of life? They say our choices dictate our desires and wants. So if you are not receiving what it is that you desire out of life and what you want, then perhaps there needs to be some look on the choices that you have decided to make in your life. I mean, heck, if we look at it just alphabetically wise, if we look at from the time that we are born to the time that we are dying. You have a "B" for birth. A "D" death. The only letter in between is a "C" for choice. What are you choosing or how are you choosing to live your life? See, I can say all day or you can say all day how you want to lose weight. Are you working out? Are you eating properly? Now you say you ready for a relationship. Have you gotten down to getting to know and have a relationship with yourself? Have you made room for yourself to exist? Are you in a space where you're vulnerable enough or even have made room for somebody to coexist in your life? You said you want that car. You want a new home, but what's your credit looking like? Did you save enough money? Do you have enough for the down payment? Again, what are the choices you're making in your life? It made me think about the Spice Girls. Remember that track, "Tell Me What You Want" and they were like, "So tell me what you want what you really really want. I'll tell you what I want. What I really really I want to. I want to." What do you want? That's the time-old question. Half the time maybe that's the hardest part about it. Getting our desires and our wants because we aren't able to identify. I think half the time we think that we want something. But based on the choices that we're making, is that something completely different? So I have to ask you, "what do you want?" Better yet, tell me what you want. Better yet, show me what you want. Better yet, show yourself what you want. That's the challenge. Put it up to the test of yourself because at the end of the day it's always me versus me or you versus you. It's whoever you see when you look back in the mirror and then looking back at the choices that you make because it's already written that you can have whatever it is that you want out of life. But just like anything of bearing fruit, a seed has to be planted. But we have to be cognizant of the soil that we're planting the seed in. Where is your seed growing? Hmm? Do you have your desires and your wants out of life? "So tell me what you want, what you really, really want." You know what I want? I want to be great. I want to be powerful beyond measure. I want the world to know my name. I want somebody to say, "Because Dawn can, I knew that I could." I want somebody to see me and say that “I'm possible.” I want my yacht. I want to be on all the TV screens and on the radio, and you just hear me. I want love. So, I myself have to look back on my choices because our choices dictate our desires and our wants. So here I go again. "Tell me what you want, what you really, really want."  All right. That's it. For your dose of "Vitamin D." Be sure to follow us on all social media @VitaminDDawnDai and until next time, always remember, "you are your greatest asset."See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever fantasized about being ‘forced' to have sex? If so, you're not alone. Fantasies about being taken against one's will (also known as 'ravishment fantasies' and 'consensual non-consent fantasies') are actually quite common. But just how many people report having had them? And why? That's what we're going to be exploring in today's episode. I'll be sharing five examples of forced sex fantasies that have emerged in my research to illustrate what these fantasies tend to look like, and also to explore the psychology behind them.  To help me put this show together, Rose Caraway returns to narrate the actual fantasies. Rose is a writer, editor, and publisher who runs the Kiss Me Quick's Erotica Podcast. She also served as the narrator for Dr. David Ley's amazing book, Insatiable Wives, which was the subject of Episode 70 of this program. The fantasies we dive into in this show come from my book Tell Me What You Want, and they include: Ravished By My Lover Kidnapped and Forced to Have Sex Animalistic Sex With an Alpha Male Banged By the Bachelorettes Taken By a Warrior Princess I walk you through the main themes behind each of these fantasies and the common threads that unite them, while also considering similarities and differences in how these fantasy scenarios play out for men and women. I also discuss who is most likely to have fantasies of this nature and why. This is a fascinating episode. Be sure to check it out! Thanks to The Handy (thehandy.com) and the Kinsey Institute (kinseyinstitute.org) for being sponsors of this episode! The Handy, made by Sweet Tech, is an automatic stroker designed for self-pleasure. Pair it with your sleeve of choice to mimic realistic sensations of different partnered activities with precise speed and stroke control. Visit https://link.thehandy.com/sexandpsych-1 to learn more and use my exclusive discount code (sexandpsych) to get 10% off your order. The Kinsey Institute's (kinseyinstitute.org) 75th anniversary is underway and you are invited to join in the celebration! Follow @kinseyinstitute on social media to learn more about upcoming events. Also, please consider a gift or donation to the Institute to support sex research and education. Click here to donate. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

