SEX COMMUNICATION

A new audio porn contributor has joined the fold! Today's clip comes from another hot married couple; here is the description that accompanied the submission:"This recording has a bit of everything, blowjob, pussy licking, me fucking her & her tapping out only to get on top to have an explosive orgasm!"All right then! I know I could use some explosive orgasms in my life, maybe you could as well? Enjoy ;)And hey, why not submit your own recording? Especially to my non-hetero folks, poly peeps and anyone else getting busy -- press record on the sexytimes! And then email it to the show: sexcompod@gmail.comTil next week...

An interview with Safi and Fifi... Safi and Fifi are two twentysomething LGBTQ polyam commentators and spouses to be. They host a YouTube channel offering sex-positive conversation and education from their perspective as young people of color.Much like this show and GRAPHICPAINT, their mission is to offer a safe, judgment-free space for the exploration of sexuality. They cover everything from gender identity, kink, polyamory and more. Today's conversation covers those same topics while also getting into their backgrounds and experiences that led to them being the people they are today. How were they introduced to sex, kink and polyamory; how did they find each other; and why is their YouTube channel so important, especially right now.Links to Safi and Fifi:YouTubeInstagram

An interview with Sultry Sitara, a phone sex operator on NiteFlirt. She describes herself online as the "dominant nerdy Indian girlfriend" you're looking for. We discuss the nuances and challenges of offering a virtual girlfriend experience, providing sensual domination over the phone, and why phone sex is so important right now, during this pandemic. We also dive into what it’s like being an Indian woman of color in the sex industry and the racism she faces at work and in life.Find out more about Sitara:♥ Website: https://sultrysitara.net/♥ NiteFlirt: https://niteflirt.com/Sultry%20Sitara♥ AVNStars: https://stars.avn.com/sultrysitara♥ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SultrySitara♥ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/SultrySitara

Today's episode features Malva Gasowski, international best selling author, business coach, trainer, family counselor and parenting coach. Malva is also the creator of Coaching - Mother and All, an online resource for parents and caregivers.In today’s interview, we discuss the very practical need for open communication about sex with partners and with children. As a mother, wife and experienced coach in all matters of family relationships, Malva has a great deal of expertise to share about how biology and socialization play into our understanding of sex. And of course, as with all my guests, we discuss her intimate, personal experiences, specifically as they relate to motherhood and long-term monogamy.Links to our guest and her work:https://www.coaching-mother-and-all.com/https://www.facebook.com/coaching.mother.and.all/https://www.facebook.com/malva.gasowski.coaching/about

It's the audio porn episode for July! Today's audio submission is from "Anonymous Couple #2" who you may remember from Episode 101: A Couple Uses Toys (And Oral, And Oil, And Toe Sucking...) Said couple included a handy description along with their recording to give some context:"Hello Brianne. It's us again from episode 101. We had some fun today and I actually remembered to hit record, lol. I have become very interested in rope play lately so I've been reading and researching it. Today was our first attempt at bringing it into playtime. I did a tie that secured her Hitachi magic wand up to her pussy for hands-free play. I also used our under bed restraints to secure her hands and feet down. I tried edging her but she's such an easy cum I had to be fast with turning it off and on. I had the best luck with the setting that starts off low and ramps up to high then back down over and over. Then I'd turn the wand up to solid high vibe which would force her to cum over and over. At the end of the audio, there's a short blowjob and I fucked her from behind for a short time but she was ready for a break. I stopped recording at that time. We picked up again after a short break. I'll send that recording and description in a separate email. Use them if you want, if not that's ok too." This recording is fire and another demonstration of how hot sex can be in a long-term relationships (they've been married for 28 years!!!). Enjoy!***Submit your own audio! Send files to sexcompod@gmail.com -- all submissions are 100% anonymous *unless you want your identity to be shared. As host and producer, I am the only person who will ever have access to your message or files.Until next week!

The final episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. Next week, July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. Please pick up some tickets to the events now if you haven’t already done so. Today’s interview is with the founder of The Black Sex Worker Collective, Akynos. July 22nd is also Akynos’ 43rd birthday, hence the 22 hours of events and $43,000 financial goal. My guest has worked in the sex industry for nearly 30 years and has plenty of experience to share. In this episode, we discuss how and why she created the Black Sex Worker Collective, why she is personally celibate, what we can expect from her appearances at the fundraiser, and future BSWC projects.Event information:Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser EventThe Opening Party (by donation)Tickets to The Psychosis of WhitenessGeneral information:The Black Sex Worker CollectiveBSWC Twitter / InstagramSome information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemichttps://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalizedMore information about today's guest:Akynos WebsiteTwitter / Instagram

This is the fourth episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. Starting with Episode 115, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. The stigma of sex affects many things and the treatment of sex workers is but one example. Sex workers face discrimination, prosecution and an absence of basic labor rights. As we approach the close of this series, I hope these interviews have created awareness and inspired not only compassion, but supportive action as well. Today’s interview is with Antonia Crane and AM Davies, two members of Soldiers of Pole, a Stripper Union Movement. During the July 22nd fundraiser, Soldiers of Pole will host Strippers Unite; a performance and Q&A about organizing and strippers in the midst of a pandemic during an uprising. In this episode we discuss the lack of labor rights facing sex workers in the U.S., visions for a better future, misconceptions about the work, and some personal details about our guests.Event information:Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser EventTickets to the Soldiers of Pole Event: Strippers Unite — Performance and Q&AGeneral information:The Black Sex Worker CollectiveSome information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemichttps://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalizedMore information about today's guests and their personal projects:Soldiers Of Pole WebsiteAntonia Crane WebsiteAM Davies Website

Today is the third episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. As of June 18th, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. This show is about destroying the stigma of sex, and the fact of sex workers facing discrimination, prosecution and an absence of basic labor rights, is a demonstration of this stigma. It is my hope, that with every episode in this series, you, the listener, become more informed, compassionate, and inspired to take supportive action.In today’s show, I speak with Arabella Allure, a burlesque performer, advocate, and event organizer. Arabella and Salty Bisch Creations will be presenting a performance showcase of the top BIPOC Artists from Western Canada. Like our last guest, Arabella is also originally from Australia, though now based in Calgary Canada. We discuss the challenges and benefits of stripping, along with how engaging in sex work challenges cultural patriarchy. Event information:Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser EventTickets to Arabella's Event: Salty Bisch Creations — The Patio Below; BIPOC Performer ShowcaseGeneral information:The Black Sex Worker CollectiveSome information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemichttps://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalizedMore information about today's guest:Arabella Allure: Instagram / TwitterSalty Bisch Creations: Facebook / Instagram / Twitter

Today is the second episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. As of June 18th, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. It can not be said enough that sex workers are under attack and in need of our support. As this show is about destroying the stigma of sex, the issue of sex worker rights is absolutely in alignment with our mission, and I am pleased to offer the platform of this podcast to raise awareness and affect positive change.In this episode, I speak with PJ Starr, a documentary filmmaker and sex workers’ rights activist. During the fundraiser, PJ and the New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance (NJRUA) will host Goddesses in the Garden State; a 2-hour block of cocktail recipes, music, film and a panel discussion of Black sex workers in film. PJ is originally from Australia but currently based in New Jersey, and we discuss why the plight of sex workers is so important to her, how she became interested in the subject of sex work, and why she self-describes as having “transcended kink.”Event information:Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser EventTickets to PJ's Event: Goddesses In The Garden StateGeneral information:The Black Sex Worker CollectiveSome information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemichttps://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalizedThe New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance (NJRUA)More information about today's guest:PJ's website of professional workJune 28th Film Screening

Today is the first of a series of episodes I’m doing with the Black Sex Worker Collective to promote their upcoming fundraiser next month. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity. It is both a celebration and grassroots fundraising campaign to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by current circumstances, who are all too often Black, and people of color.This collaboration is but one of the many ways the SEX COMMUNICATION Podcast, and GRAPHICPAINT, are offering support to the Black community and sex workers everywhere — I encourage you to do the same. If you are a listener of this show, you know that the goal is to destroy the stigmatization around sex through honest exploration of its reality. Sex work is necessary, useful, and deserves as much discussion, respect and exploration as any other topic.In today’s episode, I speak with Dan of Kinky in Wonderland, who will be hosting an online Introduction to Bondage during the July 22nd event. Dan is also based in Berlin and we discuss his experiences with sex-based work, kink, discrimination and activism.Event information:Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser EventTickets to Dan's Event: Bondage OnlineGeneral informationThe Black Sex Worker CollectiveSome information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemichttps://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalizedMore information about today's guest:https://www.gay-BDSM.clubhttps://www.kinky-in-wonderland.de/https://www.kinky-in-wonderland.de/bondage-onlineIn preparation: www.bondage-online.com

Some audio porn for the month of June -- here's hoping this crowdsourced clip will bring some much-needed levity and light to the world.This episode features "C" and "H" who you may remember from Episode 91: When "C" Met "H" And Then Got "Freaky" "C" appeared earlier on this show when we discussed differing opinions about the importance of dick size; catch up with Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate Till next week...

In honor of George Floyd's memorial, I am using the platform of this show to support those protesting systemic racism around the world. Today's episode features a segment of audio recorded at a peaceful protest in New York City followed by 8 minutes and 46 seconds of silence dedicated to George Floyd. This fight needs your support. Below is a list of organizations battling racial injustice; please donate your time and funding.The Bail Project: A national non-profit organization designed to combat mass incarceration by disrupting the money bail system, one person at a time.Black Lives Matter: A global organization in the US, UK and Canada, whose mission is to eradicate white supremacy and build local power to intervene in violence inflicted on Black communities by the state and vigilantes. Campaign Zero: Utilizes research-based policy solutions to end police brutality in the U.S. Color Of Change: The nation’s largest online racial justice organization. The Innocence Project: Exonerates the wrongly convicted through DNA testing and reforms the criminal justice system to prevent future injustice.Movement for Black Lives: Supports Black-led rapid response efforts and long-term strategy, policy and infrastructure investments in the movement ecosystem. NAACP: NAACP’s mission is to secure the political, educational, social and economic equality of rights in order to eliminate race-based discrimination and ensure the health and well-being of all persons. National Bail Fund Network: A full directory of bail funds by stateNational Bail Out: A Black-led and Black-centered collective of abolitionist organizers, lawyers and activists building a community-based movement to support our folks and end systems of pretrial detention and ultimately mass incarceration.***Don't forget June is also Pride month -- visit GRAPHICPAINT for links to LGBTQ+ organizations supporting people of colorTill next week...

My conversation with Jonas, a grad student and photographer who has already come to know more about himself sexually at the age of 24 than most people do in a lifetime. We talk about what being queer means to him and all the many many things he's explored so far. If you'd like to connect with Jonas, here are his social profiles and links to his photography:FetLife ProfileInstagramPhotography Til next week!

For those of you who are unaware, May has come to be known as Masturbation Month. In honor of this, I am sharing with you 4 brief clips personal, masturbation audio porn. But first! I answer the most frequently asked questions I've gotten about masturbation, and specifically, masturbation during quarantine.Enjoy! Til next week...

An interview with a woman in her late 20s... Do intimacy, relationships and sex all go together? Does one negate the other? Does waiting to have sex really matter? Is a deep connection more important than sexual compatibility and vice versa? We talk about all these things and more.And just a reminder, whatever your opinion, and however you live your life, if it works for you, then that's all that matters.Til next week!

My interview with Tom, a gentleman with a traumatic brain injury who struggles with maintaining sexual health. We talk about the challenges that come from living with a disability, the toll of mental stress, and the importance of sharing one's story.Sex and disability are both spoken about far too little -- if you are struggling with your own challenges, reach out to the show at sexcompod@gmail.com and let's talk about it...Til next week

Hey! Guess who just found out that April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month? It's me... I guess it was good ol' serendipity that prompted my publishing an interview with an LCSW who focuses on sexual assault awareness last week! Anyway!Today I read (yes read) two essays I wrote within the last few years detailing a handful of the sexual assaults I've experienced so far and then give some candid background and followup after each. The links for the essays are below along with a 3rd bonus essay detailing some more assault but also some thoughts on consent.If you have a sexual assault/abuse story, I'd love to talk to you -- either on the show or otherwise. These experiences need to be shared! sexcompod@gmail.comLINKS (via Medium):Rapist Vs. Partner"Stealthing," A ReviewOn Consent And Being Bullied As A Grown-Ass Woman

An interview with Andrew Pari, LCSW, a licensed clinical social worker, and psychotherapist. He is also the founder of Sexual Assault Awareness, an organization dedicated to treating and raising awareness of sexualized violence. I met Andrew earlier this year at the Positive Sexuality Conference in California where he gave a presentation titled Guided Rape Exposure Treatment, A Proposed Model.Andrew focuses his work on the controversial & taboo topics that most in his field won’t address, including specialized populations in the sex trade and human trafficking. He is also writing the first book on the arousal experience in sexual assault to help rape victims and therapists understand this response, hence the subject of his conference presentationAs you might expect, given the nature of his work, Andrew and I have a shared interest in discussing the things most people won’t - so who better to interview for this show!We talk in depth about his professional work but of course, we also get into the intimate nitty gritty of his personal, sexuality as is customary on this show. LINKSSexual Assault AwarenessCenter for Positive Sexuality

Today's audio porn episode features masturbation with a butt plug (and a vibrator, and a squirting orgasm). My inspiration for this episode was a couple I interviewed a few months ago, C & H. Listen to their episode, Episode 91: When "C" Met "H" And Then Got FreakyThe episode that inspired C & H: Episode 101: A Couple Uses Toys (And Oral, And Oil, And Toe Sucking...)PSA: We need more audio porn!! Please help!***Also! Our new home on the interwebs! www.sexcompod.com - and on Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexcompodcastTill next week!

An interview with a 20-something guy about his feelings on pornography. Is it addictive? Is it bad? We get into all the things! Along with personal sex stuff because that’s how we do here. Enjoy!And here is a great post with lots of links to independent, ethical and feminist porn — give it a look!Till next week…

My interview with local sex-positive hero, Effy Blue. We discuss relationship and sexual histories, trauma, healing, and the work she does around relationships and sex.Effy Blue is a relationship expert specializing in non-monogamy and other alternative structures. Her coaching philosophy, Relationship by Design, abandons the one-size-fits-all relationship structure that is heavily prescribed by our society. Instead, it advocates conscious and active design of relationships in service of those in it. Effy guides and facilitates this creative process by fearlessly asking the tough questions while constructively offering thoughtful insights. Besides coaching, Effy builds a growing community of Curious Foxes, leads panels and workshops, and speaks at relationship and sexuality conferences around the country.Find and connect with Effy:Instagram/Facebook/Twitter: @coacheffyblue / @wearecuriousfoxeseffyblue.comwearecuriousfoxes.comaloha@effyblue.comTill next week!

Hey folks! Special edition of “How I Got Off” to share some helpful tips on sexual satisfaction in the time of Coronavirus AND a link to a Zoom interview I’m doing later tonight (3/26 at 7pm EST).UPDATE Interview ended - link removed***Here are some tips for how to enjoy sex and to avoid spreading COVID-19 from nyc.govKnow how COVID-19 spreads.You can get COVID-19 from a person who has it.The virus can spread to people who are within about 6 feet of a person with COVID-19 when that person coughs or sneezes.The virus can spread through direct contact with their saliva or mucus.We still have a lot to learn about COVID-19 and sex.COVID-19 has been found in feces of people who are infected with the virus.COVID-19 has not yet been found in semen or vaginal fluid.We know that other coronaviruses do not efficiently transmit through sex.Have sex with people close to you.You are your safest sex partner. Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, especially if you wash your hands (and any sex toys) with soap and water for at least 20 seconds before and after sex.The next safest partner is someone you live with. Having close contact — including sex — with only a small circle of people helps prevent spreading COVID-19.You should avoid close contact — including sex — with anyone outside your household. If you do have sex with others, have as few partners as possible.If you usually meet your sex partners online or make a living by having sex, consider taking a break from in-person dates. Video dates, sexting or chat rooms may be options for you.Take care during sex.Kissing can easily pass COVID-19. Avoid kissing anyone who is not part of your small circle of close contacts.Rimming (mouth on anus) might spread COVID-19. Virus in feces may enter your mouth.Condoms and dental dams can reduce contact with saliva or feces, especially during oral or anal sex.Washing up before and after sex is more important than ever.Wash hands often with soap and water for at least 20 seconds.Wash sex toys with soap and warm water.Disinfect keyboards and touch screens that you share with others (for video chat, for watching pornography or for anything else).Skip sex if you or your partner is not feeling well.If you or a partner may have COVID-19, avoid sex and especially kissing.If you start to feel unwell, you may be about to develop symptoms of COVID-19, which include fever, cough, sore throat or shortness of breath.If you or your partner has a medical condition that can lead to more severe COVID-19, you may also want to skip sex.Medical conditions include lung disease, heart disease, diabetes, cancer or a weakened immune system (for example, having unsuppressed HIV and a low CD4 count).Prevent HIV, other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancy.HIV: Condoms, pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) and having an undetectable viral load all help prevent HIV. For more information, visit nyc.gov/health and search HIV.Other STIs: Condoms help prevent other STIs. Visit ny

My interview with Dr. Kerry Kott… join us for a conversation about discovery, communication, healing, experimentation and optimism in the face of trauma.Afterward, check out my guest’s podcast: The Universe Made Me Do ItTo find out more about her work, visit her website and check out her InstagramTill next week, stay safe!

Listen to a woman cum many, many times as her partner licks her feet, sucks her toes, massages her with oil, eats her out and uses multiple vibrators over the course of 20+ minutes…Btw, this is a couple married for 28 fucking years. Don’t even try to say married sex can’t be hot AF!Many thanks to the sexy listeners who submitted this clip!Here are the two toys used in the audio:Njoy Pure WandMagic Wand**Update on SXSW: the event was cancelled (thank you to all the listeners who wrote in to comfort me!) but unfortunately the trip was non-refundable so I’m still flying to Austin, heading out today. I’ve been working hard to arrange alternate events to get some value out of the excursion — I will be doing a webcast (or two!) plus I’ve booked an in-person slot at Grit Daily House for tomorrow, Friday March 13 at 12:30pm at this event:Grit Daily House Live!More to come as things become definite… I will be sharing the webcast with you all so stay tuned!Till next week…

100 EPISODES CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?!?!?Today’s show is one of my all-time favorite conversations — an interview with Lydia, an artist, content creator, sex worker, trans woman, etc… She has so many wonderful experiences to share and does so with such insight and humor that I just know you’ll love this episode as much as I do.And stay tuned till the very end when I share some very important updates regarding this show!!!Till next week…

Hey folks! Welcome to the audio porn follow-up to last weeks’s interview, Episode 98: All About Attending Sex PartiesNOTE: this is not a recording of a sex party, but of my guest from the last episode, “BlackKnight,” masturbating in front of an audience for the first time.Till next week!

Today’s interview is Part 1 of a 2-part series — next week’s episode will be audio porn featuring the same guestThe conversation I have with “BlackKnight” centers around the reality of attending sex parties. It just so happens my guest has been to quite a few and as a self-identified shy and anxious person, I think a lot of folks out there will relate to his perspective.Our talk also covers race play; the first event my guest attended was an interracial swingers party. Race also factors into his personal explorations and porn use.Till next week!

Welcome to Season 2!Updates on what’s new for the season ahead — new intro, new schedule format, etc…Also! Two speaking engagements coming up REAL SOON! My topic is “Using Sex And Porn Online To Change The World IRL”The first, the Positive Sexuality Conference, February 21-23, 2020I am speaking Sunday, February 23, at 10:15am — registration closes February 19!The second, SXSW!!!! March 13-22, 2020I am speaking Friday, March 13, at 12:45pmAlso also!! GRAPHICPAINT is relaunching in March! Have you signed up yet for a chance to win a free month of unlimited access?? Visit https://www.graphicpaint.com/ to enter for early access.***If you’re interested in being a beta user, please email me at sex@graphicpaint.com and I’ll hook you up!And… tomorrow is Valentine’s Day! You should masturbate.Till next week…

A look back at Season 1 and a look ahead at what’s in store for Season 2… a special thank you to everyone who participated in the content for the last 96 episodes - this show wouldn’t exist without you!Happy New Year everyone :)***If you’d like to show your support with a financial donation, please visit our donation page on GRAPHICPAINT***

The last audio porn of the year! This month’s selection could be considered wholesome given that it is a recording made by a VERY loving couple. Enjoy!I’ll be back Monday with the last episode of Season 1…

Guess who beat off most days this past week?!?!?!? That’s right, I’ve finally overcome my mental block and gotten down with my bad self successfully and without porn four out of the last seven days. But this positivity is not without some downsides! I would tell you more here but you’ll just have to listen to find out details.Till Thursday — our last regular episode of both the season and year… and Happy Festivus!

Throwback episode featuring archival sound footage of a pre-play conversation with “The Brit,” who has appeared in four other episodes from the early days of this show:Episode 3: Yes Daddy Audio—A Husband Dominates His WifeEpisode 7: Interview 1—”The Brit”Episode 13: Play Session 1—”The Brit”Episode 27: Play Session 2—”The Brit”This recorded discussion documents two people navigating the terms of an internet-based Dom/sub (D/s) relationship as well as a reverse interview of sorts… here “the Brit” asks me the types of probing, private questions I typically ask of guests in other episodes…Till Monday!

This week I was heavy-duty cranky pants, battling a cold and in no mood for anyone’s shit BUT I somehow beat off two days in a row! So impressive, which is not what I can say about the porn I watched the second day which was all shitty shit and I am in a real porn-hating space right now. Anyway! Holidays! Ugh.Also: FestivusBoob-Heavy Porn I DO NOT Recommend:Two Asian girls, too much noiseCheerleader and girl, too much talking, too stupid, no buildup or sensitivityMeh guy-on-girl fake, girl too ridiculous, who even does this shit Meh guy-on-girl fake, boring, no buildup or sensitivity

An interview with “C” and “H” about all the sexy sex stuff happening in their new relationshipYou may remember “C” from Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate — he kept in touch after the recording to let me know that after all his pessimism about finding a sexually compatible partner, the miracle finally happened and so here we are today…“C” mentions a specific type of toy in the conversation, which I believe is this prostate massager, check it out if you’re interestedAnd, here are the pics of the Shibari work they’ve been dabbling inAnd and, here are the two orgy-describing episodes mentioned:Episode 60: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/19 - 8/25/19Episode 86: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/18 - 11/24/19

Improved sexual activity! I masturbated Thursday and watched someone else masturbate Saturday… Also! The bad porn I watched while beating off Thursday has inspired a new segment: “UNSOLICITED ADVICE.” Do with it what you will because it may very well be bad advice as it is based solely on my own opinion and personal feelings. But also it may just save you from some future embarrassment so give it a listen?As to the subject of said segment of “UNSOLICITED ADVICE,” the topics at hand are: sunglasses on naked people doing sexy things and young men bringing magnum condoms to new sexual encounters.Now for the porn…Inspiration for my PSA of unsolicited advice, i.e., here is a dude wearing sunglasses and ruining an otherwise decent clip of a man sucking on some natural titsA ridiculous storyline, decent looking male participant, and unfortunate presence of breast implantsProbably a decent clip of nipple sucking but I was so frustrated at this point I turned it off after a few seconds

An interview with Karen, a listener I connected with on Instagram and who agreed to do an interview to share all the juicy stories of her life so far… We talk about how she basically educated herself when it came to sex, a story all too common. So many of us grow up like Karen, where sex isn’t spoken about openly at home or in school and much of our knowledge about the act comes from the media. Some other topics include, what makes sex good? what makes a partner good? and the value of openness in relationships and social circles in terms of discussing what we want and who we are. Enjoy!Till Monday…

No sex, no orgasms, just stress, stress, STRESS! Too stressed to do anything, but for good reason! I’ve been grinding out the architecture and design of the new, custom GRAPHICPAINT.com which will be launching January 31, 2020!!! Of course, I’m stressed because I procrastinated, but that’s kind of my M.O. — I swing between the same extremes of stress/work/activity and relief in nearly every area of my life but why? I believe it is because amplified stress equals amplified reward, i.e., relief, but maybe that’s just me?Anyway! I fixed the GoFundMe campaign for the podcast — apparently the campaign paused because of some admin detail, anyway! It’s up and running so please support us if you can!Till Thursday!

THANK YOU to each and every one of you have listened, shared the show, shared audio, agreed to interviews, commented, subscribed and taken the time to write me about how this project has affected you.Our publishing schedule will remain the same over Christmas but we will be taking the entire month of January off for a much needed break before launching Season 2!While we are on hiatus in January, please share any feedback, thoughts or requests regarding topics, guests, or anything else that you’d like to hear in our next season.Much love and gratitude to all of you!Till Monday…

7 orgasms for the week! 2 at the mid-week orgy, 2 with #57, 3 masturbating with toys sans porn…So that orgy — pretty sure this was my last one. Listen to find out why and how playing separately later in the week with #57 [masturbation party guy] was actually more satisfying. But! Neither was satisfying to my soul and I have been left with an even bigger craving for a real partner so how about that.Catch up on what happened at the first orgy I attended back in August with Episode 60 and the essay, Attending My First Orgy, SoberTill Thursday!

Remember the mention of Mr. Baggy Magnum Condom? [Episode 56] Well here is the audio of me going two rounds with that guy, showing up like a champ to get mine as best I could despite the underwhelming material I had to work with. A big plus: this guy is VERY vocal and enthusiastically expressive so that was fun. He’s a good kid just not the one for me. Take a listen.Do you have underwhelming experiences of your own to share? Hit me up: sex@graphicpaint.comOn a more serious and urgent note, this episode is airing the day after Transgender Day Of Remembrance but it’s worth duplicating the remembrance given that there were at least 331 murders of trans and gender-diverse people between October 1, 2018 and September 30, 2019. Please take the time to acknowledge their passing and the work that remains end the violence. You can view the full list of reported deaths here along with more information on the importance of this day.Till Monday…

One orgasm to report! And lucky you, I recorded the event. BUT, it was extremely brief and underwhelming, though still true and real and all that so give it a listen. I’ve included the clip at the end of my rambling about the past week and my hopes and dreams for the orgy I’ll be attending this Wednesday.And hey! It’s Trans Awareness Week and it just so happens that Episodes 81 and 83 detail the journey of one woman’s transition and all that the experience entails. Check out Parts 1 and 2 of my interview with “C” as she describes coming out to her friends, family and colleagues, as well as what it’s been like sexually now that she is living her truth.Episode 81: “C” Comes Out As A Woman, Part 1Episode 83: “C” Comes Out As A Woman, Part 2Till Thursday…

The conclusion of my 2-part interview with “C.” Please listen to Episode 81 before diving into this one so that you’ve got some context for the conversation.“C” is in her early 50s and only recently came out as a trans woman — which means she spent decades struggling to come to terms with herself; her identity, orientation and sexual pleasure.In Part 2 we discuss the specifics of coming out to her family, especially to her son. We talk about social media, the physical details of her transition, body dysmorphia, the paradox of appearance, the idea of being a gender hybrid or “third sex,” and what her current sexual experiences are like. Some heavy stuff!Till Monday…***The SEX COMMUNICATION Podcast equipment fundraiser continues! Please support the project by contributing to our GoFundMe campaign.

My notes for the past week: RAGE. The end.Ok fine, there were other things like STRESS and INSECURITY. Listen for the details on how feeling like shit about my outsides keeps my insides sex free! Specifically what it was like attending a fancy schmancy event while feeling like a hideous troll and how this all connects to my shaved head and vanity and needing outside validation to make up for the lack of internal validation. Blah blah blah!OH WAIT! Actually something amazing did happen but I had so much rage I forgot! SXSW!!!! I AM SPEAKING AT SXSW AFTERALL!!! A slot opened up and I am now giving the 15-minute solo presentation I had applied for! THANK YOU to every single ounce of support, I am so fucking humbled and blown away that this is happening, so much so that I fucking forgot in my rage!!Until Thursday…

Today is the first portion of my 2-part interview with “C.”“C” is in her early 50s and only recently came out as a trans woman — which means she spent decades struggling to come to terms with herself; her identity, orientation and sexual pleasure.In Part 1 we discuss her personal history: how she was introduced to sex, what her first experiences were like, what her 2 marriages were like and so on. In the later portion of the episode, “C” describes what the process of coming out has been like. We talk about the timing, the reactions, the experience with friends and colleagues as she made her transition public.Part 2 will air next week as Episode 83.***The SEX COMMUNICATION Podcast equipment fundraiser continues! Please support the project by contributing to our GoFundMe campaign.

Masturbated once and only once — no porn, no partner sex, no other anything but rage for the remainder of the week. Why am I so angry? That’s exactly my question, WHY? There are some details relating to my sobriety and the work of recovery; things perhaps difficult for anyone outside of the 12-step space to identify with but affecting all the same. It’s personal inventory time once again and as such a lot of scabbed over and still fresh wounds are poked and prodded and generally painful.Aside from those specifics, rage is human, common, normal… I’m not ashamed but I am uncomfortable. I do my best to breathe through it, to envision the best for those I would rather be cursing out, I take positive actions instead of wallowing in my misery. Still, the rage will leave me when it’s meant to; surely it is serving some purpose though I’ll be damned if I can ever tell while it’s happening.Anyway! Motivation to masturbate the madness away no?***Here’s that orgy article I mentioned; it details my experience told through the lens of sobriety.

An interview with John and “Lotta” about what their relatively new relationship is like and how they navigate ethical non-monogamy when one partner is poly and the other is poly-friendly…Previous episodes with these two:Episode 75: Sex Magic Audio PornEpisode 51: Sex Magic And Pussy WhisperingEpisode 41: “Alotta” Experience, Love And Acceptance**ExtrasArticle detailing all the foibles that come with traveling and sexThe Ollie toy referenced

Heyyyyy — new partner sex! Plus oodles of masturbation… in other words, it was a pretty great week.Porn links:Some typical Japanese nipple stuffSome meh cuckholding porn [could the cuckhold be any more bored??]Some slightly better cuckholding porn [only tolerable for me with the sound OFF]Some satisfying cheesy nipple porn with a plumber themeSupport the podcast! I launched a small GoFundMe to cover the recent costs of upgrading the podcast equipment; please consider donating in support of the project! Check out the fundraiser or visit the ‘support’ page of GRAPHICPAINT at any time.Till Thursday!***See episode notes on GRAPHICPAINT to view images mentioned…

In this episode, I speak with Andre Shakti, an absolute badass and sexual inspiration. Here is Andre’s bio as described on her site, IAmPoly.net…Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission and is the weekly sex columnist for Slixa.com. In addition to her Ask Andre column, she writes about sex work, queerness and non-monogamy for Cosmopolitan, Rewire, Thrillist, MEL, Vice, Autostraddle, and more. She can frequently be found marathoning Law & Order: SVU under a chaotic pile of partners and pitbulls, and yes, she knows how problematic that show is.Andre graduated cum laude from Towson University in Maryland with a Bachelors of Science in Psychology and LGBT Studies in 2010. She worked in HIV risk assessment, harm reduction education, and community activism in Baltimore from 2008-2011, studied at San Francisco State University’s National Sexuality Resource Center (NSRC) in 2010, and graduated from San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI)’s Sex Educator Training in Fall 2013. She’s held educator and sales associate positions at sex-positive adult boutiques Sugar (Baltimore, MD) and Feelmore510 (Oakland, CA), and is one of the founding crew members of Atlanta’s Sex Down South Conference in Atlanta, GA.Whew! I met Andre at the Sex Down South Conference this past September and I was blown away by her presence after having the privilege of attending two of her workshops. I was even more blown away when she said ‘yes’ to an interview and so here we are!Our conversation covers both her personal and professional lives; her background, upbringing, areas of expertise, sexual preferences and experiences, SESTA-FOSTA, family acceptance, relationships, and on and on.***Speaking of SESTA-FOSTA, here is the article Andre refers to: https://www.businessinsider.com/fosta-sesta-anti-sex-trafficking-law-has-been-failure-opinion-2019-7I am so grateful to Andre for being so open and available for this interview [thank you again!]. If you’d like to know more about this dynamo, she is all over the internet! Here are some easy ways to follow her:Personal site: https://www.iampoly.netPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/IAmPolyamorousTwitter: https://twitter.com/AndreShaktiFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/andre.shakti/And here are some links to a few examples of her professional work:As author: https://www.them.us/story/sesta-fosta-backpage-sex-workersAs performer: https://crashpadseries.com/queer-porn/character/andre-shakti/

Guess who has a crush? It’s me and it’s a pleasant, warm and fuzzy type of crush which has inspired a different type of fantasy [the warm and fuzzy kind duh]. There appears to be mutual attraction but for now I’m just enjoying the idea of the person and the possibilities that come with the appearance of a new person.Also last night someone told me that I was their crush so that was a fun twist to the week. However, the fact that they anonymously texted makes me super skeptical about the worthiness of this mystery person.Anyway! Masturbation level was pretty normal with three days of action, so much better than last week ;) I finally remembered to charge the insertable vibrator so that helped things tremendously. Also am I growing? Because I watched nipple porn that featured women with fake tits. It worked so maybe the tides are shifting? Or maybe the activity trumped the aesthetics? I suspect the latter but I will also continue to believe I am growing.Porn links:Nipple stuff, even with fake breastsSame same but different, also with natural breastsSupport the podcast! I launched a small GoFundMe to cover the recent costs of upgrading the podcast equipment; please consider donating in support of the project! Check out the fundraiser or visit the ‘support’ page of GRAPHICPAINT at any time.Till Thursday!

Some magical audio porn in honor of Spooktober! Ok it’s not spooky or magical like witches magical but still…Anyway! Here’s the recording description from the submitters, both of whom have been interview guests of the podcast:“The intention behind this was sex magic — kind of a manifestation thing as well as a test of concept. There is light race play, primal sex, roleplay, things like that.”Well there you go… If you would like to hear more from these two, check out their individual episodes:Episode 51: Sex Magic And Pussy WhisperingEpisode 41: “Alotta” Experience, Love And AcceptanceAlso — as promised, I launched a mini GoFundMe to cover the recent costs of upgrading the podcast equipment; please consider donating in support of the project! Check out the fundraiser or visit the ‘support’ page of GRAPHICPAINT at any time.Till Monday!

A sloooooowwwww week… i.e., little to no sexy time. Ok, there was one time I actually self satisfied, Tuesday night, and it was successful (I came) but underwhelming (used porn, and a clip I’ve seen and used before).Aside from the inactivity with my nether regions, I did get some exciting news yesterday! I’ve been accepted as a speaker at my first conference!!! I will be presenting on the topic “Using Sex And Porn Online To Change The World IRL” at the Positive Sexuality Conference 2020 in Burbank CA!I’ve been battling some roller coaster emotions this week so the news of my proposal acceptance couldn’t have come at a better time.Oh! And another thing — I have recently invested in some upgraded equipment: dynamic mics, a mixer dashboard, freestanding boom arms, etc… It wasn’t cheap but definitely worth it as now I am able to record higher quality in-person and remote interviews! I used it all for the first time this past Thursday and I think you’ll be pleased to hear the difference when that episode airs, sometime in a few weeks.As I am 100% self-supported, I will be launching a small GoFundMe campaign to cover the equipment costs. Until that goes live, you can always donate to support both the SEX COMMUNICATION Podcast and GRAPHICPAINT via our donation page.Till Thursday!Porn links:Same old same old