This Is Thirty Podcast

“They Farrah'd me on the bus, my luggage wasn't on the bus bro” “I'm gonna fall in love with a Southern man” “I don't care about no London hoes”  “Women always think we are the exception”   ****Hypothetically Pod Brunch Ticket Giveaway****    On this episode, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss the recent Donald Trump shooting, the upcoming election, Quatley's move to Houston, Essence Fest, Hurricane Beryl and much more.    The pod begins as the girls question the validity of the recent Trump shooting (7:00). Who are you voting for in November? (15:00). Quatley takes Houston! (22:00). Essence Fest Fest/New Orleans Recap (29:00). The Greyhound ride from hell (37:00). Are you willing to date a man with a questionable history (cheating, abuse)? (58:00). The pod ends as the girls talk about Tyler Perry's new film “Divorce in Black” and other general relationship issues. 

“this is why I need to stop being a fat ass” “I don't wanna feel like Im stuck with somebody” “Men are in their sassy era” “If you fall off, you might lose her”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Kevin. The two discuss black men and happiness, relationships, situationships, expectations and much more. The pod starts with a conversation around life in your thirties (6:00). Nothing really matters!? (12:00). Friends with Benefits vs Situationships (23:00). Women and unrealistic standards (36:00). Relationship rules and much more (44:00). Whats more important: Love or Money? (51:00). 

“What does a 39 year old and 22 year old have in common?” “God says you are worthy” “Love does exist, it truly does” “There's beauty in safeguarding something for you”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Rebecca. The two discuss love, life, big moves, age gaps and much more.   The pod begins with a convo around the importance of positive energy and its impact on life (5:00) The girls discuss RED FLAGS (10:00) Healthy love after toxic love (18:00).  Moving to Texas:  The good, bad, & ugly??!! (30:00).  Appropriate dating age gaps (41:00).  The pod ends with keeping hope alive, the gift of friendship and much more!

Here's an ode to leaving toxicity in 2023.  “Dating sucked” “He want a box of chocolates” “Yall nxggas gon stop playing in my face” “Back of the roster”   On this year's wrap up episode, Gernique is joined by James, Jean, and Pearls. They discuss personal evolution, doing away with toxicity, goals for the new year and much more.   The pod begins with a recap of 2023 (7:00). Saying goodbye to the TOXIC ERA: The conversation continues around creating new boundaries for 2024 (20:00). “I'm not allowing grey area nxggas around me”….The group self-reflects on their own toxic traits and things that need to be changed (37:00). The importance of therapy (50:00). The pod ends with a dating segment featuring Jean and James (74:00).   Well wishes & a prosperous new year! Thank you for listening... still.    #AllStarNeekend | February, 2024

“Today, I don't want to get out of bed…” “You don't gotta go get mugged to prove you're not racist” “Paperwork is not proof” “I've dated a lot of men who need therapy”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by her friend, author & entrepreneur Shyla Miles. The two discuss the foundations of friendship, mental health, Cassie/Diddy, celebrity rape culture and much more.    The pod begins with a conversation about the effects of a changed environment (5:00) Shyla and Gernique discuss the evolution of their friendship (18:00) Shyla discusses her works and passions (24:00). The state of the creative market (33:00). The girls discuss mental health and Shyla's journey with depression & anxiety (43:00). The pod ends with a conversation about Cassie, Diddy and the recent allegations (58:00).   #AllStarNeekend2024

“I Don't Have Female Friends” “Move With Caution” "Mr. Don't Got A Job" “I Thought I Was Going to Pod For Like 2 Hours”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses her recent move to Houston, India Arie's recent Essence Fest comments, cheating passes and more.   The podcast starts with a recap of the journey to Texas (3:00). Women with weird complexes (16:00). Essence Fest Drama (20:00). Annoying podcast questions (30:00).    

“I'm moving” “Fxck you podcasters” “Yo Jean what up”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Harry. The two discuss moving, boring podcasts, social media filters, plastic surgery and more.  The pod begins with a conversation about getting out of your comfort zone (6:00). Polo Classic recap (17:00).  Texting while podding/Barlos recap (29:00). Ms. JackyOh's untimely death and plastic surgery (36:00). The pod ends with several conversations around death, family and the term "people of color". 

