Podcasts about playfulness

In this episode, I'm thrilled to be joined by historian Dr. Ruby Lal.  When I first started thinking about this interview more than a year ago, I read Ruby's book Vagabond Princess: The Great Adventures of Gulbadan. I was swept away by the book, which is a history biography of Princess Gulbadan in the early decades of the Mughal Empire. Ruby is also the author of Empress: The Astonishing Reign of Nur Jahan, another remarkable narrative about a remarkable woman in the Mughal Empire. But before I had a chance to interview her, Ruby came out with another project: Tiger Slayer, which she describes as an illustrated remix of Empress for a young adult audience. I can't tell you how excited I was to talk about all of these projects, and how Ruby brings these narratives from hundreds of years ago to life in such vibrant, enchanting books.  Dr. Ruby Lal is a professor of South Asian History at Emory University. In addition to the books I've already mentioned, she is also the author of two academic books, Domesticity and Power in the Early Mughal World, and Coming of Age in Nineteenth Century India: The Girl-Child and the Art of Playfulness. And as you'll hear in the episode, she thinks deeply and beautifully about crafting historical narrative and the stakes of bringing these stories to readers of all ages.

You can listen wherever you get your podcasts, OR— BRAND NEW: we've included a fully edited transcript of our interview at the bottom of this post.In this episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, I have a conversation with Devon Kuntzman, an ICF-certified coach and author of the new book Transforming Toddlerhood. We cover why toddlers are so misunderstood, and how to work with our toddlers by better understanding their needs and development. Tune in to learn better ways to work through car seat struggles, diaper changes, tooth brushing, throwing things, and more!**If you'd like an ad-free version of the podcast, consider becoming a supporter on Substack! > > If you already ARE a supporter, the ad-free version is waiting for you in the Substack app or you can enter the private feed URL in the podcast player of your choice.Know someone who might appreciate this post? Share it with them!We talk about:* 7:10 Why do toddlers have such a bad reputation?!* 10:00 Contractionary needs of toddlers* 11:00 What hard toddler behaviours are totally normal?* 13:00 Nuance around “limit setting” and power struggles* 19:30 Having unrealistic expectations for our toddlers* 24:00 Understanding crying* 29:00 Toddlers need for movement and bodily autonomy* 30:00 Car seat struggles* 31:15 Refusing diaper changes* 32:00 Tooth brushing* 35:00 Throwing things* 38:00 The problems with Time OutsResources mentioned in this episode:* Yoto Player-Screen Free Audio Book Player* The Peaceful Parenting Membership* Transforming Toddlerhood: How to Handle Tantrums, End Power Strugglers, and Raise Resilient Kids --- Without Losing your Mind * Devon's website xx Sarah and CoreyYour peaceful parenting team- click here for a free short consult or a coaching sessionVisit our website for free resources, podcast, coaching, membership and more!>> Please support us!!! Please consider becoming a supporter to help support our free content, including The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, our free parenting support Facebook group, and our weekly parenting emails, "Weekend Reflections" and "Weekend Support" - plus our Flourish With Your Complex Child Summit (coming back in November for the 3rd year!) All of this free support for you takes a lot of time and energy from me and my team. If it has been helpful or meaningful for you, your support would help us to continue to provide support for free, for you and for others.In addition to knowing you are supporting our mission to support parents and children, you get the podcast ad free and access to a monthly ‘ask me anything' session.Our sponsors:YOTO is a screen free audio book player that lets your kids listen to audiobooks, music, podcasts and more without screens, and without being connected to the internet. No one listening or watching and they can't go where you don't want them to go and they aren't watching screens. BUT they are being entertained or kept company with audio that you can buy from YOTO or create yourself on one of their blank cards. Check them out HEREInterview transcript:Welcome back to another episode of the Peaceful Parenting Podcast. Today's guest is Devon Kuntzman, who is an expert on all things toddler. We discussed why toddlers get a bad rap—why they can be really challenging—and what's going on with them developmentally. Devon has so much insight into how to understand your toddler better, and therefore how to make life with them easier by knowing how to support them.We also talked about mysterious toddler behavior, and I asked her the questions I get most from you—what to do in tricky situations like car seats, teeth brushing, diapers, and more. You are going to finish this episode with a deeper understanding of your toddler and a deeper appreciation of these wondrous and sometimes challenging little beings.Even if you don't have a toddler anymore, you might find it interesting—as I did—to understand in hindsight exactly why they acted the way they did. And if you don't have a toddler anymore but you do know someone with a toddler—that's ages one through four—send this podcast on over to them. I'm sure they're going to find it really, really helpful. Devon is just wonderful.Okay, let's meet Devon.Sarah: Hey Devon, welcome to the podcast.Devon: Thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited to be here.Sarah: Me too. I'm so excited to talk about your new book that's coming out. But before we dive into that, can you tell us a little bit about who you are and what you do?Devon: Yes. So, I am Devon Kuntzman, and I'm an ICF certified coach, toddler expert, and the founder of Transforming Toddlerhood. I'm also a mama to a toddler and now an author with a book coming out October 21st called Transforming Toddlerhood as well.I really started Transforming Toddlerhood in 2018 to dispel the myth that toddlerhood is terrible. Yes, toddlerhood is very, very challenging developmentally for so many reasons, but it's also a critical developmental period. If we just go into it white-knuckling it, bracing ourselves for the worst, we actually start to miss the magic of this developmental period and the opportunity to set our kids up for success in the long run.The first five years of life set the foundation for brain development and social-emotional development for years to come.Sarah: I love that. And actually, I love the toddler stage. I know a lot of people find it really challenging, and I can see why, but also, as you said, it is really magical. They're such interesting little creatures, and I just love that stage.So, your book is coming out October 21st, and we would encourage anyone listening to pre-order it. I was so excited to read your book because, when I was reading it, I was thinking, “You know what this is? It's like a perfect peaceful parenting primer, except everything is focused on this age group.”There are a lot of great peaceful parenting books out there, but they don't focus on this age group. And this age group is so specific. I don't know if that's what you were intending to write when you wrote it. If you weren't intending to, I think that's what you did.Devon: Yes. The reason I wrote this book is because we have so many parenting books out there—amazing books that talk about peaceful parenting, respectful parenting, and all of these things. But none of them are truly tailored to the toddler years.At the same time, I have parents DMing me every day asking me so many different questions, and I can see the desperation of these parents. They're searching on Instagram, they're Googling, they're trying to find the answers to these very real, challenging problems in their lives. And there wasn't just one place to go to get all of these answers.That's why I wrote Transforming Toddlerhood. It's an all-in-one, comprehensive, easy-to-read guide that truly covers just about every challenge you might have throughout toddlerhood. Whether it's healthy, developmentally appropriate discipline, being on a different page from your parenting partner, your child whining, struggling with parental preference, or introducing a new sibling—I really cover everything in this book.I wanted parents to have a place they could go to get quick answers that were trusted, so they didn't have to search everywhere for them.Sarah: Yeah, you absolutely did it. You succeeded at your goal. I get lots of questions about toddlers too—in my coaching and in my communities—and every single one of the questions that I get was in the book. That was great.So, I encourage people to go out and get it. I'm actually going to order a copy for my husband's cousin and his wife. They have a little girl who's about 15 or 16 months now, so it'll be perfect for them.Devon: Perfect.Sarah: So, toddlers—as you mentioned before—have a bad rap, right? You know, the “terrible twos,” the “horrible threes,” or whatever people call them. Why do you think that is? And maybe tell us a little bit about what's going on developmentally. I think those two answers are probably connected.Devon: I am so excited to answer this question, because this is a question I always ask everyone who comes on my annual summit. And I'm so excited to get to answer it myself.I really feel that toddlerhood is so challenging for parents because it's the first time your child is realizing that they're a separate entity from you. And at the same time, you're realizing your child is a separate entity from you as well.The whole point of toddlerhood is for your child to become their own separate individual. And the way they do that is through behaviors that delineate a line between your toddler and yourself. They're going to say “no.” They're going to push back. They're going to have their own agenda.We start seeing this even as early as nine months old, with a child who doesn't want to get their diaper changed. Or you have a 12-month-old—you ask them to come over, they laugh and run the other direction. Or you have a 14-month-old who thinks you're moving too slowly, or doesn't like what you're doing, and then they hit you on the head.It's really the first time we move out of a purely caregiving role into what I like to call a really active parenting role, where we have to decide how we're going to respond to these behaviors.I think the bigger challenge is that we're looking at these behaviors through a logical lens with fully mature brains. So, we label these behaviors as bad or wrong. But really, all the behaviors that drive us crazy are developmentally appropriate behaviors for toddlers.Because of that mismatch—between our expectations of what we think is typical and what our toddlers are actually doing—it creates a lot of frustration. It creates fear spiraling: “Are they always going to be this way? Is my child going to grow up to be a bully?” X, Y, Z. All of that makes parenting this age group really, really challenging.Sarah: Yeah, I was just talking to someone this morning who has a 2-year-old and a new baby—which, of course, as you know, exacerbates the challenges of toddlers when you're adding to your family.I have noticed anecdotally that people tend to think two or three are the hardest years, and it almost always comes back to when they had their next child. If they had them two years apart, they found two harder. If they had them three years apart, they found three harder.This mom was just telling me about some struggles, and I said, “Yeah, your daughter is at that stage where she has her own ideas about things she would like to do or have. And it's combined with a lack of logic, perspective, and brain development.” It's like a perfect storm: “I know what I want, but I don't have any experience in life or brain development to be able to express it in a different way.”Devon: Yes, exactly. And another challenge that's really happening in toddlerhood—which comes through in their behavior—is this idea of contradictory needs.As I was saying, your toddler is trying to become their own person. They want to be independent. They're developmentally driven to have a sense of control, feel capable, and exert their will. But at the same time, they're highly reliant on the adults in their life to meet their social and physical needs.So even though these developmental needs are so strong, they still need you—that safe and secure base—to help meet their emotional and physical needs. Toddlers are constantly trying to balance these opposing needs, and that really comes out in contradictory, challenging behavior that can drive us crazy.Sarah: Yeah, I love that. I remember that so well—that “I want to do it by myself. No, I want you to do it for me.” The contradictory needs. That's such a beautiful way to put it.Devon: Yeah.Sarah: What is something you hear all the time that you find yourself saying, “Oh, that's totally normal for toddlers”? What's something parents don't know is normal, but you find yourself reassuring them that it is?Devon: Yes. Basically, the behaviors we as adults really don't like, that we think are inappropriate. Yes, in our logical, fully mature adult brains, hitting, biting, throwing, kicking, screaming, crying—all of these things—feel wrong.But if you think about it, babies' only way of communicating is to cry. Then, as toddlers start to grow, they go through a lot of physical development. They start communicating through their behaviors.For example, if you have a toddler throwing food from their high chair at 15 or 18 months old, they might be experimenting with cause and effect: “If I drop this food, what happens? Does the dog pick it up? How do my parents respond?” They're experimenting and exploring, which is very appropriate.Or take hitting and biting. Toddlers, especially one- and two-year-olds, cannot say, “I don't like this. I'm feeling frustrated.” So instead, they hit you or bite you.I just want parents to know: behavior is not good or bad. We have to step away from that dichotomous lens. Behavior is communication. Once we understand that, we can ask: “What skill does my child need to learn to be successful here?” instead of “What punishment do I need to give to make them listen or to teach them a lesson?”Sarah: Yes—or not only, “What skill?” but also, “What support does my child need to meet my expectation?” Right? Because sometimes the skill's not going to come for a long time with a toddler. But the support is something you can give them.Devon: I love that. This comes up a lot—the idea of “My toddler's not listening to me.” We set the limit, and then we expect our toddlers to just fall in line, follow through, and listen.But the truth is, we need to ask: “What support does my toddler need to meet this limit I'm setting?” We often think saying the limit is the end of our job, but it's actually the beginning.Setting the limit is step one. Then we have to help our kids follow through on that limit—especially the younger they are or the more unmet needs they have in that moment. If they're tired, hungry, overstimulated—then they're going to need even more help to follow through.Sarah: Yes. And I'm going to jump ahead in my list of questions. I was going to ask you about power struggles later, but I want to ask now since you just mentioned limits.I find parents sometimes get too hung up on limits—not that limits aren't important, because they are—but they often get too attached to their own sense of what the limit should be.I love that when you were writing about power struggles, you suggested starting with the question: “What's the goal here?” I'd love for you to talk about power struggles and limits through that lens. Because, as I mentioned this morning to a parent of a 2-year-old, there's so much a 2-year-old has no control over in their life. We want to think about how we can be flexible about the rest.So maybe just talk about your lens of power struggles a little bit, starting with that “What's the goal here?” I love that.Devon: Oh my gosh, I have so much to say on this subject.When we ask ourselves, “What's the goal here?” the main thing to consider is: are we trying to win? Because if you're battling your toddler to win, then you've probably lost sight of the bigger picture—which is: How do you want to show up as a parent? What relationship are you trying to create? What support are you trying to give your child? What skills do they need to learn?When we get caught up in trying to win, we're in our stress response. The more committed we get to winning, the more tightly we get locked in the power struggle. And then everyone's just on their own emotional roller coaster.The reality is, it takes two people to be in a power struggle. And if you're waiting for your toddler to suddenly say, “Oh, just kidding, I'll do what you want,” you'll be waiting a long time. Toddlers are developmentally driven to exert their will and be their own person. They're likely to double down.And toddlers can be really persistent. So we have to zoom out and think about the bigger picture. Instead of being so attached to one way of doing something, we can pivot in an empowered way.That might mean moving forward and letting your toddler follow you. Maybe it's giving them a choice between two things within your boundaries. Maybe it's saying, “When you brush your teeth (or pick up this toy), then we can go outside (or read a book).”There are so many different tools we can use to pivot out of power struggles. Because quite frankly, we're the adults. We have to be the leaders and guides in these moments. Our toddlers aren't going to suddenly say, “Oh, just kidding, sorry.”Sarah: Yes. And the other thing I've been thinking about a lot lately is, if we're not modeling flexibility, how are our kids going to learn it? If we can't be flexible as parents, then how will our kids learn to be flexible?So often parents say, “My kid is so rigid, they're not flexible at all.” And then you listen to the parent a little, and it sounds like they're also being pretty rigid with their child.I think finding those graceful sidesteps—what you're talking about—is so important. It's not about someone winning and someone losing, but about how we can still get to the goal we're trying to reach.Devon: Exactly. And