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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of Letting Go vs. Holding On to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can call 1-234-DILEMMA (or email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com) and leave a voice or email question that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas wherever you get your podcasts. >>>>ABOUT THE CO-HOSTS: [1] DIANE DIERKS is a licensed marriage and family therapist, as well as the executive director of the Center for Navigating Family Change (www.CNFC.org), a non-profit that provides court-ordered parenting education and co-parenting services to the state of Georgia. She has been a parenting coordinator and reunification therapist for many years, and provides consultation and expert witness services in high conflict custody matters. She resides in St. Simons Island, Georgia, with her husband and their three-legged Lab mix and one-eyed Yorkie. She has two grown children and two grandchildren. [2] RICK VOYLES is CEO of the Center for Dispute Solutions, as well as a certified business coach, an anger management specialist and a professional mediator. Rick travels internationally, training and developing federal mediators in their agency ADR programs. He is a published author, business coach and entrepreneur. He has developed an online Mediation Training including over 17 video presentations. He has also produced a TV program, “Conflict, Mediation and You” where he discusses topics in conflict management, as well as mediation techniques. Rick is a subject matter expert in the areas of Divorce, Co-parenting, Negotiation, Cross-cultural Communication and Conflict Resolution. He frequently teaches court-ordered co-parenting seminars and is a trained parenting coordinator. He lives in Atlanta with his wife, Janet.

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    The Co-Parenting Dilemmas podcast is an excellent resource for anyone navigating the challenges of co-parenting. With years of expertise and real-world experience, the hosts bring valuable insights and practical solutions to a variety of dilemmas that arise in co-parenting situations. What sets this podcast apart is not only the expert advice provided, but also the way in which the hosts guide listeners through their evaluation process, teaching them how to approach future issues on their own. This podcast is a goldmine of information, especially considering that every situation is unique. I highly recommend it for anyone seeking thoughtful discussions and evaluations on complicated co-parenting matters.

    The best aspect of The Co-Parenting Dilemmas podcast is undoubtedly its wealth of expertise and real-world experience. The hosts have worked with numerous co-parenting dilemmas, giving their insights substance and credibility. Listeners can trust that they are receiving expert advice that has been tested and proven effective. Additionally, the hosts do not simply provide solutions; they also demonstrate how they evaluate each issue before arriving at a conclusion. This allows listeners to learn how to assess and approach future issues as they arise, empowering them to become more effective co-parents in the long run.

    While there aren't any glaringly obvious worst aspects of this podcast, it would be helpful if there were more diverse perspectives represented. While the hosts offer extensive expertise, it would be beneficial to hear from guests who have different experiences or backgrounds in co-parenting. This could provide a more well-rounded view on certain topics and offer additional insight that may not have been considered otherwise.

    In conclusion, The Co-Parenting Dilemmas podcast is an invaluable resource for anyone navigating the complexities of co-parenting. The extensive expertise and real-world experience of the hosts make this podcast highly credible and trustworthy. Not only do listeners receive expert advice, but they also learn how to evaluate and approach future issues on their own. While it would be beneficial to hear from a more diverse range of perspectives, this podcast is still an excellent tool for anyone seeking guidance and support in their co-parenting journey.



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    S5.E13. Donor Family Drama

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2024 42:38


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick address listener Laura's dilemma with her ex-wife, who decided to introduce their two children to the donor dad's family without her permission. They discuss the complications that come with divorce and adopted children, as well as the legal messiness when a biological parent decides to re-enter the picture after the kids have been adopted. Also discussed is what constitutes a “major” decision in co-parenting. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:This week's GOOD NEWS story If you'd like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane  Diane's new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you'd like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE!Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E12. CRITICAL SKILLS: Pt. 3 - Why Using a Plan B Works