“Killing Someone…” “Predominantly white schools” “Mental health struggles” “Be kind to people”   This episode of This is Thirty is dedicated to the victims who were killed at the Covenant School in Nashville, Tennessee. Learning centers are safe havens for children and dying at school should never be a thing. On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses politics, school shootings, mental health, and much more from an educator's perspective.

"Privacy vs Secrecy" "S/o to black men!" "You look good you feel good “20,000 pure listens” On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They talk about staying “inside”, feminine vs masculine energy, concert price inflation, and much more. The pod begins with a conversation about concerts and music taste (9:00). The pod continues with a convo about the benefits of being “inside” (28:00). Female maintenance (34:00). How toxic relationships affect friendships (45:00). The pod ends with a convo about Johnathan Majors recent arrest, physical abuse and women exhibiting masculine energy (57:00).

“Outsourcing d*ck” “Some n*ggas don't try” “You would smash a rock” “You are a mental manipulator” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo. The two have a discussion on parenthood, fighting for your kids, attraction-based friendship, McDonald's advertising tactics and much more. The pod begins with a conversation about parenthood and the lengths parents should go to be in their children's lives (5:00). How happy are you? (23:00). Can you become sincere friends with someone you were once heavily attracted to? (39:00). The pod ends with a serious conversation about SELF-WORTH and purpose (64:00).

“Growing up is not for the weak” “Dont abuse God's grace” “I don't want that stuff inside of me” Thank you to everyone who came and/or supported This is Thirty Live! The podcast begins with a conversation about the highs and lows of celebrating birthdays (9:00). Overcoming depressive states (19:00). The power of the energy you radiate! (26:00). Bullying vs Adolescent Sparring: Michael B. Jordan vs. Lore'l ?! (39:00).

"You stood me up” “I got you on the backend” “I'm fat and I love myself” “I look like I'm 7 months pregnant” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo and Quatley. They talk about disappointment in dating, date-day etiquette, Lizzo's never-ending rants, trauma, and much more. The convo starts around ‘date day' etiquette (8:00). Equality amongst genders (20:00). Social media and some of the redundancies that grapple us (30:00) What matters most when it comes to choosing an employer (60:00)? The podcast closes as they discuss Lizzo's recent comments about body image (79:00).

***APOLOGIES FOR SOUND QUALITY, TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES BEYOND MY CONTROL RESULTED IN SOUND BLENDING*** “I wanna be respectful but I wanna be honest” “Am I weird for being attracted to a little person?” “Breaking this wall of procrastination” “What is a BDB?” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls, Jean, and Mr. James Bony. They discuss relationships, disappointments, bisexual double standards, and much more. Rate your year on a scale of 1 -10 (10:00). What do you plan to be intentional about in 2023 (21:00)? Money, credit & plans for the future (35:00). Why can't men be bisexual (53:00)? Can relationships that start on shaky grounds truly last in the long run (side chick turned wife, violation of others, situation-ships turned official) (73:00)? Imaginary Relationships (82:00). Episode closes with a conversation surrounding Megan the Stallion and Tory Lanez verdict.

“You gotta judge a man by his principles” “Nxggas gon nxg” “He is an embarrassment to society” “I really love my black men, but yall gotta do better”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The conversation starts with a discussion around Diddy announcing his new baby (7:00). REBOUNDING: The good, the bad, the ugly (20:00). Summer Walker's recent comments about married women being “miserable” (47:00). The rest of the podcast focuses on Christmas shopping and several random topics. Enjoy!

**Spoiler Alert** Beware this episode contains spoilers, if you haven't seen Black Panther 2: Wakanda Forever.. listen at your own discretion.   “Wakanda Forever was trash” “WTF am I doing with my life?” “The journey is extremely beautiful, if we allow it to be...” “Student loan debt don't count”   The episode starts with a review on the new Black Panther movie (4:00) Navigating loss, family drama and happiness during the holidays (17:00). Painful experience or blessing?! When what you hoped for isn't quite what you hoped for?! (29:00) Inspiration vs. Influence: The art of not letting the success of your peers rush your process.

