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We wrap up season 5 with a trip down memory LAME to talk about the time when (pervert/criminal/dirtbag) R. Kelly and (underage) Aaliyah were once (illegally) "married". We rage barf about how R. Kelly seemingly got away with abusing girls and young women for so long, and other celebrity predators that are deserving of our disgust. Then, we kid-ney around with a hilarious retelling of the New York Times reported "Who Is The Bad Art Friend?" saga between a hater-writer (Sonya Larson) and pick-me donor (Dawn Dorland). New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/05/magazine/dorland-v-larson.html

We discuss the companies considering pawrental/meowternity leave policies for their growing population of Millennial pet owner/fur parent employees. Then we tell stand up comedian Dave Chapelle to sit down because of his lazy transphobic comedy special.

We clean up the misogynist mess that is known as 'Strategic Incompetence', where partners (mainly cis men) pretend they lack the know-how to perform traditionally women tasks (cleaning, cooking, childcare). And then we discuss 'LulaRich', the Amazon Prime documentary that exposes the multi-level marketing company LulaRoe and their cult-like practices and problematic teachings.

We pull out a seat and take them as we LEARNT from Silky Nutmeg Ganache's (@silkyganache) discussion about RuPaul and Todrick Hall's POV as QPOC expressing themselves in the queer community. Then we talk about the 'soaking' loophole that religious youth are using to avoid the sin of premarital sex. And if you have time, please support our passion project Sailor Moon Parody Linktree: https://linktr.ee/sailormoonparody

We pull out our teen diaries to gossip and compare our pubescent dreams and ambitions. Then we discuss how people of colour and children of immigrants can experience grief, and the racial and cultural gap in bereavement policies. Sailor Moon Parody Linktree: https://linktr.ee/sailormoonparody Link to trailer of Sailor Moon: Promise of his Rosebud - https://youtu.be/jBIOqjLM518

We stay off-cam to discuss the expectations and impact of going on-camera during work meetings. Then we talk about two problematic/controversial figures who claim to have 'transitioned' races.

We get into the back-to-school spirit and remember our favourite teachers from our childhood, and have storytime about a past chance to be on Sesame Street. Then, we discuss problematic wellness/spiritual influencers who are spreading misinformation about covid and the vaccine.

We re-live the rise and fall of early 2000s iconic MySpace/AsianAvenue social media celebrity, Tila Tequila. Then, we discuss the origin and discourse around the term 'cheugy', and its problematic connection to misogyny. Video explaining Cheugy: https://youtu.be/AJb25SOjEjI

We celebrate the new genre of children's television that embraces trans stories, then visit a memory of awkward teen regret and romance.

We're back for Season 5 to share relationship advice for staying together by keeping things very separate. And we plan the logistics of running away during a Millennial midlife crisis.

We examine bias when choosing healthcare providers, and take a stroll down Sherway Gardens to reminisce about a cardigan-clad, customer service crush. Learn more about Access Alliance: www.AccessAlliance.ca Learn more about Rainbow Health Ontario: www.RainbowHealthOntario.ca

We prepare for a post-vaccinated world with the worst tips for cancelling plans. Then we test our ally IQs with an eduGAYtional segment.

We acknowledge the monumental guilty verdict against George Floyd's murderer (Derek Chauvin), the well-intentioned whoopsie responses of awkward allies, and touchy topic of family vs. career. 

We dig deep into the topic of Khloe Kardashian's reaction to her unfiltered bikini pics. Then we talk about how often you need to throw out your panties, and reveal which one of us is the more responsible underwearer.

We talk about making space for beings from outer space, and problematic TikTok celebrities (like Addison Rae) building their fame off the backs of bipoc and qpoc creators. 

We tell a sh!tty story, acknowledge Trans Visibility Day, and put a spotlight on Lil Nas X's music video, Montero (Call Me By Your Name). Then, we get spicy and callout our most toxic critics.

