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I am a devoted father, a caregiver to a special child, and an advocate for autism. My mission is to raise awareness about autism and share my experiences as a parent. I cherish every moment spent with my son, embracing the joys and challenges that come with it. Together, we navigate this journey, learning and growing along the way.

Sandeep Verma


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    Your attitude defines your altitude

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2025 1:21


    "Your attitude defines your altitude" is a powerful reminder for parents of special needs children that how you approach life's challenges can profoundly shape your journey and your child's development. Raising a child with special needs often involves unique obstacles, but maintaining a positive, patient, and resilient attitude can empower both you and your child to rise above difficulties. Your outlook not only influences your own well-being but also sets the tone for your child's perspective on life. When you embrace challenges with optimism and determination, you teach your child to do the same. By fostering a mindset of growth and possibility, you help your child reach their full potential, regardless of any setbacks. The altitude you both achieve is not determined by external circumstances, but by the strength of your attitude in facing them together.

    Preparation for International Travel

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 1:30


    A travel can be difficult with kids and when it comes to special children, the parents need to prepare additionally. As soon as I booked my tickets, I was concerned about the long flight for Rewansh. I did some homework to prepare things that may meet his needs.- I prepared some ready to eat oats by roasting it a bit and then grinding it,- kept few packets of ready to eat khichdi,- kept cold milk in Flask that can be heated and- the important things is a heating cup to prepare food at the airport.- I also kept a few airlock containers such that food prepared can be stored. For next flight at the airport.One may prepare as much but the actual experience is unpredictable.#preparation #travel #travelpreparation #asd #autismtravel #autism #autismawareness

    From India to US

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 1:30


    From India to the US: A Journey of Emotions and Love ❤️As we embarked on our long journey from India to the US, I had so many concerns running through my mind: *How will my son react? What will he eat? How will the airlines support us? What if he has a meltdown?* These thoughts made me anxious, but life always has its way of surprising us.The trip turned out to be a rollercoaster of emotions for my son:✨ *Excitement* at the start of the journey, his curious eyes lighting up at every new sight.✨ *Experience* as he took in the bustling airports, the gentle hum of the plane, and the smiles of strangers.✨ *Exploration* as he discovered the joys of small things—like watching the clouds from the window.✨ *Tiredness* and *exhaustion* crept in as the journey stretched on, testing his patience and resilience.✨ But finally, the ultimate *reward*: meeting his grandmother after five long months! That moment made every mile and every challenge worth it.This trip was a reminder that the fears we build up in our minds are often larger than reality. With the right preparation, patience, and support, even a daunting journey can feel settled and manageable.Here's to every parent out there who worries about the “what-ifs” but still takes the leap. Your courage creates beautiful memories!

    Travel Made Easier

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 1:30


    Traveling from Delhi to Austin with my son has always been a journey which was concerning but it became easy and also filled with love, preparation, and a dash of adventure!

    Bridges of Trust

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 1:30


    Trust is a two-way street, especially for parents of special kids.

    Love, Care, and Health

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2024 1:30


    Recently, I came across a fascinating study that got me thinking about the power of love and care. In this experiment, a number of rabbits were divided into two groups and fed a high-fat diet. Group A rabbits developed high cholesterol, as expected, but Group B rabbits had remarkably lower cholesterol levels!

    Proud Parent Moment

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2024 1:28


    Today, I want to share a beautiful step in my son's journey. As a non-verbal autistic child, his communication has always been unique and meaningful in its own way. Recently, he started speaking a few words, identifying letters, and surprising us with his own creative take on spelling!

    Clear instructions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2024 1:30


    In a world full of noise, children with special needs often thrive with clarity.

    Cover-ups and Justifications

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 1:30


    As parents of special kids, we often find ourselves justifying or covering up our child's behavior to the world.

    KYC - “Know Your Child”

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2024 1:30


    Being a parent of a special child, especially one who's non-verbal, means becoming fluent in a unique language. A language made of body language, gestures, and subtle cues that express so much when words aren't possible.For example, my autistic son Rewansh communicates his needs with simple gestures. While taking milk (he uses a bottle and I am okay with this):1️⃣ When he hands me his bottle after a sip, it means the cap is loose, and he hears an air sound that bothers him.2️⃣ If he taps the bottle, the milk is either too cold or too hot.3️⃣ When he points to the kitchen, he's telling me it's time to add his favorite flavoring.These are his ways of telling me what he needs, and over time, I've learned to understand him through these small but powerful signs.Every parent has their own “KYC” moments – little clues that help us understand what our children need. Paying attention to these details is key, especially for our non-verbal children. Trust yourself, observe closely, and celebrate every breakthrough.Let's encourage each other to know our children deeply, beyond words.

    Vicious Circle and Instant Gratification

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 1:28


    As parents of special children, it's easy to fall into the trap of expecting instant results. We often think, “I'll start teaching them once they understand,” but this mindset overlooks the crucial fact that our children need us to actively teach and guide them to make progress.The temptation for instant gratification can lead us to expect immediate learning outcomes, which can be discouraging for both us and our children. However, real growth and improvement come from consistent effort and patience. It's important to remember that learning is a gradual process. Our dedication to teaching, even if results aren't immediate, is what truly fosters their development.Let's commit to breaking this vicious circle by embracing patience and celebrating the small victories along the way. Your efforts matter, and every step forward, no matter how small, is a testament to your unwavering support and love.

    Unique Ability

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 1:29


    Once upon a time, a few animals wanted to decide who among them was the superior one. They sought wisdom from an owl, who set up a series of competitions. The bird soared to great heights in the flying contest, the rabbit dug its way to victory, the monkey swiftly climbed to the top of the tree, and the fish effortlessly swam to its destination first.Two powerful lessons for parents:1️⃣ Every child has a unique ability. Don't compare them—each shines in their own way.2️⃣ Even the wise can make mistakes. The owl set up different competitions but overlooked one key thing: there's no one standard for greatness.Celebrate the unique strengths of every child and remember, just like the owl, we all have room to grow and learn.#dotingdad #specialneedsparenting #prouddad #autism #asd #autismacceptance #autismdad #autismmom #autismfamily #love #parent #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenting #wisdom #decisions #thoughts #act #kid #kids #child #children #parents

    Cognitive Defusion

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2024 1:30


    Cognitive defusion is a way to counteract cognitive fusion. Cognitive defusion involves techniques that help individuals create distance from their thoughts, allowing them to see these thoughts as mere mental events rather than as absolute truths.1. Mindfulness Exercises: By focusing on the present moment, individuals can observe their thoughts without judgment and without becoming overly attached to them.2. Labeling Thoughts: Identifying thoughts as just “thoughts” rather than facts (e.g., “I'm noticing the thought that I might fail”) can help create distance and reduce their impact.3. Visualization Techniques: Imagining thoughts as clouds passing by or leaves floating on a stream can help individuals see them as temporary and not necessarily reflective of reality.4. Metaphors: Using metaphors, such as “thoughts are like passengers on a bus,” can help individuals understand that they are in control of their actions, even if they cannot control their thoughts.Understanding and addressing cognitive fusion is essential for achieving greater psychological flexibility, enhancing mental health, and fostering more adaptive ways of interacting with the world. By recognizing when they are fused with their thoughts, individuals can take steps to defuse and live more in alignment with their values and goals.#dotingdad #specialneedsparenting #prouddad #autism #asd #autismacceptance #autismdad #autismmom #autismfamily #love #parent #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenting #cognitive #cognitivedefusion #defusion #thoughts #acttherapy #act #kid #kids #child #children

