POV You're My Therapist

Big Announcment this episode. Yeah.... a premiere date? I dunno.... You're going to have to listen to see! Side note this is not my normal recording set up so the sound is not as high as I'd like it to beeee. Love youuu-Divine

The best way to support an independent podcast is by sharing with your friends and family! TiktokInstagramTwitterThrowing it back to the episode I listen to when I need a reminder that my sad girl feelings are very valid! Betweent the dreary weather, the state of the world and so much more, this summer has been a bit of a bummer and it can be easy to feel like you're being over dramatic. This episode is a reminder that no....you're not being that dramatic, you're a lover girl and that makes things ten times harder. it's fine.

In this July update, Divine talks exploring new hobbies, (she's recently returned to swimming and thinks she is Micheal Phelps). She also breaks her silence on the Titanic submersible, her thoughts while rewatching Titanic and wealth insulation.Divine also talks about the art of boundaries, no longer being a people pleaser and simply refusing to be in a space where is not enjoying herself. She's having a great summer and she hopes you are too! Buy Merch here!Make sure to keep up with her shenanagins on TiktokInstagramThreads

The best way to support an independent podcast is by sharing with your friends and family! TiktokInstagramTwitterHelloooooooo? Is this thing on?It's been a month and Divine, our illustrious and loving host missed her kids. She just had to drop a fun little episode and tell you what she's been up to lately. As you can probably tell from the title she's been in New York, in all of the boroughs-- worrying about her imune system and keeping an eye out for the rat czar. She also has a very special announcement. To keep up with all of her adventures make sure you follow her on Social Media !

https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/MerchTwitterTiktokPatreonThis very special season finale is the episode you need on every bad day, after every bad date, and on every random Tuesday that you wake up angry at the world because: life is lifing, something is retrograde and your life is not the version 13 year old you envisioned.Divine breaks down what it means to “do the work,”. The barriers we as humans with ego and pride face once we confront our most inner selves. She also covers forgiveness of others and yourself, accepting the parts of us we don't like , self confidence, joy, sadness, literally everything under the sun, honey! Divine boils down every reminder you might need during this hiatus.This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5690908/advertisement

https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/MerchTwitterTiktokPatreonThe era of the Lonely Girl era is over. The girls deserve better than that. Summer is around the corner, the boys are cute, the girls are sexy. They deserve a kiss or two.Long gone are the days of blaming ourselves for societies failure of men. No, now when men do dumb things--we leave them as they are. Men who do dumb things. It is time to stop suppressing the lover girl inside because of realities bleakness. She needs breath! She is starved of beauty! She wants to see the world even if it is marred by bitterness and pain! To the Lover Girl vulnerability is her ultimate strength.The Lover Girl understands that there cannot be love in life without pain and still she yearns to experience it.This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5690908/advertisement

https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/MerchTwitterTiktokPatreon In this weeks episode of POV, Divine discusses the other side of the daddy issues, trust issues spiral. She discusses building systems that allow her to express gratitude and to still see the silver lining even when things are not going well. She talks about balancing heart break, triggers and pain with the ability to still recognize gratitude in her every day life.She also discusses self sabotaging as a punishment for consistent singledom; anxious, and avoidant attachment vs. the goal of becoming securely attached. She also poses the question, “When I am dating how do I detach and focus on myself as well as the people I am seeing in a healthy way?” Our illustrious host also discusses her current road block in therapy.

In part 1 of this episode, we return to the subject of attachment. As someone who is anxiously attached, Divine is not the best when it comes to “detachment”. Often, her bouts of anxious behavior are paired with spirals and this week was no exception. Paired with a fresh spritz of gossip, she takes you on her recent journey of mapping out her therapy journey moving forward. What do we need to work on? And how do we plan on doing so? Next week we will continue the conversation with gratitude and how spirals—anxiety and insecure attachments can distract from an otherwise good life.

In this episode, Divine finds herself at the unfortunate crossroad of realizing that she is in fact not perfect. It was a shocker to everyone and we are still shaken by the realization.Divine doesn't want to be "that girl" the one men can smell the daddy issues on from a mile away. In fact, she's done a great job deflecting and shedding any remnant of that hunger--that craving for male validation. She's rid herself of that.Yes, for a time she was healed. Stamped clear of the dreaded "trust issues" but now, our sexy host has realized she isn't in the clear. She's simply isolated. Now, she catches glimpse of these issues", lurking in the deep caverns of her mind patiently waiting for the moment when she has to put trust in someone else's hands.They sulk around waiting to reinforce those negative thought patterns.https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/MerchTwitterTiktok

Trigger warning: SA, Domestic Abuse: In this episode, our scrumptious host talks about all of the things she was enjoying until a dude came along and screwed it up. Up first, is BEEF, the Netflix show currently at no.2 most watched, that was her absolute fav until you guessed it. A man.So, she asks whether producers should do background checks. Or should David Choe be edited out of BEEF in the style of Little Mix Fans and Jesy Nelson Anno Domini 2020? Divine, then discusses Jonathan Majors, domestic abuser patterns, and the behavior towards abuse victims before and after they name their abusers. She also covers "Migrant rage" a term she coined (maybe). Think female rage but you're a second-generation immigrant. She covers Succession, and begins with "I'm glad Logan Roy is dead." So, you see where we're headed. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/ MerchTwitterTiktok

In the second part of our conversation with Lindsey Calhoun, our illustrious host, and her bestie discuss the foundations of a good friendship, trauma dumping, and the foundation of their relationship. The ladies also discuss celebrities in the media, parasocial relationships, and celebrities being over-saturated in the media. The girlies also talk about the socio-economic state of the world because why not. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/ MerchTwitterTiktok

On This episode, the tangerine has been defeated!We discuss the most important parts of Donald Trumps arraignment— what color self tanner he should wear to match the orange jumpsuit vs what color he should wear if the suit is black and white.Divine also goes in deep regarding the actual charges against the former president and what any of those big scary words mean. Divine discusses her abuse of the word “like” in the last episode, and also covers tv and Music (The Night Agent, Kings of Summer and Outer banks). She also gives a review of this weeks albums, “In Pieces” By Chloe Bailey and Victoria Monet's exciting announcement that "Jaguar II" is coming! The Gowrls are ready.https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/MerchTwitterTiktok

Hello, Hello!This is a very exciting week! We have a very special guest, Divine's best friend Lindsey! Together they talk about their history, and deep dive into their pet peeves when it comes to being chronically online. These hotties also contemplate the generational divides between zoomers and millennials ( despite being both), and also get into feminism, capitalism and so so much more.This is literally like being on the phone with them. enjoy!https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/ MerchTwitterTiktok

TRIGGER WARNING: GUN VIOLENCEHow much is your life worth compared to someone who wants an AR-15? There's a monetary value and it's not very high. Sandy Hook Promise Brady United Prevention Institute Music courtesy of Audio Library. Vinephilo.com

We know. We know.The girl who low-key went viral for saying she believes in ghosting and in-fact advocates for it is now reconsidering having such a staunch stance on the matter. Because simply put, she grew up, and sometimes whether she likes it or not she can be wrong. Also, she watched Banshee's of Inisherin, which raised some interesting points, so obvi she had thoughts.In this week's episode, Divine discusses Ghosting! From the POV of the ghosted. She talks about the loneliness and pain that comes with being abruptly abandoned and also discusses why it happens as well as how to heal from being ghosted.She discusses the delicate balance of self-love, selflessness, and selfishness. Divine also talks about the dating landscape and how it felt to experience it in a different place where to her surprise she wasn't the problem! Love that for her.This episode is full of fun girl talk and giggles, so get comfy, grab a lil snack and tune in!https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/http://vinephilo.comtwitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilohttps://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo

On this episode of TTMT Divine talks about the impending arrest of the 45th President of the United States. She compares the similarities between his school of thought and Precious'. Our beautiful host also talks about SWARM, the new show on Amazon. She also discusses the second half of YOU, the Netflix drama. She also covers Banshees Inisherin. Enjoyy!Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/MERCH https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

On this episode of Texts to my Therapist. A very sick and snot-nosed Divine (YOU'VE BEEN WARNED) talks all things Oscars as well as the Murgdaugh Murders and the importance of bioluminescence in underwater movies. Like in all of Talokan, Namor could not find one glowing jellyfish?Anyways, Divine also talks about a bunch of other things she can barely remember at this point. Listen. She can barely remember her own name. She is sick and she is a baby. Enjoy the episode. Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/MERCH https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM It's been on Divine's mind for a while to do an episode on how to take everything we learn in therapy and turn them into actions. Because let's be real here, anyone can say "you need to put boundaries in place," or "be your biggest advocate." But wtf does that even mean? How does one even do boundaries, let alone put them in place? In theory, these things should be simple but most people, Divine included, need a recipe. This is Part 2 of Divine trying to give you the ingredients for the recipe, but don't forget she's an Island Gyal and doesn't use measuring cups. Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/MERCH https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM It's been on Divine's mind for a while to do an episode on how to take everything we learn in therapy and turn them into actions. Because let's be real here, anyone can say "you need to put boundaries in place," or "be your biggest advocate." But wtf does that even mean? How does one even do boundaries, let alone put them in place? In theory, these things should be simple but most people, Divine included, need a recipe. This is Part 1 of Divine trying to give you the ingredients for the recipe, but don't forget she's an Island Gyal and doesn't use measuring cups. Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/MERCH https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

CONTENT WARNING: SA, True Crime, Murder Texts to my Therapist #8: One Direction Made Me Who I AmCONTENT WARNING: SA, True Crime, Murder On this weeks episode Divine talks about the Selena Gomez/ Hailey Bieber/ Kendall Jenner / Hadid sisters drama. This leads to a bigger conversation about fandom, and her experience as a One Directioner. The content warnings are for this next section, because yes she's been watching a lot (maybe too much) true crime. One that stuck out to her, real bad is "Don't F*ck With Cats", because after four years she finally watched it. She also talks about Succession and just crazy people in general.Love ya!

Ariana DeBose you will always be famous!It's the award show opener that has taken twitter and Divine's last two brain cells by storm. On todays episode, the most beautiful and funny host in the world talks about Ariana DeBose's ICON MAKING, BAFTA's performance. She also provides a clear reading of the lyrics, which obviously is necessary. Divine also discusses Jonathan Majors being "Civil Rights Era" fine as well as the podcasts she is currently listening to. Lastly, Divine sends a warning to Netflix. Joe Goldburge dies THIS season or she pulls an HBO Max and deletes EVERYTHING. Enough is enough. Thank you.

instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/http://vinephilo.comtwitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilohttps://www.tiktok.com/@vinephiloWhy are so many hot, sexy, girls lonely?The Hot, Lonely Girl in short is a lone wolf. She can't maintain a friend group to save her life. She has a hard time finding people to date, or is not interest in the ones that want to date her, thus leaving her without an "other". While all her friends are in long term relationships, getting married and having babies, the HLG seems to be falling the wayside. The HLG might even be content in singledom.The HLG paradox is not exclusive to women or relationships either. It is the person, who decided at 25 to take a chance on themselves and start their own business, while their friends have been on a set path since high school. The HLG is anyone taking the harder, longer, lonelier path--the path, that as hard as they may try--no one, except someone on a similar path, understands.This episode is about that. It's about having to be your own support system and your biggest advocate. It's about being there for yourself.

Rihanna said she was having a surprise guest at the Super Bowl and a surprise it was!On this weeks episode of Texts to my Therapist, we talk Super Bowl LVII! Rihanna's baby surprise, followed by a new study publish by the National Bureau of Economic Researsh regarding socioeconmic status & childbirth in the U.S. Then, it's a bird! It's a plane! No! It's the Mylar ballon you lost your grip on when you were ten! Kidding.The confusing tale of the Chinese survallience ballons, and the UFO's in North American airspace. We discus what exactly is going on in the sky this week, because we, (me, Divine) is gonna LOSE IT if another vague, "unidentifiable object" is shot down this week.We also have an impromptu discussion about Aliens, the ever ,so , evasive "Tic Tac" spacecraft, Type I, II, & III civilizations and some other super fun, not scary, stuff.

The winner of the Valentines day giveaway is Veedee223! Follow the instructions in this clip to send a screenshot of your review as well as your shipping address.

instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/http://vinephilo.comtwitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilohttps://www.tiktok.com/@vinephiloAs if it couldn't get any clearer that POV You're My Therapist is for the Gowrls, the Gays, the Thems and Theys, on this episode we talk about periods. Have you ever had a moment when you go to starbucks and the very nice barista gets your order right but they misspell your name and for some reason it enrages you

instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://www.vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloFirst and Foremost a big, fat thank you to Apple Podcasts and our listerners.... WE'RE ON NEW &NOTEWORTHY ! On todays episode, we talk the Valentines Day GIVE AWAY. The winner recieves one of everything in our merch store, as well as Valentines day goodies. You can enter by leaving a rating and review on apple podcasts. Open world wide and the winner will be announced 2/10. We also talk about, the Grammys, Beyonce and her Cultural impact. Does the grammy's hate the Beyhive? (They want us to pass away, clearly). We also dicusss why advocay is an important part of being successful. We also dicuss Lizzo's speech, Harry styles, The Parent test on Hulu, then Black Panther 2 and Avatar. Love youuuuu, Mwah!!!!!!

