T.H.O.T.S

Did you miss me! We're back with Season 4 and we have some exciting things planned for this year. In this episode, Z hits on the evolution of True Honest Opinions Towards Success, Mental Health inspired by Wendy Williams, Beyoncé and Kelly's relationship, relationshipish, and much more!

We are back with New Episodes and boy have we missed you! We took a long break and happy to start of the month of October with you!! This week Z and Cole speak on a lot! Specifically on the significant differences in the generations, getting into the work place, gentle parenting, and much more! Follow us on IG to continue the conversation!!

In this episode Z and Cole speak on Empaths and Narcissists and how they have had encounters. With the rise in NPD it is a topic we just had to touch on!!! Save the Date JUNE 3rd! Summer Fling (Finding Love In New Gatherings) Grab your tickets Here https://www.eventbrite.com/e/summer-fling-game-night-tickets-559975400497?aff=ebdssbdestsearch Use the Code "SummerRain"

In this episode we speak on the courage of Tennessee's State Refs Gloria decides to stand up for her two black collegues on Gun Reform. America is the lead in School Shootings and everything else that makes no sense! Also SAVE THE DATE for the Summer F.L.I.N.G event (Finding Love in New Gatherings) June the 3rd! Get the discount code during this episode

WARNING POSSIBLE TRIGGERING MATERIAL! In this episode we discuss some tough topics. With the recent scandel with the Dalai Lama and his reaction to a child on his lap instructing him to suck his tongue we had to weigh in! This lead to RKelly, the double stardard of boys being molested by older women, and so much more. Also dont forget to save the date for our Summer Fling event with Visual Dynasty! (Finding Love in New Gatherings! USe the code "SUMMERRAIN" to receive a discount. Tell a friend to tell a friend!

In this episode Z and Cole speak on the topic of everyone's normal is not norma for other people. We share our different upbringings that are literally night and day. We then speak on the incredible book, "Secrets of Happy Families" by Bruce Feiler and how impactful this book was in raising Z's two sons. Save the Date for June 3rd!!! Summer F.L.I.N.G event, (F.inding L.ove I.n N.ew G.atherings). Hosted by Visual Dynasty and Co-Hosted by Thots Podcast. Visit https://www.eventbrite.com/d/nc--raleigh/visual-dynasty/ for your tickets! Use the cold "SummerRain"to save on your pre tickets

In this episode Z and Cole speak on the freak accident that happened to Z on Christmas eve a few years ago. A church friend asked and paid Z to watch their dog, Minnie, how Minnie passed away with in 15-30 mins of her being dropped off. This was not a funny matter at the time but when sharing the events and how they occurred it is quite comedical. It was a surreal moment of unfortunate events but there is a silver lining. How would you have reacted to a phone that your dog is no longer here anymore after leaving them with someone for 15 mins? Save the Date #June3rd for Visual Dynasty's Summer F.L.I.N.G Event! (F.inding L.ove I.n N.ew E.vent) https://www.eventbrite.com/d/nc--raleigh/visual-dynasty/ Use the Code "SummerRain" for a discount!

In this episode Cole and Z speak on a touchy topic. Should Step mothers force their step children to call them Mom. Is it out of line for the Biologically mother to request for her child to not call his step mother mom? Chime in on the conversation! Leave a comment. Also Save the Date June 3rd!!!

Coming off our successful event, "Singles Game Night" with Visual Dynasty and headed into our next one June 3rd our Podcast took a different turn. We want to publically thank Jae for her contribution to T.H.O.T.S Podcast. She decided on going a different direction and we appreciate her! However, the show goes on... In this episode Z and Cole speak on how they ironically met. They literally knew of each other before they met, the Wooass of parenting, and so much more. Tell a Friend to tell a friend about our next Big Event "Summer F.L.I.N.G." (Finding Love In New Gatherings" Save the Date #June3rd

N.her.g joins us for another episode as we discuss if gender and culture plays a part in choosing the right therapist. Then we speak on if we could be with a man who is a stay at home dad or not. Then Pamela Anderson comes up surprisely for having a no nonsense policy when it comes to physical abuse. Tell an friend about our podcast and leave a comment for us so we can share it on our next episode. Also we want to thank Jae for her contribution with THOTS podcast. This is her last episode with us for personal reasons and we wish her nothing but success on all her future projects.

In this episode we have special guest N.Her.G, artist and actress from Charlotte NC. We talk about her about her life and how she got into the industry of acting and rapping. Then we speak on the topic if being a hoe is trending. We remember how women use to be looked at as queens and how we should bring it back. Please share your comments and get them read on our next episode.

In this episode we speak on spending habits and insecurities. Visual Dynasty's Darnel and Devon pull from "Tonight's Conversation Cards." Jae and Z chime in on how they have grown over the years with their spending and how it is different from in the past til now. Then we hit insecurities and how they effect each of us in this dating LIFE! Z then shares her lingerie story and how that affected her views on body. Share this episode with your friends! Leave a comment an comment and we will give you a shout out on the next show.

In this episode we have Visual Dynasty with Part 3 of our Session Together. In your relationships could you be confortable with your mate having friends of the opposite sex? Then we get deep into the conversation and Z reveals how she use to catch her ex cheating. Please do not use these methods in your relationships. Just leave lol. Share this episode with your friends and love ones.

This is Part 2 with our 1st Male Guest Visual Dynasty Owners Darnel and Devon McKenzie. In this episode, we speak on the life of entrepreneur and how it is for them in the area of dating. Then we go into how our Exes made a few of us better people. Our HIGHLY Anticipated Single's Game Night in Durham NC will take place Feb 11th 2023. From 8pm-12pm. Two couples who meet at this event will receive a FREE Date Night! This is speed dating with a twist. We will have game stations with games like Uno, Checkers, Connect 4, Tonight's Conversation, and so much more. Listen to end and you will hear a surprise for this event! Click Here for your Tickets! Grab Your Tickets Here! https://www.zyykirrah.com/event-details/singles-game-night

Our 1st Male Guest!!! Darnel and Devon McKenzie from Visual Dynasty come on and talk about how they got started, how we met, and how their media company came into reality. This is Part 1 of a 4 part Series! We cover Family business and how to maintain the relationship as you are continuing in business. Then we discover some of our Poppas were rolling stones. And then we talk about how majority of us have found family on Facebook. Our HIGHLY Anticipated Single's Game Night in Durham NC will take place Feb 11th 2023. From 8pm-12pm. Two couples who meet at this event will receive a FREE Date Night! This is speed dating with a twist. We will have game stations with games like Uno, Checkers, Connect 4, Tonight's Conversation, and so much more. Listen to end and you will hear a surprise for this event! Click Here for your Tickets! Grab Your Tickets Here! https://www.zyykirrah.com/event-details/singles-game-night

At our latest Podcast Party, Jae, Z, and Cole go in heavy about the recent suicide with Twitch. WE want to advise this episode could trigger some due to the sensitivity of the content. We go into the old myth of children should or should not attend funerals and end with a little iPhone and androids tug or war. Save the Date: February 11th 2023. Visual Dynasty VS Thots Podcast Singles Night in Raleigh NC! Mention you heard it here and save on your entry ticket

In this episode we speak on the rapper, GloRilla's recent interview on Breakfast club where she shares some things she should have kept to herself. Is $550 per week to little of an income for a FT personal Assistance? Then we educate the fellas on Women health. Save the Date Feb 11th for the Singles Game Night on Valentines Day Weekend

Happy Holidays!!! We hope you all had such a great holiday! It's a NEW YEAR!!! We started the New Year off with all the mess. Why does Santa Say Ho, Ho, Ho??? What is the difference between Hoes, Side Chicks, Tricks, Simp, Sugar Mommas and Daddies?? Have you ever cheated on a love one because they cheated on you? Well in this episode we dive DEEP on the topics. We uncover the levels of respect and disrespect. SAVE THE DATE! #Feb11th for the Visual Dynasty and Thot's Podcast Singles Game Night!!! If you are single and ready to mingle this is the event that you DO NOT want to miss. At the door save $2 by mentioning THOTS Podcast!!

In this Episode Z goes in about the topic of Narcissistic personality disorder. She shared things she has never publicly shared about some of her romantic relationships and friendships. Leave a comment if you have ever experience a person with this disorder and we would love to hear from you! Save the DATE! Dec 17th! Our Podcast Party at Berry Bomb Selfie Museum at Triangle Mall in Raleigh NC 27615.

In this episode we weigh in on the topic of PTSD. This occurs when some people experience traumatic situations and how they are unable to control how it is managed when it is triggered, While we discuss this in comical ways we do not take light the severity of the condition. Then we go into interracial dating and if thte co host would or has dating outside their race. Then we close out with out secret celebirty BFFs. SAVE THE DATE DEC 17th! Our 1st Podcast Party at Berry Bombs Selfie Museum at Triangle Mall in Raleigh NC.

In this episode, we speak on who we would choose to want to give therapy to and two names that was brought up was Jeffrey Dahmer and Kayne West. We cover all the reason why Therapy should be something everyone takes part in. Save the Date for our Podcast Party. Join us at Berry Bombs Selfie Museum on Dec17th for a LIVE In Person Recording. Clime in, ask questions, promote your business from 3pm-8pm.

In this episode we discuss the type of ads used to get black people to vote and how offensive they were. Joe Biden recently made an annoucement to forgive all felony marajuana confictions and listening Z tells why this is a joke. Then we touch on the topic of drug abuse. How hard it is the kick the habit and etc. Save the Date: Dec 17th 2022 for our LIVE Podcast Party in Raleigh NC! You are invited!

In this Episode we speak about a couple who was being haunted by the husbands ex wife who had passed away. Then we tap into the the difference between argueing in a toxic and healthy way. We have our special guest Ruby Redd with us. Save the Date: Dec 17th 2022! LIVE Listening Party!! #DEc17th

We have a guest with T.H.O.T.S with Ruby Red. This is was a good one. We speak on Double standards when it comes to men and women, Watching movies and TV shows about Psychos, Driving crazy, and Dating Preferences. The double standards are going to blow your mind. Also if you want to be a sponsor email us at thethotspodcast@gmail.com We have close to #3K Faithful listeners per week downloading our Shows! Tap in!

You ever get bullied by someone and finally get your chance to whoop their ass? Our Special Guest with THOTS Ruby Redd and Z explains how they got that moment of glory when Jae and Cole has never had a fight with anyone before. Then we speak on our worse job experiences. If you want to become a sponsor and or get your business shouted out on our podcast email us at thethotspodcast@gmail.com

In this episode we have our second Guest with Thots. Ruby Redd is a 22 Year old Dynamic Flag Football Player who aspires to be a singer. She ways in on zodiac signs, Sugar Daddies, and Awkward Moments during sex. You are going to be so surprised which co host has had a sugar daddy. Our Special Guest will be with us for the next few episodes. Share this if you cry, laughed, Smiles, or felt any emotions. If you want to become a sponsor and get your business a shout out on the show email us at thethotpodcast@gmail.com

On this epsiode we speak on couples who have their locations on and if this is a good, weird, or Creepy thing. Would you ever share a Facebook Account with your mate and Why do Babies have IG accounts. Zee, Jae, and Cole have similar but very different perspectives on the topic. The THOTS will Surprise you!

In this episode we touch on the sensitive topic of Disney's new Buzz Light Year Story. It was banned from many countries because of the scene where two females toys are displayed kissing each other. So were those countries wrong for it and will Z get canceled for her thought? Then we get into the topic of life and struggling in America. Z share her story on how she overcame many obstacles in life including homelessness. She shares how she did and how anyone can vs Jae taking different view on life. They definitely agree to disagree. But if you know those two they always argueing

Have you ever heard of the Pink Sauce lady? This is an interesting story bringing some light on what to avoid in starting a business. Later talk on RKelly and how he gets 30 years. Surprisingly one of the host share the same THOTS with RKelly's sister on how he is or was a victim. This leads us on the path of conspiracy theories on High Profiled Black Men who are targetted for the soul purpose to destroy their legacy. Tune into the THOTs of Jae, Z, and Cole as they share their True, Honest, Opinions, That Stick

Did you hear about the entire police force that quit in Kenly, North Carolina, has resigned, citing a hostile work environment after a Black town manager took office. Also black families noticing that the characters at Seasame Street Water Park was ignoring only the black children and speaking only to the white children. Z, Jae, and Cole weigh in with their THOTS on the topic and ending it on a positive note with children board games they use to play.

In this episode we share our thots on how industry leaders who are involved with the church need to stop making the headlines for negative reasons. Do you remember back in the day when church was off limits to do crimes or cause harm? Well this doesn't apply to the recent Bishop who was robbed at his pulpit. Now after the video we are confused if this was staged or real robbery. What are your THOTS

In this episode we share our THOTS on becoming of age to learn to resolved problems without usuing your fist. Ironically only one of the hosts have ever gotten into a physcial altercation while the other two have not. We way in on the possiibiles of why people may get involve in fights more than others and solutions to avoid them. Become a sponsor of our podcast or if you want your product or service featured on our show email us at THOTSPODCAST@gmail.com

In this episode we way in on our THOTS on the tragedies of the recent school shootings. So many chiildren, teenagers, and young adults have lost their lives because of shootings and we dont seem to have a solution as of yet for them. Jae, Z, and Cole weigh in on the complicated topic and we want your THOTS on the topic as well. God bless to all the families in Texas where our most recent school shooting took place in the USA

In this episode we share our THOTS on if a break up happens with a couple that is engaged should the woman have to return the ring? Also have you heard of the woman who got married on a budget? How much did you spend on your wedding?

In this video Z gets really personal sharing her different experiences when it come to men and money. Hopefully none of her exes listen to this podcast LOL. Then Jae and Cole way in on there experiences. Finances are one of the top reasons that causes problems in relatiionships and can break them up. Next week's topics are, "When you break up with someone should you return the items?" What about the engagement ring??? Tune in next week to hear our THOTS

Boy did we miss all of you. We hope you missed us. Here are some of our NEW Thots on a few questions from "Tonight's Conversation Cards, Date Night Edition. Have you ever had a friend get in a new friend and disappear on you? What are your thoughts on making things official?Tune into this hilarious episode...

In this episode we have some questions. What are 3 of your pet peeves from the opposite sex and what are your deal breakers. Z, Jae, and Cole share some interesting choices that are totally different. Then Jae gives a chemistry lesson on crack. Listen to the entire show to see how crack even came up. Contact us if you or someone you know would like to be a sponsor and get their business shouted out.

In this Episode Jae noticed a moment where Z overthinks a moment and changes her mind three times within 30 seconds. Which aids in the perfect segway into this very needed topic! Did you know widespread rumination and over-obsessing has become somewhat of an epidemic recently. One study found that 73% of adults between the ages of 25 and 35 overthink, as do 52% of 45 to 55-year-olds. Listen in and share your THOTS on the topic of Overthinking.

In this episode Z, Jae, and Cole tap into the latest trial with Johnny Depp versus Amber Heard. We dive in on how men who are victims in relationships have a hard time seeking help, toxic relationships, and narcissism. And Z shares some emotional moments. Comment your THOTS below…

Happy Mothers Day to all the Mothers out there! Z, Jae, and Cole talk about their memories with their mothers and motherhood. Share with us your THOTS on your mother and motherhood.

Yesterday, Controversial Relationship Guru was reported to have passed away yesterday suddenly. He looked perfectly healthy and did not appear to have any medical challenges only to not wake up. His death has ignited so many mixed emotions online including celebrating his death. Jae, Z, and Cole weigh in on their THOTS on the topic ending this episode on a positive light of the situation.

In this episode we talk about your fav music to come out to if you were called on stage. We want to know yours. Which would you want to walk out to? Then we go into Morning Routines. Z shares how having a morning routine is essential to having a productive day. Jae and Nicole share there rather different routines. Then we go into football talk. If you are in the Raleigh NC we have Games every Sunday at Creech Rd Elementary School in Garner. Check out www.GridironGangFootball.com for our Game Schedule.

You all know we had to chime in on the Will Smith and Chris Rock Drama. At the last Oscars Will Smith smacked the dog shit out of Chris Rock for saying a joke about Jada's head being bald. And Will reacted to the Joke by smacking him. We speak on our personal reactions and our personal take on the matter. What were your thoughts on the matter and what would you have done?

In this episode we talk about FB thugs and speaking indirectly about people online. Do you respond to indirect content on FB? Then we get into Social Media and relationships. Do you change your status online? We speak on how and why our ladies have never changed theirs. Then we end this episodes on Break ups. Do we have to inform people about our breakups after they happen when we let people online in from the start? We would love your feedback! Comment and if you know anyone looking to become a sponsor inbox us or email us for rates.... We Average close to a 1,000 downloads weekly! Become a sponsor today!

In this Episode we discuss a LOT!!! Do you think Bad sex will ruin a relationship? Ironically with all the controversy with Will Smith and Chris Rock, Chris was brought up a few times in this episode. Then we go into why Z and Cole think it is possible Kanye could kill Kim and Jae enlighten us on the term "SERIAL SQUATTERS" We had over 600 downloads this year and each day it is increasing. We are taking on NEW sponsors. Message us for more details!!

In this episode we share our THOTS on the dating scene in 2022. As Jae would say, "They pegging out here!!" LOL We then offer our perspectives on how to make dating better and why it is so bad. We also speak on why good looks are not everything and the 500 LB woman who would pull honey dips. If you or someone you know would like to be a sponsor please email us at thethotspodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, we discuss people lying about their appearance before meeting new people. We also have a quick special guest that pops in and they call Z petty, LOL. Then we talk about rejection and ways to handle it. If you or someone you know wants to become a sponsor, please email us at thethotspodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, we talk about interesting interactions with neighbors. Have you ever had an experience that was weird or really interesting with your neighbors? For example, have you ever heard your neighbors having sex, or worse, your parents? If you want to be a sponsor on our next episode, please email us at thethotspodcast@gmail.com

In this episode we talk about a few household names that are no more. Then one of our host share an idea they did years ago that will make you scratch your head. Then Jae closes things off with an history lesson on how Hitler coming to power and common mispronounced words.

In this episode Z actually admits she thinks that Android has some great features. Then we share our THOTS on the whole hot sauce in condom scandal with Drake. We then hit on the N word and other words that are not equal to everyone. We want to hear yout THOTS on the topic. Is it ever ok for a white person say the N word? We have a lot of fun sharing our THOTs on a heavy topic. We hope we do not offend any races or genders. Our Only intent is to discuss this for personal growth.

What an interesting episode. RIP Nancy Reagan. Recently her name has popped up in the headlines. Madonna fans uses Nancy Secrets to defend her behavior. Being 63 and all. Then we share our T.H.O.T.S on our experiences with people who do not know they are racist. Have you ever have one of those moments? If you really enjoy our podcast please take a moment to leave a review!