this is a very Montessori-aligned thought: we as parents have to create the container, the foundation. But within those boundaries, there are a million ways something can happen and get done.So, we can give our child freedom within the boundaries. Of course they still need our guidance, but the key is to avoid backing out in a way that says, “Fine, you win.” Instead, we ask: how can we give them a sense of control within our boundaries? That way their developmental need for autonomy is met, while we're still in charge overall.Sarah: Okay. Going back to expectations—one thing I read in your book really struck me. You cited research showing that half of parents believe kids are capable of self-control and milestones earlier than they actually are.I find that too—parents' expectations are often way too high for the age their child is, or for where they are developmentally.So, how do you know if your expectations are out of whack? And what happens—what are the negative things that can happen—when they are?Devon: I always say we typically underestimate our child's physical abilities and overestimate their social-emotional capabilities and impulse control.There's a lot of research and polls showing this is the case. And when we hold unrealistic expectations, we get really frustrated, because we think our toddler is being “bad,” doing something they shouldn't be doing developmentally.Then we turn it inward: “I must be doing a bad job. I'm messing up.”The best way to know if your expectations are appropriate is by looking at your child's behavior over time—over several days or a week. What's really happening in those moments? If you see a consistent pattern, you can start to say, “Okay, maybe I'm asking too much of my child.”That doesn't mean you just throw the expectation out the window and say, “Too bad, I'll try again next year.” It means they need more support.So you scaffold the skill. For example, something like getting dressed takes a lot of planning and coordination. It's a skill that needs to be built over time. We need to start transferring those skills to our children—with our support.So when your expectations are too big, you don't throw them out completely. You ask: how can I support my child to get where I need them to be?Sarah: Yeah. I always talk about when there's the gap between your expectations and the reality, a lot of conventional parenting is like, “Okay, well what threat or consequence do I need to close that gap?” But I always think about just like, what support do we need to close the gap between the expectations and reality?And of course, sometimes I think you do—there is a place for throwing expectations out the window. Because sometimes they're so far off that it's better to let go of the expectation than to try to get your kid to do it.Or, you know, I think resources can go up and down. One day your kid might be able to do something, and the next day their resources might be a lot lower and they can't manage. We have to be flexible.Devon: For the parent too. There are going to be days when we're more resourced, and days when we didn't sleep well. Maybe our toddler was up at 2:00 AM and we're tired. There are days when we just feel like there's too much to do and not enough time. Days when we have our own feelings, emotions, and needs that need attention, and there's not a lot of space for that.That's where we really just need to have compassion for ourselves and for our toddlers, and really give each other the benefit of the doubt—knowing that we're doing the best that we can. Then we can start working from that place: right now, we're doing the best we can in this moment. What's the next step to getting where we need to be?I didn't mention this in the book, but something I talk about a lot with my private clients is that oftentimes we want to jump from A to Z. And that's a really big leap, right? We want to leap across the Grand Canyon, when really what we want to do is step across on stepping stones. Move from A to B, B to C, C to D. That's how we eventually get to where we need to be.This is true across the board when we're thinking about expectations, skills, and things of that nature. So when we don't try to do it all at once, we're going to have more realistic expectations and we're going to be less frustrated.Sarah: Yeah.Devon: That makes so much sense.Sarah: I love also that you really, in the book, normalize toddler behavior. You mentioned before, throwing—and at one point, as I was reading your book, I wondered, “I wonder if she's going to talk about play schemas.” And then you had the section on play schemas.So much of what toddlers do, parents just don't know is normal. Like you were talking about throwing food off the highchair. I always remind parents of the trajectory schema—how does the food move through space, or what happens when I drop this, and learning about gravity.Speaking of normalizing, one of the things that I loved in your book was when you talked about avoiding positive dismissiveness. I loved how you addressed that—when parents say that kids are crying for no reason. Can you talk about that a little bit, what to avoid, and what to do instead?Devon: Yeah. I decided to dedicate a chapter to crying because crying is such an important communication tool for kids. Beyond that, research shows that crying is actually beneficial to our bodies. It helps release hormones that make us feel better.So crying serves a lot of purposes. When we look at crying as “fake crying” or “crying for no reason,” it really shortchanges a normal biological process, a normal way of communication for young children. It also dismisses a child's needs.Now, I will tell you, it is hard to hear your child cry. It is so hard. I had a baby that cried for hours on end—I'm talking five-plus hours a day. So I've heard my fair share of crying, probably enough for ten lifetimes.It's really hard for me, even now with my toddler, to hear him cry. But knowing that you're not a bad parent and there's nothing wrong if your child is crying—that this is actually an emotional release—is super helpful.We don't want our kids to shove it down. Instead of saying, “You're fine, you're fine”—which usually comes from a good place, because we just want our kids to feel better—we can say things like, “That must have been hard,” or, “That was unexpected,” or, “Oh, you fell down and scraped your knee. I'm sorry that happened.”This creates emotional connection and helps build emotional resilience.Sarah: I love that. Listeners to this podcast will have heard me talk a lot about emptying the emotional backpack. That's what you're talking about too—crying might not even be about the thing that just happened. It might just be how they're releasing pent-up stresses, tensions, and big feelings they've been carrying around.And the second part of what you're talking about is really empathy, right? It's so hard because we don't always get why something is so upsetting—like you cut the sandwich wrong, or the muffin is broken in half and they want it whole.But I always tell parents, it's appropriate for little kids to have big feelings about small things. That's their life perspective right now. They don't have big adult problems like we do; they just have toddler problems. And to them, those are just as big.Devon: Yeah. And I think it also really stems from this idea of a lack of control. A lot of crying isn't really about the thing that happened—it's just the release of all the pent-up stuff, and that was the last straw.But why that becomes the last straw—like cutting the sandwich wrong or peeling the banana when they didn't want you to—is because toddlers have so little control over their lives. Yet this is the stage where they're craving control so badly, as they're differentiating themselves and becoming their own person.So that little thing, like peeling the banana when they didn't want you to, just reinforces the lack of control they feel—and that's what sends them over the edge.Sarah: That makes so much sense. I just have so much compassion and empathy for toddlers. I think toddlerhood and middle school are the hardest times of childhood.Okay, let's shift into some tips, because I'm going to use you to ask some of the questions I get all the time. These have been the questions on repeat for the last 12 years I've been doing this.Here's what I hear:My kid won't get in the car seat—or they cry when they're in the car seat.They don't want their diapers changed, even if it's really wet or dirty.They don't want me to brush their teeth.They won't stop throwing things.So if you want to lump some of those together, go for it—or take them one at a time. I'd love to hear your advice on those situations.Devon: Absolutely. Most of these have to do with the toddler's developmental drive to experiment and explore—and that happens through movement. Couple that with bodily autonomy: kids know inherently that they are in charge of their bodies.You can't force a child to eat, use the bathroom, or fall asleep. They are 100% in control of their bodies. That idea—that control is an illusion—is really tough for toddler parents to reckon with. But toddlers are great at teaching us this.The faster we accept that control is an illusion, and that instead we are partners who have to work with our children, the better things will go. At the same time, we are the adults, and we are in charge. Sometimes we do have to cross a child's bodily autonomy to keep them safe and healthy.So let's go through the examples.Car seats: Toddlers don't like being restricted—in a high chair, stroller, or car seat. Every toddler will push against this at some point. It can last for a while and come in phases.Giving your child a sense of control helps: let them climb in, let them choose whether you buckle them or they do it, let them clip the chest strap. Play a silly song as a celebration when they're in. Keep special toys in the car that they only get to play with there.Also, start earlier than you think you need to, so you're not rushing. But in the end, sometimes we do have to keep them safe by buckling them in. If we go against their autonomy, we need to talk them through what's happening, support their emotions, and try again next time.Diaper changes: When toddlers start refusing diaper changes, it means they're ready for something new. They want to move from a passive bystander to an active participant in their toileting journey.The first step is to change them standing up in the bathroom. Teach them how to push down their pants, undo the diaper tabs, or lean forward so you can wipe them. Yes, it's harder to clean them up this way, but it gives them control.Tooth brushing: Toddlers want control here too. I recommend three toothbrushes—one for each of their hands and one for you.Sarah: I remember letting my kids brush my teeth with my toothbrush while I brushed theirs.Devon: Exactly! That's perfect. Another tip: start brushing your own teeth in front of them from a young age. Don't put pressure on them; let them get interested in what you're doing.If it's become a big power struggle, change up the environment. We often brush my son's teeth in his bedroom, with his head in my lap—it's actually easier that way. Change of scenery can make a big difference.Sarah: I'll share a tip that worked with my kids—we made up a story about “Mr. Dirt” who lived in their mouths, and every night we brushed him out. They loved hearing about his adventures while we brushed.Devon: I love that. That's playfulness—and playfulness creates connection, which creates cooperation. Play is the language of toddlerhood. The more we can tap into that, the better things go.Sarah: Yes! I'm surprised we got this far without specifically calling out playfulness—it's the number one tool in the toolbox for working with toddlers.Devon: Exactly. Playfulness, role play, brushing a doll's teeth first, or letting your child brush yours—it all helps toddlers feel powerful and understood.Sarah: Okay, the last challenge: throwing things. I talked to a young couple who wanted to make a “no throwing” rule in their house. I told them I didn't think that would work, since it's such a developmental need. How do you manage throwing when it could be unsafe or destructive?Devon: Great question. I talk about this in my book when I explain the recipe for effective discipline: connection, limits, and teaching skills.First, get curious about what's driving the behavior—throwing can mean so many things. Then, set clear limits: it's not okay to throw breakables or throw at people. Finally, teach skills and alternatives.Sometimes you can't expect a two-year-old to regulate in the heat of the moment, so give them safe alternatives: a basket of balled-up socks, or paper they can throw into a laundry basket. This meets the need within your boundaries, while you also work on calming skills in calmer moments.Sarah: That's so helpful. Now, can you talk about why you don't recommend timeouts, and why you prefer time-ins instead?Devon: Yes. Timeouts are usually used as punishment—to teach a lesson or stop a behavior. But that's shortsighted. Behavior is communication, and if we don't understand what it's telling us, it will keep popping up—like a game of whack-a-mole.Also, kids often escalate in timeout, because they're being cut off from their safe base—you. They need you to help them calm down.That's why I recommend time-ins instead. With time-ins, you're still upholding limits and keeping everyone safe, but you're staying with your child, supporting them, and helping them regulate. This builds long-term skills and emotional resilience.Sarah: Love that. Thank you so much for coming on and for writing this book. I really encourage anyone who is a toddler parent—or who knows one—to pre-order your book. It's a fantastic addition to the peaceful parenting world, and so specific to toddler needs and development.Before I let you go, here's the question I ask all my guests: If you could go back in time to your younger parent self, what advice would you give?Devon: Gosh. I waited a long time to have a child, and I had a vision of how I wanted things to go. But I had a child with a lot of extra needs, and the things I thought would happen didn't. So I would tell myself to loosen my expectations, be grateful for the moments I have, and be flexible in how needs get met.Sarah: I love that. Perfect advice for parents of toddlers especially. Thanks so much, Devon.Devon: Thank you! You can find me on Instagram at @transformingtoddlerhood, or on my website, transformingtoddlerhood.com/book for preorder info and bonuses.Sarah: We'll put the link in the show notes. Your book is comprehensive and very readable—even for me, far past the toddler years. Great job, Devon.Devon: Thank you. That was my whole goal.Thanks for reading Reimagine Peaceful Parenting with Sarah Rosensweet Substack! This post is public so feel free to share it.>> Please support us!!! Please consider becoming a supporter to help support our free content, including The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, our free parenting support Facebook group, and our weekly parenting emails, “Weekend Reflections” and “Weekend Support” - plus our Flourish With Your Complex Child Summit (coming back in November for the 3rd year!) All of this free support for you takes a lot of time and energy from me and my team. 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The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic - Diamond Host I don't know if you know this, but I am one of the top silliest adults around. I love playfulness so much that it is part of my every day life and way of being. Playfulness can invite you to let go of stress, invite more curiousity and as a result bring on more intimacy and love! In this episode we will look at: How play and playfulness heals stress, releases tension, and reignites erotic energy. How play is vital for long-term erotic connection. The science of laughter and oxytocin. How play transforms conflict into connection. Erotic play vs. everyday play (both matter). Practices for inviting silliness and joy into intimacy. Join Milica Jelenic, Sex & Intimacy Coach, and Holistic Health Practitioner on this episode of The Pleasure Zone where you will find out about "Playfulness As Medicine: Laugh, Love & Let Go!" Grab your Yes, No, Maybe list - all about Playful Tips for Pleasure here    Light From The Shadows: Enriching The Lives Of Others Inspired Choices Network Hosts Author Milica Jelenic   Amazon.com – https://www.amazon.com/dp/1738249417 Amazon.ca – https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1738249417     ~ More About The Pleasure Zone ~ Milica Jelenic is a Sex & Intimacy Coach. What is pleasure? Have you ever noticed that what is pleasing to one body is not necessarily pleasing to all bodies? What if our bodies like to be pleasing and to gift pleasure to others and to receive pleasure? In this show we will explore the world of pleasure. If your body was sensing pleasure more often would your life have more ease? We start out with magical little bodies that turn on everybody. Babies are always having people come up to them and compliment them on their beauty and get really excited to be in their presence. What would the world be like if we stopped judging ourselves, our bodies and others? How much more fun, joy and pleasure is possible on this planet if we choose to be explorers? Whose ready for an adventure??? Milica Jelenic is an advocate for pleasure. In her private practice she invites clients to create life and lifestyle that offers more pleasure and vitality. Milica's intuitive ability to sense where change is possible and to question what is stuck in the target area creates a very dynamic session that promotes choice, possibility and change.   Milica has impacted the lives and health of individuals both in Canada and abroad with her humor, kindness, gentleness, potency and intensity. Milica's approach is playful, fun and direct. Milica is willing to be whatever energy and space is required for the change you desire.   If you are interested in receiving Milica' monthly newsletter about events, classes and information on booking private sessions send and e-mail through her website.  www.milicajelenic.com/ To get more of The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic, be sure to visit the podcast page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/the-pleasure-zone-milica-jelenic/

