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Ep 150 Description: “Pleasure is not a luxury. It is not a distraction. It is a human right. And reclaiming it—in childbirth, in healthcare, in life—is a path toward healing, well-being, and activism.” —Debra Pascali Bonaro Our bodies are intricate landscapes of sensation, where hormones dance, nerves communicate, and physiological responses intertwine in ways we're only beginning to understand. And these same pathways that create sexual pleasure are remarkably active during childbirth, challenging centuries of medical narratives that have reduced this transformative moment to a clinical, painful procedure. This week, Debra discusses her landmark article, Orgasmic Birth: The Anatomy of Pleasure in Childbirth, published in Frontiers in Global Women's Health Journal, delving into the science of orgasmic birth, systemic obstetric violence, reproductive justice, hormonal landscapes of pleasure, the anatomy of childbirth, cultural narratives of pain, bodily autonomy, and the transformative potential of reclaiming women's birthing experiences. Don't miss this groundbreaking episode!
Ep 149 Description: “Your birth is yours to shape— not in every detail as the baby has some too— but in energy, intention, and experience. You deserve to be heard. You deserve to be honored. You deserve a birth that reflects YOU, your power, your pleasure, and your love.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro Birth isn't just a medical event—it's a deeply personal journey where you hold more power than you realize. What if your birth experience could be transformed from a clinical procedure to a profound, empowering moment of connection? Imagine stepping into your birth with confidence, clarity, and the ability to shape an experience that honors your deepest desires. Tune in as Debra breaks down the essential roadmap for creating personalized birth preferences, revealing how to communicate effectively with your healthcare team, understand your provider's practices, explore holistic approaches beyond medical interventions, and ultimately reclaim your birth as a sacred, intentional experience that reflects your unique vision of bringing new life into the world. Connect with Debra! Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth X: https://twitter.com/OrgasmicBirth YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1 Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471 Episode Highlights: 00:50 Reflecting On Your Birth Desires 05:50 Know Your Provider's Practice Paradigm 11:43 Beyond Interventions — Creating Holistic Birth Preferences 15:57 Communication is Your Superpower 16:48 Your Birth is Yours to Shape Resources:
Ep 142 Description: “Healing begins as you start honoring every aspect of your birth story and celebrate your wins. No one fails in birth. Sometimes, you have to dig deeper into that well of strength than you ever would have imagined prior. This is something to take pride in.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro The notion that hospitals inherently rob birthing individuals of their autonomy and joy is a limiting belief that deserves to be challenged. The reality is that, with the right mindset and preparation, a hospital birth can also be a deeply empowering and transformative experience. Explore the powerful intersection between pleasure and hospital birth as Debra shares tips on preparing for the big day, setting the mood for your birth room, advocating for your needs, coping with labor sensations, and welcoming your baby with grace and power. Connect with Debra! Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth X: https://twitter.com/OrgasmicBirth YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1 Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471 Episode Highlights: 01:53Tip #1- Preparing for the Big Day! 12:21 Tip #2- Setting the Mood for Your Birth Room 14:56 Tip #3- Advocating for Your Needs 17:58 Tip #4- Coping with Labor Sensations 22:01 Tip #5- Welcoming Your Baby Resources:
Ep 135 Description: “Every birth is unique, so pleasure might look different for you than it does for someone else. The goal isn't to force a specific experience but to open yourself to the possibilities you.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro Birth and sex— two deeply intertwined experiences that hold the power to transform lives. Embracing their connection unlocks a world of possibilities, from joyful labors to empowered deliveries. Yet, the taboos surrounding this bond often leave us disconnected from our innate abilities to birth with pleasure. Hence, this episode aims to unpack the profound links between birth and sex, exploring the role of hormones, the significance of sexual organs, and the transformative potential of incorporating pleasure into the birthing journey. Tune in as Debra invites us to rewrite the narrative of childbirth! Connect with Debra! Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth X: https://twitter.com/OrgasmicBirth YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1 Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471 Episode Highlights: 02:28 The Role of Hormones in Birth and Sex 06:31 The Role of Sexual Organs in Birth 09:43 Bringing Pleasure into Birth 14:54 Understanding Orgasmic Birth 17:38 Advocating for a Positive Birth Experience 19:37 Rewrite the Narrative of Birth! Are you an expectant parent or doula or birth provider? We have a special FREE gift for you! Visit OrgasmicBirth.com/More to learn more!” Introducing The Movie That's Changing How We About Debra: Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra's latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother, and featured expert in parenting journals and media around the world. Debra Pascali-Bonaro is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative and Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative both of which promote safe, respectful childbirth maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pain to Power, which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians, and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Debra Pascali Bonaro has been featured on ABC's 20/20, Good Morning Russia, The NBC Today Show, Discovery Health, in The New York Times, The LA Times, and The UK Times as well as numerous Parenting and Health Magazines around the world.
