Not Your Mama's Relief Society

There aren't enough words to express how much it has meant to us to have you in our community. We have learned so much and we hope you have too. In this last episode, we talk about what we learned from doing the show, how we have seen the Lord's hand in our lives, and the lessons we hope you take with you. Feel free to reach out if you need support! Hello@anniejoy.com We hope to come back someday in the future. Until then... May God be with you till we meet again.

Annie Ruden is a licensed speech-language pathologist and business owner of Pronunciation Pro. She specializes in English pronunciation training for non-native English-speaking adult professionals. She also does confidence coaching for her clients to become more confident in their English. Annie brings her expertise to this powerful conversation about how women in the LDS church can feel more confident using their unique voices within the church and their callings. For more content from Annie Ruden: LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook, Instagram

Tanya Quinn is a wife, mother of 4, and an actress. She loves to create experiences that bring people together which she does beautifully in this week's episode. She shares her story of her son's death and how she was able to find God throughout the experience. When we share our grief we are so much more deeply connected. Get ready to feel deeply and be inspired in this powerful episode. You can follow Tanya on Instagram @tanyamquinn and @luckystreetcomedy

Get ready for an incredible conversation with my friend, Sylvia Beatriz, a powerful intuition coach and psychic. She shares powerful principles to help you develop your dialogue with the Spirit and help you connect with people on a soul level. You can find her on Instagram Her website www.sylviabeatriz.com Her podcast Soul Level Human

Melinda Hicks is an incredible wife, mother, fabulous human being and beautiful teacher. She shares her beautiful story about her sons and how she learned to see God's hand even in the painful experiences in her life. Tune in for this week's episode to join us for today's conversation about turning our doubt into divine purpose.

Garrett Batty is an independent film producer and director. He has made a name for himself in the industry creating faith-based films. You might know him from The Saratov Approach, which he wrote, produced, directed, and edited. He has made several amazing films; the one coming soon is called The Faith of Angels. Garrett shares his experience making these films and his incredible experiences on set. Join us for today's conversation about the power of following promptings to use your talents to build up the kingdom of God. Follow Garrett on IG at @garrettbatty and learn more about him at threecoinproductions.com

We are so grateful that Julie's sister, Suzy Baller, came back on the show to share her expertise in teaching. She shares some tips and tricks to improve our teaching skills in our church callings. Join us for this week's conversation about how we can follow the Savior's example and teach more like Him.

This week's episode is based on the talk by Sister Runia where she shares the idea that worry might feel like love, but it isn't. Join us for this conversation about how we can overcome our worries with hope. Sister Tamara W. Runia, "Seeing God's Family through the Overview Lens"

Many members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints are divided when it comes to LGBQT individuals and their membership in the church. Most LGBTQ members believe they have 3 options: stay single, marry someone of the opposite sex and not be in love, or find a partner to love and leave the church. Liz and Ryan offer a perspective on a fourth option. To have a committed partner AND stay active in the church. They share their journey of falling in love and how they navigate their interactions with their congregation. Listen to this week's conversation to hear more about how we can create a more welcoming space for ALL of our members. There is room on the pew for everyone.

When you hear the phrase, "love your enemies" does it make you cringe a little? We get it! Some people in our lives are harder to love than others. When we learn how to love, WE get changed in the process. Join us for this week's conversation about loving our enemies.

Dating after divorce is a different world than dating in your younger years! After ending a traumatic marriage, Marni Bown had to figure out how to heal and start her life over. She eventually remarried a wonderful man and has a blended family. She became a life coach to help others navigate life after divorce. In this episode, she shares some insights into how to be more intentional in dating and how to be true to yourself in the process. You can find more of Marni on her Instagram @marnibrown And on her website marnibown.com

Have you struggled to find peace in your life? Does it feel impossible to forgive? You're not alone and peace truly is possible. Tune in for this week's conversation about how Christ makes healing possible. We share our insights about the book The Peacegiver by James L. Ferrell. We also reference a beautiful talk by Sister Kristin M. Yee. Beauty for Ashes: The Healing Path of Forgiveness (churchofjesuschrist.org)

