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Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes fellow podcast host, Wendy Sloane to the show. Wendy shares the insights she has learned from her divorce and explains why even a bad divorce can be a good thing! In this episode, podcast host and former television producer Wendy Sloane joins Susan Guthrie to share her personal divorce story. She discusses the good and the bad of divorce and how she is living her best life, today.  Yes, divorce is fraught with difficulty and overwhelm. but it doesn't have to suck. You can still have your happily ever after divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include:  Give yourself the grace of space: take your time during the divorce process, you don't need to hire the first attorney you speak to nor do you need to hire an attorney immediately The decisions you make about who is going to support you in your divorce and the process you choose (mediation, litigation, etc)  informs how your divorce and life after are going to unfold Technology can be helpful, especially if there is a conflict between co-parents What we mean when we say, “Divorce is hard when you are in it, so keep your kids out of it.” If you are going through the hard parts of divorce right now, we hope this episode makes things a bit easier! About this week's special guest: Wendy Sloane Wendy Sloane is a former TV producer turned founder and host of the popular talk series podcast What's Up With Wendy.  The show indulges listeners with an in-depth conversation between Wendy Lowy Sloane and her special guests. Wendy's ability to connect with her guests has led to many repeat appearances from popular celebrities including Eric Stonestreet, Monica Potter, Nate Berkus, Lori Laughlin, Paul Reiser, and James Van Praagh. Wendy is also the co-host of the podcast Divorce Doesn't Suck, which explores every aspect of divorce, including kids, finances, dating, sex, starting over, and more. Co-host Daniel Herrold and Wendy share their experiences and fresh perspectives on their divorces, and how they were able to move forward and focus on the future. Wendy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatsupwithwendy/ Divorce Doesn't Suck Podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/show/divorce-doesnt-suck/ What's Up with Wendy: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/966-whats-up-with-wendy-30301431 Susan on Divorce Doesn't Suck podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/user/whatsupwithwendy/susandds Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible?  If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels:  Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus  You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks!    Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. 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Have you experienced a Foodie Call? Do you even know what one is? Listen in as my guests, Life Coach for Divorce Recovery and author, Daren Douglas, and podcast co-host of "Divorce Doesn't Suck," Daniel Herrold, dish about foodie calls and all things dating. From who pays on a first date, to would they date women who make more money and expert her to always pay, to how they vet a woman on a first date, we cover the dating etiquette bases and more! These two divorced dads also open up about their dating gaffes and what they learned the hard way. They get real about their initial amateur mid-life dating moves, to doing the internal work after floundering one too many times, to the questions they now ask on a first date and how they now love to “get emotional” when dating.Get read to gobble up this spicy conversation at divorcedandhappy.net or any podcast platform. Daren Douglas: IG husbandsdiarywithdarenDaren Douglas on FB & TikTokDaniel Herrold:@daniel.herroldIf you found value in today's episode or have been enjoying the podcast for some time now, please rate, review and share with your community! Please be sure to follow me on IG, FB, Tiktok, Youtube and Pinterest: @sadies@divorcedandhappyIf you found value in today's episode please consider "buying" me a cup of coffee @ https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sadiemarieInterested in sponsoring the podcast? Email contact@divorcedandhappy.net to learn more. Download my "8 Tips to Happiness" today: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net #foodiecalls #datingafterdivorce #dinnerdate #DO40 #divorce #sadiesdivorcedandhappy #lifeafterdivorce #datingtips #datingcoach #datingpodcast #datingappsavvy #realdivorcetalk #SadieMarie2022 #relationshipsafterdivorce #wednesdayepisodes #Sadiesdivorcedandhappy #DivorcedandHappypodcast #Mentalkdivorce #Womentalkdivorce #burningquestions #divorcedmom #divorceddad #divorcecoach #datingafterdivorce #datingappsavvy #realdivorcetalk #SadieMarie2022 #relationshipsafterdivorce #lifeafterdivorce #wednesdayepisodes #Sadiesdivorcedandhappy #DivorcedandHappypodcast #Mentalkdivorce #Womentalkdivorce #burningquestions #divorcepodcast #datingtips #datingafterdivorce #divorcedmom #divorceddad #loveafterdivorce #divorcedlife #divorcecommunity #coparenting #recoveringgoodgirl #midlifedating #tipstohappiness #theredroom

