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Latest podcast episodes about kimmy seltzer

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Do you absolutely hate dating right now and feel lost on what to do and where to go as you re-enter the post pandemic dating scene?  Did you know there is not only a hesitation around dating, but also a fear of dating and intimacy that has emerged recently? If you've been feeling this way, you're not alone! Since the onset of the pandemic in 2020, we have had to change our social and dating lives completely. Now that we are gathering in person again, it feels like we need to re-learn how to interact with one another!   In this weeks episode, Kimmy breaks down her top 5 tips for navigating what she calls a pandemic dating hangover!    EPISODE 272 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating The Pandemic Dating Hangover   Listen in to hear Kimmy define the most buzz-worthy dating terms in use these days like FODA and “hesidating.”  Kimmy walks through her dating hangover recovery plan so that you can re-learn how to date and relate.   This episode dives deep into the ways in which you can start to safely put yourself out there again and exercise your social muscle once more.  Discover why it's important to with intention and an action plan.  It's not easy to put yourself out there again, but this episode will give you concrete strategies to explore new hobbies with social components, help you increase your confidence to introduce yourself to others, and break your social and dating slump!   If you are in total dating burnout and need a reboot to get over your pandemic dating hangover.. hop on a free call with Kimmy here so she can map out a plan with you in doing so https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough   EPISODE 272 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating The Pandemic Dating Hangover.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers    

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2022 41:43


These days, many of our conversations around health include both physical and mental health. As a human being, taking care of your whole self — physical, mental and spiritual is essential! On your journey to find love, getting connected to your body as a first step is a great place to start.  This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and founder of Obtaining Mastery, where she coaches people to help them lead lives of purpose and influence.  This conversation is all about getting back to basics and prioritizing your own wellness on your path to find love, happiness and fulfillment.    EPISODE 271 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley   Maritsa shares the story of how she became passionate about her current work as a coach and how that interest evolved from her foundations as a fitness trainer. Growing up in an environment where addiction and loss were prevalent, Maritsa shares how going off to college helped her break away from old patterns that didn't serve her vision for her future.  Listen in to hear tangible, concrete tips about how to set yourself up for success from the moment you wake up each day. Kimmy and Maritsa discuss the importance of taking care of your physical body as a way to support your mental and spiritual wellness.  This episode is a beautiful reminder that our whole health and wellness is all connected, and it begins with your relationship with yourself. You have the power to set your intentions, take action toward your goals and start to change your results.   If you are finding yourself in a bad emotional and physical state and it is affecting your love life, hop on a call with Kimmy to help you map out a plan in getting you into a wellness state here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.  Explore ways to improve your relationship with yourself and set yourself up to find the love you seek.   EPISODE 271 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Applying Wellness To Attract Love: Interview With Dr. Maritsa Yzaguirre-Kelley. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Dating Hacks For Codependents: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2022 43:09


Are you completely uninterested in dating and dreading starting a new relationship?  Maybe you have some fear around being powerless and caught, once again, in an emotionally unavailable or Narcissist relationship? If this sounds like you, you may be suffering from co-dependency. In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear real conversations between Kimmy and her clients about the challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results.   EPISODE 270 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Hacks For Codependents:  Coaching with Kimmy   This week, Kimmy starts the episode with symptoms of co-dependency and tips to help you get out there if you have those tendencies.  You'll hear Kimmy coach Teresa LIVE on the call, who's looking for strategies to help her date successfully. After getting divorced, she has dealt with being ghosted, being in lopsided relationships, and with a series of co-dependent relationships. She has been tired of having bad dating experiences and is ready to throw in the towel. Teresa shares the details of one particular relationship that stuck with her, even though she knew it could have ended badly. Teresa and Kimmy talk through how elements of co-dependency have shown up in Teresa's life and relationships in the past. Teresa speaks to her family history and the dynamics that she grew up around without realizing the impact it could have on her own relationships in the future. As a recovering people-pleaser, Teresa grapples with how she has internalized some of the experiences from her childhood and how she was praised for taking care of others.  Listen in to hear Kimmy's tips around how implementing positive self-talk consistently can start to boost your self-esteem and your image of yourself. Kimmy and Teresa talk through the connections between how she approaches relationships and how she approaches her work. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's tips on how to take your power back and create healthy boundaries where you demand more respect for yourself.  If you are ready to combat co-dependency, it's time to take action.  If you tend to have codependent tendencies and are exhausted around the thought of dating, hop on a free coaching call with Kimmy like she did with Teresa and book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.  Imagine getting some ideas of breaking the cycle you have been dealing with for so long in one call.   EPISODE 270 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Hacks For Codependents :  Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 35:36


When you're dating, you need to manage your energy accordingly. You never know how long a relationship will last. You can put all your energy front and center only for that relationship to last a week. Start meditating to have a clearer picture of what you want and what you can put up with. If you think your relationship isn't going well, don't push forward. Listen to what you want.   EPISODE 269 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating   Join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to the creator of the Women's Meditation Network, Katie Krimitsos. Katie starts out by sharing how she turned around her busy life and stress to slowing down with intention to meet her husband.  Learn why you need to manage your time and energy while dating and during a relationship. Find out why meditation is good for you, especially in this fast-paced world.  Listen in to hear tips on how to slow down and manage your energy so that you date smarter not harder.  Katie talks about how meditation can reduce anxiety and even demonstrates a sample of it right in this episode!   If you struggle being to busy and managing your energy to date, check out Katie's amazing meditations and hop on a call with me to map out a plan a path to your love life.  Just click the link here to schedule that and who knows..that one call could change the entire course of your life https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.     EPISODE 269 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Katie Krimitsos On Why You Need Time And Energy Management When Dating. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
How To Be Playful When Dating: Where Are They Now With David

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2022 36:09


Welcome back to Where Are They Now, where you'll hear candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients who reflect on how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the success of others like you!   EPISODE 268 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful When Dating:  Where Are They Now With David   Does dating seem hard and serious? It shouldn't be. This week you'll meet David, who decided to work with Kimmy to learn how to date, practice flirting, progress on dates and open himself up more so that women could feel chemistry with him.  He starts by sharing his limited dating experience after divorce and was having a hard time even getting dates.  Listen in to hear how David struggled being playful and fun on the dates he had and would fall flat in conversations because he was so in his head. He knew there were some deeper issues to explore around self-expression and trust and needed help with learning how to be more open when dating.  Kimmy and David talk about how the coaching and co-ed classes helped him upgrade his sexy style, be more approachable, vulnerable and playful to attract more women.  You'll hear exactly how Kimmy worked with David to ramp up his flirt skills which even surprised him!  Stay tuned to hear a shocking result he got with women he never thought he could attract.     If you want to learn how to date with confidence, ease and flirtation, then check out Kimmy's new, immersive co-ed retreat program, Dating Reimagined Experience. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in-person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/       EPISODE 268 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be Playful When Dating:  Where Are They Now With David.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.   ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Chaz & AJ in the Morning
Pod Pick: Dating Coach Kimmy Seltzer

Chaz & AJ in the Morning

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 16:24


Dating coach Kimmy Seltzer was on to help Chaz and AJ with their latest project; finding a date for Rob Ray. Rob was in studio, and Kimmy made suggestions as she listened to his recent struggles, and watched live on Twitch.  Image Courtesy Of Kimmy Seltzer

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 56:27


Do you hate the thought of playing games when dating? Do you wish you didn't have to worry about who is pursuing who when meeting someone and skip right to the relationship? The truth is the art of pursuit is a crucial part of dating that leads to the relationship yet there is a lot of debate and confusion on what that should be. It doesn't matter if you are 18 or 80 years old, pursuit will never go out of style.  The most powerful women still want to feel seen and known in ways that make them feel loved and empowered.  This week listen to Kimmy's interview with professional dancer, life coach and author, Andre Paradis, about how to help smart, strong, successful women understand the art of pursuit in the dating process.   EPISODE 267 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis   Kimmy dives into a fun discussion with Andre about his life journey from being a shy awkward kid to a powerful sought after dancer that increased his confidence with both his career and with women. These two candidly talk about how the different gender roles play an important part in dating and why it's an important factor later on in a relationship. Listen in to hear about the common challenges women have in receiving and how to overcome them. This episode really flushes out ideas for both men and women in the courting stages of dating and the mindset around how each gender can make it easier for one another. Tune in to hear why Kimmy thinks both men and women have responsibility in approachability when dating.   If you want to learn more about the art of pursuit as a man or a woman, then check out Kimmy's new, immersive co-ed retreat program, Dating Reimagined Experience. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in-person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/ EPISODE 267 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Art of Pursuit: Interview With Andre Paradis. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Why You Attract Unavailable Partners: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2022 35:17


Do you have trouble expressing your emotions? Do you find that you keep attracting people who in the end are no where for you? Are you sick of dating people who are totally emotionally unavailable? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear a real coaching conversation between Kimmy and a woman about the challenges she is facing in attracting available men.   EPISODE 266 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Attract Unavailable Partners:  Coaching with Kimmy   This week, you'll hear Kimmy live-coach Karen, who's tired of meeting men who just don't meet her standards. After getting married to and divorced from her high-school sweetheart, Karen is back in the dating pool and searching for a fulfilling, “available" relationship. Kimmy and Karen talk about Karen's upbringing and identify a few key patterns that have impacted her ability to share her feelings. If you grew up in a household where feelings were not talked about or you only felt recognized for your accomplishments, this conversation will resonate with you. Listen in to hear Kimmy's answer to Karen's question on how to manage pacing when you meet someone you really like. When you are able to express your emotions clearly, playfully and early in a new relationship or on dates it helps your date understand who you really are. If you never learned how to express your emotions, don't worry! It's a skill you can learn, just like Karen. If you are ready to start attracting new and better people into your life, it's time to take action. Space is open now for Kimmy's new, immersive workshop, Dating Reimagined. Work with Kimmy and an intimate group of motivated single men and women like you in a 6-week virtual course designed to prepare you to date successfully in real life. Then, join this group for a 3-day luxury in person retreat in Arizona where you will put your skills to the test and start to enjoy dating again! Get in touch with Kimmy here to find out if this experience is right for you: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/   EPISODE 266 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why You Attract Unavailable Partners:  Coaching with Kimmy.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie
GLD 375 - Just When You Thought It Was Safe To Go Back In The Dating Pool

The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2022 27:05


Has dating in 2022 gone completely off the rails? "Charisma Quotient" host Kimmy Seltzer returns to talk about the storm clouds forming, why men and women have moved apart, what led to the loss of hope, why lazy dating is dominating, why fear is overwhelming, and much, much more! Plus...how much alpha is too much alpha?To reserve your spot for Kimmy's workshop - https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/SHD/BHowie/

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Emotional Responsibility In Relationships: Interview With JJ Flizanes

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 47:03


Do you feel responsible for the emotions of others? If you have ever felt emotionally exhausted, taken advantage of, or resentful in your relationships, this conversation is for you. This week, listen in to Kimmy's interview with empowerment strategist and podcaster, JJ Flizanes, who started her podcast Fit 2 Love to help others achieve health, success, and love.    EPISODE 265 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Responsibility In Relationships:  Interview With JJ Flizanes   Kimmy asks JJ about her journey to the work she does now. JJ emphasizes the importance of understanding our own responsibility to control our own emotions and not project them onto others. These two talk through why many people have difficulty with their emotions and what you can do to take back your power as it relates to dating and relationships. If you have a tendency to self-sabotage or blame others for how you're feeling, stay tuned to hear key strategies to identify the beliefs that hold you back. When you understand how to name the emotions you feel and identify how to get your needs met on your own, you create the power to achieve the life you want. If you are ready to start taking responsibility for your emotions and start finding success in love, there are two options!  First, find a time to talk with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In this free, 30-minute call you can start to map out a plan to work on you, and work on creating the love you want.  And if you are ready to take action right now... join Kimmy's new workshop, Stop Hating Dating October 18! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. Join this 2-hour interactive workshop with other single men and women who want to build their dating skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4   EPISODE 265 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Responsibility In Relationships:  Interview With JJ Flizanes.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Focus TV
Kimmy Seltzer

Focus TV

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2022 48:21


Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

When you are dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s, the dating landscape looks totally different than it was in your 20s and 30s. There's new technology to contend with, and the rules of the game have changed, not to mention the global pandemic we are still feeling the impact of. Dating over 40 doesn't have to be boring or tiresome or tedious. It should be fun! If you've always been a long-term relationship person or have been married for decades, it's imperative to acknowledge that your needs and desires have shifted since the last time you were in the dating pool. In this episode, Kimmy breaks down the five biggest red flags she's seen when helping her clients find love over 40.    EPISODE 264 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40   Listen in to hear a surprising tip that will help you check in and determine if you're moving too fast. Genuine connections take time to form. Even though you might feel like time is not on your side, slowing down is essential to dating smarter, not harder. Stay tuned to hear Kimmy's take on emotional intelligence and dating. Does your date share their feelings with you? Do they listen to you when you share your feelings? Do they go from 0 to 100 in mere moments? This episode is packed with actional tips you can use right away to find out if your date is mature, level-headed, and clear on what they want. You can find your soul mate at any age and now is the chance to create the lasting love you want, and deserve this time around!   For those who are motivated to change their love life right now, join Kimmy's new co-ed live interactive workshop Oct 18, Stop Hating Dating! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. This 2-hour workshop will be a mix of strategy, fun, and practice with both men and women in the virtual room who want to build their dating and flirt skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4   EPISODE 264 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Finding Sexy Confidence: Where Are They Now With Peter