Are you going through a crisis of self? Do you not feel like the best version of you? Are you looking back at old pictures and wishing you could "be her" again? Well bestie, this episode is for you. How to love yourself even when you don't want to. In this episode, Divine talks about building the foundations of self love, and trust within ones self. She talks about the tips and tricks that help her to not be so hard on herself and that allow her to treat herself with kindness and compassion. She reminds our dear listerner that they are a bad b, and it's far past time they act like it. instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo

On this episode of Text's to my Therapist! “You People”, hard conversations when dating interracially, and David Duchovny singing Ordinary People by John Legend. “ShotGun Wedding”, Actors getting a second wind in their carreers, and Hollywoods general distrusts of non-nepo babies and their reluctance to usher in a new generation of unknown actors.Then, a long overdue lecture on your digital footprint and why not everything you think needs to turn into a comment or Tiktok video, (don't be your own worst enemy). instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo

Beyonce and Her kitten heels are limping around in Dubai. Yes! That's why you don't have visuals. The Tiktok girlies are also in Dubai. Tiktok admits to being rigged, low-key. And my top ten George Santos Lies. instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo

The earlier 2010's was a… questionable time to be a teen. You have all day re-runs of Thirteen (2003) starting Nikki Reed and Rachel Evan Wood on lifetime, an ungodly amount of un-supervised time on the internet and angst. SO MUCH angst.Suddenly, you're 16, watching thirteen, scrolling through tumblr while blasting 'Shades of Cool' by Lana Del Rey, and watching her make out with that old man, and suddenly you're like...... "I'm not living." "No one gets me." "Where is the drama in my life?" On this episode our host discusses age gap relationships. She talks about her experience with them and when they are appropriate, if ever. She talks about how these relationships can stunt emotional and mental growth and leave you in a state of distrusts with yourself. Divine raises a few red flags she noticed in said relationships. Our host also discusses grooming, “To catch a predator”, and why as teenager's our hollow minds thought it was cool to date men who were in their twenties. So big fat, TRIGGER WARNING. We also discuss limerence, and ultimately reach the point in every conversation between women where we ask, “why are so many M3N serial killers?” So fun, :) instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo

A wise woman once said, "I'm a bad btich you can't kill me." I live my these words. On todays episode, deep in my Dorothy chasing after toto during a tornado era. I present to you my tale of bravery and survival. You're gonna wanna listen bestie.Find Merch and new updates regarding all things POV YOU'RE MY THERAPIST here

NOTE: Yeah, the podcast is 4 days late but you know what I survived a motherfudging tornado so I think I'm allowed. Thank yewwww. I will happily tell you about my brave tale of survival on Wednesday

"What is this?" You ask?"A new segment." I say.Yes, all the texts I wish I could send to my therapist that have nothing to do with personal growth or healing, that would probably be hippa violations. This is a new segment from the minds over at The Vine Philo Wellness Club (lol, literally Divine) about pop culture. What we're watching, what we're listening to, current events, news and so so so much more. On the very first episode of "Texts to my Therapist", Wednesday, For All Man Kind and Alice in Borderland. Three very different shows and Divines' ciritiqueof them all. We have a little Cold War history lession while talking about For All Man Kind, and also plan a wedding?

On this soley audio episode, Divine is going through it.She made it exactly three days into the new year before having her first panic attack. She's busy, she's stressed, she's in a transitional period. She's trying to figure it out. And obviously the solution to all her issues is waking up at 5 in the morning and doing daily cold plunges, duh.

On this weeks episode ! The ever changing beauty standard! One day BBL's are in, the next day they are out! On this episode Divine talks the moving goal post of unattainable beauty standards and plastic surgery—the need to feel that there will always be a part of ourself that isn't good enough! She explains why it's capitalisms fault. Yes, it is. She talks about the relationship between plastic surgery and black women, buccal fat removal, and how society has tied our beauty to what we deserve in life . She also discusses her relationship with her hair and the moments in her young life that defined this relationship . Our host also explores dating people we are not attracted to, why you shouldn't do it and so much more! MERCH IS HERE! https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

This weeks episode is a little different. It's not about relationships or personal growth no. Divine spends a considerable about of time making fun of crypto bros and dissecting why tf Elon Musk acts the way he does. She discusses social media, specifically twitter and it's impending downfall that she is looking forward to. She compares and contrasts it to Freuds psychoanalytic theory and evaluates the morality or lack thereof that comes with having the world at your finger tips.She reminisces on her days working in media and unpacks the future of digital media and its correlating trends.MERCH IS HERE! https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

Ugly Men and the Audacity, what a great name for a band. This week was a mess. First the podcast mic did not record, then the camera lighting wasn't right. Then some woman confiscated our hosts eyebrows right off of her face. Then the podcast had to be re-flimed, not once, not twice, but three times. But through it all, Divine kept her cool...ish. This week our host talks about just that, keeping cool when the fire gets hot and rolling with lifes punches. She talks about making the conscious decision to not focus on the bad and to continuously celebrate the good. She mourns her eyebrows. She contemplates bangs. She bargains with God. Just the normal stuff. Our host then launches into the female gaze Tiktok--yes that one. The one with that guy that was later found to be a raging, violent, misogynist? Oh, still confused cuz there are so many? The ugly guy. The one who looks like Mr. Tumnus. Yes, that one. She talks about ugly men and their audacity, where they get it from. How in this patriarchy there will never be an instance where men 'get it" just because they're a little ugo. Why? Because they were raised in this society babe. Duh This leads into a larger conversation about the beauty standard, about expectations and so much more. MERCH IS HERE! https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

Every week the same dilemma for our host, “What the hell am I going to talk about?” The irony in these sort of days when Divine does not feel like recording is that somehow it always produces the most honest and vulnerable conversations. Reminiscent of the very first episode of POV YOU'RE MY THERAPIST , “everyone is getting married and I just downloaded bumble…again.” This episode has a certain Jenny say Quan about it. Maybe it's the underlying wave of chaotic emotions Divine is desperate to somehow suppress but also use as content? Or maybe it's the countless melatonin fueled fever dreams she recounts in detail. Divine explores the themes of long term singleness, the catharsis she feels when she encounters other long term single women who are members of other social strata. She also explores how this long term singleness affects her friendships, and ex-friendships. There is also themes of a pity party, so of course Divine has to take you down the memory lane of failed situation-ships, friendships and hard learned life lessons.MERCH IS HERE! https://www.vinephilo.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

Merch is now here and certain sizes are already selling out! So get yours today ! https://www.vinephilo.comIn this episode, our host talks about a menu of topics. From the bad vibes on twitter to envy vs. Jealousy and the danger that lies in both of these emotions. When and how to nip envy in the bud and how jealousy stunts growth. Divine also talks about Unsolved Mysteries (CW: violence against women), family annihilators, getting kidnapped and how she is not built to suffer or survive the apocalypse. She also talks about generational trauma in migrant families and late blooming anxiety in older generations. As well as physical means of releasing wound up tension. She also talks about why she's off men, (for real this time). How Men talk themselves out of sectual relations and why they annoy her. This episode has everything, crime, complaining, sex, anxiety, like it's a lot and it's a great episode so go listen to it. K byeTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: @vinephilo

Be the first to know about mercy, giveaways and more! https://www.vinephilo.comIt was only 208 years ago that Jane Austen wrote Pride and Prejudice, a novel so timeless that it is still relevant to Divines life, in the form of a meme going around twitter of a very emotional Charlotte Lucas. She explains to her sister why she was marrying the "pompous, annoying" but not “evil” Mr. Collins. She says "I'm twenty seven years old, I've no money, no prospects and I'm already a burden to my parents. So, don't judge me Lizzy." Charlotte Lucas and our lovely host Divine have two of these things in common. I think you can guess which ones.On this weeks episode, Divine takes you on a journey through her birthday week so riddled with bad omens, that even Jane Austen could not set up a timeline so ridiculously unfortunate. The story begins with a b bloody broken nail and ends with a man with horrible breath. This episode focuses on friendship, relationships, disappointment, crushes, crying—all of it, every terrible little thought that rushes through the mind as a birthday approaches Divine goes through it all.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

Divine always felt like there are two versions of her--the Divine she is now, and the one she was. And if by chance, Divine were to walk by her old self on the street she wouldn't recognize her. Her head would be hung low, she'd be quiet, meek, full of shame and self loathing. If by some wild turn of events they ended up talking to one another, new Divine would tell old Divine, "girl, you gotta get a grip--forgive yourself." The rest of the conversations would include a lot of, "you don't need validation." "love yourself." ect. ect. all of those annoying adages that leave old Divine feeling unheard and misunderstood. But the thing new Divine knows, having been where old Divine stands now--is that it is all frustratingly true. Those adages, are years of therapy sessions, tears, long conversations, and healing boiled down into two over used words. "Love yourself." So on today's episode, in anticipation of a new year (I know it's early but hang in there) Divine wants you to start thinking about healing your wounded feminine energy. Those insecurities, that shame, that self loathing, that victimhood, that cold and bitter frustration that gnaws at you every waking moment. Yeah, we're getting rid of all of that shit and this episode is the starting point. enjoy! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