Is there life after divorce or loss of a spouse? How can I find myself and rebuild? Join us as we talk with Divorced After 40's dating expert Daniel Herrold – we discuss the beauty of self-discovery, how to know when you're ready to start dating, and finding support. Don't forget to stick around to hear his thoughts on Jennifer & Jason's date and whether or not they matched. --- CONNECT WITH DANIEL Instagram: @DanielHerrold TikTok: @daniel.herrold Twitter: @DHerrold Website: https://danielherrold.com --------------- Download the Blink Date app to start voice-first speed dating from the comfort of your home: https://www.theblinkdate.com ----- Date in a Blink (https://www.theblinkdate.com/date-in-a-blink) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/dateinablink) Twitter (https://twitter.com/dateinablink) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/dateinablink/) ----- Podcast by Blink (www.theblinkdate.com) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theblinkdate/) Twitter (https://twitter.com/theblinkdate) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/theblinkdate/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theblinkdate) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The enormity of divorce can feel like you're climbing a mountain, and in the cases of T.H. and Daniel Herrold, one of the founders of Divorced Over Forty, they can actually make that comparison as they both climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro in the wake of their divorces! Daniel opens up in this episode and tells T.H. and Jessica his side of going through divorce, how he came to do the climb and how he almost didn't make it to the summit! Daniel gives a refreshing look at the male psyche when it comes to divorce and offers some valuable insight and advice for both men and women going through the process. You don't want to miss this conversation! (Guest: Daniel Herrold, Founder Divorced Over Forty, Writer) Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @exexperts.

After years of marriage and going through a divorce, it might be hard to start dating again. All these years, there have been changes that happened in how dating works. Nowadays, online dating has been used by a lot of people. Most often, people just meet online. In today's episode, Daniel Herrold tells us his personal experience going through the process of divorce and how he dated again. He was able to use his experience as a lesson to teach to his clients. Standout Quotes: “A casual dater is someone you can break up into multiple different subsections.” [Daniel Herrold] “I think when you're an intentional dater, you really know what you want.” [Daniel Herrold] “I always describe the dating relationship. Like it's like cooking something in a crockpot. I mean, you want it to be slow and steady, right? You don't want something to be when it's too fast, then you know that something's off. When it's slow and steady, then you know, okay, I'm cooking this thing the right way.” [Daniel Herrold] “I think it's important to really be aware and attune to where your kids are in their journey recovering out of a trauma, to try to determine when the appropriate time is to maybe introduce them to a relationship.” [Daniel Herrold] Key Takeaways: A casual dater can be described as someone who is not ready yet for a personal relationship. Most often, these are the people who are into short-term relationships and those who are in the process of rediscovering themselves. An intentional dater knows what wants in a relationship. It has its plans and long-term relationships. When it comes to dating and relationships, you must take it slow. This enables both parties to get to know each other. It allows you to grow together slowly but surely. Episode Timeline: [01:42] Introduction to the Guest – Daniel Herrold [06:21] What Daniel tells his clients [10:38] Recommendations for People that are Ready to Date [16:56] Dating as a Divorcee or Widower [21:15] Coaching Programs [24:47] Getting to know their Attachment Style [27:38] Online Dating [29:04] Hot Seat Questions for Daniel [32:00] Giving Advice to His Daughters Learn more about Daniel Herrold Website: https://danielherrold.com/ Website: https://divorcedover40.com/ Dating Club: https://www.intentionaldatingclub.com/opt-in1636412195024 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danieleherrold Twitter: https://twitter.com/DHerrold LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielherrold/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DHerrold TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniel.herrold Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniel.herrold/ Email: daniel.herrold@gmail.com Learn more about Maria Romano Website: https://trueloveknots.com/ Email: maria@trueloveknots.com

This week Caroline is joined by divorcé Daniel Herrold who was married for 22 years to his wife from a very young age. He suddenly found himself divorced, a little lost and lonely and in the pursuit of happiness. Daniel talks about finding his feet and deciding to co-found Divorced Over Forty (“DO40”), a group that provides community to divorced men & women across the United States who are ages 40+.  They provide support through its social media, as well as hosts events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships for this community.   In addition, Daniel's created The Intentional Dating Club, an online dating community that provides techniques & tips on how to create a safer and more positive dating experience.  Instagram at @daniel.herrold or on TikTok at @danielherrold. Produced by Dear Media

Dating After Divorce can be quite the feat! Daniel Herrold is a Divorced Dad of 3 daughters living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is one of the Co-Founders of Divorced Over Forty (“DO40”), a national group that provides support & community to divorced men & women across the United States who are ages 40+. The DO40 community has enabled Daniel to pursue his passion for writing, where he writes on several topics including his own personal divorce journey, dating over 40, and being a dad to three daughters. This led him to create the Intentional Dating Club, an online dating community created that provides techniques & tips on how to create a safer and more positive dating experience. The club has grown to nearly 150 members since its launch in January. Daniel is also the hosts of 2 podcasts, is on the Board of Directors for an advocacy group to fight romance scamming and is currently advising several new & emerging dating apps. You can find Daniel most prominently on Instagram at @daniel.herrold or on TikTok at @danielherrold.

