Podcast appearances and mentions of lisa merlo booth

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2522: Couples often underestimate the importance of daily communication, leading to emotional distance over time. Lisa Merlo-Booth introduces a simple yet powerful tool, the check-in, to foster connection and intimacy. By setting aside just 15-30 minutes each day to share thoughts and experiences without distractions or problem-solving, partners can strengthen their bond and create a deeper sense of partnership in their relationship. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/a-simple-tool-f/ Quotes to ponder: "Intimacy is all about sharing your world with your partner. You can't do this if you barely talk to one another." "Remember that intimacy means ‘Into me you see.' In order to be intimate, you have to share a part of yourself, otherwise, you're roommates with benefits." "You listen to your partner's life happenings because you love your partner and to make a relationship work, you have to be relational." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2505: Lisa Merlo-Booth highlights the dangers of zoning out in relationships, emphasizing how emotional disconnection can damage intimacy and trust. She offers practical strategies to become more present, such as active listening, self-awareness, and intentional engagement. By making small but meaningful changes, partners can strengthen their connection and create deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/stop-zoning-out-in-your-relationships-and-start-being-presenttruly-present/ Quotes to ponder: "Being physically present while emotionally absent is a silent relationship killer." "When you check out, your partner feels alone even when you're sitting right next to them." "True presence requires intention, effort, and a willingness to engage in the moment." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2476: Lisa Merlo-Booth explains how boundaries protect our well-being, help us avoid taking on others' negativity, and allow us to receive constructive feedback without defensiveness. By learning to distinguish between what truly matters and what isn't ours to carry, we can create more fulfilling and respectful connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/boundaries_in_r/ Quotes to ponder: "Boundaries are a system of protection. They are meant to protect us as well as those around us." "If your partner comes home in a bad mood and is snapping at everyone in the home, then they are having a bad day, keep your boundaries up, and don't allow their bad day to become your bad day." "For now, remember that you don't want to keep everything out because that would be a wall, not a boundary. Nor do you want to let everything in because that would be boundary-less." Episode references: Boundaries (Where You End and I Begin) by Anne Katherine, M.A.: https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Where-You-Begin-Katherine/dp/0671791931 The Intimacy Factor by Pia Mellody: https://www.amazon.com/Intimacy-Factor-Recovery-Relationships/dp/0060095806 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2443: Lisa Merlo-Booth challenges the normalization of rage, emphasizing that it is not a demonstration of power but a sign of a lack of self-control. She highlights the toxic cultural narratives that excuse rage, outlines its damaging effects on relationships and environments, and advocates for alternative approaches rooted in accountability and self-mastery. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/rage-what-our-culture-isnt-teaching/ Quotes to ponder: "True power comes from within one's self. Aggression is moving in power over others there is nothing admirable or powerful about being a bully." "Ragers rage because they choose to NOT because others 'make' them or set them off." "Love should NOT hurt. And love, most certainly, should not be a battlefield." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Disagreements are bound to come up in relationships, but if it feels like every conversation with your partner turns into a battle where someone comes out hurt, odds are defensiveness may be playing a role. On this Line One, host Prentiss Pemberton and relationship expert Lisa Merlo-Booth explore why we get defensive, how to recognize it in yourself, and how to build healthier connections.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2411: Lisa Merlo-Booth explores two key relationship lessons: embracing self-confidence by celebrating personal achievements without shrinking to please others and fostering accountability by overcoming defensiveness in conflicts. These insights empower individuals to cultivate deeper, healthier connections by embracing authenticity and courage in both triumphs and mistakes. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/moving-from-defensiveness-to-accountability/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/are-you-throwing-yourself-under-the-bus-to-help-others-feel-better/ Quotes to ponder: "Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you." "The strongest, healthiest, and most courageous human beings are those who own their mistakes and do whatever is necessary to relationally fix the hurt or fallout that resulted." "As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2393: Lisa Merlo-Booth offers grounded guidance for handling a partner's emotional withdrawal by encouraging self-respect and firm boundaries. Instead of chasing or apologizing excessively, she suggests communicating limits and focusing on personal well-being, emphasizing that healthy responses can often bring clarity to both partners. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the_other_side_/ Quotes to ponder: "Set limits, be clear with your expectations, and don't pursue someone who's acting irresponsibly." "When you pursue irresponsible behavior, you contribute to more irresponsible behavior." "Realize this is irresponsible and you deserve better." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2364: Lisa Merlo-Booth shares heartfelt advice for newlyweds, using the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge as a prime example of the pressures faced by couples in the public eye. She emphasizes the importance of emotional safety, setting boundaries, and prioritizing the marriage over external expectations, offering practical steps to cultivate a strong, loving relationship amid life's challenges. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/an-open-letter-to-the-duke-and-duchess-of-cambridgeand-all-other-newly-wed-couples/ Quotes to ponder: "Marriage is not a sprint; it is a marathon that requires consistent effort, care, and attention." "Learning to be emotionally safe with one another is imperative to the health of your marriage." "It's essential that both partners stand together, protect their union, and create a space where they each feel loved and supported." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2335: Lisa Merlo-Booth highlights how essential it is for parents to work on their own emotional well-being in order to raise healthy children. She reflects on how her competitive nature unconsciously influenced her kids and emphasizes that personal growth not only benefits parents but also sets the foundation for their children's development. By becoming more conscious of our behaviors, we can model healthier attitudes for our children to follow. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/raising_healthy/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/raising-strong-healthy-daughters/ Quotes to ponder: "I can't raise healthy children unless I'm healthy. I can say all the right things, read the right books, watch the right shows, etc.; however, I can't bring my children farther along than I am myself." "As I continue to gain internal strength and confidence in myself rather than in what I do, my children gain a similar strength." "If we struggle to hold ourselves in warm regard, we teach our daughters to do the same." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2284: Lisa Merlo-Booth explores why intelligent women often settle for unsatisfying relationships, highlighting the detrimental effects of staying in toxic marriages. She advocates for a balanced approach where women learn to assert their needs with quiet strength, ultimately fostering healthier dynamics and personal well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/articles-why-smart-women-settle-for-dumb-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "Women benefit from marriages if and only if they are satisfied in them. When they are not satisfied, it is, in fact, harmful to their health to be married." "It's time to do this with a new, more refined feminine power. We do not need to nag, bitch, or rage but instead stand up with a quiet, respectful, powerful strength that is centered, calm, and comes from within." "When women learn to harness this quiet strength, they will set in motion a ripple effect that will influence relationships across the world." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1297: Lisa Merlo-Booth's article counters the passive approach traditionally advised for dealing with mean-spirited behavior in the workplace. By advocating for self-respect and assertiveness, Merlo-Booth empowers readers to confront such negativity directly, ensuring they don't silently endorse unacceptable behavior. Her guidance is a call to action for anyone facing demeaning attitudes at work, promoting a healthier, more equitable office environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/mean-girls-at-the-office-inherent-in-your-silence-is-acceptance-dont-silence/ Quotes to ponder: "If you say nothing, then inherent in your silence is acceptance." "Know that exclusion, eye-rolling, contempt, shaming and mean-spirited comments are not okay." "Silence will increase the behavior, not decrease it. Stay grounded and have your back." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1297: Lisa Merlo-Booth's article counters the passive approach traditionally advised for dealing with mean-spirited behavior in the workplace. By advocating for self-respect and assertiveness, Merlo-Booth empowers readers to confront such negativity directly, ensuring they don't silently endorse unacceptable behavior. Her guidance is a call to action for anyone facing demeaning attitudes at work, promoting a healthier, more equitable office environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/mean-girls-at-the-office-inherent-in-your-silence-is-acceptance-dont-silence/ Quotes to ponder: "If you say nothing, then inherent in your silence is acceptance." "Know that exclusion, eye-rolling, contempt, shaming and mean-spirited comments are not okay." "Silence will increase the behavior, not decrease it. Stay grounded and have your back." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2137: Lisa Merlo-Booth tackles the pervasive issue of communication breakdowns in relationships, particularly focusing on the "Deer in the Headlights Phenomenon." She explores the tendency of men to shut down in conversations, leaving their female partners feeling unheard and frustrated. Merlo-Booth offers practical advice for both partners to improve communication, deepen emotional connections, and break the cycle of silence and over-talking. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the-deer-in-the-headlights-phenomenon-a-communication-blunder-in-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "The men, almost immediately when the women began speaking, would look like a deer in the headlights and say absolutely nothing." "If someone is speaking to you, acknowledge that they have spoken; to do otherwise is just plain rude." "The more silent you remain, the more talkative she will become. Intimacy requires a sharing of oneself with another-emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Start talking!