Podcasts about Sexless marriage

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Your Husband Isn't The Problem!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we challenge a common narrative: blaming your partner. What if your husband isn't actually the problem — but something deeper is?

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Freedom and Settling!In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, we explore the emotional tension between freedom and settling. How do couples balance personal freedom with long-term commitment?

I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment style—or is she just not that into you?In today's Dear DSO episode, we break down Paul's situation. He's stuck in the push-pull dynamic with a woman who's triggering every anxious bone in his body. I explain why this dynamic is so damn addictive… and what it says about him that he's still holding on.If you've ever felt stuck trying to “figure her out,” this one's for you.

In this Dear DSO episode, we tackle Holden's powerful story: ✅ A 22-year marriage, wrecked by infidelity ✅ A toxic ex dragging their adult kids down ✅ A father who rebuilt his life, career, and confidence — but still worries about his boysI break down what happens long-term when kids get stuck in a toxic home and what (if anything) you, as the healthier parent, can realistically do to help.If you're facing similar struggles, you're not alone — join me and other men like you in the HFM Brotherhood: helpformen.com/join

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Emotional Regulation!In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, we explore why emotional regulation is a critical skill for long-term relationship success. If you or your partner often feel overwhelmed, shut down, or overreact — this conversation is for you.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share our thoughts on why a good spouse doesn't deserve to be in a "non intimate" marriage. We are not just talking about sexual intimacy, but also emotional intimacy, because intimacy is not just a bonus in marriage, it is a CORE part of marriage.It's not at all selfish to want sex or affection. It's human. A good spouse who pours into the marriage emotionally and physically shouldn't be told to “just deal with it” if their needs go unmet. A good spouse deserves mutual care—not emotional starvation or punishment through neglect. We also talk about the negative impacts to the relationship when intimacy is not prioritized in the relationship. Join us for this great episode!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of Dear DSO, I tackle Dave's story — he's been married 13 years, but for the last eight, the bedroom has been dead. Less than 10 times a year. He's doing the chores, paying the bills, helping with everything, hoping it will reignite intimacy… but it hasn't worked.We talk about perimenopause, the harsh biological and emotional shifts that happen in long-term marriages, and the hard truth: sometimes, no amount of chore-play will bring back the spark.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.The 7 Types of Dates!Not all date nights are created equal. In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we break down the 7 types of dates that deeply impact connection, communication, and emotional intimacy.

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Is it wrong to want more sex in your marriage? What if your wife thinks you're a pervert for having a normal male sex drive?In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a submission from a man who feels like a prisoner to his own sexuality. He's doing the work, improving his life, but still feels rejected, shamed, and shut out by his wife. Sound familiar?We'll dig into the anxious/avoidant dynamic, religious repression, codependency, and the harsh truth that sometimes… they just don't want you anymore.I'm not here to shame guys like this — I was this guy. If you relate, you're not alone. We see this pattern over and over inside the Brotherhood.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.The "Noble" Spouse!In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, we dive into the psychology of the "noble" spouse — the one who tries to stay calm, fix everything, and carry the emotional load alone. Why does this role often lead to resentment, burnout, or disconnection in relationships?

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Boardgames and Triggers!In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage podcast, we explore how something as simple as a boardgame can bring up unexpected emotional triggers between couples. What begins as fun playtime turns into real conversation about connection, emotional safety, and the underlying dynamics of modern relationships.Are games just games? Or do they reveal more about your marriage than you think?

In this Dear DSO episode, we're diving into a common and surprisingly emotional question: "If I get a vasectomy, will my wife still want me?"This one came from Matt — a father of three, married for five years, and totally done having kids… but now he's worried that the snip might lead to a dead bedroom.We break down:The primal fears behind vasectomy anxietyWhether a man's fertility is linked to attractionThe truth about women's desire post-snipHow stress and resentment play a bigger role than biologyWhy anxious thoughts can sabotage your relationshipIf you're married, done having kids, and wondering if a vasectomy will ruin your sex life… this one's for you.

In this “Dear DSO” episode, I respond to a story from John—a newly separated man wondering if it's time to ditch the 9-to-5 life, buy a van, and find himself on the open road.Is this a classic midlife crisis, or the adventure of a lifetime? Let's talk about what it means to "lose yourself" in the family machine… and whether it's ever too late to start over.