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2024 42:15


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREIn this third of a three-part series of why critical co-parenting skills work, Diane & Rick explore the importance of utilizing a Plan B when conflict arises. Somewhere between Plan A (a successful negotiation) and Plan C (going to court), there is a child-focused solution that doesn't require the permission or agreement of the other parent. CLICK HERE to access the Silver Bullet Survivor podcast mentioned in this episode. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:This week's GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PSTIf you'd like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane  Diane's new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you'd like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE!Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E11. CRITICAL SKILLS: Pt. 2 - Why Using a Structured Email Protocol Works

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2024 38:03


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick address Emily's email about her know-it-all co-parent. They discuss the goal of utilizing a structured way of communicating and why it succeeds in managing the toxic co-parent, while ant the same time, adhering to a parenting plan that requires co-parents to share relevant information about their children. CLICK HERE To see the link to this week's good news story. To see a copy of the instructions and court order language for a communication protocol as described in this episode, go to www.CPDilemmas.com/resources.Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E10. CRITICAL SKILLS: Pt. 1 - Why Validating Your Kids' Feelings Works

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2024 57:13


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Trenton wants advice on how to respond to his 10-year-old daughter when she expresses frustration about going between two homes. In this first of a three-part series on why critical co-parenting skills work, Diane and Rick discuss the feelings/thoughts/values triangle and what is foundational about its use for all parents. CLICK HERE to get the pyramid graphic mentioned in this episode. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:This week's GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PSTIf you'd like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane  Diane's new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you'd like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE!Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E9. Is It “Wrong” to Move Out of State?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2024 48:39


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Georgina asks about the consequences of moving her 12-year-old daughter away from her dad. They discuss the reasons why she is feeling the need to escape and how helping her daughter develop appropriate coping skills may neutralize the moving dilemma. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:This week's GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PSTIf you'd like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane  Diane's new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you'd like info on how to subscribe to this daily email devotional, email Diane  Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E8. What Medical Professionals Need to Understand about Impossibles

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2024 36:08


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREAt the prompting of a loyal listener, who is also a pediatrician, Diane & Rick address issues that come up in high-conflict co-parenting that medical professionals often do not understand.  They provide suggestions to professionals to assist those with impossible co-parents in navigating their children's healthcare with a little less stress.WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E7. The Nuts and Bolts of Parenting Coordination

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2024 59:21


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick discuss what parenting coordination is, how it differs from co-parent counseling, who qualifies to be a PC, and what should be expected in the process. Mentioned in this episode are guidelines that most trained professionals follow. To view, go to AFCC or APA for more info. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E6. The Teen Dilemma

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2024 48:34


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Heather wonders how she should respond to her 14-year-old son who, out of the blue, has decided not to return from the other parent's house. Should she fight for him or let him have his way? Diane and Rick talk about the dilemma some teens face between craving love and approval from one parent that may result in hurting their other parent. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E5. The Alienated Step-Parent

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2024 36:40


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDuane & Rick explore the not often talked about subject of the pain of the alienated step-parent. Listener Tanner writes in to ask how to deal with the guilt of not being able to fight for a step-daughter who has only known him as a father figure in her life. Without legal rights, what can he do to let her know he has not abandoned her?WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E4. Is the Medical Tug of War Worth It?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2024 42:24


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick address listener Mindy's dilemma around the struggle between her and her co-parent around medical decision-making. They discuss conflicts around common childhood issues such as ADHD, sensory disorders, anxiety, autism, dental appointments, etc. and whether or not pursuing court action as a remedy is better for the child than other alternatives. Should she hold on or let it go?WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E3. The Pitfalls of Mediation

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 52:25


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick discuss mediation and some of the issues that can interfere with the process if co-parents are not well-informed. They explore the pitfalls of using the shuttle only technique, the coerciveness of marathon sessions, and what happens when mediators fail to trust the process. Ethical principals discussed on this episode can be viewed at:https://www.jamsadr.com/mediators-ethicshttps://acrnet.org/page/EthicalPrinciplesWHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!To order a copy of the book I Am Non-Impossible: A 12-Week Guide to Co-Parenting Peace, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/store. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E2. The Newbie's Guide to Going to Court