Deep In her core something shifted. In these last few months, Divine has more or less willingly sat out the dating scene. Passed up on advances, and actually listened to the old adage, "actions speak louder than words." And from her observations she has come to one conclusion... That men, no matter how innocent, air headed or playful they may be know exactly what they are doing..... In this episode, Divine wonders if there is such a thing as a good man. In this imbalanced society, where women seem to wear their hearts on their sleeves and men seem to be utterly clueless...she asks, is it possible to be that dumb? Or is it willful ignorance? As she approaches a cuffless fall, she looks to find comfort in herself and in radical feminist literature. When it comes to the topic of men, the words of Andre Leon Talley ring true to our host, "It's a famine of beauty, honey! My eyes (and soul) are starving for beauty!” But for as long as Divine seeks nourishment from men, she wonders (knows) that she will starve to death. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/povyouremytherapist/message

For some reason the question of community, how to build it and what to do without it came about a lot these last few weeks. So, very reluctantly, Divine is talking about community. She talks about friendship break ups, what good friendships look and feel like. She also talks at length about the rarity that is self awareness, and emotional intelligence. She also talks about Don't Worry Darling, movies and some other stuff. enjoy! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/povyouremytherapist/message

POV You're My Therapist is turning one!

Yes we're back at it! This week we are talking about Divines' dating Journey to nowhere! The title explains it all... She talks about the revelations she's had about dating, being friends with men, understanding how the male brain operates and how to decipher the lies! Oh, the lies! There are so many lies! She also talks about her re-entrance into the streets, it's so scandalous the devil is clutching his pearls. This week Divine also touches upon a few of her philosophies about life and therapy, how nothing matters! But in a good way! She talks about navigating life effortlessly and detachment. As your omniscient narrator, I will say this is my favorite episode so far. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/povyouremytherapist/message

In part 2 Divine talks about the emotional side of being a bad bitch. She is all water placements after all. She talks about how following people on social media who do not look like you on social media can mess with your head. She also talks about comparison, jealousy and putting too much emphasis on outer beauty and forgetting the value in each person as an individual. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

On this weeks episode! A bad b*tch shares her emotional truth.

In this weeks episode ! Divine provides a comprehensive list of all the realizations that have allowed her to discover joy in her life as well as maintain it. She also discusses conflict resolution and being a vessel in life journey . She also talks about parental relationships in afro-caribbean cultures and how that causes strife in the family structure.  PS: some technical difficulties happen during the last two minutes. It's not you. it's me Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist 

This week, Divines vibes have been horrendous, like straight up shitty. So, she's refusing to talk about herself, instead she's talking about vices. Yes, those yummy things she's been indulging in as of recently. Having lived a few years on this earth Divine has a few things to say about drinking, weed, other drugs and parties. She takes a stroll down memory lane and revisits the first time she ever smoke the devils lettuce as well as her ever changing relationship with alcohol and her non existent relationship with more illicit vices. She also talks about her agoraphobia era and the anxieties that made it hard for her have fun and live her life. As well as what got her through that time. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

On this weeks episode of POV You're My Therapist! Divine discusses the significance of the colors that she uses to decorate the set and how the colors that she feels attracted to align with her chakra's. Divine also discusses where she was mentally last season vs this season.This episode is also about reexamining goals in therapy and how that changes the more you learn about yourself. She also talks about privacy, trust issues, Kylie Jenners private jet and Billionaires cuz why not. Enjoy!Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

She's baaaaaaaaaaaaaack! After a month away POV You're My Therapist is finally back with a brand new season, a brand new set and the same amazing podcast that you loved before. On this weeks episode she talks about the most pressing matter on her mind at this current moment…. The Monkey Pox virus, better known to her as the monkey, the poc, and the Curious George. She covers the long list of things she'd hoped to accomplish during this break and what she actually accomplished which in comparison was rather short. She talks about the spiral that ensured without certain distractions and where she is now on her healing journey. Divine is so excited to be back and wants to thank every single person who checked in on her during this time and sent loving messages. She read them all even if she didn't respond and can't wait to continue creating with and for you guys. Kisses, mwah!Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dphile Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephiloListen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist