Unveiled is an invitation to "lift the veil" and experience the healing joy found in bringing God behind-the-scenes of your marriage. Marriage is a journey of ups and downs that stretches and grows us. I'd love to travel this journey with you as the enco
Women - we are Esthers! We have been created for "such a time as this." (Esther 4:14) It is time that we step out of our comfort zones and come together in prayer and action to make a difference in our nation. Join me on October 12th in praying for the US either in person in DC or via livestream. Go to www.amillionwomen.org to register and get the link. Scriptures in this episode: 2 Chronicles 7:14
As women, we often feel like we have to be the hero and make it happen. Sometimes we secretly like being the hero. :) Other times we want someone to come rescue us! When we surrender things to God, we find out who our ultimate hero is. Scriptures used in this episode: Matthew 23:12, Proverbs 3:5-6, Proverbs 19:21
One of the keys to a healthy relationship is being able to see things from the other person's point of view. This will often help us get past an impasse and have more empathy and compassion for our spouse. Use this key to unlock a door when you are stuck at odds with each other. Scriptures used in this episode:1 Peter 3:8, Romans 12:10, Ephesians 4:32
This is part of the Keys to Healthy Relationships Series We may not realize that we are judging others, but the ramifications of judging on our relationships are very destructive. Matthew in the Bible has a lot to say about it and Jesus models grace for us. Scripture in this episode: Matthew 7:1-5, Luke 6:37
Whether it's fighting or disagreeing or other trials of life, there is a place to start to find healing. This key is intimacy with Jesus. Going to Jesus and allowing Him to work in our own hearts, will begin to turn things around in our relationships. I've seen it work in my own life and the lives of others. Scriptures used in this episode: Matthew 7:1-5, Matthew 11:28, Romans 12:1-2
It's so easy for relationships to slip into "work" mode and talk mostly of logistics. To have a "GREAT" marriage, there needs to be a deep friendship which includes intimate heart talk. Creating safe spaces is the key. Scriptures used in this episode: Genesis 2:24, 2 Corinthians 6:11-13
Another key to healthy relationships is cultivating a culture of honor in your home. We don't talk about honor much anymore. We don't always know how to show it. In this episode we look at a few ways to create a culture of honor. Scriptures in this episode: Romans 12:10, Proverbs 15:33, Proverbs 18:12, Proverbs 22:4, Proverbs 29:23 Five Principles of Honor: 1 - Honoring someone is respecting their position. 2 - Honoring someone is not speaking ill of them or to them. 3 - Honoring someone is fighting against selfishness. 4 - Honoring someone is listening to their thoughts and feelings and taking them into consideration. 5 – Humility fosters honor.
Everyone wants healthy relationships. One of my favorites is being quick to apologize and quick to forgive. (aka "Keeping short accounts") Don't let the yucky stuff pile up! Scriptures in this episode: Romans 12:17-19, Matthew 18:21-22, Matthew 6:15
Sometimes I act like an undercover Christian. Why? I don't know. Jesus calls us to be salt and light. Are we making others thirsty for what we have? Scriptures in this episode: Matthew 5:13-16, 1 Peter 3:15, Romans 12:1-2, Ephesians 6:12
Do you have negative voices in your mind that keep you discouraged? Good news - You have power over your thoughts! Learn how to choose what to think. Scriptures used in this episode: 1 Kings 19:11-13, John 10:10, Proverbs 4:23, 2 Corinthians 10:5, Isaiah 55:8
I'm not endorsing Disney nor their theme parks, but I did grow up loving to go to Disney World. Here my story and how it relates to receiving all God has for us in His Kingdom. Get hungry and thirsty for more. Scriptures in this episode: Matthew 6:25-27, 33, Psalm 34:8, Matthew 4:17-18, Matthew 18:3-4, 2 Corinthians 5:17
It's frustrating to not see our prayers answered. It's even more frustrating to not know how to pray for something. Make your prayers more effective by praying WITH God, rather than TO God. Scriptures referenced: Matthew 11:28-29, Luke 12:2-3, Matthew 6:10, Matthew 18:19
God is speaking to us all the time, but like a radio, we have to know how to "tune in." I learned this technique some 15 years ago and it forever changed my life. There is more than one way to hear from God, but if you are not yet able to have long two-way conversations with God - this episode will teach you how. It is based on the teaching by Mark Virkler entitled "The 4 Keys to Hearing God's Voice." https://www.cwgministries.org/store/4-keys-hearing-gods-voicePlease try this. You won't regret it. It may take more than one try to get it, but don't give up. Jesus wants to talk to you! Scriptures referenced in this episode: John 10:27, Habbakuk 2:1-2
Do you ever wonder how to pray for your husband or whether or not it does any good? Join me as I interview author, Kim Gordon, talking about her new book, "Helper. Rescuer. Defender. Praying as the Wife God Made You to Be." Kim tells about the inspiration for the book as well as what praying for her husband has meant in her relationship. God gave us a unique role and purpose in marriage. It's more than you think. I highly recommend this book. Do you and your husband a favor and order your copy and pray through it! (I don't make any money from the sales.) Order it here from Amazon: https://a.co/d/faNVhpoOr Advantage books: https://www.advbookstore.com/product-page/helper-rescuer-defender-ebook
Just think what we could accomplish in our region, country, world if we were united? God wants to work through his "church" to reach the world and bring His Kingdom on earth. BUT - a Kingdom divided will fall. Scriptures used in this episode: John 17:20, Luke 11:17, Psalm133, Ephesians 4:2-6
Society is crazy right now. It may get worse. Regardless, life is full of storms that come unexpectedly. If spouses are not unified, the storm may be the last straw. Married couples must unify to stand together through the good times and the bad. Even the most divided house, can be reunited. But God. :) Scriptures: Ephesians 4:26, Luke 11:17, Ephesians 6:12
It's amazing to me that Jesus' prayed for all those who would believe in Him in the future. What did he pray for us as recorded in John 17? That we would be one as He and the Father are one. So beautiful. Scriptures used in this episode: John 7:37-39, John 17:20-23, Galatians 2:20
Most of us feel overwhelmed at some point and some feel that way every day. Some seasons are harder than others. Jesus has helped me learn to change my mindset and yoke to Him in ways that lightened the load. Don't be so weighed down this year! Scriptures used in this episode: Matthew 11:28-29
We all want to start the new year fresh - so let's do that? Beware of bringing last year's hurts, resentment and negative emotions into the new year. I'll tell you how and why to leave them behind. Scriptures used in this episode: Matthew 6:15, Psalm 103:12, Isaiah 43:18-19
Nothing is impossible - with God. Do we really believe that is true? God is more powerful than we know. Scriptures in this episode: Matthew 19:26, Luke 1:37
Why doesn't God heal this part of my life? Do you ever feel like try as you might, things in a certain area of your life just don't seem to get better? Give yourself a wonderful gift this Christmas... Unlock the hidden places of your heart to Jesus and allow Him to come in and bring healing. Then see the progress that is made in many areas of your life. Jesus has come to set us free - from everything that hinders us! Scriptures used in this episode: John 8:36, Matthew 11:28-29, Isaiah 43:2
How we use the power and influence we have can make a huge difference. Esther was very wise and we can learn so much from her example - and Vashti's, too. Remember her? The former queen that got the boot? Scriptures used in this episode: The Book of Esther
In this episode I teach and model a skill that can bring immediate healing to past hurts. The power of the Holy Spirit within us gives us counseling and access to the Father's heart. Try this method and receive healing and comfort for past painful experiences. We each need freedom. If your pain is too deep or this doesn't work for you, please get counseling. Don't let your past steal your power any longer. Scriptures used in this episode: John 14:26 , 1 John 4:18, Joshua 1:5
Imagine if Jesus himself were living inside of you. How much power would you have? Oh right - He is! He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world! Scriptures referenced in this episode: 1 John 4:4, John 14:12-14, 2 Corinthians 12:9, Joshua 1:9, 2 Timothy 3 God's encouragement to us: My beautiful bride. It's time to get ready for the wedding. You, united with me, will be so attractive to others that they won't be able to resist. Fear not about what you are to do. Just follow my lead. We are in this together. We are side by side, yoked together, working together. You are my hands and feet. Completely give yourself to me as you would in a marriage covenant, then we can be one. My power can fully manifest in and through you. You are my chosen one.
God sees His purpose that He created us for. He sees our potential. He sees what we look like empowered. Seeing yourself as God does, will change your life. Scriptures used in this episode: Isaiah 6:8 Story of Gideon - Judges 6
Why do we feel like we have to be perfect or do it all? We'll never be perfect on our own, but there is a path to being perfected in Christ. Scriptures in this episode: Matthew 5:17, Galatians 3:2-3, James 2:26
Sometimes we feel like we can conquer the world and others times we are beating ourselves up that we screwed up again. We feel powerless to overcome those things we do that we know we shouldn't do. Those bad habits that keep us down. It's time to step into our new identity and our new nature in Christ. We already have it! 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! Read Romans 7 for more on this topic. Scriptures used in this episode: Galatians 2:20-21
Sometimes we feel powerless to change our circumstances. We feel trapped and helpless. You don't have to feel that way anymore. You are more than a conqueror through Christ! Jesus in you is the power you are looking for. Go from victim to victor - it starts in your heart and mind. Affirmations in this episode - repeat daily: I don't have to stay a victim. God's power is at work within me. God wants what is good for me. He is a loving, kind God that is full of goodness. I have the power to make choices and God will guide me. Scriptures used in this episode: Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 8:28, Romans 8:31, Romans 8:37, Ephesians 3:20, Philippians 4:13, John 10: 27-29 https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/what-is-a-victim-mentality
"Happily Ever After" seems unattainable, but it's real. (Just maybe not the way you think it will be.) Scriptures used in this episode: Revelation 19:7, John 15:13, Revelation 21:4, Ephesians 3:18
Sometimes we get "stuck" in a dark season. There is a way out and UP. In this episode, I give 4 steps to getting out of dark season. Scriptures used in this episode:Isaiah 43:1-2, 16-19, Jeremiah 29:13, Exodus 16:3, Ephesians 3:20
Learning to identify the "season" you're in, embrace it, learn from it and remember it's temporary is the key to contentment. Scriptures used in this episode: Ecclesiastes 3:1 and 3:3
We've been in a difficult season this summer and now in a season of grief. Grieving is real and healing comes by experiencing it and going through it. You should not ignore it. Scriptures used in this episode: Eccesiastes 3:1 & 4, Isaiah 53:3-4, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, 1 Thessalonians 4:13
Frustration is common in relationships, but it is like a "clog" that keeps things from moving forward. Scripture Verses Referenced in this episode: Romans 8:28, Proverbs 3:5-6
God wants to set each of us free from insecurity of all types. He loves us absolutely and completely. When we get solid in our acceptance by the Father, we can begin to dismantle the Fear, Shame, Control Triad. There is freedom! Verses referenced: Psalm 103:12, Hebrews 10:17, Philippians 1:6, James 4:7
Insecurity can keep us from fulfilling our God-given destiny. It can interfere in our relationships. But God not only has the key, He IS the key. When we totally grasp His love and acceptance of us - as we are right now - we can overcome insecurity. There's no need for it once we get His acceptance totally settled in our heart. This is my prayer for you! Meditation by Graham Cooke: "Becoming the Beloved: https://youtu.be/XOeQjMJVZRk Scriptures referenced: Matthew 17:5, Romans 5:8, Luke 15:11-32
We throw the term "unconditional love" around a lot, but what is it really? Do we have it? Do we show it? Is it even possible? Scripture used in this episode: Luke 6:27-38, Romans 5:8
Don't you wish you could customize your husband? Keep the good and toss the not-so-good? What would that look like? Or, in reality, do they come as a "package deal?" :) Scripture used in this episode: Romands 3:23, 1 Peter 4:8, 1 Corinthians 3:12-13 Quote by J. Grant Howard, Jr. “We have a picture of the perfect partner, but we marry an imperfect person. Then we have two options. Tear up the picture and accept the person, or tear up the person and accept the picture.”
I've had strep throat this past week. Here's a short story to share with you instead. Sometimes God wants to show us just how much he loves us. We have not, because we ask not! :)
When fighting for our marriages, we have to start by looking in our own hearts and seeing what is there that needs to be changed. We can only change ourselves! :) Bible Verses quoted in this episode: Psalm 39:23-24, Psalm 51:10
This is a spiritual battle, so spiritual weapons are needed for the fight. Verses used in this episode:Matthew 5:44-45, Proverbs 10:12, Ephesians 6
It's important to remember that God wants your marriage to succeed and He's a mighty commander. He is stronger than the enemy that is working against you. Bible verses referenced in this episode: 1 John 4, Romans 8:31, Romans 8:37
Don't let your marriage self-destruct. Fight for your marriage! It begins by knowing who the real enemy is. Fight the right enemy. Be alert and understand your enemy's tactics. There is hope! Scripture referenced in this episode: Ephesians 6:12-20, 1 Peter 5:8-10, James 4:7, John 8:44 For more teaching on guarding your mind, see Episodes 62, 46, and 3-12
The Bible teaches a lot about doing to "one another." Too long, married couples have been trying to dominate each other, or one dominating and the other getting railroaded. Unfortunately the Church has taught "wives submit to your husbands" from a harmful perspective. The New Testament as a whole teaches to Submit to One Another, love one another, serve one another and more "one anothers." In this episode I explore what "mutual submission" does and doesn't look like. If you need a fuller discussion, email me at anne@synergiamm.com. Verses Referenced: Ephesians 5:21
God tells us that a cord of three strands is not easily broken. When we invite God in to our marriage he helps us in multiple ways. Verses referenced in this episode: Ecclesiastes 4:12, Psalm 51:10
Every relationship needs this to survive and especially to thrive. Why is it so hard then? Add this to your marriage and watch the difference it makes! Verses quoted: Psalm 127:2, Ecclesiastes 3
Do you get tired of trying to please everyone and feeling like you always come up short? It can be so exhausting trying to be all things to all people. But God asks us only to glorify Him. He is our audience of 1! Link to the music lyric video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFxVfAZj5Q0 Bible Verses Quoted in this Episode: Galatians 1:10, Ephesians 6:7, Colossians 3:23 – 24
We're so in love when we are dating and first get married. Then those "lovin' feelin's" wax and wane throughout our marriage. How do we get back to the beginning? It starts with remembering... If you would like more information about working with our group cohort this year, contact me at anne@synergiamm.com. Verses quoted in this episode: Revelation 2:3-5
If we seek first God's Kingdom and His righteousness, He promises that "All these things will be given to you as well." Wow, what a promise! But what does seeking his kingdom and righteousness mean? This is the final episode in the First Things First Series. Verses quoted in this episode: Matthew 6:33, Micah 6:8, Matthew 22:37-39
Most of us are seeking God's will for our lives. We get paralyzed sometimes trying to figure it out. He may have specific assignments for us, but in general, there is one thing He wants of all of us. If we get this right, the rest will flow. Verses quoted in this episode: Matthew 22:37-40, 1 Peter 4:8, 1 John 4:7-8, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 13
We all have problems. We all like to solve our problems. We spend a lot of time, energy and stress trying to find solutions, when God probably has just what we need. My advice to myself this year - Go to God First. Verses Quoted in this episode: Philippians 4:6-7 Isaiah 55:8-9 Psalm 46:10Matthew 6:27
Contuining our series on "First Things First" - guarding our thoughts FIRST is so important as our words and actions start with thoughts. Have you ever wondered, "Why did I do that?" It started with a thought. Not all of our thoughts lead us down good paths. In this episode I look at three things that can take our thoughts down negative paths. Verses Quoted in this episode: Philippians 4:8, James 1:14-15, John 8:44, 2 Corinthians 10:5, Colossians 2:8, Romans 12:2