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Best podcasts about Ryan George

Latest podcast episodes about Ryan George

Pirate Monk Podcast
457 | Ryan George | Healing From Abuse

Pirate Monk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 64:00


On this episode: Nate provides tough support to extended family. Aaron asks how Jesus would show up. They also discuss an adventure Samson weekend and want your feedback.This week, Nate and Aaron talk to adrenaline junkie Ryan George. Ryan is the oldest of six siblings, a preacher's kid, a home school kid, traveler, wing walker, author, speaker, husband, and father, and is experienced in "cloisteration". He shares how his search for Jesus has taken him to over 30 countries. The guys discuss Ryan's experiences of emotional, physical, sexual and spiritual abuse in the church, and how it lead him on a healing journey which includes writing his newest book. He also talks about the challenges of “doing it for the likes” on social media.Links: Books by Ryan Ryan on Facebook Ryan on Instagram Ryan on LinkedinBook: Hurt and healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction after Spiritual AbuseMay 4-7, 2025 Sarah Society Annual Retreat June 6-8, 2025 Samson Canadian Retreat Sept. 12-14, 2025 Austrian Retreat Nov 7-9, 2025 Santa Fe, NM Samson Summit Nov 7-9, 2025 The Wild & Sacred Journey, Womens RetreatSponsor: Life Works Counseling If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.   facebook.com Log in or sign up to view See posts, photos and more on Facebook.   linkedin.com Ryan George - Biplane Productions | LinkedIn I help auctioneers make bigger commissions and look like marketing experts to their sellers and future sellers. · Experience: Biplane Productions · Location: Lynchburg · 500+ connections on LinkedIn. View Ryan George's profile on LinkedIn, a professional community of 1 billion members.

Providence North Community Church
Hebrews | Don't Drift From Jesus - Ryan George

Providence North Community Church

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2025 45:39


SportsJam
'KING JAMES' is a funny and heartwarming play about friendship and passion for the Cleveland Cavs and its iconic star

SportsJam

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2025 33:12


King James director Ryan George and actors Doug Harris and Blake Morris join SportsJam with Doug Doyle to talk about the comedy that runs through April 6 at GSP

AM Live on EOA
AM Live on EOA Guests Dr. Kelly Ryan, George Mendoza 2/27/2025

AM Live on EOA

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 65:14


AM Live on EOA Guests Dr. Kelly Ryan, George Mendoza 2/27/2025

The Jay Aruga Show
S06 E125: Ang UNANG TAO na Nangaral na HINDI DIYOS si Kristo (BETTER IN VIDEO)

The Jay Aruga Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 3:41


DISCLAIMER: Wala po tayong pinapatamaan na specific religion sa skit na ito. Who knows? Maaaring si kuya ay isang Arain na nag-time travel from the 4th century. Nevertheless, ENJOY this Ryan George-inspired sketch. Did Jesus really claim to be God?

Sunday School Dropouts
Hurt and Healed by the Church

Sunday School Dropouts

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 54:15


We are excited to be joined by author and adventurer, Ryan George! Ryan recently wrote and published the book “Hurt and Healed by the Church” which details his life as a pastor's kid whose father was a pastor in the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church. Ryan's story is unique in that his father engaged of multiple acts of clergy sexual abuse with children. But instead of keeping that story ‘in the dark', Ryan has supported his father's victims, brought the truth into the light, and has created a life for himself opposite of his father's path. To follow Ryan's work or purchase his book, check out the links: Ryan's books: www.booksbyryan.comFind Ryan on Instagram: @ryplane Ryan's blog: www.Explorience.orgThis podcast is brought to you by the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery: an online trauma coaching company whose practitioners are trauma informed and trauma trained to work with individuals, couples and families who have experienced high control religion, cults, and religious trauma. For more information on the support that CTRR provides, for resources–including courses, workshops, and more–head to traumaresolutionandrecovery.com or follow us on Instagram: @traumaresolutionandrecovery The views and opinions expressed by Sunday School Dropouts are those of the hosts and not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery. Any of the content provided by our guests, sponsors, authors, or bloggers are their own ideas and opinions.The Sunday School Dropouts podcast is not anti-religion but it is anti -harm, -power and control, -oppression and, -abuse and will speak to the harmful practices and messaging of fundamentalist groups. Follow Andrew on Instagram and TikTok @deconstruct_everything Follow Laura on Instagram and TikTok @drlauraeanderson or on her website: www.drlauraeanderson.com Hosts: Laura Anderson and Andrew KerbsMusic by Benjamin Faye Music @heytherebenji Editing and Production by Kevin Crowe and can be found at  kevincrowe.co

LIFE Today Live on Lightsource.com
Ryan George - My Father Was A Predator (Best of 2024)

LIFE Today Live on Lightsource.com

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 27:14


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LIFE Today Live on Lightsource.com
Ryan George - My Father Was A Predator (Best of 2024)

LIFE Today Live on Lightsource.com

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 27:14


Watch Randy Robison from LIFE Today Live To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.lightsource.com/donate/872/29

Java with Juli
#538 How I Rebuilt Faith In God After Church Abuse

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 44:16


buse so often warps our sense of self and our sense of who God is. How do you lose the lies and rediscover your faith? Author and adventurer Ryan George joins Juli to talk about how he disentangled the manipulation and abuse of his past and discovered who God really is.     Guest: Ryan George     Ryan's Website: explorience.org Ryan's Instagram: @ryplane   Book: Hurt and Healed by the Church by Ryan George   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

The ShannyPants Show
Hurt and healed by the Church

The ShannyPants Show

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 58:33


Episode with Ryan GeorgeHost: Shanny Guest:Ryan George Episode Title: Hurt and healed by the Church: Ryan George's Journey of HopeIn this powerful episode, host Shanny sits down with Ryan George, author and survivor of an abusive childhood rooted in religious trauma. Ryan shares his deeply personal story of resilience after facing unimaginable challenges, including the shocking revelation of his father's predatory behavior as a pastor.What would you do if you learned from a podcast that your dad—a pastor—was a serial sexual abuser? For Ryan, this wasn't a hypothetical scenario; it was a painful reality that forced him to confront the faces behind the stories he had heard. As he delved into the dysfunction and abuse within the cult of his youth, Ryan recognized that such predatory behavior was often woven into the very fabric of his former faith.Rather than allowing this trauma to destroy his spirit, Ryan found solace in a different understanding of Jesus—one that is tender and redemptive. In his new book, *Hurt and Healed by the Church*, he recounts how he separated his faith from the harmful doctrines of American fundamentalism. Through candid reflections, Ryan illustrates the mental shifts and restorative relationships that guided him toward healing from church trauma and spiritual manipulation.If you've experienced church hurt or are grappling with your faith in light of past abuse, Ryan's insights offer a path to rebuild your faith without feeling like you're abandoning it. His story serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration, demonstrating that unorthodox redemption is possible.Key Takeaways:- Understanding the reality of abuse within religious institutions- The journey of separating faith from harmful beliefs- Finding healing and restoration after church trauma- The importance of community and supportive relationships in recovery- How rebuilding faith can lead to a more compassionate and loving understanding of spiritualityResources Mentioned:- Ryan George's new book: *Hurt and Healed by the Church*See Book HereFind out more about Ryan HereConnect with Us:- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny

To Love Honor and Vacuum
Episode 243: Modesty vs. Vanity: Maybe We Need to Shift the Conversation!

To Love Honor and Vacuum

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 57:13 Transcription Available


The evangelical church spends a lot of time giving modesty messages to girls. But we hardly ever talk about vanity--even though the Bible condemns it. Could it be that in all our talk about modesty, we're inadvertently promoting vanity? And perhaps we can't call out vanity, because our messages to boys essentially enable vanity. Join Rebecca and Sheila as we hash this one out!With thanks to our sponsor:If church was your place of deepest hurt, can you find peace and healing with Christ? Check out Ryan George's book  Hurt and Healed by the Church To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Things Mentioned in the Podcast: Our book She Deserves BetterOur podcast looking at the long-term effects of the modesty messageWhy is Dannah Gresh calling 8-year-old bellies intoxicating?Our one-sheet on Lies Young Women BelieveThe reel from Our Savior's ChurchThe side-by-side plagiarized apology from Josh HowertonJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

To Love Honor and Vacuum
Episode 242: Spot the Propaganda and Logical Fallacies feat. Scott Coley

To Love Honor and Vacuum

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 60:10 Transcription Available


Ever heard people say, "The Bible is crystal clear" or "if you don't believe that, you don't believe the Bible?" Quite often people equate their interpretation of the Bible with the Bible itself--with bad results. Today Scott Coley joins us to talk about his new book Ministers of Propaganda, and to look at how many evangelical leaders have used logical fallacies to keep themselves at the top of the power hierarchy. Plus let's look at how to get back to the way of Jesus!With thanks to our sponsor:If church was your place of deepest hurt, can you find peace and healing with Christ? Check out Ryan George's book  Hurt and Healed by the Church To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Things Mentioned in the Podcast: Find Scott Coley's book Ministers of PropagandaFind Scott on XCheck out The Great Sex Rescue ToolkitJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

To Love Honor and Vacuum
Episode 241: Both Hurt and Healed by the Church

To Love Honor and Vacuum

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 67:06 Transcription Available


What if the church hurt you terribly? Can you still heal? Today Ryan George joins us to talk about how his fundamentalist family covers up his father's sexual abuse of others—and how Ryan eventually learned the truth and turned his father in. And then Ryan deconstructed so much of what he had been taught—and found the real Jesus. Join us as Ryan George talks about his book Hurt and Healed by the Church.About Ryan's BookRyan's book Hurt and Healed by the Church Find all of Ryan's booksTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex RescueShe Deserves BetterThe Good Girl's Guide to Great Sexand The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

IndoctriNation
Hurt & Healed By The Church w/Ryan George

IndoctriNation

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 83:15


Ryan George spent the first 20 years of his life in a cult, attending a series of Independent Fundamental Baptist churches including one where his dad was the pastor, whose word was the ultimate authority. It wasn't until Ryan was confronted with the truth that his father was a serial sexual abuser hiding his sins behind Bible verses, that Ryan realized his faith was built on a foundation of lies. He's spent the last 25 years reevaluating what he truly believes, and miraculously, while he left the spiritually abusive IFB movement, he didn't leave behind his faith altogether. In this episode, Ryan recounts his experience of confronting his father and the complex path of untangling his personal faith from the harmful tenets of American fundamentalism and the teachings of Bill Gothard. Despite the spiritual and physical abuse he endured, Ryan managed to reconstruct his faith and find redemption. His new book, "Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse," delves into these experiences and his journey toward healing. Rachel and Ryan also explore the broader implications of abuse within religious settings and how it impacts families and communities. Ryan's story is a powerful reminder of the importance of speaking out and finding one's own path to healing and faith. Connect with us on Social Media: Twitter: twitter.com/_indoctrination Facebook: facebook.com/indoctrinationpodcast Instagram: instagram.com/indoctrinationpodcast YouTube: youtube.com/rachelbernsteinlmft Your reviews and ratings on Spotify and Apple/iTunes are greatly appreciated and help the show reach a wider audience.

The Crumpled Papers Podcast
S3 E11: When A Pastor's Son Discovers His Father Is A Serial Sexual Abuser...

The Crumpled Papers Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 69:13


This week on the podcast, I am joined by Ryan George, author of the book, "Hurt and Healed By the Church", to hear his experiences growing up a pastor's son in the IFB movement, and the shocking story of finding out his father was a serial sexual abuser... through a podcast. The conversation in this episode is inspired by the topics and themes of my book "A Jumble of Crumpled Papers".   Get your copy of “A Jumble of Crumpled Papers” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0BCD5PMX5/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=&sr=      Connect with us! Austin's Instagram: www.instagram.com/austin_noll  Podcast's Instagram: www.instagram.com/crumpledpaperspodcast  Email us at crumpledpaperspodcast@gmail.com   Check out Ryan's Book "Hurt and Healed By the Church" on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Hurt-Healed-Church-Redemption-Reconstruction/dp/B0D155GJXG/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3IGPK683AP5MI&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ZSRPX-XTpHnLrQ8B5K1P9TuAfTveUxBRVVMoNk_7xnU.OtNw1NzSEiZowyG8ph1FPipMDVhMtUie3ChwHUSjJAw&dib_tag=se&keywords=hurt+and+healed+by+the+church+ryan+george&qid=1719870736&sprefix=hurt+and+he%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1    Connect with Ryan! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryplane/     

This Is Not Church Podcast
Hurt And Healed: A Conversation With Ryan George

This Is Not Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 68:22


This Quoircast podcast episode is brought to you by Mornings With Schleiermacher by Chad Bahl. Published by Quoir and will be available on July 9, 2024In this episde we chat with Ryan GeorgeRyan George co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch spiritual adventure community, as well as a serving incubator of volunteers at his church. During business hours, he works as a virtual marketing assistant; and his work has won more than 250 state & national awards for projects spanning 49 states and seven countries. Ryan enjoys conversations about the connection between faith and adventure. His goal is to help you embrace a life of spiritual awareness and discovery. Whether on stage or on social media, he hopes to inspire you to follow Jesus outside your comfort zones. In his books and blog posts, Ryan invites readers to explore a rich faith experience available in the midst of doubt, fear, and pressure. Ryan has traveled to all seven continents and both polar circles across 30 countries, searching for spiritual discoveries. He looks for Jesus in places and activities that don't look like Sunday morning church services. And, because Jesus promised it would happen, Ryan has found profound moments with Jesus in all of them.You can follow Ryan on:Facebook     InstagramYou can find all things Ryan George related on his websiteYou can purchase Hurt and Healed by the Church on Amazon.comYou can connect with This Is Not Church on:Facebook     Instagram      Twitter     TikTok     YouTubeAlso check out our Biolink for all things This Is Not Church relatedPlease like and follow our Quoircast Partners:Heretic Happy Hour     Messy Spirituality     Apostates Anonymous    Second Cup with Keith     The Church Needs TherapyIdeas Digest      Snarky Faith Podcast     Wild Olive     Deadly Faith     Spirituality Brew Pub     Faith For The Rest Of UsJonathan_Foster     Sacred Thoughts     Holy Heretics     Reframing Our Stories     Bros Bibles & Beer      Liminal LivingLove Covered Life     The Social Jesus ProjectEach episode of This Is Not Church Podcast is expertly engineered by our producer The Podcast Doctor Eric Howell. If you're thinking of starting a podcast you need to connect with Eric!

Growing Up Christian
Ep. 186 – My Dad, the Predator in the Pulpit w/ Author Ryan George

Growing Up Christian

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 119:55


This week we're joined by Ryan George, author of “Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse.” Ryan was listening to a podcast one day when he heard a heartbreaking story of sexual abuse about a pastor, a pastor who happened to be his father. It's hard to imagine being hit with such a devastating revelation, but it set off a chain reaction that forced him to square himself with his own physical abuse at the hands of his dad. In his book, Ryan recounts the full story of his upbringing, coping with his father's crimes, doing what he can to help the victims his dad had hurt, and how he found spiritual healing in what some might think is an unlikely place: the church. We really enjoyed talking with Ryan, and we hope you enjoy the discussion (it begins at 44:00)! Find his book “Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse” through Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and many other book retailers, check out his podcast Everyday Adventures, and follow Ryan on Instagram (@ryplane).

Preacher Boys Podcast
310: Ryan George | I Discovered My Father Was a Serial Predator

Preacher Boys Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 64:54


I highly encourage you to watch the past interview with Cathy that we referenced in the episode: https://youtu.be/DoPQVDE9c7k✖️✖️✖️Grab a copy of Ryan's book: https://amzn.to/45j7dl4✖️✖️✖️BOOK DESCRIPTION: What would you do if you learned—from a podcast—that your dad (a pastor) was a serial sexual abuser?For Ryan George, this isn't a hypothetical question. He knew the faces behind the stories he heard. In fact, his mind flashed with memories of the abuse he'd endured from that same pastor as he listened to news that would change his life. In time, as he processed the destruction rampant in the cult of his youth, he found predatory behavior to be more of a feature than a bug of his former religion as both abuse and coverups were baked into its theology.Rather than spiral into an understandable deconstruction of his faith, Ryan instead leaned into the intimate embrace of a winsome Jesus. His book, Hurt and Healed by the Church details how he untangled Jesus from the harmful tenets of American fundamentalism. Ryan describes the mental shifts and the restorative relationships he experienced on his journey of healing from church trauma and spiritual manipulation. If you are someone looking to heal church hurt—by leaders or institutions—Ryan shows how rebuilding your faith doesn't have to look like abandonment. He offers hope and inspiration through his story of an unorthodox redemption.If Ryan could find a thriving and contagious faith after experiencing deep church wounds, so can you.✖️✖️✖️Support the Show: Patreon.com/PreacherBoys✖️✖️✖️If you or someone you know has experienced abuse, visit courage365.org/need-help✖️✖️✖️CONNECT WITH THE SHOW:preacherboyspodcast.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@PreacherBoyshttps://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/https://twitter.com/preacherboysdochttps://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/https://www.tiktok.com/@preacherboyspodTo connect with a community that shares the Preacher Boys Podcast's mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188/*as an amazon associate I may receive a small commission on purchases made through links in these show notesSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/preacher-boys-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Pivotal People
Rediscovering a Jesus-Centered Life with Ryan George

Pivotal People

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 31:38 Transcription Available


Send us a Text Message.Have you ever felt the sting of spiritual hurt or the soothing balm of healing within the walls of a church? Joining us today is Ryan George, whose book "Hurt and Healed by the Church" chronicles a tumultuous yet hopeful journey through faith, pain, and redemption. In this episode Ryan shares how to  redefine the essence of a Jesus-centered life in spite of past spiritual hurts.  Ryan explains his past within the restrictive confines of the Independent Fundamental Baptist movement and how he came to understand the simplicity and beauty of Christ's teachings.The path toward healing from spiritual trauma is seldom straight, but it's rich with lessons on grace and the power of community. If your spirit thirsts for a faith journey that's as adventurous as it is genuine, tune in to learn more from Ryan George.Order his book "Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction after Spiritual Abuse"Connect with Ryan:booksbyryan.comhttps://www.instagram.com/ryplane/https://www.facebook.com/ryan.george/https://www.threads.net/@ryplane  https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryangeorge/ Order Stephanie's new book Imagine More: Do What You Love, Discover Your Potential Learn more at StephanieNelson.comFollow us on Instagram @stephanie_nelson_cmFollow us on Facebook at CouponMom

Dawn and Steve Mornings
Hurt and Healed by the Church

Dawn and Steve Mornings

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 26:59 Transcription Available


Dawn and Steve welcome Ryan George as he graciously shares his story of church trauma. Ryan offers us hope with his book Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse. Ryan George co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch spiritual adventure community, as well as a serving incubator of volunteers at his church. During business hours, he works as a virtual marketing assistant; and his work has won more than 250 state & national awards for projects spanning 49 states and seven countries. Whether on stage or on social media, he hopes to inspire you to follow Jesus outside your comfort zone. In his books and blog posts, Ryan invites readers to explore a rich faith experience available in the midst of doubt, fear, and pressure. He looks for Jesus in places and activities that don't look like Sunday morning church services. And, because Jesus promised it would happen, Ryan has found profound moments with Jesus in all of them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Faithful Politics
"I Am The Son of a Predatory Serial Sex Offender Pastor" w/Ryan George

Faithful Politics

Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2024 59:23


Send us a Text Message.*Warning: This Episode Contains Descriptions of Sexual Abuse*Ryan George, author of 'Hurt and Healed by the Church,' shares his personal journey of healing from church hurt caused by his abusive pastor father. He discusses the damaging effects of church abuse and the importance of finding healing within a faith community. Ryan also sheds light on the independent fundamental Baptist (IFB) movement, describing it as a cult-like environment characterized by authoritarian leadership and strict rules. He emphasizes the need to believe and support victims of church abuse and highlights the challenges of seeking justice within the church and legal systems. In this conversation, Ryan George and Josh discuss the tension between the representation of Jesus in the church and the reality of who Jesus is. They explore the ways in which people have wrapped their faith around political figures and justify their actions based on their interpretation of Jesus. They also delve into the connection between the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) movement and the teachings of Bill Gothard, highlighting the abusive practices and toxic theology that have been prevalent in these circles. Ryan shares his journey of deconstructing and reconstructing his faith, emphasizing the importance of following the example of Jesus and surrounding oneself with safe and grace-filled voices. He encourages listeners to seek healing and recovery, reminding them that it is possible and that Jesus can be found in unexpected places.Buy Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse: https://a.co/d/0bDEIieGuest Bio:Ryan George co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch spiritual adventure community, as well as a serving incubator of volunteers at his church. During business hours, he works as a virtual marketing assistant; and his work has won more than 250 state & national awards for projects spanning 49 states and seven countries. Ryan enjoys conversations about the connection between faith and adventure. His goal is to help you embrace a life of spiritual awareness and discovery. Whether on stage or on social media, he hopes to inspire you to follow Jesus outside your comfort zones. In his books and blog posts, Ryan invites readers to explore a rich faith experience available in the midst of doubt, fear, and pressure.Ryan has traveled to all seven continents and both polar circles across 30 countries, searching for spiritual discoveries. He looks for Jesus in places and activities that don't look like Sunday morning church services. And, because Jesus promised "The Faith Roundtable" is a captivating spinoff from the Faithful Politics podcast, dedicated to exploring the crucial issues facing the church in America today. Hosted by Josh Burtram, this podcast brings together faith leaders, theologians, and scholars for deep, respectful discussions on topics at the heart of American Christianity. From the intersection of faith and public life to urgent matters such as social justice and community engagement, each episode offers insightful conversations Support the Show.To learn more about the show, contact our hosts, or recommend future guests, click on the links below: Website: https://www.faithfulpoliticspodcast.com/ Faithful Host: Josh@faithfulpoliticspodcast.com Political Host: Will@faithfulpoliticspodcast.com Twitter: @FaithfulPolitik Instagram: faithful_politics Facebook: FaithfulPoliticsPodcast LinkedIn: faithfulpolitics Subscribe to our Substack: https://faithfulpolitics.substack.com/

The Two Cities
Episode #226 - Hurt and Healed by the Church with Ryan George

The Two Cities

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 55:44


CW: sexual and physical abuse, spiritual abuse, grooming, molestation, childhood trauma In this episode we're joined by Ryan George, who is the author of Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse. During our conversation, Ryan tells us his story, which centers on how his father was an abusive pastor in the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist context, influenced by Bill Gothard's teaching. As Ryan articulates, he had every reason to leave the church and never return, but his story includes redemption after he deconstructed his fundamentalist way of being Christian. From his vantage point, Ryan highlights some of the features that characterize safe churches for people who have been hurt by the church. Team members on the episode from The Two Cities include: Dr. Josh Carroll, Dr. John Anthony Dunne, and the Rev. Dr. Nathaniel Warne. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Reclamation Podcast
#348: Ryan George: Hurt and Healed by the Church

Reclamation Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 40:44


In this episode of the Follow 2 Lead Podcast, we're excited to welcome Ryan George, an adventurer, author, and passionate advocate for helping individuals heal from church hurt. Join us as Ryan shares his unique journey and insights on navigating the pain and disappointment that can arise from negative church experiences. With his adventurous spirit and deep compassion, Ryan provides practical advice and encouragement for those seeking to find healing and restoration. Through candid conversation, Ryan opens up about his own experiences with church hurt and how he has worked through the pain to find hope and renewal. He offers valuable perspectives on how to reconcile faith with hurtful experiences and rebuild a positive relationship with the church community. Whether you've personally experienced church hurt or are looking to support others in their healing journey, this episode offers profound insights and practical steps to move forward with grace and resilience. Tune in as we delve into the important topic of dealing with church hurt with adventurer and author Ryan George on the Follow 2 Lead Podcast. Let's learn together how to find healing, forgiveness, and a renewed sense of faith and community. booksbyryan.com https://www.instagram.com/ryplane/ https://www.facebook.com/ryan.george/ https://www.threads.net/@ryplane   https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryangeorge/   Please check out our sponsors   Greg Fay Insurance: https://www.gregfayinsurance.com/   Trent Barga - Elevate Real Estate https://thebargateam.com/   Five Star Home Services (heating, cooling, electric and plumbing) https://www.myfivestarhomeservices.com/     Follow 2 Lead Coaching https://www.follow2leadcoaching.com/quiz   Tony on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/twmilt/   Check out our YouTube page https://www.youtube.com/tmiltenberger1   Be sure to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/follow-2-lead-a-christian-leaders-podcast/id1429933082

Flying Free
Is Your Church Safe?

Flying Free

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 59:49


Ryan Geoge grew up with a father who abused him, a church that hurt him, and a heart that needed healing. Even after learning he wasn't the only one being abused at the hands of his father, Ryan still found healing he desperately needed, and he's on a mission to help others heal, tell their story, and live life to the fullest.  Together, Ryan and I talk aboutRyan's story growing up in Independent Fundamental Baptist churches How Ryan found out about more of his father's victims outside of their familyWhy Ryan's book was written to shine a light on problematic theological issues in the church in order to prevent more victims from being hurtHow finding a healthy church changed Ryan's life and beliefsWhat you should look for when searching for a healthy churchAnd more! Read the show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Grab your copy of Ryan's newest book, Hurt and Healed by the Church, as well as his first book, Scared to Life.Check out Ryan's blog, Explorience.Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Facebook. My newest book, All the Scary Little Gods, is a spiritual memoir about healing from religious trauma and toxic programming. Are you wondering what is happening inside your own painful and confusing marriage? I wrote another book just for you called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse. Flying Free is my online membership program designed for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave, we want to equip and support you through this program.Flying Higher is my online membership program for divorced Christian women. Come rebuild your life after divorce with women just like you. Support the Flying Free podcast AND get in on monthly deep-dive discussions with podcast guests by joining the Flying Free Podcast Club for a $5 monthly donation HERE. (Members of Flying Free and Flying Higher can join these discussions FREE. Just reach out to me, natalie@flyingfreenow.com, and we'll get you set up!) Ryan George is the author of Hurt and Healed by the Church, and Scared to Life. He's the blogger behind Explorience.org. He co-founded and co-leads Dude Group, a spiritual adventure community in the Blue Ridge Mountains where he lives with his wife, Crystal, and daughter, Deonnie.

The New Evangelicals Podcast
256. TNE TALKS: The Church Hurt Me Then it Healed Me // Ryan George

The New Evangelicals Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 62:59


Summary Ryan George grew up in the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) church and experienced both abuse and healing within the church. He shares his story of growing up in a conservative and abusive environment, where rules and regulations were enforced to an extreme degree. Ryan's father, a pastor in the IFB network, was later exposed as a serial sexual predator. Ryan reflects on the spiritual and physical abuse he endured, as well as the ways in which the IFB culture justified and perpetuated this abuse. It was through therapy, healthy relationships, and experiencing true love and community that Ryan began to recognize the abuse he had endured and find healing. Ryan George shares his journey of healing and redemption after experiencing spiritual abuse and the harm caused by his father. Despite the pain and trauma, Ryan found healing in the church through authentic relationships and a personal connection with God. He emphasizes the importance of finding safe spaces and supportive communities where individuals can share their hurts and doubts. Ryan's story highlights the power of redefining one's understanding of God and finding healing in unexpected places. Takeaways The IFB culture enforced extreme rules and regulations, leading to spiritual and physical abuse. Through therapy, healthy relationships, and experiencing true love and community, Ryan began to recognize the abuse he had endured and find healing.  Authentic relationships and supportive communities in the church can play a crucial role in the healing process. Redefining one's understanding of God and finding a personal connection can lead to healing and transformation. Safe spaces where individuals can share their hurts and doubts are essential for healing and growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Hurt and Healed by the Church 07:37 The Dark Side of the IFB: Serial Sexual Predators 26:59 Introduction and Background 37:07 Navigating the Church After Spiritual Abuse 45:02 Finding Healing and Redemption in the Church Register for Faith and Politics for the Rest of Us Check out our website for merch, educational materials, and how to join our community! If you'd like to support our work, you can DONATE here! Follow Us On Instagram @thenewevangelicals  Subscribe On YouTube The New Evangelicals exists to support those who are tired of how evangelical church has been done before and want to see an authentic faith lived out with Jesus at the center. We are committed to building a caring community that emulates the ways of Jesus by reclaiming the evangelical tradition and embracing values that build a better way forward. If you've been marginalized by your faith, you are welcome here. We've built an empathetic and inclusive space that encourages authentic conversations, connections and faith. Whether you consider yourself a Christian, an exvangelical, someone who's questioning your faith, or someone who's left the faith entirely, you are welcome here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Business with Purpose
#394 Hurt and Healed by the Church with Ryan George

Business with Purpose

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 64:02


In today's episode, I'm joined by the remarkable Ryan George. Ryan is the author of the book, Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse.  He spent the first 20 years of his life in a cult, attending a series of independent fundamental Baptist (IFB) churches, including one where his dad was a pastor with ultimate authority. Later in life, Ryan was confronted with the devastating truth of his father's serial sexual abuse. Despite the trauma he experienced, Ryan didn't abandon his faith. After leaving the spiritually abusive IFB movement, he embarked on a 25-year journey of reevaluation and reconstruction. Today, through his blog, books, interviews, and spiritual adventure company, Dude Group, Ryan offers hope for those navigating their own paths of healing.  I do want to warn our listeners that this episode focuses on sensitive subjects like church hurt and sexual abuse. However, Ryan's story is so powerful, and filled with hope, compassion, and healing.  2:48 – Ryan 101 Oldest of six homeschooled children + a pastor's son Husband and adoptive father Adventurer and blogger Author of 3 books 6:51 – The Path To Healing  Discovering his father's abuse Navigating the aftermath Sharing his story to help others 18:16 – Jesus' Model Of Justice Jesus as a model for handling anger and betrayal Pursuing justice with compassion Seeking Heaven on Earth 33:31 – Finding The Real Jesus  What identifies a cult from a healthy church environment  Ryan's experience with IFB churches Seeking out the authentic Jesus  Recognizing that churches have both moments of beauty and moments of failure 54:54 – Takeaways Being the person that confesses first Podcast recording stories Connecting with Ryan FEATURED QUOTES "Wounds from relationships are only healed in relationships... And I think that wounds from the church can only be healed not necessarily in a church building, but by people who also love Jesus."   “Give people the gift of going second... You have to start with yourself, or it can spin in some very horrible places. You become a bomb thrower…. I want to be the person that confesses first, so that people go, ‘Oh, that's the real thing.'”   Learn more about Ryan: Instagram: https://www.booksbyryan.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ryan.george Ryan's Website https://www.booksbyryan.com/ Check out Ryan's books: https://www.booksbyryan.com/books/ Explorience: https://explorience.org/about/   Connect with me:  http://www.stillbeingmolly.com  http://instagram.com/stillbeingmolly http://instagram.com/canilaughpod http://twitter.com/stillbeingmolly http://facebook.com/stillbeingmolly http://facebook.com/canilaughpod http://tiktok.com/@stillbeingmolly GET YOUR COPY of ‘IF I DON'T LAUGH, I'LL CRY” TODAY: Barnes & Noble: https://bit.ly/IIDLICbn  Amazon: https://amzn.to/48VYFkG  ChristianBook: https://bit.ly/IIDLICcb  Target: https://bit.ly/3Shh3Q2 Walmart: https://bit.ly/3MmGVpJ Indie Bound: https://bit.ly/IIDLICib Audible: https://amzn.to/3ITcdm8  Kindle: https://amzn.to/3ITaSvv  About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.