Warning: this is an amazing episode. Full of conversation around pleasurable, joyful, ecstatic birth. It may cause you to feel empowered and excited around birth. There, we gave you a heads up! But seriously, we are so honored to have Debra Pascali-Bonaro join us on the show. She's another one of the powerhouses of the birthing community that we've been anxious to meet and chat with. She is the creator and director of the documentary, “Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret.” She's also the co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth.” Oh and also a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International. And the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pain to Power, which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas and physicians in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love and pleasure to birth and life! In our interview, we talk about her path to being obsessed with birth, learning from her own birth story. We also chat about the concept for the documentary and where it came from. We explore themes from the documentary and the impact it's had on the conversation of birth. Plus we talk about other cool projects that Debra has her hand in, and a surprise for any of those interested in checking out her online childbirth class “Pain to Power.” Thank you to Debra for her knowledge, passion and tireless effort to serve and inspire! Links From The Episode: Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret - https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth - https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/products/books/ Pain To Power Childbirth Class: https://www.paintopowerchildbirth.com/ Happy Healthy Child: http://www.happyhealthychild.com/ Eat Pray Doula: https://www.eatpraydoula.com/ Sign up for 3 Free Videos on finding your power and pleasure in birth: http://www.paintopoweroptin.respond.ontraport.net/optin Offers From Our Awesome Partners: Needed: https://bit.ly/2DuMBxP - use code DIAH to get 20% off your order Splash Blanket: https://bit.ly/3JPe1g0 - use code DIAH for 10% off your order Esembly: https://bit.ly/3eanCSz - use code DIH20 to get 20% off your order More From Doing It At Home: Send us your birth story: https://bit.ly/3jOjCKl Doing It At Home book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3vJcPmU DIAH Website: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ DIAH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitathome/ DIAH YouTube: https://bit.ly/3pzuzQC DIAH Merch: www.diahpodcast.com/merch Give Back to DIAH: https://bit.ly/3qgm4r9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We've all heard stories about birth. Maybe you've heard your own birth story from your parents. And if you are pregnant or have children of your own, you have definitely heard several birth stories, even from strangers! Some of those stories are good, and some are not so good. Unfortunately, it seems like the not-so-great and even scary birth stories are the ones that are told the most. As a doula who helps families have better birth experiences, this breaks my heart. What we hear can form a belief about how birth is and what it can be. Imagine if you only heard stories about birth being beautiful, empowering, even pleasurable, and orgasmic. What an impact that would make! My guest today knows all about this and is chatting with us about orgasmic birth and what expecting families need to know. Who is Debra Pascali-Bonaro? Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, podcaster, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. She brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother, and featured expert in parenting journals and media worldwide. She is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative, which promotes safe, respectful childbirth maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of "Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth," Author of "The Ultimate Guide To Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy," and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. It's evident that Debra is highly passionate about changing childbirth so that every woman/partner has a safe, respectful, and pleasurable birth. What Did We Discuss? In this episode, we chat with Debra about orgasmic birth and tips and secrets to create more love and intimacy in birth and parenting. Here are several of the questions that we covered: How did you become passionate about the birthing experience? Childbirth and sex can both be taboo subjects. Why do you think this is, and how can we change this narrative? Can you elaborate more on the connection between childbirth and sex? What is orgasmic birth? And is it real? Why should pregnant people include intimacy and sexuality in preparing for birth? What can women do during pregnancy to help prepare for a positive birth experience? What role does a partner play in this experience? How can a doula help facilitate a pleasurable birth experience? What are your top tips for ensuring an enjoyable and pleasurable birth? What are the benefits of an orgasmic birth? The narrative around birth is often that it is painful and scary, but I have heard you say it is powerful and can be pleasurable. How can we empower more women to approach birth with this mindset? How do you recommend women continue to connect to their intimacy during the postpartum period? Debra's Resources Website: OrgasmicBirth.com Instagram: @orgasmicbirth Facebook: Orgasmic Birth YouTube: Orgasmic Birth TikTok: @orgasmicbirth Podcast: Orgasmic Birth Podcast Documentary: Orgasmic Birth Books: Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying, and Pleasurable Birth Experience The Ultimate Guide To Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy If you haven't already, please subscribe to Chick Chat: The Baby Chick podcast and leave us an honest review. Cheers to a positive and pleasurable birth! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is there a connection physiologically between sexual activity and birth? In this episode, Elizabeth Davis, a midwife, reproductive health care specialist, educator, and consultant for over 40 years, explores the powerful link between female sexuality and birth and why bringing awareness of plateaus is a key element to having a better labor experience. Elizabeth is internationally active in promoting pregnant person-centered birth and is widely sought after for her expertise in midwifery education and organizational development. Her books include: Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying, and Pleasurable Birth Experience Heart & Hands: A Midwife's Guide to Pregnancy and Birth The Rhythms of Women's Desire: How Female Sexuality Unfolds at Every Stage of Life The Women's Wheel of Life In this episode: Check out this website https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/the-big-o/ for a free guide on how to get your “Big O Birth” and a 40% discount on the documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret! Female sexual nature is reflected in the birthing process Discovering the sexuality of childbirth Trust your body in a new way, in a new place, and allow yourself to have an orgasmic birth Key Takeaways: There is a connection physiologically between sexual activity and birth When women are aroused, they release oxytocin even without physical stimulation and at the moment of birth, it is 10 times higher than at any other point in a woman's life. There are a few ways that birth and sex are very much alike -People don't know how long it will last, and they don't know what awaits them at the end Bringing awareness of the plateaus while you're making love is a good start. Give yourself the time to pause, regroup, hesitate, and stumble. Tweetable Quotes: “In midwifery care, what we really emphasize is not the time but the well-being of the mother and baby.” - Elizabeth Davis “You don't do birth, it does you.” - Elizabeth Davis Connect with Elizabeth Davis Website: https://elizabethdavis.com/ Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/elizabeth.davis.98622/ Connect with Debra! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/ Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable births. Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the world!
Interview on how to have a more pleasurable birth with Debra Pascali-Bonaro, the director of Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, and co-author of Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying, and Pleasurable Birth Experience Learn more about her work here: https://www.debrapascalibonaro.com To receive more support, get your copy of Asking for a Pregnant Friend: 101 Answers to Questions Women Are Too Embarrassed to Ask about Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood And... Feng Shui Mommy: Creating Balance and Harmony for Blissful Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood Email me at BaileyGaddis@yahoo.com if you have any questions about pregnancy, childbirth or early motherhood that you would like answered on this podcast :)
Straight from the mouth of the orgasmic birth goddess herself. This interview is with Debra Pascali-Bonaro the founder of OrgasmicBirth.com. In the full episode we cover -the definition of orgasmic birth (from a blissful joy, to the elusive birth-gasm) -the importance of a great birth team -her holding me while I work through some of MY anger at the system -the realization that even cesarian births can be orgasmic -the importance of the couple connection Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra's latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! She is Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and Creatrix of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials, which prepares expectant parents to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sexual nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Connect with Debra @OrgasmicBirth on Instagram @OBirth on Facebook http://www.orgasmicbirth.com to receive 10 FREE Pleasurable Birth tips along with discounts on her film and classes Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership About Elena Harder Elena Harder is on a mission to Nourish Mothers and create Bulletproof Moms. She started her awakening journey when she conceived her son in 2010. A challenging hospital birth lead to an abusive relationship and then 7 years spent in crippling postpartum depression, self loathing and people pleasing. She never gave up hope on finding a way through. Her search