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2024 44:30


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Terry asks for advice on how to approach filing a contempt action and what to expect in the process. Diane & Rick discuss several points to consider, including variances among county courts, choosing a good family law attorney, setting appropriate goals, understanding what the court's responsibility is (and is not), and having realistic expectations. Past episodes they reference in this episode are S1:E43., S4:E39., S3.E20., and S3:E9.WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!To order a copy of the book I Am Non-Impossible: A 12-Week Guide to Co-Parenting Peace, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/store. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S5.E1. Is He a Narcissit or Just Immature?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2024 41:34


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Frannie emails Diane & Rick to ask why her co-parent doesn't want to teach their children life lessons. The hosts discuss the importance of helping children become resilient and cautions co-parents about the messages kids learn when parents label the other parent's attempts at parenting as wrong or abusive. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!To order a copy of the book I Am Non-Impossible: A 12-Week Guide to Co-Parenting Peace, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/store. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E54. Interview with the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2024 59:55


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick are taking a short break. To round out season four, they are featuring interviews where they were guests on other podcasts! This week they join Karen McMahon of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast and discuss strategies to live peacefully despite having a high-conflict co-parent. Also explored is the six-step process to easier co-parent communication. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!To order a copy of the book I Am Non-Impossible: A 12-Week Guide to Co-Parenting Peace, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/store. Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E53. Interview with the Mom's Moving On Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2024 41:53


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick are taking a short break. To round out season four, they are featuring interviews where they were guests on other podcasts! This week they join Michelle Dempsey-Multack of the Moms Moving On podcast and discuss what it means to be a non-impossible co-parent and helpful communication strategies with a difficult ex. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!To order a copy of the book I Am Non-Impossible: A 12-Week Guide to Co-Parenting Peace, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/store. Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E52. Interview with the How to Split a Toaster Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2024 50:50


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick are taking a short break. To round out season four, they are featuring interviews where they were guests on other podcasts! This week they join Seth and Pete of How to Split a Toaster for an engaging conversation about the DRAGON method of approaching co-parent conflict. They explore how parents can conquer their fear of communicating with a difficult ex.WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Diane & Rick can help!To order a copy of the book I Am Non-Impossible: A 12-Week Guide to Co-Parenting Peace, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/store. iMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E51. Interview with the A Little Bit Culty Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 65:36


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick are taking a short break. To round out season four, they are featuring interviews where they were guests on other podcasts! This week, they share the interview they did with Sarah Edmondson and Nippy Ames of the A Little Bit Culty Podcast. Sarah and Nippy were featured on the popular HBO docuseries, The Vow, which explored the abuses of the NXIVM cult. In this interview, they discuss the similarities between cult leaders and parents who are pathological alienators. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:August 17th Workshop: Helping Your Child with a Narcissistic Parent. Get 25% off when you become a A PATREON VIP! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for ProfessionalsiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E50. Keep Your Friends Close, and the Girlfriend Closer!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2024 36:58


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Sherry emails about her concern that her co-parent is not paying attention to their infant's medical needs. But when the girlfriend enters the picture, things blow up. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of not alienating support people from the mix, especially when it involves a child who cannot speak for herself. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:August 17th Workshop: Helping Your Child with a Narcissistic Parent. Get 25% off when you become a A PATREON VIP! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for ProfessionalsiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E49. Is AI (Artificial Intelligence) a Narcissist?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2024 37:05


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick explore how AI might assist co-parents in constructing productive co-parent communication. What they learn is that AI has not yet learned enough about toxic people to understand how certain types of communication may feed into their motivations, instead of managing them. They conclude it could be a helpful resource, but is not yet ready for prime time!WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:August 17th Workshop: Helping Your Child with a Narcissistic Parent. Get 25% off when you become a A PATREON VIP! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for ProfessionalsiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E48. Tell the Truth or Let Kids Discover It On Their Own?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2024 33:19