Dawn and Steve Mornings
Hurt and Healed by the Church

Dawn and Steve Mornings

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 26:58 Transcription Available


Dawn and Steve welcome Ryan George as he graciously shares his story of church trauma. Ryan offers us hope with his book Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse. Ryan George co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch spiritual adventure community, as well as a serving incubator of volunteers at his church. During business hours, he works as a virtual marketing assistant; and his work has won more than 250 state & national awards for projects spanning 49 states and seven countries. Whether on stage or on social media, he hopes to inspire you to follow Jesus outside your comfort zone. In his books and blog posts, Ryan invites readers to explore a rich faith experience available in the midst of doubt, fear, and pressure. He looks for Jesus in places and activities that don't look like Sunday morning church services. And, because Jesus promised it would happen, Ryan has found profound moments with Jesus in all of them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

FrontStage BackStage with Jason Daye - Healthy Leadership for Life and Ministry
Healing from Church Trauma & Spiritual Abuse - Ryan George - 107 - FrontStage BackStage with Jason Daye

FrontStage BackStage with Jason Daye - Healthy Leadership for Life and Ministry

Play Episode Play 58 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 32:42 Transcription Available


How can our churches become places of healing for those who have experienced church trauma and spiritual abuse? In this week's conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Ryan George. Ryan is the co-founder of a spiritual adventure community in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia. He's written several books, including his latest, entitled Hurt and Healed by the Church. Ryan shares his story of redemption and reconstruction of his faith after spiritual abuse and church trauma. Together, Ryan and Jason look at some of the ways that our local churches can open our doors and make space for those who've experienced spiritual abuse.Dig deeper into this conversation: Find the free Weekly Toolkit, including the Ministry Leaders Growth Guide, all resource links, and more, at http://PastorServe.org/networkSome key takeaways from this conversation:Ryan George on the recognition that moments of struggle and hardship can be transformative, leading people to Jesus: "I heard people saying, ‘I've struggled with this, and this is where I've met Jesus in that struggle."Ryan George on the power of genuine faith and the ability to influence others positively through one's own sincerity and dedication: "I had everyone around me so authentically chasing after this Jesus, that it was contagious."Ryan George on the importance of focusing on one's relationship with Jesus rather than merely attending church services or being in a church building: "The point isn't to rush back to a church service or even a church building. The point is to rush to Jesus."----------------Looking to dig more deeply into this topic and conversation? FrontStage BackStage is much more than another church leadership show, it is a complete resource to help you and your ministry leaders grow. Every week we go the extra mile and create a free toolkit so you and your ministry team can dive deeper into the topic that is discussed.Visit http://PastorServe.org/network to find the Weekly Toolkit, including the Ministry Leaders Growth Guide. Our team pulls key insights and quotes from every conversation with our guests. We also create engaging questions for you and your team to consider and process, providing space for you to reflect on how each episode's topic relates to your unique church context. Use these questions in your staff meetings, or other settings, to guide your conversation as you invest in the growth of your ministry leaders. Love well, live well, & lead well Complimentary Coaching Session for Pastors http://PastorServe.org/freesession Follow PastorServe LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram | FacebookConnect with Jason Daye LinkedIn | Instagram...

The Roys Report
Escaping IFB Abuse And Lies

The Roys Report

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 33:19


Guest Bios Show Transcript https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tbf5FsOm0oResearch shows more than 95% of women who report being raped are telling the truth. But in some churches, these women are not believed and shamed. According to author Ryan George, it's all part of a propaganda machine meant to consolidate and maintain power. On this edition of The Roys Report, host Julie Roys continues her eye-opening dialogue with Ryan George, the son of an Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) pastor. In part one, Ryan described the physical abuse he suffered from his dad. Now Ryan exposes the harmful rhetoric in IFB churches from his insider perspective and comments on shocking examples of IFB misogyny. This podcast includes clips from IFB pastors who shamed women and rape victims in their sermons. Also included in this podcast is Ryan's description of how IFB pastors promote violence, especially when it's directed towards those seen as political foes. This is a no-holds-barred podcast, exposing the ugly truth about the IFB church movement, which Ryan asserts is a cult. It also includes a clip from John MacArthur in which the famous preacher sounds an awful lot like Ryan's IFB pastor dad. However, this podcast also has a wonderfully redemptive story, as Ryan tells how he escaped the abuse and deception in his father's IFB church and overcame fear. Guests Ryan George Ryan George is the author of Scared to Life, Word on the Street, and his latest book, Hurt and Healed by the Church. He's the blogger behind Explorience.org, where he tells stories at the intersection of physical adventures and spiritual discoveries on all seven continents. He co-founded and co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch outdoor Bible study and prayer group in the Blue Ridge Mountains where he lives with his wife, Crystal, and daughter, Deonnie. Show Transcript SPEAKERS PASTOR BOBBY LEONARD, JOHN MACARTHUR, RYAN GEORGE, Julie Roys, JACK HYLES Julie Roys  00:00 The following podcast contains clips from some pastors in the Independent Fundamental Baptist Church, or IFB, who shamed women and rape victims in their sermons. We chose these clips to illustrate the systemic problems in IFB churches. But we realize these clips are hard to hear, so please take care as you listen.  For more background on these and other stories please visit JulieRoys.com. Research shows that more than 95-percent of women who report being raped are telling the truth. But in some churches, especially IFB churches, these women are disbelieved and shamed. According to Ryan George, it's all part of the IFB propaganda machine meant to consolidate and maintain power. Welcome to The Roys Report—a podcast dedicated to reporting the truth and restoring the church. I'm Julie Roys. And in part two of an eye-opening podcast with Ryan George—the son of an IFB pastor—Ryan exposes the misogynist propaganda in IFB churches. And in this podcast, you'll hear some shocking examples of this misogyny. But as Ryan explains, there's also promotion of violence within IFB churches, especially when it's directed towards those seen as political foes. This is no-holds-barred, stunning podcast, exposing the ugly truth about the IFB Church—a group Ryan confidently asserts is a cult. You'll also hear a clip from John MacArthur, where the famous preacher sounds an awful lot like an IFB pastor. But this podcast also has a wonderfully redemptive story, as Ryan tells how he escaped the IFB and overcame fear. I love Ryan's story—and I think you will too. We'll get to that in a minute. But first, I'd like to thank the sponsors of this podcast—Judson University and Marquardt of Barrington . . . Well again, here's part 2 of my podcast with Ryan George, author of Hurt and Healed in the Church. . . So there’s a whole section of your book that deals with propaganda. And you know, as a journalist, as somebody who’s in media, I mean, that’s something that always sort of piques my curiosity when I see something like that, but it’s really this idea of how the IFB was able to sell certain ideas to you. And extra biblical ideas that really weren’t necessarily in Scripture. And one of them that was just so heartbreaking to me because I work with female victims all the time of sexual abuse, and was that this idea, you actually heard this in college? Just stunning to me, that a woman if she’s raped, she would only get pregnant if she’s somehow enjoying it. And so it was kind of her fault if she gets pregnant. I mean, just despicable. absolutely shocking that anyone would say that. Yeah, just absolutely despicable. And, you know, I’m very pro-life in my convictions, but the thought that somebody would try to treat a rape victim who got pregnant that way is just heartbreaking, heartbreaking. But we know, these really misogynist ideas are woven into so many of these fundamentalist churches. And you mentioned in your book, that Jack Hyles, who if you don’t know Jack Hyles was really a main figure within the IFB movement. He had this church in Hammond, Indiana, First Baptist of Hammond, I think, huge mega church. I think at one point, they said they had like 40,000 people coming. I know he would bus people. RYAN GEORGE  01:42 He had 86 buses at the peak of their ministry, running a bus route. I mean, that’s a big metro area city bus ministry. Julie Roys  01:49 Yeah, Absolutely, absolutely huge. Anyway, you had this clip, and it was so awful, I like had to look it up in your footnotes and be like, is this online? And so the journalist in me, like has to find it, right. So actually I was able to do it, I was able to find this clip. And just so people realize, I also looked up, like what was the context? Because he says, who slew all of these? when he’s speaking and really what he’s talking about, I looked up that phrase, it’s actually from II Kings 10, and it refers to Jehu, who is basically meeting out God’s judgment to the wicked king Ahab, and also Jezabell two of the most wicked kings Israel ever had. And there are actually, you know, these men of the city, who slew who slay the 70 sons of Ahab. And it’s a pretty graphic description in the Old Testament where they actually bring the heads of all of these sons, and they put them at the gate. And it’s like the judgment of God being meted out in just, you know, a horrific way. But then again, what Jezebel and Ahab did during their reign was pretty horrific as well. But Jehu comes and he looks, you know, in front of the people, he’s looking at this this pile, and he says, who slew all of these? And so in this clip, Hyles is actually likening these wicked men who were beheaded, to the people he’s describing, and it’s absolutely breathtaking, because these people are women, who, God forbid, didn’t dress in the way that he thinks is appropriate. So take a listen. JACK HYLES  03:47 Who slew all of the women in shorts? Who slew all of these poor kids that are girls pregnant before they married? caused the boys to get so stirred up passionately that they rape a girl. Brother, you listen to me. For every single man that goes to prison for rape, you ought to be right beside him, a half-naked girl in the next cell. Who slew all these people on beaches? Who slew all these churches to have mixed swimming parties? Julie Roys  04:31 Unbelievable. RYAN GEORGE  04:32 And if you notice in the background of any video, or background of that video, it’s all women except for one guy and they’re smiling. Julie Roys  04:41 Some are some are not. I mean, some are smiling. Some are not. And I just know you know from reading your book, and from the research that I’ve done, I mean, there’s a lot of sexual abuse going on behind the scenes. I just have to wonder how many of these women are standing there hearing this, and they’ve been sexually abused, and now they’re hearing, it’s your fault that this happened to you. Which, interestingly, Jack Hyles’ son, David, he’s been accused by several women of raping them. In fact, I did a podcast about four years ago with a woman who claimed she was raped by Jack Hyles son David Hyles. We’ll put a link to that in the show notes. That’s I mean, if you want to explore this a little bit more that was a really powerful podcast. Amazing woman what she’s been through., RYAN GEORGE  05:36 Oh, yes. Julie Roys  05:38 But also, there’s the son-in-law of Jack Hyles, who, you know, he’s been convicted of taking what a 16-year-old across state lines and raping her. Interestingly, when he was caught in his crime, he did eventually admit, I guess that  he had raped her. But then he blamed it on the teen’s aggressiveness, on her aggressiveness. I mean, this is so just baked into the whip and woof of this culture, that it’s the woman’s fault. And you might think, well, you know, Jack Hyles, died in 2001. So this is like the IFB of many decades ago. And, unfortunately, it’s not. In fact, I found a clip, and this was just like, last month on the internet, and it was a recording that it had been from, I think, August of last year, last September, but it finally made its round. Yeah. On the internet. And it was of a pastor in North Carolina, Pastor Bobby Leonard, at this Bible Baptist Tabernacle in Monroe, North Carolina. And this, I mean, every bit as awful as what you just heard from Jack Hyles. Let me play this because, again, this happened within the past year. PASTOR BOBBY LEONARD  07:01 I used to say this. I haven’t said this a long time. You ready? I said, if you dress like that, and you get raped, and I’m on the jury, he’s will go free. You don’t like it, do you? I’m right though. I’m right. Because a man’s a man. Julie Roys  07:22 Hhmm. A man’s a man. RYAN GEORGE  07:25 We define manhood very differently. Julie Roys  07:27 Yeah, right. I mean, that was unbelievable. And I pointed out and I think I put a Tweet out there saying or a post on X, I guess I have to say, that, yeah, he’s a man. He’s not an animal. And one of the features of a man is he’s able to exercise self-control. So if a woman’s in shorts, no, that doesn’t give you a license to rape her. And that video went viral. And there were protests there. And I don’t know if they’re still ongoing. I know, several weeks after this video went viral,  those protests were still going. But you know, I looked before we recorded this podcast, and this Bobby Leonard is still pastor at this IFB church. RYAN GEORGE  08:09 Same church. Julie Roys  08:10 Yep. The thing that kills me about this is that this man is a pastor, and he’s espousing something again. So the antithesis of what Jesus would. I mean, his heart broke for victims. His heart was absolutely. So I mean, the only people he was hard on was religious hypocrites. That’s the only people he was hard on,  but people caught in sin, people victimized, those are the people Jesus’ heart broke for. RYAN GEORGE  08:39 There’s a chance that when that woman who was pulled out from underneath her adultery partner, when they brought him to Jesus, brought her to Jesus to stone her, there’s a really good chance that she was naked standing there next to Jesus. Julie Roys  08:49 Oh, I thought you were gonna say that she was a victim. But I’d never thought of that. RYAN GEORGE  08:53 I don’t know. She definitely she could have been a victim. Right? But even if it was consensual, they didn’t draw her adultery partner out. Right? They didn’t try to stone him. Julie Roys  09:02 No, no, not a man. No. RYAN GEORGE  09:04 No, right, right. They pulled her out as if she was the problem which is an IFB thing. And then so if that’s the case, they said, we put her in the act. So, there’s very likely that a pastor like this, a group of Pharisees, pulled this woman out into public, set her next to Jesus and Jesus didn’t look at her, he wrote in the dirt. And then when all the accusers went away, say, Hey, where are your accusers? Neither do I condemn you. Now go and sin no more. That’s like you’re saying antithetical to what is the messaging in that video, and many of the churches that I grew up in. Julie Roys  09:40 There’s so many components that you discuss, and we don’t have time to go through them all. I wish we could. But one of them I was like, we have to talk about this because Christian nationalism has become so big. And especially right now, in an election year, we’re hearing In a lot of it. I didn’t realize how IFB  churches supported Christian nationalism and tried to kind of do it biblically like having a biblical basis. Would you describe that? RYAN GEORGE  10:14 Well, it’s baked into the idea that if we can’t winsomely attract people to Jesus, right? Their churches don’t even try to winsomely attract people. I tell a story in the book about my parents church had a raffle that you could win a shotgun if you brought people to church. Yeah. Because like, that’s the only way, they knew that the message that they had to sell wasn’t going to be popular, right? And so what they look at is well, then just like as they do in the churches, can we go by force? Right. And so, when you hear fundamentalists talk about politics, they’re talking about overtaking and taking control. Like you hear these kinds of authoritarian terms, to say, we are trying to take our culture by storm, we’re going to try to take it back. That’s not exclusive to IFB. But you wouldn’t think that this very seclusionary cult would try to be mainstream in that way. But I mean, we had polling places on our campus. The college I went to is the home district for Matt Gates, who is also accused of multiple sexual crimes against minors. And they would brag that, you know, they would get students to change their voting district to college so that we could vote in Florida elections, and our college bragged that we put Bush in the White House. Because if you count how many votes were cast by our students in that district, that was enough to put Bush over the top, I voted for Bush, this isn’t a political thing. But the idea is that they were trying to take it by any ways necessary, which definitely falls into this whole Trumpism thing now because they’re like, that’s our Savior. He’s gonna force it. He’s talking about retribution. He’s talking about making people pay, making people cry. You know. So it makes sense if you have an authoritarian church and authoritarian pastor that you’d be drawn to political authoritarians. Julie Roys  12:05 And wasn’t there something too about like when the passage about the separation of the sheep from the goats and that certain nations, I’ve never heard this before, that God will separate certain nations, like separating the sheep from the goats, almost like if you’re not in the Christian nation, you’re not going to make it in? RYAN GEORGE  12:26 Yeah, it’s a weird double jeopardy situation. And they’re like, Hey, we have to win America back to God because of this passage. And part of it is because if you only believe that the King James version is the only version you can read, and if you only believe that there are pastors out there, I have a few pastors that say that the English version of the Bible is more inspired than the original. Like, I mean, it’s all over you can find on the internet. If you follow, there’s an Instagram account, I highly recommend called At Bad Sermons. Bad Sermons has a whole bunch of this stuff. Julie Roys  12:55 I think that’s where that clip, actually yeah, of Pastor Monroe first came out, yeah, RYAN GEORGE  13:01 Oh, my gosh. And so what happens is they go, well, then that means if A plus B equals C, then we have to win America to Christ, so that, and they don’t mean that they have to save America. They’re not trying to save Americans. They’re trying to save their version, which is, again, a messed-up version of America for this thing. But that doesn’t make sense. So as I’m writing that chapter in my book, I’m in Slovenia, which I was in northern Slovenia, I was about 5-10 miles from the Italy border. And if you’ve ever looked at that part of the map, Slovenia has been part of like, 12, where I was sitting in that library has been part of like, 12 different countries in the last 400 years. Like, so at what point does Jesus pick your country? Is it 1787? Is it 2004? Is it 1999? Was it when it was in the Soviet bloc? Is it now that it’s not? It’s like, you know, was it when it was part of this country or that? Like, there’s so little intellectual rigor applied to anything. And when you do try to apply any type of academic anything, you’re saying, Oh, you’re a liberal, you don’t have faith, you know, all this stuff. Like you have to take the man of God’s word for this. And so you have IFB pastors after Joe Biden was elected, getting up and saying, Hey, I don’t know if you know if this is right, but I’m not going to get in the way of God if his will is to assassinate Joe Biden, from the pulpit. Wow. And you go, wait, what? Like, where did Jesus ever call us to assassinate our enemy? When Peter cut the guards year off, Jesus healed the guard and then said to Peter, like, what are you doing, man? Like, this isn’t how we do this. Julie Roys  14:37 Ah, that is so I am speechless. That is so so awful. Wow. Well, there’s something else that stuck out to me, probably because this is in the news right now. And you’ve got a chapter called, Misrepresenting Orthodoxy, and you talk about these IFB preachers who will condemn certain groups or certain groups of people in sort of this selective self-righteousness. And you talk about your father, who again, this is a man who was a pedophile. I mean, he molested girls who are not even of age. And yet, he said he would condemn Martin Luther King Jr., because he supposedly was a philanderer and, you know, had relations with women outside of marriage. At least, you know, in that case, you know, I don’t know, but I’m guessing they were consensual. Which was not the case with your father. But you write, I thought  this was a great paragraph. You write, While that irony plays out. Let me just read this here. While that irony plays out on a micro level of my family, I can’t escape the more macro irony of my dad’s disregard for Dr. King. In the unsaved churches of my youth, beliefs were an idol and hypocrisy was defended as a way to protect the gospel. Dogmatism took precedence over following the example of Jesus. Doctrine was more important than authenticity, curiosity, or compassion. And you’re probably aware, right now, there’s a big brouhaha over some things that John MacArthur has said, about Martin Luther King, Jr. In fact, I’m just gonna play that. So if people haven’t heard that, they can hear what he said. I’ll just play it. JOHN MACARTHUR  16:41 The T for G (Together for the Gospel) guys wanted to honor him with a panel, and we spent an hour, an hour and 15 minutes. And it was just beautiful tributes to RC from all of us, who knew him so very, very well. And the strange irony was a year later, they did the same thing for Martin Luther King, who was not a Christian at all, whose life was immoral. I’m not saying he didn’t do some social good. And I’ve always been glad that he was a pacifist, or he could have started a real revolution. But you don’t honor a non-believer who misrepresented everything about Christ and the gospel, in an organization alongside honoring somebody like RC Sproul. Julie Roys  17:36 So how does that hit you? RYAN GEORGE  17:39 So I see it again as a hypocrite, you know. John MacArthur has covered for multiple child molesters in his church. And I go, here’s the irony is you’re going to prop up people in your own church who are doing way worse than what Dr. Martin Luther King is and say that they are examples of the faith. Like this is why we keep them in our church, right? And then say somebody who had some affairs, which we’re not condoning affairs, that it wipes out everything they did, including  whether or not they’re going to heaven. That’s the mental gymnastics that the  IFB church has to do to feel self-righteous. Julie Roys  18:16 And missing, that one of the greatest sins that God calls out is pride. I mean when I hear things like that, I’m like, wow! I mean, I could talk about Dr. Martin Luther King’s doctrine, and there may be some really bad things in there. And I’m not saying that you can’t talk about that. But to say that you, a mere human, who doesn’t know the hearts of man, can say where the eternal destiny of someone else is. That crosses a line to me. RYAN GEORGE  18:46 It’s hubris. Julie Roys  18:48 Absolutely. RYAN GEORGE  18:49 And the irony is Dr. Martin Luther King was a Baptist pastor in the south, which means it was probably conservative to some degree, as far as theologically conservative church. They were probably closer than MacArthur would like to admit. Julie Roys  19:02 Yeah. Well, the last section of your book is beautiful. And it talks about. RYAN GEORGE  19:08 Oh, thank you. Julie Roys  19:08 Yeah, it talks about the greener pastures that are available. You know, there to get beyond the abuse, and the dogmatism, you know, that these things don’t have to define you and define the rest of your life. I think that’s hugely important. But at the same time, moving forward and choosing, you know, the better path, to choose growth over comfort, can be, it’s a risky thing to do. But it’s the path you chose, and maybe the path less traveled. But why would you like to the person who right now is just kind of sitting there going, You know, dare I do that? What would you say? RYAN GEORGE  19:54 I’d tell him, it’s worth it. So I’m a little predisposed to this. So, I’m an adrenaline junkie, I jump off mountains and planes and buildings. I’ve surfed in the Arctic. I do all kinds of crazy things. Julie Roys  20:06 You surfed in the Arctic? RYAN GEORGE  20:08 Yes, ma’am. I’ve camped in both the Arctic Circle and Antarctica. I do a thing called wing-walking, where you go out on the wings of a bi-plane while it’s flying, and it does aerobatic maneuvers while you’re out there. Julie Roys  20:16 No, no, no, no, no, no. RYAN GEORGE  20:18 But here’s what I’ve learned in that. And this is how God designed our bodies with dopamine and epinephrine and other reward chemicals, is that when we do this scary thing, we are chemically rewarded, right? And the times when I felt most alive in my life, outside of a faith community in a relationship, but like physically when I felt most alive, was after I conquered a fear. I was so scared to go wing walking the first time. I finally found a life insurance company to give me life insurance cuz you can imagine it’s hard to insure some of the stuff that I do for fun. And I got back down on the ground after my first, you take lessons, and you get like certified for different things you do out on the wings. And I got back down on the ground and my classmates had waited, I was the last student through the school that day. And one of my classmates yelled out, how was it? And I’m taking off, you know, your gear whatever, I was like, I’ve never felt more alive, right. And so what I’d like to tell people is, it’s that way for me and my faith. When I’ve had a conversation around a fire with somebody, or when I saw someone meet Jesus for the first time or put their marriage back together. Or I have a friend who has six foster and adopted children?, and to watch the reclamation project of what he and his wife are doing right? And different things in my life. I’ve seen Jesus do incredible things. And I have goosebumps right now all over my body, thinking about what I’ve seen is like, that is what life in all caps is. And I’ve experienced it. So my last book was called Scared to Life. And it was about I felt God the most when I’m scared. And so what I’m able to do because it’s become normal for me, I’m scared of heights. People are amazed. I’ve jumped off the 63rd story of a building before, but I’m scared of heights. But what I’ve learned is, is that when I lean into that fear, the reward is at least equal to whatever I was afraid of. And I found that to be true in my faith. You can’t convince them. It’s like trying to convince a seven-year-old that someday they’re going to like kissing girls. Trust me dude, I’m telling you, it’s the same thing. People are like, You’re so crazy, I would never go out on the wings of an airplane. It’s like, but have you ever been upside down at 140 miles an hour looking at the California desert? I can’t explain it right? It’s the same thing. There are things in my faith. I’ve had these encounters with Jesus that’s sweeter than anything I’ve ever had with my parents, anything I’ve ever had in churches growing up, that cannot be explained outside of Jesus. And I want that for you. I won’t ever force someone to jump out of a plane with me or do some of the stuff that I do. But I will invite over and over and over again because I know what’s waiting for them on the other side. And then you go, Okay, you just did something that 99% of humans in America would say you are legitimately crazy to try, and you feel more alive. What is something back home that you’re scared to do? A conversation you’re scared to have, a thing you’re scared to relinquish to Jesus, an addiction you’re scared to tell somebody about whatever it is. That Invitational model has proven true in my life over and over again. Julie Roys  23:16 I mean, it makes me think of when I was about to blow the whistle on the Moody Bible Institute. And I had this piece written, and I won’t go into the whole story of how that went down. But I was terrified because I knew that would burn my bridge forever. Not just with Moody. But you get blacklisted. And that would be the end of my career. And I was okay with that. But it was still scary. And yet, I mean, yes. Did I feel alive when I did that? And then on the heels of that, that’s why I’m doing what I’m doing today. God birthed this out of that, and had I not followed through  on that conviction God gave me, I wouldn’t I wouldn’t be here, you know. And so, to me, I feel like I’m living the adventure. You know. I think life in Christ should be living the adventure. And it will always, always, I think we’ve forgotten about this. RYAN GEORGE  24:14 Jesus hinted at it. So they didn’t have the terms that we have now in the New Testament to describe biology and whatever else. But over and over and over from Jesus and other people Old Testament New Testament. The Bible says the just shall live by faith. But what a lot of people don’t reverse engineer that to go it’s you can’t have faith unless you have doubt, fear, both, right? I’m only scared on the wing of an airplane if I don’t think my harness is going to work or there’s going to be a malfunction in the plane. When you’ve done it 100 times, the 100th time I rode a motorcycle, it wasn’t as scary as the first time right? The first time you ride a roller coaster you’re holding on white knuckles. By the fifth time you’re posing for the picture. You’re physically doing the same thing. But you’ve lost that fear. And so, for us to live by faith on a regular basis, there has to be something that brings doubt or fear into our life. It sounds masochistic and I don’t mean it that way. But if Jesus isn’t given me an assignment on a regular basis that makes my palms sweaty, then I have to ask myself, do I have faith right now? Am I living the just life? Julie Roys  25:11 Absolutely. And that’s why I think we’ve forgotten that to be a moral person, to be a godly person, it actually requires courage. Like, you just don’t hear that very much. We think of it as you have to be pure in your thoughts and your life and all those things are true. But you have to have courage, because God will call you to something that requires faith and like you’re saying, it requires facing your fear. And I’m thinking right now because this is where your book lands. But I know this is where an awful lot of people are. Is some of the scariest things to do, are to pursue your own healing. Because it means instead of running away from what was painful, you actually have to lean into it, you actually have to go places that you don’t want to go. And yet, that’s something that you did. And I feel like you’re kind of not that any of us is on the other side. Because healing is a process that we won’t fully be healed till we’re in heaven, right? You know, so. But you’re kind of on the other side, where you’ve walked through some stuff and been able to say, hey, you can trust this process. So speak to that person right now who may be in that spot. RYAN GEORGE  26:25 Oh, man. The hard part is all of our journeys are nuanced, right? So I’m not calling someone and telling them, Hey, go back to the church where you came from, or go back to the religion that you came from, or even go back to a church as is commonly defined United States, like a Sunday service, or whatever else. What I am calling people to do is to find a version of Jesus they can fall in love with. And I was talking to a podcaster a few weeks ago, and she gave me this great analogy, and I got to use it. But she said, there are a lot of people who go to a Taylor Swift concert alone, but nobody goes home alone. They come home with friendship bracelets, and new friends and new Instagram connections and whatever else. And I said, for me, the Taylor Swift in that story is Jesus. And if I find that Jesus, that I’m a big fan of which I have found, and if I go to the concert, I’m going to bump into other people who love the same Jesus. And we’re going to trade friendship bracelets, and we’re going to start. So whether that spiritual community is a service, or whether it’s just meeting someone for coffee, there are certain people that I know, the first version of Jesus they can find is to go to therapy, and to be real. And what happens is, after you get used to telling your story in that room, then you get more courage to tell people outside of that room, et cetera. And so church can grow for you. But my book is not a call to go back on a Sunday. My call is to fall in love with the Jesus that I’ve fallen in love with, because it’s been utterly rewarding. And if you can look at it as a personal relationship, I know that that terminology has been used and abused in the faith that I grew up in. But as a note, this isn’t like me and the church. This is me and Jesus, and know that Jesus, everywhere he went, other people were attracted around that were fans of his hand up to 1000s of people. So no matter whether you define church as a house church, or, you know, multisite, non-denom, whatever. All of it is trappings; find the Jesus that loves you. And he promised, in his own words, read letters to the Bible. He said, If you seek me, and you seek with your whole heart, you will find me. And we’re on this divine scavenger hunt to find him everywhere and anywhere. And when you start intentionally looking for him. Like before, before I go on a hike, you’ll get this because you’re a hiker. Before I go on a hike in new places like God, will you reveal why you drew me to this trail? God, will you reveal what it is you want me to know about yourself today? And I can tell you how that prayers were answered hiking in the Faroe Islands and Iceland and Norway. I still remember how Jesus answered those prayers. I have prayed that prayer before getting on a flight at JFK. God, would you reveal why it is I’m getting on this plane? What do you want me to know about getting on this plane? And that led to a very emotional blog post and people are like, Oh, my goodness, you met Jesus on a flight to Finland? Like how does that even work? And if we’re expectant to find the real Jesus, why wouldn’t he want to reveal himself? Jesus gave up his life so that we could know him. So when we asked him, Jesus help me know you more, helped me find the real you, why wouldn’t he answer that prayer? Julie Roys  28:45 I love that. I love that. And it is the real Jesus. And unfortunately, he has not been portrayed to some of us as his true self. And it’s important that we find that. Ryan, this has been such a phenomenal conversation. I’ve so enjoyed it. Yeah, just so glad to have this conversation and for the gift of your book. And I know it takes a lot to write a book and especially one this personal. So thank you so much, and it’s just been a delight. RYAN GEORGE  29:45 Thanks for sharing me with your people. Read more

Shifting Culture
Ep. 176 Ryan George - Finding Healing After Spiritual Abuse

Shifting Culture

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 58:40 Transcription Available


Ryan George grew up in an abusive independent fundamental Baptist church led by his father. In the conversation, Ryan discusses how he eventually left that church and the abuse of his father and started a journey of healing from the trauma of his upbringing. He talks about some of the unhealthy and abusive behaviors he experienced. He also talks about how he eventually found healthy church communities that helped him heal and come to know Jesus in a new way. We talk secure attachments, fear and faith, and adventure. So join us as we wade through destructive behavior and trauma and find our way out towards healthy, faith-filled communities centered on Jesus. Ryan George is the author of Scared to Life and Word on the Street. He's the blogger behind Explorience.org. He co-founded and co-leads Dude Group, a spiritualadventure community in the Blue Ridge Mountains where he lives with his wife,Crystal, and daughter, Deonnie.Ryan's Book:Hurt and Healed by the ChurchRyan's Recommendation:Will the Circle be Unbroken? by Sean DietrichConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@allnations.usGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Threads at www.facebook.com/shiftingculturepodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/shiftingculturepodcast/https://twitter.com/shiftingcultur2https://www.threads.net/@shiftingculturepodcasthttps://www.youtube.com/@shiftingculturepodcastConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link below.Support the show

The Roys Report
Hurt And Healed By The Church

The Roys Report

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 48:43


Guest Bios Show Transcript https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8JS6dZodsfA The church should be a place of healing and comfort. But for far too many, it's a place of abuse and harm. As a child, Ryan George was profoundly hurt in a fundamentalist church, pastored by his abusive father. But years later, Ryan found a loving and gracious church. And through that church, he experienced transformation and healing. In this edition of The Roys Report, Ryan George, author of Hurt and Healed by the Church, exposes both the worst and the best that the church can be. He vulnerably shares how his father preached love and forgiveness yet told Ryan he was going to hell and beat Ryan for the smallest transgressions. Then, years later, Ryan discovered a horrible secret—that his father had also sexually molested girls. These left deep wounds in Ryan, and it profoundly distorted his view of God and the church. But then Ryan took a chance and he decided to break from his fundamentalist background. He began attending a church that was nothing like the churches he knew before. Ryan shares what he had to release—and hold on to—in this dramatic opening of our two-part podcast.  Ryan's story is deeply moving. And his honesty about what he's faced and learned along the way provides insights for anyone who's been hurt by the church and is seeking healing. Guests Ryan George Ryan George is the author of Scared to Life, Word on the Street, and his latest book, Hurt and Healed by the Church. He's the blogger behind Explorience.org, where he tells stories at the intersection of physical adventures and spiritual discoveries on all seven continents. He co-founded and co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch outdoor Bible study and prayer group in the Blue Ridge Mountains where he lives with his wife, Crystal, and daughter, Deonnie. Show Transcript Coming soon Read more

Dawn and Steve Mornings
Hurt and Healed by the Church

Dawn and Steve Mornings

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 26:58 Transcription Available


Dawn and Steve welcome Ryan George as he graciously shares his story of church trauma. Ryan offers us hope with his book Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse. Ryan George co-leads Dude Group, a parachurch spiritual adventure community, as well as a serving incubator of volunteers at his church. During business hours, he works as a virtual marketing assistant; and his work has won more than 250 state & national awards for projects spanning 49 states and seven countries. Whether on stage or on social media, he hopes to inspire you to follow Jesus outside your comfort zone. In his books and blog posts, Ryan invites readers to explore a rich faith experience available in the midst of doubt, fear, and pressure. He looks for Jesus in places and activities that don't look like Sunday morning church services. And, because Jesus promised it would happen, Ryan has found profound moments with Jesus in all of them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Make It
Mini Ep(ilogue): Ryan George

How To Make It

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 16:23


In our first "Epilogue" mini-episode, we revisit our conversation with content creator and YouTube whisperer Ryan George. Ryan answers fan questions about how to get a girlfriend, whether he likes nostril pictures, his endless inventory of fake mustaches, and more. Emily tells the story of the time she stole a traffic cone from the 'Conan' set, and Haley has a few words with her cat, Lando, as he attempts to become the third host of 'How To Make It.' If you'd like to ask one of our upcoming celebrities a question, follow us @howtomakeitpodcast on Instagram, where we'll post about upcoming guests and give you a chance to submit your question. You could hear it answered on a future mini-episode!

The Pursuit of Manliness

Subscriber-only episodeOn today's podcast I sit down and talk with Ryan George author of “Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse.” Ryan says he “spent the first 20 years of his life attending a series of Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) churches including one where his dad was the pastor, adhering to the dangerous teachings of men like Bill Gothard.”For the past 25 years, Ryan was forced to examine deeply ingrained beliefs – including ideas around consent and abuse – and reevaluate what he truly believes. While he left the dangerous fundamental theology, Ryan didn't walk away from Jesus, reconstructing his faith and attending (a non-abusive) church, where his wife is on staff. To learn more about Ryan: https://www.booksbyryan.com/Make sure to sign up for the Framework Field Notes newsletter which goes out every Monday: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/Build your own Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builder-the-gospelsTo get more PoM Podcast content and join a global community of men who help support PoM join The Herd: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/join-the-herdSecure your spot at our Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2024-mens-retreatCheck out our newest sponsor to the podcast JoyLight Coffee Roasters from Topeka Kansas. Listen to today's show to save 10% off of your next order: https://joylightcoffee.com/

The Pursuit of Manliness
390: Ryan George | Hurt & Healed By The Church

The Pursuit of Manliness

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 33:22


On today's podcast I sit down and talk with Ryan George author of “Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse.” Ryan says he “spent the first 20 years of his life attending a series of Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) churches including one where his dad was the pastor, adhering to the dangerous teachings of men like Bill Gothard.”For the past 25 years, Ryan was forced to examine deeply ingrained beliefs – including ideas around consent and abuse – and reevaluate what he truly believes. While he left the dangerous fundamental theology, Ryan didn't walk away from Jesus, reconstructing his faith and attending (a non-abusive) church, where his wife is on staff. To learn more about Ryan: https://www.booksbyryan.com/Make sure to sign up for the Framework Field Notes newsletter which goes out every Monday: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/Build your own Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builder-the-gospelsTo get more PoM Podcast content and join a global community of men who help support PoM join The Herd: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/join-the-herdSecure your spot at our Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2024-mens-retreatCheck out our newest sponsor to the podcast JoyLight Coffee Roasters from Topeka Kansas. Listen to today's show to save 10% off of your next order: https://joylightcoffee.com/Support the show

Untangled Faith
112: Leaving the IFB and Finding the Real Jesus. Guest: Ryan George

Untangled Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 34:10


Content Note: There is discussion regarding abuse in this episode. Please take care when listening. Author, Ryan George, joins Amy to share his personal experience of leaving a high-control religious community, and what it was like to realize, while listening to a podcast, that his dad was a serial abuser. He also shares what pulled him out of the IFB world and what that means when it comes to helping others.   Buy Ryan's book: Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse Episodes you might enjoy: https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/09/27/97-when-mlms-come-to-church-guest-chris-staron/ https://untangledfaithpodcast.com/2023/08/16/91-navigating-the-intersection-of-faith-politics-guest-kaitlyn-schiess/   Support the show: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://untangledfaith.substack.com Join us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/untangledfaith This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. For more information and 10% off your first month, visit Faithful Counseling- https://faithfulcounseling.com/untangled Where you can find me: Youtube channel- https://youtube.com/channel/UCPfFk-I6QShXXvEpSFaJOvg https://untangledfaithpodcast.com https://instagram.com/untangledfaith  https://instagram.com/amyhenningfritz  

All In Football with Jake Ciely
Ryan George of Pitch Meetings joins Jake Ciely on All in Football

All In Football with Jake Ciely

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 48:18


Ryan George of Pitch Meetings https://youtube.com/@PitchMeetings?si=AoN-gPN2gVNNj6BN joins Jake Ciely for a special All in Football• How did Pitch Meetings start?• Ryan George advice for YouTube and more• Get to know YouTube Ryan George and real life Ryan• Back to fantasy football talk, including free agency, next week

Don't Eat Your Young: A Nursing Podcast
Eating Your Young From a Unique Perspective with Ryan George

Don't Eat Your Young: A Nursing Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 50:01


Ryan George, an experienced ICU nurse, offers a candid account of his decision to leave his job due to workplace bullying, ultimately leading him to exit the nursing profession altogether. As a gay man in a predominantly female field, Ryan sheds light on the reality of toxic workplace dynamics, particularly the "mean girls" phenomenon. Despite his proficiency as a nurse and dedication to teaching, Ryan found himself targeted and uncomfortable in his work environment. He emphasizes the importance of kindness, support, and camaraderie among nurses, advocating for a healthier workplace culture. Ryan's experience underscores the toll of toxic environments on both healthcare professionals and patient care, urging for a more compassionate and supportive approach within the nursing community.

Washington Post Live
First Look with The Post's Missy Ryan, George F. Will and Eugene Robinson

Washington Post Live

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 29:07


On Washington Post Live's “First Look,” associate editor Jonathan Capehart speaks with The Post's Missy Ryan, George F. Will and Eugene Robinson about the Biden administration's response to attacks by Iranian-backed militias, the risks of a widening Middle East conflict, as well as Republican presidential candidate Nikki Haley's long-shot strategy to defeat Donald Trump in South Carolina. Conversation recorded on Friday, February 2, 2024.

The PosCast with Joe Posnanski & Michael Schur
Holiday Draft VII — Holiday Gifts

The PosCast with Joe Posnanski & Michael Schur

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 155:07 Very Popular


Joe and Mike invite a wide cast of characters — Nick Offerman, Linda Holmes, Jason Kander, Alexis Gay, Alan Sepinwall, newcomer Ryan George, Brandon McCarthy, Mike DiCenzo, Molly Knight and Ellen Adair — to take part in the 2023 Holiday Draft. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Make It
Chapter 2: Ryan George says "Making It is Making It: It's Never 'Soup-er' Easy: Colon"

How To Make It

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 45:39 Transcription Available


Have you ever wondered how good comedy content creators keep their work fresh and funny? In Chapter 2 of "How to Make It", Ryan George chats with Emily Cappello and Haley Muraleedharan about playing every character in over 600 videos, the day he received an aggressive cease and desist letter from a wholesome, children's TV series and whether Haley forcing her kids to eat spicy pumpkin soup is bad parenting. Later, Emily & Haley reveal some of the “sh*ttiest” situations they experienced on set.

The Inventive Journey
"Harnessing Community for Business Growth" The Podcast For Entrepreneurs w/ Ryan George

The Inventive Journey

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2023 20:15


Build a network and understand that communal growth is often more rapid, impactful, and purposeful than solitary business expansion. Whether your company comprises five or fifty people, the latter can connect you with around 200 non-competing peer firms, alongside associations, local communities, and regulators, depending on your field. By integrating into this network, you can become an essential resource, fostering reciprocal growth through business referrals. This approach is especially valuable when marketing funds and time are limited, making it an effective method to enhance your business's awareness and reach. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-inventive-journey/message

Optimized Advisor Podcast
A Revolutionary Change of Pace for Wealth Management with Ryan George, Docupace

Optimized Advisor Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 48:15


On this week's episode Scott was joined by Ryan George, CMO of Docupace; the leading cloud-based fintech platform that simplifies how financial services and wealth management firms process and digitize data. Ryan has 15+ years of marketing and communications experience in the financial services industry. Before joining Docupace, he served as the Assistant VP, Marketing and Communications at 1st Global, a software solutions provider for CPA firms, where he spearheaded lead gen efforts and contributed to double-digit revenue growth. He has also held marketing leadership positions at specialized asset managers – GuideStone Capital Management, based in Dallas, and U.S. Global Investors in San Antonio.In addition to being a finalist for the WealthManagement.com broker-dealer Chief Marketing Officer of the Year award in 2019, Ryan was also a finalist for the 2022 ThinkAdvisor LUMINARIES.He is a former chair of the Financial Services Institute Marketing Growth and Development Council, composed of top-level sales, marketing, and business development executives from across the industry and a member of the Forbes Communications Council, an invitation-only, fee-based organization of senior-level communications and public relations executives. In this episode you will learn the following: All about Docupace and how it helps advisors optimize their practiceFintech/wealth management tech trends: What's worth paying attention to, and what isn'tHow AI comes into play to analyze dataThe back-office revolution in wealth management: Why enhancing how the work is done is improving the client experienceUnlocking growth: The future of financial advice and how technology will change the financial services industry in the coming yearsConnect with Scott on LinkedInConnect with  Ryan on LinkedInFor more on The Optimized Advisor Podcast click here  For more on Docupace click hereFollow us on LinkedInFollow us on InstagramFollow us on Facebook

The Tech Blog Writer Podcast
2460: Modernizing Wealth Management: A Back Office Revolution

The Tech Blog Writer Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2023 20:26


I sit down with Ryan George, the CMO of Docupace, a leading cloud-based fintech platform transforming the back office processes in the financial services industry. With over 15 years of marketing and communications experience in finance, Ryan shares his journey and how he became a driving force in modernizing and digitizing the back office. Discover the transformative trends in fintech and wealth management tech as Ryan sheds light on what's worth paying attention to and what might be overhyped, including the role of cryptocurrency and the potential impact of AI in the industry's future. The COVID pandemic accelerated the back office revolution in wealth management, and Ryan emphasizes the importance of digitizing and transforming these processes to enhance efficiency and improve the client experience. Learn how Docupace's platform played a significant role in transforming operations for leading financial firms like RBC wealth management by reducing processing time and paperwork rejections. Docupace's impressive journey is backed by over $70 million in funding, and the company serves some of the largest independent broker-dealers and registered investment advisers (RIAs) in the financial services industry. Tune in to hear how Docupace earned accolades like being named to the 2021 Inc. 5000 list of America's fastest-growing private companies and winning the 2021 Gold Globee Award for "Hot Technology of the Year." Ryan's admiration for business leader Jamie Dimon, CEO of JP Morgan Chase, stems from his optimism and perspective, and he discusses how technology is reshaping the financial industry. Don't miss this episode where Ryan George shares his expertise and insights into the future of financial advice and how technology will revolutionize the financial services landscape in the years to come. Whether you're a financial professional, tech enthusiast, or interested in the future of finance, this episode offers a fascinating exploration of the back office revolution and its transformative impact on the industry.

Quantum Growth for Financial Advisors
The Golden Opportunity Right Now in the Advice and Wealth Management Industry with Ryan George

Quantum Growth for Financial Advisors

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2023 28:49


We are back this week with another episode of Quantum Growth for Financial Advisors to talk about technology, scale and efficiency as it related to client communication in the wealth management industry. Filling in for Jon this week is Joseph Greco, who talks to Ryan George, CMO of Docupace about what he believes is a The post The Golden Opportunity Right Now in the Advice and Wealth Management Industry with Ryan George appeared first on Kuttin Consulting Group.

The Flexible Advisor
Ep 96: Reaching and Retaining Next-Generation Investors – with Ryan George

The Flexible Advisor

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2023 29:51


The rapid expansion of social media and artificial intelligence within the financial services space holds undeniable implications for the advisor/client dynamic – particularly when it comes to young investors.  Ryan George, Chief Marketing Officer at Docupace, shares insights from his firm's recent white paper — Five Ways to Capitalize on the Changing Attitudes of American … Continue reading Ep 96: Reaching and Retaining Next-Generation Investors – with Ryan George →

Room for Lovely
E052: Called to Adventure-- Ryan George

Room for Lovely

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 40:22


About Ryan Ryan George has traveled to all seven continents, chasing adventures like surfing in the Arctic and wing walking on aerobatic biplanes. He is a spiritual adventure blogger, the host of the Everyday Adventures podcast, and the author of Scared to Life: Tales of a Good God Who Reveals His Heart When Ours is Racing. Ryan has been a virtual assistant for 20 years, based in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia where he lives with his wife, Crystal, and daughter, Deonnie. He co-leads Dude Group, a spiritual adventure community. His full adventure bio can be found at https://www.godinoddplaces.com/what-we-doConnect with RyanWebsite:https://explorience.org/Books:Scared to LifeSocial Media:Facebook.com/ryangeorgeInstagram.com/ryplanelinkedin.com/in/ryangeorge/Order Erin's Book Today!book.erincuccio.comFinally, be sure to SUBSCRIBE to the podcast and SHARE!  Make sure you don't miss a thing by subscribing on your favorite podcast platform and share so that all your friends can find us too! Connect with ErinIG @erincucciowww.erincuccio.comJoin my COMMUNITY Simply text LOVELY to 936.253.6555 or click HERE. You'll receive exclusive content right to your mobile device, and the best part is it's FREE.

B2B Mentors
How Marketing Leaders Can Turn Income to Wealth (Expert Interview)

B2B Mentors

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 24:09


Ryan George is the Chief Marketing Officer at Docupace, the wealth management industry's go-to back office platform. He's a brand builder, content creator, idea connector and conscious leader shining a light on the best of what the financial advice and investment industry has to offer.Learn more about Docupacehttps://www.docupace.com/Connect with Ryan George on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rageorge/Connect with the host, Connor Dube, on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/socialsellingexpert/Brought to you by the B2B content marketing experts at www.ProvenContent.comGet access to free content marketing courses, no email opt in required, at www.ProvenContent.com/Free

Undaunted.Life: A Man's Podcast
394 - RYAN GEORGE | Scared to Life

Undaunted.Life: A Man's Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2022 71:21


In this episode, we welcome Ryan George to the show. He is the author of Scared to Life: Tales of a Good God Who Reveals His Heart When Ours Is Racing, which details the many adventures that he has done on all seven continents and both polar circles and how those experiences bring him closer to Jesus. In this interview, we dig into where his hunger for adventure comes from, why he thinks doing all of these adventures helps him see Jesus more clearly, his favorite adventure ever, how important accountability is to brotherhood, why he thinks the church should stay out of the culture war, how to serve God no matter what role you play at a church, and much more. Let's get into it…  Episode notes and links HERE Donate to support our mission of equipping men to push back darkness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Revelation Wellness - Healthy & Whole
#731 Ryan George on Scared to Life with Guest Host Brian East

Revelation Wellness - Healthy & Whole

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2022 39:00


Thanks for joining us for this episode of the Revelation Wellness podcast! Today, our guest host, Brian East, is sitting down with author Ryan George to discuss what it means to meet God in the adventures of our lives. This is a fun conversation for all of you who love adventure and you'll hear Ryan explain that adventure can look different for each of us— that we all have levels of courage. As Ryan explores, sometimes a scary surrender might look like making amends with someone through a vulnerable apology. We think this episode is going to kick-start your yes to the wonder God has placed in your heart! To connect with Ryan and to get a copy of his new book, check out these links: Ryan George on Instagram: @ryplane His new book, Scared to Life If you're someone who like adventure and is ready to come on one with Revelation Wellness, we're launching our 2023 Rim to Him and RevWild Adventure Hikes. Whether you're ready to hike in the Grand Canyon with our trained shepherds or hiking on a more moderate trail on a RevWild Adventure Hike, we love leading people closer to God through the outdoors. Click here to get more information and to get signed up for a hike today! We love our Rev community and think you will too! Be sure to get connected with us at: The Official Revelation Wellness Facebook / Instagram / RevWell TV / Youtube   Your reviews matter to us and help spread the good news, so please leave us one where you listen to your podcast! If we read your review on our show, we'll send you a free gift from the Revelation Wellness Store!   We'd also love to hear from you, so leave us a VOICE MESSAGE!  Tell us what you thought about this episode and how you plan to connect with someone today!