As someone who studies the science of sexual fantasies, every time I think I've heard it all, I discover something new. Human beings are endlessly inventive and flexible when it comes to their sexuality, which means that our fantasies are sometimes truly fantastical and may reflect things that wouldn't even be physically possible in reality. While these fantasies may strike many people as "strange" or "weird," however, a deeper analysis of them reveals that they aren't so unusual after all. They're actually just creative variations on the things that turn most of us on. In this episode, we're going to explore four uncommon sexual fantasies I've encountered over the course of my research and consider the psychology behind them. To help me put this show together, I invited Rose Caraway to narrate the actual fantasies that my participants provided. Rose is a writer, editor, and publisher who runs the Kiss Me Quick's Erotica Podcast. She also served as the narrator for Dr. David Ley's fantastic book, Insatiable Wives, which was the subject of Episode 70 of this program. The fantasies we dive into in this show come from my book Tell Me What You Want, and they include: The Human Cow (or HuCow) The Human Doll Getting Eaten Alive (Vorarephilia) Taken By Tentacles I walk you through the main themes behind each of these fantasies and the common threads that run through all of them. I also discuss who tends to have more of these fantastical fantasies and why. This is a truly fascinating episode you're not going to want to miss. Check it out! The Kinsey Institute's (kinseyinstitute.org) 75th anniversary is underway and you are invited to join in the celebration! Follow @kinseyinstitute on social media to learn more about upcoming events. Also, please consider a gift or donation to the Institute to support sex research and education. Click here to donate. Thanks to the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes (modernsextherapyinstitutes.com) for sponsoring this episode! *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Today's dose of "Vitamin D" is dedicated to what you want, what you are really, really want. So I got to ask you, what do you want out of life? They say our choices dictate our desires and wants. So if you are not receiving what it is that you desire out of life and what you want, then perhaps there needs to be some look on the choices that you have decided to make in your life. I mean, heck, if we look at it just alphabetically-wise, if we look at from the time that we are born to the time that we are dying. You have a "B" for birth, a "D" death. The only letter in between is a "C" for choice. What are you choosing or how are you choosing to live your life? See, I can say all day or you can say all day how you want to lose weight. Are you working out? Are you eating properly? Now you say you ready for a relationship. Have you gotten down to getting to know and have a relationship with yourself? Have you made room for yourself to exist? Are you in a space where you're vulnerable enough or even have made room for somebody to coexist in your life? You said you want that car. You want a new home, but what's your credit looking like? Did you save enough money? Do you have enough for the down payment? Again, what are the choices you're making in your life? It made me think about the Spice Girls. Remember that track, "Tell Me What You Want" and they were like, "So tell me what you want what you really really want. I'll tell you what I want. What I really really I want to. I want to." What do you want? That's the time-old question. Half the time maybe that's the hardest part about it. Getting our desires and our wants because we aren't able to identify. I think half the time we think that we want something. But based on the choices that we're making, is that something completely different? So I have to ask you, "what do you want?" Better yet, tell me what you want. Better yet, show me what you want. Better yet, show yourself what you want. That's the challenge. Put it up to the test of yourself because at the end of the day it's always me versus me or you versus you. It's whoever you see when you look back in the mirror and then looking back at the choices that you make because it's already written that you can have whatever it is that you want out of life. But just like anything of bearing fruit, a seed has to be planted. But we have to be cognizant of the soil that we're planting the seed in. Where is your seed growing? Hmm? Do you have your desires and your wants out of life? "So tell me what you want, what you really, really want." You know what I want? I want to be great. I want to be powerful beyond measure. I want the world to know my name. I want somebody to say, "because Dawn can I knew that I could." I want somebody to see me and say that I'm possible. I want my yacht. I want my home with the infinity pool, with the view of the ocean. I want to be on all the TV screens and on the radio, and you just hear me. I want love. So I myself have to look back on my choices because our choices dictate our desires and our wants. So here I go again. "Tell me what you want, what you really, really want." All right. That's it. For your dose of "Vitamin D." Be sure to follow us on all social media @VitaminDDawnDai and until next time, always remember, "you are your greatest asset." Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Everyone knows what a happy ending massage is, why did I (Ellie) ALWAYS automatically picture and assume it is for cocks and penis owners? Massage is an awesome way to get things to turn sexual, sure, but how about treating yourself, as a vulva owner, to a full massage and orgasm with no other expectations? YUMMY. Listen to this episode to find out what the top seven (7) sexual fantasies are, something we can know thanks to Justin Lehmiller, the author of Tell Me What You Want who spent two years studying fantasies. You're not only healthy for having sexual fantasies, but normal! It is actually abnormal to NOT fantasize about all sorts of dirty, dirty things. Enjoy, blossoms! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sugarpussy/support

Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex. On the Xtended version ... Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more about where they come from and what to do with them. Sponsors .. SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy The post Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.