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Veronique shares that she is paying for all her children's activities, but they have no idea their other parent is shirking his responsibility. Is this protecting the kids or hurting them? Will they just take advantage of mom if they don't know it's hard for her to bear this financial burden alone? Diane & Rick discuss that saying”no” to kids can be a healthy option. They also explore how parents can lead kids to their own conclusions, without getting into the facts or a one-sided perception of the truth.WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:August 17th Workshop: Helping Your Child with a Narcissistic Parent. Get 25% off when you become a A PATREON VIP! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs), resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal!IMPACT Training for ProfessionalsiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E47. He Laughs at His Ability to Violate the Court Order

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 41:19


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick respond passionately to Danielle's email about feeling the need to file a court case, knowing it will only embolden her co-parent to continue his campaign against her. They discuss the risks/benefits and the true dilemma she faces in making this very difficult decision. Also explored are the ways to navigate parenting while managing a legal battle. LINKS MENTIONED ON TODAY'S EPISODE:August 17th Workshop: Helping Your Child with a Narcissistic ParentIMPACT Training for ProfessionalsBE A PATREON VIP! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month, resuming August 14th. Purchase a one-year subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. Bill McGee's book - Half the ChildiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E46. Boundaries Matter - Even When You're Cooperative!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2024 33:42


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Robert wants to know what an acceptable amount of co-parent communication is when two co-parents are getting along well. His recent relationship  tanked when his girlfriend couldn't abide his overly friendly interactions with his ex. Diane & Rick explore the need for boundaries and how kids can blame a new partner when the relationship between their parents is suddenly altered when one of them decides to move on. Register for our new workshop coming in August about helping children who have a narcissistic parent! Registration info can be found on our website. Patreon VIPs get a 25% discount! If you are a divorce professional and interested in our IMPACT training, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/training for more info. Go to Patreon.com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks, such as Hump Day Wednesday Support Groups (starting back again in August, 2024), link to an episode index, free downloads, and 25% off of upcoming workshops presented by Diane & Rick. For the month of July, become a VIP and pay for the first year, and you'll get a digital copy of our book, I Am Non-Impossible. VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents.WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E45. ALIENATION - PART THREE: Time Can Heal the Protective Alienator

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2024 45:17


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREDiane & Rick explore the possibilities of transforming the parental alienator when he/she grows emotionally over time. They discuss the importance of BOTH parents recognizing the passage of time and respecting their child's developmental growth. The parent who accuses the other of alienation can have more responsibility in the process than they may be willing to concede. If you are a divorce professional and interested in our IMPACT training, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/training for more info. Go to Patreon.com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks, such as Hump Day Wednesday Support Groups (starting back again in August, 2024), link to an episode index, free downloads, and 25% off of upcoming workshops presented by Diane & Rick.VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents.WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGEiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Stories Lived. Stories Told. Learn what it means to embody a communication perspective to create better social worlds.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E44. ALIENATION - PART TWO: “My Mom Was an Alienator”: A therapist tells his story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2024 49:25


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREJake, a mental health professional, joins Diane & Rick on this episode to tell his story of dealing with narcissistic abuse and alienation from his mother growing up. They discuss how it felt to him as a teen, how he came to realize his mother's disorder, and how he reconnected with his father, who represented Jake's emotional place of safety. The hosts explore the importance of setting reasonable boundaries, even if it means cutting off the relationship in adulthood. If you are a divorce professional and interested in our IMPACT training, visit www.CPDilemmas.com/training for more info. Go to Patreon.com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks, such as Hump Day Wednesday Support Groups (starting back again in August, 2024), link to an episode index, free downloads, and 25% off of upcoming workshops presented by Diane & Rick.VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents.WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click hereiMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E43. ALIENATION - PART ONE: Can the Alienator Be Rehabilitated?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 45:41


    Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREIn part one of a three-part series on parental alienation, the hosts take a complicated look at the phrase "parental alienation" and what the various forms are. They discuss the oversimplification of this issue in the family court system, and the desensitization professionals experience as a result of it being over-used as a defense strategy. Part two of the series features an interview with an adult survivor of PA, and part three features a mom who feels she has come to grips with some of the PA mistakes she may have made.To view the Kelly & Johnston article discussed in this episode, visit our RESOURCES PAGEGo to Patreon.com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks, such as Hump Day Wednesday Support Groups (starting back again in August, 2024), link to an episode index, free downloads, and 25% off of upcoming workshops presented by Diane & Rick.VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents.WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. iMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E42. Practicing Real Anger Management

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 43:51


    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREDiane & Rick discuss the fallacies of traditional “anger management”. They also talk about different types and reasons for anger, and how it is important to respect the nuances, especially when dealing with an impossible parent. They explore the responsibilities co-parents have to manage anger appropriately for the sake of the children, and the dangers of allowing anger to fester before and after divorce. Go to Patreon .com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks Diane mentioned on the show today.VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents. WANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E41. What to Do With the Impossible Step-Parent

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2024 30:21


    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREListener Maria asks what she can do to run interference with her kids when their step-mother seems bent on turning them against their mom. Even dad has apologized to mom for his wife's behavior,  but he does little to make things better for the kids. Diane & Rick discuss what can and can't be done when a person who is not a party to the legal parenting plan wreaks havoc on the family system. Go to Patreon .com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks Diane mentioned on the show today. VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents. WANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E40. Are You on a Mission for Peace or Revenge?: A Unique Look at Self Care

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2024 42:21


    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREDiane & Rick explore self care from the perspective of working on the root cause of co-parent stress, rather than treating the symptoms of the stress. They discuss it from the point of you of the divorce professional, as well as those in the  midst of a toxic co-parent relationship. Also explored is the importance of understanding your process and developing a mission statement for your work or children.To find Dr. Childress' book, go to this LINKGo to Patreon .com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks Diane mentioned on the show today. VISIT OUR STORE to purchase videos, audio files, and other products relevant to co-parents. WANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E39. Should Dad Hold On or Let Go of This Conflict?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2024 52:09


    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREJohn asks the all-important question, “Should I fight?” Diane & Rick break down the risks and benefits of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict. They explore the complexity of balancing children's needs with parental rights and conclude that so much depends on the type and temperament of the other parent. S4.E34. is the show Diane refers to in this episode about how to decide where to set your boundaries regarding parenting plan flexibility. Go to Patreon .com/CPDilemmas to become a Non-Impossible VIP and get all the great perks Diane mentioned on the show today. WANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW FREE RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. iMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place.Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Got It From My MommaA podcast with the mommas of your favorite entertainers! Join host Jennifer Vickery...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E38. An Alienated Father”s Message (on Mother's Day)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2024 29:07


    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREDiane & Rick take a week off to spend time with their families, so today's episode is featuring a new podcast created by a Co-Parent Dilemmas listener! Jack, the host, speaks poignantly about what he's learned as an alienated dad and how he maintains a strong bond with his children, despite the mountain of obstacles his co-parent puts in their way. Even though it's releasing on Mother's Day, a parent is a parent, no matter the label. So, this is a tribute to all who nurture their children well, regardless of gender. CLICK HERE to access all episodes of the Silver Bullet Survivor podcast. To contact Jack, email jack@silverbulletsurvivor.comWANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. iMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E37. Surviving the Psychopath: Evolving Your State of Mind

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2024 37:32


    Has the co-parent world gone absolutely crazy? In some ways, yes! Diane & Rick discuss the disturbing patterns they often see in their work, and hear about from listeners, that signal the need for an evolutionary change in thinking for those who suffer their co-parent's psychopathic behaviors. The hosts discuss the importance of accepting the chronic toxicity, but addressing the acute moments of panic by finding out what children need in the here and now. WANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast.  CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP,  and the Hump Day help Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you want to hang out with people who won't think you're crazy, Hump Day Help is for you!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E36. How You Say Goodbye Is A Big Deal

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2024 38:18


    Claire writes in and asks what to do about a co-parent who takes more than 5 minutes to say goodbye to their daughter at each exchange. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of  taking care during exchanges to send the message that parents will be okay, no matter which house the child WANT SPECIAL  DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link to vendor discount codes. WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. JOIN US FOR HUMP DAY HELP! We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you want to hang out with people who won't think you're crazy, Hump Day Help is for you!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the Show.Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

    S4.E35. The Inconvenienced Parent

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2024 34:00


    Listener Amanda writes to Diane & Rick regarding her co-parent's complaint about their daughter's activities being too inconvenient for him and his spouse to endure. The hosts discuss the concept of time with children being the co-parents' “turn” to be responsible, not their time to dominate the child's interests. They also explore alternative language to their parenting plan regarding major decision making.  WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, FINAL DECISION-MAKING LANGUAGE, and other documents discussed on the podcast. JOIN US FOR HUMP DAY HELP! We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you want to hang out with people who won't think you're crazy, Hump Day Help is for you!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.The LYLAS PodcastIf you know what LYLAS stands for, then this podcast is for you! Two besties since...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E34. Caught in the Middle…Between My Ex and My Spouse!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 33:42


    Listener Ashley is frustrated by both her husband and her co-parent. She frequently finds herself caught between them, and none of it is helpful to her 12-year-old son. Diane & Rick explore the difficulties of navigating this  dilemma, and discuss both sides of the equation.WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on the podcast. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseCLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the JAVA BURN - Ignite your metabolismWatch the fat melt off your body when you combine Java Burn with your morning coffee!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E33. Should I Send the Kids to a Toxic Household?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2024 42:33


    Diane & Rick respond to a listener's question about withholding parenting time due to a history of domestic violence and continued toxicity in their other home. What are the steps to determine safety issues? How do parents balance protecting children with the risk of being accused of parental alienation? The co-hosts break it down. WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on the podcast. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseCLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to Soaring Child: Thriving with ADHDA place where you will learn how to address your child's ADHD symptoms naturally..Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Faith Based Mental HealthUnlock peace with our Christ-centered mental health podcast. Heal, hope, and thrive!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E32. Summer Sabotage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2024 34:15


    Diane and Rick answer listener Carlos' question about the confusing paragraph in his parenting plan regarding the summer schedule. His co-parent is attempting to manipulate the schedule to get more time than the plan intends. The hosts discuss alternative ways to structure a plan like this and the importance of minimizing conflict for the children so they can enjoy their summer vacation. WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on the podcast. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseCLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. PUSH 100 MPH: Mental health and motivation for Athletes with Ramon ClementePUSH 100 MPH is exactly what we need at times to get through life. We're all on our...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E31. I Want to Ghost My Narcissistic Co-Parent!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2024 34:02


    Listener Colleen wants to stop communicating with her co-parent so she can get emotional relief. Diane & Rick revisit the importance of following the structured email protocol and talk about the pitfalls of going silent or ignoring the impossible co-parent. WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other documents discussed on out podcast. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseCLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E30. “How Do I Get Her to Stop?” The Purpose of Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2024 39:59


    Diane & Rick address Zachary's question about how to get his co-parent to stop bringing her toxic boyfriend to the children's activities. He worries the children will get in the middle of the conflict. They discuss the purpose of setting a boundary is for proactive self-protection, not to manage the other parent's behavior. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseWe'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E29. Is It Possible or Probable? Let That Be Your Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024 40:12


    Diane & Rick address listener Danny's question about the top three issues facing high-conflict parents and how to resolve them. The hosts discuss the fact that the issues are not the problem, but what lies underneath them, such as the fears and threats that drive the conflict. They explore the idea that some conflicts are not worth fighting for if the feared outcome is merely possible, but not probable. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseWe'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a greaSupport the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E28. Daddy's Little Girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2024 26:23


    Shawn asks a question about how to help her 19-year-old daughter repair her relationship with her father. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of acting parental no matter how old the child is. The discuss the daughter's dilemma of not only competing for her father's time, but dealing with the fact he married someone close to her age. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseWe'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E27. The Problem with Self-Representation

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 32:35


    Sometimes approaching your court case without an attorney can leave you vulnerable and without all the information you need to make good decisions. Diane & Rick explore a listener's frustrations about her parenting plan language and how things may have been different if she had not run out of money and had to act pro se. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseWe'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E26. Who Gets Final Say? Another Parenting Plan Disaster

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2024 35:39


    Diane & Rick answer listener Ryan's question about which therapist he and his co-parent should choose for their daughter. The one nearest dad or mom? What really matters? Is it possible to have a “harmonious” discussion, as their parenting plan orders them to do? You might be surprised by their answers. CLICK HERE to access the paragraph about Final Decision Making mentioned in this episode. We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseWe'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is alSupport the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E25. Narcissism in Co-Parenting: What is it? How do you respond? Will your child be a narcissist, too?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2024 54:20


    Diane & Rick discuss the mental health issues that are connected to someone with an extremely self-focused personality disorder, also known as a Narcissist. They differentiate the clinical information from what is promoted on social media and help listeners to determine how to respond to a narcissistic co-parent with good boundaries and not as a victim.We are excited to announce a new benefit for listeners who become Patreon VIPs (for only $10/month)! Diane will be hosting support groups online every Wednesday at noon (EST) for an hour, beginning March 6th. You can come to one or come to all. Each week of the month will focus on a different subject:1st Wednesday of each month: Staying Grounded in the Midst of Parental Alienation2nd Wednesday of each month: Dealing with the Trauma of False Accusations3rd Wednesdays: Surviving the Narcissistic Co-Parent4th Wednesdays: Confronting Post-Separation Control and AbuseWe'll do this through May, but if attendance remains constant, we'll continue through he summer. Just CLICK HERE to become a Non-Impossible VIP, and the Zoom link will be sent to you each week. Hope to see you on Wednesdays this Spring!If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com.To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE.The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video.You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching? Click Here!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.RATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming ...

    S4.E24. My Child is Gaslighting Me!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2024 35:40


    Diane & Rick explore the phenomenon of children engaging in  “gaslighting” as a strategy to either survive their parents' conflict or to manipulate a parent to get what they want. Is it a learned behavior from an alienating parent, or is it part of something deeper? The hosts break it down. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmDealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship. Explore peace of mind with SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE. If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topicsSupport the show

    S4.E23. The Problem with Over-explaining a Concept!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2024 27:31


    Listener Heather shares a paragraph from her parenting plan entitled “Special Considerations”. Diane& Rick explore how you can go too far in trying to explain an abstract phrase and find yourself right back into the conflict that prompted the language to begin with! Ultimately, they settle on the simple concept of doing what is right without expecting reciprocation, which always benefits the child.  This episode is sponsored by SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. The digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. You'll find instructions about the DRAGON method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcThe LYLAS PodcastIf you know what LYLAS stands for, then this podcast is for you! Two besties since...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

    S4.E22. Infants, Toddlers, and Teens - Oh, My!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2024 38:33


    Diane & Rick address listener Shary's dilemma about parenting time with an infant. How much does the co-parent relationship determine the best schedule? The hosts break it down, as well as discuss the similarities between toddlers and teens when it comes to co-parenting issues. This episode is sponsored by SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. BE FIRST in line for individual co-parent coaching, being launched by CNFC this year. Just fill out the info form to get on the pre-registration list! To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to: CNFC.org. FINALLY, the digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. You'll find instructions about this method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topicsSupport the show

    S4.E21. Fifth Weekend Dilemma: A Good Case for Letting Go

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2024 37:34


    In another episode in the parenting plan disaster series, Diane & Rick review Camile's parenting plan language about 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekends. They discuss the problems with wording that seems fair in its attempt, but destined to create all kinds of unnecessary conflict. They provide a definition of “good faith” that would confuse the most astute legal scholar. Diane also shares her “Five Parenting Plan Commandments”. This episode is sponsored by SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. BE FIRST in line for individual co-parent coaching, being launched by CNFC this fall. Just fill out the info form to get on the pre-registration list! To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to: CNFC.org. FINALLY, the digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. You'll find instructions about this method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:I Have Issues - The Mental Health Podcast From Dr Mark Rackley Expert mental health advice from a qualified psychologist. Don't lose your mind. Find it.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

    S4.E20. Birthday Party Disaster: Who's in Charge?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2024 35:08


    Listener Michael shares his problematic parenting plan language about birthday parties with Diane & Rick. They discuss not only the problem with the wording, but what really matters to the child — the one being honored by the celebrations. The hosts warn against creating language to manage co-parent conflict at the expense of the child. This episode is sponsored by SoberLink. For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. BE FIRST in line for individual co-parent coaching, being launched by CNFC this fall. Just fill out the info form to get on the pre-registration list! To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to: CNFC.org. FINALLY, the digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. You'll find instructions about this method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topicsSupport the show

    S4.E19. What DOES the Word “Dinner” Mean?: Splitting Hairs in the Parenting Plan

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2023 36:39


    Diane & Rick address a listener's question about the meaning of dinner  in his parenting plan. They discuss how some co-parents go to great lengths to misinterpret parenting plan language to interfere with the other parent's time with the children. Discussed are ways to avoid these common traps and the unrealistic fears parents can have when their co-parent makes baseless threats about parenting plan language. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. BE FIRST in line for individual co-parent coaching, being launched by CNFC this fall. Just fill out the info form to get on the pre-registration list! To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to: CNFC.org. FINALLY, the digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. You'll find instructions about this method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesTrauma Free RelationshipJoin us as we explore the complexities of trauma and its profound effects on our...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

    S4.E18. Triggered and Trapped by My Emotions!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2023 45:18


    Listener Colleen writes to get advice on how to manage her emotions and not answer her co-parent's lying emails and texts. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of becoming desensitized to the other parent's trigger attempts. As well as practice resisting the temptation to respond as a coping skill for the anxiety. Also discussed are strategies to begin the desensitization process. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. BE FIRST in line for individual co-parent coaching, being launched by CNFC this fall. Just fill out the info form to get on the pre-registration list! To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to: CNFC.org. FINALLY, the digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. Want to know more about the DRAGON method? CLICK HERE to register for our live online workshop in January. You'll also find instructions about this method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topicsSupport the show

    S4.E17. Do I Give In to My Child's Request to Stay Away?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2023 36:58


    Diane and Rick look at a conflict that on the surface might seem easy to resolve for the Non-Impossible parent. But upon further exploration, they unpack long-lasting consequences to giving in to a child's request to stay away from school events and activities. They also discuss a new segment that will be added to the show to look at problematic parenting plan language. If you have a problematic paragraph in your parenting plan that you would like the hosts to review,  email it to 1234Dilemma@gmail.com. BE FIRST in line for individual co-parent coaching, being launched by CNFC this fall. Just fill out the info form to get on the pre-registration list! To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to: CNFC.org. FINALLY, the digital version of our Communication Protocol Workshop is available for purchase. Click here to buy the video. Want to know more about the DRAGON method? CLICK HERE to register for our live online workshop in January. You'll also find instructions about this method in the I Am Non-Impossible journal, AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is also a great gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!To get a copy of the communication protocol order, CLICK HERE. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupCLICK HERE to offer help to the Right to Peace Foundation. We're on a mission!Those who were Patreon VIPs get resources like these for free upon release, so consider supporting the show so you can get these perks, but more importantly, so we can continue offering the best advice in the business, to the world, for FREE!Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Find us on Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) @CPDilemmas. Join one of our Reddit groups at:r/NarcissisticCoparents r/NONImpossiblesRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topicsSupport the show

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