Send us a textHave we been approaching education all wrong? In this mind-shifting conversation with renowned developmental psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld, we explore the invisible but essential foundation of all learning: relationship.As another school year begins, Dr. Neufeld challenges educators to recognize their primary role as "attachment agents" rather than just instructors. The modern educational system often separates children from their natural "villages of cascading care," creating an environment nature never intended. When this happens, our first responsibility is to help children maintain connections with their primary caregivers while building secure attachments with us as teachers.Most provocatively, Dr. Neufeld argues that many of the competencies we're desperately trying to teach—empathy, self-regulation, resilience—cannot actually be taught at all. "We're teaching what can't be taught," he observes. "We can only teach children to perform." These qualities emerge naturally when children feel secure in their attachments and experience genuine playfulness.And here's where Dr. Neufeld's wisdom becomes truly transformative: he distinguishes between structured "play activities" and true playfulness. When the brain enters the play drive (as opposed to attachment or achievement drives), learning is optimized, creativity flourishes, and even sensory processing improves. This has profound implications for how we approach education, particularly for children with attention or sensory challenges.Twenty years after publishing his landmark book "Hold On to Your Kids," Dr. Neufeld's message remains more urgent than ever. In our digital age, where screens and social media compete for children's attention and attachment, educators must "retreat to the basics" rather than pushing harder with more structured learning.Ready to transform your approach to teaching and child development? Listen now to discover how prioritizing attachment and playfulness creates the optimal conditions for nature to do what it does best: grow children into their fullest potential.

How can you develop a unique brand personality that stands out?In this podcast episode, host Rob Lawrence interviews Richard Liverman about effective marketing strategies for startups and small businesses. Richard discusses building a unique brand personality through curiosity and playfulness with customers. He explains that branding goes beyond logos, encompassing values, purpose, and customer experience. Richard introduces the Johari Window model as a way of uncovering brand “blind spots”. He also highlights the importance of storytelling—encouraging businesses to be “the show, not the commercial.” You'll hear practical tips on standing out, communicating your purpose, and ways to practice storytelling. Hear how to embrace authenticity and continuous improvement with branding your growing business.In this episode, you'll learn:Introduction & The Fear of Being Boring (00:02:00) Rob welcomes Richard and introduces the challenge of startups fearing generic, boring marketing.Curiosity and Playfulness in Branding (00:02:46) Richard suggests staying curious and playful, using examples from his experiences and brand evolution.Branding Beyond the Logo (00:05:44) Discussion on branding as more than just a logo—it's about values, purpose, and the holistic customer experience.Identifying Your Brand's Unique Value (00:07:52) Exploring how business owners can discover their unique strengths and “magic” using customer feedback and the Johari Window model.Features vs. Benefits & The Power of Ordinary (00:10:48) Distinguishing between features and benefits, and realising how your ordinary can be extraordinary to others.Be the Show, Not the Commercial (00:12:43) Richard explains the importance of storytelling and showing behind-the-scenes, rather than just selling.Storytelling in Business (00:15:57) Introduction to storytelling as a business tool, with references to Jack Daniels and Donald Miller's StoryBrand.Positioning Your Customer as the Hero (00:16:50) Using Star Wars analogies, Richard explains why businesses should be the guide (Obi-Wan), not the hero (Luke).Practical Storytelling Tips & The Value of Practice (00:20:06) Advice on practicing storytelling, embracing imperfection, and learning through repetition.Authenticity and Off-the-Cuff Content (00:23:33) Discussing how spontaneous, authentic content often resonates more than polished, rehearsed material.Standing Out & Personal Branding (00:24:48) Richard shares his approach to standing out, being authentic, and not being afraid to show personality.Overcoming Fear and Embracing Individuality (00:28:08) Encouragement to break free from self-imposed constraints and embrace what makes your business unique.Permission to Fail & Redefining Success (00:30:54) Richard discusses learning from failure, giving yourself permission to fail, and defining personal success factors.Shifting Focus from Self to Customer (00:33:47) Advice on reducing fear by focusing on purpose, vision, and the people you serve.How to Be Unforgettable (00:35:37) Tips for being memorable: start with why, use body language and tone, and focus on delivery, not just words.Final Thoughts on Storytelling and Brand Freedom (00:39:13) Encouragement to practice storytelling, seek feedback, and enjoy the freedom of running your own business.Building Scaffolding & Support...

Welcome back! Season 4 is here, babyyy! In this episode, Professor AG shares a powerful reading, reflecting on personal growth and the importance of connecting with your body and intuition. She highlights the value of nervous system regulation, while she talks about the abundance of opportunities ahead and the power of curating your inner world. AG also opens up about her journey of stepping away from social media to focus on deeper, more meaningful connections. She encourages you to trust your intuition and embrace the changes unfolding in your life!-Weighted blanket – https://amzn.to/468NFRd   -Angel oracle cards – https://amzn.to/47odnDA  -If you're interested in hiring a virtual assistant like AG mentioned, click below to book a call with the recruiting company she used and loved!AGU Nexuspoint – https://go.nexuspt.io/aguTIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome Back03:04 Embracing the Change of Seasons 05:33 Connecting with the Body and Intuition 08:32 Nervous System Regulation and Its Importance 10:53 Abundance and Opportunities Ahead 13:04 Curating Your Thoughts and Inner World 16:04 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 18:37 Trusting Your Intuition and Higher Self 21:44 The Power of Creativity and Playfulness 23:30 Final Thoughts and Looking Ahead Keywords: spiritual journey, spiritual healing, akashic records, spiritual podcast, quantum leap, manifestation, manifesting, spiritual awakening______________What is AGU? After launching an energy work practice rooted in the Akashic Records, AG uncovered so much information that she needs the world to hear! It's her duty and personal mission to help people get in touch with their intuition and energetic gifts, and ultimately become the brightest and boldest version of themselves! This is your official acceptance letter: WELCOME TO AG UNIVERSITY! AG's Energetic Protection Courses: https://aguniversitypod.gumroad.com/   AG's Book Club: https://www.amazon.com/shop/annagracenewell/list/WD6VUBYE1HFC?ref_=aipsflist_aipsfannagracenewellHow To Read The Akashic Records Course: https://anna-grace-newell.mykajabi.com/offers/PfVmbYFN/checkout Sign up for the newsletter if you are interested in doing a reading with Anna Grace, or learning more about her energy work practice. Sessions will ONLY become available here - her booking link will never be shared on any other platforms:https://www.annagracenewell.com/newsletter  If you aren't already - you can connect with AG on Instagram and TikTok: @annagracenewell on all platforms! XO

Why does passion fade in marriage, and what can you actually do about it?

On healing our emotional biography, the unwounded soul within, and the choices we keep making to evolve. (0:00) — Sophie Grégoire Trudeau's Introduction and Background (3:35) — The Importance of Holding Ourselves (7:02) — Navigating Addiction and Hyper-Vigilance (8:33) — The Science of Happiness and Integrity (10:56) — Understanding Human Behavior and Emotional Intelligence (14:38) — The Role of Nature and Playfulness (15:32) — Navigating Personal Relationships and Trauma (40:01) — The Impact of Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity (45:42) — The Importance of Self-Care and Emotional Regulation (46:00) — The Role of Playfulness and Humor in Emotional Health (49:08) — The Impact of Menopause and Andropause on Relationships Through the years, Sophie Grégoire Trudeau has had the occasion to meet inspiring world leaders — Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II, Brigitte and Emmanuel Macron, Pope Francis, King Abdullah II of Jordan, Michelle and Barack Obama, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, First Lady Jill Biden and President Joe Biden, and more — who've inspired her to bring about change and justice in the world. Sophie studied commerce at McGill University and holds a Bachelor's degree in Communications from the University of Montreal, as well as a certificate from the Promedia School of Television and Radio. Deeply passionate about exploring the great outdoors, she loves sports, movement, and yoga. She's the former First Lady of Canada, and she's also certified to teach yoga for children and adults, practicing and guiding meditation and yoga nidra sessions to reset the nervous system and find calm. Her first book, Closer Together (Penguin Random House and KO Éditions), encourages us to better understand the mechanisms of our own personality and the quality of all our relationships — most importantly, the relationship we have with ourselves.

This interview was recorded for the GOTO Book Club.http://gotopia.tech/bookclubRead the full transcription of the interview hereBarry O'Reilly - Founder at Black Tulip Tech and Author of "Residues" & "The Architect's Paradox"Jacqui Read - Software Architect, Speaker & Author of "Communication Patterns"RESOURCESBarryhttps://bsky.app/profile/technologytulip.bsky.socialhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/barry-o-reilly-b924657https://www.blacktulip.seJacquihttps://bsky.app/profile/tekiegirl.bsky.socialhttps://jacquiread.comhttps://fosstodon.org/@tekiegirlhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelinereadhttps://github.com/tekiegirlDESCRIPTIONIn this GOTO Book Club interview, Jacqui Read discusses with Barry O'Reilly his books "Residues: Time, Uncertainty, and Change in Software Architecture" and "The Architect's Paradox". He explains how uncertainty defines the architect's role and introduces residuality—a method where architects deliberately stress their conceptual models until they collapse, then optimize the resulting "residues" or leftovers to create more resilient systems.Unlike traditional software engineering approaches, that try to eliminate uncertainty through rigid requirements, residuality embraces random stressors (even far-fetched scenarios like giant lizards) to uncover architectural fault lines.O'Reilly argues that this playful yet mathematically sound approach produces more robust architectures than conventional methods, and his second book explores how inherited philosophical thinking often undermines software architecture's effectiveness in complex business contexts.RECOMMENDED BOOKSBarry O'Reilly • ResiduesBarry O'Reilly • The Architect's ParadoxJacqui Read • Communication PatternsAnne Currie & Jamie Dobson • The Cloud Native AttitudeGregor Hohpe • The Software Architect ElevatorGregor Hohpe • Enterprise Integration Patterns, Vol 2BlueskyTwitterInstagramLinkedInFacebookCHANNEL MEMBERSHIP BONUSJoin this channel to get early access to videos & other perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs_tLP3AiwYKwdUHpltJPuA/joinLooking for a unique learning experience?Attend the next GOTO conference near you! Get your ticket: gotopia.techSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL - new videos posted daily!