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2091: Lisa Merlo Booth's insights challenge the status quo of relationships by advocating for radical honesty, safety, equality, and respect in "Radically New Relationships Play by an Entirely Different Playbook" and "Prevent Your Edge From Harming Your Relationships." These articles provide transformative guidelines for nurturing profoundly healthy relationships and personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/radically-new-relationships-play-by-an-entirely-different-playbook/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/prevent-your-edge-from-harming-your-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "Courageous accountability: This is a non-negotiable at home, in the office, and out in the world. If you can't own up to your actions or others can't own up to theirs and make amends, then this issue will block healthy relationships." "How you live your life and show up in your relationships is 100% your responsibility. It's your job to work on your 'edge' - to dull the sharpness, round the edges, and become a safe, reliable, relational human being." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1987: Lisa Merlo-Booth's article emphasizes the importance of internal strength for healthier relationships. She suggests practical steps to enhance self-esteem and personal well-being, highlighting that healthy individuals don't settle for unhealthy relationships. By choosing three of her ten strategies, readers can begin their journey towards a more fulfilling personal life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/a-healthier-you-creates-a-healthier-we-ten-ways-to-build-your-internal-strength/ Quotes to ponder: "The bottom line is healthy people don't settle for unhealthy relationships." "If you believe you are worthy, capable, and deserving, then you will attract others who believe you are the same...and who treat you as though you are." "Stop the negative self talk. Be diligent about not putting yourself down in any way." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that healthy relationships and healthy lives all start with healthy thoughts. Episode 2350: Healthy Relationships and Lives Start With Healthy Thoughts by Lisa Merlo Booth on Positive Affirmations Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/healthy_relatio/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalHealthDailyDietNutritionFitness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that healthy relationships and healthy lives all start with healthy thoughts. Episode 2350: Healthy Relationships and Lives Start With Healthy Thoughts by Lisa Merlo Booth on Positive Affirmations Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/healthy_relatio/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalHealthDailyDietNutritionFitness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares the costs of toxic masculinity. Episode 1957: The Costs of Toxic Masculinity by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Emotional Health for Men & Relationship Success Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/costs-toxic-masculinity/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares the power of the 2 g's in relationships: greetings and goodbye. Episode 1923: The Power of the 2 G's In Relationships: Greetings and Goodbyes by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Family Communication Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the-power-of-the-2-gs-in-relationships-greetings-and-goodbyes/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that your actions must match your words Episode 1887: Communication in Relationships: Are Your Actions Matching Your Words or Are You Giving Mixed Messages? by Lisa Merlo Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/communication-in-relationships-are-your-actions-matching-your-words-or-are-you-giving-mixed-messages/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that you shouldn't do things just because everyone else does. Episode 1834: "Everybody Does it" is a Dangerous Mindset by Lisa Merlo Booth on Being an Individual and Conformity Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/everybody-does-it-is-a-dangerous-mindset/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth offers a hard look at the truth behind lies people involved in affairs tell themselves. Episode 1714: Affairs And The Other Woman: Lies Other Women Tell Themselves by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/affairs-and-the-other-woman-lies-other-women-tell-themselves/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares two short posts covering why your partner wants to leave you and taking in difficult feedback Episode 1667: Why Your Partner Wants to Leave You AND Taking in Difficult Feedback by Lisa Merlo Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/stop-defending-why-your-partner-wants-to-leave-you/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/feedback-accountability-courage-compassion/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares what to do if you are covering for your partner's relational malice. Episode 2015: Are You Covering For Your Partner's Relational Malice? By Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/are-you-covering-for-your-partners-relational-malice-if-so-stop-it-and-allow-she-to-feel-the-brunt-of-their-actions/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalHealthDailyDietNutritionFitness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares what to do if you are covering for your partner's relational malice. Episode 2015: Are You Covering For Your Partner's Relational Malice? By Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/are-you-covering-for-your-partners-relational-malice-if-so-stop-it-and-allow-she-to-feel-the-brunt-of-their-actions/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalHealthDailyDietNutritionFitness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth on finding yourself again or perhaps for the first time. Episode 2139: Finding Yourself Again (or Perhaps for the First Time) by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/findingyourself/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalFinanceDaily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth on finding yourself again or perhaps for the first time. Episode 2139: Finding Yourself Again (or Perhaps for the First Time) by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/findingyourself/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalFinanceDaily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth on finding yourself again or perhaps for the first time. Episode 2139: Finding Yourself Again (or Perhaps for the First Time) by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/findingyourself/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalFinanceDaily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth asks if you question yourself when it seems like the entire world disagrees. Episode 1492: When It Seems Like The Entire World Disagrees, Do You Question Yourself? by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/when-it-seems-like-the-entire-world-disagrees-do-you-question-yourself-trusting-and-standing-by-your-instincts-in-relation/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when your partner criticizes you or complains about your relationship? If you're like most people, you get defensive. You explain, you deflect, you may even engage in what-aboutism. What you don't do is take responsibility. And that's how you do damage to your marriage. Relationship Expert, author, and speaker Lisa Merlo-Booth reveals what makes this […] The post Defensiveness is Natural—It's Also Damaging to Your Marriage appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

I'm so happy to share this conversation about overcoming defensiveness with Lisa Merlo-Booth.  I've had the good fortune to work with Lisa and help her in her business and last spring I offered to help her with a workshop she was hosting. During the middle of this workshop I had a breakthrough that I actually needed this class and we're talking about what I learned about myself. Lisa is a relationship coach and a specialist in helping improve communication between partners. Her work has improved my life so much and I really wanted her to come and talk about it for everyone to learn how it could perhaps improve your life too. Enjoy.   Lisa shares with us her insights:    You can change. You have to be willing to look at yourself. And most people are looking at the other people in their life, and saying - 'Look, if you didn't yell at me, I wouldn't cower. Or if you weren't, you know, controlling me all the time, I wouldn't yell. And so they're constantly trying to get the other person to change which is where they have zero power. And so, once they realize- 'Okay, wait a second'. I have a saying -  Changing me changes we. So changing me will change your marriage; changing me, will change your children; changing me will change your life right? And what people do, though, is they want to change the other person thinking if you would stop doing ... we would be okay. And I wouldn't have to do what I'm doing. Right? So you just stop, and then it'll fix us. First off, you could wait till hell freezes over before they decide they want to stop. Right and that's a lot of wasted years. And two, you can't make them do anything. And so, once people realize where their power is and they start focusing in the right place that their change can really happen quick.   So if you're unhappy in some situation, you have the power to change it. I have a saying - You are one hundred percent responsible for the life you create; the life you allow; or the life you sabotage. So what are you doing? If you have this vision, I want us to be a great family, a great couple. I want my business to be wonderful. You know, run smoothly. What are you doing? What are you allowing that is going against that vision. Or, what are you doing that is actively sabotaging that vision? You have control of all that.   So I don't know, you know, it's funny. I struggled with defensiveness for a long time. And as I worked through it and got better, I don't know if this is, if you are feeling this at all. But right now, like now, it is so freeing to be like - 'Oh, my gosh, my bad! I'm so sorry'. It's like I just feel it's like oxygen and I don't feel that like toxic shame. I'm just like, you know, like - 'Oh, I screwed it up again. Oh, my gosh! I promise I'm going to fix this like and it feels lighter to me. And my family can talk to me and like - 'Yeah, it's just such a, I don't know. It's like a weight gets lifted because you have the template. You know how to do it, and you also, I don't know, you just start to realize - 'Oh, everybody screws up.' It's like the human condition. You absolutely cannot not screw up. And that's not the problem actually. You're screwing up isn't the problem. The problem is doubling down on that and pretending you didn't screw up or not having the conversation, because you don't want it. So then, it just goes underground and becomes a bigger mess up. But as far as like humanity and relationships and jobs, I got news for you. You are going to screw up so much, so much. And to be able to say like - 'You're right. I really mess that up. It's so freeing'.   It actually brings you closer. It's more intimate. It's crazy. It's like - 'Oh, yeah, I hurt you.' And then, they're like - 'Oh, I feel so loving towards you right now.' It's like a crazy irony, you know. And of course, you know there's a whole way of doing it. But it truly is like when you know your partner is able to, or best friend or mom, or whoever they're able to hear the feedback, own it like, own their piece, without any blame or anything else. You genuinely. You feel heard. You feel closer. And you're like - 'Oh, wow!'. And by the way, they look tougher, stronger. It's just so much more capable. And you're like - 'Oh, they can handle it.' Oh, no, I can say that to my mom. She's got this yeah, instead of them protecting you by not saying it. It's a crazy irony. But you actually it feels more intimate when you're able to find the courage to own your actions than it does to deny them.   Everywhere. But I can't think of a place where there isn't natural conflict. That's the other thing like natural. We're human beings. We make mistakes. The moment you make a mistake; the moment you hurt somebody; the moment, you say you're going to pick up the milk and you don't. You say you're going to be at work on time, and you're not at work on time. That's an issue that needs to be addressed. And you're human. Those issues are going to come up. I don't care who you are. I don't care how amazing you are, you still can't be perfect. And so you know we need instead of running from conflict, we need to go into it, and then we'll walk through it and feel better because of it. But our world does not see it as that at all. We, many people see feedback as an attack, right? And oh, my goodness, think of the freedom you would have and feel if you saw, I say feedback as a gift. If you literally saw feedback as oxygen to help you grow, and like was, and you know, encouraged it. It's just life changing.   Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective transformational relationship coach, author, and speaker. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and is known for her straight talk on relationships in the home, at work, and in the culture at large. Her title is Counter-Culture Relationship Expert.   Learn more about Lisa:   Websites: https://lisamerlobooth.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisamerlobooth Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LisaMerloBoothStraightTalk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therising4women Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisamerlobooth

2 shorter posts from Lisa Merlo-Booth on raising healthy children & raising strong, healthy daughters. Episode 024: Raising Healthy Children (Changing Me, Changes My Children) & Raising Strong, Healthy Daughters by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original posts are located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/raising_healthy/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/raising-strong-healthy-daughters/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares what to do when you are feeling gloomy for far too long. Episode 1410: Feeling Gloomy for Far Too Long? Fight Back by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/feeling-gloomy-for-far-too-long-fight-back/  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth discusses the importance of grace and forgiveness in relationships Episode 1356: The Importance of Grace and Forgiveness in Relationships by Lisa Merlo Booth on Accepting Your Partner's Faults Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the-importance/  Noom Mood guides you to mental wellness one step at a time, 10 minutes per day. Sign up for your trial at Noom.com/ORD Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares seven ways to improve your relationship with your teens starting today. Episode 1317: Seven Ways to Improve Your Relationship with Your Teens Starting Today by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Parenting Teenagers Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/seven-ways-to-improve-your-relationship-with-your-teens-starting-today/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com  Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares a simple tool for connection in relationships. Episode 1261: A Simple Tool For Connection In Relationships: The Check-In by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Tips for Successful Marriage Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/a-simple-tool-f/ Noom Mood guides you to mental wellness one step at a time, 10 minutes per day. Sign up for your trial at Noom.com/ORD Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares her thoughts on boundaries in relationships. Episode 1193: Boundaries in Relationships by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Creating a Boundary, Successful Dating and Self-Care Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/boundaries_in_r/ BeachBound is a one stop travel shop that is redefining travel, as customers can book worldwide beach vacations including flights, hotels, transfers and excursions in one place. Visit Beachbound.com to book your next beach vacation Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many individuals and couples lack a template for creating truly healthy, vibrant relationships. Our world normalizes rage, sees lack of accountability as a twisted strength, and encourages an old relationship paradigm that is steeped in antiquated, harmful ways of being. Tune in as the Rising co-host Arlene Neuman interviews Lisa Merlo Booth about her powerful, new, relationship paradigm--Radically New Relationships™. If you're single, dating, or married, and want to radically transform your relationship from status quo to create an enlivened, intimate and authentic connection then click on the link below! Learn about how practicing the “ four pillars” paves the road to having a radically new, more deeply satisfying relationship. If you like it please share, if you want more subscribe, if you have thoughts or questions, leave a comment, we'd love to hear from you

Lisa Merlo-Booth talks about rage and how to see it for what it is Episode 1150: Rage: The Real Truth by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Anger & Emotional Outbursts From Road Rage to Abuse Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/rage-what-our-culture-isnt-teaching/  Noom Mood guides you to mental wellness one step at a time, 10 minutes per day. Sign up for your trial at Noom.com/ORD Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth on stop zoning out in your relationships and start being truly present. Episode 1099: Stop Zoning Out In Your Relationships and Start Being Present - Truly Present by Lisa Merlo-Booth on Mindfulness Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/stop-zoning-out-in-your-relationships-and-start-being-presenttruly-present/ Please Rate & Review the Show!  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group  Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares two shorts posts covering why new relationships require new rules and how to prevent your edge from harming your relationships Episode 1052: Radically New Relationships AND Prevent Your Edge From Harming Your Relationships by Lisa Merlo Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/radically-new-relationships-play-by-an-entirely-different-playbook/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/prevent-your-edge-from-harming-your-relationships/ Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at Calm.com/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show! Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting

Lisa Merlo-Booth shares two shorts posts covering why new relationships require new rules and how to prevent your edge from harming your relationships Episode 1052: Radically New Relationships AND Prevent Your Edge From Harming Your Relationships by Lisa Merlo Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/radically-new-relationships-play-by-an-entirely-different-playbook/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/prevent-your-edge-from-harming-your-relationships/  Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at Calm.com/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show!  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group  Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group   Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that healthy relationships and healthy lives all start with healthy thoughts. Episode 937: Healthy Relationships and Lives Start With Healthy Thoughts by Lisa Merlo Booth on Positive Affirmations Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/healthy_relatio/ Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at Calm.com/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show! Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that healthy relationships and healthy lives all start with healthy thoughts. Episode 937: Healthy Relationships and Lives Start With Healthy Thoughts by Lisa Merlo Booth on Positive Affirmations Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/healthy_relatio/  Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at Calm.com/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show!  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group  Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group   Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that you shouldn't do things just because everyone else does. Episode 893: "Everybody Does it" is a Dangerous Mindset by Lisa Merlo Booth on Being an Individual and Conformity Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/everybody-does-it-is-a-dangerous-mindset/ Ten Ten's limited-edition collection of diamond engagement rings is available at http://BlueNile.com. Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at Calm.com/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show! Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting

Lisa Merlo-Booth reminds you that you shouldn't do things just because everyone else does. Episode 893: "Everybody Does it" is a Dangerous Mindset by Lisa Merlo Booth on Being an Individual and Conformity Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/everybody-does-it-is-a-dangerous-mindset/ Ten Ten's limited-edition collection of diamond engagement rings is available at http://BlueNile.com. Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at Calm.com/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show!  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group  Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group   Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth talks about self-confidence in relationships and shows us how to move from self-defensiveness into accountability within our relationships. Episode 867: Self-Confidence in Relationships AND Moving from Defensiveness to Accountability by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/moving-from-defensiveness-to-accountability/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/are-you-throwing-yourself-under-the-bus-to-help-others-feel-better/ Ten Ten's limited-edition collection of diamond engagement rings launches on January 18th, and you can preview it exclusively at http://BlueNile.com. Go to Apostrophe.com/ORD and you’ll get fifteen dollars off your dermatology visit! Please Rate & Review the Show! Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting

Lisa Merlo-Booth talks about self-confidence in relationships and shows us how to move from self-defensiveness into accountability within our relationships. Episode 867: Self-Confidence in Relationships AND Moving from Defensiveness to Accountability by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/moving-from-defensiveness-to-accountability/ & https://lisamerlobooth.com/are-you-throwing-yourself-under-the-bus-to-help-others-feel-better/ Ten Ten's limited-edition collection of diamond engagement rings launches on January 18th, and you can preview it exclusively at http://BlueNile.com. Go to Apostrophe.com/ORD and you'll get fifteen dollars off your dermatology visit! Please Rate & Review the Show!  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group  Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group   Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth discusses what to do when your partner withdraws. Episode 822: The Other Side of Relationship Withdrawal: What to do When Your Partner Withdraws by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the_other_side_/ Please Rate & Review the Show! Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in  The O.L.D. Facebook Group and Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts!   Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Merlo-Booth discusses what to do when your partner withdraws. Episode 822: The Other Side of Relationship Withdrawal: What to do When Your Partner Withdraws by Lisa Merlo-Booth Lisa Merlo-Booth is a straight-talking and highly effective relationship expert, speaker, and blogger. She has over twenty years of experience in the field of therapy and relationship coaching and a thriving private practice with a client base of individuals and couples spanning the United States and Europe. Lisa is widely known for her straight talk on women, and for her emphasis on teaching women to stop responding in the extremes (silencing or exploding) and, instead, to affect change in a way that is grounded, respectful, and strong. This highly effective approach to communication is about speaking from Grounded Powerful Strength (GPS) rather than the extremes of meekness or aggression. The original post is located here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the_other_side_/ Please Rate & Review the Show! Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group and Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts! Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting