Beyond Great Sex

Is shame, guilt, self-consciousness, or dread keeping you from the sex you want to have?What if it doesn't have to?In this episode, I'm breaking down why conflicting emotions are not a sign that something is wrong—and why you don't have to wait until you feel "perfectly okay" to experience pleasure. We'll talk about:· Why emotions like shame, guilt, and self-consciousness show up—and how they try to “protect” you· How to move through negative emotions instead of trying to change them· The key mindset shift that will help you reclaim your pleasure nowHit play to learn how!FREE course on how to create lasting desire in your relationship: https://www.morganehorn.com/accessturnedonCoaching Offers: www.morganehorn.com/getcoached Pleasured Programme: https://www.morganehorn.com/pleasuredMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_  

What if the way you see your body is the very thing holding you back from the intimacy, confidence, and pleasure you deserve?For years, I believed my body was the problem. I thought I had to change it before I could feel sexy, desired, or fully free in intimacy. I was wrong.In this episode, we're diving deep into how your relationship with your body shapes your sex life—and how to start rewriting that relationship today.You'll learn:→ Why negative body image doesn't just affect your confidence—it impacts your libido and pleasure.→ The real reason so many women struggle with a low libido.→ Why waiting to feel beautiful is stealing your pleasure—and what to do instead.→ A powerful daily practice to start shifting how you see and experience your body.If you've ever felt like your body is holding you back—this episode is for you.Let's change the way you see yourself, so you can finally live your life.FREE course on how to create lasting desire in your relationship: https://www.morganehorn.com/accessturnedonPleasured Programme: www.morganehorn.com/pleasured Pleasure Plan Session: Book a sessionMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_  

If you've ever felt like your desire is unpredictable, inconsistent, or just… gone, this episode is for you. I'm sharing five powerful lessons that completely changed the way I see desire—lessons that will help you stop chasing it, start understanding it, and actually cultivate more of it in your life and relationship. If you've ever wondered, 'Why don't I want sex like I used to?' or 'Is something wrong with me?'—hit play. Let's talk.FREE course on how to create lasting desire in your relationship: https://www.morganehorn.com/accessturnedonCoaching Offers: www.morganehorn.com/getcoached Pleasure Plan Session: Book a sessionMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_  

Ever find yourself pulling away from your partner—not because you don't love them, but because every hug, kiss, or touch feels like it comes with an expectation? You're not alone.In this episode, we're unpacking why this happens, why it's not just about your partner always wanting sex, and—most importantly—how to break free from this cycle so you can enjoy physical closeness again without the pressure.If you've been avoiding touch because it feels like a trap, this episode will change the way you see intimacy. Hit play!FREE course on how to create lasting desire in your relationship: https://www.morganehorn.com/accessturnedonCoaching Offers: www.morganehorn.com/getcoached Pleasure Plan Session: Book a sessionMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_  

What happens when you're the one with the higher libido in your relationship? If you've ever felt frustrated, rejected, or wondered if something is wrong because your partner isn't matching your desire, this episode is for you.We're breaking down the truth about libido mismatches, why men aren't always ‘in the mood' (despite what society tells us), and what's actually happening when your partner turns you down.You'll learn how to stop taking it personally, understand what's preventing your partner from feeling desire, and discover practical ways to bridge the gap—so you can navigate intimacy with more ease, connection, and confidence.If you're tired of feeling stuck, frustrated, or questioning your desirability—hit play now. This conversation is going to change everything.My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ Coaching Offers: www.morganehorn.com/getcoached Pleasure Plan Session: Book a session 

Ever feel stuck in your sex life—like you want to want sex, but you can't seem to find the ON button? You're not broken, and your libido isn't ‘gone'—you might just be in the wrong emotional room. In this episode, I introduce you to the concept of your Emotional Floorplan, a game-changing way to understand what's fuelling or blocking your desire. Whether stress, resentment, or mental overload is hitting your brakes, this episode will help you recognise where you are—and what can bring you closer to turn-on. Trust me, this will change the way you see intimacy forever. Click play and let's dive in!Resources:Book Come Together by Emilie NagoskiMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_ Coaching Offers: www.morganehorn.com/getcoached Pleasure Plan Session: Book a session 

In this episode, we're tackling a tough question: Why was the sex with an ex—who wasn't good for you—so incredible, and now that you've met the "right" person for you, it's just… different? You might feel bad, wondering if something's wrong with you, or if you're with the right person. Don't worry, I've got you covered! We'll break down what's really happening and by the end, you'll see your relationship in a whole new light.My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Do you struggle to feel sensual? In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of sensuality with a real-life example from a session with a client, Leila. Join me as I challenge societal norms and guide you to explore sensuality as a personal, internal experience. Discover how you can tap into your sensual energy by understanding the sensations in your body and engaging in activities that make you feel alive and vibrant. Whether sensuality is new territory for you or you're seeking to reconnect with it, this episode offers a fresh perspective that just might change everything. Get ready to redefine what sensuality means to you and learn practical ways to embrace it in your everyday life. Tune in and start your journey towards a more empowered, sensual self!My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Struggling to find time for intimacy in your relationship? You're not alone. The idea of putting sex on the calendar might make you cringe—but could there be hidden benefits? In this episode, I dive into the often controversial topic of scheduling sex. Why do some people swear by it while others resist the very thought? I explore the common hesitations and share insights that might just change your perspective. Plus, I give you my top 5 tips to ensure that when you do schedule intimacy, it leads to more pleasure, fun, and connection than ever before.My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Let's work on making your relationship feel like new again! How does that sound!?I know that many of you struggle to keep things sexy in the long run. And I understand how disheartening it can feel to be with someone you love, yet to feel like the spark has gone, like you're in a rut, always having the same kind of sex, feeling like there is nothing new and exciting anymore, that meh feeling…So to help you with that, in today's episode I share with you one skill you can practice to make your relationship feel fresh again. And I give you five easy ways in which you can apply this concept right away and start immediately observing shifts in how you perceive your partner and how you feel about your relationship.My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Email: coach@morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Do you ever feel like you are responsible for all that isn't going well in your intimacy with your partner? Like you need to change or "fix" yourself because it is your fault that things aren't as they could be?If so, you definitely want to listen in on today's episode where I share with you the advice I gave to my client, Sylvia, who thought that she was ruining everything in her relationship with her husband because of past sexual trauma. Spoiler alert: that is not how she thinks anymore

I hear a lot of women say that they would be fine never having sex again, including some of my clients who often initially seek my help to salvage their relationship, but if it were really up to them they'd be ok never having sex again. Sounds familiar? In today's episode I tell you the very simple reason why you do not want sex. Spoiler alert, it is not because something is wrong with you or because you are broken somehow. Listen in to find out why.Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Let's talk about erectile dysfunction! This is yet again a far too taboo subject given how common it is among penis owners. I know how challenging it can be for both partners when your man struggles with his erection. So today I'm teaching you what causes erectile dysfunction and what both you and your partner can do to solve it.Resources:Study Impotence and its medical and psychosocial correlates: results of the Massachusetts Male Aging StudyStudy A multinational population survey of intravaginal ejaculation latency timeStudy Differences in Orgasm Frequency Among Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men and Women in a U.S. National SampleStudy Recent advances in the understanding and management of erectile dysfunctionMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

This week I was a guest on Rebecca Ore's podcast, Master Your Relationship Mind Drama. We covered things like:Navigating differences in sex-drivesWhat is the 'right' amount to be having sex?Does it matter who initiates?How to keep passion alive in long-term relationshipsAnd how to feel sexy and desirable, regardless of what our partner is doing (or not doing) If you're having mind drama in (or out) of the bedroom - this episode is for you! Find out more about Rebecca: Master Your Relationship Mind Drama podcast:  https://www.rebeccaorecoaching.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccaorecoachingWebsite:  https://www.rebeccaorecoaching.com/Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

In this episode I share with you four simple yet powerful practices I like to do to get myself into the energy I want to be in at the start of the year. If you want to create change in your intimacy and make 2024 the year you have the best sex of your life, this episode is a fun way to start!Download your free workbook to HERE to choose your Sex & Intimacy Word of the year. Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Here we are, the episode that I know so many of you were waiting for... Let's talk about menopause and sex! This is such a hot topic for me… hot in every meaning of the word – hot cause it's about women and sex (and what's not hot about that!?) but also hot in the sense that it's a burning topic that we need to address, that we need to demystify, that we need to rethink completely… I get extremely lit up by the subject because I think that the way we approach intimacy and women who age is representative of everything that is wrong with society! Spoiler alert, I may get overtly passionate/borderline angry as I record this episode (!) but I'm also hopeful that things are evolving, and hopefully this podcast episode will play a role in opening some minds and shedding a different light on the subject…Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Have you been struggling with your sex-drive and been told it's probably hormonal? Have you tried taking oestrogen, DHEA or even testosterone, without any improvement on your libido? In today's episode I explain to you why your hormones are unlikely to be responsible for your lack of sexual desire, and what else is likely going on for you.Resources:Basson, “Biopsychosocial models of women's sexual response: applications to management of ‘desire disorders'”Brotto, “Predictors of sexual desire disorders in women”My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Would you love to be able to access your desire on demand at all times? To have a switch that you can just flick and turn yourself on in a matter of seconds? What if I told you that it is possible? Sounds too good to be true? Listen to today's episode to find out about my secret ingredient for a high sex-drive, always. And no, I'm not selling you a magic pill that will make you want to have sex all day every day... It's way cooler than that! My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

In the last episode of the podcast, we discussed the science behind your nervous system and how to identify if a lack of emotional and/or physical safety is coming in the way of your enjoyment of sex. We saw how, not feeling physically or emotionally safe can totally kill your libido, your desire for intimacy altogether, your pleasure, and why it makes it almost impossible for you to reach an orgasm… In this episode I tell you how you can create that deep sense of physical and emotional safety, so that you can open up, let go, and fully enjoy sex!   My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com 

Are you ready to talk about emotional and physical safety and sex? I know it doesn't sound like a very sexy topic, but it probably is going to be one of the most important episodes of the podcast, ever… Cause without safety there can be no pleasure. And helping you create more pleasure in your life is what this podcast is all about… So trust me, you want to listen in on this one!   My Instagram account: @morganehorn_My Website: www.morganehorn.com Send me your podcast review at: coach@morganehorn.com 

Do you struggle having an orgasm with your partner, yet you are able to get there on your own? In this episode I take you through the three most common reasons why that might be. I will give you a hint: it is NOT because you are broken. Trust me. This is a very common issue for women. I struggled with this for years and wish someone had told me then what I'm going to tell you in today's episode. You don't want to miss this! Resources: Study Differences in Orgasm Frequency Among Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men and Women in a U.S. National Sample  Study Women's Experiences With Genital Touching, Sexual Pleasure, and Orgasm: Results From a U.S. Probability Sample of Women Ages 18 to 94  Study Time to Orgasm in Women in a Monogamous Stable Heterosexual Relationship  Study A multinational population survey of intravaginal ejaculation latency time   Study “Did You Come?” A Qualitative Exploration of Gender Differences in Beliefs, Experiences, and Concerns Regarding Female Orgasm Occurrence During Heterosexual Sexual Interactions”  My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Work with me: Book a session 

Wanting to learn how to initiate sex is on most of my clients' wishlists when they hire me. In this episode I tell you all about initiating. I give you practical tips, but most importantly, I teach you about the mindset approach to initiating sex. Listen to this episode to find out about the five most common reasons why people don't initiate sex, and what to do about it. Resources: Free course on sexual desire: Turned-on: How to Create Lasting Desire in Your Relationship Questionnaire for Turn-on Initiation Preference: Development and Initial Reliability and Validation, by Petra ZebroffMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com 

This week I discuss how fear of rejection and people pleasing affect our sex lives. Not only is fear of rejection a cause of pain, frustration and dissatisfaction for many, it can also put us in danger if we don't know how to identify it and navigate it. Luckily for you, I give you the tools just for that in this episode! Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

As women, we have all been either on the receiving end of slut-shaming, on the giving end, (meaning we've judged or criticised other women), or both! In this episode I explore the causes of this paradox and offer some thoughts on how we can evolve in our collective journey and stop this pattern which, among other things, impacts our enjoyment of our sexuality, our sexual freedom and our pleasure.Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

Do you struggle communicating your sexual desires to your partner? This week, I share with you my best practical and actionable tools for constructive and effective communication, and specifically as they relate to sex. You will learn easy steps that you can immediately implement in your relationship to start  communicating you wants and needs in a way that is more likely to create the results that you want. Resources: 5 Steps to Figuring Out What to Do When Your Partner Does Not Satisfy You Workbook My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

This week we continue our conversation on how to communicate our sexual needs, wants, desires, to our partner. We look closer at heterosexual couples and explore a fear many women have of "undermining" or "emasculating" their male partner if they share what's on their mind. In this episode, you will learn about the internalised beliefs you might have developed by evolving in a patriarchal society. And I give you tools to break this pattern and allow yourself to be 100% you.Resources: Do Women Withhold Honest Sexual Communication When They Believe Their Partner's Manhood is Threatened? Man Enough: Undefining My Masculinity, by Justin BaldoniMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

In this week's episode, I address a question that comes up all the time in sessions, that is: “how do I communicate what I want to my partner?” I share with you the most common reasons why women struggle in saying what they want sexually, and specifically the fear of hurting their partner's feelings. I walk you through why that might be a fear of yours and tell you how you can break this pattern.  Resources: Women's Sexual Satisfaction, Communication, and Reasons for (No Longer) Faking Orgasm: Findings from a U.S. Probability Sample   My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

This week we continue the discussion we started in the last episode, about this narrative some women have about their male partners only being interested in having sex. We discuss the reasons behind it and I offer you a different perspective and way of thinking about the situation that might just change your whole perception of your relationship.  Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

In this episode I share insights from a session I had with my client Isabelle. She thought that all her husband wants is to have sex. That that's the only thing he is interested in. That he is only affectionate when he wants to get laid. And that as soon as he shows the slightest sign of affection: whether he kisses her, hugs her or whatever, it always “gets out of hand” because the only reason he kissed her in the first place is because he wanted sex from her. Listen to this episode to find out about Isabelle's realisation during our session, and how it has changed everything for her and her husband.  Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

This week we explore the lack of sex-drive within the relationship, when you feel sexual desire, just not towards your partner anymore. We discuss the reasons why you have stopped feeling desire for your partner, and I give you a 3-step process (that works!) to rekindle the flame.  Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

In this week's episode, we explore the generalised lack of desire. That is, when you feel that you have a low or non-existent libido. We discuss the reasons behind this low libido and I give you a practical exercise designed to help you observe the emotions you create on a given day and whether these emotions are conducive to feeling more desire in your body.   Resources: My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

This week, I address a question that regularly comes up during sessions with clients, and that is: What to do when my partner does not satisfy me sexually?  It can be challenging to decide what to do in such a situation... Sometimes we're not on the same page (sexually), we can feel dissatisfied, or wish our sex life was different. If you are in that situation, you may wonder if you should leave them, if your differences are reconcilable, if love is enough, or if wanting to fulfil your desires is a valid reason to break-up.  In this episode, I run you through my 5-step process to help you gain clarity so that you can make the best decision for you. And, I have developed my 5-step approach into a Workbook that you can download on my website at: wwww.morganehorn.com/freematerialsResources:5 Steps to Figuring Out What to Do When Your Partner Does Not Satisfy You Workbook My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com 

A low sex-drive, or lack of desire is the #1 reason why my clients seek my help. In this week's episode you will learn all about desire, you'll understand how it works, and why you may be thinking that there is a problem with your libido. Because the first step to becoming a turned-on woman is to understand your body and your desire. Resources: Book Come as You Are by Emilie NagoskiMy Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

Are you fulfilled sexually? And by fulfilled, I mean: does your sex life fully satisfy you? Are you currently living the sex life of your wildest dreams? Or, are there aspects that you would like to change if you could? In today's episode, I tell you the secret to a fulfilling sex life. Because contrary to a lot of things I hear out there, a fulfilling sex life is not something that just happens to us if we're lucky enough, or only if we have the “right” physiology for it.  And to conclude, I give you a little exercise for you to help you gain clarity on the limiting thoughts and beliefs that may be preventing you from fully enjoying your sexuality. Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials 

In this episode I present the podcast, to tell you about the intention behind it, who it is designed for, what you can expect from it; so that you can decide whether you want to invest your precious time listening to it.     The podcast is aimed primarily at women, although men are most welcome to listen in and join the fun! I coach all people of all genders but my goal with this podcast is to help women free themselves from everything that prevents them from creating the sexual intimacy they yearn for.   Through this podcast, I want to bring back the natural, the fun and the pleasure in an area which too often is taboo and a source of shame and suffering for women. Regardless of your cultural background, religion, faith, or sexual orientation, these tools will help you overcome anything that is blocking you from enjoying the pleasure that your body was designed to receive.     This is why this podcast is called Beyond Great Sex, because when you apply its teachings you will transform your life, far beyond great sex and orgasms. You will learn to:  - Feel your sexual power and unleash your inner sexual goddess/badass  - Be a turned-on woman. You will know what lights up that fire inside you and how to create more desire at all times  - Love having sex with yourself and your partner  - Know how to create more and deeper pleasure for yourself  - Enjoy exploring new things, alone and with your partner   And that's just the sex part! You will also:  - Know who you are, what you want and have the confidence to ask for it  - No longer feel guilt for prioritising yourself and your pleasure  - Understand and love your boundaries  ­- Be in awe of yourself and your unlimited potential  - Feel a deeper connection than ever with yourself and your partner  - Love and cherish your body   - Realise how incredibly amazing you are!   See? Way beyond great sex! Resources: My Instagram account: @morganehorn_  My Website: www.morganehorn.com  Free Materials