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Welcome to Do We Fit In, a weekly podcast hosted by Andile and Maggie, interracial best friends from opposite ends of the world who now call LA home. Each week we welcome listeners into our daily lives and sit down for meaningful conversations with inspirational guests who might just have the answers. No topic is off limits when it comes to business, dating, wellness, culture, mental health and pop-culture as we expose the reality that the desire to fit in isn’t real, when everyone is born to stand out. Follow us on Instagram and DM us your favorite topics! @dwfipodcast For collaborations, please email maggie@dowefitin.com

Andile Ndlovu - Host, Maggie Sellers - Host, Dean Glasz - Producer


    • Mar 5, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 44m AVG DURATION
    • 26 EPISODES


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    Independently Codependent

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2021 39:06


    The girls finally update us on their dating and personal lives as Andile dishes on meeting her celebrity crush. Serenade, anyone? The hosts dive into several topics from listeners, like "Are we moving too quickly because of Covid?", "Are you codependent?", and "What about having sex on the first date?"

    You Are Your #1 with One Last Thing's Lex Niko

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 53:36


    This episode, Andile and Maggie invite friend & fellow podcaster Lex Niko--host of pop culture and current events podcast One Last Thing--to dig into the landscape of dating & relationships. Lex has been featured by ABC's The Bachelor, On Air with Ryan Seacrest, and has written for betches.com and CBC Digital, so she is no stranger to opening up and getting real. What happens when three expert conversationalists get together? The answer is an hour of self discovery, connecting the dots, the importance of having a long-term relationship with yourself, rediscovering that Maggie is a romantic at heart (and Andile & Lex are not), but at the end of the day all everyone wants is love and connection.

    On Why It's Not You, It's Timing with DJ Tay James

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2021 57:27


    On this week's episode, Andile and Maggie are joined by DJ Tay James, Justin Bieber's Production Manager, A&R, DJ and Hyphenate Creative to discuss all things love, dating, and relationships all while prioritizing your career and most importantly, yourself. We get Tay to spill the secrets on what successful, driven and genuine guys are looking for in a partner and relationship and why it's not you, it's timing. DJ Tay James is a Baltimore native, LA transplant who started DJ'ing at 12 and by the time he was 15 had signed his first record deal. A business marketing major, Tay has climbed the music ranks and has DJ'd for Chris Brown, Rihanna, and Barack Obama's Inauguration. Tay is currently Justin Bieber's Production Manager, Tour DJ and A&R. Oh, and he's LA's most eligible bachelor.

    Relationship Deep Dive : Anxiety, Mixed Signals, and Finding Security with Therapist Alycia Oliver

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 51:51


    Turning Trials And Errors Into Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2020 38:00


    In the final episode of Season 1, Andile and Maggie aren't afraid to get vulnerable by exposing their failures, digging into Andile's recent entanglement, and what they're most excited about for Season 2. The girls recount the story of how the podcast started, how they've grown since then, and how they really feel about one another.

    All The Things We Learned In Our 20s

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2020 42:26


    Andile and her best friend Ashley sit down on the eve of Andile's 30th birthday to discuss all the things they learned in their 20s, the things they'd tell their younger selves, and the next chapter ahead. They touch on their careers, personal relationships, and some black girl magic. Londoner, traveler, and branding & endorsement extraordinaire Ashley-Gianna Hallett has advised and directed the futures of the highest-tiers in entertainment and fashion, including Beyoncé, Elite Models, and Burberry.

    A Game Of Truths

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2020 14:05


    It's a big week - the 2020 Presidential Election and Andile's 30th birthday. In preparation of Andile's 30th Birthday Special, airing this Sunday, the girls switch it up during this weeks' episode and get deep with listeners through a game of “We're Not Really Strangers”. With questions like "What's a dream you've let go of?" and "Are you lying to yourself about anything?", tune in to hear their real responses to some of their most intimate thoughts.

    Marta Pozzan & Yola Robert Will Convince You To Own It's Okay To Not Be Okay

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2020 65:15


    Marta Pozzan and Yola Roberts, business partners and two creative multi-hyphenates who straddle film, journalism, and fashion join Andile and Maggie for an hour of much-needed dialogue around the importance of mental health. The women touch upon the diagnosis, recovery, and acceptance of mental health and the intersection and effects on our dating, work, and lives.

    Reputation Rehab, Mental Health Day and The Power of No

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2020 38:51


    When Is It Too Early?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2020 53:49


    With major life updates, Andile and Maggie sit down this week to dissect the stages of a new relationship. From navigating the path from app-to-text, text to FaceTime, date to first kiss, sex, sexting and finally to meeting the friends and family of your special someone, the girls talk through their dos-and-don'ts when it comes to timing. The girls catch us up on their current relationship status', interracial dating, and how to balance work-life balance when it comes to dating.

    Knowing Where You Stand In A Relationship, Catching Feels, And Setting Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2020 34:42


    Sending Nudes, Being Shamed, And Taking Back Your Power

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2020 38:37


    Andile and Maggie return for a juicy discussion about the art and etiquette of sending nudes, the stigmas and shame surrounding the topic, and how to claim and reclaim power, inside and out. They share examples of what is always and what is never okay, while also striking nerves and striking back against unsolicited d*** pics.

    Overcoming Labels, Navigating Professionalism In Today's Online Society, And WAP!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2020 29:30


    1:32 Angry Black Woman3:13 Pretty And Dumb5:40 Overcoming Labels7:02 People Will Always Have Something To Say7:26 Kylie Didn't Even Say8:16 Only Fans Anthem9:30 Maggie Empowering Women10:30 Andile The Stylish MUA12:04 F**kgirl 10113:45 Andile Is Not A Groupie14:18 Maggie Teases The Next Episode's Guest17:20 Why OnlyFans Blew Up18:43 Sexy Doctors Are Unprofessional?21:20 The IG Archives26:54 Maggie Discovers The True Meaning Of WAP

    The Ins And Outs Of Raya, Online Dating Culture, And What Men Really Want With Special Guest TJ Taylor

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2020 57:16


    2:37 Pandora's Box4:47 Technology & Dating8:54 Introducing TJ Taylor of Raya10:07 Dating In Today's Climate11:36 All About Raya And How To Get Accepted13:27 How To Get A Guy's Attention14:58 TJ Rates Our Dating Profiles20:30 First Date Etiquette22:15 Looking For A Sponsor27:28 Being Satisfied In A Relationship28:10 Someone For Everyone?30:58 Dating In LA32:28 Fuckboy Characteristics36:09 XYZ39:55 Have You Ever Had Your Heart Broken?42:12 I Got This43:23 Little Things44:59 No Crying In The Club47:55 Talking To Multiple People51:29 Advice For A Strong Connection

    Navigating Mental Health In The Digital Age

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2020 57:02


    2:01 Shining a light3:33 Growing up online6:40 A different narrative7:26 Is being a chameleon a good thing?8:20 T-shirts at the pool & Cabo for Christmas13:15 To some people, maybe18:20 "Yeah. No."21:21 Opening up22:38 Support systems25:14 Dealing with problems is hard28:00 One size of treatment does not fit all29:53 The person who is me who has anxiety33:33  Stars37:37 Extremely disruptive39:00 Will I be stigmatized for sharing my mental health?41:10 Work, flow, workflow, and routines46:44 New habits48:00 Asking an employer for a mental health day49:49 Access51:45 Why more women talk about mental health than men52:27 Balance55:40 Truth Or Dare  **CRISIS SERVICES**Rape Treatment Center Santa Monica UCLA Hospital  - 424.259.7208National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 800.273.8255Self-Help Programs for Addictions Alcoholics Anonymous www.aa.orgEating Disorders Anonymous www.eatingdisordersanonymous.com 

    Putting Yourself Out There In Love, Facing Rejection, And What To Do If You Find Mr. Right But Just Not Mr. Right Now

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2020 44:54


     1:26 What's your type5:21 Do you put yourself out in dating11:39 Have you ever been rejected13:24 What is rejection15:50 Bounce back from rejection or pain17:05 Why people stay in relationships / leaving something good to find something amazing21:30 Right person, wrong time29:40 Doing the rejecting / ghosting culture33:33 Work/ life balance37:27 Scariest part of falling in love39:13 Horoscopes - Scorpios x Geminis41:45 - Truth or dare Follow us on Instagram @dwfipodcast and remember to submit your most burning Truth Or Dare questions into our Truth Or Dare Jar. DM us what you want us to do to be fearless!

    Meet Andile And Maggie + What The F*** Is Happening In The World

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2020 29:30


      0:05 Welcome to the Podcast0:30 Intro to Maggie0:51 Intro to Andile1:10 How we met3:08 What we do for a living4:40 The fears we all face growing up6:30 Iconic interracial female duos7:30 What's happening in the world9:00 What Andile would be doing if fear didn't get in the way12:00 What Maggie would be doing if fear didn't get in the way14:07 Livie Jewelry15:20 What is happening in the world16:23 Andile's wish for the future generation17:24 Maggie's wish for the next generation17:58 Overheard in LA18:26 Maggie's biggest insecurity 18:48 F***boi culture19:17 Andile's phobia19:52 Droppin' gems20:38  Is being happy selfish? 21:15 Looking for that next person22:20 Upcoming guests22:38 Going through the same stuff23:30 Uncomfortable conversations about race25:00 Public speaking and English as a second language25:50 Truth or dare26:20 Maggie's celebrity crush27:00 Andile's celebrity crush28:10 Onto the next  Follow us on Instagram @dwfipodcast and remember to submit your most burning Truth Or Dare questions into our Truth Or Dare Jar. DM us what you want us to do to be fearless!Get 30% off at Livie Jewelry with code DWFI30Andile's first language, Ndebele

    Official Trailer - Do We Fit In by Andile and Maggie

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2020 1:41


    Welcome to Do We Fit In, a weekly podcast hosted by Andile and Maggie, interracial best friends from opposite ends of the world who now call LA home. Each week they welcome listeners into their daily lives and sit down for meaningful conversations with inspirational guests who might just have the answers. No topic is off limits when it comes to careers, love, relationships, body struggles, and life as they expose the reality that the desire to fit in isn't real, because everyone is born to stand out. New episodes every Wednesday! For advertising opportunities, please email maggie@dowefitin.com

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