Podcasts about true connection

One of the ways that we believe we can be better humans is to actually listen to each other - not just nod along when we watch people's mouths move, or wait impatiently for someone to finish their thought before we can jump in and say what we've been dying to say - but actually listen to what they're saying, take a moment to reflect on that, and respond. Perhaps you ask a clarifying question, perhaps you share a reflection, perhaps you simply agree and ask for more details. Regardless of your response, if you're really listening, people will know and will see you in a better light as a result.  If you're curious about how to be a better listener, we offer two experts on the topic who help us understand: What do you mean by radical listening?   What to listen for: Why listening better makes you a better human Six skills important to growing your ability to listen better The role culture can play in listening and communication What environment is most conducive to listening, and what YOU can do to be a better listener  About the guests:    Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener is a researcher, author, and consultant with 75 peer-reviewed academic articles with over 27,000 citations. His previous books include The Upside of Your Dark Side (New York Times Bestseller, 2014), and the 2008 PROSE Award winner, Happiness. He has presented keynotes to Lululemon, Deloitte, Humana, AARP, The World Bank, and others. In 2024, Thinkers50 named Robert one of the “50 Most Influential Executive Coaches in the World”. He lives in Portland, Oregon, enjoying drawing and rock climbing.   Prof. Christian van Nieuwerburgh (PhD) is an academic, consultant, and executive coach. He is Professor of Coaching and Positive Psychology at the Centre for Positive Health Sciences at RCSI University of Medicine and Health Sciences (Ireland) and Consulting Professor for Growth Coaching International, a provider of coach training and consultancy for the education sector. In recognition of his contributions to the fields of positive psychology and coaching, he is Principal Fellow of the Centre for Wellbeing Science at the Melbourne Graduate School of Education of the University of Melbourne (Australia) and Honorary CollectivEd Fellow of the Carnegie School of Education at Leeds Beckett University (UK). Christian is a certified executive coach and is well published in the academic literature on the topics of coaching and positive psychology. He has authored, co-authored, and edited numerous books in the field of coaching, most notably An Introduction to Coaching Skills: A Practical Guide (2014, 2016, 2020). His latest books are Your Essential Guide to Effective Reflective Practice (2025, with David Love) and Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection (2025, with Robert Biswas- Diener).   Follow Christian on Instagram (@coachonamotorcycle), on his YouTube channel (@coachonamotorcycle), and on his website (coachonamotorcycle.com).

What if your personality isn't fixed? Olga Khazan shares how she deliberately set out to become more extroverted, agreeable, and emotionally stable—using improv, mindfulness, and science-backed strategies. Based on her book Me, But Better, this conversation explores how real change happens, and why connecting with others may be the key to becoming who you want to be. Topics [0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Olga Khazan [5:59] Experiment: Can I Change My Personality? [9:59] Results: What Changed, What Didn't? [17:43] Nature vs. Nurture in Personality [21:46] Personality Traits as Tools for Life [29:31] Can Older Adults Still Change? [38:39] Solitude vs. True Connection [43:45] Olga's Music Playlist [45:46] Grooving Session: Working on the Personality We Want ©2025 Behavioral Grooves Links About Olga Me, But Better by Olga Khazan Big 5 Personality Test Nathan Hudson's Research Join the Behavioral Grooves community Subscribe to Behavioral Grooves on YouTube Musical Links ODESZA - The Last Goodbye Chapell Roan - Good Luck, Babe

In this episode of The Art of Charm, we sit down with Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener and Professor Christian van Nieuwerburgh, authors of Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection. Together, they unpack a new framework for transforming your conversations—not with better scripts, but with sharper intention. Drawing from psychology, coaching, and decades of research, we explore the six listening motivations, why “active listening” falls short, and how to avoid the silent killers of connection—like half-listening, politeness, and certainty. Whether you're leading a team, navigating tough conversations, or simply tired of being misunderstood, this episode is a masterclass in making people feel truly seen, heard, and valued. What to Listen For [00:00:00] Introduction [00:03:08] What is Radical Listening and how does it go beyond active listening? [00:06:49] Six listening intentions—and how they change everything [00:09:55] How to set the stage for hard conversations with appreciation, not authority [00:17:34] Why quick, genuine care matters more than long, empty check-ins [00:25:17] The myth of being a “great listener” and what most high performers miss [00:34:33] Why watching yourself on video can instantly improve your listening [00:38:12] What does “listening for” versus “listening to” actually mean? [00:45:33] The real cost of half-listening—and why it breaks trust [00:51:26] How to interject without interrupting—and why it's actually radical empathy Episode Takeaways: You're not being ignored because you're unimportant—people are stuck in half-attention. Flip the script by modeling radical listening. Start with intention. Every conversation is a choice—validate, influence, learn, support. Know what you're there to do. Interruptions aren't rude if they're respectful. Interject to amplify, not hijack. In your leadership, it's not what you say—it's how you show you care. A 60-second check-in can change someone's entire day. Half-listening is worse than not listening at all. Either be fully present—or ask to talk later.The best listeners aren't born—they're trained. Develop your awareness like a skill, not a trait. A Word From Our Sponsors Tired of awkward handshakes and collecting business cards without building real connections? Dive into our Free Social Capital Networking Masterclass. Learn practical strategies to make your interactions meaningful and boost your confidence in any social situation. Sign up for free at theartofcharm.com/sc and elevate your networking from awkward to awesome. Don't miss out on a network of opportunities! Unleash the power of covert networking to infiltrate high-value circles and build a 7-figure network in just 90 days. Ready to start? Check out our CIA-proven guide to networking like a spy! Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince—where high-end essentials meet unbeatable prices. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Ready to turn your business idea into reality? Shopify makes it easy to start, scale, and succeed—whether you're launching a side hustle or building the next big brand. Sign up for your $1/month trial at shopify.com/charm. Need to hire top talent—fast? Skip the waiting game and get more qualified applicants with Indeed. Claim your $75 Sponsored Job Credit now at Indeed.com/charm. Curious about your influence level?  Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Resources from this Episode Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection CoachOnAMotorcycle.com (Christian's site) IntentionalHappiness.com (Robert's site) Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

00:06:27 The True Win-Win00:09:27 Unconscious Obstacles00:23:42 But They're Boring…00:30:22 All Hail Conan 00:40:09 Summary and TakeawaysHow to Listen with Intention: The Foundation of True Connection, Communication, and Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 7) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/listenintentionkinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08B5QRV5XDiscover the secret to building deep and meaningful connections with Patrick King's latest book, "How to Listen with Intention." In this episode, we dive into Chapter 1, where you'll learn the art of active listening and why it's a game-changer in your relationships. Did you know that by simply focusing on listening, you can go from a stranger to a cherished friend? It's time to unlock the true win-win situation! But beware, there are unconscious obstacles that might bore you (and your potential friends!). We'll explore these pitfalls and provide tips on how to avoid them. Patrick King also highlights the importance of creating a balance in relationships - giving and taking equally. Are you guilty of being a conversational narcissist? Find out with this eye-opening chapter!