    Cognitive Fusion

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2024 1:30


    Cognitive fusion is a psychological concept central to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). It refers to the tendency of individuals to become overly entangled with their thoughts, treating them as absolute truths rather than as transient mental events. People in a fused state often see their thoughts as inseparable from their identity or reality and to them it gives similar mental pleasure or pain like reality.Individuals may find it challenging to distance themselves from distressing or intrusive thoughts, this also gets them far from reality or not accept it the way it is.Parents to special kids are also prone to cognitive fusion, it can significantly impact how parents perceive and respond to their circumstances. It might take them away from the reality to accept the child's needs or to provide the child with necessary therapy etc.**Challenges**-Self-Judgment and Guilt: Parents might experience thoughts like “I'm not doing enough for my child” or “It's my fault my child has these challenges.” When fused with these thoughts, they may feel overwhelmed by guilt, leading to feelings of inadequacy and self-criticism.-Perceived Judgment from Others: Thoughts such as “People think I'm a bad parent” can lead to social withdrawal and isolation, as parents may avoid interactions to escape perceived criticism.-Catastrophic Thinking: Future Anxiety: Thoughts like “My child will never be able to live independently” can lead to heightened anxiety and despair. Overprotection: Fused thoughts about potential dangers or failures can result in overprotective behaviors, which may inadvertently limit the child's opportunities for growth and independence.-Increased Sensitivity to Triggers: Cognitive fusion can make parents more sensitive to situations that trigger their fears or worries, such as interactions with healthcare providers or educators.#dotingdad #prouddad #autism #asd #autismacceptance #autismdad #autismmom #autismfamily #love #parent #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenting #cognitive #cognitivefusion #fusion #thoughts #acttherapy #act #kid #kids #child #children

    Automatic thoughts & learned helplessness

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 1:30


    Many people have automatic thoughts shaped by past experiences and learned behaviors, which influence how they perceive themselves and others. These thoughts can emerge without conscious awareness and are often deeply ingrained, stemming from a lifetime of accumulated beliefs.For parents, especially those of children with special needs, these automatic thoughts can extend to their perceptions of their child's abilities. This is closely related to the psychological concept of “Learned Helplessness”, where individuals come to believe they have no control over certain situations due to repeated exposure to challenging circumstances.In the context of parenting, this can manifest as a belief that their child is incapable of performing certain activities, leading to a reluctance to push boundaries or explore new opportunities. Such limiting beliefs not only hinder the child's potential growth but also reinforce the parent's sense of helplessness.It is crucial for parents to recognize these automatic thoughts and challenge them actively. By breaking free from these constraints, parents can offer their children a wider range of experiences, helping them to develop skills and confidence. Embracing a mindset that fosters growth and possibility, rather than one of limitation, is essential for both the child's and the parent's well-being. Encouraging exploration and celebrating small successes can gradually dismantle learned helplessness, enabling both parent and child to thrive.#dotingdad #specialneedsparenting #loveanddetachment #parentingjourney #supportnetwork #growingtogether #parentingwithlove #expressiveparenting #givingspace #thrivingchild #prouddad #autism #asd #autismacceptance #autismdad #autismmom #autismfamily #love #parent #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenting #psychology

    Doting Dad

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 1:30


    As a doting dad, I openly express my love for my child and make sure he knows just how much he means to me. I am always vocal about my affection and pride in him. However, I also embrace a form of detachment. This balanced approach allows me to remain indifferent at times, which prevents me from being overly stubborn about specific outcomes. It enables me to provide my special child with the space he needs to grow and develop at his own pace.This detachment has also proven beneficial in allowing others to play a role in my child's life. It has enabled me to step back and trust the guidance and expertise of his teachers and therapists. By doing so, I ensure that he receives the best possible support from all angles, without my interference hindering his progress. This combination of deep love and strategic detachment creates an environment where my child can thrive, supported by a network of caring individuals who all contribute to his well-being.#dotingdad #specialneedsparenting #loveanddetachment #parentingjourney #supportnetwork #growingtogether #parentingwithlove #expressiveparenting #givingspace #thrivingchild #prouddad #autism #asd #autismacceptance #autismdad #autismmom #autismfamily #love #parent #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenting

    Proactive Parenting and Safe Space

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 1:30


    Once upon a time, two parents and their child lived in a cozy home filled with love and laughter. One morning, as one parent was leaving for work and noticed that the child playing near a table where a glass bowl was precariously placed. From the doorway, called out to the other parent, “Please move the glass bowl from the table!” and then hurried off to work.Later that day, a distressing phone call came. The child had been seriously injured because the glass bowl had fallen and shattered on the child. This incident underscored a crucial lesson for the parents about the importance of being proactive in ensuring their child's safety. Being proactive means taking immediate action to prevent potential dangers rather than simply delegating tasks and hoping they get done. This simple act of immediate responsibility could have prevented the accident.Proactive parenting involves more than just responding to immediate dangers. It means continuously creating a safe and secure environment for children. Few things which we did at home:Childproofing Locks: Ensuring that locks are out of the child's reach to prevent them from locking themselves or parents in a room.Corner Covers: Using corner covers on furniture to protect against sharp edges.Safety Gates: Installing safety gates to block off dangerous areas such as stairs.Securing Heavy Objects: Anchoring heavy furniture and appliances to the walls to prevent tipping.Electrical Safety: Using outlet covers and keeping cords out of reach to prevent electrical shocks.Toxic Substances: Storing cleaning supplies, medications, and other hazardous materials in locked cabinets or out of reach.Toy Safety: Regularly checking toys for small parts that could be choking hazards and ensuring age-appropriate playthings.Parenting is about working together as a team and taking shared responsibility for the safety and well-being of your child. By doing so, parents can ensure a nurturing environment where their child can thrive without unnecessary risks.#autism #asd #spectrum #parents #parenting #autismdad #autismmom #autismfamily #autismawareness #autismacceptance #kid #kids #child

    Psychological Errors

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2024 1:29


    Psychological errors often arise from mismatches between human instincts and environmental cues. One such error is when people attempt to pull a door labeled “push” simply because it has a handle. This seemingly trivial mistake highlights how external factors can override basic instructions, leading to unintended actions. The handle on the push side of the door creates a misleading cue, prompting individuals to pull despite clear instructions to push. This error is not due to a lack of understanding but rather the influence of external elements that guide behavior in unexpected directions.Parents have an intrinsic drive to provide for and protect their children. This basic instinct encompasses ensuring their offspring's safety, security, and well-being by meeting fundamental needs such as food, clothing, and shelter. The parental instinct is hardwired and deeply rooted in evolutionary biology, driving parents to create a nurturing environment where their children can thrive. However, just like the push-pull door scenario, parents' behavior can be diverted by various external factors, leading to psychological errors in parenting.Consider factors like anger, depression, anxiety, social pressure, peer pressure, and expectations. These external influences can be as compelling and confusing as the handle on a push door. Anger and depression can cloud a parent's judgment, causing reactions that may not align with their instinct to protect and nurture. Anxiety and social pressure can lead to overprotectiveness or harsh expectations, diverting from the aim of providing a safe and supportive environment. Peer pressure and societal expectations can push parents to enforce standards that may not necessarily benefit their children but are pursued to fit a perceived norm. Recognizing that deviations from instinctual behavior often stem from external pressures rather than personal failings can help address these issues more effectively.Acknowledging these influences can lead to better support and understanding, enabling parents to provide the protection and nurturing their children need.

    Beyond Words

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 1:28


    As a parent to an 8-year-old autistic son, every milestone, no matter how small, feels like a monumental achievement. Recently, my son began to speak simple words while this progress is significant, it does not fully encompass his communication capabilities. His ability to communicate extends far beyond verbal expression, encompassing gestures, indications, expressions, and a myriad of other forms of non-verbal communication. This realization has profoundly shaped our approach to parenting and caregiving, creating a world of opportunities and possibilities for him and our entire family.My son's speech level, characterized by simple words, is just one aspect of his rich and multifaceted communication repertoire. His non-verbal cues—such as gestures, facial expressions, and other indications—speak volumes about his needs, feelings, and thoughts.As his primary caregiver, along with my parents, we have made it our mission to embrace and understand my son's unique way of communicating. This acceptance has been pivotal in fostering a nurturing environment where he feels heard and valued. Our approach involves several key principles:Active Observation: Understanding my son's non-verbal communication requires active observation. This attentiveness allows us to respond appropriately and meet his requirements effectively.Encouraging Expression: We encourage my son to express himself in any way he feels comfortable. Whether it's through gestures, expressions, or other non-verbal means, we validate his attempts to communicate.Consistent Engagement: Regular and consistent engagement with my son is crucial. By spending quality time with him, we build a deeper connection and a better understanding of his communication style.Creating a Supportive Environment: A supportive and understanding environment is essential for my son's development. We ensure that our home is a safe space where he can express himself freely without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.

    Supportive Environment

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 1:27


    Creating an environment that fosters personal growth is crucial for psychological and emotional development. As McLeod (2014) highlights, such an environment must provide individuals with genuineness, acceptance, and empathy. Genuineness involves openness and self-disclosure, creating a space where individuals can be authentic without fear of judgment. Acceptance means being seen with unconditional positive regard, allowing individuals to feel valued and respected regardless of their flaws. Empathy, the act of being listened to and understood, helps individuals feel connected and supported.Without these core components, individuals may struggle to advance psychologically and emotionally. They might find it challenging to form satisfying relationships or achieve self-fulfillment. In the context of supporting the mental health of working parents of special needs children, these principles are particularly relevant. Providing such an environment can help these parents cope with their unique challenges, fostering resilience and well-being.In summary, creating an environment characterized by genuineness, acceptance, and empathy is essential for personal growth. As McLeod (2014) asserts, without such an environment, individuals may not reach their full psychological and emotional potential.

    Cricket

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 1:29


    Coaches and senior players provide guidance and mentorship to help less experienced players develop their skills and confidence. Similarly, parents act as mentors to their children, offering wisdom, support, and encouragement to help them navigate life's challenges and opportunities.A successful cricket team requires careful delegation, training, and preparation. Each player has a unique role, whether as a batsman, bowler, or fielder, and they must work together cohesively. Similarly, in parenting, creating a nurturing environment is akin to forming a well-prepared team. Each family member has distinct roles and responsibilities, and parents must guide and support their children to develop their individual skills and strengths.In cricket, each ball in an over has its own significance. Regardless of whether the previous ball resulted in a wicket, a boundary, or a dot ball, the next delivery presents a fresh opportunity for both the bowler and the batsman. The bowler must focus on delivering a well-aimed ball, and the batsman must concentrate on making the best possible play. Each ball is a chance to influence the game and requires full attention and strategy. Similarly, in parenting, each day brings unique situations and challenges. Regardless of what happened the previous day, whether it was a day of achievements or difficulties, today is a new opportunity for both the parent and the child. Each situation must be approached with a fresh perspective and importance. Parents must be present and attentive, ready to provide support and guidance tailored to the moment. Each day is a chance to positively influence a child's growth and development.Celebrating victories and analyzing defeats are essential parts of cricket. Teams celebrate their wins and reflect on their losses to improve future performances. Similarly, celebrating milestones and reflecting on experiences help families grow stronger. Acknowledging achievements and learning from mistakes allows parents and children to continually improve their relationships and approaches.#asd #autism #parenting #parents #cricket #cricketlover #kid #kids #child #baby #ipl #ipl2024 #reelitfeelit

    Homework!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 1:28


    Homework plays a crucial role in the educational development of all children, including those with special needs. For kids in general, homework reinforces lessons learned in school, providing opportunities to practice and solidify newly acquired knowledge and skills. This repetition is key to deepening understanding and retention, helping to bridge the gap between theoretical learning and practical application. It encourages students to independently engage with the material, fostering critical thinking and problem-solving abilities outside of the classroom setting. Moreover, completing homework assignments cultivates a sense of responsibility and discipline, teaching children valuable time management skills early on.For special needs children, homework serves additional important purposes. It offers structured practice that is tailored to their individual learning needs and abilities, reinforcing concepts in a manner that accommodates their specific challenges. Even if a child requires more time to complete assignments, the act of sitting down and working through the tasks extends their concentration and attention span, which are vital skills for academic and personal development. This extended sitting time can contribute positively to their overall ability to focus and engage in tasks, gradually improving their academic performance and self-confidence. Furthermore, homework provides an opportunity for parents and educators to monitor progress, identify areas needing extra support, and adapt teaching strategies accordingly, ensuring continuous growth and development. Thus, for both typical and special needs children, homework plays a pivotal role in enhancing learning outcomes and preparing them for future academic challenges.#asd #autism #autismparent #parenting #dad #fathersday #fatherhood #reelitfeelit #child #kid #kids #parents #mother #father #dadlife

    Lessons I learnt

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 1:28


    Usually, grown-ups teach children, but often, children have lessons to offer back to their parents, caregivers, and elders. When it comes to children with special needs, learning patience is a universal experience for all caregivers and parents. This is something I also learned while working with my son.My son has taught me to be present in the moment and to live it to the fullest. The past is unchangeable, and the future is uncertain, so worrying about them is unnecessary. Embracing the present is what truly matters in life.I once had expectations, aspirations, and dreams, but I realized these were my limitations. My son gave me the courage, strength, and power to break free from these constraints and explore beyond the boundaries of my aspirations and expectations. This discovery helped me unlock an endless potential that lies beyond those limits. Through my special child, I have found peace and love.

    The Waiting Lounge

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 1:33


    The “waiting room experiment,” a social experiment conducted by a hidden camera show called “What Would You Do?” or similar social psychology experiments. In this scenario, A waiting room is arranged with several actors posing as regular people waiting for an appointment. These actors are instructed to stand up every time a bell rings. At intervals, a bell sounds, prompting the actors to stand up briefly and then sit back down on next bell sound. An unsuspecting person enters the waiting room and sits among the actors. After witnessing the repeated behavior of standing up with the bell's ringing, the unsuspecting participant often begins to mimic the actions of the group, standing up when the bell rings without understanding why?Even if all the actors eventually leave the room, the unsuspecting participant typically continues the behavior of standing up when the bell rings, demonstrating the power of social influence and conformity.Similarly, parents often might feel pressured to mimic the parenting styles they observe in others, even if those styles don't align with their values or their child's needs. Effective parenting requires understanding one's child, recognizing their unique needs, and making intentional decisions based on this understanding, rather than following others blindly.Parenting should be a journey of personal growth for parents. It's about evolving, learning from experiences, and adapting one's approach to meet the changing needs of the child.Parenting should avoid the pitfalls of mimicking others without understanding. Instead, it should be about developing a deep connection with one's child, continually learning and growing as a parent, and making thoughtful, informed decisions that best support the child's development. This approach fosters a more authentic and effective parenting style, tailored to the unique dynamics of each family.

    Experiences Matter

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 1:29


    Exposing children on the autism spectrum to various experiences can play a crucial role in reducing hypersensitivity towards textures. Here's why it's important:1. Sensory Integration: Children with autism often struggle with sensory integration, where their brains have difficulty processing and organizing sensory information. By exposing them to different textures in a controlled and supportive environment, they can gradually learn to integrate and adapt to these sensations.2. Desensitization: Experiencing different textures helps desensitize children to the ones they find aversive or overwhelming. Through repeated exposure, they can become more tolerant and less reactive to textures that once caused distress.3. Enhanced Tolerance: Exposure to a variety of textures fosters tolerance and flexibility. It teaches children that different sensations are part of everyday life and encourages them to approach new experiences with curiosity rather than fear or avoidance.4. Functional Skills Development: Learning to tolerate various textures is essential for developing everyday functional skills. Whether it's dressing themselves, engaging in play activities, or eating a diverse diet, children with autism need to be comfortable with different textures to navigate daily life independently.Giving experiences that expose children on the autism spectrum to various textures is essential for their sensory development, social inclusion, and overall quality of life. It fosters tolerance, independence, and self-confidence, laying the foundation for their success and happiness in the long term.

    Arranging Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2024 1:28


    Organizing our thoughts is akin to organizing our wardrobe—a concept that parallels the physical realm with the intangible realm of the mind. Just as a cluttered wardrobe can impede our ability to find what we need, a cluttered mind can hinder our progress and well-being. In this discourse, we'll delve into the significance of mental organization, drawing parallels between tidying up our thoughts and tidying up our physical space.Our minds are constantly bombarded with a myriad of thoughts, emotions, and stimuli. Like items jumbled together in a disorganized wardrobe, these thoughts can become tangled and overwhelming if left unchecked. Negative thoughts, in particular, can linger and weigh us down, much like old and unworn clothes taking up valuable space. Just as we periodically declutter our physical space to create room for new and useful items, we must declutter our minds to make space for positive and constructive thoughts.Removing thoughts that trouble us is akin to purging our wardrobe of items that no longer serve us. Holding onto negative thoughts from the past can hinder our present and future progress. By letting go of these thoughts, we free ourselves from their burden and create space for new possibilities. This process requires introspection and self-awareness—the ability to identify which thoughts are holding us back and consciously choose to release them.Organizing our thoughts is essential for personal growth, success, and well-being. By decluttering our minds, categorizing our thoughts, and cultivating a positive mindset, we create space for new possibilities and opportunities. The analogy of arranging a wardrobe underscores the transformative power of intentional action and highlights the ongoing nature of mental organization. By harnessing the power of our thoughts, we can chart a course towards a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

    Masking

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 1:29


    When we're kids, we want to be loved and accepted by the people around us—our family, friends, and teachers. Sometimes, to get this love and attention, we do things we think will make others happy or impress them. For example, we might tell jokes, try to be good at sports, or do what others want us to do, even if it doesn't feel quite right for us. This is like wearing a mask; we're not showing who we truly are inside, but we're trying to be who others want us to be.As we grow up, we might continue to wear these masks to get approval or praise from others. We might focus on being what others expect instead of being ourselves. But the truth is, we're already enough just as we are. We don't have to pretend to be someone else to be loved or accepted. We should try to embrace who we truly are and not worry so much about always pleasing others.

    Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 1:26


    Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID) is a fairly new eating disorder. Children with ARFID are extremely selective eaters and sometimes have little interest in eating food. They may eat a limited variety of preferred foods, which can lead to poor growth and poor nutrition.ARFID usually starts at younger ages than other eating disorders and is more common in boys.Kids with ARFID fall within three main categories:1. Some kids are very selective eaters who may have strong negative reactions to smells, tastes, textures, or colors of foods. They may be highly fearful of new foods, called “neophobia,” and scared of negative experiences related to unfamiliar foods.2. Some kids may have an overall lack of interest in eating and have a very low appetite or find eating minimally rewarding or not at all. These kids often deny feeling hungry.3. Other kids are afraid of what might happen when they eat; for example, experiencing pain, choking, or vomiting.ARFID is linked to strong emotions and worries around food. Be supportive and encourage positive attitudes about exercise and nutrition at home. Try these tips:Be a role model. Serve and eat a variety of foods.Schedule regular meals and snacks.Have regular family meals. Keep the mood at the table pleasant and avoid struggles during mealtimes.Encourage your child to try new foods, but do not force them to eat.Reward positive eating behaviors.Find ways to manage anxiety and stress around food. Taking a couple of deep breaths can help your child relax. Yoga, meditation, music, art, dance, writing, or talking to a friend can help manage stress.Stay calm and avoid blaming or criticizing your child for their eating struggles.

    Embracing Individuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 1:28


    In our daily lives, we often adhere to structured schedules and routines, finding comfort and efficiency in the predictability they provide. Disruptions to these routines can evoke feelings of irritation or frustration, as we prefer the stability and familiarity of our established patterns. Similarly, children, especially those on the autism spectrum, often exhibit heightened sensitivity towards disruptions in their routines. For them, deviations from their expected schedule or unexpected changes can trigger feelings of distress, leading to expressions of frustration or anger.Parents of children on the autism spectrum may sometimes find themselves at odds with their child's reactions to schedule disruptions. While they may feel that their own frustrations are justified, it's crucial for parents to recognize and respect their child's unique needs and sensitivities. Understanding and acceptance of the child's individuality are paramount in fostering a supportive environment for their growth and well-being.In such situations, patience emerges as a fundamental virtue. Instead of reacting with frustration or attempting to impose rigidity onto the child's behavior, parents can cultivate patience and empathy. By acknowledging and validating their child's feelings, parents can help them navigate through moments of upheaval with greater ease.One effective strategy that I employ is ‘diversion'. By redirecting my son's attention towards activities, he enjoys, such as reading poems or engaging in other preferred activities, I try to provide a constructive outlet for his emotions. This not only helps to diffuse tension but also reinforces positive coping mechanisms for handling disruptions to routine.#autism #asd #autismawareness #parenting #autismacceptance #autismcommunity #supportingautism #understandingautism #inclusiveparenting #kid #kids #child #children #autismmom #autismdad #dad #son #parentingtips #parent #motherhood #reels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #reelitfeelit #latest #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow

    Proud Parent

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 1:27


    As a devoted single father to my autistic child, I am frequently asked about how I show my love and support for him. I confidently affirm that his autism diagnosis has not altered the deep bond we share. I embrace his condition with understanding and recognize that he may require additional assistance, but I am not resigned to simply accepting limitations. Instead, I actively engage in his growth and development, guiding him towards progress while also making tough parenting choices that involve stepping back to encourage his independence. By striking a balance between providing support and fostering self-reliance, I aim to empower him to navigate challenges with confidence and resilience.Please like share and comment for better reach.#kid #kids #child #children #childrens #baby #babyboy #babygirl #autismmom #most #autismdad #trending #parenting #parentingtips #reels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #reelitfeelit #latest #autismfamily #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #autism #autismawareness #asd #autismwarrior

    Managing Travel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 1:28


    Traveling with kids with special needs requires careful planning and preparation to ensure a smooth and comfortable journey. Here are some helpful tips for managing travel with kids with special needs:1. Keep cold milk fresh: Carry fridge-cold milk in a heat-resistant flask to ensure it stays fresh and at the right temperature for your child.2. Pack fridge-cold food: Prepare and pack meals like Khichdi, daal-rice, or other favorite dishes that your child enjoys eating. Keeping the food cold will help maintain its freshness during the journey.3. Portable heating cup: Invest in a portable heating cup that can quickly heat up milk, food, or cook quick oats on-the-go. This handy device can be a lifesaver, especially when traveling by train or in places where access to a kitchen is limited.4. Convenience during travel: Having these essential items on hand can make traveling with kids with special needs much easier for you and your family. It eliminates the need to rely on external sources for food or heating facilities, giving you peace of mind during the journey.By following these travel management tips, you can ensure that your child's dietary needs are met, and you can focus on enjoying the journey together as a family. #kid #kids #child #children #childrens #baby #babyboy #babygirl #babyswag #most #loved #trending #parenting #parentingtips #reels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #motherhood #today #travel #travelwithkids #travelwithbaby

    Happiness comes in all sizes

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2024 1:28


    Celebrating moments, regardless of their size or significance, holds profound importance in our lives. Each passing second presents an opportunity to embrace the present and cherish the joys it brings. Often, we find ourselves caught up in the pursuit of grand achievements, waiting for significant milestones to validate our happiness. However, happiness is not solely found in monumental events; it exists in the small, fleeting moments that make up our everyday experiences.Living in the present moment allows us to fully immerse ourselves in the richness of life. It enables us to appreciate the beauty that surrounds us and find contentment in the here and now. By embracing the present, we free ourselves from the burdens of the past and the anxieties of the future. Instead of dwelling on what could have been or what might be, we focus our energy on making the most of the present moment, relishing the experiences it has to offer.Happiness comes in all shapes and sizes, and it is essential not to overlook the smaller joys in anticipation of grander ones. Oftentimes, we fall into the trap of waiting for significant milestones—a promotion, a vacation, or a major life event—to experience true happiness. However, by doing so, we risk missing out on the countless small moments of joy that occur in between. Whether it's the simple pleasure of a quiet evening spent reading a book or the satisfaction of completing a mundane task, these small moments add up to create a tapestry of happiness in our lives.It's important to recognize that happiness is not a destination to be reached but rather a journey to be embraced. Instead of constantly striving for bigger and better things, we must learn to find happiness in the present moment, regardless of its size or significance. By cultivating gratitude for the small joys in life, we develop a deeper appreciation for the richness of our experiences and a greater sense of fulfillment overall. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/happily.single.dad/ Podcasts : Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0bnbRruLs1jiEczCJdlMcQ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/autism-and-parenting/id1702457100 Google - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9lNzNjNzZlYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw Amazon Music - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/27d7cae7-937c-4457-a8c6-a2c7bf85b66f/autism-and-parenting

    Family Normalization

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 1:29


    Family normalization, akin to the phenomenon of an employee making more mistakes when the manager yells at them, reflects a critical aspect of familial dynamics. When parents resort to yelling as a means of discipline or communication, the parallel to a manager's outburst becomes evident. Just as the employee's productivity dwindles under the pressure of verbal reprimand, children's behavior often worsens in response to parental yelling. This correlation underscores the importance of understanding the impact of one's tone and demeanor within the family unit. Over time, children internalize yelling as the normalized mode of interaction within the family, leading to desensitization to its effects and diminishing responsiveness to calmer approaches. Much like an employee who becomes immune to constant admonishment, children may stop heeding their parents' guidance when delivered in a normal tone.To break this cycle, parents must recognize their role in perpetuating this normalized behavior and initiate the necessary changes within themselves. Shifting away from yelling towards more constructive and empathetic forms of communication is imperative for fostering a healthier family environment. By modeling patience, understanding, and respect, parents can gradually reshape the dynamics within the household, promoting active listening and mutual respect. Ultimately, the transformation begins with the parents' willingness to reflect on their own behavior and enact meaningful changes, thereby nurturing a family culture built on trust, support, and effective communication.In essence, family normalization is not an immutable phenomenon but rather a dynamic process shaped by conscious choices and intentional actions. By recognizing the profound influence of their behavior on the family dynamic, parents hold the key to effecting positive change and fostering a culture of respect, understanding, and unconditional love.

    Hindi Writing

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2024 1:29


    Hindi alphabets can be complex, with many being combinations of others. To simplify Hindi writing for special kids, it's best to start with the simpler alphabets. The sequence of learning the alphabets is not as important as focusing on the child's ability to recognize and write them. Here are a few suggestions to make it easier for special kids: 1. Begin with basic alphabets: Start with the simpler and more commonly used alphabets, These alphabets have simpler shapes and are easier to learn. 2. Break down complex alphabets: When introducing complex alphabets, break them down into their constituent parts. 3. Visual aids and mnemonics: Utilize visual aids, such as flashcards or posters, to help children associate the shape of each alphabet with a familiar object or image. Mnemonics, like associating ब with a ball, can also aid in memorization. 4. Practice and repetition: Provide ample opportunities for practice and repetition. Encourage children to trace and write each alphabet multiple times to reinforce their learning. 5. Engaging activities: Make learning fun by incorporating interactive activities. For instance, ask children to identify and write specific alphabets in a word search or play alphabet matching games. 6. Patience and positive reinforcement: Be patient and offer positive reinforcement to motivate and encourage the child's progress. Celebrate their achievements and provide constructive feedback to help them improve. Remember, every child learns at their own pace, so adapt these strategies to suit their specific needs and abilities. The primary focus should be on developing their writing skills, rather than rigidly following the sequence of alphabets.

    Forgiveness

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 1:26


    I understand that you are expressing a sentiment of forgiveness. Forgiveness is a powerful act of letting go of resentment or anger towards someone who has caused harm or hurt. It can bring peace and healing to both the person who forgives and the person who is forgiven. If there is a specific situation or person you are referring to, it may be helpful to have open and honest communication to address any underlying issues and work towards reconciliation. Remember that forgiveness is a personal choice and process, and it can take time.

    Mood and Behaviour

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2024 1:29


    Mood swings are a natural part of human emotions, and while they are commonly associated with adults, it is important to recognize that children also experience fluctuations in their moods. Understanding how mood and behavior are linked in children is crucial for parents and caregivers in order to provide proper support and guidance. It is essential to recognize that a child's behavior can be influenced by their mood, and that the underlying reasons for their behavior may differ from those of adults.Children, just like adults, can experience mood swings. These fluctuations in mood can be influenced by various factors, including biological, environmental, and psychological elements. It is important to remember that children are still developing emotionally and may struggle to regulate their emotions effectively. As a result, their moods can change rapidly, leading to corresponding changes in their behavior.A child's behavior is closely tied to their mood. When children experience negative emotions such as frustration, sadness, or anger, it can manifest in their behavior. They may become irritable, withdrawn, or exhibit challenging behaviors as a way to express their emotions. Conversely, when a child is in a positive mood, they are more likely to engage in cooperative and pleasant behaviors.It is essential to look beyond the surface-level behavior and try to understand the root cause. Factors such as stress, fatigue, hunger, or changes in routine can significantly impact a child's mood, thereby influencing their behavior. By identifying and addressing these underlying causes, parents can help children manage their emotions more effectively and exhibit more positive behaviors.

    Don't seek assurance!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 1:29


    In the animal kingdom, the African impala stands out for its remarkable ability to jump long distances of up to 10 meters and heights of 2-3 meters. However, despite their physical prowess, these agile creatures can be found obediently confined within the boundaries of a zoo. Surprisingly, it is not a physical barrier that restrains them, but rather a psychological one. A mere 1.5-meter wall prevents them from seeing beyond their immediate surroundings, instilling a fear of the unknown that keeps them within their limited space. This parallel between African impalas and parents is a powerful reminder of the importance of overcoming fear and allowing children to explore beyond their comfort zones.Fear is a natural instinct that can often hold us back from embracing growth and new experiences. Similarly, parents may find themselves grappling with fear when it comes to allowing their children to venture beyond what is familiar and safe. However, just as the impalas are confined by their inability to see beyond the wall, children can be limited by overprotective parenting. It is crucial for parents to recognize that while their intentions are rooted in love and concern, shielding children from discomfort and challenges can hinder their personal development. By stepping back and allowing children to face and overcome obstacles, parents empower them to build resilience, adaptability, and problem-solving skills.The discomfort and unease that come with stepping out of one's comfort zone are essential for personal growth, parents who shield their children from risks and discomfort may inadvertently impede their emotional and intellectual growth. It is through exposure to new environments, diverse perspectives, and challenging situations that children develop crucial life skills such as independence, adaptability, and critical thinking. By encouraging children to explore beyond what is familiar, parents equip them with the tools necessary to navigate a rapidly changing world.

    Ego Vs Conscious Support

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 1:29


    As parents, it is essential to recognize and acknowledge the difference between our ego and our role in supporting the individual development of our children. Our ego often seeks control, wanting our children to fulfill our desires, expectations, or aspirations. However, this control can hinder their growth and hinder their ability to discover their unique path.To avoid falling prey to the control we seek, we must first cultivate self-awareness and reflect on our motivations and intentions. Are we making decisions for our children based on their best interests or to satisfy our ego? It is crucial to separate our desires and ambitions from the genuine needs and desires of our children.Embracing our children's individuality means allowing them the freedom to explore their interests, make their own choices, and learn from their own experiences. It requires us to step back and provide guidance and support rather than imposing our will upon them.We must understand that our children have their strengths, weaknesses, and unique qualities that make them who they are. It is important to nurture their individuality, encourage their passions, and celebrate their achievements, even if they may differ from our expectations.By letting go of control, we create an environment that fosters independence, resilience, and self-confidence in our children. They learn to trust their judgment, make decisions, and take responsibility for their actions. This empowers them to develop a strong sense of self and the ability to navigate life's challenges.

    Patience and Consistency

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 1:28


    In the pursuit of physical fitness, many individuals join gyms and adhere to strict dieting regimens. However, achieving desired results in fitness requires two crucial factors: the individual's current situation and their consistency in following prescribed routines. It is important to recognize that immediate results are not observed on day one or during the initial weeks or months. Instead, progress occurs gradually over time. This principle applies to both physical fitness journeys and therapy for children with special needs, where the effectiveness of interventions depends on early initiation and consistent adherence.Early intervention is crucial for children with special needs. By identifying and addressing their unique needs at an early stage, therapists can implement appropriate therapies to enhance their development. Early initiation provides a foundation for progress and maximizes the potential for positive outcomes in the long run.Real progress lies in the consistent effort and dedication put into following prescribed routines. Similarly, regular engagement in therapy allows kids to build upon their skills, gradually improving their abilities and overcoming challenges. Through repeated practice and reinforcement, these children can achieve significant milestones and reach their full potential.Patience is essential, as parents, caregivers, and therapists need to trust the process and remain committed to the long-term goals. Small steps forward, even if seemingly insignificant at first, eventually lead to significant advancements.Setbacks and challenges are inevitable; seeking guidance from professionals, reassessing goals, and making necessary adjustments can help individuals overcome setbacks and continue their path toward success. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/happily.single.dad/ Podcasts : Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0bnbRruLs1jiEczCJdlMcQ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/autism-and-parenting/id1702457100 Google - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9lNzNjNzZlYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/27d7cae7-937c-4457-a8c6-a2c7bf85b66f/autism-and-parenting #reels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #kid #kids #child #children #childrens #baby #babyboy #babygirl #babyswag #most #loved #mother #father #parentingtips #parenting

    Give wholeheartedly!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2023 1:28


    Once upon a time, there were two children happily playing together. One child had a bag of toffees, while the other had a collection of marbles. They agreed to exchange their treats, hoping to enjoy a variety of goodies.As they made the trade, the child with the toffees decided to keep a few hidden in his pocket, only handing over the majority to the other child in exchange for the marbles. However, the child who had hidden the toffees couldn't find peace in his heart. He couldn't sleep soundly, plagued by the thought that the other child might have done the same and kept some marbles hidden.On the other hand, the child who had given away the marbles felt a sense of contentment and was able to peacefully drift off to sleep. This story teaches us a valuable lesson - when we wholeheartedly give our best, without holding anything back, we experience a deep sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/happily.single.dad/ Podcasts : Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0bnbRruLs1jiEczCJdlMcQ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/autism-and-parenting/id1702457100 Google - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9lNzNjNzZlYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/27d7cae7-937c-4457-a8c6-a2c7bf85b66f/autism-and-parenting#reels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #instagood #kid #kids #child #children #childrens #baby #babyboy #babygirl #babyswag #most #loved #mother #father #parenting #parentingtips #watch #family

    Directing your life!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 1:25


    Once upon a time, a wise teacher stood before his students and posed a thought-provoking question, “Out of these ten dogs, which one do you think will become the strongest?” The students pondered for a moment and then replied – “The one fed well.”The teacher acknowledged their insight and proceeded to draw a parallel between this scenario and the challenges we encounter in life. He explained that just as these dogs symbolize situations, feelings, and incidents, our lives are influenced by what we choose to nourish and empower.The teacher further elaborated by drawing an analogy with a sled being pulled by a team of dogs. He emphasized that our lives are akin to that sled, and the dogs represent the various aspects that drive and guide us. The stronger and more dominant dog assumes the role of the leader, steering us in the direction we ultimately take.In light of this, the teacher encouraged his students to be mindful of the choices they make and the elements they nurture within themselves. By consciously feeding and strengthening positive qualities, such as determination, resilience, kindness, and perseverance, they would empower the dogs that would lead them toward success, happiness, and fulfillment.We have the power to choose which qualities, emotions, and situations we allow to shape our lives. Just as the strongest dog becomes the leader, giving directions to the sled, we must carefully select our leading dog, the dominant force within us, to ensure we are heading in the right direction.We need to understand the importance of making wise choices and nurturing positive aspects within ourselves. We need to have the awareness and readiness to embrace the responsibility for our own lives and carefully select the leading dog that would guide us toward a bright and fulfilling future. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/happily.single.dad/ Podcasts : Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0bnbRruLs1jiEczCJdlMcQ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/autism-and-parenting/id1702457100 Google - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9lNzNjNzZlYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/27d7cae7-937c-4457-a8c6-a2c7bf85b66f/autism-and-parenting #reels #instagram #trend #trendingreels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #bond #trendingsong #love #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #fatherhood #instagram #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #instagood #story #dogs #life #viral #leader #direction #instagram

