Podcasts about kimmy seltzer

Did you know intimacy is a skill that is a learnable, empowering skill?  In Episode 394 of The Charisma Quotient, “Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman” Kimmy chats with Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Herrell, co-founders of the revolutionary Somatica Institute and authors of three powerful books, including Making Love Real. With extensive experience training over 1,000 coaches and transforming countless lives, Celeste and Danielle blend science, humor, and heart to help people build confidence in intimacy. In this episode, you'll discover why intimacy is not just about sexual or physical attraction—it's an evolving set of skills involving emotional safety, intellectual connection, shared experiences, and even spiritual alignment. Kimmy and her guests discuss common roadblocks to intimacy, from childhood wounds to societal messages that make people feel shame about their desires. They explain how flirtation and erotic energy are foundational to authentic relating (not just “nice-to-haves”), and share the step-by-step practices their clients use to move past blocks, build confidence, and celebrate pleasure in ways that feel natural. Listen in for memorable stories, like Kimmy's account of a client unwittingly creating a “love shield” with her body language, and a playful demonstration by Danielle about using your five senses (and even eating ice cream!) to connect with your body's pleasure zones. You'll hear how Celeste coaches clients to enjoy being appreciated, and learn tips to help both men and women feel empowered instead of ashamed in their pursuit of intimacy.  You'll hear: Why true intimacy means expressing what feels good for you and setting boundaries. How shame, gender roles, and societal messages can make people feel disconnected from their own desires. Skills in intimacy and sexuality that lead to more confidence and authentic relationships. How putting your own pleasure and desires at the center actually leads to healthier intimacy. If you are having a hard time letting go and having intimacy and playfulness in your dating life, join Kimmy's next co-ed interactive Flirt Workshop where you will learn the skill of flirting and having fun.  Just go to www.stophatingdating.com to grab your spot as they do go fast. Book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

We've talked about dating in your 20s and 30s....but now we're diving into dating in your 40s – and beyond. We're joined with return guest Kimmy Seltzer who shares her insights as a dating coach and her own personal journey from divorce to self-discovery in 'the second act' as she likes to call it. We're discussing the more divergent differences of lifestyle that happen when dating in your 40s+, the different expectations in dating that come in each decade, and why dating "later in life" can be absolutely terrific if you let it be.To learn more about Kimmy, check out her podcast 'Charisma Quotient' wherever you listen to podcasts and learn more about her at https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/Related Episodes: S18E5: Dating In Your 30sGet OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by visiting https://www.armoire.style and using the code DATEABLE* Avocado Green Mattress: Save 10% on certified organic mattresses at https://avocadogreenmattress.com* Blueland: Get 15% off Blueland Cleaning supplies at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE with the code DATEABLE* Happy Mammoth: Take the Free Quiz & Get 15% off, sitewide, on your first purchase at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more at SKIMS.com and SKIMS LA Flagship on Sunset BlvdSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why do we keep finding ourselves in the same frustrating dating patterns, no matter how much we try to shake things up? In Episode 393 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?” Kimmy gets to the heart of the matter by introducing her breakthrough framework: the Five Dating Archetypes. Whether you're struggling to meet the right person or find yourself replaying old dynamics, this episode is your fast track to self-awareness—and real change. Drawing from years as a leading dating and makeover expert, therapist, and matchmaker, Kimmy has worked with thousands of women (and men!) both in her “Wing Girl” sessions and individualized coaching practice. She's seen personality patterns repeat across clients and created the Five Dating Archetypes to help you identify what may be holding you back and possibly creating a love shield you are not aware of. Kimmy was inspired to create this framework after noticing similar challenges in client after client, whether working with high-profile celebrities or everyday singles. In this lively, down-to-earth conversation, Kimmy breaks down each archetype in detail, describing telltale behaviors, mindsets, and the powerful ways your history shapes your dating style. You'll hear real-life stories—like the Hollywood powerhouse whose “Chief” energy was intimidating every man she met, or the “List Lady” whose sky-high standards secretly protected her from heartbreak. Kimmy shares deeply personal accounts, including courageous clients who overcame trauma or old roles to open up to love again—proving that transformation is possible no matter your situation or age.  You'll hear: An overview of the “Big 5” dating archetypes How subtle things like your body language, wardrobe choices, communication style, and past wounds could be sending the wrong signals in love. Practical strategies and “secret weapons” for each archetype, from developing self-awareness to making small tweaks that yield big changes in your confidence and connection with others. Why most of us fall into these same patterns, and exactly what you can do to break free. If you want to know what kind of dating archetype you are, take her free archetype quiz https://form.jotform.com/231376592380157 an then book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com  

The key to lasting love is more than just chemistry, it's really knowing how you (and your partner) handle conflict. It's communication, emotional intelligence and how you handle stress that builds a lasting connection and relationship  In Episode 394 of The Charisma Quotient, "Stop Dating the Wrong People: Decode Your Conflict Style with Dr. John Elliot,” Kimmy is joined by Dr. John Elliot, an acclaimed psychologist, conflict resolution expert, and co-author of "How to Get Along With Anyone." With a career spanning consulting for NASA, the US Olympic Committee, the Mayo Clinic, Fortune 500 companies, and appearances in outlets like The New York Times and ESPN, Dr. Elliot is uniquely equipped to reveal why true relationship success depends on how you both show up when the going gets tough—not just when it's smooth sailing. Together, Kimmy and Dr. Elliot break down the five conflict personality styles—the Avoider, Competitor, Analyzer, Collaborator, and Accommodator—explaining the habits, triggers, and communication patterns that come out when tension rises. You'll hear actionable advice on how to identify your own (and others') conflict styles, why some personality pairings struggle while others thrive, and how to turn moments of tension into lasting intimacy instead of drama or distance. They discuss why your "must-have list" should go beyond looks or job titles, and how picking up on someone's conflict style early can save you heartache down the road.  You'll hear: The “five conflict personality styles”—discover if you're an Avoider, Competitor, Analyzer, Collaborator, or Accommodator (and why it matters so much!)  How mismatched conflict styles sabotage romantic chemistry—and what style pairings work best for long-term happiness Real stories from pro sports, high-stakes business, and dating that illustrate these personality clashes and how they're resolved Simple, practical tools and mindset shifts to help you attract, connect with, and keep truly compatible partners If you've ever felt stuck repeating the same painful patterns, or want to break free from being an overgiver, people-pleaser, or the “nice guy,” book a FREE private breakthrough call with Kimmy:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com  

Are your past experiences getting in your way when it comes to dating? Specifically you may have a fear of abandonment that stems from childhood which is the reason you push people away subconsciously. Most people don't realize that they hold onto their past traumas which impacts relationships. Fears that are created from this dynamic makes dating feel frustrating and anxiety-provoking. In Episode 392 of The Charisma Quotient, “Fear of Abandonment in Dating: Why You Push Love Away ~ Coaching With Kimmy” Kimmy coaches a woman live on this episode whose personal history and experiences echo the struggles many face in the realm of intimacy and self-perception.  In this coaching session, Kimmy and Evelyn delve into the intricacies of how past abandonment issues can manifest in adult relationships, influencing the patterns we fall into and the people we attract. From forming quick, intense attachments to pushing partners away through self-sabotage, the discussion covers a spectrum of behaviors that many listeners will find familiar. Evelyn shares poignant anecdotes, such as the emotionally charged and rapid-moving relationship that led her to relocate across the country, only to find herself ensnared in familiar emotional pitfalls. Her story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and the challenges of translating that awareness into action.  You'll hear: The top 5 ways a fear of abandonment may show up in a person's romantic relationships and actionable steps for tackling these deep-seated fears.  The concept of "shape-shifting" in relationships and why it causes you to lose touch with your authentic self. Actionable steps from Kimmy for rewriting personal stories and reinforcing self-worth. How seeking excessive reassurance from partners can lead to emotional exhaustion and breakdowns in relationships. The duality of either erecting emotional walls or forming overly rapid attachments as a result of abandonment fears. An unsuspected breakthrough Evelyn had on the call that caught her by surprise on why dating has been so hard. If you want help overcoming your fears around dating book a FREE private breakthrough call with Kimmy:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com  

Did you know that anxiety disorders affect 18% of the adult population in the United States? Anxiety is your body's natural response to stress and uncertainty. Let's face it - uncertainty is a huge part of dating.  Kimmy talks about understanding Dating Anxiety which is a common experience that involves excessive worry, fear, and nervousness related to dating. It can manifest in various ways, affecting a person's thoughts, emotions, and behaviors during the dating process. In Episode 392 of The Charisma Quotient, “Overcoming Dating Anxiety: Interview with Katie Krimitsos,” Kimmy is joined by Katie Krimitsos, the founder and CEO of the Women's Meditation Network, who talks about her personal journey with meditation and self-awareness. In this engaging conversation, Kimmy and Katie delve into the epidemic of dating anxiety, discussing its common symptoms like fear of awkward conversations, obsessive checking for texts, and the constant nagging thought of not being "good enough." Katie candidly shares her journey from feeling not enough to mastering self-awareness through meditation. She reveals how simple practices of mindfulness have helped her tackle overwhelming thoughts, embrace vulnerability, and most importantly, trust herself in relationships. Get ready for Katie's transformative story of how, by embodying authenticity and letting go of the need to control, she attracted a soulmate relationship that flourished into marriage. Discover her ingenious concept of "mini meditations" – bite-sized, practical practices that even the busiest among us can integrate into our daily routines to stay grounded and present.  You'll hear: Eight common symptoms of dating anxiety and tips on how to recognize and manage them. Innovative strategies to incorporate meditation into your daily routine — even for those who've never meditated before — to help ground you before a date. A powerful reminder that "what's meant for you will not miss you". How to embrace imperfection and vulnerability in relationships for true connection. A surprise mini meditation that you'll be able to practice right away If you struggle with dating anxiety and it is hindering your ability to stay present and it is pushing people away, check out Katie's amazing meditations including her 3 day stress and anxiety detox by going to womensmeditationnetwork.com and then hop on a private call with Kimmy to reduce your dating anxiety by coming up with a plan here  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com  

Do you consider yourself an introvert? Are you in your head a lot and analyze everything to death to the point that it's affecting your dating life?  In Episode 391 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Evan live on the episode to help him get out of his own way when dating. In this coaching session, Kimmy and Evan delve into the challenges that introverts face, from the exhausting overthinking in social scenarios to navigating extrovert-dominated dating environments. Evan shares his poignant story of overcoming Bell's palsy, a condition that not only affected his confidence but also became a turning point in his life. Through self-discovery and transformation, Evan emerged stronger and more in tune with himself—an inspiring testament to resilience and personal growth. Kimmy offers practical advice on how to shift from reactive to proactive approaches in dating, ultimately paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.  You'll hear: The magic of leaning into discomfort of social interactions to get over the fears attached to it How to stop overthinking and start taking action in dating. The significance of addressing the discomfort introverts feel in social situations. How to alleviate anxiety in order to make more genuine connections with others. If you are an introvert and want help stepping out of your comfort zone and come up with a plan to put yourself out there, book a FREE breakthrough call with Kimmy:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com  

Discover the transformative journey of overcoming dating doubts and embracing confidence in episode 390 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Confidence Love Makeover: Where Are They Now with Doug,” Kimmy sits down with Doug, a former client who successfully transitioned from repeated relationship misfires to a future filled with love and commitment. Doug, a therapist himself, found that while he was adept at uplifting others, his self-doubt and past baggage were hurdles he couldn't seem to overcome alone in the dating world. In this engaging episode, Doug recounts his evolution with Kimmy's guidance, moving from what he describes as "the geeky guy" to someone brimming with "sexy confidence" and self-assurance. The duo dives into Doug's struggles with seeking external validation and how his non-verbal cues, unbeknownst to him, played a significant role in his dating life. Kimmy helped him unpack these barriers, notably during a memorable encounter at a pet store which brought to light a subtle, yet impactful gesture that encapsulated Doug's internal struggles. You'll hear: How childhood trauma can influence your adult interactions. How changing your wardrobe and mastering body language can be pivotal in reinventing your self-perception and confidence. How Doug's newfound genuine energy connected him with his future wife. Doug's journey of maintaining a successful relationship, emphasizing the importance of open communication and mutual dedication to make it last. If you're ready to make a transformation, Kimmy has a new workshop coming up on March 25th - The Dating Improv Game where you can practice creating chemistry through play. You will learn how to harness the power of flirty moves, engaging conversations, and body language to create lasting impressions through a series of mock dates and coaching.  Register now at www.stophatingdating.com. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com 

Are you questioning if your time to find lasting love has passed after hitting 40? Let go of the doubts! In Episode 389 of The Charisma Quotient, “Later Daters: Finding Love at Any Age – Interview with Dr. John Gray,” Kimmy is thrilled to welcome back the legendary Dr. John Gray, author of the groundbreaking "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," as he debunks age-related myths and explores the invigorating world of second-chance romances. With his extensive knowledge and experience, John explains why the desire for companionship doesn't change with age and how both men and women can rediscover love beyond their youthful years. In their candid discussion, Kimmy and John unravel the complexities of dating later in life, emphasizing the importance of embracing newfound freedom and the playful aspects of dating. They delve into the changes in male and female dynamics and explore how aging affects relationships and sex drives. John shares fascinating statistics, such as the discrepancy in how men and women typically move on after divorce, highlighting differences in motivation and readiness. You'll hear: Key strategies for embracing your feminine energy, allowing yourself to feel sexy and confident, which is vital for attracting solid and meaningful connections. Practical and scientific explanations of the dynamics of testosterone and estrogen in fostering attraction and maintaining chemistry in later life. Fascinating data on remarriage rates among those who are over 50, illustrating that love the second time around is not only possible but probable. A touching story about one of Kimmy's clients, a widow who rediscovered love unexpectedly, leading to a heartwarming marriage announcement. If you're ready to navigate the dating scene later in life, Kimmy has a new workshop coming up on March 25th - The Dating Improv Game where you can practice creating chemistry through play. You will learn how to harness the power of flirty moves, engaging conversations, and body language to create lasting impressions through a series of mock dates and coaching.  Register now at www.stophatingdating.com. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com  

Are you tired of feeling like dating is a chore rather than a fun and exciting adventure? Did you know that being fun and playful are the top attributes that people inherently look for when dating and ultimately landing a partner? In Episode 388 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: How To Be Playful & Fun When Dating,” Kimmy emphasizes in this episode playfulness as a vital trait in attracting a partner and how often it outranks traditional attributes like intelligence or career success in desirability. During the episode, Kimmy tackles common hurdles that hinder playfulness, such as cultural upbringing or fear of judgment. Through compelling client stories, like that of a high-achieving woman who, despite her success, struggled to connect until she embraced playfulness, listeners gain a real-world glimpse into the magic of letting loose. This client, who once saw dating as another boardroom challenge, learned to dance in the realm of whimsical conversation and flirty femininity, eventually attracting a partner who adored her lively energy. You'll hear: Practical strategies to tap into your inner child and why it's crucial to incorporate play into your routine. Actionable tips on how to approach dating with a lighthearted spirit. Why flirting is a way to be present and engaging without the serious intention of an outcome. How embracing playfulness can alleviate exhaustion from dating. If you tend to be a little serious in your interactions and need help incorporating fun in your dates, Kimmy has a new workshop coming up on March 25th - The Dating Improv Game where you can practice creating chemistry through play. You will learn how to harness the power of flirty moves, engaging conversations, and body language to create lasting impressions through a series of mock dates and coaching.  Register now at www.stophatingdating.com. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

Getting back into the dating game after losing a partner can feel daunting. But you're not alone. So many people go through this, and it is possible to get back out there. In Episode 387 of The Charisma Quotient, “From Grief to Growth: Where Are They Now with Allen,” Kimmy brings on one of her coaching clients Allen, a remarkable man who transformed his life and love journey after the heartbreaking loss of his wife. Known for his analytical mind as a former lawyer, Allen found himself struggling with the intricacies of dating in the modern world. Being in his late 60s, he realized he needed guidance to enhance his dating confidence and flirting skills.  After working with Kimmy and dating several women, Allen is now dating someone whom he really enjoys! Through Kimmy's coaching, Allen embarked on a process of reinvention, which not only rebuilt his confidence but also reshaped his outlook on dating. This episode delves into Allen's hesitation to dive back into the dating pool and how Kimmy's unique approach helped him overcome the fear and intimidation that comes with starting over. They discuss the evolution of Allen's dating strategies, highlighting the importance of having fun rather than focusing strictly on outcomes. You'll hear: Practical advice for anyone feeling overwhelmed when stepping out there again. How Allen overcame his analytical tendencies and learned to embrace the playful side of dating. Allen's story of re-entering the dating world after losing his wife. The power of stepping out of your comfort zone to create real opportunities for connection. If you are struggling to put yourself out there, book a call with Kimmy to kick start a dating plan to motivate you! https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

Navigating modern dating can feel exhausting. It's easy to get lost in the fast pace of swiping and online dating. But dating doesn't have to feel like so much work.  In Episode 386 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Traps Of Modern Dating:  Interview Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu,” Kimmy is joined by Julie and Yue, dynamic co-hosts of the critically acclaimed Dateable podcast and authors of the anticipated book "How to Be Dateable." With nearly a decade of research exploring the intricacies of dating, they have a wealth of expertise when it comes to transforming from confused daters to respected dating insiders. Throughout the episode, Kimmy, Julie, and Yue engage in a lively discussion on the four main dating traps that ensnare many in today's fast-paced dating scene. From the "expectation of love on demand" to the hazards of "settling paradox," they break down these traps with research-backed insights and personal anecdotes. Julie shares her story of spending over two years in a situationship driven by the need for validation. Yue opens up about her own dating missteps, involving a hiking date and a pair of infamous black socks.  You'll hear the 3 of them breakdown: Why being grounded and living in the moment is critical to fostering genuine connections and finding lasting love. The importance of focusing on understanding yourself and dating without the expectation of immediate attachment. The specific skills needed for modern dating, such as DMing and flirt texting. How to avoid moving too quickly and ignoring red flags in the desire to form relationships. If you are burnt out doing online dating and want to learn how to meet people IRL (In Real Life) join Kimmy's next workshop - Meeting IRL on February 26 by signing up at www.stophatingdating.com. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love!  In Episode 385 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating From a Place of Self-Love,” Kimmy peels back the layers of self-love and its radical impact on your dating life and beyond. She draws from her rich experience and client success stories to illuminate the path to loving yourself and, in turn, attracting the love. Her unique approach to coaching—melding dating expertise with personal development—offers you a roadmap to overcoming the hurdles in your love life. In this special episode, perfectly timed for a holiday that emphasizes love, Kimmy delves into why self-love for singles is essential not just for surviving this love-centric season, but for thriving in your pursuit of finding someone special. If you've ever felt disheartened by dating experiences or struggled with the cycle of seeking external validation, this conversation will highlight the importance of empowering yourself to attract what you want.  YOU'LL HEAR: A heartfelt story about a client's transformation from external validation to internal confidence. A discussion on the true difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and how this understanding can reshape your dating approach. Recognition and strategies to dismantle personal patterns that might be sabotaging your dating experiences. Five impactful tips that will equip you to date from a place of self-love, ensuring more meaningful, reciprocal relationships. If you struggle with confidence and self worth and it's affecting your dating life, hop on a private call with Kimmy to find where to start.  Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

Feeling insecure about your body image can shape your dating lives profoundly. In Episode 384 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Body Image & Divorce Shapes Your Dating Life: A Candid Talk with Erin Washington,” Kimmy chats with Erin Washington, a remarkable body image advocate, author of “Pain to Purpose,” and media personality with her own podcast, thERINpy, who has navigated a transformative journey from battling anorexia and bulimia to cultivating self-love and confidence. Erin's dedication led her to establish the Blue Butterfly Foundation, offering mentorship to teenage girls grappling with similar issues.  In this candid conversation, Kimmy and Erin delve into the intricate ways negative body image and divorce can seep into our dating lives, affecting self-worth, confidence, and relationship choices. Erin vulnerably shares her compelling journey, revealing how her identity was once tethered to achievements on the soccer field, and how quitting college soccer triggered a decade-long struggle with eating disorders. Tune in as this episode evolves into a powerful coaching session—building on the conversation from Erin's podcast, where Kimmy helps her navigate dating challenges and offers actionable mindset shifts for lasting confidence. Kimmy dissects the importance of sharing personal stories to heal from past issues and why practicing articulating emotions and desires in daily interactions improves communication skills in personal and romantic relationships.  You'll hear a surprising breakthrough Erin has never realized before around how her upbringing has been affecting who she attracts in relationships. If you struggle with your body image and insecurities which are stopping you from dating, hop on a private call with Kimmy to find where to start.  Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Do you feel confident in your body? Did you know your level of confidence in your body plays a huge part in your love life?  In Episode 382 of The Charisma Quotient, “How to Achieve Radiant Energy To Create Attraction: Interview with Regan Archibald,” Kimmy interviews Regan Archibald — a prominent peptide functional medicine and longevity specialist, known for helping over 70,000 clients enhance their health at East West Health. Reagan, an author of nine books and host of the Unreasonable Health podcast, brings his expertise to explore the vital link between physical well-being and self-confidence. Kimmy and Regan explore the symbiotic relationship between body confidence, attraction, and overall health. They discuss how hormonal imbalances and poor body image can create a 'love shield,' hindering genuine connections. Regan shares his journey from conventional Western medicine to a more integrative approach after overcoming his own health challenges, revealing how personalized health solutions can help you regain control over your life. You'll hear how feeling confident improves physical and mental well-being, which is attractive and why health changes can lead to tangible improvements in personal and professional life.  Listen in to hear Regan's inspiring story of a client who, against the odds, transformed her health and increased her confidence, leading her to meet her soulmate and start a family. A healthy body and mind can set the stage for attracting lasting love and happiness. If your health is affecting your love life, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of this funk.  Also, she has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February Kimmy is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  She only has 2 spots left but book a call to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

I am so happily married to my soulmate, who has been married 24 years. I can't even imagine what it would be like to return to the dating scene, but many people over 40 are back out there again. And so what do you do? Do you swipe right? Do you go to a singles bar? If you're wise, consult my friend Kimmy Seltzer, a dating and relationship expert.

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Are you still waiting for the right person to come along? The key to love could be expressing your true self! In Episode 381 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Vulnerability and Authenticity Led To Love: Where Are They Now with HeyJune,” Kimmy welcomes former client HeyJune, who shares her remarkable journey from dating frustration to finding love. HeyJune was in a cycle of “tornado” relationships– those who enter with intense passion but disappear just as quickly. Having been referred by a friend who experienced success through Kimmy's coaching, HeyJune was determined to break her pattern and meet the man right for her…which she did! Kimmy and HeyJune explore how self expression and setting boundaries became pivotal in her dating transformation. With courage and commitment, she embarked on a personal development journey to overcome her analytical nature and learn emotional openness. Tune in to hear Kimmy walk through the lessons she learned through coaching with her which led to the beautiful moment when she and her now-boyfriend felt an instant connection, culminating in meeting the family in just ten days.  You'll hear more on how to set boundaries, how to make decisions based on emotions without overanalyzing or disregarding your instincts and how practicing storytelling will lead to better dates. If you are having a hard time being open and breaking your pattern to find the right person for you, then hop into Kimmy's next co-ed interactive workshop, Fearless Dating:   Transform Your Love Life with Confidence and Authenticity to explore the exact strategies her most successful clients have used to overcome their dating fears, confidently express themselves and transform their dating story! Go to stophatingdating.com and sign up now.  But hurry, tickets go fast! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you ready to discover the keys to emotional availability and revamp your love life? In Episode 380 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mental Health & Dating: Interview with Amy Charlesworth,” Kimmy welcomes Amy Charlesworth, a veteran of military service turned mental health advocate and digital content creator. Amy's rich tapestry of experience, marked by the transition from military to civilian life and an inspiring path of personal growth, makes her an exceptional guest to shed light on overcoming emotional barriers when dating. Kimmy and Amy take a deep dive into the concept of the "love shield," where emotional defenses silently impact body language and communication, hindering intimate connections. They candidly discuss strategies to dismantle these subconscious barriers, drawing insights from Amy's personal journey of healing. Amy shares how the wisdom of thought leaders helped her uproot past patterns and transform negative self-talk into empowering affirmations. Together, they unravel the delicate process of shifting from hypervigilance and self-sabotage born of past insecurities to gradual vulnerability and openness in relationships.  Finally Kimmy emphasizes to approach dating with fun and openness and create a 'dating plan'. If you're ready to take down your love shield, coming up in February Kimmy is hosting a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

In this transformative episode of Unreasonable Health, Regan Archibald is joined by confidence therapist and image expert Kimmy Seltzer. Together, they explore the pivotal role of confidence and charisma in enhancing personal relationships and overall well-being. Kimmy shares her own journey from feeling invisible to rediscovering her self-worth through small yet impactful changes, like embracing bold fashion choices. She introduces her signature "Charisma Quotient" framework, breaking down style intelligence, emotional connection, and social savvy as tools to build magnetic energy. Whether you're seeking love, reigniting the spark in a long-term relationship, or simply boosting self-esteem, this episode provides actionable steps, from mindful body language to reigniting playfulness in everyday interactions. Don't miss the insights and inspiration to step into your best self.

Are you ready to redefine your self-perception and unleash the sexy side of you? In Episode 379 of The Charisma Quotient, “Sexy After 50 - Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Stephanie live on air on her struggles around dating.. With a life marked by achievements—juggling a demanding job, raising her daughter, and pursuing a PhD—Stephanie bravely opens up about her post-divorce dating challenges, body image issues, and the impact of menopause on her sexy confidence. Kimmy begins the episode on the difference between being sexy vs feminine and how it can influence your dating life.  In an engaging and heartfelt conversation, Kimmy guides Stephanie through the intricate layers of how her upbringing affected the way she sees herself as a “dateable” woman.  Kimmy helps her discover how her hangups around being sexy and feminine has held her back and caused fear around flirting.  Together, they explore the vital role of self-perception in confidence-building and how shifting one's mindset from feeling "cute" to "sexy" can revolutionize dating experiences. Listen in to hear Kimmy having Stephanie do a live exercise on air to help her overcome her limiting beliefs.  Kimmy introduces empowering exercises and homework assignments for her including visits to Home Depot, wearing sexy cowboy boots and saying affirmations in the mirror daily. If you're a woman looking to level up your dating game, coming up in February Kimmy is hosting a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Life has a way of throwing curveballs at you. It seems like when it rains it pours, which can feel even more true when you're single. But it doesn't always have to be that way. In Episode 378 of The Charisma Quotient, “Turning Challenges Into Love & Laughter: Interview with Greg Schwem,” Kimmy chats with comedian Greg Schwem. Greg draws from personal experiences, including navigating a painful divorce and overcoming a colon cancer diagnosis, to offer insights on how humor can become a crucial tool in personal reinvention. With his sharp wit and storytelling prowess, Greg provides a fresh perspective on turning life's adversities into subjects for love and  laughter. Throughout the conversation, Kimmy and Greg discuss the vital role of resilience and perspective in facing difficult situations. They explore practical strategies for maintaining a positive mindset in the dating world, highlighting the importance of authenticity over scripted humor. Together, they open up about the balance of vulnerability and comedy as key components of effective communication and connection. Greg entertains with a memorable dating mishap where a well-intended compliment is misinterpreted, showcasing how humor can diffuse awkward moments into delightful stories. Kimmy also shares an inspiring account of a woman who embraced her quirks, leading to improved dating experiences and success in her career. If you're a woman looking to level up your dating game, coming up in February Kimmy is hosting a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

If you look good, you feel good. When you feel good in your body and confident, that bleeds into your dating life. Feeling healthy can actually impact the way you approach dating and determines who you attract. In Episode 377 of The Charisma Quotient, “Health & Wellness:  Your Relationship With Yourself To Attract Love with Dr. Paul Savage,” Kimmy meets with Dr. Paul Savage, an esteemed former ER doctor who transitioned from traditional medicine to lead the way in innovative health care. Not only has Dr. Savage been at the forefront of hormone management and toxin reduction, but he has also personally experienced the health improvements he's helping others achieve. His unique journey from the ER to creating BodyLogic MD serves as a beacon of hope, inspiring you to redefine your own health narratives. In this episode, you'll gain insights into Dr. Savage's holistic five-month detox program and how it can improve your health and wellbeing. Additionally, Dr. Savage shares his personal story of overcoming adversity, highlighting how reaching a breaking point at age 45 led to profound personal transformation and success. Kimmy and Dr. Savage talks about the connection of feeling confident in your body which gives you the confidence to date.  You'll hear how the role hormone levels play in emotional and physical health, and how they impact confidence and wellbeing.  Listen in to hear the importance of addressing emotional and mental health struggles that can impact dating and relationships and the link between health, appearance, and confidence. If your health is affecting your love life, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of this funk.  Also, Kimmy has a unique opportunity for a few women who want to take it to the next level. Coming up in February she is doing a small intimate private retreat called Inner Spark and Soul Retreat focusing on nurturing the body, mind and soul.  Through curated activities, this transformative experience combines rejuvenating wellness practices, exploration of femininity energy and self care strategies inside and out.  Book a call with Kimmy to discuss what might be best for you to feel good inside and out. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣. Get a special offer to listeners on Dr. Savage's toxin test here: https://www.mdlifespan.com/kimmy Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you lack dating experience?  Maybe you are more of a relationship person or maybe you never really just “dated” and have a desire to be in a relationship but your fear of rejection is holding you back? In Episode 376 of The Charisma Quotient, “How To Date Without Fear: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches a woman LIVE about how to date without fear.  Sarah is an amazing woman, who opens up about her lack of dating experience due to bullying and turbulent college experiences. These encounters left her grappling with self-identity and confidence issues well into her adulthood, paralyzing in fear to date. Today, Sarah is determined to increase her self worth, learn how to embrace her femininity and bolster her emotional intelligence. In this episode, Kimmy starts by giving top road blocks that psychologically prevent people from dating.  Kimmy and Sarah then explore the internal challenges of overcoming negative past experiences and fears of rejection. They candidly discuss how childhood bullying and the absence of male friendships shaped Sarah's guarded demeanor and her struggle to express personal needs. This conversation is rich with actionable strategies for embracing feminine energy, such as experimenting with social settings without the pressure of dating. Kimmy offers the intriguing practice of a "dating mission statement," which focuses away from finding a partner to fostering social confidence and building dating and flirting skills.  Feel inspired to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and confidence-building? Book a free call with Kimmy today: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

In a world of constantly ever-changing technology and social rules, it can be challenging to know when and how to approach women. And for women, it can be difficult to know where to go to find men. In Episode 375 of The Charisma Quotient, “Uncovering Dating Truths: Social Dynamics, Attraction, and Confidence with Michael Sartain,” Kimmy sits down with Michael Sartain. Known for his distinguished career as a retired US military officer and a prominent figure in high-status networking, Michael offers a trove of insights grounded in evolutionary psychology and firsthand social strategy.  In this episode, Kimmy and Michael unpack the evolution of social dynamics in this modern dating era. They scrutinize the impact of social media and address the skewed gender ratios in social venues. Together, they explore the critical influence of social status, leadership, and authenticity in cultivating attraction, while also addressing the fear and polarization that plagues today's dating scene.  Listen in to hear tips on how to enhance your attractiveness online, the difference between narcissism and confidence and the biggest mistakes men make when trying to create attraction.   If you struggle to put yourself out there with confidence, Join Kimmy's Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event December 11. But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching, direct feedback from the opposite sex and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. There are only a few spots left for this VIP-ONLY experience.  Go to this link to register: https://www.stophatingdating.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Remember a time when finding a date was as easy as asking the girl next door? When people would pick up a rotary phone to call each other up? In the modern world of dating, there are numerous challenges that come up with new choices we didn't have before. In Episode 374 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Modern World To Find Love: Interview with Allison Raskin,” Kimmy chats with Allison – a New York Times bestselling author, mental health advocate, and comedian who knows a thing or two about navigating modern love. From her beginnings as a TV comedy writer to creating profound content centered on relationships and mental health, Allison's journey is as dynamic as the insights she shares. Her book, "I Do, I Think," tackles the nuances of modern marriage for Gen Z, millennials and beyond. In this episode, Kimmy and Allison engage in a powerful conversation about redefining traditional notions of marriage and partnership. They explore questions such as: What role does communication have in navigating shared and separate interests? And, in a world proliferated by dating apps and social media, how does one find genuine compatibility without succumbing to dating fatigue?  You'll hear the importance of self-care and maintaining individuality within partnerships and why older and younger generations have differing views on marriage and partnerships.  These two explore how to reframe divorce as a learning experience and ways to overcome dating fatigue. If you are having a hard time navigating the modern dating world join Kimmy's Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December to brush up on your dating and flirting skills.  But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don't miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience. https://www.stophatingdating.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Simon Conway's interview with Kimmy Seltzer during Wednesday's third hour.

Dating after a loss can feel daunting. You feel like you've already found the one and now you've lost that part of yourself. Plus the dating scene has completely changed. In Episode 373 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating After Loss: Finding Love In The Golden Years with Kym Douglas,” Kimmy sits down with the multi-talented Kym Douglas, a vibrant television host, author, comedian, and lifestyle expert. Known for her infectious humor and resilience, Kym opens up about her empowering journey through personal loss and her path to finding love again. In this episode, Kimmy and Kym delve deep into the common fears and misconceptions surrounding dating later in life, especially after the loss of a partner. They candidly discuss Kym's fear of not being "pretty enough," grappling with rejection, and overcoming perfectionism—all hurdles faced by many re-entering the romantic world.  Listen in to hear Kimmy uncover some surprising breakthroughs for Kym as she learns how her relationship with her mother, perfectionism and fear are all affecting her dating life now.  Hear how Kimmy coaches Kym in the end to start putting herself out there to flirt and empowering her to start meeting other singles on her own.  If you are struggling to put yourself out there and find love and fun after loss, join Kimmy's Virtual Holiday Speed Dating event this December.  But hurry spots are limited! This is a LIVE, interactive, co-ed event that combines coaching and speed dating for an unforgettable experience. Don't miss your chance to be part of this VIP-ONLY experience. https://www.stophatingdating.com Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you watching Joan's journey on The Golden Bachelorette and feeling inspired to get back out there? In Episode 372 of The Charisma Quotient, “Surprising Lessons Learned from The Golden Bachelorette,” Kimmy does a deep dive into the transformative world of dating after 40, offering wisdom and warmth to empower you on your journey. In this episode, Kimmy unravels the secrets to reigniting confidence and injecting a sense of playfulness into dating at any age. She walks through the major takeaways she's found from watching Joan and the men on The Golden Bachelorette. So many of the men walk away feeling reinvigorated with hope after meeting Joan and forming a brotherhood with the other men on the show. Kimmy explains why having that form of community can be a huge game changer when it comes to getting back out there. Through heartfelt stories and practical advice, Kimmy illustrates key tips to date with confidence in the golden years.  You'll hear valuable lessons from "The Golden Bachelorette," including the surprise value of vulnerability and emotional connection, the power of "data dating" and how intentional, strategic dating can revolutionize your love life and why overcoming fears and reframing your mindset about dating is essential. If you are dating in the second act and you have no idea where to go, what to do or how to be..book a private call with Kimmy to help you map out a dating plan to get you motivated to get out there here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Dating later in life? Dating after 40 feels different than it did in your 20s. In Episode 371 of The Charisma Quotient, “Top 5 Mistakes When Dating Over 40”, Kimmy lays out all of the top blunders people make when they start dating later. In this episode, Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life.  She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Kimmy tackles the unique challenges and abundant opportunities that accompany dating and socializing in life's "second act," offering invaluable insights into the mindset shifts needed to fully embrace this chapter of life.  You'll hear the secrets to bringing playfulness back into your dating life and why it's the key to creating genuine connections.  Kimmy explains why old-fashioned dating rules no longer apply and how to embrace proactive, modern dating approaches.  She also uncovers how to rediscover the joy of flirting.  This episode is packed with practical strategies that will encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and nurture your dating confidence. If you have challenges putting yourself out there and relate to any of these mistakes, then sign up for a free personal strategy call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Is your overthinking sabotaging your dating life? In Episode 370 of The Charisma Quotient, “From Overthinking to Engaging: Coaching With Kimmy”, Kimmy does a live coaching session with Patrick - a man who's ready to get back out there but his overthinking is stopping him from finding success.  In this episode, Kimmy engages Patrick in a thought-provoking conversation, spotlighting the importance of expressing feelings over thoughts in social interactions. She gives him strategies to overcome the paralysis of overthinking—whether it's letting go of expectations, embracing the playful side early in interactions, or redefining rejection as a growth experience. Patrick candidly reflects on his upbringing and the influence it has on his present-day relationships. Patrick's story of missing a romantic connection on a flight due to hesitation shows the consequences of overanalyzing opportunities. They also discuss his insight into balancing traditional masculinity with modern relationship dynamics, offering a fresh perspective on emotional authenticity. Sign up for Kimmy's brand new workshop, Conversation Hacks That Convert To Dates on Wednesday October 30 at 4pm PST/7pm EST. This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. Just click the link to register www.stophatingdating.com but hurry, spots fill up fast! Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Ever wondered why falling in love for a man feels different than falling in love for a woman? In Episode 369 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How Men and Women Date Differently: Interview with John Gray”, Kimmy interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. He is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. In this episode, Kimmy and John delve into the paradoxes and gender dynamics that can either make or break a relationship. Discover why reconciling the balances of giving and receiving love is crucial and how women can inspire long-lasting effort from their partners without resorting to demands. They dissect key stages of relationship development, offering insights on maintaining romance and intimacy over time. John shares a story of an early date where a single compliment on a sunset led to a deeper connection, emphasizing the power of positive reinforcement. And you'll hear Kimmy's reflections on modern femininity and proactive flirting, which can radically shift your approach to love. If you are having a hard time finding the right man or woman for you, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you take the next step to find love here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you a dating overthinker? Maybe you're an amazing student - you've read every book, listened to every podcast, and heard all of the dating advice. But when you go on a date, you're stuck in your head and can't even make a move. In Episode 368 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How To Get Out Of Your Head and Stop Overthinking”, Kimmy will teach you to get out of your head to stay present and date successfully.  In this episode, Kimmy will teach you how to get out of your head with easy, practical tips that you can start doing today. She shares an inspiring story of a male client who conquered his tendency towards "theory dating" and embraced action over introspection, ultimately finding success in the dating world. Kimmy also shares a personal anecdote about a pivotal moment in her own life, where letting go of overanalysis opened the doors to unexpected opportunities and deeper connections. If you are stuck in your head and need help being more present to create opportunities, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you take baby steps towards building that confidence to find the right love for you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you struggling to break free from past relationship patterns and yearning for personal growth? In Episode 367 of The Charisma Quotient, “: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy does a live coaching call with Diane “Overcoming Negative Patterns and Dating Without Fear - a resilient 69-year-old woman, navigating the journey of self-discovery after a lifetime of troubled relationships. Diane's compelling tale starts with meeting her former partners through mutual connections, leading to painful, controlling relationships and a journey about reclaiming her independence and self-worth. In this episode, Kimmy coaches Diane as she opens up about her transformative move to a new city, where she built a new life, social circle, and unearthed a newfound sense of independence. Diane bravely shares her struggles with self-esteem, communication, and her resolve to approach dating with a fresh perspective, sparking an inspiring dialogue with Kimmy about embracing self-love first. Discover Diane's powerful realization about the influence of her upbringing on her communication skills and relationship choices, and how she aspires to break free from old patterns. Kimmy talks through practical tips to get out of the cycle of bad relationships and how to move back into dating in a healthy way.  You'll hear secrets to boosting your self-esteem, flirting and intentional dating in order to take control of your dating life. If fear is getting in the way of putting yourself out there, then book a private call with Kimmy to help you get past fear and take baby steps towards building that confidence to find the right love for you here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.  Ask about her next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Ever wondered how the health of your smile could be the key to unlocking your confidence and transforming your love life? In Episode 366 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of a Healthy Smile and Attitude: Interview with Dr. Rad” Kimmy dives into this unexpected yet fascinating topic with the incredibly knowledgeable and charismatic Dr. Rad. He is an international speaker on sleep apnea, snoring, low level laser therapy, marketing, medical billing and men's mental health. He is a practicing dentist of 22 years. He has a passion for speaking that includes personal development and strategies that help anyone manifest the life of their dreams. In this episode, Kimmy and Dr. Rad discuss the often-overlooked impact of oral hygiene on your overall attractiveness and confidence. Learn how a bright, healthy smile can dramatically improve your dating life and first impressions. They also delve into the often-undetected issue of sleep apnea and its wide-ranging effects on mood, energy levels, and relationship dynamics. Listen in to hear the role of sleep in your emotional and physical well-being and the importance of self-acceptance and how it can reduce judgment towards others.  Dr. Rad shares practical advice on improving your oral health, from essential hygiene practices to critical dental interventions. Prepare to be inspired by stories and real-life transformations highlighting the powerful, sometimes life-changing role of good health habits. And if your health and wellbeing is affecting your dating life and stopping you from putting yourself out there, then hop on a personal call with Kimmy to help you come up with some strategies to get you unstuck.  Just book that here now https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.  Ask about her next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

What do you think of when you hear the word flirting? Does the very word fill you with fear? Flirting doesn't have to be so scary. It can actually be playful and fun. In Episode 365 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of Playfulness: Where Are They Now with Sandra” Kimmy brings on Sandra, an accomplished professional who battled with the nuances of modern dating for over a decade. Sandra came to Kimmy seeking a transformative approach to her dating life, struggling to connect emotionally despite her natural social skills and professional success.  But after working with Kimmy, she met a great guy! In this episode, Kimmy and Sandra discuss the pivotal moments and strategies that led Sandra to rethink her approach to flirting and dating to meeting a great guy she is currently dating!   From Sandra's initial fear of sending the wrong signals through flirting to adopting a playful, natural style in her interactions, the conversation unveils how breaking away from a business-like demeanor allowed Sandra to form authentic connections and landing her man IRL. You'll hear how to overcome the fear of sending the wrong signals, practical tips on balancing analytical thinking with emotional feeling to enrich your social interactions and how to rethink flirtation as natural playfulness.  Sandra shares her experiences working with Kimmy, including the paradigm-shifting advice to embrace her femininity and slow down during interactions, which counterintuitively sped up her ability to form deep emotional bonds. If you are having a hard time meeting potential dates in the wild and putting yourself out there, Kimmy's next interactive co-ed workshop is coming up, Unleashing Your Sexy Confidence where you will learn the art of attraction and chemistry and owning your femininity and masculinity.  Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register as spots go fast! And if you really want to take action and take it one step further, then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Ever wish you could sprinkle a little bit of magic and manifest the man or woman of your dreams? In Episode 364 of The Charisma Quotient, “Designing Your Dream Partner: Interview with Saul Blinkoff” Kimmy Seltzer sits down with award-winning director, producer, and motivational speaker, Saul Blinkoff. Saul is a Hollywood producer who works for many high-profile clients including Disney, Dreamworks, Netflix, and more. He is an empowering Life Coach and Podcast Host of the motivational podcast LIFE of AWESOME! In this episode, Kimmy and Saul delve into the universal themes of responsibility, greatness, and purposeful living as exemplified by Simba's journey in "The Lion King." They explore how creating the best version of you is the key to designing the love life you want.  Saul shares why he believes that living with purpose trumps chasing happiness and talks about aligning your relationships with your life goals.  You'll hear  how aligning your life goals with your relationships can lead to a more supportive and growth-oriented partnership and why finding a deeper sense of purpose will lead you to a more fulfilling life than simply chasing fleeting happiness.  The importance of loving yourself before you expect others to love you is really highlighted in this episode and  filled with inspiration and actionable insights! If you are tired of not attracting the right people in your life, then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you feeling stuck after a long-term relationship? Does going back in the dating game make you feel guarded and nervous?  In Episode 363 of The Charisma Quotient, “Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Pearl” Kimmy's client Pearl talks about the huge growth she's had in her confidence and dating life since attending a virtual workshop with Kimmy.  In this episode, Kimmy and Pearl discuss the challenges of expressing feelings after a shut-down marriage, overcoming anxiety, and the transformative power of setting boundaries and self-advocacy. They also explore the importance of personal growth in changing one's perspective on relationships, as well as finding joy in the dating process. Through coaching and inner work, Pearl redefined her dating experience and found a deep, emotional connection she never thought possible. And if you're ready to start your journey to love, then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you ready to turn up the heat and reclaim your sexy after 40? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different!  But that doesn't mean that it can't be fun. In Episode 362 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes” Kimmy dives into the most common mistakes she sees her clients making and how you can avoid them. In this episode, Kimmy discusses key insights on why dating after 40 is different, the importance of updating your mindset, managing realistic expectations, and dispelling old-fashioned dating rules. She also dives into the impact of lacking flirtation and playfulness, and how it can hinder your dating journey. Kimmy shares engaging anecdotes and success stories from her coaching experience, proving that with the right approach, finding love and happiness after 40 is absolutely within reach. And, she shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date.  And if you're ready to get back out there, then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Do you have dating anxiety? You like the idea of a relationship but putting yourself out there to meet someone feels risky and causes a lot of fear.   In Episode 361 of The Charisma Quotient, “Taking Risks When Dating:  Where Are They Now with Paul” Kimmy's client Paul shares how he went from struggling with confidence and emotional connections to finding the love of his life by simply opening himself up and putting himself out there. In this episode, Kimmy and Paul engage in an insightful conversation, discussing the skills he gained during his coaching  and style sessions with Kimmy. They explore the empowering nature of taking risks and being vulnerable, highlighting Paul's funny story of how he learned to meet women at Whole Foods. You'll hear the importance of facing fears and taking steps to overcome them, Paul's transformation from fear of rejection to vulnerability and confidence and how to move past low self-confidence and surface-level conversations.  The episode ends with the heartwarming story of how his confidence grew by talking to everybody and building a social network which led to meeting the love of his life.   If you have a hard time putting yourself out there and taking risks, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com   And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you tired of the endless swiping and superficial interactions on dating apps? Do you long for the days where you could meet someone in person?  In Episode 360 of The Charisma Quotient, “Ditch The Dating Apps And Meet IRL,” Kimmy delves into the world of real-life connections and the lost art of flirting in person. She shares riveting anecdotes of individuals transitioning from disillusionment with digital dating to finding love through sincere real-life encounters and gives tangible tips on how you can too. In this episode, Kimmy shares success stories of going out with clients who believed the days of meeting people in real life were over and transforming them into flirtatious, charismatic daters who aren't afraid to approach people. She talks about the power of initiating conversations and not being afraid to put yourself out there.  Kimmy outlines simple actions you can take to meet people IRL.  You'll hear about the significance of saying "hi" and sharing intimate details to foster meaningful connections, steps to maintain open body language and position yourself for potential interactions and tips on where to meet people.  Kimmy shares how to address the concerns and anxieties about re-entering the dating world after a long absence If you are feeling lost on how to meet people in the wild, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com   And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

My guest is Kimmy Seltzer, Confidence Therapist, sharing the essentials for developing authentic attractiveness. The power of vibrant, solid colors. About beards, heels, and those awful Duck Lips. Join us. 

Does dating often leave you feeling detached? In today's world where social media and online dating are everywhere, it can feel impossible to have an authentic dating experience, especially in real life. In Episode 359 of The Charisma Quotient, “Stop Detached Dating: Interview with Steve Sims,” Kimmy sits down with the incredibly witty and insightful Steve Sims, a master in the art of building genuine relationships. Steve has a fascinating journey from a nightclub doorman to the founder of the world's first experiential concierge firm including a private dinner party at the feet of Michelangelo's David where Andrea Bocelli serenaded guests. In this episode, Kimmy and Steve unravel the secrets to navigating the modern dating landscape, from shifting mindsets to embracing rejection as a learning process. They discuss how even as an introvert, you can find connection and get something out of even your bad dates. From embracing rejection as a catalyst for growth to being fully present and giving in to social interactions, they shed light on why dating with intention and a positive mindset leads to more success. If you want help overcoming fears and challenges of meeting people in the wild in person, Kimmy has just the workshop for you coming up soon on Aug 28 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life). This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. It's more than just about dating – it's about changing the way you mingle, present yourself, and connect daily so you can date with confidence. Just click the link you see in the show notes to register or go to www.stophatingdating.com     And if you want to take it one step further and learn how to meet people IRL in real life then check out Kimmy's next retreat called Dating IRL coming up in October.  If you are interested go to askkimmy.com and inquire about it or book a call directly here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you date from a place of fear? Maybe your past trauma is informing the way you go about not only dating but how you live your life. Meet Kim, an amazing woman who overcame her fears of dating and financial struggles after attending a dating retreat with Kimmy.  In Episode 358 of The Charisma Quotient, “Face Your Dating Fears: Where Are They Now with Kim,” Kim shares how finding happiness from the outside - in gave her permission to attract a new man in her life. In this episode, Kimmy dives into Kim's transformation from being the woman who couldn't even watch herself in a video and was hiding from the world to the woman who loves herself and is willing to take risks and bold action. Kim shares her personal story of how going through a divorce had done damage to her self-esteem leading her to be intense and fearful. After attending Kimmy's dating retreat and working with her, she was able to identify the fears she had that she wasn't even aware of. The retreat launched her into her new self - a woman who is confident and goes out and does what she loves. And her confidence has now led her to find love! If you're ready to face your dating fears and want to attend a dating retreat like Kim did, inquire by going to askkimmy.com to set up a call.  Or if you want a free private coaching session to discover other ways Kimmy can help you conquer your fears and become a dating magnet, book a call here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Ever wondered what kind of dater you are?  Maybe you tend to be stuck in the friendzone or maybe you attract unavailable partners.  What if you knew that there are common challenges people have when dating and specific ways you can overcome them to attract who you want?  In Episode 357 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What is Your Dating Archetype?,” Kimmy goes over her five dating archetypes which will let you know where you fit in the dating world.  In this episode, Kimmy breaks down each of her dating archetypes and lets you know where you might fall. By figuring out your dating archetype, you'll be able to learn how to work through your dating patterns to get a different result. It's not about being pigeonholed - finding your archetype is about pushing through past traumas that are holding you back from finding success in your dating life.  You'll hear Kimmy reveal the signs and characteristics of being in the friend zone, how past trauma influences dating behaviors and how learning your dating archetype can get you to break patterns of toxic dating.    If you want to know what kind of dater you are and how to improve your results take the Dating Archetype Quiz here https://form.jotform.com/231376592380157 Ready to embark on a transformative journey to redefine your dating approach? Set up a free breakthrough call with Kimmy https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you an anxious or avoidant dater? Knowing your attachment style can help you know when your anxiety might be hurting your dating life and affect your love life overall. In Episode 356 of The Charisma Quotient, “Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson,” Kimmy sits down with Thais Gibson, the owner of Personal Development School and author of “Learning Love”, to talk about the importance of learning your attachment style - whether it's anxious, avoidant, or secure and how knowing your style will help you find success in your love life.  In this episode, Kimmy and Thais delve into the core of attachment theory, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, communication, and the impact of core wounds on relationships. Thais' journey of self-healing and the power of neuroplasticity in reprogramming attachment styles will leave you inspired and hopeful for your own transformation. You'll leave knowing what your attachment style is and what to watch out for when it comes to love. If you are struggling with your love life due to your attachment style, learn to uncover practical tools and invaluable insights for rewiring your style with Kimmy's next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating.  You'll learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that are sabotaging who you are attracting in your life. Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you attracting the wrong people? You've spent so much time learning how to attract someone but the ones you like aren't into you and the ones you don't like are!  In Episode 355 of The Charisma Quotient, “Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy sits down with Tejas and does a LIVE coaching session with her around the perplexing challenge of attracting men she's not interested in while struggling to draw in those she truly desires.    In this episode, Tejas opens up to Kimmy about dating expectations in India and how that has impacted her love life. They talk about how coming from a culture of arranged marriages can create a lot of confusion when it comes to dating on your own and looking for a partner. Tejas shares the 3 things she's looking for in a man which Kimmy reveals might be part of the problem.  Tune in to hear how Kimmy uncovers the truth of why Tejas isn't attracting or connecting with the men she thinks she wants.  HINT:  It has nothing to do with the men.  You'll hear more topics around reasons why you might not attract someone you're attracted to, how to prioritize emotional connection over rushing to find a partner and the importance of acknowledging personal and emotional growth and self worthiness. If you are looking at breaking some patterns of who you are attracting then you'll definitely want to come to Kimmy's next co-ed interactive workshop happening July 24 called Authentic Dating to learn how to express yourself differently and get over some subconscious fears you might have that is sabotaging who you are attracting in your life.  Just go to www.stophatingdating.com and register now as spots go fast.    Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais welcomes Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, Image Exper, and host of “The Charisma Quotient Podcast” Kimmy Seltzer for an insightful discussion on dating confidence, the essence of flirting, and the power of non-verbal cues. Tune in to hear Kimmy's inspiring “red dress moment” story and discover helpful tips on simple yet effective things you can do to boost your dating confidence in no time.  Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, and Image Expert. With vast knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success, and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style and emotional and social intelligence in people's lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe, and flirting and how it impacts attraction. https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/ Cut your wireless bill to just $15 a month by using the link below: http://mintmobile.com/Thais Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/  Connect with Kimmy  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimmyseltzer/ YouTube: https://youtube.com/KimmySeltzer LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimmyseltzer/ TikTok: @kimmyseltzer

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