Dating After Divorce can be quite the feat! Daniel Herrold is a Divorced Dad of 3 daughters living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is one of the Co-Founders of Divorced Over Forty (“DO40”), a national group that provides support & community to divorced men & women across the United States who are ages 40+. The DO40 community has enabled Daniel to pursue his passion for writing, where he writes on several topics including his own personal divorce journey, dating over 40, and being a dad to three daughters. This led him to create the Intentional Dating Club, an online dating community created that provides techniques & tips on how to create a safer and more positive dating experience. The club has grown to nearly 150 members since its launch in January. Daniel is also the hosts of 2 podcasts, is on the Board of Directors for an advocacy group to fight romance scamming and is currently advising several new & emerging dating apps. You can find Daniel most prominently on Instagram at @daniel.herrold or on TikTok at @danielherrold.

In this episode of "Love Talk Live," I interview Daniel Herrold. Daniel is one of the Co-Founders of Divorced Over Forty (“DO40”), a group that provides community to divorced men & women across the United States who are ages 40+. The DO40 community has enabled Daniel to pursue his passion for writing, where he writes on several topics including his own personal divorce journey, dating over 40, and being a dad to three daughters. This led him to create the Intentional Dating Club, an online dating community created that provides techniques & tips on how to create a safer and more positive dating experience. He also hosts 2 podcasts, is on the Board of Directors for an advocacy group to fight romance scamming, and is currently advising several new & emerging dating apps. You can find Daniel most prominently on Instagram at @daniel.herrold or on TikTok at @danielherrold. A few topics (among many) discussed in this episode are: -Intentional Dating -Romance Scamming -How to be discerning when dating -Why being selfish on your dating journey Is healthy -The importance of healing after a breakup or divorce before jumping into another relationship.

Are you Divorced, over 40 and thinking about dating. Daniel Herrold the Divorced Dad walks us through how he navigated dating and divorce with teens. Daniel shares his authentic story and some feelings of shame about how he handled dating when his marriage ended. In this episode he shares what he would have done different and what he did right. This delightful conversation begins with answering when should I start dating? Daniels heartfelt response is not before the decree is signed. He urges people to heal themselves first, hire a therapist, get comfortable with your new parenting situation; and when you feel complete on your own you are ready to begin dating. He feels very positive about how he introduced his girlfriend to his children. He never talked to his kids about dating or introduced them to anyone until they were ready. How did he know he was ready? His kids initiated it. They were curious and Daniel was always honest. When they asked to meet her and Daniel felt it was a committed relationship everyone was prepared. He adds that each situation is different. Some kids may be extremely upset and you may need a different plan in place. Daniel has strong feelings about dating apps. He brought a new perspective to me. You know how above we talked about wait to date until you feel complete. Well a lot of the people over 40 on dating apps are not healed yet. They jump into dating as a wounded individual and that is not going to lead to any successful connections. Daniel says when you are ready, put all your lines in. Network with good friends. Remember the hobbies you love and do them. "Put yourself out there!" Daniel began Divorced Over 40 with conversations among a few new friends. Over small dinners and happy hours during the summer of 2020, six 40-somethings in Tulsa realized one striking common denominator: their midlife, post-divorce status. Messy, raw, friendly, acrimonious, you name it – our experiences with divorce and our ex were varied, but all of them sang from the same sheet of music: divorce midlife is not for the faint of heart. Themes began to emerge such as the importance of friendship, managing a new set of finances, self care and healing, successful co-parenting and, of course, dating. Find Daniel here: Website Instagram Facebook Linkedin MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: After 18 years of Elder Law and Family Law, Lesa Koski brings extensive experience to the complex area of Mediation. Koski Law & Mediation offers: 1. A simple streamlined approach to Divorce with a peaceful outcome. 2. Attorney turned Mediator with a modest flat fee and unlimited communication. 3. At your side from start to finish and beyond. Website: Instagram: Linkedin: Facebook:

