Positively Uncensored

Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse, Intimate Partner Violence, DVAs I finished this emotionally and spiritually draining documentary - two quotes kept ringing in my head: "That's how I got famous - from a tragedy". Of course this tragedy, where nine young people lost their lives, was just the start of the tragedies and fires that would follow Sean Combs, because he was responsible for each and every one of them. I believe there are a number of other individuals who are also responsible - or at the bare minimum complicit - for turning a blind eye, prioritizing their career, or relying on someone else to say something when they saw the harm that was being done. I'm not sure if 51 months is enough of a reckoning, to me personally, but as someone who believes in Hell....51 months is a small stone in the pond of eternity. One quick clarification for nuance: Not all men who experience childhood trauma become abusive. I wanted to highlight a statistical pattern shaped by socialization and power structures. Women experience childhood abuse at the same or higher rates but tend to internalize it differently. Pain often becomes self-blame or anxiety, instead of outward expressions of violence. Social consequences reinforce this because women/girls, especially BIack and brown children, who externalize aggression are punished early and severely by schools, adults, and the justice system.

Where was Andy? Or Keisha Knight Pullman from the Married at First Sight Aftershow? What got Stassi on the short list for hosting when she has no prior reference for how she mediates..? Additionally, I can't believe Hulu got away with no Trigger Warning's this entire season, when A LOT of it was heavy! Lastly, don't you think the next season should be filmed after the reunion so we get to see how everyone's dynamic is immediately following their "day of reckoning" if you will? 

Maybe it's impossible to recreate the magic of a show that thrived because they cast "nobody's" with big dreams, bad budgeting, benders, big breakups and barely any aspirations outside of making it to the bar to blow off steam from whatever chaos happened that week. Or maybe they could have done it if they cast her real full-time staff? What do you think?

Let's talk the upcoming SLOMW reunion, their (interesting) dresses and Belynda's interview exposing a lot of the MAFS antics on the Altar Call podcast hosted by Tayne! Love the podcast? Leave me a review! Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

DONATE to NJ PHEI: https://givebutter.com/hzoFR5LEAVE ME A REVIEW: https://open.spotify.com/show/2hJdY1lWDIFfHXq76Tiqnc?si=27a25a20b6a24aa9Follow Positively Uncensored on IG: https://www.instagram.com/positivelyuncensored/Follow Positively Uncensored on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyuncensored?lang=enFollow Tomasilienne on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@toma.louu?lang=enTimestamps:0-27:00: SLOMW28:00: Meadow Lane Controversy 31:16: MAFS S19 Brittany's Interview Recap

WELL......are we surprised? By anything?

Did Peter make any decision from a pure place....? Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

TW: DV & SA.What do you think this season got right and wrong? Let me know in the comments!

Did Alex Hall get a taste of her own medicine this year? I would think Ashtyn is the exact type of girl she would hang out with personally! PS: Gio, just say you're a fan. I forgot to shout out my favorite creators I was watching during BravoCon this year on this re-record but BravoWe'reBlack! and Raych held things down for me! What was your favorite panel?

Let's wrap up this season of love and loathing...I think we are all good! Do better in the next city! Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

The ONE time Britani's not recording? Roll the footage! I'm talking interviews with the other first class passengers, airport gate security footage, staff testimonies - we need it all! DWTS celebrated 20 years of Carrie Ann's misogynoir by rewarding a perfect store to not 1, not 2, not 3, but FOUR white contestants. I can only chalk up Jordan Chiles not joining the perfect score club to racism. Ending with a brief recap on S2 of Squid Game the Challenge and all of the new info we got from KB's episode with AD AND Olandria's cover of Harper's Bazaar.

Maybe Rhonda and Josh should get together to b*tch about their partners - does that count as community?

I've never even been to burning man and i"m BURNT OUT from Josh talking about it. Can you believe it's week 3 of MAFS and we already know who is pregnant? Furthermore, can you anticipate how hard Meghan's pregnancy mood swings are about to go? Let's dive into it all with special guest Tayne from Altar Call: A Married at First Sight Podcast!Subscribe to Altar Call Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/79pYYROI5zP1C5il0dx4p1?si=b93fa2e6bdd443e3Subscribe to Positively Uncensored on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2hJdY1lWDIFfHXq76Tiqnc?si=3c548a9f05a94174Follow Positively Uncensored on IG: https://www.instagram.com/positivelyuncensored/Follow me on TT and help me get to 100K! https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyuncensored?lang=en