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 30:12


Welcome back to Where Are They Now, where you'll hear candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients who reflect on how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the success of others like you!   EPISODE 263 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Sexy Confidence:  Where Are They Now With Peter   This week you'll meet Peter, who decided to work 1:1 with Kimmy to learn how to date again after coming out of a 22-year marriage. Peter talks about how he knew he was ready to go all in on coaching, and they reminisce about what his life was like before he joined a virtual dating workshop with Kimmy about a year ago. If you've been struggling to have interesting conversations, flirt, or make the lasting connections you want, this conversation is for you! It's all about building dating skills -- socialization and flirting are not innate! Listen in to hear Kimmy and Peter talk about how he upgraded his style, started sending more playful texts, and feeling more confident than ever before when dating. You'll hear exactly how Kimmy worked with Peter to tailor a program that fit his needs so he could actually have fun dating again. To sign up for a free coaching call with Kimmy, reach out here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Get the expert support you need to map your personal plan to find and build the healthy, loving relationship you deserve!   For those who are motivated to change their love life right now, join Kimmy's new workshop series, Stop Hating Dating! If you're back in the dating world again later in life and have no clue where to begin, this is the class for you. Join this 2-hour workshop with other single men and women who want to build their dating skills. Space is limited! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3BP4Ms4   EPISODE 263 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Sexy Confidence:  Where Are They Now With Peter.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life By Conquering Your Subconscious Mind With Jay Noland

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 32:44


Are you noticing a pattern of failed relationships and dates in your life? If so, your subconscious mind may be sabotaging your dating life. Jay Noland is here to speak on just how this happens and what you can do to overcome it. Jay is a former professional baseball player and now a keynote motivational speaker for over 25 years and a life confidence coach. His work focuses on helping people maximize their potential by harnessing the power of their subconscious minds. Joining host Kimmy Seltzer, Jay shares his experiences and how his past trauma contributed to a failed marriage. Jay figured out the deep-rooted cause for all this, conquered it, and is now happily married to his soulmate. Don't let past experiences and unhealthy thoughts sabotage your dating life much longer. Tune in to this episode and discover how you can bring your conscious desires into your subconscious and start living the way you want.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Why Dates Don't Progress: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2022 40:51


Do you have trouble getting past the first date? Are you feeling frustrated that you're not meeting the kind of people you want to be with? Especially if you don't have a ton of dating experience you may be unintentionally radiating negative energy, coming off as needy, or just not flirting effectively.  In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you'll meet Nikki who's diving back into the dating world for the first time after divorce. As a relatively new dater, Nikki is looking for strategies she can use to attract the right kind of person for her. After moving on from her narcissistic ex, Nikki has done a lot of work on herself and is ready to get back out there and find someone that is truly right for her. As someone who works in a male-dominated field, Nikki is comfortable around men, but she is finding that on dates she tends to be more in her masculine energy than feminine. If you're like Nikki, you may find yourself having conversations that sound more like a high-pressure interview than a playful date or having trouble connecting and getting your date to feel you.    EPISODE 260 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Dates Don't Progress:  Coaching with Kimmy   You'll hear Nikki tell key stories from her recent dating experiences, that will probably be relatable to you! Stay tuned to hear some tangible tips that Kimmy shares with Nikki about how to get out of your head and into your body, become more playful and lighthearted in conversations, and be present and curious about your date. You'll hear all about the benefits of using online dating platforms to practice conversation skills like asking specific, fun questions that get your matches engaged.  If you want to take action to get past the first date, get a FREE coaching call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have the power to change your actions! You can start taking simple, small actions that will have an impact on the outcomes you've had in the past. It all starts with a little practice that leads to the bigger change you want to see!   EPISODE 260 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Dates Don't Progress:  Coaching with Kimmy. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 38:37


When you look in the mirror, do you see yourself as sexy? Having a healthy body image is core to building high self-esteem! No matter what your body type, weight or fitness level, being body confident impacts the strength of your relationship with yourself.  This week, Kimmy has a conversation on significant shifts you can make to increase your body confidence with Bryce Henson, the CEO of Fit Body Bootcamp.    EPISODE 259 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson   Bryce is passionate about helping people gain confidence through fitness. You'll hear Kimmy ask Bryce to share his story and actionable tips you can take to bolster your body image and take that confidence into other areas of your life. Whether you have an established fitness routine or are trying to develop one as part of a healthy lifestyle, listen in to Bryce's advice on how to get early wins that build momentum towards your future success. If you are a high achiever who is accustomed to experiencing success, this conversation will help you evaluate the goals you set so you are able to stack wins. Confidence is built when you keep promises to yourself! If you are bored of your old fitness routine or if you're just feeling unmotivated or uninspired, listen in to hear a few ways to jumpstart your new routine. You'll hear about the benefits of looking at the world through curious eyes and with a sense of adventure. And, stay tuned to hear Bryce's serendipitous story of how he met his wife in an unexpected place!  If you struggle with your own self-esteem and body image when dating, get in touch with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Your journey to find yourself and find love all starts with you taking action towards your goals. When you have an accountability partner in a coach, you will exponentially increase your chances of success.   EPISODE 259 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  How To Elevate Your Body Image And Sexy Confidence: Interview With Bryce Henson.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 21:04


Resilience is a big buzzword these days. In order to successfully traverse the challenges life presents us, we have to strengthen our ability to bounce back. Resilience is just as important when dating! In order to move on from a breakup, a rejection or simply a bad date you need to be resilient. This week, Kimmy shares her top tips for building dating resilience.    EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency   If you are struggling to tap into your inner tenacity or you tend to quit when the going gets tough, this episode is for you. Kimmy breaks down how to get started by tackling one of the biggest fears in the dating world, rejection. It never feels good not to be invited on a second date -- but what if you could file those interactions into the "not right for me" bucket, instead of overanalyzing what you could have done differently to get your date to like you? Listen in to hear key tips on springing back into shape, even when feeling defeated. Stay tuned for actionable advice on how to maintain an optimistic outlook, even in the midst of dating burnout.    If you are ready to start tackling your sensitivity to rejection and begin building the resilience you need to have successful dates, get in touch with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you get clear on what you want and recognize your own worth, you'll be more able to identify partners who will respect and care for you, just as you are. Dating doesn't have to be so painful! Reach out to Kimmy and begin your journey of developing healthy dating practices.   EPISODE 258 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Avoiding Dating Rejection & Building Resiliency.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Dating With Authenticity and Femininity: Where Are They Now With Haley

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 31:28


Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others.  In this episode, you'll meet Haley who connected with Kimmy to help release the pressure she felt around finding "the one" and begin to enjoy the dating process more. Through a commitment to the work and Kimmy's actionable coaching style, Haley was able to find balance, relax more and have fun while dating.    EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Authenticity and Femininity:  Where Are They Now With Haley   Kimmy and Haley kick off by reminiscing about what life was like for Haley before she started working with Kimmy. If you're like Haley, you may have trouble setting boundaries, become overwhelmed or anxious about what others think of you, or struggle to progress in relationships. Stay tuned to hear some incredible tips Haley put into practice that helped her find her sexy confidence, discover the strength to let go of the opinions of others, and how gamification made dating fun again! You'll hear Haley's success story coaching live with Kimmy in her flirt session. Plus, Haley shares a beautiful story about how setting a healthy boundary helped her reach a turning point in her relationship with her family.   If you're ready to release the limiting beliefs you hold about dating and relationships, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Before you decide to invest in coaching, you can speak with Kimmy in a complimentary, 30-minute call where you'll start to map out your unique plan to find success in love.   EPISODE 257 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Authenticity and Femininity:  Where Are They Now With Haley.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Power Of Transformation To Attract Love: Interview With Joe Kelley

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 33:06


Are you feeling stuck in a rut?  Maybe it is time for a dramatic change through a personal transformation.  The power of taking a journey of self-discovery and acceptance will help you thrive, enjoy positive wellbeing and attract love.  This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Joe Kelley, a cherished football star turned now life coach who helps people overcome obstacles through personal transformation. EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Power Of Transformation To Attract Love:  Interview With Joe Kelley.   Joe kicks off the episode by sharing his story of his personal transformation from cherished football star to respected police officer to felon serving prison time.  Using his book theme from “sinning to winning”, he now uses his dark moments to lift others up and show what it takes to survive and thrive regardless of circumstance.  Listen in as Kimmy has Joe reveal tools to motivate you to make major shifts in your life, even when things feel hopeless. Joe shares how his transformation contributed to him finding self love and attracting his wife.  Kimmy and Joe share some simple steps to take towards personal growth and how that can improve your love life.    If you are having a hard time getting out of your own way with challenges you are dealing with or getting out of your comfort zone to change, hop on a FREE call with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to help you map out a plan to transform your life to attract love.   EPISODE 256 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Power Of Transformation To Attract Love:  Interview With Joe Kelley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Health & Wealth
Ep. 142: Sexy Confidence

Health & Wealth

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 46:38


Register for our 3 Ways to Build Self Esteem workshop  http://jjflizanes.com/selfesteem   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist and Image Expert. With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction.   This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications.   Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy's Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.  kimmyseltzer.com/style   JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the host of several podcast including People's Choice Awards nominee Spirit, Purpose & Energy. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women's Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Grab a free copy of the Invisible Fitness Formula at http://jjflizanes.com/book  

Spirit, Purpose & Energy
Ep. 358: Sexy Confidence

Spirit, Purpose & Energy

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 46:36


Register for our 3 Ways to Build Self Esteem workshop  http://jjflizanes.com/selfesteem   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist and Image Expert. With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction.   This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications.   Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy's Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.  kimmyseltzer.com/style   JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the host of several podcast including People's Choice Awards nominee Spirit, Purpose & Energy. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women's Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Grab a free copy of the Invisible Fitness Formula at http://jjflizanes.com/book  

Fit 2 Love Podcast with JJ Flizanes
Ep. 637: Sexy Confidence

Fit 2 Love Podcast with JJ Flizanes

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 46:33


Register for our 3 Ways to Build Self Esteem workshop  http://jjflizanes.com/selfesteem   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist and Image Expert. With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction.   This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications.   Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy's Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.  kimmyseltzer.com/style   JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the host of several podcast including People's Choice Awards nominee Spirit, Purpose & Energy. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women's Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Grab a free copy of the Invisible Fitness Formula at http://jjflizanes.com/book  

Nutrition & Alternative Medicine
Ep. 268: Sexy Confidence

Nutrition & Alternative Medicine

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 46:41


Register for our 3 Ways to Build Self Esteem workshop  http://jjflizanes.com/selfesteem   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist and Image Expert. With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction.   This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications.   Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy's Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.  kimmyseltzer.com/style   JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the host of several podcast including People's Choice Awards nominee Spirit, Purpose & Energy. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women's Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Grab a free copy of the Invisible Fitness Formula at http://jjflizanes.com/book  

Women, Men & Relationships
Ep. 334: Sexy Confidence

Women, Men & Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 46:46


Register for our 3 Ways to Build Self Esteem workshop  http://jjflizanes.com/selfesteem   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist and Image Expert. With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction.   This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications.   Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy's Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.  kimmyseltzer.com/style   JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the host of several podcast including People's Choice Awards nominee Spirit, Purpose & Energy. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women's Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Grab a free copy of the Invisible Fitness Formula at http://jjflizanes.com/book  

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Moving Beyond Abuse: Interview With Ed Squire

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 39:56


How do you engage in healthy dating relationships after experiencing trauma? If you are a survivor of trauma in any form, it's important to recognize that healing takes time, patience and there will be peaks and valleys. This week, Kimmy has a vulnerable and honest conversation with Ed Squire, a survivor of childhood abuse who works to support and advocate for other childhood trauma survivors.    EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Moving Beyond Abuse:  Interview With Ed Squire   In order to build healthy, trusting relationships -- acknowledging past trauma may be an important first step in your journey to find love. Ed shares his story about the series of sexual abuses he experienced as a child and how they impacted his life. From struggling to find his own identity, to battling addiction and increasing his self-worth, Ed has come a long way. Listen in to hear incredibly valuable tips and advice from Ed on how to begin to strengthen your relationship with yourself when healing from a traumatic or abusive past. Kimmy and Ed discuss the importance of regaining trust in yourself and others. Ed shares a story about learning the meaning of living in the present and not taking anything for granted. You'll hear about the power of journaling to help you process and recognize the emotions you are feeling in the moment, without judgement. Stay tuned for a transformative tip about giving yourself credit and building up your record of success, no matter how small. When you start to recognize your progress and how small wins add up to the big picture, it can help permanently shift your view of yourself as you continue on your personal journey to heal, find yourself and find love.   Healing from a traumatic past can be incredibly difficult and you do not need to do it alone. Removing yourself from isolation and finding support systems is essential. If you are ready to explore what your next steps are and begin the healing process, you can reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE breakthrough call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough    EPISODE 255 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Moving Beyond Abuse:  Interview With Ed Squire. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Have you ever wanted to know how to make your date crave you? You might see this in the movies or even with some friends who seem to do it so easily…so what is it that they do that creates an attraction factor instantly? Confidence and charisma are key qualities that make others desire you and — they can be learned! This week, Kimmy teaches you all about how build your confidence and increase your charisma.  If you are tired of not progressing on dates, never getting asked out for a second date, and always being put in the friend zone, this episode is for you.    EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You   Listen in to hear examples from Kimmy's work with her clients who go from closing themselves off to others to being open, curious and even flirtatious(!) with more people.  You'll hear 5 key tips from Kimmy about how to boost your sexy confidence and become irresistible to the people you actually want to attract. If you take less than 30 seconds to answer a text and are always available for dates, this could be a major turn off!  Listen in to these tips to give yourself permission to enjoy this process as it enriches your life.   This episode is a reminder that in order to change and make major shifts, you need to be uncomfortable. With support from a coach like Kimmy and clear goals, your path forward to gaining more sexy confidence and charisma could be just one phone call away. Get in touch with Kimmy here for a FREE coaching call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough    EPISODE 254 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Recognizing Love Fraud: Interview With Donna Andersen

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 34:25


Have you ever met someone new who instantly sweeps you off your feet, showers you with compliments, and makes you feel like the most special person in the world only to discover that it was all too good to be true? If this sounds like you, you may have been the victim of love fraud. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Donna Andersen, a journalist and author of Lovefraud.com, a website that teaches people how to recognize and avoid sociopaths.    EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud:  Interview With Donna Andersen   Listen in to hear Donna's story of marrying a man who she later found out had scammed and betrayed her completely. Kimmy and Donna define the characteristics of a sociopath and list the key signs and red flags to look out for. As you are learning to date smarter not harder, these tips will help you determine how to spot a scammer more quickly so you can move on without getting trapped in a fraudulent relationship. Stay tuned to hear useful conversation tricks and questions to ask to help you find out if someone is telling the truth! Plus, listen into a surprising tip from Donna about how to be certain your connection is genuine. If you are ready to stop attracting sociopaths, narcissists or any other kind of toxic people and instead find a genuine, supportive love connection, set up a time to speak with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Work with an expert to help you avoid scammers, detect red flags and meet higher quality people that want the same things you do.    EPISODE 253 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Recognizing Love Fraud:  Interview With Donna Andersen. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Radical Radiance: Attraction From The Outside In With Angela Jia Kim

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2022 36:53


Beauty is not only skin deep. Being attractive also comes from your confidence – the ability to let loose and be yourself. Learn how to have fun and be confident in your own skin. Today, join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to Angela Jia Kim about what makes you more attractive. Angela is a former concert pianist and the Founder of Savor Beauty + Spa. She is also the author of Radical Radiance, a book that can help radiate your inner and outer glow. Learn some attraction secrets that can help you in your love life. Discover some of Angela's personal stories about dating. Also, find out some skincare rituals you can do today.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love: Where Are They Now With Mary

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2022 44:12


Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations between Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy.   EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love:  Where Are They Now With Mary   This week you'll meet Mary, who made a decision to invest in coaching with Kimmy because she wanted expert advice. Mary felt she was ready for a long-term relationship, but had no idea how to release the anxiety she felt around dating in the past. If you're like Mary, you may have stayed in relationships that didn't serve you for too long or trusted people without evidence that they would respect that trust. Mary and Kimmy walk through Mary's journey to build her sense of self and get clear on what made her feel secure in relationships. Listen in to hear what worked for Mary around reducing her anxiety when dating, communicating honestly, and setting boundaries in a respectful and kind way. This conversation will show you how to recognize when someone isn't the right fit for you, even if they're a good person!   Stay tuned to hear about the new amazing guy in Mary's life who loves dancing, not taking things too seriously, and being creative, just like Mary. As Mary gets to know her new guy even better, she has some questions for Kimmy about how to build trust and whether or not taking things slow physically is worth the wait. If you have felt anxiety around having "the talk" with someone you're dating, stick around to hear a great tip on how to reinforce the behavior you want to see through taking action. If you are ready to ease your anxiety around dating and finally feel supported, at peace, and calm when it comes to love, reach out to Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Just like Mary, one 30-minute phone call could change the course of your love life for good.    EPISODE 251 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reducing Dating Anxiety To Attract Love:  Where Are They Now With Mary.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Have you ever wondered how to create more open, inviting, sexy energy when dating? The key is closer to home than you might think! This week, Kimmy explores the benefits of having a "vacation mentality" when dating. Listen in to hear her valuable tips and advice on the benefits of approaching your dating life the same way you approach a fun vacation.   EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With A Vacation Mentality   When work, family and life start to create burnout in your life, keeping up with socializing and dating can start to feel like a chore. But, if you've made a commitment to putting yourself out there and meeting new people, you need strategies to help stop burnout in its tracks. Kimmy illuminates the benefits of having a vacation mentality in your dating life and simple steps you can take to start seeing the benefits quickly. Think back to the last time you were on vacation and you felt relaxed, curious and open to new experiences. Now ask yourself, how can you recreate that attitude and outlook in your everyday life? When you've got your head down, grinding away at work, it's easy to get into a rut. Listen in to learn how you can break your patterns and approach life with curiosity and energy which will instantly make you more attractive. Kimmy shares a key piece of advice that will resonate with high achievers. If you default to figuring things out on your own, this is your opportunity to learn how to use a vacation mentality in order to be more spontaneous, fun and less rigid.  And, if you are feeling out of touch with your body, this is your cue to find that connection again.  If you are battling burnout and losing your motivation to date, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Set up a time to chat with Kimmy in a free, 30-minute call. This conversation could change the direction of your love life and serve as the push you need to reset your outlook and date with a vacation mentality.    EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With A Vacation Mentality.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2022 43:03


Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical advice they can use immediately.   EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Vulnerability And Dating:  Coaching With Kimmy   In this episode, you'll meet Garfield who's ready to put herself out there again after divorce and finds it challenging to be vulnerable and trust men when dating. Garfield shares her story and reflects on some of the challenges with scammers on dating apps she's experienced before. Newly single after leaving a long-term relationship, Garfield is working on defining what she wants, getting out of her head, and uncovering her confidence again when meeting new people socially.  Kimmy shares some foundational advice for how to begin to open yourself up to other people again after being hurt. If you're like Garfield and have had a string of traumatic or painful experiences, it can feel overwhelming to begin putting yourself out there again.  Listen in to hear some impactful and emotional breakthroughs Garfield has on this live call. You'll hear about the importance of taking small, intentional steps to work up to your loftiest goals. If you recognize that you are still in the process of healing, setting clear, attainable goals is key to making progress. This transformational conversation is a reminder that you have the power to shine and when ready, will attract people who want to help you shine even brighter! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships due to your walls being up, reach out to Kimmy and find a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You deserve a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship! When you invest in yourself and your growth, you will be able to have the love life you have always wanted.   EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Vulnerability And Dating:  Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
ICYMI: Self-Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson - Replay

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 40:17


When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them. Brandon Wilson is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them from fulfilling their dreams. Brandon imparts his experience and story about his business relationship that cost him nearly everything. That experience has helped him develop a sabotage framework, which he wrote down in his book, Sabotage.   On this replay episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, host Kimmy Seltzer interviews Brandon Wilson. In this conversation, practical tools will be given to help you notice the patterns in your personal and love relationships that could sabotage your love life. They will also talk about different key signs to know if one is prone to sabotage from others and even yourself. The different red flags when establishing a healthy, growth-minded, and loving relationship. Once you can identify the signs, the more you are enlightened and capable of stopping these behaviors. Tune in on this episode to find out more!     The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.    ************************************************   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.    ************************************************   Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
How Your Marriage Ends: Relationship-Killing Behavior And Communication Habits With Matthew Fray

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 40:51


Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is Matthew Fray. Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others save their relationships. They talk in-depth about the different behaviors and habits that lead to a dwindling intimacy you might not even be aware of with insights from his book, This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. Tune in and learn valuable lessons on relationships and the value of communication and self-awareness.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 32:57


Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you. This week, you'll meet Taylor, a high-achieving entrepreneur who was confident in every area of his life except dating.    EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Confidence:  Where Are They Now With Taylor   Taylor shares that after his divorce, he was struggling with getting into relationships quickly, not sharing his emotions, and ultimately, not making the kind of connections he truly desired. Navigating a brand new dating scene and showing up as his authentic self online was challenging. Once Taylor recognized that he wanted to be in a healthy, lasting relationship he knew he needed to ask for help. Kimmy and Taylor discuss the different phases of dating and the goals for each phase. If you have struggled with focusing on what you can do for another person as opposed to how they make you feel when you're together, listen up! This conversation focuses on the power of shifting your mindset and learning to enjoy the processs while you build skills that will help you create more genuine connections when dating. Taylor shares the story of how he met a wonderful new woman, and how they hit it off! Here's a hint: being open and transparent about what he was looking for helped create a foundation for them both to be emotionally honest with one another.    If you're like Taylor, and you're ready to understand the tools and strategies to find success in dating and meet higher quality people who are a good fit for you, all it takes is that first call. Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free 30-minute call. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. But hurry, the program starts soon and only a few spots left!    EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Confidence:  Where Are They Now With Taylor.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2022 38:36


We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone.   EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Fall In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Tracy Pattin   Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce.  Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships.  The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you.    If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot!   EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Fall In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Tracy Pattin.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2022 41:07


You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you've been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can't seem to figure out why you haven't been able to find the same success! This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on helping high achievers, executives, and couples improve their careers and relationships through psychology-based strategies.    EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Strategies For Your Love Life:  Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley   If you have a tendency to conduct your dates like high-pressure job interviews or lead interactions with your long list of accomplishments and have wondered why you rarely get a second date, this episode is for you! Listen in to hear how dating and creating deep, loving connections are rooted in feelings, not facts. You have the power to use your killer business instincts to help improve your love life, but you need a strategy to get there. Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share some key tips you can use to reframe your mindset, lean on your strengths and find success in love.  Listen in to hear some incredible tools you can use right away, whether you are in a couple or not! Dr. Buckley and Kimmy discuss how the foundation of a strong relationship is not love, lust or sexual attraction but more that love can be found through intention, strategy and a concrete plan.  This conversation will help you see that it's possible to interrupt patterns and behaviors that don't serve you in love. You can retrain your brain to intake information differently and start to see opportunities where you used to see challenges. And, if you've ever felt like a victim, struggling to feel in control, Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share a useful tip to help reframe your perspective to see things in a more positive light. Stay tuned to hear some great tips on how to use quotas in an unexpected way that will make your partner feel seen, heard, and loved every single day.   If you need to ignite your sexy confidence with a dating plan and put strategies in place to break your bad habits, grab one of the few seats at Kimmy's new program, Spark Your Sexy: Live! It's a brand *NEW* 6-week course culminating in an in-person retreat in sunny California! Join a group of like-minded single women who are ready to create a plan for their dating life and find the love they've always wanted.  Click here to apply and hurry as spaces are limited https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/   EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Strategies For Your Love Life:  Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Healthy Boundaries & Communication When Dating: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2022 38:14


Why does dating seem so easy for other people, but challenging for you? Do you find yourself feeling depleted from giving your energy to relationships or situationships that don't fulfill you? This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Keyva who has developed a habit of attracting emotionally unavailable men. A self-admitted chameleon, she tends to match the energy of the men she's dating but she has found that she's losing herself in the process. This conversation is all about learning how to show up as your true, authentic self through using healthy boundaries and communication when dating.   EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating:  Coaching With Kimmy   You'll hear Keyva speak honestly about her upbringing and how she was rewarded and praised for her achievements when she was younger. Kimmy and Keyva uncover some old patterns that are repeating themselves in her dating life. Kimmy breaks down the steps to start to break the habits that don't serve Keyva in her dating life. Listen in to hear the key difference between setting healthy boundaries and putting your guard up in a way that shuts people out. Kimmy talks about the value of communicating in a clear and assertive way to define your wants and needs without worrying about what anyone else thinks. When you are able to communicate effectively when dating you will avoid developing feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment and weeds out the people that don't respect you more easily. Kimmy uncovers how to reframe your mindset to approach dating as a skill-building exercise instead of as an interview for your next significant other. Kimmy shares some quick, tangible tips you can use on your next date to shift your conversations immediately and start to see who's really there for you!   If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships or accepting crumbs when you deserve the whole cake, it's time to demand more for yourself. Reach out to Kimmy for a FREE introductory call here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough In half an hour, you can map out a strategy to find the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve.   EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

We all have learned beliefs that shape how we see the world. Did you know you probably have hidden biases that are keeping you single? The beliefs and attitudes you hold are informed by your experiences -- stay tuned to hear why it's important to know the limits of your own perspective. Your thoughts and actions are directly impacted by how you see things, which contributes to your results when dating. This week, Kimmy shares the top 5 most common dating biases out there and what to do about them. This episode is all about making a choice to change your lens on life and see the power in becoming aware of your biases. Kimmy talks about how we're all susceptible to our biases and how they are mostly subconscious.   EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single   You'll hear tips around the 5 surprising types of biases and what you can do to become more conscious of them. Whether you always go for the same "type" or let one thing cloud your view of someone, you could be missing out on meeting someone great for you! If you have a tendency to keep making the same mistakes or attracting narcissists into your life, Kimmy's tip for catching confirmation bias can shift your love life dramatically. If you are stuck and are feeling anxious about going out there and meeting new people, listen in to hear a valuable “hack” around how to take small steps to override that bias.   If you are ready to get over your hidden biases that might be keeping you stuck in dating, save your spot in Kimmy's brand new workshop for women on May 11th called Dating Secrets Decoded https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/DSDpodcast/KSeltzer/. This is a 2-hour interactive event where you will learn Kimmy's proven system for strategically spotlighting your dating archetype to boost your confidence, break bad dating habits, and become a fun dater that men can't wait to flirt with. If you're looking for tangible strategies to improve your dating life, sign up today - but hurry it starts soon and there are limited spots!   EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

The Dr. Denise Show
Diva Discussions with Kimmy Seltzer, “The Shelf!”

The Dr. Denise Show

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 38:12


The fabulous dating strategist Kimmy Seltzer is back for a diva discussion on a hopeful and descriptive dating term she and I organically used in conversation off show…. “The Shelf!” Are you ready for a deep play discussion about “the shelf” and how the energy of our words, thoughts, and actions influence what we attract? […] Continue reading...

Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast
16: The Secrets to Flirting & Charisma!

Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2022 45:33


This episode is something you have ASKED FOR!   Flirting, building charisma & confidence is something we ALL want to get better at - whether we are single or coupled!   I brought on one of my favorite experts, Kimmy Seltzer, who is a confidence therapist, flirting wingwoman and personal stylist.  There is something for EVERYONE in this episode - woman or man!    What is the magic formula, The Charisma Quotient and how do you use it to build a sexy confidence? What is the 'outside-in' approach?    Why does everyone (including men!) need a red dress moment?  What was Kimmy's (and it has to do with Birkenstock's and nursing bras)....   What is the biggest style mistake men make?  And women?  What are the 3 Cs for style makeovers? Why is flirting such an important part of dating and being irresistible? HOW can you flirt, especially if you're shy?    What is a flirting move you can start TODAY?    How do you take the fear out of flirting & rejection? How did Bela's client who went to Harvard change her approach -- which led to her marriage?  :) What are the best conversation starters to make a chat feel FUN?   What are the common mistakes women make when it comes to flirting and being in their feminine?  Men? You'll love this episode -- I certainly did!   If you did, rate it, write us a love note, and SHARE with your networks!  We LOVE that, and will do a coaching giveaway for people who write reviews!    If you want to hear more from us, click here to join our free newsletter database!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact If you're ready to find love and schedule a session with us, click here to invest in a session that will change your life!  https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela If you want Kimmy's free gift, click www.kimmyseltzer.com  Kimmy's Bio:  Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Image Expert.  With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy's Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 52:58


Have you ever thought about surrendering to create love?  That doesn't mean compromising your values or letting someone else or external expectations dictate your future. Truly surrendering to love isn't about losing yourself -- it's about showing up as your authentic self and letting your highest self guide your next move, one step at a time. This week on the show, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Kute Blackson, a celebrated, emerging thought leader in personal development and the author of The Magic of Surrender https://kuteblackson.com/products/themagicofsurrender/.  If you have been searching for a sign to release yourself from the pressure of expectations or patterns that don't serve your deepest desires, this episode will invite you to think differently.   EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Surrendering To Create Real Love:  Interview With Kute Blackson   Kute tells the story of growing up in Ghana under the guidance of his father, a minister and a healer, to arriving in the US determined to make a name for himself in his own right. After studying for years with gurus, sages and monks across the world, Kute developed his own unique style of coaching people to make transformational shifts in their life, based on a theory of "un-conditioning". If you feel family or societal expectations of what you "should" want or do are creating obstacles for you to succeed and fulfill your purpose in life, listen in. Kimmy and Kute talk through how to set goals that are authentic to you and the key factors that help you push past arising fear to stay on your chosen path.  Stay tuned for a killer tip that will help you determine if you are on a path that is aligned with your highest self. If you are coming up against challenges over and over and you don't seem to be progressing beyond them, you'll hear some incredible advice on releasing yourself from those limitations and becoming more open. Kute shares the unbelievable story of how his parents met, and truly speaks to the power and magic of surrender to lead you to where you are meant to be. Kimmy and Kute dive into the incredible benefits of maintaining an open mind and open heart, not getting attached to the outcome, and how to spark meaningful change in your life by taking intentional action.  If you are feeling the weight and pressure of external obligations and don't feel that you are living and searching for love from a place of alignment, maybe it's time to surrender. Reach out to Kimmy for a free 30-minute call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to do the work to uncover the kind of relationship you truly want, the power of surrender could be the key to leading you to where you want to be!   EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Surrendering To Create Real Love:  Interview With Kute Blackson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

The Dr. Denise Show
The Monologuer! Diva Discussions with Kimmy Seltzer

The Dr. Denise Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 37:45


Dating and image expert Kimmy Seltzer is back for an adventurous playful episode discussing our spontaneous “WING GAL” night out in SoCal. Strategy, communication, deep play, body language, flirting and more are on this power packed show. Let's PLAY:   https://content.blubrry.com/thedrdeniseshow/recording-1_postproductions_2022-04-21-t11-11-46am-final-mix.mp3 About Kimmy Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist and Image Expert.  […] Continue reading...

Radical Audacity in Love & Life with Tiphany Kane
Transformation & Reinvention: Getting That Sexy Confidence with Guest Kimmy Seltzer

Radical Audacity in Love & Life with Tiphany Kane

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 60:17


Sometimes the most difficult part of creating your most technicolor, joyful life is the reinvention and transformation of your physical self. We often get so trapped in our old clothing, our go-to hairstyle, our "don't pay attention to me" posture. This week's guest, Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist & Image Expert. Kimmy believes in transformation from the outside in- often changing our clothing, hairstyle, & posture can help us to accelerate our inner transformation. I am absolutely fascinated with this topic because I found it to be true for my own healing journey.  I can't wait to hear what you think of transformation from the outside-in!!!You can find Kimmy Seltzer:Facebook:   https://www.facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/Twitter:  @kimmyseltzerInstagram: @kimmyseltzerYouTube http://youtube.com/KimmySeltzerLinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/kimmyseltzerTikTok @kimmyseltzerContact Tiphany- I love to connect with you!DM me on Instagram: @tiphanykaneHeck Yes! Facebook Group: click here to join the groupHeck Yes! Membership Group: click here to join the membershipHeck Yes! Mastermind Application: click here to apply for the mastermindCheck out my website: www.tiphanykane.com

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Dating Smarter Not Harder: Where Are They Now With Chandra

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 38:28


Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her former clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and how they are different since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you!    EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating Smarter Not Harder:  Where Are They Now With Chandra   This week, you'll meet Chandra who decided to start working with Kimmy after a recommendation from a friend whose other friends had worked with her. Chandra shares what life was like for her around the time she reached out. She shared struggling to make genuine connections in friendships or relationships, had trouble letting go of her professional persona on dates, had a hard time letting her guard down and being vulnerable and would default to people-pleaser mode a lot.  She also was hiding in her clothes and was uncomfortable showing her flirty, sexy side.  Listen in to hear how her work with Kimmy changed all of that. Chandra shares stories of a key style trick and deeper exercises she did with Kimmy that has completely changed how people respond to her to this day. Stay tuned for actionable tips that will help you discover joy in dating and socializing and how Chandra used these to attract several men.  When you release the pressure on finding your forever person, you unlock the ability to enjoy the process to date smarter not harder. Kimmy and Chandra talk all about the "Charisma Glow” she carries throughout her life now and how she is able to show her authentic self with confidence. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that success lies within you and when you feel good about you others will too.   If this episode inspires you to want to achieve your version of success, whether that's finding a relationship or finding yourself, take the next best step. Reach out to Kimmy to find time to talk here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.   One conversation may just be the springboard you need to begin your journey of self-discovery!   EPISODE 241 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating Smarter Not Harder:  Where Are They Now With Chandra.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Leaving Abusive Patterns Behind: Interview With Tiphany Kane

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 46:57


Toxic and abusive relationships come in many shapes and sizes. Sometimes abuse is glaring, and sometimes it's more insidious and hidden. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Tiphany Kane, host of the Radical Audacity Podcast and survivor of a toxic and abusive relationship. Tiphany has dedicated her life's work to empowering women to elevate their voices and stand in their power. In this episode, Tiphany shares her journey to leave an abusive relationship.    EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Leaving Abusive Patterns Behind:  Interview With Tiphany Kane   After growing up in a cult-like religion that distorted her perception of dating and marriage, Tiphany entered into a relationship that escalated from gaslighting to harmful abusive patterns. Kimmy highlights a strategy that Tiphany used to rebuild her self-esteem on her journey to find herself. When you are able to counteract the negativity you receive from an abusive partner with positive self-talk and new behaviors that boost your confidence, you are able to strengthen your self-worth. Whether you invest in yourself by improving your physical health, your self-image or a hobby you love — small investments can make a big impact over time. Tiphany and Kimmy share tips about the power of meeting like-minded people who can provide camaraderie and accountability to help you stick with your plan. You'll hear a helpful framework to think about how you can remove yourself from toxic cycles. You'll learn on this episode how to demand a new level of respect for yourself and set boundaries accordingly. Listen in to hear Tiphany's inspiring story of how she attracted a wonderful new man into her life, and what they've built together. You'll hear all about the power of flirting, vulnerability, gratitude and patience that has allowed their relationship to blossom.    If you're ready to release yourself from a toxic or abusive relationship, reach out for support and take the first step to set you on a path of change for the better. Set up a free call with Kimmy here: http://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a plan to begin your journey to the healthy, fulfilling, loving and supportive relationship you deserve!   EPISODE 240 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Abusive Patterns Behind:  Interview With Tiphany Kane.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Mastering the Podcaster Mindset
Women In Podcasting discuss "Because of My Podcast..." (bonus episode)

Mastering the Podcaster Mindset

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 49:33


In this bonus episode, you will get to listen to Jennifer Henczel, from the Women in Podcasting Show interview the women on the Podfest Expo Women in Podcasting panel.Tiphany has been selected to be one of the 10 women representing Women in Podcasting at Podfest Expo. In this episode, you will hear these podcasters answer the prompt “Because of my podcast…” On the panel: Jennifer Henczel (host),Martine Cadet, Melanie Benson, Kimmy Seltzer, Tiphany Kane, Michelle Elise Abraham & Marion Blinkoff. Be inspired by the opportunities they've created for themselves and others by showing up and using their voice.https://www.inspiredinfluencers.com/because-of-my-podcast-podfest/Click this link to get 20% tickets to Podfest ExpoLearn more about our Podcast Editing Concierge ServiceJoin our FREE Facebook community: Mastering the Podcaster Mindset Support GroupGet the Guide “The Biggest Mistake Podcaster Make and How to Avoid It”: DM us on IG: @podcastermindset_________Produced by: KaSa Media ProductionsEdited by: David Sais (aka: The Sexy Sound Guy)

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 43:54


Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily in a flirty way. A self-described "rebel without a clue," Dustin is on a journey to support his personal growth in learning how to go from the friendzone to the funzone with women and progress on dates.    EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  From Friendzone To Funzone:  Coaching with Kimmy   Kimmy and Dustin jump in by talking about Dustin's upbringing as an only child and the struggles he had with socializing growing up. Kimmy extracts how his upbringing now holds him back from his inner playfulness or spontaneous spirit, causing him to get in his head and hesitate on dates. Instead of letting a conversation flow naturally, Dustin talks about how his tendency to pre-plan topics, overcorrects himself and appears inauthentic while dating. This conversation is a great reminder of the power of curiosity to change the game when it comes to having captivating conversations. Instead of worrying about how you come off or trying to force a particular result, what if you went in with the intention to be curious about your date?  Kimmy and Dustin do some dating role play where Dustin shares a funny story about something that happened to him recently. Kimmy and Dustin break down the story and discuss how emotions can enhance the stories you tell. Storytelling is an incredibly effective tool to create genuine emotional connection and empathy when dating! You'll hear great tips on how to improve your storytelling, get out of your head and create deeper connections more quickly.    If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained on dates from trying to keep up the flow of conversation or you're just plain BORED, book a free 30 minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy can help you map out a plan to get out of the friend zone and into the fun zone!    EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  From Friendzone To Funzone:  Coaching with Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
From Friendzone To Funzone: Coaching with Kimmy

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 43:54


Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily in a flirty way. A self-described "rebel without a clue," Dustin is on a journey to support his personal growth in learning how to go from the friendzone to the funzone with women and progress on dates.    EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  From Friendzone To Funzone:  Coaching with Kimmy   Kimmy and Dustin jump in by talking about Dustin's upbringing as an only child and the struggles he had with socializing growing up. Kimmy extracts how his upbringing now holds him back from his inner playfulness or spontaneous spirit, causing him to get in his head and hesitate on dates. Instead of letting a conversation flow naturally, Dustin talks about how his tendency to pre-plan topics, overcorrects himself and appears inauthentic while dating. This conversation is a great reminder of the power of curiosity to change the game when it comes to having captivating conversations. Instead of worrying about how you come off or trying to force a particular result, what if you went in with the intention to be curious about your date?  Kimmy and Dustin do some dating role play where Dustin shares a funny story about something that happened to him recently. Kimmy and Dustin break down the story and discuss how emotions can enhance the stories you tell. Storytelling is an incredibly effective tool to create genuine emotional connection and empathy when dating! You'll hear great tips on how to improve your storytelling, get out of your head and create deeper connections more quickly.    If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained on dates from trying to keep up the flow of conversation or you're just plain BORED, book a free 30 minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy can help you map out a plan to get out of the friend zone and into the fun zone!    EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  From Friendzone To Funzone:  Coaching with Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Being A Courageous Leader In Love: Interview With Trent Clark

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 34:41


Do you consider yourself a courageous leader in love? This week, Kimmy has an uplifting conversation with Trent Clark, a celebrated sports and leadership coach and founder of Leadershipity. Kimmy and Trent define courageous leadership as someone who listens to and implements feedback, is willing to engage in difficult conversations, always has an eye towards innovation, and approaches challenges with openness. If you have struggled in the past with moving away from unhealthy or unhelpful relationships, this episode was made for you.    EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Being A Courageous Leader In Love:  Interview With Trent Clark   Listen in to hear all about how to approach your love life with a positive attitude where you see challenges as an opportunity to grow, rather than something to fear or avoid. You'll hear a juicy tip on how to reframe and even gamify conflict so that you are able to let go of the expectations around an outcome, and see it as a learning opportunity. The best leaders exude confidence, and if you've been listening to this show you know Kimmy defines confidence as experience! The more willing you are to step outside your comfort zone, the more you will be able to build true resilience in life. Trent shares his expertise working with professional athletes on the importance of prep and reps and how you can apply this to your love life. Kimmy and Trent talk about how to manage your fear of making mistakes. When you work with a coach to develop and execute a strategy around dating, which includes getting crystal clear on what you really want, you'll be surprised at how quickly you can start to see results. Trent shares a moving story about a time he jumped to judgment and the importance of not letting the small stuff overtake your larger goals. Kimmy ends on a positive note to love who you are, not who you aren't!    If you are ready to become a leader in your love life, jump on a free call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough to map out a love plan and with Kimmy's help you'll be on your way to finding the love you've always wanted.   EPISODE 238 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Being A Courageous Leader In Love:  Interview With Trent Clark.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups