The Love God Love Sex Podcast

This week, Heath and Jamie get into how dating teaches you about you. From self-love and emotional accountability to masculinity, leadership, and building with intention—this one's for anyone tired of surface-level situationships and ready to grow deeper. Tap in!

In this episode of Save The Date, Heath and Jamie unpack the emotional layers of rejection in dating and relationships. From personal stories to modern dynamics, they explore how rejection feels, how it shapes us, and why a little “delusional confidence” might actually be part of the process. They dig into how self-acceptance softens the blow, why rejection doesn't define your worth, and how to turn tough moments into tools for growth. With equal parts insight and encouragement, this conversation reminds us that rejection isn't failure—it's feedback, and it's a shared human experience. Sometimes all you need is perspective—and a friend who'll remind you who you are.

Everybody says they want vulnerability—until it's time to get real. On this episode, Heath and Jamie unpack what true vulnerability looks like, starting with getting honest with yourself first. They break down the difference between authentic vulnerability and oversharing, why feeling safe matters, and how getting emotionally naked can seriously level-up your intimacy game. Real vulnerability doesn't mean losing yourself—it means finding deeper connections through honest storytelling and genuine openness. So, stop data-dumping and start connecting. Your love life will thank you.

Swipe, match, ghost, repeat—modern dating can feel lonely AF. But this week on Save The Date, Heath and Jamie get real about loneliness and how dating, done right, can actually help us break out of isolation and into genuine connection. They unpack why social media might leave you double-tapping yet disconnected, why validating touch matters more than ever, and how being authentically present can cure even the deepest loneliness. Tap in!

Kindness is underrated in dating—but it might just be your real superpower. In this episode, Heath and Jamie get into why kindness (over niceness), and how being genuinely considerate, emotionally aware, and graceful—even in conflict—can change the entire vibe of your relationships. They unpack how kindness isn't about being passive or soft, but about showing up with intention, dignity, and the kind of energy that makes people remember you—even if it doesn't lead to love. Because real kindness? It hits in casual flings and serious things. And it always starts with how you treat yourself.

In this episode, Heath and Jamie are digging into the real MVP of modern love: EMPATHY. From "selective softness" to "emotional affordability," they break down why connection dies without compassion—and how control, ego, and lack of listening are blocking blessings. Wanna be loved right? Start by listening right. Tap in.

Heath & Jamie break down the messy side of modern dating—from being left on read to getting strung along. Why is connection so rare? What role do you play in the chaos? Real talk, no fluff. Tap in if you're tired of the games and ready for the grown.

On this episode of Save the Date, Heath and Jamie dive into what real respect looks like in modern dating. They're talking boundaries, consent, public behavior, and why patience still matters in a fast-paced world. It's more than being polite—it's about intention, trust, and emotional maturity. Because without respect, the rest doesn't hit the same. Tap in!

In this episode, Heath and Jamie keep it real about why good communication is a game-changer in relationships. From honesty and self-awareness to active listening and handling conflict, they break down how talking the right way keeps the vibe strong. Because good communication isn't just important, it's sexy. Tap in!

In this episode of Save the Date, Heath and Jamie chop it up with Stacey and Toni from the Old School Love Lounge about dating in your 50s. They break down the real differences between companionship and partnership, how marriage and traditional values are shifting, and why submission in relationships ain't what people think it is. From social media's impact on dating to the struggles of finding genuine connection in a swipe-right world, this convo gets real about love, loneliness, and what it takes to make a relationship last. Tap in!

In this inaugural episode of 'Save The Date', hosts Heath and Jamie discuss the evolution of dating, emphasizing its importance in fostering connections and self-discovery. They explore the impact of swipe culture on relationships, the significance of intimacy beyond physical connections, and how dating serves as a gateway to love. The conversation highlights the value of meaningful connections, learning from dating experiences, and the role of friendship in dating. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to change their perspectives on dating and recognize its potential for personal growth.

This conversation delves into the complexities of dating and marriage, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection over monetary value in relationships. The hosts discuss the challenges of modern dating, the unrealistic expectations often set by social media, and the need for community support in marriages. They explore how traditional marriage models can offer stability and the significance of teamwork in building a successful partnership.

In this episode, Heath and Jamie delve into the often unspoken realities of marriage, focusing on the pain and challenges that can arise. They discuss common misconceptions about marriage, particularly the belief that it will bring immediate happiness. The conversation emphasizes the importance of duty over feelings, the role of community in supporting marriages, and the necessity of confronting marital pain rather than suffering in silence. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they aim to provide a more realistic perspective on the complexities of marital relationships.

The conversation explores the intricate dynamics of reputation, trust, and transparency in relationships, particularly in the context of past actions and their potential impact on future aspirations. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and the consequences of withholding information, as well as the societal pressures that shape personal choices.

This conversation explores the dynamics of political identity, the importance of coalitions over unity, and the evolution of political discourse. It delves into the concept of charisma, particularly in the context of influential figures from the 20th century, including both men and women who have left a significant mark on society. The discussion also touches on the impact of social media on the legacy of these figures and how it shapes public perception. In this engaging conversation, Jamie and Heath explore the theme of charisma, particularly focusing on influential women throughout history and in modern times. They discuss various figures, their impact, and the qualities that make them charismatic leaders. The dialogue flows naturally from historical icons to contemporary personalities, highlighting the evolution of charisma in leadership roles.

In this conversation, the hosts explore the various masks people wear in dating and relationships, particularly focusing on societal pressures, the expectations of masculinity, and the impact of wealth and luxury on personal connections. They discuss the emotional toll of these masks and the importance of authenticity in relationships, while also acknowledging the challenges posed by societal norms and expectations. In this conversation, Heath and Jamie explore the complexities of modern relationships, focusing on the masks people wear to navigate emotional connections and societal expectations. They discuss the concept of false happiness, the pressures of commitment, and the cultural tendency towards apathy in relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the consequences of emotional disconnect, ultimately advocating for authenticity and deeper connections in a world that often prioritizes superficiality.#

In this conversation, the hosts explore the increasing polarization of politics and its effects on society, particularly in the realm of dating. They discuss how political differences have become deal-breakers in relationships and the challenges of navigating these differences in a world where identity politics and outrage culture dominate. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding one's political values, being gentle in discussions, and the need for open dialogue to foster connections despite differing beliefs.

The conversation explores the complexities of sexual experiences and their impact on relationships, emphasizing the importance of community, personal growth, and the balance between chemistry and compatibility. It discusses the consequences of indiscriminate sexual behavior, the role of faith in sexual morality, and the need for reflection before entering long-term commitments.

In this conversation, Heath and Jamie explore the complexities of casual sex and serious relationships, discussing the importance of clarity in communication, the morality surrounding these interactions, and the potential for predatory behavior on both sides. They delve into cultural expectations, the slippery slope of casual sex, and the impact of emotional manipulation, ultimately emphasizing the need for personal accountability and open dialogue in navigating modern dating dynamics.

In this episode, the hosts discuss the complexities of love, relationships, and the challenges faced by young couples today. They explore the importance of financial compatibility, emotional support, and the concept of 'monk mode' for self-improvement. The conversation emphasizes the need for men to lead by example and the significance of nurturing emotional connections in relationships. Ultimately, they highlight that love and commitment come at a cost, requiring dedication and sacrifice.

In this conversation, Heath and Jamie delve into the complexities of situationships, exploring their allure, the importance of compatibility over chemistry, and the dynamics of rejection and affection. They discuss the challenges of modern relationships, the impact of YOLO culture, and the necessity of clarity in communication. The dialogue emphasizes the need for personal growth and understanding in navigating romantic connections, ultimately advocating for healthier relationship practices.

In this episode, the hosts react to viral videos from social media: one discusses the reformation of an OF creator and if their redemption path is genuine; the second dialogue unpacks dating with non traditional roles and women being the breadwinner; the third speaks to how entitlement can turn people off from wanting to pour into a potential partner.

This conversation explores the recent incident on Andrew Schultz's podcast making a joke about the "Black Girlfriend Effect" and the social response to it. It also dives into various themes including personal experiences in different places, navigating social dynamics, and reflections on darker themes. The speakers share anecdotes and insights that highlight the complexities of their interactions and the environments they find themselves in.

The conversation explores the dynamics of support in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, consent, and understanding feminine energy. The speakers discuss the balance between providing for a partner and ensuring that both individuals feel valued and empowered. In the 2nd reaction, Heath and Jamie discuss the alarming trends among young men aged 20 to 30, focusing on their declining interest in relationships and intimacy. They explore the impact of video games and consumer culture on men's emotional and social development, highlighting a crisis in masculinity and the importance of bonding with women. In the 3rd reaction, Jamie and Heath discuss the importance of genuine partnerships in relationships, emphasizing the need for trust, commitment, and consistency. They explore how individuals often approach relationships with a mindset of what they can gain rather than what they can contribute.

In this episode, Jamie, Heath, and guest, Tavia J, discuss the challenges of dating and finding a compatible partner. They explore the issue of mixed signals and the importance of clear communication. They also touch on the difference between companionship and a committed relationship. Tavia shares her experience of falling in love with herself and the importance of finding the right fit in a partner. They emphasize the need for authenticity and self-awareness in relationships. They explore the pool of potential partners and the process of elimination based on personal preferences and deal-breakers. Tavia shares her perspective on the allure of 'bad boys' and the need for men to understand and care for a woman's heart.

Reacting to a viral clip from YouTube content creator, Valeria Lipovetsky (https://www.youtube.com/shorts/1oq5dJghOq0), the conversation explores the concept of men being in a 'flop era' and the potential consequences of this phenomenon. It discusses the challenges faced by young men in dating, the increasing rates of suicide among young men, and the impact of economic and emotional unavailability of men on society. The conversation also touches on the changing dynamics of dating and relationships, the rise of single women, and the need for policies and community work to address these issues. It emphasizes the importance of finding meaning and purpose in life and encourages men to seek help if needed.

The conversation explores the idea of body count for men and how it relates to self-esteem. Dialogue stemmed from a reaction video to content creator, Gareth Shan, sharing his personal experience of chasing a high body count to feel loved and worthy, only to realize that it left him empty. Heath and Jamie discuss the societal pressure on men to accumulate sexual partners and how it can harm both themselves and others. The conversation also touches on the importance of self-esteem and authenticity, and the need for honest discussions about body count for men. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for men to find genuine self-worth and to have open conversations about their experiences.

In this conversation, Jameela Jackson shares her story and early experiences with love, including the impact of her parents' divorce and her search for validation from men. She discusses her dating experiences in her 20s and 30s, highlighting the importance of intellectual stimulation and the challenges of finding genuine connections. As a single mother, Jameela addresses the stigma and preferences surrounding dating single moms, emphasizing the need for open-mindedness and compatibility. She also expresses her desire for marriage and a partnership built on emotional intelligence and mutual support. The conversation touches on topics such as body count, reputation, and the role of the community in marriage. Overall, Jameela highlights the importance of finding someone who aligns with your values and supports your growth.

This conversation explores the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment for women, both physically and emotionally. It emphasizes the power of listening and being a good listener, as well as the need for psychological and emotional safety. The discussion also touches on the idea of charisma and how it is often associated with men, but there are many charismatic women who may not fit societal expectations. The conversation concludes with a focus on communication and the importance of aligning actions with words. In this conversation, Jamie and Heath discuss the dynamics of the 'p*ssy game' and how it affects relationships between men and women. They explore the allure and addictive nature of the game, as well as the social proof and validation that comes with being successful in it. They also touch on the impact of the p*ssy game on men's personal development and the potential negative consequences of engaging in it.

In this episode, we dive into the complex world of romantic relationships to explore the extensive criteria men often feel obliged to meet for potential partners. From financial stability to social status, the conversation unpacks how societal expectations may shape women's preferences in choosing a mate. Join us as we navigate the intriguing intersection of love and social proof, and question whether these expectations reflect innate desires or are influenced by broader cultural norms.

In 'For Better or Worse,' we delve into the pivotal moments that define the resilience and fragility of love. Through candid conversations, we explore the daunting challenges and unexpected joys that push couples to either hold tighter or let go. Join us as we unpack the decisions that shape our most intimate bonds.

In this gripping episode, we delve into the delicate topic of calling out sin. Through powerful testimonials, we explore the balance between compassion and accountability in confronting wrongdoing. Tune in to navigate the tightrope of moral responsibility and the path to understanding.

In this episode, we delve into the controversial terrain of socio-economic dynamics in romantic relationships. Unpacking societal norms, personal biases, and the often unspoken implications of 'dating down,' we question if love truly transcends class boundaries. Through thought-provoking discussion, we explore whether economic disparity in relationships is a deal-breaker or just another layer of complexity.

In this episode, we delve into the contentious idea of infidelity as a symptom rather than a standalone offense, discussing the hidden layers of relationship dynamics and personal struggle behind the act. We examine how factors like emotional neglect, dissatisfaction, or lack of self-awareness can precipitate affairs. Prepare for a frank discussion that aims to shift the conversation from blame to understanding.

In this episode, we dive into the psychological triggers behind cheating and explore the emotional turmoil it can cause. This episode touches on some of the complexities of rebuilding trust after betrayal, offering practical tips and insights. Tune in to gain an understanding of this contentious issue, empowering your journey toward healing and forgiveness.

In this episode, we delve into the intriguing intersections between sexual positions and individual personas, exploring how our bedroom choices mirror our personality traits. Our hosts explore insights from psychology and human behavior, weaving a compelling narrative about the subconscious links between our sexual expressions and identities. Listen in for a thoughtful, respectful examination of the nuanced roles that intimacy and personal preferences play in shaping who we are.

In this episode, our two hosts have an intimate, unscripted exploration of the elusive concept of success, breaking away from traditional benchmarks of wealth and societal expectations. They challenge each other's preconceptions, sharing personal narratives and unexpected revelations as they redefine prosperity through the lens of their unique life experiences. Tune in for a rich, transformative discussion that pushes boundaries and challenges the status quo on the true meaning of success.

In this episode, we dive into the sensitive topic of rating sexual performance; grappling with the implications, biases, and potential impacts on men's and women's self-esteem and relationships, and discuss the potential for healthy conversation in this intimate sphere.

In this episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of women's sexual boredom, exploring biological factors, emotional needs, and societal expectations. Based on research, and real-life stories we dismantle misconceptions and unravel strategies for igniting passion and try to understand the complex interplay between women's sexuality, intimacy, and the seemingly inevitable 'boredom' factor.

In this episode, we react to Eboni K. Williams' clap back on The Breakfast Club to those who took issue with her 'dating a bus driver' comment and the social repercussions from that discussion.

In this episode, we react to the viral clip of Eboni K. Williams and Iyanla Vanzant discussing the type of man they would date, and if a bus driver would fit the bill for the level of provider desired by a woman.

In this episode, we unravel the essential art of foreplay, the saucy appetizer to the main course of love, and tease out truths about this overlooked orchestration of intimacy. In the symphony of seduction, no one wants to skip the overture!

In this episode, fidelity and infidelity tango on the dance floor of love as we discuss the concept of primary partners and side affairs—because when it comes to relationships, sometimes it's the side dish that takes the cake!

In this episode, we explore the dating experiences of single women and how their expectations and preferences have changed over time. Broaching topics such as online dating, hook-up culture, income inequality, and the pressures of societal norms.

In this episode, we discuss how income inequality can impact a person's dating process and if men should assume the traditional gender role of carrying the financial burden of dating.

In this episode, we get into male and female privilege, exploring the often overlooked similarities and stark differences. We also examine the implications privilege has on gender dynamics and how we can work together to create a more equitable world for all.

Can you plan a date? Do you have good hygiene? Are you trying to force outcomes like paying the bill or sexual scenarios? In this episode, we discuss three of the biggest red flags for men when it comes to dating.

In this episode, we discuss some thoughts on fantasies, fetishes, and kinks -- from exploring favorite positions to men's vulnerability in the bedroom to secret desires and erotic personas.

In this episode, we discuss "Big Freak Energy" (BFE) a term that allows people to own their sexuality without boundaries or labels, while they are in the process of exploration and discovery.

In this episode, we discuss an age-old question: can men and women have authentic platonic friendships? We also talk about societal views and misconceptions on the topic and the potential pitfalls in pursuing and cultivating these connections.

In this episode, Heath and Jamie discuss the phenomenon researchers are calling America's "loneliness epidemic". Despite the internet making the world smaller and giving people access to socialize across various platforms, more people are reporting experiences with an overwhelming feeling of loneliness, inadequacy and meaninglessness.