Love is Blind has slowly turned into Love is BLAND, Love is BORING, Love is BLURRY, Love is BUSTED or any other negative adjectives that start with 'B' you can think of. Producers chase success and high ratings while failing to realize that real love stories and real representation is what would get them there.This episode, we take matters into our own hands by listening to the stories that we care about, and would have loved to see. Sit tight for the gorgeous Chyna Craig and I to look beyond the edit as she shares her experience in her own words. Trigger Warning: Racism. Please prioritize your mental health as you listen to this episode! Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaFollow Chyna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_theblacksuperwoman_/Follow her podcast 'Not Another Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/notanotherpodcast_nap/Follow Positively Uncensored on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/positivelyuncensored/Follow Positively Uncensored on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyuncensored?lang=en

Netflix, don't do this sh** again.*Trigger Warning: DV* If you or someone you know needs help in an abusive relationship: https://www.thehotline.orgTry Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaListen to my MAFS recap on the Altar Call podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0hnVlIbnDZhtDXmI9qMmpz?si=k_V7vyyQRuexZ7Ap_T_nzAWatch Tell the Bees TT video on the demonization of Chrishell: https://www.tiktok.com/@tellthebeees/video/7567504135008963853?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7366740793853904415

Rhonda needs to relax and then reflex - in that order!! Meghann, you do the same. What do you think of Meghann and Derrek's dog debacle? Should they have both voiced their deal breakers more clearly to the experts? Let me know in the comments! Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

Ms. Bob should have dipped when Amanza's earring did - BYE! Whose side are you on? Moving over to RHOSLC, would you have came on the trip if YOU were Bronwyn? Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaTimestamps: RHOSLC - 1:00Selling Sunset S9: 27:07

The audacity to make us wait until 9PM for this....Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaGive to UNCF: https://give.uncf.org/site/Donation2?12702.donation=form1&df_id=12702Give to the NAACP: https://naacp.org/donate?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacHqLT8UQfaXB3PFMUtp7H9dpj4_N2KuFq_qlWaPge5ozmjtBG-uxmOTgwIAA_aem_QcROCH9BI_dhZtYYQoLDxAGive to Thurgood Marshall College Fund: https://tmcf.org/donate/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAadhZW9whSr0mBe1f8qYjgCG222jG1yBL-IOZ5UzuLLCFyvMLlOs0Ll5uYCcCQ_aem_lFpMiq8DtgLSS-F0w_6GuwGive to NJ PHEI: https://givebutter.com/hzoFR5

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Do you think Derrek "attacked" Meaghann? Do you think things can turn around for Will and Brittany? Is it too positive, too fast for Jalyn & Josh? Let me know all of your thoughts in the comments!

Meaghann needed a picture of her mom outside the wedding chapel with an order to NOT let her in because wtf was that type of "support"....?The experts better not PMO with their match between Brittany & Will...Pat and Rhonda will NOT make up for it, although I am enjoying them.I love the shift to Peacock and appreciate the shorter episodes, multiple episode drops, and getting right to the meat of it. What do you think? Tell me in the comments!

SPOILERS for the LIB "wedding" episode and potential spoilers for the Reunion! Trigger warning SA during Love Cabin segment. Everybody say it with me "season nine..waste of time" and if you say that about 1,000 more times it may properly convey how I feel after watching this finale at 5:30AM. The "experts" questions have been answered: love is not blind. Let's pack up the pods and this experiment. Stay tuned for my thoughts on some recent pop culture news and my first thoughts on Love Cabin (on Zeus) and why this show is gearing up for multiple lawsuits. Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaTimestamps: 00:00 Love is Blind Finale34:21 Reality TV News36:24 MAFS S1940:11 Review of Love Cabin *TW*56:58 Closing Thoughts and Audience Questions

I've watched ALL the Love is Blind S9 interviews and taken my notes so I can bring you all of the main points, in under an hour! Stay tuned for snippets from Jordan's interview on 'What's the Reality', Joe's GF on 'Reality Receipts' and Kait and Madison's interviews with the 'Love to See It' girls. My thoughts after all four interviews is this: Love is Blind would be way better if the show was released 6 months after completion, instead of a year and a half later, reunion shows are almost pointless at this point unless they are filmed weeks before they air, AND the honeymoon episodes should be AFTER the wedding's so we get to see an update on how the couple is settling into married life and if it's working. So many more things need done including replace all of the people up top, but let me know your demands in the comments! Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaMadison & Kait Interview: https://youtu.be/CDdwFEsaIYg?si=NfTnHJhZ6D8HvrvBJoe's GF Interview: https://youtu.be/UFX65WZ3hbM?si=RbCqaneuztb6LPbqJordan's Interview: https://youtu.be/KUF95rFcXAc?si=z3PXf4Dy3-dlF9Mr

I was debating between 'two more quitters' and 'tequila w/ bitters' as a nod to Anton - let me know your preference in the comments!

Maybe Sparkle MAGAn does have the money? "Dada, a college tuition is behind you" Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

And THIS is why I think the honeymoon's should be for the couples who say yes on wedding day only....this was a mess we could have had in Denver. Until they restructure the show, and cast people who are open in their dating preferences...the show is going to 'flop' on love and deliver on drama almost every time.

As I am every year, I'm here to help YOU get through these awful pods episodes and keep your sanity. You can even skip the pods and trust that I will keep you informed, let's get into it. Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

The only thing scarier than a late period is a late Ethan Plath because you know he was stewing in anger for whatever length of time you were waiting on him....Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

I was torn between "hereeeee's Johnny" and "hurricane Johnny" let me know if you have a preference in the comments! If you missed my review of episode 8 where KayKay and Chris go home, please catch up on YouTube as Spotify/ Apple will not upload my episode for some reason! Episode 8 Recap: https://youtube.com/live/c9YKB4fCw-g?feature=share

Catching you up on episodes 2-6 of Love Island Games, sharing my FIRST time viewer impressions (and questions) from Love After Lockup S6 Part 2, and reflecting back on my interview with Welcome to Plathville star Olivia Plath. What are you watching?

Welcome to the Plath family's guide on "how to ruin your sisters wedding on National TV" bring back family shame, right??

**Trigger Warning** This episode contains discussion of sensitive topics including child abuse, DV intimate partner violence, and animal cruelty. Please take care while listening and prioritize your mental health. If you've crossed plaths with this episode you're either a fan of 'Welcome to Plathville", a critic of the show (rightfully so), or you want to hear more about the family who has captivated our attention, and our screens, for seven seasons. In this episode Olivia shares her experiences on the show and behind the scenes of what her journey was really like...uncensored. Olivia and I talk about everything from her interactions with the eldest daughter, the role politics played in the dissolution of her marriage and updates on her life now. If you enjoyed this episode, please like, comment, subscribe and share with a friend! Follow Olivia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliviamarieplath/Follow Positively Uncensored on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/positivelyuncensored/Try Audible FOR FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRaTimestamps: 0:00- Introduction2:17- How "Welcome to Plathville" Started 6:30- Welcome to Plathville vs. 19 Kids and Counting 8:52- Divide in Viewership10:14- Olivia BEFORE Plathville 13:09- Growing Up in Strict Religion (What is Fundamentalism?) 19:27- Olivia's Experiences Misrepresented 23:01- First Meeting w/ the Plath Family 28:40- Olivia's Initial Warning Signs 33:34- "Barry didn't want to do the show"37:40- Growing Resentment for the Parents40:52- Politics Divided the Marriage 44:58: Olivia's Journey Unlearning 46:10- Viewers Spicy Questions

Kicking off my Wednesday with a recap of the Love Island Games S2 premiere....when I could be overseas playing basketball??? Y'all are lucky! LMAO. I also watched JaNa Craig on Chicks in the Office so you don't have to and provided a bonus segment of my thoughts on The Selling OC cast member Alex Hall comparing MLK to Charlie K*rk on her social media.......TW.Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

Who invited all the mean girls to this season??? LIB Denver won't be touching LIB France, sorry!Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

Continuation of part 1...release the Chads!Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

Today we will be taking a first look at the LIB S9 cast, making our predictions on the season, and a couple of preconceived notions along the way that we reserve the right to change our mind on. Let's go! Try Audible for FREE: https://www.audibletrial.com/RGjxRa

Well, well, well.....fancy seeing you here (Chris) LMAO. I promise this is the last time I will roast Chris.

Have you ever watched 'When a Stranger Calls'? IYKYK. Kendra is one of the worst mothers and being compensated to repeat her delusion and share with the world? Diabolical. Trigger Warning: SA, Harassment, CA.

TW: Misogynoir & DV. Sending off Love Island S7 in style with a recap of the latest drama and my parting thoughts I leave you with! In this episode I will be reviewing the episode that paid $8 to listen to so you DON'T have to, and my thoughts on Ace's episode with Speedy Mormon and the fallout from that episode. As always, thank you to every person who supported me during this season and shared their thoughts with me, shared my videos with friends, and helped me through this season!!

TW: Racism. Join me for an hour of LI reunion predictions, reading through Chelley and Olandria's Teen Vogue article 'Olandria and Chelley Talk Mean Girl Allegations and Makeup Mishaps' & a word to the parasocial fans arguing on live

All of that arguing during Kordell's ONE night in Miami to make up 24 hours later and sit next to each other at the fashion show......BANISHED!

I have time for Taylor...but I have even more time to sit around and watch Nic and Olandria flirt on camera and miss questions in the chat LMAOO. But really, she's doing her best!!! Sign me up for whatever content we get!

(IMPORTANT EDIT BELOW IN DESCRIPTION) LOTS to sort through in these first four episodes, and not enough all at the same time? I don't think I'm alone when saying the pods are the most boring part of Love is Blind but it's hard to skip them because of the context provided for the relationships. EDIT: I want to make sure I convey how important of a conversation it was between Sarover and Kal about their cultural differences and the history between Pakistan and India. This conversation was nuanced, and felt like a moment that LIB USA producers might edit out. I enjoy all of the openness surrounding politics, culture, and background this season. The only change I don't like in this season, is all of the men getting to paint a picture of what their partner looks like physically, and how that may be impacting the experience. I'm going to touch more on this in my next episode!

Tonight I'm talking about everything that's happened this first week of press for the stars of Love Island US S7, Olandria's first interview, predictions for the reunion & Buzzfeed's BS 'Apology' to Chelley **TW: Racism**

Juan's diarrhea induced anxiety from being around Kenny affirms everything I was thinking....trash individual to his core.

Episodes six and seven left me with two questions....is the alleged "perfect match" in the room with us? Can we start calling MEN male-centered? As always, if you loved this episode, please do me a favor and like this video and subscribe so I can hear your thoughts next time!

WTF is going on in reality tv right now? As someone who believes that we can draw a lot of parallels about the issues in our society from watching reality tv....I think it's a fair assessment that we can also gauge where we are at a society. This episode I will be diving into Beyond the Villa episode 4,(and why I'm not going to cover the episodes I missed), alleged resurfaced racist and colorists posts from Love Island S7 Winner Amaya, why I'm bothered by The Valley rewarding, inadvertently or not, abusive men and a quick recap of Perfect Match S3 episodes 1-6. Stay tuned to the end to see all the series I've been binging by myself lately and let me know if you decide to tune into any. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions surrounding racism, colorism, DV, IPV, and child exploitation by way of family vlogging. Resources: SAMHSA National Helpline (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) 1-800-662-HELP (4357) https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helplineProviding free, confidential, 24/7 support for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.NA World Serviceshttps://www.na.org/meetingsearch/Use this to find local meetings or virtual support worldwide for narcotic abuse.National Domestic Violence Hotline:1-800-799-SAFE (7233)Text “START” to 88788https://www.thehotline.org/Providing 24/7 confidential support, safety planning, and resources for survivors of abuse.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Gratitude06:18 The Valley Reunion PT 226:13 Amaya's Alleged Racist Posts36:04 Beyond the Villa EP 4 Recap51:52 Olea and Friends Panel Discussion53:42 Perfect Match S3: Episodes 1-6 Brief Recap01:14:01 Documentary Recs and Closing Thoughts

I've waited to formally record on Mariah and Caleb's breakup as he began posting his version of events early July, and I was waiting to hear Mariah address his claims and share her experience of the relationship. After watching Caleb's videos and taking Mariah's experience into context, I truly feel he was trying to 'get ahead' of her sharing her truth and try to dismantle her character and credibility. Watch my full TikTok here (with the screenshots from Mariah's post): https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyuncensored/video/7534489195247619342?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7366740793853904415Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyuncensored?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSubscribe to the podcast on Spotify and leave a 5-star review if you enjoyed this episode!

Almost a year into the relationship, and a week before their anniversary, Kenny slips up and reveals the long game that he has been playing this whole time. One thing about a covert narcissist, he eventually slips up and can no longer hide his hand. Throughout the course of the LIVE I'm going to talk about the timeline of events that happened this last 48 hrs, the importance for shows like Love Island to protect Black women, starting with casting men who like and value Black women, and how this impacts the current series 'Beyond the Villa' that releases each month. I want this to be a space that uplifts JaNa and remembers that the pain of Black women is not just entertainment for us to discuss with no nuanced conversation behind things.

This was a hard listen for myself and I'm sure many others. For the purpose of my review, I'm going to be talking solely about Huda's commentary on her experience on Love Island S7. NOTE TW SA/CA: In regards to Huda's childhood, I feel immense empathy for her as no child should ever have to go through that or shoulder that experience ever, much less alone. Huda's past adds context to explain some of the behaviors we see show up before us today but it is not an excuse to mistreat others. I truly hope she gets in contact with the best therapist to help her work through things from her past and present so she can proceed intentionally in her future.

If you were here for my commentary during Love Island USA 6 you know that the sentence 'I agree with Kaylor' is one that I never thought I would say. Am I coming down with something, or is Liv being shady? ALSO, did everyone hear when Kenny referenced a podcast during the episode? No confirmation, but I think that was in reference to my episode with Connor here: https://youtu.be/RpRoJwuCbyQWhat was your peach and pit of episode 1? Let me know in the comments!