The Dating Game

And we move indeed. Jay and Simone will be travelling the world and therefore, we will be taking a small small break. But fear not, we are giving you another episode of entertainment as we reflect and laugh at the 'old us', and look ahead to the chapter to come. What does dating have in store for us when we are far away from home? Who knows! But trust us, we will be back to update you...Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Ever had a sneaky link? This episode is all about keeping your dating business to yourself! It is true, there is a time and a place to share. Sharing with your nearest and dearest might keep you grounded, protect you from sticky situations, and obviously, be fun to spill the piping hot tea. But for many reasons, you may also want to keep that part of your life a secret. This week, we discuss privacy and dating.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Ever had that dreaded conversation? 'The Talk'. Love it or hate it, it needs to be done. Or does it? Maybe going with the flow is the new way forward...? This week, we discuss the conversation around labels in dating, when to have the conversation, and how to manage your emotions when it doesn't go the way you'd like...Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

There is a multitude of wisdom that comes from sitting down with the women who came before you, discussing their lives, perspectives and outlooks on the world.That is why on this episode, we brought on the most honourable guests we could find to discuss the dating world as they see it, and to hear their advice on how we can do it better; ladies and gentlemen, please welcome, our mums.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and Simone ft our mumsInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Does your future partner have to be over six foot, athletic build,  earn over £100k  or be at least five years older than you?  When looking for our partner we all have a criteria and boxes that need to be ticked to be considered the one, but what considers us to be too fussy?  In this week's episode we talk about what we seek in our future partner and if we are actually too fussy when dating. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

What is a strong woman? Is strength perceived as intimidating or powerful? Does being strong mean you can't be completely vulnerable. In this episode we explore the term ‘Strong Woman' and our experiences with this term when dating . Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

When dating online or in real life those first conversations can leave you feeling excited or thinking about deleting after the second question... There's no doubt that first conversations have the biggest impression. This week we are going to take you through all our tips on the best conversation starters that will leave your potential bae wanting to find out more...Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

In a follow-up to our episode on daddy issues, we explore the concept of mummy issues. Although not often referenced, relationships with our mothers can be just as turbulent as those with our fathers. This week, we discuss what mummy issues mean to us, and how our watching our mothers in love and heartbreak has shaped our outlook on relationships.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Most of us would love to be in a relationship where all of our core values are matched by our partners. But what if not all of your values are the same? Are you willing to compromise or are all of your values dealbreakers? This week, we discuss the values we deem important, such as feminism, chivalry, community, family and religion. We talk about how far we are willing to take these values and to what extent we wish to carry these into our future households. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we talk about revisiting an ex. Before you even consider meeting up with your ex, let us help you learn from our advice, guidance and most importantly, our mistakesJoin us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we invite on the creator of The Icarus Complex, an audiodrama podcast, based on a young black man dealing with the ups and downs of relationships, providing a window into a viewpoint we rarely get to see. On this episode, we talk with Linden Cole to discuss heartbreak, lessons from our younger selves and the birth of a player... Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneFt. Linden Cole, @icaruscomplexpodcastInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

There comes a time when you look back at your dating life and ask yourself whether you are repeatedly dating out of habit, or whether you are truly searching for the one. This week, we ask ourselves, "Are we addicted to dating?" We discuss whether habitual dating is healthy, or whether it's time to break the addiction.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

When is the best time to send a raunchy pic that will get all your potential bae's attention? Is there a good time or will the first time always be awkward? And how far do you go?! We have all the answers. Join us as we share our tips for keeping bae on their toes, while always maintaining the mystery (and your dignity!)With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Although taboo, it can be challenging to date when you are not mentally feeling  your best. Equally, the cycle of dating, being rejected or ghosted, can have quite an effect on your mental health. On this episode, we are joined by a professional psychotherapist to talk about how to discuss your mental health with someone you're dating, how to encourage someone you are dating to seek help and how to manage your own mental health while dating.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneSpecial Guest, Karen Hartley  @karen_hartley_Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

