Emerging Motherhood

So its been a minute! Like any proper lady I don't wanna justjump right into things, lets warm up a little. Get to know each other better, have an appetizer of sorts! In this episode we catch up a little but mostly tell the outrageous story of Burt Pugach and Linda Riss. They were the focus of the 2007 documentary Crazy Love directed by Dan Klores. Watching this documentary always annoyed me because everyone involved, even Linda herself made such light of the situation. I couldn't understand how she could love this man after what he did to her. But after really paying attention to the details and the words from Linda herself it sounds more like a story of a woman with no village. Linda died a prisoner and a warden. It is a wild story that is truly stranger than fiction, I wish I was making this one up.Thank you for the patience during the hiatus! More episodes to come, please stay tuned!! To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! Keep an eye on our Etsy shop to know when merchandise is released! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the love and support on this journey!

Very quick update. We will not stay quiet!To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! Thank you!!!!!!!!

In this episode Enitza lists the books she has read on this journey of healing that have helped along the way. Almost none of them are the traditional "self-help" books but all have provided a stepping stone on this path of new beginnings. Books are listed below as Amazon affiliate links. A small profit may be made if you purchase using these links which is another great way to support! Thank you!The HelpGirl With a Pearl EarringThe Dance of The Dissident DaughterBrain on FireCuntSex & World PeaceThe Boy The Mole The Fox and the HorseGirl Serpent Thorn To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

Listen to Enitza recap Season 2 of Love is Blind on Netflix!To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

A friend, Heather Smith joins Enitza to talk about all things race related. If you have ever been in an interracial relationship please tune in to explore these topics and if you haven't please tune in to get a better idea of what it can feel like at times. What is it about the dreaded medium ugly white guy?? Let explore!!The video on Intersectionality is  very eye opening, click here to watch. Also, if you enjoy Heather, please giver her a follow on social media.To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

Enitza and Mandy give some tips and tricks to love yourself in a physical way. If you don't know where to start, listen to the previous episode for which toy might suit you best but buckle up, this episode will take you for a ride!To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! New Merch will be coming out to celebrate our 1yr anniversary coming up on 2/25/2022!! Thank you

In this Episode, Enitza and Mandy review some of the top selling, most common vibrators available for purchase and we announce the winner of the Love Crave Vesper vibrator. If you have ever been curious about adult toys and which one is which, how they work, even what they sound like you will want to tune it! To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! New Merch will be coming out to celebrate our 1yr anniversary coming up on 2/25/2022!! Thank you!!!!!!!!

Urban Dictionary defines it as "When the dick is so good you start to catch feelings for the guy when really you're just catching feelings for his dick." Enitza will dive a little deeper into the topic and give some personal examples and explain the science behind it. Knowledge is power, don't let the dick reign over you!!! The book discussed and recommended on this episode is linked here. (affiliate link, may make a small commission if you purchase the book using this link. The article referenced is here.To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! New Merch will be coming out to celebrate our 1yr anniversary coming up on 2/25/2022!! Thank you!!!!!!!!

One of the ways it helps to get over a break up is to remember all the things that you no longer have to deal with. Remember all the empty promises, missed dates or lack lustre moments. Think of all the men lined up in your DM's. Or think of the woman selling farts in a jar. Men are paying money to buy a woman's farts in a jar and you're explaining basic respect to the person that is supposed to be choosing you. In this episode, Enitza and Mandy take a DEEP DIVE into some of the most supportive husbands you've never heard of because they supported their ULTRA famous/powerful wives. Stop lowering your expectations and start remembering your worth! To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! New Merch will be coming out to celebrate our 1yr anniversary coming up on 2/25/2022!! Thank you!!!!!!!!

Moving on, how do we do it? Enitza is SALTY about the break up still. It hurts and Mandy is a comfort as they explore break ups, moving on, self love and noticing red flags. Sometimes you are confused in a relationship on what is and is not a red flag. Enitza and Mandy discuss their experiences with all of it. The book discussed and recommended on this episode is linked here. (affiliate link, may make a small commission if you purchase the book using this link. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! New Merch will be coming out to celebrate our 1yr anniversary coming up on 2/25/2022!! Thank you!!!!!!!!

So in the last episode recorded before Thanksgiving, Enitza announced that was in love! Well that's over now and we will go through how and why. I think it's important to share these stories so you don't feel crazy when they happen to you. All of us go through these things, some hurt more than others, this one for sure has a bite to it but we live and learn. I think my old therapist Lupe would be proud!! I hope she is still out there listening!! The book discussed and recommended on this episode is linked here. (affiliate link, may make a small commission if you purchase the book using this link. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

Music is healing. Listening to people pour their hearts out using words and imagery that you can relate to is amazing. Its also hilarious when you can see what the hell went on between a public couple. Listen to this episode to hear me and Mandy's take on some really fun songs. Songs we discussed listed below. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! Stay - Justin BieberLose You To Love Me - Selena GomezOn My Mind - Ellie GouldingDont - Ed SheeranHim & I - G-Eazy and HalseyWithout Me - HalseyMe, Myself & I - G-EazyEasy on Me - AdeleNew Rules - Due LipaSingle - KillumantiiNot a Love Song - BulowB.S. - Jhene Aiko

In this much more laid back episode my friend Lyana and I discuss our legal cannabis use.If you would like to connect or reach out click here for Lyana  To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

Rejection isn't always the end of the road in some connections. Sometimes, actually more often than not they come back looking for more and that's exactly what happened in the case of the 2 handy men.  Listen to episode 8 if you want the full back story but this episode will complete the story and answer any lingering questions!To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

With what is going on in Texas as far as women's rights being threatened we wanted to share a personal abortion story. Please listen as Mandy and Enitza discuss their personal  experiences and feelings on abortion. If you are a woman in Texas and in need of abortion services but feel money is an issue. Planned Parenthood is helping provide finanacial assistance to travel out of state for your medical needs.  Find more information at https://www.plannedparenthood.org/ Or you can doante to help women in need. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it!  

In this episode Mandy is back! She has finally moved to Colorado and settled in and we discuss the journey of healing we are both on. How our 2 paths are different but similar and what the future looks like with some of the bumps along the way. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

So dating is fun. Ummm. Not really. It's rough in these streets and I'm breaking down a few of my most recent pitfalls and how I got over them. It's hilarious to hear because it is such a clear and perfect real life example comparison of how you cann't please everyone and how clearly the trauma that people carry, really colors their interactions in this world. If you've ever been rejected, been confused after a ghosting, or just really hurt after a hard break up...buckle up because I got you covered. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

The only way to really solve a problem is to understand it. So in order to understand how to avoid another toxic relationship we need to learn how we got in one in the first place. You probably didn't have any boundaries and did not understand what consent is or how to manage it.  This episode will explain and explore those ideas. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

The main question people always ask is "How did you get out?"  When you are trapped in any toxic situation, it can seem impossible to get out. Where do you even start when you are drowning in life, which never stops but simultaneously need to start over...in my case with 4 kids in tow. It does seem impossible no matter the circumstances-but it is not impossible. If I can do it so can you. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

If it was so bad then why did you stay so long? It couldn't have been that bad. You're being dramatic.  You're just too emotional, you need to toughen up. Cry baby!  These are some of the typical thoughts, comments and responses to domestic violence and narcissistic abuse.  None of that is true or appropriate, its just easier for society to look the other way and blame the victim than to admit they are complicit. Abuse can not happen without enablers! Most evil dictators sat in their comfy thrones while their armies did the fighting. No one person is powerful alone, just like the old proverb many hands make light work. In this episode, I break down the movie The Truman Show and hopefully help you see how these abusive relationships work. I hope you evaluate the relationships in your life after listening and start having the necessary conversations to be an ally in this world.To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

What happens when an angel and a devil fall in love? Heather Elvis, a 20 year old wanderlust knows. It does not end well. She is dead and everyone is pointing fingers at Tammy Moorer wife of Sidney Moorer, Heather's ex boyfriend. Poor Sidney, he is just a victim in this nasty Devil's Triangle that Tammy has created.  Or is it His web of lies we have all been trapped in?  Narcissistic abuse is so insidious it can be hard to tell who is who, what is real, and pinpoint who the actual victim is. This is not the typical true crime podcast, but if that's what you like, this episode will absolutely keep you engaged.My deepest condolences to the Elvis family and all of those suffering the loss of the beautiful  light that Heather was in this world. This episode is released with all love and good intentions to shed a different light on this so that Heather can rest in peace.  My love and respect to you all. Some excerpts read are from the website www.breakthesilencedv.org Please if you think someone you love is in an abusive relationship, seek professional help in reaching them. Domestic Violence is a game no one wins. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

How do you pick up the pieces of your life when nothing is recognizable anymore. When you stand in front of the mirror and struggle to even look, how do you even begin to love yourself? If you listened to episode 1 this will pick up where that left off! To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

We are 2 heterosexual, cisgender women blazing a trail and experimenting with life as we are both on this healing journey. How do you ask for help when you are in an abusive situation? How do you offer help to a friend in need? How do you actually accept help and start moving on? Listen for our answers to those questions and more!To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it! 

In this episode I discuss how my upbringing and childhood programming set me up for entering a very toxic relationship as an adult. After 12 years and 4 children...one that has had 4 open heart surgeries, I had enough and ended it.  I truly hope that as I walk you through my "awakening"  you are able to check in, with yourself and see if any of what I said resonated. Do you see parallels in our stories? Do  you want to get out of an abusive or shitty relationship and don't know how? I am walking you through my process. Its quite a journey. To follow us on social media click on the following links Tik Tok, Instagram, Twitter, & we are on Youtube as well!! If you would like to order some of our bath salts on Etsy to support us we would appreciate it!