for “mental health” led Elena to study Mindfulness, Spirituality, NLP, Theta Healing, Tantra, Optimal Nutrition, and Intermittent Fasting to find a way to finally recover her mind and joyful soul. Now she works with other mothers to help them master the tools and skills that really work to remove their negative self talk, eliminate stress, heal their hearts, and remove anxiety, fear and depression. She believes that by sharing vulnerable stories, and hard earned wisdom, others don't need to make the same mistakes, can move from suffering to joy much faster, and be empowered to find their own Joygasmic Life. Get the Free Joygasmic Birth eCourse at joygasm.me Website: ElenaHarderR.com Facebook: Facebook.com/Joygasm8 Instagram: @JoygasmHarder Purchase the Ignite Female Changemakers Book https://elenaharderr.com/ignite-book/ Clean Your Guts From Glyphosate in 90 Days (Get $50 off using this link https://ishoppurium.com?prods=4422200623176:1&giftcard=joygasm) Huge Thank you to SONNY for our Intro-Outro Song https://open.spotify.com/artist/7woO5xoM5KGReQEEqdexGj --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joygasmic/message
Straight from the mouth of the orgasmic birth goddess herself. This interview is with Debra Pascali-Bonaro the founder of OrgasmicBirth.com. In the full episode we cover -the definition of orgasmic birth (from a blissful joy, to the elusive birth-gasm) -the importance of a great birth team -her holding me while I work through some of MY anger at the system -the realization that even cesarian births can be orgasmic -the importance of the couple connection Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra's latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! She is Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and Creatrix of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials, which prepares expectant parents to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sexual nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Connect with Debra @OrgasmicBirth on Instagram @OBirth on Facebook http://www.orgasmicbirth.com to receive 10 FREE Pleasurable Birth tips along with discounts on her film and classes Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership About Elena Harder Elena Harder is on a mission to Nourish Mothers and create Bulletproof Moms. She started her awakening journey when she conceived her son in 2010. A challenging hospital birth lead to an abusive relationship and then 7 years spent in crippling postpartum depression, self loathing and people pleasing. She never gave up hope on finding a way through. Her search for “mental health” led Elena to study Mindfulness, Spirituality, NLP, Theta Healing, Tantra, Optimal Nutrition, and Intermittent Fasting to find a way to finally recover her mind and joyful soul. Now she works with other mothers to help them master the tools and skills that really work to remove their negative self talk, eliminate stress, heal their hearts, and remove anxiety, fear and depression. She believes that by sharing vulnerable stories, and hard earned wisdom, others don't need to make the same mistakes, can move from suffering to joy much faster, and be empowered to find their own Joygasmic Life. Get the Free Joygasmic Birth eCourse at joygasm.me Website: ElenaHarderR.com Facebook: Facebook.com/Joygasm8 Instagram: @JoygasmHarder Purchase the Ignite Female Changemakers Book https://elenaharderr.com/ignite-book/ Clean Your Guts From Glyphosate in 90 Days (Get $50 off using this link https://ishoppurium.com?prods=4422200623176:1&giftcard=joygasm) Huge Thank you to SONNY for our Intro-Outro Song https://open.spotify.com/artist/7woO5xoM5KGReQEEqdexGj --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joygasmic/message
Straight from the mouth of the orgasmic birth goddess herself. This interview is with Debra Pascali-Bonaro the founder of OrgasmicBirth.com. We cover the definition of orgasmic birth (from a blissful joy, to the elusive birth-gasm) the importance of a great birth team her holding me while I work through some of MY anger at the system the realization that even cesarian births can be orgasmic the importance of the couple connection Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra's latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! She is Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and Creatrix of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials, which prepares expectant parents to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sexual nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership Connect with Debra @OrgasmicBirth on Instagram @OBirth on Facebook http://www.orgasmicbirth.com to receive 10 FREE Pleasurable Birth tips along with discounts on her film and classes Want to be first to get new episodes? Sign up here for email notifications: ElenaHarderR.com/podcast/ Intro-Outro Song Credit goes to SONNY https://open.spotify.com/artist/7woO5xoM5KGReQEEqdexGj Get your Free Joygasmic Birth eBook Joygasm.me --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joygasmic/message
