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Dating for marriage is a pivotal stage of life. Join YUConnects’ "CandiDate" twice a month in candid conversations, as our hosts navigate the Jewish dating scene with experts and influencers in the field. Whether you are currently dating, or know someone who is, this entertaining and educational podcast is the one for you.

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    • May 21, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Conscious Connections: Dr. Scott Linton

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 29:33


    Dr. Scott Linton, a marriage and family therapist, shares valuable insights into the roots of communication pitfalls. Learn about the dynamics of the "Pursuer" and the "Withdrawer" as Dr. Linton offers practical tools to help couples recognize and shift their communication patterns toward more conscious and healthier connections.Hosted by Anna Krausz.Dr. Linton may be contacted ✉️ Email: slintonmd@gmail.com

    Data-Driven Dating: Channah Cohen

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 30:44


    In this episode, Channah Cohen skillfully shares practical, research-based insights to enhance the dating experience. Channah Cohen serves as an adult educator for the OU's ECP and Yavneh Young Professionals of JLIC. Previously, she worked at the Center for Communal Research as the applied researcher on their large-scale, mixed-methods study on dating in the American Orthodox Jewish community. She is also the author of Guardians of the Flame, a historical novel about the Chanukah story.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Fear & Emuna: Rabbi Mordechai Burg

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 51:07


    Rabbi Mordechai Burg examines how understanding fears associated with the dating process can lead to greater success in relationships. Rabbi Burg serves as the Menahel of Yeshivat Shaarei Mevaseret Zion, and Mashpia of Nitzotzos and NCSY Summer.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Dr. Erica Brown: Values Based Weddings

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 36:41


    Dr. Erica Brown eloquently conveys how a wedding is the beginning of a lifelong journey and how couples can use the celebration as an opportunity to reflect their values. Dr. Erica Brown is the Vice Provost for Values and Leadership at Yeshiva University and the founding director of its Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks-Herenstein Center for Values and Leadership (yu.edu/sacks-center). Her latest book is Morning Has Broken: Faith After October 7th (Toby/Koren). For more information, visit her website at ericabrown.com. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Rabbi Michael Bleicher: Expecting the Unexpected

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 36:56


    Rabbi Michael Bleicher, LCSW, Director of Clinical Training at Achieve Behavioral Health, and therapist specializing in reproductive mental health in private practice in NY and NJ, discusses how all relationships face unexpected challenges, including ambiguous ones. He shares strategies for coping and moving forward after encountering obstacles. You can contact Rabbi Bleicher via PsychologyToday.com or BleicherLCSW@gmail.com. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Lisa Rabinowitz: Navigating Neurodiversity

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 34:52


    Lisa Rabinowitz, MA & LCPC, explores neurodiversity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding each partner. She shares practical strategies for overcoming challenges and offers expert advice for strengthening relationships. Lisa is a Certified Gottman Therapist and PACT Level 3. She can be reached at https://counselorforcouples.com/Hosted by Anna Krausz, LMSW

    Aliza Schulman: Dating with Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 33:31


    Aliza Schulman, LCSW and Psychotherapist, explores the unique factors to help second-time singles with children navigate dating again. She offers guidance on building healthy relationships and fostering positive dynamics between new partners and children. Hosted by Anna Krausz, LMSW.

    Rabbi Dr. Jonathan Schwartz: Melting the Big Freeze

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 48:07


    Rabbi Dr. Jonathan Schwartz, PsyD, Clinical Director at the Center for Anxiety Relief, addresses challenges of freezing during dates, emotional struggles in relationships, and cold feet before commitment. He emphasizes that these feelings, often driven by anxiety and fear of judgment, are common and offers tips for overcoming them while accepting that every meaningful relationship requires work and growth. Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Dr. Tali Wigod: Validation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2024 38:57


    Dr. Tali Wigod, Clinical Psychologist and Board Certified DBT Clinician illustrates how validation can be used to turn down the intensity of emotions to help us progress in developing our relationships.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Dr. Elly Lasson: First Impressions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 30:22


    Board Certified and Licensed Organizational Psychologist, Dr. Elly Lasson, Ph.D., ABPP, draws parallels between his work in HR and the dating world to highlight the significance of first impressions. He outlines key factors that influence these impressions and offers practical tips for fostering meaningful relationships.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Dr. Adir Pinchot: Navigating Dating Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 45:01


    Dr. Adir Pinchot, drawing on his clinical expertise, explores the impact of doubts and anxiety on relationships and shares successful treatment approaches and practical tips for how to manage anxiety as one moves toward deeper connection and commitment.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovich.

    Mrs. Miriam Zeitlin: Authenticity

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 34:39


    Glean from the invaluable insights of Mrs. Miriam Zeitlin, renowned dating coach and kallah teacher, as she delves into the power of authenticity and the crucial role of open communication in establishing relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Dr. Stephen Glicksman: Science of Attraction

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 30:55


    Dr. Stephen Glicksman, a licensed developmental psychologist and the director of clinical innovation at Makor Care and Service Network, dives into the complexities of how attraction develops and grows throughout relationships. He offers insights into the psycho-emotional factors that contribute to a lasting and fulfilling partnership. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

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    Sarah Pachter: A Tech Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 51:02


    Mrs. Sarah Pachter, author and renowned speaker, exposes the power of technology as a tool, capable of bringing dating couples closer or driving them apart. She shares insights on how to harness technology to have a positive impact on modern relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Dr. Leah Knapp: Self Exploration

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 44:13


    Clinical psychologist, Dr. Leah Knapp brings a refreshing perspective to the dating process by emphasizing its potential for self-discovery. By actively engaging with the opportunities presented in dating, individuals can gain profound insights into themselves. Knapp's approach underscores the importance of adopting a mindset that values self reflection and growth. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Devorah Kigel: Marrying a Mensch

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 39:43


    Mrs. Devorah Kigel, dating and marriage coach & inspirational speaker, skillfully offers practical tips and profound wisdom to streamline the dating journey. Visit devorahkigel.com for more relevant content. Her new book will be available on amazon next week: Marry a Mensch: Timeless Jewish Wisdom for Today's Single Woman. Hosted by Anna Krausz

    Dating Through Loss

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 28:39


    Zehava Graber shares her personal experience of dating with a terminally ill parent. She relays heartfelt and important pieces for daters, matchmakers, and community members to support people like her through the journey. This episode is dedicated l'iluy nishmas her father, Avraham Yaakov Ben Meshulam Dov z''l.Hosted by Anna Krausz. 

    Dr. Shuli Sandler: Healthy Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 44:25


    Dr. Shuli Sandler, a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst, discusses the role of healthy conflict and resolution in laying the foundation of a strong, trusting, relationship. She offers practical tools for couples to engage in conflict in a loving and conscientious way. www.shulisandlerpsyd.comHosted by Anna Krausz

    Rabbi Tzvi Sytner: From HEAR to HEART

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 45:13


    Rabbi Tzvi Sytner explores relationship dynamics, highlighting the importance of flexibility, compromise, empathy, and active listening for building strong connections. Transitioning from the H.E.A.R. to the H.E.A.R.T. model, he unveils a transformative secret code, inviting us to embrace these virtues to cultivate profound harmony.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Rabbi Shurin: Learning from Baalei Teshuva

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 53:31


    Discover Rabbi Yitzchak Shurin's insightful perspective on fostering strong relationships and marriages.Hosted by Anna Krausz

    Rabbi Beny Rofeh: Wise Words

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 59:08


    Embark on a journey with Rabbi Beny Rofeh, MSW as he shares invaluable insights. Discover how to cultivate heartfelt connection and team building without an urge to change your partner. Learn the importance of self-reflection and being fully present in every interaction to foster long lasting relationships. Rabbi Rofeh is Director of the Isaac Breuer College and Mashgiach Ruchani at Yeshiva University as well as a PhD candidate.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

    Dr. Chesky Gewirtz: We all have Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 47:58


    Rabbi Dr. Chesky Gewirtz, PsyD, delves into the nuances of natural anxiety, emphasizing the importance of embracing uncertainty and acknowledging the potential advantages anxiety brings.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Be the Right One: Rachel Burnham

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 30:55


    Rachel Burnham, a seasoned dating coach of d8gr8.com reflects upon her extensive experiences with those whose dating journeys have taken a longer path. Among her several insights, she explains the differences between pickiness and authenticity and how to truly enjoy the process as we become our best selves.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Sheindy Gross: Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 38:35


    Sheindy Gross, an educator for over 30 years and relationship coach of Head2Heart, applies a Torah perspective to Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages.  She offers practical steps for best understanding one's own needs while meeting the needs of a significant other. Hosted by Anna Krausz. You can hear more from Sheindy at Tehila Torah: https://open.spotify.com/show/0IG0qsVpZFuL8TvSWXZ7YF?si=-QOA9H3TRLCQTJp9TZjjGA and an episode of Head2Heart: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Mh0jM4mygblYE9A8yYVdq?si=rUrGh_j5QX6eR0WgEnus6g&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A4GXnFn7clmGogzcFau0Yl5

    Rabbi Dr. Jacob J. and Shana Yocheved Schacter: A Couple of Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 41:33


    ... from a thoughtful couple. Listen to Rabbi Dr. Jacob J. & Shana Yocheved Schacter, a revered couple, as they draw upon their many professional and personal experiences.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Rabbi Donny Frank: What is Character?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 46:39


    Rabbi Donny Frank, LMFT and Dating Coach, differentiates between values, character and personality, and explains which is key for a lasting marriage. He is the author of newly released “The Making of a Dynamic Duo.” www.donnyonmarriage.comHosted by Anna Krausz

    Rabbi Elan Segelman: Fertility Preservation

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 52:17


    Rabbi Elan Segelman, Rabbinic Director of PUAH in America, educates us on scientific & halachic developments in the field of fertility preservation. He explains why both men and women should be informed about this very sensitive and impactful subject. Rabbi Segelman is also the Rabbi of the Young Israel of Hancock Park, CA.Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

    Dr. Shoshannah Frydman: Red Flags

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 28:30


    Shoshannah Frydman, PhD, LCSW identifies the true red flags in relationships as she highlights the signs that should not be ignored in a potential partner. Dr. Frydman is Executive Director of Shalom Task Force.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Rabbi Beni Krohn: Let it Grow

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 37:38


    Rabbi Beni Krohn, LCSW relays the importance of keeping a relationship pressure-free. He offers sound advice for daters and parents. Rabbi Krohn is a Mashgiach Ruchani at RIETS and serves as Rabbi of the Young Israel of Teaneck, NJ.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky: Overthinking

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2024 50:21


    Rabbi Danishefsky, LCSW explains how overthinking affects relationship development and shares positive decision-making guidelines. www.mindbodychicago.comHosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

    Dr. Naomi Rosenbach: Communal Approach. Dating Analytics, Part 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 43:04


    Dr. Naomi Rosenbach analyzes the qualitative responses of single men and women from the DAAS study. She suggests practical changes to our communal approach.Hosted by Anna Krausz

    Rabbi Moshe Pogrow: Data Driven. Dating Analytics, Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2023 40:38


    Rabbi Moshe Pogrow, founder of the NASI Project, speaks about approaches to increase match possibilities and educational programs to enhance success in relationships. Learn more about NASI programs at https://nasishidduch.com/Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

    Jon Birger: Ready for Magic? Dating Analytics, Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 37:55


    Business journalist and author of Date-onomics, Jon Birger, applies his research and techniques. Hosted by Anna Krausz

    Rav Reuven & Rabbanit Shani Taragin: Dating During Wartime

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 26:22


    A time to mourn a time to dance. Rav Reuven and Rabbanit Shani Taragin share heartfelt and practical insights using a Torah lens for dating and building marriages during times of war.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Rabbi Larry Rothwachs: A Parent's Role

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2023 54:38


    Rabbi Larry Rothwachs, LSW explores helpful conversations parents may have with their children before and during the dating process.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Inner Tranquility: Rabbi Shaya Ostrov

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2023 31:21


    Rabbi Shaya Ostrov, LCSW, shares some innovative techniques for acquiring inner tranquility allowing interpersonal relationships to flourish.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch.

    Rabbi Josh Blass: The Balance Beam

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 36:23


    Rabbi Josh Blass offers insight into juggling and maintaining the work, study, and family responsibilities we undertake.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

    Dr. Rebecca Wurzburger: I Hear You

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 35:02


    Dr. Rebecca Wurzburger explains and differentiates between the ‘speaker' and the ‘listener' to build strong and positive skills in any relationship.Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    On a Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2023 45:49


    Rav Judah Mischel, Executive Director of Camp HASC, reflects on the natural flow of changes within relationships, and why they should be embraced. Hosted by Randi Wartelsky.

    Perfectionism

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2023 35:04


    Dr. Evan Kroll describes the source and ramifications of perfectionism in forming and developing relationships. Hosted by Anna Krausz.

    Normalizing Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 26:46


    Dr. Debra Alper of the YU Counseling Center discusses the implications of stress & anxiety at various stages of the dating process.Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach.

    Insights from Experience: Part 3, Rabbi David Schlusselberg

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 35:07


    Rabbi David Schlusselberg focuses on the perspectives and sensitivities gleaned from his dating years.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

    Insights from Experience: Part 2, Aliza Abrams Konig

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 21:25


    Aliza Abrams Konig, LMSW, shares her perspective of living life fully while dating.  Hosted by Anna Krausz

    Insights from Experience: Part 1, Noam Lazarus

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2023 34:57


    Noam Lazarus shares his personal experiences and accomplishments while navigating the dating world.Hosted by Anna Krausz

    Chani Juravel: Spotlighting Strengths

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2023 51:17


    Chani Juravel, LCSW, identifies key strengths that help us flourish in our relationships.Hosted by Randi Wartelsky

    Navigating the Emotional Minefield: Ilana Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2023 36:27


    Psychotherapist & Dating Coach, Ilana Brown explores techniques & perspectives to effectuate healthy relationships.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

    Career Considerations

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2023 45:21


    Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz shares the evolution of his career path and explores the relevance of profession when choosing whom to date.Hosted by Rabbi Yoni Rabinovitch

    Dr. Noam Wasserman: Your Cofounder of Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2023 34:28


    Dr. Noam Wasserman relates the lessons we learn from entrepreneurial co-founders about relationships, roles, communication, criticism, and decision-making.Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

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    From Me to We

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 36:16


    Dr. Adam Lynn expands upon how two independent individuals can progress to become a strong and loving "we."Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

    Common Questions: Dr. Yael Muskat & Dr. Martin Galla

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 55:34


    Dr. Yael Muskat, Director, & Dr. Martin Galla, Associate Director, of Yeshiva University Counseling Center, share their experiences guiding young adults through the dating stages. Hosted by Rabbi Shmuel Ismach

    A Collaborative Team

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 48:11


    Merissa Gross, a seasoned matchmaker living in Israel, reviews the role of a Shadchan, Mentor & Coach, and encourages everyone to get involved in matchmaking and networking.Hosted by Randi Wartelsky

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