Maddi Jones is a spiritual energy worker who is living life full out! Her bright energy shines through all she does. This week's episode is about the difference between rigidity and fluidity in practicing the gospel. In this conversation, we talk about the importance of connecting to Christ's light and making choices from a place of light. For more of Maddi: Instagram: @maddijones11 Website: Maddijones11.com Email: Maddiraejones@gmail.com

Have you struggled with knowing if you have been forgiven for past mistakes? Do you feel anxious wondering if your repentance will ever be enough? Are you afraid to approach the Lord because you think you're unworthy? This week's episode is for you. Join us for this conversation about how we can know if we really are forgiven. We talk about reasons why we feel that way and what to do about it. Follow us on IG @notyourmamas.rs

Clint Laidlaw is the brains behind the biology-focused YouTube channel, Clint's Reptiles. With a personality as colorful as a chameleon, Clint's zest for life is contagious! His conversion story is so powerful because it shows how Heavenly Father knows him individually and allows his faith to evolve. He shares his experience allowing science and faith both to be a part of his life. Tune in now for this amazing story. Check out his channel HERE!

The glorious Melanie Stroud is back! In this week's conversation, we are talking about the awesome book that she wrote. She shares her process for studying the scriptures and receiving revelation. Melanie is a wife, momma, podcaster, and author. Get more of Melanie! Website melaniewstroud.com Instagram @comefollowmeforus Podcast Come Follow Me For Us Book Feasting on the Words of Christ

Rhonda Farr is a life coach who specializes in men's emotional health. She believes that teaching men emotional intelligence will allow all of us to be more connected at church, in our society, and especially within our homes. You're not going to want to miss this week's conversation! Here's how to get more of Rhonda: Website: RhondaFarr.com Podcast: The Intimacy Podcast for the Million Dollar Man Instagram: @rhondafarr_coaching

Steffany Winder is our dear friend from high school and she graciously shares her witness of Joseph Smith in this week's conversation. She served a mission in Independence, Missouri, and spent years studying about his life and his character. She shares some powerful resources that will help you if you are struggling with church history and some of the stories about Joseph Smith. Anthony Sweat "Plural Marriage" Anthony Sweat "Studying Church History and Doctrine" Anthony Sweat "Loving the Doctrine and Covenants"

Lindsay shares some powerful insights into how we can become more trauma-informed in our membership of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Trauma is something that everyone experiences and we don't need to categorize the level of trauma, it's all trauma and needs to be acknowledged and healed. Join us for today's conversation about how trauma impacts us and the steps we can take to heal and help others to heal. For more of Lindsay Poelman's work, you can go to her website lindsaypoelmancoaching.com or follow her on her Instagram @lindsaypoelmancoaching

Amber Pearce has an incredible story of how her parents converted to the LDS faith but were still hippies at heart. She grew up in a home with a lot of other siblings, some biological, some adopted, some fostered. Their home did not have electricity or a dishwasher. You'll love her story about how her life was so different from her peers and yet she saw beautiful blessings that came from her unique childhood. One of those blessings is that she was encouraged to be curious about concepts and be able to think critically about things. So when she was introduced to material that spoke against Joseph Smith she used those skills to form her own conclusions. Her powerful testimony of the prophet is inspiring. Tune in now for this amazing episode! To follow Amber on IG go to @leftwithasmile

Emily Smith is a wife, mother, and author and has now created a course to help you create your own family road map. In today's dark world, we can combat the darkness with light and help our family be anchored in the values that we teach them. Her course walks you through how to define what values you want to prioritize in your home and how to start teaching those values on a regular basis. You won't want to miss this important conversation! You can follow Emily on Instagram at @emilyayars You can get her Family Road Map course at this website fserious.com/roadmap You can buy her book, The Gift of the Devil on Amazon

Camber Hess is a lovely wife and momma who shares her beautiful story of how her husband went through a faith transition. While it was very difficult for her at first, she learned a lot of lessons about how to love her husband and grow closer to the Savior in the process. Join us for this week's conversation about trusting that God has eternity to work it all out. Here are some resources that Camber recommends: On supporting someone experiencing faith crisis or transition:-Bridges: Ministering to Those Who Question (David Ostler) On finding perspective when experiencing doubt:-Faith is not blind (Bruce & Marie Hafen)-The Crucible of Doubt (Terryl Givens) -Podcast: Faith Matters #149 Don't let a good faith crisis go to waste-Stand Forever Lawrence Corbridge (BYU Devotional) Book on the First Vision she referenced-First Vision: memory and Mormon origins (Stephen Harper)

You might know Lisa Valentine Clark from the Chatbooks commercials or from Once I Was a Beehive or her other movies or from her book "Real Moms", but Julie is friends with her in real life! We were so honored to have her on the show to share her experiences with the body image series she did on her own podcast. This is a beautiful conversation about how we need to start changing the narrative around our bodies. It has become social currency to talk badly about your body and as followers of Christ, we can do better! Our bodies are incredible vehicles for our spirit. Tune in now to hear this powerful conversation with our beloved Lisa. If you want more of Lisa, you can follow her on IG @yourfunnyvalentine or check The Lisa Show at www.byuradio.org/lisa

In our modern world, keeping the Sabbath Day holy is not as simple as it used to be. But that doesn't mean it's not important. Join us for today's conversation about taking a fresh look at this commandment and how we can practice it with intention. We have some great tips for making your Sunday more meaningful for you and your family. You won't want to miss this episode!

With so many missionaries coming home before 18 or 24 months, we need to improve how we interact with these young adults. Kris Doty-Yells is a licensed clinical social worker with a specialty in crisis intervention and trauma. She also has a Ph.D. in social work. After her son returned early from his mission and she saw the impact that it had on him, she began her research into how missionaries are affected by their early return. She shares her own insights as a mother and her data as a behavioral health researcher in this week's episode. Hint: We could do a lot better in how we support these missionaries. If you would like to hear more about her research and what her tips are on how to improve our conversations then listen now to this episode!

Becky Proudfit is an incredible speaker, writer, and thought leader. She is also a wonderful wife, mother, and seminary teacher! You'll love this week's episode as we discuss with Becky what finding your purpose means and what it doesn't mean. A lot of us have been chasing an idea of purpose that leaves us feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied, but once you truly understand your purpose, you'll be able to stop the emotional roller coaster of searching for your purpose outside of yourself. To hear more from Becky, you can follow her on Instagram @beckyproudfit

Is your testimony strong in certain areas, but not in other areas? You're not alone! Join us for this week's episode where we discuss ways to build our testimonies. We talk about the scientific method and how we can apply that method to increase our faith in each area of the gospel. Here's the link to the talk we refer to by Elder Bednar: Windows of Heaven

TRIGGER WARNING! This episode is about suicide so we want to make sure you are prepared before listening. There is nothing graphic, but we want to be sensitive about this topic. Kelly Church is an incredible wife and mother and is now an advocate for helping others to be more educated about brain health. Her beautiful daughter, Jada, passed away from suicide in 2021. Kelly shares her story and insights into how we can help support others who are struggling with anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation. She also shares her faith journey as she navigates her grief. You won't want to miss this episode! Kelly has a foundation now that gives out bracelets that say: "Choose to stay. You are loved by many." If you would like to get bracelets to pass out, you can find out more on their Facebook HERE and their Instagram HERE. She also started a faith-based grief support group and you can find out more on their Facebook HERE and their Instagram HERE.

Andee is a wife and momma to 6 kids and is an amazing life coach. She created her program called Connect Method Parenting to help mommas create dreamy relationships with their children. If you are looking for ways to learn to value connection over correction in your parenting, Andee is your girl! She shares some awesome insights and tips in this episode. For more of Andee, you can follow her on IG HERE Or to learn more about her group program you can go to her website HERE

Madi Smith is a wife, momma, high fitness instructor, and breathwork instructor. She left the church when she was younger, but is now married to a member of the LDS faith. In this episode, she shares her story of how she and her husband navigate their different beliefs in a healthy way to create a loving marriage. If you are in mixed faith marriage or want to understand more about how to work together when you disagree in your marriage, this episode is for you! You can find Madi on Instagram HERE!

What are the things that set your soul on fire? Are you doing those things in your life? OFI is an incredible musician who shares how the gospel of Jesus Christ and music sets his soul on fire. His passion for music comes through when he performs and is part of what makes him so successful. He is a natural rockstar who has fierce brand loyalty to God and to Christ. In this episode, we talk about the importance of doing the things you are gifted at so you can build your corner of the kingdom. Follow OFI on Instagram for updates on big changes to the band. Check out his website to hear his music and learn more about him. Go to my website for details on Kindness Camp

This week we interviewed Meagan Skidmore who is a coach for parents with LGBQT+ children. She shares her heart and her story of how she has grown in her relationship with her LGBQT+ daughter and now how she helps other parents to do the same. You'll love her insights into how we can support this community better as disciples of Jesus Christ. Meagan said if our listeners email her she will send them a rainbow pin. So shoot her an email at hello@meaganskidmorecoaching.com and put Not Your Mama's Relief Society in the subject line and she will send you one! For more from Meagan you can go to her website: meaganskidmorecoaching.com or follow her on Instagram: @meaganskidmorecoaching

Amy Watson is a certified Life after Babyloss coach and she had a podcast where she shares all the tools you need to build a beautiful life even without all your babies in your arms. In this interview, we discuss grief on all levels and also what Amy has learned through her grief. Get ready for a powerful conversation about how we support and love ourselves through grief and how we can support those we love who have experienced infant loss. You can go to Amy's website: smoothstonescoaching.com Or listen to her podcast: Smooth Stones

Money is everywhere and a part of everything that we do. So it's no wonder that we have so many thoughts and feelings about it. But if you're ready to tell a different story about your money, then listen to this episode! Mark Butler is the money guy for a lot of high-profile entrepreneurs and is an incredible life coach helping people feel better about their finances. He helped us break down some of our beliefs and gave us tools to help us tell a story we like about our money. If you want more of Mark Butler: Go to his website: moneyschool.works Listen to his podcast: Money School with Mark Butler

Do you struggle with teaching your kids gospel concepts in a way that they can understand? Do you find yourself scrambling to do Come Follow Me each week? Then you're going to love this interview with Jared and Marcie Austin. They are the creators of Latter Day Kids, which is an amazing resource for families needing weekly CFM lessons. Their story about how they created this resource is so inspiring. It's beautiful what the Lord can do with our small efforts and with our faith. Join us for this week's conversation about how to keep teaching our children the gospel SIMPLE! Go HERE to get weekly content from Latter Day Kids!

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by all the expectations you believe you have to meet by being a member? Do you struggle with perfectionism? Then listen to this episode to hear our conversation about how we can view being "all in" in a different way. Your sincere commitment means so much more than how many things you accomplish. We referenced Michelle Craig's talk, Wholehearted

It can be tricky to navigate relationships with friends and family who no longer align with the LDS Church. But it doesn't have to mean those relationships need to end. Hailee Mae shares her experience with her beliefs no longer aligning with the Church and how she is creating a space to love and serve where she is right now. This is a beautiful conversation that shares tips on how we can support and love people even if we don't have the same beliefs. Hailee Mae is an amazing life coach and you can find out more about her on her website haileemae.com and her Instagram @haileemaecoaching

Christmas is the perfect time to reflect on the many names of Christ. In this episode we cover several of the names that have personal meaning for us and encourage you to do the same. Which names have resonated with you? Which names would you like to emulate in your life more? We hope this episode helps you deepen your Christ centered Christmas. Merry Christmas! We love you! Talks we referenced in this episode: Studying the names of Christ: Elder Rasband That They Might Know Thee: Elder Schmitt

Do you love your family AND your peace of mind? Yeah, we do too. So we came up with some tips and tricks to help you mentally prepare yourself for your upcoming holiday gatherings. If you're ready to make the holidays brighter, tune in now for this week's conversation.

Disney has perpetuated the idea that stepmothers are evil and that isn't true! There are a lot of emotions when it comes to divorce and blended families, but that doesn't have to mean that those step-parents have ill intentions. This week we interviewed Julie's sister, Suzy Baller about her experience becoming a stepmother to her husband's 2 young boys. Her story is tender and relatable to all of us who have had something not work out as we had hoped in our life. Listen now for how she used the gospel and her relationship with Jesus Christ to soothe her heart.  

The world is online now! So whether you are occasionally online or you live and breathe social media, it's a part of life these days. The online world is a tool and a tool can be used for good or for bad. Join us for this week's conversation about how to interact online in a way that honors the covenants we made to represent Christ in all of our interactions. Resources we used in this episode: Sister J. Annette Dennis: His Yoke is Easy and His Burden is Light Lessons on Being Kind and Having Charity

Join us for today's conversation about how we can best help and support our teenagers in understanding who they are and who they are capable of becoming. We have so many voices shouting at us and pulling us in different directions so it's more crucial than ever to connect to heaven. Teenagers have an even bigger challenge of creating that connection so we asked faith-based life coach Cami DeWitt to talk with us about how we can do that. She coaches lots of teenagers and has some great wisdom to share! You can follow Cami D on Instagram HERE

As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints we are asked to volunteer our time to serve our congregation. We refer to them as "callings". Whether you say yes or no to these callings, we hope that this episode provides you a framework that will help you make your choice with clarity and intention and that you will invite the Lord to partner with you in the decision. Elder Eyering, "Rise to the Call"

Have you ever wondered if the promptings you are getting are from you or from the Spirit? Then this episode is for you! This week we are diving into a devotional talk from Loren Dalton about understanding how to recognize when the Holy Ghost is speaking to us. Emily Bingham, who is a recently returned missionary, joins us for today's conversation and shares her insights into how to incorporate revelation into our missionary work. Loren Dalton's Devotional: You ARE Receiving Revelation: Now, ACT on it!

Waiting can feel like a heavy word, especially when you are waiting for the Lord to give you the answer or the blessing or the outcome you are hoping for. There is no shortage of pain in this world! But there is also no shortage of peace the Lord can provide us. Join us for this week's conversation where we discuss waiting on the Lord and a few principles that can make the waiting period beautiful and meaningful. "Waiting on the Lord" by Elder Holland

Are you tired of constantly trying to find more time? Are you exhausted trying to fit everything into one day? Then this episode is for you! Today's conversation is with an amazing life coach who teaches women about time management and other tools to learn how to balance work life and mom life. Ceri Payne, M.Ed, is a certified life coach from The Life Coach School. She created her six-figure coaching practice while parenting three teenagers, teaching special education full-time, supporting her husband in his demanding career, and serving as the RS President in her ward. Ceri's LINK to her template for a love letter to time Check out Ceri HERE! Follow Ceri on Instagram

This week's episode is about how we can create more joy in our families by defining and creating our family values. My sweet daughter, Charlotte Joy, really wanted to be on my podcast and it was fun to create this with her. Thank you for letting her be a part of our community. Listen now for some tips on you can create those values in your family! The books I referenced in this episode: Essentialism by Greg McKeown The Secrets of Happy Families by Bruce Feiler

What do you think of when you think of the word home? Do you think of those same words when you think of going to church? If not, we may need some adjustments! In this week's episode, we talk about how we can keep the porch light on for each other. Our congregations are meant to be a place where we can be a family and we have some tips on how you can create that kind of space. Talks we used in this episode: Elder Gong, "Trust Again" Elder Bednar, "And Nothing Shall Offend Them"

Do you hear about journal writing and cringe a little? Does it seem like you never have enough time to make that a priority? Then this episode is for you! Listen now for answers to the reasons why it's hard to journal and ideas on how you can make it work in your life. Your story matters and it's worth writing down. Resources for online journaling: prompted.io Blog about journaling ideas

Episodes 44 & 45 were Stephanie's incredible conversion story. She tells about meeting a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and how she made a huge impact on her life when she boldly told Stephanie that the adversary was lying to her and that Christ loved her. Then she boldly asked Stephanie if she wanted a priesthood blessing! Today's episode is an interview with that amazing woman, Karma! She shares more of her story and about how she has come to learn to trust the promptings of the Spirit in her life.

Is ministering just rebranding for visiting teaching? We believe it's more than a new name and in this week's episode, we dive into the challenges of ministering. We share ways that we can turn those roadblocks into bridges and we share ways to make ministering work for you right where you are. The talks we reference in this episode: Michelle Craig, Eyes to See Rebecca L. Craven, Do What Mattereth Most Elder Eyering, The Caregiver If you want an easy way to say, "I See You!" check out Bright Boxes. I'm not an affiliate, I just really love them!