Straight from the mouth of the orgasmic birth goddess herself. This interview is with Debra Pascali-Bonaro the founder of OrgasmicBirth.com. In the full episode we cover the definition of orgasmic birth (from a blissful joy, to the elusive birth-gasm) the importance of a great birth team her holding me while I work through some of MY anger at the system the realization that even cesarian births can be orgasmic the importance of the couple connection Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra's latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! She is Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and Creatrix of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials, which prepares expectant parents to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sexual nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Connect with Debra @OrgasmicBirth on Instagram @OBirth on Facebook http://www.orgasmicbirth.com to receive 10 FREE Pleasurable Birth tips along with discounts on her film and classes Want to be first to get new episodes? Sign up here for email notifications: ElenaHarderR.com/podcast/ Intro-Outro Song Credit goes to SONNY https://open.spotify.com/artist/7woO5xoM5KGReQEEqdexGj Get your Free Joygasmic Birth eBook Joygasm.me --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joygasmic/message
Straight from the orgasmic birth goddess herself. This interview is with Debra Pascali-Bonaro the founder of OrgasmicBirth.com. We cover the definition of orgasmic birth (from a blissful joy, to the elusive birth-gasm) the importance of a great birth team her holding me while I work through some of MY anger at the system the realization that even cesarian births can be orgasmic the importance of the couple connection Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra's latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! She is Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and Creatrix of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials, which prepares expectant parents to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sexual nature of birth. Debra's passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Join Our Community to Watch to the Full Episode at https://elenaharderr.com/membership-home/podcast-membership Connect with Debra @OrgasmicBirth on Instagram @OBirth on Facebook www.orgasmicbirth.com to receive 10 FREE Pleasurable Birth tips along with discounts on her film and classes Want to be first to get new episodes? Sign up here for email notifications: ElenaHarderR.com/podcast/ Intro-Outro Song Credit goes to SONNY https://open.spotify.com/artist/7woO5xoM5KGReQEEqdexGj Get your Free Joygasmic Birth eBook Joygasm.me --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joygasmic/message
Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra’s latest book, an Amazon #1 New Release, The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother, and featured expert in parenting journals and media around the world. Debra Pascali-Bonaro is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative and Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative both of which promote safe, respectful childbirth maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pain to Power, which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians, and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! What you'll hear in this episode: Orgasmic birth Honoring the body after birth Intimacy & sleep Nine pleasures The Fives Love Languages book Sex education Goop Lab: The Pleasure is Ours In the Flo book Online Class: Sex After Baby launches November 2020 Connect with Debra: Website: OrgasmicBirth.com Instagram: @orgasmicbirth The Film: OrgasmicBirth.com The Class: PaintoPowerChildbirth.com Bali Retreats: EatPrayDoula.com Workshops: DebraPascaliBonaro.com
Founder & President of Pain to Power Childbirth online classes, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” Debra Pascali-Bonaro talks about: What is Orgasmic Birth? Birth and Sex? How are they connected? How does fear cause pain in childbirth? Debra is an inspirational international speaker, Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Organization, and Co-Chair executive committee of the International Childbirth Initiative. Debra’s passion comes from her years as a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International as well as acclaimed international speaker, teaching parents, midwives, nurses, doulas, and physicians in over 40 countries. Featured on ABC 20/20, NBC Today Show, New York Times, LA times and in media and parenting magazines around the world. In this episode, you’ll hear about: How Debra became a Doula and Childbirth Educator (3:28) What led Debra to create the Orgasmic Birth concept (5:17) The percentage of women who’ve had an orgasm during birth (11:15) How sex and birth are related (17:23) Healing from trauma (20:57) Orgasmicbirth.com
If you think the words orgasm and birth don't belong in the same sentence, that's a good sign you should listen to today's episode. As if motherhood and orgasm weren't already taboo enough, today, we're talking about mother's having orgasmic births. Learn how a dream led Debra to make the documentary and book, “Orgasmic Birth: The Best Kept Secret” to take the discussion of pleasurable birth to the mainstream so more women can experience joy and pleasure in birth instead of pain and suffering. Why are we giving voice to the pain side of birth and not honoring and giving voice to the pleasure when countless women experience pleasure in birth but say nothing about it because they're scared?! Learn how fabulously pleasure and birth go together! Hear Debra talk about how having a birth-gasm doesn't need to be a performance standard in order to have a pleasurable birth. Because birth can hold many different elements of pleasure and anyone can prepare to make it more likely to have a pleasurable experience. Also, hear Debra explain how birth-gasms are physiologically possible and how we need to stop separating birth from the array of sexual experiences that we can have as humans! Debra Pascali-Bonaro, is the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pain to Power, which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth, the Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” all of which explore the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra is an inspirational international speaker, chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Organization and Advisor to the International Childbirth Education Association. Debra's passion comes from her years as a Lamaze International childbirth educator, and birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International where she has taught and worked with women, men, midwives, doulas and physicians in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love and pleasure to birth and life! Debra has been featured on ABC's 20/20, Good Morning Russia, The NBC Today Show, Discovery Health, in The New York Times, The LA Times, The UK Times as well as numerous Parenting and Health Magazines, Podcasts, Webinars, Panels and Conferences around the world. Debra is a pioneer in reminding humanity that birth can be full of pleasure and delight. Check out Debra at https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/positivelyprepared/ Enjoying this content? Be sure to sign up for weekly updates and learn my secrets to multiorgasmic bliss at https://www.themultiorgasmicmama.com/
Debra Pascali-Bonaro, Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pain to Power, which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas and physicians in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love and pleasure to birth and life!You can find more of Debra's pleasurable insights at: FaceBook: http://facebook.com/obirth Twitter: https://twitter.com/OrgasmicBirth Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/ Be sure to check out the other amazing contributors to the Conscious Birth series of Rockstar Birth Radio. And if you're already pregnant, grab yourself a subscription to the Rockstar Birth Magazine or a membership to the Rock Your Birth Academy. Both perfectly designed to support you on your pregnancy journey towards a powerful and positive birth experience. You'll find both of these and more, at rockstarbirthmagazine.com
Debra Pascali-Bonaro is the mother of six children, Director of the documentary Orgasmic Birth and co-author of Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth. She is the Chairperson of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative. TOPICS: What orgasmic birth is and how to prepare for one + How to create a new empowering language for birth + How to work through self-doubt and fear + Key elements to having a pleasurable birth + How to create your ideal birth ambience + Why certain movements are so important during labor and birth + How to own your power and celebrate your birth + How you can make a difference in how women give birth.
Debra Pascali-Bonaro, B.Ed., LCCE, PDT/BDT(DONA) is the Founder & President of Pain to Power Childbirth Experience, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth” all of which explore the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra is an inspirational international speaker, chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative, Advisor to Human Rights in Childbirth and ICEA. Debra’s passion comes from her years as a Lamaze International childbirth educator, and birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International where she has worked with women, men, midwives, doulas and physicians in over 30 countries bringing comfort, love and pleasure to birth and life!
At the top of the hour, join me as I interview Robert Moss and his approach called ACTIVE DREAMING, an original synthesis of contemporary dreamwork and shamanism. We'll discuss if the departed communicate with us in our dreams, if we can lead alternate lives in our dreams, dreaming the future, dream archaeology, nightmares, and if dreams can connect us to our ancestral wisdom. I'll ask Robert what he means by "living by coincidence" and if dreaming can help us heal. Then in the second part of the show, we've rescheduled Elizabeth Davis author of Women's Sexual Passages: Finding Pleasure and Intimacy at Every Stage of Life and Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth Experience. YIKES! Who would have thought that was possible! Among the things we'll discuss are how sexual desire changes during the monthly cycle and menopause, if contraception modifies normal fluctuations in desire, the role of ritual in women's lives and studies that provide insight into the benefits of having or denying ourselves a healthy sexual life.