I am thrilled to bring you part 2 of my powerful conversation Chloe Blakeburn! In part one Chloe shared her journey from nursing school to building Fit by Chloe, her successful online coaching business. We explored her self-love journey, mindset shifts, and the transformative power of vulnerability. In this episode, we dive even deeper into her world, unpacking her solo retreat experience, the beauty of community, and the magic of stepping out of your comfort zone. Chloe's story is a beautiful reminder that growth truly happens when you choose to lean into discomfort and prioritize connection.Tune in to hear more about:• Chloe's solo retreat experience and how she embraced solitude, practiced self-discovery, and found empowerment in stillness.• Building authentic community and the steps she took to create meaningful connections, both online and in person.• Overcoming loneliness, finding belonging when you feel isolated, and understanding why community matters.• The magic of solo travel, the confidence and clarity that come from pushing past comfort zones.• What's next for Fit by Chloe, her dreams, favourite books and daytime routines!As always, we'd love to hear your biggest takeaways from the episode! Connect with us on Instagram @AlliArruda and @ChloeBlakeburn.Chloe's Links:Instagram: @chloeblakeburn @fitbychloecoachingWebsite: https://fitbychloe.ca/The BENCHMARK FITNESS 6-Week Challenge is here, with programs for every lifestyle:• Bodyweight: No equipment needed.• Dumbbell: Minimal gear, maximum results.• Gym: Full access, full potential. Includes a 6-week meal plan to fuel your progress.Spots are limited—don't wait to show up for yourself!JOIN US HERE: https://www.benchmarkfitness.ca/shop/bmf-6-week-challengeUse our listener discount code CHALLENGE50 to receive $50 off! Upcoming Events: • GIRLFRIENDS WALKs are back!Join us: May 25th GIRLFRIENDS WALK! https://www.inspireandmove.ca/store/p/maygirlfriendswalk • SWEAT SOCIAL in the Vineyard on June 14th! Details here: https://www.inspireandmove.ca/store/p/sweat-social-in-the-vineyard Let's Connect!• INSPIRE + MOVE EVENTS• Instagram• Website• Facebook• TikTok

Today's episode is one you're really going to want to lean into because Michael is talking all about radical listening with Robert V. Biswas-Diener. If you've ever felt like traditional ‘active listening' just doesn't cut it, this conversation is going to open your ears and your mind in a whole new way. They chat about key ideas from Robert and his coauthor Christian Van Nieuwerburgh's book, Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection, such as why traditional active listening often falls short and what it means to really show up for someone through listening with intention, how to adapt your listening style depending on the situation, how culture can shape communication, and why staying curious might be one of the most powerful tools in your toolbox. This conversation is for anyone who wants to have deeper, more meaningful conversations with friends, coworkers, or anyone you care about! Listen and Learn: Why does radical listening go beyond traditional active listening, and how does focusing on intention transform the way we pay attention in conversations? How does your listening intention, whether to validate, learn, or fix, shape what specific cues and details you focus on during a conversation? How can well-intentioned behaviors like comparing, competing, or offering advice become obstacles to effective listening and connection? The importance of aligning your listening intention with the speaker's intention to create a true connection in a conversation How you can use internal and external skills, like calming your mind or staying present, to become a better listener Noticing different types of silence to help you understand what's really happening in a conversation Understanding cultural differences, and letting go of the “awkward pause” to help you listen more openly How you can accept someone's perspective without agreeing with it, and still create a more respectful and open conversation Why the way you ask questions matters, and why you want to ask ones that help the other person open up, not just satisfy your own curiosity How can interjecting, when done thoughtfully, show deep engagement in a conversation without being rude? Resources: Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection: https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9781523007196 Robert's LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-biswas-diener-a860289/ Robert's websites https://robertdiener.com/ and https://positiveacorn.com/  Christian's website: https://coachonamotorcycle.com/ Parking Cars in America, 1910-1945: A History https://relationalriffs.substack.com/p/why-listening-is-a-superpower https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/are-you-listening/ About Robert Biswas-Diener: Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener is a researcher, author, and consultant with 75 peer-reviewed academic articles, and he has over 27,000 citations.  His previous books include The Upside Of Your Dark Side (New York Times bestseller, 2014) and the 2007 prose award winner, Happiness.  He has presented keynotes to Lululemon, Deloitte, Humana, AARP, The World Bank, and others.  In 2024, Thinkers50 named Robert one of the “50 most influential executive coaches in the world”.  He lives in Portland, Oregon, enjoying drawing and rock climbing. Related Episodes: 393. Supercommunicators with Charles Duhigg 353. Ask Great Questions with Jeff Wetzler 360. The Laws of Connection with David Robson 191. Conversations that Connect with AJ Harbinger Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful episode of SuperPsyched, psychologist Dr. Adam Dorsay sits down with Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener, co-author of the book 'Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection.' They explore the crucial skill of listening, its impact on personal and professional relationships, and the cultural differences in communication styles. They also discuss the science of happiness, self-care, and practical skills to become better listeners while sharing fascinating stories from Dr. Biswas-Diener's global research, including his time in Greenland. This engaging conversation offers valuable takeaways for leaders, parents, coaches, and anyone keen on improving their listening skills and forming deeper connections.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Importance of Listening01:04 Introducing Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener02:53 The Genesis of Radical Listening05:05 Defining Radical Listening06:53 Cultural Perspectives on Listening09:55 The Business Case for Listening13:52 Listening in Relationships18:01 The Greenland Experience27:19 A Village Encounter: Bird Catching Stories27:51 The Art of Radical Listening28:24 Developing Listening Skills33:32 Interruption: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly36:24 The Power of Acceptance in Listening40:40 Overcoming Obstacles to Effective Listening46:20 The Importance of Loving Confrontation49:32 The Miracle Question: Self-Care and HappinessHelpful Links:Dr. Robert Biswas-DienerRadical Listening: The Art of True Connection Book

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Your ego is not your amigo, especially when it comes to relationships. This profound truth reveals itself in the cars we choose, the homes we occupy, the titles we pursue, and perhaps most importantly, the partners we select. Too often, we're drawn to someone not because they offer genuine connection, but because they enhance our image or status – think of wealthy older men with partners decades their junior, relationships built more on ego fulfillment than soulful connection.When we lack self-esteem, we desperately seek external validation. The $450,000 Hermès Birkin bag phenomenon perfectly illustrates this principle. Despite identical alternatives available for a fraction of the price, some people willingly pay huge sums for these status symbols. Why? Primarily to feed the ego's insatiable appetite for external validation.When we allow our ego to dictate our choices, focusing attention on ourselves rather than our partners, relationship problems inevitably arise. By recognizing and resisting ego-driven urges, we dramatically improve our chances of finding and maintaining genuine love. Remember, in the quest for passionate, authentic relationships, your ego truly is not your amigo.

In our latest interview, Nick Zei & Emilio Ortiz discuss universal laws such as karma and reincarnation, the simulation, and the role of societal limitations in self-imposed boundaries.They explore the concept of truth and discernment, the pitfalls of relying solely on channeled messages, and the significance of grounded spirituality. They also touch on the cycles of human consciousness, the power of observation in shaping reality, and the idea that life is like a video game with its own rules. The podcast explores the concept of tapping into different timelines and creating one's own reality. It delves into the idea that we can experience emotions and states of being without actually having the external circumstances. They explore the return of Christ consciousness and the importance of individual embodiment. Nick shares his perspective on the cosmic joke, highlighting the illusion of death and the irony of seeking answers outside of oneselfNick Zei is a passionate esoteric teacher, content creator, and podcaster dedicated to exploring the depths of consciousness, awakening, and ancient wisdom. As the author of the acclaimed book 10 Secrets of Awakening, Nick has established himself as a leading voice in the field of spiritual growth and human evolution. His mission is to bridge the gap between ancient knowledge, modern spirituality, and the science of consciousness, offering tools and insights to empower humanity to step into elevated states of awareness. Through his work, Nick inspires others to take charge of their lives, expand their perspectives, and create the reality they prefer. With a unique ability to simplify complex spiritual and metaphysical concepts, Nick has gained a devoted audience of seekers who are ready to uncover the secrets of their inner power and the true nature of reality.___________________PODCAST CHAPTERS00:00 - Nick Zei Intro01:11 - Embodiment Over Intellect04:02 - From Skepticism to Grounded Spirituality06:29 - The Influence of Spiritual Masters on Modern Science10:52 - Discernment and Intuition in Spirituality14:14 - Escapism vs. True Connection 14:46 - How Einstein and Tesla Accessed Universal Mind16:47 - Exploring the Yuga Cycles & The Role of the Sun21:26 - Solar Maximum and Predictions for 202529:39 - The Rules of the Simulation Game38:14 - Alleviating Suffering Through Paradigm Shifts42:09 - Timeline Shifts & Manifestation Techniques44:31 - Nick's Weight Loss Journey 46:51 - The Role of Adversity in Awakening50:27 - Destiny, Predetermined Events and Soul Contracts58:41 - Truths in Plain Sight: Movies as Spiritual Symbolism01:03:27 - The Force: Sith vs. Jedi 01:06:59 - The Conscious Observer 01:10:17 - The Evolution of Human Potential 01:16:48 - Reincarnation Trap Explained01:23:46 - The Return of Christ Consciousness01:28:41 - Uniting Science & Spirituality: The Next Leap01:31:03 - Practical Spiritual Quests01:39:27 - Life's Biggest Lessons01:45:29 - The Cosmic Joke01:49:04 - Time Capsule for Future Leaders___________________Guest: Nick Zei | Esoteric Content Creator ✦ All Links | https://linktr.ee/nick.zei✦ 10 Secrets of Awakening Book | https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Awaken...✦ Instagram |   / nick.zei  ✦ YouTube | ‪@therealnickzei‬ Host: Emilio Ortiz✦ IG |   / iamemilioortiz  ✦ Subscribe to Channel | ‪@EmilioOrtiz‬ ✦ Watch Emilio's latest series on 4biddenknowledge TV l https://bit.ly/AwakenThe6thSense___________________© 2024 Emilio Ortiz. All rights reserved. Content from Just Tap In Podcast is protected under copyright law.Legal Disclaimer: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by guests on Just Tap In are solely those of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of Emilio Ortiz or the Just Tap In Podcast. All content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

What does it really mean to truly connect with someone—and why does it matter so much?In this week's episode (and our second last episode of the season!!

This episode is about matters of the heart. Dr. Carol talks with Tom Bennardo, a seasoned ministry leader, author, and spiritual director, about the power and challenge of courageous authenticity. We explore the barriers that keep us from true connection—what he calls "Level 3 intimacy," where we move beyond surface interactions into deeper, truly vulnerable relationships. Whether it's fear, shame, or past wounds, we unpack what holds us back and why authenticity is both risky and essential for a meaningful life. Together, we discuss practical ways to cultivate deeper intimacy—with God, within ourselves, and in a few personal relationships. This conversation is an invitation to take off the masks and move into the kind of love and belonging our hearts were made for. If you desire deeper relationships and longer-lasting spiritual transformation but struggle with how to get there, this episode is for you. Connect with Tom Bennardo on his website, Facebook, X (Twitter), or Instagram Find Tom's book Open-Hearted People, Soul-Connected Church: How Courageous Authenticity Can Transform Your Relationships, Your Community, and Your Life Find out more about Dr. Carol Ministries in-person intensives - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message here.

SUMMARY:In this episode, Kimberly hosts Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener and Professor Christian von Neuwerberg, co-authors of 'Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection.' They explore the significance of listening in building resilient relationships, navigating conflicts, and fostering empathy. The discussion delves into the motivations behind listening, the importance of being present, and the challenges of half-listening. The authors share personal anecdotes and practical strategies for enhancing listening skills, emphasizing the need for intentionality and connection in communication. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the concept of radical listening, emphasizing its importance in building connections and fostering understanding in a divided world. They discuss the various skills involved in effective listening, such as acceptance, intention, and self-care, and how these can transform interpersonal relationships. The dialogue also touches on the challenges of navigating trauma and the significance of acknowledging others' experiences. Ultimately, the speakers advocate for listening as a powerful act of love that can bridge divides and enhance communicationEPSIODE SPONSORS: MOMENTOUS OFFER: Head to livemomentous.com and use code KIMBERLY for 35% off your first subscription. That's code KIMBERLY at livemomentous.com for 35% off your first subscription.USE LINK: livemomentous.com Code: KIMBERLY for 35% off your first subscription. FATTY15OFFER: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health. You can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/KIMBERLY and using code KIMBERLY at checkout.USE LINK: fatty15.com/KIMBERLYChapters00:00 Introduction to Radical Listening02:12 The Importance of Listening in Diverse Cultures05:05 The Birth of Radical Listening07:45 Listening vs. Speaking: The Balance of Communication10:23 Intentional Listening: The Key to Connection14:27 Overcoming Barriers to Presence in Listening17:18 Navigating Conversations: Setting Boundaries19:19 The Dangers of Half Listening23:19 Asking Probing Questions for Deeper Connection28:16 Understanding Underlying Issues in Communication30:20 Levels of Acknowledgement32:22 Building Connections Through Radical Listening34:32 The Challenge of Acceptance36:46 Navigating Trauma and Listening38:27 The Importance of Intention in Listening40:41 Self-Care for Effective Listening42:58 Understanding Listening Skills43:44 The Ripple Effect of Radical Listening47:40 Starting Your Journey in Radical Listening51:20 Listening as an Act of LoveSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to Strategy Skills episode 546, an interview with the authors of Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection, Prof. Christian van Nieuwerburgh and Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener.   Most conversations barely scratch the surface, because true connection isn't just about hearing words, it's about listening with purpose and presence.   In this episode, Prof. Christian van Nieuwerburgh and Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener introduce the concept of Radical Listening: an intentional, culturally aware approach to making others feel seen, heard, and valued. Drawing from their research and coaching experiences, they explain why our intentions behind listening matter just as much as the act itself and how distractions, politeness, and even the need to be right can undermine true connection. They share practical strategies leaders can use to build stronger teams, navigate conflict, and create space for deeper conversations, even across cultural differences.   Prof. Christian van Nieuwerburgh (PhD) is a leading academic and executive coach with an international reputation. He is Professor of Coaching and Positive Psychology at RCSI University of Medicine and Health Sciences (Ireland) and Principal Fellow at the Centre for Wellbeing Science at the University of Melbourne (Australia). Christian delivers consultancy, training, and executive coaching globally, regularly presenting in the United States, the United Kingdom, Europe, Australia, New Zealand, and the Middle East. He is passionate about motorcycling, writing, and coaching.   Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener is a researcher, author, and consultant with 75 peer-reviewed academic articles and over 27,000 citations. His previous books include The Upside of Your Dark Side (New York Times bestseller, 2014) and the 2007 PROSE Award winner, Happiness. He has presented keynotes to Lululemon, Deloitte, Humana, AARP, the World Bank, and others. In 2024, Thinkers50 named Robert one of the “50 most influential executive coaches in the world.” He lives in Portland, Oregon, and enjoys drawing and rock climbing.   Get Radical Listening here: https://rb.gy/z5x7wt   Here are some free gifts for you: Overall Approach Used in Well-Managed Strategy Studies free download: www.firmsconsulting.com/OverallApproach   McKinsey & BCG winning resume free download: www.firmsconsulting.com/resumepdf   Enjoying this episode? Get access to sample advanced training episodes here: www.firmsconsulting.com/promo  

Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener shares powerful insights on how to listen well and deepen your connections. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) The hidden barriers to listening 2) Why we should interrupt more 3) The secret to handling disagreements better Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1052 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT ROBERT — Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener is a researcher, author, and consultant with 75 peer-reviewed academic articles and has over 27,000 citations. His previous books include The Upside of Your Dark Side (New York Times Bestseller, 2014), and the 2007 PROSE Award winner, Happiness. He has presented keynotes to Lululemon, Deloitte, Humana, AARP, The World Bank, and others. In 2024, Thinkers50 named Robert one of the “50 Most Influential Executive Coaches in the World.” He lives in Portland, Oregon, where he enjoys drawing and rock climbing.• Book: Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection, with Christian van Nieuwerburgh• Website: IntentionalHappiness.com — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: Dracula by Bram Stoker• Book: They Ask You Answer: A Revolutionary Approach to Inbound Sales, Content Marketing, and Today's Digital Consumer by Marcus Sheridan See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Send us a textAndrew Battistella, pastor of a church in Ballarat, Victoria, brings a refreshing authenticity to this profound conversation about creating communities where people can truly be themselves. Rather than presenting a polished facade, Andrew identifies first as a "friend" - someone who loves journeying with people around tables filled with good food and honest conversation.The conversation explores what happens when we prioritize safety over perfection in our churches. His church vision crystallizes this approach: "To be a safe place for all people where they can be restored and revealed to His glory."What makes this discussion particularly powerful is Andrew's willingness to share his own story. From experiencing rejection in his youth to navigating the complexities of family restoration, his journey has shaped his belief that authenticity heals. In perhaps the most striking revelation, he shares that every member of his church leadership team sees a counselor - a fact he proudly tells other pastors.The dialogue delves into the three pillars Andrew considers "keys of the kingdom": authenticity, vulnerability, and transparency. While our culture often frames vulnerability as weakness, Andrew argues it's actually our natural state in God's economy. The conversation tackles the wisdom required to balance openness with appropriate boundaries, likening it to Jesus having his inner circle of three disciples.By the end, a powerful truth emerges: perspective through the Father's heart changes everything. Rather than seeing God as a harsh judge, Andrew invites us to recognize Him as a loving Father creating "opportunity after opportunity for deeper relationship." This reshapes how we approach ministry, relationships, and our own brokenness.Join us for this refreshingly honest conversation that might just change how you think about community, leadership, and what it means to create truly safe spaces where healing can flourish.Support the showwww.greaterthingsinternational.com

This week Scott is joined by Robert Biswas-Diener and Christian van Nieuwerburgh, pioneers in positive psychology coaching and co-authors of the new book Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection. Together, they share powerful insights on how to deepen our conversations and relationships through the transformative practice of radical listening. Robert and Christian explore their framework for truly listening, which includes the practices of noticing, quieting, accepting, acknowledging, questioning, and interjecting. This conversation is a masterclass in co-creating meaning and cultivating empathy in our interactions. They also provide guidance through the science and art of connection—something the world deeply needs right now. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this rich and revealing episode, Hillary chats with dating and relationship coach Mimi Watt for a heart-opening conversation on healing attachment wounds, finding love from a place of self-worth, and embracing the journey back to authentic connection.Together, they explore:How to cultivate love from within before seeking it outside of youWhy healing anxious attachment is key to attracting secure loveThe power of intentional dating and identifying your non-negotiablesThe importance of independence and novelty in long-term relationshipsThe subtle ways women internalise the male gaze — and how to reclaim your authentic self-expressionThe energetic difference between attaching and connecting in relationshipsWhy real compatibility isn't just about chemistry — it's about values and communicationWith practical wisdom, raw personal stories, and a shared passion for empowerment, Hillary and Mimi offer a grounded yet expansive conversation for anyone navigating the dating world, calling in conscious partnership or redefining what love truly means.Connect with Mimi:

Order my newest book Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyouCheck out the full episode: greatness.lnk.to/1751From his experience as the second oldest of 11 siblings to his journey through toxic relationship patterns, Nick Viall opens up about the profound misconceptions that shaped his approach to love. Growing up in a Catholic household with loving parents as role models, he absorbed the idea that relationships require sacrifice, but took it to an extreme—becoming what he calls a "love martyr." Nick candidly reveals how he confused validation with love, investing years in incompatible relationships simply because he believed that fighting harder made the connection more special, regardless of whether they were actually enjoying each other's company.Nick shares three powerful pieces of advice he would give his younger self: recognizing that intense feelings don't always equate to true love, avoiding the trap of love martyrdom, and learning to distinguish between the voice of his ego and his heart. With remarkable self-awareness, he compares ego to a superpower—like the Phoenix from X-Men—capable of providing necessary confidence but potentially destructive when uncontrolled. His vulnerability offers listeners valuable insights into breaking harmful relationship patterns and building authentic connections based on genuine compatibility rather than romanticized struggle.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter

Episode Notes: -Education is what Christian's journey revolves around. “I am most passionate about education. I want to imagine a time when everyone has access to excellent education.” That is what motivates him. He has reflected on how access to excellent education has impacted him, given him more opportunities, and his journey.  -Discovering coaching was a transformational moment for me. Coaching is the most respectful way to support people's learning and professional development. And it's the most empowering way of doing that. Once I learned about coaching, there was no going back. My question became how can we use coaching most effectively in an educational setting. Then I learned the art of positive psychology which is the science of living or performance.  -As coaches we are supporting people to be at their best. By linking coaching, which is the methodology of helping others meet desired change, and positive psychology, which is the science of being at our best, we bring out the best in others. Education gives us the tools to pursue our goals. It also helps us overcome barriers. Everyone needs a good education.  -There is something with each of us deciding what is the best contribution we can make. Some are amazing teachers… some are amazing leaders… Some are amazing support staff. Coaching matched my need to do well and my general approach to life. I love to see people succeed. -Our jobs as coaches relate to other peoples' successes. -Radical Listening: THe Art of True Connection Book- Our job as coaches is helping others to be at their best.  -We hope the listeners are ensuring they are at their best. -Radical Listening: Take what coaches already know and share it with a much larger audience. It expands to so many more professional roles that could be enhanced by better listening.  -One of my biggest strengths is that I am a learner and co-authoring with someone else can be such a remarkable learning experience.  -Connection to the C3 Podcast: Connecting Coaches' Cognition, and the subtitle of the book is ‘The Art of True Connection.'  Listening is not reactive and it is actually proactive. We can use the skill of listening to connect with other people.   -Radical Listening- We see listening as a two way interaction. -Work with each other in partnership to pull someone forward. -In the moments that are the hardest to relate, reach out, and be able to engage can be the most powerful. -Radical Listening Book is very practical. We are all good listeners already. We listen in empowering and powerful ways to others. Start with an intention. Imagine you are about to go into a scenario, take a moment to think, what is my intention in this conversation? -3 Social Intentions: Connect, Appreciate, & Influences -3 Cognitive Intentions: Understand, Solve, & Listening in Order to Learn -Depending on our intention we listen in different ways.  -Solving is a trap- when they really want to be listened to, not find a solution. -Notice barriers of our listening: What can get in the way of our listening to others?  -Time? - Time Poverty -I know what is best in this situation? -Internal barriers or internal dialogue -Quieting and Quietening - one of the skills to be a radical listener is to create an environment for the listening to happen, the other is to create an environment that is not full of distractions. Difficult in education but minimizing what we can and shielding the conversation. Trying to show the conversation is important for us. -Skill that is challenging is interjecting. We think - don't just go quiet or not speak. Jump in and engage.  It helps to build this sense of rapport. Some programs say to not do this, but if I don't respond to those big emotions it breaks the sense of being with the other person. It is all the nonverbals. It is a building of rapport.  -Build up the energy of the conversion by connecting with them. Finesse and optimal matching required with discernment. -Making sure the way we are listening to the person helps us to best be most helpful for our conversational partner.  -All of us need to be careful that fidelity to the intervention does not get in the way of the best interest of the client. Finesse is needed. Put the client first. It is based on their belief that they know what is best for them.  -Radical Listening involves that we can listen to people in a  way that builds rapport and relationships. And sometimes putting the relationship and rapport  first can be really powerful. The message behind Radical Listening.  - Start by having dialogue. Unlock starts by trying to  validate, understand and appreciate where you are coming from. Can learn from you. I hope it has a broader application as well.  -The motivation for this book is Radical Listening  Applies in a professional context but personal as well. Something you can do straight away. What is my intention for my next interaction I am going to have? -Are you applying this to the most important relationship that I have? Sometimes in those relationships we have had for longer so we get into habits, we are not as intentional as we could be. These people deserve our full attention. How am I listening to my partner, my best friend, or my colleague? -Listening in this way can have a transformational impact.  -Listening is the intervention. We don't have to listen so that other things happen. Listening is the first step.  That's the thing.  -It is fundamental as humans to connect with one another. Allocate more time to listening.  -Radical Listening with our pets. -Everytime we listen it is an opportunity for connection.  And sometimes we miss that opportunity.  -Children and listening and needing to be acknowledged.  -Coaching is about creating ideal environments for learning. -What's  important is going on for you right now? And being interested in that. Not saying “What's going on?” “How are you?” - Really caring beyond.    Connect with Christian: -coachonamotorcycle.com  -@coachonamotorcycle - YouTube -Barnes and Noble - Radical Listening -Amazon.com - Radical Listening

Welcome to the debut of "Wired for the Kingdom," formerly known as "Traversing Manhood." This rebrand reflects a broader and more unfiltered exploration into what it means to live a spiritually enriched life. While the core themes remain, expect discussions that are rawer and cast a wider net over the complexities of modern manhood. In our first episode, we dive deep into the essence of spiritual aliveness. Inspired by John Eldredge's concept of us as 'amphibians,' navigating both physical and spiritual realms, we challenge the superficial practices of religion to discover a dynamic walk with God. Hear a personal story that exemplifies the real spiritual battle and the victory of connection over fear. Are your spiritual practices bringing you closer to God, or are they just motions? Join us as we embrace the genuine encounter with the Divine, transforming routine into revelation. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a comment, and share this episode. Your engagement helps us grow and continue to bring you content that touches the soul and challenges the spirit.

How can coaches' use of radical listening generate teachers' reflection and increase a sense of teachers' empowerment? Examine some of the obstacles to and strategies for radical listening from the work of Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener and Christian Van Nieuwerburgh authors of Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection. As coaches, when we resist the urge to jump in with comparisons, advice, or quick fixes—and instead, lean into radical listening—we communicate trust, respect, and belief in the teacher's capacity. Listen to the Podcast, "Mastering Coaching and Leadership | Robert Biswas-Diener | Craig Dowden, PhD" here. Subscribe to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast on iTunes or visit BarkleyPD.com to find new episodes!  

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What is radical listening, and why is it important in our relationships? Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener is the co-author of the soon-to-be published book, Radical Listening, The Art of True Connection. He's a researcher, author, and consultant. His previous books include The Upside of Your Dark Side (New York Times Bestseller, 2014), and the 2007 PROSE Award winner, Happiness. He has presented keynotes to Lululemon, Deloitte, Humana, AARP, The World Bank, and others. In 2024, Thinkers50 named him one of the “50 Most Influential Executive Coaches in the World.” He lives in Portland, Oregon, where he enjoys drawing and rock climbing.In this episode:How Radical Listening moves beyond traditional active listening techniquesWhat people trying to accomplish when they listenHow the 6 Core skills of Radical Listening enable us to better communicate with othersHow Internal and External listening skills complement each otherHow we can effectively overcome those barriers to better approach our conversationsConnect with RobertLinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-biswas-diener-a860289   Website https://robertdiener.com/ ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

Summary In this episode, Andy interviews Christian van Nieuwerburgh and Robert Biswas-Diener, authors of the book Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection. The discussion explores the concept of radical listening, distinguishing it from active listening and emphasizing the importance of creating genuine connections through intent, curiosity, and acknowledgment. Christian and Robert share personal anecdotes and practical applications of their listening framework, both in professional settings and personal relationships. They also address the impact of cultural differences on listening practices and provide tips for parents to improve communication with their children. The conversation culminates in an insightful look at the barriers to effective listening and strategies to overcome them. Whether to help you with your teams at work or loved ones at home, this is a must-listen! Sound Bites "Your intention will guide your attention." "I started questioning active listening when I started thinking about how much I summarize when I'm with my friends, which is to say I never do it!" "If I just go in thinking, ‘What can I learn from the conversation?' that is going to completely direct what I'm paying attention to." "Acknowledgement can't just be, ‘I have goodwill towards you.' It actually has to be demonstrated." "So one day I thought, ‘Look, I've been shouting, I've grounded the kid, I've taken away his computer, I've done everything… maybe I just need to understand what's going on.'" "Not a small portion of my friends, colleagues, and family members were surprised to hear that I was writing a book on listening" Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:59 Start of Interview 02:17 What Does Radical Listening NOT Mean? 04:54 Distinguishing Radical Listening from Active Listening 07:14 When Were You Recently in Listening Mode? 11:30 Handling Difficult Conversations with a Team Member 16:12 Difficult Conversation with a Relative With Different Political Views 20:22 Acknowledging and Interjecting in Conversations 28:22 Cultural Considerations in Radical Listening 28:53 Understanding Cultural Scripts in Conversations 33:21 The Importance of Respectful Listening 35:51 Personal Challenges in Listening 37:31 Applying Listening Skills in Parenting 42:06 End Of Interview 42:30 Andy Comments After The Interview 47:42 Outtakes Learn More You can learn more about Christian at CoachOnAMotorcycle.com. Also, learn more about Robert at RobertDiener.com. For more learning on this topic, check out: Episode 371 with Amanda Ripley about her book High Conflict. Episode 195 with Celeste Headlee about her book on communication. Episode 108 with Doug Stone about his book on receiving feedback. Thank you for joining me for this episode of The People and Projects Podcast! Talent Triangle: Power Skills Topics: Listening, Communication, Active Listening, Leadership, Relationships, Engagement, Cultural Sensitivity, Communication Skills, Project Management The following music was used for this episode: Music: Brooklyn Nights by Tim Kulig License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Music: Synthiemania by Frank Schroeter License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

Have you wondered why you may be having a hard time loving and connecting with others? Discover what it takes to create a deep level of love, safety, and connection in your relationships. 

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I'm excited revisit this conversation with Ximena Vengoechea to the show to discuss her book, Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection. Ximena is a user researcher, author, and expert in communication and active listening. Her book explores how we can deepen our conversations, overcome common listening mistakes, and foster meaningful connections in both personal and professional settings. In this conversation, we cover: The Art of Listening: Why many of us think we're listening when we're actually just waiting for our turn to speak. Levels of Listening: The difference between surface listening and empathetic listening, and why the latter is key to deeper relationships. Hidden Needs in Conversations: How both we and the person we're speaking with bring unspoken expectations into every interaction. The Role of Curiosity, Humility, and Empathy: How these three qualities shape more meaningful and engaged conversations. Avoiding Common Listening Mistakes: Why we often get distracted, how body language impacts connection, and how to stay present. Handling Difficult Conversations: Tips for navigating emotionally charged discussions while maintaining genuine understanding. The Impact of Technology on Communication: How devices can subtly diminish empathy and connection, and what to do about it. Ximena's insights will help you become a better listener, improve your relationships, and create more meaningful connections in every conversation. Learn more about Ximena and her work at ximenavengoechea.com/listenlikeyoumeanit. Connect with Erik: LinkedIn  Facebook  Bluesky This Podcast is Powered By: Descript Descript 101 Castmagic Ecamm Podpage Rodecaster Pro Top Productivity Books List Make sure to support the show by checking out the sponsors! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this vulnerable episode of Shadow Work, WTF?, Caitlin shares her recent breakthrough around righteousness – a protective pattern she developed after narcissistic abuse that eventually became a barrier to authentic connection. She walks through her process of recognising, understanding and integrating this shadow without abandoning her core strength of conviction.This episode is for you if:You find yourself getting defensive or combative when others disagree with youYou've been told you're "always have to be right" in discussionsYou struggle to allow others to have different opinions without it feeling threateningWhat we'll cover:How righteousness often develops as protection after gaslighting or emotional abuseWhy both cognitive understanding AND bodily release are essential for integrationThe process of honouring protective parts while transforming how they manifestIf you've ever struggled with black-and-white thinking, found yourself dying on every hill in an argument, or noticed a pattern of righteousness in your interactions, this episode offers a roadmap for understanding the deeper "why" behind these behaviours – and how to begin shifting them without abandoning your core values.Key Points and Timestamps:09:10:00 - The Shadow Emerges The contradiction between Caitlin's strength (emotional safety) and weakness (inflexibility with opinions).18:09:00 - Meeting the Protector Connecting with the part that developed righteousness as protection after abusive relationships.29:26:00 - Resourceful vs Unresourceful Patterns How protective mechanisms that once saved us can later create disconnection.45:22:00 - The Partner Conversation The vulnerable conversation that triggered deeper awareness and processing.54:05:00 - Recap of the Shadow Alchemy Process Key components: awareness, body connection, gift recognition, and integration.Connect with Us:Loved this episode? Share your takeaways on Instagram and tag me at @shadowalchemycoachingacademy.

Ximena Vengoechea has been UX researcher at companies like Twitter and Pinterest. She is the author of several books including the one we discuss today titled Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection.  Her writing has been published in The Washington Post, Newsweek, Fast Company, CNBC, The Muse, among others. She writes a regular newsletter on personal growth and human behavior at ximena.substack.com. In this inteview we discuss: How to Listen Beyond Words - Discover techniques to understand the emotions and unspoken needs hiding beneath surface-level conversation. When to Switch Listening Modes - Learn to identify your default listening style and how to adapt it based on what others actually need from you. Turning Any Topic Into an Engaging Conversation - Find out how to remain genuinely curious about subjects that don't naturally interest you by focusing on the person sharing them. Setting Healthy Boundaries While Listening - Master the balance between empathetic listening and protecting yourself from carrying others' emotional burdens. The Power of Being Fully Present - Understand how mindfulness, reduced note-taking, and self-awareness create the foundation for meaningful connections. -- email questions to omaid@omaid.me

Dr. Adam Dorsay is a licensed psychologist and an executive coach in Silicon Valley where he serves people who have achieved all the big trophies of the world; money, status, possessions, power, and some of them, fame. And yet they are coming to him for help. Why? After all these years, he's written a book to culminate the primary problem he sees. Lack of true connection. We are all out there trying to win the world, and in the process, we neglect our soul. We neglect the primary thing that gives us true joy, happiness, and fulfillment. Connection. This may seem elementary but so are most of the great truths of life. Adam finds there are four key areas of connection that we are missing and it's taking the joy out of everything else; connection with yourself, others, the world, and something greater. But you can't just hear that list and fix things. You need to understand what connection really is and how to go about achieving it, because we are all lacking connection to varying degrees and we don't understand why. Which is why I had Dr Adam Dorsay come onto the show. I wanted to know more for myself, and as you're about to hear, discussing connect with Adam opened my eyes more, especially in regards to my connection with myself, which is the most common thread of all my research on the human condition. Adam's book is called Super Psyched: Unleash the Power of the 4 Types of Connection and Live the Life You Love. He also has a podcast of the same name, Super Psyched, that you can check out. I invite you to join me as I talk with Dr Adam Dorsay about how we can better understand and achieve the greatest asset for our lives, connection. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Use my promo code WHATDRIVESYOU for 10% off on any CleanMyMac's subscription plans Join millions of Americans reaching their financial goals—starting at just $3/month! Get $25 towards your first stock purchase at get.stash.com/DRIVE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textIn this episode, I sit down with Travis Smith, a doctoral student researching the loneliness epidemic, a pastor, counseling center operator, and adjunct professor. We explore the deep impact of loneliness on individuals and communities, the role of faith in fostering meaningful relationships, and practical ways to cultivate authentic connection in an increasingly isolated world. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that sheds light on this pressing issue and offers hope for genuine belonging.Support the show

Jason VanRuler is one of the most sought-after therapists in relationships, trauma, and personal transformation. He has helped thousands show up as their best self, get connected, and have exceptional relationships. Jason has also been featured in renowned media outlets such as the New York Times, Fox News, and many others. He is also the author of the #1 Amazon Best Selling "Get Past Your Past: How Facing Your Broken Places Leads to True Connection.” To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. We talk about the power of freedom in today's episode with Jason VanRuler. And we'd now love for you to go on the journey to not only forgive others, but to receive God's forgiveness for your life. Before we can truly bring reconciliation to others in the world, we need to be reconciled to God. Thankfully, He doesn't withhold His grace of forgiveness from any of us. It's time to receive the freedom that comes with the forgiveness of God because a forgiven person becomes a forgiving person!We'd love to introduce you to the 40-Day Forgiving Challenge.Forgiving Challenge takes you on a life-changing journey to experience the gift of God's grace so that you can share it with others. It also helps you identify and walk through the five phases leading to freedom. You can learn more about the challenge here!Resources mentioned in the episode: https://www.jasonvr.com/ Get Past Your Past How Facing Your Broken Places Leads to True Connection by Jason VanRuler Key insights from the episode: We get comfortable with our past even when it's bad. – Jason VanRuler Generational trauma stops with us. – Jason VanRuler The first step is saying, “I am responsible.” – Jason VanRuler Jason VanRuler's Challenge: What is one thing you are carrying around from your past that it's time to let go of?Are you following Jesus? Many want to be greater followers of Jesus but don't know how. We extensively studied everything Jesus commanded of us and located five key targets to which Jesus invited His followers. The five targets are Being, Forgiving, Serving, Giving, and Going.In partnership with LifeWay Research, we created a Red Letter Challenge Assessment that will measure you according to these five targets. And the best news of all: it's free! You will receive your results immediately and be presented with the next steps to help you become an even greater follower of Jesus.You can take the FREE Red Letter Challenge Assessment here. This is another Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a podcast network and digital media production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network by going to HurrdatMedia.com or the Hurrdat Media YouTube channel!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3481: Finding belonging is a lifelong pursuit, and Dr. Kelly Flanagan explores two very different paths to it. Some seek connection through aggression and conformity, while others embrace vulnerability, allowing rejection to refine their circles of belonging. Through powerful stories including one from motivational speaker Nick Santonastasso this piece challenges us to choose authenticity over approval, faith over fear, and true connection over performative acceptance. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/how-to-find-belonging-either-beautifully-or-violently/ Quotes to ponder: "Who do you become in order to attract companionship? What do you do in order to keep your companionship?" "The other way is to show up as you actually are, with all your countless imperfections and inabilities and insecurities just laid bare, vulnerable, and alone and to allow the rejecting of you to become the thing that purifies your circles of belonging." "As your sense of belonging grows, your faith in everything else does, too." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3481: Finding belonging is a lifelong pursuit, and Dr. Kelly Flanagan explores two very different paths to it. Some seek connection through aggression and conformity, while others embrace vulnerability, allowing rejection to refine their circles of belonging. Through powerful stories including one from motivational speaker Nick Santonastasso this piece challenges us to choose authenticity over approval, faith over fear, and true connection over performative acceptance. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/how-to-find-belonging-either-beautifully-or-violently/ Quotes to ponder: "Who do you become in order to attract companionship? What do you do in order to keep your companionship?" "The other way is to show up as you actually are, with all your countless imperfections and inabilities and insecurities just laid bare, vulnerable, and alone and to allow the rejecting of you to become the thing that purifies your circles of belonging." "As your sense of belonging grows, your faith in everything else does, too." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3481: Finding belonging is a lifelong pursuit, and Dr. Kelly Flanagan explores two very different paths to it. Some seek connection through aggression and conformity, while others embrace vulnerability, allowing rejection to refine their circles of belonging. Through powerful stories including one from motivational speaker Nick Santonastasso this piece challenges us to choose authenticity over approval, faith over fear, and true connection over performative acceptance. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/how-to-find-belonging-either-beautifully-or-violently/ Quotes to ponder: "Who do you become in order to attract companionship? What do you do in order to keep your companionship?" "The other way is to show up as you actually are, with all your countless imperfections and inabilities and insecurities just laid bare, vulnerable, and alone and to allow the rejecting of you to become the thing that purifies your circles of belonging." "As your sense of belonging grows, your faith in everything else does, too." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Pastor Hannah kicks off a new series, all about God's intention for meaningful relationships in our lives.

Shayla Huber felt like she was constantly fighting an internal battle, trapped by insecurities, people-pleasing tendencies, and the ache of a childhood marked by divorce. Outwardly, she led a successful life, but inside, she struggled with a disconnect from God's love. In this episode of "The Mom Next Door: Stories of Faith," Shayla shares her transformative journey from feeling spiritually orphaned to embracing God's unwavering love. Discover how her deep encounter with divine grace changed her heart, improved her marriage, and empowered her to write "10 Things I Hate About My Husband" to guide others towards the same freedom. Connect with Shayla on TikTok or on Instagram and Facebook Her website is ShaylaMarieHuber.com Check out her book (Affiliate link) 10 Things I Hate About My Husband Mentioned in this episode: Episode #220 A Battle Plan and Prayer for Wayward Hearts -Laine Lawson Craft Tending Fields Mom's Group on Facebook #prayingwife #christianmarriage #surrender #rodeowife #10thingsIhateaboutmyhusband #changedlife #marriagerenewal

Are you walking with pebbles in your shoes? Therapist and author Jason VanRuler offers this simple metaphor as a way to show how unbearable and damaging secrets can be if we don't address them. With leaders in church and culture falling all around us, it's important for us to understand the gravity of secrets. Jason points out that we all have two choices in dealing with our secrets: We can disclose them or we can deny them. Listen in as he encourages Christian leaders to create a Luke 12:2 rhythm of bringing any darkness into the light by employing the LIGHT Model for accountability. Resources Check out more from Jason VanRuler, including his book Get Past Your Past: How Facing Your Broken Places Leads to True Connection. Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at thinqmedia.com. Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics. Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: Participate in Let's Talk Tech Detox.  Bring the 28-Day Digital Fast to your family, workplace, or church. Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN. More from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips NextUp with Grant Skeldon NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons

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Join the No Pillz Podcast as we explore the essence of love and relationships. From personal reflections to the role of friendship and choosing the right partner, we dive deep into what it takes to build meaningful connections.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537 00:00 Introduction to the No Pills Podcast00:29 The Importance of Love and Relationships02:22 Reflecting on Personal Experiences with Love05:25 The True Nature of Love15:37 Friendship and Its Role in Relationships23:43 Finding and Choosing the Right Partner29:08 Commitment and the Depth of Love38:35 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsContact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: nopillzpodcast@gmail.com YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

There is a difference between simply knowing Christ, and truly abiding in Him. What does this difference look like? Are you abiding in Christ? Let's explore what Jesus says. Watch or listen now to this week's message from speaker Jonah Vos "True Connection: Abiding in Christ" (John 15:1-11) https://www.ankenyfree.church

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In this episode, Hunter shares the story of exposure to pornography and it becoming and unwanted behavior. Over time, he became more open, honest, and public about the struggles he had experienced and found that to be an important part of the process of letting it go. He also shares the impact of shame, which only worsened the behaviors, and learned to let go of shame and let go of perfectionism to create a healthier relationship with himself and others. He talks about reframing porn in a way that lessened its appeal, and how changing his perspective on it has helped him to decrease the desire to view and seek deeper, authentic connection. Connect with and follow Hunter on instagram:https://www.instagram.com/_hunter.clark/

Today we welcome back Karla Adkins to share her inspiring journey of freedom from alcohol, faith, and transformation. Karla's story is one of resilience and hope, offering a candid look at her struggles with alcohol, shame, and vulnerability—and how she found freedom through faith and sharing her inspiring story.  Karla reflects on her initial reluctance to share her experiences with liver failure publicly. Hearing how her story touched others gave her the courage to keep sharing, creating a ripple effect of hope for women struggling to control their drinking. Karla dives deep into the challenges of confronting shame, the healing power of vulnerability, and the transformation that comes from building a personal relationship with Jesus. She recounts her battle with liver failure and cirrhosis, her wake-up call to surrender her life to God, and the profound shift from seeing faith as a religion to experiencing it as an intimate relationship.  Together, Christy, Meade, and Karla explore the misconceptions surrounding sobriety and the subtle but dangerous grip alcohol can have on our lives. Karla emphasizes the importance of understanding its impact—not just on our bodies but on our relationships and spiritual health. Karla's testimony highlights how vulnerability can lead to healing—not just for the person sharing, but for everyone who hears it. She encourages listeners to view fear as an opportunity for growth and to take the leap toward freedom, no matter how uncertain the path may seem. Her gratitude for the chance to share her journey shines through, offering a beacon of hope for anyone facing their own struggle with alcohol. Today's episode is a reminder that no struggle is too great, and no story is too small to make an impact. Listen to Karla's first episode with us, here.  Get Karla's book, “And She Came Tumbling Down” here.   JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community Get Christy's Book:  Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind http://lovelifesober40dayfast.com   Learn More about Coaching with Christy  Learn More about Coaching with Meade   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.

Are you really hearing your clients - or just listening to them? In this insightful episode of the Stay Hungry Podcast, Joel Stone and Martha Dale tackle one of the most overlooked skills in business: the art of truly hearing. While listening involves passively acknowledging what someone says, hearing digs deeper into understanding the intent, emotions, and even unspoken needs behind their words.Joel kicks off with a personal story about how hearing a client's underlying concern turned an ordinary campaign into a transformative success. Martha chimes in with her own experiences, emphasising how hearing team feedback fosters trust, innovation, and collaboration. Together, they dive into the costly consequences of miscommunication in business, sharing eye-opening statistics and relatable anecdotes.Key topics include:Hearing vs. Listening: Understanding the fundamental difference and its impact on business relationships.Miscommunication Costs: How poor communication affects trust, revenue, and efficiency.Real-Life Examples: Positive and negative stories from the Codebreak team on hearing versus just listening.The Psychology of Feeling Heard: Why hearing fosters emotional connections and how it drives loyalty.Actionable Tools and Strategies: Open-ended questions, customer feedback loops, attentive silence, and the "unreasonable hospitality" method.Whether it's understanding the “no behind the yes” in a sales pitch or addressing employee concerns with empathy, Joel and Martha reveal how hearing leads to connection, clarity, and business growth.This episode is your ultimate guide to strengthening relationships, closing more deals, and enhancing leadership by mastering the power of hearing.LinksWebsite: https://www.codebreak.co.uk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/codebreakcrew/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/codebreakcrew/Joel's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelstoneofficial/ Joel's Facebook: https://facebook.com/joelstoneofficial/Free Marketing Budget Calculator: https://codebreak.outgrow.us/knowyournumbersArrange a call with Codebreak: https://form.jotform.com/241272835208051 InstagramFacebookLinkedIn

Redefining joy and connection means breaking free from the idea that alcohol is essential to social fulfillment. When we create genuine human connection beyond the influence of substances, we can nurture authentic relationships and support individuals post-recovery. Our guest this week challenges the norms of traditional social spaces by creating experiences that foster genuine connection, inspiring hope for those seeking true meaning in their sober journey, through his work at Sans Bar.  Chris Marshall is a former substance use counselor turned entrepreneur and the founder of Sans Bar, the first non-alcoholic bar in North America, established in 2017. Prior to founding Sans Bar, Chris worked as a substance use counselor in Texas for eight years, dedicating his career to helping individuals navigate recovery and mental health challenges. As a sought-after speaker, Chris has taken the stage at prestigious events including the Aspen Ideas Festival, South by Southwest, and Bar Convent Brooklyn. He is also a recognized mental health thought leader, with his insights featured in major outlets such as CNN, The New York Times, Men's Health Magazine, and The Today Show. Chris brings over 18 years of personal sobriety to his work, inspiring others through his lived experience and professional expertise. Residing in Austin, Texas, he shares his life with his wife and two children. He is the author of the forthcoming memoir Faster Than Light, an intimate exploration of mental health and substance use recovery. Topics Discussed: Helping individuals separate the trigger from their environment Staying in love with the idea of sobriety  Having the courage and bravery to ask for help and continue to do the work Creating experiences that make sobriety worthwhile  How discomfort can give us the tools for personal growth  The alcohol-free movement: disrupting the disease of addiction Connect with SansBar: Website: https://www.thesansbar.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@thesansbar/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sans_bar Connect with us on Social:   IG: https://www.instagram.com/positiverecoverymd/  FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/positiverecoverymd/ TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@positiverecoverycenter  YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4JcDF1gjlYch4V4iBbCgZg Additional Links: Want to receive the daily Positive Intervention from Dr. Powers' Positive Recovery Daily Guide? Subscribe here! https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/su/OtK48nO/dailypositiverecovery. Need an extra daily pick-me-up? Download your FREE 30+ inspirational wallpapers! https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/GUp7F11/InspirationalWallpaper  About Positive Recovery Centers: Positive Recovery Centers is a strengths-based addiction treatment program with locations across Texas. We offer a full continuum of care, from medical detox to sober living, all supported by an ever-growing alumni community network.  Our evidence-based curriculum blends the best of the old with the new, supporting our mission: Recovery is best pursued when meaningful, intentional, positive habits are formed through empowerment and resilience instead of negativity and shame. If you or someone you know needs addiction treatment, please visit the website or call the number below to schedule an assessment. We are here to help! Call: 877-476-2743 Address: 902 West Alabama Street, Houston, Texas 77006 Website: https://positiverecovery.com  Services: https://positiverecovery.com/services/  FAQ: https://positiverecovery.com/faq/   

Youtube version https://youtu.be/X1vactp5pbU MY STORY Dr. Reetu Verma https://healinghh.com.au I am the founder of Healing, Health and Happiness and believe in a holistic approach to healing and health. I have 25 years of experience as an academic, teacher and coach where I have provided support, help and guidance to thousands of people from all walks of life from all over the globe. Having undergone my own transformation after my near death experience, my teachings have now been expanded to personal development and spiritual growth. Healing, Health & Happiness is a result of my personal journey of healing and my deepest wish and commitment to make a positive difference in the lives of others, to help them on their healing journey so they can live a healthier, happier life.

Today's episode is extra special as we mark a huge milestone—our 100th episode! To make the celebration even sweeter, we're joined by an amazing duo making their podcast debut as a couple: Kenzie Ziegler and Cole Sage.In this episode, Kenzie opens up about her past relationships, shedding light on the toxic patterns she faced, from being told who she could hang out with to even turning down career opportunities. With Cole, though, she made a vow: no more limits, just trust and open communication.If you're loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round's On Me! Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: / firstroundsonjoe Hannah : / hannah_glasby Kenzie Ziegler: https://www.bandsintown.com/a/220875?came_from=267&app_id=linktree-0000220875&utm_medium=api&utm_source=public_api&utm_campaign=artist https://www.instagram.com/kenzie/?hl=en Cole Sage:https://www.instagram.com/notcolesage/?hl=en

Send us a Positive Review!In this series Val is joined by therapist, colleague and friend Liz MacDonald to dive deeply into the world of the faith expanding Latter-day Saint with more traditionally believing adult children. They explore the unique stressors of this parent/child dynamic when the parent “goes first” on a faith journey, their fears, and some of their strategies intended to differentiate while staying in connection with their most important relationships. Support the show**More sensitive or more psychologically advanced themes are saved for paid Friday episodes to protect the content creators from being mischaracterized by less familiar consumers.**LEARN HOW TO SUBSCRIBE TO FRIDAY EPISODES(Watch a 2-minute how-to video)THEN subscribe to Fridays here. TROUBLE WITH YOUR SUBSCRIPTION? Email: support@buzzsprout.comCONSULTING: Interested in doing individual or couples work with Valerie or a member of her trained team? Time-limited packages with Valerie and extended work with her team of coaches and therapists are available ⁠⁠here!⁠ SUPPORT GROUPS: Tuesdays 12:30p November 2024. Register here.OFFICE HOURS FOR FRIDAY SUBSCRIBERS: Register hereCLASSES: Visit our library.SUPPORT: Make a one-time donation to ⁠her business Venmo account⁠ or Patreon⁠....