In this Dear DSO submission, a follower named John reached out to share his story. He was in a long-distance relationship, had clear boundaries about contact with the opposite sex, and discovered that his girlfriend followed and messaged a local pharmacy tech—without telling him. That was enough for John to walk away… but now he's second-guessing everything.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Michael reached out to me with a story I hear way too often. Thirty years of a sexless marriage, confusion, shame, guilt — and then, one day, his wife finally opens up with a truth that changed everything.In this raw, honest conversation, we explore what it means to sacrifice your needs, the silent damage it does, and how deeply hidden trauma can shape a marriage for decades.This one's for the guys out there wondering:“Is it me?”“Am I broken?”“Should I just stay?”…or finally walk away.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.She Wants Sex; He Doesn't!In Episode 275 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we unpack a topic rarely discussed: when she wants sex—but he doesn't. What causes this shift in desire? Is it emotional, physical, or relational? We explore how to navigate mismatched libidos with compassion and clarity.

In today's Dear DSO, I respond to a heartbreaking story from a 39-year-old Army Special Ops veteran who's been through the wringer—divorce, remarriage, infidelity, therapy, and now… his wife wants to separate again, “date,” and possibly reevaluate in six months.If you've ever felt like you're living in a constant loop of chaos in your relationship, especially after betrayal, this one will hit home. We unpack anxious attachment, gaslighting, guilt, PTSD, and how military culture compounds all of it.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a letter from Jerome—a man who's feeling disillusioned and depressed about relationships and marriage. After a breakup and years of being told that “marriage is the dream,” he's beginning to question everything.Does long-term monogamy even work anymore? Are women really wired for it? Is the “wife and kids” dream still alive for men today?I unpack all of this and more—including what I've learned from helping thousands of men, my interview with Women's Infidelity author Michelle Langley, and my own personal experiences.

In this revealing episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," Heather Solomon courageously addresses the often-avoided topic of intimacy and sex in marriage. Are you familiar with the evolution from passionate kisses to high-fives in a parking lot? Discover why physical connection fades and what underlying factors contribute to emotional drift, a common yet unspoken dilemma in relationships. Join Heather as she explores the science and emotions behind intimacy, emphasizing the importance of reconnecting without blame. In a candid dialogue, expect insight into how our actions and mindsets silently contribute to disconnection. Learn practical steps to rebuild your bond, encouraging playful engagement and genuine communication rather than resorting to household tension or passive aggressive acts. Highlighting the significance of modeling healthy relationships for children, Heather encourages a shift towards more intimate parenting by focusing on warmth and closeness. She also explores how both partners can actively participate in rekindling the flame through small, intentional actions that nurture love and connection. With relatable anecdotes and a touch of humor, this episode is a heartfelt call to action for couples striving to overcome intimacy challenges and reignite their relationships. Join Heather in acknowledging your fears, addressing unintentional habits, and embarking on a journey towards a more fulfilled partnership.   Connect with me, I'd love any suggestions for future episodes. Email: listenupyoungerself@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heather.solomon.14 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heatherslmn/

In this live conversation, I sit down with Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, to talk about the psychology of the modern man—especially the ones struggling in dead bedrooms, difficult marriages, and post-divorce confusion.We dig into why so many men unknowingly sabotage their relationships, how covert contracts fuel resentment, and what it takes to stop being the “nice guy” and start living a better life. If you've ever felt stuck in a marriage with no affection, no sex, and no answers—this is the episode for you.

We all crave emotional safety and stability in our long-term relationships…But what if that very safety is what slowly smothers erotic desire?In this livestream, I dive into one of the most frustrating and misunderstood dynamics in long-term monogamy: the trade-off between comfort and sexuality.Why does it feel like the more secure your relationship becomes, the more the passion disappears?Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Send us a textFeeling the chill in your marriage bedroom? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, Ken and Tabatha break down the walls of silence surrounding sexless marriages, offering hope and practical wisdom from their 25-year journey together.Marriage isn't always sexy – especially when life throws curveballs like career stress, parenting demands, health challenges, and aging bodies into the mix. After navigating breast cancer, menopause, and the everyday complexities of long-term commitment, Ken and Tabatha share how they've maintained a vibrant intimate connection despite the obstacles."When you're not in the mood" becomes more than just an occasional state – for many couples, it evolves into a persistent pattern that threatens the marriage foundation. The hosts challenge listeners to examine whether they've settled for less than God's design for marital intimacy, offering a biblical framework from 1 Corinthians 7 that reframes sex as both a privilege and responsibility within marriage.Through candid conversation, they address common barriers to physical connection: exhaustion, body image issues, medical challenges, and the subtle ways couples begin prioritizing everything except their intimate life. Tabitha specifically speaks to women about recognizing and embracing their own sexual desires rather than viewing intimacy solely as meeting their husband's needs.This conversation goes beyond bedroom techniques to address the heart issues that lead to sexual disconnection. Whether you're struggling with mismatched sex drives, physical limitations, or simply finding yourself in a pattern of rejection and resentment, this episode offers a pathway back to the intimate connection you once shared.Ready to turn up the heat in your marriage? Listen now, and be sure to catch part two of this essential conversation about making Christian married sex great again.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888Support Our Ministry: https://myalivechurch.org/giveConnect with us:- Website:https://www.kenclaytor.comhttps://www.tabathaclaytor.comhttps://www.myalivechurch.org- Socials:Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/TikTok-@Ken_Claytor@Tabathaclaytor@myalivechurchFacebook-https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytorhttps://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytorhttps://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch- Ask us questions: info@kenandtabatha.com

In this powerful episode of The Relationship Renaissance Podcast, we explore the growing crisis of sexless and low-sex marriages from the male perspective. Many men are quietly struggling with feelings of rejection, confusion, and shame—but the roots of the issue are complex. Part of the disconnect stems from what I call “female trauma”—the emotional armor women develop to survive in a male-dominated world. This trauma can lead to guardedness, emotional distance, and a diminished sense of safety and desire in the relationship.At the same time, we take a hard look at how many men contribute to the very dynamic they feel trapped in. Through selfishness, emotional unavailability, or a sense of entitlement, men often erode the intimacy they long for. This episode unpacks the deeper emotional and psychological layers beneath a sexless marriage and offers a call to awareness, empathy, and growth. If you're in this situation—or want to avoid it—this honest conversation will challenge and guide you.--www.AlisaCoaches.com

Ever met someone who turned a sex‑less marriage into a passion masterclass?In this episode, I sit down with Conscious Love Mentor Sasha Quince, calling in from Abu Dhabi.Sasha grew up in a culture that never spoke about sex, then found herself in a marriage with almost none and a shocking betrayal right after giving birth. Instead of walking away, she rebuilt trust, healed her self‑worth, and created what she calls the “Law of Mirrors,” a simple way to revive desire by working on yourself first. Today, she helps couples swap silent resentment for real connection and three‑times‑a‑week sparks.Tune in to hear how Sasha's hard‑won lessons can bring life—and love—back to any long‑term relationship!IN THIS EPISODE(00:00) Meet the dancer who rewrote desire(05:50) Betrayal hurts—wait till you hear her fix(09:15) Mirror law: is your love reflecting you?(13:29) One question that flips blame into closeness(15:25) Relationship hacks you'll want to steal tonight(16:15) Boundaries vs requests—cue the aha moment(18:00) Step back, let him step up (trust us)(20:15) Baby‑bond secret every parent should know(21:56) Cash, pride, passion—spot the hidden link(27:28) Two taboo talks that change everything(29:30) Body‑love move to spark instant chemistry(35:42) Flow beats formula—ride the passion cycles(40:47) Ready for Sasha's final dare?Sasha QuinceSasha Quince is a Conscious Love Mentor and speaker based in Abu Dhabi who helps individuals and couples reignite passion, rebuild trust and cultivate emotionally safe, desire‑driven relationships. Drawing on two decades of lived experience—including transforming her own sexless marriage after betrayal—Sasha blends inner‑child healing, somatic awareness, and the “Law of Mirrors” to guide clients from resentment and reactivity to intimacy and connection.Connect with Sasha ►Linktree: https://linktr.ee/sashaquinceYANA FRYYana is a global speaker, impact coach, wellness retreats facilitator, spiritual educator, co-author of three books, award-winning poetess, and truth illuminator who inspires, empowers, educates globally. She is the founder and CEO of Awaken Human, where she helps leaders worldwide to realise their highest potential and maximise their impact. Yana has been studying and teaching consciousness and wellbeing since she was 8 years old and has clients and students from 30+ countries. With decades of training and education in a variety of Western Methods and Eastern Philosophies, Yana became a living vehicle that teaches humans how to unlock their highest potential in both material and metaphysical worlds. She has also been professionally interviewing thought leaders and change makers all over the world since 2015 and became a founder of two successful content platforms, Singapore's leading independent talk-show YanaTV and a global podcast Timeless Teachings. CONNECT with YANA ►LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yanafryLinktree: https://linktr.ee/yanafryCheck out YanaTV - an independent and highly popular Singapore grown talk show that amplifies the voices of impactful and conscious people of Asia.==► YanaTV : https://youtube.com/@yanatvsg—Timeless Teachings by Yana Fry has been ranked among top 3 podcasts in Singapore in Spirituality. We talk about consciousness, human advancement, self-mastery and achieving full potential.

Brendan's been dating his girlfriend for three years — and the sex is already slowing to a crawl. He's worried this is setting the tone for a future marriage, and he's not wrong. In this clip from a LIVE DSO, we dig into one of the biggest red flags guys ignore: early sexual disinterest. If you're seeing signs of a dead bedroom while you're still dating… buckle up.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Ramius has been married for 47 years. In his 70s, he's gotten healthy, got his testosterone up, and wants to stay sexually and emotionally connected to his wife. The problem? She's done. No interest, no desire, early bedtime, and emotionally checked out from intimacy. What do you do when one partner still wants connection… and the other is ready to ride off into the grandma sunset?Let's talk aging, sex, emotional reality, and the hard truth most men won't hear until it's too late.

Keith has been married six years. No sex since baby #1. Volatile arguments. Threats of suicide. Police visits. And yet — he's afraid to leave. This is the classic trauma-bonded, broken-from-the-start marriage. In this episode, I talk about what it means to finally say “enough,” and how men can break free from toxic relationships.Join The HFM Brotherhood

Ross is in a marriage where intimacy is dead, but the jealousy is alive and well. Despite his massive physical transformation and emotional growth, his wife remains cold and uninterested — while also resenting any female attention he gets. Oh… and she had an affair last year. Let's unpack this contradiction and talk about what it really means when your wife doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you either.Join The HFM Brotherhood

In this Dear DSO submission, a husband shares his frustration: after two kids, his wife seems to have completely disappeared into motherhood. Once bubbly and fun, now she's anxious, overwhelmed, and only shows affection after wine or exotic vacations.He's worked on himself, lost 60 lbs, rebuilt his confidence—but his wife won't join him. No therapy. No gym. No time for herself. And definitely no connection with him as a man.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Are you in a sexless marriage or a relationship where the intimacy and sex is not where you want it to be? Do you ask yourself the question whether you want to stay or go or whether this relationship will ever get back to the ease, fun and connected sex life that you used to have? In this episode I talk about the thing that helped me when I was in your situation and how to start making the changes that will end this state of limbo you're in.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't.   They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.   They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/ If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950 What if this next year everything changed for you? That's what we want for you brother, We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/ Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/ We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/ If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/ We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that. Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1 You can watch all our videos here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/ Or read our blog articles here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/blog/Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

Ned is a Special Ops vet whose marriage has seen it all — deployment, infidelity, gaslighting, emotional chaos… and now his wife wants to “separate, date around, and reevaluate in 6 months.” What should he do? This episode dives deep into how trauma, emotional abuse, and codependency show up in military marriages — and what men need to reclaim clarity and strength.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Would you like to know the most common sexless marriage mistake that men make? I have a lot of data from over 10 years of coaching men to turn around their unsatisfactory marriages and helping them reignite the passion and attraction again. In this episode I talk about one of the worst mindsets that men take in their long term intimate relationships that trashes the passion and positive sexual tension they loved at the beginning.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't.   They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.   They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/ If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950 What if this next year everything changed for you? That's what we want for you brother, We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/ Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/ We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/ If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/ We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that. Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1 You can watch all our videos here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/ Or read our blog articles here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/blog/Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, we dive into one of the most misunderstood dynamics in modern relationships: the sexless marriage. This episode is for women who are seeking clarity, connection, and influence in their romantic partnerships. It helps the female listener to understand why sex isn't just “something that he wants.” It is actually something that he needs.You'll learn why sex is so deeply tied to a man's sense of love, loyalty, and emotional availability, and how withholding it - intentionally or unintentionally - can create emotional distance, resentment, and stagnation in the relationship. More importantly, we explore how sex isn't just about satisfying him. It's an opportunity for the woman to bond with her guy and to lead how to lead him with feminine power. Sex is also an opportunity to create a space where your guy wants to grow, listen, and evolve with you.He doesn't need another mom. He's not looking for a life coach. What he's craving is a capable, confident, sensual lover who can inspire him - not just in bed, but in life. In this episode, you'll discover how sex is the ultimate tool of influence, the language of intimacy that speaks directly to his heart, and the key to reigniting your emotional and physical connection.Whether your bedroom has gone cold, or you're simply feeling disconnected, this episode offers the straight talk, compassion, and guidance you need to reclaim your power and reawaken your relationship.--www.AlisaCoaches.com

In this powerful Dear DSO entry, I read a message from a man whose wife left him after 20 years of marriage. He gave everything to his family—his time, energy, identity—and now he's completely lost. No friends. No hobbies. No direction.This story is not uncommon, and it shines a light on what happens when men sacrifice themselves entirely for the sake of family and end up with nothing when it all falls apart.In this video, I break down his story and share what men in similar situations can do to rebuild and come back stronger than ever.

A husband writes in with a heartbreaking and outrageous story: after 16 years of marriage and raising six boys together, his wife gave him an ultimatum — “Open marriage or no marriage.” She claims to be polyamorous and bisexual… and already has a boyfriend she's in love with. Now she expects her husband to accept it — even while the boyfriend sleeps with her in their own marital bed.In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph (Dad Starting Over) breaks down the emotional chaos, what's really happening behind the scenes, and what this man — and others in similar situations — need to do next.

What happens when your wife cheats... not just with anyone, but with your married next-door neighbor you've known since childhood?Jake wrote in to share his heartbreaking story of betrayal and confusion after discovering a year-long affair between his wife and their neighbor. They've been together 13 years, have kids, and he's trying to work through it—but the emotional fallout is brutal.In this episode, we break down:Why affairs feel so addictively powerfulWhy “forbidden and new” is a dangerous comboWhat healing really looks likeThe brutal truth about reconciling after infidelityJoin The HFM Brotherhood!

Victoria reached out to share her story — a candid, emotional, and often shocking look into a toxic relationship filled with insecurity, gaslighting, and infidelity.From being accused of cheating over a sex toy…To discovering her partner was visiting massage parlors and hiding condoms…To finding the strength to walk away for the sake of her child and herself.This is one woman's raw account of breaking free, setting boundaries, and learning to trust herself again.If you've ever stayed too long in the wrong relationship, this one's for you.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.S*xless Marriage!In Ep255 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we confront one of the most common and painful struggles couples face: the s*xless marriage. What causes intimacy to fade, and how can couples reignite connection, desire, and trust? We explore emotional, physical, and psychological roadblocks—and share real strategies for healing, rebuilding intimacy, and reconnecting with your partner.

In this candid livestream, Ralph is joined by psychologist and creator of  @psychacks , Dr. Orion Taraban, for a powerful and thought-provoking conversation on modern masculinity, dating, marriage, and purpose. Topics include:Why fewer men are choosing marriageWhether commitment still makes sense in today's dating landscapeThe reality behind sex, status, and the modern mating gameDeveloping purpose without relying on external validationHow to become a high-value man in today's world

What happens when a man starts taking control of his health—drops weight, hits the gym, starts TRT and Viagra—and his wife doesn't like it?In this clip from a Dad Starting Over livestream, I share a common (and surprising) reaction many men hear from their wives when they try to turn their life around physically, emotionally, and sexually. The truth? Some women feel threatened by the changes… especially when those changes mean a man is more confident, more virile, and more sexually energized.This isn't anti-woman—it's a real conversation about the complicated dynamics that come with aging, libido, and relationship expectations.Whether you're a man on a journey of self-improvement or a woman trying to understand your partner better, this one's for you.

A reader sent me an email with some harsh feedback—he says my book is BS because by the time a man picks it up, his marriage is already doomed. He's frustrated, resentful, and exhausted from trying everything, and he doesn't believe any change in him will ever fix his wife's lack of desire. Is he right? Or is he missing something deeper?Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Book your free 1-1 Is your marriage missing the spark it once had? Discover eight strategies to reignite intimacy and improve your sex life with your wife.Many couples struggle with maintaining intimacy amid the stress of daily life, work, and parenting. This episode dives into practical steps to reconnect emotionally and physically, addressing common challenges like communication barriers, stress, and differing needs in a relationship.In this episode, you will:1) Learn how to rebuild emotional intimacy through quality time and meaningful gestures.2) Gain tools for open communication about desires, frustrations, and expectations.3) Discover actionable strategies for managing stress and reigniting passion in your marriage.Tune in now for actionable tips to strengthen your connection and bring new life to your relationship.More From Dad Mind MattersIf you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rat race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via this link. CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?Dear Podcast Listener, thank you, I appreciate your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do, here is the link where you can leave a tip. ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday. Just contact me via the websiteThanks again for your support, and take care of yourselfJamesTo sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HEREABOUT MEHello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad. After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I'm a much happier dad. As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health. Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with. In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link FREE & "HOPEFULLY" USEFUL RESOURCESFor your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His DogPlease click this linkAgain to be double awesome & leave a review on Amazon

A man reached out with a tough confession: after years of a sexless marriage, he turned to porn—and now he feels trapped. He says he's addicted, his wife ignores the problem, and if she knew the full extent of it, she'd leave. He feels ashamed, lost, and desperate for an answer."But is porn really the issue here? Or is it just a symptom of a much bigger problem?"Join The HFM Brotherhood!

Jennifer writes into to share the story of her OCD husband's super cleaning habits, and how she doesn't feel like it "counts" as helping out like "normal" guys do... because her husband's cleaning is an artifact of his disorder. I, like most men, will determine that her opinion on the value of his help is determined by how much he is suffering in the process. No, Jennifer... this was not a good thing.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

This is a clip from one of my recent DSO Live Streams on Facebook and Youtube. What happens when a man gives everything to his marriage—only to discover it was built on lies? A follower emailed me with his devastating story: His wife had a long-term affair...and he discovered that their youngest child was not his. The betrayal, the heartbreak, and the life-altering truth—this is one of the most gut-wrenching stories I've ever received. In this video, we break down what happened and what to do when your entire world gets turned upside down.Join The HFM Brotherhood!

A follower shares his story that is, unfortunately, all too common. His woman gave him every indication that she wasn't really good long-term relationship material. In fact, she flat out TOLD him that she has issues with her sex drive when in relationships. Like a lot of codependent men, Liam took that as a challenge to prove his worth as a spouse. Now he is left wondering why his woman left him for a guy young enough to be his son.  Join The HFM Brotherhood!

This is a follow-up to a post I recently made about relationships floundering due to "silly" things like looks and money. Yes, those things matter! They don't go away just because you said, "I do". To think otherwise is foolish.Join the HFM Brotherhood!

Guys, have you lost the spark in your sex drive? If that's you, you are not alone! Libido is a complex issue. There are so many reasons that male libido can falter, from stress and physical factors, to relational issues in your marriage. But for every factor, there are also solutions.  Learn the steps to uncover what's driving your lack of drive so you can revive the desire. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  The physical, mental and emotional health factors that affect sex drive  Tips to unpack the issue together in healthy ways  Is there a place for medical advice in understanding libido? Challenging the cultural myths about aging and sex drive  Steps to starting a helpful conversation about improving libido    Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide  Main takeaway: Husbands, have you lost the passion? Physical, mental and emotional factors all impact your sex drive but you can reignite the spark and enjoy God's gift of sex in marriage.  Questions to Discuss:  Dr. Kim said that things like depression, anxiety, financial stress, relational tension or past trauma can reduce libido. Are any of those affecting your sexual relationship today? What would you like to experience more of together in your sexual relationship?  What can you do together to make that happen?    QUOTES  “If you've got problems from the past that affect you in the present, you need someone to help you work through that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “When the assumptions got on the table, we realized they were wrong. That made such a huge difference.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Low libido doesn't indicate cheating or porn addiction, it's usually more complex than that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling The longer you let it go, the worse it's going to get. - Dr. Kim Kimberling   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Congrats to our Awesome Marriage of the Year - Brett and Megan Hamilton! To learn more about National Marriage week, visit their website HERE.  Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy BUNDLE! Don't let negative assumptions tear you apart. Use our Free Printable 15 Better Assumptions to Make About Your Spouse to nurture a healthy mindset  Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!