Love, Life & Millenials

If you want to know who among the 12 Zodiacs are the most chill and least judgmental, that's probably us Geminis. Yes, us. 'Cos this time, my guest and I are none other than Geminis. Hit that play button and let us know what you think! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Aquarius! The calm, clear, but also sometimes crazy water! This week we have Clara, one of my closest friends in Shanghai, to let us know her thoughts and opinions about love and life as an Aquarius. Hit that play button and listen up! If you liked the episode, don't forget to share it around! It means lots! Reach out to us on Instagram @clara___v_v & @andreas.wx!  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Sagittarius and her freedom. You'll see how it means to them, or at least for Lyvia. In this episode, we go deep into how Lyvia finds meaning in herself and her life. Both as a person and a Sagittarius. Hit play and have a listen! As always, stay happy and keep hustlin'! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

This week is time for the lion! Or rather, the lioness. A good friend of mine, Estrella, decided to speak her Bible out to the world and let us know the nooks and crannies inside her brain. Do you think she's an exemplary model for Leo? Hit play and let me know! TIMESTAMP: Do you believe in constellations? 1:33 | Uncontained feelings 06:20 | Unable to settle with someone lower 11:31 | Best combo for a man 12:34 | Racial preference!? 15:34 | Is standing out important 19:25 | The crave for undivided attention 23:21 | Emotionally unavailable guys 26:23 | The biggest conflict ever 30:57 | If we don't like you, you'll know it 39:24 | Something to change about themselves 40:17 | Closing 42:30 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

First one of the 12 Zodiacs series! How does a Piscess fall in love? Click play and find out! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

The urge to possess. Something we humans inherently and instinctively do. But what if, some beauties are meant to be appreciated from afar? What do you think? Drop me an Insta DM @andreas.wx --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Everyone has a dream, but not everyone feels their dream. Or share their dream. These are some of the things that I talked over with Yoann, my mentor, and a very good friend. In this time of COVID, it is even more important to never lose hope but instead, to keep dreaming. So click play and have a listen! Hope you enjoy it! If you do please help to share it around. Get in touch with Yoann at his Linkedin @Yoann Delwarde or Wechat @Yoann-d! As always, stay happy and keep hustlin' guys! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Sometimes a simple activity can teach me random stuff. Yeah, that's just impulsive I am. Even more by turning these philosophical aha moments into a full-blown podcast episode. But let me tell you how rafting can somehow teach me about leadership and motivation. Pretty sick, huh? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Often times we didn't know that our loss might be our temporary stop to winning. Still with Aaron Beverly, find out how sometimes if only we persisted, everything else would fall into place in due time. If you enjoy it, don't forget to share it around! Have some questions? Ask us on Instagram @andreas.wx & @aaron_w_beverly | Aaron's Youtube: Aaron W. Beverly - Your Public Speaking Mentor --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

My experience participating in a public speaking contest taught me not only to find the joy of winning but also the contentment of losing. This week I'm chatting with the expert, Aaron Beverly, 2019 World Champion of Public Speaking, to give us some of his best insights into having the right mentality for facing both wins and losses. If you enjoy it, don't forget to share it around! Have some questions? Ask us on Instagram @andreas.wx & @aaron_w_beverly | Aaron's Youtube: Aaron W. Beverly - Your Public Speaking Mentor --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Sometimes the only way to heal is to change our outlook about life. Kevin said it best, "Think long-term, live short-term." Hit play and listen to Part 2 of the episode where we talk about how Kevin managed to pull himself out of the pit of depression through arguably his life's most heartbreaking moments. If you liked this episode, please feel free to pay it forward to your friends and families! Any further questions please DM me on Instagram @andreas.wx or Kevin, our podcast guest, at Wechat @kevinyangyunchang. As always guys, thanks for listening, keep hustlin' and stay happy yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

When it strikes us, it feels like all we could think of doing is to shut down and hibernate forever. But maybe there are better ways to cope up with grievances. Listen to Kevin's story on how he reshifted his paradigm to finally find solace and acceptance. If you liked this episode, please feel free to pay it forward to your friends and families! Any further questions please DM me on Instagram @andreas.wx or Kevin, our podcast guest, at Wechat @kevinyangyunchang. As always guys, thanks for listening, keep hustlin' and stay happy yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Most of us, we like to enter relationships having this expectation about our partner. This can be good and bad. Good because it means we know what we want. Bad because it means we could potentially be upset when we know we're not getting what we want. But what if we just come to a relationship expecting nothing? Here's a continuation story of Peter and Grace on how their love bloom when their expectation equates zero. Enjoyed listening? Let me know by Insta DM me over @andreas.wx! As always, stay happy and keep hustlin yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Let's talk about love. Let's talk about finding that one thing both of you love. That one thing that will constantly reignite your infatuation with each other. And that one thing that you will never tire yourselves from doing with that person. What do you think it is? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

I literally had one of the most interesting conversations with a freshman in college. What an eye-opener to see such mature thinking at such a young age. Don't believe me? Click play and have a listen! Have some questions? DM me on Instagram @andreas.wx or add mine and Anna's WeChat @andreas_a26 & @Nado0276. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Many of us must at least have thought about this once: is this what I'm meant to do? Is my passion hand-in-hand with my career? In this episode, I share a talk show that I had with two KOLs who are the complete opposite. One chose to pursue career first, the other went all-in as he yoloed from the Philippines to China. So which one are you? Let me know by Insta DM me over @andreas.wx! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

A sitdown with Jonathan Peng who has amassed over half a million subscribers in China's social media and is now an exclusive Bytedance content creator. Click play and listen to his journey of personal discovery and later on fulfillment by simply being consistent and persistent doing what you really want. There are also bonus tips for you who might be thinking of starting your own channel within the China domain. **Find Jonathan in 抖音/今日头条/西瓜视频 = 彭玉印 | Instagram = Jonathan Peng | Youtube = Jonathan Peng & JonathanPengLearnEnglish | Tiktok = Jonpeng.** Got some questions? DM me @andreas.wx or him and we'll get back at ya'! As always, hope you guys enjoy the episode. Stay happy and keep hustlin'! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Spring is here! And it reminds me to appreciate my life a little bit more. What does it remind you of? Let me know by sending me an Insta DM over to @andreas.wx or Email to a26.saerdna@gmail.com, let's talk! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Feeling extremely sad with so much violence these days. Riots in the States, wars in Myanmar, all these hatreds making so many noises and disrupted our peaceful world. And all that, just because somebody doesn't know how to channel their pain properly. I feel them and I sincerely hope they could heal so that the world too can heal. What do you think? Let me know by sending your DM to my Instagram @andreas.wx or Email to a26.saerdna@gmail.com! If you liked the episode, please feel free to share it forward to your friends. As always, stay happy and keep hustlin gengs! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Let's be real. At least 90% of you must have ghosted or being ghosted by someone at some point in life. So in this episode, I wanted to neutrally understand the thought process behind each option, and what would personally be my preferrable method. What about yours? Click play, have a listen, and let me know! Any question? Feel free to Insta DM me over @andreas.wx or Email me at a26.saerdna@gmail.com! As always, stay happy and keep hustlin' guys! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Do you commute to work wearing earbuds 24/7? If yes, then maybe this episode can bring you a new perspective on how sometimes opening up yourself to the world can uncover very simple but meaning life-changing stories. This is a real story btw! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Creativity is a very fluid term, isn't it? What we sometimes think is creative, other people may just think it's meh. In this episode I share a lesson from Seth Godin for a mindset shift versus creativity block. What do you think? Let me know by sending over an Insta DM over to @andreas.wx or Email at a26.saerdna@gmail.com! As always, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Who said poker is purely for gambling and unnecessary indulgence? Let me prove how you can actually learn from poker, or not haha. Hope you guys enjoy the episode. If you do, please help to pay it forward by sharing around. It means lots! Have some comments? Feel free to DM me over Insta @andreas.wx or Email at a26.saerdna@gmail.com. As always, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

How do you spend your valentine? Do you have fun with the one? Or you have fun with yourself? The catch? They're all just as good! Drop me an Insta DM @andreas.wx or Email at a26.saerdna@gmail.com! Hope ya'll having a sweet and epic Valentine! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Covid sucks. So here is something that could helpfully help you and console you. From a friend, to a friend. What was your darkest moment during this time? If you feel like sharing, I would be more than happy to hear you out. DM me on Insta @andreas.wx or Email me at a26.saerdna@gmail.com. Wishing you an early Happy Chinese New Year! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Here it is. The awaited sequel to last week. Let all truths be exposed, all barriers torn open. And for you Indonesian listeners out there, we are doing this episode in both Indonesian and English. Why, you ask? Well some gossips and 'julits' are still best spoken in our mother tongue. Am I right or am I right? Hit that play button and have a listen! English recap starts @47:55. Tell me, what's your view on this matter? DM me on Insta @andreas.wx! As always guys, stay happy and keep hustlin' yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

A sitdown between me and Fillius to once and for all get the answer of whether a man should or should not pay for his dates. What would your answer be to that? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

When a casual Saturday movie night suddenly just got way out of control. This movie really made me daze and gaze for a long time, before finally arriving at somewhat an epitome. Why don't you click play, have a listen, and let me know if it is a good or bad one? DM me over at Insta @andreas.wx or Email a26.saerdna@gmail.com. Hope you like it! As always, stay happy, healthy, and hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

It sucks, isn't it? Sending a chat just to be ignored by the other person. But maybe there are better ways to look at it. Instead of succumbing to our feeling and being all insecure or depressed. Curious? Click play and have a listen! Have better days to do it? Let me know by sending your thoughts to my Instagram DM @andreas.wx or email to a26.saerdna@gmail.com. Anyways, stay happy and keep hustlin' yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Happy New Year 2021! In this first episode of the year, I shared how I managed to tackle my past 2020 resolutions, the things I discovered along the way, and what I plan to do next. See if any of these resonates with you? And let me know your top 3-5 resolutions for the year! Hope you enjoy it! As always, stay happy and keep hustling guys! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Last episode of 2020! Wow, this year flies so fast. Staying at home all the time might make us feel a little bit awkward when we do get out and socialize. So here are 5 tips to refresh you on how you can make a good first impression, psst maybe for your potential dates! Press that play button and have a listen! Hope you enjoy! Drop me an Insta DM @andreas.wx or Email me at a26.saerdna@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Who could have thought becoming a great storyteller can actually help build your persona in front of your date? In this episode, I and Kai took public speaking to a whole new world. We discussed how language rhetorics can utterly impact not only on our first impression but also on the last, the lasting impression. Hit that play button and find out yourself! What kind of technique that you found the most interesting? Insta DM me your thoughts @andreas.wx or send over a VM on Anchor. As always, stay happy and keep hustlin yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Deciding to double down on my public speaking skill was probably one of the best decisions of 2020. I got to learn so much about myself, the stories I narrated, and the general awareness of how to present one's self. This episode is a special one that's worth thousands of Chinese yuan. I'm not even joking. I begged my mentor Kai to sit down with us and share his tips so that you can start to become a great public speaker. And trust me. The benefits are mad lots! Like, mad! Let me know what your struggle is to get on stage, or any cringe story of being starstruck by nervousness. Anyways, hope you like it. Feel free to share it around, it means lots! As always, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

There are two types of people. Those who know nothing about investment, or those who know but still procrastinate on doing. If you're one of the two, then this episode is for you. I was supposed to sit down with Stan, a Personal Financial Consultant from the Netherlands, to talk about investing, but due to some technical issues, I had to re-narrate the whole conversation. My sincere apology for that, but I try to make it up by summarizing the key talking points. So hope you benefitted from this episode. Tell me how far are your personal journey in investing. What kind of instruments are you most comfortable with? It's definitely stocks for me yikes. Feel free to share this around. It helps me lots. Anyways, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

So you're into Tech. Great. This means this episode will speak directly to you. I'm so glad that I could have a sitdown with Anthony, Product Development Head of Google China, to share with us some of his insights about tech and his advice for those just about to start out. This has been an invaluable lesson for me. What do you think? What's your current struggle with tech right now? Finding your niche? Feel free to DM me over at Instagram @andreas.wx or Voice Message me at Anchor. Hope you find this episode useful. If you do, please help to pay it forward by sharing. Hey, it means lots! Anyway, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

In this ever-changing job market and huzz-buzz of technological advancement which some might even call it as invasion, I sat down with my former principal Ms. Ching who made her second appearance to share us her insights and opinions. We tried to pick each other's brain and ended up discussing a lot of things. Be sure to click play and have a listen. Who knows, you might find one or two takeaways yourselves. Hope you like it! If you do, please help pay it forward by sharing to others. It means lots! Anyways, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

As millennials, we like to think we got our life figured out. But I'm pretty sure that's not the case. That is why in this episode I invited Lilly to talk about her insights and experience on mentoring, and how having a mentor in her 20s had greatly impacted her life. Hit the play button and listen for yourself. Who knows, maybe you too will be inspired to find a mentor. If you wish to talk with Lilly further, please feel free to reach her out by Email to lilly.wong@coach-hauz.com; of course, you're free to DM me as well @andreas.wx on Instagram. Anyways, I hope this episode has done you well. If it did, please help to pay it forward by sharing, it means lots! As always, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

All failures in life will eventually become funny. How cool is that? This is one of the key highlight statements given by my favorite Norwegian friend, Christian. This is probably the most chilled, or too chilled, episode as we chatted over a bottle of wine. But hey I learned a lot, and I hope you do too. Tell me your no. 1 takeaway from this episode by sending over a DM to my Instagram @andreas.wx or leave me an Anchor voice message. As always, be happy and keep hustling! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Being a diplomat sounds cool. Cocktail party, gala, social events and all those bling-blings. But behind all that lies the need of being able to present one's self. How to communicate your message even when the situation is not in favor of you, or for @raditpan's case, when his Chinese can sometimes be a limitation. Of course it's not only about your speech, but also the intention that matters. So listen up to our chat and hope you can get something out of this episode. If you do, please help to pay it forward by sharing. Thanks lots! As always, stay happy and keep hustling! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Early on with language, we are always taught to initiate a conversation with "How are you?" Sure, it's an el Classico opener but perhaps there are more alternative ways to dive into a dialogue with strangers. Not only will this create a unique first impression, but hopefully just as good of a last impression. Cos remember, the last impression is the lasting impression. Let me know if you enjoy this episode. Feel free to pay it forward to your friends. It means lots! As always guys, stay happy and keep hustling yo! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Many of us have learnt English from our early days. It's an undeniably important asset, but maybe we shouldn't be far too complacent about it. Day-to-day, we have been listening to the ever-growing presence of China in our current world economic landscape. So in this episode, I got myself into a casual conversation with Ocha Stephanie (@ochastephanie) who has spent a whopping decade of her life in China to get a better POV of the country and how learning the Chinese language has massively impacted her life as well as career. The interview is done in a mix of Bahasa and English but don't worry I got you covered. English summary of our talk begins at 47:03. Hope you like it! If you do, please help to pay it forward by sharing. It means lots! As always, stay happy and keep hustling! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Welcome back! Season 2 is up with new jingle and amazing artwork by Stefy Akuba (remember him from the episode on education?). As promised, in this new series, I want to talk about one of our generation's common problem aka networking in real life.  We all know it's not as simple as pressing an Add / Follow button. In this episode, I share what I usually do when I approach a new community. Hope you find this relatable! Feel free to drop your thoughts to my email at a26.saerdna@gmail.com or DM over to Insta @andreas.wx --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Exactly 1 Year since I posted my first podcast episode. Massive humongous big thanks to you and my lovely speakers. In this last episode of season 1, I talked about what I've learnt during this journey and some sneak-peek prelude to Season 2. Yes, season 2! Hope you are as excited about it as I am! As always guys, stay happy and keep hustling yo! DM me on Insta @andreas.wx if you noticed that I used the exact same BGM as Episode 1 :) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

A very casual and intimate talk with me and my extremely diverse friends. Yes, diverse as in Thailand, Hongkong, and Indonesia. And yes, like most of you, we too know shit about love, let alone true love. But we like this talk. Because it is very casual but at the same time intimate. We get to know each other's perspective and the way we approach dating. Who knows, maybe you get to learn a thing or two as well? Click play and have a listen! As always, feel free to let me know your thoughts! Hope you like it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

A continuation episode of last week's book review. This time I brought in my friend Graph to talk about how the book changed his life, both in mindset and relationship. Little did I know that he was a fanatic worshipper of Corey Wayne! Damn! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Jalan-jalan yang sangat ditunggu-tunggu. Buat gw dan gw yakin buat kalian semua. Perjalanan yang super seru tapi tidak pernah luput dari drama. Dari pertama kali menginjak kaki di padang gurun, hape jatuh terjerembap di pasir, delay pesawat, sampai adegan permuntahan di pesawat.  Tapi emang aman ya jalan-jalan di masa pabdemi gini? Click play and have a listen!  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Apa ya rasanya ga ada pengalaman bisnis sama sekali, bukan bidang bagian utama, dan di medan yang tidak familiar, tapi diberikan tanggung jawab untuk mengelola satu restoran yang mewakili kultur dan budaya bangsa Indonesia? You're right. It's not easy. Tapi kalo kata Ko Edwin, Founder dari The Pawon, "yah dibawa enjoy aja". Dengerin deh suka dukanya, geram dan ketawanya Ko Edwin in his journey to the unknown, to what he later found his identity and fulfillment thereof. Jangan lupa untuk give him a visit kalau lagi mampir ke Shanghai ya! And me too... if you want... I guess... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

A conversation between me and David, Singaporean real estate consultant and just recently restaurant owner, about doing business and his 17-years survival in the Chinese market, especially on the subject of 'guanxi'. Needless to say, you'll learn a lot from listening to his stories. So off you go! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

A mini rant of me blurting out my thoughts whether or not one should stalk his/her date. Which one are you? Do you stalk? Share me your thoughts or opinions via DM on Instagram @andreas.wx or Email a26.saerdna@gmail.com - As always guys, stay happy and keep hustling! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

My take on Daniel Kahneman's Thinking Fast & Slow. Kali ini book reviewnya dengan versi yang lebih pendek. Kalian lebih suka yang mana nih? Feel free to drop me a DM @andreas.wx. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message

Sobekan Tiket Bioskop. Kalau nama ini udah familiar di kuping, berarti you know who I'm talking about. Timotius Prassanto aka @callmetimo, seorang individu yang ngerti banget tentang kemauan diri sendiri, ditambah pula dengan kegigihan dan sikap pantang menyerahnya. Kurang apa lagi coba? Dengerin aja kalo ga percaya. Let me know ya what you think.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/llmbydre/message