We take a pause to acknowledge the f*cked up, senseless hate crimes committed against (mostly Asian women) Xiaojie Tan, Delaina Ashley Yaun, Daoyou Feng, Soon Chung Park, Hyun Grant, Paul Andre Michels, Suncha Kim, and Yong Ae Yue. Then, we try to lighten the mood with a lightning quiz segment.  

We flame broil Burger King over their tasteless sexism, and tell racist markkketers to take several ergonomic seats with their cultural appropriation.

We put the Fair & Lovely down to talk about representation in Power Rangers and anime; then make a hard left to reveal a shameful origin story.

We're back for another season! Starting off the first episode with sugary stimuli, rants about dusty holy bros, and teaching tickle consent.

We shed our fake personas for real talk about code switching while WFH, theories of messy benefits, and flaming BBQ boneheads. Messy: The Power of Disorder to Transform Our Lives by Tim Harford: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/28815513-messy

We grab a milking stool to talk about old milk maids tales, playing around with anal play, and learn about the positives of polyamory. Featuring special guest: Trish (fire enthusiast) Get more from Trish on Twitter: https://twitter.com/himynameistrish Learn about Halo Brewery: https://halobrewery.com/

We get soaked in all our wet ass feelings, drop facts on pickup artists, and smash dat unsubscribe on misogynist 5s.

We fall truly, madly, scientifically in love with misery, embrace our doorbell demons, and serenade a forgotten Canadian icon.

We celebrate Halloween with a surprise pet reading, sharing tales of phantom fucbois, and crying over horror hangovers. Featuring special guest: Durga Magnetta (Medium, Intuitive Reader, and Life Coach).  To learn more about Durga and book an appointment: https://www.freetobeauthentic.com To listen to her podcast Free to Be Authentic: http://freetobeauthentic.buzzsprout.com

We boogey down with mental health maintenance work, theories about Charlotte's dark web, heirloom trauma, and knee-shattering confidence that trolls could never.

We dig into some grave feelings about independence, empathy in strange places, and zapping bigotry. 

We bare our feelings about strip clubs, the oppression of the 'narcissist' label, and empathy for service workers. 

We dig into slices of Instagram scams, adventures of Harjy the Emotional Vampire Slayer, and LinkedIn novellas.

We kick it and kiki about Keeping up with Kharjot, personal space, and the Human Resource arts.

We handpick tasty bits and sound bites of our second season. Low in calories. High in facts.  Special heartfelt thank you to our guests/friends: Art Komarov, startup founder and entrepreneur. (me@artiom.io) Anisha Lad (@empoweredspice), founder of Empowered Spice. (https://empoweredspice.com) Jaina Tharakan (@madamepsychosisband), drummer and background vocalist for Madame Psychosis band. (https://madamepsychosislive.com) Michelle Mondesir (@michiemondesir), lead vocalist for Madame Psychosis band and solo artist. (http://michellemondesir.com) Eugenia (@eugeniatalksalot), host of the podcast Eugenia Talks A lot. (http://eugeniatalksalot.buzzsprout.com/) --------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe, rate, and review to help support the show. Follow: instagram.com/haveyoubeencrying_pod

We get vulnerable to discuss cancel culture, 'Does everything happen for a reason?', and professional attire.

We virtually sit down for a discussion about losing loved ones, humour, resilience, and how not to make someone else's grief experience about yourself. Featuring special guest: Eugenia (Host of the podcast Eugenia Talks A lot ).  Learn more about Eugenia's podcast: http://eugeniatalksalot.buzzsprout.com/  Listen on Spotify (and everywhere you get pods): https://open.spotify.com/show/03bNAwTkExswYcGTOJUOGe?si=LbQsy7PCQ3uEq0egZQuAFw Follow her on Instagram @eugeniatalksalot: https://www.instagram.com/eugeniatalksalot/  Check out her suggested helpful resources: https://www.reddit.com/r/ChildrenofDeadParents/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Assistance/comments/hax0t/my_friend_just_died_i_dont_know_what_to_do/c1u0rx2/

We chatter about how time travel is problematic for BIPOC people, our Canada Day triggers, and overcoming ice breaker anxiety.

We chat about the experiences of BIPOC queer women in the music industry. Featuring special guests from the alt-pop and indie rock band Madame Psychosis: Michelle Mondesir (lead singer) and Jaina Tharakan (drummer, background vocalist). Learn more about the band: https://madamepsychosislive.com @madamepsychosisband (FB and Instagram) Their latest album “Survivor” featuring “Kapow” is on Spotify and everywhere you get good music. https://open.spotify.com/album/4biaDKxmcGmBJzPFFZ4V4e?si=fArn936FTyS3VKph6BKtlQ Learn about Michelle Mondesir's music: http://michellemondesir.com @michiemondesir (FB and Instagram) Her single “Crazy World” is available on Spotify and everywhere you find new music. https://open.spotify.com/album/0vDQXqrK9Hso9Qc3LHsWVO

We dial in to chat about Zoom allyship tips, rage-bonding, and tasty loads of emotional baggage.

We take this time to address the murder of George Floyd and the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement. We share the self-work we are doing to be better allies, and helpful resources for people looking to support the cause: LEARN What Is Optical Allyship? 3 Ways To Be Actively Anti-Racist: https://www.bustle.com/p/what-is-optical-allyship-3-ways-to-be-actively-anti-racist-22956518 Optical Allyship - by @glowmaven: https://www.instagram.com/p/BiPDZkbFJFY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link The Great Unlearn - curated by @rachel.cargle: https://www.instagram.com/thegreatunlearn/?hl=en Letters for Black Lives (with list of translations): https://lettersforblacklives.com/ DONATE Black Lives Matter - Toronto: https://blacklivesmatter.ca/ Black Business and Professional Association: https://bbpa.org/ Black Health Alliance: http://blackhealthalliance.ca/ Black Legal Action Centre: https://www.blacklegalactioncentre.ca/ SHOP @blackowned_to: https://www.instagram.com/blackowned.to/ Afrobiz Directory of black owned businesses and black entrepreneurs: https://www.afrobiz.ca/

We savour a discussion about women entrepreneurs, and turning passion projects into compassion projects. Featuring special guest: Anisha Lad (Founder of the superfood spice company Empowered Spice). Learn more at: empoweredspice.com

We get vulnerable and share our bully memories and therapy origin stories.

We invest in a conversation about mentally surviving and thriving as an entrepreneur. Featuring special guest: Art Komarov (startup founder and entrepreneur). You can reach Art at: me@artiom.io

We hit unmute to share tips for surviving video calls and becoming not-young.

We pull up some of our favourite moments for all our faithful listeners and new baes to enjoy. Check the receipts! Support the show: instagram.com/haveyoubeencrying_pod

We go deep on our feelings, connections to the spirit world, and healing past life trauma. Featuring special guest: Durga Magnetta (Medium, Intuitive Reader, and Life Coach). Learn more at: freetobeauthentic.com

We get triggered by Alexa skills wills, micro-aggression mirrors, and Brampton stan clubs.

We talk about online interviews, Zoom therapy, sentient appliances, and gender roles during a crisis.

We speak up about Animal Crossing, urgent emails, lingerie, and vocal dysmorphia.

We rap about Insta-apologies, glory hole-y matrimony, and covid-concerts.

We dig into Fiverr, anti-pooch technology, depression cakes, and fasting-but-fashion.

We self-quarantine our anxieties about Covid-19, OpenCare, 3.5 chili pepper level rage, and Women's Day corporate contradictions.

We get crusty over interviews, office snacks, and Friends fandom.

We cure depression with detergent, dramedies, and low-calorie frozen dessert.