India Arie said it with grace and musical styling. But what does hair have to do with dating? As black women, we are proud of how versatile our hair is, and how we can look like a blonde baddie today and bald babe tomorrow. However, also as black women, the topic of hair can often come up during dating as men feel privy to share their preferences on how we wish to present our hair. This week, we discuss whether hair equals fashion or identity, whether a man should be allowed to tell you how he prefers your hair, and how hair impacts our feelings of sexuality and femininity. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

When dating an older person, how old is too old? Would you venture into sugar daddy/suga mama realms? Uncle territory? Zaddy world? This week, we discuss whether or not we would date an Uncle, what it means to be attracted to older people, and... walk down memory lane of that time we dated (much) older men.  Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

"Just be yourself." Advice we have all heard, especially when it comes to dating. But, being yourself isn't always easy. But is holding back a little the same as censoring yourself? This week, we are joined by Niya to discuss the 3-month rule, being in the closet and how to be unapologetically yourself in dating.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and Simoneft Niya Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Do you believe that people considered globally attractive have an easier time in life and do not have to 'try' as hard? This week, we discuss whether it is possible to try too hard in dating and whether you have to exercise other attributes if you benefit from pretty privilege.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Have you dated someone who you thought were getting along with only to find they have gone ghost after 4 weeks? Or maybe, you find yourself getting the ick for the 7th time this year with a very high track record for short-lived relationships? It could be that you or the ghoster has committment issues. This can be very problematic in dating. This week, we discuss this more and talk about how to overcome these challenges.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneFeaturing Wazik, @wazik_leeInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Relationships with our fathers can be complicated. Often love-hate, sometimes mainly love, occastionally, mainly hate, but for many, sometimes they carry feelings of abandonment and rejection. On this week's episode, we have an open and honest conversation about daddy issues. We open up about our individual relationships with our fathers and give insight into how our choices in dating may be affected by our first experiences with the men in our lives.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Listen. We're tired. TIRED. Some might call it dating fatigue. And the fatigue is REAL. But, we keep going, we keep living and we move. In this episode, we reflect on the experiences of the past year but most importantly, on ourselves. Looking ahead to next year, we discuss our new dating dos and dating don'ts. Cheers to dating on 2022!Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we invited on the founder of Melanin Matchmaker, a dating app for black singles. We discuss everything from why men cheat, open relationships, racism on dating apps and matchmaking.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneFeaturing Dayo @melaninmatchInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

For most people, discussing faith and spirituality falls into the same category as "what are we?" It's a difficult conversation to have and can be the reason to part ways if you aren't on the same page. This week, we discuss what it is like to date someone with a different spiritual belief, whether faith is a dealbreaker, and how to settle your differences with someone on a different spiritual journey. We are also joined by a special guest who is newly-engaged, and who shares her experiences of finding her partner while walking in faith. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneFt. Shona Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we talk about the influence of social media and seeing celebrity couples play out their lives on our own dating life. We discuss which celebrity couples we are rooting for, open relationships and sister wives.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod 

How great is it that you can narrow down your selection of dating potentials by age, distance, their bad habits, height and even whether they have pets. They *could* even throw in beard length! (Just an idea, dating apps *cough cough*) But with statistics  this shows  black women and asian men are the least successful on dating apps; it makes you think do dating app filters encourage discrimination against marginalised groups? Or do they offer safety and security against hostility often experienced on the app? This week, we talk about the pros and cons of using dating app filters and discuss our experiences of being black women on a dating app. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

With men and women at war with each other on Twitter over who should pay on a first date, this week, we asked the question, 'is romance dead?' Romance is of course more than financially driven, so what is romance? And is it still ok to give and receive romantic gestures in the 21st century without expecting anything in return?   Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Have you ever dated someone who had the potential, but not the potency? The drive but not the delivery? The wow-factor without the W? You may have been dating a fixer-upper. Goodness knows we've had many. This week, we discuss what the attraction is to the fixing someone, whether it's worth the work, and why we keep going back for more. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneSpecial guest: Kemi Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

It's the most wonderful time of the year! That's right, it's cuffing season. Have you chosen a bae to get close to this winter? To cuddle up to on the sofa watching Saturday night TV shows, and to bond with over pumpkin lattes from that well-known coffee shops with the red cups? Or do you prefer to spend cuffing season covered up under the sheets? This week, we discuss the rules and formalities of being cuffed during cuffing season, and whether cuffing season is overrated.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

What gifts have you received from you're past baes? Whether it's a wild and wonderful experience walking across the O2 arena or a designer handbag, we all have a story to tell when it comes to receiving gifts while dating! This week we discuss the gifts we have received and given from a Penguin onesie to tickets to a West End musical, join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

The word narcissism is creeping into our daily lives more than before as we explore some of the more complex personalities that we come across. While we all may have some narcissistic traits, unfortunately, dating a narcissist can often lead to a toxic and sometimes abusive relationship. On this week's episode, we are joined by Kelila, as we sit down to discuss the signs of dating a narcissist and exchange stories on our experiences. Join us in the conversation...EtcFt. Kelila, @kelilajade

This week, we have a very open and candid conversation about dating people of different cultures. In a world where our cultures are interlinking closer than ever before, dating outside of your culture is becoming far more inevitable. But are there still things to consider? How do you tackle trying each others' food, learning about the cultural expectations and teaching them about your hair? Furthermore, how do you talk about those more serious topics, like microaggressions and fetishization? We discuss it all and share our experiences openly. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we have a special guest on, Kyndra from the Kyndra Crump Show. We have laughs, banter, and real talk as we discuss everything from 'The List' to help you find a man, and talk through some of our ultimate dealbreakers, such as bad teeth, dirty fingernails, and how many kids is too many kids. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneFeaturing Kyndra,  @thekyndracrumpshowInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

We love our friends, and if you're a good friend, there is no doubt you always want best for them. But despite this, it can sometimes be hard seeing your friendships change as they transition into new relationship. This week, we discuss how we have coped with friendship seasons and how to best maintain your friendships during big life changes.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Fellas, this one's for you. On this week's episode, we talk about gender roles in the household, definitions of masculinity and the pressures on men to play particular roles in western patriarchal society. We also discuss the impact of our parents on our perceptions of gender roles in relationships. In this episode we are joined by Wazik to discuss 'the male perspective'. Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneFeaturing Wazik, @wazik_leeInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we discuss the hype around dating a bad boy. There is certainly something about the guy who has a little bit of that tough swag, but what really is the life of ride-or-die? And is dating a bad boy all it appears to be? We tell you alllll the tea, as per, holding nothing back...Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcastWith Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

What do you do when you are done with dating apps? Are you are 'pauser' or a 'deleter'? This week, we discuss the protocol of when to delete the app after meeting someone and what to do when you have dating app fatigue.Join us in the conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Weddings are magical. Beautiful, happy days. But when you're single... sometimes, it's not so magical. And, ever been a bridesmaid or a groomsmen while single? Yep, even less magical. This week, we talk about how to handle attending a wedding as a single person, the protocols for plus ones, the embarassment of joining the dancefloor after the first dance and the trauma of fighting for the bouquet. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and Simone Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Is it time to meet the parents? Meeting the parents can be scary, or fun, depending on your perspective! This week, we are joined by Naomi, who after 8 years, still remembers when she met her partner's family. We recount stories, talk about whether we are the girlfriends who serve food at our partner's parents house, and whether the wrong outfit can leave the wrong impression! Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneSpecial Guest;  Naomi Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

When your friend starts talking to your ex, what do you do? This week, we talk about girl code. The dos and don'ts. Is it wrong to tell your friend who is off-limits? Are you blocking your friends' blessings? Or is setting the boundary the best way to maintain your friendship? We give you a couple of scenarios to get you thinking and discuss the potential outcomes. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Are you low-key a Gordon Ramsay in the kitchen? Or do you prefer to throw it down like your favourite aunties at the family cook-out? Or maybe assistance from your friends at the local takeaway is more your thing?Either way, this one is for you! Cooking for your date can be the perfect way to show off your cooking skills, but also to show your potential bae your effort and attention to their needs. The best way you a boo's heart is through their stomach, right?This week, we discuss the perfect meal for a date night-in, how many courses is too many, and whether you'd rather bring the wine or the dessert... Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Heartbreak. Can't live with it, but can't live without it. Heartbreak and love come hand in hand, so how do we discuss one without the other? This week, we unpack our most impactful heartbreaks. We discuss how early heartbreak moulded our dating life, debate when is the time to block and delete, and share tips on how to get over a broken heart. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

As singletons, on the later side of 25, we wanted to take a moment to reflect on our dating life so far. Although age ain't nothing but a number,  this week we reflect on what used to be like dating in our younger years compared with dating when you're approaching 30. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Ever since the early days of Twitter, the term 'sliding in the DMs' began to trend. But actually, sliding in the DMs is nothing new - we could take it back to Facebook romances, Blackberry Messenger and even MSN! This week, we talk about our DM romances and the best tactics for how to slide your way into future bae's life. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we explore the five languages. Physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service and receiving gifts. How do you give and receive love? How does it translate into your relationships?  Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Love Island is back for another year; everyone's favourite guilty pleasure. All this talk about "types" had us thinking about our types. This week, we explore the difference between your type on paper and your type in "real life". We talk about modern-day beauty standards and the pressure to fit in. We also discuss why our types may change when we glow-up. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Love conquers all, right? OK, so what about when it's brother's best friend? Does love still conquer all or is that a no-go zone? This week, we hear the beautiful story of Natalie, who talks about her partner of 10 years, a family friend, and how they overcame the odds. Could you date a family friend?Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneSpecial Guest, Natalie Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

How many people do you date at once? Many people think dating should be fun and you should get to know as many people as you can! But others see dating as a way to get to know one person, up close and personally. Well, which one is it? In this week's episode, we talk about the pros and cons of multi-dating and our take on it.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

This week, we delve into a topic quite different from the others - dating safety. We all take precautions when dating, but in this episode, we bring on Mark Brooks from Real Me, an expert on how to protect yourself when dating online. We bring you our dating safety stories, some hints, tips and tricks to keep yourself safe.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneSpecial Guest, Mark Brooks https://www.linkedin.com/in/mcbrooks/ Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

The concept of women dating 'up' (or hypergamy) is nothing new in the romantic game and has often been used in many ancient matchmaking practices. But now, when women are no longer reliant on men for survival and are often 'winning' (all by our damn selves!), is dating up still important? Can we be a feminist and still look at dating up? This week, we are joined by a special guest, Kelila, to discuss the concept of hypergamy, the good and the bad, and talk about men and women's 'social currency'.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneSpecial Guest Kelila Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

"Should you take them back?" In this week's episode, we discuss the topic of taking exes back. Is it ever a good idea? Can people really change enough or are you just taking them back to try and relive the good times? We are joined by our friend, Fuschia, live and direct. Enjoy this episode of laughter, fun and lots of heated debate.Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneSpecial Guest, Fuschia Instagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod

Calling all singles! Has a small comment from a friend, family member or maybe even work colleague ever left you feeling insecure in your single chapter? Welcome to single-shaming. In this week's episode, we describe what single-shaming is, share our experiences of being single-shamed, and talk tactics on how to overcome when placed in that awkward situation. Join us in a conversation using #thedatinggamepodcast. With Jay and SimoneInstagram: @thedatinggamepodcastTwitter: @datinggamepod