    Self-Behavior and Choices

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 1:26


    At the core of any relationship lies a fundamental principle: the sense of responsibility towards our own behavior and the choices we make. Whether it is a romantic partnership, a friendship, or a familial bond, the success and longevity of any relationship hinge upon our ability to take ownership of our actions and decisions.Feeling responsible for our self-behavior means recognizing that our words and actions have an impact on those around us. It entails being mindful of how our behavior may influence the emotions and well-being of our loved ones. By taking responsibility for our actions, we acknowledge the power we hold in shaping the dynamics of the relationship. By taking responsibility for our choices, we demonstrate respect and concern for the mutual growth and happiness of the relationship.In a healthy relationship, a sense of responsibility fosters trust and accountability. It builds a solid foundation of open communication, where both parties can address concerns and conflicts with honesty and maturity. When everyone takes responsibility for their behavior and choices, it creates a harmonious environment where both partners feel heard, valued, and understood.However, it is important to note that responsibility in a relationship is not about shouldering blame or burden alone. It is a shared commitment to growth and mutual support. Each partner must be willing to acknowledge their own faults and shortcomings, while also being understanding and forgiving towards the other's imperfections.In conclusion, a successful relationship is built upon the bedrock of responsibility, both towards oneself and towards the choices made. It is about recognizing the impact of our behavior, taking ownership of our actions, and being accountable for the decisions we make. By embracing this sense of responsibility, we pave the way for trust, growth, and a deeper connection with our loved ones. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/happily.single.dad/ Podcasts : Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0bnbRruLs1jiEczCJdlMcQ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/autism-and-parenting/id1702457100 Google - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9lNzNjNzZlYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/27d7cae7-937c-4457-a8c6-a2c7bf85b66f/autism-and-parenting #reels #instagram #trend #trendingreels #viral #instatrending #love #trending #bond #trendingsong #love #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #fatherhood #instagram #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #instagood

    Words carry power!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 1:28


    According to Dr. Masaru Emoto's Rice Experiment, the power of words can have a profound impact on our surroundings. In this experiment, Dr. Emoto placed rice into three separate containers and labeled them with different words: first - Thankyou, second - You are an idiot, and the third one was completely ignored. Over time, he observed that the rice labeled with positive words showed signs of preservation, while the rice labeled with negative words began to turn black and the one, he ignored started to rot. This experiment suggests that our words carry energy and intention that can influence our environment. It reminds us of the immense power our words hold, not only in shaping our own thoughts and emotions but also in affecting the world around us. It emphasizes the importance of choosing our words carefully, as they have the potential to create either positive or negative outcomes. Ultimately, Dr. Emoto's Rice Experiment serves as a powerful reminder of the impact our words can have on ourselves and the world we inhabit.While Dr. Emoto's work may not directly address the impact of words on children, it does highlight the potential power of positive and negative energy in our surroundings. It serves as a reminder of the importance of fostering a positive and nurturing environment for children, where they are surrounded by uplifting words, thoughts, and intentions. Creating an atmosphere of love, encouragement, and support can contribute to a child's well-being, growth, and development.#reels #instagram #trend #trendingreels #viral #trendingsongs #dadson #sondad #son #instatrending #love #trending #bond #trendingsong #lovely #lovebond #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #fatherhood #instagram #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #asd #autism #instagood #experiment #reelitfeelit #reelsinstagram

    Happy kids vs. Messed up house

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 1:28


    Indeed, it is a privilege to have a house filled with the delightful mess created by children playing happily. The scattered toys, the finger-painted walls, and the joyful laughter are all evidence of a vibrant and nurturing environment. It signifies that children feel comfortable, free, and supported in their exploration and expression. This mess is a testament to their creativity, imagination, and ability to learn through play. It is a reminder that childhood is a time for unstructured fun and discovery. As adults, we should embrace and celebrate this mess, for it is a reflection of a child's happiness, growth, and development. It is a privilege to witness their joy and to provide them with a space where they can freely express themselves and develop into confident, independent individuals.When it comes to happy kids and a messy house, it's important to find a balance. While a messy house can be a sign of children's happiness and creativity, it's also crucial to maintain a clean and organized living space. Creating a designated play area where kids can freely explore and make a mess is a great solution. This allows them to enjoy their playtime while keeping the rest of the house tidy. Teaching children about responsibility and the importance of cleaning up after themselves can also help instill good habits. By setting boundaries and establishing routines, we can create an environment where both happy kids and a well-maintained home can coexist. Ultimately, it's about finding harmony between allowing children to express their joy and ensuring that the living space remains functional and inviting for the entire family.#reels #instagram #trend #trendingreels #viral #trendingsongs #dadson #sondad #son #instatrending #love #trending #bond #trendingsong #lovely #lovebond #reelitfeelit #latest #explore #fatherhood #instagram #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #asd #autism #instagood

    Sharpen your pencil!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 1:18


    Sharpening a pencil serves as a powerful metaphor for understanding children's learning behavior and the significance of relationships in their development. Just as a dull pencil hinders the ability to create precise and clear lines, an unsharpened approach to learning can limit a child's potential. By engaging in activities that sharpen their skills and knowledge, children can unlock their full potential. Moreover, just as a pencil sharpener is needed to create a sharp point, positive relationships with parents, teachers, and peers are essential for a child's growth. These relationships provide the support, guidance, and encouragement that children need to thrive academically and socially. They help children develop confidence, resilience, and a sense of belonging, enabling them to explore, take risks, and learn from their experiences. By recognizing the importance of both sharpening their learning skills and nurturing meaningful relationships, children can embark on a journey of lifelong learning and personal growth.#reels #instagram #trend #trendingreels #viral #trendingsongs #dadson #sondad #son #dad #love #compassion #trust #bond #bondoflove #lovely #lovebond #reelitfeelit #latest #father #fatherhood #parent #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #asd #autism #instagood

    Self-Perfection

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2023 1:28


    Perfection starts from within oneself- Absolutely! It is important to understand that perfection is not about being flawless or without any faults. Instead, it is about embracing our imperfections, recognizing our strengths and weaknesses, and continuously striving to improve and grow.To achieve personal perfection, we need to focus on self-awareness and self-acceptance. This involves acknowledging our strengths, celebrating our accomplishments, and being kind to ourselves when we make mistakes. It is through self-reflection and self-improvement that we can refine our skills, learn from our experiences, and develop a deeper understanding of ourselves.Perfection is not an endpoint but rather a lifelong pursuit. It is about embracing our uniqueness, staying true to ourselves, and continuously striving to be the best version of ourselves.When we achieve a sense of personal perfection, it often leads to a shift in how we perceive others. By recognizing and accepting our own imperfections, we become more understanding and compassionate towards the imperfections of others. We develop the ability to see the beauty and strengths in others, rather than focusing on their flaws.Additionally, when we have reached a level of personal perfection, we understand that everyone has their own journey and struggles. We learn to be mindful of not embarrassing or shaming others for their imperfections. Instead, we choose to uplift and support them, helping them grow and improve in their own unique ways.Remember that perfection is subjective and that each person has their own definition of it. By focusing on personal growth and self-acceptance, we create an environment of empathy and understanding, allowing us to see and appreciate the perfection in others, even amidst their imperfections.#reels #instagram #trend #trendingreels #viral #trendingsongs #dadson #sondad #son #dad #love #care #trust #bond #bondoflove #lovely #lovebond #reelitfeelit #latest #father #fatherhood #parent #parenting #viralvideos #viralreels #trendingnow #trendingvideos #asd #autism #ınstagood

    Serve and Return

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2023 1:22


    The early stages of a child's life are crucial for their overall growth and development. During this period, children learn and develop rapidly, forming the foundation for their future physical, cognitive, and social-emotional development. One of the most effective ways to support and enhance this development is through connecting, engaging, and playing with kids.1. Connection: Connecting with children in their early stages is vital as it fosters a strong bond and sense of security. This connection forms the basis for trust and emotional well-being, which are crucial for a child's healthy development.2. Engagement: Engaging with children in meaningful activities stimulates their curiosity, creativity, and cognitive abilities. Through engaging interactions, children develop important cognitive skills such as problem-solving, critical thinking, and decision-making. Engaging activities can include storytelling, reading, puzzles, arts and crafts, and age-appropriate games. These activities not only promote cognitive development but also enhance language skills, motor skills, and social interaction.3. Play: Play is the natural language of children, and it plays a fundamental role in their development. Play provides opportunities for children to explore their surroundings, develop their imagination, and learn important social skills. It allows them to experiment, take risks, and make sense of the world around them.4. Language and Communication: Conversations, storytelling, and reading aloud expose children to a wide range of vocabulary, sentence structures, and language patterns. Engaging in pretend play and role-playing activities further enhance their language skills as they engage in dialogue and express themselves.Link - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aISXCw0Pi94&t=378s#nailstagram #petstagram #bookstagram #viralvideos #viralreels #mathiassantourian #trendingreels #trendingnow #trendingsongs #trendingvideos #facebook #face #comedy #comment #asd #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #parenting #dadson #sondad #autismsupport #autismadvocate #trending #instagood

    Parenting is not a relentless pursuit

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 1:27


    In today's fast-paced world, it is easy to get caught up in the mindset of constant competition and comparison. We often feel the need to measure our parenting skills against others or strive to achieve certain milestones at a specific pace. However, I want to emphasize that parenting is a unique journey, and each child and family is different. Parenting should not be treated as a race where we constantly strive to be the best or compare ourselves to others. Each child is different and has unique needs, talents, and strengths. It is important to create a nurturing environment that supports their individual growth and development.Instead of being caught up in the rat race mentality, we should focus on building strong connections with our children. Quality time, open communication, and positive interactions are key to fostering healthy relationships.Parenting is not about winning or achieving certain milestones before others. It is about being present and responsive to our children's needs and helping them become confident and resilient individuals.We should also remember that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. What works for one family may not work for another. It is important to trust our instincts and make decisions based on the unique needs of our children and family dynamics.By shifting our mindset away from competition and comparison, we can create a more balanced and fulfilling parenting experience. Let's prioritize love, support, and understanding, and embrace the joy and challenges that come with raising children.As parents, it is crucial to prioritize our own well-being. Taking care of ourselves allows us to be present and engaged with our children. Remember to practice self-care, set boundaries, and seek support when needed.#nailstagram #petstagram #bookstagram #viralvideos #viralreels #mathiassantourian #trendingreels #trendingnow #trendingsongs #trendingvideos #facebook #face #comedy #comment #asd #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #parenting #dadson #sondad #autismsupport #autismadvocate #trending #insta #dailyinsta #latest #reel #ad

    Self-Discipline

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 1:27


    Living life with discipline can be incredibly beneficial for personal growth, productivity, and overall well-being. Define what you want to achieve and set specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals. Having a clear direction will help you stay focused and motivated.Establish a daily routine that includes regular habits and activities. This helps create structure and consistency in your life, making it easier to stay disciplined.Identify your priorities and allocate your time accordingly. Use time management techniques like creating to-do lists, setting deadlines, and avoiding procrastination to stay on track.Develop the ability to resist immediate gratification and make choices aligned with your long-term goals. This might involve saying no to distractions, temptations, or unhealthy habits.When faced with a large or challenging task, break it down into smaller, more manageable steps. This makes it easier to act and maintain momentum.Find ways to stay motivated and inspired. Set rewards for achieving milestones, surround yourself with supportive people, or seek out motivational resources like books, podcasts, or videos.Taking care of your physical and mental well-being is essential for maintaining discipline. Get enough sleep, eat nutritious food, exercise regularly, and make time for activities that recharge and rejuvenate you.Accept that setbacks and failures are a part of the learning process. Instead of getting discouraged, use them as opportunities to learn, grow, and adjust your approach.Discipline is about consistent action. Aim to develop habits and behaviors that align with your goals and practice them consistently, even on days when motivation is low.Remember, discipline is a skill that can be developed over time with practice and perseverance. Start small, be patient with yourself, and celebrate your progress along the way.#asd #autism #autismawareness #parenting #dadson #sondad #autismacceptance #autismmom #autismdad #parentingtips #jaishreeram #jaishrikrishna #jaimahakal #om #love #care #selflove #selfcare #discipline #life #insta #instadaily #trending #ad

    Be your child's advocate

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2023 1:28


    When someone labels or makes assumptions about your child based on their disability, it can be challenging to address the situation effectively. As a parent/caregiver, it is important to correct them as their remarks and your silence might adversely affect the child.Educate them: Politely and calmly explain to the person that their assumption or label is incorrect or based on misconceptions. Share factual information about your child's abilities and strengths.Advocate: Emphasize the importance of seeing your child as an individual with unique qualities, talents, and potential. Encourage the person to focus on your child's abilities rather than their disability.Share experiences: If comfortable, share personal experiences or stories that challenge stereotypes and misconceptions about individuals with disabilities. This can help to broaden the person's understanding and perspective.Set boundaries: If the labeling or assumptions persist, assertively communicate your discomfort and ask the person to refrain from making such comments or assumptions. It is essential to advocate for your child's dignity and respect.Seek support: Reach out to support groups, disability advocacy organizations, or professionals who can provide guidance and advice on how to handle such situations effectively.Remember, it may not always be possible to change someone's perspective or behavior. Still, by advocating for your child and promoting understanding, you can help create a more inclusive and accepting environment.#asd #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #parenting #proudparent #dadson #sondad #autismindia #neurodiversity #autismcommunity #autismsupport #autismadvocate #trending #love #care #compassion #insta #dailyinsta #latest #jaishrikrishna #jaishriram #jaimahakal #parentingtips #reel #parent #dotingdad #autismmom #autismdad #singleparent

    Assuming wrongness

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 1:28


    It is unfortunate that some people may make assumptions or hold misconceptions about disabled individuals, including children. These assumptions can stem from a lack of understanding or exposure to disabilities. However, it is important to challenge such assumptions and promote awareness and acceptance.Every person, regardless of their abilities, deserves respect, understanding, and equal opportunities. It is crucial to focus on a person's strengths, capabilities, and potential rather than solely on their disabilities. By promoting inclusivity, educating others about disabilities, and advocating for equal treatment, we can help combat these assumptions and create a more inclusive and accepting society.If you or someone you know is facing assumptions or discrimination due to a disability, it may be helpful to seek support from disability advocacy organizations, disability rights groups, or educational resources that promote understanding and inclusivity.#asd #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #parenting #proudparent #dadson #sondad #autismindia #neurodiversity #autismcommunity #autismsupport #autismadvocate #trending #love #care #compassion #insta #dailyinsta #instagram #latest #jaishrikrishna #jaishriram #jaimahakal #parentingtips #reel #parent #dotingdad #autismmom #autismdad

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