In this episode, Lindsey sits down with bestselling author Case Kenny for a raw convo about breaking dating patterns, redefining independence, and manifesting love that meets you on your level. You'll rethink everything you know about dating, partnership, and self-worth with this one! Ahead, Case gets real about the messy magic of modern relationships + the lessons hidden in those “failed” loves that move us forward. Case urges that those chaotic, cringey, or lonely moments are shaping you into the woman you're meant to become. (Yes, we get spiritual about it.) Whether you're a self-help junkie, serial dater, or in a forever mood with your partner, this episode will have you journaling, laughing, and maybe re-downloading that app. If you're ready to release the pressure and fall in love, tune in and get Case's new book, The Opposite of Settling, out now! We also talk about: How to upgrade your emotional vocabulary The difference between expectations + standards Flipping the script on anxious + avoidant attachment Practical tips for calling in conscious, aligned love   The power of “chaos” + doing the opposite of what's expected   Playfulness + humor as spiritual practices in partnership   How to know if your relationship is amplifying your true self  Letting go of timelines + trusting the universe's bigger plan What “building a life you love” actually looks like Resources: Order Case's new book, The Opposite of Settling, out now   Instagram: @case.kenny Website: https://www.casekenny.com/  Get our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: http://bit.ly/Almost30Book.  Sponsors: Puori | Visit Puori.com/ALMOST30 and use our promo code ALMOST30 for 20% off.  Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at chime.com/almost30. IQ Bar | Get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. Just text ALMOST to 64000 to get your discount. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: almost30.com/about almost30.com/morningmicrodose almost30.com/book Join our community: facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups instagram.com/almost30podcast tiktok.com/@almost30podcast youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Jake and Bob begin a series on athletics, diving into the profound ways sports intersect with faith. Today, they are joined by Dr. Nicole Gabana Chiesa, a sports psychologist and former collegiate athlete. Together they explore the beauty of sports and how they can shape one's identity, foster virtue, and offer opportunities for healing that extend far beyond the playing field. However, athletics present many challenges beyond just physical injury. They also discuss the dangers of over-identifying with athletic success or failure, the impact of parental and societal expectations, and emphasize the importance of rooting one's identity in God's unconditional love rather than achievements.    Key Points: Femininity and masculinity can both find authentic expression through sports Healthy competition in athletics can foster discipline, humility, perseverance, teamwork, and the pursuit of excellence. Sports also offer an opportunity to practice and learn delayed gratification, sacrifice, and adherence to rules which are virtues that lead to human flourishing Wounds can arise from sports through idolatry, performance culture, unhealthy comparison, or losing sight of the bigger story beyond the game Sports rules do not restrict, but rather create the possibility of freedom and meaningful play, much like God's laws facilitate human flourishing The identity of athletes can become overly tied to performance and success, leading to struggles or loss of self-worth when results or careers end Integrating faith and spirituality into sports helps athletes anchor their identity beyond achievement, rooting it in being a beloved child of God The desire for perfection seen in sports reflects a deeper call toward holiness and striving for spiritual growth Coaches and mentors play a significant, often formative, role in shaping not just athletic skills, but confidence, character, and motivation Playfulness and joy in sports are glimpses of the freedom and delight intended for us by God, paralleling receptivity in the spiritual life   Resources: Pax Perform Website Dr. Nicole Gabana Chiesa's email: paxperform@gmail.com Gaudium et Spes On the Christian perspective on sport and the human person, from the Dicastery for Laity, Family, and Life  Healing Professionals Virtual Workshop   Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:05:49 Integrating Sports, Psychology, and Faith 00:08:00 Nicole's Faith and Experience with Sports 00:17:06 Femininity and Athletics 00:20:51 Identity and Comparison in Sports 00:27:53 When Competition Becomes Unhealthy 00:32:14 Virtues of Sports 00:38:02 Personal Experiences of Virtue in Sports and Coaches 00:47:59 Rules, Sacrifice, and Community in Sports 00:51:28 Wounds and Dangers in Sports 00:54:43 Performance Culture and Identity Loss 00:58:16 Sports as Formation and Healing 01:11:25 Sports Draw Us Closer to God   Connect with Restore the Glory:  Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast  Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!

Episode DescriptionJames sits down with Case Kenny, author of The Opposite of Settling and host of New Mindset, Who Dis?, to talk about how our expectations around relationships shape the way we date and commit. Case shares the research, stories, and mindset shifts that helped him go from avoiding commitment in his twenties to finding fulfillment in a relationship that amplifies his independence. This episode challenges old narratives about “settling down” and offers a practical framework for building relationships that energize rather than diminish.What You'll LearnWhy “settling down” is the wrong framework for love—and how to reframe it as “settling up.”How the liking gap skews our perception of how others see us, and what that means for dating.The importance of dating to be seen instead of dating to be liked.Why non-conforming traits (your “weirdness”) can actually make you more attractive.How playfulness and humor serve as the foundation for strong, lasting relationships.Timestamped Chapters[00:00] Rethinking independence in relationships[01:00] James introduces Case Kenny and The Opposite of Settling[02:00] Why the phrase “settle down” shaped Case's early resistance to commitment[05:00] Letting relationships fade: what Case learned from avoidance[07:00] Meeting Emily and the power of a “slow burn”[09:00] Timing vs. compatibility in finding a partner[11:00] The “liking gap” and how it affects dating behavior[13:00] Performance mode vs. being present[14:00] Dating to be seen, not just to be liked[15:00] The value of non-conforming traits in attraction[17:00] From introversion to self-expression through podcasting[20:00] Knowing yourself before you can know what you want[21:00] The peak-end rule and distorted memories of relationships[23:00] Appreciating past relationships without villainizing them[25:00] How the brain can reinforce unhelpful dating patterns[27:00] The case for showing up fully on first dates[29:00] Learning from rejection and getting clarity fast[31:00] Why regret often comes from the wrong relationship, not from being single[33:00] Playfulness as the true purpose of relationships[35:00] Humor and “bids for connection” as relationship foundations[37:00] The importance of noticing your partner[38:00] Why James listened to standup comedy before dates[39:00] Wrapping up with Case KennyAdditional ResourcesCase Kenny — The Opposite of Settling: PenguinRandomhouse.comCase Kenny — Single Is Your Superpower: New Mindset, Who Dis?New Mindset, Who Dis? (Apple Podcasts): Apple PodcastsThe Gottman Institute — “Bids for Connection” (overview): Start paying more attention to bids. Gottman InstituteResearch — “The Liking Gap” (Boothby et al., 2018, PDF): Yale Clark Relationship Lab. Clark Relationship LabExplainer — Peak–End Rule: The Decision LabCase Kenny on X (Twitter): @thecasekennySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, I talk about the importance of playfulness in education, but not just being silly because it's fun or random… being intentionally playful as an instructional strategy. It's good times, and so is the song I talk about. Stick around for the full track in the next episode!

Kris is joined by longtime friend, business visionary, and rockstar early childhood leader Rachel Supalla. Rachel is the founder of Vision Tree, a TEDx speaker, and the author of The Playful Leader's Toolkit, a book packed with wisdom on leading with joy, grounding, and energy. With 10 schools across Montana and Utah, Rachel shares how she's scaled her business while embracing what she calls “ruby slipper leadership.” They talk about managing energy instead of time, why remote teams need tight leadership structures, and how playfulness is more than just dress-up — it's a strategy for productivity. Rachel also opens up about living with ADHD and how it shapes her leadership style, creativity, and drive.   Key Takeaways: [5:26] Rachel shares her evolution from center owner to coach and consultant, and how joining the Child Care Success Academy changed her career path.[6:36] She talks about scaling rapidly across three regions and how Vision Tree emerged as her consulting and leadership training brand.[9:05] Rachel loves lake life and is a proud mom of four kids and grandma to baby Zeke. [10:39] Fun fact: Rachel's trip with her grandma (who some thought was her sister) to Ireland at age 13, including a spontaneous solo in a pub, was an early clue that she'd someday take the stage.[12:46] Rachel explains how The Playful Leader's Toolkit came out of her ADHD-fueled trial-and-error experiences, and why she believes burnout is not a badge of honor. [14:12] Ruby slippers became a metaphor for grounding, confidence, and leadership clarity, especially in high-pressure seasons. Once you've got the right shoes on, you can do anything! [16:41] Managing energy (not just time) helps Rachel structure her day and lead effectively, especially as a neurodivergent leader. [20:24] She breaks down the “max of 10” rule for direct reports and why it protects leadership bandwidth across large teams.[24:34] Rachel gives a deep dive into her favorite systems: Playground, JotForm Enterprise, Teachable, and Zapier.[27:16] Playfulness isn't fluff — it's a mindset that supports innovation, brain-based leadership, and mental reset when teams are stressed.[32:03] Rachel walks through her M.A.G.I.C. framework, the five pillars of playful leadership. [35:40] Doing a TEDx Talk was terrifying and transformational; the unexpected outcome was a deeper conversation about ADHD and leadership. [39:15] Rachel shares her seasonal schedule, non-negotiables like football and summer in Montana, and the power of team infrastructure. [41:48] She teases her upcoming course, focused on helping women scale their culture without losing their soul.   Quotes: “I think that's probably where I learned the most about how to run a remote team, was being an employee for the Child Care Success Academy.” — Rachel [7:46]   “You go up the ladder in life when you're succeeding and you're accomplishing, and you get to this level of contribution, and that's the level that I feel like I'm at. And I want to give back. I want to help people do it faster, the right way, from my mistakes. So that's what inspired me to write my book.” — Rachel [13:46]   “That's when I'm most productive, when my energy is managed. It doesn't have anything to do with time. You can have time blocked. You can have all the time in the world. But if your energy sucks, you're not going to get anything done.” — Rachel [17:46]   “I think that's been the biggest thing, learning to manage my energy.” — Rachel [18:29]   “From the beginning, we have learned to automate, delegate, eliminate.” — Rachel [21:10]   “Play is not just, let's dress up and have a potluck. It's a mindset.”— Rachel [26:15]   “I am very passionate about this playful leadership concept. It's an idea. It's silly to some, it's weird to others, and it's powerful to others. And I really do think that if you embrace it, it's going to change the way we teach children, it's going to change the way we lead our companies, and it's going to make the world a more happy, innovative, creative place, which is what we're lacking right now, and so I am very passionate about that.” — Rachel [36:48]   Sponsored By: ChildCare Education Institute (CCEI) Use code CCSC5 to claim a free course!   Mentioned in This Episode: Kris Murray @iamkrismurray The Child Care Success Company The Child Care Success Academy The Child Care Success Summit Grow Your Center Childcare Education Institute: Use code CDARenewal22 to get $100 off your renewal The Playful Leader's Toolkit  A Quest of Creative Culture Building with Rachel Supalla The power of play for better leadership | Rachel Supalla | TEDxParkland Vision Tree

How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

From Late-Night Editing to Creative Triumphs: A Photographer's JourneyDive into an inspiring conversation with Kim, a passionate photographer who transforms the challenges of balancing family life and creative pursuits into a testament of resilience. Discover how she navigates late-night editing sessions during busy seasons while maintaining her artistic vision and connection with clients.Kim shares intimate insights about capturing the essence of her subjects, including a touching story about photographing a shy firefighter, demonstrating how authentic connections lead to powerful portraits. Her journey spans various art forms, from watercolor struggles to photography victories, highlighting the importance of perseverance in creative growth.The episode explores practical strategies for managing creative burnout, finding inspiration in nature, and overcoming the pressures of social media comparison. Kim's experience competing in photography contests and facing both rejection and unexpected wins offers valuable lessons about staying true to one's artistic vision while remaining open to growth.Ready to be inspired? Listen to this episode of Creative Warriors to discover how one photographer turns daily challenges into creative opportunities and learns to wake up determined and sleep content.Key Takeaways• Balancing a successful photography career with family life often involves late-night work and navigating hectic holiday schedules, challenging common perceptions of work-life balance.  • A single mom's perspective sheds light on how overwhelming responsibilities can fuel creativity rather than stifle it, emphasizing daily satisfaction over perfection.  • Social media pressure and self-doubt are common struggles for artists, yet inspiration can be found in nature and personal connections, highlighting the importance of emotional rewards in creative work.00:00:00 - Balancing Art and Family Life00:02:37 - Filming Schedule and Editing Challenges00:04:19 - Balancing Work and Single Parenthood00:06:47 - Balancing Creativity and Rest00:09:15 - Constant Creation and Artistic Struggles00:12:42 - Choosing Where to Focus Our Energy00:16:03 - Emotional Connection in Photography00:24:25 - Overcoming Creative Blockers00:26:17 - Embracing Growth and Perseverance00:28:05 - The Journey of Lifelong Learning00:29:48 - Dealing with Competition Disappointment00:32:37 - Artistic Competitions and Critiques00:34:47 - Embracing Feedback in Photography00:36:28 - Creativity and Playfulness in Parenting00:39:27 - Exploring Creativity in Product PhotographyFollow Kim Ponce on Instagram and Facebook@kimballardphotography@lightroom_studiosnjHost Ariel Faith's website: arieljoyfaith.comVisit “YOU Matter, In Business” with Ariel Faith podcast  For Women in Business, Because You matter in your Business.

When Dora started dating her partner, she tried to be polished and serious — treating early dates like interviews. But it wasn't until she let her playful side show that things truly deepened. Today's episode explores how playfulness builds intimacy and trust, and why joy is not a distraction from love or life but a path to deeper connection. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

One of the coolest lines from Proverbs describes what Wisdom has been doing from the beginning: "[T]hen I was beside him, like a master worker, and I was daily his delight, playing before him always, playing in his inhabited world and delighting in the human race" (Proverbs 8:30-31). Wisdom's playfulness and delight model for us a holy call to play in this world, even amongst its seriousness.Listen in to find out more! As always, check out our work, and join our email list, at https://ouroutpost.org/join our free resource library platform herecatch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at hello@ouroutpost.organd please rate, review, and share!If you're a Catholic husband, feel free to sign up for some time to chat with Joseph! https://bookme.name/ouroutpost/45-minutes-with-joseph

In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Clayton Greene, Chris Pappalardo, and business partner and friend, Arthur Tew engage in a light-hearted conversation about the importance of playfulness in the home and its connection to spirituality. They explore how play can enhance family dynamics, foster deeper connections, and contribute to personal growth. The discussion also touches on the challenges adults face in maintaining a playful spirit and how to navigate playtime with children amidst adult responsibilities. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the value of embracing interruptions and being open to playful moments in life.TakeawaysPlay is essential for spiritual growth and family dynamics.Children naturally embody playfulness, which adults can learn from.Creating space for play can enhance relationships and personal well-being.Playfulness is linked to humility and vulnerability.Adults often lose their playful spirit due to societal pressures.Living an abundant life includes embracing all aspects of human experience, including play.Saying yes in advance to play can foster a more playful environment.ResourcesThe Power of Fun, by Catherine Price https://www.amazon.com/Power-Fun-Feel-Alive-Again/dp/0593241401 The Fun Habit, by Mike Rucker https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982159065/?bestFormat=true&k=the%20fun%20habit%20by%20mike%20rucker&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-pd-bk-d_k0_1_13_de&crid=1AM710KRFDBCQ&sprefix=the%20fun%20habitThe Gifts of Imperfection, by Brene Brown https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace-ebook/dp/B00BS03LL6/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2B6GAUSKWY50Z&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.GK7i91ZGiTfzEF3gCtOK03qEKVwBr5gksbrxLOy_MzLuKnLaZYxBzjRO_49JXefWDwur47rqfYJVdHNzT3kGTCFud6V82Sjn3UAJUnc2NYJ8zA0TlbiW5tuCAiJCacRVWU-zWo-Cw2bdYqrFwoCRgpR6g59N-r989_iKwu5GX3HGYLSIxCSLbwKeldqQOO4UACcMa9OZrv_rN3OCUFBWxGIKOufg5kx4V7FXvNcWSKk.Acx1krghCgX027691qSCzwkE7U-XqIrIYJjiJOruaCM&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+gifts+of+imperfection&qid=1754074532&s=digital-text&sprefix=the+gifts+of+imperfection%2Cdigital-text%2C111&sr=1-1Invitation to a Journey, by Robert Mulholland https://www.amazon.com/dp/0830846174/?bestFormat=true&k=invitation%20to%20a%20journey%20by%20robert%20mulholland&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-pd-bk-d_k0_1_13_de&crid=1HVV5PZC6C5YR&sprefix=invitation%20to

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3686: Anthony Ongaro explores the surprising value of doing things without a defined purpose, revealing how playfulness and curiosity can boost creativity, reduce burnout, and generate eustress, the good kind of stress. His reflections challenge the productivity-obsessed mindset, encouraging a return to simple joy, exploration, and intentional downtime. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/this-can-help-2/ Quotes to ponder: "Doing things for seemingly no purpose doesn't mean it's pointless." "Eustress being released into your body feels like pure excitement about being alive." "By assigning a purpose to everything you do, you risk losing enjoyment in those things." Episode references: Play (Stuart Brown TED Talk): https://www.ted.com/talks/stuart_brown_play_is_more_than_just_fun Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3686: Anthony Ongaro explores the surprising value of doing things without a defined purpose, revealing how playfulness and curiosity can boost creativity, reduce burnout, and generate eustress, the good kind of stress. His reflections challenge the productivity-obsessed mindset, encouraging a return to simple joy, exploration, and intentional downtime. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/this-can-help-2/ Quotes to ponder: "Doing things for seemingly no purpose doesn't mean it's pointless." "Eustress being released into your body feels like pure excitement about being alive." "By assigning a purpose to everything you do, you risk losing enjoyment in those things." Episode references: Play (Stuart Brown TED Talk): https://www.ted.com/talks/stuart_brown_play_is_more_than_just_fun Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3686: Anthony Ongaro explores the surprising value of doing things without a defined purpose, revealing how playfulness and curiosity can boost creativity, reduce burnout, and generate eustress, the good kind of stress. His reflections challenge the productivity-obsessed mindset, encouraging a return to simple joy, exploration, and intentional downtime. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/this-can-help-2/ Quotes to ponder: "Doing things for seemingly no purpose doesn't mean it's pointless." "Eustress being released into your body feels like pure excitement about being alive." "By assigning a purpose to everything you do, you risk losing enjoyment in those things." Episode references: Play (Stuart Brown TED Talk): https://www.ted.com/talks/stuart_brown_play_is_more_than_just_fun Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are human beings, not human doings! So how did we find ourselves doing more, more, more, when all we've ever needed exists here within us?Emanuele Mazzanti is here to remind us of this. As a facilitator alchemist for EY and an energy-giver at heart, he carves out space for authentic human experience, playfulness, and emotional depth, in a highly results-driven, corporate world.His approach is simple: connection before content, curiosity before questions, and presence before perfection, as he shows leaders how to show up in new, deeply connecting ways.So if you're ready to swap the PPT for something that feels a little more personal, this one's for you!Find out about:How to make more space to just be, in a culture obsessed with doingHow to foster emotional presence in corporate settings to enhance performance, decision-making and meaningful depthResisting the facilitative urge to fill workshops with content, tools and structureAnd why real transformation comes from simple, stripped back, human momentsThe mindset leaders must nurture to show up with empathy and curiosityDon't miss the next episode: subscribe to the show with your favourite podcast player.Links:Watch the video recording of this episode on YouTube.Connect to Emanuele Mazzanti:LinkedInShare your thoughts about our conversation!Support the show✨✨✨Subscribe to our newsletter to receive a free 1-page summary of each upcoming episode directly to your inbox, or explore our eBooks featuring 50-episode compilations for even more facilitation insights. Find out more:https://workshops.work/podcast✨✨✨Did you know? You can search all episodes by keyword to find exactly what you need via our Buzzsprout page!

Naomi Joy—a women's sexuality coach devoted to helping women reclaim their sensuality and power through the practice of Tantra. Together, they dive into the deeper meaning of love, intimacy, and emotional connection in relationships.Naomi shares her personal journey of healing after heartbreak, discovering the sacred path of Tantra, and learning to embrace both her light and shadow. Through her story, she offers grounded guidance for women ready to reconnect with their bodies and build more conscious, fulfilling relationships.In this episode, you'll discover:The power of conscious relationships and communicationHow to cultivate intimacy without pressure, using rituals like cuddling, eye contact, and gratitudeThe benefits of slow sex and how to redefine what pleasure and connection mean in your relationshipTips for overcoming discomfort with eye contact, undressing, and vulnerabilityHow self-love and body confidence create a strong foundation for deeper connection and sensual empowermentWhether you're in a long-term partnership or exploring your own sensual journey, this episode is filled with practical tools and soulful insights to help you feel more connected, seen, and empowered in love.Golden Nuggets From This Episode:✨Physical Touch: Simple gestures like holding your partner can make them feel deeply loved and emotionally safe.✨Tantra Unveiled: Is It More Than Just Sex? – Tantra is about cultivating higher consciousness and deeper connection with yourself and others.✨Emotional Resistance: Why Do We Avoid What We Crave Most? – Often, the parts of ourselves we long for the most are the ones we subconsciously resist.✨Presence in Love: Are You Really There with Your Partner? – Being fully present allows you to experience more joy, connection, and emotional intimacy in your relationship.✨Vocalizing Discomfort: Can Honesty Create Safety? – Speaking your discomfort can calm the nervous system and foster deeper intimacy.✨Sex Education: Why Don't We Learn the One Thing We All Do? – Sex and emotional intimacy are rarely taught, but deeply essential for connection and fulfillment.✨Redefining Sex: Is It About Feeling, Not Performance? – What if sex was about emotional connection, not just physical acts or appearances?✨Nervous System Love: Are You Feeling Each Other or Just Thinking? – Recalibrating your nervous system helps you respond with presence, not performance.✨True Romance: Can You Sit Together and Truly Feel Each Other? – Real romance is about energetic presence, not just physical proximity.Connect More with :IG:@sensual.with.naomi.joyWebsite: www.thejoymovement.nl, https://open.spotify.com/show/1fFakBbtEZz4y3uY9UlCOj?si=eYoc1elaTOiq6zFEi89ebAFree Offer: https://thejoymovement2.activehosted.com/f/3More Lexy from Heart Snuggles:Soft Girl Season {Instant Access Course}: https://alive-to-enjoy.circle.so/checkout/soft-girl-seasonEmail: lexy@alivetoenjoy.comDating + Relationship Coaching - https://iamlexydavis.com/Instagram: Alivetoenjoy & Heart SnugglesTimestamps from episode:00:00 – Introduction to Heart Snuggles01:07 - Meet Naomi Joy: A Journey of Sexual Awakening02:19 - Random Acts of Kindness03:20 - Advice to Your Younger Self04:08 - Understanding Tantra05:43 - The Journey into Tantra07:29 - The Importance of Inner Work08:55 - Lessons from Tantra on Love and Relationships09:55 - Creating Connection Without Sex12:07 - Rituals for Deepening Connection14:53 - The Power of Cuddling16:05 - Navigating Discomfort in Intimacy19:01 - Eye Gazing and Vulnerability22:21 - Building Confidence in Undressing29:10 - Practicing Self-Love and Body Confidence30:6 - Soft Girl Season31:11 - The Role of Playfulness in Relationships35:02 - Slow Lovemaking: A New Approach to Intimacy49:38 - Healing Through Sexuality50:20 - Romantic Memories and Connection51:50 - Where to Find Naomi Joy

Planning for the start of a new school year, we should intentionally design for playfulness, connection, and flow—the  elements that are core to fun and joy.  It's not just about better lessons— but better experiences. Experiences that students will remember, that teachers will find energizing, and that build both engagement and joy. Whether it's a surprise horse outside a classroom window or a red-carpet moment for staff, fun has the power to transform not just how we feel—but how we learn, connect, and grow. Watch Catherine Price's TED talk here.   Hear the entire podcast with George Philhower here. Subscribe to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast on iTunes or visit BarkleyPD.com to find new episodes! 

Send us a textIs a pop tart a dumpling?Is an uncrustable a pierogi???Liz and Bryce dive into the magic of embracing your unique quirks and playful side. And they may play around a bit TOO much lol. Join us as we explore how being ‘weird' can be a powerful tool in the recovery journey, fostering self-acceptance, creativity, and joy.Join the community & sign up for classes with a single click by downloading The NewForm app! In the app, you can connect with Liz, Bryce and other listeners in The Rise Recover Live Podcast Group. Let us know what you thought about today's episode, and what you'd like to hear in future shows! We can't wait to chat with you there. Learn more about The Phoenix, sign up for classes, or become a volunteer at https://thephoenix.org/ . Find us on Instagram at @riserecoverlive

How does sight loss impact creativity? How can you inject some more playfulness and expression into your daily life? We gathered three panellists in to discuss creativity and playfulness as a blind or partially sighted person in our latest Roundtable. Join composer Bobby Goulder, Writer Ellen Renton and Volunteer Liam Mckinney for this month's roundtable. Learn more about Bobby on his website - Bobby Goulder - Sound Without Sight Learn more about Ellen on her website - Ellen Renton Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underline with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font. 