This week, we discuss what men want. Today's guest is Daniel Herrold, and he's the co-creator of Divorced Over 40, a rapidly growing community with tribes in fifty cities and seven countries worldwide. Daniel provides a man's perspective on dating, relationships, or anything women are straight-up confused about. He helps translate the difficult conversations you may have with guys. He gives insight into what men may be thinking or, better yet, what they really meant. He helps us spot the signs to differentiate between good or bad behavior. Daniel encourages dating with a purpose, knowing what you want in a partner, and getting clear about your next chapter. Daniel also offer tips for protecting your time around those who don't align with you and how to be proactive by playing offense instead of defense.  Daniel Herrold is the co-creator of Divorced Over 40, an online and in-person community of divorced women and men. This incredibly curated group provides support through content on its social media channels and hosting live events so that those navigating divorce can cultivate new friendships. Divorced Over 40 has over 10,000 members and has formed virtual tribes worldwide in little over a year. Daniel is also the founder of the Intentional Dating Club, writer of all things divorce, for his blog and his Divorced Dad Tik Tok videos, which offers dating tips has gone viral. Daniel is a proud divorced dad of three daughters who lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and is dedicated to changing the stigma of divorce.Once Daniel found himself divorced in his 40s, he began looking for friendships and doing what most people do diving straight into dating to avoid the pain of loneliness. In this episode he shares how connecting with others who are in the same situation allowed him to heal and ignited his passion for helping others.Kerry Brett and Daniel Herrold cover a lot of ground. Topics include;Why women should stop excepting poor behavior from men.When bad behaviors are shown early it's better to cut your losses and move on.Don't make excuses why bad behaviors exist chances are they are only going to get worse.Slow and steady wins the race when dating someone new.How to ask the right questions to see if someone is aligned with you.If one person tries to push the agenda of the status of the relationship, it's likely to blow up.If someone ghosts you, they are showing a lack of respect and it is what it is, no explanation needed, the memo has been received – move along and consider yourself lucky.Don't be too accessible and watch the frequency your communication. Don't fall into the trap of burning the roast because you got too ambitious in the kitchen. If things progress too quickly either person is most likely to lose steam.The importance of avoiding negativity in your profile.It's better to fill your profile of what you do want rather than what you don't. And remember men love positive winners.You can't change men, make sure your expectations are aligned. A serious dater and casual dater are like oil and vinegar.Stop putting so much pressure on the first date, doesn't friendship come before marriage. Use a date as an opportunity to find a new friendship.The breakdown of intentional dating.How to manage your expectations to avoid pain and heartbreak.How to navigate dating in a healthy way when it's too soon to date.To find out more about Daniel Herrold, the Divorced Dad go to danielherrold.com, or divorcedover40.com. You can find him on social media @daniel.herrold, or @divorcedover40, and also on Tik Tok under daniel.herrold. He has a member only dating club where there is a hyper link on his Instagram. Daniel also hosts clubhouse rooms, his clubs are What Men Want, Intentional Dating Club, and Divorce Over 40 which all can be found on the app Clubhouse. 

If you've been through a divorce, you know it can turn your world completely upside down. Whether your divorce was contentious or not, you're tasked with the daunting step of forming a new identity, beyond your ex. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Daniel Herrold, co-founder of the fast-growing community Divorced Over 40 (DO40), that provides support for men and women in the aftermath of divorce.  As people form their new identities as single people or single parents, having the support of a community that deeply knows what you're going through is so important! This conversation honestly tackles how you can re-enter the dating world in an emotionally healthy way after divorce later in life.    EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce:  Interview With Daniel Herrold    Daniel shares his story with Kimmy. If you're like Daniel, you may have met your ex young and really lacked the modern dating experience you need to date successfully in today's world. You may be tempted to dive right back into a long-term relationship, put out the wrong signals, or simply have no clue what you really want! These two swap stories about what life was like immediately following their divorces and how intimidating it was to build up their confidence to get back out there once they were ready. This conversation is a reminder that dating is a journey to find yourself, leverage dating skills that you may need to learn and to build confidence through experience. Daniel shares a surprising perspective that dating is not only an opportunity to find love, but an opportunity to expand your world and get to know new people with different beliefs, experiences and interests. Listen in to hear more on how to intentionally distinguish between your "wish list" and your "non-negotiables". One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is conflating one for the other!    If you are struggling to date after divorce and are looking for ways to get your mojo back, sign up for Kimmy's Flirt Like a Pro Workshop, coming February 11! In this co-ed virtual workshop, you'll learn and practice proven flirting techniques directly from Kimmy to help you give great conversation and create playful chemistry with anyone you meet! Sign up now by clicking here, space is limited. https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirtlikeapro/.     EPISODE 230 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Back In The Game After Divorce:  Interview With Daniel Herrold  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

There are 20-25 million divorced people between the ages of 35-65, meaning that the majority of them are divorced over 40. Between the loneliness and quietness of being alone once your children are grown and out of the house and the fact that you're now starting over again as a completely different person than you were when you were married long ago - there are SO many heartstrings that divorce over 40 seems to pull at. Our guest, Daniel Herrold, not only shares how to face all of the icky stuff that comes up when you are divorced over 40 - he's also bringing together that population of divorced men and women with his wildly successful divorce community. In 2020, he Co-Founded Divorced Over Forty, a group that provides community to divorced men & women across the world who are in the 40's, 50's & 60's. This community provides support through content on its social media channels, as well as hosts events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships. With over 10,000 strong virtual, tribes have been formed all over the world. Daniel is a divorced dad of 3 daughters currently living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. You can find his community on Instagram at @divorcedover40 or follow him personally at @danielherrold. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In our final episode with Daniel, we close this series by looking back at the beginning and saying out loud what most don't admit. We don't know how to navigate a divorce. No one goes into it a marriage thinking about this ending as an option. We don't prep for the process, or the life that comes after divorce, it's new territory. He also talks about dating after divorce and how that was for him. Giving some suggestions on what he would do differently, which is not date immediately after his divorce. He shares some personal experiences about it. He is also a big voice when it comes to speaking up about what works for you, and what doesn't. Sharing and expressing yourself so that you get what you are missing. All this and more inside this episode.My personal takeaway from Daniel's conversation is that we all have the potential to be genuine when we speak it into existence. No matter how messy it can sometimes get, when we speak up about what works and what doesn't, we can move forward in a way that compliments who we are.  If you want to know more about Daniel and what he is up to, you can find him on Instagram at @daniel.herrold, or his website www.DanielHerrold.com.  He is also a co-founding member of a great community called Divorced over 40, which can be found locally across most of the United States, and more directly at www.Divorcedover40.com. 

In this episode, Daniel talks about the importance of finding your tribe. Describe what that looks like, what qualities they should have to understand your situation, and how important it is for them to have been divorced. How having that common ground makes a difference. He talks about dating right after the divorce and how that is not the best idea, considering the healing process and what dating entails. This episode is about the pitfalls he himself fell into immediately after the divorce that he advises avoiding if you are fortunate enough to have a choice. He talks about how jumping into dating only prolonged the healing process for him. Emphasizing the importance of healing and the time it takes, how it varies from person to person based on his experience.  Pointing out that going out or avoiding the obvious will not move you forward any faster.This episode is a friendly reminder that what we think will heal us, might not be what we need to heal us. 

In this episode of the Nugget, we explore what the Unicorn Divorce is, how to create it, and I also share some tools that you can apply today.  From the moment you decide this is something you want to consider, all the way through to the day-to-day management. Please understand that the Unicorn divorce begins and ends with you. Having this kind of divorce does not happen without effort from one of the parties involved. It takes clear communication, compassion, and consistency to make it happen. It takes a real intention.The hope for you, the listener, inside this particular episode is that you leave understanding what a Unicorn Divorce is, how to create it for yourself, and what are some tools you can apply today. If you leave with one of these things I'm happy, but I am committed that you leave with all three.  I had a Unicorn Divorce, as did Daniel Herrold, Episode 30.  Check these out and hear for yourself what we did to make it happen.

In this episode, Daniel shares how he discovered himself and what that process looked like for him. From living in a 600 sq. ft. apartment to driving a beat-up car with 180k miles on it. He speaks about the different phases one goes through in the beginning and how taking actions plays an important role. He shares how he invested more time with the people he loves and less time with those he didn't. After the divorce, he began to think of all the things he hadn't done that he wished he had. The places he hadn't seen and the projects he hadn't pursued.In talking about the process, we can see why Daniel had the unicorn divorce. He represents something in all of us that most do not exercise. The ability to communicate what we want, the time to think of how to achieve it, and the most important of all. Nurturing the communities that embrace the person who we want to be, not the person they think we should be.Trust your process!

We've talked about grey divorce on the Toaster. We've talked about high dollar divorce on the Toaster. But what are the issues facing the messy middle, sitting right at the top of the divorce bell curve? That's the topic of this week's show, and to lead us through it we're talking to Daniel Herrold, co-founder of Divorced Over Forty, a community dedicated to providing support for those in their 40s through 60s, searching for community and friendship. What are the main issues facing the divorced in this group? We talk about divorce and the proverbial mid-life crisis. How important is it to find your tribe after the loss that comes with divorce? And what do you do once you find them? You join Divorced Over Forty for a trip to Jamaca, that's what. About Daniel HerroldDaniel Herrold is a Divorced Dad of three daughters living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is one of the co-founders of Divorced Over Forty, a group that provides community to divorced men and women around the world who for support through content on its social media channels, as well as events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships. With over 10,000 strong virtually, tribes have been formed in over 50 cities across 7 countries worldwide.

We've talked about grey divorce on the Toaster. We've talked about high dollar divorce on the Toaster. But what are the issues facing the messy middle, sitting right at the top of the divorce bell curve? That's the topic of this week's show, and to lead us through it we're talking to Daniel Herrold, co-founder of Divorced Over Forty, a community dedicated to providing support for those in their 40s through 60s, searching for community and friendship. What are the main issues facing the divorced in this group? We talk about divorce and the proverbial mid-life crisis. How important is it to find your tribe after the loss that comes with divorce? And what do you do once you find them? You join Divorced Over Forty for a trip to Jamaca, that's what. About Daniel Herrold Daniel Herrold is a Divorced Dad of three daughters living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is one of the co-founders of Divorced Over Forty, a group that provides community to divorced men and women around the world who for support through content on its social media channels, as well as events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships. With over 10,000 strong virtually, tribes have been formed in over 50 cities across 7 countries worldwide.

In this episode, Daniel shares about his relationship with the ex during the divorce. How they agreed on things and how they communicated instead of lunging towards representation and pettiness. He reveals how they kept the same parenting styles, shared time with the kids together, and did it all against the advice of legally inclined relatives and advising friends. This episode is filled with hope and kindness, and it has their kid's best interest guiding it, not the race to win against the ex. I think that if you are someone who is in it right now, about to pick an attorney, or just lost about how to be in the process. Daniel will shine some light for you on what worked for him. He had a Unicorn divorce.

Today, Abby chats with Daniel Herrold--an expert on finding love post-divorce. First, hear Dr. Brittany's tips for what to do when you're not quite sure why you don't like a new potential partner.Connect with Daniel:danielherrold.comIG: @daniel.herroldTwitter: @dherrolddivorcedover40.comIG: @divorcedover40

In this episode, Daniel speaks about what it was like living alone. The moment when the eerily quiet arrived and the feelings started to come in as he settled into his new apartment. He shares how he watched a lot of Netflix and did anything he could to not embrace the loneliness. He also shares what it was like when he realized all the responsibilities he would assume as a single dad, that he didn't have before. From doing the accounting to making the meals, he had to learn 22 years of stuff he had never done before.But the real gold of the episode is towards the end, where he talks about not guilting his children when it was his time to be alone with them. He shares how he communicated with his ex about it, and the realization he had just after that conversation. If you are a parent, you want to hear this. It's an EPIC insight.

Meet Daniel Herrold, father of 3 young women, and a divorce conversation active participant.  Daniel is a successful man, both on and off the divorce platform, and in this series of episodes, you are going to see what it was like for him to embrace the challenges that he faced during his divorce. From learning to cook for himself, the kids, to dating again. He walks us through the process of starting over from day one.In this specific episode, he speaks about what the first six months were like. How the emotional theme of the process was shame and guilt, and how those emotions still linger in today's world, years later. Daniel explains from a man's perspective how divorce is viewed as a loss to men, and how we don't like losing, and he explains how that made him feel. He gives you insight into a man's thought process. A valuable insight for those of you looking to understand. He also talks about who initiated his divorce and what that process was like.  How he knew the marriage wasn't working, but the idea of divorce never...

Daniel Herrold is the Divorced Dad and he's loaded with amazing dating advice for newly single divorcee's, dads, moms, or simply newly single people. It's always refreshing to get a guys perspective on dating after 40 and his is definitely one you'll want to listen to. Buy That Girl A Novel on Amazon in paperback or Kindle!  Starting July 1st That Girl A Novel is now a podcast! Listen to each chapter free and read by yours truly at That Girl A Novel. Find it everywhere you listen to your podcasts!Get tons of extra's from the podcast and help support it by joining our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcastSigning up for Buzzsprout gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our show. Click here to start! https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1294879For more about Jackie and her and our guests:Instagram:@Jackiebrubaker@thatgirlthepodcast@Daniel.herroldwww.thatgirlthepodcast.comwww.jackiebrubaker.comYouTube:That Girl The Podcast Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcast)

Dr. Tari and Divorced Over 40 Co-Founder, Daniel Herrold discuss the do's and dont's of of dating after divorce and what you need to know!   Daniel Herrold is a divorced dad of three daughters living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is one of the co-founders of Divorced Over 40, a recently formed group that provides community to divorced men and women across the world who are in their forties, fifties, and sixties. The DO40 community provides support through content on its social media channels, as well as hosts events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships. With over 10,000 strong virtually tribes have been formed in over 50 cities, across seven countries. Worldwide. The divorced over 40 community has enabled Daniel to pursue his passion for writing, where he writes on a number of topics, including his own personal divorce journey dating and being a dad to three daughters. Find Daniel Herrold and Divorced Over 40 online: Divorced Over 40 - Divorced Community, Friendships, Blog Divorced Dad (@daniel.herrold) • Instagram photos and videos Divorced Over Forty (@divorcedover40) • Instagram photos and videos   Find Dr. Tari online: Get a Relationship Reading and discover your blind spots in dating: Relationship Reading - Dr. Tari Mack (drtarimack.com) Website: http://www.drtarimack.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/drtarimack Join Dr. Tari's Next Level Love: Next Level Love - Dr. Tari Mack (drtarimack.com)  

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This week Marni welcomes Daniel Herrold into the Den. Daniel is the co-founder of Divorced Over 40, a group that provides community to divorced men and women the world over who are in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. The community intends to foster and cultivate relationships and friendships organically. Divorced Over 40 has over 10,000 virtual members in 50 cities in 7 countries.    Key takeaways from this episode:  Benefits of people who understand what you are going through Preparing yourself for a new life, post-divorce Meeting people in a group setting takes the edge off Cultivating friendships with members of the opposite sex Navigating dating without apps   Dating After Divorce is a Process [2:13] Daniel was inspired to create Divorced Over 40 because he lost many of his friends when he got divorced. He needed time to heal and figure out who he was but still needed connection. He wanted to create a way for people to connect and build friendships post-divorce without the stigma of a culture that implies one must jump into the next relationship, or to date right away.  He says there is a season after divorce when people aren't ready to date again. If they are healing or trying to figure out who they are. Even though the platform can be utilized as a springboard into dating, it is designed to create connections first. People are at the height of their attractiveness when they don't need a plus one. Everyone is yearning for connection and many people are disenfranchised with the dating process and apps, Daniel says. His community provides an alternative for people to meet in a non-pressured way to build friendships. Getting divorced offers the opportunity to reconnect with who you are.  It is possible to create a new life of rebirth and rediscovery after you have done the healing work. Daniel says many people start dating before they figure themselves out. Which ultimately wastes time because you end up with a lot of unaligned connections.    Navigating New Friendships [16:59] It is important to have good intentions when investing in creating new connections. Go out and meet people more often. Daniel says consistency is the key growth factor of his community-building events.  Practice being open-hearted and having fun during your transition time after a divorce.   People can hold on to their old life because they are scared. Daniel says the common denominator is that everyone requires true connection. He adds that it is beneficial to have people who understand what you are going through because they have gone through similar things. They are likely more empathetic and understanding. because they get it.  Using Divorce Over 40's connection tool to cultivate friendships post-divorce allows you to cultivate platonic friendships with the opposite sex. Something you may not have been able to do during a marriage. Know that after divorce it is possible to have healthy relationships with the opposite sex and share thoughts on dating, and relationships.    Make a Connection: Visit Our Website Join Our Dating Den Facebook Community Here! Learn how to attract your perfect equal...watch our latest training here! Interested in working with us? Book a Breakthrough session at DWDVIP Get a Free Coaching Session with Marni on Our Podcast - Sign up Here to Be a Guest On Our Show Download a Complimentary Copy of our Book - How to Find a Quality Guy Without Going on 200 Dates Divorced Over 40 Divorced Over 40 on Instagram

Oftentimes when you're going through a divorce, you realize that your ex-spouse was your best friend, and then you find yourself going through a major life change without anyone by your side. This can lead to internalizing these issues and creating more stress for yourself. In today's episode, my guest Daniel Herrold and I discuss friendships post-divorce and why they are so important.  Daniel Herrold is the co-creator of Divorced Over 40. It is an amazing in-person and virtual community of divorced women and men. This community provides support through content on its social media channels, as well as hosts events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships. There are over 10,000 strong virtual tribes that have been formed in over 50 cities across 7 countries worldwide. Daniel is a proud, smart, and wise divorced dad of three daughters. And he lives in Tulsa and is really dedicated to changing the stigma of divorce. Learn more about Daniel Herrold, and Divorced Over 40 by visiting his website at divorcedover40.com

Daniel Herrold is a Divorced Dad of 3 daughters living in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is one of the Co-Founders of Divorced Over Forty, a recently formed group that provides community to divorced men & women across the world who are in the 40's, 50's & 60's. This community provides support through content on its social media channels, as well as hosts events with a specific intention of fostering and cultivating friendships. With over 10,000 strong virtually, tribes have been formed in over 50 cities across 7 countries worldwide. The Divorced Over Forty community has enabled Daniel to pursue his passion for writing, where he writes on a number of topics including his own personal divorce journey, dating, and being a dad to three daughters. Connect with Daniel: Website: https://www.divorcedover40.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniel.herrold/ Connect with Irina: Free Self Love Training for Ladies: https://bit.ly/3v1qnIe Free Strategy session: https://calendly.com/coachirina/strategy-call Website: https://www.irinashehovsov.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkJCe0MIFwK63EiKqZG03mA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irina089/ Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/slaythelimits --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/irina-shehovsov/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/irina-shehovsov/support

  Life After Divorce: Friendships, Failings, and Finding Love Again (Hope Series) – with Daniel Herrold   As a marriage coach, I am humbled to have divorced people reach out to me for advice. Many want to know what life after divorce can look like and wonder if they will ever find love again. Today’s guest, Daniel Harrold, shares very openly about his journey of life after divorce. Co-founding a community of friends called Divorced Over 40, Daniel discusses how his marriage fell apart, the mistakes he made and lessons he learned, as well as how he rebounded to overcome the stigma of divorce and build a life he’s proud of.   Daniel’s story isn’t unlike many marriages: he and his wife were college sweethearts and got married right after they graduated. He wasn’t the typical college guy who dated all the freshman girls. Just the opposite, as a matter of fact. His wife was basically his first real relationship. A couple of years into the marriage they had their first child: a daughter, followed shortly by two more daughters. Throughout the course of Daniel’s marriage, he and his wife sought marriage counseling. Sadly, they continued to drift apart. As they both realized the marriage was coming to an end, Daniel and his wife decided to forgo counseling and choose divorce.   The Healing Process Divorce is often likened to death. The stages of grief are similar: anger, denial, sorrow, blame, loneliness, etc. It’s a deep loss that is often compounded by a lack of closure. Daniel went through an 18-month healing process where he had to be honest about what he did right and what he did wrong. He also learned some new lessons about love and relationships as a whole. Far too often, people begin dating after divorce before first completing the healing process. This is a big mistake and oftentimes leads to yet another broken relationship and a bitter and broken heart.   One of the catalysts in Daniel’s healing process was a close group of friends that he developed after his divorce. Realizing he needed close friendships, he co-founded Divorced Over 40 with two female friends to help divorced people heal and find connections.   Divorced Over 40 Being divorced can often lead to being stigmatized. Daniel and his two friends wanted to chronicle their lives as divorcees and create a community where those who walked the difficult road of divorce could find hope and healing. They do this by creating relevant content, support, and events for people to meet and develop friendships. This community has been a lifeline to Daniel as he’s found a new life after divorce.   Hope for the Divorced Throughout this hope series, it is my hope (pun intended) that you will find a safe place of healing if you’ve been through a divorce. You may or may not have been the initiator of your divorce, but you are nonetheless dealing with it now. If you have kids, be intentional about being amicable with your ex. This makes all the difference in a child’s life. Your kids do not need to be put in the middle of your relationship problems. Daniel and his ex-wife have actually grown closer as friends and have a great platonic relationship today.   Focus on self-discovery and finding the lessons God wants to show you through the process. If you need to forgive, do so. It’s imperative. If you need to repent, do so. Your soul depends on it. If you need therapy or coaching, get some! Take your time, and allow yourself to go through the process. No shortcuts. You will win if you contend.   A final word, sometimes, those in the church don’t know how to deal with people who are divorced. They may say the wrong thing or they may say nothing. They may distance themselves or worse, gossip about you. Don’t allow people’s incorrect response to damage your heart. Daniel shares very vulnerably around the 24-minute mark as to his experience with how his faith was rattled after his divorce and how’s he’s on his way back to a deeper faith in spite of it.     Links Mentioned in this Episode     Divorced over 40 Community   Follow Dan on Instagram @thedivorceddad     SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! So, share these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media. Finally, please leave a rating and a comment on Apple Podcasts to let me know how this podcast is helping you and your relationships. I’m always open to guest suggestions and how I can make the show even better!    

Sometimes you can't find your tribe, you have to create it. That's what our newest Dad to the podcast, Daniel Herrold, did! He started a group to help others after divorce and over 40! It has grown to chapters across the US. Nelson's question at the end might have created some challenges at home for him. Follow Daniel at: Instagram @daniel.herrold