“ricardo, ricardo, ricardo” “to be cheated on hurts so bad” “and she got me for $6,000” “some people thrive in chaos” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo aka Mr. International. The two discuss the celebration of Halloween, Kanye West's recent cancellation, gratitude, dating protocol, age gaps, Black Panther 2 and much more.  The podcast begins with a discussion surrounding corporations and their recent disconnections from  Kanye West and his brands (15:00). Ricardo and Gernique discuss Black Panther 2 (40:00). Black people, abandonment, generational trauma and much more (50:00).  The podcast ends with a conversation about dating (Irv Gotti & Ashanti continued): age gaps, coercion, persistence, dating colleagues, #metoo validity, etc (68:00).

“Kill yall selves” “When you don't know something, just be quiet” “Some teaching is too close to begging” “Phone Number vs Socials” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Sherley. The two discuss parental trauma, racism, Kanye West's antics, and much more. The pod begins with a convo about “White Live Matters” and BLM (6:00). Hispanics using the N-word: yay or nay (12:00)? Dealing with parental pain and trauma (20:00). Parental traits that you want to correct with your kids (32:00). Social media safety (40:00) Shooting your shot (60:00).

#HappyBirthdayZorah “Why is black twitter so crazy?” “Nobody asked you anything” “Some people are weird” “This person is married....” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss haters (5:00), pharmaceutical agendas (31:00), upgrading your life (42:00), and favorites (55:00). White People Music Appreciation (61:00).

“Don't Say Feet” “I Got a Crush” “Her Grass is Greener” “I'm Not A Flirtatious Person”  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Doodley aka @_Tattedpapii. They discuss fatherhood, prior jail time, Ashanti & Irv Gotti, dating and much more The pod begins around a convo about fatherhood (4:00). Doodley explains his love and interest for podcasting (17:00). The two deep dive into Irv Gotti's recent comments about Ashanti (22:00). Fast Round: This or That? (29:00) Growing Pains: They discuss coping with the loss of a parent (34:00). The podcast concludes with a conversation about the current state of dating (42:00).

“Why are we shooting for dead when we are unsure of the threat, over and over and over again?” “With my black husbands and my black a** kids” “Services need to be rendered” “Would you fly out for the d*ck?” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo. The two discuss Brittney Griner, race relations, serving your country, cheating, sex tourism / prostitution and much more. The podcast begins with  a conversation about Brittney Griner and Ricardo's background (10:00).  A conversation about preferences turns into a racial debate about treatment, music, and much more (22:00). Dating outside of your race (31:00). Raising mixed children (42:00). The INTENSE RACIAL DEBATE BEGINS (50:00).  Fly out expectations ?! (84:00).

"I'm pro choice and pro life” “Safe sex is the best sex” “I like spicy talk” “Love is not gonna get you through all the trials and tribulations” “This episode is brought to you by September 15, 2022 On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss contraceptives, love, sex, boundaries and much more.  The podcast begins with a recap of This is Thirty's Three Year Anniversary Celebration (5:00). The girls talk about the impact of the overturning of Roe v Wade (11:00). The conversation continues as the they discuss the pros and cons of different forms of contraceptives: condoms, birth control, plan b's, etc. (30:00). What enhances the vibes in the bedroom (45:00). Toxic Sex vs In Love Sex (53:00). “Freaks get cheated on, too!” (60:00). The Male EGO! (70:00) Maintaining boundaries in relationships and friendships (82:00). 

“Buy the rest of the tickets” “I'm in ATL heaux” “I always wanna understand these n*ggas” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique talks about her why Father's Day was difficult this year (5:00), some new changes in her life (23:00) and the connection between daddy issues and taste in men (28:00).

"dropping plan b's like they're vitamins" "yall are nasty n*ggas" "Access diluted a lot of sh*t" "N*iggas gotta stop doing boyfriend sh*t" On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jean (of "If You Don't Say It, We Will" podcast). The two discuss dating and fatherhood, age gaps, matching energy and much more.  The podcast starts as they discuss Jean's step into fatherhood (6:00). Dating and fatherhood: yay or nay?(13:00) Intentional Dating (21:00) This or That? (32:00). Communication & Dating (43:00).   

“Yall drop those guns off in the hood, on purpose” “White people need to stop making decisions for everybody” “It's the freedom for me” “S/o to all my spice girl fans” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss alcohol consumption, gun violence & mental health, pride month, and unusual places to get it in. The podcast begins with a convo surrounding bars and their inconsistent pricing and how alcohol consumption/choices have changed after thirty (5:00). The pod continues around gun violence, political unrest, racial representation and government ties (22:00). America needs to stop commercializing our culture (36:00). How do you go about explaining PRIDE to kids (44:00)?  SPICE UP YA LIFE: Tired of the bedroom? Alternative spots to get it in (53:00).

“Love is a bill. Can you afford me?” “If you can't check your n*gga, that's not your n*gga” "It's very important to not give a f*ck" "Existing is expensive"  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Dwight “Juice” Jones and Quatley. They go in-depth about #GetHomeSafe, mental health, relationships, maintaining adulthood in the face of parentals and much more. The podcast begins as they discuss Dwight's background and interest in mental wellness (10:00).  The conversation continues as they discuss transitioning to true adulthood while still being respectful to [our] parents (19:00). Dwight opens up about losing an ex to suicide (34:00). The group talks about the realities of dealing with depression [for the depressed and those around] (50:00). Podcast ends with a convo about the dating streets (78:00).  

“God is good” “I could not get down with Kevin Samuels” “The new response to things we don't like should be silence” “Men lie, women lie… numbers don't” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses Mother's Day, Kevin Samuel's untimely death (13:00), minority on minority discrimination (21:00), boycotting a new restaurant (24:00), and This is Us being an exceptional show (39:00).   Three Year Anniversary: July 1st, 2022 (Secure Your Spot, now!!)

“Redundant trauma” “When is spring gonna start springing?” “That's how blind we be for these men” “Nobody looked at this and said chill out On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses the 3 year anniversary celebration that is scheduled to take place on July 1, 2022. She also discusses Viola Davis' portrayal as Michelle Obama,, coping with heavy emotions, spring break, and the issues she finds with season 2 of Bridgerton.

“It takes money to date” “It's giving vacuum” “Reciprocation is normal” “We fumbled each other” “I don't want to see you happy for at least 3 years”   On this short and sweet episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two discuss reciprocity during the dating phase, fumbling the love of your life, career changes and much more.  The pod begins as the two discuss (6:00) "pick me" women. They also discuss reciprocity during the dating phase. They continue by talking about finances and dating (13:00) Have you ever been fumbled by someone you seriously considered a future with? (22:00) Men settle more than women do! (30:00) Is this the end of This is Thirty….?!? (38:00). The podcast ends with a convo about future goals, career moves, and the 3 year anniversary celebration for This is Thirty podcast.

"I'm tired of going through it with the wrong person"  "saving the pain for tomorrow"  "generational trauma is real"  "You broke me, n*gga…" On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss growing pains, sadness, crazy men, and more. The pod begins as they discuss areas in which they have established consistent growth (8:00). Areas that we just can't seem to get right: men, diets, etc. (12:00) How do you cope with sadness? (20:00) Triggers, triggers and more triggers (30:00). Rebuilding trust once it's been broken…. (40:00). Burning & Returning Question: Why do men want to maintain access with you after they have let you down or hurt you? (48:00).  Promise you…THE LAST FIVE MINUTES ARE FUNNY AF! S/O to Dolph.. it's all love. 

"Stimulate my mind" "The only thing better than  p*ssy is new p*ssy"  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Dolph. They discusss Kevin Samuels' narratives, gender roles, the streets and much more.  The podcast begins as they discuss Dolph's role as Kevin Samuel's Jr. (6:00). The pod continues as they discuss the benefits of women equality and black girl magic (24:00). Women need to occupy all spaces (36:00). The pod takes a turn as the two discuss gender roles and their importance (45:00). From a married perspective, Dolph addresses the climate of "the streets" (73:00). The beauty of love and marriage (80:00). The pod concludes as Dolph provides advice to singles who are still looking for love.  

“She just left him for the tenth time” “I was kept in the parking lot” “Ya'll are getting scammed on the daily” “I had just been introduced to a f-boy” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. They reflect on life, relationships, dealbreakers and much more. The podcast starts with a first quarter life-check in (6:00). Next, the two discuss some factors that keep the '30 and over' crowd living at home (14:00). Do you remember the time? Gernique and Quatz look back at year 27: love, life, friendships, finances, etc.(26:00) “Niggas will park you” (43:00). Dealbreakers in friendships and relationships (53:00).

“I'm not scouting for n*ggas outside” “Choose me every single day” "I ain't tryna see the same people every week” “Women always have time for love.. [men not so much]” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Keisha. The two discuss Women's History Month, life as educators, social media transparency and much more. The podcast begins with a conversation about the importance of Women's History Month (10:00).  At the (15:00) mark, they discuss their roles as educators, what they love and some of the challenges that they have faced over the years. Dating, manifesting new love, and inner-work (41:00). The pod comes to a close as the ladies discuss social media transparency (71:00).

“Prayers for Ukraine” “Exuding black excellence on a daily basis” “Men like to have a plethora of good women on reserve” “To keep bothering me when you know you don't want me is wild”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses men who fumble good women, books, staying inside & its benefits and much more.   The podcast starts with a birthday recap (7:00). “One person is celebrating, one person is mourning” (14:00). Being inside is good for my bank account (17:00). Why do you men keep fumbling good women? And, why do they like to keep good women in the tuck? (22:00). Gernique talks in detail about writing for Funk Flex and why gossip journalism wasn't for her.(37:00) Lastly, Gernique discusses the beauty of the new cast of “Belair” and the difference between including black people naturally vs using black people as caricatures for viral moments (44:00).

“I had my fun” “White people are weird with hair” “Are you trying to make me your concubine?”  “The bloom of a field”  After a month, This is Thirty returns. Gernique is joined by Quatley and the two discuss Valentine's Day, black history, black hair and much more. The podcast begins as Gernique discusses the technical difficulties she's experienced with not recording. Then, the girls talk about the importance of Black History (10:00). The convo continues on whether or not a month is enough for Black History (17:00). Do you like your hair ? The girls talk about learning to embrace their natural hair, protective styles and treatment based on hairstyles (35:00). At the (65:00) mark the girls talk about Valentine's Day and why self-love extremist SUCK!  The conversation closes with a question... How do gender roles work in homosexual relationships? (continued... next week)...

“I don't want to be blinded by my own blindspots” “You n*iggas lie…” “I have helped plenty a n*gga” “This is quality content, people” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Nicaela. The two discuss single life, toxicity, cheating, break babies and much more. The podcast begins as the ladies discuss the single life.. ups and downs.. (9:00).  The beauty of being single (23:00) Why are the dating streets so scary (28:00).  What toxic trait do you need to let go of before your next relationship? (38:00). The issue with men like Tristan Thompson (54:00).  What's your issue with cheating (63:00). Cheating vs. Embarrassment (69:00) The ladies revisit opposite sex friendliness amongst those who are in relationships (86:00). Changes in your attraction in men as you age (96:00).

"I let love down" “He got the coin” “What is your purpose in love?” “Thoughts and reality are two different things” On this episode wrap up of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jean, Pearls and Mich. The group talk about 2021, relationships, cheating, pop culture and much more.  The podcast begins as the group discuss the biggest L they took this year (8:00). The biggest W taken in 2021 (23:00). Favorites in 2021 (28:00) Insecure Recap: Why does this show mean so much to us? (39:00). SPICY HOUR: You cannot make any new friends of the opposite sex while you with me !!! (61:00) Top 3 red flags and green flags (78:00).  Catch (Part Two) on the If You Don't Say it We Will podcast.

“Changing the name of the pod to “This is Mommy.. This is Wife” “Do broke men get to have an opinion?” “I really don't trust America” “Christmas as a single” On this episode of This is Thirty… Gernique talks about racism, disrespecting your partner in public, Jay-Z verzuz and much more. The podcast begins with a recap of Christmas (5:00). Dirty Laundry: Gernique talks about her white neighbor's threat to call the cops on her (13:00). Being nosy in public (26:00). Is it okay to disrespect your man if he's broke and not contributing to anything? (34:00). Staying friends with your ex: yay or nay? (40:00). The pod ends with a HOV RANT! Actually, the pod ends with a WIFE and MOMMY rant.

I know yall probably noticed the change in the show” “It's like God's promise to me” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique celebrates making it to 100 episodes. She talks about changes in the pod and briefly talks about. S/O to James Bony! She also cries, lol.   Thanks for your support and for listening, #100episodes

“I do buss it wide open” “I have little girl syndrome” “If you're not pleasing me, I'm cheating” “Lets talk about sex, baby” On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two have an interesting conversation about sex, preferences, bedroom boundaries, turn offs and much more. Introduction to sex (13:00). Could you be celibate before marriage ? (22:00). Favorite positions (34:00). Has maturing had an effect on your sex drive? (49:00). This or that! (54:00) The rest of the pod is filled with convos about foreplay, frequency, ovulation and much more.  Enjoy, this once in a lifetime audio experience.   

“A nonchalant guy is dangerous” “I had covid” “My self worth is attached to my productivity” “I'm not a fan of things getting stuck in me” On this episode of This is Thirty Gernique is joined by Quatz. They discuss Gernique's recent covid experience, dating taste, toxicity and much more. “I tested positive” (5:00). Vaccine Talk (19:00) Taste in men and friendships changing as you mature (31:00) Do looks really matter? (45:00)

A special episode solely dedicated to the black man. On this episode, Gernique talks about ALL the reasons why black men are worthy and worthy to be celebrated…everyday. Dear Black Men: This system was designed to destroy you. This world does not love you as much as it should. You are expected to LOVE the loudest while receiving the least emotional support. You are complex and multi-faceted. One size does not fit all. You are not told enough how much you matter. You are not allowed to be different. Instead of waiting for another unfortunate hashtag… I'm sending love your way today… Continue to be great! With So Much Love & Admiration, Gernique.

"I don't want to be on these streets when I'm 42" “You know within 6months to a year” “Rent is expensive” “Ima black girl” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss dating, productivity, self-care, soulmates and much more.  (8:00) Being Productive vs. Being Busy (15:00) Perfection Syndrome (24:00) Can being clear on your intentions scare someone away? (32:00) “If a woman says, “she doesn't want to waste her time” it doesn't mean she wants to marry you tomorrow bro”…. (40:00) Is finding a soulmate after 30 still necessary? (49:00) Things white people never have to worry about…..

“I hope they clearing my student loans” “Passion is not fact” “Cuff me to the bed” “You don't have to spend a dime, if a girl really likes you” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two discuss Haiti & immigration practices, tricking, cuffing season, dating and much more. The podcast begins with a convo about (8:00) Haiti and the recent mistreatment witnessed at the Del Rio border. (14:00) Is Joe Biden upholding his presidential promises thus far? (23:00) What exactly is cuffing season? Geraldine & Gernique provide two very different definitions of cuffing season. (31:00) Tricking vs. Effort (40:00) Chasing vs. Pursuing (50:00) How to get the girl!?    

“Impregnate me” “I will not spend money on food this week” ‘When I don't have money, I am not happy” “Pierreline don't shoot me”   On this episode Gernique talks about baby fever, the importance of marrying a black man, making sure your passions don't take more than they give and much more.  The podcast starts with a convo about  (5:00) dreams vs 9-5. Baby fever is extremely real (12:00) The beauty of the 90s (18:00). Why is it so hard to save? (25:00). “The beauty of a black man” & dark skin complex (35:00). 100th episode celebration ideas?! (40:00).

“Authenticity is attractive” “I am not attracted to entrepreneurs” “Stay @ home daddies” “You can set trends by being yourself” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss lifestyle changes, career & retirement funds, dating a good man with potential, being yourself and much more. The podcast begins as the two discuss experiencing career changes in your thirties (10:00).  Unequally yoked financially!? Successful women dating men who have not yet "arrived"(18:00). Why does a double standard exist with successful men and women who have not "arrived" (30:00). The importance of living in your truth and not allowing social media expectations to alter your behavior & choices (38:00). Gernique gives Spliff Star his flowers and talks about the importance of playing your position (54:00). "Social media has inadvertently taught us that if you are not the STAR, you are not important… and THAT IS A LIE” Book Drive #tellafriend  

“I do not like light liquor” “You gon make a hoe out of me” “Sometimes, there's beauty in the unknown” “The streets have me scurred” On this episode, Gernique recaps her recent Mexico trip (2:00). Don't take life for granted (9:00) When did concerts get so expensive? (13:00). Every black man needs to read “Concrete Rose” (19:00).  Breaking a woman's heart is not funny (26:00) Relationship Status & Social Media Frontin' (30:00).

"no cappin" "jump his bones"  "shame on me for changing, shame on you for staying the same"  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss cancel culture, vaccination incentives, internet influencers, sexual maturity and much more.  The podcast starts with a balanced conversation about the covid vaccination (11:00). The girls have a convo about "selective cancel culture" because all celebrities are definitely not created equal (24:00). Dangers of social media influence (47:00). Gernique responds to comments that were made on the most recent episode of the  "If you don't say it, we will" podcast (53:00). Lastly, the pod takes a turn as Pearls and Gernique discuss childhood insecurities and their effects on sexual decisions. 

Anybody else need a break from outside?! On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses why racial harassment and discrimination should be a crime (6:00). In 2021, is sex the only way female musicians can sell music? Cardi B & Normani's new song + video (15:00). Health over Pleasure: Eating Right, Listening To Your Body, & Adult Acne (24:00) Why are  rich men not ashamed of being dead beat fathers [DaniLeigh & DaBaby] (31:00).   "Wrap It Up” “Don't lose sight of your destination” “It's 2021, why are you still a deadbeat dad?” "Why are they still pandering to white women?"  

“Das my homegirl” “The box may be too deep” “You and your dusty friends” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Mich aka LifeisGreat of the #ifyoudontsayitwewill podcast. The two discuss solo trips, the Iive podcast, practicing abstinence before marriage, social media rules and more. They also address several questions that weren't able to be answered at the live show. (6:00) The podcast begins as Gernique discusses the importance of solo trips. (12:00) Should we be grinding or living our best lives in our thirties? (14:00) Why do men play games? (20:00) When is the right time to move in with your partner? (22:00) Why do men continue to sleep with women they have no intentions of being with? (30:00) Does size matter? (40:00) Healing before relationships. (60:00) Bills and splits the never-ending convo?!

“Nah Dawg” “I am not one for the situationship” “Its something about an up north n*gga that I like” “What has your single season taught you?” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Nicaela. The two talk about taking back gifts after a breakup, approaching 30 (8:00), unhealthy social constructs (15:00)  tension in the workplace (22:00) leaving New Jersey (30:00),  single season, situationships, dating and much more (40:00). 2 Year Anniversary Live Podcast | July 1, 2021 | Dava Lounge: Union, NJ  Shop Urban Aesthetics @urbanaestheticsacessories on IG 

“Do father's get the respect they deserve?” “Running the streets ain't as fun as it seems” “Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming” “New Life, Who This” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Vee. They talk about about fatherhood (8:00). They also discuss Vee's role as an educator (12:00).  Let's talk about the streets and much more! (20:00). #HappyBirthdayPearls 2 Year Anniversary: Live Podcast July 1, 2021 @ Dava Lounge, Union, NJ