We're kicking off Season 12 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads with a deeply healing, no-fluff conversation featuring returning guest Kate King. This episode explores how to protect your peace through boundaries, reset your nervous system with intentional practices, and reconnect with joy, even when the world feels overwhelming. Joining us once again, Kate shares accessible strategies for managing emotional burnout, practicing brain-heart coherence, and building habits that support authentic, sustainable mental wellness. Whether you're a longtime listener or just tuning in this season opener is a reminder that you have more control over your mental health than you think. We're proud to celebrate some incredible milestones with our community:

Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does sex feel confusing or frustrating in my long-term relationship?" "How do I deal with mismatched desire or feelings of rejection?" "Is there a way to bring passion back into our marriage beyond tricks or performance?" If sex and intimacy have become a perplexing part of your long-term relationship, get ready for a revolutionary reframe that will change how you approach connection. Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, a renowned somatic sex therapist, creator of the transformational Pleasure Keys Retreats, and host of the popular Sex Talk Café Podcast.  She has helped hundreds of couples deepen intimate connection and create mutually satisfying sex and intimacy for the long term, and she's here to challenge the myth that passion is just about performance or "finding the right move." Susan Morgan Taylor reveals that true intimacy begins with presence: showing up, tuning in, and being fully responsible for your own pleasure and desires. She explains that when there's been a "drift" in your marriage, it's critical to slow down, get curious, and ask not just what you want, but who it's for.  So many couples mistakenly go through the motions, assuming they know what pleases the other and settling for mediocre connection. The profound truth? Each partner is wired uniquely—and without ongoing, honest conversation, you can drift miles apart. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this revolutionary conversation, we dig into: Presence Over Performance: Why true intimacy starts with showing up, tuning in, and owning your own pleasure, moving beyond tricks or external validation. The Danger of the "Drift": How couples unknowingly settle for mediocre connection by assuming they know what pleases their partner without ongoing, honest conversation. Safety as the Ultimate Aphrodisiac: Why creating an environment where your partner can relax—free from pressure, kids bursting in, or a million distractions—is crucial for their willingness to lean in. Beyond Abs or Grand Gestures: The profound truth that genuine trust and moment-to-moment presence are the real keys to opening both her heart and body. Playful, Spacious, Non-Transactional Connection: How to bring curiosity, experimentation, and ownership back into your intimate relationship, even in uncomfortable moments. If you're ready to become not just a better lover, but a better man, this episode is your playbook for ditching resentment, reigniting real desire, and creating a marriage that's thriving, not just surviving. Here's what research and observation highlight about sexual intimacy in long-term relationships: Couples who prioritize emotional safety and open communication about sex report a 35% higher level of sexual satisfaction. Mismatched desire is a common challenge impacting over 30% of couples, but effective communication strategies can significantly improve outcomes. The consistent practice of mindful presence during intimate moments is linked to a 25% increase in shared pleasure and deeper connection. www.thedadedge.com/534 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/25questions Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn www.pathwaytopleasure.com FREE Pleasure Keys PDF → www.pleasurekeys.com

Tired of cold DMs? Burned out on cookie-cutter marketing? Or simply want to rediscover the fun in your business? This episode will challenge you to step into your zone of genius and stand out by simply being you. In it, I unpack why blending in no longer works—and how leaning into your quirks, your playfulness, and your authentic self might just be your most powerful client attraction strategy. If you feel stuck trying to grow your coaching or fitness business in today's AI-saturated market, then this episode is a must-listen! Tap in and find out why being “weird” is actually your secret weapon.   “Being weird is actually pretty wonderful, and what I mean by being weird is just being yourself.”   Key takeaways: Authenticity Attracts Clients: Trying to fit in or follow standard marketing scripts isn't effective anymore. Embracing your authentic self—what makes you “weird” or different—helps you stand out and connect more genuinely with potential clients. Information is No Longer Enough: People want connection, personality, and originality, not just facts. Leverage Your Zone of Genius: When you align your marketing, sales, and delivery methods with what energizes you, you'll attract more clients with less resistance. Playfulness is a Business Asset: Infusing fun, humor, and creativity into your brand (like quirky costumes or playful videos) not only makes your content more engaging, it also draws in clients who resonate with your energy and approach.     Connect with Jason Meland: Email: jason@goliveonlinemastermind.com Website: https://www.growmyvisibility.com/ Instagram: @coachjasonmeland Facebook: Jason Meland - In Demand Coach LinkedIn: Jason Meland

Sam Jolman says, “The realm of evil hates your sexuality… [and] tries to, as quickly and as early as possible, join shame to your sexual story.”As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins us to talk about sex in marriage. Shame wreaks havoc on intimacy and relational connection, keeping us isolated and feeling alone.It was never intended to be this way. Author of The Sex Talk You Never Got, Sam offers a refreshing, pure, and healing perspective on how to discuss, heal, and redeem intimacy with your spouse.Time Stamps:0:00 Introduction2:39 Sam Jolman joins the show6:04 Shame and the assault on sex13:09 The human body created for pleasure19:54 Song of Songs and the deep “knowing” that is the bedrock for intimacy24:17 How to have the conversation of sex with your spouse32:33 The role of kindness and compassion in the healing of your story37:51 Talking about playfulness, safety, and sex with your spouseShow Notes: Get Sam Jolman's book The Sex Talk You Never Got: https://amzn.to/4kflULX If you're interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome

Join us for a fun, fast-paced, and inspiring conversation with Jordana Borensztajn as she unpacks the power of creativity, connection, and confidence in communication. From battling self-doubt to becoming a sought-after keynote speaker, Jordana shares how humor, storytelling, and playful self-expression have shaped her approach to leadership and life.In this episode, you'll learn how to reframe nerves, show up with authenticity, and bring more energy and joy into everything you do.Watch the full episode to discover Jordana's unique take on resilience, confidence-building, and the magic of making people feel seen and inspired.About our guest:Jordana Borensztajn is a keynote speaker, author, communication coach, and former journalist and stand-up comedian. Blending storytelling, humor, and real-world strategies, she helps teams and leaders communicate with impact and creativity. Known for her energetic delivery and interactive workshops, Jordana teaches people how to embrace confidence, manage nerves, and express themselves in a way that's fun, engaging, and unforgettable.Follow Our Guest:Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jordanaborensztajnWebsite – https://jordanab.com.au/letsconnect/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAadeWOKNKpPQaiAM0xc2Xm1JlzVvLfHQrh4e5tsREhcUnVKvPHtdyfoU_Rh3hA_aem_RjWkqWkXSg1F5UY3VqtxQQFollow Us On:Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/thestevehodgson/https://www.instagram.com/sharewithsteve/Episode Highlights:00:00 - Episode Trailer00:42 - Using storytelling to move through fear01:33 - Jordana's unexpected path to public speaking02:12 - Shifting from performance pressure to presence03:10 - Playfulness as a key to building confidence04:06 - Breaking through self-doubt and overthinking05:02 - Breathing techniques and movement as prep tools06:03 - How humor helps us cope, connect, and lead07:15 - Why we need more awe and imagination as adults08:22 - How Jordana uses magic to create memorable impact09:14 - Tips for calming nerves before a big presentation10:06 - Building audience connection with curiosity11:01 - The power of preparation over perfection12:03 - Turning lived experience into empowering messages13:11 - Why visibility and vulnerability go hand in hand14:18 - Jordana's mission to energize people from the inside out

Dive into Anup Savale's inspiring journey—from mastering game theory to founding Kahihi Ventures. Discover how playfulness and strategic thinking reshape education, dating, and social media through innovative gamification and soft skills development.00:32- About Anup SavaleAnup is the founder of Kahihi Ventures.

This might be our most giggly conversation yet. Alicia Quan and Sarah Mondestin interview Annabel Blake (they/them), Principal AI Design Researcher at Canva.The three discuss connections throughout Annabel's career and life, touching on various topics like research, kids, play, AI, ethics, toys, authorship, and advice for designers and researchers working the spaces of education and AI. So much gold in this one!About AnnabelAnnabel works on conversational interfaces, generative experiences for education and on early R&D. Annabel's work lives at the intersection of research, design, and play and includes studying how young people experiment with AI recreationally and how they use it for fun, comfort, and creativity. Annabel also writes “strange little books for children, like a book you wear on your head or a story about a robot goat… that comes with a chatbot goat (called Sardine!).”Annabel's Links⁠Playful Futures⁠⁠annabelblake.com⁠⁠bookandbot.com⁠ ⁠Center for Humane Technology⁠ Chapters00:00 - Annabel's Squiggly Career Path03:14 - Olympic Journey and Injury04:42 - Reflections on Career Squiggles06:07 - Intersection of Research, Design, and Play08:38 - Kids and AI: Restoration and Exploration12:46 - Children's Books and Technology17:39 - Young People and AI: Surprising Uses21:39 - Designing for AI vs. Traditional UX28:17 - Co-Design and Early Access Testing32:48 - Educators and AI Tools36:22 - Innovative Teachers and Their Challenges39:24 - The Importance of Playfulness in Education46:11 - AI in Education: Balancing Innovation and EthicsFollow us

Welcome to Awakening Aphrodite — the show that helps you reconnect with your feminine energy, reclaim your vitality, and live in harmony with your body, mind, and spirit.Join Amy Fournier each week as she shares inspiring conversations with expert guests, explores ancient wisdom and modern science, and offers practical tools to help you thrive in today's fast-paced world.Whether you're seeking deeper purpose, better health, or more alignment in your daily life, this is your space to slow down, tune in, and awaken the powerful, radiant energy within you. Thank you for being part of this beautiful journey. Let's dive in.Featured Guest: Barbara McNallyProducts Mentioned In This Episode:Join Amy's email list to learn more about her upcoming course & community - Goddess Rising.Wild Earth Animal Essences: https://amyfournier.com/wild-earth-animal-essences/Use code: AMYFor All Amy's Approved Products: ⁠https://amyfournier.com/recommended-products/Final Audio Timestamps:00:00 Intro07:29 Welcoming Barbara08:20 Barbara's Work & Female Archetypes10:44 The Four Faces Of Femininity14:34 Balancing Feminine & Masculine21:06 Embracing Aphrodite & Self-Care25:49 Boundaries & Avoiding Burnout33:49 Inspirational Women & Role Models39:40 The Power Of Female Role Models42:22 Barbie As A Symbol46:26 Wisdom, Playfulness & Reflection51:00 Final Thoughts & Sister WoundIf you enjoyed this episode be sure to check out:134. Sacred Contracts, Archetypes and Overcoming Self-Sabotage With Greg Schmaus83. Awakening Aphrodite With Dr. Jean Shinoda Bolen, Author Of Goddesses In Everywoman242. The Aphrodite Archetype159. Goddess Up! Radiating Light and Wielding the Sword of Truth with Goddess Warrior Sierra Bender244. How Venus, Vestia, Persephone & Other Mythological Archetypes Can Help Us Today with Letao WangTune in and let me know what resonated with you—this is one of those episodes that truly touches the soul. If you found this episode helpful or interesting please ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠let us know and leave a review⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!Jump on Amy's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to receive tips and inspiration on holistic health and wellness as well as deeper insights and perspectives on current world events.Get notified on Amy's upcoming online course & community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goddess Rising.Check out Amy's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on demand and in person ⁠⁠⁠classes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and her favorite carefully cultivated products with discount coupons at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠eStore⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Thank you for being on this journey with us and being part of the solution!Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠amyfournier.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Awakening Aphrodite Podcast/FitAmyTV⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@FitAmyTV⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amy Fournier ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Welcome to Awakening Aphrodite — the show that helps you reconnect with your feminine energy, reclaim your vitality, and live in harmony with your body, mind, and spirit.Join Amy Fournier each week as she shares inspiring conversations with expert guests, explores ancient wisdom and modern science, and offers practical tools to help you thrive in today's fast-paced world.Whether you're seeking deeper purpose, better health, or more alignment in your daily life, this is your space to slow down, tune in, and awaken the powerful, radiant energy within you. Thank you for being part of this beautiful journey. Let's dive in.Featured Guest: Barbara McNallyProducts Mentioned In This Episode:Join Amy's email list to learn more about her upcoming course & community - Goddess Rising.Wild Earth Animal Essences: https://amyfournier.com/wild-earth-animal-essences/Use code: AMYFor All Amy's Approved Products: ⁠https://amyfournier.com/recommended-products/Final Audio Timestamps:00:00 Intro07:29 Welcoming Barbara08:20 Barbara's Work & Female Archetypes10:44 The Four Faces Of Femininity14:34 Balancing Feminine & Masculine21:06 Embracing Aphrodite & Self-Care25:49 Boundaries & Avoiding Burnout33:49 Inspirational Women & Role Models39:40 The Power Of Female Role Models42:22 Barbie As A Symbol46:26 Wisdom, Playfulness & Reflection51:00 Final Thoughts & Sister WoundIf you enjoyed this episode be sure to check out:134. Sacred Contracts, Archetypes and Overcoming Self-Sabotage With Greg Schmaus83. Awakening Aphrodite With Dr. Jean Shinoda Bolen, Author Of Goddesses In Everywoman242. The Aphrodite Archetype159. Goddess Up! Radiating Light and Wielding the Sword of Truth with Goddess Warrior Sierra Bender244. How Venus, Vestia, Persephone & Other Mythological Archetypes Can Help Us Today with Letao WangTune in and let me know what resonated with you—this is one of those episodes that truly touches the soul. If you found this episode helpful or interesting please ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠let us know and leave a review⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!Jump on Amy's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to receive tips and inspiration on holistic health and wellness as well as deeper insights and perspectives on current world events.Get notified on Amy's upcoming online course & community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goddess Rising.Check out Amy's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on demand and in person ⁠⁠⁠classes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and her favorite carefully cultivated products with discount coupons at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠eStore⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Thank you for being on this journey with us and being part of the solution!Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠amyfournier.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Awakening Aphrodite Podcast/FitAmyTV⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@FitAmyTV⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amy Fournier ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In today's Workday Playdate Snack, we're talking about the kind of conflict resolution that doesn't involve a six-part text thread or passive-aggressive dishwasher loading. We're diving into how playfulness—yes, even mid-fight—can be your secret weapon for stronger, happier relationships. Whether it's your partner, roommate, or that one family member who treats the group chat like a TED Talk… this snack is for you. The Problem: You're crushing deadlines at work—but stuck in a weird silence at home. Maybe it was about socks. Or the dishes. Or nothing at all. And now you're trying to lead a team while low-key simmering with resentment. Spoiler: unresolved tension doesn't stay home. It follows you to Zoom. Why It Matters: Research shows emotional residue from personal relationships impacts performance, presence, and psychological safety at work. You can't be fully present in the boardroom if you're still replaying last night's kitchen argument. The Improv Hack to Try: The Silent Scene Yes, it's as ridiculous—and effective—as it sounds.  Next time things get tense with your partner, skip the serious convo and act out a mundane task (like folding laundry) with exaggerated mime and facial expressions. No words. Just play. Why it works: Interrupts the fight-or-flight cycle Sparks laughter and connection Rebuilds rhythm and sync—without a 45-minute processing session It's improv for intimacy. Lucille Ball meets couple's therapy. Coming up Wednesday: Ready to take this playful practice even deeper? Don't miss Episode 295 — Play More, Fight Less: The Secret to Happier Relationships featuring improv power couple Greg Tavares and Amber Nash (yep, Pam from Archer). Ready to take one small step toward showing up with more clarity and confidence? Download our newest freebie—The Confident Leader's Toolkit—a 4-step guide to crafting a professional persona that actually feels like you. This plug-and-play resource helps you define how you want to be seen, align your presence with your purpose, and lead with authenticity (not performance). No, You Hang Up First (Let's Keep Connecting) Did today's episode resonate with you? Leave us a review sharing your favorite insight and we'll send you a free signed copy of I See You! A Leader's Guide to Energizing Your Team through Radical Empathy. Have another question that we can answer? Leave us a Speakpipe audio clip and we'll answer it in an upcoming episode. Don't want to miss another episode? If you're a Spotify listener, find our show here and click “Follow.” If you're an Apple Podcast listener, click here and make sure to hit “+Follow.” Want access to a bunch of free resources for your work life? This is your personal jackpot that gives you access to the frameworks that help us thrive both personally and professionally. Whether you're trying to improve your daily routine, flesh out an idea that you've had for quite some time, or want to add more play into your day - these resources have got your back. Want 2 emails a week from us? One with a quick tip you can implement right away to enhance your personal and/or professional lives & one of our famous F.A.I.L. Fourward Friday newsletters? Subscribe here. Connect with Erin Diehl x improve it! Erin's website Erin's Instagram Erin's TikTok Erin's LinkedIn improve it!'s website improve it!'s Instagram

In this episode, Heath and Jamie are talking about the underrated power of humor and playfulness in dating. From embracing your inner "corny" self to reconnecting with genuine fun, they discuss why laughter and authenticity attract real connections. Spoiler: Being yourself—quirks and all—is your greatest dating flex. #SaveTheDatePodcast #DatingHumor #FunAndAuthentic #CornyAndProud #RealConnections

“Playfulness of God!” Together, we'll explore the joy, imagination, and delight woven into our faith—seeing God as a God who plays, learning from children's trust, and celebrating friendship and worship with laughter and joy. Come and experience the wonder of a faith that is alive and full of play! This week, we conclude our "Playfulness of God" Series interestingly enough, on Pentecost Sunday! At its best, the worship of God is eclectic, joyful, and colorful. God enjoys worship as fun! Passage: Revelation 4:2-10 We have three worship opportunities for you to experience: 9:00 a.m. - Sanctuary Service 9:30 a.m. - Online Service 10:30 a.m. - Chapel Service  Please consider joining us for one of these services.  To view past worship services along with other digital content, go to our Youtube Channel @PointLomaChurchOnline.  To get involved in what God is doing within our community, please visit our website at www.pointlomachurch.org. For event happenings: http://pointlomachurch.org/connect/events/ To register for any event: http://pointlomachurch.org/register If you would like to give to the ministry: http://pointlomachurch.org/give/ or through our Venmo account: @Point-Loma-Church

Sebastian Siegel is a British-American filmmaker, actor, author, and speaker. He directed the 2021 film Grace and Grit, based on Ken Wilber's book, exploring themes of love and spirituality. Siegel has acted in various TV shows and movies and writes on consciousness and personal growth. His work often blends philosophy and psychology, focusing on the human condition.Connect with Sebastian Siegel!instagram.com/sebastiansiegel1x.com/sebastiansiegelVisit his Website to learn more!deeplyconscious.comWatch his Youtube Series: The Eight Questionshttps://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrsuqkj6LGLWyYzTyceEsjJoVeeJMl_qJ&si=Syp2iceWyg2FWdP3CHAPTERS:0:00 - Introduction1:58 - Meet Sebastian Siegel2:34 - Sebastian discusses his work in psychology, filmmaking, and lucid dreaming6:05 - Sebastian talks about his perspective on lucid dreaming and the benefits of escapism in people's lives13:28 - Sebastian shares his method for guiding lucid experiences using archetypal keys to access deeper energies16:28 - Sebastian shares how he manages tough bouts and his awareness during challenges20:53 - Sebastian talks about the value of challenges and the growth they foster22:13 - Is social media keeping us from being present, or is it an inevitable part of our human experience?26:36 - Sebastian shares his experience working with couples for over 15 years32:01 - Sebastian explains how working with couples has shaped what he looks for in relationships34:51 - Sebastian talks about the importance of tone and emotion in communication within relationships36:26 - Sebastian discusses authenticity and intent when inviting friends into one's life39:00 - Sebastian shares his experience meeting Ken Wilber for the first time40:38 - Sebastian reflects on how the life cycle of a flower, mirrors human evolution42:15 - Sebastian discusses the relationship between earning money and creativity44:32 - Sebastian talks about balancing certainty and uncertainty in life46:29 - Sebastian shares his perspective on Andy's financial challenges47:57 - Sebastian emphasizes the importance of being playful, present, and trusting the process of growth51:53 - Sebastian reflects on a movie clip featuring Jerry Seinfeld, highlighting the idea that anything can happen in life53:34 - Sebastian talks about the importance of being comfortable alone and the paradox of love and independence1:00:10 - Sebastian shares how he handles going to social events1:04:04 - Is it hypocritical to enjoy material things while knowing you don't need them to be happy?1:08:44 - Sebastian explains why he views money as a puzzle1:09:42 - Sebastian discusses why he believes self-made people tend to be more fearless1:10:49 - Sebastian talks about energy management, presence, and the importance of meaningful engagement1:15:31 - Sebastian shares how he responds to messages, invitations, and stays connected with people1:17:24 - Sebastian's recent life discoveries1:20:39 - Sebastian's goal for the next six months1:23:00 - Connect with Sebastian1:23:30 - Sebastian's YouTube series: The Eight Questions1:25:26 - Outro

In this episode we explore the transformative practice of bullet journaling. We discuss its purpose as a tool for self-reflection, mental clarity, and personal growth. The conversation delves into the historical context of journaling as a spiritual practice, the importance of naming emotions, and the balance between productivity and playfulness. Kevin shares his personal experiences with bullet journaling, including its mechanics and the joy of tracking daily accomplishments. The episode emphasizes the significance of gratitude and reflection in enhancing one's life narrative. Takeaways Bullet journaling serves as a mirror for the soul. Naming emotions helps in managing them effectively. Journaling can be a spiritual practice with historical roots. Reflection through journaling allows for personal growth. Worrying often leads to facing problems twice. Tracking daily accomplishments can enhance mental clarity. Gratitude journaling fosters a positive mindset. The act of writing by hand can improve memory retention. Creating titles for journal entries helps in recognizing patterns. Bullet journaling can be a playful and creative outlet. Chapters 00:00 The Joy of Bullet Journaling 04:03 Understanding the Purpose of Journaling 08:02 The Historical Context of Journaling 11:54 Journaling as a Tool for Reflection 15:59 Gratitude and Awareness in Journaling 19:57 The Narrative of Our Lives 24:01 Naming Emotions and Their Impact 26:41 Introduction to Bullet Journaling 28:09 The Process of Bullet Journaling 30:44 The Benefits of Writing by Hand 32:25 The Constraints of Physical Journaling 34:08 Daily Reflections and Monthly Reviews 36:30 The Flexibility of Bullet Journaling 39:11 Integrating Work and Personal Life 42:28 The Playful Nature of Bullet Journaling 45:43 Finding Time for Journaling 49:40 Conclusion and Resources CALL TO ACTION: - Subscribe to our newsletter (https://buttondown.email/BoardGameFaith) - Support us on Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/boardgamefaith/) - Interact with us on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/boardgamefaith/)

“Playfulness of God!” Together, we'll explore the joy, imagination, and delight woven into our faith—seeing God as a God who plays, learning from children's trust, and celebrating friendship and worship with laughter and joy. Come and experience the wonder of a faith that is alive and full of play! This week, we encounter to joyh and celebration and fun of God. Part of Jesus' life together with his friends involved merriment and cheer. When was the last time you laughed with a friend? Passage: John 2:1-12; John 15:15 We have three worship opportunities for you to experience: 9:00 a.m. - Sanctuary Service 9:30 a.m. - Online Service 10:30 a.m. - Chapel Service  Please consider joining us for one of these services.  To view past worship services along with other digital content, go to our Youtube Channel @PointLomaChurchOnline.  To get involved in what God is doing within our community, please visit our website at www.pointlomachurch.org. For event happenings: http://pointlomachurch.org/connect/events/ To register for any event: http://pointlomachurch.org/register If you would like to give to the ministry: http://pointlomachurch.org/give/ or through our Venmo account: @Point-Loma-Church

“Playfulness of God!” Together, we'll explore the joy, imagination, and delight woven into our faith—seeing God as a God who plays, learning from children's trust, and celebrating friendship and worship with laughter and joy. Come and experience the wonder of a faith that is alive and full of play! Pastor Karla engages us in understanding that while it is important that we discern God's voice, trusting the truth when we hear is something we can learn from children.  Passage: Matthew 11:25; Luke 18:16 We have three worship opportunities for you to experience: 9:00 a.m. - Sanctuary Service 9:30 a.m. - Online Service 10:30 a.m. - Chapel Service  Please consider joining us for one of these services.  To view past worship services along with other digital content, go to our Youtube Channel @PointLomaChurchOnline.  To get involved in what God is doing within our community, please visit our website at www.pointlomachurch.org. For event happenings: http://pointlomachurch.org/connect/events/ To register for any event: http://pointlomachurch.org/register If you would like to give to the ministry: http://pointlomachurch.org/give/ or through our Venmo account: @Point-Loma-Church

In this thought-provoking episode, host Samantha Cieslinski talks with Dr. Ellen Langer, Harvard psychologist and pioneer of mindfulness research, about the ideas behind her newest book, The Mindful Body.Dr. Langer redefines mindfulness as the simple act of noticing. She explains how our thoughts, beliefs, and even the language we use can directly impact our physical health. The conversation explores how imagination can influence biology, how labels like “prediabetic” affect outcomes, and how choice and control can reduce stress in measurable ways.Samantha and Dr. Langer also discuss the pressure to make the “right” decisions, especially in motherhood, and how questioning rigid rules can open the door to more freedom. They unpack why uncertainty can be a strength, how behavior always makes sense in context, and what it means to live more fully in the present.Whether you're a parent, a health skeptic, or someone trying to live with more clarity, this episode offers real insight into how awareness can shift the way you move through the world.Connect with Dr. Ellen LangerWebsite: ellenlanger.me Books: The Mindful Body and more Instagram: @ellenjlangerConnect with Samantha / The Running Wine MomWebsite: therunningwinemom.com Instagram: @therunningwinemom_If you enjoyed this episode, follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who could use a fresh way of thinking about health, parenting, or presence.

How can older adults reclaim movement as a joyful, empowering part of life despite pervasive cultural narratives about aging? Letting go of perfectionism opens the door to playfulness and self-compassion. "If I can be more compassionate toward myself, I can let go of this addiction to competence and just let myself try, and suck. So yeah, I have come to embrace the idea that if a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly and playfully." ~ David Wilson (48:45) This conversation with David Wilson explores how movement intersects with aging, self-perception, and cultural narratives. David begins by addressing how deeply internalized ageist beliefs affect people's willingness to move, take up space, and try new things. The discussion challenges the idea that aging necessitates physical decline, emphasizing instead that variety in movement and awareness of personal stories can lead to growth and transformation at any age. David also critiques societal pressures that promote fear-based motivation, and he encourages a shift toward framing movement as a present-moment gift. The conversation moves through practical barriers and misconceptions that keep people inactive, such as rigid goals, perfectionism, and the belief that certain types of exercise are required. It emphasizes meeting oneself where one is, using personal values rather than fixed goals as guides. The importance of self-compassion, playfulness, and the willingness to "do things badly" is highlighted as a more sustainable path toward movement. There's also a critique of mainstream fitness messaging, which often excludes older populations by failing to address their actual lived experiences. Takeaways Internalized ageism — Movement hesitancy is often rooted in lifelong exposure to ageist narratives absorbed from a very young age. Misconceptions about aging — Many decline-related assumptions are not due to age itself but to reduced movement and lifestyle limitations. Curiosity over goals — Letting go of rigid, timeline-based goals makes space for exploration and deeper engagement with movement. Compassionate self-awareness — Bringing compassion into one's personal practice enables growth without harsh self-judgment. Playfulness as practice — Play offers a route to joy and learning, especially valuable when countering addiction to competence. Movement generalism — A broad, varied movement practice supports better adaptability and long-term capability. Fear-based fitness culture — Much mainstream messaging about aging and exercise motivates through fear instead of empowerment. Efficiency of the body — The body conserves resources by shedding unused capabilities, so maintaining movement variety is crucial. Accessible movement — Movement does not require equipment, special clothing, or gym memberships—it can be integrated into daily life. Time as a barrier — A perceived lack of time is the most common excuse for not moving, yet even minutes of activity show measurable benefits. Specificity of training — Effective physical preparation must match the demands of real environments rather than generic or repetitive exercise. Gratitude for the body — Pausing to appreciate the body's enduring support helps reframe limitations and fosters a more engaged relationship with movement. Imagination of aging — How one envisions growing older strongly influences present decisions about health and movement. Practice as identity — How we treat ourselves in movement mirrors how we show up in the world and in relationships. Resources OldsCoolMoves on Instagram OldsCoolMoves website — David Wilson's web site offering online courses and information. Five Minute Movement — A series of short guided sequences emphasizing movement variety. Ageism Unmasked — Tracy Gendron's book exploring the deep roots and effects of ageism. This Chair Rocks — Ashton Applewhite's book offering another perspective on ageism and cultural narratives about aging. Road Scholar — A nonprofit focused on travel and education for older adults. (Written with help from Chat-GPT.) --- Hello

This week, Michael Ostrolenk, a master coach at SEALFIT Unbeatable Mind Academy and former Director of Human Resilience. With over 30 years of experience, Michael helps high performers and leaders master resilience and optimize relationships. Marcus and Michael delve into the concept of the 'Relationship Dojo,' where couples learn to communicate and grow together by incorporating principles from martial arts, playfulness, and self-awareness. The discussion also covers the importance of emotional safety, circadian rhythms, and the interplay between physiological and psychological wellness in personal and professional relationships. Episode Highlights: 03:42 The Impact of Circadian Rhythms and External Factors 11:52 The Relationship Dojo: Training for Love and Connection 39:51 The Role of Play in Learning and Relationships 44:41 Morning and Evening Rituals for Couples 01:04:18 Emotional Safety and Masculine-Feminine Dynamics Michael Ostrolenk, MA, MFT, is a Master Coach with over 30 years of experience specializing in resilience, leadership, and elite performance. He has worked with former special operators, executive leaders, and high-performing individuals to help them master self-leadership, expand resilience, and unlock peak potential. Michael integrates psychological, physiological, and tactical disciplines into a holistic system that supports growth across mind, body, spirit, and relationships. Known for his multidisciplinary expertise and grounded presence, he empowers clients to deepen self-awareness, optimize performance, and live with greater purpose and clarity in every area of life. You can connect with him here: https://www.michaeldostrolenk.com/ Learn more about the gift of Adversity and my mission to help my fellow humans create a better world by heading to www.marcusaureliusanderson.com. There you can take action by joining my ANV inner circle to get exclusive content and information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a world where adulting seems to dominate every hour of the day—deadlines, responsibilities, bills—it's easy to forget that play isn't just for kids. But when it comes to relationships, a playful spirit might just be the secret ingredient to lasting love.Playfulness in romance isn't about acting childish or dodging serious conversations. It's about injecting joy, curiosity, and spontaneity into the everyday. It's about sharing inside jokes that make no sense to anyone else, laughing at each other's ridiculous impressions, and building a connection that can weather the storms of life by dancing in the rain, metaphorically or literally.What Exactly Is Playfulness in a Relationship?Playfulness is the art of keeping things light. It's not a rejection of maturity but rather a bold commitment to finding joy together. It might look like tickle fights in the kitchen, goofy texts in the middle of the workday, or creating absurd nicknames that only you and your partner could ever understand.Research shows that couples who share these light-hearted moments report higher satisfaction, stronger emotional bonds, and even greater resilience in times of stress. In other words, a well-timed joke or a burst of shared silliness can be just as powerful as a heartfelt conversation.I find in my current relationship, and in relationships in the past, the more we are laughing, the better our relationship is doing. The less laughing, things got worse or they were already bad and we just stopped trying (that's past relationships - we are trying to play all the time in my current relationship). The Science Says: Play Is Serious BusinessPlayfulness might sound like fluff, but psychologists have found that it does some heavy lifting behind the scenes in relationships.According to several studies, playfulness strengthens emotional bonds by creating positive associations. When partners laugh and joke together, their brains release dopamine—the feel-good chemical that enhances connection and trust. It also helps defuse tension during conflict, offering a “reset” button when conversations get heated or misunderstandings pop up.Play also opens up space for creativity in communication. When partners feel safe enough to be silly or spontaneous, they're more likely to approach problems with an open mind and a collaborative spirit. This is critical when you've got kids as they present a challenge into themselves.How to Invite More Play Into Your RelationshipSo how does one actually be more playful in a relationship? It doesn't require a clown suit or a full-time comedy routine. It just takes intention and a willingness to break out of autopilot.Here are a few simple ways to get started:1. Embrace the Art of the Inside Joke Every couple has their own language—those shared references, silly phrases, or code words that trigger a smile or an eye roll. Cultivate those. They create a sense of intimacy that feels like a shared secret.2. Create Micro-Moments of Fun You don't need to book a weekend getaway to bring in some levity. Make funny faces across the dinner table. Add a ridiculous twist to your daily routines. Challenge each other to a sock-sliding contest down the hallway. It's the little things that add up.3. Don't Take the Mundane So Seriously Not everything has to be optimized, scheduled, or turned into a life lesson. Dance while doing the dishes. Narrate your errands in the voice of a sports commentator. Be willing to let go of being “normal” in favor of being fully present and absurdly joyful.4. Reconnect With Childhood Joys Board games, old cartoons, blanket forts—there's magic in revisiting the things you loved as a kid. Shared nostalgia not only sparks playfulness but can also lead to surprisingly meaningful conversations about who you were and who you've become.5. Keep the Flirt Alive Flirting isn't just for the early days. It's a playful way to say, “I still choose you.” That wink across the room, the spontaneous compliment, the playful teasing—it's all part of keeping the spark burning bright.The Role of "Ludus Love"Psychologists have identified a type of love known as "Ludus," which centers around play, teasing, and lighthearted flirtation. While it's often associated with more casual relationships, elements of Ludus can be essential even in long-term partnerships. By incorporating humor, spontaneity, and a touch of the unexpected, couples can avoid the trap of predictability and keep things feeling fresh.Playfulness, when paired with trust and emotional safety, can create a dynamic where joy becomes part of the foundation—not just a fleeting mood, but a shared value.What Playfulness Isn'tIt's important to clarify what playful love doesn't mean. It's not sarcasm at your partner's expense. It's not ignoring hard conversations or using jokes to avoid accountability. True playfulness comes from a place of connection, not criticism. It's about lifting each other up, not tearing each other down under the guise of “just kidding.”Why It Matters More Than EverIn an age of chronic stress and over-scheduled calendars, couples often slip into routine. Days blur into weeks, and romance becomes another task to manage. But play cuts through that fog. It reminds us that love doesn't have to be so serious all the time. That joy isn't a luxury—it's a necessity.When couples laugh together, they stay connected. They remember why they chose each other in the first place. They build memories that are filled not just with milestones, but with moments—spontaneous, weird, wonderful moments that don't need to be captured for social media to matter.The TakeawayPlayfulness is more than a nice-to-have. It's a relational superpower. Whether it's through a goofy dance, a made-up game, or a shared laugh at the end of a long day, injecting a little fun into your relationship can deepen your bond, improve communication, and keep the romance alive.So lighten up. Let go of the need to always be productive or polished. Make room for play. Because sometimes, the key to lasting love isn't grand gestures—it's being willing to be a little ridiculous, together.ReferencesAun, Wong, (2002); Antecedents and Consequences of Adult Play in Romantic Relationships; Personal Relationships 9(3), 279-286. https://doi.org/10.1111/1475-6811.00019Baxter, (1992); Forms and Functions of Intimate Play in Personal Relationships; Human Communication Research, 18(3), 336–363. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1468-2958.1992.tb00556.xBrauer, Proyer, Chick, (2021); Adult playfulness: An update on an understudied individual differences variable and its role in romantic life; Social and Personality Compass; 15(4). https://doi.org/10.1111/spc3.12589 This research paper is summarized in the article How Playfulness Improves Relationships; Psychology Today, August 15, 2024Gold, Timmons, et al (2024); A day in the life: Couples' everyday communication and subsequent relationship outcomes; Journal of Family Psychology, 38(3), 453–465 https://doi.org/10.1037/fam0001180 This research paper is summarized in the article How Playfulness Keeps a Romance Alive; Psychology Today, April 18, 2024.Metz, McCarty, (2007); The “Good-Enough Sex” model for couple sexual satisfaction; Sexual and Relationship Therapy 22(3), 351–362https://doi.org/10.1080/14681990601013492 Proyer, Ruch, (2011); The virtuousness of adult playfulness: the relation of playfulness with strengths of character; Psychology of Well-Being 1(4). https://doi.org/10.1186/2211-1522-1-4 This is a public episode. 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Can your child's emotional meltdowns actually be opportunities for powerful connection and growth? In this insightful episode, Dr. Kahlila Robinson and Sarah Gerstenzang join Rebecca to discuss their upcoming book, "The Self-Regulation Workbook for Children Ages 5 to 8." They share practical strategies for helping children manage their emotions while strengthening the parent-child connection. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal parenting experiences, they offer compassionate advice for parents feeling overwhelmed by their children's big emotions and provide actionable tools that families can use immediately. Key Takeaways: → Co-regulation is foundational to self-regulation: Children learn to manage their emotions through their parents' calm, supportive presence during moments of distress, starting from infancy. → Parents must regulate themselves first: To help children with emotional regulation, parents need strategies to stay calm during challenging moments. Setting this foundation consistently over time is more effective than quick fixes. → The 5-8 age group is uniquely challenging: These children appear more capable but still lack problem-solving skills and emotional perspective, creating a gap between expectations and abilities. → Playfulness is powerful: Even just 5 minutes of play builds connection, which motivates children to maintain or return to regulated states when emotions run high. → Repair is essential: When parents make mistakes (we all do!), acknowledging them and discussing them later creates valuable learning opportunities and models healthy emotional management. Quotes from the Guests: "Any parent is capable of this. If you're worried about doing this right, you're already in a good place because it means you're thinking about it. You care about supporting your child." - Dr. Kahlila Robinson "Children five to eight, they're pretty young still, and they really need their parents. It's very important that the parents have a certain comfort and mindset around helping their children regulate." - Sarah Gerstenzang The Self-Regulation Workbook for Children Ages 5 to 8 Available April 15, 2025 on Amazon and select bookstores Publisher: Ulysses Press Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My guest is Stuart McMillan, a renowned track and field coach who has trained dozens of Olympic medalists, professional athletes, and team coaches across a diverse range of sports. We discuss how to use plyometric work to improve mobility, strength, posture, and overall health. We emphasize the enormous benefits of skipping—a form of plyometrics—for joint health, aerobic conditioning, and coordination, as well as its advantages for people of all ages and fitness levels. We also explore the expressive nature of human movement, highlighting how certain movements reveal and can evolve one's unique personality and abilities. Stu explains how resistance training, skipping, and striding can improve movement efficiency in all aspects of life. Anyone who exercises, as well as serious athletes, will benefit immensely from Stu McMillan's knowledge of human mechanics and the practical tools he generously shares in this discussion. Read the full episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Our Place: https://fromourplace.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberan Helix Sleep: https://helixsleep.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27,‬ 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable‭ APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 Stuart McMillan 00:02:27 Running, Sprinting, Event Distances 00:09:01 Sponsors: Our Place & Wealthfront 00:12:13 Natural Sprinters, Kids, Sports Specialization 00:17:00 Athletes, Identity, Race Selection 00:23:38 Walking to Sprinting, Gait Patterns, Tool: Flat-Foot Contact 00:30:35 Visual Focus, Body Position, Running, Lifting Weights 00:36:00 Tool: Skipping & Benefits 00:42:18 Sponsors: AG1 & Helix Sleep 00:45:01 Tools: Skipping, Beginners, Jogging Incorporation 00:49:50 Transition Points, Tool: Skipping, Maximum Amplitude 00:53:03 Concentric & Eccentric Phases, Running 00:55:32 Transitioning to Striding, Posture, Center of Mass 01:03:11 Older Adults, Eccentric Control, Tool: Skipping 01:08:00 Naming Importance & Public Health; Skipping, Plyometrics 01:12:18 Sponsor: Function 01:14:06 Cross-Body Coordination, Rotation, Gaits; Phones & Posture 01:22:27 Expression Through Movement, Playfulness, Confidence 01:28:53 Being Yourself, Expression, Essence & Movement 01:36:39 Connecting with Movement, Building Cues, Mood Words 01:45:05 Pressure & Peace; Exercise, Movement & Age 01:51:39 Music, Art, Rhythm, Coaching; Soccer, Greatest Players & Countries 02:00:25 White & Black Athletes, Genetics, Environment 02:08:27 Running Form, Tools: High Knees, Stiff Springs, Hip Extension 02:17:21 Skipping Rope, Aging; Protocols & Rigidity, Principles Alignment 02:22:12 Resistance Training to Improve Movement, Sprinting Kinetics, Individualization 02:32:29 Transferring Weight Room to Track, Staggered Stance, Stretching 02:36:52 Performance-Enhancement, Elite Athletes, Androgen, Reputation 02:46:45 Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT), Age; Pharmacology vs. Training 02:52:14 Single Physical Metric & Sprinting; Pressure & Peace 02:58:34 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter