Traversing Manhood

Your emotions don't make you weak — they make you ready. Real masculinity starts with emotional honesty.  In this episode of Wired for the Kingdom, I sit down with an old mentor of mine — the one and only EQ Gangster — to unpack what it really means to be a man who can feel, process, and lead from emotional wholeness. *This is a call to every Kingdom man: Own your inner world, so you can lead your outer world.   If this episode spoke to you, please take 60 seconds to rate and review the show.  It helps more men discover the mission and join us on the narrow path!   

In today's Episode Ryan Gauthier Breaks down the kingdom principle of Persistence & resilience. Not just as a motivational buzzword, but as a spiritual weapon. Drawing from personal struggles, real-world stories, and biblical truth. Ryan teaches why showing up again and again - especially when it doesn't make sense is a mark of true resilience and faith.  You will hear how persistence is NOT annoying to God - It's FAITH IN MOTION. Through scriptures like Matthew 7:7-8 and Luke 18:8 this message calls every man of God to step back into the battle: prayer in purpose, in love and in calling.  Whether you've been worn out, stuck or ready to give up, this episode will stir something in your spirit and remind you that sometimes all it takes is ONE MORE TRY WITH THE SAME OLD PLIERS.  Topics Covered: Spiritual resilience Biblical Persistence Faith in Adversity Fatherhood, Leadership, and purpose   DISCLAIMER:  This episode includes short audio clips from Rocky Balboa(Rocky 6) used solely for educational and teaching purposes. I do not own the rights to these clips; all right belong to their perspectivve copyright holders.    Please Rate & Review the Show!! 

Welcome to the debut of "Wired for the Kingdom," formerly known as "Traversing Manhood." This rebrand reflects a broader and more unfiltered exploration into what it means to live a spiritually enriched life. While the core themes remain, expect discussions that are rawer and cast a wider net over the complexities of modern manhood. In our first episode, we dive deep into the essence of spiritual aliveness. Inspired by John Eldredge's concept of us as 'amphibians,' navigating both physical and spiritual realms, we challenge the superficial practices of religion to discover a dynamic walk with God. Hear a personal story that exemplifies the real spiritual battle and the victory of connection over fear. Are your spiritual practices bringing you closer to God, or are they just motions? Join us as we embrace the genuine encounter with the Divine, transforming routine into revelation. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a comment, and share this episode. Your engagement helps us grow and continue to bring you content that touches the soul and challenges the spirit.

Welcome to another episode where we tackle the toughest parts of being a man in today's world. Today's discussion is not just about the external challenges we face, but the internal crises that every man battles—often in silence. Key Points Discussed: The Reality of Spiritual Warfare: Understanding how feelings of guilt, shame, and depression are attacks on your spiritual well-being. Loneliness in Struggles: Breaking down why men keep their struggles to themselves and how this isolation can be overcome. Jesus as the Ultimate Healer: How Christ's teachings and actions provide a roadmap out of internal turmoil. The Importance of Spiritual Health: Why maintaining a strong spiritual foundation is essential for overall well-being. Practical Spirituality: Concrete steps to deepen your relationship with God every day. Support Us: To continue bringing you discussions that matter, consider supporting us on Patreon. Every contribution helps us keep the conversation going and expand our reach.  https://patreon.com/TraversingManhood?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Get Involved: Feeling inspired to join the conversation and get the support you need? Reach out to become part of 'The Narrow Path' community and take your first steps towards a healthier spiritual life. connect with me on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/ryanagauthier We hope this episode empowers you to face your struggles with renewed faith and vigor. Remember, you're not alone, and with Christ, no burden is too heavy to lift.

Welcome to a transformative episode of Traversing Manhood! Today, we tackle the silent crisis many men face: burnout and disconnection from life's true essence. In our journey towards spiritual revival and fulfillment, we explore the pivotal changes necessary to escape the Groundhog Day of life's mundane routines and rediscover our spirit.

Join me and Blaine Eldredge in our conversation today about his new book "The Paradise King". this beautfiul retelling of God's grand narrative will awaken your soul and begin to bring you closer to the living God.  We discuss many things Living life with a REAL personal GOD Aspects of the creation account that you may have missed  How important prayer is  Pray is the work  You can pick up your copy of "The Paradise King" at the link below https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B0CM85LGGS&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_AM4CXH6502SPTVBFVPMY    

join in on the conversation between Ryan Gauthier and Brian Tome as they discuss brand new book, The Five Marks Of A Man!  In this episode we discuss the following;  Overview of The Five Marks Of A Man What seperates a boy from a Man  What studying Manhood looks like Why something in a man goes dead if he does not perform physically and more!    Do not forget to give the show a rating and review, We would really appreciate it because it goes a long way!   

Passion is never a singular trait that you can posess. Your passion is directly tied to your purpose!    Without Purpose you have no Passion!    The important things in life like marriage, fatherhood, fitness, spiritual connecion with God... The purpose in these areas are no so obvious, so it is vital that you create and define a purpose always and forever so you don't lose your passion and zeal for life.  The best way to identify purpose is to humble yourself and realize you are a work in progress always in need of learning and growth!    Additionally we are built for community! If you are currently isolated and living on an island with no men in your life who inspire you and encourage you then Join The Mighty Men today!   click the link below  www.traversingmanhood.com/join-the-mighty-men

You want to lead better?.. You want to lead yourself and lead other more effectively? Of Course you do. Join me in today's episode where I discuss a simple equation. In order to be a great leader you must be a great follower. Too many of us get caught in failure to follow and follow well. I discuss all this in the video. Share & Subscribe!    Take On The Mighty Men Challenge NOW! to RADICALLY transform your life!!   www.traversingmanhood.com/join-the-mighty-men

The production equation is simple and well known!!  You Reap What You Sow... This principle of life and production equation has been around for CENTURIES!!  Join me in today's episode where I discuss this principle and how it relates to every domain of life!  For the man listening who wants to RADICALLY SHIFT his life in the next 4 months.. Take on THE MIGHTY MEN CHALLENGE NOW!  www.traversingmanhood.com/join-the-mighty-men You have been doing it your way long enough! it is time to shift and give yourself a chance.  DONT WAIT JUST GO!!           

Join me in today's episode where I discuss developing the mind of a winner! 

Join me in today's episode where I discuss a simple way of approaching Jesus & why so many men do not in today's society!  Go on this journey for yourself and do not let others convince you of something that you have not explored on your own.  Additionally,    JOIN THE MIGHTY MEN NOW! so that you can 4x your life in BODY, BEING, BALANCE, BUSINESS click the link below  www.traversingmanhood.com/join-the-mighty-men

Join me in toaday's episode where discuss breaking free from addiction.  I share my story of addiction and how I was able to break free from it for GOOD!  Leave a rating & Review!!  Make the next 4 months of your 2023 the best 4 months of your life by becoming one of The Mighty Men!    The Mighty Men is a mens growth and development program for those who want to 4x their lives in their BODY, BEING, BALANCE, BUSINESS!    JOIN NOW! by clicking the link below    www.traversingmanhood.com/join-the-mighty-men  

Welcome to another daily map check where I dicuss the SECRET to a life long, loving and trustful marriage.  We have all been told that the key to a good marriage is communication.  BUT..... You dont want good... You want GREAT!  In today's episode I delve into how to go deeper in communication and why its so important   Dont forget to leave a rating & Review

The game of money can be simple & in today's episode I breakdown the game of money into some simple frameworks that will help you organize and plan your personal economy.  Leave a rating and review!!

Join me in today's episode on liberating ourselves from out prison through telling the truth!!    I discuss my own struggles and my own liberation through confession and prayer!    Leave a rating and review! 

When your son or daughter is not engaging in a conversation with you and it becomes a monologue, you may have fallen into the PARENT TRAP.  Tune into today's episode to discover what that is exactly and how to avoid it.  Leave a rating & Review! 

In today's episode I invite you to explore the idea that ALL are brainwashed & it is our responsiblity as we mature and get older to break away from that and develop ourselves and our own reality based on what we believe and have experienced.  Our facts; the rules and regulations we live by is what determines our outcomes. Our code is what deterimes our outcomes.  Do not be a carbon copy of someone else be your own person Dont forget to leave a rating and review!! 

Welcome to something a bit new here on the podcast. What I am doing is recording daily videos on the youtube channel inspired by my quiet times with God and or my daily STACKS!  Today's episdoe I discuss Morning routine accessing energy and power the upcoming coaching community power by living the warriors way Tune into these episodes daily or as I post them. Building this into a habit will take some time I am sure. The goal is to upload ALL the daily videos to here as well.  Leave a rating and review!! 

Join me in another Thursday Thoughts Episode of the Traversing Manhood Podcast where I discuss the power of going first or putting it another way leading by example.  Too often we want our relationships with others and ourselves to be different yet we want it to happen through osmosis. Tune in and discover the power of going first!  Please rate & review!  Check out the youtube channel @ Traversing Manhood! Give a like and subscribe!    Thank you!!!  

Glad you have tuned into this homecoming episode after a significant break from producing the show!  In this episode I discuss;  - Why the question " what does it mean to be a man?" is not sufficient in raising up boys  - The 3 legged stool of Manhood  - A story of my response to my son when he asked me the question above!  Leave a rating and review!       

Success in your marriage is crucial to your success as a man Too often as husbands, we struggle to relate to our wives, to live with them harmoniously, to care for their hearts, and to cultivate them into helpers for us.  So, in this episode I share key insights I have gained how to radically change your marriage. I speak on;  - How our wives are different from us - A different way to behave around our wives - How to speak to our wives and more. The majority of the credit has to go to a fantastic book I'm reading on marriage called "Adam Loves Eve" By Grant Luton and Russ Resnik Go pick up a copy and change your marriage!  Be sure to leave a rating & Review! 

God speaks to us through nature!  There is much inspiration, rejuvenation, and lessons to be learned from the outdoors  Today's episode I sat down with Ryan George author of the book Scared To Life: Tales of a good God who reveals his heart when ours is racing.   

Walking with God is not easy  Even more so, receiving God's truth, wisdom, and provision in becoming equipped to raise children, manage money, and hard times, stay married, and make your life count.  It all comes down to how practical your faith is or is it just a heartfelt theory you hope will play out for you.  Today's episode is all about how to take your faith to the next level and achieve results from it.  Check out threenails Clothing for all your activewear needs and for 10% off use the code: 3NAILS at checkout. 

You have been taught to "Do Life" ALONE. You have been shown and told that you should not ask for help, you should not depend on someone.  This episode was created to encourage you to change that narrative and give you some mindset as to why.  Be sure to rate and review the show!  Also, comment a takeaway on the Episode post on Instagram. 

Willingness is everything, and it is never easy to be truly willing.  Willing to sacrifice Willing to Learn and be the beginner again Willing to fail and try again Willing to do whatever it takes and then some Today's episode is about The one characteristic we need to wear in our daily lives to overcome and to win.  Leave a rating and review!

Inside the Heart and minds of ALL men, there is an itch. An itch to live with meaning, influence, spiritual power, and confidence that carries us through our roles and responsibilities.  This itch is scratched through community and conversation with like-minded men, through purposeful, and manful living.  In today's conversation Mike and I discuss; - How to connect with like-minded men - The high call of manliness - The changing landscape of manliness - living with Vim, Vigor, Vitality - Issues with social media Please Rate & Review The show 

Every man has obstacles that are formed against him personally by the enemy, the great force. the great liar.  Part of the problem we have fighting this force is what we focus on, our attitude. It is too easy for us to just point out what we can't do instead of taking the step and action we can take.  In today's monologue I talk about the attitude switch it takes to overcome the well-placed obstacles the enemy throws your way.  Rate and Review the show! 

The parts of our lives that matter the most cannot be circumvented.  They must be walked through.  In this episode, I dive into Traversing the valleys in our lives and how that leads to a relationship with God and Transformation.   

Money is a major driving force of all our lives It's a very vital tool that we should know how to use and manage in our lives.  Money is also a major cause of stress and grief for a lot of people in the world.  Today's episode is all about how to maybe help you get your money right by giving you the mindset and basic management skills to handle your own personal economy.  Remember to rate and review the show! 

Opportunities in life are everywhere around us! The question is are you being adventurous enough and brave enough to take them? In today's episode, I share; The value of seeking out experiences What kind of experiences you can go after How these experiences make you happier, healthier, and whole How these experiences lead to better connections with family and friends and lead to other great opportunities.   Before you go be sure to rate @ review the show! Thanks  

Anytime you hear about what people are trying to do in life it almost certainly will involve a big end state. There is typically a giant prize that is being hunted down.  My contention is that our true purpose in life is not to win a prize in the form of that dream job or a certain amount of money etc. but to become people of true value. To become quality, intelligent and loving people. By doing so the fruit we are after will come.  I dive in more on why chasing the end result (fruit) in our lives is not the best approach in today's episode. Want to support the show? leave a rating and review!! 

I know most people talk about setting goals and achieving your dreams going into a new year but not me and not this time  This time I discuss three things you need to consider going into the new year if you want to make all that goal-setting worthwhile.  I discuss the following;  1. Getting your health and fitness on track 2. Don't try to fit in 3. Go on an adventure this year To Join the Jumpstart Your Year fitness challenge click the link below!  https://www.patreon.com/TraversingManhood?fan_landing=true  

This is a great time of year to connect with family on all sides of the Tree so to speak so in this episode I just extend my thanks and gratitude to you! the listener for supporting me on this journey and wish you all a very merry Christmas and happy holidays!  want to support the show?  1. Rate & Review the show  2. follow and subscribe on the social media channels below  https://www.instagram.com/traversing_manhood/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDKc33u60FV_vpUDny0tnOA  

Feeling overly tired and burned out is not new and does not mean you are doing too much It simply means you are " winging it!" too much So in today's episode, I discuss the idea of creating systems or frameworks around everyday life so you can just show up, be present and get results.  Support the show by following and subscribing on  - Facebook - Youtube  - Instagram    Also, be sure to leave a rating and review!     

Raising Children and leading a family is no small task.  A major variable in how our children grow up and ultimately what kind of People they become is determined by the quality and level of your accountability system.  In this episode, I discuss Three Areas Of Emphasis to create and maintain a rock-solid accountability system that will produce Kingdom Kids  Rate & Review the show!   

I have heard this but what does it even mean? I know.  I know this can seem quite nuanced and tends to get bashed by toxic masculinity believers but I assure you it is essential to our manhood. So, In this episode, I break some of the nuances down and talk about how to become the head and not the tail. I also speak on why it is important.  Book mention: The Case For Christ by Lee Strobel Subscribe on Youtube @ Traversing Manhood Follow on Instagram @ Traversing_Manhood  Give a rating & Review!!

Today's episode is a recorded conversation while traveling to meet with family for thanksgiving.  We tell some stories and then go into our experiences and opinions on topics like;  Leadership  Fatherhood  Military Schools  Badassery  Rate and Review the show! 

Dealing with difficult people and difficult situations is not a matter of if rather a matter of when.  In this episode, I discuss some principles and mindsets that can be applied to handling these situations with skill, class, faith, grace, and ultimately in a way that will lead to a real resolution.  Rate & Review the show!  Book References:  Crucial accountability / crucial conversations / Influencer

We have all heard the saying that idle hands are the enemies play thing.  It can be easy to just go to work, come home and fill that time with un-productive and non-life giving activity.  That ease leads to an unbalanced life that feels blah and passionless and can make us irritable and uneasy and so much more.  In todays episode I discuss how important it is for men to have an avocation... and how that can impact their families and their communities.  Help grow the show by giving a rating and review!! 

Improving the way the world responds to you is a game of improving your standards.  Society needs men of standards, presence, and character more then ever before. God has called you as a man to be set apart and to advance the kingdom.  The problem is who are the standard bearers?  right now its society itself, its the government. It needs to be GOD In today's episode I dive into standards and why they are so important to us as men.  Rate and Review the show! 

The last episode in the Three part series principles of relationships.  This episode covers the principle " It's more about you, then you think"  So much effort and energy is spent on trying to fix others or wait for others too fix themselves instead of making sure you in alignment with God and fully submitted to the ways of our Lord.  This principle is by you getting yourself right, others around you will get right. 

Relationships are a critical aspect of a man's success in life. Jesus came to save people not for religion.  Each one of us has numerous relationships that when strong and healthy allow us as men to be at our best.  In today's Episode I discuss the principle " You get out, what you put in "  How much are you investing into your relationships?  How intentional about daily interaction are you?  These are important questions that must be addressed in order for our relationships to improve.  Stop doing what you can and feel and do what you must! 

Communication in relationships is absolutely paramount!  Today's episode covers the THREE primary places that we communicate from.  - Friend  - Husband  - Leader  Dig into the practical tips and communicate affective and with truth and love!  Check out the books crucial conversations & crucial accountability  want to support the show? become a patron below https://www.patreon.com/TraversingManhood?fan_landing=true

There is a tendency to treat kids especially our children like little adults.  This tendency is very harmful and can lead to a lot of lasting issues in the future.  Today's episode covers the principle to eradicate this bad habit, and some practical ways of thinking to help keep you focused on the blessing that children are in our lives. Be sure to give the show a rating and review!  want to support the show financially?  https://www.patreon.com/TraversingManhood?fan_landing=true      

We are creatures of habit right? I agree with this and think that this fact has an upside. I also recognize the downside and wanted to share that downside with you.  In this episode I am discussing how too much habit can create a bubble or comfort zone that holds you back from growth and hinders perspective on how we think about the world and how we make decisions and the people we spend time with.  So get outside the bubble and open up again to reach the next level.  Like, comment, Subscribe below!  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDKc33u60FV_vpUDny0tnOA

As the man of the house you are called to lead.  Leadership is not easy or simple.  Leading your home and your family and yourself is a journey that requires tons of patience, perspective, learning and practice.  As men we should all commit to being practitioners of leadership so we can show up best for those in our charge.  Today, I spoke with Pastor Michael Fletcher on this very topic and he share some key insights from his perspective and experience.  Like, Comment, Subscribe on youtube @  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDKc33u60FV_vpUDny0tnOA Pick up the book @ https://www.christianbook.com/empowering-leadership-development-culture-leaders-faster/michael-fletcher/9780718093761/pd/093761?en=google&event=SHOP&kw=church-supplies-0-20%7C093761&p=1179710&dv=c&gclid=Cj0KCQjwm9yJBhDTARIsABKIcGYYtmnr9FHn20bQWY2xHJn4_ptESFlNk-VlLC2DnOc24ijC1rZIgGkaAmujEALw_wcB  

Take me to church! Not just a decent song lyric but practical and righteous advice for the Christian Man to develop and build the skills he needs to have a fruit producing walk with God.   Todays episode I break down why going to church is so powerful and impactful for men today. If you are on the fence, get off and join the spiritual fight.  Want to support? become a patron @ https://www.patreon.com/TraversingManhood?fan_landing=true Like, comment, and subscribe to our youtube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDKc33u60FV_vpUDny0tnOA

Culturally and historically, Men communicating, expressing and experiencing love can be a difficult path to traverse.  However, there is a resource available to all for those who want to experience and enjoy a life of connection, a fruitful life of connection.  It is - The FIVE Love Languages by Gary Chapman.  In this episode I discuss a few revelations I received from reviewing and re-digesting this books content.  Pick up the book and practice guys, living a live of love is not sissy or wimpy. its quite the opposite its a show of strength.  Go out and show your strength!  Want to support the Traversing Manhood Movement?  Become a patron @ https://www.patreon.com/TraversingManhood?fan_landing=true

In today's edition of Thursday's Thought's I aim to encourage and empower you take a look into what you do in regards to what is happening to you on a daily basis.  I believe that our Happiness, joy, success, productivity, self-talk, etc.. is determined by how we interact with the people and the environment around us and how we think about it all.  The principle of response vs reaction is a path to obtaining more fruit and success from our relationships, ourselves, our environment.  Want to help support the podcast? Become a patron at the link below:  https://www.patreon.com/TraversingManhood?fan_landing=true  

The version we find ourselves living in is not always the version we know is best for us or the version we want to show up as.  In todays Thursday's thoughts I share a story that made me realize this fact and a pathway through this identity crisis.  Give the show a rating and review wherever your tuning in at.  want to support the show? check out our patreon at the link below Traversing Manhood is creating a podcast that helps young men live with more purpose | Patreon